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You think that, Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now,
one and only Steve Harvey, I got a radio show.
Real grateful for that. You know, it's funny. I remember
when I first started out in radio. A lot of
my peers laughed at me. Some of it was being
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mean spirited, some of it was just you know, marckt me.
I'm used to stuff like that. But I had as
a special guest on my show, Joe Oldstein, and you
know something, man, he says something that was I can't
remember the scripture. I don't know exactly how it were.
Like we were having a long conversation, but the gist
of it was, don't be upset with where you are now,
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and don't be upset with the small things in your life.
Be grateful for the small things and the small position
that you have right now, because you don't know where
that's going. You don't know what that's gonna be one day.
You don't know what that's gonna lead to. And that
was very warming to hear him say that. But it
also reminded me of when I started in radio, how
small it was. It reminded me of when I started
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in stand up making twenty five dollars a show. It
reminds me of not having a home at a period
in my life and what God has allowed me to
live in now. So don't be distraught over your position now,
and don't be ungrateful or unappreciative for the things you
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have now because you don't know what that's going to
grow into. And that's really the gist of that I
got from what he was saying. I just wanted to
share that with you, that where you are now is
so temporary because now, like I've said before, now is
a fleeting moment. Right after you finish saying now, that
moment that you claimed as now, that's gone. So the
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where you are now is a very fleeting process. Now
you can change where you are now, and you can
change how you feel about where you're at now, and
you can change about where you're going by simply changing
your mind. It is no difference. I'm telling you, folks,
the thing that I've learned about successful people is not
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so much of what they do. It's not what they have.
The biggest thing I've learned about successful people is how
they think. That's the thing that's different. It's how they think.
And I'm telling you that you can change the way
you think on any subject and start becoming successful towards that.
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Starting now, you have to understand that. Man, the biggest
difference I've noticed between successful people and non successful people
is how they think. I was reading what is God
said that he was taught all wrong about money. He
said that his father was very negative about money. He
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all throughout his life he heard his father say, you know,
people who got money have walked on somebody to get it,
or cheated somebody get it. People who have money, money
is the root of all evil. Money is money is this,
And people who got money, you know, don't deserve it.
They've done something wrong to get it, y'all. To y'all, So,
he said, he grew up the whole time thinking that
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having money was something was wrong with that. He discovered
that it wasn't. Look you can choose to be successful
anywhere you want to. I've chosen several ways to be successful.
I want to be a very, very successful father. I
think that's one of the things that's paramount in my
life that I really am working hard right now to
become a successful father. Not a successful father in terms
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of money, but a successful father in terms of offering
the amount of love and guidance and leadership and the
example that my children need to look at. And that's
what I'm really really working hard at now. I want
to be successful as a father, but also I want
to be successful as a husband. You know. I want
Marjorie to always notice she can count on me, to
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not have to wonder about me or look for me.
You know. I want her to feel secure in the
fact that I really have gotten it right, that I
really am focused on being a good husband to her
because it means so much to me, you know. So
I'm working hard on a lot of levels. I'm working
hard and trying very strong to be a successful motivator
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of people. I want to be a share of information
to people that will uplift others and give others the
same things that I've learned through the trials and tribulations
of my life. But at the same time share that
information and use the power of this microphone to uplift people,
you know, not to destroy. My show is not about Oh,
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guess what so and so said? Guess what so and
so did. I don't like mean spirited things about people,
you know. I joke with people who calling this that's
another thing. But I don't like destroying people with the
power of the microphone. So I'm working very hard on
being successful in a lot of areas of my life. Also,
I do care about being financially successful too, because my father.
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One of the gifts he gave me was very simple gift.
He told me a long time ago. He said, son,
the best thing you can do for poor people is
not be one of them. And that stuck with me.
And this was a hard working man who was a
coal miner who worked construction his entire life. My father
didn't have an easy life man. My father didn't sit
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behind a microphone. My father didn't come to work and
people cheered for him. My father wasn't famous. My father
was just a go get it, dude, that he instilled
that in me and I've taken that and applied it
to my craft and I thank God for him for that.
But I do try to be financially successful so that
I can do some things with it to help some
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other people. Now, am I opposed to having nice things?
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No?
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Do I apologize for having nice things?
Speaker 7 (07:54):
No?
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And why should I? I work? You know, I'm not
on the radio asking to give me money, you know,
so I can go buy a car. I'm working, so
I don't feel how you want to feel. And other
people do feel that way about it. But if success
in terms of finance is what you're lacking, you can
go about the business of doing that. I'm writing a
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book and that whole book is about teaching people how
to become successful. And man, I'm breaking it down in
a way where everybody can get it, man, because I
want the college student to get it, you know, I
want the working mom to get it, to single mom
to get it. The hard working father that has been
trying to hold his family together can get it. The
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father that ain't ever got it together and feel that
because of that reason, he can't be the father he
needs to be. I'm writing something, man, to put it
into words, to let you know that God is a
forgiving God, and that God is a merciful God, and
that God can get you out of any situation you
find yourself in. You just can't beat yourself up every
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time you make a mistake, mistakes all the time. Man,
I just got to remind myself to get up. I
ask God for forgiveness, I call on his mercy and
his grace, and I get up and I go again.
But it's coming, man. And if finance success is what
you want, you got to change your mind. You got
to start thinking about how to produce it. The first
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thing you do is you got to ask. You got
to ask to have a life and have a life
more abundantly. That's a scripture that He comes to you
to give you life and to give you life more abundantly.
That's a scripture. That ain't a joke, that ain't a theory.
That's a fact, and the fact that if you don't
have a life of abundance, you can get that by asking.
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Then it starts by believing. And how too, don't even
worry about that. He takes care of that himself. He'll
send the stuff your way, but you got to be
willing to put some effort in this thing now, and
you can do it. Okay. I know I was a
little around the place today, but that's what it was.
So you know, let's go get it.
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Man, Hey, uncle, let me talk to you about something, man,
about being grateful for the journey. By being grateful for
the journey, you know, over the break man, when I
had had this guy come to me and says, man,
I don't know how you sit next to Steve Harp
every day and don't feel some type of way You're like,
I'm sitting there trying to feel like feel like what
because of his success? Or like I should be jealous
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of you? Or I don't even understand how that what
would make you even think of that?
Speaker 2 (11:06):
You know, I don't understand what does he mean by
your success?
Speaker 8 (11:10):
And I'm sitting here like I should be upset because
you ain't doing more for me, or something like I'm like, what,
I'm grateful for my own journey. I don't have to
be your journey.
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Uh.
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Well, see, here's a deal. Here's where a lot of
people get mixed up.
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And even people who are of faith in business, deals,
in relationships, in work, in everything.
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Your greatest chance for success and you're optimizing any opportunity
you have should not be tied to another person or
group of people. Steve Harvey does not have the ability
to make or break anyone. Now, have I assisted some
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people along the way? Of course? Has it been my
duty and obligation to provide for certain people along the way?
Of course? It is my duty and my honor as
a father and a husband to do my duty in
terms of protection and provision one hundred percent. But after that, man,
I really don't. I don't owe anybody anything. I will
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help you out the goodness of my heart with some
advice or something like that. But I had to learn
a long time ago. Man, stop tying your dreams, hopes
and aspiration to people and put your faith in God, man,
because people will let you down. Do you know how
many people have not done what they said they was
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gonna do in your life? Do you know how many
meetings you've been to and been promised stuff and that
meeting turned out to be a zero? Do you know
how many plans you've put on paper that did not
come to fruition? Do you know how many doors have
been slammed in your face by so called friends, family,
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co workers, bosses, companies? And I've just had to learn
when them doors get slammed in my face, don't stand
there beating on that door. Walk up the hall. God
got some more doors for you, man. So I don't
put my faith in people no more.
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So.
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Yeah, you sitting next to me every morning, you ought
to feel some kind of way. No, just learn what
you can learn, if you can learn something from it,
if I can give you a piece of advice I will.
But after that, Steve Harvey, ain't any dream making come
true business. That's God, because he the one got me
where I am today. It wasn't me man, all right?
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We we forgevel into ausponosity of awareness and bulgarvity.
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We know that if we reenterate as we partificate. Yeah,
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Change it.
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You for the word.
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All right past, we're going to go to the Book
of Temptation. Past that temptation start with a verse three.
That's chapter three, Verse two of it was, we're gonna
start right here past. It was the third of September,
the day I'll always remember.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Stop right third or September. That's for a while. That
day are always remember.
Speaker 6 (15:36):
Why read because that was the day that my dad
had died.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Stop right there.
