FULL SHOW: The Pastors Have A Word, Strawberry Letter: He Wants To Be Seen But Not Heard - 10.20.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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the money.

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Speaker 7 (02:01):
Uh huh, I sure will coome on it, everybody. You
are listening to the voice, come on dig me now
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Speaker 2 (02:12):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (02:15):
I want to share something with you that I had
to come to the realization one time and even in
the reinvention of myself right now, I've had to come
to that and I want to share it with you today.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
Give it to you.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
I want to tell you about something that a lot
of people do in their life and I want you
to be aware of it. Here it is, don't get
stuck on yourself. You could be wrong.

Speaker 5 (02:41):
You know.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
I said, don't get stuck on yourself. You could be wrong.

Speaker 8 (02:52):
You know.

Speaker 7 (02:54):
The reason I'm saying this is because people have a
tendency to once they make a decision about something, or
once they decide to go a certain path, they go
against all everything, anything, anybody says, anything anybody might do,

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any other ruling they may come across. They shun advice,
They don't listen to counsel. They just I made the decision,
I'm gonna do it anyway. Don't get stuck on yourself.

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You could be wrong, you know. Now, here's a sure
fire way to tell if you're wrong. If you don't see.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
Any movement.

Speaker 7 (03:51):
In the direction you've chosen, if you don't see anything
going right in that decision, if you feel as though
you're in a rut, if the wall you're climbing seems
so insurmountable that you ain't even moving an inch, and

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every time you turn around you keep getting knocked by down,
knocked back down.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Don't get stuck on yourself. You know you could be wrong,
you know.

Speaker 7 (04:22):
See, that's why it's important for people to always be
open to the reinvention of yourself. You know, you cannot
be afraid to reinvent yourself. In other words, you can't
be afraid to change. Change is necessary when it comes
to growth. There is no growth without change. The more

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you know, the older you look, that is no growth
without change. If you're heading in a direction, it ain't
nothing going right in your life.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
Could it be the wrong direction.

Speaker 7 (05:02):
If you're climbing and you're making no headway, could it
be the wrong direction? Could you have possibly made the
wrong choice. Don't get stuck on yourself because you done
made the wrong stuff. It's okay to forgive yourself. It's
okay to let yourself off the hook. It's even smarter
sometimes to admit that you were wrong. You ever met

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somebody ain't ever wrong? Have you ever met somebody you
talk to? They ain't ever wrong about nothing? Man, They
just it's they way or the highway. It's this is
my way, this is the I know people like that,
stuck on them power trips and all like that. You
know what I had to learn how to do. I
had to learn how to let them go on them
power trips.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
But listen to this.

Speaker 7 (05:44):
Though you're not taking me on that trip. Though you
going on that trip by yourself, I'm going in the
right direction. I've decided to stop the way. Okay, listen
to this person. This person, I decided to stop doing
business the way the way I was doing business. I
decided to stop to allow business being done around me

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the way business was being done around me. You know,
the best decision I made was to allow for God
to have some say so and to offer me his direction.
I have found him to be a better driver than
anyone else I know. I have found him to know

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more about the man he made than anybody else who's
merely associating with me. I have found it to be
a fact that my maker knows more about the vehicle
he created than does anybody else. If your Chevy break,
don't you take it to Chevy. You don't take your

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Forward when it breaks down to a Toyota dealership. They
not gonna know everything that the Ford dealership would know
about the vehicle.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
You know why, because they're not the maker of it.
So now, why are you letting?

Speaker 7 (07:03):
You're letting your life being led, controlled and guided by
somebody other than your maker. I'm just asking you to
let's all take a common sense look at this. So,
if going to your maker is the best way, the
best decision I made in my business was take over
my brand myself and to allow the maker of this brand.

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See without God, I'm none of this. I'm none of this.
I want you to clearly understand I ain't none of
this without him. I wish I could have the guts
to reach back there and pat myself on the back
for what I've accomplished in my life.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
I wish I had the guts.

Speaker 7 (07:43):
I wish the nerve of me because I know for
a fact that there is no way that I could
have manufactured the life that I have.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
I could not even have thought of it.

Speaker 7 (07:55):
It's no way I could have told you that this
was the route I was gonna take, and this is
the outcome because of it. I had no idea, no clue.
The one thing I had, though, was an unshakable faith
in God. I had an un and I just kept
believing in him. I kept believing that he had something

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more for me. And then when I touched base with
him and asked him to show me what it is
what he had for me, Tada, the magic show began.

Speaker 2 (08:26):
Because you know what he did.

Speaker 7 (08:28):
He took all my natural abilities that he had given
to me, This gift that he gave me, that he
poured into me at birth, that same gift that he
poured into you at birth.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
The moment you go to him and let him show
you that gift, and then guess what.

Speaker 7 (08:44):
Once he takes what he naturally put in you and
put his super his superpowers on top of that. Then
you have some supernatural things going on in your life
and you may not be feeling me. I'm cool with that,
but I done have some supernatural things happen to me.
Every day I wake up some supernatural the man, the

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rewards of my life, the awards of my life, the accomplishments,
the how I'm working, the how I manage it all,
all that ain't nothing but God. That ain't nothing but God.
You can't even explain this schedule to people. Sometimes when
people ask me, Steve, how do you do it? I go, well,
this is what I manage my time. Then at the
end of when I get through, I say, hey, man,
you know what I need to tell y'all for real?

Speaker 2 (09:30):
It's God.

Speaker 7 (09:31):
I don't really know, but I'm letting him manage me.
So he handling it. He ain't gonna put no more
on me than I can bear. Listen to me, y'all,
don't be afraid to reinvent yourself and remember this. Don't
get stuck on yourself because you could be wrong. You know,
you absolutely could be wrong. If you don't tie this

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to your gift, you will be struggling the rest of
your life.

Speaker 1 (09:56):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (10:03):
Ladies and gentlemen, here we go another day, another opportunity,
another chance, another gift from God.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
That's all it is. Man.

Speaker 7 (10:11):
You just got to look at it that way. So
let's just get it started, man, because today is a
great day. Thank you Lord for this day. All right,
let's roll. Charlotte Starberry called for real Mississippi Monica Jr.
And the legendary is nephew Thomas Jr. Yeah, what's on
your mind today?

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Man?

Speaker 9 (10:30):
Yeah, I'm gonna ask you about this uncle. Who's the
dangers of being? What happens to people when they get
bitter and they get angry about the situation when they're
trying to be successful? What's the what happens to a
person like that? What is the dangers of that?

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Well, bitterness, I've found comes from two things.

Speaker 7 (10:50):
A person becomes bitter because they're holding on to they past,
or they become bitter because they've not accomplished their future now.
And both of them have something to do with them.
And both of those are situations that this bitter person
created themselves. You know, my father used to say something

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to me all the time about being mad about something.
He said, you got two choices, son, you can get
over it or you can die mad. Now which one
you want to do. And that's where you have to
draw the line with a lot of people. There are
a lot of people who just pick the option to

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stay mad, to stay angry, to keep dwelling on the
hurt or the disappointment of something that has already happened.
You see it all the time, and what you got
to be careful of, folks, especially when you see it
coming from famous people. Let me tell you something about

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famous people. Famous people, when you take the word famous
off of it, are people.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
That's all they are. They are subject to the same
things you are subjected to.

Speaker 7 (12:10):
Grief, loss, pain, hurt, joy, sorrow, glee, happiness, regret, all
of that. So be very careful when you put your
faith in people. When you say, oh, well this is
what they did. No, just because they did and they famous,

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don't make it right. Just because I do something because
I'm famous, it don't make it right.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
Man.

Speaker 7 (12:37):
Know the truth for your own self. You can't hold
on to the past. You will become bitter, especially if
the past was negative. Now here's the other cause of bitterness.
I ain't where I want to be yet, Now, you mad,
I should have beensh I should have been and made
it by now I'm over forty and I still ain't

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got no house. Okay, you do have somewhere to live,
don't you. But instead of you being bitter, like we
talked about the other day, why don't you take accountability
for the decisions that you made that got yourself where
you are and make the change. You don't have to
be bitter. But bitterness solves nothing now. And don't nobody

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like being around a bitter person?

Speaker 2 (13:22):
All right?

Speaker 7 (13:24):
Nobody likes a bitter person here? They come everything wrong?
God damn man. So you're still telling them joke, Steve? Yeah, yes,
I thought you'd beating ran for office by now.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
Coming up with thirty two minutes after the hour, we
have the pastors with a word. Right after this, you're
listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, everyone's quick
health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting,
did you know your immune system weakens with age. That's

(14:00):
where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your
immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu,
new macascle pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall, ask
your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaxicist dot
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of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. It is time now for

(14:23):
Reverend Motown and Deacon deaf Jam with a word.

Speaker 5 (14:29):
Let me.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Let me clear my soak. No, no, all right, we
heal this morning.

Speaker 5 (14:45):
You know.

Speaker 2 (14:46):
Reciprocity of entanglement biguity.

Speaker 7 (14:52):
That's right. We postulate bother or founda of our stuparity,
realizing that we is on a conglomerate scale of mbinguity,

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Lord God Almighty, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:16):
Death Jam has a version. We will follow along. Come on, Death.

