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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Black the busy.
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I got to turn the mouth.
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Turn.
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You probably got to turn the mouth, turn out, turn
the water of the moat looking come.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Come on, you'll think, I sure will.
Speaker 7 (02:03):
Good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on,
dig me now, one and only Steve Harbin got a
radio show, keep saying it can't stop. Man, oh man,
oh man, what a journey it has been. I thank
God for every single step of the way. I learned
to thank him for the bad times too, because it
taught me something. All the bad times, all the failures,
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they became valuable experiences in my life. Every time I failed,
I learned a little bit more about getting up. Every
time I was told no, it moved me one step
closer to yes. It made me stronger, It toughened my skin.
It made me learn how to deal with haters. It
made me learn how to deal with people who don't
have your best interest at heart. Man, ain't y'all all
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out there feeling me on this one right here. It
teaches you who is who in your life. It shows
you who you can depend on and who you came.
And at the end of the day, what has taught
me more of all my hardships in my life?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
And it's really about me and God.
Speaker 7 (03:04):
That is the one factor that has been never changed
in my life. God has always been the same for
me and for you and for all of us. His
word is true. It don't waiver, it don't shake. You
can shape it, readjust it if you want to. It
is really the way it's written, It really is. You
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have your version of it if you want to. But
if you just read it the way it is, it's
real clear. Ain't no loopholes in it. Every time you
jump through a loophole, there's something over there written that
that count as that. So is what I want to
get to today. Listen to me. You got it within you?
Oh it's there, Just use it. Listen to me close.
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You got it within you. Oh it's there, Just use it.
If you hear me clearly, I'm really finn to show
you something this morning. You got it within you?
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (04:01):
Is that just use it, Steve, what you're talking about. See,
here's what's wrong with a lot of people. Here's what's
stopping so many people. You keep looking. We keep looking
for others to save us. We keep looking for someone
else to rescue us. We always looking for some group
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of people or somebody to accept us. We keep looking
for someone else's approval. We always looking for some group
or somebody to deliver us, somebody, some group of people
to give us credibility, somebody or some group of people
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who says we matter. We spend so much time right there,
and when the cavalry don't come over the hill, when
it ain't no saving, it ain't no deliverance, And hey,
you don't get accepted, and don't nobody really come to
save you, and there're nobody vouching for you and giving
you credibility and throw you into something naw, you into
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this little state of man.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I don't know what I'm gonna do. Oh you got
it within you, Oh it's there. Just use it. You
want to know what the real deal is, y'all? It's
you and God, and it's the God in you. Man.
I wish I could explain this right to you today.
I want you to fill me on this right here, and.
Speaker 7 (05:29):
When you shake everything out the way, get rid of
all your expectations of people. The relationship you thought was
gonna last forever that didn't make it, the child that
you wanted to be, this that turned out to be that,
your friend you thought was your friend, that stabbed you
in the back.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
You found out they wouldn't.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
The job you thought was gonna keep you and you'd
retire on they didn't closed down, gave you a pink slip.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
All of this.
Speaker 7 (05:51):
Man that promised that somebody told you they was gonna
loan you this money, and on loan day they say
they ain't got it. Oh man, oh man, oh man.
This money you thought was gonna come through on this check,
The check ain't there? Oh man. How many disappointments in
life can you get? You thought you had enough credit
hour was to graduate. You found out two weeks before
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you didn't. You can't graduate. Oh listen here, man, what's
gonna helpen man? Look at the disappointment in my life
right now? But let me explain something to you. When
you get rid of all of that, guess what you
really got? You got God, that's the whole enchilada. Baby,
that's the ball of wax. That's the monkeys in the barrel,
that's the bag of chips. Listen to me. If you
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got God, do you understand that that's sufficient? That that
say all you need? Can you feel me now? You
and God and the God in you, it's really what
you need. Stop looking for all these outside sources for approval,
to gain acceptance, to get credibility, somebody to save you.
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The calvari coming over the hill. Why won't they recognize me?
Why won't they give me close you? Why they fired me?
Why they forek closing on my house? Don't they know
I'm laid off. When you get through it, all of
that whining, it's gonna come down to you and God
and the God in you. If God created man in
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his own image, God is a part of you, that
is a piece of you that's godly.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I don't care who you are. I don't care what
mistake you made.
Speaker 7 (07:26):
The murderer that's sitting in jail today because of a
moment in his life that he's now paying for, has
God in you?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
The biggest criminal When.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
He gets through criminalizing or whatever you want to call it,
he's sitting there by his self, that is a piece
of God in him that lets him know this ain't
the way. It's wrong. You can love his money if
you want to put you out of line, and you
gonna pay. At the end of the day, when I
get through on this microphone, on this TV, all these articles,
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when I get through it, all of that, you know
what it comes down to. Because see, it ain't always
been this way for me. You know, I've been trying
to get here, trying to get that.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Listen to me. It's been me and God, and it's
been to God in me.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
When I woke up a few years back and I
realized that's really what it was, it changed my whole life.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
It changed my whole life. Your whole life can get
changed when you realize that it's really you and God
and the God in you.
Speaker 7 (08:25):
Really man. People disappoint you, You argue with people, You
fall out with people, You break up with people, You
divorce people. You got people who you thought was friends,
all of a sudden you find out they talking about
it's crazy out of here. You been going, what's going on?
What's really going on? But that's cause guess what you
got all yours banked on them when you going bank
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it on the one thing that you can count on.
God's word ain't changed since we got here. It's solid.
If you pray, believe, work hard, don't doubt you'll get
whatever you ask for. That's the fact that ain't no rumor.
People out here doing.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
It every day.
Speaker 8 (09:01):
Now.
Speaker 7 (09:01):
If you ain't trying that, listen to me. You got
it within you. Oh it's there.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
You just gotta use it. There is a weapon available
to man called prayer. Use that.
Speaker 6 (09:12):
See.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
I look at my life, man, whenever I get a
little shaky, I look back. Oh hey, man, I ain't
really talk with him too much yesterday. Oh, tighten up.
I'm just telling you real. You got a better answer.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Oh oh oh, I know what.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
Oh my bad, Steve. Now, Steve, I ain't winning costs.
They ain't get me the loan all now, Steve, I
ain't winning costs.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
She left me. He left me.
Speaker 7 (09:34):
I ain't winning, Steve, because I got stuck with these kids.
I got a divorce. They fired me. They foreclothes on
my own. That's why I ain't winning. You ain't winning
cause you ain't praying. You got to pray and believe
in work. That's the key.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Come on.
Speaker 7 (09:48):
Man, you got it within you. Oh it's there. You
just got to use it. It's just you and God,
and it's to God in you. And what y'all gonna
do about that?
Speaker 8 (09:56):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 7 (10:03):
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Speaker 2 (10:29):
To those of you.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
Who have dove off a bridge and bungee jumped and
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Speaker 2 (10:45):
Man. Why did I start it like that today? I
don't know. I don't know. You know, sometimes you just
wake up on one, so own one.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
It is Ladies and Jennifer Shelley Strawberry, Calin for real, Mississippi,
Monica Junior and the legend that is nephew Tommy Junior.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Going on today.
Speaker 9 (11:04):
Man, Hell, let me ask you some other Have you
ever applied for a job you know you weren't qualify for?
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (11:12):
Yeah, what was you saying in the interview?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
What I thought they wanted to hear?
Speaker 7 (11:19):
Yeah, yes, trustworthy, Yes, compunctual work.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Here's the one who the biggest works well with others.
Speaker 7 (11:32):
Every time I said that, I knew, I knew that
was going to be the problem to work well with others. Yes,
I'm a team player, yes, yes, knowing good and well
I'm not. I'm not a good employee, man. I just
was never cut out to be a great employee. I
always knew that. I always knew that. I never wanted
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to work for somebody.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
How did you know that?
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Well?
Speaker 7 (12:00):
I knew it when I didn't like I didn't like
nobody telling me what to do. Yeah, and started with
my parents, but due to the way we were raised,
I was unable to voice that opinion. So I held
that in until I until both of them passed. So
but after that, that applied to everybody else, and I
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took it out on everybody too, since I got to
do what my mom and daddy say, do.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
What everybody else?
Speaker 7 (12:33):
Gonna get what it is everybody else, And so I
was never cut out to bill a good employee.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
That wasn't you know?
Speaker 9 (12:44):
And now you're an employer, but yeah, you know, you've
you've you've mastered that.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Though I don't think you have a boss. Now.
Speaker 7 (12:54):
Yeah, the word team if you break it down, Uh,
there's an M and an E.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
In it me. Yeah, then there's a T E A
in it, which is T which I don't take none of.
I don't do tea.