Speaker 6 (15:44):
If it for a moment in the life of a child, read,
Come on. I never got a chance to see him,
never heard nothing but bad things about him.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
Stop right there, Yeah, absent tee faught take it. Yeah, daddy, Yes, sir, yes, sir,
fathering without being a daddy.
Speaker 6 (16:11):
Read Mama, I'm depending on you to tell me the truth.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Stop right there. Probably got a chance in hell, it
just happened, but go ahead on ree.
Speaker 6 (16:24):
Mama just hung her head and said, son, Papa was
a rolling stone.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Stop right there. When you said, Mama, I'm depending on
you to tell me the truth. When she hung away,
that was a clue that it wasn't gonna be good news,
she said, son, Papa or was a rolling stone? Or
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what you mean by that?
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Mama?
Speaker 2 (16:53):
Ree?
Speaker 1 (16:55):
What happened?
Speaker 6 (16:56):
He laid his hat was his home, and when he died,
all he left us was alone, stop right there?
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Worthless?
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Yes, that's no.
Speaker 2 (17:07):
Good, low accountability, preach pastor rimmaging roaming from house to house. Yeah,
wherever he laid his hat was his home. And and
then he died.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
And all he left us was alone.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
Where is my head?
Speaker 12 (17:33):
Is that?
Speaker 2 (17:34):
Where's the money? Where's the issue? Where's her to help
pay for this?
Speaker 3 (17:38):
Bire?
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Why you didn't leave us with it? I don't want
no pack?
Speaker 3 (17:42):
Read?
Speaker 8 (17:45):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (17:45):
It says passed that.
Speaker 6 (17:46):
The scripture says, hey, mama, is it true what they
say that Papa never worked today in his life?
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Stop right there. I'm assuming since when he died, all
he left us was alone. I'm assuming he wasn't working,
no well.
Speaker 12 (18:06):
Down.
Speaker 2 (18:06):
Had he been working somewhere, yeah, there would be some
type of benefit IRA, A Social Security check on pension
fund coming out would have been coming our way. Read
and then and the scripture picks up past.
Speaker 1 (18:25):
He says, and Mama, some bad talk going.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
Around town saying that Papa had three outside children and
a love of wife.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
And that ain't right. Stop right there. You should have
never bought it up in the first Please when you said, Mama,
I'm depending on you to tell me the truth. When
she hung ahead, wasn't not the bad news? After that,
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she said, first of all, listening to your first first
year papa with a rolling stone? Did she said? Wherever
he laid his hat was his home. And then she said,
and when he died, all he left us was alone.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
And then he said, I heard.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
That papa had three other children, two outsidewise, and that
ain't right. Well, it's too late for all that. And
now because they had him anyway, kids everywhere, slung all
over the county. He kids at the funeral, we don't recognize.
Let me introduce you to your half brother, your half sister,
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your infidel cousin. Let me introduce you to Barbara, Jean
and Mary had. Let me introduce you to Beggy Seu
and Tim is there? Who the hell is Glinda? He
that was your mama? To here's a world of confusion
going on at this here funeral. Who is Glindall? Who
is Brenda? Who is Patricia? I got about five mamas
in here, all these brothers assistant. And when he died,
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he didn't leave us alone. He left us with everybody else.
Speaker 6 (20:01):
Reach it picks up, It picks up and says, hurt.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Some talk Papa doing some stone.
Speaker 6 (20:08):
Front preaching, talking about saving souls, and all the time
leeching it did in debt and stealing in the name
of the Lord.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
We must understand that the scripture folk warned of him,
he said, and that would always be false prophets I said, Well,
your daddy wasn't no preaching. Your daddy didn't go to
seminary school. Now, your father wasn't the man of the cloth.
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Your daddy didn't do nothing but let it pop off.
Your father was a rolling stone. He lady had, wasn't home,
and when he died, he ain't leave you nothing but
a loan. But you wasn't really alone, because you had
two outside wives and three kids spread all over the county.
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You found out that your family had grown right down.
You wasn't alone at all. It was a whole tribe
to y'all. Some ways it was called Williams family, and
it wasn't no vacation. Lord her merchant. The doors of
the church and now open. Hey man, you your daddy
was a rolling Stone and deacon depth jam with the
word for the day a man at home.
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This is from Tracy in Detroit. Tracy says, my husband's
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twin brother created problems in our friend group because he
slept with two of my single girlfriends. I uninvited him
to our cookout for the fourth and he told my
husband to check me. Why is my husband mad at
me and not his brother?
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Wait a minute, why are you mad after brother because
he slept with two of our single girlfriends. You're free
and slept with him too.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
But yeah, she's thinking he's causing problems in the group
because he slept with both of them. Wait, maybe that
ain't jo call.
Speaker 2 (23:11):
So now and this is his brother. He gonna side
with his brother.
Speaker 3 (23:15):
Why you in it?
Speaker 2 (23:16):
But he Why you in it? Why are you blocking
his brother? Say? It ain't your business. He slept with
He slept with two of your friends. Your friends slept
with him. They both wanted him.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
You know they're mad. The two girlfriends aren't getting along.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
Now, Okay, so now he can't come to the cookout. No,
it ain't causing him. He's caused of dimp. Both of
them slept with it with him.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
They're mad at him.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
You mad at their fault.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
You know they didn't know he was sleeping around.
Speaker 2 (23:48):
You know that. Sure you don't. You don't know that
they friends, they won and they made them okay, but
listen to Michelley. One of them could have been in
front of girl. I got with him and he was everything,
and then the other went old, really well, let me
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see what it's about, and it could have been that.
See you don't know, but see y'are always taking the
side of each other without knowing what happened. Yeah, girl,
and yeah, so yeah, see that's what I'm here for.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Uh huh and and brother. Twin brothers obviously stick together
as they shoot against his wife.
Speaker 2 (24:30):
Now that ain't against his wife. The wife is against
the twin brother. The brother ain't said nothing to the wife.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
Why is my husband mad at me and not his brother.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Because his brother ain't did nothing wrong. He's singing. He
mad at you because you're trying to check a grown
man that this ain't your husband. You check me, you
don't check my brother. Mind Joe business.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Well his brother told him to check her.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Yeah, because he could have been the twin brother that
was over there been your hood.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Yeah, all right, we're gonna move on after that. That
was good, all right? Eileen in Tampa says, my husband
told me that my ex husband is in the hospital.
I asked so many questions that my husband told me.
I'm too concerned. I called my ex sister in law
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to check on my ax. Why would my husband mention
it and then get upset about it.
Speaker 2 (25:32):
I don't know. I wouldn't have said nothing. Yeah, you
wanted to see your reaction. You gave it to I
don't give it. If you ad a car accident with
meet anything you saying anything he can hit my car?
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See whatever?
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Open your mouth.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
I was an accident.
Speaker 1 (25:57):
Who hit you?
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Some of them? Let me. You won't believe who I
ran into today?
Speaker 1 (26:07):
Literally?
Speaker 2 (26:09):
All right?
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Okay? Moving on to Vic in DC. VIC says, I'm
the chapter president for my fraternity, and I'm not with
the brothers doing all the line dances, but my chapter
plans to enter a competition. I'm side eyeing, side eyeing
my brothers, but they're still doing it. Do I have
to be a team player? Or can I sit this
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one out?
Speaker 2 (26:35):
Can I say something?
Speaker 3 (26:37):
Go ahead?
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Tell you all your cap is right now.
Speaker 6 (26:40):
If y'all pull all them fans out and start dancing
with them fans, I'm gonna hoop.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
You'll I'll tell y'all there right now.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Well, you feel the same way as Vic, the chapter president. Yeah,
he along with See, let me tell you something.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
Everything is instat I ain't for you. No, I wish
your qu's we would pull out some purple fans. We
we're not goin to have that. Well, I'm telling you
right now the older brothers don't go. Hey man, where
y'all what y'all doing now?
Speaker 7 (27:10):
With no?
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Everybody's doing it?
Speaker 2 (27:12):
Can about need it? Don't need it?
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Why are you so mad about it?
Speaker 3 (27:17):
It's just a dance?
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Yeah, I'm cool with what is we dancing?
Speaker 3 (27:21):
Fo whoa?
Speaker 1 (27:22):
No, we can't dance, Dan. The party is social.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
So we'll frat What is we getting in line? Dance
and conference? You go to stomp shows?
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Why not?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
You're grown? That was fraternity stuff was in college anyway?
Speaker 3 (27:35):
Right?
