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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time.

Speaker 3 (00:05):
Y'all don't know y'all at all, So.

Speaker 4 (00:12):
Don't give them.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
Back.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
A million bus busy listening to show.

Speaker 5 (00:38):
I don't joy, yeah, Joy.

Speaker 4 (00:58):
You got to do.

Speaker 6 (01:13):
Turn turn.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
I can't got to turn the mouth turn.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
You probably got to turn the mouth mount turn the
water of the mony up.

Speaker 7 (01:55):
Come come out, you think that, I sure will. Good
morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig
me now, one and only Steve Harvey, I got a
radio show, just trying to give God some back, just

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some back of what even gave me, just a portion,
you know. Just I'm just trying, man to to show
some type of gratitude for all his blessings.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
I'm just trying to, man.

Speaker 7 (02:32):
Just get it right sometimes, you know what I mean.
I mean, man, you just can't do what you want
to do and just live wrong all the time. Man,
you gotta at one point in time, Steve, come home. Man,
come on, man, you could do better. I know you can.
You know saying and you know what I had to do.
I had to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better,

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and I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going
to do better. You know, trying is just to put
forth in effing Then if it don't work, well okay.
But if you make up in your mind that I'm
going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting
it done is the only thing that matters. See, it's
the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to

(03:13):
win the game, or we're gonna go out here to
win the game.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Now, trying to win the game means that you could lose.

Speaker 7 (03:20):
But when you got in your mind made up, most
athletes will tell you that they go out there with
the full intent and purpose of winning and winning only
see they don't put the second place finish on the
cover of Sports Illustrated.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
Second place don't get you there. You you got to win.

Speaker 7 (03:37):
And now take it out of the scope of athletics,
but keep it in that type of analogy. In life, man,
you just want to you want to win in life,
don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,
don't you want to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
In life? Don't you want to be recognized for your
hard work?

Speaker 7 (03:54):
Don't you want, you know, to be recognized within the
bonus structure down at your job. Don't you want to
have your plaque up on the wall down at your job?
I mean most people do. Some people could care less.
Some people don't care about looking good or being their best.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
And that's cool.

Speaker 7 (04:08):
But I ain't talking to them though. I'm talking to you.
I'm talking to those of you who want to be
the best you can be. You know, people kill me
when they getting mad at people. And he Brown knows
and he all up on the employee of the month, man,
the dude doing his job to the best of his ability,
and he getting recognized for it?

Speaker 2 (04:26):
What they got to do with all that you're talking about?
Because you ain't up there.

Speaker 7 (04:29):
There's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
He's so lucky. Lucky?

Speaker 7 (04:35):
Hey, man, don't they kind of get you a little
bit when people call you lucky? Well, let me tell
you what luck really is, y'all. Lucky is when hard
work bumps up into opportunity.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
Some people call that luck. But hold on, let's think
about this.

Speaker 7 (04:50):
If you wasn't working hard, an opportunity presented itself, what
would you call that? But see, when you've been working
hard and opportunity presents itself and it bumps up into
each other. Now people want to call that luck, but
hold up here, got to park though to day, ain't
paying no attention to Yeah, that opportunity came by, But
if you had not been working hard, and the hard
work had not ran up in the opportunity, what would

(05:11):
you have?

Speaker 2 (05:12):
No, sir, it's not luck, it's work. It is work,
because there's a scripture that says faith without works is dead.

Speaker 7 (05:21):
But my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught
me enough. Though now I know different between right and wrong,
just like you do. You ain't got to you know,
it kills me when people write a strawberry letter?

Speaker 2 (05:31):
Am I wrong for this?

Speaker 8 (05:32):
You know?

Speaker 2 (05:32):
Good? Well, look at listen read your letter? Are you
wrong for this? You know you're wrong? What? You don't
need else to be telling me? You know?

Speaker 7 (05:39):
But I'm gonna do this anyway. Well, el see, go ahead, though,
do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,
here's the best advice.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
I can give you.

Speaker 7 (05:46):
And this is what I really came to talk about
this morning, but I got sidetracked because I listened. Get
out of your own way. So many of us are
blocking our home blessings. We just in our own way.
We are in our own way. And one of the
most dangerous ways you can get in your way is

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to do it your way, to get it figured your way,
and to lock in on your way.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
And this the way it's.

Speaker 7 (06:14):
Got to go. Do you know how many people are
blocking their blessing? Do you know how long I block mind?
With that mindset right there? Look, because this the way
you do it, you think that makes it the right way?
You think jazz, cause you the thought on it long
and hard, and that's what you really want. Do you
really think that your way is the right way or
could that be a better way?

Speaker 2 (06:36):
See?

Speaker 7 (06:36):
Until I started listening to God and started paying attention
to his way, man.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
I was spinning my wheels. Man. I was out here
so determined this how I was gonna do it.

Speaker 7 (06:47):
But you know, I had to learn how to get
out of my own way because just because I could
do it my way didn't mean it was the right way.
I had to get out of my own way. Just
get out your way, man, Now, what what does that mean?
That means, See, set your goals, That means have your dreams.

(07:12):
I'm saying, set your goals, man, I ain't saying, don't
set goals. Listen to me. Set your goals. What is
it you want to happen? What is it you like
to have, What is it you like to be? What
do you aspire to? Set your goals and set your dreams. Now,
take your goals and your dreams to God and ask
God to show you how. Man, you can save yourself

(07:36):
a lot of pain. Listen to somebody who did it
his way for so long. And when I finally got
out of my way, out of my own way. When
you've heard old people say, let go and let God,
you've heard them say that I didn't. I didn't get it,
but I got it. Now let go and let God.

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And it's amazing little saying. Though now you know you
may not get it now. It took me a bunch
of years to get it too. But when I took
my goals and my dreams and my vision to God
and I said, God, this is what I hope for,
this is what I aspired to, this is what I
want to be, this is why I would love to
get to. Then I said, help me show me how,

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point me in the right direction, Let me follow your footsteps,
guide me and give me a spirit of discernment. Show
me who wrong? Because I meet people every day. Ain't
up to no good with me every single day. Oh man, Man,
I can't believe I wonna been to you. Man, the
Lord told me something was gonna happen to me today. Well, see,

(08:39):
I talked to him every day. He did not mention
you to me. He ain't said nothing to me. He
didn't tell me what was gonna happen in mine. Now
I don't mean it can't happen because I'm open to it.
So really, man, I'm proud, and please know I'm listening
as well as I've ever listened before. But get yourself together, though,
see know your goals and your and then let God

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show you how to do it.

Speaker 4 (09:02):
He'll do it.

Speaker 2 (09:03):
You know.

Speaker 7 (09:03):
It's so important everybody, that you get focused, that you
aim for something, that you dream of something, that you
aspire to something. But it's the most the best thing
you can do. After you do all that, Man, get
God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean,
why would you not what you got to lose? You
ain't got to go down there and make no big
scene and run laps around the church and run up

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there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and
flip over and throw money in the ad. You ain't
got to do that. This you and God, man, This
you and God. You know you got to serve and
praise him the way you do it. You gotta let
nobody else tell you how it's done. It's a personal relationship.
People kill me if you don't do it this way.
If you don't come here to this church and you
don't run around in this circle and you don't get

(09:47):
flipped in the an, you don't, Hey man, you better
go have a relationship with God. See what that's about,
you understand? Or nobody throw you off with all that?
All right, all right, y'all talk to him. He love
to hear from you.

Speaker 2 (09:56):
Today.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention. It's
to Steve Harvey Morning Show. The voice you listening to
does not belong to Steve.

Speaker 1 (10:16):
I lie.

Speaker 7 (10:18):
I do wish that women would stop asking the proverbial question,
why do men lie? That is the proverbial question. The
answer to that question, ladies, is because we are talking
to you. Say it one more time. The number one

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reason that me and lie is because we are talking
to you.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
And so you can't tell us the truth because.

Speaker 7 (10:52):
Your reaction to the truth is so adverse. You know something,
as a matter of fact, let's talk about that for
a minute. Charley Startberry, Califreid, My South Mississippi, Monica, jur nephew,
Tommy in fact, let me, let me let's let's go
on and get to that way. Now, Junior, I know
you they have stuff on your mind, but you know

(11:13):
you probably go you're gonna need this.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Information, okay, because he's married.

Speaker 7 (11:17):
Now, yeah, Ladies always want to know why me and lied,
And the answer to that question is because, ladies, we
are talking to you.

Speaker 2 (11:31):
What does that mean? Your reactions no sense? The truth
is so.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
Crazy to you.

Speaker 9 (11:42):
It's cool to us, but you because you can't handle
the react.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
You can't handle our real.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
You know you can't true?

Speaker 1 (11:52):
Hello, No, no, no, that is that is yea. Our
reaction is handling it.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
See right there, yeah, right there, right, that's.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
How we handle it.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
See right there.

Speaker 1 (12:05):
You don't like our reaction.

Speaker 9 (12:06):
You just want us to sit stoneface and not emotions reactions.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
What we're trying to do is delay that reaction.

Speaker 1 (12:15):
You see. That's selfish. Yeah, baby, I cheated. We're just
gonna say, oh, okay, honey, that's great.

Speaker 7 (12:22):
Why would he come in there and say maybe I
cheat it?

Speaker 3 (12:26):
What?

Speaker 9 (12:27):
But I'm just saying, if you told that, that's what
our reaction should be.

Speaker 7 (12:31):
No, no, we're not already know that. Ain't what it's
gonna be. So why would we come in here and
tell you that.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
You don't get to cheat. You don't get to do
that and determine how I react, how our reaction is going.

