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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Got to turn the mouth turn out, turn a wad.

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Speaker 6 (01:55):
Come come on, you'll think, Uh, I sure will.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on,
dig me now. One and only Steve Harley got a
radio show. I have something and it so describes how
I was living. It so captures the feelings that I
had about beginning on the pathway of my dreams. It

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so describes how I felt when I was about to
attempt something. And I have some striking news for you.
It describes often how I feel still today to a degree.
So let me tell you what that is. Here's an
analogy that I've heard a couple of different ways, but

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I've kind of, you know, fixed it around to where
I can drink it better, and I think it fits
my personality to describe it to people best this way.
I've talked often about the earth and see of doing
something with your life, of getting started today, of stopping
the procrastination and putting it off, and waiting on all

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your ducks to line up in a row, and waiting
until the stars align themselves. If you're waiting on such
a thing, you're never gonna get started. I don't know
too many people who can say that all the ducks
just lined up in the row.

Speaker 6 (03:24):
Things happen. Even when you get them lined up.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
One of the ducks get out of line, or somebody
knock over the domino. Something happens. But here's the point
I'm getting at. God has so many blessings available to you.

Speaker 6 (03:43):
You who's listening.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
God has so many blessings available to you from where
you are right now. I don't care what you've gotten
yourself into or what you've done. God has so many
blessings that he can send your way. But you have
to do something. See a lot of people just sit

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around and go man, I don't and something always happening
to you. You're always getting a break, You're always doing this.
You always man, no nothing come my way. Listen to me.
If nothing ever comes your way. You know why that is.
It's because you're not doing anything. I promise you you're not.
Here's a deal. God has all these blessings he wants

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to send you, but you got to give him something
to work with. Now, come on, God will bless you.
God can touch people's hearts on your behalf. He can
move situations around for you. He can align the stars.
He can set the ducks up in the row. But
align the stars and move people around, and touch people's
hearts and set the ducks up in the row. For

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what have you put forth any effort? Have you made
a single step in any direction to do the right
thing or go the right way? That give him something
to put his finger on. Come on, man, God can
only bless you according to your faith. If you have
a little bit of faith, give him that. Let him

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work with that. You know, man, I didn't always start
with these speeches you hear in the morning. Now. I
ain't always had these. I grew to these. I stumbled
my way to these. I messed up my way to these.
Here I got it wrong so many times to be
able to sound like I got some sense, I've said
it often.

Speaker 6 (05:31):
Failure is a wonderful teacher.

Speaker 2 (05:33):
Do you know how many times I have had to
have failed to have what I have in my head today.
I'm telling you, man, it's a process. People get mad
at the process. You got to do something to give
God something to work with. He'll bless you. But what
you want me to bless If you ain't putting forth
any effort, you can get blessed from wherever you are

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in your life, wherever your starting point is, wherever you
find yourself wound up, you can get it back from there.
I've done it, man, by the grace of God, I've
done it. I got over man. I learned some things
along the way. Because here's the deal. As long as
God keeps waking you up in the morning, he ain't
through with you yet. When he's done, you're done. But

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if God still has a plan for you you wake
up in the morning, he still got some more work
for you to do. You wake up in the morning.
So if you keep waking up, man, it's something that
God wants from you, would love to have from you,
and he can work with you, man, if you just
walk towards him a little bit.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
Here's the deal.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
I know it's hard for the average person to start
because the fear of the unknown is incredible. What if
I fail? What if I don't get picked. You know,
one of the hardest things I ever did was walking
in to quit my job. Oh man, let me tell
you about that day when I decided that I was
gonna be a full time comedian after winning an amateur

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night one time. Quitting your job following you going for
it despite all the nay says, it's like stepping off
a cliff. It's like actually just walking off the edge
of a cliff, hoping, hoping. Now not really knowing, but hoping.

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Hoping is the bad basis of faith. I stepped off
that cliff hoping that my parachute would open and allow
me to drift down. See. I've never scott dived before,
but I would imagine part of the thrill. And I
don't know this because I'm not going to sCOD dive

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to find out. I think part of the thrill for
people is the danger part of throwing yourself out a
plane and how it feels to be free falling, but
the whole time they're free falling, having this exhilarating, over
the top moment. You have got to believe in your
heart of hearts, you have got the hope with everything

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in you that when you pull this cord the shoot
opens or else. This ain't a good move at all.
But you've packed your shoot yourself. You've taken the lessons,
so you go ahead and you make the leap. Now,
the only thing about quitting your job and following your
dream is you ain't really been trained all that good
for this. You done packed your shoot, but you ain't

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never opened it before. So I walked off this cliff,
That's what it was like. And you following your dreamers
like you walking off a cliff. Here's the part where
people don't never make the jump. They see somebody like
myself who jumped off the cliff and the pas chute
don't open right away, and I hit a couple of
rocks on the way down.

Speaker 6 (08:42):
I got my back cut up pretty bad.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
They see that three years living in a car, man,
he got it life toe down jumping off that cliff.
I ain't jumping off that cliff. But see, what you
don't understand is you don't know it, but eventually the
shoot will open. I'm at the parachute opening part of
my life. Man were to shoot then open, and I'm
drifting and I'm able to guide my chute over to

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Paris and glide. I've glided over the Africa and seen
what it looked like. It's a slow ride down. When
the Parasas chute finally opened and my back didn't heel
too and the cuts that I had on me, I
remember now. I know how to stay away from the edge.
But the Paris chute then opened, and I'm enjoying my
life for the first time. I'm gliding, but I got

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hit up against the rock. I can see more. I
get a chance to see more things. I get to
glide and see more parts of the world. I'm living
my dream. Your parachute is going to open, but I'll
tell you one thing for show. It'll never open if
you don't step off that cliff. You got to step
off that cliff. God get the pasachute open for you.
But you got to jump, baby. That's the hard part,

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ain't it now? Question is the end of this story
right here today when you jumping.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, let me have your
divided attention. That's another great day today. My Lord, my
God has done it again. He is truly amazing. Please
y'all form a relationship with God. I don't care where
you are. I don't care what your circumstances. I don't
care what predicament you find yourself in. God is on

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call twenty four seven and he's available for you. You don't
have to suffer, you don't have to look. You can
get strength, guidance, comfort, all of it. With the relationship
with God. You can get all of that. It don't
make all your problems go away, but He showed give
you the way to cope with it and deal with it.

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And that's all I need. I came to a realization
yesterday and I'm glad about it. I'm trying to just
be a better man all the way around the board.
Help me God, man, That's that's really good that I
can go to somebody like that. Put put put him
in your playbook, y'all. Put God in the playbook. He's good. Ladies, gentlemen,

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Welcome to the ride. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Shirlotton Strawberry, Collin Parrell, Mississippi, Monica Junior, and the Legend
that is Nephew Thomas Jr. What's going on?

Speaker 7 (11:21):
Man?

Speaker 2 (11:21):
No, you're hurting the day, but go ahead. What's happening.

Speaker 8 (11:24):
No, I'm good. Let me ask you this, what areas
do you think you have improved in your life?

Speaker 2 (11:30):
And why?

Speaker 8 (11:31):
Like the areas that you think you have gotten the
best at that you didn't always have?

Speaker 2 (11:37):
What else I can give for the regular?

Speaker 1 (11:41):
What you gotta filter it?

Speaker 2 (11:46):
The one I wanted to fire off with wouldn't have
been good. Uh, it's so many, Junior. I can't think
of an area in my life that I haven't improved, though.
I just really, Uh, I think I'm more. Now, let
me not say that in front of this crew.

Speaker 5 (12:04):
I'm more.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
I can't say that I'm more because I've always been
that way. I've always been a compassionate person to other people.
Now I also have a side where I could care
less than you know.

Speaker 6 (12:20):
If I if I over with this. Yeah, but uh,
but I've I've been that.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
Uh you know what?

Speaker 6 (12:29):
I have gotten better at?

Speaker 9 (12:31):
What?

Speaker 2 (12:33):
In my career? My closing remarks are better. Uh, they're
more uh directed. I think I've made it more of
a mission to be more purposeful in my closing remarks
to say stuff that's more beneficial. I try to say
stuff that's helpful and positive and engaging for people and encouraging.

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That's what I try to be. I think i've done
better in that. You know, the financial part of it
is always I was watching Jim Gray and he asked
Floyd Mayweather and the other day he said, is why
is money so important to you? Floyd Mayweather said why not?
He said, you can't take your wife to dinner for free.