Speaker 8 (15:24):
We are going from the Book of Swim pastor from
the Book of Swim Swim oh okay, And it is
the second chapter, starting with the third birds, which says,
something got a hold of me lately.

Speaker 7 (15:46):
Start right there. Something is going on and I can't
quite put a frank on it. Aria.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
No, I don't know myself for anymore. Start right there.
It then popped off so frequently I don't know who
I am or any more.

Speaker 10 (16:09):
Rin feels like the walls are closing in, and the
devil's knocking.

Speaker 1 (16:17):
At my door.

Speaker 7 (16:18):
Stop right there. You're crowded in here now the walls
is closing in. Stomap and swoll up. Yeah, devil knocking
at the door, ring.

Speaker 2 (16:35):
Out of my mind?

Speaker 10 (16:37):
How many times that I tell you I'm no good
at being alone?

Speaker 2 (16:44):
Start right there. I told this good on several occasions.

Speaker 5 (16:51):
That I.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
Without you, don't care for being alone.

Speaker 2 (16:59):
Rin, Yeah, it's.

Speaker 10 (17:02):
Taking a toll on me, trying my best to keep
from tearing, tearing the skin off my bones.

Speaker 7 (17:11):
Start right there, though, I've got myself in a situation now, yes, sir,
while I'm starting to feel like peeling peeled in the
skin right off of my bone, kind of like I

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take the skin off a piece of salmon. Sometimes don't
want the skin. That's why I want to peel at all. Read,
I lose control when you're not next to me. I'm
falling apart in front of you.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
Can't you see? Stop right there?

Speaker 7 (17:59):
It ain't going good. Look over here. I'm coming apart.
After seams. My briches is busting loose, and the helm
is out the skirt, the buttons is off the shirt,
and the blouse I'm falling the part of can't you

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see read when you are not.

Speaker 2 (18:21):
Next to me, you're breaking my herd. Baby, you make
a mess of me.

Speaker 7 (18:28):
Stop right there. This is a sad, sad sermon, no
joy in this hill. It then got to the point
where I ain't good without you. I done told you
that walls is closing in on me, a devil knocking

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at the door. Nah, And got to the point where
I'm starting to peel the skin all of my bones
and no, I'm just no good without you, girl, Come on,
pat And I told you.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
I put it in a song I wish I had
never met read.

Speaker 10 (19:16):
Problematic problem is I want your body like a fiend,
like a bad habit bad Habit's hard to break when
I'm with you.

Speaker 7 (19:28):
Stop right there, And this song is not This verse
is not getting any better. It's downhill from the beginning
of the verse or Teddy Swims it said it best.
I'm no good without you, and the walls closing in,

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devil knocking at the door, peelt skin off my bones.

Speaker 2 (19:58):
I can't live without what read?

Speaker 10 (20:02):
Yeah they said, Yeah, I know I could do it
on my own, but I I want the real full moon,
black magic and it takes.

Speaker 2 (20:14):
Two start right there, see now the song and went
off into voodoo nah.

Speaker 7 (20:21):
They then took a tag magic and moon outside. This
ain't a this ain't a happy sermon. This is a
vibe or the breakup that didn't want to last. Somebody
wanted somebody to stay and and somebody told them that
they wasn't gonna stick around no more. You can peel

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your skin off your bones all you want to. I'm gone,
She's not coming back. I want to thank that it's
will for putting such a pain for song together. We're
not opening the doors of the church this week because
we don't want no more sad people in here.

Speaker 2 (21:00):
We're gonna go over here just cry about this being
bro Tennis.

Speaker 7 (21:03):
Will we go open up the doors of the church
next week, But right now the doors of this church
is closed because I'll be in the back peeling the
skin off my bones.

Speaker 2 (21:18):
Churchmen, Hey, man, say man, man.

Speaker 1 (21:23):
And again, Reverend Motown and Deacon Death jam with a
word coming up next, it is asked the clo or
Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone,
quick health question even though you're still thriving, still loving,

(21:46):
still connecting. Did you know your immune system weakens with age.
That's where vaccines come in. They helped train and strengthen
your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like
flu new macaco, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen this fall,
ask your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vaxsist
dot com. That's vaexcist dot com to schedule one or

(22:08):
more of vaccines sponsored by Peiser. Coming up at the
top of the hour, and entertainment news, Cartib apologizes to
her fans for asking them to buy her new album
while the economy is so messed up, And we'll talk
about a few of the false studies and research online.
Is it factual or not? That is all coming up

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as the top of the hour, But right now it
is time to ask the clo. This is from Derek
and Philly. Derek writes, I'm dating a woman that lives
over an hour from me. I see other women because
I can, and it doesn't mean that I don't love
my girlfriend. I would be devastated if my girlfriend ever
found out. How do I remain faithful when I can't

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be with my girl. Wow, what a dilemme?

Speaker 2 (23:00):
That ain't no number. That's a stupid question.

Speaker 7 (23:03):
You're asking me how do I be faithful without my girl?
And all your excuse is she stay an hour a way?
That's that's all.

Speaker 2 (23:13):
It takes.

Speaker 7 (23:15):
One hour drive and now you got to have somebody else. Hey, brother, really, dog,
let me explain. You just got to man up. You
got to make the decision. Stop trying to act like
you want this girl so bad because you don't. You
want her and them too. You're a player right now,

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that's all you are. Now, you're not Finn stop. I
would be devastated if you lost my girl now you
wouldn't You just get some more of them that you
got local? So bro, let's come on, man, let's stop
playing this day. You don't even really have a problem.
See you're trying to you're trying to get some help,

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trying to figure out how you can keep being a player.

Speaker 2 (23:59):
But you ain't try to stop being a player.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
Yeah, I can justified, bro, So come on man, yeah.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
All right, playing the game now? You trying to write
a letter in like you like you some serious dude? Man?

Speaker 3 (24:13):
Bye?

Speaker 2 (24:14):
Dogs?

Speaker 1 (24:15):
Really, what you are moving on to Avis, Clo and Denver.
Avia's right to have two cars. One I paid for
it and one my dad gave me. I moved into
my boyfriend's house. So he thinks my cars are his
cars too. My dad said he better not see him
in the car that he gave me. Should it be

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what's his mind or vice versa.

Speaker 7 (24:38):
Well, your dad is right. The dad is one hundred
percent right. Your dad bought the car for you. Now
you got this man that you have moved in with
because you got two cars. Now he thinks that's you
may maybe you need to make better choices. She ain't

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got no car. You have moved in with a man
that ain't got no car? Or did the man move
in with you?

Speaker 1 (25:09):
No, she moved in with him, but he ain't.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
Got no car.

Speaker 7 (25:13):
Well, daddy and said he better not see him in
the car he bought. He'd have told him, And that's
what you need to tell your boyfriend. My daddy said,
you can't drive this car period, because he bought that
for me.

Speaker 1 (25:32):
So that's what she should tell him. Don't drive her dad, Yeah,
you can't.

Speaker 7 (25:36):
But see once again y'all move in. Do y'all understand
what that means? So now he acted like what's yours
is his, it's what's he is yours. See, y'all playhouse,
but don't understand house rules. Y'all getting up here, you're
doing all the wifey stuff. You're sleeping with him, laughing

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and all this here. Nah, but you'll he can't dry
your car. Why y'all together? Yeah, y'all want to be
together and all that. Now get married and see your
father knew if you, if you married my daughter, he
let all that be won.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
But you ain't.

Speaker 2 (26:17):
Y'all in y'all in her playing house? Yeah, do like
y'all want to.

Speaker 1 (26:22):
I don't care, bottom line, But.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
No, I just I don't care.

Speaker 1 (26:28):
Man, you'll Moving on to Cheyenne and Tessa Lusa. Cheyenne writes,
my brother's girlfriend is twenty one and asks to borrow
a dress for a job interview. I never got the
dress back, and it was one of my more expensive dresses.
My brother refuses to pay me for the dress since
they're young. Should I let it slide?

Speaker 2 (26:47):
Yeah, just let it go.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Just let it go.

Speaker 7 (26:52):
Now you've you've she ain't even thought about that dress.
She the ward again too. It ain't just a job interview.
Your brother don't want to pay you for it. Yeah,
you know she ain't paying you for I just let
it go right off.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Not guess what.

Speaker 7 (27:09):
They can't come over there and get nothing else. Now
that's the joy of people not paying you back. They
can't come get nothing else, and they gonna need something else.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
You can leave that, yeah, yeah, because they are young.
Twenty one?

Speaker 2 (27:23):
All right?

Speaker 1 (27:24):
Last one, last one Colo. This is from Simeon and Greensboro.
Simeon says, I talked to a girl all night at
a bar. At the bar after a game. My wife
found out and she wanted to know who the girl is.
I tell my wife who she is, and she looked
the woman up on Instagram. Is it normal for my

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wife to investigate? Or is she insecure and nuts? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (27:50):
All that.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
All over?

Speaker 7 (27:52):
I can't believe though, you told your wife that you
set up all night at a bar talking to a
want stude.

Speaker 1 (28:01):
You told her that, Yeah, he told his wife who
the woman was.

Speaker 7 (28:06):
But bro, what what what'd you do that for? You
was at the bar with your friends, and then that
would be none of this all night? But yeah, my
friends all night. Don't you don't think that sounds way
better than.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
With this woman? All night.