Speaker 7 (13:18):
And then the reason I don't really fool it around
with the team, it's because I ain't no eye in it.
So I already knew that wasn't gonna be for me.
I don't need me being a team player, because why.
Speaker 8 (13:29):
Is the I I got a feeling you're going to
embarrass me today, Steve.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
You don't share because I'm on one.
Speaker 5 (13:35):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Go ahead, ask me something else.
Speaker 8 (13:39):
At thirty two minutes after the hour, we will hear
from the nephew as he runs that prank back.
Speaker 10 (13:45):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (13:52):
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the nephew is here to run that prank back. What
you got for is nef.
Speaker 11 (14:27):
I am here. This right here will be insurance, Shirley.
It is insurance. Everybody needs it, everybody should have it,
and you never know what you might want to ensure.
All right, so sit back and relax. This right here
is in sharings. Let's go care.
Speaker 6 (14:44):
Thanks calling sharing and Joseph, how can I help you? Yeah, Joseph,
are you doing?
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Man?
Speaker 6 (14:48):
I got you doing good? Your number? Well, so I
give you a card. Told me you have an insurance coming.
You might be to help me. Absolutely will not help you,
will not help you. Okay, listen, I'm I'm seeking some insurance.
And with all the insurance that you guys have, what
what what all of you all covered? We have automobile insurance,
we have home insurance, we have lights insurance, fire flood
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were pretty much, uh, we have everything exactly what type
of insurance you we're looking for? Okay? Well, see I
need uh. I have my own business, my own company.
I like that Okay, what I'm what I'm want? I want.
What I'm trying to do, man, is I'm trying to
make sure I have insurance for the people underneath me. Oh,
your employees, Yeah, exactly, exactly. I want to I want
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my employees to be insured. Okay, you know, like if
something happens to them, they can get they can get
working as comp you know what I mean. I want
to be able to accommodate them that way. Is that?
And are you able to help me out with something
like that? Yeah? I am able to help you. I
just need to ask you a few questions. How many
how many employees do you ask right now? I have?
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I got six? Well, I got four that's working full time.
I got two that that work predominantly on the can's okay,
so I got let me think real quick, limit, I
got Centnlement, I got ice, jazzmine, I got thunder. I'm sorry, sir,
tell me a name against her? What was smitty? Okay? Okay?
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What type of bites is? Yah? Sir? Well, I'm I'm
more of a I'm a I'm a PC and I'm
sorry DC uh Personal consulting. No, no, no, no, I'm
I'm pretty close though pretty close. That's that's that's pretty close.
I'm I'm I'm a pleasure consultant, and and what it
is me I got, you know, I got I'm sorry,
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did you say pleasure consulting right? Right? What what that is, man,
is is you know, I pleasurize people that want to
be pleasurized, like I have, uh girls that may dance
for you. Uh some may come by and and uh
do other things for you, a private parties, that kind
of thing. Are you trying to Are you trying to
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ensure a call girl? Well, I mean, I mean I'm
trying to ensure what I'm trying to show. I mean,
I give all my girls ten ninety nine. Yeah, I
don't know what this is an insurance company. This is
a reperble company. We don't ensure call girls strippers, sir.
I'm trying to ensure my product. I mean, the way
the economy is right now, everybody got to look out
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for themself and I got to insured what I need
to ensure so in case things go bad. Man, I
can bounce back on that. Yes, I understand that, sir,
and I do. I mean, I'm a businessman just like
you are, sir. But we don't ensure call the strippers.
So so hold on, I got your car. Man, you're
trying to tell me that now you can't give me
no insurance. We can't ensure call girls are strippers. Okay, okay, okay,
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tell me what type of duties do they perform? What
do you mean? What kind of do I mean? They
on the application? I have to put down. What type
of duties do we're gonna put down? We got down
exotic dance, you know, and see since they are there
for people that like, uh need to have some personal attention. Man,
you know, we just put something else down, like you know, counseling.
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You know, he's prostitutes. You want to ensure prostitutes. I'm
not saying that, man, I'm not stop saying that. Don't
say that no more. That's not what I'm saying. I'm
saying that's what that's what they are. Well, why don't
you put out peace man? Why why don't you put
down pleasure consultant for him man, consulting? So we don't
do that here. I don't know how to help you say,
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we don't do that here. You can't insure a prostitute.
Did I tell you don't say that no more. I
told you this right here is a PC. It's a
pleasure consultant. Now, somebody that gave me this business card
and told me that you'll be able to take care
of me. And now here you is coming back saying
you can't see this one is starting to be some
per smitten Now, sir, you don't have to from using
that language. No, no, no no. They telling me that
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you are able to insure me. Man, you want to
come back with some bogus right here, We don't ensure
any type of ghetto mess. Prostitutes call girls and that's
some street junk that we don't do here. Hey, man, listen,
I was told you can ensure me, and guess what
you go and show me. I'm finna go back and
forth what you're doing. I'm finna come down there to
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your office and I want to. I want these bapers
filled down so I can sign them, so.
Speaker 12 (19:18):
I come out of my office.
Speaker 6 (19:19):
Look, man, we don't ensure no prostitutes are no are
there strippers? Okay, So we don't do that, and you're
not gonna come down to my office with this ghetto mess.
We don't do that. Who do you think you out
of that man. You you don't know who you're only with. Now,
don't left this corporate over the phone, corporate for fool
you because I can get gangster. Hey man, I don't
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know who you think you look at you. We don't
do that here, Hey man, look at let me tell
you so, I'm on my way down there. Okay, do
not come to this office. Do not come to this office.
I'm coming to the office. You're gonna shure my girls
for me. Now if somebody that gave me your card
and told me you can take care of me on
the low, and that's what you're gonna do. Now. I
need my misstran for my girls. Dog, That's all I'm
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trying to get. Don't you bring little to my scaps
with We don't do it and I will not. And
if you bring up something, You're gonna get your boy.
And man, I got one of this woman and talking
to I'm talking to you, not trying to be nice
and I trying to be perfectional. Christom, don't you bring
little after my office. I'm gonna kick up you ain't
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singing them and feller Alm, Hey man, I got one
more than I need to say to you. You listen. Yes,
what you got to sell me? What I do not
and shurean prostitutes. Okay, what do you have to tell me?
I got to tell you this. That's his nephew Tommy
from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked
by your boy. Oh my god, I'm a chill that boy.
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Why whoastal? I cannot believe me this whoa hey? Ah
got mere man? Let me ask you is here? What
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is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show
in the land, The Steam Morning.
Speaker 11 (21:19):
If they're stupid on this morning, get those nice little
tea spoon of that. You're another one in about hour.
All right, that's what I do.
Speaker 8 (21:26):
Yeah, thanks for the warning. Coming up next, it is
asked the CLO or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in
the building right after this. You're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. Even though
you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you know
(21:48):
your immune system weakens with age. That's where vaccines come in.
They help train and strengthen your immune response to fight
off certain respiratory illnesses like flu, new micastle, pneumonia, RSV
and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines
you need and visit vacxisis dot com. That's vaexsist dot
com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Coming up at the top of the hour.
Speaker 8 (22:14):
In entertainment news, Lebron James fans are relieved Steve after
he revealed his big news Sherry Shepherd once Saturday Night
Live to hire a black female comedian, and Kim Kardashian
and her mamager Chris Jenner are suing Ray j for
defamation of character. Yeah, yeah, that's all coming up at
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the top of the hour, But right now it is
time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
This one's from Chara Clo in East Point charin Eastpoint Wright.
My team beat my husband's team in a game of cards,
and he's still met at me a week later, saying
we cheated and I laughed in his face. If I
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had won, he would have done the same thing. I
hate a sore loser. Why is he still whining because
he lost?
Speaker 7 (23:10):
Because he lost? It's a card game. In the words
of my daddy, you have two choices.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
Here.
Speaker 7 (23:19):
You can either get over it or you can die mad.
And didn't make him no difference.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
Your dad was a card player.
Speaker 7 (23:29):
You could take this to the grave with you if
you want to die mad.
Speaker 8 (23:34):
I don't care.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
That's really it's a card game. You know what we're
talking about here.
Speaker 7 (23:43):
They must have cheated though, well you know if you
play me, I'm telling you right now, listen to me.
Don't come over here and expect this to be done fairly.
That ain't what I do?
Speaker 5 (23:55):
Know?
Speaker 2 (24:00):
What what what you want to play? Come out.
Speaker 7 (24:04):
And let me ask y'all something? This how good I am?
Y'all know I cheat? Have you ever busted me?
Speaker 5 (24:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (24:12):
I know?
Speaker 2 (24:13):
You haven't call it. You ain't buy in Africa?