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He said, you can't move in the house you in
without no money. So he said, that's why it's important.
And I just think that, you know, working to teach
other people how to accomplish that is a major goal.
So I feel good about those things.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we
will hear from a nephew as he runs that brank back.
Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone,
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nephew to run that prank back what you got for
his neph.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
Surely this is right here? Is is that your husband?
Is that your husband over there on some inspected gadget stuff?
Is that your husband? Come on, cat dog, if you would,
let's running.

Speaker 9 (14:43):
Along. I'm trying to reach chair.

Speaker 7 (14:45):
Is care?

Speaker 9 (14:47):
Hey listen, my name is Mark. Are you married to Jason? Yeah? Okay,
all right, I got the right person. Listen. I don't
I don't even know how to say this to you.
My Like I said, my name is Mark. I followed
my wife today and I right now I'm at a park,

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and I'm almost certain that my wife is right now.
I'm about two or three hundred yards away, but I'm
almost certain my wife is holding hands with your husband, Jason.
So hold on, hold on?

Speaker 10 (15:25):
What will you see my husband at the park with
your wife? How long have you been following them?

Speaker 9 (15:30):
I followed my wife this morning because I just was stelling,
like real weird about you know, something going on. And
I followed her and I'm at the park right now
and you know this. I think this is I think
she's with Jason. I think she's with your husband. What type?

Speaker 10 (15:47):
What type of car? You do you see Jason? Then
alexis what color is it?

Speaker 9 (15:54):
White?

Speaker 10 (15:55):
Okay? That's him. So he's okay with to work today
and this Sunday and they had some over the time
that he's supposed to been doing that work today. And
he's at a part with your wife close to him.

Speaker 9 (16:05):
So I'm not close to him, you know, I try
to stay back. Oh wait wait wait wait wait wait wait,
hold up, she just kissed him?

Speaker 10 (16:13):
She did? Kids? Who she did?

Speaker 9 (16:15):
My wife just kissed your husband?

Speaker 10 (16:16):
What did you say your wife? Your wife's name is again?

Speaker 9 (16:19):
My wife name is Veronica?

Speaker 10 (16:20):
Veronica? Okay, what part?

Speaker 2 (16:22):
Dad?

Speaker 9 (16:24):
Uh? They are Langley Park. I'm at Langley Park right now.
I'm about two hundred yards away from them, and I'm
looking at she just kissed him. A can I cannot
believe this or not?

Speaker 10 (16:35):
I know, Well, you're not telling me that your your
wife is kissing my husband. Well, how did you get
my number? That's hold up? Back it up? How did
you get my number? Who are you?

Speaker 9 (16:45):
Like? I said? My name is Mark, a buddy of mine.
Named fitz Fitzgerald. Fitz knows he knows Jason. I don't
know fitz Gerald.

Speaker 10 (16:53):
I won't know all you get my number.

Speaker 9 (16:55):
Fitz gave me your fifth Fitz told me he knew Jason,
and some kind of way got me your phone number.
I don't even know who he got your number from.
All I know is your husband is kissing my wife
right now. That's what I know.

Speaker 10 (17:09):
Okay, you just sitting there watching and giving me the no.
But we canna change this shit. Right now, you're sitting
there watching on some specta gaget. I'll go and bust
call it up because I don't play that. Because he
said he had to work this morning. Some of the
overtime don't have topic. Who does that in the park
with somebody? It's too cold to be in the park anyway.
You can't see no ducks. Give me give me the

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address of this lightly park.

Speaker 9 (17:31):
Okay, wait minue, wait wait, wait wait wait. They getting
a blanket out of the car.

Speaker 10 (17:35):
Now what does that. I know, well, he ain't no
romantic type and that he never takes we know the park.

Speaker 9 (17:40):
But they getting a blanket out the car and going
deeper into the park. I cannot believe this. They getting
the blanket? What no sh no sheet? Now I'm looking
at give me the wine and wine glasses.

Speaker 10 (17:56):
What gives me the address of the car? You want
some white stop. I'm trying to go out busted up.
I don't have time for the following me. I was
started and now watching your life. I'm not gonna watch
and I'm gonna hand him his ad. Okay, let's stop
this right now. Take your go over there to the
park and give him the phone.

Speaker 9 (18:14):
I don't have time for this.

Speaker 10 (18:16):
You sitting up there watching your wife with my you
calling me?

Speaker 9 (18:20):
What comes you?

Speaker 10 (18:21):
I'm you okay, I said, what you're supposed to be
up there? Get on that because if father's there, I'll
be the left that and I've been handling him his cat.
Go hand him the fall, take up their head in
the phone.

Speaker 9 (18:33):
With your hand. I'm trying to see what else they
gonna do. That's what I'm trying to do.

Speaker 7 (18:37):
Thank you.

Speaker 10 (18:38):
Just see it now, all that pulling death bee over
that door and pulling out a guy that what you
want to wait for? Feelm take cares over the handing
him the phone. I know Jason ain't et no park
for no I'm got my at home. I am on
a very child, pregnant with the baby. But I don't
get I'm go up there and whoop hiss while I'm pregnant.
I know well, Jason ain't need no park for no

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hand in the phone.

Speaker 9 (19:01):
You I want to say, let me let me hold
let me step out the truck.

Speaker 4 (19:04):
Hold on.

Speaker 9 (19:06):
They drinking wine right now.

Speaker 10 (19:08):
I don't give up about that gold hand in the bar.
Walk over there handing the phone, all right, okay, do
with George. I don't play a about mine.

Speaker 9 (19:15):
Oh man, they Mark Mark Mark.

Speaker 10 (19:18):
I don't know who you are, but go hand him,
Go hand him the phone.

Speaker 9 (19:21):
You sitting up there watching with your week you anyway,
that's my wife, he with he with my wife.

Speaker 10 (19:30):
You must be all because if you was one of
them big old yokes up black, you never got on this.
Who does that? You watching him at the park. I'm
telling you now, I whooping that when I see her.
I'm whooping your wife set up whooping, Jason said, I'm
gonna slap your calling me with this. You sit enough
there calling me got my blood presser star hall. Why
you sen up though, watching mack joke. You're supposed to

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be all on top of that. Yeah, when I say,
you got that coming too. But I'm I'm'm gonna find
his language part right, I'm gonna get off the phone
because I'll.

Speaker 9 (19:59):
Be up then show you. Okay, okay, hold on, hold on,
hold on. Somebody want to talk to you. Hello, come
on with this. It's Tommy, Tommy Hugh, his nephew Tommy
from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your husband, Jason got
me the prank phone called you.

Speaker 10 (20:19):
This is something you almost made me have my baby
help in his house this morning and I got to momas.

Speaker 9 (20:25):
From those you other Jason got me to.

Speaker 10 (20:27):
Pray for He no better than that anyway.

Speaker 9 (20:32):
When he come home, he told me say, look, man,
my wife is a no nonsense. She ain't kill on taking,
no drama, none of that he tells.

Speaker 10 (20:45):
Because I was like, what man said, they watch they'll
live at the park. What what man does that? This
is crazy? But you tell him I got him.

Speaker 7 (20:53):
I got it.

Speaker 9 (20:56):
Hey, I gotta ask you this baby, one more thing.
What is the bad radio show in the land.

Speaker 10 (21:03):
The Steve Harvey Morning Show. I'm gonna get Jason to this. No, Tommy,
I'm gonna get you. I'll tell you what I'm gonna do.
I'll tell them now for Joe, tell.

Speaker 9 (21:18):
Tell me, yeah, tell them, tell Jacson that I'm gonna
name the baby Tom.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
All right, King of Prayings, thank you. Coming up next
to this as to ce l O, our Chief Love
Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're
listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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In Entertainment news, a black male student This is crazy
right here. A black male student is found hanging on
campus at a Mississippi university. We'll talk about that, Yeah, Also, yeah,
Monique is back in the headlines bringing up the old

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beef with Tyler Perry and Oprah Winfrey. We'll talk about that.
She threw some unnecessary shade at Tyler, and one of
Acon's wives has filed for divorce. These stories are all
coming up, yeah, at the top of the hour. But
now it's time to ask the CLO or chief Love
Officer and my friend Steve Harvey. All right, this is

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from Franklin and Riverside. Franklin writes, I took care of
my wife's teeth and she got a breast reduction before
we got married. I fixed what I wanted to fix,
and I think she's perfect, But now she wants larger boobs.
I don't like large boobs. Who's she trying to impress
with those things?

Speaker 2 (23:13):
Well, hey, bro oh Franklin, I don't know what to
complain is you said you fixed her teeth and got
her a breast reduction. Ain't that what he said?

