FULL SHOW: It's Officially Summer, Strawberry Letter - My Boyfriend Puts His Friends First - 06.20.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
Soon given them back a million bus buss boozy listening
to to.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
I want to Joy?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, Joy, you got to do that.

Speaker 5 (01:06):
Love.

Speaker 6 (01:06):
You gotta turn.

Speaker 7 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
I got to turn out.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
Turn you probably got to turn mouth, turn out the water,
the water up.

Speaker 8 (01:55):
Come come out?

Speaker 2 (01:59):
You think that, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You
are listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now
one and only. Uh huh Steve Harvey Man got a
radio show. Mmm, here I do.

Speaker 9 (02:15):
Man.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
God been so good to me over the years, in
spite of all the mistakes I've made, in spite of
all the dirt I've done to myself. I'm talking about
went in knowing I was wrong. His grace and mercy
has forgiven me for all of my sins. God can

(02:37):
forgive you of all of your sins. Everything you've done,
God can forgive you. He can wipe your slate clean. Now.
Might you might have some you know, things you got
to deal with because of some of your actions. Understand that.
But you can wipe your slates. You can wipe your
slate clean with God and start again. You can repair.

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God has mercy and grace. You could be forgiven by God.
Now people adds another story. Some people may never forgive
you for you've heard them, or or maybe they accusing
you of doing something else. But you know they may
never forgive you. But God, God is in the redemption
business man. God will forgive you for every sin you've

(03:21):
ever committed. But you gotta want forgiveness now and then
you got to come correct because what you can't do
is you can't shoot him the crap. Now you can
say that conversation with him. You know, whatever you told
your lawyer, whatever you told the victims, whatever you told,
whatever the story is you got going, if it ain't

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the truth, you can say that with God, because please know,
he know, and he know your heart. He know if
you're trying to manipulate somebody just for the system, if
you're trying to say this just so you can get out,
He know all of that. So if you're planning on
shucking him and driving him, say your breath before you
wind up digging yourself in a deeper hole. Just let

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me give you that piece of advice. Because he ain't
nothing to play with. He's too great to be played
with and so with that in mind, I want to
share some positive stuff with you this morning.

Speaker 9 (04:14):
Man.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
I want to say this. I want to remind you
not to let your circumstance and your situations dictate your
future or your results. I'm gonna say this again. This
is important information.

Speaker 7 (04:28):
Man.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Don't let your circumstance and situations dictate your future or
your results. Do you know that in order to get
a different future or some different results, you control that
entire situation. It is you, It is your thoughts that
control the entire situation. It is how you look at

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the situation that will determine how the situation is for you. See,
the same situation can be totally different for two different people,
because you can say you look at the examples of history,
just just look look in your neighborhood. How can There
was a book that a guy wrote one time who
had the name. He had a name, and he did

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some research and he found a god that grew up
at the same age in the same neighborhood as him,
with the exact same name. He went on to become
a corporate CEO. The other man was an inmate, and
they had the same name, grew up in this same neighborhood.

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They were both brothers, you know not, I'm just saying
brothers men. And they grew and they went to differ.
Because how can two different two people the same situation
and the results turn out so different. It is because
of the thought process of one was completely different from
the thought process of the other. You control it. You

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don't have to let your circumstances and your situations dictate
your future, all your results. Here's the way it works.
This is so you can understand this. Your mind is
the controlling factor of your thoughts. Your thoughts are the
controlling factor of your outcome. The Bible says a man

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is as he thinketh. Please don't short play this scripture here,
because this one is the real deal. This is the
basis of every self improvement book you'll ever read. It's
already written in the Bible. The Bible has all the
information you need. But in case you need a little
bit of clarity in some simple modern day language, then

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they have self improvement books. They are all based on
Biblical scripture. A man is as he thinketh. That's why
Norman Vincent Peale wrote the book The Power of Positive Thinking.
That's why a book came out called The Magic of
Thinking Big. That's why a book came out called Think
and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hell. All these titles that

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I've read that have mattered in my life the most,
these three major books that I've read, they all say
one thing. Think, thinking thoughts, because that's what controls the outcome.
Your brain works one of two ways. It works positive
or negative. It works good, which is under the column

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of positive, or to work evil, which is under the
column of negative. It will have faith, which is under
the column of positive, or you will operate in fear,
which is in the column of negative.

Speaker 9 (07:39):
That is the only way your mind works.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
Your mind is a factory that's comprised of workers. Those
workers are controlled by two foremans, forming positive and forming negative.

Speaker 9 (07:53):
But guess what the CEO.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
Of the company, the headman, the boss is you. You come
to work in the morning and you say, man, today
is a great day. I'm going to take steps towards
brightening my future. I'm going to take another step into
making that dream come true that I've been thinking about.
I'm gonna take another step forward in the development and

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the changing of my life in a positive, good direction.
If you come to work and say that every day,
as the CEO, the boss, the foremans can only obey you,
so that what you just said was a series of
positive statements then forming positive steps to the forefront. He said,
I got your boss right away. He turns around, He

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blows the whistle sh He alerts all the workers in
the factory. Today is a good day. Today we will
take steps towards our future. Today we are putting ourselves
on track to get a little bit closer to making
our dreams come true.

Speaker 9 (08:54):
Today we will be assembling.

Speaker 2 (08:57):
All the things we need to make our dreams come
true and our life better in the right direction. Everybody break.
The workers in the factory turn around and manufacture thoughts
to justify the orders given by the boss, which is you.
You are the CEO of your corporation. If you don't

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own nothing else, you own everything that's going on between
your two ears. You are the CEO of that corporation.
If that corporation is a good one, it's because you
set it up that way. If your corporation is a
bad one, it's because you set it up that day.
If you try, and if you pushing towards your dreams,
and you see the possibility of things happening in your

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life is because you, as the CEO, set it up
that way. If you ain't got nothing popping, if you
just want to be a criminal taking stuff from people,
throwing your life out the window, you're gonna be an inmate.
You're gonna be sitting there there, and you're gonna be
mad at everybody. You't got nobody be mad at. But
you you understand what I'm telling you this morning?

Speaker 10 (09:56):
Uh huh.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Ladies and gentlemen, it is here. It's morning time. It's
gratitude time. It's attitude time, it's altitude time. If you
add thanksgiving to those that one thing, gratitude, it changes
your attitude, which directly affects your altitude.

Speaker 9 (10:23):
Period.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
That's it. That's it. It's a fact. Doesn't matter if
you believe in it or adhere to it. It's just facts.
Start being grateful and watch what happened. So today I'm grateful.
I invite you to do the same. Let's get it on,
Shelby Strawberry call it for real, Junior, Mississippi Monica, Tomas Junior,

(10:44):
what's on your mind?

Speaker 7 (10:46):
You know?

Speaker 11 (10:46):
What just to say right there with this gratitude, You know,
I was thinking about something, man, I was looking at that,
like your whole career and everything, or had there been
moments where you have to be grateful and still walk
along when nobody believed in your dream and your vision.

Speaker 2 (11:00):
Boy, let me speak on behalf of everybody that has
ever wanted to be anybody. Anybody trying to convince everybody
that you might one day be somebody.

Speaker 9 (11:15):
Sound like an old church. So I'm just a nobody.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Trying to tell everybody, oh about somebody that can save anybody.

Speaker 9 (11:35):
I'm just a newsbody.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
Trying to tell everybody.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
About somebody that can save anybody. And uh yeah, Man,
You're gonna go through moments like that where you feel
alone and difficult, and you're gonna have to try to
find the motivation that keeps you moving when they ain't
none surrounding you. It is a lot of days like that.

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That's one of the things that make being successful so hard.
It's hard to find support on your way to be
successful because what happens is so many people you've been
close to ain't gonna be on that same success journey
you on, and they just not gonna understand this different

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you that then showed up all of a sudden, and
then you get pushed back. And it's strange how it
comes from family and friends, which makes you feel even
more isolated. So yeah, man, it happens to us all.
It's a part of the success progress. That's why it's
imperative that you have relationship with God, because he is

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the one force that is steady and consistent.

Speaker 9 (12:52):
He never changes.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
Here, old people say, hold on to God's unchange in
hand because it don't change though. He don't move, He
don't way. He solidly. He's solid in the clutch, in
the crunch. When the firestorms start, he that dude. Man,
when it's sunny outside, he just same what you need
I get back to you. His answer is I got

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whatever you need, just ask me for Bring your burdens
to me and.

Speaker 9 (13:22):
Leave it there regardless.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
Thats what you anybody say when you take them to God,
you can leave it right there.

Speaker 9 (13:29):
He don't give it back. He just don't do that.
I'm so glad he don't. Lord have mercy.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
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up thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll run that
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or Globelife radio dot com. All right, and it's time
now to start your morning off with the nephew and
run that prank back? What you got for us?

Speaker 7 (14:27):
Nest Jasmine Crockett getting prank by the nephew.

Speaker 9 (14:30):
Let's go Hello, Hello.

Speaker 7 (14:32):
I'm trying to reach Jasmine Jasmin Crockett.

Speaker 11 (14:34):
Yeah, who is this?

Speaker 7 (14:35):
This is Tars. This is Tars. I'm president over here
at at OBB out of the Dallas Chapter.

Speaker 12 (14:41):
What is what is OBB? How did you get my number?

Speaker 8 (14:45):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (14:45):
I got your number from Benjamin Crump. He gave me
your number. And OBB is our Black Businesses I've met
you before. Then you work at Lee Merrit's offer for
a while.

Speaker 12 (14:55):
Still right the term work together for a Yeah, we
worked together for a second.