Speaker 1 (28:23):
I absolutely do.

Speaker 6 (28:25):
See.

Speaker 7 (28:26):
I have tried to tell y'all the significance and the
importance of a loud Oh no, here, y'all want try
the truth. Okay, all right, okay, you so well, you
ain't gonna be mad about that. You're gonna be looking
nobody else. And you know her name and all that

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she done.

Speaker 2 (28:47):
Look down up. You gotta be crazy information. You shouldn't
even knew her name. I don't even know her name.
We was just talking. I never even asked her nature.
I ain't got wasn't gonna stay in touch.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
Go ahead, curling.

Speaker 6 (29:03):
Well, my thing is you're talking about telling the truth
and the lot the dumb part is his action. Yeah,
why didn't you talk to the woman all night? Because
he wouldn't want his wife talking to a man all night.
So the fact that he lied about that, it's like,
why are you talking to this woman all night?

Speaker 5 (29:22):
No?

Speaker 2 (29:23):
No, no, no, ladies, ladies. That wasn't the dumb part.

Speaker 1 (29:28):
She wasn't What was it.

Speaker 2 (29:31):
The dumb part was telling me.

Speaker 3 (29:36):
Can we disagree?

Speaker 2 (29:39):
Don't worry about you could do something.

Speaker 1 (29:40):
What would he have said, He's at a bar all
night talking to a woman.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
So after the game with his friends all night?

Speaker 5 (29:51):
What what?

Speaker 2 (29:54):
Why would you say all night? I was talking to
this woman. That's the dumbest thing.

Speaker 1 (30:02):
No, the dumbest thing was to do it. That was
the dumbest thing.

Speaker 7 (30:07):
But hey, double down on your dumb don't. I got
it was dumb talking to the woman. But the dumbest
thing was to go home and tell your wife you
was talking to the woman.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
Coming up at the top of the hour, thank you, sea,
Oh god, we'll have some entertainment news for you right.
Oh you're listening Harvey Morning Show. So, guys, as we
all know, there are people on social media that claim
to be therapists, and there's information that isn't always true. Right,

(30:48):
we all know this. So here are some of the claims.
These are the latest claims on social media, and we
want to know from you guys, are they true or not?
What do you think? All right? Number one, A Harvard
study finds that women who don't cook for their husbands
have happier marriages.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
That's a well I can tell you right now. We
can ask somebody on this show.

Speaker 1 (31:19):
Well, when it was good, it was good, and I didn't.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
Ye see see you and you ain't got to go
to the fellas.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
I agree with this wholeheartedly. Yes, I agree with you.
Try it. Let's try it.

Speaker 5 (31:39):
Well.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
Cook study show women who don't cook for their husbands
have sure marriages.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
Okay, now let's just go I don't really don't cook
for her husband?

Speaker 1 (31:52):
No married?

Speaker 3 (31:56):
Okay, I was.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
I was very happy.

Speaker 2 (32:07):
Right now.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
Let's move on with the research.

Speaker 2 (32:12):
I agree with you that right now.

Speaker 1 (32:16):
Okay, So what's the research shows that people who constantly
hate on everyone and everything haters are high i Q individuals.
They have very high IQs. I don't know about that.

Speaker 7 (32:32):
Well, you know, you gotta if you take a lot
of time to hate, it really does and you got
to research it, especially if you're going to be a
high i Q hater. You got to research who you
hate and have information. You see it on podcasts all
the time. Don't they sound very intelligent to you? Yeah,

(32:52):
sitting up there just be lying. Oh they seem high
i Q. Still a hater though, Okay, all right, okay,
so what's the answer.

Speaker 3 (33:02):
I'm confused? Did we get the results?

Speaker 2 (33:04):
Is there answer?

Speaker 5 (33:06):
No?

Speaker 1 (33:06):
This is what the research. Yeah, it's for you to
determine whether you agree with it or you don't, Whether
it's true or false?

Speaker 2 (33:15):
What happened?

Speaker 1 (33:16):
Research shows that.

Speaker 7 (33:18):
People it's but it's actually a double canadra because if
you so high, iq, why are you a hater?

Speaker 2 (33:27):
Exactly?

Speaker 1 (33:28):
Uh huh exactly?

Speaker 3 (33:30):
Sorry jealousy thing?

Speaker 8 (33:31):
Right?

Speaker 2 (33:33):
Absolutely?

Speaker 1 (33:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (33:36):
Yeah, because I always remember this or not, you will
never have a hater that's doing better than.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
You, right, you always say that, you say that, all right,
here we go. Research has confirmed that men men find
women more attractive when they wear less makeup. True or false?
You guys like it?

Speaker 2 (33:56):
Well, I thought you was going to say less clothes.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
We know the answer to that one. Let's make up?
What do you guys think? Because there is a such
thing as too much? Right, there's a.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
Such thing as too much? Yes? Too? Yeah, it looked
like a mannequin, you know, we know that in the
long eyelashes.

Speaker 1 (34:20):
The lashes. Yeah, I know you're gonna say the lashes. Yeah,
so you would kind of agree with this one. You
agree with this one, let's make up. Women are more
attractive with let's make up.

Speaker 2 (34:31):
Basically, well, it helps if you don't need as much.

Speaker 7 (34:37):
Okay, barely made up and you still attracted, best not
need the makeup?

Speaker 2 (34:44):
Please please put it.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
By all means get down there to the department and
stock up. Yes, all right, this is one. I want
to hear what you guys think about this one. Re
has confirmed that husbands who listen to their wife's advice
are the most successful men on earth.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Absolutely that.

Speaker 7 (35:13):
You can't listen to everything they say, not everything, the
majority of stuff, the majority of stuff, man, especially if
you've got a good wife. She's very smart. But yet
some of the stuff gets emotional. You can't let that
into the mix.

Speaker 1 (35:28):
Okay, all right, junior, junior.

Speaker 9 (35:30):
Well, my wife has book smarts. She don't have the
sports that I have to survive out here in the street.
She don't know, you know, she'll want to know, Like
she see something going on, she feels like she has
to go over there and say something.

Speaker 2 (35:41):
If you don't bring your behind.

Speaker 9 (35:42):
Back over here and sit down, that is not our business.
That's not something we should be able to talk about it.
You heard the man, he said what he said. Lead
that man alone. I'm gonna go ask him.

Speaker 2 (35:52):
Go ask him. Okay, go ask him.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
So you're telling her to stay, she wants to go
fix everybody. Quit nursing today. She's a PhD. Yeah, quit nursing, Tommy,
is this true?

Speaker 10 (36:11):
I listen to everything my wife says. Everything she says
is one hundred truth. I take Yeah, my wife is
in control.

Speaker 2 (36:17):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (36:18):
That sounds said, and.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
I can say it again. I can tell you that.

Speaker 7 (36:27):
All right, you find a good wife. The Bible says
a man who finds a wife finds a good.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
Thing and favor with the Lord.

Speaker 7 (36:36):
Yeah, this is what I always say. You could be
successful without a woman, then you'll never be great without one.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
Yeah you do say that.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
Yep, it's hard to become great without a woman. It
really is. They bring. They bring way too much. Yeah,
it could be the head, but she and neck.

Speaker 1 (36:59):
Mm hmm, gotta have a neck.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Try to try to operate without the name. Oh, trust me.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
All right, guys, thank you. Coming up at twenty minutes
after the hour, the famous Versus battle is back and
it will be in Vegas later this month. We'll talk
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(37:53):
dot com. Okay, So after a long hiatus, the versus
battle is coming back later this month. It'll be here
on October twenty fifth. It'll be in Las Vegas with
Cash Money records. Get this guy's cash Money versus No
Limit records. Cash Money has the artists, of course, like
Lil Wayne, Juvenile, Hot Boys, Drake, and Nicki Minaj. No

(38:16):
Limit has the pioneer Master p, Mystical Silk, the Shaker
mia X, and the late Soldier Slim. Social media is
anticipating this versus very much and they're betting on Cash
Money records to win this one. What do you guys think, Well,
Mystical I'm not gonna be there, right, He's a little

(38:37):
tied up at the moment.

Speaker 2 (38:39):
I ain't going to Vegas that weekend.

Speaker 6 (38:44):
So cash Money No Limit, I mean that's a big
I'm living in New Orleans, that's a big.

Speaker 8 (38:51):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (38:51):
Yeah, that's a big thing. That's a big referree and
it's a.

Speaker 6 (38:54):
Lot of hits on each side to see it in person.
So they haven't said who's I don't think. I've been
looking to see if they're saying who's going to represent? Yeah,
who's performing for each label, to see.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Who'll be there?

Speaker 5 (39:09):
What.

Speaker 7 (39:10):
I absolutely love Masterp and Baby them two dudes. Man
just been legitimate. They've been legitimate Me and the whole ride. Yeah,
I ain't got nothing bad said both them. Catches just

(39:30):
authentic men boss authentic game, no game, not a game.

Speaker 5 (39:42):
You're right.

Speaker 1 (39:43):
So if you had to though, if you had to choose,
who would you put your money on in Vegas?

Speaker 2 (39:50):
Well, I'll tell you about the number of hits.

Speaker 7 (39:53):
Cash money yeah number one Stunnard, they got the hits,
but uh, cash money Lil.

