FULL SHOW: One Has To Go, Strawberry Letter: When I Look, I Find - 11.19.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time, y'all don't know y'all at all
at all. So given them.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Back a million bus buss things. And it's not ye
listening to me.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
I don't joy joy, you don't use that.

Speaker 5 (01:05):
You love.

Speaker 6 (01:06):
You gotta turn.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
I came.

Speaker 4 (01:40):
You got to turn the mouth the turn You've probably
got to turn out to turn out, turn the water
of the mono.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Look, come come out you think that?

Speaker 7 (02:00):
Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening
to the voice, Come on, dig me now what and
all that? Steve Harvey man oh Man got a radio show, yep.
Trying to make it work too. I'm not trying. I'm
getting it. I'm getting it done to the best of
my abilities. Now, something funny my father taught me. He says,

(02:25):
so when you've done all you can do, if you've
done your absolute best and you look up and it
didn't get the job done, take a deep breath and
do some more. That used to bug me, man, when
my father used to tell me, that's the son. When

(02:46):
you've done your absolute best and you think you can't
do no more. You've done all you can and it
still don't get the job done, take yourself a deep breath,
and do some more. And you know what I found
that has worked every single time, every single time, because

(03:11):
what my father knew was that what you think is
your breaking point or what you think is your all
in all, he says, son, it's just something about it. Man,
if you just gather yourself, you got a little bit more.
Everybody got some more. And you know, I gotta be

(03:35):
honest with you. It has worked. It has helped me greatly,
and you know it. Everybody does have some more.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
You know.

Speaker 7 (03:43):
I tell that to my sons all the time. Dad,
I did my best. Well, let mens you something else.
Could you have done anything else? Could you have studied
a little harder, Could you have shown up a little
bit earlier, could you stayed.

Speaker 8 (03:55):
A little bit later?

Speaker 7 (03:59):
Yeah, well then okay, that's what you should have done.
Then see, there's always a way. But if you're going
to create excuses, if you're gonna make them up all
the time about why you don't get it done, I
have a very, very sad a statement for you right now.
You're never gonna get anything done. You're never gonna get

(04:21):
to the top.

Speaker 8 (04:22):
Not to the top.

Speaker 7 (04:23):
You can get half way up. Now you can get
a third of the whey up. You can get three
quarters of the whey up. But if you don't have
that little extra reserve in you, you're not getting to
the top. The top is only reserved for those that
have the wherewithal and the power to desire, the drive

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and the gut riching effort to get to the top.
The top is reserved only for the top.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
It's just the top.

Speaker 8 (04:53):
There ain't but one top. Then the middle done, ain't it?

Speaker 9 (04:57):
You know?

Speaker 8 (04:57):
The top, the top of the mountain.

Speaker 10 (04:59):
Half.

Speaker 7 (05:00):
It's a different view at the top. Things look different
from up top. So if you want to get to
the top of whatever your profession, your field, your career,
whatever it is, you got to do extra.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
You have to do more.

Speaker 7 (05:19):
More is expected of you, more, but his what's really crazy,
More is required of you.

Speaker 8 (05:26):
Don't live your life in the lasadaisical state.

Speaker 7 (05:30):
Don't wake up every day with the feeling of, well,
you know, whatever happens happens, NA man have a say
so in your life.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
You.

Speaker 7 (05:39):
First of all, let me ask you something. Who has God?
Name the person that God has given authority over you.
Name the person? But who is the person? Nobody has
domain over you. God didn't create that person. So what
you sitting here for?

Speaker 2 (05:58):
Man?

Speaker 7 (05:59):
What are you sitting here here for? Letting people who
do not know direct your path? Why are you worried
about all these people with what they got to say
about you and all these people with what they got
to think about you? When here's the news flash, they
don't know either. All these people that you overly concerned about,

(06:21):
all these people that you go into these.

Speaker 8 (06:24):
Answers for, they need answers to.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Stop.

Speaker 7 (06:29):
What are you doing here? Gather yourself for a minute.
Here is a solution to all of that. You have
one source that will be there for you to the
end of time, and that is your relationship with God.
That is the one thing that's solid and for show.
He's behind the wall. He's in your jail cell. He

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rides with you in the police car. He's with you
on your job up ato school. He's down there in
the board meetings with you. You when you travel on planes.
He says with you when you're in a relationship. He
helps you with your parenting skills. He helps you. He's
there to assist you. He show if you do the
right things, he show you and guide you to your

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next job. When you lose your job and you think
it's a rap, there's some good behind it. Man, God
is always working on your behalf. To those that believe you,
just gotta believe.

Speaker 8 (07:24):
He don't ask you for nothing else.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
Believe in me.

Speaker 8 (07:27):
That's all He asks you to do. What you're tripping for.

Speaker 7 (07:30):
Man, And then when you make the decision to believe
in him, and it comes out your mouth from time
to time somewhere what you're worried about, what people say,
What you're worried about, what they think for?

Speaker 8 (07:41):
Why who are they?

Speaker 7 (07:42):
They need God to you telling them you found something
new that you're gonna give this a shot right here. Now,
they got some yang yin yang and some yak ofy
yak to say about that when they need God too.
That's what amazes me mad about people sit up in here, man,
be knocking your dreamings. Look, if you're an atheist, man,
do your thing, do your thing. But you can't create

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no laws?

Speaker 8 (08:05):
Why I can't do mine? That don't make no sense. Man,
That makes no sense at all to me.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
You have the right to go be whatever you want
to be.

Speaker 7 (08:15):
You know, if you don't like the fact that I'm
in school, got my head bowed down, and I'm saying
a prayer for I take this test. Just don't buy
your head. Don't you pray. But if some kids want
to get together, that's some crazy mess. That's what happened
in our schools. We took prayer out of schools, and
now look at our schools. You send your child to
school and someone else comes back home. That's a whole

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nother thing right here. That's not what I want to
talk to you about. But I was just throwing it
out because you know, hey, man, your relationship with God
is essential to your success as a person. It's essential
to your existence. It's essential to where you're trying to
go and what you're trying to be. Because He made you.
Why would you not talk to the person that made

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you to find out what he created you for. I
ain't talking about your parents, who made your parents. This
is God, we created in his image. Why would you
not talk to your maker to see why you got made?
That don't make sense to you. If you're sitting and
gotten yourself in a situation, you sitting in the jail

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cell somewhere, you locked up, you doing some time, man,
be a good time. For you to reflect. But whatever
your situation is, man, God can get you through it.
He can give you the strength, the courage to wherewith
all the understanding everything you need, the wisdom to get
you through anything you're going through. You just got a
touch base with him. I need God every single day

(09:47):
of my life. And what He's done for me. Man
off the chain. But guess what he'll do the same
thing for you.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (10:04):
Ladies and gentlemen, it's another day, another opportunity, another blessing,
another shot. This is actually a moment of greatness. If
you claim it that way, it can be that way.
The Bible says a man is as he thinking. How
you think, That's how you are.

Speaker 8 (10:26):
What you project, that's what comes back to you.

Speaker 7 (10:29):
What your signal on your remote sends out, that's what
shows up on your TV. Your brain is your personal remote.
Your TV is your life. What you want to see
in your life, Press the button on your remote and
make it happen. Be positive. Positivity comes your way. Now
that's not to say it won't be. Some negative stuff happened,

(10:51):
but you know, hey, look life is ten percent what
happened to you. It's ninety percent what you do about it. Huh,
come on now, people may lemonade out of limits.

Speaker 8 (11:03):
All the time.

Speaker 7 (11:05):
It's one of my all time favorite drinks. It's a
nice glass eliminade. I would like mine, sweet, I like
swim lemonade. I don't want no tart lemonade. Yeah, what
is the aid for? If you ain't gonna put nothing
in it to aid it? I could have just want

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no shot of lemon juice anyway. This is Steve Harvet
watershow Shirley Strawberry callar for real Mississippi Monica Junior and
the legend that is Nephew Tommy Jr.

Speaker 8 (11:37):
What's on your mind today?

Speaker 10 (11:38):
Man?

Speaker 11 (11:39):
Make this clip? Force up?

Speaker 2 (11:41):
You make this clip?

Speaker 8 (11:42):
Force uncle?

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (11:44):
How do we how do we know if what we
want out of life is what God won't force?

Speaker 7 (11:49):
Oh, you ain't gonna get it? How that clip clear
enough for you, but you're not fit to get it?

Speaker 1 (12:04):
Response?

Speaker 2 (12:05):
Bo I learned to tell you something.

Speaker 7 (12:06):
You know how many times he'd have told me, no, boy,
you know much stuff I didn't wanted and it wasn't
in God's will and I wanted it anyway. And if
you get it, you're gonna wish she never had a
had it. Boy, boy, boy, let me tell you something.
God is real clear, man, he ain't foggy, he ain't hazy,

(12:29):
It ain't none of that. When it ain't for you,
you fit to find out real fast, and it's gonna
be and it's gonna be constant.

Speaker 8 (12:37):
Reminded us that this ain't for you.

Speaker 2 (12:40):
He man.

Speaker 7 (12:40):
Let me give you an example, because we just kind
of talking about this before the pre show. Look, all right,
look you meet this girl right.

Speaker 8 (12:48):
She found to you I won't huh.

Speaker 10 (12:55):
Yeah, So.

Speaker 8 (12:58):
You ain't asked God about it. You decided you won't huff.

Speaker 7 (13:03):
God, in his infinite wisdom, starts showing you signs that
you probably need to put this one back.