Speaker 2 (12:44):
But I do get to do it and tell you
the lie. I'm gonna tell you.

Speaker 9 (12:46):
I do get to do that, react how we react.
I tell you what where you being? Just the simple
question where are you being? The store?

Speaker 2 (12:59):
Did you really go to the store?

Speaker 1 (13:02):
But why did you lie about going to the store.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
That's my question.

Speaker 7 (13:06):
Because if I was told you I was at her house,
Well where you think we're gonna be?

Speaker 2 (13:10):
How much same?

Speaker 1 (13:15):
That's stupid. We already know that you were over there. Anyway,
Well just tell them you didn't know that.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
No, no, you did not know that.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
Stop you don't ever know huh. That's huh. We have Okay,
we have to continue this coming up to thirty.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
Heavy experience behind it.

Speaker 1 (13:37):
I know stuff coming up at thirty two minutes after
the hour, we'll get with the nephews so he can
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(14:22):
All right, and it's time now to start your morning
off with the nephew and run that prank back. What
you got for is nef sick.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
Is shut in m let's go catch.

Speaker 8 (14:33):
So I'm trying to speaking.

Speaker 10 (14:35):
You got him?

Speaker 8 (14:38):
How you telling you that I'm doing I ain't doing
too good. You never been over praying for my wife again?
Right right right, yes, sir, you came over here three
times in one week. My wife had already went through
the operation and all that she's gonna be pined. I
don't need you over a praying three times a week,
because honestly, I think it's something else on your mind

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when you come over. He of praying for my wife.

Speaker 10 (15:01):
I ain't stupid, brother, kind of Hold it, brother, this brother,
this is well. Your wife was on the sick and
shut ain't list. I was rever asked you to come by,
reveren ain't a requested that I come by.

Speaker 8 (15:15):
Okay, he ain't requested for you to bring your black
to my house for no three times in one week, man,
So you can cut that down with me. You can
cut that out.

Speaker 10 (15:25):
Hold it, brother. I came with Sister Georgia the first time.
The second time I came by myself because she wasn't
able to come by, and I only stayed fifteen minutes
these time. So what's the problem.

Speaker 8 (15:37):
Because I already know what you what you're doing. I
know you're trying to holler at my wife. I ain't
strew hop at your wife.

Speaker 10 (15:43):
I had a wife. Why would I happen to your wife?

Speaker 8 (15:45):
She's part of already already know what you already know
what you're doing. Man, You up in the other house
my wife. Why wind up? Why nobody at the house.
I already know what you do. Let me tell you something.
Keep your black away from my house. If you want
to pray for my wife.

Speaker 10 (16:01):
I'm wait, wait minute, wait, man, you can't talk to
you about that.

Speaker 8 (16:08):
That's what you're gonna now, Brother.

Speaker 10 (16:09):
It ain't gonna be none of that. It ain't gonna
be none of that. You're talking to the wrong brother
and I okay. Now, first of all, you're not gonna
disrespect me and curse me out. Okay, that's not even
the way brothers should be talking to brother. Second of all,
if there's any laying on the hands, it's gonna be
my hands laying on you.

Speaker 8 (16:26):
Okay. Late, I know I'm trying my wife. If I
find out what you mess around, you know you mess
around with my wife, it's gonna be I'm trying to
be crazy. I'm just letting you. I'm gonna say it
one more time, keep your black off around my You know,
First of.

Speaker 10 (16:44):
All, I told you once again, you can't be talking
to me like that. Now, I'm trying to be cool
about the situation because I know you may be just upset. Okay,
I can appreciate that. Okay, I have a wife, and I'll.

Speaker 8 (16:57):
Be upset if somebody's coming back there and my wife
want you and you out with your wife. I do
spend my time with my wife. I do you know
I'm saying your house, maybe I need to come on
your house and high let your wife. Well, you welcome
to maybe come come and come lay something over there
on huh God? Now sure way trying.

Speaker 10 (17:18):
To do it my older older one man, older one man,
I'll tell you before you're being disrespectful. Now, that was
a very idiotic statement for you to make.

Speaker 8 (17:27):
Okay, that's what's gonna happen. If I catch your black
drip my house again, I'm gonna play this man, and
then I'm getting on the phone with you, you, your pastor
any more of them, because if anybody come by my
house again and I ain't there, I'm kicking your black.

Speaker 10 (17:42):
That's a promise, you know, Just that's it. Look here, brother,
if that's gonna be any whooping gone on, I will
be kicking yr. I'm gonna lay my hands on you
and I'm gonna give you a good, sanctified whooping, and
then I'm gonna pray for you. I'm gonna pray to
heal you by the foot I'm gonna put up, okay,
because I'll have had it with you, you know. And

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I only went by to visit your wife because I
was asked to go visit your wife. Now that was
a problem. You should have called a pastor. Okay, But
you're not gonna disrespect me my wife to church on
the phone.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
Life.

Speaker 10 (18:15):
If you want to do somebody, you can meet me
any place.

Speaker 8 (18:18):
Well.

Speaker 10 (18:19):
As a matter of fact, I can go anywhere I
want in this town. If I be at your house
talking to your wife, if the past asks me to go,
I'm gonna be there. Okay.

Speaker 8 (18:28):
You you know, you just you know.

Speaker 10 (18:30):
It's just a stupid brother. Okay. You need to come
to church. You need to come to.

Speaker 11 (18:37):
Church more off.

Speaker 10 (18:38):
And that's the problem. You're gonna come to church more off.
If you come to church more off. You want to
be talking to me like that? You wantn't be worried
about me and your wife because there must be something
wrong in your house. You be worried about me fooling
with your wife. Okay, so you need to check her, Okay,
how about that? Why don't you do that? Why don't you.
Why don't you just check her? Okay, Thomas said, you

(19:01):
the one that's cheating with with my wife. That's that's
all I know? Who Tommy, let me say you tell.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
Me the one?

Speaker 8 (19:07):
Said Thoma said, you the one that's cheating around with
my wife.

Speaker 10 (19:11):
Tommy who?

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Who?

Speaker 10 (19:12):
Who is Tommy?

Speaker 11 (19:15):
Tommy who?

Speaker 8 (19:18):
This is a nephew, Tommy, Man, so this is nephew.
Tell me from Steve Harby Morning Show man, your church
member got me the pray ball, but not wrong for that?

Speaker 10 (19:30):
You know, y're wrong, Y're long.

Speaker 12 (19:33):
You know, y'all highway to hell, all of y'all. You
know none stop no, you know y'all just you know
y'all just gone. You know, ain't no stop signed, you know,
I finna go. I'm gonna pray for all of y'all,
all of your brothers and iphew till me Steve Hobby
brother wrong for that.

Speaker 10 (19:53):
Okay, I'm gonna check him. I'm gonna check what I'm
finna go. I said, I don't talk to you all
the more I'm paying for.

Speaker 8 (20:03):
Man, you gotta tell me what's the bad radio show
with the lamb bad Steve show?

Speaker 2 (20:13):
All right?

Speaker 1 (20:14):
Thinking if you uh coming up next it is asked
the c l O. Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey,
will be in the building right after this.

Speaker 7 (20:24):
It's Steve Harbin Martin show Man. You know, men are
really really not Nurturing is not really what we do.

Speaker 2 (20:30):
It's not what you now.

Speaker 7 (20:31):
He looking at a weaker. You need a bath. You
ain't walking now. You want some most soup and get
the game on. All in here, you know, game is
all what they got to do.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
He needs sickness in and help.

Speaker 6 (20:47):
He took that.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
I got to get you to that bathroom. We got
a problem.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
You got problem.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
It's such a big Yeah, you start for I get
out that dope. I don't need to be here for this.
Hey waita whoa baby whoo whoo? Will wait?

Speaker 1 (21:06):
I took too long getting you in here, you stupid?

Speaker 7 (21:14):
You have you got to wait? Yeah, you have got
to wait till I get out here. Did I take
too long getting you in here?

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Pay? As soon as I set you down, you just started.
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Speaker 1 (22:07):
It is time for you, Steve. People want to ask
you questions. The l O Here we go. Cheyenne and
Raleigh writes, for my thirtieth birthday, I invited my cousin
to come to visit. She brought her boyfriend, and she
had just met him a week before she came. So
I told her that he couldn't stay in my house.
She got mad and drove back home. Was that wrong

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for this?

Speaker 14 (22:28):
No?

Speaker 2 (22:30):
No, absolutely not. It's your house. She don't even know him.
You don't know him, and she just told her he's
staying at your staying at your house. That's not how
it works, man, man, bam.

Speaker 7 (22:43):
People don't even understand orders and and and just being
civil towards one another. You bring a stranger to your
cousin's house talking about he's staying here with me. I
just met him, last week. I'body a waking up standing
nobody with no over there bed, with no accident in
what come on, high You know y'all ain't going out

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of here, no motive. Now come on, put your DIC
tape on your arms. Mouth shut up crying now you
know you don't know me.

Speaker 2 (23:13):
Nobody do that.

Speaker 1 (23:14):
No, that's crazy, that's really all right, Sammy and Tribeca says,
I'm a thirty nine year old married man, and I
have to share my wife with her male best friend,
which is very annoying. His husband is just as irritated
as I am with their friendship. And I had plans
to see a movie and she'd already seen it on

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her lunch break with her bestie. How do I set
boundaries without offending them?

Speaker 2 (23:40):
Okay, excuse me, I'm missing all right something.

