Holding A Grudge For 30 Years, Would You Rather, The Pastors, and more! - 1.22.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
At all at all?

Speaker 1 (00:12):
Don't given them.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
The bush?

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Yeah listening too?

Speaker 4 (00:38):
I want joy? Yeah? Joy? You turn, you.

Speaker 5 (01:24):
Gotta turn.

Speaker 4 (01:31):
I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
To turn the mouth. Turn You probably got to turn
the mouth, turn out, turn a wad of the moat.

Speaker 6 (01:47):
A job wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come out.

Speaker 7 (01:59):
You think, Ah huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody.
You are listening to the voice, come on, dig me now?
Want and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

Speaker 2 (02:13):
Man.

Speaker 7 (02:13):
If y'all only knew, I think I'll tell it to you.
This morning man started off real crazy. But it's just
those little mishaps where we as people who are striving
to be successful that makes all the difference in the world.
When you have those little minor things that come up,
you can't let the minor things stop you. You've got

(02:36):
to keep pressing forward. Now, Could I have played the
role of where is my car? Where is my car?

Speaker 4 (02:44):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Where is my car? Instead of hustling and grab a cab?
So what am I? Am I above a cab ride now?

Speaker 7 (02:54):
Or do I have to look at the bigger picture
and say, okay, I could act like a little spoiled
brat sometimes a star and goal I don't ride in
cabs or where's my car? And then go to blaming
people for not having a car, or do I make
the adjustments because ain't like I ain't been in a
cab before now slow down. Ain't like I ain't never
been enough in a beat up car before, slow down.

(03:14):
Ain't ever like I ain't never had a car and
rode a bus before slow down. Ain't like I ain't
never been homeless before, and ain't have nowhere to go?
Slow down. So in those moments right there, always remember
where you come from, but even more importantly, always remember
where you trying to go, because it's important for me

(03:36):
that I get here as many mornings as I possibly can.
It's important because that's the goal. And so many people
allow a minor things to stop them on their road
to success. And I'm giving you this example today not
to say hey, look at me, but to say to you, hey,
listen to me. There are going to be a lot
of things that's going to happen along your way to

(03:56):
beings successful, and if you allow the small things to
stop you, there's no way you'll make it. You've got
to always press forward and stop looking at the situation
for what it is and look, sometimes you have to
take your eye off right now and put your eye
in the future. You know, God has blessed me in
so many ways. I mean, what can I say? You know,
I ask God for this syndicated show. He gives me

(04:16):
a syndicated show. Nia act like I don't want to
come to it. Hold on, man, slow down? Did not
you ask for this? Do I not realize that there
are certain people, man, who look forward to this message
in the morning. I've heard it from people, so from
the hundreds that I've heard it for, that could represent
thousands for all I know. So if I think somebody's

(04:39):
counting on me, I got to try to get there
and give something. So today I didn't have any time
at all to think about what I might say. I
just walk right in and the jingle was playing, and
so I decided to just tell you about my day
and maybe you can relate it to something you going
through along the way, because no matter who you are,
you're going to have some moments man, where things are
going to happen. And like I always tell my kids,

(05:02):
and I just had this conversation with my little girl.
It ain't that things ain't gonna happen. It's how you
handle what happens that matters. But it don't matter. It's
how you handle what happens that's the determining factor on
where you get in life and how soon you get
there and how long you stay there. That will always
be a mishap, something that's gonna throw you off. There

(05:26):
will always be something man that could deter you. That
will be something somewhere, man, that will make you doubt it.
Now that you know that's gonna happen, then let's talk
about how you handle what happens, because it's going to happen.
So now, what do you do as a person when
these moments come about in your life? How do you handle?

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Oh? Woe is me?

Speaker 5 (05:48):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (05:49):
I guess it wasn't meant to be. Well.

Speaker 7 (05:51):
If the Lord wanted me to have this, I'd have that.
How many damn many times you hear people say that,
You know, man, it really irks me. Man, Stop using
God as your excuse. God ain't no excuse. God is
a reason. He's a reason why the good happens. He's
a reason. He's not an excuse. God don't have no excuses,

(06:15):
and none of his scriptures or writings not that I
he just don't make excuses.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
I would have done this.

Speaker 7 (06:21):
But you know there's a scripture that says the poor
will all shall always be amongst us.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
Why that's got to be you.

Speaker 7 (06:30):
Yeah, he said the poor will always be amongst us,
because you know, everybody ain't gonna follow the principles of success.
But he also said he came to give you life
and give it to you more abundantly. He said that too,
But oh no, you don't want to hear that because
your life kind of trip it out a little bit.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
So now what you do with it?

Speaker 7 (06:46):
Now, you twist it and you go to that one
little scripture that say well, the poor shall always be
amongst us. Well, that's put in there because that's a
that's suggests in case. See, that's a just in case
you don't want to follow the scriptures. That's just in
case you don't understand that faith without works is dead.

(07:07):
That's just in case you have not because you ask. Now,
it's just in case you don't believe and shall not doubt.
He got all that in there, But in case you
don't want to do that there is a scripture that
tells you what will happen if you don't do it,
and here it is the poor shall always be amongst us.
But then you get that when they say, well, that's
I guess that's the Lord's will. Lord's will, really, really,

(07:30):
really really that's amazing. I just don't believe that about him.
I don't believe that God created your life to be
a life of misery. I think that we make decisions
along the way that cause us to have lives of misery.
But I really really just don't believe that God created

(07:52):
you for that. I've heard Nelson Mandela speak, and you know,
you gotta go wild. All those years in prison, Man,
what was it about? When you hear him speak, you
understand what it was about. He said he always knew
he would be free one day. Now, what he said

(08:12):
he never knew was he said, he never knew that
he would be the president of that country. Oh my goodness,
what a long way around. But he could have set
there and got involved in prison activities that wasn't up
to paw and things like that. And they said whenever
young inmates used to come in. He was telling the

(08:34):
story one time of how young inmates used to come
into the prison. They all sit around and talk to
him about what they were doing and how many kids
they had in their lives, and it helped them keep
track of the outside a little bit, and it kept
a sense of time for them, and it reminded me
to talk about what they left behind, and it kept
them going because something.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
Was greater on the other side.

Speaker 7 (08:56):
Had he allowed that to stop him, had he allowed
the imprisonment, which is a pretty major deal. Oh, by
the way, then guess what he would have never been
the Nelson Mandela that we know today, a martyr, a leader,
a great force. People want to go around him. Even
people that imprisoned him could not understand his staunch strength,

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his faith, his unwavering commitment. They couldn't understand it. So
things are going to happen in your life, but it's
how you handle what happens doesn't matter. So keep pushing, y'all.
Don't let the little things get in the way, okay,
And if you just sometimes you just don't know. I
got in a cab thinking I wasn't gonna make it,
but at least let's go see, let's try.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
I made it.

Speaker 7 (09:38):
Now, guess what that gives me another piece of information
that I have, and all I had to see it
again today. Guess what I said today? Man, sometime when
it looked like you ain't gonna make it, just go
ahead on anywhere.

Speaker 8 (09:50):
Now.

Speaker 7 (09:50):
I could still be back there at the hotel talking
about where my car, but I got up in here
made it.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
So Now what y'all gonna do with it? Let's go.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Lady and gentlemen, Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (10:03):
Back at you Live again, full of gratitude, full of favor.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
Still here.

Speaker 7 (10:10):
I'm gonna have a share honest thing with you. The
other day, I was a little bit what myself.

Speaker 8 (10:16):
I was.