Speaker 8 (13:13):
You go outside. You ain't got no windows on your car?

Speaker 1 (13:17):
Why you don't have no windows?

Speaker 7 (13:19):
I'll windows thrust it all out, And Neil wrote a
song about it, call the anthem.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
It is not Yes. Shout out to Jasmine Sullivan.

Speaker 8 (13:32):
Don't I'm just saying. I'm just saying it'd be some signs.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
All right, guys, coming up at thirty two minutes after
the hour, we will run that prank back with the
nephew right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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nephew is here to run that prank back for us
what you got for his neft.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
I gotta make the call. Let this man know you
ain't married. You're not married. The pastor that you had
not had the qualifications, did not have all the credentials.

Speaker 8 (14:37):
You are not married.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
So that kids cut y'all hand them kids is out
of WHI you know what you supposed you know what
they call them key?

Speaker 8 (14:46):
But anyway, here we go. Heymen, they was out.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Of what lock quid locke, It's just weblock.

Speaker 2 (14:54):
It's unlocked. You know what I'm trying to say. Let's
go cat, I'm not gonna sit here, please, w's with y'all.

Speaker 9 (15:00):
Hello, I'm trying to reach Brian. Yeah, how you doing, Brian?
My name is Daniel. Wanted to give you a call today.
You got a minute? Yeah, okay, listen. You're you're Brian,
Brian right, you're married to uh to Althea.

Speaker 12 (15:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 13 (15:16):
Hello, hello, yeah, yeah, that's that's me. That's my wife.

Speaker 8 (15:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (15:21):
Okay, got a question for you. How long have you
guys been married?

Speaker 13 (15:25):
Going on nine years?

Speaker 2 (15:26):
Now?

Speaker 13 (15:26):
We've been married? Now?

Speaker 12 (15:28):
Who is it?

Speaker 9 (15:29):
My name is Daniel. Were you were you guys married
at a Greater and New Missionary Baptist.

Speaker 13 (15:35):
Church Una see yeah, yeah, yep, yes, that's the name
of that church. Yeah, great, by nine years? Yeah, that's right.
Why what's going on? What's asking all these questions for?

Speaker 9 (15:46):
Okay? Do you remember the minister that officiated your actual
wedding ceremony?

Speaker 12 (15:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (15:52):
Uh reverend right? Yeah, okay, I got the right person.
I wanted to make sure I had the right person, Brian.
So I'm sorry if it seemed a little weird to you. Here.
Here's what's going on. We've just come up with a
new discovery a lot of information that Reverend none of
his credentials are true. Everything is false. He's not a

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minister at all. He never was a minister, And every
single wedding ceremony that he officiated is basically null and void. So,
and I hate to be the bearer of bad news,
but you and Althea, even though you think you've been
married for nine years, you guys are not married at all.

Speaker 13 (16:36):
No, no, no, no, that that you got to have
the wrong person, because me and that thing we got
we got married by nine years ago.

Speaker 9 (16:43):
And what I'm telling you is he he never was ordained.
He's never been an ordained minister. He's not a minister
at all. So when he performed this ceremony, your wedding ceremony,
he had no right to be doing that. You guys
are not are not married. You know, you guys have

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been living in sin for nine years.

Speaker 5 (17:06):
Hold on, hold on that.

Speaker 13 (17:07):
Let me tell you something. I ain't been living in
those sins. Me and my wife we have been married
for nine years. And that man, he's a preacher. I'm
telling you, he's a preacher. Read preached last Sunday, Sir.

Speaker 9 (17:17):
As of today, he is he has no right to
be in anybody's pull pit. He has no right to
be officiating, whether it's weddings or funerals, no matter what
it is, christenings for children. He's not allowed to do that.
And we have officially stopped him from doing anything serving
under as being a pastor or a minister. We have

(17:37):
stopped at But what I want you to know is
that you have been living in sin and you don't.
We want to try and get you guys married as
soon as possible, so you're not living in sin.

Speaker 13 (17:48):
Oh no, dog, I have been living in those sin.
I have been married for nine years. This woman shit
has been taking care of me and my kids for
the past nine Wait.

Speaker 9 (17:57):
Wait, wait, wait a minute, wait a minute. You guys children?

Speaker 13 (18:00):
Yeah, yeah, we got two kids, two beautiful kids.

Speaker 9 (18:03):
Okay, then those kids are bastards.

Speaker 5 (18:05):
Bastards.

Speaker 13 (18:06):
Hold up, hold on, let me tell you something. My
kids ain't no baskets. What about your kids? Your kids ambassts.

Speaker 9 (18:11):
No, sir, my kids were born in wedlock. Your kids
have been born out of wed.

Speaker 13 (18:16):
I'm telling you that man did my service, and he
is a preacher. He's a man after God's own heart himself.
He hasn't done everything that he could for me and
my family.

Speaker 5 (18:27):
He is a preacher.

Speaker 9 (18:28):
Sir, I know it's hard for you to swallow the truth,
but I want you to know, and I need you
to be able to tell our theater. You guys are
not married and not as of right now.

Speaker 13 (18:37):
No, no, okay, so holder hold on now, back in
the older days, but before all these all these colleges
and stuff came came about. You telling me that their
men making old days, that they wasn't no preachers, that
they wasn't men after the clock.

Speaker 9 (18:52):
What are you getting at, sir.

Speaker 13 (18:54):
What I'm trying to say is back in the older days,
baking the twenties and thirties, they didn't have all these
colleges and all these degrees and stuff like these new
preachers got these days. That man now he was from
back then, and God called him and that's what they
went on too. And all them people that they married
back then, they did the same thing today. You don't
need no degree to say that you're a preacher. You
don't need no life to say you're a preacher. Me

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and my wife, we've been married for nine years. My
kids have been born any wedlock. We were married, We
were married by reverend. My friends and family they was
all there, sir.

Speaker 9 (19:26):
The bottom line is that you have been living in
sin because you have not been married with your wife
for the last nine years. And your kids, I hate
to say it, your kids are bastards.

Speaker 13 (19:36):
Now an't on?

Speaker 9 (19:37):
Now?

Speaker 13 (19:37):
I done told you, don't say nothing else about my
kids said, I ain't.

Speaker 5 (19:41):
No custom, But don't push me. My kids ain't no bastard.
You understand me. You won't getting me up, sir.

Speaker 9 (19:46):
I'm trying to give you the truth and try to
get you in here and get you married so you
will not be living in sin any more than what
you are.

Speaker 5 (19:52):
I'm living in noo sin. Look now, you gonna make
me whoop your ass. You understand, men and my wife
we are married for nine years. Don't sit up here
in time me talking about that. We ain't mad that
that man ain't no fature. Do you understand? I get
off my phone, but you that's my life. Those are
my kids. They have been born in wedlocks. Do you understand, sir?

Speaker 9 (20:14):
So I just wanted to call and give you the
information so that you could probably stop living in sin.
That's all I wanted to do.

Speaker 5 (20:20):
I ain't living in those saying that's what I just
told you you ain't hear me. I ain't living in
those sins, neigb you' the one that's living up in
some sin that you ain't got nothing necess say to
me that man that nine years ago they get your
ass off my phone, sir.

Speaker 9 (20:33):
So I have one more thing, one more thing I'd
like to say.

Speaker 5 (20:36):
You ain't got nothing nels to say to me. You
ain't get though ass off my dam's phone. Now do
you understand me? I ain't got time for this publicly, sir?

Speaker 9 (20:45):
Can I say one more thing? What you got to
say on me? Now? So? I just wanted to let
you know that this is nephew tom Me from the
Steve Warby Morning Show. Your wife half feel got me
to brank phone call you.

Speaker 5 (20:57):
Oh man, now lott it dot ye uh doty.

Speaker 13 (21:04):
I almost went in on you.

Speaker 7 (21:05):
Dog.

Speaker 5 (21:06):
You wonna let me go down?

Speaker 13 (21:07):
Yeah, I'm a good put you up to this.

Speaker 9 (21:09):
I got me to prank you, man, wow man, oh man,
hey man? You all right with me?

Speaker 2 (21:16):
Brother?

Speaker 9 (21:16):
I got to ask yourself, man, what is the baddest
and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

Speaker 13 (21:22):
Steve Harvey on the show Man.

Speaker 2 (21:25):
And now you have it Shirley, I'll be back at
how all right, nephew.

Speaker 1 (21:29):
Coming up next, it is ask the Colo, our Chief
Love Officer, Steve Harvey and the Building. Right after this,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays,
it's hard to find the right gifts, but you know,
it's even harder getting the right gift. But get this,

(21:51):
Verizon's got the perfect solve for both. They have incredible
gift bundles. You get the latest phone with a new
line on my plan and a brand new smartwatch and tablet,
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(22:12):
your local Verizon coming up at the top of the hour.
In Entertainment News, ESPN rolled out its new look Countdown
team and guess what, Stephen A. Smith is not part
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Jeffrey Epstein Files public and let great actor Chadwick the

(22:35):
one Bozeman Yeah, will be honored posthumously with a star
on Hollywood's Walk of Fame. That is all coming up
at the top of the hour, But right now it
is time for us to ask the clo. Our chief
Love Officer, Steve Harvey elv and Vancouver writes, I was
facetiming my husband when a lady came and kissed him

(22:57):
on the cheek and said good night. He said he
saw earlier. Yeah, right, but this is what he said,
that he saw her earlier in the restaurant and their
old friends from the neighborhood. Why would an old friend
kiss him goodbye?