Speaker 9 (23:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (23:27):
Yeah, then he said she wants some bigger ones. Yeah. See, bruh,
she probably if you got a breast reduction. Maybe she
just wanted to be a little perky or something like that.
But I don't I don't like big breath. Who are you? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (23:41):
But he said I fixed what I wanted to fix.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
Well, she won't this her body? This ain't your body science?
Are you wrong?

Speaker 1 (23:53):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (23:54):
You fix what you wanted to fix?

Speaker 4 (23:56):
Well?

Speaker 3 (23:56):
What about what she wants?

Speaker 2 (23:57):
It's her body?

Speaker 1 (23:59):
Like, who's she trying?

Speaker 2 (24:00):
Impressed? Well, I don't like big breath, bro? What Yeah?

Speaker 9 (24:04):
This is crazy?

Speaker 1 (24:05):
She miss hers her rag. I've never heard of Ben Carl.
She wants a bag. She missed a girl.

Speaker 2 (24:17):
So I wom a rag bag?

Speaker 5 (24:23):
Rag bag?

Speaker 2 (24:25):
You mean man, rag bag? Rag crazy.

Speaker 8 (24:36):
Man?

Speaker 2 (24:37):
Moving on? Rag holo my rag bag? He said he
can't be jel.

Speaker 9 (24:48):
All right?

Speaker 7 (24:49):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (24:49):
Moving on to Jilani and Northcross. Jilani rites during intimacy,
My husband did a sideways thing and he said that
he knows it's my favorite position. I have never been
twisted like that before. But he's he's trying to convince
me that I have God. Why does he think I'm

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dumb enough to fall for that?

Speaker 3 (25:12):
Got his positions?

Speaker 2 (25:14):
God?

Speaker 8 (25:15):
That's what.

Speaker 1 (25:18):
Was he going to get out of that one? Mister Harvey,
let's hear his lick.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
Come on, well, I would have never said that, so
let me thank for me she says, why does he
think I'm dumb enough to fall for that?

Speaker 4 (25:45):
You know you like that girl?

Speaker 2 (25:48):
Well, all I would do if I were here, would say, well,
did you like it?

Speaker 1 (25:54):
That's your comeback.

Speaker 2 (25:56):
Yeah, that's what I have to say. What did you
like it? Because I have imagined us doing this and
in my mind I just saw it being all that
for you, and so I just soon but did you
like it? Though? If you don't like it, we ain't gonna.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
Do it no more?

Speaker 11 (26:11):
Okay, all right?

Speaker 1 (26:13):
That kind of works, although she knows that, you know
she no, no, no, no, no, no no no no.

Speaker 2 (26:19):
All I need for you to do right there, She'll say,
you know that could work. That's all I need.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
Could work. All I see.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
Listen to me when you lie. All the lie has
to do is calls reasonable doubt. That's all I need.
He's a lawyer to order, and that's all I need,
reasonable doubt.

Speaker 1 (26:43):
Okay, all right?

Speaker 2 (26:45):
He said I want my rag bag.

Speaker 1 (26:49):
That you should have had a song for that one.
Jilani and Norcross, all right. Moving on to Laney and Natha's.
Laney writes, my ten year old son has girl calling
him on my phone because I don't allow him to
use his phone during the week He told me that
I am ruining his social life.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Yeah, hell yeah, how weak you are ruining.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
My social life?

Speaker 9 (27:15):
Here?

Speaker 1 (27:15):
Am I supposed to care about his social life?

Speaker 9 (27:18):
Is?

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Yes, you should, because he do, and he cares about
his social life so much. Says I can't use my phone.
Hear my mama number. Holler at your boy, Mama, mama,
your mama.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
They owe me, they own your boy.

Speaker 2 (27:35):
They got to the people, give people.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
What the woll he's ten, Steve this this little boy
is ten years old.

Speaker 2 (27:45):
Don't you know? I got to do the people.

Speaker 9 (27:51):
People?

Speaker 12 (27:51):
What the worl?

Speaker 1 (27:53):
How old are the little girls that are calling him?
How old are they?

Speaker 2 (27:56):
Eleven?

Speaker 3 (27:56):
Twelve?

Speaker 2 (27:57):
He owned a boy, He got a little teenager called
little thirteen year olds? This little boy right here? You
got game? He conversation. They calling These ain't texts.

Speaker 1 (28:10):
They call it hello, Wow? What is your name today?

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Hello? Can I speak to Delicia? Delisa? Don't have no
phone until the weekends. Why he gave me your phone?

Speaker 7 (28:25):
Man?

Speaker 2 (28:28):
Can you stop blocking please and put the list on the.

Speaker 9 (28:32):
Little girl?

Speaker 2 (28:35):
You got yours? We're trying to get ours.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Where is your boy?

Speaker 3 (28:38):
You're blocking?

Speaker 11 (28:40):
He's ten.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
This is crazy, little boy. You know that's my girl.

Speaker 3 (28:48):
Mama, that's my girl.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Wow?

Speaker 6 (28:52):
Wow, everybody why he sounded just like it?

Speaker 1 (28:56):
Ten year old old?

Speaker 9 (28:59):
Wow?

Speaker 1 (29:00):
Be doing math with all these girls college. I got
to talk to these girls.

Speaker 9 (29:03):
Mama.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
You've been there, haven't you, Junior? So I was like, no,
I would clue that team.

Speaker 2 (29:11):
I ain't know you liked me.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
You didn't have game like this little boy. Oh no,
I say, when the girl hit you, she liked you.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
I didn't know me, all right?

Speaker 1 (29:25):
Last one, Steve. This is from Travis and Lake. Charles.
Travis writes, I tried to stop dating my current girlfriend,
and she showed up at my job acting up. I
feel like that's the only reason I took her back.
I like her a lot, but not her ghetto behavior.
She's twenty nine and too old to act like that.

(29:46):
Should I give her another try?

Speaker 6 (29:48):
That's what If you don't give her another try, she's
coming back down there.

Speaker 2 (29:51):
To your job. How you want just to go? So
she'd told you what time you're not leaving me?

Speaker 13 (30:00):
And the best man I've ever known, that little way
up could ever no, no.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
No, no, wait, all right, we're gonna switch gears here
and talk about a shocking story out of Cleveland, Mississippi
at Delta State University, which is a predominantly white university.
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, this story is unbelievable

(30:41):
coming out of Cleveland, very shocking Cleveland, Mississippi at Delta
State University, it's a predominantly white university. This is where
a twenty one year old black student identified as Trey
Reid was found hanging from a tree in the central
part of the campus. You heard me right. The campus
was shut down on Monday to begin the investigation into

(31:03):
the death, which so far get this has been deemed
a suicide. Excuse me, Yeah, that's also shocking.

Speaker 9 (31:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:14):
In a press conference, a county coroner stated that the
investigation is ongoing, but there are no indications of foul
play in Reed's death. The corner addressed rumors that circulated
on social media that Reed's legs and arms were broken.
He said he and his colleague, the deputy corner, saw
quote no evidence of broken limbs. Delta State is a

(31:36):
public university with a fifty two percent white students for
ratio and thirty six percent black. We will be following
this story closely, this Mississippi.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
Well, here's the deal. There is so many canvas everywhere. Nowadays,
they got ways of backtracking everything. If anybody was near
that tree, walking towards that tree, rope, anything, it's on
camera somewhere. And then with social media the way it

(32:08):
is today, somebody gonna say something and it will all
come out.

Speaker 7 (32:13):
It has to.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
But now what we have to make sure is and
the and the people in that community have to make
sure is that they are on top of them, that
they don't just let this go up under the rug,
because you know, the corner can say it's a suicide,
and it could be, and it could be because social
media that already ran with it in so many different directions.

(32:35):
But one thing about it, if they want to know
the truth, they can get a tradu. You can't do
nothing like that nowadays. At a central part of a university,
young people, social media technology. Somebody saw somebody walking, someboy
with somebody, and then and and and and then that'll

(32:56):
get to the truth of it. But you can't. You
can't let it go up under the rug.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
No, that's right, that's right. That's the community has to
support the family. The family I'm sure has sign.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
And another thing.

