FULL SHOW: Still Remembering Thanksgiving, Strawberry Letter: Is He My Man Or Hers? - 12.02.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what's time. Y'all don't know y'all all at all.

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So given them.

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Back a million bus buss things and.

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Yeah, listening to.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Show to.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
Joy, Yeah, Joy, you do.

Speaker 5 (01:06):
Love.

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Turn you gotta turn.

Speaker 7 (01:31):
I can't.

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I got to turn the mouth, turn my probably got
to turn mouth turn, turn the water the money up.

Speaker 6 (01:49):
Looking me, come.

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Come on you that.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
I shall. Well, good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,
come on digging now. One and only Steve Harley got
a radio show today. I want to just share something
with you along your way to wherever it is you're

(02:24):
trying to get to. You know, everybody has a different
definition for success, and I'm not here to tell you
what yours should be. I mean, please pursue whatever you
think success is. Aim as high as you can though,
that's for sure. My father used to say all the time.
I'm sure you all have heard it in different variations,

(02:46):
but he used to always say, aim for the moon.
Just in case you miss, you'll still be amongst the stars.
Just say that to me all the time. So that
always was in me to aim high. Now he will
saying aim with the intent to miss. He was just
saying aim in case you miss, you'll steal me amongst

(03:09):
the stars if you aim for the moon. But if
you just aim for that first flow window and you
miss it, you know, usually run into some type of
wall and nothing happens. You slither down, you know. In
my book, act like a lady, think like a man.
I told her people that me in love three ways.
They profess, they provide, they protect, and that's the core

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essence of a man's love. Well, there's some other p's
in life too. The number one thing you have to
understand about trying to be successful, and I guess I'll
call this the four p's. I may come up with
five along the way. I don't know. I'm just talking
as it's given to me. So I'm gonna summer start

(03:53):
by saying that these are the four PE's of success
that you have to get ready for. One is pressure.
A lot of it is applied by the circumstance of
what you're trying to go for and what you're trying
to do. But a lot of it also is self
imposed pressure. It's what you put on yourself to make it.

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It's a sense of urgency, it's a sense of necessity,
but pressure is the first thing I want you to
be ready for. And pressure comes in a lot of
different forms, but it's going to be pressured. As an
old saying that pressure bust pipe. See, that's why most
people turn around because of the pressure of trying to

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be successful. I want you to get it in your
mind that it is going to be a pressure riz
situation on your rise to the top. Pressure, but understand
that that is what it is, is not going to change.
That's it. Prepare yourself, get ready for there to be pressure.

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The second thing I want you to understand is when
you receive this pressure, you have to persist. You got
to stay at it. You got to develop a dog illness.
Hez A. There's a song how it says, why must

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I feel like that? Why must I chase the cat?
Nothing but the dog in me? That's a funny line
in that song, because really I was thinking about it
one day. I was humming it and and it occurred
to me, said, why must I feel like that? Why

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must I chase the cat? Nothing but the dog in me?
And you know, now you could take it in the
literal sense that a cat chases the dog, because it's
innately it's in his spirit that cats and dogs are
a lot of time enemies. Now people have pets in
him proven that if you show love on both sides,

(06:05):
they can exist. And that happens too but naturally innately,
when your cat goes by a dog and your dog
don't recognize him, there's some barking going on. I'm talking
about just walking through the neighborhood or something. So, but
the reason that this dog is so persistent towards this
cat is just cause it's in him. It's innately in him.

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And what I'm saying to you, just using that as
an analogy, is that you got to be you got
to be persistent in that. You got to develop some
dog in you now because pressure takes some fighting back.
See if you don't fight back against pressure, pressure buster pipe,

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So what you think it'll do to you? Pressure crack walls,
pressure calls explosions. So if you don't fight back to
hold it in, you understand pressure does most people in
the simple thing called pressure, the weight of what it
feels like to want to be successful every single day,

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over and over and over and over and over. It's
just too much pressure. People crack. You got to persist
you have to persist. You can the thought of giving
up can come, but you got to get it out.
You got to persist. The next thing I want you
to think about is another something that I've been thinking

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about for years and learned for years. It's called perseverance.
To persist means to insist, a keyword in incest, and
persistence insists you must. You must insist that this is
going to happen. Now, the persist I'm assuming means it's

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a proaction. It's some type of proaction that you go
towards it to make it. You know, persist, You gotta
be persistent. You gotta be constantly at it, insisting that
it happens. You gotta be constantly at it. But the
next thing I want you to remember is perseverance. Perseverance
is important. Perseverance means that when you've done your best,

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when you've persisted, when you're fighting back against the pressure.
Perseverance simply means I'm going to hang in here. If
a crack come into pipe, I'm gonna hang in there.
If the pipe bust, I'm gonna keep going. If I
gotta put duct, take mud, whatever I got to put

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on this thing. Man I'm gonna use perseverance. I'm going
to stay with it no matter what. So we're looking
at the three things again. You got to understand that
it's gonna be pressure that you're gonna have to persist.
Keyword in persistence incense. You have to insist that no

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matter what the pressure is, I'm gonna stay with it.
But then perseverance. If it goes wrong, Man, you got
to get in there and keep fighting. But then, Lord
have mercy. Nothing helps you handle the three p's better
than the fourth P. You got to pray. You got
to use prayer. You gotta talk to God. You gotta

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use faith. You gotta have some conferences with him late
at night, early in the morning, in the middle of
the afternoon, when you're on the train, when you're driving.
You got to talk to God. Man, you got to
get yourself some help along the way. Nothing is bigger
than prayer. There is nothing bigger than prayer. Prayer will
help you overcome the pressure. Prayer will help you stay persistent,

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and Lord have mercy. Prayer will help you persevere. Then,
mister faux Peas, God gave that to me, I'm passing
it on.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to The Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention. God
Almighty has done it again. Another great day, another opportunity,
another chance. Man, oh man, oh man, how many can
you get like this without realizing how great this actually is?

Speaker 1 (10:21):
I mean, really, man, at one point in time you
got to go whoo.

Speaker 4 (10:26):
Whoo.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
He is off the chain with it. He is man
every day. Ain't even really no words because when I
try to describe it, if it feels incomplete to me,
because I know I'm short. Awesome is not big enough,
exponentiously all that, it don't super catsual, fragilistic, It don't fit.

(10:50):
I can't think of nothing. Man, God is good. Welcome
to the Seve Harvard Morning Show. Shirty Strawberry calling for
real Mississippi Monica and Junior Nephew. Time is off today.
So Junior, y'all, what's on your mind today?

Speaker 3 (11:03):
Man?

Speaker 4 (11:04):
I'm gonna ask you one question. Have you ever had
to put your hands on your family member before?

Speaker 3 (11:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (11:11):
Yeah? And they put their hands on me too, Yes,
on many occasions, many.

Speaker 1 (11:18):
Not many, Junior? What happened?

Speaker 6 (11:24):
No?

Speaker 4 (11:24):
Because you know everybody know I work for Uncle Steve.

Speaker 2 (11:27):
Everybody know that.

Speaker 4 (11:29):
But if I'm choking my uncle out on Thanksgiving?

Speaker 3 (11:33):
What what am I?

Speaker 7 (11:34):
You know?

Speaker 2 (11:34):
Jr.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
Junior?

Speaker 2 (11:35):
You're missing. You just can't go from our work for
uncle Steve. So I'm choking my uncle on Thanksgiving. You
don't understand. What where the rest of the story. I
just found out in my family.

Speaker 1 (11:50):
I'm important.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
My grandmother just passed.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
I had to move up.

Speaker 5 (11:55):
Now.

Speaker 4 (11:56):
I told my uncle not to touch me. He put
his hands on Now. I told him that he the
crackhead in the family. That's what it is, he the crackhead.

Speaker 2 (12:04):
Oh oh, well, let me say this.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
That crackhead touched me, Steve.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
Yeah, and it happened, yes on Thanksgiving?

Speaker 4 (12:13):
Yes, yes, sir.

Speaker 2 (12:15):
Well, let me ask you an important question. Does he
even remember you choking him? No, sir, he don't remember,
Thank you very much. That's the one good thing about
being a crackhead. Your memory is shot. Don't let it
bother you.

Speaker 4 (12:31):
If I do these things with Harvey, I'm a break.
I'm gonna drag your name into it. The co host
of Steve Hard Morning, Where how I'm in this hill?

Speaker 2 (12:42):
What you finished? Drag name for you?

Speaker 3 (12:46):
No?

Speaker 7 (12:46):
No?

Speaker 2 (12:46):
What you fighting and choking people that thanksgiving lead me out.
Why why I'm in.

Speaker 4 (12:54):
This hill because you famous?

Speaker 5 (12:56):
You have to be in here for what.

Speaker 8 (13:00):
What?

Speaker 7 (13:01):
Hey?

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Dog I had thanksgiving him mine. I ain't nobody get choked.
Wasn't no fighting, we playing huo. It was just nice.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
First thing.

Speaker 4 (13:10):
He's sill.

Speaker 1 (13:12):
He said this, Mister Harvey.

Speaker 4 (13:14):
He said in his room, he said, I can't believe
Junior from Morning Show choke me.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
But just just tell him to stop saying, Steve Harvey
Morning Show, just say, Junior on some talk show was
choking me on sometimes?

Speaker 9 (13:33):
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Is in what you got for us? Junior.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
Listen.