Speaker 6 (23:12):
What?

Speaker 7 (23:14):
I can't let me just let me say this. You know,
normally I try to find a way to get a
man out of jail.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yeah you do.

Speaker 7 (23:22):
Normally I am a firm believer and find a good
lie and tell it. I've said this many times. So
the only way he can fix this is he must
come up with a great lie. Yeah, nork, but you
face timing. You didn't see her walking towards you. I

(23:44):
just cut your camera off.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Just click in.

Speaker 2 (23:48):
If I see her walking over there.

Speaker 7 (23:49):
Men, I got some this face time up with whoops,
something to act like. I dropped the phone and I'm
pressing button so hard you ain't even gonna stare.

Speaker 8 (23:57):
But she gonna see me stabbing at this phone.

Speaker 7 (24:00):
I just know, bro, the fact that you let this
woman come up on you and kiss you and say
good night, that you got, Bro, I can't.

Speaker 1 (24:11):
Help she knew what she was doing, she knew what
she knew why was doing.

Speaker 8 (24:17):
Was okay, I got all of that, Ladies, I agree
with that.

Speaker 1 (24:20):
Yeah, but what he let her fault?

Speaker 7 (24:24):
If I facetiming with my wife, ain't nobody come nowhere.

Speaker 8 (24:30):
Near that FaceTime?

Speaker 1 (24:31):
Yeah, there's just no way. Yeah, he was stupid, all right?

Speaker 7 (24:36):
Moving on to Detroit, because you know, if you're that stupid,
you've done something else before and you're gonna do something else.

Speaker 8 (24:44):
So I'm not gonna be able to save you. You're
just too stupid.

Speaker 2 (24:49):
Facetiming with other women.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
Yeah, Tommy said he was super stupid. All right, Bro,
I've been.

Speaker 2 (24:59):
I've been. Let me tell you him. I've been in
a meeting with women.

Speaker 7 (25:02):
In the meeting, Marjorie and FaceTime meet we I'm in
the hallway because I'm not gonna have to explain this.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
All right, Oh go ahead, I know that that was
really something.

Speaker 2 (25:16):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (25:17):
Moving on to Meredith and Detroit, Meredith writes, my husband
usually goes outside to talk on the phone because he's
so loud. But lately he's been quieter when he's out
on the patio on the phone. I need to know
why he's so quiet all of a sudden. Should I
have a camera installed out back?

Speaker 7 (25:38):
Oh well, now you can put the camera out back
if you want to, but let me let me talk
to the fellas right now.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
This is what you do.

Speaker 8 (25:47):
You get up, you go outside and you talk, you.

Speaker 7 (25:53):
Know, FaceTime and Lector Walman walk upon good night.

Speaker 2 (25:59):
Outside.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
Mad.

Speaker 8 (26:02):
I can't, that's just yeah, I'm mad. I'm still mad
at him.

Speaker 9 (26:08):
What you know?

Speaker 7 (26:08):
Uh, now, as far as you installing the camera. Look,
I wouldn't go through all of that, you know, Yeah,
you know I'm not. I don't want to be in
that marriage.

Speaker 8 (26:19):
Marriage No.

Speaker 7 (26:20):
If I got the spy, yeah, I got a partner
to hide a private eye to follow his wife.

Speaker 8 (26:32):
Yeah. And so I after he told it to me,
he said, what would you do? I said, that's not
my wife.

Speaker 10 (26:38):
No more.

Speaker 8 (26:38):
If I got to get a private eye to go follow.

Speaker 2 (26:42):
You, I'm not.

Speaker 8 (26:43):
I'm not fitna do that. I'm not to do that.
You're just going where you're going out there?

Speaker 11 (26:54):
Just Colombo.

Speaker 8 (26:58):
Too much it is, but I tell you you get
where you're going, your credit card ain't gonna work.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
I'm gonna just let you, all right. Moving on to
Bow and East Point, Bow writes, I met a beautiful
woman on Instagram. I went to Miami to meet her,
and I found out she's married but getting a divorce.
I told her, let's put everything on pause until she's single.

(27:25):
She said, if I snooze, I lose. Should I risk
losing her? Please help? If you snooze, you lose, That's
what she said. Yeah, she fine.

Speaker 8 (27:40):
You went to Miami.

Speaker 7 (27:43):
She getting a divorce. Let's put everything on Paul's to
you clear?

Speaker 2 (27:49):
All right?

Speaker 1 (27:49):
Now.

Speaker 8 (27:50):
I got jokes for that, but let me let's have
an honest conversation.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (27:56):
The god in you said, let's Paul until you get clear.

Speaker 7 (28:04):
The devil in her said, if you snooze, you lose.
Right now, bro, I'm gonna tell you right now. She
may be fine, she may even be getting a divorce.
But if you move forward, after you just told yourself
to the latest, you fin to run up and you
fin to find out the very reason you.

Speaker 8 (28:26):
Said, let's put this on pause till you get clear.

Speaker 7 (28:29):
And once she once a man verbally gives himself a
warning and then he goes against that warning. You fin
to find out why you had the warning. I can
about one thousand percent promise you that I like that.
I can about one thousand percent promise you that she
may be getting a divorce. I'm not saying she not,

(28:50):
but something in you said, hey, let's wait till we
get clear.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
Uh huh.

Speaker 8 (28:54):
That's you know.

Speaker 7 (28:55):
Sometimes God protects us. Follow that self, father, dog. If
you don't follow that, you find to find out why
you say it. I promise you you will.

Speaker 10 (29:04):
Dog.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
So he should risk losing her, Yes, yeah, yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
If not, it's a it's a it's a in the
crystal ball, I'll see it, and.

Speaker 7 (29:15):
It's a risk no matter what, Dog, he can lose
most stuff to listen, because you're the hottest man.

Speaker 8 (29:22):
Feel about the Yeah, vorce this lose, I lose all right.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
Last one, Steve, This is from Janey in Houston. Janey writes,
my coworker said she saw a woman in my husband's car,
and she pulled up to speak and realized it wasn't
me in the car. My husband never mentioned it. Is
it worth asking him about it? Or should I assume
my coworker had the wrong car.

Speaker 8 (29:50):
That's that's what you want to go with.

Speaker 7 (29:53):
You want to assume, so you either you either you
either want to know what you don't want to know, right,
and it seemed to me like you don't want the truth.

Speaker 8 (30:04):
So your assumption is to assume she pulled up to.

Speaker 1 (30:07):
The wrong car.

Speaker 7 (30:09):
Okay, then go with that, because I promised you right
now if you ask him about this woman in.

Speaker 8 (30:16):
The car, what the hell are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 14 (30:20):
That's what I thought. It was the wrong car because
I'm not fitting admitted. All right, Thank you, Cielo. Coming
up at the top of the hour. We will have
some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
ESPN adjusted its NBA coverage this week and rolled out
its new look NBA Countdown team led by Melika Andrews
with Brian Windhorst, Kendrick Perkins, and Michael Malone. Stephen A.
Smith did not appear on the new lineup and has
not shown up on the program at all this preseason
or regular season. For the first time in more than

(31:02):
twenty years, Steven a will not participate in the NBA
Countdown Show. According to ESPN, it has expanded its NBA
coverage after adding Inside the NBA with Charles Barkley, Shack,
Kenny Smith, and Ernie Johnson. But even with Steven A
being removed from the Countdown team, he remains locked into ESPN.

(31:25):
You know, he just signed that five year, one hundred
and five million dollar extension this year that was earlier,
so at least he still works there. So what are
you making of this, Steve that.

Speaker 8 (31:36):
Because he ain't got no friends in the NBA.

Speaker 1 (31:39):
Oh so you have to have friend What do you
need to Yeah, he said, well, you know, all.

Speaker 7 (31:46):
Great reporters have had a report with the star athlete
in that particular sport.

Speaker 8 (31:55):
You're upset that one?

Speaker 1 (31:56):
We know all that one with Lebron Yeah.

Speaker 7 (32:00):
Howard Coachell had Muhammad Ali got you, uh, Costas had
Michael Jordan Michael, you don't, you cannot. I'm just this
in my opinion about career Jordans he they man relationship.
You've got to be somebody that the players want to

(32:23):
talk to.

Speaker 1 (32:24):
Okay. But on the flip side of that, though, stephen
A as a reporter is supposed to be biased and
just you know, report what he sees. He's supposed to
be biased.

Speaker 7 (32:36):
Yeah, if you're gonna talk about the sport, you can't
be all in these cats background.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
Right, A lot of that's the opinion part of it.

Speaker 7 (32:45):
Yeah, that's what many The problem with him and Lebron
was when he got into Lebron as a father, right,
and look, man, here's against my wishes.

Speaker 8 (32:56):
What I this was just me talking.

Speaker 2 (32:59):
Man.

Speaker 7 (32:59):
I would have apologized to Lebron and said, hey, man,
you know what, my bad overstepped my bounds. I should
have never said nothing about you being to day. That's
that would have fixed it. Hey man, I'm sorry, bro,
my bad. You're absolutely right.

Speaker 8 (33:14):
I was out of line for that.

Speaker 7 (33:16):
There's nothing wrong with being wrong. But when but when
you hold the line. Man, if he if he'd have
raised up out to put hands on him, you to
put hands on who n he'd he'd have put you

(33:37):
in one of them sleeves he'd be wearing sixty's. So
this kind is a physical specimen. And even though Lebron
don't fight, we we know who don't fight.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
We saw his.