Speaker 1 (23:43):
Married man, married man, His wife has a best friend
who's also married to a man. It's a gay couple. Okay, Yeah,
the husband is irritated because the wife spends more time
with the bestie friends.

Speaker 7 (24:01):
I don't give it if he married to several men.
That ain't none of my bills. You can do what
you want, right, but do you spending so much time
with him. Yeah, the thing, you know, man, find something
else to do. He got a husband, Go to movie
with him. You got a husband, go to movie with
your husband.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
It's gonna make no sense.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Man, I keep man, okay, yeah, keep male and female.

Speaker 7 (24:29):
These opposite sex friendships lead to problems. That's your best man,
Get another bestie? Where girl is that?

Speaker 1 (24:40):
So the question is he wants to know Steve? How
does he set boundaries? He he's worried about offending them.
How do I set boundaries without Yeah, I don't give it.

Speaker 2 (24:50):
Who offenished?

Speaker 8 (24:52):
No?

Speaker 2 (24:53):
No, no, I tell you what we're gonna do, all
of us.

Speaker 8 (24:57):
There you go.

Speaker 2 (24:58):
I'm I'm gonna.

Speaker 7 (24:59):
Treat that on that offensive thing. Gon fit to be
like peanut butter. Don't finn to get some on.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
Everybody breathe spread it around.

Speaker 7 (25:06):
You know, when I make my peanut butter sandwich, I
put the peanut butter all all the way to the egg.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
You can't see no bread on my I spreads my
peanut butter.

Speaker 7 (25:20):
Now, I don't get the jelly all the way to
the edge because I don't want to leaking out. But
they pet up on a thick Yeah, I'm spreading this
offensive He don't want to feel.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
Nobody man leave a feel.

Speaker 1 (25:35):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Joanne and Indiana,
Joanne writes, my husband was ill for three years before
he died. Before he died, I started dating someone else.
My marriage had been over for years, but I stayed
with my husband because he was sick. My boyfriend moved

(25:56):
in two weeks after my husband died. His mom thinks
I'm dead? Wrong, do I owe her an explanation?

Speaker 2 (26:04):
Well, I'm gonna tell you right now. It ain't a
good look, right two weeks. I'm just telling you right now.

Speaker 7 (26:12):
Now. I know the man was probably six sick, incapacitated
or something, and you should have gave it a little
more time because of the way it looked. But two
weeks after he moved in, Yeah, what was all the
neighbors saying, Well, they ain't even lowered the casket in
the ground. Again, they ain't even put all the dirt

(26:34):
on it. It's still got that green astro turf round it.
And wow, oh my god, here's the key word. He
isn't even cold yet. Well that's where people wrong. Oh

(26:55):
he ice cold, which saying that the body ain't even cold. Yeah, yeah,
matter of fact, when you die, you cold at first morning?
About your finger?

Speaker 1 (27:17):
Does she owe the mom an explanation?

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Who's mother? His mother? His mother?

Speaker 1 (27:22):
Does she owe her an explanation?

Speaker 2 (27:27):
His mama tripping?

Speaker 8 (27:28):
Like what?

Speaker 4 (27:30):
Two weeks?

Speaker 7 (27:32):
She already knows this was going on while he was sick.
But nobody understands that about life. So you just gotta
tell her mom. Look, you might, you might, but no
matter what you say, how you think it's gonna go
with his mother?

Speaker 2 (27:53):
She'd have lost her son. Yeah a year, she's gonna
hate you for a Why do you move in with him?
There you go? He ain't got nothing now he all
up in her son house. Girl, you see to be evolving?

Speaker 1 (28:10):
Drive?

Speaker 2 (28:15):
Oh god?

Speaker 7 (28:19):
Yeah that when they started flying shots up in the house.
If I was here, I moved back to my house.
I had to less some time. Cool, that ain't all?

Speaker 4 (28:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (28:29):
Every time they pull out the driveway, go to church,
our shopping.

Speaker 9 (28:32):
Teeter's kite or forever?

Speaker 3 (28:36):
All right?

Speaker 1 (28:36):
Moving on last one, Camy and Toronto says, I'm a
beginning swimmer and my boyfriend is a professional diver. I
learned to swim, but I hate being in water. We're
going on vacation he's planning water activities for us. He's
forcing me to face my fears. Should I make my
own plans?

Speaker 2 (28:52):
Well, you gonna die on this vacation. Yeah, to say
that we can all the water sports? What is he
doing though?

Speaker 4 (29:08):
Man?

Speaker 2 (29:08):
I love going on the water.

Speaker 7 (29:10):
Uh huh in all the water trips out and took
out a jet ski three times.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
Yeah. Last time I just went circle. The boat came
right on back. We saw it on you.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
Yeah, all right, thanks fellow. We gotta wrap this up.

Speaker 2 (29:30):
Steve Harbin Martin show Man. You don't do this is good.
You're not good. Just spt you stop it. Noise.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
Angriest comedian ever. I don't need no help.

Speaker 2 (29:46):
I don't need no help. And Joe for me write
my joke.

Speaker 7 (29:50):
You want to ask sound effects, You're gonna do it, Tommy, Tommy,
do you want any sound effects with your jokes?

Speaker 1 (29:56):
For surely animals. I'll tell you doing sound effects.

Speaker 7 (30:02):
Whatever you and Junior work, go ahead, coyote, there you go,
Junior City.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
From now you work with jun.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
Effect A big bath.

Speaker 8 (30:23):
Coming up.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. What you got Carla?

Speaker 9 (30:33):
Okay, so listen to this Steve. My friends a lot
of us appearents. You know, we hang out, we do
things together with our children. So the latest discussion is
at what age should you teach your child how to
curse or say bad words.

Speaker 7 (30:52):
Well, you shouldn't teach her. There's no age when you
should teach them bad working, okay, because bad words are
not necessary. It all depends on circumstance and environment. Cussing
is an environmental, circumstantial thing that you have to be
able to participate in. And every circumstance and all environments

(31:13):
do not require cussing. You need to be able, So
it's not a good time for the situations will bring
out the child when it's necessary.

Speaker 2 (31:22):
Okay, So it's.

Speaker 7 (31:23):
Not for you to decide I'm gonna teach my child cussing.
I never taught any of my kids to cuss. My
father never taught me to cuss. I just picked it up.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
Okay, so you overheard it.

Speaker 7 (31:34):
And for me personally, the decision to use cussing a
little bit more regularly was somewhere around nine.

Speaker 2 (31:44):
Yes, nine is when I started implementing.

Speaker 1 (31:49):
Yeah, pretty young.

Speaker 2 (31:50):
By twelve, I was you know, I wasn't It wasn't
really farm good. I was just throwing it out there.

Speaker 7 (31:57):
But I had a lot more situations, and all I
got the more useful and more timely and more situations
presented themselves.

Speaker 2 (32:06):
So that's how I did it. So I don't say
that there's an age that you give a child.

Speaker 9 (32:10):
Okay, here's why I'm asking this because I know a
lot of people look uncomfortable with this question. But it's
a different time for these kids and going into school.
It's just been tough with a group of people that
we hang with with their kids. So they were saying
they want to teach their children how to say blank,
you be, get out my face in a situation of bullying,

(32:31):
bull yea and things like so, yeah, you start that.

Speaker 7 (32:38):
I don't think it's necessary. See, here's the problem calling
your little crew that y'all go to school with. Y'all
suburban parents, y'all, y'all from the hood, but y'all have
become suburbanized and you all are suburban parents.

Speaker 2 (32:57):
So now you've you've tried to remain.

Speaker 7 (33:02):
And you're trying to live up to your status status
in life now, but your calling and you're trying to
know when to implement hoodism into your kids and your
kids don't really need that, and so you've got to

(33:22):
teach them other ways. I don't recommend teach seriously, do
not recommend teaching cussing to kids, because I mean, it's
gonna backfire behavior.

Speaker 11 (33:32):
You know.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
I mean, you don't teach them negative behavior.

Speaker 8 (33:34):
Now.

Speaker 2 (33:35):
Did I teach my children to take care of themselves? Yeah?
But I found out I was doing it for no reason.
Somebody hit you. Everybody go down there.

Speaker 7 (33:44):
My kids ain't down the street fighting and then come
home and you go get all your brothers and go.

Speaker 2 (33:48):
Back down there.

Speaker 7 (33:49):
My kids don't look. Matter of fact, the house too
far away. I wanted to tell my sons that, but
they went to school where they ain't fight. Ain't fighting you.
They talk about your instagram. Had my daddy took me
to get my live sad that.

Speaker 13 (34:11):
My daddy took me over there because we were They
weren't fighting in my neighborhood, but over there my cousin
every day, every said by twelve thirty, yeah, get my
butt tore up.

Speaker 2 (34:21):
That's how you grew up.

Speaker 9 (34:23):
It's like you said, how we grew up and how
we're parenting and how our children are growing up.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
It's just a two it's two different worlds.

Speaker 7 (34:29):
And it's and it's some parenting that just doesn't apply today,
and then a lot of it does, but you all
have removed it because of your new way. But your
kids are suburban kids. So when the bullying goes down
in school, how do you teach them how to cuss?
You ain't got to teach them how to cuss. You
got to get the bully out your face. You don't

(34:50):
get the bully out your face by cussing. There's a
physical activity that can get the bully out. Now, if
you don't want to teach the physical act activity, then
you got to go with something else. But bullies don't
respond to get your blankety blank out my blankety blank.
They don't be cause they bullis hell, they don't. They

(35:11):
one told you I'm.