Speaker 12 (24:17):
We did.
Speaker 7 (24:18):
You didn't bust. You didn't bust me cheating? Okay, okay,
tell me what I did.
Speaker 3 (24:23):
You were that dame cards? You were the cards you were.
Speaker 7 (24:27):
I wouldn't hide no cards, shovel you no, no, no,
no no. When I deal, I'm gonna win. I didn't
hide no card. I didn't give you what you needed
to win. I didn't hide it was all in that day.
Speaker 8 (24:41):
It comes under comes under the cheating umbrella.
Speaker 7 (24:44):
Steeve whatever you know the fact that you didn't get
no jokers in no space.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
That wasn't that ain't when.
Speaker 8 (24:50):
You drop the cards, you know?
Speaker 2 (24:55):
All right?
Speaker 8 (24:56):
Moving on Cheater to Rayford Rayford in Detroit. Rayford writes,
I'm at the perfect woman and we clicked right off.
I finally went by her house, and I'm in awe
of how she's living. Her home looks like it was
taken from a page in a magazine. My home is
not as nice. Should I warn her before I invite
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her over?
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (25:19):
You got going on over there? Gotcha?
Speaker 7 (25:24):
Hey, look, hell, I done been to your house. It's
it's immaculate. I love it.
Speaker 8 (25:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (25:32):
I On the other hand, I'm letting you know right
now I need a Roman's touch in my house. Yeah,
that's all you got to do. And now I'm open
to any suggestions you might have. I'm just I don't
I'm not a good organizer. I'm not a good decorator.
Speaker 8 (25:52):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
His house looks like he.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Got stuff everywhere. He bought a lot of order. Nothing
match his house.
Speaker 7 (26:04):
His house looked like when you pull up at people
and they having a garage sell, that's the house.
Speaker 8 (26:12):
Every all right? Moving on to Layla and Chattanooga. Leila writes,
my boyfriend was asleep on my sofa when I got
home from work Monday. He said he wanted to avoid traffic.
I'm irritated because my roommate was there alone with my man.
I trust her, but not him. Why didn't he tell
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me he was coming early.
Speaker 6 (26:38):
Too?
Speaker 2 (26:39):
She was tired. He was just tired. He was wanting
to beat the traffic. And why didn't he tell you
he was early? You know, just in case. You know,
you got it?
Speaker 7 (26:54):
You you you trust your girlfriend, you don't trust him.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
It takes to the tangle.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Yeah, yeah, you're fine.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
Though.
Speaker 7 (27:05):
Let me tell you that a roommate, yes, saw, yes, sir.
Speaker 8 (27:09):
That's why he got over there early early.
Speaker 7 (27:11):
Yes, sah been trying to get over there, been trying
to find a way to be in that house with
her by herself.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Been trying went over the hell and avoid traffic my man.
Speaker 8 (27:22):
So he's just sleeping on the couch where she walks in.
Speaker 7 (27:26):
Fell asleep on the couch because what nothing happened? Oh oh,
he made all that noise, all that rumbling around, but
she didn't come out of the room.
Speaker 9 (27:37):
Oh okay, Oh the roommate she didn't take the baby,
so he.
Speaker 7 (27:41):
Shuffled about twenty minutes do do dough stuff to get
her to come out of the room.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
He shall.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
Saying it.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
Yeah, that's his girl for his name.
Speaker 8 (28:03):
Oh oh, okay, all right, he tried. Okay, last one, Steve.
This is from Kenny in Plaino. Kenny writes, my wife
(28:24):
and I. My wife said, I'm too playful with the
stylists that work in our salon. I try to be
a peacemaker because they love to argue with each other,
even my wife. How do I get her to be
more pleasant with the stylist and less authoritative? She's a meanie?
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Wow, who's a meaning his wife?
Speaker 3 (28:44):
Can you believe that?
Speaker 5 (28:45):
That ain't your job?
Speaker 12 (28:46):
Though?
Speaker 7 (28:48):
So you're going to be extra nice to the stylist
because your wife? Yes, Lord, he tried to keep the peace.
He's saying, no.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
When she's cutting or shampooing, no smock.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
Jeans.
Speaker 8 (29:19):
What are they in there arguing about?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
I don't know. I ain't had hand so long I
help that.
Speaker 7 (29:26):
Oh the wife don't work there? She might though, because yeah,
I thought they was the owners.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Yeah, they are the owners. He says.
Speaker 8 (29:35):
He tries to be a peacemaker because They love to
argue with each other, even my wife. So how do
I get her to be more pleasant with the stylists
and less authoritative?
Speaker 1 (29:44):
She's a meaning quez.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
So okay.
Speaker 8 (29:52):
The stylists do work in their salon. They do own
the salon.
Speaker 7 (29:58):
You married her, You know how she is. What she
seemed to do, she mean to you sometimes I had
one of them get out though.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
New salon. All that gets.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Out, that's their business, all right.
Speaker 8 (30:18):
Coming up at the top of the hour, guys, we'll
have some entertainment news for you right after this.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Yo, this is Jamie Fox.
Speaker 3 (30:26):
This is Kim Whitley.
Speaker 1 (30:27):
You already know what it is.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Measure match, go Beanie. You are now listening to the
Steve Horvey morning shows.
Speaker 10 (30:32):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (30:39):
Well, Steve, you said you didn't care because you loved him.
But Lebron James had fans on edge when he teased
online recently that he was about to make the decision
of all decisions. Everyone thought Lebron was about to make
a major decision about his career, like when he announced
that he would be leaving the Miami Heat to play
(30:59):
with the Klee Cavaliers. You remember that but this time,
Lebron's big announcement had nothing to do with basketball at all.
It was an announcement for his partnership with an alcohol brand.
We have a clip of that. Take a listen, Lebron
fans want to know where you're taking your talents this year.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
What's your decision? And it's fall. Man, this is tough
and it's fall.
Speaker 6 (31:23):
I'm gonna be taking my talents to Hennessy VSOP VSOP.
Speaker 2 (31:29):
And this was the conclusion you woke up with this morning.
That was a conclusion I woke up with this morning.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
Ah wah wah.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
So what do you think of that?
Speaker 8 (31:42):
Steve steal a Laker?
Speaker 7 (31:43):
I told you all yeah, you did stop caring.
Speaker 2 (31:52):
You said your man, he you ain't got nothing to.
Speaker 9 (31:55):
Do with Lebron, Say somebody, I'm going to Houston, fool
talking about his vs.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
Yeah, so, man, Lebron was coming.
Speaker 8 (32:05):
To Hought Junior.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
Ain't nobody else that? I mean Kevin Durant already I
thought he was going back to Cleveland too. So so
now what.
Speaker 12 (32:19):
Both?
Speaker 2 (32:20):
So much hope? All right?
Speaker 8 (32:26):
Moving on to a comedian and talk show host, Sherry Shepherd, Well,
Sherry took time out of her show on Monday. Recently
to send a message to NBC and Saturday Night Live,
Sherry urged SNL and its producers to immediately.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
Hire a new black, black female cast member.
Speaker 8 (32:44):
She called it a quote break glass in case of
emergency moment, and recalled past instances where male cast members
portrayed black women in skits. For instance, Keenan Thomas Keenan
Thompson played Roopy Goldberg and he's a Sherry herself was
impersonated once by a male comic on the show. Cherry said, quote,
it's twenty twenty five. Don't tell me you can't find anybody.
(33:07):
There's so much talent out there. This shouldn't even be
a debate. So do any you agree with her? Do
any female comedians come to mind?
Speaker 2 (33:16):
Ain't nobody told Cherry? Ain't no mo d I. Ain't
nobody told me?
Speaker 1 (33:21):
So they don't have to.
Speaker 7 (33:22):
She talked about this twenty twenty five. It's project twenty
twenty five. That's what happened in this get here. Yeah,
see y'all, y'all listen to me. They cutting out everything,
you know. Can I make a comment.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
On Dee I too.
Speaker 7 (33:38):
Here's here's the problem with d I Charlie Kirk said
one time he was talking to a young African American
and Charlie Kirk said to him, he didn't like DEEI
because it lowers the standards. And then he said, like,
suppose the NBA had DEI in it and you had
(33:58):
to have X amount of white players?
Speaker 2 (34:00):
How would you all feel about that? See?
Speaker 7 (34:03):
But that mask what DEI really is. And I've given
this some thought. DI is for equity and inclusion and diversification.
What DEI does is it forces people behind the scenes,
in board rooms, in HR departments, and in interview rooms.
(34:27):
It forces them to consider other people that they would
not consider because they normally take the stance of hving
their friends and people that look a lot like them.