Speaker 10 (40:00):
Wayne taking over for the nine that master P has
been the safer.

Speaker 1 (40:08):
Money might Well we'll see.

Speaker 2 (40:12):
You know what, I'm really not a rap expert, you know.
If you was in here talking about everyone and fine
old Jade, I got some conversation.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
I don't really I mean, I love I love yeah, no, no, no, no, yeah.

Speaker 9 (40:28):
A lot of that make them say you got that down,
it's gonna be a lot of that.

Speaker 2 (40:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
Yeah, it's gonna be a lot of New Orleans and
this is it's gonna be a lot of woe.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
It's gonna be a lot of wodies in here.

Speaker 9 (40:38):
Yeah, there's gonna be a lot of humbers Humber.

Speaker 1 (40:41):
It's gonna be a lot. Well, I tell you this though, Junior.

Speaker 6 (40:44):
When they hit that note, when Juveie can get on
stage and hit that note back that thing very female
to the day, Yeah, yeah, that's gonna be the one
right there, Juv.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
All right, guys, well we'll see October twenty fifth in
Vegas coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour's
sister Odell is dropping by right after this.

Speaker 5 (41:11):
Big snop dog.

Speaker 3 (41:12):
Good morning, everybody.

Speaker 6 (41:13):
This is Keisha Coole and you're listening to the baddest
radio show in the land, the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (41:19):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, as promised, she
is here looking over her glasses as usual, the morning comes.
Good morning's everyone, Oh, good morning, good morning.

Speaker 2 (41:41):
Got to keep it short. My time is limited. So
you know what is we talking about?

Speaker 1 (41:47):
Well, Cam Newton, you know, former NFL player Cam Newton.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
The boy with your hair stick off off your hat.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
Yes, ma'am, the very one. Yes. He just had his
nine child with his girlfriend. This makes the second child
with his current girlfriend, and he has seven other children
from previous relationships. Sister Odell mm hmm. Yeah, So I
want to know has he surpassed you as far as

(42:17):
children and and all of that, and has he.

Speaker 7 (42:21):
Well, you know the thing you need to be asking,
what is these women's all these kids? Ain't nobody married nobody?

Speaker 1 (42:29):
Yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am you you did marry your husband.

Speaker 5 (42:33):
You know.

Speaker 7 (42:34):
I heard him on the owner on the casting pod
say that he didn't he didn't want to be married
because the.

Speaker 3 (42:39):
Worst on the podcast, Sister Odell, She said, casting you
mean podcasts.

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Well, sweet, it was broadcasted and he was in the pod.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
Anyway, say correct, he was on there.

Speaker 2 (42:58):
Talking about it. He didn't think that.

Speaker 7 (43:00):
He thought it was just that there was a relationships
mess up relationships.

Speaker 2 (43:05):
That's why he didn't feel the need to marry nobody.
But family is important.

Speaker 7 (43:10):
It's important for children to to to see their mamas
and their daddies.

Speaker 2 (43:15):
That's important.

Speaker 3 (43:16):
If they can, yes, you always can.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
If everybody do what they posted to do. What you mean,
if they can.

Speaker 7 (43:26):
You know, if he at the house, if he ain't
locked up, swang by, pick him up, spend some.

Speaker 2 (43:31):
Time with it.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
Okay, all right, that's what family is.

Speaker 2 (43:37):
We just stop talking about family. Here doing what they
want to do.

Speaker 1 (43:43):
Yeah, he wants that obviously without the benefit of marriage.

Speaker 2 (43:48):
He wants want Sweenie, he wants a family.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
Cisterdell.

Speaker 7 (43:53):
Families get married, has the same name, gives the babies
this name and his present. That's what family is. Quit
trying to make up all these new fraangal definitions of family.
Family stay together, Families live in the same house. That's
what families is, Yes, ma'am, that's right now.

Speaker 2 (44:14):
If you break it, if you ain't live in the
same house, you ain't really a family, is.

Speaker 5 (44:20):
Man?

Speaker 1 (44:20):
You just over then?

Speaker 2 (44:21):
And I'm over here?

Speaker 1 (44:22):
What what you wanna call that?

Speaker 5 (44:26):
Well?

Speaker 1 (44:26):
Why do you think that is?

Speaker 2 (44:28):
Though?

Speaker 7 (44:28):
I mean, cause these new y'all sitting up in here
inviting all this new stuff into your life like you're stupid.
Everybody wants to belong to somebody. Quit acting like you don't, sweetie.

Speaker 6 (44:43):
Do you think since there are the all these women
sometimes you're settled for this kind of behavior.

Speaker 7 (44:50):
You know they always do because they let some food
man talk them into it. Now you over here choke
eating yourself, acting like you cool with it when you
know you hate hard and raise these kids by yourself.
You donna let him all up in your underwear. Now
he gone back over there. Don't get him in your
underwear if he ain't gonna be up number but over there.

Speaker 2 (45:11):
If you're gonna be over there, you don't get in
the underwear.

Speaker 1 (45:15):
Hello, all right, okay, okay, word, Yeah, he's right marriage basically.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
Well you know or whatever whatever. When did he become
the benchmark?

Speaker 7 (45:32):
What is we talking about him? Bench maark, He's not
the one. He's not the example of what you want.

Speaker 1 (45:42):
That's right. Yeah. So what children do you have?

Speaker 2 (45:45):
Sister?

Speaker 1 (45:46):
Tell six?

Speaker 3 (45:48):
How many dads I had?

Speaker 2 (45:50):
Two by each one, each one of them don't get
no child supported at all, just all of them. Oh sorry,
that's a sorry man, make a baby your dad sorry if.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
You want, not his fault. Thank you, sister, Hotel, we
gotta go. Coming up next, it is the nephew and
the prank phone call for today. Right after this, you're
listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

(46:23):
about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter
for today and the subject is he wants to be
seen but not heard. We'll get into it find out
what that's all about in just a few because right
now it is time for the Nephew and today's prank
phone call. Nephew, what do you have today? Cold phone cone?

Speaker 2 (46:43):
Falls?

Speaker 10 (46:45):
This right here is Girl Scout Cookies, Girl Scout Cookies.

Speaker 2 (46:49):
All right, Hey, what's what's what's what's your flavor?

Speaker 5 (46:54):
That?

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Sir? Peanut butter?

Speaker 2 (46:58):
Peanut butter?

Speaker 8 (46:59):
Man?

Speaker 2 (47:00):
Girls'say?

Speaker 5 (47:03):
Hell? Hell? Who is it?

Speaker 2 (47:07):
What are you doing?

Speaker 5 (47:07):
Man? My name is Glenn Man. I'm working working building
to you work for Snedia?

Speaker 1 (47:12):
Right?

Speaker 5 (47:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (47:13):
What what's what's on?

Speaker 5 (47:15):
So we've probably met a couple of times? Uh? Do
you have a girl? You have a girlfriend? Uh? Why
what's up you guys? You guys live together? Or or what?
What is this your business?

Speaker 2 (47:28):
Like?

Speaker 5 (47:28):
What?

Speaker 1 (47:29):
What?

Speaker 11 (47:29):
What's what's what's the deal?

Speaker 12 (47:30):
What's what's why are you asking.

Speaker 5 (47:31):
About my girl?

Speaker 1 (47:32):
Well?

Speaker 5 (47:32):
Let me ask you this here? What's what's what's going
on with you? And at the job? What what do
you what do you mean what's like like, I mean,
you know you know, right, I mean, so what like.

Speaker 12 (47:46):
What what's what's the deal?

Speaker 5 (47:47):
What? What?

Speaker 12 (47:47):
Who are you like? Who? Who are you like?

Speaker 5 (47:50):
What?

Speaker 13 (47:50):
What's what's the what is this for?

Speaker 5 (47:52):
Like? Why you like?

Speaker 12 (47:54):
I don't even know you?

Speaker 5 (47:55):
Right? It? Just time down, bro, just tund down. Like
I said, my name is Paying. I work at gill
Or two, you know, And I know I'm just telling
you now. I know you that, I know what you're doing. Okay,
I know what you're doing at the job. I already
know that. A couple other people know what's going on.
And I know you got a girl. I know you
got a girl at home. I know that. What so what? What? What?

Speaker 13 (48:19):
What the what?

Speaker 2 (48:20):
What is this about?

Speaker 5 (48:21):
Like?

Speaker 12 (48:21):
Why why do you call my polk trying to harass
me about the boat?

Speaker 5 (48:25):
Like?

Speaker 12 (48:25):
Who are you?

Speaker 5 (48:26):
Like? What? What? What is your problem? Like? Hey man, hey, hey,
come down man. I finished, I ain't trying to tell
you a little secret or nothing like that. I ain't
trying to do that all right, but but but I'm
gonna be real with you, okay, Like I said, you know,
I got one of your names. I got your number
from one of coworkers Okay, I got your number, I said,
I want to I want to give the car and

(48:47):
even talk to him about something. That's how I got
your number. So yeah, who gave it to it? We'll
get to that later. Okay, we'll get to that later.
But let me but let me say this though. I
know what's going on with you to the job, all right,
and I say nothing about it. You know, that's just
our a little secret or whatever. But I do have
something that I want you to do. Though.

Speaker 12 (49:06):
What do you want?