Speaker 2 (14:30):
It's called give the Drama song.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
This is yeah, okay, Hello, I'm trying to me rach
uh ritchie he Hey, Richie, how you doing? You the
drummer for the.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
For the band.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
It's saying, it's saying, how quick at your subject? And
you all show the guy that you're the manager of
the band?

Speaker 5 (14:53):
T right?

Speaker 3 (14:54):
Correct?

Speaker 2 (14:54):
Correct?

Speaker 6 (14:54):
Correct?

Speaker 3 (14:55):
What's up? Okay? All right, all right, we want to
book you guys for I think it's gonna be in February.
All right, yeah, yeah, I mean my name is Carter.
They told you I's gonna be calling I think so. Yeah. Okay,
let's tell you what. We're gonna go through a little
check minus list here. Make sure we're on the same page,

(15:16):
and we got everything's gonna be good that night. But
I hear you guys, you got I take something. You
guys come highly recommended. You know that, don't you. I
appreciate that, we know that we were the best out there. Yeah,
it's all good. It sounds all good, sounds perfect. All right,
Now let's talk about money, because that's always the most
crucial thing to talk about. Now, you guys, sounds good. Uh,

(15:38):
you guys are supposed to be What about what thirty
five hundred? From what I understand? Correct?

Speaker 2 (15:44):
All right?

Speaker 3 (15:44):
How many? How many hours do I get you to
thirty five hundred?

Speaker 6 (15:47):
So?

Speaker 3 (15:48):
What time is starting that we're gonna start that. We're
gonna start seven, probably seven thirty, you know, get that,
get that things jumping off about seven thirty. I think
that's gonna be good. Yeah, we can play till like
I guess, put out o'clock seven thirty ten. Correct. Yeah,
I'm gonna tell you something. They not gonna get going
good till about ten. So I'm gonna say I'm gonna

(16:09):
say this to you right now. You think you guys
could probably go to midnight maybe twelve thirty if I
if I make that thing a nice five thousand dollars,
sounds good to me. You could definitely work with that.
You can work with that. Yeah, Yeah, well we'll accommodate.

Speaker 2 (16:26):
It's gonna be an awesome party.

Speaker 9 (16:27):
We're gonna we're.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
Gonna bringefitt Okay, all right, we got that out of way.
I'll tell you what I think. The main thing that
we haven't gone over is we haven't gone over the songs.
And that's what's that's what's gonna be important for this showdown.
Now you can you got a pen and a pant,
you can write this down. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I write
it down? All right? Down? Give me a second, dog

(16:48):
go ahead? All right?

Speaker 2 (16:50):
Did you got that?

Speaker 3 (16:51):
All right? Yeah? Yeah? I got all right? Somebody, I
just want to be clear you guys when you go,
when you guys go do gigs, you do have people
that want certain uh songs right or wrong? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (17:03):
Usually Yeah, if you got a request, definitely let us
know you could commodate.

Speaker 3 (17:07):
All right, all right, well here we go. Uh, I
want you right just there. I got I got something
that we gotta make sure this is gonna be doing
the high of the party. Here we go. Okay, Friends
in Low Places by Garth Brooks. Right, Canna singing whiskey.
That's Chris Saflet you know that. Okay, my time to

(17:28):
part that's Bason. All things hold off for a second.
Is that country music? That's country music? Well, that's that's
that's that's that's everything. We gonna do everything. We gonna
do that. That's gonna be Yeah, bro, I gotta tell
you right now, man, R and B. That's our specialty.
Did you not know that? You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (17:48):
We replaced R and B.

Speaker 3 (17:50):
He did not know that. All I know is you
guys come highly recommend They tell me you guys can
singing anything in the world. All I'm know is I
won't get a gun country I want some gun country
music going on round. I know that. But you know
our specialty is an R and B.

Speaker 6 (18:09):
That's our specialty.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (18:11):
It's it's not like we're trained monkeys where we could
just learn something new last mint like that.

Speaker 3 (18:15):
You know what I'm saying, Let's let's get let's get one.
Let's get one thing. Understand you're the person that's said monkey,
I ain't sick, but I'm just no. And you know
that we're an R and B band. That's our big thing.
That's what we promote ourselves as. Let me ask you something, Richie,

(18:37):
something you do you not want to make the five
towns and knowledge that you and I have already negotiations.
I don't like being disrespected, though, you know what I'm saying,
and no disrespecting you. You're just we're an R and
B band.

Speaker 6 (18:54):
We don't see the country. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (18:56):
How do you know here, Richie? You got something this country?
I have no problem with country music.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
It's just that we have a full horn section, which
doesn't really work with country music.

Speaker 6 (19:06):

Speaker 3 (19:07):
We play R and D.

Speaker 6 (19:08):
It's not our genre.

Speaker 3 (19:10):
Well, I got I got what year used to doing.
But if I don't hear uh, let me see your gunner.
Oh my cole swim. They didn't didn't that. It ain't
gonna work for me. I gotta get that. I gotta
get slow burned by Tim Heats. I gotta get all

(19:31):
my rooty friends who coming over by. I ain't Williams.

Speaker 5 (19:34):
I mean that, yo.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
You know what waity wait wait wait wait. Karns over
at the Many is telling me that you guys can
sing anything in the world. Now, I know you ain't
telling me that. Kevin's line, I mean he's maybe he
should have told you explicitly what we do and what
we play. You know what I'm saying, I've never met
even matter in my life. Not playing problem playing Guardbrooks,

(19:55):
Chris Stapleton, Jason Now they ain't Brooks and Downs, Blake Shelton,
Cole Swing Dale, Lady, Ay, you gonna sit here and
tell me you can't play none of these songs. I
want you to get on the stage and sing these
songs that we won't go. We ain't got time to
find another group. Everybody. I don't know. I don't get

(20:16):
about your stupid party.

Speaker 6 (20:17):

Speaker 3 (20:18):
You came to us to play music, and then we
told you what we do right now. You know, right now,
I feel like I feel like we had a stand
off at the I'm okay, Corail, all right, all right,
let me let me talk to.

Speaker 6 (20:34):
My band, all right, because this is going this is
going unnecessary too far.

Speaker 3 (20:38):
You know what I'm saying. Maybe we can make it work,
all right. Let me let me ask you. Is Dray
the bass player? Yeah? Correct? Okay? Can I tell you
something about Dray? What about him? Drey got me to
prank phone call you. This is nephew Tommy from the
Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby, you just got pranked by

(20:59):
your boy, the bad dre. Okay, I gotta aswer you something.
Mess what is the baddest and I mean the baddest
radio show in the land. Steve Harvey Morning Show, Digo Charlotte,

(21:21):
give drums?

Speaker 1 (21:22):
All right, all right, Junior, thank you.

Speaker 9 (21:25):
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(22:11):
of the hour. And entertainment news, Candy Burr's ex husband
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(22:32):
the Midwest. We'll talk about these stories at the top
of the hour, but right now it is time to
ask the colo. This is from Da Vinci in Queen's
Da Vinci says, my wife and I took a road
trip to her cousin's house for dinner Thursday. She had
put Bailey's in her coffee, and when we got to
her cousin's house, she was drunk and loud. I had

(22:53):
no idea that she spiked her coffee, so I was mad.
Did I overreact since it was a festive occasion, or
do I have the right to be upset?

Speaker 2 (23:03):
Well, so she was driving, then you have a right
to be upset because that's danger in people's lives on
her roads. Of course. Now I've had Bailey's before. Do
you know how much of that you got to drink
to get drunk?

Speaker 1 (23:20):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
A lot.

Speaker 1 (23:23):
I'm presuming since she said.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
That, I think, but she just spiked her coffee. She
probably has a really low tolerance for alcohol. Yeah, Look,
I would just be a little bit more forgiving people
who drink. Judgment is usually off, so I wouldn't be

(23:47):
too worried about that. Is she mad at him?

Speaker 1 (23:50):
No, he's mad at her.

Speaker 2 (23:52):
Yeay, man, just let that go. It's gonna be some
other stuff. Well while you're still mad about that though, yeah, Julie, Yeah,
I know you mad. Yeah, I know you struggling with that,
but still mad is not good for anybody. You can
unfold your arms. This is the Colo segment. I'll get
to you in a minute. Go ahead, Shirley, I.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
Love that, all right.

Speaker 9 (24:15):
This is from moving on to a lease in Sarasota
at least, writes this morning, my husband was in the
kitchen on the phone when I walked in.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
He hung up.

Speaker 9 (24:25):
I told him to hand me his phone, and he
went off. He said that he's not my child, and
he walked out of the house. Why did he get
so upset over that?

Speaker 2 (24:34):
Well, you asked for his phone. You're checking it now.
Two things could happen. That could be a number on
now he didn't want you to see, or he just
wanted to He just don't want to be checked like
he's a child. And then he walked out the house
to delete the number. You got to you got it,

(24:55):
you know, yeah, give me the phone, you know you
walked then he hung up. Maybe he was through with
the conversation. It could be that, but if you check
him about it immediately, he is gonna be upset. Ain't
gonna use that as the reason. You got to be
slicker with it. You gotta not say nothing. Then don't

(25:18):
say nothing, then get his phone. No, no, you jumping.

Speaker 1 (25:24):
Well he did hang up as soon as she walked in.