Speaker 7 (33:54):
Punching about that videos he was working on see and
I used to fight when I saw that punch I went, what.

Speaker 2 (34:06):
Dog.

Speaker 8 (34:07):
Let me tell you something. I've been in the gym
a lot. I've been a lot of bags.

Speaker 2 (34:12):
Man.

Speaker 8 (34:14):
Ain't nobody said through that he didn't.

Speaker 2 (34:17):
Have no technique, no back foot, no spin, no rotation,
no no rotat not none of that.

Speaker 8 (34:23):
Let me see that punching that go ahead. Excuse me.
So this t VN A Smith video when he was boxing.

Speaker 1 (34:33):
So is this considered a demotion?

Speaker 2 (34:35):
I mean, what what?

Speaker 6 (34:37):
What is this?

Speaker 9 (34:38):
No?

Speaker 7 (34:38):
I don't think it's a demotion. I just think, you know,
it's just they gotta they gotta build a network. They
got other people. They got some good people. That perk
is good man. There's some cats in there that's good.
Malika Andrews is good man. I tell you another sister.

Speaker 8 (34:53):
I like the Duncan l Duncan.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (34:58):
Elle, Oh she's she's dope to me, man, she's knowledgeable.
She is dope.

Speaker 7 (35:05):
Beautiful her and Malika Andrews, I mean they really know.
Uh you know it's it's uh. They got some women
on that that no sport. The sister will shorthand like that.
I like her and I love the ball heads. The
ball head girl is beautiful.

Speaker 5 (35:23):
She had.

Speaker 8 (35:28):
Clap clap, people.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
They're expanding. So it's true what you think. They are,
just expanding, just expanding. You know, you can't put him
on everything.

Speaker 9 (35:39):
You know.

Speaker 2 (35:39):
Yeah, at the end of the day, he knows sports
running backwards, he got down to a sound. Yeah, he
knows his job.

Speaker 8 (35:47):
But he he gotta get all off all the other subjects. Yeah,
mege is great. You don't know how you made that statement.

Speaker 1 (35:57):
All right to Christine Williamson. That's the sister that we
were talking about. Okay, yeah, all right, So moving on
to wow. According to The Hill, Senate Democratic Leader Chuck
Schumer has said that the Senate is ready to act
quickly on the Epstein Files Transparency Act, which passed in

(36:19):
the House four hundred and twenty seven to one. This
would require that all unclassified records and documents related to
the convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein be made public. Finally,
Schumer noted, the House has now spoken in an overwhelming fashion.
There's only one right answer for the Senate passed the

(36:39):
bill as written today, the bipartisan bill will nouns.

Speaker 7 (36:43):
Surely stop reading all that he not in there, No
mo Is gone, is gone, No Trump not in there,
no more they they got cash for tail in his
hill pocket.

Speaker 8 (36:56):
You don't think they would files.

Speaker 7 (36:59):
Donald Trump is on it because now he's saying, let's
release these files.

Speaker 8 (37:03):
Yeah good, heal well, he ain't in there no more.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
Kulda had a file all in his kitchen up on
the stove.

Speaker 8 (37:09):
They got all the filed the.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
Reading it coming after three minutes after the hour, Michelle
Obama thinks America is not ready for a female president.
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard to find

(37:31):
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(37:53):
or you could keep them all to yourself. No one
has to know. Stop by your local Verizon. Former First
Lady Michelle Obama recently spoke at the Brooklyn Academy of
Music while promoting her new book. When asked about running
for president, Missus Obama said that she is tired of
being asked about running for president because America is not

(38:15):
ready for what a female president. Missus Obama told the audience, quote,
as we saw in this past election, sadly, we ain't ready.
This is why I am like, don't even look at
me about running, because you all are lying. You are
not ready for a woman. You are not, So don't
waste my time. We got a lot of growing up
to do, and they are still sadly, there are still,

(38:38):
sadly a lot of men who feel like they cannot
be led by a woman.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
True, this is.

Speaker 8 (38:43):
True, Mergan, I feel I feel that exact same way.

Speaker 1 (38:48):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can't.

Speaker 7 (38:52):
But I got one dragon mine well, and you can't
get back in this story fall.

Speaker 8 (39:00):
In chain hooked up.

Speaker 7 (39:02):
Yeah no I don't really, but you know, in all seriousness,
this country's not ready for a female president, and they
really not fin to elect no black women. Yeah, that's
not even They're not going to do that that year,
a year ago, because this is America. Surely, yes, it

(39:26):
is still America, predominantly run by white men who are
in controlling positions. Super packs, money corporations, all of that
Project twenty five all white men, Donald Trump's cabinet all
white men, right. They are afraid of losing their grip

(39:50):
and their power. That's why they don't want immigrants over here.
They don't want to be a minority. You don't understand
the fear of that some, not all, some white people
have of being a minority and not being in charge.
He's scaring them because they know what they've done to minorities,
and now they don't want to be one of them.

Speaker 8 (40:12):
See that's and that's not all white people. Don't get
me wrong. Let me tell you sound.

Speaker 7 (40:17):
Slavery did not go away because black people got tired
of being slaves. Slavery went away because there was some
well thinking and good white people who saw this as
a horrific crime against mankind. That's slavery. End it because
a lot of white people went well, y'all crazy. All

(40:37):
the black people wanted it over but you needed some
people in power that can help push this across. But
the residue of people who did not want it. See,
here's a problem that they keep talking about. They say
only two percent of Americans owned slaves. Yeah, but they
owned all of them and all their friends.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Enough fit well happen, math and back to a woman
running the country. I can't wait. It's gonna happen one day.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
It can.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Yeah, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour,
we'll play around it. One has to go. Right after this.
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. It is time now
to play around it. One has to go now, Steve.
This is for the caller that loves this game. They
love one half that one has to go, but they

(41:35):
hate Cister, O'Dell and Roscoe. Remember that from last week. Right, Okay, cooler, no.

Speaker 8 (41:41):
Problem one of them going. So where we at?

Speaker 1 (41:45):
That's right?

Speaker 2 (41:47):
If one has to go at the caller.

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Our audience, stop that, all right. One has to go.
Thirty days of rain, thirty days of snow, thirty days
of darkness. One has to go. Which one?

Speaker 2 (42:10):
Oh, thirty days of rain? You need to get rid
of this snow? Boy? What is wrong? I got to
go out there, got to go out.

Speaker 8 (42:18):
I don't want the snow. You gotta walk that dog.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
In the snow.

Speaker 12 (42:23):
You got it?

Speaker 2 (42:23):
Glass time taking that little dog.

Speaker 1 (42:27):
Don't talk about like that.

Speaker 2 (42:28):
If you get a fish and.

Speaker 8 (42:29):
Get open the door and let him go in and
call him back in, open that back door. She's gone.

Speaker 1 (42:35):
One has to go. We're talking about women. One has
to go. Great in bed, a great cook, great with finances.
One has to go.

Speaker 8 (42:47):
Got cook. I got the cook.

Speaker 2 (42:50):
I got you. Get you keep this money together and
keep the bedroom together.

Speaker 8 (42:54):
I got, I got your head.

Speaker 4 (42:55):
Thing.

Speaker 15 (42:56):
If you're great in bed and you can cook, you
ain't got to worry about money. Probably, I probably you
ain't good.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
Cook.

Speaker 8 (43:06):
You in that band and cook, I don't worry about that.
Money ain't gonna get you.

Speaker 11 (43:12):
Yeah, whip may where you going roofing? I got an
extra job.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
Get that shack baby, all right.

Speaker 1 (43:22):
Red one has to go. German chocolate cake, red velvet cake,
carrot cake, harrot car carriage.

Speaker 7 (43:32):
All right in the hard cake though you can have
every red veil it. You get a good carrot cake.

Speaker 8 (43:39):
You have that red all right.

Speaker 1 (43:41):
In the house. Waldi wall carpet, concrete floors, vinyl floors,
vinyl flooring, conk carpet, vinyl or wad wall carpet, carpet carpet.

Speaker 2 (43:52):
Two of them.

Speaker 8 (43:53):
You in the project. That vinyl product, Hey should call it.
If not need of this.

Speaker 11 (44:00):
Stuff, cop call battle floor collar.

Speaker 8 (44:07):
You got vinyl flows. I'm just telling you.

Speaker 7 (44:10):
But yeah, I don't know what that is lately.

Speaker 8 (44:15):
But back then.

Speaker 1 (44:18):
You have concree a linoleum kitchen.

Speaker 8 (44:23):
Who's in the projects?

Speaker 2 (44:24):
Now, no, you don't know.

Speaker 8 (44:26):
They're sweetie, and it's okay, but I'm not fit to
do that.

Speaker 1 (44:32):
Have you seen the new vinyl flooring? Yeah, it looks
like wood. You can't really tell you.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
It looks like what child?

Speaker 8 (44:40):
They have seen the projects?

Speaker 2 (44:45):
This concrete flow.

Speaker 1 (44:46):
Listen, I've been in too male of the last one
before we have to go. Last one has to go.
Denzel Samuel, l Eddie Murphy, one has.

Speaker 10 (45:02):
Man God to man, which one found been done more
movies and all of them.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
This is a tough one. And you need his cadence,
his quotes. We need Blankety Blake, we need just sexiness.
We need Eddie and we need Eddie's sense of humor.
So what are we gonna do here?