Speaker 6 (27:35):
Wait, miss ship, you don't know what. You don't know
what I pull up your way out of line now,
see right there.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Show man.
Speaker 13 (27:45):
Yeah, yeah, dance, get a towel, not your finger or something.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
Don't don't pop no fan.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
But there's more than just that.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
When you can do to keep it on one yeah
you know yeah, yeah cupid?
Speaker 14 (28:07):
Yeah to me, that one's.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Hard, yes, hard turning, Yes, you got to stand up.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Then no our frad the old fashioned way we stop.
Those days are done. The new brothers got new ways
of doing. It's a lot more, a lot more integral,
a lot lot deeper than what we did. That's the
way it is, you know, splits and twirls and hops,
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and you know it's cool. I mean the brothers and brothers.
The thing's done evolved, it's different now. So it is
what it is. But we're not if I catch it
with a fan though, just don't take take our take
take our letters off. They don't have our colors out there.
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What we in in a dance contest? Folk? Ye, stomp shows,
step shows, whatever you want to call it, stomps and steps.
What is you out here? Lying dancing folks?
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Because that's what people do now, this crown, isn't it's
fun The fraternities ain't.
Speaker 2 (29:19):
Qu's been having boots on the ground. Yeah, so that
was a song called boots on the ground. We was
always boosting on the ground. See, Shirley, we're gonna stick
with you, We stick with I came.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
I don't understand why you gots it so mad?
Speaker 2 (29:42):
All right?
Speaker 1 (29:42):
Last one Coco and Mesquite says, I'm forty four years
old and I'm sleeping with a guy that's married. He
spends most of his time at my house, but he's
still living with his wife. I saw legal separation papers,
so I expect him to move. He gets testy when
I ask him about it. Is he lying to me?
Speaker 11 (30:00):
Now?
Speaker 2 (30:00):
He tested because it's hard. You know, you keep asking
him about it. You can't move it along no faster
than it's.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
Going okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (30:12):
And his marriage ain't really your business because you didn't
have no problem with him when you were sleeping with him,
when you knew he was married.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Right, all right, Celo put a button on that. Thank you.
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening
Steve Hardy Morning Show. We got to ask, first off,
how is it you guys weekend? Steve? We know you
(30:42):
went to see Beyonce.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
How was that? Yeah? I'm tack to tell you one
thing for sure. This woman hands down and I've seen everybody.
There's no one I haven't seen. And that's considered great. No,
that's considered great. Whitney Michael Prince Luther. I saw the Rollerstones,
(31:04):
Usher turn and our team turner the Bible strike, saying
out of bro I can go share. I have seen
them all lied Beyonce. It's the coldest living performer today.
The only person I've ever seen in my life that
could outperform Beyonce is Michael period period, and only because
(31:31):
his global fame was so he was. He was at
a level of global fame before social media anyway. The
Armies had to carry this dude around in in in
every country. That's the only reason he he if he
was in this social media ERAa he he was out
of the stratus f Beyonce his coldest thing I've ever seen.
(31:52):
I've never seen anybody perform as many songs, sing at
the level she sings that and dulse the choreograph feet
that she does, but that extended period of time, I
ain't never seen that before. She's a bad girl, man, understand.
Speaker 1 (32:06):
Okay, question yes, question? Did you wear your cowboy attire?
Did you have your hat?
Speaker 7 (32:12):
No?
Speaker 2 (32:13):
I had bought what I was in Paris. I had
bought an her ma's leather shirt.
Speaker 3 (32:18):
Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
It just so happened to have some real faint horses
on it, okay, And I wore that. That's that was it.
And I wasn't gonna wear that until you know you
use it. You are officially part of the be high Man.
(32:40):
You be high. No, I want, I want to, I
want to adopt to be high high.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
You want to, Steve Hi.
Speaker 2 (32:49):
I want I want. I want her to jump on
people like they do when they say something crazy about
I want to do.
Speaker 1 (32:57):
Oh, I'm sorry. The other big show and was, of course,
the Nephew Tommy show, his comedy show uh huh in
Atlanta and Alpharetta, and I got a chance to see that.
It was great. Came to support my friend. It was
really really nice, really nice, really funny, really funny. You laughed,
you cried, You went on this crazy journey with Tommy.
(33:20):
It was really really good. Tommy, I'm proud of what.
You're proud of you because, you know, he talked about
his journey, but he does it in such a comical way.
You're laughing, you're crying. You know what, Tommy went through
his cancer and all of that, so he talks about that,
and you think, how do you make that stuff funny?
You know, I didn't know, but he made it funny.
He really really did, not the cancer itself, but everything
(33:44):
he went through. And you know all that of comment.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
You gotta laugh at your pain. Most comedians that's how
they deal with the tragedy. This was some jokes, some
human Yeah, And that's the sadness of comedy today that
there's such a cancel culture. Everybody's so sensitive.
Speaker 7 (34:06):
Now.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
You can't say nothing about nobody no more. I mean,
you know, I can't say nothing about it. Nobody gain weight,
can't say nothing about it, nobody, you know.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
Yeah, but Temmy, you did that, and congratulations and congratulations.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah. Can I say this because can I say that?
I think this would be clear. I think this could
clear customs. I just I just wanted to say that,
you know, due to the fact that you can't say
nothing no more about nobody, like you can't talk about
people being overweight and stuff like that. Like I've visually
(34:46):
seen people who have picked the wrong pronoun. Clearly, I
know that for a fact you've picked the wrong pronoun.
Speaker 15 (34:52):
But you can't say nothing about that, just can't. I
just think you just need to get Yeah, just Tom,
he does not really say it? What God, you know,
I have to say it but you know I've learned
ways to be to stay on the air.
Speaker 14 (35:15):
Well, thank you, thank you appreciate that because we all
looking at the radio and the zoom, squint eye and trying, Yeah, let.
Speaker 2 (35:25):
Me ask you something. But let me ask you. This
is a question. Have you not looked at somebody and
clearly thought you picked the wrong pronoun?
Speaker 1 (35:36):
Okay, I'm just there.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Question like that again.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
I'm gonna say congratulations to Tom.
Speaker 6 (35:46):
Show.
Speaker 1 (35:46):
If you get a chance, if it's in your city,
make sure you check it out. It was fun and funny,
all right. Moving on to US Weekly, jay Z is
as a federal judge to throw out a lawsuit being
filed by a thirty one year old man that claims
to be jay Z's biological son in May of this
year from Saturday or file the complaints Steve I Know,
(36:13):
stating that jay Z has avoided a paternity test and
he's trying to use his celebrity status to silence him.
The lawsuit allegis fraud, manipulation of the system of the
legal system, and a pattern of intimidation, all claims that
jay Z's legal team have repeatedly denied. Jay Z's legal
team called this lawsuit a quote decades long harassment campaign.
(36:33):
And I kind of know your sentiment right now, Steve.
But if you were jay Z, would you take the
paternity test? Just to settle this.
Speaker 2 (36:42):
All I need to do is sue a picture. I
can tell you right away. I just need to see
a picture. I just want what.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
Yeah, thirty one thirty.
Speaker 14 (36:55):
If there was a young man out there who was
ball headed, who had a mustag and kind of favored
you and was from Cleveland, say you was his daddy.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
And he thirty one years old? Yeah, you missed all
that child support home? But where's your mom?
Speaker 1 (37:16):
Harvey Morning Show?
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Speaker 1 (37:57):
So this is really good news for summer travelers. If
you're traveling this summer, almost after two decades, okay, after
almost two decades, you can finally go through TSA security
checkpoints at the airport without taking your shoes off. What
a relief. The TSA, the Transportation Security Administration, send an
(38:19):
memo to its staff nationwide to mandate that passengers who
have a real ID, we'll be able to go through
security detectors with footwear on. People that are traveling without
a real ID will still have to take the shoes off.
To take your shoes off. Rule was first instituted back
in two thousand and six. After a passenger you don't
(38:40):
have a real ID? What they talk though, Well, you know,
you got to have a driver's license, a passport. It's
a specific think a require.
Speaker 14 (38:51):
Now, Yeah, it has to have a star or something
like that on the driver's license. Right, So that's the
type of ID that they're accepting now, or passport.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
And all that.
Speaker 14 (39:02):
So they wanted to be a real ID and then
you go through and so now they're saying, shoes.
Speaker 2 (39:09):
Off, This is a great, This is great.
Speaker 1 (39:13):
Why do you say that because some feet we don't
need to see.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
Out in the public. It's some feet out here.
