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got to turn the mouth, turn out the water.
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You think that.
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I sure will? Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
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Speaker 2 (02:13):
Man oh man, oh man.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I think about all the things God has done for
me is overwhelming at times. And I want everybody to
have that feeling and to sharing that feeling of completion
and satisfaction. And the only reason I got this, and
it's the thousandth time I've said it, is because I
formed a relationship with my creator.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Period.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
That's it. That's that's it. I can't tell you as
anything else else. You know, I've always had a strong
work ethic. My father put that in me. My father's
conversation with me growing up was always constantly about work hard,
don't be lazy, be a man, do what you say
you're gonna do. YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA. Man, I
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was so tired of my father At times. I was going, Man,
what is with this dude right here? Man, every time
we have a conversation, it's got to be about work.
It's got to be about, you know, man, doing your best,
trying hard, you know, working, being honest, do what you
say you're gonna do. But that was his mission. I
can't tell you how much I appreciate that now. I
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can't even I can't even put it into words when
I think about my old man and what he was
to me, and I just, man, I'm so grateful for
that balance I had in my life. And then my
father was a fighter. He fought on the weekends.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You know.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
My father used to come home with his clothes toe
off of him. He put a fresh shirt on, and
he go back. My mama used to talk about my
father fighting all the time, slick, while you're always fighting.
You know a little bit of that rubbed off on
me too, you know that that kind of got into me.
And I didn't understand that either, But then understand same term.
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My mother was a Sunday school teacher for forty years,
so her conversation was never about fighting or anything. It
was all about love and understanding and doing another that
you would have to do unto you. My mom was
a Sunday school teacher, so I learned about faith. I
had to go to Sunday school, prayer meeting, Bible study,
young people meeting, choir rehearsal. You know, I was a
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church man so much I was actually looking as there's
got to be an alternative to this, you know. I
want you know, I was a little kid even I
was thinking at one point, maybe I ought to look
into Hell because there's got to be something cooler than
this going on every day. It had got that crazy
for me. But the balance between those two people created
who I am today. And I want you to understand
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that the things that you are in your past have
helped create who you are today. If you view it
the right way, everything that has happened to you in
your past has happened to you for a reason, and
it's usual for the good if you view it that way.
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But if you, on the other hand, are a type
of person who can't move forward because you are allowing
your past to stop you from having your future, then you,
my friend, are doing a disservice to your life. You
are not honoring God's blessings. You are not taking advantage
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of the gain, knowledge, wisdom, and experience of your life. Example,
if you are a woman and you are always talking
about a former relationship, what he did to me. If
he had not did this to me, I wouldn't be
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in this place today. I thought I had a man.
Now I ain't got no man ah llah lah lah
la lah if I you know, he came along and
I was doing just swell. He just came in and
he just lied to me. He lied to me, nod.
He did this to me, then he cheated, then he left.
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All of that that you're saying can very well be true.
Have you thought that maybe maybe somewhere in God's infinite wisdom,
that he knew that you had made a mistake in
picking him anyway? Maybe he knew you had made a
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mistake in saying yes or I do to him anyway,
or come on, move in?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
And so what he did was.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Based on your decision now to say yes, I do,
or come on, let's move in together.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
That was your decision. You ain't go to him about
this one.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
You made this decision based on that decision, and all
the negative things that started happening. He allowed you to
get away from it. Now how you got away from it,
It's always not the choice of ours. See, you stuck
on the fact that he left, that he walked out.
But let me share this with you. When he was there,
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How good was he to you? How good was he
for you? See, you got to stare at you got
to look at the blessing. The blessing is. Now you
are on your own. Now you walk in your house.
Ain't nobody in there with a disruptive spirit.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Now you go home. You could take your clothes off,
walk around like you want to.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Now you go home, you can sit down and look
at TV or catch your breath if you want to.
Your kids don't have to see y'all arguing all the time.
Have you looked at the blessing in it? But now
if you gonna keep looking at the negative, then guess what.
Now you can't move forward because you keep allowing your
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past to keep you from moving forward. If God has
brought you through it, why don't you move on from it? Look,
you got through it, He gone, he ain't coming back.
He got somebody else. So you gonna sit there and
just keep tripping couts. He gone and he got somebody else. Hey,
pick yourself up. Thank God for the blessing. It didn't
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feel like a blessing. Why you was going through it,
and all the pain of him leaving and the divorce
and all that messed you up? Got it when you
get through it, all of that. You ain't the first
one being left. You ain't the first one being divorced.
You ain't the first one been in a bad relationship.
Pick yourself up, thank God for the blessing, and move
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forward in your life, because maybe when you quit complaining,
maybe you'll find out that God has something in store
for you that he wants you to have, but he
can't give it to you if you ain't grateful. So
God gives you a blessing, but because you don't see
it as a blessing, you ain't grateful for it. Now,
guess what, You steady asking God to do something for you,
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but you ain't thanking him for what he's done for you,
but you steady wanting him to do more.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
How does that work? How does that work?
Speaker 10 (09:20):
Man?
Speaker 4 (09:21):
That he should keep on giving you things when you
ain't even working with the stuff he done gave you,
and I don't know, And I'm just using that one example.
It could go for me and too, vice versa, and
so on and so forth. I'm just using that as
an example. Now, why I laid on that one so long?
You have to take that over.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
God, That's all just sweet.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
I ain't pointing fingers at nobody in nothing, because I've
been guilty on.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Both sides of the coin. Who am I?
Speaker 4 (09:48):
But I'm just sharing with you what I had to do.
I had to learn to stop allowing my past to
interfere with my future.
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You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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Ladies and gentlemen.
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I know you thought a song would follow, but I
decided no, And then again I changed my mind. When
you think of love, got to get it on your mind.
Come on, when you think of love, got to get
it on in your mind.
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When you think of.
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Love, god it get it on your mind.
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Come on? Now, why did I we do it up
in here.
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Like that?
Speaker 4 (10:47):
See how it was a fake move. It was kind
of count off then said I wasn't gonna do it,
did jump right.
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Back into it. I just thought of that, That's all
it was. It's like that in the words that said
you entertained it. It's just mad.
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Spats morning morning everybody.
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The King of Pranks, Nephew, Tommy, Yay yay.
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In the building.
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That sounds good. Sure right now?
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Now I got to.
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Know the taco. Yeah, I gotta do vegable.
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Today. Well, don't nobody. Won't that ship Taco sound crazy?
For about.
Speaker 9 (12:02):
You?
Speaker 1 (12:03):
I drug it out slowly, you know that early.
Speaker 9 (12:09):
Man.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah, you feeling all right though always you know.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
It's another exciting day, another opportunity God has given me.
I want to take full advantage of it. I want
to do the things is I can do to progress
myself forward and do some things that maybe can help
out in the future. Not worrying about the future, not
concerning myself with anything that's about to happen, but preparing
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to receive God's blessings, preparing to receive his unmerited favor
and any grace that would be shared, shared or headed
my way.
Speaker 2 (12:53):
I'm just open to it. You know, I've just decided
I stopped worrying, and it has changed my life.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
Man.
Speaker 4 (13:01):
When I stopped worrying because nothing I used to worry
about could I control? Right, and I stopped worrying. God
is going to take care of me as he always
so wonderfully has done. And I see no reason why
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he would not continue. If he's not going to continue
to take care of me, I'm not gonna wake up,
but I'm here.
Speaker 9 (13:30):
No.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Oh, he didn't done for you that he ain't pulling out? Sure,
all right, thank you for that. Steve coming up in
thirty ten minutes after the hour, We're going to run
that prank back with a nephew right after this. You're
listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. He had Shirley's strawberry. Looking
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You can find a beginner class near you at USA
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org slash try Fencing. It is time now for the
nephew to run that brank back. What you got for
his net? Your son didn't make the team, cat dog?
If you would.
Speaker 9 (14:38):
Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach miss Lydia Liticy mass call.
This is coach Watkins up at the up at the school.
How are you, hey, Coach Watkins?
Speaker 10 (14:47):
I'm fine?
Speaker 13 (14:48):
What can I do for you?
Speaker 9 (14:49):
Listen, We've had Maleik out for the last week and
a half. He's been coming to practice here at the
Junior High School and wanted to reach out and give
you a call about everything that's going on. Oh yeah, Well,
I know he's really excited.
Speaker 13 (15:03):
He can't wait to start the season.
Speaker 9 (15:05):
He's ready. Well, you know what, I'll be honest with you.
He's a great kid, and he's got a good heart,
and he's really really really trying and trying to produce
as much as possible.
Speaker 11 (15:17):
Well, you know, he loves the game and he's been
playing since he was a little kid.