Speaker 2 (45:29):
I ain't put one of these us, man, I'm sorry.

Speaker 8 (45:33):
You got to get rid of everybody, but.

Speaker 1 (45:37):
Stars.

Speaker 7 (45:40):
Get Tom Hanks, Tom tom Brady. You can get all
the Toms. And you get Tom Cruise, Tom Hanks, Tom Brady,
you can get all of them.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
You can not actor Tom Brady all them.

Speaker 8 (45:59):
I don't care you can't have my homies, man, all right,
I just set.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
With all of them. Yeah, that's great, dog. I have
been on boats with.

Speaker 8 (46:09):
Ded and Sam. I have seen them cats, man, I've been.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
at about four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry
letter for today, and the subject is when I look
I find We'll get into it, find out what that's
all about in the few, because right now the nephew

(46:38):
is here with today's prank phone call. What you got
for is today, neph I don't know.

Speaker 8 (46:45):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (46:46):
I've been going through the archives, and I've been going
through and I just don't know which one I want
to drop, you know, I just I'm looking at it
and trying to figure out which one I want to do.

Speaker 9 (46:57):
You know.

Speaker 2 (46:58):
It's just you have to have you your mind ready
for praying, you know, you have to have it. You
got to have your mind set, you know. And there's
some people right now sitting in the car till my time.
If you don't hurry up so I can get to
work playing with I got three in mind, so y'all
picking up two one, two three. I ain't gonna tell

(47:20):
you which one it is from picking I got my
grim ridden up. Surelie said one Junia, and I said, okay, two,
it is Deborah K, my auntie Deborah K.

Speaker 8 (47:31):
It's right here.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
Okay, yes, yeah, I mean there are no losers here.

Speaker 2 (47:40):
Let's go cat dog my aunt te Deborah K. Speak.
Let me tell you some of you. My name is Wayne.
You did my aunties hair yesterday, and now I don't
know what you did. I don't know what kind of
glue you'd used with weaves or whatever. But my auntie
had and fell out in church to day.

Speaker 12 (48:00):
But I don't I don't even use glue because I
don't even know why you're coming at me on the
side tip anywhere about your auntie. My auntie Joe Amy.

Speaker 2 (48:08):
My auntie is del Brook and I have fell like no, no,
he's Brook.

Speaker 12 (48:13):
I don't know that Brook you're talking about. I used juice,
grew up and saw that. Since nineteen eighty two, you
come coming at me.

Speaker 2 (48:21):
With some glue glue who you think you tripping with? Look,
let me tell you.

Speaker 9 (48:27):
Some time.

Speaker 5 (48:28):
Come on there, some deer.

Speaker 2 (48:31):
Look, let me say this to you all.

Speaker 12 (48:33):
I'm saying, you gotta say that you gotta say it
because I'm.

Speaker 5 (48:36):
Serious about my heart.

Speaker 12 (48:38):
We you coming at me with some glue. It's just
not for some glue that be that messing on the side.

Speaker 6 (48:43):
Of your age.

Speaker 2 (48:44):
Well that's what happened, and I have fell off your
service and all the church members and sitting there laughing.

Speaker 12 (48:48):
Now, well she shouldn't have been. Maybe she's trying to
get the devil out of it because she ain't no
business shouting hard anyway. But I don't switch noble glue.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
You ain't in the city and talk about my ain'ty
and hout. Jesus, don't you talk about how she shouted?
I don't know. They call her miss de Brook.

Speaker 12 (49:08):
I don't know, no miss Brook.

Speaker 2 (49:10):
She just got her hair done from you yesterday. How
you're gonna sit here and act like you ain't cut
it yesterday?

Speaker 12 (49:16):
You're just saying blue, real woman and common tell me,
because I don't have no and I ain't.

Speaker 2 (49:28):
I'm gonna tell everybody in Atlanta, Georgian not to come
to your house.

Speaker 12 (49:32):
Wait a minute?

Speaker 9 (49:32):
What minute?

Speaker 12 (49:34):
You white?

Speaker 9 (49:35):
What minutes?

Speaker 12 (49:36):
That's my livelihood? Why I don't need you?

Speaker 9 (49:40):
Is this?

Speaker 2 (49:41):
My name is Wayne.

Speaker 12 (49:45):
I know you're know Wayne, but you you I got
her brother names big Jay, and you bring ye bring
out bringa look.

Speaker 2 (49:54):
Look, let me tell you something. I don't want no problem,
but I will throw these hands. If I got you what,
I ain't.

Speaker 12 (50:00):
Numba throw, then look here, look here, I ain't got
time to tell yo. Ain't it whatever? Ain't some mistaken
whatn't it?

Speaker 9 (50:07):
Now?

Speaker 12 (50:07):
Look you done got me out here on good Sunday.
I just came from church. It's hot as half, and
you telling mebody to glue. You ain't got no joy
got you today?

Speaker 9 (50:15):
Do?

Speaker 12 (50:16):
I ain't got nothing to do.

Speaker 2 (50:17):
I got to find out why my ain't and half
falling out in church?

Speaker 12 (50:20):
And it ain't me so called somebody else in that
land because I'm the I am the hated too.

Speaker 2 (50:27):
But well you ain't you? You must not be in
right now? You got people hair falling night in church
and glue fallowing all off on the pew.

Speaker 12 (50:34):
Ain't y'll ain'ty probably glue her own, and that's kind
of why it fell out. I'm gonna tell you right now,
I'm the hottest silence in that laught. So I don't
know whom no deputare ain't nobody If I ain't I
ain't doing half. I don't some half. You go in
and everybody in that lamp Dad'll tell you the same thing.

Speaker 2 (50:51):
Look, all I'm saying is you the messed up my
ain't and hair. I wanna get it rectified. I need you,
first of all to call and apologize to her.

Speaker 12 (51:00):
Joys show you and drinking on some Jesus juice with
y'all ain't and that's why you wasn't Michael Jackson and
you ain't in debral seats to or whatever her name is.

Speaker 2 (51:09):
Look, let me take you first of all. You'll go.
You'll go respect my ain't.

Speaker 12 (51:13):
Okay, whatever you say her name is, I put up.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
I want you to redo my ain't and half for
free and get what her money back from the first
time she paid you.

Speaker 12 (51:21):
I don't know who this old. I don't know who
this I don't know who you are. I'm whe you
coming way ain't.

Speaker 7 (51:28):
Look you're Wayne.

Speaker 1 (51:29):
I'm gonna go ahead.

Speaker 12 (51:29):
I'm gonna hang up in your faith.

Speaker 2 (51:30):
No hold up, I'm jeffor nephew.

Speaker 8 (51:32):
Wayne.

Speaker 2 (51:33):
Nah, I ain't fifty two years old. Now. If you
ain't gonna respect your elders, how you expect to be blessed?
You say you just went to church this month.

Speaker 12 (51:40):
See that's the problem. You're calling me on Sunday with
some got me cutting like this, See that I gotta
go get I'm putting my pastor behind some I got
one more.

Speaker 2 (51:50):
Thing I need to say to you before I get
off the phone.

Speaker 12 (51:53):
What you got to say? Because you waste in nine minutes.

Speaker 2 (51:56):
This is Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show.
You just got prank from your girlfriend.

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I was about.

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Got me.

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What your girl told me? She said, trust me going
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She know what it is if you tell me.

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Hey, baby le man, you don't do no uh, you
don't do no glue.

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No, I don't know glue.

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I don't.

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It's too all right, baby, Ain't nobody, ain't nobody half
fell out of church and that you still they say
you the bomb down there. So I just wanted to
call and make sure I prank my girl. She the one?
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world Morning show, Come on, come on, come on, yes, yes, yes, yes,
we told you bout messing with black women's hair.

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We told you about that.

Speaker 2 (53:21):
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Speaker 8 (53:29):
I love it.

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I love it.

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I love what I do.

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I love that I get paid to be stupid.

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I love this.

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But you would do it for free, though, that's what
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Speaker 2 (53:37):
I don't know if I would, certainly once I found
out when I found a stupid. When y'all see me,
when y'all see me on Friday night, do I do
I be stupid? I don't be stupid. See, it's hard

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to see you like that already.

Speaker 11 (54:00):
I know you stupid, so I can't contend you something else.

Speaker 2 (54:03):
But when you're watching this, when you're watching Ready to
love what you think, you don't see stupid.

Speaker 8 (54:09):
My mama watch the showtime.

Speaker 11 (54:10):
She calls me, and she says, look at the TV.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
Do you see something?

Speaker 2 (54:15):
I see his stupid? I'm not. I can't see you
nowhere else.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
I don't know how.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
And where are you calling me, mama?

Speaker 9 (54:24):
With this?

Speaker 2 (54:24):
I'm not watching him. I can't tell me.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
Oh it's so good, it's like play us and it's
a guilty pleasure.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
Yeah, I know him all right. So now y'all got
to get ready Shirley called Junior Monica. Y'all gotta get
ready because when the Motown Party hits, y'all got to
let me know what y'all think about the Motown Party.

Speaker 1 (54:50):
Especially Tommy.

Speaker 8 (54:52):
You just gotta let me know what you're.

Speaker 1 (54:54):
Always fishing for compliments. It's not it's not.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
I just want you to see the party, and then
I want come back the next day and the next Monday.

Speaker 8 (55:02):
After we do what, I want you to come back
and let me know.