Speaker 7 (14:58):
Yeah, Okay, I was at working at least place. I
think you had just gotten there when I was leaving.
But I wanted to give you a call because here
at OBB we got a bit of a problem. Now.
We were about to get an award from the Dallas
Morning News.

Speaker 8 (15:12):
We was about to get up.

Speaker 12 (15:14):
That's awesome.

Speaker 7 (15:15):
Well, no, we didn't get it. So we was about
to get a Benchmark Business Award, which which claim with
a two million dollar grant. But we could help a
whole lot of black businesses. Now the problem is we
was denied that, and they're saying they've denied us from
some some stupid that you said on TV. So they're
saying that we got denied of a benchmark business award.

(15:36):
They're supposed to give us two million dollars. Was gonna
help a lot of business with this, but that you
said on TV, and now they hesitant on giving black
organizations any kind of front.

Speaker 12 (15:46):
What ain't nothing that I said. It's probably something that
Trump then said, it ain't got nothing to.

Speaker 7 (15:51):
Do with me at the end of the day, we
need you not to say nothing for the next four
years because this cans created a big problem.

Speaker 12 (15:57):
Yeah, I said, I don't even know. I'm gonna have
to direct you to my staff. I only continued this
conversation because you said that you knew Benjamin Crump, and
Crump is like a big brother of mine, so if
he gave you my number, he does not do that lightly.
So I'm not really sure what's.

Speaker 8 (16:16):
Going on a friend of mine.

Speaker 7 (16:19):
The problem is that that you're saying there is the
problem that I got, and I'm trying to get you
to be quiet. For you, some of these Republicans is
good white folks.

Speaker 12 (16:28):
You know what I'm saying, Oh oh, we'll name them
for me.

Speaker 7 (16:33):
I mean, I don't help them.

Speaker 12 (16:34):
But nevertheless, but nevertheless, I don't know how you got
my number. And I'm gonna have to have a conversation
with ben because we have never had this type of situation.
And I am sorry that you felt like I had
something to do with you losing your award. Listen, I
want all my black businesses to survive and thrive, and
so if there's anything that.

Speaker 7 (16:54):
We can what are you doing and what are you
doing JAF What are you doing for black business?

Speaker 9 (16:59):
What are you doing?

Speaker 12 (17:00):
I am listen, I do a ton If you are
familiar with the leadership under Pete Budadesh with the Department
of Transportation. The things that we did was we tried
to insulate black businesses from an incoming an incoming crazy
regime like the one that we've had to make sure
that they could still get those contracts to be able
to go out and work on these big infrastructure projects

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and things like that. And I honestly have a great
relationship with the black businesses in my community. I'm surprised
that I've never met you. I worked with the Black
Chamber of Business and we always do events together and
I would love to bring you in your organization after
the fall. But this I gotta go. But you can
call my office and my staff can help you.

Speaker 7 (17:42):
So you got now, you ain't got time for black people.
You ain't got time to talk to me.

Speaker 9 (17:46):
Now, now you've got to go.

Speaker 1 (17:47):
You got to run.

Speaker 12 (17:48):
I always ask something, but this is getting a little
bit more hostile then I typically like to deal with.
Because if you've seen me, I know how to pop off,
and I don't want to pop off because I understand
your frustration. You're talking about losing two million dollars, so
I get it. I would rather be productive and figure
out how we can get that money back for you.

(18:08):
I know people at Dallas Morning News, and so hopefully
I can assist you with that. But I can assure
you that that money doesn't have anything to do with
me and anything that I've said.

Speaker 7 (18:20):
They're saying this, They saying this is behads you definitely
said you said on TV, and this is the reason why,
this is the reason why they're holding back on giving
us the grant.

Speaker 9 (18:31):
From my organization.

Speaker 1 (18:33):
Okay, and I'm sure.

Speaker 7 (18:35):
This probably started when you got on there with that
white lady with that bleach blonde, bad built beach body.

Speaker 2 (18:40):
When you did.

Speaker 7 (18:41):
That, that's probably what created the problem.

Speaker 12 (18:43):
On now, I don't think so. You know, honestly, that
was a white woman at work that disrespected me, and
I got nothing beloved when I call mart a bleach blonde,
bad built bush body. So if it offended you, I
don't know if you blonde or a bleacher or a
bad build, I don't know. But I will say that

(19:05):
a lot of people were happy that I stood up
to a bully and the same way you and your
organization are being bullied out of y'all's money. I am
going to absolutely make sure that I fight those bullies
back on your behalf. So you should just take from
that moment and recognize that I cannot be pushed around
by anybody.

Speaker 7 (19:24):
You messed up all our money and you're trying now
you're trying to figure out why I'm upset about it. Yeah,
I'm upset about it. I'm trying to get you to understand.
But really, honestly, for the next four year, we need
you to sit down and be quiet. That's what we
really need you to do, sir.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Sir, like I mean, I don't want to fight.

Speaker 12 (19:39):
It sounds like you want to fight, but listen. As
a public servant, I am really trying to serve the people.
So just tell me how it is that I can
help you. Instead of fighting with me. What we need
to do is focus on how we're gonna get you
your money, and I am committed today.

Speaker 9 (19:53):
Well, can I tell you one more thing before you go?

Speaker 8 (19:55):
Absolutely, sir, I'm listening, Jasmine.

Speaker 9 (19:58):
This is nephew Tommy from the Steel Hall In Morning show.

Speaker 12 (20:04):
Do you know how crazy my life is? And you
aren't playing on my phone?

Speaker 8 (20:10):
Serious? Please?

Speaker 12 (20:11):
Like I got people coming left and right complaining about.

Speaker 11 (20:14):
Everything under the sun.

Speaker 12 (20:16):
Hey, you won't hear playing on my phone? Like I
don't even want to know how and why, I legitimately
don't even know.

Speaker 4 (20:24):
I don't even want to know. But this ain't the time.

Speaker 9 (20:28):
Oh no, no, but listen, let me just say this.

Speaker 7 (20:31):
We are behind you. We love you one hundred percent,
especially here the Steve Harbrey Morning Show. But I come on, Jail,
I had to get you. I had to call, I
had to try.

Speaker 8 (20:40):
This is not what I needed.

Speaker 12 (20:41):
But uh, but I guess I love y'all.

Speaker 9 (20:44):
One day.

Speaker 8 (20:45):
Yes, just tell me this.

Speaker 7 (20:47):
What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
show in the land, The.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (20:54):
When I got you come on here?

Speaker 1 (21:03):
No, no, no, we apologize on the behalf of the

Speaker 9 (21:10):
Jason.

Speaker 7 (21:11):
We love you. Keep doing what you're doing. You are
amazing out there. You are representing us, man, and you
make us proud to be black hanging there, and we
are behind you one thousand percent of everything that you're doing.
And you say what you want to say because you
are saying what a lot of us want to say.

Speaker 9 (21:25):
Well, you are being heard and we appreciate you.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Thanking of you. Coming up. It is as the COLO,
our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right
after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 13 (21:41):
Everybody, that's your favorite play cousin Junior.

Speaker 11 (21:43):
You know what, I love having cookouts in the summertime,
but it is so expensive.

Speaker 13 (21:47):
But have you heard about what Sam's Club is doing?

Speaker 11 (21:49):
Though we're locked in Summer Value until July twenty second,
partners are held over on one thousand items, from paper plates,
the trash bags, the sunscreen, to ice cream, even apple pie.
Bring it to join SAMs Club because locked in Summer
Value can help you.

Speaker 13 (22:03):
Save on all the things you need to have a
great summer.

Speaker 9 (22:06):
I plan on joining.

Speaker 1 (22:07):
I think you should too.

Speaker 11 (22:08):
Go sign up for a membership and join SAMs Club
today at samsclub dot com slash join right now.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
It is time to ask the CLO, Steve Harvey, Chief
Love Officer in the building. Here we go, Denay in
Columbia Rights. I worked for my aunt's party, her party
planning business, and I did an engagement party for one
of my friends that I've been having casual sex with
for years. He asked me to have a menaje twad

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with him and his fiance because it's his wedding gift
from her. Should I give him one last to rot
or tell him to kick rocks?

Speaker 2 (22:47):
Well for you to write into the show to see
if you should participate in a menaje TOI or not,
and then asked me, it only means to me that
you're giving it some serious consideration.

Speaker 9 (23:03):
Who wants to do it? Okay? So what here you
calling me?

Speaker 10 (23:10):
Folk?

Speaker 9 (23:13):
Asking me the co sign for this?

Speaker 2 (23:14):
Because well, let's look at a couple of things right here.
You know, you know you ain't it. You know you're
not going to be it, and she obviously is okay
with this, and this is going to be a mess.
So hanging there, this ain't gonna last. Uh, And I

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don't mean to sound spiritual about it, but you best
believe this too shall pass. And all this is gonna
be a bunch of mess. It's all this is. So
I can't help you do like you want to do.
Don't call me in and ask me should you sing?

Speaker 9 (23:53):
Well wait a minute, now, I am not seeing free.

Speaker 1 (23:57):
But the fiance gave this to her, uh future husband
as a wedding gift.

Speaker 9 (24:04):
Don't get in this mess. It's a beautiful gift.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
You're not a gift. You're a piece of tradable meat.
You ain't no gift. Well, you can thank you all
if you will to ah, y'all crazy?

Speaker 9 (24:21):
Next was ship?

Speaker 2 (24:22):
All right?