Speaker 6 (33:06):
Yeah, public hanging is not a real choice for suicide.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
Oh what I know? No, absolutely not. Yeah, we're going
to be following this story. We'll keep you posting for
sure on this story. Wow. All right, guys and switching
gears now again. In case you guys have been living
under a rock. Comedian and actress Monique has had a
decade long fight with Tyler Perry. That's fight started after

(33:37):
the filming of the movie Precious. After that was all done,
she's spoken out numerous times, claiming she's been blackballed for
not promoting the movie. So now here we are yet again,
and Monique has mentioned Tyler Perry and Oprah on her
live video, claiming that she will never let that beef go.
Monique said, quote, so for me, my babies, I won't

(33:57):
let it go. That doesn't mean I'm I'm not angry.
I'm not. Just so we're clear, I'm not. She explained
that the let it go mentality dates back to slavery
and that's why we as black people keep getting treated
the way we're treated. The video then took a really
nasty turn when Monique said quote, I love my brother

(34:19):
and sister, or my sister and sister, whatever day Tyler chooses. Yeah,
whichever way he goes, I love them. However, wrong is
wrong and right is right. End quote. But here's a question.
Did you guys catch the shade in that statement though?
Did you catch yeah? Right away? Yeah, come on, yeah,
I love my brother and sister or my sister and sister.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
A lot of commenters on the video Steve were in
support of Monique and her stance. I'm never letting it
go while you know, others countless of this beg Monique,
just please let it go Monique and stop throwing shade.

Speaker 2 (34:54):
Well, you know, listen, if you're feeding the narrative, you're
supporting this, you're not helping this sister. You're just not
helping this sister. And I wish nothing but the best
for Monique, because, man, let me tell you something. In
Monique's prime, it was Monique a Dale Givings and Samora

(35:18):
them girls right there, man, Samora whatever, you know, them
girls right there? They was wicked. Man. I'm talking about funny, funny, funny,
And I missed that from Monique. I missed the comedian Monique.
Now however you feel about it. At the end of

(35:40):
the day, all of us and it has nothing to
do with slavery, nothing at all. Forgiveness. We're not talking
about slave We're not talking about an atrocity against mankind.
We're not talking about four hundred years of racism, bigotry,
enslave min That's not what we're talking about here, talking
about an incident between a few human beings. If you

(36:06):
don't forgive or let go, you damage yourself and people.

Speaker 6 (36:13):
You have to understand that. So while you're buying into
the narrative, I hear you, I hear you.

Speaker 3 (36:17):
No, no, no, no.

Speaker 6 (36:18):
That doesn't help this system. It really really doesn't.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
And like I said, I wish Monique nothing but the
best man, because man, we were really really cool and
Monique at her peak. Boy who that girl was? Lord
have mercy. Oh I saw a small glimpse of it
when she was on the shay Shape Club. Shayshape. You
need a big old growing over. You know that was

(36:41):
vintage Monique. But listen, man, if you live in the past,
that's where you'll remain. Cannot live in the darkness of
your past and expect to ever see the brightness of
your future, and I don't care who you are, all right,
And that's the message people need to get from this man.

Speaker 6 (37:01):
Coming in, I pray for Monique man, I really really do.

Speaker 1 (37:05):
Coming up. At thirty four minutes after the hour, Neo
back in the news, he revealed that he had a
special mattress made for his polyamorous relationship. We'll talk about
it right after this.

Speaker 3 (37:16):
That nasty mattress right there.

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Speaker 1 (37:57):
In a recent live stream on YouTube tube, Neo revealed
that he had a special mattress made for him and
his four girlfriends. Neo called it a custom Alaskan king
sized bed and it's equivalent to having two California king
sized mattresses next to each other, so he had that
specially made. He lovingly referred to his four girlfriends as

(38:20):
his wives and shared their nicknames. There's Christina, who he
calls pretty Baby, Ariel calls her twin Flame, Monet is
Phoenix feather, and Brianna is sexy little Something. Neo said, quote,
my love life is phenomenal.

Speaker 2 (38:39):
I saw them down at the Pink Pony one times.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
What are you saying about these names, sir? He says,
I have four beautiful ladies that move with me on
a regular Neo has his four girl friends and they
have been inseparable in its polyamorous relationships since Marty.

Speaker 2 (39:05):
He say the name of that mattress again, because maybe
I heard it wrong.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
What's the name of the he got a custom Alaskan
king sized bed?

Speaker 7 (39:13):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (39:13):
Alaskan? Yeah, I thought you said elastic. I was saying,
he's got a mattress with extra plastic on it. People
in there, you got some plastic no matter what you
got elastic? Oh, I thought you said plastic.

Speaker 9 (39:28):
No.

Speaker 2 (39:29):
Let me tell you something. If you got to get
a bed made, there's two two California Kings. Why don't
y'all just sleep in the flow though, Why don't y'all
just get it cheaper? Hey, I'm telling you right now,
they dog they got the gym match you can get
on Amazon. Here we go, We'll get you about five
of them. Put them down in the flow. Get your blanket.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
He already got the mattresses. He don't want He doesn't
want those to go to waste. Two California King sized mattresses.
Clean all that messing you feel for the cleaning lady.

Speaker 3 (40:02):
You got to clean this mess up.

Speaker 2 (40:04):
Well, I tell you one thing, Noo, if you make
that bed up, you're gonna have to step up on
it to make it up because you ain't gonna be
to pull them covers up right, You got you gotta
learn how to make this bed up from the pillows down?

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Where do you get the bedding? Where do you get
these comforters?

Speaker 2 (40:18):
You just everybody got their own blanket.

Speaker 1 (40:21):
Oh, there was five blankets on one big watch.

Speaker 8 (40:26):
If you in the middle of that bed, he got
to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night,
all that slide.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
Excuse me, Phoenix, excuse me, Phoenie. Can't just watch the baby,
I got to go. He might not make it. Baby,
he got to slide forever.

Speaker 2 (40:43):
Hold on. Watch Pep Pill Popper, you know one of
the names they watched self Section. Come over there, hey,
Vanilla Ice, get out the way.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
This is all right, telling him with thirty four minutes after.

Speaker 6 (41:06):
Why did you tell me you had a company tonight?

Speaker 2 (41:08):
I didn't know.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
Here's the question. Can love exist in a relationship without
financial stability? That's what we'll talk about right after this.
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So, guys,
this question was on baller Alert earlier this month, and
it caused a stir in the comment This also was

(41:34):
a topic on your show, Tommy Ready to Love Philly,
where one of the men admitted that he was not
financially stable. Okay, he didn't own a car, he didn't
have a home, he didn't have an apartment, but by
the same token, he was ready to love. The female
that he connected with on the show was honest with

(41:54):
him and said she was starting to really like him,
but she had to reconsider based on what he told her.
So here here's the thing. What are your thoughts? Can
love really exist without that financial stability?

Speaker 9 (42:09):
Can it.

Speaker 2 (42:09):
Well, I know the name of the show is Ready
to Love. But if you don't have a car, you
don't have a job, and you don't have an apartment,
what happens? Will we ready to go somewhere?

Speaker 1 (42:25):
That's another show. That's another show.

Speaker 2 (42:28):
Yes, that's going to be a new show. I'm gonna
come up with ready what if we ready to go somewhere?

Speaker 1 (42:35):
But wait a minute, Steve Tommy was transparent on this show.
He shared with them that when he and his wife
Jackieats first got together, he didn't have anything. He didn't
have anything. So Tommy, that was a raw moment for
that was really yeah.

Speaker 2 (42:53):
I know what I read.

Speaker 3 (42:54):
I read some of the comments, and you know, I
was what in my late twenties then in or man,
the late twenties. These these ladies are commenting saying, this
brother forty something years old. So Tommy, it's a little
different one from where you were.

Speaker 2 (43:09):
And you no, I saw that clip, Tommy, was that
the guy with the short salt and pepper hat. Yeah,
kind of muscular dude thissco. Wait a minute, man, he
ain't got nothing. Well, he done on hard time, but
he is he done on hard time?

Speaker 1 (43:27):
He was honest.

Speaker 3 (43:29):
He could have lied through the whole show, through the
whole journey.

Speaker 2 (43:34):
He could have lied, but he didn't. Well what did
he put on y'all's application?

Speaker 3 (43:39):
Though I like Cisco, I'm sorry, I'm not going with
Donna Rabbits.

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Everybody likes him. He's a likable guy.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
He really I looked at him too. Man, he got
emotional because I saw that clip. You actually talked about
how you got and you said something.

Speaker 1 (43:58):
Man.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
Then the girl got him, went on there and hugg him.
But that was a good bye hood though.

Speaker 1 (44:03):
That was he chose her, she chose him. Alert.

Speaker 2 (44:15):
Yeah, I was Cisco. I didn't have nothing. I didn't
I stayed with a woman.

Speaker 8 (44:20):
And I can tell you right now it be a
lot of questions when you come in. You're right today,
Hell now, okay, I ain't gonna talk no more.

Speaker 3 (44:26):
So does finance really block romance?

Speaker 7 (44:30):
Does it?

Speaker 13 (44:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (44:31):
Love? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (44:33):
Five?