Speaker 7 (10:17):
I was, let me say, mentally under the weather because
a couple of things I was working on just hadn't
panned out the way I wanted. And it was just
but for lack of other words, I was a little
bit down. And so I sat down with God and
I said, God, just help me, because man, I just

(10:37):
I just feel I'm disconnected right now.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
I feel like I'm I'm just wandering right now. Man.

Speaker 7 (10:43):
I can't seem to get this thing right. I can't
get this close like I want to, I won't.

Speaker 2 (10:49):
And then and then just.

Speaker 7 (10:52):
Something, man, you remember you tell all y'all. I said,
you know, whenever you feel down, just start being grateful. Well,
he whispered to me. He said, I know what's going wrong,
but can you tell me what what you got going right?
And I started being grateful, and I'll be dog gone.
It turned around for me, It really did. It turned
around for me because I realized, all of a sudden, man, wow,

(11:17):
even if what I'm chasing don't happen, what I've captured
is good enough.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
And in the words of Earth, Wind and Fire, you
can't lose what you never had. You just can't, man,
love it. Come on, yeah, come on either of Yeah, bro,
I'm just sitting up here. Go you can't lose what
you never had.

Speaker 7 (11:37):
If I never even get that deal, ain't out and
made it sixty eight years without it, boy, come on, man.
So sometimes, just as a suggestion, folks, if you're out
there and you're starting to feel a little cloudy, when
your day and you starting to feel a little down,
like it ain't going right, just make a list of
everything that has gone right. Hard to set joy and

(12:00):
depression cannot reside in the same space. I learned that
at my mama's funeral Steve Hawg Moore the show Sherlt
Strawberry Colin for Real Mississippi Monica Junior and the legend
that is Nephew Tommy Junior.

Speaker 9 (12:11):
Yeah, stay right there, because you know I feel like
that too sometimes, Man, a lot of us do, because
we get caught up in what's not going right, and
we stay on the negative so long, Like.

Speaker 10 (12:22):
When do we start doing it?

Speaker 4 (12:23):
Like right then?

Speaker 9 (12:23):
Because we will focus on the negative so long and
we forget to be grateful.

Speaker 7 (12:27):
Well, I'll admit, you know, we're human, and sometimes you
get caught up in the focusing on the negative. You know,
we're humans, so and sometimes the negative appears to be
big and you just keep dwelling on it. Well, the
more you dwell on a negative subject, the more negative
it becomes. You can't fix a negative situation with more negativity.

(12:50):
You must interject light. I don't care if you are to.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
Pitch black cave.

Speaker 7 (12:56):
If you strike a match, that match be comes the
most telling thing in the cave. You have got to
introduce light into your darkness. Just a little bit of
light in a pitch black cave. Becomes the thing. It's
the focal point. So it's just critical man that you

(13:17):
do that. It's hard to do.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
I'll admit, I gotta remember that.

Speaker 5 (13:20):
It ain't been an okay, I'm supposed to take matches
in the cave see right here?

Speaker 3 (13:25):
Okay, all right, and so it begins the show and
the stupidity.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
Coming up.

Speaker 3 (13:33):
At thirty two minutes after the hour, we will hear
from the man himself. Nephew, Tommy, I ain't got no
light in here. What you're listening? Hard morning show?

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Speaker 3 (14:19):
It is time now for the nephew to run that
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Speaker 11 (14:26):
This title probably is one of the greatest titles of
all the Black history. If you really want to think
about it, and the title is don't let these white
folk help you get your ass?

Speaker 2 (14:35):
Will know? Let it theseus?

Speaker 5 (14:38):
It's probably one of the greatest titles of all the
Black history. I put it up there when the top three.
This this got to be right up there with Top three.
Don't let these white folk help you get your ass?

Speaker 4 (14:48):
Wok? I like it?

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Right after MLK they come out.

Speaker 2 (14:52):
I don't know nobody on this show. I ain't ever
saying who ain't boy?

Speaker 8 (15:00):
All right, dog?

Speaker 11 (15:02):
If you would, let's go, don't let these white folks
help you get your head. Hello, Hey, I'm trying to
reach Terrell.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Yeah, it's who is Hey Terrell?

Speaker 2 (15:14):
This is Drake. Hey you you Worke the You work
the day shift, right, yeah?

Speaker 8 (15:19):
I work at the day shift.

Speaker 4 (15:20):
I'm right now. What's going on?

Speaker 5 (15:23):
I'm on I'm on the night shift with uh, with
Deshaun and Jamal. I'm on the night shift.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
I don't know. Is it something like, man, I'm at work, brother,
what's going on?

Speaker 2 (15:33):
Yeah? Yeah, we got a problem. So listen us on
the on the night shift.

Speaker 11 (15:37):
We hear that you supposed to be telling everybody that
we ain't doing something right. Listen, when we get a
load in at the dock, we check that load in,
We filed it like we're supposed to file it, and
then we put and then we take the furth cliff
and put everything where it's supposed to be.

Speaker 2 (15:51):
That's what we do.

Speaker 8 (15:52):
What they gotta do with here, brother, because they saying.

Speaker 5 (15:55):
They saying that, they saying that, you saying that we
ain't doing our job right on the night shift.

Speaker 4 (16:01):
Who is they? We got the wrong person?

Speaker 8 (16:03):
Brother?

Speaker 4 (16:03):
Who is they.

Speaker 8 (16:06):
Say you you to you to rail right?

Speaker 4 (16:08):
Yeah it's a rail, But who is they? And I
ain't say nothing like that?

Speaker 5 (16:12):
Okay, so well let me let me, let me go,
let me go clear up like this here though, don't
let them.

Speaker 10 (16:16):
White folks help you get your here, my brother.

Speaker 5 (16:22):
No, I'm telling you right now, if we get one
more complaint, but they're talking about the night shift ain't
doing something right. I'm gonna tell you right now, we're
coming up there to today's shift and you're gonna get
your we you're gonna let the white folks help.

Speaker 4 (16:33):
You get your talking about brother, For one, I ain't
making any complaints. You bring your black down here, then
you're talking about what somebody? Come on down here. I'll
put this pointless.

Speaker 10 (16:43):
Right brother, you can you can do all this wolfing
you're doing right now. You can do all this wolfing.

Speaker 11 (16:49):
What I'm letting you know is one more complaint go
down about somebody saying something about the night shift.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
I'm coming up their problems down here.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
The man I ain't trying to hear all this. Boys,
I'm not work right now. You calls me with this
bullsh I don't even know who you are talking about
the knight shift. Matter of fact, don't come down during
the day shift all wait for you to come to
the night shift. Well, you can do what you want
to do with the double and work that double.

Speaker 5 (17:14):
Whatever you got to do. It don't matter to me, Terrell,
It don't matter at me. All I'm saying is this,
why why are you running your while you're running your mouth,
Why you're running your mouth?

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Why why are you running.

Speaker 5 (17:30):
Your mouth to the white Foe's talking about we ain't
doing our job.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
On the night ship.

Speaker 4 (17:34):
You might have called somebody else.

Speaker 2 (17:37):
Now so so so what while your voice getting high
because you're.

Speaker 4 (17:41):
Lying talking about we'll call me with this hey, man,
you're working. You're working a lot.

Speaker 2 (17:48):
I'm working to night.

Speaker 10 (17:49):
I'm working.

Speaker 4 (17:50):
Now you get you to night. I'm gonna say, oh well,
I'm gonna work the double, just to whoop your.

Speaker 11 (17:55):
Okay, well, come get this double, whooping deep okay, come
get this double because we are ready and found out.
You the person running your mouth to them white folks
talking about.