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Edna in Detroit. I'm an older woman and I'm dating
again after leaving a long term relationship. There are not
many things for older older couples to do to have fun.
Movies make me sleepy, Bowling is too aggressive, and I
don't like picnic skiing, swimming or any other daredevil activities.
Uh what do what do people of my age do

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for fun? On dates?

Speaker 9 (24:47):
Okay, now let's go over this. You're an older person.

Speaker 10 (24:50):
She's back scene.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
You didn't say no, But her name is Thatna?

Speaker 2 (24:56):
Edna is a great clue that you were born before
night teen sixty, probably sixty. I know you was born
before nineteen seventy, but Edna, listen to me. If you
can't go to movies because they make you sleep, if
you can't bowl because it make you aggressive, two can't
ski because probably you tain't ever been skiing before. And

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all people don't need to try to learn how to
ski because falling is not what you do.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
Now.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
You don't mean yet ski swimming? What else, Shirley.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
Other dared devil activities?

Speaker 2 (25:33):
Swimming is not a Dad devil activity. Movies is not
Dad devil man, and bowling is not a.

Speaker 9 (25:41):
Dare devil activity.

Speaker 2 (25:44):
What I suggest is you and him go to.

Speaker 9 (25:48):
An assisted living facility.

Speaker 2 (25:52):
And the reason I'm suggesting that, don't listen to me
go down to an assisted living facility.

Speaker 9 (25:58):
Yeah, because watching.

Speaker 2 (26:00):
Movies, bowling and walking is a Dad devil activity. They
need some assist stunts.

Speaker 9 (26:09):
That's funny, sound like, can't nothing else?

Speaker 1 (26:12):
Hell well, their devil activity is like bungee jumping. You
know that ain't what was daddy?

Speaker 2 (26:18):
She ain't saying nothing but bowling, skied, swimming and watching.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
Movies or any dared devil activities.

Speaker 9 (26:27):
None of them was Dad devil.

Speaker 2 (26:31):
Dad devil is bungee jumping, sail Glad, glad, that's Dad devil.

Speaker 9 (26:38):
The boney ain't Dad devil?

Speaker 2 (26:40):
You old girl.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
Give her a suggestion, girl, girl, he can.

Speaker 9 (26:47):
Put let me do this shit. Girl.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
He come talking about put your fingers in this hole
on his ball. I said, what, Dad, he's gonna talking
about something rolling down this plank of wood.

Speaker 9 (26:58):
Girl, I was sitting on Now, I ain't know what
to do. I was so scared.

Speaker 1 (27:00):
What was y'all doing both?

Speaker 2 (27:05):
How did you just describe both? Then we had to
go down there. All that noise, Girl, I mess around
and the selling this state. They got gudders down there. Girl,
you don't want to be in.

Speaker 1 (27:15):
No gutter, not a gutter ball. Oh she's talking to
her girlfriend, girl, Danny.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
Con talking about n these pears down and look how
fire out at him pins. Oh, I said, girl, this
bad right here. He too much, he be wanting to
do too much. I'm gonna have to take this somebody else.

Speaker 1 (27:34):
All right, we're moving on Quay Selling.

Speaker 9 (27:38):
Walk up them steps all the way up through steps.

Speaker 13 (27:41):
All the way all the way.

Speaker 1 (27:45):
Quay Sella and Huntsville, says. My husband and I live
above our means, and he's always talking about traveling and
seeing the world. I can't see past credit card debt
and car notes, so it's frustrating to me. He can't
understand why I'm stressed. So I stopped having sex to
get his attention. I missed the sex. So is there
a better way? What you know.

Speaker 9 (28:07):
Okay, So Quasella, let me ask you some QQ.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
You don't want to travel mh and you don't want.

Speaker 9 (28:17):
To have sex.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
She's stressed.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
Well guess well, well guess what Herbert gonna do?

Speaker 1 (28:26):
Qucella and Herbert.

Speaker 9 (28:30):
HQ head quotes. Let me raise him.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
Herbid is gonna find somebody that like to travel, that
don't get stressed out and won't to have sex.

Speaker 9 (28:41):
That's coming.

Speaker 1 (28:43):
But you know she's stressed because you know they're living
above their means. She says, it's about the money. They
can't compromise.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
There is a compromise, and she didne made it. She
didn't just shot it. We're not having sex.

Speaker 1 (28:56):
But she regrets that decision.

Speaker 14 (28:58):
Yeah, she regrets sex tonight. He wants as soon as
Herbert get in from work. Herbert, because you know Herbert.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Done that because they oh they got quae sellar he
is heating and air he do acadis.

Speaker 9 (29:16):
Oh okay.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
That's good money.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
Yeah, that's good money. And and and and Herbert deserved
the life he working for. You need to have sex
with Herbert before he crawled up in one of the windows.
He down there working on he all in the bushes
looking at the wom Look at here her tap on
one of the windows, and somebody gonna let me in
quire because some other people stressed out to it.

Speaker 9 (29:39):
They handle it different.

Speaker 1 (29:40):
All right, Thank you, Felo.

Speaker 9 (29:44):
This is Steve Robin Martin.

Speaker 2 (29:46):
So, man, how did you how did your father affect
your world view?

Speaker 1 (29:50):
Your view of the world exactly.

Speaker 2 (29:52):
I wasn't allowed to have no view of the world.
You just need to see what I see, and that's
all nowhere about what they're doing over there in Spain
and all that.

Speaker 9 (30:02):
That ain't yourbiousness. You don't have no worldview.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
You just see what I'm You just better look at
what I'm trying to show you, and all this world
view you get that later.

Speaker 6 (30:13):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (30:14):
Well, right now, we're digging this hole and put this
poster and make these sense that's your view. Look down
in that hole, make sure it's deep enough. That was
I wasn't allowed to have a worldview.

Speaker 1 (30:28):
Coming up right after you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. Well, guys,
a breakup can be horrible when you're the one getting jumped.
I mean, we've all been there, we know how it feels.
But being the breaker upper isn't always easy. That's not

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always easy, right, yeah, because you're the one that's going
to hurt someone else. You know that you care about.
You know, you can make a second guess to yourself
and wonder if you're really doing the right thing. But
ghosting isn't cool like texting someone to break up. Okay,
so here are some some decent ways to break up,

(31:10):
according to Cosmopolitan magazine. All right, this is about breaking
up grown folks style. We want you to be clear
if you're the breaker upper people only end relationships when
their partner doesn't match their outlook, their values, their needs
and desires anymore. Otherwise you're still good, right.

Speaker 2 (31:30):
Outlook value, you know, outlook all that in big words.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
Yeah, if you don't, if they don't match that, then
you got to break up with them. But if they do,
then you're good stay with us. So be clear, just
be clear.

Speaker 9 (31:47):
Yeah, well but you know it's you can they're saying
you good. But a person can have all the qualities
and you just not like them.

Speaker 1 (31:57):
Oh okay, I see what you're saying. I think that, ye,
meaning the values and all that can match up. You
just don't like that.

Speaker 9 (32:05):
You like what I like? What I you want to
go where I want to go.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
But if I don't like you, or why are you
with them in the first place?

Speaker 9 (32:16):
You you came up with the adult break up, all.

Speaker 1 (32:20):
Right, fall out of love in your in your mind first,
it's only going to be okay. And listen to this.
It's only going to be harder to end things if
you keep thinking about the happy times. So you got
to stop that, all right. When you're trying to build
up the strength to break up with someone, focus on
the top five negative moments of your relationship. This is

(32:43):
all according to Cosmotolitan Cosmopolitan magazine. This is according to them.

Speaker 13 (32:52):
So, yeah, what do you think.

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Let's hear your point.

Speaker 9 (32:54):
I'm here to help you.

Speaker 7 (32:55):
You know, I break up with you, but keep doing
it with you know what I mean, because you're gonna
need That's why you're going through this.

Speaker 9 (33:02):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (33:03):
That's not healthy. That's to No, that ain't talk. I'm
helping you get through what we're going through.

Speaker 1 (33:12):
That's unhealthy, Tommy, No, it's not. It's unhealthy over there
with without steem jumping here anytime, c l O Chief Officer.

Speaker 9 (33:22):
No, So you need you need. It's two man and
three men on this show. You need to see your side.

Speaker 1 (33:28):
Jor what's your side?

Speaker 13 (33:29):
I'm Williams.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
You're with whom what you break?

Speaker 13 (33:36):
That makes sense to me?

Speaker 9 (33:37):
Break up?

Speaker 13 (33:37):
But let's keep going.

Speaker 11 (33:42):
I mean, I mean, come on, think about it. Let
me say you so we break up on a Thursday.
This is our first Friday, apo, right, what we're supposed to.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Do be doing it on Friday. Let's get back and
you going, this makes absolute right sense.

Speaker 11 (33:59):
I don't know one of the people that common polity
talking about it, but me and Tommy and Uther Steve
agree we've been doing it on Fridays.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
Why stop?

Speaker 15 (34:06):
Now?

Speaker 1 (34:07):
That's what guys think. Really, what you want to see.
I don't want you to think if I break up
with you.

Speaker 9 (34:16):
Yeah, but you're still coming through. I want your talk then, Okay, okay,
let's just talk about it.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
In bed.

Speaker 1 (34:28):
Naked.

Speaker 9 (34:31):
If that's where we at. Let me see if I've
made a mistake.

Speaker 13 (34:36):
M that's what that's what you're talking about. That's the question.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
You don't.

Speaker 11 (34:45):
Let's see if I made a mistake. No, he's saying, well,
we're laying down. Let's see if I made a mistake, right, yeah,
all right?

Speaker 1 (34:54):
Next, moving on from that, ignorance. Be kind, very kind,
but be strict.