Speaker 2 (35:13):
Goin to put my blankety blank in your blankety blank. Now,
you little what's your comeback?

Speaker 7 (35:20):
See, it's hard to outcuss a bully, So you got
to teach your children the other things. But I don't
recommend teaching your children how to talk bad to people
because that doesn't work because it's just talk just and eventually,
if once you talk bad, you had to bag.

Speaker 2 (35:35):
Some of it up you did.

Speaker 14 (35:37):
Your parents have put motivation behind you behind the bully,
Like if you don't wolf his, I'm yours. Yeah, that
was the motivation I had again.

Speaker 2 (35:48):
Yeah, what what you're crying for? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (35:51):
Yeah, come home crying one long time.

Speaker 7 (35:55):
I'm gonna give you something to cry about. Then I'm
gonna take you down there. My brothers then took me
back down to fight Manny. Me and Manni got in
four fights in one day. Me and Manny was through
with it. Man he hit in the picture right up there,
the dude with the head on with the gold jacket standing.
That what they name in my street, my boy Manny.
We fought full time. One Me and Manny was through.

(36:16):
After the first fight, our brothers and sisters got involved.
Rose Calhoun bought Manny back up to my house to
beat me up.

Speaker 2 (36:25):
Wow, big throws. Man Now, Manny whooped me the first time.
I'm through you win. Manny. We friends.

Speaker 7 (36:34):
But since she brought him up to my house and
my daddy was on the porch watching, I got to
ten minutes.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
She Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
The most important lesson you learned, Steve from your parents
that I.

Speaker 7 (36:51):
Wasn't supposed to be here. My daddy constantly told me
that my mama had me forty two. I was talking
to my father one time, I said, Dad, I need
to talk to you. Say, you can go ahead and
talk to me, But you do know you ain't even
supposed to be here for here.

Speaker 4 (37:08):
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Speaker 2 (37:10):
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Speaker 1 (37:51):
All right, guys, it's time for a round of would
you rather? Would you rather think about this? Would you
rather be chased by a bear? A cougar?

Speaker 8 (38:01):
Be oh?

Speaker 1 (38:02):
Man, a cougar?

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Real cool?

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Yeah they're fast. Now they might get a cougar gonna.

Speaker 2 (38:07):
Kill I think?

Speaker 1 (38:09):
Yeah, Oh, listen to me.

Speaker 7 (38:10):
Bears run forty five forty miles an hour. You're not
getting away with either one. What are y'all crazy?

Speaker 8 (38:16):
Do you?

Speaker 1 (38:17):
The bear was slower?

Speaker 2 (38:19):
A bear runs around an hour?

Speaker 1 (38:21):
Oh, I didn't know.

Speaker 2 (38:22):
What do you cougar about?

Speaker 10 (38:23):
What?

Speaker 2 (38:24):
Seventy?

Speaker 1 (38:27):
It's gonna catch you first?

Speaker 2 (38:29):
Listen to me back, did y'all see revenue?

Speaker 7 (38:37):
If it is that they made a movie about a bell,
they never seen them make no movie about no cougar.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
We can't whoop. We can't whoop either one of them.
But no, you can't do nothing with that bear.

Speaker 7 (38:48):
Nothingn be tall when he's standing up, He's just cougar something. Man,
I'm gonna get up with that. They never seen nobody
whoop a bag. I'm taking the cougar. Y'all don't understand.
I'm gonna take that cat his brow.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
Man' I can't believe he saw.

Speaker 2 (39:16):
I can't believe he's revenue. I watched it twice.

Speaker 7 (39:20):
I tore his off, all through his and the bad honoring.
He double background on his, and he caught it. Give
me that cougar, let me deal with it.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
Is the cougar for you?

Speaker 9 (39:36):
All right?

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Definitely?

Speaker 2 (39:41):
All right now, point and listen.

Speaker 7 (39:43):
To me don't y'all do that. I'm from the country.
Do not do that, because that bar can get up
in the tree and everything he hail man, that bad
bad and they honoring.

Speaker 2 (39:58):
Okay, all right, all right.

Speaker 1 (40:00):
Cooler cougar all around, all right? Would you rather sneeze
uncontrollably once every day or get the hiccups for fifteen
minutes a day? Sneeze uncontrollably once a day, for fifteen
minutes a day.

Speaker 2 (40:17):
But how long? How long I'm sneezing once the day?

Speaker 1 (40:22):
Yeah, but uncontrollably sneezing.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
But how long do it last?

Speaker 1 (40:26):
Yeh yeah, once a day, uncontrollably. When it's done, it's done.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
If it's once a day, a sound control?

Speaker 1 (40:34):
Would you rather what would you rather do? Just answer it.

Speaker 2 (40:37):
I'd rather sneeze.

Speaker 8 (40:40):
That's it.

Speaker 7 (40:43):
If I sneeze one time, I just want to sneeze
one time, come out of.

Speaker 2 (40:47):
Nowhere, or hear from controllably three days at a time.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
All right, that's today's crazy round. Would you rather go on?

Speaker 8 (41:00):
On?

Speaker 1 (41:00):
This is your boy, Kevin Hart, This is Erica Baduel,
This is Dave Chappelley.

Speaker 2 (41:03):
Know what's up? This is ice queue. I can't call it.

Speaker 7 (41:06):
This your man said to be entertainer and you're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
That my doubt you're listenings Steve Harvey Morning Show. All
right time Now for a quick round of ask the
clo clauwe Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.
This one's from Andy and Kelly, Andy Wrights. I own
a small business that I put all my savings into,

(41:34):
so it has to work. My wife decided she'd quit
her job to help me full time because she hated
her job. Not only is it frustrating to be around
her twenty four to seven, but the loss of our
second source of income is stressing me out. I want
to be honest with her about everything, so she will
find another job and give me some space. But I
don't want to offend her. This could ruin our marriage.

(41:57):
How do I handle this?

Speaker 8 (41:59):
Well?

Speaker 2 (42:00):
Hold up dog? That's gonna be a little touchy one.
Because she hated.

Speaker 7 (42:06):
Her job, so she said she quit it to work
with you full time. She thought two would be better
than one, pursuing the dream. But the loss of her
income is stressing you out. But let me ask you
a question. Did you quit your job and put all
your money into a business.

Speaker 1 (42:27):
Two, yeah, he did, and want to be around her twenty.

Speaker 2 (42:32):
Four to seven.

Speaker 7 (42:33):
See that's your real problem, though, that's it. See, that's
the real problem. And we can't help you with that
because nothing I can tell you're gonna make you want
to be around her twenty four seven. Nothing that's not
ready to go?

Speaker 1 (42:45):
Okay, tie that in. Why don't you So? How does
he handle it? What does he do? What does he say?

Speaker 7 (42:52):
Well, it's a little water over the damn situation now,
because y'all should have covered this before she quit. But
now that she can, now you're gonna asks her to
go find another job. And what that's gonna be is
go find another job to support my dream. You do
hear how this is gonna sound to her? You can

(43:13):
quit your job and be free, but I can't quit
my job.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
To help us be free. I got to go back
to work. That's right, that's what's fit to happen. So
I don't have a suggestion for you, sir. Good luck.

Speaker 1 (43:23):
Yeah, all right, Carlos and Indiana, we're moving on. I'm
a forty two year old married man with a twenty
seven year old pregnant side chick. She's having a baby.
He's forty two and married. She's twenty seven and pregnant. Okay,
she's having a baby shower in two weeks, and this

(43:44):
is her first baby, so I want to be there
for her special day. My wife knows about the baby,
and she's dealing with it in her own way, so
I don't want to keep hurting her. If I go
to the shower. I'm sure pictures of me will be
all over Instagram. I'm trying to fix this mess by
keeping my baby mama calm while I work on getting

(44:05):
my marriage back on track. What should I skip the
baby shower?

Speaker 2 (44:10):
Well, let me explain something to you. What if you
go to that? Come on, let me tell you sometime.
You're stupid.

Speaker 8 (44:18):
Dog.

Speaker 7 (44:20):
You've made a statement in here that cannot happen. You said,
I'm trying to get my marriage on track. You kill
you to that baby shower.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
You can't. Boy, not do that.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
Boy sitting up smiling, But but.

Speaker 1 (44:39):
His wife is dealing with it in her own way?
God way, do you know the hell?

Speaker 2 (44:46):
The sheer?

Speaker 1 (44:47):
Hall?

Speaker 7 (44:48):
You don't put this woman through and now you're fit
to go to a baby shower? You know you do
know that Hall has a wave with it.

Speaker 2 (45:01):
When you're given a woman. Hell, she got a wave
of it for you. Now take care to that shower.
See what happened?

Speaker 8 (45:10):
Why?

Speaker 2 (45:11):
That's stupid?

Speaker 1 (45:13):
But he wants to keep his marriage on track, and
then he wants to keep his baby mama colle to.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
Grad.

Speaker 9 (45:21):
You're an idiot girl if you don't call me Linda
Gates and get these papers.

Speaker 1 (45:29):
All right, Rice and.

Speaker 7 (45:31):
Charlotte, excuse me one last day. Yeah, there's a cause
for me in the side.

Speaker 2 (45:36):
Chick. Hmm, there's a cause for that. They don't come
with the full benefit package.

Speaker 1 (45:46):
That's why he's not gonna be at that shower. A mess.
That's horrible. How is his wife dealing with this in
her own way?

Speaker 2 (45:55):
Where is all my money in my bank account?

Speaker 4 (45:59):
What is true?