Speaker 8 (39:20):
It's some feet out here and you're going through security. Wait,
that toe had shrapnel on it.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
I know, graz where's you're in, junior? Will you let
us know when you go somewhere?
Speaker 1 (39:44):
Well to taking shoes off rule, as I was saying,
was first instituted in two thousand and six after a
passenger tried to light a bomb in his shoes on
a flight from Paris to Miami. Previously, only individuals enrolled
in t s A pre check were allowed to keep
their shoes on during screening. So let's hope this helps
people get through the security more quickly. And Steve, do
(40:07):
you go through T s A and you know, take
your shoes off before you board a plane? I know
you fright privately? Fly privately? Did I say fry fly privately?
But sometimes well.
Speaker 2 (40:18):
There are still places that you have to take your
shoes off. They don't care. But like if you have
Global entry, yeah you don't have to do that.
Speaker 14 (40:28):
Mm hmm, come on, Stunner, let's go jor.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Global Entry is a card that you have to apply
for and go through an interview process and then they
give you and then so you don't have to like,
take your computer out the bag. You don't have to
take your shoes off, just walk through the thing. But
you know you ain't have to worry about that if
you don't go nowhere. Yeah, you know you get to
(40:56):
leave your hat on.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
That's what we're going with this. This story was about
we take his shoes off. Yeah, all right, thank you
guys coming up at thirty four minutes actually the hour
since your hotel is in the building.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
I mean, you know that's I'm gonna take your head off.
As somebody t say, go oh, that would beat you.
Speaker 1 (41:19):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen, as promised, she.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
Weir, the world is all fire.
Speaker 1 (41:32):
You know who it is.
Speaker 2 (41:33):
It'll be too late. Get yourself together before the burning date.
Speaker 3 (41:44):
Knowing that he is coming.
Speaker 2 (41:48):
Y'allta get busy running, all right, knowing.
Speaker 3 (41:53):
That the end is Neil.
Speaker 2 (41:56):
Well, they ain't got it, ain't already here off.
Speaker 1 (42:00):
Five Good morning, sister.
Speaker 3 (42:08):
It was.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
How everybody just coming off vacation. How you like my
vacation glasses?
Speaker 3 (42:17):
Yeah? Nice?
Speaker 1 (42:19):
They look expensive. Yes, Steve te had them. Oh oh
and he gave them to you.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
Now you just let me wear him for the signa.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
Oh okay, well, I wanted to ask you, since Jodell,
how was your fourth we're all coming out from the fourth.
Did you celebrate brutal people?
Speaker 2 (42:39):
I don't celebrate the folk. What is we? What if
we got a flag for m That's right?
Speaker 1 (42:44):
Yeah, go deep with.
Speaker 2 (42:47):
So Now, I didn't celebrate the folk. But I did
take day off and was witnesses. Oh okay, I was
down there. I went to the all. They had a
reunion of the January sixth riot. They got together, both
keepers and all of them. I went to they rally.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
Well you went there? Were you invited or no?
Speaker 2 (43:10):
I just want to give them some advice, that's all.
Speaker 7 (43:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Would you tell them, well, you know, white folks, you know,
if you're gonna ride, you need to talk to black
people before you go riding. Because what you need to
understand is see, rioting is a night time activity. You
don't do it in the day. That's why so many
of them got identified and rested. They arrested more white
people on January six because they can see them. You say,
(43:38):
you're on the wall, we see you. Well, they to
let them know, you know, to start moving their activities tonight.
White folks think they just know every thing. Couldn't tell
them nothing, you know, Donnie Donnie Trump's the president, so
now they all happy and everything. Yeah, okay, see how
(43:59):
happen till when you ain't got no healthcare benefits?
Speaker 1 (44:05):
Beautiful boy? Well did you did you happen to make
it down to New Orleans for the Essences?
Speaker 3 (44:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (44:12):
I went down there. It wasn't the same this year.
Speaker 1 (44:14):
You know.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
It wasn't Holly, wasn't hardly crowded like it normally is.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
Yeah, the crowd has fallen off a bit.
Speaker 3 (44:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
Yeah, you know, I want to see babyface because I
love me some babyface. Oh yeah, by your clothes, pay
your rent. I'll cook your dinner tonight, baby, as soon
as I get home from work. Well, if you say
(44:43):
that to me, we finna get married. I'm just tell
you that right now.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (44:53):
So I was out there and then you know they
had a little nasty little girl on the show with him.
Speaker 1 (44:59):
All oh, gorilla, glotrilla.
Speaker 14 (45:06):
Yeah you're saying gel.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
I said, Lord, he miss just po child. Just country
is a bucket of coin. I was just pretty little girl,
just as pretty as she wanted to be. Couldn't understand
of what she was saying, just be running her mouth.
I said that she missed out on some whippings. All
I could say, that's what you.
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Got out of that. Well, before we run out of times,
to sir Dela, I did want to ask you about
the verdict and the Diddy trial. I know you heard
about that too.
Speaker 3 (45:41):
Girl.
Speaker 2 (45:41):
That's for a whole nother time. We ain't got enough
time to tell you all the stuff I know.
Speaker 1 (45:45):
Oh see if you have an opinion on it? Uh huh.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
I was at my first or freak. O was satch
A page?
Speaker 16 (45:55):
Oh Mark, okay, yeah, looking for that to me, continued
coming up next, Satcha, you saw some pod.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
The Nephew and Today's Prank Phone Call right after this.
Thank you, sister Odell. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour.
About four minutes after the hour, it's my Strawberry letter
for today and the subject is I'm stuck between a
(46:33):
sister and a brother. Wow, we'll get into that, find
out what that's all about. And just a few because
right now it is time for the Nephew and Today's
Prank Phone Call. Nephew you're up. What you got for.
Speaker 6 (46:45):
Us, Shirlie? I have love et cetera, love, etc.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
Okay, what's that about?
Speaker 6 (46:53):
You know, call this man up, you know, and tell
him that his wife is taking these love classes. You know,
she come in and you know, I kind of teach
her different things about love and yeah, yeah, yeah, love
et cetera.
Speaker 2 (47:05):
You know. Yeah, I don't mind go.
Speaker 6 (47:11):
Calling nobody husband and getting them ribbed up. I don't
have a thank I don't care about his feelings. I
don't care. I want to get up under your skin
and I will call you about your wife. I will
call you about your kids, because I know that that
those are buttons and when I push them, you're gonna
lose your mind.
Speaker 2 (47:31):
So yeah, yeah, love et cetera.
Speaker 3 (47:37):
Let's go.
Speaker 7 (47:38):
Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach out Kayla.
Speaker 12 (47:41):
Oh no, she's here right now. Who's speaking?
Speaker 7 (47:44):
This is doctor Elbert. Listen. I was giving a call.
Are you able to leave a message for it for me? Yeah? Yeah, okay?
Would you let her know her sessions will be on
Wednesdays at seven thirty sessions.
Speaker 12 (47:54):
What sess are you talking about?
Speaker 7 (47:56):
Sessions? Well? Actually, she signed up for class uh an
eight week class sentence every Wednesday night at seven point thirty.
Speaker 12 (48:02):
Okay, what classes are you talking about? What kind of class?
Speaker 7 (48:06):
This is? Love et cetera? Have you heard of us? No? Okay,
well let me kind of give you a little briefing here.
Caitlyn actually came in and filled out to take some
classes and we're love etcetera. So we teach different things.
Speaker 12 (48:19):
What is it like a seminar or something.
Speaker 7 (48:21):
Well, we teach poor play, intimacy, sensual massages and things
like that. And she I was actually here when she
came and filled out the paperwork. She said she wanted
to screws up her love life with her husband. Are
you her husband?
Speaker 12 (48:35):
Yeah? Yeah, I'm a husband. But what I'm saying is
is it like like a joint thing? Am I supposed
to be there or something?
Speaker 11 (48:41):
No?
Speaker 7 (48:41):
No, no, no, no, this is actually her wanting to actually,
if you don't know about it, I'm assuming she wants
to surprise you and show you some different things when
she finishes her sessions.
Speaker 12 (48:52):
So when did when did she come in? Like she
came in? Where are y'all located? First of all?
Speaker 7 (48:57):
Okay, well, she actually came in a couple of weeks ago,
and she filled out the paperwork. We're in the downtown area.
She filled it out. She said she was very excited.
She wanted to do some different things for her husband.
We just asked her she gets here a little earlier,
probably fifteen minutes earlier, so she can shower and put
a robe on, and then we can we can start class.
Speaker 12 (49:14):
Whoa whoa, whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa shower, shower
and rolls. What's that? What's that for?