Speaker 9 (35:00):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (35:01):
Breakups are hard for both people, so be kind and
be respectful. While you start to distance yourself. You see that.
While you start to distance yourself, but stay strong with
your boundaries.

Speaker 9 (35:14):
All right?

Speaker 7 (35:16):
Can you what.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
You?

Speaker 9 (35:19):
Yeah? It's important.

Speaker 13 (35:22):
Help Miss Many, this, miss Minnie, now.

Speaker 9 (35:28):
Many don't burn no cheating. What is we talking about?

Speaker 11 (35:32):
I'm gonna ask you nicely to get into bed, and
then after I do that, I will be firm when
I say it again.

Speaker 13 (35:39):
Could you please get in the bed?

Speaker 1 (35:40):
No, get your.

Speaker 9 (35:44):
That works.

Speaker 11 (35:47):
I try it the nice way, but you like it.
You like it when I'm direct, I am, I am figure. Okay,
this is what else you have to do?

Speaker 1 (35:56):
Guys, when you want to break up, you know nicely,
like grown ups should figure out how valuable they are?
Figure it out? Okay, only you know if this is
a five minute breakup over coffee, a sit down, dinner
and discussion, or one last night, last night of passion.

Speaker 9 (36:16):
Finally you said some we agree with one.

Speaker 1 (36:19):
Last night of pass before yes, break up?

Speaker 9 (36:22):
Do nobody want no coffee? Coffee? That's right? Nobody looking
for of moltai lockedail ain't nobody looking for that.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
Who are you guys?

Speaker 11 (36:37):
No thing too on top of that shirt? What figure
out how value? I don't set your price.

Speaker 13 (36:41):
I set in my ass. I know how value I am.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
Okay, I'm throwing out I like that. Junior.

Speaker 2 (36:47):
You have to allow these guys to You've got to
see more than one side, because that's actually how they think.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
Yes it is no yeah when you're not here and
they answered the strawberry, it's pretty much like this. Pretty
much foolishness. Yeah, Personay wants.

Speaker 13 (37:06):
To help somebody, but we are representing the male community.

Speaker 9 (37:11):
Trust.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
All right, guys, we'll be back with more of the
Steve Harvey Morning Show, The Signer Show. We'll be back
right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1 (37:58):
All right, it is time now to play around it.
Would you rather? Would you rather have lunch in a
strip club or lunch at a But they in a casino?

Speaker 9 (38:11):
I hate.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
But you love casinos? But you love casinos.

Speaker 9 (38:18):
But the one of the MGM grand is off train.

Speaker 10 (38:23):
Yeah, I just go to the strip club for lunch.
I sure wants to go to Magic City.

Speaker 9 (38:30):
That get just a website. I don't know where they came.
If I'm an apologize, I don't.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
Know inside boys outside boy.

Speaker 9 (38:39):
I don't even know how it came. Where it came from,
Wings at Magic City. I'll take lunch wings at Magic
City if I go there.

Speaker 2 (38:52):
You ain't ever going to Magic City.

Speaker 9 (39:01):
I swear to God you had And why is that?

Speaker 8 (39:04):
Come on? No?

Speaker 2 (39:06):
No, no, no, Uncle Steve know what. My nephew ain't
ever going Damn. We're not gonna get into why but
he shut ain't.

Speaker 9 (39:17):
Fu I was caught up. I'm coming down there. You
out myself. We're all gonna get on t Z.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
See everybody up in the.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
Coming up on. Nephew Tommy and his uncle Steve Harvey
caught that Magic City on camera.

Speaker 9 (39:40):
We were there for.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
Lunch, all right, yeah, for the wing all right? Would
you rather have Keith Sweat playing during sex your baby Faith?
Keith Sweat or baby Faith?

Speaker 9 (39:55):
Which was baby Faith? I'm going baby Faith?

Speaker 11 (39:58):
Yeah, yeah, we both can't be in here big and
now keep sweating, my dude.

Speaker 1 (40:10):
You know about Keith with an f Keith. We love
them both. That's the thing which wonders.

Speaker 2 (40:17):
You can't take my dudes. Man, I just love Sweat. Man,
he had coach a real dude. He no gangster, no thud,
but hitting me of Hootler.

Speaker 9 (40:33):
Run off all together. Boy, let me take you something
classic times both Kate, Mitch and none of them. Wait
a minute, shame of most of them.

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Shame So you can't pick. Then you're saying you can't pick.
All right, we'll just leave it right there. Yeah, between
them two, that's today's round of which you rather.

Speaker 9 (41:04):
Hey, this is y'all Legend. Hi, this is Felicious Shot. Hey,
this is Motown Recording Artists Camp.

Speaker 13 (41:09):
Hey, I'm here, what's up?

Speaker 1 (41:10):
This is Chris Rock Hey, guys, what's up?

Speaker 6 (41:12):
Good morning?

Speaker 1 (41:12):
This is Tony Braxton. You already what time?

Speaker 11 (41:14):
And it's boy, DC, young fly, you're listening to the
Steve Harvey Morning shows.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. Well, you guys know
that it's summertime. People can't wait to travel and go
on vacation. So Steve, I gotta ask you this, what
do you like most about going on vacation?

Speaker 7 (41:35):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (41:36):
Yesterday we saw you in Marjorie fishing, Junior. I know
you and your family fish, Tommy, you and your mommy fish.
What's happening, Steve?

Speaker 9 (41:45):
Well, we were just out in the backyard, that's all.

Speaker 11 (41:48):
Fall were just out in the back y'all.

Speaker 2 (41:54):
Y'all said, go on vacation. We ain't go on vacation.
It ain't vacation time. If I was on vacation, why
is I'm on this radio That ain't vacation today? Just
went out back to see Marjorie. She was she wont
to fish. I gotta go down there and set all

(42:15):
her rods and stuff up for And I wasn't even
trying to fish. I had on slides and everything. But
then she down there, she want to use another rod.
So I had to go down there to shore how
to use that type of rod? She want to use
my rod? Which I use a bake caster. She ain't
ready for that, because now she gonna burd nests all
day long. She threw, I told her not to use

(42:36):
my rod one time. Well, it's just it's three different rods.
It's it's a, it's a it's a it's an open face,
it's a it's a bail hozzle, and then it's a
bake cast.

Speaker 9 (42:48):
I used a bake cast. Of course, that's you don't
know nothing about it what you asked me for.

Speaker 2 (42:55):
But see I don't surely ask me then when I
tell her, then I don't know nothing about this what your.

Speaker 1 (43:01):
Ask bee casters. Just throw the rod in the water
and catch a fish for that ain't what it is?
Extra stuff?

Speaker 9 (43:08):
Okay, So anyway.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
In the backyard, that's.

Speaker 6 (43:16):
So bad.

Speaker 9 (43:17):
Hell you bring it up.

Speaker 2 (43:19):
I saw your margin on the fishing. Go ahead, tell
her something, junior, she can understand. Don't say the complicated. Okay,
save worm or something.

Speaker 11 (43:31):
We don't We don't feel we crabbing people. We crab,
you know, we go down together. We got the crab,
you know when we get down. Yeah, we do crab.
You know when we do get down the time, because
it'd be a fight on the way down there because
somebody that forgot the next never got to stop, and
getting this never.

Speaker 13 (43:45):
Got to get baked.

Speaker 11 (43:46):
It'd be all day by the time we get to
the craft that went back in the water. Too long
we were waiting to get caught. They take too long,
stops two minutes, stop, somebody.

Speaker 8 (43:58):
Go to bath.

Speaker 9 (44:00):
I'm hungry, man, but this is the worst trip.

Speaker 1 (44:04):
That's you were fishing the other day, I did.

Speaker 7 (44:07):
I fished in Tampa. The other day I called a unique, Well,
it was unique to me. I never caught one fish
called a pampa. No, I've ever heard of that. But
I called a pampa. No supposedly good for eating.

Speaker 10 (44:17):
But did you eat it over here?

Speaker 9 (44:19):
I didn't eat it. But that was the first time.

Speaker 7 (44:21):
Let me catching one, which which was a good experience
right in the bay of town for catching some fish.

Speaker 5 (44:28):
Yeah, that's what I think I can fish. Hold on,
I can fish in my backyard. Yeah right, I ain't
got that kind of I ain't got that kind of lake.
He got lake can I ain't got the lake he got.

(44:48):
But I'm not on the lake. I'm not on the lake.
That's right, I'm I really got you know, big boy
got lake property at his estate at the Chatau. You
got a river.

Speaker 9 (45:03):
I'm just a little share share river property with other people.
The lake having.

Speaker 8 (45:13):
Is this?

Speaker 1 (45:14):
Whose lake is bigger than mine? Size matters that we're
talking about right now. I just want to get a
vacation mode.

Speaker 9 (45:23):
Yeah, oh I want a vacation.

Speaker 1 (45:28):
But Steve going down to the chateau. Remember you said
that you were going.

Speaker 9 (45:34):
I didn't. I didn't go nowhere. I didn't go nowhere.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
Have you ever been fishing, Carla, because I've never been fishing.

Speaker 6 (45:41):
No, I want to learn.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
It seems relaxing.

Speaker 9 (45:45):
Oh, it is. It's very It's one of my absolute
favorite things to do.

Speaker 15 (45:52):
Oh, it's your favorite thing to learn? You see what
Steve says is one of his favorite things to do.

Speaker 9 (45:57):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (45:57):
Absolutely, Okay, I like fishing more than I like playing
golf or so can say, GoF what have you look?