Speaker 2 (46:00):
All right?

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Listen, that's all the time we have for CLO. Thank you, CLLO.
Coming up next to it's the Nephew with today's prank
phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.
Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today.

(46:22):
The subject is my boyfriend hates the word No. We'll
get into that in just a little bit, because right
now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call?

Speaker 2 (46:34):
What you got for us?

Speaker 1 (46:35):
Nef hooking up at the daycare really looking.

Speaker 2 (46:44):
Up at the daycare run that if you would cat
doll Hello, Hello, I'm trying to I'm trying to reach FREEDA.

Speaker 11 (46:56):
This is free and is this you don't know me?

Speaker 2 (46:58):
My name is Lane Lined. I know I wanted to
call you.

Speaker 13 (47:03):
I've been looking for trying to get your phone number
actually for like about the last about two weeks.

Speaker 11 (47:08):
Now what do you do my number? Four? Baby? Can
you get on with it because I'm on lunch breaking
from here meeting my lunch, and I need to come
on with.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Okay, now is your your husband is?

Speaker 9 (47:20):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (47:21):
What is your name?

Speaker 8 (47:22):
Again?

Speaker 2 (47:22):
My name is Line Line?

Speaker 7 (47:25):
Okay?

Speaker 11 (47:25):
And you asking about my husband? Now what about Yes,
that's my husband.

Speaker 8 (47:29):
See.

Speaker 13 (47:30):
The problem I'm having, Miss Freedom, is that I look
through my wife cell phone about two three weeks ago,
and I found out that this actual phone number belong
to your husband name, and he been text message in.

Speaker 10 (47:48):
Her a right down, stop stop stop wait a minute.

Speaker 13 (47:52):
Because but see let me finish though he been text
message in her different uh text message and stuffbody he
wanted to meet up with her, and and how she
looked the other day and stuff like this here but then,
but then even worse than this hell is he?

Speaker 2 (48:10):
You know? Doesne send some some some pictures of himself
some some naked pictures on the on the on on
the cell phone.

Speaker 11 (48:19):
So please no, no, sir, not, I know not because
if anything, if he texting anybody needs to be an
employer about a job. I know you're not saying to me,
who who is your wife? What's your name again? What's
your name?

Speaker 2 (48:33):
My name is Lennie and my my my wife name
is my wife name is Denise?

Speaker 1 (48:38):
Denise, Denise, Denise.

Speaker 11 (48:43):
That ain't registered with me? Don't we pretty much have
an opera relationship where we kind of communicate and I
don't know nothing about no Denise?

Speaker 13 (48:53):
Yeah, okay, do do your husband's last fold digits on
his phone is sixty eight twenty the two.

Speaker 11 (49:02):
Yeah, that would be the last, or did it?

Speaker 2 (49:04):
Okay? See that's what I'm saying, ma'am. I'm not trying
to call you, you know. I mean, I'm.

Speaker 13 (49:09):
Disappointed in my wife because of these text messages and
in these pictures and stuff.

Speaker 8 (49:14):
You know.

Speaker 13 (49:14):
I'm I'm the one. That's why I say, Okay, I
need to call this man wife right here and see.

Speaker 2 (49:21):
What you know?

Speaker 1 (49:22):
Do she even know it?

Speaker 11 (49:24):
I need you to write a minute, back up and
be quiet for me. Look here, okay, der niece, you're
lining okay, where they're supposed to have? Manute?

Speaker 12 (49:32):
What what you know?

Speaker 11 (49:33):
Because we usual to go everywhere again when we go on,
first of all, the don't work. Let's let's go there.
He does not work?

Speaker 2 (49:40):
Okay, So I don't know.

Speaker 11 (49:41):
Where it is when he got when he generally when
he leaves the house went together? Where did they meet?

Speaker 10 (49:46):
How?

Speaker 11 (49:47):
How did they meet two weeks ago? You say, because
I'm listening to you now, you got I don't.

Speaker 13 (49:51):
I don't know if they meant two weeks ago. I'm
just I just found him in the cell phone two
weeks ago. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (49:59):
Now.

Speaker 13 (49:59):
You say, if you're saying he don't work, then evidently
it must be doing the day while you gone or
something I don't do.

Speaker 2 (50:06):
I mean you you say, you on your lunch break
right now?

Speaker 8 (50:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (50:10):
Uh huh? And where is your wife right now? Wait?
Do you know where your wife feels right now?

Speaker 6 (50:15):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (50:15):
Well, she supposed to be at work right now, and
you know what I just counted.

Speaker 11 (50:20):
He told me he was gonna get in the tub
and when I come back, it's taking the lound he
used it. Okay, it's yeah, okay, if I ain't have
to go back in this hospital. The baby, baby baby, See, yeah,
where's your wife? I need you to get to We
need to your wife field.

Speaker 13 (50:36):
Well, see, my wife works at a uh at a
no wait a minute, do y'all have do y'all have kids?

Speaker 8 (50:43):
Hell?

Speaker 11 (50:43):
Yeah, we got kids, and that's my problem. That's why
I'm so upset. I'm working. I'll day, I get up
and soe in the morning to make sure I got
everything prepared for the whole day. She got to get
the kids. And we have three kids, one, two, and three.

Speaker 2 (50:59):
Yeah, okay, okay, is he the one? Because see do
he because my wife works at a at a daycare?
Do he drop him off at a daycare?

Speaker 11 (51:12):
Don't start your baby, He's getting deeper. I get this.
What daycare does your wife working?

Speaker 8 (51:19):
Baby?

Speaker 11 (51:19):
Because I see, don't start me? Yeah he dropping them off? Okay,
uh huh. If you tell me that, baby, just tell
me that if I sweat.

Speaker 13 (51:29):
Line now she's been at this place called children's academy.

Speaker 11 (51:33):
You lie, You better not tell me this non working.
It's they're supposed to be watching our kids.

Speaker 13 (51:42):
See, I'm already and see but see, I'm already upset
and been upset about this for the last I've been
holding it for the last two weeks.

Speaker 2 (51:50):
I've been holding it. Ain't saying nothing to the knee.

Speaker 11 (51:54):
Why are you holding it? Why you want? You should
have been called me what the this is? Chris when
he get this. Let me tell you something. I get
up at four every morning and I go I have
to be the work for six thirty. Every morning. I
get to that houseman, our slave. They did come on

(52:14):
as slaves for him. Try to make sure he feels
good as a man although he's not working. You know
it wasn't this part he got laid out. But hey,
I want him to feel good although he's not where
because you know y'all don't feel too good when you're
not work. So I wanted him to feel good. I
tell the kids, you know it's gonna be okay. But
I bet you this got that something.

Speaker 2 (52:36):
Is my wife. Don't be you know she's my wife.

Speaker 11 (52:39):
No, wait a minute, now. But wait a minute. See
I told you it was ignorant, cause see you should
have been kind me long ago. Let me tell y'all
you ignorant too. See she's a first of all, because
she said she too. She said he raised that out
of I'm not a player game. And she's with my
house and he's sending her naked pictures. He ain't got

(52:59):
to he's saying, no way, trust me, it ain't worth on.
I was just with him because he was a good man.
I guess Mike just dumb to.

Speaker 1 (53:07):
All that.

Speaker 2 (53:09):
I was gonna ask you this here.

Speaker 11 (53:11):
Because he's gonna ask what do you want to add?
What can you ask me? You just fought me this here.
It's with your wife some name Denise. Yes, that's what
I said. And this is the that's watching the twins
say we have twins? Do you hear me?

Speaker 2 (53:27):
Can I say something else to you?

Speaker 11 (53:29):
I don't need you to say thanks?

Speaker 2 (53:31):
Can I say one more thing?

Speaker 11 (53:33):
What do you need to say?

Speaker 2 (53:35):
This is nephew twman from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
You just got prank by your husband, Gerald.

Speaker 9 (53:46):
Asked him.

Speaker 11 (53:47):
So let me tell you something got tonther to be
pranking me? He needs to be about it. You don't
want this, I'm go ahead to ship when I get home.
Keeps not working, I ain't cooking the night. Let me
tell you the only thing that save the situation, because

(54:11):
first of all, I'm a warming so I want more information.
But the second thing is we need the jog work.
I couldn't leave you work.

Speaker 2 (54:20):
Begin I gotta answer you something.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
Baby.

Speaker 2 (54:23):
What's baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 11 (54:28):
Definitely the Thieves Army going and so let me talk.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
Remember what you know, sir? Come on, y'all.

Speaker 1 (54:39):
Come on man, I'm just a shock you play. I
love to love.

Speaker 2 (54:48):
Come on, you know what you're stupid?

Speaker 1 (54:50):
To you stupid to let me tell you.

Speaker 2 (54:53):
There call Yeah, see you stupid because that'd be Yeah,
that's what I said.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
Ried so at registering with me, Denise and the last
oh digs. Wait a minute, a minute, Wait a minute.

Speaker 2 (55:11):
He ain't take a little naked picture. He ain't got
nothing to be shown. Oh I guess I'm just stupid. Yeah,
it's both need that. It is you.

Speaker 1 (55:27):
She needed that, all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up
next Strawberry letters, subject my boyfriend hates the word No.
We'll get into it right after this.