Speaker 2 (25:28):
I hang up a lot of time. It could be
just coincident, yeah, all like I said, Or he could
have hung up because he didn't want you to hear
the conversation. Now, why wouldn't he give me the phone.
It's because he is not your child. Give me your phone.
Come on, now, you gotta be a little bit smarter
about this, ladies, give me your phone now, not see.

(25:53):
Let me tell you something. When you make when you
do stuff like that to your husband, now, your husband
starts preparing for those moments. If you're gon't do that,
you're gonna have to be a little bit slickled with it.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
So what you give me your phone? Honey? Honey? May
I see your phone?

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Oh no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
It ain't how you say it, it's the fact that
you're saying it.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
Yeah, baby, baby, let me have your phone whatever on
his phone. M h you can't see it.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
M okay, sounds like he was up to no good.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
Yeah, sadly, but you know she do with the accusational tone.

Speaker 1 (26:36):
Whatever he was wrong too, all right? Moving on to Milan.

Speaker 9 (26:41):
In Greenwood, Milan, that writes, I called my husband three times,
back to back, and he didn't answer. I was looking
at him in the driveway, sitting in his car, ignoring me.
He said he was just chilling. I was worried about him,
and he didn't care. Why would he ignore me like that?

Speaker 2 (27:00):
I can't tell you how many times every man has
done that. Every single man looked at that phone and
with uh uh. He was in the driveway. He wasn't
even on his phone. He just having a moment of peace. Now,

(27:20):
why your man can't have this moment a piece? He
wasn't talking on the phone, and you saw him sitting
there just trying to pull hisself together. Now, why would
he ignore me because he was having a moment of peace.
I have done it, Tommy has done it. If Tash
has done.

Speaker 9 (27:40):
It, huh what would you do if it were her
sitting in the driveway, would you, as a concerned husband
call her yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:50):
I will call her. But if she don't pick up
and I look outside and she in the driveway, I'm
going back in that finish watching the game. Okay, cool,
we can both have a moment. But very few times
will a man knowingly destroy a woman's peace knowing that
could come around and eventually destroy his. Very few men

(28:14):
that have a brain on their head will do that. So, ladies,
if you see your man just chilling you calling me here,
he's just trying to pull it together. He's just trying
to pull it together.

Speaker 5 (28:24):
Right.

Speaker 2 (28:24):
He wasn't on the phone, none of that. Just trying
to have a moment. Man, Glad you ain't my wife.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
This is from Charles and Philly.

Speaker 9 (28:36):
Last one, Steve Charles writes, I got a text from
my wife's mother and she said she needed to speak
to me. We haven't spoken in months, and I was
not in the mood to start a text fight with her.
My wife knows her mom is devilish, so why does
she insist that I talk to her?

Speaker 5 (28:54):
No?

Speaker 2 (28:54):
See, what you do, dog is delete the text and
say you never got it and put that thing on
your phone that doesn't allow people to see that you
re read the message.

Speaker 8 (29:09):
Yeah, but if the text says delivered on her end,
then she knows he got it.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
What doesn't matter and God.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
Is two different things. You know, No, no, you could
deliver the package. I didn't get it though text messages no, no, no, no.

Speaker 5 (29:28):
Hell no.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
And she own if it's say delivered, yeah, but mine
don't say God got it? Now where you where it
got delivered to? That's between you and the phone. Come okay,
I ain't seen no text and hear my phone all

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people to destroy your peace. That's gonna be my closing remark.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
All right, okay, all right, all right. So it sounds
like he and the mother in law have some issues
here and the wife is ignoring it. Yeah, what does
that mean? Ambolish? Yeah, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (30:15):
She know her mama stard miss yeah, day for it,
So he ignored it?

Speaker 1 (30:21):
All right, all right, thank you Colo.

Speaker 9 (30:24):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we will
have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're
listening the Hardy Morning Show. US Weekly reports a Candy
Burris and her soon to be ex Todd Tucker reunited
for Thanksgiving, although Todd was noticeably absent from a family

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photo Candy shared on social media. The image featured Todd's
eldest daughter from a previous relationship with Candy, expressing that
she will always be considered family. Meanwhile, there claims that
Todd has petitioned for a price marry custody of their
two children, aged nine and six, as they currently reside
with him in Georgia while Candy works out of state.

(31:08):
Thout acknowledge signing a prenuptial agreement in twenty fourteen, but
imply that he was coersed into doing so without legal representation.

Speaker 2 (31:19):
Oh so.

Speaker 1 (31:23):
That's your response.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
Now listen to me. Without legal concert that's your prop.
You signed a prenup. That's that's gonna be. I knew that.
I knew that was coming up. Yeah, and and A
and B. You're not getting the kids. You can prompt them,
you do. You know what you have to do for
them to take a child from the mother. Bruh. Yeah,

(31:46):
that's a tough one right there.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (31:47):
And I like Todd man, I like Candy.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
So yeah, but bruh, you I was rooting for them.
I made to say them break up.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
I hate that.

Speaker 2 (31:56):
Yeah, hey man, just do just do, just become wonderful
cold parents. They seem like really smart people. Just be
great co parents, you know, get it done. You not,
that's it, bro, Just gone do that man, Man, I'm
gone take care of your kids.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
Man.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Yeah, all right, glad to see that. Yeah, it really is.

Speaker 9 (32:20):
In other entertainment news, during a recent interview with Robin
Roberts on Good Morning America, fifty Cent discussed his long
beaf with Ditty and why he is producing the Netflix
documentary Sean Combs The Reckoning. Fifty said that if he
didn't say anything, you would interpret it as hip hop
is fine with his behavior. The series will focus on

(32:42):
Ditty being a superstar, his sexual assault lawsuits and criminal trial,
and never before unseen footage never before unseen footage of
days leading up to the trial. Take a listen to
Robert Roberts asking fifty about the beef and director Alexandria
stapled response.

Speaker 2 (33:01):
How do you respond to people who say that that
it's more about the sustain that you have for Sean
Combs than it is for giving the victims a platform.

Speaker 11 (33:09):
What they consider a pre existing being right for twenty years?
Is me being uncomfortable with him suggesting that he takes
me shopping? Or is that I looked at it like
it was like it was like a tester, like, maybe
you'll come play with me type of thing, right, and
it's not personal.

Speaker 12 (33:29):
I think it's important to also let people know that
the show is not completely the perspectives of people that
did not like Shawn. We weren't trying to just get
the highlights, the salacious details. You know that the real
goal was to storytell and if you not, everyone needed
to have an allegation to be a part of this project.

Speaker 1 (33:50):
As to the question, though I did not understand his personal, yeah,
it is. It's very personal, mad. I didn't get an
answer from him.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
I just if you, if you're a man, you tell
me you asked me, come on, let me take your shopping.
That's personal.

Speaker 9 (34:10):
Yeah, And he's mad about that, and so he's this
is how he's Canami as he should be. Yeah, all right,
we all know, of course that did. He is serving
a fifty month prison sentence for violating the Man Act.
And finally, in trending National weather news, more snow untapped
for the Midwest and the Northeast. The third winter storm

(34:31):
in the last seven days will blanket parts of the
Midwest and northeast, Chicago and the Upper Midwest will be
blanketed by snow.

Speaker 3 (34:39):
This is that.

Speaker 1 (34:40):
Today's winter storm.

Speaker 9 (34:41):
Weather alerts have been posted in parts of the northeast
from Pennsylvania to Maine. Winter weather will stay west of
the I ninety five quarter and rain will fall east
of it. Parts of Virginia and west northern western North
Carolina are looking at possible ice accumulation.

Speaker 1 (34:59):
Please be safe, Please be warm out there. Wow, winter
is here. Did y'all see all that snow in Chicago?

Speaker 3 (35:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (35:09):
That was crazy? Buffalo? Did you see the Buffalo Stadium?
This is crazy, crazy winter weather.

Speaker 2 (35:19):
It's winter. Yeah, Cleveland. Let they're they up in that,
But you know they used to it. They know, Chicago
used to it, Buffalo used to it. It's December. Yeah,
what do y'all want to happen? See, y'all been spoiled
in Houston, Florida. It's winter.

Speaker 7 (35:36):
This is what he do.

Speaker 2 (35:37):
It's snow. It's snow and people fight at Thanksgiving chokeouts.
Thank you, thank you for you have see you have
people have cookouts. Junior andm have chokeouts.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
You got to do with the weather.

Speaker 2 (35:52):
What do you nothing? Just wanted to give him a platform.
I appreciate you what is.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
Going on, Junior with your family.

Speaker 4 (36:00):
No, I'm about to be soon because I'm on the
Morning show because I choked somebody out that's older than me.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
I have told you, I'd have told you for the
last time. Stop saying morning show and lawsuit at the
same time. This your rob No, No, you choked your
crack head uncle and thathing is gonna stay at And
you're not going to drag the Steve Harvey Morning Show

(36:28):
into this. We're not gonna allow.

Speaker 8 (36:29):
With Everybody has fights on Thanksgiving. We did well, not
physical fights, but you know we didn't disagreement. Nobody had
a disagreement.

Speaker 2 (36:43):
Well, we had a disagreement because I kept skipping, uh.

Speaker 4 (36:49):
My son and.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
Oh y'all playing no.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
Yeah, that created a problem. Yeah, well, you're gonna pay
for it. You're gonna pay for this.

Speaker 4 (36:57):
You're gonna pay.

Speaker 9 (36:58):
Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, pay what
you mean I'm fin to pay for one for the
pay for this.