Speaker 9 (15:21):
Yeah, yeah, you know, this is you know, this is
the seventh grade. This is the first time some of
these kids have played organized football, and this is the
first time playing school football. And it's a big it's
a big transition that if you've been playing little league
ball or pop Warner or whatever you want to call it.
It's a it's a big difference, in a big transition
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to go from one to the other. You understand, Yeah,
I do understand. But Malika's been working really hard, yes,
and he's ready. Well well, well, let me let me
say this. My main reason for calling you is letting
you know that league as of right now is not
going to be able to make the cut as far
as what you did. Well, he's not gonna be able
to make the cut as far as being on the
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team for this year. Now, I got a wait a minute.
Speaker 13 (16:07):
You said, wait, wait, you said that Malite is not
gonna be able to make the team.
Speaker 10 (16:13):
I said, it's not gonna.
Speaker 4 (16:14):
Make the team.
Speaker 9 (16:16):
He's a great kid. You know, he's a great you
know he's a great kid. But wait, man, now, he
didn't play proper warner and he was.
Speaker 13 (16:23):
A starting quarterback, so what are you talking about. He's
not gonna make the team this year.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
He was the best they had.
Speaker 9 (16:28):
Out on that squad. Okay, and you know what, I've
heard a lot about him. I heard he did a
great job.
Speaker 13 (16:33):
Heard about him. Wit a minute, Wait, man, have you
seen his got twenty touchdowns in the season.
Speaker 9 (16:39):
I understand what are the kids is out there doing that?
But you know what, but right now, we got a
lot of different kids that are coming into this particular school.
So you know, the competition has gone greater and greater
than what we could possibly understand.
Speaker 13 (16:51):
Wait a minute, When this is seventh grade, first of all,
everybody makes the team. Nobody gets cut in the first place.
You got an A team and a B team. So
you telling me my baby ain't made.
Speaker 9 (17:01):
None of them teams? Right right now, miss Lydia? Uh
you know? Uh? Like I said, Malika is a great kid.
I like him.
Speaker 10 (17:09):
I know what Milik is.
Speaker 13 (17:10):
I know that he's a great kid and he's a ballplayer.
Now I make sure that. So don't come telling me
that he's not good enough to make the cut on
this seventh grade team.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
Well, come telling me who is the quarterback? Who?
Speaker 13 (17:22):
Yeah, you tell me what's going on?
Speaker 9 (17:23):
Who is the quarterback? Well? Actually right now, my son
is the quarterback. Your son, well, I mean you know, yeah,
is actually the quarterback. He hasn't done any pop warn
or anything, but he really has what it takes to
be the never played.
Speaker 13 (17:41):
Football before, or he's never played organized football, but he's
going to be the quarterback for the seventh grade team.
Speaker 9 (17:49):
Is that what you're telling me? Well, yeah, my son
is actually a starting quarterback, but that.
Speaker 13 (17:54):
My son don't make the teach and my son scored
twenty touchdown twenty Is that what you're telling me?
Speaker 8 (18:01):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (18:01):
Hell no, I'm calling up to that school tomorrow. I
will be up there tomorrow. Let me explain something. I say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
no no.
Speaker 13 (18:12):
And I don't know what this is, this nepotism or
whatever you got going on around here, but hell no,
my son ain't Nathan what. Hell no, it's gonna be
smoking the city tomorrow when.
Speaker 9 (18:24):
I get up there, Miss Lydia. What I want to
say this is this, if your son would take a
year off, lord and try to get itself together and
get the fundamentals together together, a greater football player when
he gets to be headed to the eighth grade.
Speaker 13 (18:40):
It was the wrong This doll last year. What you
going about this? Fundamentals together? Your son ain't never even play?
Speaker 9 (18:46):
Well, you know what. I've worked with my son, you know,
And it's a little it's a little awkward for me
to try to talk about what my son has done.
Speaker 13 (18:54):
Yeah, from behalf you talk about because you don't know
what your son is done. Because ain't nobody ever seen
your son. You just got this dream, probably something that
you ain't dead. You want to live vicariously through him.
Speaker 9 (19:03):
Hell no, that's that's about it. I don't like in school.
I played in high school, and let me play this.
I'm trying to do the best that I can and
the best of my ability to make sure that everybody
gets a good and fair shot at what's going on.
Speaker 13 (19:17):
I said, well not, but but he don't get to play.
So what about I'm getting up here?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
I think don't get the players. Probably he doesn't even
gonna work out to be a better burgle. Turn that
to the mole mothers. That's some bull.
Speaker 1 (19:29):
I bet you.
Speaker 13 (19:29):
I guarantee you this my son to be starting this year.
I guarantee you this.
Speaker 9 (19:32):
You don't want none of that, Okay?
Speaker 7 (19:34):
Right now?
Speaker 9 (19:34):
All I can say is I need Malik to actually
bring his cliques back, because my son's gonna need him
to play in what.
Speaker 13 (19:43):
Fuck them?
Speaker 11 (19:44):
Cli.
Speaker 13 (19:44):
Your son ain't getting your son running down that field.
We're gonna work barefoot.
Speaker 10 (19:49):
He ain't get mine nothing.
Speaker 9 (19:51):
Man, from my records. Understanding is that the cliques actually
came a record.
Speaker 13 (19:55):
Look understand the one that told you that my son
can't fight your records. Thinking about your records. You your
mama and to day she bushed your man.
Speaker 9 (20:05):
I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth
with you. All I'm trying to say is this is
that maleigue at about to do? You?
Speaker 13 (20:12):
Start looking for a job, get your resume together.
Speaker 9 (20:14):
You know what, ma'am, I'm not gonna go back and
for I got one more thing I need to say
to you.
Speaker 13 (20:18):
Nothing that you You ain't got nothing else to say
to me. My son to be playing and I'll be
up there tomorrow.
Speaker 9 (20:25):
I have one more thing I need to say to you.
You listening.
Speaker 13 (20:27):
Only thing you need to tell me is who I
need to talk to tomorrow.
Speaker 11 (20:31):
Now.
Speaker 9 (20:31):
I'll let you know that as soon as I tell
you this, sore, you're listening.
Speaker 11 (20:34):
I'm listening.
Speaker 9 (20:35):
What this his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Your sister ain A got me to prank phone call you.
Speaker 10 (20:46):
What Hello, I'm gonna.
Speaker 7 (20:57):
Man.
Speaker 13 (20:58):
I thought I was really conible.
Speaker 9 (21:00):
You don't worry about school day? Oh man, I got
some ask What is the baddest and I mean the
baddest radio show in the lane.
Speaker 13 (21:18):
The Steve Harvey Loaded Show.
Speaker 10 (21:22):
Oh lord, all right, thank you nephew.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Coming up next, it is ask the clo or Chief
Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, it's
Shirley's strawberry. Looking for something new. Tri Fencing the Olympic
and Paralympic sport that mixes speed, strategy, and fun. It's
(21:49):
like chess meets cardio. Quick feet, quick decisions, and a
satisfying beep when you score a point. Kids, teens, and
adults can start any time, no variants necessary, and many
clubs have loner gear coaches teach fundamentals and safety from
day one. You can find a beginner class near you
at USA Fencing dot org, slash try Fencing. That USA
(22:13):
Fencing dot org slash Try Fencing. It is time to
ask the CLO. Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is
in the building. Quentin and Bakersfield says, I'm dating a
woman that is bestie's with her mom, and when we
go out, her mom comes to CLO. I don't mind
the mom coming, but she's got it going on and
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I'm becoming more attracted to her. Do I separate myself
from the two of them? Or do I focus more
on the mother and see where that could possibly go?
Speaker 2 (22:47):
Quentin?
Speaker 4 (22:49):
Quentin, yes, Quentin, Yeah, I cannot tell you. Hot Dog
and deep the holiest about to step yo dump.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Now mama has going on.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
I bet she do.
Speaker 4 (23:13):
Now, sir, I don't know how far you and this
daughter then went. I don't know how y'all met. I
don't know if y'all was set up. I don't know
if y'all been cuddling. I don't know if y'all and
went all the way. It don't sound like it. It
sounds like y'all just been hanging out and you trying
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to see.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
Where it goes. I understand what, Lord have mercy.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
I updated in my life a best friend that had
a woman who had a best friend that used to
come along and her friend was finer than her.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
So and the first day we had never done nothing.
We just went out on the date.
Speaker 4 (23:58):
The first day we went out, I drew the conclusion
that I would be much better off with her friend
than her I came at the first day.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
I knew that right way, first first day, just on sight.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
In my twenty some years, I came to the conclusion
that my life, future and all I.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
Hope for would be in better hands with her.