Speaker 10 (18:03):
The nice sift night yift ain't doing nice? Yeft ain't
put this way.

Speaker 5 (18:07):
It was supposed to go nights yift ain't ain't checked
this already in right night shift, nights hift.

Speaker 2 (18:12):
You're blaming it.

Speaker 4 (18:14):
Why don't you stop stopping? People will stop saying you
messed up?

Speaker 8 (18:17):
Stop stop, and.

Speaker 4 (18:19):
People won't complain on the day shift. It sounds we.

Speaker 5 (18:22):
Were messing up on the night shift. That's what I'm
telling you.

Speaker 4 (18:25):
Boys. Shocking Howly needs to fire your.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
Okay, okay, okay, cool?

Speaker 4 (18:31):
You know what you know?

Speaker 8 (18:32):
What?

Speaker 2 (18:32):
How long for you get off?

Speaker 7 (18:33):
Man?

Speaker 2 (18:33):
How long for you get off? How long for you
get off?

Speaker 4 (18:37):
I'm working a double. I'm getting paid for what your tonight?

Speaker 2 (18:41):
All right?

Speaker 4 (18:42):
Boy?

Speaker 2 (18:43):
Cool to say? No more so? How your wife Cynthia doing?

Speaker 4 (18:50):
How you long life?

Speaker 2 (18:53):
How she doing?

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Do you know my wife.

Speaker 2 (18:56):
I'm I'm asking your question.

Speaker 8 (18:59):
For a bruise.

Speaker 4 (19:00):
Really cool for a bude.

Speaker 8 (19:01):
I don't you know my wife?

Speaker 4 (19:02):
Man?

Speaker 5 (19:04):
You know what I'm finna. I'm finna tell you. You
want to know how I know you? Why do you
want to know how I know you?

Speaker 1 (19:10):
White?

Speaker 4 (19:11):
Yeah, you know my wife.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
Terrell. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (19:19):
Your wife Cynthia got me to pray phone call you.

Speaker 11 (19:24):
What slowdhouse loadounse loadounse load down.

Speaker 5 (19:30):
This is this nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning
to show your wife, Cynthia, you.

Speaker 2 (19:35):
Almost got your.

Speaker 4 (19:38):
God I was sixty nine in the shout. This boy
got me. You damn got me fight. It's the whole factor.
You're looking at me right now. I'm gonna have to
kick your just this if I get fired. Hey, this
was nephew telling me offie show. Yeah, nephew telling right now.

Speaker 5 (20:03):
He ain't to real do me a favorite, man, You
got to tell me this baby, what is the baddest
and I mean the baddest.

Speaker 4 (20:09):
Radio show in the land, The Seen Harvey Morning Show.
Oh man, y'all got me.

Speaker 5 (20:17):
And there you have it all right, everybody good with it, Yes, sir,
my piece of Nator. I'll be back in another hour.
Same ignoro, it's same stupid. Ain't nothing gonna change.

Speaker 11 (20:28):
February the eighth, the Nephew will be in Memphis, Tennessee.
That is February the eighth, Memphis, Tennessee. Sound stays great Sland, Baby,
great Sland. Yeah, tell them the Nephew come to town.
That's Nephew timing friends. That's the house part of comedy
jam and all that stuff. It's stupid, it's ignit, it's crazy,
and it's damn show funny. If you want to come

(20:48):
out and get your laugh on, it's happening February the
eighth in Memphis, and no comedy club there, no more.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
Come on out the great Land.

Speaker 3 (20:56):
Now, okay, it's interesting head clubc love go.

Speaker 5 (21:03):
It ran for a minute, though, Black Owner. I loved
it the death David chuckles, chuckles, hand chuckles, ran for
a minute, man, yeah, Grace Land, it is gonna get
over there and where elbow says, We're gonna do what
we got to do.

Speaker 2 (21:18):
Shirley, all right, thank you.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
It is asked the CLO with our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey, in the building.

Speaker 7 (21:30):
Did you know you can now buy a Hondai on Amazon,
the same place where you order yoga mats, a toothbrush,
and pretty much everything else, all from the comfort of
your home, just located nearby dealer. Pick your color, your options,
check the price, and with a few dotting of some
eyes and crossing some tea's, whaila, your Hondai is ready

(21:50):
for pick up.

Speaker 10 (21:51):
It's that easy.

Speaker 11 (21:52):
Visit Honda USA dot com for more details. Limited availability
pick up through participating Hondai dealers and select markets.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour. And entertainment
news TI Guys t I recently taped his first, his
very first stand up comedy special in Atlanta. We'll talk
about that. Boxers Mike Tyson and Jake Paul are now
the best of friends, according to Paul, and Snoop Dogg
receives even more backlash for posting a tribute to dock Mark.

(22:24):
That is all coming up at the top of the hour,
But right now it is time to ask the clo.
Our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is in the building.
This is from Alison and Stanford. Alison writes, I took
my boyfriend to meet my parents and he hung out
with my two brothers. They said he acts like he's

(22:44):
better than them. My boyfriend said, my brothers aren't on
his level. I had to agree with him. Is it
important that your family likes your mate?

Speaker 2 (22:54):
Oh no, not really. It helps, it helps, but it ain't.
It ain't a necessity.

Speaker 7 (23:02):
You know, he acts like he better than them, and
you and your boyfriend say he had they ain't on
his same load. Dang, he know that, and they know that.
He actually said he thinks he better than us. You
know what that means, Man, this dude better than us.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
He came over here. We couldn't we and we couldn't
live up. So, yeah, that happens. Excise me. You ain't
you're not man. He Hey, he ain't man. Your brothers
he won't you.

Speaker 7 (23:32):
So now you can mess around and let your family
make you lose a good thing if you want to,
because you're gonna have them same underachieving ass brothers where
you marry him or not.

Speaker 2 (23:46):
Call family. Now, you donna let your man go because
them two right there.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
I wonder what they were talking about.

Speaker 2 (23:59):
Man, I'm open up a T shirt company.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
That's nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 7 (24:05):
Yeah, but what's on the T shirts. I hate nothing
wrong with the T shirt company. What's on the T shirt?

Speaker 3 (24:17):
That's what they saying, all right?

Speaker 7 (24:20):
Moving on all my T shirts? Gonna hair, Hell yeah
on it. It ain't gonna see that. Ain't gonna sel man?

Speaker 1 (24:31):
What all right?

Speaker 3 (24:35):
Moving on to Runnelle in Cincinnati, Ronelle says, I'm thirty
three years old and I'm getting divorced. But it bothers
me to see that my wife has moved on. I
go by the house every day to see if anyone's
there with her, and I fumble this one big time.
I want her back. Will this heartache and paign ever
go away?

Speaker 4 (24:56):
No?

Speaker 3 (24:58):
Never?

Speaker 7 (24:59):
In the words of Ain't keep Beverley, I know I
bought it on myself. I know I owe no blame
to no one else. And now I realize I can't
get over you. I try to lose myself in song
method ties are just too strong. What am I gonna do?

(25:25):
I can't get over you. It's all yeah, it's all
good man, you be all over you, all.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
Yeah. The corner, I'll tell you.

Speaker 7 (25:40):
And in the words of somebody's grandmama that I know
find this woman in the world is your ex on
the arms of another man. Mm hmm, gonna see that. Yeah,
I ain't got nothing for you. Yeah, you could help
yourself by not riding by that no modo. You don't

(26:03):
mess around and see a cap in that driveway with some.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
Rems on it. Know the ain't her girlfriend?

Speaker 12 (26:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (26:12):
Yeah, women don't do rems like no.