Speaker 1 (55:05):
Okay, all right, okay, okay, you better bring it because
if you don't, you go in about.

Speaker 2 (55:12):
I promise you you're gonna have something to talk about, Okay,
to assure you you're gonna have something to talk about.

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Find the guide people to find the love.

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That's me.

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Yeah, that's see. Okay, all right, and if you thank you?
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It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.
We got it point and hear it is strawberry.

Speaker 1 (56:46):
Let up, Thank you, nephew. Subject. When I look, I
find Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been divorced for five years
and I'm starting to date again. I've been eager to
find a new guy for years, but as love would
have it. I've been picking men that are just like
my cheating ex husband. The last guy I met seemed

(57:06):
like he was going to be a good prospect, but
we've only been together for four months and he's already
shown me that one woman isn't enough for him. He
started out sending me flowers and taking me on nice dates.
We had sex after our fourth date, and he got
up and went home right after we were intimate. He
said that he really needed to use his own restroom
at his own home. That almost caused an argument as

(57:30):
he left my house in the middle of the night.
He used that same excuse whenever he was supposed to
spend the night at my house. We'd always eat dinner
at my house or go out to eat and have
sex later on. Right after sex, he was out the
door and headed home to use a bathroom and take
a shower. On Friday night, when he did that, I
decided to ride by his house after he had been

(57:51):
home a while. He was there sitting on his front
steps with a woman. I slowed up and blew the horn.
He jumped up and came over to my car, asking
why I was at his house unannounced. I told him
I was suspicious that he was dating other people. He
told me that we aren't exclusive and I'm too messy
to ever be his girl. He said he wasn't cheating

(58:13):
because I was never his girl. I'm grateful that I
got in my car and rode by his house. When
I look, I find is it best to look and
be aware or act like you don't know what a
man is up to? Why is it a lose lose
situation for women trying to date? Wow, I guess because

(58:33):
dating has changed so much over the years, just like
everything else in the world. I mean, there's no courting
or like getting to know you period anymore. People nowadays
get love bombed in the first couple of weeks, where
the men whine and dine you, they call you every day,
they spend quality time with you, to send you flowers
like this guy did all of that. Then after that

(58:56):
two week time frame, after you've slept with him or whatever,
it's a short time time frame, two weeks or whatever,
it's usually just over the phone call stop, the attentative
tentif ness stops and he starts ghosting you or whatever.
I guess that you've been divorced for five years and
you want to be in a relationship. You said you
were eager to be in a relationship, but you still

(59:17):
have to take your time to see if these guys
are even worth it. What you don't want is to
come off as desperate. I mean, men can smell that
kind of stuff a mile away and they go in
for the kill. I say, you're not ready to date.
You got to find out who you are, get your
confidence up. I think you need to decide what you want,
what kind of man you want. Then you know you

(59:40):
won't keep ending up in these same type situations with
these men. Work on your confidence, work on self love.

Speaker 7 (59:47):
Steve Well said Shirley. I agree with what you're saying.
Oh here's the part for me with women.

Speaker 1 (59:55):
Thank you.

Speaker 7 (59:56):
You get with these men that you really don't know.
You get with these men that you have no clarification
of what you have with this man. You get with
these men and you assume, and when you meet a man,
you forget that. When you meet this man, what do
you think he's been doing up until the day y'all

(01:00:16):
met what you thought? Stop meeting men thinking they free
and clear. Ain't nobody free and clear? Everybody you meet
in this world is connected to somebody somewhere, some way.
There are no free and clear people who You've been
divorced five years, You meet a man what you thought

(01:00:37):
he was doing when you met him sitting at the house.
Everybody you meet comes with a past. Your job is
to uncover as much of the past as you can
to determine if you can fit into a future with them.
That is the real deal. It ain't no lose lose

(01:01:00):
you or a woman out here dating. Stop jumping to conclusions.

Speaker 1 (01:01:05):
Stop alte.

Speaker 8 (01:01:06):
I wrote a book in two thousand and nine.

Speaker 7 (01:01:09):
I'm thinking about writing another book because dating has changed.
I'm thinking about really really pulling the covers back on
this one too. But I wrote a long time ago
a ninety day rule that it still applies. But y'all
don't because y'all Instagram now and everything is instant.

Speaker 8 (01:01:28):
So here we go.

Speaker 7 (01:01:29):
You've been met, divorced five years and starting to date again.
Surely said it best. I've been eager to find a
new guy for years, but as luck would have it,
I keep picking men that are just like my cheat
next husband. Really, well, let's find out about this guy.
Last guy met seemed like he was gonna be a
good prospect. But we've only been together four months and

(01:01:53):
he's already showed me that one woman ain't enough for him. Okay,
good at out sending me flowers and taking me on
nice dates. We had sex after our fourth date. Okay,
when was the fourth date? How much time was it?
Two weeks?

Speaker 8 (01:02:10):
Was it ten days? Was it a month?

Speaker 7 (01:02:15):
And why, ladies, do you not understand when you first
meet a man that you are meeting his representative.

Speaker 8 (01:02:21):
You're not meeting who he really is.

Speaker 7 (01:02:24):
When you first meet him, you're meeting his representative. Then
after a while you get to know who he is.
We had sex after our fourth date. He got up
and went home right after we were intimate. He said
he really needed to use his own restroom at his
own house. Now that right there, I can understand. I
respect that, and that right there, you didn't give him

(01:02:46):
enough credit for that. It's some people that have got
to get up and go to the bathroom, and that's
when we come back. Got to get out this house.

Speaker 8 (01:02:57):
You can't know this.

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Speaker 7 (01:03:59):
Okay, ladies, I've talked to you about this letter, and
you've got to be smarter when you're dating. Dating has
changed over the years, but you still have to be smart.
And the ninety day rule that I had before it
should still applied. But it don't cause y'all done got
around that.

Speaker 2 (01:04:17):
Y'all done.

Speaker 8 (01:04:18):
Let me in talk you into it, y'all Instagram people,
so y'all don't do that no more.

Speaker 7 (01:04:23):
Stop assuming of men, Stop dating men you don't know
what you're and stop expecting them to treat you the
way you treat them. Stop and when you meet a man,
first thing you must know is he comes with a
past and a history. Secondly, know this nobody you meet
is unconnected. Everybody is connected to somebody. Ain't no way

(01:04:45):
in the world you done met this man, found him
to be attractive, and you the only one. Stop thinking
you've met a man that ain't got nobody?

Speaker 1 (01:04:57):
Why would he do that?

Speaker 7 (01:04:59):
What made you know that can have sex, can perform sexually,
and is not where he stayed? What country he live in?
All right, so you'd have met this guy and you
mad because he just like your ex cheating HUGSB.

Speaker 8 (01:05:17):
So you met this guy. After the fourth date, y'all
had sex.

Speaker 7 (01:05:21):
I don't know how long that was, but obviously you
didn't know him well enough, and after four months he
didn't show you. The one woman ain't enough for him.
He started out sending you flowers, going on nice dates.
That's because you were meeting his representative. I tried to
explain that to you. We had sex after that fourth date.
He got it, went home right after we were intimate.
He said he really needed to use his own restroom

(01:05:43):
at his own home. Come on, now you gotta get
his man credit for this. Right here, I've been there,
you must. I'm telling you one of the worst nights
of my life when I dated this creole girl and
my stomach was tored up from eating creole food with him,
and I knew to go home, and her parents wasn't home,
and she said, come on in. I should have took

(01:06:04):
my home, but I went up in her house. And
what I go up in that, folk, cause my stomach
was cutting and it went on up in there, and
I used a bathroom at her mama's house. We never
dated again after that. When a man tells you that
he got to go home to his own bathroom, respect that,
because if you make him go to the bathroom in there,

(01:06:31):
something fin to go home when he shut that door,
that he not gonna be able to open that door
for awhile, I'm just telling you anyway, that almost caused
an argument.

Speaker 8 (01:06:42):
As he left my house in the middle of the night.

Speaker 7 (01:06:44):
He used the same excuse. Whenever we were supposed to
spend the night in my house. We'd always eat dinner
at my house and go out to eat and have
sex later on.

Speaker 8 (01:06:54):
Right after sex, he was out the door headed home
to use the bathroom and take a.

Speaker 2 (01:07:00):
Shower or go.

Speaker 7 (01:07:02):
I still ain't mad at that, because until you are
in that room, after he come out that bathroom, you
really don't know why he got to get home. So
I ain't mad at this right here on Friday night,
when he did that, I decided to ride by his
house after he had been home.

Speaker 5 (01:07:21):
For a while.

Speaker 7 (01:07:22):
He was there sitting on the front steps with a woman.
I slowed up and blew the horn. He ran out
there and asked you why he was at his house unannounced.
I told him I was suspicious that he was dating
other people. He told me, we ain't exclusive, and I'm
too messy to ever be his girl. How did you

(01:07:44):
think y'all was exclusive because you met a man and
had sex with it.

Speaker 8 (01:07:51):
What made you think y'all was exclusive? Did you ask
were you exclusive?

Speaker 7 (01:07:57):
Or did you assume? Did he ever tells you y'all
were exclusive? Well, now, he over sitting on the steps
with the girl. He said he wasn't cheating because I
was never his girl. Wow, But because you slept with him,

(01:08:17):
you thought you was his girl. No, you was another
person he was having sex with.

Speaker 8 (01:08:27):
That's who you were. That's not his fault. That's you
not getting clarity on what you have with a man.