Speaker 1 (37:04):
We're gonna talk about your partner's parents.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
Are you gonna mess around? And you ain't gonna be
on the morning shelf or.

Speaker 10 (37:11):
Their family during the holiday season right after this?

Speaker 1 (37:15):
So no, you're listening to Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 9 (37:55):
Okay, we all know Meg the Stallion and NBA superstar
Dallas Maverick player Clay Thompson are dating. Megan cooked a
Thanksgiving dinner for her new man. This was my favorite
post over the holidays for her new man and his
family and Clay's dad, Michael Thomas Thompson said, quote Meg
the Chef's Thanksgiving dinner was unbelievable, the best I've ever eaten.

Speaker 1 (38:20):
End quote. I love that.

Speaker 2 (38:22):
I love that.

Speaker 9 (38:23):
So today's question is how important is it to win
over your partner's family or her parents or their family.
And speaking of Megan, she won her case yesterday and
Miami against a female blogger for seventy five thousand dollars.

Speaker 2 (38:40):
Well, this question, do you say, pose the question again?
The last part of the question.

Speaker 9 (38:44):
How important is it for you to win over your parents,
your partner's parents, or their family?

Speaker 1 (38:51):
How important is that?

Speaker 2 (38:52):
Well, I mean, like Steve Harvey Morning Show. In the
case of Kia, Junior spates, we don't really have a
clear answer for that because he can't win over the
people in his family. He has nothing to do with
his wife, family, wonderful family, his family. He ain't won

(39:16):
them over yet. Junior choked out his uncle at the
thing because of Rwanda. He started crying after who names
that baby? Ronica?

Speaker 4 (39:32):
Her mom?

Speaker 2 (39:36):
What's Ronica's mama name?

Speaker 1 (39:39):
But Susan?

Speaker 4 (39:42):
Oh, but I want, I want everybody in my family.
Stated that mister Harvey is gonna pay for this lawsuit.

Speaker 2 (39:49):
Mister Harvey, Hey crazy, why do you keep saying that
mister Harvey is gonna pay for a lawsuit? Law suit?
I have real lawyers, though, you're gonna mess around, Junior.
I'm gonna shut your whole family down. Y'all won't have
no more thanksgivings.

Speaker 4 (40:09):
Keep me off the show because this is about you.

Speaker 2 (40:12):
I'm not gonna kick you off the show. I'm gonna
send decease and desist for y'all to not have no
more thanksgivings. It's what y'all fit to get. It's castle
because you don't know how to act over there.

Speaker 1 (40:24):
Clearly you're choking And hey, man.

Speaker 2 (40:28):
Did you ever go over Tommy's house?

Speaker 4 (40:31):
I was choking people.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
That's what you didn't go, Junior.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Do you know that this goes over the air. You
can't win a lawsuit when you keep saying I was
choking people? Lawsuit?

Speaker 9 (40:53):
Did anyone take any film, Junior or anything? They didn't
film it today?

Speaker 1 (40:58):
Yeah, everybody got a phone share. Yeah, but did they
film it though?

Speaker 2 (41:01):
Oh, kids did, But old crackheads can't work well.

Speaker 9 (41:05):
Coming up at thirty four minutes after, Louisiana State Penitentiary
Angola held its first father and father and daughter dance.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to
the Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (41:24):
According to CBS News, Louisiana State Penitentiary Angola has more
than sixty three hundred prisoners.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
An organization called God behind Bars.

Speaker 9 (41:34):
Which hosts other reunification events and religious services in prisons nationwide,
hosted the very first father and daughter dance at the prison.
The prison picked up picked about thirty inmates to participate
due to good behavior and other deciding factors. A dance
space was set up in the prison's Bible college, and

(41:55):
the fathers wore tuxedos and cried as their daughters ran
up to the For some prisoners, some of these prisoners
they haven't seen their daughters in month or some even years.
This was a night where they wouldn't be seen as
an inmate, but just rather as dad. Some prisoners said
they wanted to apologize for all the years they missed,
and the other inmates called the dance the most important

(42:17):
prison visit of their lives.

Speaker 2 (42:21):
Wow, see that those are important programs. I found quite
a few of those online and stuff like that. I
think they're fabulous.

Speaker 3 (42:29):
Man.

Speaker 2 (42:29):
It gives the fathers a level of dignity and a
chance to look like a father in the eyes of
the daughter. It's such an important relationship between a father
and a daughter. It's just as important as the father
son relationship because that's where they learn what a man's

(42:49):
love is supposed to be like. So I think it's
a fabulous program. I think they need to do more
hats off to Angola, which is one of the toughest,
the toughest institutions reputation wise in the country. Never been there,
but Lord have mercy and some of the way that

(43:10):
they treat the inmates the inmates is simply inhumane. I
will say that about Angola and a lot of other
prisons too. But when you see a program like this,
this offers a lot of hope. I'm involved in a
prison program that I started at the prison in Atlanta.

(43:32):
The Federal Prison in Atlanta is started by the Coffee
Bean Foundation, where I donated a sum of money to
provide fathers with twenty five hundred dollars scholarships to give
to their children for things that children need on the outside.
And the way they do it is they have to

(43:53):
apply for the scholarship and like you know, like one
of their children may need to go to dance class.
So one girl wanted to go on this field trip
to DC and her mother didn't have the money. Well,
we found out about it and he wins twenty five
hundred dollars scholarship and he's able to send the money
in his name to his child for his child to

(44:17):
participate in these activities and it's starting to really really
catch on. And I'm gonna after this first year here,
I'm gonna do a couple other prisons across the country
with these guys. And I spoke at the prison this year.
I can't think of the name of it as the
Federal prison in Atlanta. I can't think of the name.

(44:37):
But it's very moving time for men. I had a
great time visiting with the inmates and the guards, and
you know, shout out to all the inmates out there, man'
that's just trying to do the right thing.

Speaker 3 (44:53):
Man.

Speaker 2 (44:54):
A lot of good people make mistakes in this world,
and there was some great men behind them. Bars I met.
It was some great officers in that who cared about
the men. You know, it's some good officers, some bad ones,
just like everywhere else. But for the most part down
there was they had a decent relationship.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
So important.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
Hey, man, you can't throw men away and women away
because they locked up. A lot of good people make mistakes,
and then there's some innocent people back there too. Now, yeah,
a lot, and it's a whole lot of it. Look,
the Jim Crow Law down in Angola said that a
person could get convicted without twelve full jury members. So

(45:34):
it's called a Jim Crow law down in Louisiana. They
got it overturned just recently, where you have to be
convicted by twelve any other part of the world, if
ten people say you're guilty and too say you don't,
that's a mistrial. In Louisiana, you go to prison. Well,
they tried to get it retroactive to go back after

(45:55):
they passed the new law, and Louisiana High Supreme Court
turned it down. So these men who were convicted by
not fool jeurys still had to stay in prison. That's
happening at Angolo and that ain't right man.

Speaker 1 (46:10):
Yeah, all right, we're gonna move on and have more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (46:15):
Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Coming up at the top of the hour, about four
minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today and the
subject is is he my man or hers? Okay, we'll
get into that, find out what that's all about. And

(46:37):
just a few because right now Junior is in for
the nephew with today's prank phone call.

Speaker 3 (46:43):
What you got for us?

Speaker 1 (46:43):
Junior?

Speaker 2 (46:44):
I have nothing. I just even talk to my uncle Steve.

Speaker 1 (46:48):
Wait, what what what are you talking about? It's prank time?
What do you mean you have?

Speaker 4 (46:52):
Now? I'm taking everybody time today. I'm anna convicted feeling
and Uncle Steve ain't trying to help him.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
Oh my good feeling?

Speaker 5 (47:06):
Yeah? Man?

Speaker 2 (47:07):
What are the charges?

Speaker 4 (47:09):
JUDI choking people?

Speaker 2 (47:12):
You're gonna say it again?

Speaker 4 (47:13):
Huh see see see what they said Junior from Sarah
water Show. We filing charges now, you, Steve, I'm junior.
You have to pay for this if you care about
me right now? I need to know it right now,
Miss Arden?

Speaker 2 (47:30):
What do you if I care about you?

Speaker 1 (47:33):
What are you about?

Speaker 2 (47:36):
It's your people and this here that you what?

Speaker 6 (47:39):
What?

Speaker 2 (47:40):
Okay? Okay, Miss Harden? Okay, have you ever done what
I've done before? Choke somebody?

Speaker 1 (47:46):
Yeah, we can't talk about this if you.

Speaker 2 (47:51):
He's ah, well, I can tell you right now. I
can recall one almost sure.

Speaker 1 (48:02):
We have asked you.

Speaker 2 (48:03):
That statue of limitation ain't quite pasted or not so
I could probably you don't know, okay, but do you care?
You don't mean to either? Why you talking about it?

Speaker 1 (48:17):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (48:18):
Do you care about me?

Speaker 1 (48:19):
Don't listen to me, junior, Junior, I'm exhausted. It's hot.

Speaker 2 (48:26):
When you are stupid criminal. See that's how you get.
You can't be a stupid criminal. You can't commit a
crime and then admit to it repeatedly on a radio show.

Speaker 1 (48:45):
Thank you that.

Speaker 2 (48:49):
You don't see that.

Speaker 1 (48:50):
No, no, I don't see did you say no?

Speaker 6 (48:54):
No?