Speaker 1 (24:30):
Friend because, like the mom and this one, she had
it going on.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Boy did she.
Speaker 9 (24:37):
So.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
I sat there and made the switch in my mind.
Speaker 1 (24:42):
Okay, the problem I had.
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Quentin, is the problem you gonna have.
Speaker 4 (24:47):
You can make the switch in your mind, but how
do you get to switch out verbally? Verbage to use
to tell your original date that you are now feeling
her bestie? I have yet to come up with those words, Quentin,
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good luck, Steve.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Isn't this different? It's her mom. It's not just her
best friend, it's her best friend who happens to be
her mom.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
Surely I told you what would happen with just the
best friend.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (25:26):
I really don't know what to tell you about this
girl's mom.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Yeah, this is something right now, This is really something
you gotta stop.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
It ain't nothing, he could say, you know, there's nothing.
Speaker 1 (25:40):
You're right all right. Moving on to JJ in Southfield,
JJ says, last night I heard rumbling in my backyard,
so I opened the curtains. My neighbor and a woman
were back there having sex. The next day he called
to thank me for not scaring the woman off, and
he said it won't happen again. His wife is my
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wife's cousin. I know man code, but do I break
code if it involves family?
Speaker 4 (26:07):
No, you can't break man code. Family, your wife's cousin.
They ain't even close. Oh that ain't your brother, cuse
you really don't even know them people. Man, Come on now,
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my mama's sister's kids. What what y'all live out of
state in Alledge. No, man, whatever, now, dog, you can't
break man code on that, okay. And he even he
realized you saw him and thanked.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
You and said, it won't happen again, not in your backyard.
Speaker 2 (26:52):
That's what that's what he said.
Speaker 7 (26:54):
What mean?
Speaker 4 (26:54):
Yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no, that's what he said.
It won't happen again. You didn't hear on the his breath,
it won't happen again, right, and that's what that mean?
Speaker 10 (27:06):
All right?
Speaker 1 (27:07):
Harper and Talladega says, I'm thirty and I'm dating a
black man that is a mama's boy. If the food
doesn't taste like it's mama's food, then he won't eat it.
He highly offended my pastor's wife last week by telling
her that she didn't cook her lime of beans long enough.
We're about to get engaged, should I think twice before
marrying him?
Speaker 4 (27:28):
Well, now I'm gonna be real, which it's hard to
chew down on some tough line. I'm just gonna get
real with you, do.
Speaker 9 (27:34):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (27:35):
Because they already starchy, you know, and that's like that,
that's like undercooked coin. You know, them starting foods. You
got to cook them through and through. I'd rather have
a soft lime of bean than a crunchy line of bean.
These ain't snap peas. Now, you got to know your grocery.
And I love you know, And if you're gonna be
country and we're gonna get married, you can't be in
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here undercooking these limee of bean. And the pastor wife better, Yeah,
hell you and a Harry foe. You should have just
left them own and came to church, cut them on
low and leave them in there on simmer in the
crack five and then call home and tell somebody ain't
there is somebody that don't go to church go up
there and turn them beans off.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
But you gotta say it like that. That's how they
always go in there and turn them beans off.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
Somebo they run over, You know how they go because
somebody at that street, in their apartment across the street,
got the kid your house because you made friends with them.
Y'all had your own little watch committee, and you know,
to send them over to the house cause they don't
never go to church and turn them beans off.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
I got a question lady that wrote the letter, is
she white? Because she says some dating black man man see?
Speaker 2 (28:51):
And now that I kind of thought that too.
Speaker 4 (28:53):
I wouldn't gonna say that because I try to stay
out of hild when I came as. You don't give
it from here I go. You know, y'all always running
stuff under hot water. Anyway, You got the ball and
blind of beans and your pastor's wife don't know how
to cook. And I don't blame it black for saying
nothing about it, because I'm not gonna be coming over
here these little white dinners, and y'all under cooking these
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vegetables and running these hot water across these green beans
and slicing up these almonds on them. I'm not coming
over here for this. And stop putting these marshmallows on
top of these jam Who talked y'all to do that?
And we like dressing and dressing and stovetop is two
different things, entirely coming to the White Church.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
No more, thank you for yellow. You're listening Steve Harvey
Morning Show. Here's a question for us. Uh, listen to this.
What has your boss done to help you live your dream?
Speaker 2 (29:55):
What y'all don't talk about? Let me go and sit back.
Speaker 8 (30:00):
Listen.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
We're always helping our boss.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Take it away, crew, We're always helping our company. That
ain't a question about, no you helping me? Question is
what is your boss done to help you live your dream?
Speaker 1 (30:12):
Can get way? Can I set it up?
Speaker 14 (30:14):
Please?
Speaker 7 (30:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:15):
Oh, hear about all that old other self call we
do this and that. That ain't what the question is.
Speaker 1 (30:20):
Yeah, but you know we got to set it up,
all right. So you know we're always helping our bosses.
We help our companies often we do extra work then
get left in the dust when our companies have bigger opportunities.
But some of us have great bosses. Okay, trying to
get to this part, Steve, some of us have great bosses. Uh,
time for us to share with Steve, our boss, what
(30:42):
he did for us to help us live our dream.
Wants to go. I think Junior wants to what they
got to live.
Speaker 15 (30:48):
Let me just say about my boss will live my dream.
First thing my boss did will give me jobs? Yeah,
first of all, let's just look at the jobs, little
big shot. Yeah, Apollo, Steve TV and this hip morning Shoot.
Now what else do I have to thank him for? Yeah,
(31:10):
I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good.
Speaker 14 (31:12):
You're good.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
Yeah, that's good, Junior. That's the come up, right, Yes? Yeah,
all right? The question is what is your boss done
to help you live your dreams? Go ahead, Carla, are
you still writing your list down?
Speaker 14 (31:27):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (31:27):
Huh yeah?
Speaker 9 (31:28):
Let me.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
Tom He don't even know what.
Speaker 1 (31:34):
No, Tommy's going last because.
Speaker 2 (31:36):
He's your nephew.
Speaker 1 (31:38):
He's going take time I can talk for. No, he's
gonna go last because you're his uncle. Sure is going Yeah, okay,
I'm going.
Speaker 12 (31:49):
So the first thing you've done is allow me to
continue being an executive manager in radio for over twenty something.
You think I am the only black African American woman
to be running a syndicated show in this country. Right,
(32:14):
that's thanks to you. Let's see what else. And you
encourage me to launch my own lip glass, my own
lip glass line.
Speaker 1 (32:22):
So thank you very much.
Speaker 12 (32:24):
Entrepreneurial, ownership, cosmetic or guru, whatever you want to say.
Speaker 1 (32:29):
So thank you, Steve. That's awesome. All right, here's the question.
What has your boss done to help you live your dreams?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
All right? My turn?
Speaker 1 (32:39):
All right? First of all, First of all, Steve has
made me laugh more than I've ever laughed in my
entire life, which is a great thing. I mean it
just yeah, we're trying to give you love here. You've
made me laugh, really laugh. Okay. Here's the other thing
you've done for me. You've taught me because I didn't
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know this before I met you. You taught me about
men and how men think and all of this kind
of thing. Okay, you taught me about that. I didn't
know that at first. I didn't have a dad. I
didn't really have you know, like a lot of male
role models in my life. So you became that for me.
So you became like a father, brother uncle to me
(33:21):
as well, all right, and that yeah, you made me.
You allowed me to help you write on your most
successful book, your first time out, you know, I mean
really you gave me credit for that, you paid me
for that. That was awesome, and you keep me employed
every day. So thank you very much, sir. We are
answering the question, what has your boss done to help
(33:43):
you live your dreams? Nephew, Tommy, you.
Speaker 3 (33:57):
Uncle don't have to leave you.
Speaker 1 (34:02):
Now.
Speaker 14 (34:03):
He has motivated me, and it's just certain lines that
he has said to me directly that has just motivated
me to follow my dread. Uh cussed me completely high.
That that motivates me. Told me I was a worldless
Yeah I was. Okay, that's so motivational. Uh, I would
(34:27):
be told me I would be nothing without him. Motivate Honey,
just told me yesterday I was stupid and unintelligent.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
He said, stop him when he lies, let him.
Speaker 1 (34:44):
Motivated me. Motivated me to follow my dream uh my
raggedy career.
Speaker 14 (34:50):
Yeah yeah, yeah, motivation Uh quit being a one job
having sorry person. Yes, motivated me to follow my old
hug now and then he motivates me even more when
he describes how I look shout how ug lads man
(35:14):
right there, very strang It just motivates to.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
Keep you ground.