Speaker 3 (26:18):
All right, Moving on to Felicia in Birmingham. Felicia says,
my husband went to a gala and I didn't go
because we didn't have a babysitter. I assumed the gala
ran late because he got home after one a m.
I found out that he went to a club afterwards.
If it's nothing, why did he tell me about it

(26:39):
a week later?

Speaker 7 (26:44):
Come on, now, he told you about it a week later,
and I can promise you that he accidentally let.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
That out.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
Since he held off four week.

Speaker 2 (26:57):
Yeah, I can promise you this came out didnvertually?

Speaker 7 (27:02):
You know, something came up. Yeah, we was at the club.
Wait a minute, why you was at the club after
the gate? It ain't no gala at one o'clock anymoreing
galens even after a Yeah, galas is not really fun events.

Speaker 3 (27:18):
No, we went to yours and you introduced us to Denzel.
That was fun, right, Carlo?

Speaker 2 (27:25):
That the one that wasn't fun? Surely that was Yes,
it was.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
Yeah, we had a ball, Jim zel Zel.

Speaker 7 (27:35):
Yeah, well that was fun. Galas are not fun events
for the most part, unless you have two uh.

Speaker 1 (27:47):
Co workers trying to cougar's you know.

Speaker 5 (27:54):
Older.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
Yeah, but you're old enough though, you know you're steal
a cooler.

Speaker 3 (28:00):
Well, it was fun, It was fun, Okay.

Speaker 7 (28:03):
Next one, Shirley ain't gonna help him, no dog rud.
He accidentally told you about this here? And why didn't
he tell.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
You because he knew not to tell you that night?

Speaker 8 (28:17):
What what?

Speaker 1 (28:18):
Uh huh?

Speaker 2 (28:19):
He can't believe it came out a week later if
he didn't tell you that night, and it.

Speaker 7 (28:24):
Came up a week later, and it bertany came up
in conversations somehow he didn't intend to tell you. Oh,
by the way, you know after the gaily, you know,
went to a club last night and a man did
that right, He kicked the accident.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
He kicked it. He kicked it hard, this thing and
you ain't here. You ain't here either, Hell yeah, I
got this suit on?

Speaker 1 (28:51):
Yeah, hell yeah.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
Well you look nice to night, thank you? You do too. Yeah,
all right.

Speaker 3 (29:00):
Last one see Tyra and Portland write my four year
old daughter mixed sound that her daddy and I make
in the bedroom. It's hard to keep that man quiet,
and I feel like we're horrible parents. He said, it's normal,
But I didn't grow up hearing my parents have sex.
What should we do?

Speaker 2 (29:20):
Well?

Speaker 7 (29:20):
Show and tal gonna be interesting enough at your school
next PTA meeting you go to ya, You're gonna be
all right. Oh pooh, that's my daddy. And then and

(29:45):
then here go mama.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
And my daddy. Keep asking that question, who's this? Whose
is it? Okay, ain't nobody there, ain't nobody.

Speaker 7 (29:53):
I'll be going who else is in there? That's my mama,
that's my mama, Daddy, who's is? And who's but daddy?
That's my mom this moment, I sure wish I could
hear what that little girl is saying nowhere and then
she folds, Oh.

Speaker 1 (30:08):
My gosh, all right, thank you.

Speaker 8 (30:11):
Celo.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we have
some entertainment news, sugar. Right after this, you're listening Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Well rapper turned stand up comedian Ti
just taped his very first stand up comedy special. He

(30:32):
taped it this past weekend at Center Stage in Atlanta.
Especialist called quote an evening of comedy with comedian Tip
Harris and comedians from the Haha Mafia Collective performed as well.
C I said he plans to continue to blend his
humor with his life experiences on fame and fatherhood. Information
on how to watch the special wasn't given, but congratulations

(30:55):
to Ti. He's seeming to us stick with this stage.

Speaker 7 (31:00):
That I'm just the same one it used to be,
like a thousand seater. That's it, that's it, and that
that was my first theater gig in Atlanta.

Speaker 2 (31:11):
Ever, Oh ever, a thousand seed at just so congratulation
to Tip land Brats. Yeah right, so so so so
so how could you see it?

Speaker 3 (31:25):
Well, it hasn't been given yet.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
That okay, so he just recorded.

Speaker 3 (31:31):
Yeah, we'll keep everybody posted, of course, and moving on.
Leedless to say that Mike Tyson and Jake Paul have
no animosity toward each other. After Paul carried Mike Tyson
on his shoulders into Donald Trump's Starlight Ball Monday night,
as the crowd cheered them on, Paul posted the video

(31:51):
on his ig with the caption best friends, and the
video has gone viral. Paul is a big Trump supporter
and was spotted at the inauguration with another fan of Trump,
kind of Connor McGregor. But did we know that Tyson
was also supportive of Trump? Did anybody know?

Speaker 2 (32:08):
I don't know what I tell you this. They looked
like best friends when they were fighting. That's what they
looked like.

Speaker 3 (32:12):
When the Ragaul.

Speaker 1 (32:15):
Yeah, they like me, like your best friend too. Yeah,
I'll be your friend, buddy.

Speaker 3 (32:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (32:24):
You know what, man, I'm not really like. I don't
really like who's a supporter of Trump? I don't really
I don't even really.

Speaker 2 (32:30):
Care no more. I really don't know. Snoop, Snoop, Snoop
got a little situation going on.

Speaker 1 (32:36):
But you know, snoopid.

Speaker 2 (32:40):
Man because they posted what Snoop said said before.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
Yeah in twenty seventeen.

Speaker 3 (32:46):
Yeah, that was Yeah, people changed, so glad.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
That was so glad.

Speaker 5 (32:54):
It ain't me.

Speaker 11 (32:57):
Ooh so.

Speaker 9 (33:04):
My lord, my Lord toldy, hey.

Speaker 1 (33:13):
Me come on.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
Yeah, speaking of Snoop Dogg. He faced even more backlash
after he posted a tribute to doctor Martin Luther King
Junior on Monday. People were already upset with Snoop for
performing at Donald Trump's inauguration, and wasted no time blasting
him on social media. The commenters mostly noted that under
normal circumstances, they would expect Snoop to honor the legacy

(33:39):
of MLK Junior, but after he publicly supported troops, he
can't celebrate doctor King's legacy, Trump, Trump, I'm sorry, Trump,
he can't celebrate doctor King's legacy.

Speaker 7 (33:52):
Well, I mean, he can celebrate doctor King his legacy.
But I think the posting of the Martin Luther King
thing was to try to soften the blow from the
stuff that you know.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
I don't. I don't know why he did it.

Speaker 7 (34:07):
I don't. I don't know the thought behind doing it,
not the yeah, performing, I don't understand that because you
said it yourself.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
Yeah, that this was a direct quote from you. One
of you Uncle Tom's is gonna get out there and
do it first, because whoever do it, I'm a I'm
gonna tall yo. I mean he said.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
I'm gonna roaster.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (34:36):
I thought it was Ai, but then I saw too
many places and then damn, I'm pretty.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
He regretsed that. Now, let me ask you something, because
I don't smoke weed. So let me ask you something.

Speaker 7 (34:54):
When you do something like that and you smoke weed,
do it affect you to say, ain't well, you don't
know it's happening, dude.

Speaker 2 (35:02):
You do something like what so you don't know you
did it? Yeah? Yeah, like you like a whole damn concert. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (35:10):
Like I'm yeah, I'm smoking weed and I'm performing for
Donald Trump, I'm my own DJ and everything I saw
the clip?

Speaker 2 (35:19):
Is you that high where you don't know you?