Speaker 5 (49:06):
Dude?

Speaker 12 (49:07):
What what do you want? You call me bugging me
about all this book? Like, what do you want?

Speaker 5 (49:12):
What do you want? Here? It is? Man, Listen, I
ain't gonna say letting them out what you got going on?

Speaker 2 (49:17):
All right?

Speaker 5 (49:17):
That ain't that ain't even I don't even care about that.
But here here's what I do want you to do.
I do need some help from you, all right. Listen.
My little girl is selling girls Scout cookies and I
want you to buy fifty boxes of them, all right,
will be a cash out because she gotta have them
sold by tomorrow morning.

Speaker 12 (49:36):
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 5 (49:38):
Bro? You?

Speaker 12 (49:39):
Okay, so you on some black man's book and listen,
who to give you my number because you want to.

Speaker 13 (49:46):
Call me ask me to buy them some cookies, and
you should have just been a man and ask me
about it, like, don't be calling my phone trying to
give me that book, like come on, man, like I
ain't got no time.

Speaker 5 (49:59):
For this, Like, all I'm asking you to do is
buy some cookies. Man, that's it, you know what I'm saying.
I just I'm just saying I do want you to
buy some cookie I need you to buy fifty box
little girls got cookies? Can you do that? No?

Speaker 12 (50:11):
No, no, no no no no no no, no no no.

Speaker 13 (50:13):
You ain't gonna call and try to manipulate me and
defying like you're you're talking trying to make me fight.
So I ain't got you nothing for you disrespecting me,
calling my phone, trying to act like you like just
trying to manipulate.

Speaker 12 (50:29):
I ain't down with that, bro, I ain't.

Speaker 5 (50:30):
Don't. Let me just say you you don't want to
buy my cookies though, So do you want me to
call you your girl and shit ship, I'm my cookies.

Speaker 12 (50:39):
Tell you not to say the wait for my throat, man, like,
don't don't come near her. Okay, you don't call her, you'll.

Speaker 5 (50:45):
Come near her. Don't come near me. You just get
to get the guy here.

Speaker 12 (50:48):
I'm about to start sixty ninety.

Speaker 13 (50:50):
Figure out who you are, and come right after you, man,
like cause I ain't playing bro, I ain't.

Speaker 5 (50:55):
I'm gonna tell you what, man, I ain't gonna argue
with you. I ain't wanna argue with you. But I'll
get off the phone right now. I'll get off right now,
and I'm gonna say that real girl. I'm gonna call
your girl and see if you want to buy some cookies.

Speaker 12 (51:08):
No, no, no, no no, you ain't call nobody.

Speaker 5 (51:11):
You just get you get I say to god, I'm
gonna find out who you are. I'm gonna find out
who gave you that number.

Speaker 12 (51:17):
I'm gonna call you up like yo, you'll.

Speaker 5 (51:19):
Call me trying to hurt up me. Okay, hey man, hey, hey,
you know what a cool we're still talking about it?
All right, I'm gonna get that right on like so
so so I'll get off the phone like you want
me to age. I'll do that. But let me let
me ask you this though. Let me ask you this though.
You sure you want me to call you? Sure you
want me to do that right, and it never her name.

Speaker 13 (51:43):
Man, you something individuals, all right, Look how much of
these cookies?

Speaker 12 (51:48):
How much you want?

Speaker 5 (51:49):
And then Tommy told me you would buy the cookies. Tommy, Yeah,
Tommy told me you would buy the cookies. I mean,
hey man, hey man, check it out. This is nephew
tied me from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. Your coworking
got me to pray punk. Oh yeah, Oh my god,

(52:15):
I'm gonna kill him. So, oh god, listen, so listen, Adrian.

Speaker 2 (52:24):
We have beat.

Speaker 5 (52:24):
We have beat all the names, so nobody knows the
things at all. Okay, you're good, bro, You're good.

Speaker 10 (52:31):
Alight man, and I.

Speaker 5 (52:34):
You got me? Oh god, I'm I'm gonna go.

Speaker 12 (52:39):
I'm gonna take an man.

Speaker 5 (52:40):
I just he's up all my n and see I'm done.
Oh god, Like, hey, what you go? I am going out?

Speaker 12 (52:52):
You up?

Speaker 6 (52:52):
Man?

Speaker 12 (52:53):
I can't believe he got.

Speaker 5 (52:54):
Me on this for real? Tell me this man, one
more thing before you go age. What's the badest I mean,
the baddest radio show in the land.

Speaker 12 (53:04):
The Steve Harvey Morton Show Man, which is what he
got played every morning.

Speaker 5 (53:11):
Chill me, bro, thank you.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
For the I'm not with the girls. Scouts with the
girl scouts.

Speaker 2 (53:24):
Yeah, big up to all the girl scouts out there.

Speaker 1 (53:27):
Yeah, big up girlout, girl Scouts, girls scouts.

Speaker 2 (53:31):
Big up to all the scouts. I wasn't a boy scout.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
I was not you, Steve.

Speaker 7 (53:38):
I was a Cub scout. But we didn't have boys
scouts cause we was Cub scouts. We was thirteen. We
was the biggest Cub scout.

Speaker 5 (53:48):
We was.

Speaker 2 (53:51):
Pat six twenty three.

Speaker 1 (53:52):
We was gates.

Speaker 7 (53:55):
They took us to the baseball game. We was jumping
on the other club scouts and boy scouts. How tell
were you at thirteen about Timmy at junior's.

Speaker 1 (54:05):
Heighth Sorry, guys, I didn't expect that, No, for.

Speaker 2 (54:12):
Real, I was.

Speaker 7 (54:15):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
You always setting us up sull like I was in
high school.

Speaker 7 (54:20):
I was in junior high. I was they heph in
junior high. In high school, I was six feet tall.

Speaker 1 (54:25):
Wow, already I graduated high school in.

Speaker 2 (54:28):
At six one. I went to college and grew another inch.
I was six too. Let's stop talking about height, because
they came in.

Speaker 7 (54:36):
How we got on, Yes, it's sherrity, scruffory. I know
exactly how we got on. What it was junior high.
They asked me when the last time I was y'all's high.
That was about thirteen.

Speaker 1 (54:46):
Yeah, Steve actually brought it up when I asked I
was dunking.

Speaker 5 (54:51):
I was.

Speaker 2 (54:51):
I started dunking when I was sixteen. Something else. Y'all
don't know nothing about it. He just on the subject
that day came. He's talking. Yeah, it's been. They never
had any of this right here.

Speaker 1 (55:10):
It is something though, when your kids grow taller than you,
it is something more.

Speaker 2 (55:15):
Definitely, I've never had that happen. I wouldn't know what
that is. Oh, I know what it is. No, ain't.
None of my key is taller than me. Went and
getting up there, but he ain't. He's not tolerant. He
ain't got no wa all right, and he's scared of
me too, So all right.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
Coming up next it is my Strawberry letter and the
subject is he wants to be seen but not heard.
We'll get into that right after this. Hey everyone, quick
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All right, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And
if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting
and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM
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and you never know, it could be yours.

Speaker 9 (56:40):
Never know, Ladies and Gentlemen's time for the Strawberry Letter.
My good friend Shirley Strawberberry.

Speaker 1 (56:45):
Thank you, junior. Subject he wants to be seen but
not heard. Dear Stephen, Shirley, My husband and I are
thirty four and we've been together for nine years and
married for three years. The only reason we are married
is because I gave him an ultimatum after six years
of dating. We needed to move this thing forward or
I was gone. He always had been very full of himself,

(57:09):
and the women and his family made him think he
was God's gift to the earth because he has eyes
that change color, and he's tall and very handsome. He's
a natural flirt and I tolerate it because I know
that if he ever left me, the woman would send
him right back to me. Here's the problem. He's not
a manly man outside of the bedroom. He can really

(57:32):
show out in that bedroom, but after that, he's like
having a child. All he cares about is getting the
latest trendy clothes, getting the newest watchers or sneakers, and
keeping his car clean and shiny outside looking in. He's
got his stuff together, but boy, oh boy, is he trifling.
He's got a great job and he's in a leadership position,

(57:53):
but his manager talks to him like a child and
doesn't allow him to speak up and make his opinions known.
His manager is even told him that he's not paid
to think.

Speaker 5 (58:02):
You know.

Speaker 1 (58:03):
As soon as I heard that, I wanted to call
his job and speak to his manager, but I had
to realize he's my husband and not my son. I
want him to focus less on how clean he is
when he goes to work and more on how he
represents himself when he is at work. The same thing
goes for our marriage. I need him over our finances,

(58:24):
upkeep of the house, maintenance of our vehicles, all the
manly stuff in a marriage. He'd rather be seen than
heard in every aspect of his life. It's been nine years,
and I'm done enabling him. Should I keep planning a
life with this man? Or let this one go? Well,
it's funny you should ask that because you know you
gave him an ultimatum to marry you, and you knew

(58:47):
all this stuff before you married him. Did you really
want to marry this guy? Because it doesn't even seem
like it. You should be asking yourself, why are you
acting like your husband's mother instead of his wife. Why
are you so critical of him? If he's as trifling
and as bad as you say he is, I don't
understand why you married him in the first place. Again,

(59:09):
these are the questions you should be asking yourself. You've
known him for a very long time, nine years. You
said he didn't just get like this. He's been like
this all along. Another question for you, why are you
trying to change him now? Could it be you're trying
to make him how you want him to be. For instance,
as far as the household chores go, you want him

(59:32):
to take over the finances. But what if he knows
nothing about finances. You want him to upkeep the house.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
Is he a handyman.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
If that's not going to happen, get a proper handyman
to do that kind of work. If he's not a
mechanic and you want more than just gas and car washes,
that's not going to happen either. I think you need
to manage your expectations of this man you married, and
you knew all about before you married him. You're his wife,

(01:00:02):
not his mother.