Speaker 1 (44:34):
Sure, yes, Yeah, I'm gonna.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
Say this right here. You can love a person that
don't have a lot going on in hopes of loving
them into motivating them. And you could get with somebody.
You you can build a man up. You could be
the missing part. But but if it continues you're not
gonna like them. You're not gonna like him though.

Speaker 1 (44:58):
So okay, so is there a limit to that then?
I mean, do you give them a time? Okay, six
months job or we're breaking up?

Speaker 3 (45:05):
Let's started like yeah, I like that shirtar But Steve,
look at it like this, no car, no place to stay,
no job, gotta have all three yet to understand what
we're looking at, all three of them?

Speaker 1 (45:15):
What happened?

Speaker 3 (45:18):
That's what you want to know?

Speaker 2 (45:19):
Yeah, of course you know. Look, I mean, look, bro,
because we had to make some decisions, you know what,
you know what, I'm tired of going to work. I'm
gonna go down here and quit my job.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
Can you be serious for one second?

Speaker 2 (45:37):
I'm dead serious.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
We're trying to figure this out.

Speaker 2 (45:41):
But if you and your farties and you had all
that stuff and you fell on hard times, what was
a decision you made that got you here? And then
a woman can work.

Speaker 1 (45:50):
With that sometimes divorced Steve. Sometimes, Yeah, if.

Speaker 2 (45:54):
The voice wipes you out, then say that I can
help you build it back up. But now if you
just don't sit over here and cry, well, what I'm
not gonna do is hold you.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
I don't think coming up next, the Nephew with today's
prank phone call.

Speaker 2 (46:09):
Right after this, somebody's sleeping.

Speaker 1 (46:19):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
at about four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry
letter for today, and the subject is who's been filling
up her tank? We will get into that and find
out what that's all about in just a few Who's
been filling up her tank? But right now it is

(46:41):
the nephwik.

Speaker 2 (46:42):
Talking about.

Speaker 9 (46:44):
The car.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
The car, okay, melling.

Speaker 1 (46:49):
This, Yeah, Tommy's here with today's prank phone call.

Speaker 2 (46:52):
What you got for?

Speaker 3 (46:53):
I want you to be a special guest on Ready
to Love my next season. That y'all ought to have
me in there, man, because I could have fixed that
episode for you. Hey, hey, stop all this crying dog.
Let me ask you a couple of questions. Okay, here's
the prank, y'all. This one right here is he left
his drawers.

Speaker 9 (47:14):
He left.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
Left them where where he left? Where he left he
left his drum. People be lave that draws all the time,
called it. Don't get in here this act. Brandon, y'all
never left y'all draw Come on, y'all ain't never been
in a hurry and left your under where.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
El Junior Steve, Yeah, oh.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
I didn't left. I didn't left. Oh yeah, yeah, I
don't put some draws, Yeah in the garbage. Well, they
can't come to the house, ain't not with all that
glit on him. It's no way, it's no way. I
couldn't shake the glit off them draws. He make it.

(48:01):
I didn't done it.

Speaker 3 (48:02):
I didn't left for me to put him back on.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
And it's hard to explain rip draws, especially if they
Tommy John underwear.

Speaker 9 (48:14):
So you.

Speaker 1 (48:17):
Yeah, right, you explain that to your wife?

Speaker 2 (48:19):
How you explain what?

Speaker 7 (48:22):
What?

Speaker 4 (48:22):
Why?

Speaker 1 (48:22):
You don't have any underwear when.

Speaker 2 (48:26):
I left the house, when you left this?

Speaker 1 (48:29):
Yeah, now you always wear them.

Speaker 2 (48:36):
I had to go to the bathroom and work, okay, okay,
And when I pulled my pants down to sit on
the toilet, okay, I peed in them a little bit, okay.
So I didn't want to put them them wet draws
back on, so I took them off. And then when

(48:56):
I took them off it worked. I just said I
was that up there at the County. Then they fell
on the floor while I was washing my hand, and
you know how nasty them bathrooms. Is I'm not wearing
this underwear no more. I threw them things in the trash.
I'm not finna wear. That's how you do it.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
That's a lie right there.

Speaker 3 (49:14):
I just wouldn't take my pants off until she went
to sleep.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
I just have to wait. I'm just gonna keep these
payings on. I got him. We're not finna tell the
truth though.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
No, you can't tell the truth. You can't.

Speaker 2 (49:30):
You can't, you can't.

Speaker 3 (49:34):
Let's go, let's go. He left his drawers.

Speaker 7 (49:37):
Come on hello, Uh yes, mister, hey, this is the
door man mark of your building. Okay, I have a
mistress here who is trying to get buzzed up to
your unit.

Speaker 9 (49:51):
Are you Are you at home right now? Sir?

Speaker 10 (49:54):
No, no, no, sir, I'm not a who mister.

Speaker 7 (49:58):
I'm sorry, you said, and he wants he buzzed up. Supposedly,
he left some articles in the room or in your
unit a couple of days ago. And I was out
of town a couple of days ago. What day are
we talking about?

Speaker 10 (50:12):
Uh so, what day is what you actually?

Speaker 9 (50:14):
He said? Wednesday, Thursday and Friday.

Speaker 7 (50:18):
He was there all three days. You guys let him
into my apartment for three days he was in my place. No,
MISTERI we don't let anybody in and let someone in
the unit allow them to be buzzed up. That's the
rules here of the building. So we definitely didn't do
anything of her.

Speaker 10 (50:34):
Who let him in?

Speaker 9 (50:35):
Who buzzed him?

Speaker 7 (50:35):
Indy, sir, I hate to say it, but I'm assuming
your wife must to buzz him up. You mean my
wife was not there three days ago. She was on
a business trip. She was not at the apartment three
days ago.

Speaker 9 (50:46):
No, sir, your wife was here. I've actually seen your
wife come in and out. Okay, the dude is there
right now, he's downstairs. He's here right now with me, Sir.
What did he leave him late? Okay, one second, miss,
hang on, did you actually leave it? That's part fair pant,
I know it? And what else? He says?

Speaker 7 (51:04):
He left uh a pair of pants, so underwear in
the tooth brush shirt. Sir, chill kill till he's there
right now. Let me talk to him, put him on.

Speaker 9 (51:14):
The phone, let me talk some god, you know what, miss.

Speaker 7 (51:17):
Right now, we're listening to you, and I rate the
way you saying I don't want to put this guy
on the phone. Mark if you want to keep your
job at the building. You're gonna put him on the
phone now, this is sir.

Speaker 9 (51:30):
Sorry, miss he's actually leaving out of the building. Now,
he's do that leave, he's walking. I don't know putting
him on the phone.

Speaker 7 (51:38):
What is your problem? You got videos to vailiens, right,
you got video footage of everybody that comes in and
out of the building, right, yes, sir, but you know,
if nothing occurs, we I think we should have footage
that goes back at least two weeks, so we should
be able to pull.

Speaker 9 (51:54):
Some things out for you.

Speaker 7 (51:55):
Sir. Yeah, I'm gonna need you to get that, and
I need to hit over to me right now. I'm
at my work email. I need it today because this
is some y'all let my apartment and it's like, what
kind of income pool party? What kind of in before?

Speaker 9 (52:11):
Sir?

Speaker 4 (52:11):
Missus?

Speaker 7 (52:12):
Missus the second all right, well, let please hear me out, sir,
hear me out. I have we haven't just let someone in,
someone in your unit, buzz someone up. We didn't just
let anyone up. Now, I know you don't want to
hear it, but I'm assuming your wife buzz this guy
just turned up.

Speaker 9 (52:33):
We didn't do that.

Speaker 7 (52:34):
You shut up and get me what I asked for
and then would done. Okay, Well, well you know you're
saying I have a problem. Maybe you have a problem.

Speaker 9 (52:43):
Please and your wife, and that's why she's buzzing other
people up.

Speaker 7 (52:48):
You talking to me like that, you pump, sir.

Speaker 9 (52:51):
You're being respectful to me as well, sir.

Speaker 7 (52:54):
No, no, no, no, the disrespectful is you coming and
then people come up to my building that you.

Speaker 9 (52:59):
Know is now. I haven't let anybody up here. I
can't stop your wife from doing what she's doing.

Speaker 10 (53:04):
You don't forget him what you're taking and.

Speaker 9 (53:06):
Taking out on me and what you should be saying
to your wife.

Speaker 7 (53:09):
Somebody has got to dress up all the time and
always buzzing.

Speaker 9 (53:12):
Somebody up to the room when your guard.

Speaker 7 (53:14):
That's what shows me to put the door man, mister
you you you know you know what. I'm the only
around here busting my take care. Damn man, I'm over.
You're working right now to take for that.