Speaker 4 (35:21):
There?

Speaker 3 (35:25):
Are?

Speaker 8 (35:28):
You? Are you?

Speaker 7 (35:29):
Does weed make you think? Don't nobody see this? I'm
just trying to figure out what is the effects of
weed have because I ain't never been high. So just
anybody out there that has been high. When you smoking
weed and you standing at DJ and your damn self,
which I've never seen Snoop do and singing.

Speaker 2 (35:49):
Your song.

Speaker 7 (35:51):
Under the influence of weed, do you not see them
white people standing.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
Up, stone faced, poker faced.

Speaker 4 (36:01):
All of it.

Speaker 7 (36:01):
And I am a Snoop fan, dude. I just yeah, Well,
let me ask you this question about we. Does we
make you forget everything you said in two thousand and seventeen?

Speaker 1 (36:16):
Yeah, possibly, possibly, that is possible.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
That's possible.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
You don't even need weed for that.

Speaker 10 (36:23):
You can do that.

Speaker 7 (36:24):
Yeah, yeah, I walked in the room and didn't know
why I walked in there and had to go back out.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
But I wasn't smoking weed though, because we.

Speaker 1 (36:35):
I'm my question.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
Today is what do we do.

Speaker 7 (36:44):
We're looking for, colle I'm just trying to help Snoop
because I love Snoop Man.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
But we love tried love it. Yeah, I'm trying.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
Maybe it'ster weed.

Speaker 3 (36:57):
Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, Donald Trump
is all already being sued by eighteen states. We'll talk
about it right after.

Speaker 1 (37:05):
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A total of eighteen states the attorney general have a

(37:50):
filed federal lawsuits against President Trump after he signed an
executive order to end birthright citizenship. The lawsuit was filed yesterday,
that's Tuesdays Chusetts Federal Court and states that the executive
order violates the fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution,
which guarantees citizenship to all children born on American soil.

(38:12):
The lawsuit seeks to block the order before it can
take effect. Trump has been in office two days and
he's already being sued.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
Well do he care?

Speaker 8 (38:22):
No?

Speaker 2 (38:23):
No, is anything gonna happen to him?

Speaker 8 (38:26):
No?

Speaker 7 (38:27):
No, Is he gonna do like he wanta do? Yes, yes, okay,
let's move vote. That's who y'all voted for.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
He can't pay him this he bruh, bruh.

Speaker 2 (38:41):
All those orders he signed for the border man, quit tripping.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
He said this.

Speaker 2 (38:47):
At least he doing what he said he was gonna.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Don't you.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
Bruh?

Speaker 2 (38:56):
He he doing what he said he was going to do.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
I can say it shout to.

Speaker 3 (39:06):
Change nothing, change anything. Yeah, he's there for the next
four years or however long you know, depending on what
he does while in office.

Speaker 5 (39:15):
So how much money and effort are you putting up
when you you sue somebody like this?

Speaker 2 (39:20):
How much does all that cost?

Speaker 1 (39:22):
You mean a state for the state?

Speaker 2 (39:24):
Yeah, I wasting much just paperwork all day this man.
So wait, so how can you get nothing?

Speaker 6 (39:35):
So my question is, how can the president interpret the Amendment,
the language that's written in the Amendment, the way that
he wants to interpret. Because if it's in the Constitution,
it's in the Amendment that the children that are.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
Born here are citizens.

Speaker 6 (39:53):
But you're interpreting it to say, but if their parents
were here unlawfully, it didn't.

Speaker 5 (39:58):
It doesn't say that the same way changed the body
of water the same way he did that.

Speaker 3 (40:05):
To your point, he thinks he can do whatever he
wants to do. When he's gonna do that, that's it.

Speaker 7 (40:12):
He he is Donald Trump. How he gonna change the Constitution?
He ain't never read it. He don't even know what's
in there. Y'all keep talking about he changing it. He
ain't read it. He's filling out paperwork based on what
he won't Yeah, what he wants it to birthright.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
He don't care about that. Trump, you can't do that.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
He said, it's a birthright. It's in the constitution, fourteenth Amendment.

Speaker 2 (40:38):
So this is a big one. This is a big one.
This is a big one. Huge. Yeah, this is huge.
I'm signing this one. Fourteenth Amendment should be done, should
have been done with Biden.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
So classic, all right, coming up, Oh, this is scary.
The nephew has been thinking again and he had something
on his mind. So we'll find out what those are
right after this. You're listening hard Morning Show. Okay, the

(41:13):
nephew has something on his mind, Tommy, what is it today?

Speaker 5 (41:17):
This is a special report for uh, this is repend
Motown and Deacon Depth Jail.

Speaker 2 (41:23):
This is a special report.

Speaker 5 (41:27):
Okay, Pastor, I hate to interrupt this and this this
with this, this this special report, and it is a
miss lord lord, lord lord, but here we go past it.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
This is this is gonna be a reference.

Speaker 4 (41:40):
We got a.

Speaker 2 (41:43):
I don't even know how to say it. Anyway.

Speaker 5 (41:47):
Elk called the church hotline and he was furious. He
has left up my message. He wants to know who
gave the young man in the green light to use
his speech. He is completely out of line. He said
it was a buffoonery approach, and he said he wants
this man to not be walking on none of his

(42:09):
MLK streets. He don't want to make none of his
MLK high schools. And as a matter of fact, he said,
don't let him anywhere anywhere in the month of February
to be speaking on anybody's behalf. And he said, Reverend
Motown needs to make sure this assignment is carried out
in his namesake.

Speaker 7 (42:29):
Well, no doubt about it. It will be structured, en
ruptured in a way. We have already filled out the
peoplewarp paperwork down at the Black Preacher's convention where he
is no longer a black preacher. Just like that, it

(42:54):
has been revoked. You ain't there's nothing of you, not
a black preacher. You're not a preacher in more all black.
You've been kicked out of both groups. You're out the
preacher group and now you're out the black group. You
is right now officially the only people that will accept you.

(43:17):
And we've gone around filled out of petition. We've taken
he's no longer black or a.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
Preacher, black card, preacher card.

Speaker 7 (43:28):
Okay, he's road manager now for Soldier Boy's Detroit. He's

(43:49):
found Detroit. I don't believe he'll ever be allowed to
go back to Detroit. That ain't the place to go.
And the line just lost to They're not gonna take
too much. The line's lost.

Speaker 2 (44:03):
And he spoke, what he that's a bit much.

Speaker 5 (44:09):
I didn't know he was from the christ so he said,
it's lectors in the whole nine yards past.

Speaker 7 (44:16):
Oh, he can't go there no more. He can't buy
another shoe out of slickers. I can tell you that
right now.

Speaker 10 (44:24):
All right now, how do you?

Speaker 5 (44:25):
How do you how do we handle him for the
month of February. We definitely don't want him popping up
in that month either.

Speaker 7 (44:31):
Path well, in Black History Month, there's special sections or
people who have contributed made contributions.

Speaker 5 (44:44):
To our.

Speaker 2 (44:47):
History.

Speaker 7 (44:48):
Yeah, Cornery, it's one of them that has made us
realize that if those of us.

Speaker 2 (44:57):
That don't need to be us no more.

Speaker 7 (45:01):
And he has been put into the conery buffoonery, whole category.
He's the whole category right now, Cornery category, All right,
Cornery bufoonery, stepping and fetching.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
That tap, dancing, coming down the steps with Charley temple.

Speaker 5 (45:31):
You gotta pick one dance. Now that's about different dance. Conery,
berffoniery stepping and fetch.

Speaker 2 (45:37):
Shucking and jiving.