Speaker 9 (46:06):
Okay, No, fishing is dope.

Speaker 7 (46:08):
Man.

Speaker 1 (46:09):
All right, Well we're moving on.

Speaker 9 (46:11):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (46:12):
Coming up next, the nephew is here and he'll have
a brank phone call for you. Right after this. You're
listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at
about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter
for today, and the subject is my boyfriend puts his
friends first. Okay, all right, all right, we'll get into

(46:41):
that in just a bit, because right now the nephew
is here for today's brank phone call. What's on the
menu for today, neph what you got?

Speaker 9 (46:48):
And this one right here is you've been wearing my clothes?

Speaker 1 (46:52):
Oh wow, look at that? Look at that?

Speaker 7 (46:55):
Been wearing my clothes. I'm I'm going to assure you
mine most stupid than you. I can rest the shoes. Okay,
I so don't try to put your let up against
my prank. I promise you stupid than next we never go.
Let's go, cat dog, you have been wearing my flow?
All right, all minds clear.

Speaker 9 (47:15):
Let's go.

Speaker 8 (47:17):
Hello. Hello, I'm trying to I'm trying to Wilson.

Speaker 4 (47:22):
Yeah, this is Wilson.

Speaker 8 (47:23):
Hey you you you you on the cleaners over on right?

Speaker 4 (47:26):
Yeah, that's me.

Speaker 8 (47:27):
I may help you. How long y'all been over there?
How many? How many years y'all been over there?

Speaker 4 (47:32):
On the man, we've been here for too many? About
fifteen years. Man's been in a long time.

Speaker 8 (47:37):
Yeah, yeah, I'm a help you. Uh now, you you're
the only my name Donny man, I'm sorry. My name
is Donny. You you've always been the owner of that.

Speaker 4 (47:47):
Man, I start the saying, what about fifteen years ago,
got all my own equipment and everything. We do everything
in house, and you ain't got to where by going nowhere?
You got clothes off here. I made sure we take
everything right here in house. Man.

Speaker 8 (47:57):
Okay, okay, listen, listen, man, dream when I call see,
I've been. Uh, I've been. I actually been bringing my
clothes to you for about a year now. My name
is Donnie.

Speaker 4 (48:06):
Oh yeah, Donnie, Donnie. I don't I don't know. I
know I was becoming here. I know your face though.

Speaker 8 (48:13):
Yeah you probably know me when you see me. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
you probably you probably know when. But listen, uh, even
where I had a problem and now I came in.
Uh but last week sometimes I came in. I think
it was last Thursday. I came in to get my clothes.
I dropped off and uh. Now, now I had brought
some clothes probably about three weeks before.

Speaker 1 (48:32):
That, uh huh.

Speaker 8 (48:33):
And and when I got home three you know, like
I said, three weeks from when I got on with
that with them clothes, I realized I was missing a
shirt and uh, And I was like, I don't know,
I don't know where my shirt that I couldn't find.
So now just last week when I came back to
pick up some clothes, now and it's what what what
you know? I didn't want to raise no no havoc
in your in your store or nothing, but what what

(48:54):
I looked when I looked at you, you was actually
putting that took my money and gave me, gave him
a clothes. But when I when I looked closer that you,
I realized you you you you actually had on my shirt?
What you had? I had to go on on and
count of ten, I went on out to my car.
I said, I'm not gonna wait and calm down. But
you was actually standing there give me my clothes, but

(49:17):
you had on my shirt too.

Speaker 4 (49:19):
Now, you bro, you could a guy the twenty Yeah
you ain't see me in your shirt? I mean, or
what what?

Speaker 8 (49:24):
What? What have your clothes?

Speaker 4 (49:26):
You have left your clothes up here longer than thirty days?

Speaker 8 (49:29):
Okay? Wait wait wait, wait, wait, hold on, hold on,
hold on. What are you saying if people leave their
stuff longer than thirty days, you start wearing it now?

Speaker 4 (49:36):
Now, hold on, hold on, I ain't want nobody's shirt.

Speaker 8 (49:41):
I hold on, bro hold on downy, we got on line.
But you you ain't want nobody's shirt because you listen.

Speaker 4 (49:48):
Let me tell you something, man, I mean I work
every day, I work hard, and I buy my own
I buy my own shirt. I mean I ain't got
to wear nobody that shirt. As matter of fact, I
was just saying because you said that that you felt
like I have your shirt. I ain't nobody's shirt.

Speaker 8 (50:00):
But okay, when I got a money coming there, you
don't ask him come up missing if it's getting here
thirty day.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
We don't. I mean we ain't. We ain't taking nobody clothes.

Speaker 8 (50:07):
But listen, I got a friend he bringing his stuff
over there too, and he tells me he has some
parts missing. He and he come in there one day
and swear he thinks you have his playings of who
is it? He lied?

Speaker 4 (50:17):
They let me tell you hold on, I mean I
don't know. I mean I don't know you. I don't
know who who.

Speaker 8 (50:22):
You aren't made an outfit out of, well you got
my shirt on it his pants off. This is ridiculous man,
that you is you creating your own wardrobe with people's stuff.

Speaker 4 (50:30):
Look limitating something. Man, I don't talk. I don't want
nobody that shirt. Don't call me in something. My integrity come,
I don't want somebody on shirt. I don't have to
wear your shirt.

Speaker 8 (50:40):
I don't know that mean that you got man, that
you clean people stuff, but then you wear it around
the cleaners. I don't have to wear it.

Speaker 4 (50:46):
Ain't nobody around no cleans.

Speaker 8 (50:48):
I got my own.

Speaker 4 (50:48):
You have you You must not been up here yourself.
Do you see the uniforms we wear up here? That's
how you know what. I ain't say Wilson on a.

Speaker 8 (50:54):
Uniform, man, I know it's say Wilson on it. But
why you ain't leave me wearing other people's stuff? Mister
will look.

Speaker 4 (51:01):
Here, man, look at I'm I'm a Christian bro Listen,
I'm trying to do the right thing. I don't appreciate
nobody calling me. And you can tell you, you can
inquire and we can get this fixed, you know, figured out,
But don't call here saying that you've seen me wearing.

Speaker 8 (51:16):
I'm gonna go in there. I'm gonna let the shirt
go kill I'm gonna let this.

Speaker 2 (51:20):
Don't care.

Speaker 8 (51:20):
What's wrong with you when none now, miss Will, then
what I'm gonna do with you if I come in there,
If I come in there one more time and see
you with one of my shirts, so on the guess
what I'm gonna carry it off for you. I don't
beat you at your stove and.

Speaker 4 (51:35):
They tell you what you bring your back down here,
Come on down here. It ain't a dang a drumpstore.
Don't kill you quicking our will about coming here trying
to bother me about a shirt wearing people stuff. See,
you ain't gotta wright no numbers, but that's what you're.

Speaker 8 (51:49):
Doing over there. You got on my shirt and got
my boy plays. I'll tell you what.

Speaker 4 (51:53):
Let me tell you something before open this clean. I'm
from the Penitenttion. And when you talk, when you call
somebody lie, you better ready to back it up. Look
in there just ain't.

Speaker 8 (52:03):
Weigh your man. Keep wearing everybody the house in there.

Speaker 4 (52:07):
Let me tell you something. I'll tell you what. God
love me. I'm telling the truth. If you come up
here with them, you need to call you mama. Let
know it's gonna be from flyp slinging and flower brings.
Because just like that shirt you say you missing, you're
gonna be missing to your car up real, brother, you
about a shirt. You're gonna get your butt beat if
I keep finding out you wearing please for stuff. Look on, Wilson, don't.

Speaker 8 (52:25):
Don't get your butt beat up on some you hear me,
I tell.

Speaker 4 (52:28):
You what you need to get off my phone. I
fud if baby this talk about Hihy. I'm wearing his shirt.

Speaker 8 (52:34):
You wears wearing my shirt and you wearing my friends playing.

Speaker 4 (52:38):
Man you look brother, Look Donnie mcclucker. I don't done it.
Whoever you I don't know who Donny you are, but
don't call here no more. Man, I don't even want
your business man. You don't even have to. Don't bring
your shirt. As matter of fact, watch your lie. I'm
gonna look your smile up any da. Ain't the money
you're send I'm gonna get a back seats. I don't
need your money either, man, I don't need this.

Speaker 8 (52:55):
I got one more thing to say to you when
you listening to me?

Speaker 4 (52:58):
What you ain't got a thing to say to me?

Speaker 8 (53:00):
I do have something I need to say to your
your thieve and s. When I do have something I
need to say to you? What you missing? What listen
left you tire me from the Steve Harby Morning Show.
You just got pranked by your boy. Why, mister Wilson,
this is enough. You tire me from the Steve Harvey

(53:22):
Morning Show. Your boy got me to prank phone? Call you?
What say? Bro?

Speaker 4 (53:33):
You can't he ain't wit a reception? You can't call
nobody's hobby?

Speaker 8 (53:36):
Do it like that?

Speaker 15 (53:37):
Man?

Speaker 4 (53:40):
Why y'all some food?

Speaker 8 (53:41):
Man?

Speaker 4 (53:42):
Why I'm hat to go somewhere and sit down. Man,
I might have to drink me some tea, food and
vinegar or something. I'm left shy. I know that I
knew we had to be somebody line next day. Want
nobody a shirt?

Speaker 8 (53:54):
Man? Hey, man, I gotta ask you. Man, I gotta
tell me. Y'all got a on the inside the cleaners
in the morning.

Speaker 4 (54:02):
Tell me this?

Speaker 8 (54:03):
What is? What is the baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 4 (54:07):
You already know the Steve Morning.