That's why DEEI came about to force them. DI does
not lower standards at all. All it does is it
(34:49):
forces you to consider someone else.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
See.
Speaker 7 (34:53):
The reason there is no need for DEI in the
NBA is because everything is upfront. We all know the
quarter is ninety four feet long. We all know the
free throw fifteen feet from the basket. We all see
that the basket it's ten feet high. We all know
what traveling is, we know what charging is. We know
where the file is and it's played in front of everybody,
(35:16):
So it's hard to do what y'all been doing in
board rooms HR and interview rooms because it's all out front.
On the football field, we see it. All the rules
is on display for everybody. So if you dishonor the
rules cause the person's color, we can see it. DEEI
(35:37):
was created to force you behind the scenes to consider
other people that don't look like you. So that old
statement he made about it, if I get on the pilot,
if I get on the plane I see a black pilot,
I'm be concerned. When you get on the plane you
see a black person up there, go in your seat,
put your seat belt on, buckle up, get your iPad,
(35:59):
start playing games, and relax because you are now in
the hands of one of the most qualified people in
the world up there. Because if you thank them, white
gave him the keys to that plane without dragging him
through the requirements and then the other stuff we got
to put up.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
You got to relax as being constant what he had
to do to become that.
Speaker 5 (36:23):
We all have to work.
Speaker 2 (36:26):
Ever since we were kids.
Speaker 7 (36:27):
Black people, it's an entertainment in all the entertainment contracts
that y'all don't see. If you knew what the counterparts
were making, you would be stunned, sick.
Speaker 8 (36:43):
But yeah, I was just gonna say, any female comedians
come to mind that you that you think should be essentate?
Speaker 2 (36:51):
Yeah, surey shephard, I like it. I like it. I
don't like that, sister.
Speaker 6 (36:57):
They have.
Speaker 8 (37:00):
All right, guys, les, Yeah, your root off all right?
Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. When asked
about our current political climate, former Vice President Kamala Harris,
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Speaker 1 (37:13):
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Speaker 8 (37:56):
Former Vice President Kamala Harris said a fireside chat at
a summit on Monday, and during the conversation, v P.
Harris reflected on her loss to Donald Trump in the
twenty twenty four election. When asked about the current political
climate with Donald Trump as president, Here's what she had
to say, helping people just put a laying on it,
(38:18):
even if it doesn't change, because there's so much about
trying to make people feel like they've.
Speaker 5 (38:26):
Lost their mime.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
Wow, come on, come do politics. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (38:43):
I did say it that we just had to be.
Speaker 1 (38:52):
She then explained, uh, v she kept it one hundred.
Speaker 8 (38:56):
Yeah. She said she couldn't articulate anything else. She kept
saying over and over again, quote, my god, my god.
I have never felt that level of pain and grief
like that, except when my mother died and it was
grieving for the country.
Speaker 10 (39:11):
So yeah, she said, we're in a difficult spot.
Speaker 7 (39:16):
The problem that we haven't as usual is that people
don't see we're in the difficult spot because they wear
the mask so well and they think see when Project
twenty twenty five really plays itself all the way and
we ain't even finish one year with this. No, when
it plays itself all the way out, this will benefit
(39:38):
the well off the way and it will sacrifice the poor.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
And if you don't believe that, watch that. Now.
Speaker 7 (39:46):
The sad thing about the MAGA community is they are
in the latter category, the less fortunate, the underserved, and
they gonna.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
Get hit too. How they don't see this though.
Speaker 7 (39:59):
Because right now, see they got the see they got
it blinded right now.
Speaker 2 (40:04):
See.
Speaker 7 (40:05):
White supremacs are experts at making you think it's about
all white people, and it's really not.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
It's about all well off white people.
Speaker 4 (40:15):
Oh that's the trip.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Ain't nobody understanding.
Speaker 7 (40:25):
But they need the masses so they can get the
votes for the rich, so they include you in little stuff.
We against gay marriage, A lot of people are. We
against welfare, A lot of people are. We against uh,
illegal immigration, A lot of people are.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
But they got it mass like it's just them.
Speaker 7 (40:49):
We against transgenders participating in male sports.
Speaker 9 (40:53):
Okay, a lot of people are, but they do less
that they throw out.
Speaker 7 (41:00):
But back to what the vehicles make all them think
they include and they hate because they really rich people
don't really care about none of them groups.
Speaker 8 (41:09):
All right, coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour,
there's a new trend to add hair where the sun
doesn't shine. We'll talk about it right after this.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
What you're listening Steve.
Speaker 8 (41:21):
Harvey Morning Show, This might be something that interests you.
There's a new trend where Russian women and some men
are spending hundreds of dollars on little bitty tiny wigs
designed specifically for their private area. The look is said
(41:43):
to be inspired by the natural aesthetic of the nineteen nineties,
and it's a part of a broader back to nature
trend sweeping through Russia. This trend is so popular because
many of the women and men no longer have hair
growth in that area because of previous laser hair removal,
and others do not want to deal with the itchiness
of growing their hair bag. The personal tiny two pays
(42:04):
they're tiny, little pitty tiny two pays. They're glued down
with special skin safe adhesives.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
So the question.
Speaker 7 (42:14):
What did that come off? Now I'm trying to find
it is you gotta get that. You get that too,
pay called in that zimple. I got new for you.
What you ain't gonna loan it back on I'm gonna
just tell.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
You that.
Speaker 7 (42:33):
You get that too, pay called in that zimple. You
will not glue that thing back on it.
Speaker 8 (42:40):
So is this a trend You're you're saying you want.
This is not something you want.
Speaker 11 (42:45):
I ain't going with this one. Were talking about glue,
we talk about extra hair. We tell that's a lot
going on. It's skin safe glue, it's safe hair. Be
looking for it. I can't find it. Yack asked me
what I didn't done? One man half on your hand
while you lose. I'm not doing all that I would lose.
Speaker 1 (43:04):
It's a it's basically a weave or down there.
Speaker 9 (43:07):
I'm just basically just going ahead and just yeah, I'm
gonna go ahead and try to burn it.
Speaker 2 (43:19):
He lose heat on heater. What's called the more that
you don't have.
Speaker 1 (43:26):
Because of that?
Speaker 7 (43:27):
Yeah, I'm gonna get learn that a blonde.
Speaker 2 (43:37):
To put it up there? A couple of private patues
up there.
Speaker 7 (43:40):
You remember when your mom used to brush your hair
and you be crying, June, you don't know nothing about
that because you had you had a little good half
when you were young.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
No, no, you're now don't know about that.
Speaker 8 (43:58):
This is really popular and Russia. It might catch on here,
So get ready right now.
Speaker 2 (44:04):
I'm not walking around trying to get that.
Speaker 8 (44:06):
I'm not doing that, but I'll give you a different look,
like you know, when you're naked and everything.
Speaker 11 (44:12):
I don't know, Jack, I don't want to see that.
Speaker 2 (44:15):
That's not attractive.
Speaker 8 (44:17):
It's just interesting.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
It's just too much. It's sweeping through Russia.
Speaker 8 (44:22):
I just want to tell you guys that.
Speaker 7 (44:30):
Like you can get like like one call like, uh,
you know the Calaway, you know, like one of them
just be real slick hair they lay down, call it
the cab Calaway.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
And you can buy you.
Speaker 7 (44:43):
Can buy the Jimmy Hendrix, you know, if you if
you're a lady, you can buy the Angela Davis.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
You know.
Speaker 9 (44:49):
You can get variations it fight so just.
Speaker 2 (44:54):
You a little cut to it. You can buy the
halle Berry.
Speaker 1 (44:59):
You know, like a pix cut.
Speaker 7 (45:01):
Yeah, yeah, you know, different different halfstyles corn roll, get
get a corn roll, or you can just go straight
ball and just get the Kojak or something like that.
They got a new one coming out. Well it only
go halfway down. Oh they don't go halfway down. They
(45:26):
call that the Junior.
Speaker 8 (45:31):
You didn't see that coming junior. I didn't know what
he's talking about, not down.
Speaker 2 (45:39):
I wound that one up so far. I don't know how.
Speaker 9 (45:40):
You now, I was going along with all the halfstyfs.
Speaker 8 (45:46):
I said, well, I mean, weaves have a lot of
different hairstyles, so.
Speaker 1 (45:51):
You know, we would what do you say, shirt weaves?
Speaker 8 (45:55):
You know there are a lot of different weaves styles
different play Yeah lace pun yeah, place front lance.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
Not front lace. All right, thank you guys.
Speaker 8 (46:07):
Really coming up next, Nephew Tommy is here with today's
prank phone call.
Speaker 1 (46:12):
Right after this, Hey us up.