Speaker 7 (49:20):
I mean, you're not you're not upset about this, are you?
Speaker 10 (49:22):
Now?
Speaker 12 (49:22):
I mean, I ain't got no problem with you know us,
we mean we know. I mean we married couple, you
know what I mean? So you know anything the sprikees
the spice of the marriage. But you know, as far
as me not being involved in her going out to
bar so and you're talking about taking the bath and
robe and all this other stuff. Man, she don't need
to be there for no for no mess like that.
Speaker 7 (49:38):
Man. Well, no, no, sir, it's nothing like that. I mean,
it's it's it's basically a class where people get in
touch with her with their sensitive side and you get
to actually, you know, you learn about four play, what
what takes.
Speaker 12 (49:50):
You're talking about eight weeks though, eight weeks, eight weeks
like that, you must say, y'all even eight weeks.
Speaker 7 (49:58):
It's only one night a week, it's only on Wednesday,
So really you only have eight sessions. Eight sessions exactly.
Speaker 12 (50:04):
Okay, So why why did she have to have a
role though, I mean, why's he not? Why she does
not showing up at the work or whatever.
Speaker 7 (50:09):
Well, you have to bring your rope, sir. Everyone showers
and then they put their robe on and we we
actually coached them through. Here's how four play goes. Here's
the intimacy, here's sensual massaging.
Speaker 12 (50:20):
No no, no, no, fan you get you're getting it twisday.
What I'm asking you is you you you're really not
explaining yourself with enough like what do y'all do? Like
I say, the class like a classroom said. If I'm
in the class, I'm taking a class. There's nobody touching me,
ain't no, ain't no cold coming off, ain't nobody taking
no group showers, carrying on? What you got you sad?
Speaker 7 (50:40):
Like? What's both? Nothing? Nothing like that at all. But
we do come in contact with our sensual side. Now
we'll have a partner in class she'll deal with that
one partner. It's not until the fourth session that we
really get into some strong physical context.
Speaker 12 (50:57):
What are you talking about? What are you talking about?
You're talking about a partner like you're talking about another woman,
Like tell my teammate or something. What you're talking about?
You call out another dude?
Speaker 7 (51:05):
Everyone has the opposite sex partner.
Speaker 12 (51:07):
Then you got to be out your mind, sir. I
don't even you call why you even? Why are you
even calling me with this right here?
Speaker 7 (51:12):
And if you have to understand, I'm I wasn't calling you.
I was trying to reach miss Kaylen.
Speaker 12 (51:18):
I don't care who are you trying to reach?
Speaker 2 (51:19):
Man?
Speaker 12 (51:19):
You calling my house talking about my wife on some
robe and some partners and they don't get physical to
the fourth session of carrying, ain't gonna be no physical
at all, sir.
Speaker 7 (51:28):
Basically, your wife is trying to surprise you with a
good thing.
Speaker 12 (51:31):
No no, no, no, no, hold on you just hold on.
I'm gonna get this straightened out real quick.
Speaker 7 (51:35):
Hold on, wait wait, wait, wait, what are you what
are you doing?
Speaker 12 (51:37):
I'm calling my wife, That's what I'm not out saying.
Speaker 7 (51:39):
Okay, what you don't understand, She's trying to. It's not
good for you to call. She wants to surprise you
my wife.
Speaker 12 (51:43):
You let me hand on my wife the way I
want to handle it. You hold on, hold on this Drew.
You called me back when you get this message. Called
me back at the house as soon.
Speaker 7 (51:52):
As you get to serve Hello. Yeah, sir, she wants
to surprise you.
Speaker 12 (51:57):
Well, we got surprised already, all right. The first of all,
she ain't gonna be coming down to y'all little sessions.
And where do y'all say, y'all do located that?
Speaker 2 (52:05):
Again?
Speaker 7 (52:06):
We love, etcetera? Is there in the downtown area?
Speaker 12 (52:08):
How much this thing folds? The cost anyway?
Speaker 7 (52:10):
Well, like I said, she signed up for eight sessions.
It's one session per week. It's one hundred dollars these sessions.
She's already played the eight hundred dollars, sir. She want
to sell you what she's paid in full to do
all eight sessions.
Speaker 12 (52:22):
Man, I know what else. She ain't paying no eight
hundred dollars to y'all.
Speaker 7 (52:25):
She's starting just coming winning.
Speaker 12 (52:26):
She won't be there. I'm gonna tell you that right now.
And and if you if you got any of that money,
you got any of my money down there, you better
be coming back with it.
Speaker 7 (52:33):
I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 12 (52:35):
Downtown, y'all downtown. I work downtown, so guess what I
will be there tomorrow to get my money.
Speaker 7 (52:41):
You love, etcetera. Is non refundable when people sign up
for these class you can't change your mind like that.
Speaker 12 (52:46):
Look, man, that's paperwork. Don't tell me about what's not refundable,
what's refundable, what's not refundable. It's not sure what. I'm
gonna have my money back right in miaim Chris?
Speaker 7 (52:56):
Would it make you? Would you feel a little bit
more comfortable if I was her partner doing the sessions
you married?
Speaker 2 (53:00):
Sir?
Speaker 5 (53:00):
Yes?
Speaker 12 (53:01):
I am. You are okay, So let me have a
session with your wife. Do I do year with your wife?
Speaker 7 (53:05):
My wife? My wife works for other men in the
sessions that all find.
Speaker 12 (53:09):
So I'm gonna go there and knock your wife down
for about a good you know, year or whatever, and
then we're gonna see how you like.
Speaker 7 (53:14):
Sir, Sir, I'm not gonna go back and forth.
Speaker 12 (53:16):
We ain't going back the fourth I'm gonna come down there,
I'm gonna get my money back, and I'm gonna go
on for with my with my business, and then don't
call it house no more. Don't worry about all wife,
take a name off the little ledgerd or whatever. Ain't
gonna being no classes player.
Speaker 7 (53:29):
We're nine refundable.
Speaker 12 (53:31):
I keep telling you that, now, who do you think
you waising?
Speaker 7 (53:33):
Your voice said, sir, I'm talking to you. I keep
telling you we're non refundable.
Speaker 12 (53:37):
Don't tell me it's not refundable. Did she got eighty
sessions yet?
Speaker 7 (53:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (53:40):
She has not us her.
Speaker 12 (53:42):
Everyhere right and didn't use the service there right.
Speaker 7 (53:44):
But we've already partnered her up. We already have a
partner for her.
Speaker 12 (53:47):
Can't verbody that partner. Let the partner use your wife,
my dad.
Speaker 7 (53:50):
Hey, sir, quip bringing my wife into.
Speaker 12 (53:53):
My wife into what? I'm gonna bring your wife into what.
Speaker 7 (53:55):
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Speaker 8 (56:40):
All right, ladies and gentlemen, the time for the Strawberry
letter with my good friend Shirley Straup Barrett.
Speaker 1 (56:44):
Junior, Thank you subject. I'm stuck between a sister and
a brother. Dear Stephen Shirley. For the past year, I
have been sleeping with my best friend's little sister. When
I went to college, I lost all contact with her
until we reconnected last year at her brother's Fourth of
July party. I hadn't seen this woman since she was
(57:05):
a young girl. And my, oh my god, aged, my
own mind, god, she oh my, oh my god, oh
I get it. My, oh my god, she's aged like fine.
Speaker 3 (57:16):
One.
Speaker 2 (57:17):
Yes, Steve, Sorry, you won't start over because I don't
know who you If you're talking about the Lord, I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (57:23):
Now, just figure that one out.
Speaker 2 (57:26):
God, oh God, it was God and my.
Speaker 1 (57:29):
Oh my god, that's what he's trying to say. But
I'll start over, all right, Dear Stephen Shirley. For the
past year, I've been sleeping with my best friend's little sister.
When I went to college, I lost all contact with
her until we reconnected last year at her brother's Fourth
of July party. I hadn't seen this woman since she
was a young girl, and my, oh my god, she's
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aged like fine. Wine. Okay, I'm fourteen years older than her,
but we're all grown now. The Lord took his time
with that body. That evening, we caught up, had a
few drinks, shared some laughs, and as the night progressed,
we ended up in her brother's coat closet. This woman
did things to me that I'd never had done to me.
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Since then, we have become increasingly close and we've talked
about taking it to the next step. She has said
it's of utmost importance that we go about this the
right way and tell her brother about us. The problem
is her brother is a six to sixth bodybuilder that
is very protective of his sister, and he's a hot head.