Speaker 3 (48:55):
No no?

Speaker 4 (48:56):
Because see I was choking people.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
Another admission? Do you watch Order? Do you watch first
forty eight? Do you watch any of these crimes? Obviously
not date line.

Speaker 2 (49:11):
But I'll tell you what. You might not watch it,
but you're gonna be on it though it's just a
short few.

Speaker 1 (49:18):
Can you introduce the prank?

Speaker 3 (49:19):
Please?

Speaker 8 (49:20):
No, let Steve do Okay, okay, Neighborhood Watch, Junior, go ahead,
you can do it if you don't free prank Thanksgiving.

Speaker 4 (49:30):
Soon we come back, though, I'm still gonna talk on
Steve about this all day neighborhood Watch.

Speaker 1 (49:34):
That's the prank.

Speaker 4 (49:35):
He yeah, yeah, because anybody I'm gonna go to jail.
You we see this Neighborhood Watch.

Speaker 6 (49:42):
Come on, cant hello. I'm trying to reach Johnny.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
Yeah it's Johnny.

Speaker 6 (49:48):
Okay, you the one that be doing the neighborhood watch.
You'll be walking your dog doing the neighborhood watches?

Speaker 3 (49:53):
Is that you?

Speaker 6 (49:54):
This is this Johnny? Who is this man? This is preach?
Answer my question? Are you Johnny?

Speaker 3 (50:01):
Pull your road?

Speaker 5 (50:02):
On your road? I'm Johnny and I do the neighborhood
watch Who was a TJ?

Speaker 6 (50:08):
I'm old man.

Speaker 5 (50:10):
Don't climb my phone yell at me charging me up?

Speaker 6 (50:13):
Hey man, only a blue streets over from you. Okay,
And you're supposed to be the neighborhood watchman, but that
ain't what you're doing now. I didn't cat you looking
in the window at my wife. When I came outside,
you was halfway down the street. You're on your dog
for doing You ain't watching the neighborhood and you looking
trying to see them in the window.

Speaker 5 (50:32):
That's what you're doing, piking some Please, I don't look.
I'm do my job, man, I do my neighbors.

Speaker 3 (50:39):
I do my job.

Speaker 5 (50:40):
I do the neighborhood watch. I make sure people ain't
breaking nobody houses.

Speaker 9 (50:44):
I got a way.

Speaker 5 (50:44):
What the hell I want to look at somebody else's
like I got a piece of that home. I don't
want to look.

Speaker 6 (50:50):
Then you need to stay out long with looking through
people window. Man, you're supposed to be watching the neighborhood,
not watching my wife.

Speaker 5 (50:58):
When you say you live again, because I live two streets.

Speaker 6 (51:01):
You know what, I'll tell you what though, I'll tell
you what Johnny.

Speaker 5 (51:05):
People Tom. I'm gonna show you what a people Tom is.

Speaker 3 (51:08):
Now.

Speaker 6 (51:09):
I'm gonna show you what.

Speaker 3 (51:10):
Now.

Speaker 6 (51:10):
I'm gonna start looking at your window, looking at your wife.
See why he was learning another peep, mister Johnny.

Speaker 5 (51:18):
But but putting your over here, I want you to look.
I wrote you to look at my window.

Speaker 6 (51:25):
Who the hell is this?

Speaker 5 (51:26):
I ain't got time for this. Man. I got a job,
I got a mortgage, I got kids. I ain't got
time for this man. Don't look at a job, man,
don't don't find a job.

Speaker 6 (51:34):
I got a job. I got a job for when
I'm at work.

Speaker 5 (51:37):
You got a job, Yeah, you got a job. Crying
I talk about somebody looking at your Why ain't nobody
look at your wife?

Speaker 3 (51:43):
Man?

Speaker 6 (51:43):
Got a job. But when I'm at Mold, I'm wondering
if Joe is back at the home looking through the
window at my wife.

Speaker 5 (51:50):
Please talk to my house.

Speaker 6 (51:52):
Please, I'm coming later than look through the window.

Speaker 5 (51:56):
Fine, and mem what the hell are you talking about
calling me telling my people? And it just wh get nobody?
That's what you're doing that that's no white. You probably
ain't got no white. You probably married to the something.
What you talking about, man, talking about our people?

Speaker 6 (52:10):
That your wife you prob god, I a wife and
you was the wonder watching the neighborhood. But that ain't
what I'm doing.

Speaker 5 (52:18):
And I got that. Come over here now, suse you
around the neighborhood. You three streets whatever, how many streets whatever?
You are for me? Come right now. I stand outside
with my dog pushing on.

Speaker 6 (52:29):
Your I won't you come by one later that night
when he has at that shower the same way you
was looking through my one.

Speaker 5 (52:38):
Please just come by, don't wait, just come by now.
Please her with I don't know about right now, I'm
paying somebody with me. You ain't what, brother, I'm getting
ready to flow down so I could get ready and
tell of my business.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
Man.

Speaker 5 (52:53):
I'm getting ready to go and work again in the day. Man,
What the hell you talking about? Bro? I got two jobs.
I got my job that wasn't during the day and
at night, and in between I do the neighborhood watch.
I'm doing your service. I'm helping your lady. Do you
step up your watching people looking to see if they's
looking at your Why don't you get you a second

(53:15):
job or something?

Speaker 2 (53:16):
Man?

Speaker 5 (53:16):
Why don't you google? Won't you look at mustard dot
com or something? What the hell is wrong with you
calling me talking about I'm people.

Speaker 3 (53:23):
At your wife?

Speaker 5 (53:24):
May don't you ever call me when?

Speaker 3 (53:25):
No?

Speaker 5 (53:26):
The hole? Is this anyway?

Speaker 3 (53:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (53:29):
Who the hell is this? Because I got some fun?

Speaker 6 (53:31):
Who was going to tell you who it is? This
is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You
just got pranked by your wife, Trisha.

Speaker 5 (53:48):
Man and ain't want baby. They ain't right, baby, Baby,
that ain't right. Man. You got me man because I
say it ain't nobody to go.

Speaker 6 (53:59):
Get me on? No prank man, I don't bompling man
creak Joe. Wife told me you do the neighborhood. Watch
oh man, she said you do the neighborhood. You walk,
you know, because what you gotta Rod Waller, Yeah to.

Speaker 5 (54:12):
Me, that's why you neighgas.

Speaker 6 (54:14):
I want to be safe, may just case something happening.
I just stick my rock fellow neighbor.

Speaker 3 (54:19):
And you got me bad, Yes, you you got me bad.

Speaker 6 (54:23):
Man, you're good.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
I'm good man.

Speaker 6 (54:26):
I'm gonna get her oover. Alright. Let me ask this though,
what is the baddest and I'm talking about the baddest
radio show in.

Speaker 5 (54:34):
The land made the Steve Harvey Show.

Speaker 4 (54:42):
There yo show, Neighborhood Watch. But see, wasn't nobody watching
me in the neighborhood when I was choking people? And
missus Harvey, they finisue us.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
Listen to me, Listen to me. The reason nobody saw
you in the neighborhood watch because you wasn't doing nothing.
Think saddah, that was nothing to see. Okay, now, if
you say it one more time, what's gonna happen, I'm
gonna take my hands off of you, and I'm gonna
let happen. What's gonna happen?

Speaker 4 (55:13):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (55:13):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (55:14):
It was about seven thirty. I take my hands off
some back at about seven thirty, I mister Harp, Miss Harp,
do you love me? Do you love me?

Speaker 1 (55:24):
Apparently yes?

Speaker 2 (55:25):
Not right now?

Speaker 1 (55:26):
I don't told you yes earlier when you add.

Speaker 2 (55:29):
Almost Struggle Street with you right now us hard? I
don't really all.

Speaker 1 (55:34):
Right, thank you, Junior.

Speaker 9 (55:36):
Coming up next, it is my strawberry letter for today,
and the subject is is he my man or hers?

Speaker 1 (55:42):
We'll get into it right after this. Around the holidays.

Speaker 9 (55:45):
It's hard to find the right gifts, but you know,
it's even harder getting the right gift.

Speaker 1 (55:50):
But get this.

Speaker 9 (55:51):
line on my plan and a brand new smartwatch and tablet,
no trade in needed. You can give a couple away
and get yourself one too, or you could keep them
all to yourself. No one has to know. Stop by

(56:12):
your local Verizon. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It
is time now for my Strawberry Letter for today. And
if you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting
and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve BARBFM
dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

(56:34):
reading your letter live on the air, just like we're
going to read this one right here, right now, and
you never know, it could be yours.

Speaker 4 (56:43):
It could be yours.

Speaker 2 (56:44):
Len Jim, It's time for the Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 4 (56:46):
My good friend Shirley Strawberry.

Speaker 9 (56:48):
Thank you, thank you, my good friend. Junior subject is
he my man or hers? Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty
four years old and single. After a bad breakup, I
rebounded with a guy from my past. He still lives
in the town where we grew up, so we reconnect

(57:10):
it when I was home visiting my parents for Labor Day.
We're making the long distance thing work because right now
he's living with his ex girlfriend until their lease expires
at the end of December. Right this causes a problem
for my parents because my boyfriend's ex girlfriend doesn't does

(57:31):
payroll and accounting for my dad's cleaners. She's well known
in town, so no one can believe that my boyfriend
dumped her. I told him that living with her and
dating me would be a problem, but he did not
move out. My dad called me last month and said
that he and my mom are embarrassed by what I'm doing.
I calmly told them that my boyfriend is not married

(57:52):
to the girl, so he's allowed.