Speaker 5 (46:14):
God, this is Fantasia.
Speaker 11 (46:16):
Right now, you're listening to my man, the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 8 (46:28):
Coming up at about four minutes after the hour, it's
my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is should
I give this man a second chance? That's what she
wants to know. We'll get into it and find out
what it's all about in just a few but right
now it is time for the nephew and today's prank
phone call. All right, nephew, what you got for us?
Speaker 11 (46:48):
Some of us have gotten a call from the penitentiary
before I'm calling from the penitentiary. Okay, because Lronda is
my girl. You understand what I'm saying. Londa is my girl. Okay,
all right, accept this call because I'm calling. I'm calling
by my baby right now. You understand my girl. Let's
go get down.
Speaker 14 (47:10):
Hello, This call will be recorded and monitored. I have
a collect call from writing and inmates. If you would
like to accept this and future collect calls, please press
for hello.
Speaker 2 (47:25):
Hello.
Speaker 11 (47:25):
Yeah, yeah, Hello. I'm trying to just write it righty.
I'm trying to reach Lrondo. Yeah, Larndo.
Speaker 2 (47:34):
Do I have the wrong number?
Speaker 5 (47:35):
No?
Speaker 12 (47:36):
You you got the right number? Man, that's my wife.
Who is it?
Speaker 11 (47:39):
Okay, okay, okay, hold up now, just riding right here now.
I'm calling for Lorondo. Who you know?
Speaker 5 (47:48):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (47:48):
That was my girl before I got locked up.
Speaker 12 (47:50):
I'm trying pumpky race, hold on, hold on, man, we've
been married for about two years. Man, don't I don't
know what you're talking about. Man, you might have the
wrong number.
Speaker 2 (48:00):
Okay, hold up?
Speaker 11 (48:00):
Then wait a minute, Wait a minute, wait wait wait wait, wait,
wait a minute.
Speaker 2 (48:04):
I know the Larna. I ain't man, I know them?
Like what say?
Speaker 6 (48:10):
Man?
Speaker 2 (48:10):
Hold up? Man? Wait a minute.
Speaker 12 (48:14):
Larun is married yeah, man, Just in case you didn't hear me,
Larnda's married. We got a sixteen month old child. Man,
all right, and we've been man for two years. I
don't know who you calling.
Speaker 11 (48:26):
I'm calling for Lorondo. I'm finna get up out this
in six weeks. I've been all I've been. I've been
writing letters and all kinds of stuff, sending them to
our mama house.
Speaker 2 (48:38):
You're trying to tell me, you.
Speaker 12 (48:39):
Trying to you've been sending what to her mama house?
Speaker 11 (48:42):
I've been seeing letters. I've been seeing letters since the
day I got locked down.
Speaker 12 (48:46):
I mean when you've been saying, how long has been
since you've been sending letters?
Speaker 11 (48:50):
Man, I've been locked down for five years, five years,
and I've been seeing the letter.
Speaker 2 (48:54):
I don't miss one week when I sending something to Laarno.
Speaker 12 (48:58):
All right, what's the mama name?
Speaker 10 (48:59):
Then?
Speaker 2 (49:00):
Ain't her mama name?
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Miss hold on?
Speaker 12 (49:02):
Man, you've been sending letters to my girl's mama for
five years?
Speaker 3 (49:10):
Five year.
Speaker 11 (49:10):
I'm finsed to get out in six weeks. I've been
locked down, right in five years?
Speaker 12 (49:15):
No, man, she ain't got no letters from you. Man,
you she ain't got no letters. We've been together for
two years. Man, I'm trying to break your home.
Speaker 11 (49:23):
Hold up, Hold up, hold up, let me ask you
this here, man, what hold up? Because you have got
me all we just right here. Now, let me ask
you this right here. How I know her mama name?
How I know all this here?
Speaker 5 (49:34):
Man?
Speaker 2 (49:35):
What what I'm trying to explain to you? I got
the right person.
Speaker 11 (49:38):
I just I'm just blown away by you trying to
tell me y'all married now?
Speaker 12 (49:43):
Yeah, were married now happily married. Hey man, hey, you
need to take her back to that field man for real.
Speaker 11 (49:50):
Hold up, come first of all, what your white fists do?
Just come at me wrong? Now that what ain't fits
to have now? Now, I got a whole lot on
my mind and a whole lot of stress. Now I'm
gonna tell you this right here, just to let you
know how this fist to go.
Speaker 12 (50:02):
Fine.
Speaker 11 (50:03):
I'm fishing to be up out of here six week
and when I do get out, I am coming to
see Laurn know that I'm fist to come out there.
Speaker 12 (50:11):
And brother, man, look, hey you up here calling me
with this ignorant stuff. Man, that's what probably got your
tail in jail. Anyway, Hey man, listen, you come up here.
You gonna wind up getting both put up in the penitentiary, man,
because I ain't playing about my wife. Man, Brother, you
just need to go on. Chill out after you get
out of brother saying somewhere, man, don't bring I ain't man.
Speaker 2 (50:31):
Look man, all I'm trying to do is.
Speaker 12 (50:33):
I don't care what you're trying to do, trying to
keep your That's all I'm trying to tell you to
do so we don't both end up in the penitentiary man,
or YO might be in. You're gonna end up in
a grave if you keep testing me. Man, I'm telling
you don't ring up here. Bro, just stay there, relaxed,
breathe and Jordia a man. All right, that's all I'm saying.
All Right, man, that's it.
Speaker 2 (50:53):
Hey, what your white finish to do is try to
threaten me. Fol So you up.
Speaker 12 (50:58):
Here talking about keep your man, don't bring. You can't
looking for no runner because I will put you up
in your I'm coming.
Speaker 2 (51:05):
To see my girl. That's my girl.
Speaker 12 (51:08):
Women living to you. I'm trying to tell you you
better take your somewhere. We're gonna shut this down.
Speaker 2 (51:16):
Talking thank you, talking to you.
Speaker 12 (51:19):
He's talking to me that's in jail. Don't drop the
chuck your black look.
Speaker 11 (51:24):
Man, I fished to come home in six weeks and
I'm coming to see Lorendo, whether y'all like it or not, and.
Speaker 2 (51:30):
I'm going to see mama.
Speaker 5 (51:31):
Miss.
Speaker 11 (51:32):
What you ain't gonna do is get in the way
of me and my girl. Somebody I've been loving and
writing letters through all this time.
Speaker 2 (51:37):
I've been on lockdown.
Speaker 12 (51:39):
Man, bring you up. I will say it slow to you.
Bring your and I swear to God, I will put
your get in the grave. That's why I'm gonna put you, homie.
Bring you better say something in the penitentiary.
Speaker 11 (51:52):
I'm coming down there to see my girl. See how
mama and give my girl back. My girl leaving with me.
Speaker 12 (51:58):
You know, the whole thing you're gonna be is the
asking because I'm putting you in there. Man, I'm telling
you you bring your I swear to God. Man, you
knock on my door if you want to. I'm telling you, man,
go to mama house. I'm putting your down. Homie. No,
I'm not playing with you, man. I ain't that's my girl. Man,
that is my girl. I want up.
Speaker 2 (52:19):
You ain't finna do nothing.
Speaker 6 (52:20):
To me.
Speaker 11 (52:20):
You ain't fnna do nothing for release my girl over
to me. That's what you finished to do.
Speaker 6 (52:24):
That's it.
Speaker 12 (52:25):
Now, I'm gonna release a rouse in your you come
to the door. That's what I'm gonna do. I'm telling you, man,
what whoo you can't around? Man, I'll be waiting on
you in six weeks. I'm gonna tell you that I'll
be waiting on you in six weeks. Bring it to
my door. You won't be going nowhere else.
Speaker 7 (52:43):
I'm telling you that you're talking all this bad stuff
on the phone.
Speaker 2 (52:46):
You ain't gonna do a thing when I get there.
But give me my girl back.
Speaker 12 (52:49):
That's it, tude, you ain't talking.
Speaker 6 (52:51):
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I Thank you.
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It is my Strawberry letter and the subject is should
I give this man a second chance? We'll get into
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Let up, all right, neph you thank you. Subject.
Speaker 8 (56:52):
Should I give this man a second chance? Dear Stephen Shirley,
I'm thirty three and I'm having a hard time dating
black men. I'm running into the wrong one, so I
won't say that all black men are a trip. I
was dating a guy that I met on a blind date.