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Because of his size, he's always ready for a confrontation
over the smallest stuff. I have personally never had a
disagreement with him in all of the years we've been friends,
so I'm skeptical on telling him face to face. I
don't want to clash with him, but I really love
his sister, and it's been almost a year. The sneaking
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around is getting old, and I hope he can process
the information in a mature manner to put things in perspective.
Her brother and I are in our mid forties and
we have been friends since the eighth grade. I never
had these kinds of feelings for his sister when we
were young, So I need to be clear about that
up front. How should this go? Should we do it
together or should I talk to her brother alone first?
(59:20):
Please advise? All right, So my answer is going to
be sure because I don't really see a major problem here.
Are you really afraid of her brother? I mean, someone
you've been friends with since the eighth grade? That should
be all the more reason for you to tell him
straight up you love his sister. I know it's his sister,
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but you guys are no longer in elementary in high school,
and his sister's a grown woman now. She's freedom to
come and go and date and love whoever she pleases,
even if it's you. Do you have a reputation of
being like a bad boy or a player or something?
Or does he have a rip for putting his hands
on all the the guys that his sister dates, Because
(01:00:03):
if not, you know, put your big, big boy pants on.
Go tell him what's up. Just go tell him. I
think she will respect and love you more if you
man up and just go by yourself and don't bring
her one question. Though. I get that he's sixty six,
he's a big guy. He likes to fight and all that.
You said that, but what is your size? You did
not bring that out in the letter. You said he
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likes to confront thing, confront people over the smallest stuff.
So what is your size? You failed to mention that?
Is that why you're so scared to tell him. I
just say look at it this way. The sooner you
tell him, the happier shield be because you did what
you wanted her to do. Okay, you're a little guy.
Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
Steve Shirley read this letter as a woman. I'm gonna
read this letter as a man, and so you can
understand why this man wrote this letter. Okay, for the
past year, I'll been sleeping with my best friend's little
sister right there, right there, y'all already know you out
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of line. You already know you all already know how
we are because we know each other. If these dudes
have been best friends, then they know each other. So
now what you doing with my little sister? After I
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know all this about you. That's the first problem we're
dealing with. Then, he said, when I went to college.
I lost all contact with her because we reconnected last
year her brother's fourth to July party. I ain't seen
this woman since she was a young girl. Oh my god,
she then age like fine wine, I'm fourteen years older
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than her, but we all grown now. The Lord took
his time with that body. That evening. We caught up.
Here we go, Steph got real, Jenkie got caught up,
had a few drinks, shared some laughs. Night progress. We
ended up in her brother's coat closet. Okay, all right, now,
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I'm gonna strongly suggest that when you do talk to him,
you definitely got to lead that out, sad. See see
the reason he wrote this letter, Shirley, because as a man,
he know, I'm dealing with my best friend who who
and I been running dirt and running women together. Now
the way behind his back and got his little sister,
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and I got him at the fourth of July party,
had him in his coat closet. He see, he can't
tell none of this. He should. Yeah, the woman did
things to me that I never had done to me before.
Gonna probably need to lead that part out too, see Sherley,
That's why he nervous, because he got all this information,
(01:02:58):
and then we come back. I'll tell you rust Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:03:00):
All right, thank you, Steve. We'll have part two of
Steve's response too. I'm stuck between a sister and a brother.
That is the subject of today's Strawberry Letter. Right after this,
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Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Come on, steep a threecap today's Strawberry letter the subject
I'm stuck between a sister and a brother.
Speaker 2 (01:03:57):
Yeah, this dude getting got itself in the jam here,
struck between his sister and brother. They been best friends.
He ain't seen him since college. He go back to
his friends Fourth of July party and his young sister
is there. And now she got a banging body and
all that they didn't have some drinks and some laughs.
They wind up in the closet together. Now two things.
(01:04:20):
It's your best friends little sister, you know, and you
had her in the clauset, his closet at his house,
and then she did some things to you you ain't
never had done before. You got to leave all this
information out. I don't know why you wrote it in
the bloody I hope you hear this letter. Now we've
(01:04:43):
become increasingly close, and we talked about taking it to
the next step. She said, it's utmost important that we
go about this the right way and tell her brother
about us. Now. The problem is her brother six six
bodybuilder that is very protective of as his sister. And
he's a hot head. Okay, so now right here, you scared, Yeah, yeah,
(01:05:09):
and Charlie and Charlie ain't no, Are you scared? He's scared. Yes,
he's scared, and I'm gonna tell you why in a minute.
Because of its size. He's always ready for a confrontation
over the smallest stuff. Well this ain't small though. See,
you done got behind his back. He gonna say, you
(01:05:31):
snuck behind his back and you got his little sister
that's what you fitting to deal with. Now. Hold up,
I personally never had to disagree with him in all
these years, and we've been friends. So I'm skeptical of
telling him face to face because I don't want to
(01:05:53):
clash with him, or ain't to clash You wear it about.
It's that swipping.
Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
You in, ain't.
Speaker 2 (01:06:03):
It ain't got nothing to do with the clash, homie.
Speaker 3 (01:06:07):
What does it have to do with Steve?
Speaker 17 (01:06:09):
It's that whipping you scared to take it? Keyword clash,
That's all it is.
Speaker 2 (01:06:21):
But I really love his sister. And it's been almost
a year and the sneaking around is getting old, and
I hope he can process the information in a mature manner.
Speaker 3 (01:06:31):
He ain't.
Speaker 2 (01:06:31):
He can't. He's six six here bodybuilding? What bodybuilding? You
know other than Lee Hainey know how to process information
in a sensible fashion. He the only nice bodybuilder I
ever met. All the rest of them jack do want
steroids which affects their mental capacity at all times. And
hell yeah they hot heads because they got steroids in that.
Speaker 1 (01:06:52):
Oh okay, he fail to.
Speaker 2 (01:06:55):
Kick your behind dog, He had moved swag. He feel
to be your behind you already notice to put things
in perspective. Her brother and I are in our mid
forties and we have been friends since the eighth grade.
You already know you're getting your wool now, see you already? Yeah,
you done seen him jump on a lot of people.
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That's why you're scared.
Speaker 1 (01:07:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
Now, I never had these kind of feelings for his
sister when we were young, So I need to be
clear about that up front. How should this go? Well,
I know how it should go, but now you know
how it's gonna go, and that's what you're scared about.
So now should we do it together? That's another scary statement. See,
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you need protection. That ain't how you do it. You
got a man up dog and going over there and
handle this yourself. You gonta to take this woman like
a man. Now there's a chance he gonna suck a
punch you. Yeah. Should we do it together? Or should
I talk to her brother alone? First? Please? You gotta
go to her brother Alan. He said, Hey, man, I
(01:08:02):
don't want to talk to you with nobody in this
room but us, because we men. See if you take
the girl in there and he's looking at his little sister,
he's gonna knock you out for sure he going Now.
Speaker 1 (01:08:15):
Is he a little guy though? You think?
Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
No, he ain't no little guy. He just ain't six
six and nobody building. Yeah, you know he might be
you know, five ten, you know something like that. Look
little man like Tommy or something. He probably little. He
probably thom side Tomy dude, Yeah, Thomas or Jay size.
Whatever you want to do, you can get to throw
Jay Ones in there. Tom, I'm bigger than Tommy. Now,
(01:08:40):
oh now you want to be bigger than Tommy? What
happened to team Tom? Yeah? Now you know your friend
little well, well you know Okay, So what I'm telling
you is you gotta go in there and you gotta say,
hey man, this is what. Let me talk to you
about something. Look, man, I want you to handle this
(01:09:00):
the wrong way, but me and you we got to
talk about this, okay, all right, his deal. Hey man,
I've been I've been talking to your sister and we've
been talking for a while now. The first thing he
gonna say is the hell you mean talking been talking about? What?
Talking about? What?
Speaker 1 (01:09:20):
Talking about?
Speaker 7 (01:09:20):
What?
Speaker 2 (01:09:20):
Which I've been talking about? Well, we've been talking about,
you know, being together, being together? Like how in what way?
Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
Being together?
Speaker 2 (01:09:31):
What do you mean like being together, like going to
the store and coming back to that now manna, man
like we got feelings for each other.
Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
We got to sign out.
Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
Yeah, right there, that's where you're probably gonna get put out,
but you don't come back. Come gon gonna come too,
and you'll be fine. I've been knocked out before. You
don't even know it for a while.
Speaker 1 (01:09:56):
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Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
Let me tell you.
Speaker 8 (01:10:51):
I don't know if y'all got to see it on
with these women's boxing the matches this weekend.