Speaker 1 (35:19):
Don't forget turtle Tommy.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
Yeah, I left the turtle line. I looked like the
watch commercial.
Speaker 14 (35:26):
But that motivated all of these motivational lines that I've
got you something to follow my dream?
Speaker 1 (35:32):
What this is your response to the question, what is
your boss done to help you live your dreams? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
that's it right, there's a right I have been cussed
into my dream. Let me see how you feel you feel?
Speaker 2 (35:47):
See, you know some of the stuff I have forgotten.
Speaker 4 (35:51):
I appreciate y'all remembering it, but you know, I do
have a strange way of motivating that time. But I
am in the uplift business. It just aggravates me when
the person I'm trying to uplift don't want to be
lifted up.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
Yeah, then I turn on them get lifted, you know.
Speaker 4 (36:09):
And but you all have turned out to be wonderful
people and wasn't because of me. But if I could
have been any part of your success, I say, you're welcome,
But it wasn't cause of me.
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Speaker 1 (37:05):
Time Now, guys, but would you rather? Would you rather
be captured by pirates or cowboys? You know those Old
West bad guys. Pirates are Old West bad guys.
Speaker 2 (37:18):
I'm gonna go with the Old West bad because I'm
out on that water.
Speaker 4 (37:21):
I can't jump off now, so I'm forever your captive
because I cannot jump in.
Speaker 1 (37:27):
I am the captain.
Speaker 12 (37:28):
Now.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
I'm gonna leaves, run behind a cactus or something.
Speaker 4 (37:33):
Got a shot, I'm gonna I'm gonna break out, running
to the hills something.
Speaker 2 (37:37):
But you on that ship, your gots to sit there.
Speaker 1 (37:40):
Yeah, yeah, all right. Would you rather get cheated on
and know about it or not get cheated on and
just always be suspicious?
Speaker 2 (37:51):
I just take the suspicion. I don't give it that
going to thee but knowing you cheated.
Speaker 1 (38:03):
And still be there. No, that's not gonna work.
Speaker 3 (38:07):
Your third doctors appointment this week?
Speaker 6 (38:08):
You know that?
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Analyze You can't go.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
To the grocery st to the doctor while you buy
a damn ice street who else like that place?
Speaker 3 (38:24):
Just be suspicious on her?
Speaker 4 (38:28):
Should it would be a little stuff? Oh oh, old
black panty holes?
Speaker 1 (38:36):
What you ain't been wearing?
Speaker 2 (38:41):
Black panty holes? Okay?
Speaker 5 (38:45):
All right?
Speaker 2 (38:46):
Hey, hey, what does your ba even fall? I'm just
taking a bath for what?
Speaker 1 (38:56):
Yeah, i'd be suspicious? Yeah, all right, are you quite done?
Speaker 9 (39:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (39:03):
All right?
Speaker 1 (39:04):
Would you rather have fortune or fame? That's easy? Fortune today,
let's ask the most famous person. That's easy.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 4 (39:18):
If I could find a way to make this money
and nobody everybody leave me alone?
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Yeah, heartbeat, that's.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Right, No, that's right, all right. Would you rather be
a clown in a rodeo who distracts the bull or
would you rather be the cowboy who rides the bull.
Speaker 4 (39:46):
Yeah, I'm gonna be the clown and you bet not
fall off of it when I'm out there ready to
get the roll and get your arena. Come on, dog,
come out out hey, But I don't be nowhere near it.
Speaker 1 (40:03):
Bull, do that shout again.
Speaker 6 (40:05):
I like cowboy, just didn't this crazy?
Speaker 1 (40:15):
Get out for him, Get out for him? All right,
we gotta go Yo.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
This is Jamie Foxx.
Speaker 3 (40:20):
This is Kim Whiley.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
You already know what it is, Maag.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
You're match go bean and you are now listening to
the Steve Horvey Morning Show. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
All right, Steve, it's time to check your voicemail. If
you want to leave Steve avoicemail, call him eight seven
seven twenty nine. Steve eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,
(40:43):
let's go to the first caller. Her name is Michelle.
She's from Greenville, Mississippi. Tay, Steve.
Speaker 11 (40:48):
My name is Michelle. I'm from Greenville, Mississippi. I was
driving and listening to your closing remarks and it almost
brought me to tears. I had this exact same conversation
you're closing remarks mentioned with my son yesterday and I
googled him, and I hope it's somewhere online that he
can actually listen to let him know it's just not
me talking that it is true statements that are from
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people you don't even know in person. But I thank
you for that, and I pray that my son listens
to that message, because Steve, he is so lost. He's
only twenty two, and I believe I'm about to lose
my child.
Speaker 2 (41:22):
But thank you so very muche.
Speaker 9 (41:25):
Thank you.
Speaker 12 (41:25):
I believe you're talking about the one where Pastor Will
the one that we played the phone call the other
day and you followed up with that talking about God,
and it was very moving what you were saying, So
I believe this is what Miss Michelle from Mississippi was
referring to.
Speaker 4 (41:41):
Well, thanks, but keep praying for your son though he
ain't totally lost, don't ever give up on prayer.
Speaker 2 (41:47):
Prayer change his thing, Prayer, change people too.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
That's right, all right, Steve. As we move on, this
caller needs some relationship advice about trusting a cheating husband.
Speaker 9 (42:00):
Okay, Steeve, hope us for some information and advice from you.
Speaker 12 (42:05):
I was a victim of infidelity.
Speaker 10 (42:08):
I'm not going to say a victim.
Speaker 9 (42:09):
I'm going to say my husband he did on me.
Speaker 1 (42:12):
I'll just say that.
Speaker 11 (42:14):
And it's been several years.
Speaker 1 (42:17):
And I decided to stay and we're working it out,
but I just don't trust them. Can you give me
some advice on how I can start trusting my husband again.
I really love them, I want us to stay together,
but I just I just don't trust them, and I
really want to thank you.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
Well.
Speaker 4 (42:36):
I don't know the exact answer to that, to be
honest with you, because there's so many particulars when you
get into things like this. But one thing is if
your husband's behavior has changed, then it could mean as
it's been a change in him. Now, if you're going
to hang on to these feelings that you have nothing
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I or anybody else can do, because if you're gonna
stay in that feeling for whatever the reason, now, you
may be very legitimizing that feeling now because that maybe
you're seeing a reoccurring pattern which causing you not to
fully trust again, or maybe your intuition is telling you
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something is still happening even though you see a little
bit of change.
Speaker 2 (43:25):
See, I don't know what that is, so I really
can't advise you on this.
Speaker 4 (43:31):
But you cannot live your life in an untrusting atmosphere.
Speaker 2 (43:37):
You just can't.
Speaker 4 (43:39):
That's hard to do for anybody, to keep walking in
a door into a home.
Speaker 2 (43:48):
That's not a peaceful existence for you.
Speaker 4 (43:51):
And I got you wanted to work, But you got
to ask yourself a couple of questions.
Speaker 2 (43:57):
Is this my soul mate?
Speaker 4 (43:59):
It's because you gotta ask yourself that am I staying
in this simply because I've been in it? Because a
lot of people don't want to leave a relationship because
the time they have invested.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
In it, right, And then always ask people the same.
Speaker 4 (44:13):
Questions, Well, I've been with him eight years and if
I just leave, it'll all be for nothing. Well, let
men ask you this question. Do you want eight more
years of the previous eight years? You got to ask
that question too, Yes, women, I can't yeah that time? Yeah, yeah,
you hang on to that time instead of hanging on
to what you want or what you deserve.
Speaker 1 (44:35):
But on the other side of that, Steve, with just
a few seconds left, if he has cheated, can he
change his ways? Absolutely? Women?
Speaker 4 (44:46):
Have you all up spreading bad information? Once a cheata,
always a cheata. That's not true. People change and get
it right all the time. Once a thief don't make
you always a thief.
Speaker 1 (44:59):
Okay, all right, I just wanted you to point that out.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
A hold on real quick, like that dude on TikTok's head.
Speaker 4 (45:08):
Just because I cheated one time, I'm a cheater if
I cut your hat one time in my ball Yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
All right, now, all right, okay, all right?
Speaker 1 (45:23):
Coming up next our prank phone call for today. Right
after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
All right, coming up at about four minutes after the hour,
it's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is
get this my brother's ex wife on the car. We
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don't know what that means on the car, but we're
gonna find out.
Speaker 11 (45:50):
On the car.
Speaker 1 (45:53):
The car. I've been in the car, but not on
the car I've been on. But that's so uncomfortable, really,
it is.
Speaker 8 (46:10):
Clear.