Speaker 1 (57:54):
To do as he pleases, and he chooses to date me.

Speaker 9 (57:57):
My dad left me alone for a while, and then
my mom called me and said she saw the girl
and my boyfriend at an outlet mall together. I asked
him about it, and he said they were picking out
sneakers for her nephew, and she asked for his help.
I told him about this thing called online shopping that
they could have done without going out in public together.

(58:19):
He laughed and reassured me that I had nothing to
worry about. I am being harshly judged by my parents,
but I'm continuing to fight for my relationship. I guess
I'll see what happens at the end of the year
when he's supposed to move out. My intuition is telling
me that to call his ex to see if my
boyfriend has told her how he.

Speaker 1 (58:40):
Feels about me. Well, if he's playing me, What if
he's playing me? Like my parents said, do you think
that he'll break up with me if I call his ex?
What should I do? Okay, First, let's clear this up. Okay,
you have no relationship with this guy. Okay, and you
should end this sham of a relationship and ship immediately.

(59:01):
That's what you should do.

Speaker 9 (59:02):
You should have never gotten involved in this. He was
living with someone and he made promises to you. No,
wait till all that's over, then you guys can start dating.
But now, no, he lives with someone that this is
a no win situation for you. You've given him permission
basically to have her, to keep her and be with you.

Speaker 1 (59:26):
When you're around.

Speaker 9 (59:28):
If he's preparing to be with you, then no other
woman should be involved in the mix.

Speaker 1 (59:33):
Do you understand that they live together?

Speaker 10 (59:36):
So?

Speaker 9 (59:36):
Yes, No matter what he's telling you, he is still
sleeping with her. So I say, listen to your parents.
He is playing you.

Speaker 2 (59:45):
Steve, I almost.

Speaker 1 (59:51):
Don't say it.

Speaker 2 (59:52):
I almost can't believe anything in this letter. It's that unbelievable.
It doesn't make any sense. Everything you said has red
flags stuck in it. Thirty four years old and single,
after bad breakup, I rebounded with a guy from my past. Ding,

(01:00:17):
let's stick a red flag in that, because guess what
you said, I rebounded with a guy from my past. So,
I guess you're just gonna throw away the fact that
you had to break up with him for whatever the reason.
He still lives in town we grew up in, so
we reconnected when I was home visiting my parents for
Labor Day, Ding another red flag weekend fleeing we're making

(01:00:44):
grew up in so when I was home visiting the
Labor day, we're making the long distance thing work because
right now he's living with his ex girlfriend until their
least expires had the end of December. Ding ding ding
ding ding ding ding ding ding ding Ding, Lady, many
flags you need? You said, we're making the long distance

(01:01:05):
thing work.

Speaker 3 (01:01:08):
What what?

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
What is it that you're making work? All it is
is a long distance thing because right now he's living
with his ex girlfriend until their least expires at the
end of December. You ready, this causes a problem for

(01:01:30):
my parents because my boyfriend's ex girlfriend does payroll in
accounting for my dad's cleaners. Bing Big bing Bean. Another
red flag. When you say this causes a problem for
your parents, See that means there's some involvement with them

(01:01:51):
in your long distance thing. That you're making work with
a man that lives with his ex girlfriend until they
least run out in December, and now the ex girlfriend
does payroll and accounting for your daddy's cleaners. She's well
known in town, so no one can believe that my

(01:02:13):
boyfriend dumped her. Ding Here we go. So what you're
telling me is that this girl has a wonderful relationship
and everybody knows her as an upstanding and fine young woman.
I told him that him living with her and dating

(01:02:34):
me would be a problem. You think you, but he
did not move out, ding another red flag. Baby, You
living with this woman gonna be a problem for me? Cool,
it's gonna be a problem for you because I'm staying here.

(01:02:56):
When we come back, I'll tell you the rest of
this unbelievable letter that's red flags.

Speaker 9 (01:03:01):
Yeah, we'll have part two of your response coming up
to Stavid twenty three minutes after the our Today Strawberry letter.
Subject is he my man or hers? We'll get back
into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Around the holidays, it's hard to find the right gifts,

(01:03:23):
but you know, it's even harder getting the right gift.
But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both.
They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone
with a new line on my plan and a brand
new smartwatch and tablet, no trade in needed. You can
give a couple away and get yourself one two, or

(01:03:43):
you can keep them all to yourself. No one has
to know. Stop by your local Verizon. All right, Steve,
come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject ease,
he my man or hers.

Speaker 2 (01:03:55):
This letter, as I'll repeat, is full of red flags.
It's thirty four year old woman who says she's single
after a bad breakup, she rebounded with her ex red flag.
They still live in the town that they grew up here,
so she went back to visit her parents on Labor
Day and they connected. We can't flee another red flag.

(01:04:20):
We're making this long distance thing work. Really what thing?
Because right now this is the funniest line. Right now,
he's living with his ex girlfriend that today least expires
at the end of December. Girl, listen to me, red flag,

(01:04:46):
red flag, and it's on fire. You got a red
flag and it's on fire. This causes a problem for
my parents because my boyfriend's ex girlfriend does payroll and
accounting for my dad. Oh lord, you're fit to mess
up your dad in money. Then another redge play. She's

(01:05:07):
well known in town, so no one can believe that
my boyfriend dumped her. Well, nobody can't believe it because
they still live there, and nobody can't believe it because
she's supposedly I guess, well liked in this well thought
of young lady. I told him that him living with
her and dating me would be a problem. Yeah, but

(01:05:29):
he did not move out for that because it's a
problem for you. You told him it would be a problem,
he said, cool, get over it. My dad called me
last month and said that he and my mama embarrassed
by what I'm doing. That's because everybody she well, they

(01:05:50):
know I ain't saying everybody no. But see the fact
that he told you that nobody in town can believe
he dumped her. It's because they still live together and
don't nobody she don't even know. She don't. So now
your daddy say he's embarrassed by what you're doing because
it appears to your father like you a home record.

(01:06:14):
I calmly told them that my boyfriend is not married
to the girl, so he's allowed to do as he pleases,
and he chooses to date me, beautiful, that's what you said.
You gave him permission to do whatever it is he
wants to do because he's not married, so he's keeping
his girlfriend. They're still sleeping together, and he's dating you.

(01:06:38):
Your dad is trying to say, girl, grow up. My
dad left me alone for a while, and then your
mom called and said she saw the girl and my
boyfriend at the outlet mall together. I ain't been to
the outlet mall. None of my exes, none of them.

(01:07:00):
Ain't nobody seeing me as seals with or nothing. Nothing.
I asked him about it, and he said they were
picking out sneakers for her nephew, and she asked for
his help. What I told him about this thing called
online shopping. They could have done that without going out

(01:07:22):
in public together. He laughed and reassured me I had
nothing to worry about. Another red flag and guess what
you believed it? Am I being harshly judged by my parents.
I am being harshly judged by my parents, but I'm
continuing to fight for my relationship. Shirley said, it best

(01:07:43):
you don't have a relationship. You have a long distance thing.
The least may be up in December, but they not
moving out. I guess I'll see what happens at the
end of the year when he's supposed to move out.
Listen to me, he not moving out. He gonna stay

(01:08:04):
there because him and this girl ain't breaking up. When
you would came back to him on the rebound, what
did you think he was doing when he told you
he lived with somebody, and then said, but it's my
ex girlfriend. I'm just staying that to the dinner. That
ain't sound crazy to you? That ain't that? Ain't that
ain't give you a moment of pause. You didn't you

(01:08:27):
didn't feel some kind of way, So y'all just decided
to go and make this long distance thing work. My
intuition is telling me to call his ex to see
if my boyfriend has told her how he feels about me.

(01:08:48):
What if he's playing me? Like my parents said? Do
you think that he will break up with me if
I call his ex? Y'all y'all not together? Yeah, faith,
y'all not together? See sweetheart, let me show show you.

(01:09:08):
So ain't nobody seeing you and him at the outlet?
Mam hat him? Huh? What should I do? You should
stop seeing this boy because he's still with his girlfriend.
Now you can be to do the vindictive thing and
call the girl and say, hey, I'm sleeping with your man.
But if you did that to me, I'm gonna accuse

(01:09:30):
you of being delusional And yeah I saw your on
Labor Day weekend, but we ain't got nothing going on.
Then I'm gonna wash you out my phone take all
the contacts out and then you gonna be boom. So
I don't I don't know what to tell you, but
ain't no need to wrecking the rest of his home
because because you got played, he is playing you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:52):
I fail for it.

Speaker 2 (01:09:54):
Now just get over and just stop doing rebound stuff.

Speaker 9 (01:09:57):
Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter as Steve HARVFM
on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast
on the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up at forty six
minutes after the hour. It is Junior and Sports Talk.
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

(01:10:18):
but you know it's even harder getting the right gift.
But get this, Verizon's got the perfect solve for both.
They have incredible gift bundles. You get the latest phone
with a new line on my plan and a brand
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(01:10:39):
give a couple away and get yourself one two, or
you could keep them all to yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:10:44):
No one has to know.

Speaker 9 (01:10:45):
Stop by your local Verizon. It is time now for
Junior and Sports Talk.

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
Which you got Junior?