Speaker 9 (53:28):
Job. Well, you might be handling you man, whatever the dinner.

Speaker 7 (53:31):
You're not.

Speaker 9 (53:31):
You're not handling your business at home. That's why she
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Or here it is Strawberry letter.

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That's all he got.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
Thank you, nephew. Subject who's been filling up her tank?
Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for a little over
a year and my wife came home with a full
tank of gas and her car had been washed. I
noticed that I haven't had to put gas in her
car for a while, so I decided to watch how
she was moving. It's been a full month and she

(57:18):
hasn't asked me to get her any gas. She drives
fifteen miles to work in back daily, so I knew
something was up. Like a big dummy, I drove to
her job to see what was going on. Before I went,
I checked her gas level that morning and she was
right at a fourth of a tank when she usually
tells me she needs gas. I sat in the parking

(57:40):
lot and around four thirty pm, her car comes rolling
in with a man driving it. He parked it in
a reserve parking spot and a car picked him up.
I called my wife and said that I noticed that
her gas was low that morning and asked if she
needed me to come to her job and gas up
her car. She said she didn't want me to d
I have all the way out there because she could

(58:01):
make it home. I waited until she got off work,
and she came out and got in her car, and
she drove straight home. I got home a few minutes
after her, and I told her I was going to
put gas in her car. She lied and said she
stopped on the way home and filled her car up.
I commented on her car being clean inside and out,
and she said she took it to be cleaned three

(58:25):
days ago by her job, and she said that she
couldn't remember the name of the car wash. I knew
some companies provide a gym membership for their employees. So
does her job provide free gas and car washes? Or
is another man taking care of her needs? Is it
cool to tell her that I drove to her job
and I know she's been lying?

Speaker 7 (58:46):
Is it cool?

Speaker 1 (58:47):
This is your wife? What are you talking about? You
ask a lot of questions at the end of this letter.
It's great to ask questions, of course, but you should
be asking your wife these same questions that you just
asked Steve and I, and you should ask her way
before this. Why didn't you ask the guy who was
driving your wife's car? Why didn't you stop him and

(59:08):
talk to him. I can't believe you just stood by
and watched another man come pull up in your wife's car.
What I don't get it. So to your question about
is it cool to tell her that you drove to
her a job and you know she's been lying? It
doesn't matter if it's cool or not. Ask her, tell
her whatever you need to do to get at the truth.

(59:28):
She's gonna have to come clean at some point when
you tell her you saw this guide driving her car,
You saw him right. I don't know any husband on
earth who would be okay with this, not one, but anyway,
to me. The bottom line is, no matter what she said,
she's lied to you on several occasions. Do you honestly
think it's going to make a difference this time? Your

(59:49):
marriage is in trouble, sir. This is an urgent problem,
and it's too soon to be having these kinds of
problems anyway. You guys are still in the honeymoon stage.
You should be. You haven't been married but over a year.
Talk to her about it today or you're gonna be
filing for divorce tomorrow.

Speaker 4 (01:00:05):
Steve, I don't.

Speaker 6 (01:00:09):
I don't understand this letter. Who's been filling up her tank?

Speaker 7 (01:00:15):
The guy?

Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Whoever the guy is?

Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
You know, you've been married a little over a year
and my wife came home with a full tank of
gas in the copy in Washington. You ain't had to
put no car in the gas for a while, so
you decided to watch to see how she was moving.
And been a month and she ain't asked you to
get no drive. Job is fifteen miles away one way,

(01:00:39):
So then you said, like a big gummy, I drove
jobs see what was going on. But before you went,
you checked her gas level. She had a quart of
a tank. You sat in the parking lot, and at
around four point thirty, her car comes rolling in with

(01:01:00):
a man driving it. He parked it in her reserve
parking spot and a car picked him up. Then you
call your wife and said, I noticed that your gas
was low running this morning. She needed me to come
to a job gas up her car. She said, she
didn't want me to drive all that way out there,
but she could make it home. She didn't lie. She
ain't want you to drive all the way out there,

(01:01:21):
and she'ld and she can make it home. But your
question is who been filling up her tank when you
was sitting there at four thirty and saw her car
pull up and then this man got out and then
got in another car. What prompted you to write this

(01:01:44):
letter to us? Who's been filling up her tank?

Speaker 9 (01:01:49):
Him?

Speaker 5 (01:01:52):
Him?

Speaker 2 (01:01:53):
The dude that got out the car at four thirty
that you watch pull into your wife's deserved spot. So
that means your wife works in some type of Corporate
America position and somebody, now this man that drove the car,
it could be it could be a fueling service. It

(01:02:16):
could be a car wash detailed business and they put
gas in your car. She could be paying for it. Eh, okay, okay,
But who's been filling up her tank? To me is
an ignoric question, because you saw the man get out
of your wife's car at four point thirty and somebody

(01:02:37):
picked him up and drove off. Then you called into
your wife and said, I noticed your gas was low
this morning. You need me to come your job and
gas up your car. She said she ain't. Won't you
drive all that way because she could make it home.
I waited till she got off work and came out.
Now you're still in the parking lot. Waited until she
came out, got her car. She drove straight home.

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
Hang on, Steve, hang on right there. Yeah, we'll have
part two of your response coming up at twenty three
minutes after the hour today. Strawberry letter subject who's been
filling up her tank? We'll get back into it right
after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject,
who's been filling up her tank?

Speaker 2 (01:03:56):
Bruh, I don't I don't know how to talk to
you because I don't know how old you are. You
got to be young, Yeah, you got to be young
because for you to write this letter, the subject is
who's been filling up her tank? You've been married a
little over a year. Your wife always has you fill
up her car. And then you notice that she hadn't

(01:04:17):
been asking you for a month to fill up the car.
And she always has gas in the car, and the
car is always clean, and you know her job is
fifteen miles away both ways, so you knew something was up.
And men, you say, like a big dummy, I drove
down to her job see what was going on. And
before you went, you checked her gas level. This morning

(01:04:39):
she was at a quarter of a tank. That's when
she normally tells you she need gas. So I sat
in the parking lot and around four thirty pm, her
car comes rolling in with a man driving. He parked
in her reserve parking spot. A car picked him up.
I called my wife and said that I noticed that
her gas was low that morning. She wanted me to

(01:04:59):
come the job and get a car. She said, she
ain't want you to drive all that way out there
because she could make it home. Your question is who's
been filling up her tank? That man, that man that
pulled into your wife's reserved parking spot, that got out
of her car and another man picked up. That's who

(01:05:20):
was driving. That's who been filling up her tank. So,
but why how did you manage to go home and
type this letter to us? Because you asking the question
that you already got to answer to. So when she
told you she ain't want you to drive all the
way out there because she can make it home, she
wasn't lying she could make it home. I waited. Now,

(01:05:44):
now you still in the parking lot, see me. This's
a whole nother story. First of all, hey, man, what
you're doing driving my wife car?

Speaker 9 (01:05:54):
Now?

Speaker 2 (01:05:55):
Fight breakout? Probably in the parking lot. Some people look,
the police is there. It's some yellow tape in the
parking lot. They bringing your wife down for questioning all
listening supposed to have happened, But somehow you sat there
in the parking lot and waited till she got home.

(01:06:18):
And she got out, got in her car, and trove
straight home. I got home a few minutes after her.
I told her I was gonna put gas in her car.
Why are you still playing this game? Though I told
her I was gonna put gas in her car, she
lied and said she stopped on the way home to
fill her car up. I commented on her car being

(01:06:40):
clean inside and out, and she said she took it
to be cleaned three days ago by her job. And
she told me she couldn't remember the name of the
car wash, but I bet she know the dude name
that was driving the car. I know some companies provided
gym membership for their employees, so her job provide free

(01:07:01):
gas and car washing. Okay, look, man, listen, I don't
know how to talk to you, because I really I
don't know you, and I ain't trying to start nothing,
but you asking a lot of stupid questions to me. See,

(01:07:24):
your wife got the answer to all these questions, but
you done wrote in to Steven Shirley. The first question
is who's putting gas in her in her who's filling
up her car? Demand that brought it back to the
parking spot. Does her company provide her free gas and

(01:07:48):
car washes? What company you other than fed X and
ups give you free gas? But they don't put gas
in the truck. Now, I know companies that give you
a gas allotment, that give you a fuel reimbursement. I

(01:08:10):
know that, but I don't know nothing else. Or is
another man taking care of her knees? Well, right now
you already know somebody taking care of them cars. Needs
you need to find out if he's filling up the

(01:08:31):
other tank too, if he's checking the dipstick, if he's
checking her oil, if he up in there changing her
transmission here and L putting in an extra one, she'll

(01:08:52):
washing for you. If he and L working on her timing, Yeah,
he got that carberator over.