Speaker 7 (45:39):
Look at that buffoonery, conery stepping, fetching, shucking and driving.
And the winner is the black dude that was preaching
at the Trump inauguration.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
We don't even know his name.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
All right?

Speaker 3 (45:58):
Coming up black is the nephew and today's prank phone call.

Speaker 2 (46:02):
Right after this, you're.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
Coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's
my strawberry letter for today and the subject is she's
holding a grudge from thirty years ago. We'll get into
find out what that's all about.

Speaker 2 (46:19):
We know you, Tommy, Well, Tommy, this one.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
Right now, it's time for the nephew who also holds
a grudge and the prank phone call. Faulty prank phone
call for today?

Speaker 2 (46:38):
Did we get it?

Speaker 8 (46:38):
At no?

Speaker 2 (46:40):
I didness? You say?

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Now with a nephew, I forgot?

Speaker 3 (46:49):
But right now and it's time for the nephew and
the prank phone call for today? What you got for
his nef This is.

Speaker 5 (46:56):
Right here, This is where all the husbands out there Shirley.

Speaker 2 (46:59):
That's what this is. This is HPP.

Speaker 5 (47:01):
This is Husband Protection Program, Husband protection program because husbands
need to be protected.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
That's it. Yeah, Husband Protection Program, cad dog.

Speaker 8 (47:14):
If you would, Hi, Morgan, my name is Josh. I'm
with HPP giving you a call. You are married to uh,
mister Sean to Mike?

Speaker 13 (47:25):
Correct, Yeah, you're with who now?

Speaker 8 (47:27):
I'm with HPP. We actually picked your husband up from
his job today. I wanted to give you a call
pick him up for one. Okay, you're you're his wife, Morgan? Right? Okay? Uh,
actually just wanted to make sure that he's okay, and
we're worried about Okay, what happened? Well, nothing's happening as
of right now. We've had a conversation with him and
we've checked him out. He's definitely okay.

Speaker 13 (47:48):
Hey, but why why are you picking him up?

Speaker 4 (47:50):
Though?

Speaker 13 (47:50):
I don't I don't understand what.

Speaker 8 (47:52):
All right, let's just just calm down. Hang on. Second,
I got a couple of questions for you. Your husband
he is about what five nine correct? Right? And you
would agree that Sean weighs about one hundred and seventy
five pounds. Does that sound about right? But he weighs. Yes, Okay,
here's another question. No exactly, Morgan. How tall are you?

Speaker 13 (48:10):
I'm five nine as well?

Speaker 8 (48:12):
Okay, and if you don't mind, I know it's a
little different type of question, but if you don't mind,
how much do you weigh?

Speaker 13 (48:18):
I'm like two hundred? Wait a minute?

Speaker 4 (48:20):
What is?

Speaker 8 (48:21):
What is? What is?

Speaker 13 (48:21):
How much I weey have.

Speaker 8 (48:22):
To do with it?

Speaker 13 (48:23):
I don't what is wrong with him?

Speaker 8 (48:25):
And where is?

Speaker 13 (48:26):
Where is he? Right now?

Speaker 8 (48:27):
We actually have him? We have him in our custody.

Speaker 5 (48:29):
Where have him?

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Where?

Speaker 8 (48:31):
We have him in our custody right now here at
our headquarters at HPP?

Speaker 4 (48:34):
So what what is?

Speaker 14 (48:37):
What is the HPP?

Speaker 8 (48:38):
Ma'am? HPP is Husband Protection Program?

Speaker 14 (48:43):
Husband protection?

Speaker 13 (48:44):
I've never I've never heard of such a thing. Why
why is he here here?

Speaker 8 (48:48):
Well? The problem we have and we've been getting some
actual complaints or whatnot, and not necessarily from him, but
that you've been bullying your husband.

Speaker 13 (48:56):
Okay, you know what. I'm at my job and I'm
gonna use your hold on one second, I can go here?

Speaker 10 (49:05):
What what what did you pay?

Speaker 8 (49:06):
Have you and uh Sean had any arguments at all lately?

Speaker 13 (49:10):
How we had we're married? Have we had arguments. Of
course he had arguments. What does that have to do
with anything?

Speaker 8 (49:16):
Have you guys had any altercations?

Speaker 13 (49:18):
Any altercations? Yes, what kind of altercations?

Speaker 8 (49:21):
Have you been bullying your husband in a physical way?

Speaker 13 (49:24):
I've been burying him.

Speaker 8 (49:28):
Have you been burying him? For somebody to turn in
and give us who you talk to him? I can't
put him on This is what I'm talking about. This
is what you're talking about.

Speaker 14 (49:41):
You by me at my job, turn off the freaking
htt crass, and somebody turned somebody in for some arguments.
We're married.

Speaker 13 (49:48):
Who are you freaking who's married him? Does not argue?

Speaker 8 (49:50):
I understand you, mad, but it is my job to
protect husbands that are getting bullied by their wife. This is.

Speaker 13 (49:59):
What Let me speak for him.

Speaker 8 (50:02):
I'm not at liberty to let you speak to him
right now. What you're not gonna do is bully me
as well. And I see why are they trying to
bully you?

Speaker 14 (50:08):
I want to know what is going on and why
you call me and my dad with some crap about
him being at some headquarters on ACP. I'm a a CP,
isn't a hundred apps? And my husband is not even
protected from anybody's fucking not miss.

Speaker 8 (50:17):
It is husband protection program. You've been bullying your husband,
You've been using bad language.

Speaker 13 (50:23):
With your whole long don't talk him my husband.

Speaker 14 (50:30):
When he said I do he said I do sex,
whatever she said to me, whenever he said it, higher
he said it, and.

Speaker 13 (50:34):
Never what he gets.

Speaker 14 (50:35):
And if he has the problems with arguing me, he
he's started.

Speaker 13 (50:37):
His craft and he won't be in an argument.

Speaker 8 (50:39):
And you tell him that, you see, this is what
we're talking about. This is why he's been picked up
today and brought into our custody so that he would
be definitely protected from you.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
You not right.

Speaker 14 (50:48):
If he needs some protection and he's in your company,
out you can.

Speaker 13 (50:50):
Keep him there.

Speaker 14 (50:51):
How about that?

Speaker 8 (50:52):
Well, here's what we're gonna do. Somebody's gonna be picking
you up, bringing you in so we can have a conversation.

Speaker 13 (50:56):
You bring me nowhere.

Speaker 8 (50:58):
What do you think is there? We're bringing you in
and we can have a conversation. She will help. Let
me explain something to you, ma'am. We will be bringing
you in having a conversation. You're gonna be coming in
and you're gonna do exactly what we're telling anybody. What
are you physically or mentally abusing your husband.

Speaker 14 (51:17):
You know what, you don't have to take me up?
Tell me where you I will come to you.

Speaker 13 (51:20):
You have to take me up.

Speaker 8 (51:20):
I will.

Speaker 13 (51:21):
I will come down here.

Speaker 14 (51:22):
I will handle you and him that same on FI.

Speaker 13 (51:24):
You tell me what.

Speaker 8 (51:27):
I'm gonna ask you a serious question. Is there some
type of consequence if he doesn't listen to you? I mean,
I mean, what are you doing? You're treating your husband
like a child. What are you doing to him?

Speaker 13 (51:37):
I feel like.

Speaker 8 (51:39):
If you have the problem with how I see him
you talking about uh, let me ask you something, miss Morgan.

Speaker 13 (51:44):
What do you do for a lets herd of security
at this building? And you're about to cross security or
me because I'm loud in.