Speaker 4 (01:10:52):
Well sure, they've used on vacation for Thanksgiving. But let's
find out if UNK would have picked these games and
back here we go. The Packers meet the Lions twenty four.

Speaker 2 (01:11:00):
Ain't nowhere in the world i'd have picked that. Ain't
no faith, all right?

Speaker 4 (01:11:04):
The Cowboys beat the Chiefs thirty one.

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
And twenty eight.

Speaker 2 (01:11:08):
Ain't no way out of.

Speaker 1 (01:11:12):
The cowboy uncle.

Speaker 4 (01:11:14):
The Bengals beat the Ravens thirty two to fourteen.

Speaker 2 (01:11:18):
Ain't no way I have picked that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:22):
Here we go up.

Speaker 4 (01:11:23):
The Bears beat the Eagles twenty four to fifteen.

Speaker 2 (01:11:27):
There is no way I would have picked that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (01:11:32):
Uh.

Speaker 4 (01:11:32):
The forty nine Ers beat the Browns twenty six to eight.

Speaker 7 (01:11:38):
What was that?

Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
Dang?

Speaker 2 (01:11:40):
I mean right now?

Speaker 4 (01:11:43):
Okay, here we go up. The Jaguars beat the Titans
twenty five to three.

Speaker 2 (01:11:48):
I'd have picked that one.

Speaker 4 (01:11:50):
Okay. The Texans beat the Colts twenty to sixteen.

Speaker 2 (01:11:55):
I'd have picked that one.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
Really, yeah, really, you'd have picked us?

Speaker 2 (01:12:00):
Yeah? Okay, you know, good Hairwell, I wouldn't have picture.

Speaker 5 (01:12:05):
Too much.

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
Here we go up.

Speaker 4 (01:12:08):
The Dolphins beat the Saints twenty one to seventeen.

Speaker 2 (01:12:12):
Oh yeah, that's an easy pick. Yeah yeah, Who about
Tash about it. Who I love Tash? He loved the Saints.
What they got to do with it? We got each other.
I got Tash and he got the Saints.

Speaker 6 (01:12:26):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 4 (01:12:28):
The Jets beat the Falcons twenty seventy twenty.

Speaker 2 (01:12:31):
Yeah, I got to pick that.

Speaker 4 (01:12:33):
Yeah, Okay. The Panthers beat the Rams thirty one to
twenty eight.

Speaker 2 (01:12:38):
Yeah, I have to pick the Panthers. Panthers rolling, man,
I've been picking the Panthers a lot later.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
Yay, sly Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:12:45):
Now the Buccaneers beat the Cardinals twenty to seventeen.

Speaker 2 (01:12:48):
Uh yeah, I got to pick that, okay, Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
The Seahawks, the Seahawks beat the Vikings twenty six to zebra.

Speaker 2 (01:12:57):
Yeah, I ought to pick that. I don'tkay nothing about
the Vikings.

Speaker 5 (01:13:02):
All right.

Speaker 4 (01:13:02):
Unk the Chargers beat the Raiders thirty one to fourteen.

Speaker 2 (01:13:06):
Yeah yeah, yeah, your Raiders don't have a real good team.
Brown beat the raid.

Speaker 3 (01:13:12):
What.

Speaker 4 (01:13:13):
The Bills beat the Steelers twenty six to seven. Yeah,
I'd have picked that, okay, and then Unk the Broncos
beat the Commanders twenty seven to twenty six. He's picked
that one.

Speaker 2 (01:13:25):
Uh yeah, I would have picked that, but that would
have hurt me though.

Speaker 4 (01:13:28):
Okay, here's what I want to ask you about. Why
you didn't pick the Texans to beat the CAUs why
you just wouldn't pick us up?

Speaker 2 (01:13:35):
Cause I don't. I don't care if you and tell
me there you here really ain't got nothing to do
with the Texas man, I just don't care. Give smug
attitude talking about 'all going to playoffs and all that. Okay,
super Bowl, you ain't going to know where close to
the super Bowl.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
Thank you guys, thank you you. And you're coming up.

Speaker 9 (01:13:54):
At the top of the hour, A man on social
media needs some advice, Dave. He says, how many Christmas
parties are enough? We'll talk about it right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
this is from Trent on Steve Harvey FM. Trent says,
now that Thanksgiving is over, it's on to Christmas. Thanksgiving

(01:14:18):
was busy enough, but I had no clue about the
number of Christmas parties my wife had committed to committed
us to. When she laid out the list, there were
nine of them. And that doesn't include the work party
that I will have to go to.

Speaker 1 (01:14:33):
This is way too much.

Speaker 9 (01:14:34):
Nine parties I need to get my wife to cut
this list down significantly before I approach her with this conversation.
Morning crew, Please tell me how many Christmas parties are enough?

Speaker 2 (01:14:48):
Well, I don't know what. You don't have to do,
but you don't have to get up. You got to
get a positive COVID test?

Speaker 1 (01:14:54):
What what?

Speaker 2 (01:14:57):
Yeah, when we'll get out of the Christmas plot, you're
gonna have to get a positive COVID test though.

Speaker 1 (01:15:03):
You gotta get sick.

Speaker 2 (01:15:05):
Yeah, you just can't.

Speaker 1 (01:15:10):
There's no way you could just have a regular conversation
with his wife.

Speaker 2 (01:15:13):
Oh, you have it, But she committed to this.

Speaker 1 (01:15:16):
He's at least gotta go to the office party with her.

Speaker 2 (01:15:19):
Well, he's going to the two office parties.

Speaker 1 (01:15:21):
Gotta do that. Yeah, okay, not to excessive, it's very much.

Speaker 2 (01:15:28):
My wife would have never done that because she don't
want to do that nine Christmas.

Speaker 1 (01:15:35):
Or if you commit to the nine, you just know
your husband going to too.

Speaker 2 (01:15:40):
Yeah, I can't think of nine people I like, I
don't like you?

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
Well, how many is on the show? You love everyone?

Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
I'm not coming to y'all Christmas party? No, Junior. Ain't
nobody coming to your house on Junior Because you're over
there choking people. So no, we're not coming to your
house there arguing about who daddy? Oh then and who mama?

(01:16:10):
And then and then and then and then Otensary over
there crying and all like that. Ain't nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:16:18):
But back to you, Steve. You're gonna give us a
Christmas party? You used to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:16:23):
What's happened?

Speaker 1 (01:16:25):
Well, bonuses all of that.

Speaker 2 (01:16:27):
Well, you know, things ain't what they used.

Speaker 1 (01:16:30):
To be, you know, inflation, prices, taking crime, you.

Speaker 2 (01:16:37):
Know, trumpet off them tails, cut in on that Christmas part. Yeah,
sit over here, shutting all them terms on everybody. We
can't from bonuses.

Speaker 1 (01:16:51):
Yeah we've had yeah yeah, oh yeah, so.

Speaker 2 (01:16:55):
We ain't had a bonus? Is Junior been here?

Speaker 5 (01:16:58):
Not one?

Speaker 2 (01:17:02):
Didn't have a whole another family? People not liking you? Yeah,
Junior salary cut into the bonus structure?

Speaker 1 (01:17:14):
What oh is that? How it happened?

Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Well, you know, Junior si y'all bonuses was I had
to pay him out a summer and then when I
had to start paying Junior, that was the bonus structure.

Speaker 1 (01:17:25):
Oh okay, bye, nice knowing you, Junior. Nice working with
you by groceries. Get out of here, Junior, no eggs,
no baked gas.

Speaker 9 (01:17:41):
All right, we have time for another one, Steve. This
is from Angel on Steve Harvey.

Speaker 3 (01:17:45):
F M.

Speaker 9 (01:17:46):
Angel says, my my, my mom has always struggled with relationships.
She and my dad split when I was a teenager,
and from my perspective, he was.

Speaker 1 (01:17:54):
A great guy. She should have tried harder to hold
on to.

Speaker 9 (01:17:58):
Since then, she's had one bad relationship after another until
usually because she pushes away the.

Speaker 1 (01:18:04):
Good ones and clings to men who treat her poorly.

Speaker 9 (01:18:07):
Now she's finally with a genuinely nice guy, and I'm
terrified she's going to mess this up too. From the outside,
it seems so obvious how she sabotages her own happiness,
but she can't see it. I want to protect her
and help her keep something healthy for once, but I
have no idea how to get her to recognize her
own patterns and avoid her hurting.

Speaker 2 (01:18:29):
Well, it's her, Yeah, it's her. It may not even
be the guys. It could just be her. Yeah, that's
yas mint she Oh, you can't help it.

Speaker 1 (01:18:40):
Oh, okay, look at the all right, we'll have more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (01:18:58):
You know, guys, we all a good pedicure, but you
have you heard about or seen this fish pedicure?

Speaker 1 (01:19:05):
Have you seen this new trend? Well, it's not really new,
but have you seen it?

Speaker 9 (01:19:08):
It's when people stick their bare feet into the water
and the fish swarm around their toes and gently eat
away the dead skin cells and calluses, leaving their feet
supposedly silky and smooth. So you put your feet in
water with live fish. However, the process has uh huh,
there's no way.

Speaker 1 (01:19:27):
There's no freaking way.

Speaker 2 (01:19:29):
Nah, it'll be so many fish on that slope. Yeah,
just kicking fish out the lot.