Speaker 2 (01:10:54):
Did anybody get to see this? Uh uh gosh? On Netflix?
Speaker 8 (01:10:59):
It had a man the Serrano versus Katie Taylor three
and Katie Taylor swept this whole trilogy.
Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
But these women be hit.
Speaker 8 (01:11:05):
I'm telling you, I'm a fan of these women's boxes.
I didn't know everybody, but when I saw him, they fight.
Now got another young girl out here. Her name is
Alicia Bumgarden and she beat Jennifer Madison, and I'm telling
you it was brutal, but I'm telling you it's punishing.
But then after that, now.
Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
This is way. I don't know how this going women's boxes.
But she started calling out all of the other boxes
and who could all get this smoke? She went down
the list from a man of Serrando to Katie Taylor.
Then she said Clarissa Shields.
Speaker 3 (01:11:31):
I said, oh.
Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Wait a minute, whoa.
Speaker 2 (01:11:35):
Wait, whoa right now? Whoa whoa whoa? I didn't seen
me and she can whip starting with me. The first
I've looked at Clarissa Shields closely and realized don't need
to be in there taking that type of what for
(01:11:57):
no amount of money?
Speaker 1 (01:11:59):
None.
Speaker 2 (01:11:59):
And you know there's another one.
Speaker 8 (01:12:01):
They're trying to get Clarissa Shields and Layla Lee to fight.
Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
He wi't anybody see that? Yeah about it, Laila.
Speaker 2 (01:12:08):
I'm gonna tell you something though. I think me personal
too long. I think she been out too long, and
I think the age age catches that howl. Is Laylor
now forty seven? Forty oh yeah yeah, yeah, no, no, no, no,
no no.
Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
She retired in two thousand and seven.
Speaker 2 (01:12:22):
Yeah, don't don't go out there messing with that young girl.
Clarissa Shields is really her. She is really her. Uh
she huh, she is really huh girl. And and Leila
Lee and her prime would have given her more than
enough meat to chew own. But at forty seven, you're
(01:12:43):
not in your prime no more.
Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
She said, fifteen to twenty million. She might think about it,
though she did.
Speaker 2 (01:12:48):
How much?
Speaker 1 (01:12:49):
Fifteen twenty million millions? I think that's what he said.
Speaker 2 (01:12:55):
I fight twenty million. I'll fight Roy.
Speaker 1 (01:12:58):
Jones Junior what right now, today, right now.
Speaker 2 (01:13:03):
Right now, twenty million me or Roy? Get up in there, man, Now,
that ain't gonna be loan.
Speaker 1 (01:13:10):
You must have forgot.
Speaker 2 (01:13:12):
No, it ain't. Wait a minute, Okay, I ain't forgot
I already No, I ain't. I ain't got nothing falling.
Speaker 3 (01:13:18):
I have nothing.
Speaker 2 (01:13:19):
I'm not even gonna be able to hit Roy. I
already know that. I already know that. You got him, though,
Make him lad, just make him lave and keep him
all for you super power. Yeah. If Mike Tyson fight
me like he fought Jake Paul, Yeah, I get in
there for fifty which is pulling and everything.
Speaker 1 (01:13:37):
But you have that thong on though. That's what I
want to know.
Speaker 2 (01:13:40):
For fifty million dollars here, y'all put a phone on.
Speaker 1 (01:13:44):
All your out, all right? Coming up at the top
of the hour. After dating for two years, a woman
gave her a man an ultimatum and he left. She
needs some advice. We'll get into it right after that. Steve,
you are crazy. You're to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (01:14:06):
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:14:06):
So, Steve, this is from so lel in Jacksonville. So
Leil says, I gave a man an ultimatum. And he bounced.
We have been dating for two years and we're both
in our mid forties. I want it more, and it
was obvious he didn't. He told my mom that he
wanted to do things on his time without any pressure.
(01:14:27):
My mom sided with him and told me I'm always
doing too much. Was I wrong for pressuring him?
Speaker 2 (01:14:35):
Well? No, but it could be the way you did it.
It could be the way you're like you. Every woman,
like I've always said, has the right to know where
their life is going, has the right to have a
sayso in it, and has the right to understand what
your plan is. Okay, So if you want to do
it in your timing, okay, tell me what your timing is,
(01:14:58):
tell me what you're basing it on. You know, you
just can't have me sitting over here not knowing anything
about the direction. So yeah, it could have just been
in the approach, So a better way to do it
and say, Hey, look, I just want to talk to you. Listen,
I love you, I really care about you. We've been
(01:15:18):
together two years, is we've had our issues, but for
real though, I think it's nothing we haven't been able
to work through. I just find you to be such
a great, incredible partner, and I would love to continue
this relationship. How do you see this working? How do
you want us to move forward? And let the God
(01:15:38):
tell you? I thinking about a year after I get
myself together a little bit more straight financially, I'm able
to buy a ring and I'm going to ask you
to marry me. Then that gives a woman something to
hang on to. But Steve, hey, listen, I want to
get married, and I want to know if we get
married now, and if you're not gonna marry me, then
(01:16:01):
I want this to be over with because I ain't
gonna waste my time and you ain't gonna waste my time. Now.
When he hear that all he is that that right there,
he hears something about a man. He is you gonna
do what I want to do or else when I want?
And when? When signing up for that?
Speaker 1 (01:16:22):
Okay, and her mom agrees with her guy of two
years he's a good man.
Speaker 2 (01:16:31):
She may be right. Maybe she did too much. She
could have just approached it the wrong way. Because if
the man go to the mom and go, hey, look,
I just want to do this in my time. See
what you cannot do to a man is my time
or no time. Now, what you can say is, hey, listen,
(01:16:52):
if I'm not the one you want, if I'm not
to desire your heart, if you don't see spending the
rest of your life with me, if I'm not what
you want, I would love for you to tell me
that now and allow me to make a decision. But
if I'm not who you want, I would appreciate you
telling me that now. That leaves a man a little softer,
(01:17:15):
because sometimes you got to hear what the delay is
in a man because a lot of times I'm ninety
percent of the time it's got something to do with finances. Yeah,
it's something to do with finances and his ability to
feel that he can provide security and protection for you.
Speaker 1 (01:17:36):
Yeah, she's feeling like after two years. Yeah, all right.
This is from Bobby and the DMV. Bobby says, my
wife had a nicer house when we got married, so
I moved in with her. Her grown children are upset
that I'm on the deed now and they think I'm
trying to take what's theirs. I'm getting tired of them
bringing it up to my wife and stressing her out,
so I told her I would talk to them. She said,
(01:17:58):
they're her kids, and you deal with it. Am I
in a bad situation that will only get worse. How
do I handle this?
Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
Wow? Well, it all depends on how you feel about
your name being on the deed. Did you sell your
house so y'all could move in together or do you
still have your house now? If you sold your house
to move in and y'all became one, then yeah, man,
your name should go on the deed. If y'all marry.
I don't give it by they feel. You know what,
(01:18:27):
You don't marry her kids. You married a woman. All
these little entitled kids sitting around that ain't ever bought
a house of they own or did nothing on their own,
and just sitting over there with a sense of entitlement.
I don't give it by you feel about me? All Right,
we gotta start saying that more often though.
Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
All right, guys, thank you. Coming up at twenty minutes
after the hour, we will have more of the Steve
Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the
Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (01:18:55):
All right.
Speaker 1 (01:18:56):
I hate to say it, but what if I been
telling you guys, it's beginning to look a lot like
Christmas around here? And the Hallmark Channel agrees with me. Guys,
they're at Christmas in July campaign. It's going all through
the month of July. It may not be hot, it
may be hot right now, it may not be cold,
but it is all snow, hot, cocoa and Christmas trees
(01:19:19):
all over the Hallmark Channel right now in the month
of July. So there you go. Christmas is what a
few months away? I told you, I told you it's tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (01:19:28):
Let me ask you something. Who tuning in for that?
Speaker 3 (01:19:33):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:19:33):
They're good. Have you seen them? There's such good shows.
Speaker 14 (01:19:37):
I've watched one the other day and I thought, I said,
this ain't nobody but Sheerla program in the Hallmark Channel.
Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
I called them listen. I can't watch them.
Speaker 2 (01:19:45):
I ain't never seen nobody just shot the Hallmark I
just watch when is first four? They eight having a
Christmas in July? We do that.
Speaker 1 (01:19:56):
I can't, no, but yeah, all, I mean there's so
they're just filled with all this love and romance and snow.
Speaker 3 (01:20:04):
It's good.