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Speaker 1 (56:37):
Here. It is Strawberry Letter, thanking of you. Subject my
boyfriend hates the word no. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a
flight attendant and my schedule is very demanding because I
do international flights. I'm in town a few days and
I'm gone for a few days. My boyfriend hates that
his goodies aren't there for him daily. He calls it goodies,

(57:00):
and you call it cookie. Anyway. I need him to
realize that there's more to life than his goodies. He
hates the word no, so when I am not in
the mood, he pouts. It causes a lot, a whole
shift in our relationship. He uses it as an excuse
to second guess my commitment to him, so I may

(57:20):
never get an engagement ring. We're both twenty nine and
we've been together for a little over four years and
just moved in together. I know I can do better,
but I'm trying to hold on because I love this
man from his head to his toes, and I can't
see myself growing old with anyone else. I'm very religious

(57:41):
as well, and he's not. He'll go to church with me,
and he's even gone to Bible study when when I'm
in town. Excuse me, but I shouldn't have to force
him to go. A lot of small things I ask
him to do, he gives me pushback on them. I've
taught him all about etiquette, and now he's able to
pick out nice restaurants for us. And when I tell

(58:03):
you that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom, I'm so serious.
That brings me to why I really tell him no
when he wants my goodies. His goodie goodie isn't all
of that. And I have to be in the mood
to put on a show for him, if you know
what I mean. I make up excuses a lot, and

(58:23):
he's onto me. I consider an oral hookup just as
valuable as giving the goodies up. But he doesn't think so.
He wants everything, and he wants it often. He really
hates when I tell him no. So how can I
enhance the experience for myself so I can say yes more?
Can bad sex get better over time?

Speaker 2 (58:47):
Well?

Speaker 1 (58:48):
It could be a teachable moment sometimes, But listen, you
got to tell him what the problem is. You have
to tell him that or you're going to be miserable
for the rest of your life if you stay with
this guy. But I say, before you do all that,
you really need to decide if this is what you want.
I know you said you love him from his head

(59:08):
to his toes and all of that. You've been with
him for over four years. You haven't gotten marriage, no proposal,
and now you guys are living together. You have to
force him to go to church with you. You get
pushback when you ask him to do little things for you,
and he pouts when he can't get what he wants.
That's not compatibility, as you say, that's selfishness. Okay, I've

(59:31):
read this entire letter and I'm still trying to figure
out what you are getting out of this because he
picks nice restaurants. Come on, now, all I see is
bad sex and bad attitude if you don't give him
his way.

Speaker 9 (59:47):
And what you do isn't good enough for him. You
also said that you know you can do better. You
said that in this letter. Well guess what I think
you can too. So you know what they say, if
you know better, do better. So I think you need
to do better. Don't be stuck on stupid with this guy.
It's time for you to start getting what you want.

(01:00:08):
You're twenty nine. You have plenty of time, you know,
plenty of time to get a good relationship. You don't
have to be stuck here.

Speaker 7 (01:00:16):
Steve, Wow, my boyfriend hates the word no is the subject,
but he won't give you a reason to say yes.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
At the church.

Speaker 7 (01:00:31):
Say man, Amen, Steve, Amen again again, we will approach
this letter. My boyfriend hates the word no in parentheses,
but he won't give you a reason to say yes, Lord, Lord, Lord,
here we are. And you're an international flight attendant. That's

(01:00:54):
gonna come back into play. International flight attendant. That means
you have an interesting life. You're international.

Speaker 2 (01:01:06):
He local.

Speaker 7 (01:01:08):
You in and out of town. You're an international flight attendant. International,
He local you in and out of town. He right
there all the.

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
Time, all the time.

Speaker 7 (01:01:20):
You see what's happening in him. And my boyfriend hates
that his goodies aren't there for him daily. He calls
it goodies, and you call it the cookie anyway, I
need him to realize that there's more in life than
his cookies. Well, that's gonna be a hard sale, see,
because you got a problem. He hates the word no,

(01:01:41):
and when I'm not in the mood, he pouts. Now,
this pouting is gonna be a problem. I'm telling you
that right now. Just sticking your lips out and pouting
because you can't get your way, that's a serious sign.
And you say it causes a whole shift in our relationship.
And I got news for you, and it always will.

Speaker 2 (01:02:00):
He uses it as an excuse to second guess my
commitment to him, so I may never get an engagement ring.

Speaker 7 (01:02:08):
No, that's called guilt. He is using the most useless
emotion to get what he wants.

Speaker 2 (01:02:17):
He's making you feel guilty because he's trying to manipulate
you into what you want. And somebody told me one
time that guilt is the most useless emotion. It only
serves the purpose of a person trying to apply it.
It does you no good to feel guilty. You don't
feel good about it. It doesn't motivate you nothing. It's

(01:02:38):
just guilt, and he's laying it on you in heaps
and doses because he wants what he wants.

Speaker 7 (01:02:44):
Now, he got you thinking you ain't gonna get no
engagement ring. I got news for you. You might not
need one, or a truth will come out when we
come back.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
All right, hold on, steeg. We'll have part two of
your response coming up at twenty three minutes. After My
boyfriend hates the word no is a strawberry letter subject
for today. We'll get back into it right after this.
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Speaker 1 (01:03:43):
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject my boyfriend hates the word no.

Speaker 7 (01:03:51):
Yeah, your boyfriend hate the word no, but he ain't
given you a reason to say yes. That's the whole
thing of this letter. You're a flight attendant. That means
you're international. You do international flights. He local, you gone
a lot. He always there. Your boyfriend hates that you're
not there with the cookie all the time, so now

(01:04:11):
when you do come home, he wants it. Now you're
trying to convince him that cookies and sex is not
the most important things in life. That there's more to it,
but it's gonna be a hard sale because that's what
he won't and when he don't get it, he pouts
and it causes a shift in your relationship, and it
always will.

Speaker 2 (01:04:31):
Now here's the key to this letter. He used it
as an excuse to second guess my commitment to him,
so I may never get an engagement rid so. And
the reason I'm saying so is because of the information afterwards.
But he's applying guilt to you to make you feel
guilty so he can manipulate you into getting what he wants.

Speaker 7 (01:04:54):
Now, y'all both twenty nine. You've been together for a
little over four years, and you just moved in together.
All this is critical information. You just moved in together.
I know I can do better, Lord Jesus, Lord Jesus,
I know I can do better. See that's because you international,

(01:05:14):
you meeting me in all over the world. People on
your flight hitting on you, talking to you. Pilots want
to get at you.

Speaker 4 (01:05:22):
You know, you out of town.

Speaker 7 (01:05:23):
Everybody out the country want to get at you. You
land locally at Hartsfield, they want to get at you.
You land at the Guardia, they want at you. You
get a Florida app for what they want.

Speaker 2 (01:05:33):
To holler at.

Speaker 7 (01:05:33):
You know what I'm saying, you a lax day up
on you and you dealing with the cooking master back
of the house, just sitting there there.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
Won't won't cook it, won't want cook it, don't go
on it. But I'm trying to hold on because I
love this man from his head to his toes that
I can't see myself growing old with anyone else. I'm confused.
I'm really confused.

Speaker 7 (01:06:00):
Because you can do better, but you love him his
head told you can't see yourself growing old with anybody else.
But then right after this, you say, I'm very religious
as well, and he's not. So let's talk about how
religious you are. He'll go to church with me, and
he's even going to Bible study while I'm in town.
But I shouldn't have to force him to go. Well

(01:06:21):
you do if he's not religious, that's what.

Speaker 13 (01:06:25):
You have to do.

Speaker 7 (01:06:28):
And then a lot of small things I ask him
to do, he gives me pushback on him. And this
is the man you can't live without. You can't see
what's been the rest of your life. He don't go
to church. Little stuff he gives you pushback. Now you're
ready for this. I've taught him all the adequate and
how he's able to pick out nice restaurants for us.

(01:06:49):
When I tell him that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom.
When I tell you that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom,
I'm so serious. See you done told us y'all compatible
everywhere with the bedroom. But you ain't bothered up to
him because you don't want to hurt him. He brings
that brings me to why I really tell him no

(01:07:10):
when he wants my goodies, his goodie ain't that good
at all, And I have to be in the mood
to put on the show for him, if you know
what I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
Now, listen to this. I make up excuses a lot,
and he's on to me.

Speaker 7 (01:07:23):
I consider an oral hook up just as valuable as
giving the goodies up, but he does not think so. Okay,
so let's get this together. You're very religious. You moved
in with the man without being married. Y'all been living together?
You fake orgasms. You want to do half sexual acts

(01:07:48):
and to consider it the whole sexual act.

Speaker 2 (01:07:52):
Okay, so let me get this right. Y'all. You real religious,
but you live together. You fake orgasms.

Speaker 7 (01:07:59):
You want to do half acts and consider him whole acts,
but he don't like that, and now he can't produce
no results in the bedroom. His goodies ain't good at all.
So that's what And now you real religious? Thank you
for making knowed. I want to go to your church.
And so anyway, he wants everything, and he wants it often,

(01:08:22):
but he ain't giving you nothing, and he wants you
to take nothing all the time. But you said you
can do better. What is it you love about him?
Till his head to his toe? You justin got used
to him and he can't even do nothing. His goodies
ain't even good. So now your boyfriend hate to say no,
but he don't want.

Speaker 2 (01:08:41):
To give you a reason to say yes.

Speaker 7 (01:08:43):
So how can I enhance the experience for myself so
I can say yes more? Can bad sex get better
over time? How can you enhance the experience for yourself?
It's gonna have to be with somebody else, right, and
then the bad news. Can bad sex get better over time?
I ain't never seen it now, I ain't never seen it.