Speaker 3 (01:00:03):
Again.

Speaker 1 (01:00:04):
You can't be calling up to his job checking his
boss because of the way he said his boss spoke
to him. That's for him to do. You said he
was a leader, right, You said that in your letter,
that your husband is a leader. Well let him lead.
It sounds like you wanted desperately to marry him, you know,
thinking he would change. He didn't change. He's the same

(01:00:25):
man you dated for six years and now you're realizing
who he really is, and that doesn't seem to be
good enough for you. I would just love to hear
his side of the story, and one thing he would
probably say about you is that your boss Steve among
other things.

Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
Well, you know, good answer, Shirley, I don't. It's a waste.
He wants to be seen and not heard.

Speaker 7 (01:00:53):
Let's go y know both, y'all thirty four, you've been
together nine years, married for three and then you say
you begave him, ultimated him and eventually he marriage it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:01):
That's how you got him. Okay after six years.

Speaker 7 (01:01:05):
Then you tell me that he's very full of himself
and the women in his family made him think he
was he was God's gift to the earth because he
has eyes that change color. Well, how bout my grandson
to transformer one time and it do the same thing.

(01:01:25):
Transform My eyes turned red sometimes sometime they blue, you know,
but it ain't the best toy he got. Now, you
got a man that got his eyes that can change color,
and you ain't got the best man they got either.
He's tall and very handsome. Okay, so you just got
a little cute on him. The eyes is changing colors.

(01:01:50):
That means he light skin. God skinned people eyes don't
change colors. I'm telling you to be too shocked. You
roll dating little yell at boy out because his little
eyes can change. Because the dogs kill people, eyes stay
the same. So we know what dog chocolate man. I'm
telling you, Shereley, do kill people's eyes don't change color.

(01:02:12):
It'll be too much. You shouldn't have been here having
coffee with some fine dogskin chicken in her eyes change color.
You gotta get him out of here, that posy guy,
that polic guy. She fits to be stepping out your
TV when you get home.

Speaker 2 (01:02:29):
You need to get your out of this.

Speaker 7 (01:02:31):
Yeah, he's a natural flirt and not tolerated because I
know if he ever left me, the woman was sending
him right back to me. Oh so you got somebody
don't nobody won't, but you would just let it go
into hell. Right here, here's the problem. And we're gonna
get to this when.

Speaker 2 (01:02:45):
I come back.

Speaker 7 (01:02:46):
He's not a manly man outside the bedroom. What oh
hell no, we come back.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
All right, old done? Yeah, Hang on, Steve, we'll have
part two of your response to today's Strawberry letter at
twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject he wants
to be seen but not hers. We'll get back into
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Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject
is he wants to be seen but not heard.

Speaker 2 (01:04:25):
So this woman got this man that don't nobody else
won't seem like to me.

Speaker 7 (01:04:29):
They've been together nine years. She forced him to marry him,
but an ultimatum and everything. And then you know, he
thinks he God's gift cause his eyes change colors. Like
I said, I bought my grandson a transformer, do the
same thing, just cause his eyes changed color. Then we
come to the conclusion that he must be a little

(01:04:50):
light skined boy, little yellow bluffer darsky. And people eyes
do not change colors. It'll be too much. It'll just
be shot. Over there sipping your coffee. She looking over
the hedge and the mug, and all of a sudden
her eyes go green. You got to get the hell
out of here, because, like I said, the poet, the guy,
you got to get the hell out of here.

Speaker 1 (01:05:11):
She possessed.

Speaker 7 (01:05:14):
And now he's a natural flirt, not tolerated because I
know if he ever left me, the women were sending
him right back to me. So now you got somebody
don't nobody won't but you. We left off right here.
Here's the problem.

Speaker 2 (01:05:25):
He's not a manly man outside the bedroom.

Speaker 7 (01:05:28):
Oh boy, you got a man that ain't side and
that ain't a man outside the bedroom.

Speaker 2 (01:05:35):
So now you just got a big old, a big
old uh what they call it? A man child? You
got a man child.

Speaker 7 (01:05:45):
Yeah, he a man in the bedroom and he baby
hughet out the bedroom. Just got a dipole, look like
this egg with a dipole. You hit that big giant
duck named baby Hugh. But he a man child in
the bedroom. He can show out in that bedroom. But
after that, it's like having a child who want that?

(01:06:06):
After why, you're gonna understand that you're letting the baby
climb on you.

Speaker 2 (01:06:09):
That's what you're gonna realize in a minute.

Speaker 7 (01:06:12):
See right now that the man child parties being but
then his baby hue outside. After a while, you're gonna realize,
is baby Hwei that you're making love to.

Speaker 2 (01:06:22):
Take your dive off.

Speaker 7 (01:06:23):
Baby, come on in here and lay down there, clean yourself,
or you can come in. That's what it's gonna start
getting to. All he cares about is getting the latest
trendy clothes, getting the newest watchers or sneakers, and keeping
his car clean and shine outside looking in. He got
his stuff together a boy or boy, he's trifling, He's
got a great job, and he's in a leadership position.

Speaker 2 (01:06:44):
Now listen to this right here.

Speaker 7 (01:06:46):
But his matter talks to him like a child and
don't allow him to speak up and make his opinions known.
His manager has even told him that he's not paid
the thing. You know, as soon as I heard that,
I wanted to call this job and speak to his management.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
Okay, so let me get this tress.

Speaker 7 (01:07:00):
So now everybody know who he is, and everybody knows
who and what they're dealing with, even you. So now
your boss know who he is, the coworkers know who
he is, and you know who he is. But you're
the only one stuck with it. But I had to realize,
he's my husband and not my son. Why do you

(01:07:21):
even have to say that, Yeah, he's my husband, not
my son. I want him to focus less on how
clean he is when he goes to work, on more
how he represents himself when he's at work, and the
same thing going for our man. And that surely made
a good point him. I need him over our finances.
Suppose he don't know nothing about financial, upkeep of the house.

(01:07:44):
He probably knows something about that, because you know about
upkeeper himself, maintenance of our vehicle, all the manly stuff
in the marriage, y'all. Keep you keep asking this boy
to be a man when he ain't. He's a man child.
He's baby hearing he the bigger with the diaper on.
Stop saying that he is. When she married him, he

(01:08:07):
baby Hewett. Look up to the old cartoon baby Hewet,
a big duck with the big lips. Put that diaper on,
big lipp He'd rather be seen than heard in every
aspect of his life. He's been nine years and I'm
done enabling him. Should I be planning a life with
this man?

Speaker 2 (01:08:26):
Or let this one go?

Speaker 5 (01:08:27):
Now?

Speaker 7 (01:08:27):
I think the bigger question is is he planning a
life with you? You forced him in the marriage. Of
course he did it because he a little boy. Mama
say I got you mad, I got you married. So
now after Boston told him shut up, he ain't paid
the thing, he shut up. He out there washing his
car right now, putting some new sneakers on. He cleaned

(01:08:49):
his hair, and he go to my eyes if and
he changed.

Speaker 1 (01:08:52):
Again to his son.

Speaker 7 (01:08:55):
What does each color mean, he's sunny outside. See like
if it's daytime, he son his eyes as a blue
turn into a blue denner to get into the evening.
They turned both great. He just he's a good Then
when we get through in the morning, I got to
wash him and brush his teeth so he can get it.

(01:09:16):
And then he gonna go down there and try to leave.
You better sit out and old me up before you
go to work, and each your finish show owe me
before you go to work. And then he can climb sometime.
Then he gonna run out of the house and get
into the get your back pack. He gonna leave all
his stuff at work. And then I got to see
him all right here. And then I got to go
out there and set his GPS so he don't get

(01:09:36):
lost on his way to work, you know. And then
he go down there to the work. And then he
climbed out the car smelling all good and wouldn't be gonna.
I liked him, but three women that send us back
to the house. And then Boston told him he can't
make decisions on his job. Lady, you want to quit
enabling him.

Speaker 1 (01:09:50):
Stop all right. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letters.

Speaker 2 (01:09:56):
You better know about baby Hughey'll get you some DAFTI
dup get you.

Speaker 1 (01:10:00):
Strawberry Letter VI podcast. Strawberry Letter Podcast on demand. Coming
up next, it is Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone,
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(01:10:23):
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(01:10:46):
Junior and Sports Talk.

Speaker 3 (01:10:48):
Where you got Junior?

Speaker 2 (01:10:49):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (01:10:50):
Shurely?

Speaker 9 (01:10:50):
Before I do that, though, let me let Central Georgia
Technical College. No, we're coming down there on October twenty fifth,
this Saturday, but a home coming. I'll be hosting the
comedy show Man along with some other acts. Man, It's
gonna be great. Rodny Jordan on the show, Carl Payne
on the show Tommy Man. Yeah, man, Carl Payne doing
the show cold for Martin.

Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
Okay, so it's gonna be a Central Georgia Technical College.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
Man, see y'all Saturday, All right, let's go get this
some sports. Hey, here we go.

Speaker 9 (01:11:17):
We got Monday Night football. I kind of like the
NFL give us two games on Monday night. We get
a lot of football on Monday Night. And here we
had the lineup, the Buccaneers and the Detroit Lions. Now,
I said, I know it's gonna be tough for you.
I know it's gonna be tough for you. I'm going
with Detroit all the way through.

Speaker 2 (01:11:39):
Now Troit.

Speaker 7 (01:11:39):
Detroit got some injuries in that backfield. That's gonna be hard.
But okay, and Baking them playing good ball?

Speaker 2 (01:11:48):
Baker?

Speaker 9 (01:11:49):
Man, did you hear they want Baker to be Baker
to be m v P right now? Like they said,
he's like the MVP right now for the first half
of the season.

Speaker 2 (01:11:55):
Yeah. Hell and and and why would I care about that?

Speaker 1 (01:11:59):
Because I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:11:59):
He's be a Brian Yall let him go. Y'all had
no faith in him? Oh oh, y'all got a quarterback problem?

Speaker 10 (01:12:07):
Man?

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
What started with Johnny Minziel. Where he come? What happened
to him? Where is he? Canada? Lord Mesa?

Speaker 3 (01:12:20):
Oh wow, okay, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:12:23):
In our second game of the night.

Speaker 2 (01:12:24):
Here we go. Man, we're back, Tommy.

Speaker 9 (01:12:26):
We're coming off the bid week the Texans at the
Seahawks were then win.

Speaker 2 (01:12:31):
That's a win right there. Put us down for that one. Okay, Yeah,
you know the Seahawks beat uh Jaguars last week?

Speaker 5 (01:12:41):
They did?

Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
They didn't.

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
We're not jack, No, we're not doing you better be
a tex Yeah, we don't even.

Speaker 2 (01:12:49):
Yeah, we're different. Were very.

Speaker 5 (01:12:53):
Well.

Speaker 7 (01:12:53):
I'm gonna go with y'all on this one then, but
I know not to Oh nice cochay, y'all feed to
be so hurt, but I'm gonna.

Speaker 3 (01:13:02):
Zero.

Speaker 1 (01:13:04):
We just can't, all right, just be a great team.
Why we just can't be there?

Speaker 2 (01:13:07):
On you're not a great team? What the hell? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:13:13):
Because we super Bowl?

Speaker 2 (01:13:15):
We super Bowl contenders. I don't know why you can
watch your record? What's your record? Two and three? Sound
like great team? You in by inch everything? Since you're
not gonna win the super Bowl with more losses than

(01:13:37):
you got wins, I just want to throw that out there.
That's not how it goes nobody and nobody. We're gonna
be three and.

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
Three after the night. All right, thank you, Junior. Coming
up at the top of the hour, man needs some advice.
He wants to enjoy his son's football games without his
annoying wife. His words, We'll get into it right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,

(01:14:06):
here we go. This is from Dre and Oaklawn. Dre says,
my son is on the football team and it's his
first year, so I go to every game. My high
school sweetheart is the dance team coordinator, and she still
has a great body like she did back in the day.
My wife knows that we used to date, and she
constantly asked me if I'm looking at her during the game.

(01:14:29):
It's so annoying. How do I get my wife to
stay at home so I can enjoy the football games
in peace?

Speaker 5 (01:14:38):
Sir?

Speaker 7 (01:14:39):
Well, bruh, are you trying to enjoy the football games
in peace? Or as you're looking upside the dancing struggle
because you ain't mentioned the football game. But she keeps
mentioning the lady that you dated in high school that
still has the banging body she had back in the day.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
Lord Lord, she fun.

Speaker 1 (01:15:07):
But he wants his wife to stay at home, so
he says he can.

Speaker 2 (01:15:10):
Enjoy watch the son play. Is this she's not watching
the boys, She watching him and her.

Speaker 1 (01:15:20):
She was watching her.

Speaker 2 (01:15:22):
Yeah, she don't even know what number that. She don't
even know what number her son is.

Speaker 1 (01:15:29):
When they get out on the field.

Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
Why she out there dancing like she on the team
while her pant is so tight?

Speaker 7 (01:15:39):
What is you looking over that way for Davante is
down there on the other end of the beach. You
ain't looked down there in his direction since we got here.

Speaker 1 (01:15:50):
So is the father going to every game because of
his son? Or you're saying he's going to every game.

Speaker 2 (01:15:55):
Well, he's going because of his son. But the bonus
is she'd have to Yeah, okay, it's a bonus. And
he looked, trust me.

Speaker 1 (01:16:05):
Yes, what does she have on? What does she have
a uniform?

Speaker 2 (01:16:09):
He got tights on?

Speaker 5 (01:16:10):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:16:11):
He got tights? Yes, she has yes, leiggas.

Speaker 7 (01:16:16):
She got them leggas on with them high top sneakers
and with them socks pushed down on them. And she
got a short crop top. But it's is a hoodie
liked but it's short to show her neighbor with.

Speaker 2 (01:16:28):
The school name looked like Flash Dance.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
Night.

Speaker 7 (01:16:38):
She she do cut the hoodie off so short, so
it's a crop top. You can't even see the name
of the school.

Speaker 2 (01:16:47):
She looked like fame calling.

Speaker 14 (01:16:53):
What was that movie Flash Dance Flash Yeah, weird science,
and and and and and she the coach, so she
doing the same moves that the girl's doing.

Speaker 2 (01:17:04):
She just in front of him.

Speaker 3 (01:17:05):
Yeah a count count ye yeah.

Speaker 15 (01:17:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:17:13):
And when she founds this different.

Speaker 1 (01:17:15):
But but does she feel the same way about him
as he feels about her.

Speaker 2 (01:17:20):
He don't look like that.

Speaker 7 (01:17:21):
I don't know, But he can't find out because his wife,
who is looking at him, nagging him.

Speaker 2 (01:17:28):
The wife knock him upside his head.

Speaker 1 (01:17:31):
Won two, three, four.

Speaker 2 (01:17:33):
There is no way going to that game.

Speaker 5 (01:17:39):
Game.

Speaker 2 (01:17:39):
He might as well take his boy off the team.

Speaker 3 (01:17:45):
Oh baby, can't play ball no more.

Speaker 1 (01:17:48):
That's great the parental.

Speaker 2 (01:17:51):
But take him off the team and put him on
the dance squad.

Speaker 1 (01:17:55):
So you have a reason to look over there, doing right, son.

Speaker 2 (01:18:03):
You don't want to be over there, you're doing great everything.

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
Wow, yeah, wife, you don't stay at home, don't do it.
Don't get sick.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
Girl, go to them.

Speaker 3 (01:18:22):
Guys.

Speaker 2 (01:18:22):
You can see what's happening right there.

Speaker 1 (01:18:26):
Yeah, yeah, wow, I tell you right now.

Speaker 2 (01:18:30):
Oh lord, have mersage, she said.

Speaker 1 (01:18:34):
If she looks the same, Yeah, all right, coming up
in twenty minutes after the hour, we will have more.

Speaker 2 (01:18:40):
She's standing next to him looking like a little football player.

Speaker 5 (01:18:43):
Hustle.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
You know what, you're this ignorant show. Right after this,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is
great news.

Speaker 3 (01:18:57):
The Arthur M.

Speaker 1 (01:18:58):
Blank Foundation has a now a fifty million dollar donation
to Atlanta's historically black colleges and universities in hopes of
closing financial aid gaps that prevent students from completing their degrees.
The money will support close to ten thousand students with
quote gap scholarships if they are approaching graduation they are

(01:19:18):
in good academic standing. The aim is to raise graduation
rates at Clark Atlanta University, Moorhouse College, Morris Brown College,
and Felman College. So fifty million dollars, so.

Speaker 2 (01:19:33):
You know that is a huge problem finances, Yeah for sure.

Speaker 3 (01:19:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:19:39):
A lot of these kids got good grades and they
just can't come up with the money to go back.

Speaker 1 (01:19:43):
Uh huh yeah, smart, Yeah, and they want to go
all of the above. Yep, you're right. Fifty million believable.
How much college is in this today.

Speaker 2 (01:19:54):
It's just in comparison what it used to be.

Speaker 3 (01:19:56):
I mean, are y'all closing our eyes and just prices.

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Just pulling something out of the air.

Speaker 9 (01:20:04):
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Speaker 1 (01:20:15):
Wow, fifty million dollars, ten thousand students will benefit algebra.

Speaker 2 (01:20:20):
That's good. That's good.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
Thank you, mister Blank.

Speaker 2 (01:20:22):
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Speaker 1 (01:20:25):
You're going to have to move, all right. We'll have
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Would you rather? Would you rather be able to see
through people's clothes or read their mind? Interesting?

Speaker 7 (01:21:23):
Yeah, I'd rather read their mind. Most people, you don't
need to see through their clothes.

Speaker 1 (01:21:29):
Why do you say that?

Speaker 7 (01:21:30):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (01:21:30):
Just the majority of people don't. You don't need to.