Speaker 9 (54:14):
You've been wearing my clothes? Did I hit the home run?
Did I hit it?

Speaker 7 (54:19):
Always more stupid, more ignorance as it is Greeks and Greats.
I've been telling y'all about Greeks and greats. Have I
not going down in Naple Valley? You do not want
to miss this. This is where all my Greeks. I'm
calling all my noops, all my brothers, the cap Apic
South Fraternity.

Speaker 9 (54:35):
I'm calling the.

Speaker 7 (54:36):
Apples, the Q's, the Deltas, the the Akas, the Zada's,
the Sigma Gamma rolls, the oldest, Come one, Come on,
Greeks and grapes. Naple Valley hosted a boy yours, Julie Nephew,
Tell me you got down on the slopem you got
you got, George Clinton, Enrique Holmes, YRLANDA Adams Man. The
list goes on and on is going down in August.

(54:56):
You do not want to visit that. We will be
in Napo Valley, all.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
Right, the nephew coming up next. Strawberry letter for today.
My boyfriend puts his friends first. We'll get into that
right after this.

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Speaker 7 (55:43):
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what you do for a living, you should not be
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Speaker 9 (55:52):
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(56:36):
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you here. It is Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 1 (56:49):
Thank you, nephew. Subject my boyfriend puts his friends first,
Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been dating a man for almost
two years and he has a lot of female friends.
I hung out with all of them, and at first
I tried to act like a team player, but I
see he has no respect for boundaries in this relationship.
He has a lot of house parties, or his friends

(57:11):
will come over and do impromptu cookouts no matter what
we have planned. He drops everything to entertain them. He
calls and invites females over to his house whenever he's
having a get together. I've told him that his single
friends are going to cause him to be a single
man too. Fast forward to last weekend and he and
I went out Friday night and we didn't make plans

(57:32):
for Saturday, so I got up and went to the mall.
As I left out, he told me that he wanted
to have a cookout, something small. I went to the mall,
then home to take a nap, and then to my
boyfriend's house. There were new girls there that I had
never met, and one of them greeted me as if
I as if she was a lady of the house.

(57:52):
My boyfriend ran over to intervene because he knows me.
Three females were in his kitchen, cooking and make drinks,
and very comfortable in his home. The cutest one yelled
when her song came on and she ran out to
the patio to dance with my man. She told him
that was their song from college, and he told her

(58:13):
that he played the song just for her. Of course,
he said, I was blowing things out of proportion. After
I quietly cursed him out in the laundry room, he
tried to assure me that they all went to college
together and it's innocent. He asked if two of the
girls could crash at his house. I said no, and
he said he had already told him they could, and

(58:35):
he didn't want to be rude. Is this all just
innocent fun or is he playing me for a fool?
In my face? Wow, this guy is not your boyfriend.
You called him your man and everything, But guess what,
he's everybody's man. He's everybody's boyfriend, all his college girlfriends.

(58:55):
You're not number one in his life. You're not a
priority in his life. These women are way too familiar
to be considered just his college friends. He had a
past with a few of them. You can believe that
they're saying things like ooh, that sa our song and
then dancing with him, running out to dance with him
on the patio, sleeping over and stuff, and acting like

(59:18):
they're the ladies of the house. They're all in the
kitchen when you his supposed girlfriend comes in. They don't
even know you, let alone respect you. I mean, you know, yeah,
you said you hung out with them, but they don't
seem to have a clue who you really are in
its life because guess what, he hasn't told him about you.
He didn't claim you in front of them when he

(59:38):
had a perfect opportunity. Okay, this is not looking good
for you and him and this relationship going forward, and
you need to let him know that. But of course
he will dismiss your feelings and tell you you're blowing
things out of proportion. Again, you may as well be
one of the random chicks at the barbecue for all
it matters, because he's done nothing to show you or

(01:00:01):
them otherwise. After two years, this is what it is.
I mean, you're just one of the girls to him.
So I suggest to you that you don't waste another
second of your time with him and move on. Let
him have his female friends he's not worth it. You
deserve to be special to someone, just not him, Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:00:21):
I'm just I'm amazed. I'm just simply amazed him. I
don't know how many times I said on this show,
but y'all write these letters to this show. You already
know what I've said on this topic before. I've said
it over and over. I'm assuming that people write into
the show because they're fans of the show and they

(01:00:43):
watch and they listen to the show.

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
Thank you.

Speaker 9 (01:00:45):
And I assume that.

Speaker 2 (01:00:47):
People write into an Distrawberry letter because they know that
we give out our different takes and advice on these letters.

Speaker 9 (01:00:54):
It's not always advice. Sometimes it's just my take.

Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
Now surely does between the two of us try to
offer the most advice. I sometimes just give you my
take because sometimes I don't think you need advice. I
just think you just need to hear your stupid letter
red back to you. That's how I feel about it. Sometimes.
To me, sometimes I just take it and you type it.

(01:01:17):
You set that right and just took the time out.
This letter right here is coming from a person who's
obviously listened to the show before. And so now I
gotta tell you we've gone over this, So here we
go again. My boyfriend puts his friends first. Just Stephen Shell,
I've been dating a man for almost two years and
he has a lot of female friends. Stop right there,

(01:01:41):
let's just go over this line right here. I'm dating
a man that has a lot of female friends.

Speaker 9 (01:01:46):
I have told you.

Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
Every opportunity I get on this show that men are
incapable of having female friends that they have been attracted
to or are currently attracted to. We are incapable of that.
I ain't gonna tell you no more, but it looks

(01:02:10):
like I have to tell you again because this is
what this led about.

Speaker 9 (01:02:13):
Right here. You don't believe fat meat, greasy, Well, let
me pull the grease out the paying for you.

Speaker 2 (01:02:19):
I hang out with all of them, and at first
I try to act like a team player, but I
see he has no respect for boundaries in this relationship.

Speaker 9 (01:02:30):
You help, ma'am.

Speaker 2 (01:02:31):
You know why he don't have no respect for the
boundaries in the relationship because you don't have any boundaries.

Speaker 9 (01:02:37):
See, you went along with all of this, You condone it.
You hang out with all of them.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
See you can't put the velvet rope up, and then
don't expect nobody to step over it. You gotta have
barbla old fence if you're serious. But you got a
little velvet rope with the clip on it. Anybody take
that off. He don't respect the boundaries because you don't
have any. When we come back, it's some more of
the same.

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Strawberry
letter subject my boyfriend puts his friends. First. We'll get
back into it right after this. You're listening Hardy Morning show.

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Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.
My boyfriend puts his friends First.

Speaker 9 (01:03:57):
Here's another letter about a woman with a man that
has female friends, and it done created a problem. I
done told y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:04:08):
Over and over and over on this show. See, I
don't care if you agree with Uncle Steve or agree
with what I'm saying. Jesus, facts and the proof keep
coming in in all these letters. This man has female friends.
That ain't what we're capable of doing. But okay, let's
try it. And he has a lot of female friends.
I hang out with all of them, So once again,

(01:04:29):
you condone this. At first, I try to act like
a team player, but I see he has no respect
for boundaries in his relationship. Once again, he has no
boundaries for the relationship because you don't have any boundaries
in the relationship.

Speaker 9 (01:04:41):
See you remember you said you hang out with all
of them. You've been going along with this.

Speaker 2 (01:04:45):
He has a lot of house parties, and his friends
come over and do impromptu cookouts. Okay, so now you
got a man that's got some women that can pop
ey and just start cooking at his house that you're
hoping one day becomes y'all's house yellow and they do
impromptu cookouts no matter what we have planned. That's interesting.

(01:05:05):
He drops everything to entertain them. Oh you mean he's
prioritized these fine female friends over you. Oh okay, I'm sorry.
Maybe I didn't make myself clear about this. He calls
and invites females over to his house whenever he's having
to get together. I told him that his single friends
are gonna cause him to be a single man too.

(01:05:25):
But it ain't because you still with him. So nice bluff, lady,
But he keeps calling your bluff. You know why, because
he keeps calling these women and you ain't gonna do
a thing about it. Fast forward to last weekend and
he and I went out Friday night and we didn't
make plans for Saturday.

Speaker 9 (01:05:45):
So I got up went to the mall.

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
As I left out, I was told that he wanted
to have a cookout, something small. So I went to
the mall, then home to take a nap, and then
I went over to my boyfriend's house. That were new
girls there, surprised. Why not have some new girls there?
You ain't having a problem.

Speaker 9 (01:06:05):
With the old ones.

Speaker 2 (01:06:07):
You give me an inch, I'll take a yard. You
give me a little rope, I'm gonna start pulling a
lot of boats in with the rope. So now some
new girls at the house. Oh I never met, and
one of them greeted me as if she was the
lady at the house. She didn't greet you as the
lady at the house as she was. She was in
her mind at that particular moment, lady at the house.

(01:06:28):
She didn't even know who you was. Hey girl, how
you doing?

Speaker 9 (01:06:30):
Welcome?

Speaker 3 (01:06:30):
Come on in.

Speaker 2 (01:06:31):
We all set up in the back. You look as
stupid you're at the house taking naps. My boyfriend ran
over the intervening because.

Speaker 9 (01:06:38):
He knows me, know what.

Speaker 2 (01:06:40):
No, all he got to do is smooth it over
with you, and he gonna make you lick this up
and like it too. That's what he know about you.
Let me run over here and make her lick this
and like this too. And that's just what he did too.
Three females were in the kitchen, cooking and making drinks
and very comfortable in his home.

Speaker 9 (01:06:57):
That's because they've been there before.