Speaker 1 (46:15):
All right, we'll get into that in just a bit.
Right now, it is time for the nephew and the
prank phone call. What you got for his neph What
you got that? Right here is I left my ring.
I left my ring.
Speaker 2 (46:31):
I left.
Speaker 1 (46:34):
All right, let's go get dog. I left my wreck.
Speaker 9 (46:39):
Hello, I'm trying to reach a mister, mister and missus
please all right, my name is doctor. I'm actually trying
to reach your husband, Clarence. Is he Is he available?
Speaker 10 (46:52):
Is that reason you'll collin?
Speaker 9 (46:54):
Well, I'm actually the surgeon that actually did the procedure
on removing his gallstones. I was doing as any complications as.
Speaker 10 (47:01):
Far more complication.
Speaker 9 (47:05):
Okay, well listen, there's a couple little bit of things
I want to discuss with you guys and see if
we can maybe get em rectified. Is he around? Oh?
Speaker 13 (47:17):
What is this in racks?
Speaker 9 (47:19):
To actually actually, when we actually did the procedure on
your on your husband and removing the gallstones, I will
say that there's a bit of a mistake made and
I'm hoping that he can come back in so we
can kind of get it rectified. You know, it'll be
actually thirty minutes and he'll be in and out. But actually,
when I removed the gallstones, and I'm very embarrassed to
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say this, I actually left my wedding ring inside your husbins.
And I understand man, I say I actually left my
wedding ring inside your husband when I actually removed the gallstones.
And I'm hoping that he'll come back in so I
can actually take it out and and he'll be on
his way.
Speaker 10 (48:00):
He's my boy.
Speaker 1 (48:01):
The Last Book.
Speaker 9 (48:17):
Hello, Hello, Hello, mister. Yeah, how you doing this is doctor?
I actually did the surgery on you when you were
came in and got your golfstones removed. I remember you that.
I will say this, missus Clarence. I actually made a
bit of a mistake when you were here, and and
my apology. If I can actually get you to come
back here, man, I can get you taken care of.
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But and then this is just a big mistake on
my part. But when you guys came in and I
removed your stones, I actually left my wedding ring inside
inside of me. Yeah, yes, sir, your wedding ring. Sir.
I know this is crazy, but yes, I have truly
made a mistake and wanted to see if I can
get this thing rectified and get this thing taken out.
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And I tell you, man, I've I've been without my
ring and my wife is raising holy hell about it. Yeah,
but you know something about it. We got a problem
with what do you mean? I mean, I'm about to
go back to work. I really can't be going back
into the operating room for somebody to take a ring
out of me that they left by mistake.
Speaker 10 (49:16):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (49:18):
Okay, I mean you know, I realized your wife.
Speaker 10 (49:21):
Might be upsetting. You need your ring.
Speaker 9 (49:23):
But at this point that ring's gonna have to stay
where it is for a while. So I can't ironically
can't allow what that ring to stay there another two
or three days. I don't think you understand exactly what
I'm going through. There's no way I can allow that. Yeah,
I got to go back to work. But you know something,
I mean, you know, I mean, you know we're talking
about a bad, bad, serious problem. You know, we're talking
about malpractice. I mean, you know we're talking about me
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taking out more time from work when I'm ready.
Speaker 10 (49:46):
To go back.
Speaker 9 (49:47):
I mean, you know we're talking law suit, all kinds
of stuff here. We need to get together. Can you
hear me that? No? Oh, okay, my wife's a upset
to a I mean, you know I can't get back
on an operating team. Cirt. This won't take the seconds
it's actually for me to snip that thing and get
that ring out of there. It won't take but a minute.
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I mean, you still have the same incisions there. I
can go right back into where the same scar was
and take that out and keep.
Speaker 1 (50:14):
It moving on.
Speaker 9 (50:15):
Go back into the same if you're going to operate again,
if you cut me, oh sir, I promise you that
you won't even know I was there. I'll go in
there and take that ring out just that quickly.
Speaker 2 (50:24):
Okay, But.
Speaker 9 (50:26):
Let me ask you this, ye my wife, My wife
is about to go crazy. I'm pretty I'm a pretty
good guy here, but I mean, you know you got
lefpar ring in me. I mean, you know, do you
all have mal practice in shirtance? And we have plenty
of insurance. You know, It's really more about what I'm
going through at home. So I'm doing this, but young, yeah,
pretty much here at this point, I mean, no one
actually from the hospital actually knows what I'm actually calling you. Wow, right,
(50:49):
you know. I mean that's a big, big problem. You
said something about malpractic now, I didn't say anything about
mail practice. You guys actually said that. I didn't say anything. Okay,
now let me okay, hold on now, darsh hold on.
Uh well, now, let me ask you. This's here. Every
time I've heard of somebody leaving something inside of somebody.
You know, it usually end up being a situation where
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it sets up infections or stuff. Well, that's eighteen carre go.
That's not gonna infect you at all. Yeah, I understand
what you're saying, but good grief. I mean, I just
I mean, I didn't even want to do the first surgery,
but I didn't have any choice. You know what, miss,
I'll be honest with you. I've tried to talk to
you and be patient with you. If I got to
come over and put some cold form up against your
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nose and knock you out in order to perform this
procedure to get my ring, then that's what I gotta do.
Speaker 10 (51:37):
Oh ho, hold on that. That what I'm supposed to
be doing while you're doing that.
Speaker 9 (51:41):
You hear that what he said?
Speaker 7 (51:43):
Woa, come along, Come on.
Speaker 10 (51:46):
You know I'm not gonna stand for these threats.
Speaker 8 (51:48):
Died.
Speaker 10 (51:49):
You know that's your problem with your ring.
Speaker 12 (51:51):
Now.
Speaker 9 (51:51):
You know, up until now everything was cool. Now you
got a big problem. I tell you it's here.
Speaker 10 (51:57):
I'm at home right now.
Speaker 9 (51:59):
You're at home with my ring.
Speaker 10 (52:00):
You got my ring? You can come getting right now?
Speaker 9 (52:04):
Right? No, okay, now, I don't I don't have a
problem coming right over there to get my ring because
I want I need my ring back.
Speaker 10 (52:11):
Let's do it. Come on over wan, we got something
for you down Hey, listen, I don't care what the
both of you are doing.
Speaker 9 (52:18):
The bottom behind INSI that you have my ring. I
got your ring.
Speaker 7 (52:22):
You just told me I had it.
Speaker 10 (52:23):
It's inside of it. Well that's gonna stay, sir.
Speaker 9 (52:26):
I'm not gonna continue to go back and forth with you.
Speaker 10 (52:28):
You're not gonna continue to do anything because you come
over Here'm gonna take you out. You already threatened to
come over here and.
Speaker 9 (52:33):
Put plural from him and know knocking me out to
go in the side of my body to come over here.
Speaker 10 (52:38):
Doc, you got pwer.
Speaker 9 (52:39):
I'll tell you what. I don't want any problems out
of your wife or out of you who's waking us.
Only gonna take thirty minutes and everybody'll be happy after that.
Speaker 10 (52:47):
You won't make it back.
Speaker 13 (52:49):
Got cram down.
Speaker 9 (52:49):
I understand everything you say. I got one more thing
I need to say to the both of you all.
Are you listen to me? I'm listening. It's Doris listening. No,
not really, cause I'm already tune you out. Here's the
last thing I need to say to you. This is
nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Y'all just
got pranked by y'all niece Peaches.
Speaker 10 (53:10):
What you would have all be? Nephew, Timmy, nephew, tell
me that you This is me. Man up next, you
tell me, nephew, Yeah, I got your land.
Speaker 9 (53:26):
You at my home. Man, you're messing with my heart
top that might have run back inside of my body.
All right, let me let me let me speak to
miss Darry. Whoa miss does you?
Speaker 10 (53:37):
All right?
Speaker 9 (53:40):
Hey, miss dar? I got one more thing. Now. What
is the baddest radio show in the land? Man show?
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But then he said, hold on the doors, hold on
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your letter hop hop live on the air, just like
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never know, this one could be yours. Okay never No,
buckle up and hold on tight. We got it.
Speaker 2 (55:56):
Point you here.
Speaker 1 (55:57):
It is Strawberry Letter thank you for you subjects. My
brother's ex wife on the car got it all right,
Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been separated for three months and
I'm getting divorced. My husband and I had a very
happy marriage until three months ago. He was a family man,
and he's allowed two of my younger siblings to live
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with us in the past. My youngest brother is twenty eight,
and he rushed into marriage after he got a woman pregnant.
It was obvious that his wife was not the marrying type.