Speaker 10 (01:21:38):
Saying I can get further, I get more out of it. Okay,
that don't mean I wouldn't like to see through your clothes.

Speaker 1 (01:21:48):
Okay, all right. Finally the truth.

Speaker 10 (01:21:52):
I tried to buy them glasses when we were kids.
They used to have in the magazine told you you
could see through everything, and didn't do that thing.

Speaker 3 (01:21:58):
Nothing't like that you vision glasses.

Speaker 2 (01:22:02):
Yeah, they don't. They try to make you think you
can see there something you bottle. I bought about nine
and ten. I'm glass, my daddy. Where you you just?
Where'd you get the money from?

Speaker 5 (01:22:19):
Oh?

Speaker 16 (01:22:20):
No, I'm cutting yalls and everything. I bought your child's
at this muscle building kid who didn't work at all.

Speaker 3 (01:22:32):
You want your back.

Speaker 2 (01:22:36):
I've been down here twice and I don't see.

Speaker 1 (01:22:41):
Would you rather your stakes medium rare or medium? Well
this medium? Yeah, but I don't have medium, rare or medium?

Speaker 15 (01:22:49):
Well well then yeah rare still still on the whole. Yeah,
you're red for a rot waller.

Speaker 1 (01:23:01):
We don't want. Would you rather always get stopped by
red lights? Or you can't go over forty miles per hour?

Speaker 2 (01:23:11):
Car came? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:23:14):
Or you always get stopped by red.

Speaker 10 (01:23:16):
Light that you start to read lighting and I guess,
can I get up to forty the light? Yeah, you
go up to the city, but you're going ahead to
stop again?

Speaker 5 (01:23:27):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:23:34):
Would you rather have jury duty for a week or
be in diaper duty? Be on diaper duty for a week?
Jury duty or diaper duty?

Speaker 10 (01:23:41):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:23:41):
Jerry duty?

Speaker 5 (01:23:43):
Really?

Speaker 2 (01:23:44):
Really let me hit the case.

Speaker 1 (01:23:49):
Guilty not guilty. You don't want diaper duty?

Speaker 7 (01:23:56):
Now many were talking about I'm be on diaper duty
because work, because I'm not going to change.

Speaker 2 (01:24:02):
Them that much?

Speaker 1 (01:24:02):
No, how so, what do you mean that much?

Speaker 3 (01:24:05):
You have to change them as often as.

Speaker 2 (01:24:08):
By the time you figure that's now, what's gonna happen
with me? I'm gonna tell you that right now?

Speaker 5 (01:24:12):
What is that?

Speaker 3 (01:24:13):
Why are you holding back on when you're changing the diapers.

Speaker 2 (01:24:16):
Because I'm not opening up that I know. That's like
unleashing the cracking.

Speaker 1 (01:24:27):
That's today's round. Would you rather?

Speaker 5 (01:24:30):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
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Speaker 6 (01:25:40):
All right, Steve, how it's a new week, Monday. What
should do this past weekend? Did you hang with your grandkids?

Speaker 2 (01:25:47):
You know, I'm gonna have to work on that. I'm
not one of them grandparents, you know how grandparents? Dita.

Speaker 7 (01:25:51):
I just love being a grandparent. I don't really see
that the same way. Really sentiment, No, that big a
deal to me, I don't. It just reminds me of
when they was kids.

Speaker 1 (01:26:04):
The parent kids, your children, your children. Yeah, yeah it does.

Speaker 2 (01:26:09):
I didn't want to be your daddy.

Speaker 1 (01:26:11):
So Steve stopped saying stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (01:26:19):
Well, listen to me, I did it.

Speaker 7 (01:26:20):
I did a good job as a dad, great kids, Yeah,
my kids. I raised up some good kids, man. So,
but I don't like being a grandfather is just like.

Speaker 2 (01:26:32):
You know, I mean what it seemed like.

Speaker 1 (01:26:37):
And then you give the kids back to the parents
and you don't have to deal with them. You just
keep them for a little while.

Speaker 2 (01:26:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:26:43):
But see, even when you keep them with a little while,
because I didn't have patience for kids, then I sure
ain't got nothing. Stop and then you know my son's
kids is they don't eat seafood. They were vegan for
a while. Now they eat beef, a chicken. Now they
don't eat seafood. And and and he don't allow cussing

(01:27:04):
around his kids. I really don't know why are y'all
over here?

Speaker 5 (01:27:15):
Do you do that? Even though.

Speaker 2 (01:27:18):
I be trying not to.

Speaker 7 (01:27:20):
But if I tell you to do something, you don't
do it the first time because I don't, I don't,
And Margine stops me all the time, Steve, Steve, stop
cussing around. Because I was talking to my son and
the subject came up. His little boy, my grandson, Ezra
had picked up a lizard off the ground, a little

(01:27:41):
Salamon de lizard.

Speaker 2 (01:27:42):
Just picked him up.

Speaker 7 (01:27:44):
So yeah, okay, And then Jason come talking about put
that down. I went and put that down. I said, Man,
do you know how much stuff could Jason used to
bring home? Jason brought home a snake, a lizard off
of iguana off Eggs list, and the housekeeper, let me
tell you, he bought this big black iguana with the

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hood on it that opened up.

Speaker 2 (01:28:11):
But he had him in a cage upstairs in his
closet in his room.

Speaker 7 (01:28:15):
Oh, the housekeeper came downstairs screaming the alligator.

Speaker 2 (01:28:20):
The alligator.

Speaker 7 (01:28:21):
Now I'm in my office trying to figure out how
alligator than got that in the house. Now I go
out in the garage. I get a big broom and
I get a butcher knife, because I'm at least.

Speaker 2 (01:28:34):
I gotta go this.

Speaker 7 (01:28:35):
The alligator is the alligator pole. Little housekeeper just running
the alligator. Alligator. Now I don't know that my son
done bought this iguana lizard. So I'm upstairs. Sheep behind
me indy closet. Mister Steve opened the closet in a
big glass case. It's this big black iguana. And then

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when I got up close to the case, it flared
that hood open and made that made that noise. I said, okay,
threatening me in my own house. Yeah, so I got
rid of to listen.

Speaker 2 (01:29:13):
And then I was yeah, you know, Peter probably listened.

Speaker 1 (01:29:23):
Yeah, don't do it.

Speaker 2 (01:29:25):
Don't do it because it was not the ethical treatment of.

Speaker 1 (01:29:29):
An Please don't say it. This is your chance to
opt out.

Speaker 2 (01:29:35):
No, I just want him to know.

Speaker 7 (01:29:36):
The data had a case, and I was sitting up
here explaining to my son how much stuff he used.

Speaker 2 (01:29:45):
To bring home.

Speaker 1 (01:29:46):
Oh, wow, okay.

Speaker 7 (01:29:48):
And when I was talking to him, I said, man,
your little punk behind used to bring someone Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:29:52):
Don't call him a punk in front of his children.
And I didn't even really mean to I was just
talking to my son. You know how you talk.

Speaker 7 (01:30:00):
I get admonished all the time with the way I
talk to my sons in front of his kids. And
then I got to watch how I talk to the kids,
and I just don't want them over here no more.

Speaker 3 (01:30:10):
Those are your options. You can't compromise.

Speaker 1 (01:30:13):
You come on now, because it's your house, and you
do what you want.

Speaker 2 (01:30:18):
A grandparents, it's difficult. Wellcome, what is your role as
a grandparent?

Speaker 1 (01:30:23):
What that?

Speaker 9 (01:30:24):
They ain't tell us what the role is or what
your role is because your grandparents. Sure, I don't know
what to do with it with the kids.

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
I don't know, have no clue. I don't think I
have a role. I'm just Paul Paul. Now.

Speaker 7 (01:30:40):
What I do is I try to introduce my kids
to stuff that they kid that their parents won't let
them do. Jason's kids can't eat a lot of sugar,
so that's all I give them when they come over.
I candy balls, all kinds of recent pieces Mniams. I
get them all that.

Speaker 1 (01:30:57):
Parents wishes, though, why well, they ate.

Speaker 7 (01:31:00):
It when they was growing up, So why you would
sudden you don't want these kids to have nothing. I
think childhood you should eat Oreo cookies as a child, That's.

Speaker 2 (01:31:09):
What I think.

Speaker 7 (01:31:09):
I think you should eat meeces, peanut butter cups as
a child. I think you should have ice cream. Oh
they eat dairy free ice cream. That's not ice cream.

Speaker 3 (01:31:19):
Okay, yeah, so different.

Speaker 7 (01:31:22):
My job was like I introduced my grandson BJ. He
was a vegan. I introduced him to ribs and he.

Speaker 1 (01:31:28):
Loved it was vegan and you gave him ribs.

Speaker 2 (01:31:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:31:32):
My daughter ran out there and said, Daddy, he don't
eat barbecue.

Speaker 2 (01:31:35):
I said, yeah, dude, look at him.

Speaker 1 (01:31:41):
Take us home.

Speaker 7 (01:31:42):
Crazy man, y'all have yourself a great day. Listen to me,
talk to God today. He would absolutely love to hear
from you and all the grandparents out there.

Speaker 2 (01:31:50):
You ain't got to do all that.

Speaker 1 (01:31:59):
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