Speaker 6 (01:09:07):
Somebody in there revving up that engine.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
That what you need to find.

Speaker 6 (01:09:15):
Is it cool to tell her that I drove to
her job and I know she been lying?

Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
Is it cool?

Speaker 9 (01:09:21):
First?

Speaker 2 (01:09:21):
Boy, let me tell you something. And that man pulled
up in that parking lot. This a whole nother letter.
I don't even understand how you set down and waited
on her to come out, to get in her and
follow her home. I got all I need? Who the
hell was in that car? Now, Shirley said, you should

(01:09:43):
have asked him. I probably would have said, oh, you're
my man, how you driving my wife's car? But I
would have been prepared at that moment that this fit
to get physical. Yeah, now you decided to come home
and text a letter.

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All right, Well, the numbers are in.

Speaker 8 (01:10:55):
Forty one million people have turned in to watch Canelo
Alvarez and Hearns Crawford fight.

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Forty one million.

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Forty one million.

Speaker 8 (01:11:05):
God tuned in for that fight super Bowl and uh,
it's like it's uh terrece Crawford got about fifty million
for the fight.

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It but Canelo got one hundred and fifty million.

Speaker 6 (01:11:19):
What yeah, dog, Canelo is the man?

Speaker 1 (01:11:25):
Yeah where the man got beat a hundred fifty million man.
But you know what thing Budd did do?

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Budd Crawford did do. Man, he gave Conelo ever Is
back his belt. He gave him back to that was
class class.

Speaker 1 (01:11:37):
Yeah, that was a nice moon man getting back his belt.

Speaker 8 (01:11:40):
Because he's finna get some new custom fitted championship belts.

Speaker 3 (01:11:42):
That's what he finished the wars for him.

Speaker 2 (01:11:44):
He's gonna get the custod fitted so he don't want
to see all those belts have Canelo's picture on him.
Uh huh And that was a really decent thing to
give him the pill back. Budd gonna get the same
belts with his pictures on, but he had every right
to keep those belts. He's the first person I've ever
seen gear the belts back to a man. Yeah, that's
awesome when he has Now what happens with Bud?

Speaker 4 (01:12:07):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
Does he does he become the face?

Speaker 10 (01:12:09):
Now?

Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Is he gonna be It's gonna be a rematch this
fight is he is clown for pounds, the greatest fo.
I don't think Canelo will fight every dead because he is.
There's nothing he can do with Bud Crawford. Nothing, he
called him nothing. It's nothing he could do with Bud Crawford.
He said it, he said it. I tried everything, he.

Speaker 9 (01:12:32):
Said, what.

Speaker 2 (01:12:35):
I try Everything.

Speaker 3 (01:12:38):
Ain't nothing working.

Speaker 2 (01:12:40):
Nothing, I try everything, Bud, Bud, Bud was on him.
And so now the question is does Bud retire or
does he take advantage because now he is the draw
see his next fight, but the only fight out there
on See they're trying to talk him into uh ben

(01:13:02):
a Vetas, but he don't need to do that though
he too big, He too big, Budd don't need to
go up there he don't went up far as he
needs to go. He didn't need to go up there
and fight benter vetas that ain't gonna work out. That
would say he can do it. I believe it. But
what about him and Tank Davis?

Speaker 3 (01:13:17):
Would that be a fight?

Speaker 2 (01:13:18):
You'd be interested to stop tank? He stop tank tank
which he never had got in man's please, ain't nobody
ain't nobody can go Bud craft tank so that you
can get God God seel you go, get all you
dig up hanging you can dig up all of them.
If you won't, you can put him in there. No, no, ain't.
None of them boys can touch Bud. And that's that's

(01:13:40):
what happened. They all, they all ducked him and they
knew why Canela was the only one of a fight him, right,
Bud Crawford everything right now, though I hope he fight
one more time. Get him a big check, then get
on out.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
Don't get on that all right?

Speaker 9 (01:13:55):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:13:55):
Thank you, thank you guys, Thank you. Junior coming up
at the top of the hour. But lady needs some
advice because she thinks her boyfriend is too flashy. We'll
talk about it right after this. You're listening to the
Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, this is from Yo
Yo and Raleigh. Yoyo says, I'm dating a guy that

(01:14:19):
was a musician for years in New York and he
was used to being around celebrities. He retired two years
ago and came back to our hometown. We got reacquainted
and he wants to get married. But I don't think
he's happy here. We are in our late fifties, but
he's mentally stuck in his thirties when he was living
the fast life. He even dresses like he's about to

(01:14:41):
go play his horn whenever we go out. Will he
ever stop acting? Hollywood? Can he settled down?

Speaker 9 (01:14:48):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:14:48):
He too flashy, like y'all going out to dinner. He
just got a vest only he got a little shirt
and nuting.

Speaker 1 (01:14:54):
He sucks.

Speaker 2 (01:14:55):
He got it, He got it. He got a leather
He got a leather necklace on with a feather on him. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
he ain't coming back, babe, he's don he too flashy.

Speaker 1 (01:15:09):
Yeah what if he's a nice guy.

Speaker 2 (01:15:13):
He nice guy, but he too flashed him. You know,
he ain't ready to be You gotta understand why he
came back home. Some went wrong? What he needed to
do is talk to what's his name or Ready Ready
to Love? Tommy got a great show, Francisco. Yeah, tom
I got love. Tommy got this really cool dude on
there named Cisco. Ain't got nothing and you need to

(01:15:34):
uh because the flashy dude he might because Cisco can
tell him how to get through this, because Cisco doing good.
Since Cisco got it that. I was really impressed with
that Ready for Love show because he looked like he
had it together. He can tricked a lot of people.
He's a mirage.

Speaker 1 (01:15:54):
All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This
is from Margaret and Tulsa. Margaret says, my new lover
and I were about to be intimate, and I excused
myself to change into my nightgown. I mistakenly left my
shapewear in the bathroom, and later that night I heard
him bust out laughing after he used the bathroom. He
laughed and joked and even tried to squeeze into my

(01:16:16):
shapewear shorts. I yelled for him to stop, and it
ended what could have been a beautiful night. He said
I should learn to take a joke. What was funny
about that? Did I miss something? Well, uh huh, that's
kind of weird.

Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
Yeah, it is, it is, and he did not laughing.
But if he could fit him though, that's another problem.

Speaker 1 (01:16:40):
That's her shapewear shorts.

Speaker 2 (01:16:42):
Yeah, we need to find out what's really going on here. Yeah, yeah,
I think that she ain't put that in the letter,
but that probably would offend it. He actually got him
up on it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
Kit women wear shapewear though, I mean, yeah, how do
you guys feel about that?

Speaker 2 (01:17:02):
Okay, what would you say? Shape?

Speaker 1 (01:17:06):
Well, what you mean you mean like you know, like spans,
like you like, give you a waist you know, make
your snatch your waist short.

Speaker 2 (01:17:14):
I don't care what you wear. Okay, she did go
in there and put on neglige A right, that's what
that's what your nightgown. I don't care what you got.

Speaker 6 (01:17:21):
I don't okay, okay, right.

Speaker 2 (01:17:26):
Off in that bathroom and you want to wait what
you can peel your skin off in that bathroom if
you want to. I'm not gonna care as long as
you come out of that.

Speaker 11 (01:17:35):
Naked, naked, but no skin. I don't even have to
stand you leave some of that hand now, I don't care. Wow, Okay,
all right, you guys, I go.

Speaker 2 (01:17:52):
In the bathroom. What is all these chips in here?
I took the nails off. I ain't want to scratch it,
thank you.

Speaker 8 (01:17:58):
I want to win in shapewear. The problem is if
I try to put shape wear on and still got
the same shape.

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
Yeah, I mean it's not working. Yeah, it's mail. Wait,
epic fail, epic fail.

Speaker 3 (01:18:16):
Spink go all the way to the high up. Do
a spank go however?

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
Yeah, yeah, you get them in different sizes. Tommy, you
can just bring you bring your stomach and thighs.

Speaker 3 (01:18:31):
Peace.

Speaker 4 (01:18:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:18:32):
And they have for men as well, so let's put
that out there too.

Speaker 2 (01:18:36):
Hey, remember that company that came to the radio station
and had us try that stuff? Y'all?

Speaker 1 (01:18:42):
Ted you try for men?

Speaker 13 (01:18:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:18:44):
To put that white top on, I had to get
a knife and get out of mine.