Speaker 8 (51:49):
This room, So you don't have a security. So you
know all about putting people in choke holls and and
how to apprehend the person, don't you? That is my job? Yes? Idea?
So are you doing that at home?

Speaker 13 (52:00):
What I'm not gonna tell you again I'll harm that
man in any ways? No west harm I ever?

Speaker 8 (52:06):
Would I ever?

Speaker 14 (52:06):
Nor has he me? He needs to get him behind
in his car and go back to work.

Speaker 13 (52:10):
We are bills to take you don't have time for this, crack.

Speaker 8 (52:13):
I got one more thing I need to say to you,
or you're listening.

Speaker 13 (52:15):
You are nothing to say to me but that you
want to put my husband and try to let me
talk to him about this.

Speaker 8 (52:19):
I'm Sean, Sean, sit down, Sit down, Sean, get him
the phone, let me talk.

Speaker 13 (52:25):
I need to understand what is put down, Sean, I
got it.

Speaker 8 (52:28):
Let me finish the talk conversation with Okay, No, you
don't need to finish it.

Speaker 14 (52:31):
Let me finishing his put him on the phone.

Speaker 8 (52:33):
Hello, I have one more thing to ask you. Are
you listening? Are you listening? God ahead bliss his nephew
tire me from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just
got pranked by your husband, Sean.

Speaker 13 (52:58):
Hello, you forget I don't believe.

Speaker 7 (53:07):
What are you?

Speaker 8 (53:07):
What are you at right now? Man? I will worry
about your job. Where you at?

Speaker 14 (53:11):
I'm back here in this closet like a freaking ting
in heat dripping makes up everywhere.

Speaker 13 (53:21):
I cannot believe this.

Speaker 8 (53:24):
Oh God, man, Okay, baby, I gotta ask you, what
is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio.

Speaker 13 (53:30):
Show in the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 5 (53:38):
Now you have it, husband protection program, Husband protection program, sir.

Speaker 11 (53:45):
Hey, it's supposed to be stupid. That's my job. That's
my job, all right, all right? Did I think Milwaukee
for coming out watching.

Speaker 2 (53:52):
Me do my job?

Speaker 8 (53:53):
You do?

Speaker 5 (53:54):
Ask me what I'm thinking? Tommy, what you're thinking, Nigdal nothing?
Oh you're thinking about I ain't never heard you. I
ain't seen you think about?

Speaker 2 (54:02):
It is hell.

Speaker 3 (54:08):
An, I don't mind.

Speaker 2 (54:13):
I said it before. Memphis, Tennessee. Here I come.

Speaker 11 (54:15):
It's Great Slamd Baby, Great Sland sound Stage at Great
Slamd February the eighth in Memphis, Tennessee.

Speaker 2 (54:21):
The Nephew was coming town. Tickets on sale.

Speaker 7 (54:24):
Speaking of Memphis, man, you know I just left Memphis
for my father in law's ninetieth birthday. When it snowed
night and I visited the Civil Rights Museum, I'd be
like it and wow, man, everybody should go there. It's
amazing what they did.

Speaker 4 (54:41):
Man.

Speaker 2 (54:42):
It's connected to the Lorraine Motel where doctor King.

Speaker 7 (54:45):
Was saying that they built the special hall where you
could see the room that he was in while you're indoors,
and you can walk out on the balcony where he
was killed. It's a very eerie feeling. Man, they got
the same cars that were in the parking lot that day. Wow,
sitting right there. They really did a fantastic job. They

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got memorablel you, they got all types of stuff that
you can get at the National Civil Rights Museum in Memphis, Tennessee.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
Really really great job what they did there.

Speaker 1 (55:15):
Man, I would definitely go star all right.

Speaker 3 (55:19):
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Nephew. Subject she's holding a grudge from thirty years ago.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm fifty five years old and I'm divorced.
I have two grown daughters, and I gave guys a
hard time when they tried to date my daughters because
I never wanted anyone to disrespect them. I didn't want
them to ever be treated like I treated a woman.

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Back when I was in my twenties, when I was
twenty four, I dated an older woman that was a
manager at a movie theater. She was six years older
than me and she had her own place. She let
me keep her car, and she gave me money to
hang out with my friends. I did not want my
friends to know I was sleeping with her, because they
called her snaggletooth and other nasty names. She had two

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teeth missing, and she had bad skins, but her body
was incredible and I loved having sex with her. I
liked her a lot, but I was embarrassed to tell
my friends. So one day I was at her job
hugging her after she gave me some money, and two
of my friends saw it. I acted like she was

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trying to get me to hug her. I told him
there was no way I was messing with her, and
I laughed in her face. She put my stuff out
of her apartment and we never spoke again. A couple
of years later, I heard she moved away for years.
I regretted what I did to her, and after thirty years,

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I ran into her over the holidays and she was
still not happy to see me. I asked her if
we could sit down and talk face to face. She
said no, but she gave me her phone number. She
has changed so much. She's beautiful, her teeth were perfect
and her skin was glowing. She is not aged. I

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want to sincerely apologize and get reacquainted with her, but
she won't answer my text or calls. I want to
make things right.

Speaker 1 (58:21):
How do I get through to her?

Speaker 3 (58:24):
Well, you don't because guess what it is called revenge.
It's called get back, it's called clapback. It is over
for you.

Speaker 1 (58:33):
You will not get her back.

Speaker 3 (58:35):
She just wanted to get you at that moment. It's
her turn.

Speaker 4 (58:39):
Now.

Speaker 3 (58:39):
She's not carrying a grudge, that's not it. She just
hasn't forgotten how you made her feel that day when
you clowned her in front of your two friends. You
told your friends there was no way you were messing
with her, and then you laughed in her face. You
were doing her and taking money from her, but you

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laughed in her face. That's her ful, that's embarrassing, that's humiliating.
No one wants to feel that. So this is what
you got from her in return, no response to your
text or calls. Why should you want to ever see
you again? And this is how she's paying you back.
She probably dreamed of this day, or maybe she didn't
dream of it, but the fact that she did get
the chance all these years later to get you back.

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She did, and you said she got her two front
teeth fixed. And she's beautiful now too. We all know
the best revenge is looking good, and according to you,
she looks good. You gotta let it go. You gotta
let it go and move on.

Speaker 7 (59:36):
Steve.

Speaker 2 (59:37):
Oh, it's a good one right here.

Speaker 4 (59:40):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (59:41):
I like this letter on so many levels.

Speaker 7 (59:43):
And I tell you why. I know where he coming from,
and second of all, I know where she coming from. Yes, Lord,
let's go.

Speaker 8 (59:55):
Hey.

Speaker 2 (59:55):
At first I thought it was a lady writing a letter,
but that quickly went away. He did.

Speaker 7 (59:58):
Stephen Sherylan, fifty five years old. I'm divorced. I have
two grown daughters. I gave you guys a hard time
when they tried to date my daughters, as you should,
because I never wanted anyone to respect disrespect them. I
didn't want them to be treated like I treated a
woman back when I was in my twenties.

Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (01:00:19):
See, that's why fathers are important, because they know the
route that other men take, and they can forwarn their
daughters about it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
Because men know how they all were at one point
in time.

Speaker 7 (01:00:35):
Even if you've never been abusive towards women, you do
know some of the little sly trickery moves that you
use to acquire them, because you have to have some
of that in the beginning, else you're not gonna get nobody.

Speaker 2 (01:00:52):
It's called game.