Speaker 7 (01:08:38):
Stop thinking because you done gave him some sex that
he is going to give you exclusivity. That is not
how it works. I am telling you that right now.
That's just not how it works. And you got to
stop expecting that. And it's sad. It's so sad. Now,

(01:09:01):
let me tell you something. You know why they sitting
outside on them steps because he didn't went in there
and used the bathroom. And they still can't go in
that house. That's why they was out on them steps.
I'll tell you that right now, sitting out on them steps,
cause I'm telling you ain't kin't nobody he'd have went

(01:09:24):
home and used the bathroom.

Speaker 8 (01:09:25):
Now that woman that came.

Speaker 7 (01:09:27):
By, they outside on the steps because they cannot go
in that house.

Speaker 8 (01:09:32):
Because he'd have been in there using the bathroom.

Speaker 7 (01:09:34):
So I rest my case what I think he's still
strong with that bathroom line.

Speaker 2 (01:09:43):
But that is the.

Speaker 7 (01:09:47):
They sitting on them steps. Can't nobody go in that house.

Speaker 1 (01:09:53):
On Today's Strawberry Letter on the Instagram at faith.

Speaker 8 (01:09:56):
Thank you Lord, Thank you Lord, Thank you Lord, and.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
Check us out on the Strawberry Letter Podcast he got
a problem.

Speaker 8 (01:10:04):
That's probably why he ain't got no girl.

Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Coming up Sports Talk right after this, you're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Around the holidays, it's hard
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Sports Talk, which you got Junior?

Speaker 15 (01:10:52):
All right, sure, let's go ahead talk about it. You know,
on Sunday he actually got into game. Shador Sand's got
in the game against the Baltimore Ravens. Gabrin Dylan Gabriel
had a concussion and so you know they brought in Shoudor.
But you know it was it was amazing how crazy
the fans but when they saw they bought run out there. Man,
they saw that he two go out there. They were
so excited when he went out there, we saw hope.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
Is that what it's about us? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:11:15):
Well none with Dylan Gabriel. I told that happened to
get go. I said a whole Pivot podcast. They're gonna
put Dylan Grabile in there and then the Wolves is coming.
I said that on the Pivot podcast.

Speaker 11 (01:11:28):
Well, man, you're absolutely right because it came in there.

Speaker 7 (01:11:29):
Man, he's not a professional football quarterback. He's a college quarterback.

Speaker 15 (01:11:35):
Now, now, Chador, look, you know, should Door had a
rough go of it, you know, but it's his first
It's actually no reps with the first team. None since
it's week eleven. He has never worked out with the
first strink.

Speaker 9 (01:11:46):
Now.

Speaker 15 (01:11:46):
I don't know why that's crazy, because you know, you
got to develop these players. But he has never taken
any snaps with the first team.

Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
That's why I look like that.

Speaker 11 (01:11:54):
But he's gonna make his first professional start this Sunday
against the Raiders.

Speaker 2 (01:11:57):
But here's why I don't like.

Speaker 15 (01:11:58):
I don't like y'all giving it this boy all this
flak for one half of football. It is not his
whole career. Because Rex Ryan is getting on my nerves.
I can't stand Rex Ryan. You don't stop I don't
know what his problem is with your doing. I don't
know what's his teeth?

Speaker 9 (01:12:14):
Is that what it is?

Speaker 8 (01:12:18):
He makes this statement too white.

Speaker 1 (01:12:22):
After the game.

Speaker 15 (01:12:24):
You see your door saying that, sitting on the bench
after they lose to the Raven And he's taking it
pretty hard because it's his first half of football.

Speaker 11 (01:12:31):
But Rex Ryan saying he's making it all about him,
not about the team. He didn't go out there and
say how do Lamar Jackson or greet him or not?

Speaker 1 (01:12:38):
He's but the man is a competitive.

Speaker 8 (01:12:42):
What are you out here saying how the Lamar fak lost?

Speaker 2 (01:12:47):
He just exactly what is Rex saying?

Speaker 8 (01:12:51):
Lamar?

Speaker 2 (01:12:52):
How you doing that?

Speaker 9 (01:12:59):
Man?

Speaker 7 (01:13:00):
Hey man, Rex Ryan, He'll see man anytime, see sin
quite What didn't happen is see when you go get
them teeth.

Speaker 8 (01:13:11):
I guess they got a color chart.

Speaker 7 (01:13:15):
You can't go way over there and get the brightest
ones they make it just it ain't gonna look and you,
especially if you see.

Speaker 4 (01:13:27):
Moving on.

Speaker 2 (01:13:29):
I'll tell you what.

Speaker 15 (01:13:30):
Though he got a full week of practice, I bet
you're gonna have to put on bet performance than he
did against Raveist because he's playing. He got a full
week of practice with the first team with the first
the Raiders Brown Finn to get a win.

Speaker 1 (01:13:46):
All right, thank you, Junior. Coming up next, This is
from Shy Shy and in Arlington, a wife is worried
that her husband doesn't care about her anymore. We'll talk
about it, I promise you.

Speaker 8 (01:13:59):
That woman.

Speaker 1 (01:14:01):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,
you said it's Chee Chee in Arlington.

Speaker 7 (01:14:12):
Surely, surely, surely you too Bullishye? What it ain't no
shotshot hi hi, chie chee.

Speaker 8 (01:14:19):
That's black. Everybody call no black woman, no hair shotshat.

Speaker 1 (01:14:25):
It's chee che girl Chee.

Speaker 7 (01:14:27):
But I was like, I can't take this bougie girl
nowhere any way.

Speaker 8 (01:14:34):
Call it get her, love her.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
She got the name. You got it, Chee Chee. You
got it. Surely she was from Chicago. You were gonna
say that?

Speaker 2 (01:14:47):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:14:47):
Every day, as soon as I leave the job, I
text my husband to let him know I am headed home.
I have a forty five minute commute. I noticed some
days he doesn't even text me back, and I can
see that he read text. I stopped at the grocery
store yesterday and I didn't tell him it was pitch
black dark and almost seven pm when I got home,

(01:15:08):
my husband did not check on me at all. I
told him that he's followed for that, and he said
that I need too much attention. How dare he say that?
Does that mean that he does not care about me
or my whereabouts?

Speaker 8 (01:15:21):
Yea, yeah, pretty much? Yeah, you need too much attention?
Why can't Why would I care about your where about it?

Speaker 1 (01:15:32):
What he's just Wow?

Speaker 7 (01:15:34):
All I want is that forty five minute notice that
I got forty five more minutes.

Speaker 1 (01:15:40):
Of freedom, Jesus wife, He doesn't care.

Speaker 7 (01:15:43):
Well, you stopped at that store in the pitch black
and I had an extra time at the house.

Speaker 8 (01:15:51):
What, thank you God?

Speaker 1 (01:15:54):
This is wrong. You know that's wrong.

Speaker 8 (01:15:58):
He through with her. He done told her you need
too much attention. Why do you want somebody to care
about you?

Speaker 2 (01:16:06):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (01:16:06):
Shut shut?

Speaker 8 (01:16:07):
I mean girl has lost stop it ain't shot.

Speaker 1 (01:16:11):
Shot whatever shy shy chichi is. Her husband is terrible,
that's the bottom bottom line.

Speaker 7 (01:16:18):
Yeah, I mean he threw I mean he didn't checked out. Yeah,
but you, first of all, you don't say that to
your wife. That's she's the number one rule of being married.
And I talked this to my attorney one time that
he went a while uh huh, because he was getting
in little arguments with his wife about little bitty stuff.
I said, my man, you missing one key element your

(01:16:41):
job as a husband. He said, what's that mistage? Show concern?
That show you have always got to show concern. I
don't care what they come in and talking about the one.

Speaker 1 (01:16:54):
I had to tell you that.

Speaker 8 (01:16:55):
Okay, show concern. No, I had to learn that, Uh
because I used to didn't give it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
Yeah, you need to pay attention and listen.

Speaker 8 (01:17:06):
You were here talking about how was your day? Well, and.

Speaker 2 (01:17:11):
How I was young.

Speaker 8 (01:17:12):
I didn't know how was your day with her? I've
been at work too, so yeah, we both got jobs.
How was your day?

Speaker 2 (01:17:19):
My day?

Speaker 1 (01:17:20):
But you can't have a baby. All right, we have
time for another one.

Speaker 8 (01:17:24):
You tell them, yeah, I got all that, I got
all it.

Speaker 7 (01:17:27):
Y'all can't hand no babies. But until you had a
baby we talking about please all right, we.

Speaker 1 (01:17:33):
Have time for another one. This is from our Linda
and Jackson. My mother in law knows I don't like
to feed my family canned foods, but she insisted on
bringing canned green beans, corn, and collared greens to my house.
This past Sunday, we had a Thanksgiving celebration early because
she's going out of town. I didn't allow our twelve
year old and nine year old to eat that food

(01:17:55):
filled with sodium. My mother in law got offended, and
my husband has been rolling his eyes at me as
a mom. Am I not allowed to have rules?

Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:18:06):
Yeah, you can have rules, but you know, you know,
and I understand you don't want your kids eating sod
him and preservatives.

Speaker 8 (01:18:14):
I got only but you go eat it today though.

Speaker 1 (01:18:19):
You have today, you go eat your grandmother vegetables. You today,
up the cans, straight out the cans.

Speaker 8 (01:18:24):
Yeah, it's just one day, man, just one day. That
sold him sod him. Good for you. Sodium Bill's character.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
Care food.