(01:09:08):
It's bad sex. It's it's stay bad sex. You just
have to reduce and lower your expectations. And how much
fun is that gonna be? Jip hand something you go.
I could have had a V eight. I would rather
have the popsy law and you just wasted fineness. Yeah,

(01:09:38):
you just cut and ain't got nothing to go with him?

Speaker 2 (01:09:42):
All right?

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While good communication is one of the key aspects of

(01:10:43):
a good relationship, it's not always easy. It's not always easy, guys,
to tell your partner everything, okay. In fact, most couples
hold back at least something out of fear that they
are going to upset their partner or hurt their feelings.
Now Here are a few examples from dot com. All right,
so listen carefully, and if you guys have others you

(01:11:04):
might want to add or comment on these. He needs
to set better boundaries for his family or their problems,
and craziness will consume us both. He needs to set
better boundaries. This is a wife saying this about her partner.
He needs to set better boundaries with his family, with
his family, with his family or their problems, and craziness

(01:11:26):
is going to consume us both. Okay, do you agree
with that?

Speaker 2 (01:11:31):
Oh well, don'tkay. You're talking about my mama. Is that
what you're saying?

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
You talk about my mom exactly?

Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
You can't say that, yeah, right, can you?

Speaker 10 (01:11:43):
No?

Speaker 11 (01:11:44):
No?

Speaker 10 (01:11:45):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:11:46):
Absolutely?

Speaker 2 (01:11:47):
Not all right?

Speaker 1 (01:11:49):
All right, speaking of mother. His mother is not a
good person. Period we'll say that.

Speaker 2 (01:11:58):
You can't say that. I think that's because she's not
a good person to you. But he could. She could
have been his everything, his all and all. So now
you got a problem. What else you need?

Speaker 1 (01:12:13):
Man? Some days I'm just tired from work and just
want some me time.

Speaker 8 (01:12:18):
Can you?

Speaker 1 (01:12:18):
I know you've said that, I felt that.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
I ain't said I just went and got it. Well,
I've said it.

Speaker 1 (01:12:25):
You just want some me time?

Speaker 2 (01:12:27):
Yeah, I just need some and like and like.

Speaker 7 (01:12:30):
We have an agreement, you know, because she knows I talk,
I do radio and then I go do TV all
day and I've been entertaining and talking all day long.
When I get off work, this ain't the time to talk.
Now we're meeting the morning for coffee before I go
to work. We get it all out. But when I

(01:12:50):
come home, Man, she allows that for me because she knows.
Let my husband get in the front of that TV,
set his food, and do what you want to do.
And when you come up and go to bed, he'll
come up and go to bed, and she'll come down
there and wake me up. In that off Steve, you're
sleep in the chair. I don't know how you can
sleep in this chair, but I stepped in the car
for three years.

Speaker 1 (01:13:13):
Nothing. Yeah, all right, So what are some of the
things you wish you could say but you know you
can't get away with say that?

Speaker 2 (01:13:24):
Again?

Speaker 1 (01:13:24):
What are some of the things you wish you could
say but you know you can't get away with them?
You know you can't say you getting.

Speaker 8 (01:13:32):
Come on?

Speaker 2 (01:13:34):
I like to shut the hell up. I like you
getting on my blanketed blank nave and what right?

Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
You can't say it?

Speaker 2 (01:13:44):
Though?

Speaker 1 (01:13:44):
All right, don't try that, Jim too soon? All right, beautiful,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,
so Facebook listener Steve on anyway, he wrote this, Uncle Steve.

(01:14:05):
His name is Ricky, Uncle Steve. I need some guidance.
Last week, I'm at a cool, fine girl while out
with some friends. She's funny and simply gorgeous. We exchange
numbers and are going to go out. While texting, though
she told me she worked as a stripper just for
the money, she says, I'm not sure how I feel
about this or if I'm even up for it. Somehow

(01:14:28):
this became a whole other level of pressure or issues
that I wasn't prepared for, she said. She didn't do
anything to cause and she didn't do anything to cause it.
Dog is all me. Uncle Steve, my homie said I
should do like a list, like what are the pros
and cons of dating a stripper? I really don't want
to deal with games, jealousy, flakiness or anything like that.

(01:14:51):
But I also feel bad for not giving someone a
fair shot just because of their job or really what
their job once was. Am I wrong? His name is Ricky?

Speaker 7 (01:15:02):
Hey man, she's so fine. You trying to find a
way not to have a problem with this job. But dog,
you're gonna have a problem with the job.

Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
Dog. And you say jealousy is gonna be that's gonna
be one of them. You know, working hours, it's gonna
be one of them. Ain't a lot of late night
dating because she up on that pole.

Speaker 7 (01:15:22):
You know then what she gotta do to get you know,
she's gonna be out there stripping everybody looking at what
what you want to be yours.

Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
Now, if you can handle that type of stuff, then
go ahead. I'm not that guy. So you ain't never
fell in love with no stripper?

Speaker 1 (01:15:39):
A song about it?

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
Yeah, a dog.

Speaker 7 (01:15:42):
Let me tell you I worked when I was young.
I worked at the Cheetah Strip Club for two weeks.

Speaker 2 (01:15:48):
Yeah, I was.

Speaker 7 (01:15:53):
Oh yeah, thousand dollars a week. I couldn't turn that down.
And the dressing room was right next to the strippers. Actually,
I think by the end of the week I had
asked four of them to marry me. Yeah, because I'm
sitting in the dressing room talking to him next and

(01:16:14):
I'm looking at him neckd That was perfect.

Speaker 2 (01:16:17):
That was perfect.

Speaker 7 (01:16:19):
I'm talking about when they had stepped out on Monder
them blue lights, they were still argiers, and I was going, well, yeah,
I marry her, and I just talking. I was trying
to talk them off the pole, you know, to get
out on the road and make a committed life with me,
you know.

Speaker 2 (01:16:33):
But I will say, she's fine.

Speaker 7 (01:16:34):
I appreciate you being honorable, trying to say that you
don't want to judge a person about what they do,
but we get judged by what we do all the.

Speaker 2 (01:16:41):
Time, all the time, and some things.

Speaker 7 (01:16:44):
I don't think you're cut out for this because you
have too many questions going in. You ain't even in
love yet, twenty eight dog, But see he wants something.
This girl so fine, Like, man, I'm telling you how
fine this girl, and she's funny and she just doing
it for the money. Not a problem being is when

(01:17:08):
you complain. Here's what women have to remember when a
man comes to you complaining about how you are. If
he's going to complain and offer criticism of how you are,
he must then be standing there with a solution. So
that's the only way complaining and criticism works. You have

(01:17:34):
to be standing there with a solution or else it's
just criticism.

Speaker 1 (01:17:39):
I don't like what you do.

Speaker 2 (01:17:41):
Okay, okay, cool, what you want me to do? Just
get a job? Okay where anywhere? Okay? How much did
this anywhere? Job pay? This is what I make it.

Speaker 7 (01:17:53):
See, that's the problem, and that's what men don't get it.
And that's where a lot of women don't understand.

Speaker 2 (01:18:00):
We should go on a field trip after strip club,
just so we can understand more. All of us should
go together search.

Speaker 7 (01:18:07):
I don't want to go with Shirley and calling you.
I don't I'm old school. I don't believe women be
all the strip myself, and I don't see.

Speaker 2 (01:18:16):
How I could possibly say or feel the same thing
I'm gonna feel with a woman looking up side.

Speaker 1 (01:18:23):
And you know we will, Yeah, I thought he meant, yeah,
just the guys, go.

Speaker 2 (01:18:30):
Man, go back and do what y'all do. Get out
of a stop.

Speaker 4 (01:18:34):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:18:35):
Coming up next, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show. We're gonna check out Steve's voicemail. If
you would like to leave a message for Steve, call
him eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. All right, Steve,
this caller, this first one needs some relationship advice from you.

Speaker 15 (01:18:58):
Hey, Steve, I'm an older woman fifty one years old.
I'm forty four. We're about to get married in a
few weeks, but she's constantly wanting to go out and
run the streets. What can I say or do to
get her to realize that we're about to be married.

Speaker 2 (01:19:18):
Well, if she don't know that, y'all, i'll be married.
I don't really know what to tell you.

Speaker 7 (01:19:23):
But as far as her being fifty one and she's
older than you, I want to commend you because one
of the things that probably attracted her to you is your.

Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
A sound old. So congratulations immediately closed the gap with
your boy, because yeah, she didn't thought you was younger.
Because you're found as old as her. And if you
got a woman that's fifty one and still running the streets,

(01:19:52):
do you think it's a good idea to get married.

Speaker 1 (01:19:55):
Yeah, so to her, Okay, yeah, it ain't no.

Speaker 7 (01:19:59):
Laws say you got to marry, especially if she don't
want to change her weight.

Speaker 2 (01:20:04):
We get married now.

Speaker 7 (01:20:05):
You can't run the streets if she don't understand that,
because it ain't nothing out in the streets but trouble.

Speaker 2 (01:20:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
And if you want to mess your marriage up, go
out of the street.

Speaker 6 (01:20:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:15):
And I don't care who you are or the marriage.

Speaker 2 (01:20:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:20:18):
All right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show right after this.

Speaker 2 (01:20:23):
You have no idea what it is.

Speaker 13 (01:20:25):
This is Carlos Miller, and this may or may not
be the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:20:29):

Speaker 14 (01:20:36):
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try fencing. The Olympic and Paralympic sports that max it speed,
strategy and fun. It's like chess meats cardios, quick feet,
quick decisions, and satisfying beep when you score a point.

Speaker 1 (01:20:49):
Kids, teens and adults can start.