She's twenty five and all she does is smoke weed
and drink. One night, she went home drunk and tried
to fight my brother, so he put her out and
divorced her a few months later. She resurfaced three months
(56:41):
ago asking if she could stay with my husband and
I while she looked for a job close to the
baby's daycare. We agreed to one week. This girl ate
our food and used my car and never said thank you.
My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he
avoided her. That's a lie. Just five days after she
got to our house, she ruined my life. She was
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out smoking wheed on the patio and my husband was gone.
Around nine pm, I heard noises coming from the carport,
so I went to see if it was my husband.
It was him and my brother's wife, who had her
bent over his car, and when they heard me, they
started pulling up their pants. I told them both to leave.
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I was so shocked. I was so shocked that she
would do that to me. My husband moved out and
served me with divorce papers. Recently, he said it is
all his fault and he could never look me in
the eyes after what he did. Now, my only problem
is that my brother wants his family back together and
he wants to remarry his ex wife. How can he
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want her back. I've lost my husband, and if my
brother remarries this woman, I won't ever speak to him again.
Would I be wrong to cut my little brother off?
You know what I got to tell you. You have
every right to handle this situation however you see fit.
I clearly understand why you're angry. I understand why you
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feel betrayed by your brother, by his ex wife, by
all of this situation, but him getting ready to remarry
this weed smoking trifle and Heffert who broke up your marriage. Wow,
that's a lot. That's a lot. So handle it however
you need to handle it. I mean, you're thinking, how
could he.
Speaker 2 (58:27):
Do this to you?
Speaker 9 (58:28):
I get it.
Speaker 1 (58:29):
Either he's still in love with her or has forgiven
her for having sex with his brother in law, your husband,
which I don't know how he could, or he's just
whipped and just stupid. I mean, I don't know, but
some of the blame for all this has to go
to you and your husband for letting her come back.
You knew what kind of person she was. Letting her
come back to live with you is crazy because you
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just knew how she caused the breakup of her own marriage.
Then you double back and invite the devil in your
house again after your brother divorced her. Why would you
do that? Her coming back to live with you should
have never happened at that point. I'm sure your brother
felt some kind of way about you think about it,
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but I don't know what the damage is done now.
So there's enough hurt and pain to go around for
everyone in this entire family. So no, I definitely get
it if you're mad at your little brother for taking
her back, but at some point you're gonna have to
forgive him so you can move on. That's his life.
Speaker 9 (59:26):
You know.
Speaker 1 (59:27):
Your husband, on the other hand, cannot look you in
the eye because he knows what he did to cause
all of this. I'm glad that nowhere in this letter
did you say you were taking him back because what
he did was just foul.
Speaker 4 (59:40):
Steve, I see what's happening in the letter. My brother's
ex wife on the car hit The problem. The real
problem in all of this is your husband. This is
your real problem. You ain't married to your brother. You
didn't marry his skank ex wife. You're married to your husband.
(01:00:06):
On the person that owes you their loyalty in this letter,
that owes you and promised it to you was your husband.
It ain't enough in this letter about your husband. You
keep talking about bringing up this girl and man and
how could she do this to me and your brother?
Speaker 2 (01:00:24):
And if he should I cut him off, if he remarried?
Speaker 9 (01:00:27):
What?
Speaker 4 (01:00:27):
What you need to get your priorities lined up here?
Your real problem is your husband. He the only one
took a vow to you, Your brother, stupid, the girl trash.
What you expect from stupidity? And what do you expect
(01:00:48):
from trash? Stupid people are going to do stupid things.
Trash type. People are gonna do trash thing. The only
decent and see your husband got in him is he? No,
he can't look you in that because of what he did.
Speaker 7 (01:01:07):
He know that.
Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
All right, let me try to walk you through the
hignas right here. It's really nothing to do. I'm separated
for three months. I'm getting divorced. Your husband and I
we had a very happy marriage to three months ago.
He was a family member. He allowed two of my
younger siblings to live with us in the past, my
youngest brother twenty eight. He rushed into Marria, got a
woman pregnant. Obvious wife wasn't to marry and type. She
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twenty five. All she do is smoke wheat and drink.
One night she went home drunk and tried to fight
my brothers. So he put out and divorced her a
few months later. Now he is a part where Shirley.
I understand. She resurfered three months ago asking if she
could stay with my husband, and I watched she looked
for a job close to the baby's daycare.
Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
We agreed.
Speaker 4 (01:01:50):
The one week I understood that that's okay. That wasn't
inviting the devil back in. That was just your husband
has proven he's a family man. But Gee's really really
a family man. Ah See, the problem is your hub.
Speaker 1 (01:02:08):
All that thought, Steve. Okay, we'll be back with part
two of your response, coming up at twenty three minutes
after today's Strawberry letter subject my brother's ex wife.
Speaker 8 (01:02:17):
On the car.
Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
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Speaker 1 (01:02:59):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,
the subject to my brother's ex wife on the car.
Speaker 4 (01:03:05):
Listen to me this whole thing, lady, this letter, about
this woman, about your brother, whether you should accept your
brother back, How could she do this to me? All
of this your focus should be purely on your hooks. Now,
some ramifications and some fallout behind it. But your husband
bought all this. See you said in your letter you
(01:03:27):
and your husband had a really happy marriage. He was
a family man. He allowed two of my younger siblings
to live with us. My youngest brother, twenty eight, rushed
into married. He got a girl pregnant. Obviously, she wasn't
a man type. She twenty five. All she do is
smoke weed and drink. One night she went home drunk
and tried to fight my brother, so he put out
and divorced her a few months later. You're not divorcing
(01:03:51):
a woman because she came home drunk and tried to
fight you.
Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
It's way more to this today, way way more to
this than that, yo.
Speaker 4 (01:04:03):
But see, your brother stupid, So he ain't smart enough
to divorce you just because you came home drunk and
wanted to fight him.
Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
No no, no, no, no no no no no.
Speaker 4 (01:04:14):
Something happened while she was out that caused the fight
that made him put out, that made him want to divorce.
Speaker 2 (01:04:23):
All right.
Speaker 4 (01:04:24):
She resurfaced three months ago, ask him she could stay
with my husband and while I was living and with
our while while she looked poor job close to the
baby's takers. We agreed to one week. That's being nicer.
Speaker 2 (01:04:35):
Father.
Speaker 4 (01:04:35):
You just said that your husband is a family man,
and he allowed two of your longer, younger siblings live
with y'all.
Speaker 2 (01:04:42):
You said that this girl ate our food, used my card,
never said thank you.
Speaker 4 (01:04:49):
You just said she smoked weed and drink all day.
She ain't got time to say thank you. It's hard
to say thank you. Why are you smoking weed?
Speaker 2 (01:05:01):
Yeah? Yeah, hell, you can't remember her manners and stuff
over you.
Speaker 4 (01:05:06):
My husband claimed he didn't like her attitude, so he
avoided her.
Speaker 1 (01:05:11):
That's a lie.
Speaker 2 (01:05:12):
Five days after she got to our house, she ruined
my life. Oh dish.
Speaker 4 (01:05:17):
She was out smoking weed on the patio or my
husband was gone. Around nine pm, I heard noises from
the car port, so I went to see if it
was my husband, and it was and my brother's wife.
He had her bent over his car, and when they
heard me, they started pulling up.
Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
They pass. I told them both to leave. That's a
lot of stuff missing in this letter right here.
Speaker 4 (01:05:38):
Oh lord, oh lord, girl, See anyway, let's just leave
that alone. I was so shocked that she would do
that to me. You were so shocked that she would
do that to you, But do that to you? You
shocked at her? Your sentence was he had her bent
(01:05:58):
over his car, He had her been over his car.
Speaker 2 (01:06:05):
Your next line is, I was so shocked she would
do that to me.
Speaker 4 (01:06:10):
You didn't. You forgot about the last statement you made. Anyway,
my husband moved out and served me with divorce papers.
Speaker 1 (01:06:19):
Reason.
Speaker 4 (01:06:20):
He said it was all his fault and he could
never look me in the eye after what he did. Okay, cool,
Now my only problem here we go?
Speaker 2 (01:06:27):
Here we go now.
Speaker 4 (01:06:29):
My only problem is that my brother wants his family
back together and he wants to remarry his ex wife.
How that's your problem. You got your priorities wrong. Your
marriage is gone. The problem ain't your your brother stupid?
We done talked about this. He's stupid. He wants to
(01:06:51):
remarry his ex wife. How can he want her back.
Speaker 2 (01:06:56):
Because he's stupid.
Speaker 4 (01:06:59):
And I lost my husband and if my brother remarries
this woman, I don't ever want to speak to him again.