He was married to a white woman for four years,
and I could see why he's divorced. I shouldn't have
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kept dating him after our first date. He's very confident
and cocky. He brags about working out all of the time,
and he loves talking about his two cars and his
new small home. The house has nothing to brag about,
but I was happy for him and helped him decorate
the house. Three months into dating, he wouldn't talk when
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we went on dates. He said that I overtalk him
and it's always mindless conversation. That was quite offensive, but
I kept dating him. We started having sex, and I
had to limit it to a few days a week
because I felt like we shouldn't even be having sex
before marriage. He said, that's exactly why black women get
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left behind, because we have too many hang ups and
rules and we're dating. He's also commented on my attitude
and basically referred to me as an angry black woman.
After a waitress filled a glass of water on me
by mistake. I was shocked, but not mad, and I
was not rude to that woman. I cut back on
the time I spent with him, and then he ghosted me.
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Weeks later, he was dating another woman and he posted
her on Facebook. I was jealous because I never got posted,
so I called to tell him that. He said he
posted her to get my attention. He said he misses me,
and he asked if he can get a second chance.
I was excited at first, and then I remembered how
he treated me. Is it a bad idea to give
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him a second chance? Yes, it's a bad idea. I
think you need to reread your own letter that you
wrote us so you can really hear what you've said
about this man, especially the angry black woman part. This
is even more offensive coming from a black man.
Speaker 1 (58:58):
I'm sure with.
Speaker 8 (58:59):
The stupid stuff that was coming out of his mouth
on a regular he gave you plenty of stuff to
be angry about. I bet his ex was an angry
white woman with him. You got to ask yourself, how
has he changed from the first time around? Because you
don't post yourself with another woman. If you want to
get back with someone, you call her, you apologize, you
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ask for forgiveness, you come bearing gifts. Anything other than
what he did. I think this guy is immature. I
think he's disrespectful and if you take him back, it's
going to be more of the same. He has shown
you who he is.
Speaker 1 (59:34):
Believe him.
Speaker 7 (59:35):
Steve, Well, I agree with you, Shirley. The problem I
had with this letter is near everything, just.
Speaker 2 (59:45):
Every line in it.
Speaker 7 (59:48):
Should I get this man a second chance? Okay, Well
let's see if you should. I'm thirty three. I'm having
a hard time dating black man. All right, Well get
a white man. So get a Latino man, Get Asian man.
Go ahead, go ahead. I don't know what y'all think.
Fitna happened?
Speaker 2 (01:00:08):
We are all the same, were the same, But go
ahead and try it.
Speaker 7 (01:00:19):
I'm running there, I'm running into the wrong one, So
I won't say that all black men in our trip,
you attract the wrong one, and you picked the wrong one.
Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
I was dating a guy I met on a blind date.
Speaker 7 (01:00:31):
He was married to a white woman for four years,
and I could see why he's divorced. So you're having
trouble dating black men. You go get a black man
that's having trouble dating black women. So he's married to
a white woman, and you thought, well, since he married
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a white woman, let me give it a shout.
Speaker 2 (01:00:57):
What was your planet? Was you getting? Was you go
gonna act more white?
Speaker 8 (01:01:01):
What?
Speaker 3 (01:01:01):
What?
Speaker 6 (01:01:01):
What was?
Speaker 7 (01:01:02):
What was the thought process here? I'm just trying to
figure out what what what this got to do with anything?
I shouldn't have kept dating him after that first date?
Well why ain't you stop? See I told you I
just have a problem with everything. In this letter, he's
confident in cocky. He brags about working out all the time,
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and he loves talking about his two cars and his
new small home. Well, you know, he probably come from
one raggedy car, and he probably had an apartment, brun
the gym all the time. He cocky talking about working out,
and now he got two cars in a little house.
Ain't no wrong time. The house has nothing to brag about.
But I was happy for him, and I helped him
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decorate the house. Oh now you out there decorating a
little tiny home. Okay, oh okay, what you want?
Speaker 8 (01:01:54):
What?
Speaker 2 (01:01:54):
You had to buy one pair of curtain? That's all? What?
Speaker 6 (01:01:57):
What?
Speaker 2 (01:01:58):
What we do?
Speaker 7 (01:02:01):
You just bought one rug and you take your toe,
and when you use the toilet, you take your toe,
and you start cooking, you take your toe and you
slide the rug over in front of the stove. And
then when you go sit on the toilet, you slide
the rug back in front of the toilet.
Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
That's how you decorate a tiny home. You can save money.
You ain't got the buyble, you know one you've been
one pair of curtains decorate turning on.
Speaker 7 (01:02:26):
Okay, anyway, here we go and we'll come back and
I'll just finish up with what's.
Speaker 2 (01:02:35):
Wrong with the whole less? All right?
Speaker 8 (01:02:37):
All right, we'll have part two of your response to
today's strawberry letter Steve at twenty three minutes after the hour.
Today's title is The subject is should I give this
man a second chance?
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All right, come on, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is should I give this man a second chance?
Speaker 7 (01:03:59):
Well, since I started this letter, I found nothing redeeming
in this letter. So let's just go through it real
quickly and to get to the end. Should you just
give him a second chance?
Speaker 2 (01:04:10):
Thirty three?
Speaker 7 (01:04:11):
You're having a hard time dating black man, okay, I said, so, well,
go get another one, white Latino Asian. Just go get another.
I won't say that all black men in the trip.
I was dating a guy met on the blind day.
He was married to a white woman for four years,
and I can see why he's divorced.
Speaker 2 (01:04:28):
Oh okay, So since you having trouble dating black men.
Speaker 7 (01:04:32):
You decided to date another black man that didn't like
black women, and that's that.
Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
Maybe he found love in this white lady. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (01:04:41):
You can find love anywhere. I guess so, but I
don't know why you put this in the letter. So okay,
nice try. Oh I shouldn't have kept dating him after
our first date right there? Why did you keep dating him?
Speaker 10 (01:04:54):
Then?
Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
Okay?
Speaker 7 (01:04:55):
He's confident in cocky brags about working out all the time.
He loved talking about his two car, his new small home.
He got a tiny house and got two cars. Okay, saying,
but you you were happy for him, and you help
them decorate the house. Don't take long. Don't take long.
Tiny houses just need one throw rug and you just
pull it with your toe around the house and let
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it be the rug. Whoever you are, like you, you
want a rug to get out the bed, just pull
it with your toe from about me in front of
the toilet and you can step out on the floor
in the bed. You could take that same toe and
drag it in front of the shower, and now you
step out on that same rug right after the shower,
and then you go in there to cook just take
your toe and pull that rug right over in front
of that stove and start cooking. And then it's time
(01:05:38):
to eat. Take the other toe and drag it by
your chair, and now you could eat bath foot by
the table. It's so beautiful. There's a lot of advantages
of tiny houses. You're crazy, but you're gonna have to
get your toes worked on. You're gonna have to get
your toe stripped up because that's how you pull that
rug around.
Speaker 8 (01:05:56):
Work your toes.
Speaker 6 (01:05:57):
Need to go to the gym.
Speaker 7 (01:05:58):
Yeah, that big toe. You got to make that big
toe strong because you get a cramp in it if
you ain't canting. And anyway, and then I told him,
y'all was going out for three months and he wouldn't
talk on the dates. He said you over talked to
him in that and with mindless conversation and that was offensive.
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But you kept dating him and I started having sex
with him, and I had to limit it to a
few days a week because I felt like we shouldn't
even be having sex before marriage. Did you tell him
that or this is just something you came up with,
because because he was busy, seemed like you had to
cut him down. And then anyway, He said, that's exactly
why black women get left behind, because we got too
(01:06:41):
many hang ups and rules when we dating. But he
was married to the white lady and he got a divorce,
So maybe it's him. Yeah, maybe it's him. He also
commented on my attitude and basically referred to me as
an angry black woman. After waitress spilled a glass of
water on me by mistake. I was shocked, but not
mad and was not rude to that woman. I cut
(01:07:03):
back on the time I spent with him, and then
he ghosted me. One week's later, he was dating another one.
He put another lady. He put that on Facebook. I
got jealous. I called him and I told him, you
ain't never post me. He said he posted her to
get my chick. Well, when did he lose your phone number?
Speaker 8 (01:07:21):
Exactly?
Speaker 2 (01:07:24):
He said he misses me and asked if he can
get a second chance. I was excited at first, and
then I remembered how he treated me. Is it a
bad idea to give him a second chance? A second
chance to do what you did? Not give this man
one redeeming quality in this beoo. He cocky and confidence.
Speaker 7 (01:07:44):
He brag about working out, He brag about them two cards,
bragging about that tiny house.
Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
You stitt up in that tiny house, trying to act
like it ain't tiny. You can see the TV from
everywhere in the house.
Speaker 7 (01:08:02):
You in bed watching TV, cooking, watching the same TV show.
Speaker 2 (01:08:08):
Can't put two TVs and it ain't in no walls
in the tiny house.