Speaker 8 (01:18:40):
If you can survive care food, you can make it
all right.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
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Are you guys drinking enough water?

Speaker 2 (01:19:47):
You think?

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
Should you be drinking more?

Speaker 8 (01:19:50):
I was just thinking that yesterday.

Speaker 1 (01:19:53):
Yeah, I think we've probably more than already.

Speaker 8 (01:20:00):
I drink an eight hours bottle, but I need more
than that.

Speaker 2 (01:20:02):
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Speaker 1 (01:20:04):
Yeah, and I think I don't think people think of that,
you know, Yeah, to stay hydrated. Yeah, all of it
works together.

Speaker 11 (01:20:10):
Yeah, it does, because i'd be listening, I be, I'll
be listening for your comf. I listened for hey, hey, hey, hey,
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about this when you're aroused. Would you rather bark like
a small dog? Or who like an owl?

Speaker 2 (01:21:31):
Ye?

Speaker 1 (01:21:33):
Yeah, all right? Would you rather a woman lies to
you and says you're handsome or lies and says you're
great in bed?

Speaker 2 (01:21:47):
Either one will do. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:21:50):
You can lie to me the way? Why I know
you lying? If you say I'm handsome? So you are
the cutest man I've ever seen. The lady stop.

Speaker 7 (01:22:04):
You know, man, you know what, See, the thing about
being honest with yourself is you ain't got to get
faked by nobody else. Oh yeah, that's the thing about
being honest about yourself, you know. Oh my god, your ASBs,
my ASBs.

Speaker 1 (01:22:21):
Having said that, Steve, let's let's hear from the nephew.
We know how he what he thinks of himself? Anyway? Good,
I'm both Why are you looking at them?

Speaker 2 (01:22:35):
You put on the rail? Though?

Speaker 3 (01:22:36):
Dog?

Speaker 7 (01:22:37):
When the last time somebody let me ask you a question?
When the last time anybody said.

Speaker 8 (01:22:45):
To you, Lord Mercy? You fine? Last time? Tell them
see that he can't he can't think of that?

Speaker 2 (01:22:52):
Somebody hollered it out at one of the last shows.

Speaker 8 (01:22:54):
Idea O that boyfriend?

Speaker 2 (01:22:56):
Yeah, talking about them the wan that's on stage, y'all
the stand up a one person up there? You know
they're talking about me? All right?

Speaker 8 (01:23:06):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (01:23:06):
Who that boy?

Speaker 8 (01:23:07):
Fine?

Speaker 2 (01:23:08):
Who you think they're talking about the way that has passed?
About who you condition? You were fine?

Speaker 15 (01:23:13):
You okay? Oh oh oh god, I just got to
talking about the cancer, will be all right?

Speaker 1 (01:23:26):
Would you rather pretend it your birthday for a free dessert,
or put a hair in your plate for free food
bird dessert.

Speaker 8 (01:23:35):
I'm not putting no ham up. I don't need you free.

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
You get a free dirt dessert, dessert, pie, chocolate cake,
ice cream.

Speaker 2 (01:23:48):
I've done that.

Speaker 8 (01:23:50):
I have money for that.

Speaker 1 (01:23:51):
So you've done it before. Tunion. We lied about your birthday?

Speaker 5 (01:23:57):
What you get.

Speaker 2 (01:24:00):
November fifteenth? I was there, that was me. That ain't
your birthday. I know that guy got the free dessert.
What you get?

Speaker 10 (01:24:12):
You love?

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:24:14):
That chilies?

Speaker 1 (01:24:15):
How you know yummy?

Speaker 10 (01:24:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:24:19):
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Speaker 5 (01:24:30):
Every day.

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Thank you guys for listening as usual. All right, Steve,
it's on you. You're up.

Speaker 7 (01:25:26):
You know we were talking earlier and Junior, I forgot
what was your initial question? What was your initial question?

Speaker 3 (01:25:34):
Oh?

Speaker 11 (01:25:34):
It was a how do we know if what we
want in life.

Speaker 8 (01:25:37):
Is what God wants for us?

Speaker 7 (01:25:40):
How do we know if what we want in life
God wants for us? My quick response was you ain't
gonna get it correct. And then as we were talking
off air, Carla said to me, Carla said, remember the saying,
if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.

Speaker 1 (01:26:00):
My grandma used to tell me that. Yeah, yeah, you know.

Speaker 7 (01:26:03):
And I got to thinking about that, which leads to
my closing remarks. Me being a comedian for the early
part of my career, I must have han had God
on the flow hollering because I can't tell you the
plans I came up with, only to find out it

(01:26:25):
wasn't God's plan for me, and what I had to
eventually learn what I didn't know.

Speaker 8 (01:26:33):
When the beginning is, Hey, Steve, why.

Speaker 2 (01:26:37):
Don't you ask God what he has for you?

Speaker 8 (01:26:42):
Instead of all the time going to God telling God
what you want from him.

Speaker 7 (01:26:47):
Steve, why don't you start asking God what he has
or wants for you? Because his plan is going to
be better than the one you had. But I didn't
do that.

Speaker 2 (01:26:59):
I just didn't do it.

Speaker 7 (01:27:00):
For years. I just went to God with what I wanted.
And here was the dumber thing. Most of the time,
I didn't even go to God. I just went after
what I wanted. Somebody out there know what I'm talking about,
And boy, let me tell you something. It's just because

(01:27:21):
I've understood the power of being authentic with people and
not being fakean acting like I've always had it together.

Speaker 8 (01:27:28):
No, no, I haven't.

Speaker 7 (01:27:30):
I've made thousands of mistakes. I have messed it up
so many times. Hey, man, if you all knew all
the mistakes I made, it's actually a miracle that I'm
here today. It really, I kid you not, And I'm
not blowing it up for radio purposes. If God had

(01:27:55):
dealt with me according to my iniquity, if God had
if God had shown me no grace and extended to
me no mercy and just dealt with me as I was,
as I be in a world of trouble, Man, I

(01:28:15):
would be in a world of trouble. But I got
news for you, so would you. Hey, mister and misrighteous
who sending them talking about?

Speaker 6 (01:28:24):
Well?

Speaker 8 (01:28:24):
Oh lord, what did Steve do?

Speaker 9 (01:28:26):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:28:26):
No, what did you do?

Speaker 7 (01:28:29):
See all this point and fangle business right here? I
stopped doing that to people because I found out very quickly.

Speaker 2 (01:28:36):
Man, it's a.

Speaker 8 (01:28:36):
Lot of fangle point can come my way too.

Speaker 7 (01:28:40):
So in not asking God what he had for me
or wanted for me, I pursued a lot of stuff
that wasn't good for me. I pursued people that wasn't
good for me. I pursued businesses that wasn't good for
me or I had to learn the business. Hey, Why
why did I think I should own a carpet installation company?

Speaker 2 (01:29:04):
Why did I think that?

Speaker 7 (01:29:07):
Why did I think I was actually gonna get rich
selling to Dick Gregory Bohemian diet? Why did I get
into amweight thinking this was my ticket. I'm gonna draw
these circles in these living room I'm gonna become a
direct diamond distributor. I'm'a be by, i'm'a be like Don

(01:29:30):
and Georgia Hell. And I'm gonna have all these people
in Orlando following me, and I'm gonna get up and
Gill's speeches like Dexter Wansol and Bill Britt and Don
and Georgia Hall. I had all the motivational tapes. Man,
I was listening to it all. I'm gonna be a
megastar Amway distributor. I didn't ask God one time if

(01:29:52):
that's what I should do. He just set there with
his arms fold hollering, laughing at me. If you want
to make God laugh, telling me your plan. The whole
time I was in them living rooms drawing them circles,
he had to be on the flow, laughing or I
was good at it, though, because my real gift was

(01:30:12):
standing up in front of people entertaining. So my presentation
of circles, oh, man, I turned it into a routine.

Speaker 8 (01:30:19):
I didn't even know it.

Speaker 7 (01:30:21):
I was the most captivating Amway consultant ever born. You
couldn't stand up in front of a living room full
of people and draw them circles better than Steve Harvey.
I wasn't getting a lot of people that signed up,
but I wasn't selling enough soap powder. That was my plan.

(01:30:46):
My plan, man, I can't tell y'all. Y'all had so
many plans that went around. You know how many people
I've picked that I thought was funny. God, I can't
say no name, but Lord have mercy. And it just
didn't work out. And as I look back on it,
Lord God Almighty, didn't work. Then I forced some things

(01:31:08):
in my life. I just forced some relationships, I forced
some stuff, and it ought.

Speaker 8 (01:31:13):
None of it worked.

Speaker 7 (01:31:16):
Until I stopped and started saying, Okay, God, what you
got for me? And now it seems like everything I
do works.

Speaker 8 (01:31:27):
It don't.

Speaker 7 (01:31:28):
But that's what it appears to other people. Somebody told
me the other day, man, see everything you touched turned
the gold. Now I just started touching what God tell.

Speaker 8 (01:31:38):
Me to touch. That's really the fact, and it just
looked like it. But I made enough mistakes to learn that.

Speaker 7 (01:31:45):
Talk to God today, Ask God to order your steps
and you'll have a much better and more.

Speaker 8 (01:31:50):
Fulfilling life and save yourself a lot of pain. Y'all,
have a good today.

Speaker 5 (01:32:00):
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Speaker 1 (01:32:01):
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