Speaker 9 (01:19:42):
However, the process has come under legal scrutiny, even being
outlawed in some US states. The problem isn't necessarily the fish,
it's the environment there in it's often hard to tell
if the process is sanitary, and you don't know what
kind of bacteria the fish could be carrying. Doctors say,
a good foot scrub exfoliates just as well and it's

(01:20:02):
a lot safer.

Speaker 1 (01:20:03):
So there's no way you would try this, right, A fish.

Speaker 2 (01:20:06):
Pepper, what a joke I got? I ain't gonna make
it on the air, holl.

Speaker 1 (01:20:12):
I can't do this when you send to yourself, we
know it's bad. Yeah, there's no way.

Speaker 2 (01:20:19):
That's a hall one man. New fish nibbling on your.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
Heart, Yeah, they say gently nibbling.

Speaker 2 (01:20:23):
But just you know, I have coy fish and I
can feed them by hand.

Speaker 1 (01:20:27):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (01:20:28):
Coyfish are used to me. They come and eat out
your hand. But even that's a little bit. You know,
they don't have teeth.

Speaker 1 (01:20:33):
All right, we'll have no fish pedicures for us, not
around it?

Speaker 9 (01:20:39):
Would you rather coming up right after this? You're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:20:48):
but you know it's even harder getting the right gift.
But get this.

Speaker 9 (01:20:55):
line on my plan and a brand new smart watch
and tablet, no trade in needed. You can give a
couple away and get yourself one too, or you could
keep them all to yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
No one has to know.

Speaker 9 (01:21:14):
Stop by your local Verizon. It is time now for
a round it would you rather here we go?

Speaker 1 (01:21:20):
Guys? Would you rather wash your favorite.

Speaker 9 (01:21:23):
Football team's offensive line players jockey straps.

Speaker 1 (01:21:27):
Would you'd rather do that?

Speaker 9 (01:21:28):
Or would you rather have your favorite player traded to
your most hated team traded?

Speaker 1 (01:21:35):
You're not watching jockey strap.

Speaker 2 (01:21:38):
No, I'm not watching nobody anybody? Okay?

Speaker 5 (01:21:43):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:21:43):
Would you rather walk or drive in the snow?

Speaker 2 (01:21:48):
I mean I could do both? The first time I
ever drove a car the snow? Really, y'all? Thirteen? Wow,
fear Liddy, It's no all the time you drive snow?

Speaker 4 (01:22:01):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:22:02):
Well, yeah, I guess we'll google you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:04):
Keep driving snow? But ice that that black ice?

Speaker 3 (01:22:09):
Yeah? All right?

Speaker 1 (01:22:13):
Uh? Would you rather you can.

Speaker 9 (01:22:16):
Listen only to one song until Christmas? Or would you
rather This Christmas by Donny Hathaway or Silent Night by
The Temptation.

Speaker 1 (01:22:27):
No, that's the only one you could listen to Hathaway Man. Yeah,
that's that's the tone I need my mind and in
my mind, those are my two favorite songs.

Speaker 3 (01:22:46):
All right?

Speaker 9 (01:22:47):
Would you rather play Santa or would you rather pay
play the Grench at the office holiday party, which we're
still trying to see we're gonna.

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
Have, well, Junior gonna have to beat the Grinch this year.
I gotta be the Grin because you're choking people. You
don't know how to keep your hands to yourself.

Speaker 1 (01:23:10):
All right, So so the Grinch and well that means
you'll be Santa, then, Steve.

Speaker 3 (01:23:19):
Sannah.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
When are we gonna have the Christmas party? Did you
set the date?

Speaker 2 (01:23:23):
Jons, No, you're not. You can't have the Christmas I
told you. Junior salary cut into all of that. That's
why I stopped. Y'all didn't y'all didn't see that. It's
not a coincidence since Junior been here, that hasn't been
any Christmas parties or all bonuses Junior is the bonus.

Speaker 1 (01:23:41):
You here yourself.

Speaker 8 (01:23:43):
You're not throwing your Christmas party because you have an employee.

Speaker 2 (01:23:48):
I'm an employee. The money that I spend on Junior
is you don't make a lot of money if you
spend up money. Yeah, you split up Junior your money
by fault. That's y'all's bonuses. And that was the Christmas party.
All this is on Junior.

Speaker 4 (01:24:07):
Can we can we not talk about that?

Speaker 3 (01:24:10):
Now?

Speaker 2 (01:24:10):
You can ask Junior. Ah, you know he like to help.

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
Party, But Junior, are you gonna throw us at Christmas party?

Speaker 2 (01:24:19):
At your fault.

Speaker 1 (01:24:20):
We're not having one.

Speaker 4 (01:24:22):
Hell no, I can't do.

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Speaker 1 (01:25:22):
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Speaker 2 (01:25:31):
I was talking a little bit about I kind of
thought about some things today, but you know what I
wanted to give all my final thoughts to today. It's
about your personal piece. Uh, Discovering your personal piece is valuable.
You know, we were doing a story that a lady

(01:25:54):
had called in and she saw her she called her
husband three times on her his phone, and she looked
outside and he was just sitting in his car. But
he wasn't picking up the phone. He was just sitting
there and she called him three times, and it aggravated
the woman that he would ignore her call when she

(01:26:18):
was just calling to see if he was okay. And
I was just saying in my response to the caller
that you know, your husband was just gathering himself. He
was just having a peaceful moment. He just you don't
know what. Sometimes somebody's dealing with her going through and
they just need to collect themselves. Well, she had an

(01:26:38):
attitude about it and was that upset with her husband
for ignoring the call, and I just kind of understood it.
I've been there before. But I got to tell you,
some ladies, every last one of your men have done that.
I got news for you. You've done that. Every woman

(01:26:59):
has done that. Just looked at the phone and went,
uh uh, not today. And you know what, you have
every right to do that because, folks, I'm telling you
you have got to start protecting your peace. And everybody
not gonna understand it, because when the disruptor of the

(01:27:20):
peace wants something, needs something, they gonna make their call
and they don't care what it disturbs. Well, sometimes you
have to stop it. You know, you ever been on
a merry go round? Remember when you were a kid
and you skit on the merry go round And it
was fun for a while, but then after a while
you go, I gotta get off the merry go round.

(01:27:43):
It's too much. It's too much spinning. I'm dizzy. Life
can do the same thing to you. Sometimes life just
get to life and and you need a minute. I've
done it. I can't tell you how many times. Man,
he's sitting somewhere having a peace for a moment and
my phone ring. I look at that call the idea,

(01:28:04):
and I know exactly who it is. But no, no, no, no, no, no, man,
You're not not my piece that I'm having right now.
I had an employee you called me the other day,
and I just didn't have the time because I already
know this little needy, little employee I got. This guy
is just and so then here come the text. I

(01:28:28):
really need to speak to you. It's really it's important.
I really need to speak to you. It's an emergency. No, no, man,
call your parents, Call your parents. Don't don't call your boss.
Call your parents. You got parents, I know them. Call
your parents because I have to protect my peace.

Speaker 4 (01:28:48):
Folks.

Speaker 2 (01:28:49):
It's nothing wrong with protecting your peace, because if you
let people disrupt your peace any time and every time
they want to, you're not gonna have any You just
not gonna have it. Every mother deserves a piece. Every
time your child wants something, it's not an emergency. Every

(01:29:09):
time your husband wants something, it's not ain't your job, husbands,
every time your wife wants something, it's just some of
the stuff. Man. You just need a minute. You just
need a minute, and you know creator read. Hey, look,
I'm sorry I was busy or what you need, but

(01:29:31):
have your peace for a moment. I tell you something
else I do people is not related to me, my
kids and my wife. When I get that call, hey man,
I really need to talk to you. It's important. I
wait seventy two hours. I wait seventy two hours cause

(01:29:55):
let me tell you something. Man, These emergencies that people
haven't call them back. Hey man, and I call them
back in seventy two hours. Hey man, you good. I'm sorry.
I was traveling. I just saw your text.

Speaker 7 (01:30:09):
You good.

Speaker 5 (01:30:10):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (01:30:11):
They done forgot because they ain'tn emergency in the world
that lasts seventy two hours. Listen to me, There is
not any emergency in the world that lasts seventy two hours,
not in a single person's life. Now for country at war,
yeah we got problem. But in your personal life, no, sir,

(01:30:33):
No sir, no sir, because you're gonna solve that, and
you're gonna solve it without me. And then I'm gonna
call you as a concern friend and ask you what's
going on. But I will make sure that your emergency
has passed.

Speaker 7 (01:30:47):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:30:47):
If you my kids, my wife, I gotta jump on it.
I gotta do my job. But I know way too
many people where I need to try to be the
answer for everybody, and so do you. You are usually
the one that they call anyway, and they call you
first because they know you got sense and you're doing
better than them, and they know you got some money.

(01:31:09):
So here they come. Well, if you didn't know me,
what would you do. Let's try that. That's why I
wait seventy two hours, because you know what it is, y'all,
and you must feel this way too. I get tired
of being everybody's option A. Sometimes I choose to be

(01:31:32):
my own option a and it does not include you. Today.
Thank you for not disturbing my peace. But I thank
you more for me for recognizing that I don't have
to allow you to disturb my peace either. Those are
my clothes and remarks today, Junior, have a good one man,
stop choking people. Hey, listen, y'all talk to God today.

(01:31:52):
He would absolutely love to hear from.

Speaker 8 (01:32:00):
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