Speaker 14 (01:20:51):
Anytime, no experience needed, and many clubs have lonar gear
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Speaker 1 (01:21:06):
All right, guys, it is time for a round it
would you rather? Would you rather think about this? Would
you rather be chased by a bear or a cougar?

Speaker 10 (01:21:16):
Be?

Speaker 6 (01:21:17):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:21:17):
Man, a cougar? Real coo? Yeah they're fast now they
might get.

Speaker 2 (01:21:22):
A cougar going.

Speaker 1 (01:21:24):
Yeah, Oh, listen to me.

Speaker 7 (01:21:25):
Bears run forty five forty miles an hour. You're not
getting away with either one. What what are y'all crazy?

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
Do you a bear with slower?

Speaker 2 (01:21:34):
A bear run around an hour?

Speaker 8 (01:21:36):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
I didn't know what a cougar about?

Speaker 2 (01:21:38):
What seventy?

Speaker 1 (01:21:42):
It's gonna catch you first?

Speaker 7 (01:21:43):
Listen to me. Don't get bast did y'all see revenution
evidence that make a movie about a bear? You never
seen to make a movie about cougar.

Speaker 2 (01:21:58):
We can't whoop, We can't whoop be the one of them.
You can't do nothing with that bear?

Speaker 7 (01:22:03):
Nothing nine feet tall when he's standing up he's just
cook or something.

Speaker 2 (01:22:08):
Man, I.

Speaker 7 (01:22:11):
Never seen nobody whoop a bag. I'm taking the cougar, y'all,
don't understand it.

Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
I gonna take that cat.

Speaker 4 (01:22:22):
This bell.

Speaker 2 (01:22:25):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:22:29):
I can't believe he saw the man.

Speaker 2 (01:22:31):
I can't believe he's sorry, revenue. I watched it twice.
I told his.

Speaker 7 (01:22:39):
All through his cutting his and the bear arnery. He
double back round on his and he thought he was
gonna give me that cougar. Let me deal with it.

Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
It's the cooking for you, all right, definitely, all right.

Speaker 2 (01:22:56):
Now he's listen to me. Don't y'all do that. I'm
from the country.

Speaker 8 (01:23:00):
Do not do that.

Speaker 7 (01:23:02):
I'm with you now, because that bad could get up
in the tree and everything he hail man, that bad
bad they honoring.

Speaker 1 (01:23:13):
Okay, all right, all right, coger cougar all around, all right?
Would you rather sneeze uncontrollably once every day or get
the hiccups for fifteen minutes a day? Sneeze uncontrollably once
a day, for fifteen minutes a day, But how long?

Speaker 2 (01:23:33):
How long I'm sneezing.

Speaker 1 (01:23:35):
Once a day? Oh yeah, but uncontrollably sneezing though, But
how long do it?

Speaker 2 (01:23:40):
Last.

Speaker 1 (01:23:41):
Yeah, once a day uncontrollably. When it's done, it's done.

Speaker 2 (01:23:47):
If it's once a day, a sound control.

Speaker 1 (01:23:49):
Would you rather what would you rather do? Just answer it.
I'd rather sneeze than that's it.

Speaker 7 (01:23:57):
If I sneeze one time. I just want to these
one time come out of nowhere or hiccup days at
a time.

Speaker 1 (01:24:10):
All right, that's today's crazy round. Would you rather?

Speaker 2 (01:24:14):
Coming up?

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
At forty nine minutes after last break? And Steve's closing
right after this less up? It's DJ Cagle, your boy,
Chris Broth. Hey, this is Keisha cole Gost. People, this
is Kirk Franklin. Hey, this is John Legend.

Speaker 2 (01:24:26):
And you listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:24:28):

Speaker 7 (01:24:35):
This is Steve Harvey Martin show Man. I love the
fact that God is who he is. God is everything.
He's all powerful, all knowing, all seeing, all prevailing, all doing,
all knowing.

Speaker 2 (01:24:48):
Whatever you need, God got it coming up right after.

Speaker 14 (01:24:56):
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try fit the Olympic and Paralympic sport that makes it speed,
strategy and fun. It's like chess meets cardio, quick feet,
quick decisions, and satisfying beep when you score a point. Kids, teens,
and adults can start anytime, no experience needed, and many
clubs have loaner gear coaches teach fundamentals and safety from

(01:25:18):
day one. You can find a beginner class near you
at USA Fencing dot org slash try Fencing. That's USA
Fencing dot org slash try fencing.

Speaker 1 (01:25:26):
All right here we are, guys, our last break of
the day and of the week on the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (01:25:34):
So listen, man, I want to do something. I want
to read a series of things that I keep in
my phone. I did a little bit before, but I
want to do quite a few of them. These are
things that I pull that I take screenshots of, like
if I find a catchy saying, or somebody sends me

(01:25:56):
a motivational phrase, or if I get you know, just's
something or a scripture that really registers with me, and
if they text it to me, I'll take a screenshot
of it, edit it down and then save to photos.
Then when I get it in my photo section. I
have a section in my albums called motivation, and I

(01:26:17):
transfer all of these things over to my photo app
and I put it in motivation, and I just have
probably I don't know, let me see one, two, three, four, one, two, three, six, nine, twelve, fourteen, fifteen.

Speaker 2 (01:26:34):
I probably got sixty seventy of these things. I'm just
gonna read a few of them to you.

Speaker 7 (01:26:40):
And what I do for meditation sometimes is sometimes I
start my day by just pulling up all of my
inspirational messages that I've sent myself over the years, and
they go back quite sometimes, but these are the top
ones that matter to me most. So I have one,

(01:27:01):
and I have a pack of lions just walking and
you can tell that they look like they're going out
on a hunt. It's just a huge pack of lions,
and they got a real serious look on their face.
And the caption on it says, surround yourself with those
on the same mission as you. Surround yourself with those

(01:27:24):
on the same mission as you. Because when you look
at lions and they go out on the hunt, they
all go out on one accord. They going to get
something to eat. Ain't nobody going in there playing and
all this. Here, Hey, let's go down there and see
the gazelles.

Speaker 2 (01:27:36):
Let's race.

Speaker 7 (01:27:36):
No, no, they get serious, they get in stock mold,
and they got something to do. And it reminds me
to constantly look for people who are going in the
same direction as me. Here's one I've read to you
all before. There's a picture of a carton full of
probably thirty white eggs, and one of the eggs is gold,

(01:28:00):
and the caption says, they laughed at me because I'm different.

Speaker 2 (01:28:04):
I looked at them because they're all the same. Be yourself.
Then I have another one that has this lion walking
across the African plane. This one lion, and I mean,
he got a nice little pace and he looking pretty serious.
And it's an old African proverb. And as you see
this lion walking towards you, it says a lion doesn't

(01:28:26):
turn around when a small dog barks. And that just
reminds me to keep my pace going where I'm going.
When them little haters start talking, them little bloggers that
ain't got nothing to do with you. You a lion.
You are a lion. You're a person on the mission.
You are a lion.

Speaker 7 (01:28:43):
Here's one there's some writing in the palm of a
hand that says, everything you're going through is preparing you
for what you ask for. Everything in life is a test.
Always remember that you are and it's preparing you for
something you ask for. These testing challenges that you go through,
they are little things that give you the experience and

(01:29:04):
the knowledge to equip you with the future. Here's another one.
Sometimes in order to get where you're going, you need
to drop a few people off.

Speaker 2 (01:29:19):
Self explanatory.

Speaker 7 (01:29:21):
They that again, sometimes in order to get where you're going,
you need to drop a few people off. That's self explanatory.
Here's one that I took out. I don't know why
I'm gonna read to you, but it's Isaiah forty one
thirteen and Hebrew two and two. But they paraphrase that
I do a motivation to call Jesus calling. And on

(01:29:42):
one day I was reading this. It says, give yourself
fully to the adventure of today. Walk boldly along the
path of life, relying on your ever present companion. You
have every reason to be confident, because my presence a
company you all the days of your life and onward

(01:30:03):
into eternity.

Speaker 2 (01:30:05):
Do not give in to fear or worry.

Speaker 7 (01:30:07):
Those robbers of abundant living trust me enough to face
problems as they come, rather than trying to anticipate them.
Fix your eyes on me, the author and perfector of
your faith, and many difficulties on the road ahead will
vanish before you reach them. Whenever you start to feel afraid,

(01:30:28):
remember that I'm holding you by your right hand, and
nothing can separate you from my presence. I just use
things like that man, and like sometimes man for my
morning meditation. I just go to my motivational page and
I pull up stuff. Here's one. Trust in his timing,
rely on his promises, wait for his answers, believe in

(01:30:51):
his miracles, rejoice in his goodness, and relax in his presence.
It just lets me know the whole time that I'm
never alone and that I have a very present help
that when Steve Harvey feel like it ain't going right,
when I feel like a loan and I got decisions
to make and I don't know what to do. Because

(01:31:13):
I have moments like that, when I pray, I always
feel better off of that same suggestion to you, find
you some things that motivate you along in your life.
Put them in your phone, and whenever you feel down,
go back and read them. It'll brighten your day.

Speaker 2 (01:31:27):
If it did.

Speaker 7 (01:31:28):
It wants you to do it again. Those are my
clothing remarks. Hey, listen, y'all talk to God. He loved
to hear from you. Y'all have a good one, Okay.
I see y'all tomorrow. Oh, no, i'll see y'all. I'll
see y'all Monday.

Speaker 2 (01:31:41):
Yeah, it's the weekend bray.

Speaker 1 (01:31:55):
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