Speaker 2 (01:06:59):
The cutest one and yell when her song came on
and she ran to the patio to dance with my man.

Speaker 9 (01:07:04):
She told him that was the song from college. He
told her he played that song just for her.

Speaker 2 (01:07:09):
How many times I got to tell you, we can't
be friends with no fine women. I told you that,
not out there dancing on the patio to that song.
He played it just for her, That's our song. Who
did you say ran out there the cutest one? I

(01:07:30):
told you they ain't what we do. Of course, he said,
I was blowing things out of proportion. After I quietly
cursed him out in the launder room. See do you
do all your business behind closed doors? He in your face,
all up front. You do all the cussing in the
launder room quietly if you want to. He out on
the patio dancing with the music turn up. You see

(01:07:53):
the difference between y'all two. You try to respect him.
He ain't got none for you. I just sure me
that they all went to college together, and it was
in innocent. They did all go to college together. I
don't know even the one they had the favorite son
they were screwing.

Speaker 9 (01:08:13):
It's not innocent, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
He asked if two of the girls could crackh he
gonna google he as two of the girls could crash
at his house.

Speaker 9 (01:08:23):
I said no, he said, he already told him they couldn't.
He ain't want to be rude. Wait, a minute.

Speaker 2 (01:08:29):
Hold up, what so you don't understand how stupid are you?

Speaker 9 (01:08:32):
Lady?

Speaker 2 (01:08:33):
Let me ask you just how stupid you are? You
are always an after thought. Yeah, y'all can stay over here. Hey, babies,
they don't care if they stay over here. No, well,
I already told me they could do that because it's
his house. It's not y'all's house. He'd have told him
they can stay. So now all y'all gonna be in

(01:08:54):
there sleeping together. Wait a minute, year went over. You
done went along with the cookouts. Let me see if
I can press this button a little bit. You didn't
mind the girls come over. So guess what, I got
some new girls coming over.

Speaker 9 (01:09:09):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
I'm gonna keep pressing this button because I'm gonna make
you lick it and like it, which I'm capable of
of doing, and you're gonna go along with it. Now,
here's the question. It's just just all innocent funals. He
playing me for a fool in my face. Here's what
I want you to do, young lady. I want you
to go over to a mirror in your house. I

(01:09:30):
want you to look in that mirror, and I want
you to realize something that the face you see is
the fool.

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
See thank you so mad?

Speaker 9 (01:09:45):
Tell Margine some girls is coming up on you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:49):
Friends, All right, leave your comments on Today's.

Speaker 9 (01:09:54):
Monica can't come over here. Yes, you can't gra over here.

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Speaker 1 (01:10:48):
So, Steve, I gotta ask you what's one of your funniest,
funniest summertime memories? And uh part two? What annoys you
the most about summer?

Speaker 8 (01:10:57):
Two?

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
Interesting questions? Can't wait?

Speaker 9 (01:11:00):
I don't know. I could just start. I guess what
annoys me the most about summer is.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
It's too short.

Speaker 9 (01:11:09):
Nah, Just what annoys me most.

Speaker 2 (01:11:12):
About some is the activities it causes some people to
partake in that don't need to partake in. And it's
like some people shouldn't wear tank tops. I just think
summer brings out a look.

Speaker 9 (01:11:26):
In some people. You know, I've often wanted. I tell
you when I discovered it.

Speaker 2 (01:11:29):
You remember when you go to Disney All the time,
I kept going, where did they get these tank tops
with the armhole that extends all the way down.

Speaker 9 (01:11:40):
To your belt.

Speaker 2 (01:11:41):
No matter how big you are, the armhole shows your
whole side of your body. I discovered that they sell
them tank tops at Walmart.

Speaker 9 (01:11:52):
I don't care how big you are. You can get
your arm in this tank top.

Speaker 2 (01:11:56):
Now it might be tight round the stomach, but you're
gonna be able to get in his armhold.

Speaker 9 (01:12:03):
That has always bothered me.

Speaker 1 (01:12:06):
Yeah, your nephew had on one the other day like that.

Speaker 9 (01:12:10):
Which it ain't time for him for that. It's it's
not time.

Speaker 10 (01:12:15):
He ain't quite there.

Speaker 9 (01:12:18):
See these sleeves I got on, Get.

Speaker 10 (01:12:20):
You some sleeves.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
Dog, you're not quite there. I know your little boy,
thank you strong, and that Jordan is nine. There are
those of us who know better also to watch white
men in the suburbs cut their lawn with them strapped sandals,

(01:12:42):
with them socks on. That's another thing that that summer
brings out that I almost want.

Speaker 9 (01:12:49):
To stop and take your socks off. I just want
to say that.

Speaker 8 (01:12:53):
But I.

Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
Also there are people on beaches unclothed that really they
need to they need to be be be That's what
I'm saying, And that's really a beach band.

Speaker 9 (01:13:12):
Beach band. There's some people that you know it needs
to listen to me.

Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
Fellas if you to put on your swimming trunk and
you can no longer find the drawstring, yeah, that's probably
it's time. If you wear two pieces and we can
only find the top piece, we have a problem.

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
At the time, we have a problem. We're never asking
you about. Yes, I'm just.

Speaker 9 (01:13:44):
Telling you asked me what aggravates me about something? I
was just telling you.

Speaker 1 (01:13:49):
Hey, y'all, this is Monica, this is Hey, this is
Mary J. Blodo, This is Steven A.

Speaker 9 (01:13:54):
Smith.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
Hey, this is you have no idea what it is.
This is Carlos Miller and this may or may not
be either.

Speaker 9 (01:14:00):

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve, you
have to tell us this story. Uh you were talking
about at the mentoring camp.

Speaker 2 (01:14:14):
Well, I was Jesus, you know, we was at the
men in camp this last year and the mothers were
in town at this facility having one of their sessions.
So I drove from the ranch down to the church
facility and now get in there, and they've been waiting
on me. And I saw him up and I'm talking
to the mothers. Now one of the mothers or two.

(01:14:36):
I was not sure one or two of them. I
couldn't hear and talk. They couldn't talk or I don't talk,
or I'm not really whatever they were, they be signed.

Speaker 13 (01:14:50):
That's deaf.

Speaker 9 (01:14:52):
I'm not sure.

Speaker 2 (01:14:53):
I don't really, you know, keep up. So I'm in
here talking. So the lady up there standing off to the.

Speaker 9 (01:14:58):
Side is signing.

Speaker 2 (01:15:00):
Ain't nobody told me nothing? So I'm talking and she
just over there, Sonny. So I looked over there, and
now I ain't saying nothing. The first thing she kept on.
I turned around, I said, excuse me, what is you doing?
So now instead of talking wow, she keeps signing.

Speaker 9 (01:15:17):
So I said, ma'am, I don't know what you're doing,
but sit down because I don't like all that I'm talking.

Speaker 2 (01:15:26):
You know, I don't know what you over there doing
all that moving, So just come on sit down with
everybody else. So she smiled and kept on sign. Now
I noticed this lady down front is just staying up.
So I still ain't. I ain't did the math on
this ship. The women in the audience is covering their

(01:15:47):
mouth like no, this fool ain't.

Speaker 9 (01:15:50):
Here.

Speaker 2 (01:15:51):
And then I said, hey, look, I don't like all that.
Just come on sit down. So this woman was waving
at me with both hands like Steve, you know, wait,
even like two hunds, they're trying to get my attention.
I said, see, now, what did you do?

Speaker 9 (01:16:06):
I said?

Speaker 7 (01:16:07):
Hi?

Speaker 9 (01:16:07):
I said, ok, everybody that I came in here, then
what is your double hand?

Speaker 7 (01:16:11):
Hide?

Speaker 9 (01:16:11):
For them ladies in that was.

Speaker 2 (01:16:13):
Hollering, laughing, but they had they hand over their mouth
because they was all sitting.

Speaker 9 (01:16:18):
Behind this lady.

Speaker 2 (01:16:20):
And so finally this Moore lady said, Steve, look over
here at me, and I said, look at you.

Speaker 9 (01:16:26):
For what she said? She signed it.

Speaker 2 (01:16:29):
I said, wait a minute, let me stay something of y'all.
We sent all the PaperWorks out before you came here,
all the sign it you need to be drunk, all
that for you come in here. Uncle Tom, I said, man,
if you're gonna sit your So the lady was up
there looking at me signing.

Speaker 9 (01:16:48):
She laughing. So the lady was sitting there, and the
lady said, Steve, Steve, look at me.

Speaker 6 (01:16:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:16:55):
I said, look I'm looking at you.

Speaker 2 (01:16:57):
Now what she said, Steve, That woman is signing because
one of the mother's in here death.

Speaker 9 (01:17:06):
I said, who.

Speaker 2 (01:17:09):
Them women in that audis had their hand over their mouth,
tears coming down, and they faith.

Speaker 9 (01:17:13):
They said, no, this fool. She pointed at that lady
down front.

Speaker 2 (01:17:17):
I said you death, and she ain't say nothing, right,
So I said, I said, as you death, So the
ladies said. And so then she looked at me and
nod her head. Because the lady said that to him,
I said, well, do you read lips? I said, cause
most people won't have trouble with me because you can

(01:17:37):
be cross the street to pick up what I'm saying.
And so we're sitting here and I said, listen to me,
I mean, I mean, really what they go, they can't
boycott us right now I'm on the radio, and if
they can't hear all, I'm just saying. I'm just saying,
comedically speaking, what is the fear of the boycott coming

(01:17:58):
from them? So he made me, thank you Jesus. And
so I'm sitting up in here. So I said, I said,
look at me. This is all you need to know.
I said, this is how I'm gonna show you a
sign if a five breakout.