Speaker 1 (01:20:05):
Yes, it's just really good. You guys gotta check it out.
Speaker 2 (01:20:09):
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Donald Trump is the Cussinger's president.
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Anyway, Merry Christmas, everybody, it's here, yeah, you know, and
before you know it, it will be here. Though. Coming up
at thirty three minutes after the hour, we're gonna play
a round of would you rather? Right after this you're
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Speaker 1 (01:21:15):
And it's time now for a round of would you rather?
All Right, here we go, guys, would you rather grilled
hamburger and onions or grilled sausage and onions? Which one
mm real hamburger? Both sausage, sausage and onions. I had
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to go with the burger, Steve, you haven't spoken one.
Speaker 2 (01:21:41):
I'm gonna go with the burger, Yeah, burger.
Speaker 3 (01:21:44):
Okay, all right, uh.
Speaker 2 (01:21:46):
Don't do sausage. You need to find them. Earl Campbell's though,
get your mind right right around them.
Speaker 1 (01:21:53):
Earl Campbell's boy, would you rather ride the tallest water slide?
Or would you rather ride the tallest roller coaster water slide?
A roller coaster water slide? Yeah?
Speaker 10 (01:22:07):
It is?
Speaker 6 (01:22:09):
Yeah that that that that that roller coaster got about
a minute and a half to it.
Speaker 16 (01:22:13):
Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:22:19):
See, I that's a hall one. Only thing about that
water slide that will save me is because when I
peel on myself, ain't nobody over shearing. I really can't
see myself coming down this giant water slide. I'm just
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but I'm heading to what because now it's gonna throw
me into this pool of water and I got a
whole nother struggle when I get in.
Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
That that ro.
Speaker 2 (01:22:57):
Man, let me tell you something, Man, I've almost I've
had on roller coasters in my life. I've had several.
I know, I know for a fact, I know I
know I had a stroke on one of them. I know,
but you stop, I know, I know, good in hell, well,
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I had a heart attack on one.
Speaker 1 (01:23:21):
Anyway, Just gods.
Speaker 2 (01:23:24):
Grace and Mercy.
Speaker 1 (01:23:28):
On vacation. Would you rather stand a five star villa
with no TV or a King suite with the TV.
Speaker 2 (01:23:35):
I want the villa, the villa with no TV.
Speaker 1 (01:23:38):
Okay, with no TV.
Speaker 2 (01:23:40):
Okay, it worked out, But I want the villain.
Speaker 1 (01:23:43):
King Sweet has a TV.
Speaker 6 (01:23:46):
I got a phone, got everything TV, got a computer,
got everything.
Speaker 1 (01:23:52):
You know. See, I have a good time, you know, umbrellas.
Speaker 6 (01:23:55):
You know.
Speaker 1 (01:23:56):
Oh, all right, we're not going to be in the
room much, is what you're saying.
Speaker 2 (01:23:59):
But you and your show gonna be interesting seeing that's
how you ain't been to Jamaica allhole way?
Speaker 1 (01:24:04):
How you.
Speaker 8 (01:24:05):
Yeah, But I've been to Japik now, I've been to
Soul Career.
Speaker 1 (01:24:09):
I've been to by Rain, I've been to Amsterdam.
Speaker 2 (01:24:11):
I've been to China. I've been a lot of places.
I don't know what Junior hold up on the show
and just lie, you're not finna do that. I'm not
nothing sent on this show a lot like that. You
ain't been to all these places you've been the Soul
Korea we're in. You open the Soul Korea.
Speaker 12 (01:24:27):
For what.
Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
We'll close out the show.
Speaker 2 (01:24:31):
And you don't need no pass or to go to
North Arolina.
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All right, guys, here we are our lads to break
of the day, and Carlo, before we get out of here,
you had a question for Steve, right.
Speaker 14 (01:25:22):
Yeah, how do you show up for yourself every day?
Speaker 1 (01:25:25):
How do you do it? Well?
Speaker 2 (01:25:28):
I might as well use that as my closing remarks
because that's gonna take some explaining. How do you show
up every day for yourself?
Speaker 1 (01:25:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:25:37):
You know.
Speaker 2 (01:25:37):
It kind of leads me to something I was sharing
with the young guy the other day. I was on
vacation and I was talking with him. Greatness is a practice.
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Discipline is a practice. I'm saying that to say that
those two things which I aspire to I aspire to
greatness in whatever I'm attempting to do. I do aspire
to that. I do aspire to be disciplined. And discipline
(01:26:23):
for me is doing what you have to do even
when you don't want to. And those two things right
there are probably the core behind how it is. I
show up every day. But you can train yourself to
be this way. You can train yourself to show up
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every day because it's a practice. It becomes habit for me.
You know, people, I was watching the Last Dance by
Michael Jordan, about Michael Jordan and the Bulls and all
this here, and so many people were critical of him.
I don't like the way he acted. He was a book,
he was a tirant. Well, you ain't never tried to
be great at nothing? And see, I could relate to
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the whole thing because I've aspired to become really really
good at things before. And if you've ever done that,
you're going to rub regular people the wrong way. And
when I say regular people, I'm talking about people who
(01:27:27):
have put theirselfs in a position in life where they're
comfortable and they don't like being forced to be uncomfortable.
So when you come in with all these new Shenanigans,
and we're gonna buckle down and we're gonna hustle up.
You're gonna get pushed back from people who want to
remain comfortable, and you cannot grow that way. You just
(01:27:49):
cannot grow staying comfortable. Everything I've ever wanted in my
life was on the other side of uncomfortable, and you
got to go through the uncomfortable to get there. But
like I was telling you, greatness and discipline is a practice.
It's very hard to find a person that's good at
just one thing and he ain't trying to be good
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at everything else, because it's hard to turn it off
once you learn it, Once you learn the benefits of discipline,
once you learn the benefits of practicing to be great,
hard to turn it off. It's hard to turn it
off because you know the benefits of it, and so
(01:28:31):
I show up every day. But I've trained myself to
be this way, and you are if you're not that.
First of all, let's take a couple of things out
the way. I trained myself to be a morning person
because that was a point early in my life. What
I did now a guy named John Walk out of Rochester,
New York, took that out of me, and I didn't
(01:28:51):
know at the time that I would we would all
be morning drive people for over twenty five years. I
never knew that, And thank God he took that out
of me. And thank God that God put John Walker
in my life in my past because God knew I
was gonna be on morning drive for all for twenty
five years. So I became a morning person. When you
(01:29:14):
hear a person say I'm not a morning person, watch out,
be very careful because morning is the gold. Ain't it
your goal to wake up tomorrow morning? So why would
you put that on yourself by saying I'm not a
morning person. You're gonna mess around and make your wish
come true one day. You ain't gonna be here one morning, tadda.
(01:29:34):
I would never put that on me. I'm not a
morning person, you know. You hear people all they tell him,
I just don't like I just don't like heat. Okay,
but what about when it's hot outside. I'm appreciative of
God of every single day I get. I don't care
if it's raining. I fish in the rain, you know what,
(01:29:58):
because I love fishing so much, and it rains a
lot of times in Georgia. I bought a rain suit
so I could fish while it was raining. See well
that rain. I don't like to sound to rain. It's
gonna rain, it's what you mean. I don't like heat.
(01:30:19):
It's finn to be hot. It's called summer. I don't
like it cold outside. It's winter. It's finna be cold
every day in a row. Get yourself some jackets, some
sweaters and scarf, some gloves, some hats, and get out
there and get on with your day. And I'm that
way because I've practiced being that way. I'm so grateful
(01:30:43):
for every he gives me that I don't care what
the day got in it. I've even grown to be
comfortable with my problems. When I get a challenge put
in front of me, I know it's God trying to
show me something, so I deal with it. It's like
Junior ask me every day, how do you just deal
with stuff you've never dealt with before?
Speaker 12 (01:31:04):
What?
Speaker 2 (01:31:04):
I get up and I go through it, and then
I put that over in experienced power because now if
that ever happens again, I've now done it and now
I know how to get through it. So see everything
that happens to you as a benefit. Stop looking at
your life is Oh woe is me? No man, Oh
glory is me. The fact that you made it through
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every rough day you've ever had in your life. Don't
you see that it was God bringing you through, teaching
you stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:31:34):
Man?
Speaker 2 (01:31:34):
Come on, start practicing greatness, start practicing discipline. You can
train yourself to be that. It's up to you. The
Bible says a man is as he thinkth get to
thinking different, and you'll get to be in different Those
are my clothes, reus. I didn't like that? Was well,
try it again and there have a great come.
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