That's the decision you're making. Would I be wrong to
cut my brother? Cut your brother off? You cut your
husband off? He's stupid? My question is he want her back?
What is she doing to these means? Lord kidding Dad?
Speaker 2 (01:07:24):
Is the question for me?
Speaker 4 (01:07:26):
What is this alcoholic, weed smoking woman doing to these
men that make him in the cop hope and your
wife right there in the house. What is she doing
that make your brother want her back? After your brother no,
(01:07:51):
he been with she been with your ex husband and
he wanted to remarry her. What is she doing doing
some things? And I'm just gonna have to be honest
with y'all. It is really undescribable for this wow in
(01:08:11):
this letter right here, Mac magnificent.
Speaker 2 (01:08:15):
Feats of them. But that's all she can do though.
Speaker 17 (01:08:21):
She can't think. She can't save money, she can't raise kids,
she don't know where the baby, They can't act, she
has no thought to the future. But lord Lord, Lord Lord,
I think there's some clapping involved.
Speaker 2 (01:08:37):
I'm not sure.
Speaker 1 (01:08:38):
Okay, please leave your.
Speaker 2 (01:08:42):
Commence stapping sounds that makes a man do extra things.
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On Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM
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I was.
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Steve Bartimore show man. Why do we have a radio
show if we're gonna do it right?
Speaker 14 (01:09:05):
Listen to your that's stupid, stupid, That's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
Boy, say that? Man? Why do we say that?
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All right, so we might not feel any Chris cool
weather yet because we're still you know, still in summer,
but fall is just a few weeks away, and it's
the ideal time to prioritize habits that can keep you
healthy and full of energy before you know, before I
get to those healthy tips, quick question for Steve. Now, Steve,
are you focused on your on your health? Steve and
(01:10:18):
the guys?
Speaker 2 (01:10:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:10:19):
Focused?
Speaker 17 (01:10:20):
Okay, yeah, all.
Speaker 2 (01:10:21):
Right, I'm here elevated it this week. I've even elevated it.
Speaker 1 (01:10:25):
Okay, all right, Well, here's some tips to help you
stay healthy for the fall season. And you may have
some tips of your own, Steve. As we head into
the cold and flu season, load up on foods that
can boost your immune system, including foods rich and vitamin
C and vitamin D. You have any tips, Steve.
Speaker 4 (01:10:43):
Yeah, you have got to stop being an alcoholic. You
are alcoholic. You have got to check yourself.
Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
In other words, stop going down to that cold of stove.
Speaker 4 (01:11:01):
It's a must. If you alcoholic. You got to stop
that right now. That's my number one tip. Help all alcoholics.
Must stop being alcoholic, immediate go ahead.
Speaker 1 (01:11:15):
Ship, All right, here's another one. Make sleep a priority.
Being well rested is crucial to staying healthy.
Speaker 4 (01:11:21):
Sleep is important to your health. Too much sleep is
critical to your wealth.
Speaker 1 (01:11:28):
How much sleep are you supposed to get per night?
Speaker 2 (01:11:31):
I don't believe.
Speaker 1 (01:11:33):
Let I ain't never slept a.
Speaker 4 (01:11:37):
Year because I don't. I don't see how you need
once you're not a child anymore. I don't see why
you need eight hours. I don't know how the child need.
But I'm glad they sleep well. I mean a child
because he's growing his bones, got extend and all this it.
Children have to sleep, right, But adults, if you're sleeping
eight hours, you're growing. But you're growing. You're not growing taller,
(01:11:58):
you're growing wider. And I don't I mean, like you said, Tommy,
you don't know last time you had eight hours? Do
you sleep eight hours?
Speaker 9 (01:12:08):
Never?
Speaker 2 (01:12:09):
Do you need eight hours?
Speaker 3 (01:12:11):
I got, I got sickle cell.
Speaker 2 (01:12:13):
Sleep eight hours.
Speaker 3 (01:12:16):
Hell, I'm sick and don't get eight out.
Speaker 2 (01:12:20):
But I just don't.
Speaker 4 (01:12:21):
I'm not a proponent of eight hours is a third
of your life. I find that desperately hard to see
how you can have a quality life if.
Speaker 2 (01:12:32):
You sleep a third of it. That does not make
sense to me.
Speaker 4 (01:12:36):
But I'm not gonna get into that no more because
they ate me up on the internet talking about Steve
Harvey prefers wealth over health.
Speaker 2 (01:12:43):
So here's my thing about sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:12:45):
If you want to sleep, get all you want sleep
as long as you like, you can sleep your life away.
Speaker 2 (01:12:55):
You can sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:12:56):
You can sleep until you dream the most magnificent dreams.
But I'm telling you this, to make a dream come true,
you got to get woke, stay well. So but if
you want to sleep, go ahead, Steve, don't give it
no more.
Speaker 1 (01:13:10):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
So there's a topic circulating on social media. Many of
us have experienced the dating scene, okay before we were
married and all of that stuff, And a lot of
women expect men to pay for the check, help with
(01:13:31):
their bills, their rent, their groceries, nails, hair bags, cell phones, etc.
And on the other hand, some men feel like just
because we're dating or in a relationship, that they shouldn't
have to help with your bills or help you keep
up with a certain lifestyle. We're in this together. I
(01:13:52):
should get something from you and you should get something
from me. So, Steve, we got to ask you, as
you are our chief love officer, Well what do you
think think about this? I mean it's different now.
Speaker 4 (01:14:02):
Well, it's a true statement that everybody should get something
from the relationship.
Speaker 2 (01:14:08):
Now, if the relationship has progressed.
Speaker 4 (01:14:13):
And it looks like you are planning a future together,
if you are having any talks or plans of having
a future together, why would you align yourself with someone
who's not willing or looking forward to taking care of you.
And that goes for both the man and the woman,
(01:14:36):
because if this is going to lead to something up
the role. Like we're planning on a life together, then
we should be planning on the life where we become
one and we take care of one another. Now there's
an antige that a coach once said, you play the
game like you practice. If you've had no practice with
(01:14:58):
taking care of one another, what makes you think after
the wedding day, all of a sudden, you gonna want
to take care of each other. It doesn't make any
sense because there would be plenty of opportunities during the
dating process to show your ability or your willingness to
(01:15:19):
take care of one another. So it is a two
way street. But you can't expect something that you're not
willing to give. I can't expect to get rich if
I don't go to work. I can't expect to make
(01:15:40):
it across the other end of that swimming pool unless
I done took some swimming lessons.
Speaker 2 (01:15:46):
I can't expect to.
Speaker 4 (01:15:48):
Play golf and part this whole if I ain't been
out there in practice. You can't make eight out of
ten free throws just by walking up to the line.
Somebody got a practice making these free throws.
Speaker 1 (01:16:04):
So so how so do I go to bag and
get my writ paid.
Speaker 2 (01:16:10):
Yeah, you can get.
Speaker 1 (01:16:13):
All of that is what I need. Okay. So yeah,
you're saying it's a it's an even exchange or something.
It's there.
Speaker 2 (01:16:21):
It has to be an exchange.
Speaker 1 (01:16:23):
An exchange.
Speaker 2 (01:16:24):
Woman, is unreasonable and unfair to walk.
Speaker 4 (01:16:28):
In thinking somebody just supposed to take care of your hair,
your nails and buy you bags. If he wants you
to look a certain way, how was you looking before
you met it? Yeah, that's just because y'all start dating
doesn't mean that he has to come in and take
over all these responsibilities all of a sudden with nothing
in it for him.
Speaker 1 (01:16:46):
What you're saying over time and we want different things
men and women, right this this may be what women want.
What do men want?
Speaker 16 (01:16:54):
You know?
Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
You so you can take care of me?
Speaker 2 (01:16:56):
Want support?
Speaker 6 (01:16:58):
Mm hm.
Speaker 4 (01:17:00):
Men won't loyalty and men won't respect mm hm.
Speaker 2 (01:17:06):
Love ain't at the top of the list with us.
Speaker 1 (01:17:09):
Where where where does love fall?
Speaker 2 (01:17:11):
It's somewhere in the top four.
Speaker 1 (01:17:13):
Yeah, in the top four.
Speaker 4 (01:17:15):
But if you're loyal to us and respect us, that's
what we that's what we consider love. Yeah, a two
hours that you belong to us and we belong to you,
that you gonna respect us, and you're gonna support us
and be loyal to us, and you can help me
get the way I'm trying to get to in life.
Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
You must love me. But those are the things were
looking for. Love is not at the top of the list.
Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
All right, empty handed? Okay, hell, rent is due. All right.