Speaker 9 (01:18:12):
Then I did the woosh, hush, yeah, if you see
the black people.

Speaker 2 (01:18:18):
Then I pointed at my fight. Then I turned, I said,
we got to get the blank out of here. And
then I just started doing this. Here there black women.
I started doing the motion. The black women in that
room was howl Man. So Emma Smith's wife was there.

(01:18:41):
Tears was just a path.

Speaker 1 (01:18:46):
Coming up. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right
after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Summertime means you may see an increase of bugs and insects.
The thing is one of the things I hate most
in life. So what do you guys think is the

(01:19:07):
most hated insect or bug in America? What do you
think it is Steve Peter, good guest.

Speaker 10 (01:19:14):
What do you think?

Speaker 1 (01:19:16):
Okay, what about your nephew?

Speaker 9 (01:19:19):
Give me the question again?

Speaker 16 (01:19:21):
Wowhame, No, what's the most hated bug in America?

Speaker 1 (01:19:32):
What do you think?

Speaker 8 (01:19:32):
That is?

Speaker 1 (01:19:38):
Hands ants? That's the most hated bug in America? Okay,
okay twice. Well not surprising, Steve, you were right. It
is the roach. The cockroach. Thirty nine percent of Americans.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
They hate them because it symbolizes an infestation.

Speaker 9 (01:20:00):
It symbolizes day in your crill. You nasty.

Speaker 2 (01:20:05):
It's just you can't you You can explain a mosquito,
but when a roach come across the table, you can't
explain your black slid on.

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
So yeah, spiders and mosquitoes, termites, ticks, bes and wasps
in that order of them. All right, we'll have more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty
three minutes after the hour. You're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1 (01:21:15):
All right, it is time now to play around it.
Would you rather? Would you rather have lunch in a
strip club or lunch at a buffet in a casino?
I hate buffer, but you love casinos, but you love casinos.

Speaker 9 (01:21:34):
Yeah, but the one of the MGM grand is off
the train.

Speaker 10 (01:21:37):
And club lunch, and sure want go to Magic City?

Speaker 7 (01:21:46):
Don know?

Speaker 9 (01:21:48):
Get you some waves. I don't know where they came
if I'm an apologize.

Speaker 1 (01:21:55):
Inside voice outside, I don't even know how to.

Speaker 9 (01:22:00):
Where it came from. A Magic City. I'll take lunch
wings at Magic City if I go there. You ain't
ever going to Magic City. I swear to God you ain't.

Speaker 1 (01:22:20):
And why is that?

Speaker 8 (01:22:22):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:22:23):
No, no, no, Uncle Steve know what. My nephew ain't
ever going back. And we're not gonna get into why
but he.

Speaker 9 (01:22:31):
Show ain't going I was caught up by show that.
I'm coming down there. You out myself. We're all gonna
get on t Z.

Speaker 1 (01:22:45):
See everybody up in the match.

Speaker 2 (01:22:48):
Coming up on nephew, tell me and there Uncle Steve
Harvey caught that magic city or camera.

Speaker 1 (01:22:57):
We were there for lunch, all right, yeah for the
wan all right. Would you rather have Keith Sweat playing
during sex or babyface? Keith Sweat or baby face which.

Speaker 9 (01:23:12):
Was baked faith? I'm going baby face?

Speaker 13 (01:23:15):
Yeah, yeah, we both can't be in here, big and there.

Speaker 9 (01:23:23):
Keep sweating, My.

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
Dude, you kill about Keith with an f Keith. We
love them both.

Speaker 9 (01:23:32):
That's the thing which you won those, my dude, man,
I just love Sweat. Man, he had coach real dudes.

Speaker 2 (01:23:43):
He ain't no gangster, no thud, but the epitome of hootler.

Speaker 9 (01:23:51):
Together. Boy, let me tell you something.

Speaker 2 (01:23:54):
Classic times classic, none of them shame of most of them. Shame.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
So you can't pick. Then you're saying you can't pick,
all right, We'll just leave it right there.

Speaker 9 (01:24:16):
Yeah, between them.

Speaker 1 (01:24:18):
That's today's round of which you're rather coming up at
forty nine minutes after we'll have some closing remarks from
the one and only Steve Harvey, and it's our last
break of the day. Right after this.

Speaker 2 (01:24:29):
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Speaker 1 (01:25:13):
All right, see if here we are last break of
the day.

Speaker 2 (01:25:17):
Yeah, you know, I got a several things on my
mind for closing today because I'm thinking, you know, first
of all, when it comes to people talking about you,

(01:25:38):
either behind your back on social media, however as a rumor,
however you want to call it, y'all, listen to me.
Stop taking time out of your day to address everything
about yourself that you know is not true. Listen, these people,

(01:26:02):
these haters, they have one design and that is to
slow you down or to make you think you ain't
who you really are, because the problem is they see
what you're doing, they can't and they jealous of it.
So now it's gonna be something wrong with who you
are and what you're doing and what you've accomplished. Stop
taking time out your day to address everything somebody say

(01:26:26):
about you, especially if you know it ain't true. Just
move on.

Speaker 9 (01:26:33):
It's not even worth it, man, I'm gonna tell you man.

Speaker 2 (01:26:37):
I used to spend some time taking into consideration what
people said about me it wasn't true, trying to explain myself,
figuring out what was the politically correct way to approach it,
getting a PR team together, How can I shut this down?

Speaker 9 (01:26:53):
Can I get a cease and desist?

Speaker 2 (01:26:55):
Can we do this right here? Do you know I
don't do none of that no more? And do you
know what it happen? My life is so much easier.
It's just so much easier because it don't matter what
they say, and what they say don't matter really at
the end of the day, y'all think about it, when

(01:27:17):
somebody's talking about you and it's not true, or when
somebody's talking about you trying to throw shade or hate, what.

Speaker 9 (01:27:25):
Difference does it make.

Speaker 2 (01:27:28):
It doesn't stop anything in your life unless you stop.

Speaker 9 (01:27:34):
To address it.

Speaker 2 (01:27:38):
Keep it moving, keep it moving, and let them watch
the show, because it ain't nothing they can do about it.
Because the truth about a hater is they're not decision makers.
They're not power brokers. They are not they are not

(01:27:58):
shakers and movers. There are none of that. You know,
when people talk about you, look, listen to me, man,
These people that won't let stuff got you. Gotta take
people like this into consideration. You see a person that
God constantly gives an opportunity to make a comeback of

(01:28:22):
God gives you an opportunity to take the high road.
And you see these people out here on social media
who refuse to take the high road no matter what,
who can't seem to let a certain situation go, who
are just out here every.

Speaker 9 (01:28:40):
Time you turn around.

Speaker 2 (01:28:42):
Is involved in some type of mess. And then on
top of that, they always the victim. You know, everybody's
grandmama that sold him this. All y'all's grandmother, mine included,
every old person.

Speaker 9 (01:29:00):
That heard this.

Speaker 2 (01:29:02):
Everybody ain't gonna tell the same lie. How many times
you have heard that? Do you know how true that is?
You know if you keep being in a situation and
it's always the other person's fault. Where are you gonna
turn them three fingers around just looking at you when

(01:29:23):
you got that index finger pointing it Tom and realize
it's probably you. It's you, sweetie. It ain't nobody else.

Speaker 1 (01:29:34):
It's you.

Speaker 9 (01:29:36):
Now, come on.

Speaker 2 (01:29:38):
People can't keep cheering for that. And you can attach
all of the false narratives to it that you like.
You can try to make it about women. You can
try to make it about blacks, you can try to
make it about the Me Too movement, you can try

(01:29:59):
to make it about you anything you want to. But
at the end of the day, if it keeps resurfacing,
it's probably just you. And after a while, people are
gonna get hip to hater us. People are gonna get
hip to people that keep.

Speaker 9 (01:30:15):
Crying the sky's falling, the sky's falling.

Speaker 6 (01:30:19):
It's not.

Speaker 2 (01:30:21):
The sky will never fall. You can holler at all
you want, but it won't, y'all. I have decided I've
had to talk to my children about this, and it's
hard because it's been hard for me sometimes.

Speaker 9 (01:30:37):
But listen to me. Yeah, here we go, listen to me.
Stay on the wall. That's hard.

Speaker 8 (01:30:45):
To do.

Speaker 9 (01:30:45):
I know it is, but y'all, stay on the wall.

Speaker 2 (01:30:50):
I know, when people is throwing rocks and arrows at you,
you want to climb down and deal with them. But
if God has blessed you and moved you far upward
and onward, stay up there on the wall.

Speaker 9 (01:31:05):
Them rocks really don't hurt. Let me tell you something.

Speaker 2 (01:31:07):
If you weigh up on the wall and somebody throw
a rock up there, even if it hits you, how
bad it hurts, a rock thrown up doesn't have forward
momentum after a certain point. I get a lot of
rocks thrown in me while I'm on the wall. Some
of them hit me, but they have no impact.

Speaker 6 (01:31:25):
Man.

Speaker 2 (01:31:26):
But if I come down off that wall and get
our level with these haters and these low level people,
these bottom feeders, guess what them rocks can have power.
Stay on the wall, keep the faith, don't worry about it,
and know that if God blesses you, it ain't a
dog gone thing nobody can do about it. And that's

(01:31:46):
the real truth. Keep on shining, man, Hey, y'all have
a great day talking God he loved to hear from it.

Speaker 8 (01:32:00):
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