Speaker 7 (01:08:11):
For no two TVs. We all got to watch this
one TV. Now you're in the bathroom watching the same TV.
I'm over here trying to fight his chicken, and you
were in here with that dough crack looking at this.
If you don't shut this though, so.
Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
Lady, I don't know a second chance to do what right?
But you got excited and then you remembered. You remember
that it didn't work. Did you remember that you should
have stopped dating him after the first day. Did you
remember that he called you an angry black woman.
Speaker 7 (01:08:47):
Did you remember that he told you that's why black
women get left behind, because y'all got too many rules
and hang ups. He gonna bring them same concerns back
with him. Stop listen to me, ladies. Stop being tired
of being alone. Not being tired of that makes you desperate,
(01:09:09):
because in your alone time is your repair time. In
your alone time is your.
Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
Time to receive everything else God had for you that
you was blocking by being in.
Speaker 7 (01:09:26):
The wrong relationship. Preach, God got something fun you. You
just got to be able to let something go. That's true,
and you know the hardest thing to let go of
your past. Amen to that, all right, And that's the
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one thing that.
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Will keep you from having a bright future. So going
back there and get a little mister.
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Coming up next it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right
after this, you're.
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Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone's quick
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Speaker 1 (01:10:51):
It is time now for junior and sports talk. Which
you got junior?
Speaker 7 (01:10:55):
All right?
Speaker 9 (01:10:55):
Well, Game three of the WNBA finals, Hey man, to
aces over to Mercury right now to Ace is leading
to zero?
Speaker 2 (01:11:01):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (01:11:02):
That agent Wilson averaging twenty five and ten the for
the aces Man, that girl is what she bought.
Speaker 2 (01:11:08):
She brought me twenty five and ten every night. Fright.
Speaker 9 (01:11:13):
But speaking of the WNBA, have y'all seen the and
the visa call you for the Minnesota links. Have you
heard what she said about the leaders?
Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
She called out the league.
Speaker 9 (01:11:21):
She called it the WNBA for their lack of leadership, accountability,
the officiating, the way they treat the players. She called
out the atalire w NBA, even the commissioner, Kathy Ingelbert.
They were supposed to have a meeting yesterday, but FISA
she canceled. She said, nah, no, she told the commission
Now you say you respect the players, then you get
up there on the stand and say I lied about
everything I said, and now you don't have no accountability.
Speaker 13 (01:11:44):
This is when she talked about so she don't want
to have a meeting no more and she's tired of it.
Speaker 2 (01:11:47):
All the players are tired of yet.
Speaker 9 (01:11:49):
Matter of fact, when she told her, she said, you
know what, it's a shame that Kaitlyn Clark and Andel
Reese are the two prominent people in this league and
they got to make all their money off the court.
And she says, yeah, well, you know, Kaylyn and Angel
need to be happy because they would have an MWA.
But if they'd had a WNBA, they would be able
to make this type of money off the court. And
she said, oh really, so we got to go off
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the court to make our money. Well, everybody in the
NBAWNBA can't do that, and that's one of the problems.
She said, Hey, look, I don't even want to meet
with y'all since y'alln't even acknowledge that we are underpaid.
You won't even acknowledge that y'all have not given us
the best treatment. You won't acknowledge the officiating is poor.
Why would I sit there and meet what you did?
Speaker 2 (01:12:25):
Well, now, see, listen to me. You can only bring
about change by sitting down. People say.
Speaker 7 (01:12:32):
People have a lot of sayings that don't make no sense.
I don't break bread with the enemy. The only way
to have pieces to sit down with your enemies. It's
the only way and the only way to bring about
change is you have to meet with people that have
a different viewpoint than you. That's the only way to meet.
And I understand what the young sisters saying. That is
a disparity in pay in the NBA and the w NBA,
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but there's also a game a number of games played.
There's also an attendance disparity, and there's also a cost
of ticket prices disparity. And everybody can't make what Angel
Reaes and Caitlin Clark mates. But have you ever thought,
could it be? Could it be maybe that your brand
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that you portray on and off the court is not
a marketable brand. See if the first thing, the only
thing you can change immediately is yourself.
Speaker 2 (01:13:30):
Sometimes, man, you gotta look within to make the change.
Speaker 7 (01:13:33):
W ain't being nothing to pay y'all, no more money
right now, But in seasons to come, it's going to
have to change. Because of Angel Reas, because of Kitlyn Clark,
there are more people attending games. But I'm gonna tell
you right now, if all women supported women's sports, y'all
wouldn't have no problem.
Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
All right, Junior, Wait, thank you.
Speaker 8 (01:13:57):
Coming up at the top of the hour, a man's
puzzles after his wife called him the wrong name during sex.
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 12 (01:14:12):
All right, here we go.
Speaker 1 (01:14:13):
This is from Travis in Valdosta.
Speaker 8 (01:14:15):
Travis says, my wife is not a big drinker, and
when she gets tipsy, she's a wild woman in the bedroom,
and she likes to talk nasty.
Speaker 1 (01:14:24):
But the other night she.
Speaker 8 (01:14:25):
Called me Teddy during sex, and my name is Travis.
She tried to say that she called me teddy bear,
and I searched the context, context in her phone, and
all of her followers are on social media, and I
couldn't find a Teddy. Is it safe to assume she
was really calling me a teddy bear?
Speaker 2 (01:14:46):
Yeah? Yes, probably You probably gonna have to go with
that withem. You ain't been no teddy, come on, yeah, you're.
Speaker 7 (01:14:51):
Probably gonna have to go and to go with that
teddy Back then, you didn't find Teddy in the context,
And you know, I'm pretty show she ain't stupid enough
to put his name, So yeah, I think you're gonna
have to go on with Teddy, Beth.
Speaker 1 (01:15:05):
So you rate her lie? If it was a lie,
how do you rate it?
Speaker 2 (01:15:10):
I mean it's outstanding.
Speaker 7 (01:15:11):
It's a good lie because Teddy is probably under a
code name in the phone.
Speaker 8 (01:15:18):
Oh definitely, So that's good.
Speaker 1 (01:15:24):
He said, that's good.
Speaker 2 (01:15:28):
See, let me explain something to you.
Speaker 7 (01:15:30):
But a lie is a success once it creates reasonable doubt,
and that Teddy or Tyrone, whatever the real name is.
Travis then had to write in to us because of
what reasonable doubt. So her lie was an outstanding lie.
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All you want is reasonable doubt. That's gotta take her back.
You had another drink and that's big. I tay to
come back out.
Speaker 8 (01:16:04):
Eddy really is?
Speaker 2 (01:16:07):
That's a good one.
Speaker 8 (01:16:09):
All right, we have time for another one. This is
from Rava in Long Island. Rava says, my best friend's
husband is a ladies man and there's a rumor that
he is a longtime girlfriend and he spends a lot
of time with her. I've known my best friend for
thirty plus years, but I don't know how to talk
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to her about these rumors. My friend group said I
should be the one to tell her, and it's stressing
me out a lot.
Speaker 1 (01:16:36):
How do I tell my friend this, tell your friend
a rumor?
Speaker 8 (01:16:40):
Yeah, that her husband it's rumored that her husband has
a longtime girlfriend. Exactly, Oh mom, oh yeah, but her
group told her she should be the one to tell her,
so she's known of her.
Speaker 2 (01:16:52):
Soul well to friend group. Mind, they be as.
Speaker 8 (01:16:57):
Rumored.
Speaker 7 (01:16:58):
Suppose this rumor it's just gossip. Yeah, and it's untrue.
Now you take this to this woman and this man
ain't got no long term girlfriend. Look, if you don't
have pictures of him coming out the hotel.
Speaker 8 (01:17:15):
Room with her, you don't.
Speaker 1 (01:17:18):
You don't have room nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:17:21):
There's no way you can get me on.
Speaker 7 (01:17:22):
That one thoughts. Yeah, but thirty years, where's the proof.
It's rumored that he has a long time girlfriend.
Speaker 8 (01:17:33):
And that he spends a lot of time with her.
But this woman, her best friend, is stressing out because
her friend group is pressuring her to tell the best
friends that's you know why this, Yeah, because because they
sing and that's our best friend, and they feel that
she should tell her.
Speaker 2 (01:17:51):
That we're gonna tell her then gonna tell her. No,
tell her what exactly? Okay, hold on it.
Speaker 7 (01:17:58):
I know your best friend, I know your girl talk
about all the time. She's a wonderful person. You heard
a rumor that her her husband. Let's say she's married,
her husband has a girlfriend somewhere.
Speaker 2 (01:18:12):
He spends a lot of time. How would you go
about telling that? I would tell I heard the brooman
toy is like my sister. Our mothers were best friends.