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Speaker 2 (01:20:21):
Vaccine for w.

Speaker 1 (01:20:25):
No, you got to take care of yoursels, guys, the
time of year, especially as you get older. All right, guys,
thank you. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show coming up at thirty three minutes after we'll play
around I would you rather? Right after this, you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (01:20:45):
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all of that and more?

Speaker 3 (01:20:59):
What is it?

Speaker 9 (01:21:00):
Then?

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Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
It's time now to play around it. Would you rather?
Would you rather? If you're tailgating? Would you rather hot
dogs and burgers or a huge charcouterie board? Would dark hooter?

Speaker 7 (01:21:25):
Bo?

Speaker 9 (01:21:25):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:21:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
Bring that totl If I have to text that to somebody,
they're not gonna want to eat it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
It's just some meat and cheese and stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:21:38):
Okay, well I've never been able to spell it. I
don't really eat that spell.

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
I think it would be cute. We would you rather have.

Speaker 8 (01:21:52):
Cheese and salamic.

Speaker 5 (01:21:56):
Win fruit?

Speaker 4 (01:21:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:21:59):
Football game? The visiting tine ain't gonna respect us.

Speaker 1 (01:22:05):
They got your cutery boards. They respect, It's all right.
Would you rather have corns on your baby toes or
flabby skin on your neck? Corns on your baby toes
or flabby skin on your neck?

Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
I need my neck? Y'all really doing this with me?
Of course not. I should get these coins off, though,
Lord Father, God help me. I done had them on
both feet at the same time. Back when I used
to wear the morrigators hard hard, okay, I used to

(01:22:48):
pay in the hotel lobby and take my shoes off.

Speaker 9 (01:22:53):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:22:54):
For two million dollars, listen carefully. For two million dollars, I.

Speaker 2 (01:22:58):
Can tell you right now, Junior gonna do it, Cala
gonna do it, and Monica gonna do it.

Speaker 1 (01:23:05):
Two million dollars. Would you rather eat twenty boiled roaches
or or kiss your ex dead in the mouth with.

Speaker 3 (01:23:19):
Either one?

Speaker 2 (01:23:20):
To me, don't you don't?

Speaker 7 (01:23:23):
I'm going what.

Speaker 3 (01:23:25):
I ain't eating roaches, but I'm gonna kiss say in
the mouth for two.

Speaker 2 (01:23:28):
Men, I'm gonna kiss, I'm gonna kill. I ain't doing
no no roaches. Can I say?

Speaker 9 (01:23:34):
Not? What?

Speaker 1 (01:23:35):
Karla?

Speaker 4 (01:23:36):
Both?

Speaker 2 (01:23:36):
For four million?

Speaker 3 (01:23:41):
I can't get the roaches down?

Speaker 4 (01:23:43):
Whatever?

Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
To me, Steve, you haven't answered for two million. Two
million is two million.

Speaker 2 (01:23:50):
He ain't doing nothing. You don't lead a house.

Speaker 1 (01:23:52):
Sometimes to me, he'll lead a twenty million, twenty million.

Speaker 6 (01:23:59):
I leave my house two million. I don't know who here, y'all,
thank you.

Speaker 2 (01:24:02):
No, I'm out the front door right now where we're going,
especially for an appearance?

Speaker 9 (01:24:12):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:24:12):
So would you kiss your ex in the mouth? Or
would you eat twenty boiled roaches? Which one?

Speaker 6 (01:24:18):
I'm gonna some barbecue sauce and some chopping.

Speaker 1 (01:24:24):
Today's round. Would you rather? Guys coming up?

Speaker 2 (01:24:27):
I have I have them so burnt.

Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
Some ranch coming up. It's our last break of the
day and we'll close down with the one and only
Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1 (01:25:15):
All right, guys, this is our last break of the day.
It's been a fun day. We have to thank our audience.
It's always for riding with us every morning. We love you,
We thank you. Yes, appreciate this morning. Yes as usual. Absolutely,
we love you though. Thank you, Steve. You have some
encouraging words to close out the show. Take us home.

Speaker 2 (01:25:38):
Yeah, you know we would. What was the story we
were doing earlier year.

Speaker 1 (01:25:43):
Well, we were doing this story about Monique and how
she's had this running fluid with feud with Tyler Perry
and Oprah Winfrey for about ten years, and how she
says she's not letting it go. She's just not letting
it go. She says, that's the reason we as black
people are treated the way we are. It stems from slavery,
because we don't let things go, and she's not letting

(01:26:04):
it go. That's what she said.

Speaker 2 (01:26:07):
Yeah, she said, because we let things go. Yeah, that's
why we listen. This isn't for her at all. This
isn't for her at all. I'm just talking to people
in general about this subject right now because I've learned
I can't. I'm not gonna get into that. I don't

(01:26:29):
want my name in it. I didn't say nothing one
way or the other. I'm out of it. Here's the deal.
I want people to understand something, the danger of holding
on to things.

Speaker 9 (01:26:46):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
I don't think people really understand the value of the
statement of what forgiveness is. I was taught, you know,
as a Christian we are to forgive, right, but I
was when you understand the rea reason why, it becomes
quite beneficial because forgiveness is Forgiveness doesn't mean you have

(01:27:08):
to forget. That's what people think you're suppost to forgive
and let a person back in your life and run
the risk of it happening again. Forgiveness does not mean
you have to forget. Forgiveness allows you to no longer
allow that event or person to affect you. See, forgiveness

(01:27:28):
is not for the other person. It's for you. Most
people or events that you won't forgive in your life,
those people ain't even thinking about you. Those events have
come and gone. It's some people that have done you
what you consider dirty or wrong and then moved on

(01:27:49):
with they life. But every time you see them, every
time their name comes up, it conjures a thought in
you that just eats away at you like a cancer.
Forgiveness is not for the other person, it's for you.
See when you don't forgive, and watch the examples of this, y'all,

(01:28:09):
when you don't forgive, it's like you drinking the poison,
waiting on them to die. That's exactly what it's like.
All you got to do is look at the examples
of over and over and over over of somebody you
see that just refuses to let go of the past.

(01:28:30):
Let me tell you something, why would you not let go?
Holding on to the past is of no benefit to you.
The past belongs to history, the future belongs to God.
Your gift is the present. That's why they call it
the present, because that's the gift that you have, the now.

(01:28:52):
And let me tell you something, man.

Speaker 10 (01:28:55):
You.

Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
Let me the best way to put this. You got
to let go of the darkness of your past because
if you don't, you will stop the bright future that
you can have. If you hold on to the darkness
of your past, you will stop the bright future that

(01:29:21):
you can have. You can't drive your car looking in
the rear view mirror. You're gonna keep running into something, y'all.
It does it. It will not hurt you. To forgive
a person. It won't hurt you. Now you can hang
on to it if you want to. You can be stubborn.
I ain't letting it go. Okay, okay, Then guess what

(01:29:43):
when you don't let it go, it won't let you
go either. See holding on come both ways. It take
two people a hug. If you hug in your past,
your past is hugging you. So if you hold it
on to it, guess what it's holding on to you too.
Now somebody's getting prevented from something going on. That's the

(01:30:04):
danger of holding on, especially to something that's ill. That's
just ill to you. Something not correct, not happy, doesn't
bring you joy, isn't positive. You hang on to a negative, y'all.
What you're doing, what you're doing to yourself? Come on, man,
you better than that. You owe yourself more than that

(01:30:27):
than to hang on to the past. It's over. It's over,
you know. I finally this year I forgave somebody who
did something like really crazy to me during COVID somebody
did something real crazy to me doing the business deal.
I set the brother down. I forgave you, not then forget,

(01:30:49):
but I forgave it. Because right after I forgave him,
do you know what he did? He came back to
me and asked me for some money. And you know
what I had done.

Speaker 6 (01:31:06):
I say, hey, brother, I forgave You'll promise you I did.
But I don't think you and I need to do
any more financial dealings because I think that's what got
us in the bad place before. So I just let
him have the information that he needed. But forgiving him
did a great service to me because I could worry

(01:31:26):
about him every time his name came up. It didn't
conjure up no bad thoughts in me. You have got
to let stuff go.

Speaker 2 (01:31:33):
You can't let the darkness of your past stop the
bright future you can have.

Speaker 6 (01:31:38):
Don't do it to yourself. Y'all forgiven the same for
the other person.

Speaker 1 (01:31:42):
It's the youth.

Speaker 2 (01:31:43):
Y'all. Have a great day today, and the most important
thing you could do today, y'all, don't forget to talk
to God today.

Speaker 6 (01:31:49):
He would absolutely love to hear from you.

Speaker 1 (01:31:52):
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