We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
up at about twenty minutes after the hour right after this,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve, I
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know you work a lot. We all know that you
have a lot of jobs, but have you ever been
this tired and overworked? An exhausted thirty eight year old
woman decided that she desperately needed to slow down and
get more rest, so she moved into a retirement home
community with elderly people. She worked as a screenwriter in
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the film and television industry for eleven years, and she
said the amount of work and hectic schedule really took
a toll on her mental and physical health, so she
moved into a retirement community to recuperate. She both said
her new home offers medical treatments and all of her meals.
She said it's very quiet there. And she goes to
(01:18:47):
bed every night around nine o'clock PM. Could you see
yourself doing that to relax and recharge like this woman.
Speaker 2 (01:18:54):
I'm gonna tell you right now. Living around them old
people let a whole lot of work right there. You
got the help.
Speaker 4 (01:19:00):
Hold the door, push that downstairs for dinner time, go
in there and help clean them up, pick them up.
They she'd have left her alert necklace off. She didne failed.
You got to go upstairs on flow six and get
her up. Then you're trying to go somewhere they want
to go. Now you got call them medi van in here.
Now you got to help push up on the ramp.
(01:19:21):
You got to make sure that the ramps. There's too
much work. Being old shouldn't have been there. Eating of
a tapiocre putting. I'm too young for tapioca putting. I
want to chew stuff. I still got teeth. I don't
want to you can yellow and all this sist, all
this hospital food and stuff. I want to hear them,
old son, we'll have more. I don't see the advantage
(01:19:43):
of living down a bunch of older people myself.
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are Old West bad guys.
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on the water. I can't jump off now, so I'm forever.
You're captive because I cannot jump in your.
Speaker 1 (01:20:52):
I am the captain now behind.
Speaker 4 (01:20:57):
Got a shot a break out, running to heels something.
When you on that ship, your gots to sit there?
Speaker 1 (01:21:04):
Yeah, yeah, all right? Would you rather get cheated on
and know about it? Or not get cheated on and
just always be suspicious.
Speaker 4 (01:21:15):
I just take the suspicion. I don't give it about
that going to the but knowing you cheated.
Speaker 1 (01:21:26):
And still be there. No, that's not gonna work.
Speaker 3 (01:21:30):
Your third doctor's appointment this week.
Speaker 1 (01:21:32):
You know that, analyze everything. You can't go to the
grocery store to the doctor while you buy a damn
ice street who else like that?
Speaker 3 (01:21:48):
Just be suspicious on her?
Speaker 4 (01:21:51):
It be a little stuff. Oh oh oh, black panty holes?
What you ain't been wearing black panty.
Speaker 3 (01:22:07):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (01:22:08):
All right, wa hey, hey, what.
Speaker 2 (01:22:10):
Is your beaving fault?
Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
I'm just taking back for what?
Speaker 2 (01:22:19):
Yeah, i'd be yeah, all right?
Speaker 1 (01:22:23):
Are you quite done?
Speaker 2 (01:22:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:22:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (01:22:26):
Would you rather have fortune or fame? That's easy. Fortune,
let's ask the most famous person.
Speaker 9 (01:22:38):
Easy.
Speaker 2 (01:22:39):
Let me tell you something.
Speaker 4 (01:22:41):
If I could find a way to make this money
and nobody, everybody leave me alone?
Speaker 1 (01:22:49):
Heartbeat, that's right, No, that's right, all right. Would you
rather be a clown in a rodeo who distracts the
bull or would you rather be the cowboy who rides
the bull?
Speaker 2 (01:23:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:23:08):
I'm will be the clown. You bet not fall off
of me when I'm out there ready to get the
roll and get your south.
Speaker 2 (01:23:18):
That arena. Come on, don't come out, but I will
be nowhere near the bull.
Speaker 1 (01:23:26):
Do that shout again, I like.
Speaker 2 (01:23:34):
Cowboy, Get out for you, Get out for you.
Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
All right, we gotta go. Time for our last break
of the day. And at forty nine minutes after some
closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right
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we had a good day, as always, Steve. Before we go,
before your closing remarks, we had a voicemail from a
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Speaker 16 (01:24:50):
Good afternoon. My name is Ellen Holmes, and I am
just calling discs for us some comments. I just want
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Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
I love it.
Speaker 16 (01:25:07):
I love the staff, and I especially love Steve Harvey.
I'm my mom who is now in heaven has gone
away to be with the Lord. She loves Steve Harvey
so much and got so much from his inspirational and
motivational talks that he gives in the morning at the
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end of the morning show. He's such an inspiration.
Speaker 1 (01:25:32):
To us and we just love him. He gives such good.
Speaker 16 (01:25:38):
Prep fox and inspirational talks and talks about God. And
you know how God has blessed him and given us
motivation to continue to pray and to serve did and
it's such a blessing. He is such a blessing. And
I just wanted you guys to know that I enjoy
your show. I love the Saturday show. Also the morning show.
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Just the old destees are and it's so wonderful to
get up it, clean up on and and and Sundays Show. Also,
I love gospel music. But I just wanted to say
about Steve Harvey. I really loved him and for him
to continue on and that got to continue to left
them and to continue to give his motivational spieces and
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its moments of inspiration. Okay, thank you, I appreciate you, guys.
Speaker 4 (01:26:30):
God rest Yeah, you know what, And and that kind
of leads me into my closing remarks to it. I
thank her for that because faith has been an integral
part of my life. It has been the cornerstone, the
foundation of everything that I've overcome and everything I have become.
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See because of my faith, it has been the cornerstone
of every thing I have overcome and everything I have become.
It is also the foundation my faith of things to come.
I'm real about that. I was raised this way by
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my mother, illus Via Harvey gets full credit for this
the faith aspect of my life. And I have tried
to honor my promise to God when I was out
there struggling, I was homeless. I made a promise to
him that if he let me make it, when I
get there, I was gonna tell everybody about him. So
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that is what the first twelve minutes of my radio
show is about That is why I dropped information about
God all the time. That's why a lot of times
in my closing remarks, I use this platform to talk
about my faith in God.
Speaker 2 (01:28:00):
Now I've traveled the world.
Speaker 4 (01:28:03):
And I was raised also by the same mother to
respect all people in all faiths. It doesn't matter that
a faith don't see exactly what I see. That's not
my calling. It's not for me to judge. It is
for me to respect. I have friends from all faiths.
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I have people I do business with, I have associates.
But I know a lot of Jewish people, I know
a lot of Muslim people. I know a lot of
Islamic people. I know people from all faiths. I respect
them all because I was taught that. So whatever you
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hear about me, know the fact you can just base
it on everything you've ever heard me say.
Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
I talk about it.
Speaker 4 (01:29:00):
Because of his goodness, because of his grace, because of
his favor, because of his mercy. And you got to
be careful, man, when you out there and you hear
people talking all the time, when you hear people out
there slaming other people, you got to understand why they
slaming other people who gives them the power and the right.
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Somebody said out there, I'm not gonna say no names
or that, but somebody said that Steve Harvey starting a
new religion.
Speaker 2 (01:29:26):
Called Chris slam. I've never said that. Why would I?
Who am I to start a religion?
Speaker 4 (01:29:33):
I have a religion, I have a faith, I have
a God, I have a Jesus, I have a method
of prayer.
Speaker 2 (01:29:42):
I'm not changing that.
Speaker 4 (01:29:43):
That's the way I was raised. But can I not
honor people for who they are? Because I have Muslim
friends that are doing very very well. They believe in God,
just like I believe in God.
Speaker 1 (01:29:59):
Who am I?
Speaker 2 (01:30:00):
And it works.
Speaker 4 (01:30:02):
I got a partner on mine who prays five times
a day. The average Christian don't do that. He lives
a successful life. He's a great person, a great family man.
I just happen to honor faith. When you hear somebody
talking about Steve harved and starting new religion, you ain't
never heard me say nothing like that. And I dispel
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all of that, And I stand on that. I stand
on my faith and who I am.
Speaker 2 (01:30:30):
I been.
Speaker 4 (01:30:30):
I've been this way the whole time. You ain't never
heard me wave or jump off this hill boat.
Speaker 2 (01:30:35):
That's me. That's the God I serve, that's the faith
I have.
Speaker 4 (01:30:40):
I don't know all the scriptures, but I know enough
that that got me here, and I know enough that's
gonna get me the rest of the way. Be careful
who you hear things from. Everybody standing up there talking
about it main foid. Just be careful, y'all. Know God
for yourself, have your faith together for yourself. Those are
my clothes lost. Hey, listen, talk to God today, y'all.
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He loved to hear from you.
Speaker 2 (01:31:03):
Okay. Hey.
Speaker 1 (01:31:10):
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