I would tell her.
Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
I would tell her, she knows that her man is
staying out.
Speaker 9 (01:18:27):
This woman knows that her man has been gone there
saying she's he spends a lot of time away.
Speaker 1 (01:18:34):
She knows something, is the wife.
Speaker 8 (01:18:37):
Yeah, she's intuition, all right, Yeah, she knows.
Speaker 1 (01:18:40):
All right, guys, should he spends less time with the other?
Speaker 3 (01:18:43):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (01:18:44):
Wait? You should? We gotta go.
Speaker 8 (01:18:47):
Steve down with that response coming up in twenty minutes
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Mm hmm.
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for a round of would you rather? Would you rather
listen to this comedians? Would you rather get a standing
ovation from a very small crowd or would you rather
get a mediocre reaction from a large audience?
Speaker 2 (01:21:35):
Hey, give you this state at Oh? We passing them standing?
Speaker 8 (01:21:38):
Oh yeah that was easy, hump. Would you rather never
be able to laugh again or never be able to
cry again?
Speaker 1 (01:21:49):
Take this crime right out of here?
Speaker 2 (01:21:52):
I'm crying enough? Yeah, out of your last Yeah. I
really ought to just down to just dust by now.
Speaker 12 (01:22:06):
All right?
Speaker 8 (01:22:06):
Would you rather start in a long running sitcom or
would you rather only one blockbuster movie? Blockbuster movie? Starting
a long running sitcom? Or an only one blockbuster movie,
long running sitcom.
Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
That's that's, that's that's If you want finances, you're getting
that long running sitcom.
Speaker 1 (01:22:27):
Okay, as opposed to one blockbuster movie.
Speaker 7 (01:22:31):
Yeah, you used to make all that much money. Note
only in the block buster movie. Get one blockbuster chick.
Speaker 8 (01:22:44):
Would you rather eat a pumpkin enter a pumpkin carving
contest or a pumpkin pie eating contest? You want to
carve the pipe?
Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
That's called I'm not eating.
Speaker 8 (01:22:56):
That punk You don't like pumpkin pie?
Speaker 2 (01:22:58):
No, I don't. I ain't never had no punking. I've
had it. I don't like it because I like sweet
potato pie, and I'm not gonna judge that. Well, I'm
not gonna do that to the sweet potato I'm not
going to do it. I'll tell you.
Speaker 7 (01:23:15):
I'll tell you one of the most shocking things you'll
ever experience in your life. What what to bite into
a slice of sweet potato pie and find out that
it's really punkin pie, that it's.
Speaker 8 (01:23:31):
The same, that's not the same.
Speaker 2 (01:23:33):
You be looking around.
Speaker 7 (01:23:35):
I remember, man, my first Thanksgiving away from home. I
was performing in West Palm Beach, Florida. My first Thanksgiving
ever away from home in my life, never being at
my mama's house for Thanksgiving. And when I got through
performing West Palm Beach, I walked to a Denny's so
I could have a Thanksgiving dinner.
Speaker 2 (01:23:56):
They had a big turkey dressing special.
Speaker 7 (01:24:00):
That's when I discovered, really, really how white people make Thanksgiving.
Speaker 2 (01:24:09):
They had turkey, but everything else.
Speaker 7 (01:24:11):
First of all, the dressing was stove top, had apples
in it, The gravy was light. The win potatoes was
in an ice cream ladle. They just gave you one PLoP.
Speaker 2 (01:24:24):
It was perfectly circle and it came with a slice
of punkin pie. Hurry up. I cried the whole time.
I was in, just tears running down.
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Speaker 7 (01:25:32):
Hey, here's here's something a piece of advice I could
share with people in your climb to become successful. Once
you understand that success, first of all, is a process.
Nobody gets to be it right away. You don't set
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a goal today and accomplish everything you want tomorrows. This
doesn't work that way unless you have very very small goals,
you know, Like, if your goal is simply tomorrow, I'm
gonna write down some.
Speaker 2 (01:26:13):
Things I want.
Speaker 7 (01:26:15):
Okay, all right, well, if God wake you up, go ahead,
let me see how hard you try to make that happen.
That's pretty easy. But I'm talking about your real goals.
That's after you've written your stuff down to accomplish those things.
It's a process, and in this process, you have to
be prepared to take the necessary steps, and sometimes those
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steps are small steps. Every step you take is not
gonna be leaps and bounds.
Speaker 2 (01:26:45):
Every move you make.
Speaker 7 (01:26:47):
Is not gonna be catastrophic. Everything that happens to you
is not gonna be earth shaking or consequential, or.
Speaker 2 (01:26:55):
This really moved the needle.
Speaker 7 (01:26:57):
Sometimes, man, you just gotta remember that inch by inch,
anything's a cinch. Sometimes you're gonna inch your way along.
Sometimes you got to crawl your way along. Sometimes you're
gonna walk your way along, and sometimes you're gonna get
to break out running. But the key is to understand
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that it's all a process and be prepared for those
tiny steps.
Speaker 2 (01:27:24):
Be prepared for it not to go your way.
Speaker 7 (01:27:29):
Get ready for days where you just have to stand
still and hope you survive it. Get ready for the naysayers,
get for the lack, get ready for lack of encouragement.
You know what it is, folks, especially those of us
and those of you out there who are the first
ones in your family to try to amount yourself to anything.
(01:27:53):
And now a lot of people can relate to this.
Now there are people who come from like my one
of one person that works with me was an attorney.
His father was a doctor. I mean, this cat with
the more house, brilliant gud, he came from that background.
The majority of us don't get that shot. The majority
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of us don't get that viewpoint of success. A lot
of us are the first ones in our family to
try to amount to anything. And without those pictures, those
clear pictures, you gotta understand the process. And here's one
of the things you gotta understand. Stop expecting your family
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for their full support, cause, man, you really ain't gonna
get it from them because they don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:28:44):
They don't get it.
Speaker 7 (01:28:45):
It's hard to tell a person you want a whole
lot that ain't ever had a whole lot. It started
hard to tell a person that you're gonna climb higher
than the realm of expectation in our family, that you're
gonna break the ceiling in our family, that you're gonna
break the chains in our family.
Speaker 2 (01:29:00):
And theyve been sitting up there locked up their whole life.
Speaker 7 (01:29:03):
What stop expecting support from people who can't give it
to you. I don't you know how many times have
you walked in there and told your family, this is
what I'm about to do.
Speaker 2 (01:29:16):
And they sat there quietly and listened to you, and
then he guess what. I don't see how you gonna
do all that? That don't make no sense to me,
seeming to me like y'all to just get a regular job.
You know, you got some bills you got to pay.
I don't see it. Listen to me.
Speaker 7 (01:29:33):
Stop expecting them to see it. You know why they
can't see it because God didn't show it to them.
Speaker 2 (01:29:42):
He showed it to you.
Speaker 7 (01:29:46):
God places everything he has for you in your imagination.
It's that thing that keeps you up at night. It's
why you can't sleep at night. It's what makes you
toss and turn. It's what makes you daydream. That's why
you're sitting on your job, still thinking about opening that business.
It's why you're sitting on your job trying to figure
out how you gonna become the supervisor. It's how you
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on that job, see how you gonna become team leader.
That's cause God shows you what he has for you
in your imagination. But you go in there and you
share it to your family and friends, and they can't
see it. It's because God didn't show it to them.
He showed it to you. See the problem with sharing
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big dreams with people is if you want to kill
a big dream, tell it to a small minded person.
You got people in your life that have a problem
for every solution you come up with. Did you hear
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what I said? You have people in your life who
have a problem for every solution you come up with. Hey, y'all,
I got a way that the family gonna get rich
with the problem. Yeah, but you're black, though you ain't
got no money supposed to bank down loan it to you. Yeah,
you'll have people like that that's got a problem for
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every solution you come up with.
Speaker 2 (01:31:14):
See. You know, for example, when I'm talking to my
employees and we're sitting around and I come up with
a new idea, you know what, I don't allow them
to do.
Speaker 7 (01:31:21):
Tell me how it won't work. I'm not paying you
for that. I want you to put your heads together
and tell me how we can get it done. Already,
Know how it ain't gonna work already. Know the nay
sales is coming already, Know the haters is coming, already.
Know the pitfalls and trappings of trying to be successful.
I face them my whole life, So don't tell me
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about them. Tell me how we can make it work,
how we can get it done, how we can make
it happen. I don't need a problem for my solution.
I just need a solution for the solution. Now figure
that out, y'all have a great day to day. Talk
to God.
Speaker 2 (01:32:00):
He'd absolutely in love here.
Speaker 8 (01:32:01):
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