Speaker 7 (01:00:54):
Every man develops it to a certain degree, some away
more than others, but everybody has to have some form
of it. Back when I was there was twenty is
I was twenty four. I dated an older woman. She
was a manager at a movie theater. She was six
years older than me. She had her own place. Well, you,

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twenty four, dog, I've been in my own place since
I left college. I ain't had no choice. But okay,
so I guess that was impressive to you. She had
her own place, she let me keep her car, and
she gave me money to hang out with my friends.
I've never had that. I want to take my hat
off to your kudos. I ain't never had a sponsor before.

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I've never had a woman give me money to do
a damn thing.

Speaker 2 (01:01:44):
Nothing.

Speaker 7 (01:01:45):
When I was homeless, I met a girl and I
asked her. She saw my gas tank on empty, and
she offered to buy me gas. By the way I
was raised, I was raised not to accept things from women.
But I needed that gas in that car. So she
put that gas in the car. Hollerwey Loujah for that
woman right there. I would have done anything for her.
She'd have gassed it up twice. But anyway, that's a

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whole nother story. And she gave me money to hang
out with my friends. I did not want my friends
to know I was sleeping with her because they called
her snacker, tooth and other nasty names.

Speaker 2 (01:02:19):
She had two teeth missing, bad skinIn but her body
was incredible and I loved having sex with it.

Speaker 3 (01:02:27):
You have, I just I can't get past teeth well
and part two of your response coming up on this show.

Speaker 2 (01:02:34):
Got nice ass teeth. Had that happen job requirement?

Speaker 3 (01:02:39):
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the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter subject she's holding a grudge
from thirty years ago. We'll get back into it with
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All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is she's holding a grudge from thirty years ago.

Speaker 7 (01:03:31):
All right, fifty five year old divorce man got two daughters.
He's always been protective of him because he didn't want
women to be treated like he treated a woman. Because
one time he was twenty four, he dated this older
woman who was thirty, who was a manager. Met they
worked at a movie theater together, and she was thirty
and she used to give it money to hang out
with a friend, let him use a com But the
problem with it was he was ashamed of him cause

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his friends. He didn't want his friends to know he
was sleeping with him because they call her snack, a
tooth and other ask the name. She had two teeth missing,
she had bad skin, but her body was incredible and
I loved having sex with her.

Speaker 2 (01:04:07):
This where we started drawing the line in this letter.

Speaker 7 (01:04:09):
Well, I can't relate to this because I'm not gonna
be able to get to this incredible body you got,
Because if you ain't got no teeth, I don't really
give a damn what your skin look like you'm gonna
have dove soft skin.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
You have baby ass bottom skin if you want to.

Speaker 7 (01:04:23):
But you're gonna need them teeth though, because it's just
I'm not gonna be able to talk to you and
you ain't got no damn teeth. I don't get the
damn if your face is smooth as a baby ass.
If you ain't got no damn teeth and you're in
a duck, it's hard for me talk to my grandkids
when they teeth is missing. I'll be I'll be shutting

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my eyes when I talk to them sometimes, so you know,
good hell well, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (01:04:49):
Gonna be able to talk no grown ass woman.

Speaker 7 (01:04:50):
Two teeth missing, I don't give it damn Where they
missing that either they can be the corner teeth missing.

Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
It be one in the middle of one on the bottom.

Speaker 7 (01:04:57):
I don't give a damn if I can see this, Yeah,
you now, you can have your wisdom teeth missing, and
I'll still kick it with you.

Speaker 2 (01:05:06):
But you can't have none of them visible, Like when
you smile. I can't see through there. I can't see tongue,
y'all all that see.

Speaker 7 (01:05:17):
I just I ain't gonna be do it anyway, I
liked her a lot, but I was embarrassed to tell
my friend.

Speaker 2 (01:05:22):
So one day I was at her job, hugging her
after she gave me some money. Two of my friends
saw it. I act like she was trying to hug me.
Get off of me. What you're doing, that's what he did.

Speaker 7 (01:05:35):
He act like she was what you hugging me for?
I told them there was no way I was messing
with her, and I laughed in her face. She put
my stuff out her apartment and we never spoke again.

Speaker 2 (01:05:50):
Well, bro, as she should.

Speaker 7 (01:05:52):
Yeah, you laughing in her face, but you sleeping with her,
telling your friends, trying to act like she was hugging you.
You was hugging her because she was taking care of you,
a little broke ass. Now all of a sudden, she
ain't nothing. But once again, I don't even know how
it got to that, because she ain't got no teeth.

Speaker 1 (01:06:08):
I'm not.

Speaker 7 (01:06:09):
You ain't gonna have to You're not gonna be loan
me no money because I can't talk to you now
out of here. You're gonna loan me money and I
can't ask for it. See that's I'm back on the
teeth missing with that bad ass skin. I'll give damn
the skin. I don't care nothing about no bad ass skin.
They got foundation, they can fix all that right there.
It's when you ain't got no damn teeth in your head.

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And so she put my stuff out of her apartment.
We never spoke again. A couple of years later I
heard she moved away for years. I regretted what I did.
After thirty years, I ran into her over the holidays,
and she was still not happy to see me.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
Bruh.

Speaker 7 (01:06:43):
Now, Shirley said she wasn't holding a grudge, she was
just remembering. Oh no, it's grudge, though, you believe that
full blown. I can't stand you. Bump you miss me,
kiss my all that sugar honey iced tea. If you
don't miss me, find something else to do.

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
I hope you die. A whole lot going through her head.
I asked her if.

Speaker 7 (01:07:12):
We could sit and talk face to face now right here, now,
listen to me this part of the letter. I don't
have all the information yet, but when you said I
asked if we could sit and talk face to face.

Speaker 2 (01:07:24):
Now, I'm back thirty years ago.

Speaker 7 (01:07:27):
You didn't have no teeth then, which is why we
never could have dated because I can't sit with you
face to face and you ain't got no teeth in
your head. But you asked her to sit down and
talk face to face. She said no, but she gave
me her phone number. She has changed so much. Oh
my god, she's beautiful. Her teeth were perfect and her

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skin was glowing.

Speaker 2 (01:07:54):
She has not aged.

Speaker 7 (01:07:56):
I want to surely apologize and get real acquainted with her.
She won't answer my text or casts. I want to
make things right. How do I get through to her?

Speaker 8 (01:08:05):
You?

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
Ain't you out? Dog you out? Because she remember the
hurt you put on her. She out she fine? Now, ah,
she fine. She'd have got the teeth put up in
her head, she'd have got that skin fixed.

Speaker 4 (01:08:24):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (01:08:25):
Why should give him the number though? To tell him?

Speaker 7 (01:08:28):
No, ohka, I'm gonna get first of all, Can we
sit face to face and talk? No, here's my number, though,
call me so I can ignore your damn text. I'm
gonna hurt your ass if a chance I got. We're
specialized in this, We in the crushing bizz. But see, brother,
let me tell you what you did was when you

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laughed at her in her face. Yeah yeah, and told
your friends that was no, and you laughed in her face.
Your laughter was her motivation. The whole towns laughing at me. Now, boy,
you see as she find you can wipe this off
your sleeve. You're not getting back with her. You just

(01:09:12):
want to tap it again, and this time you want
to tap the fine girl. Well, the fine girl ain't
letting you tap it.

Speaker 1 (01:09:17):
She the moved up.

Speaker 7 (01:09:18):
She got somebody she couldn't taken care of. Real good
somebody treating her like you should have. And it's good
for your monkey ass. I'm giving you the time of
dayne leave.

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
Your comments on today's Strawberry Letter and pato at Steve
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It is time now for junior and sports talk. What
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Speaker 9 (01:10:24):
Hey, can we pray for can we pray for tight
End Mark Andrews for the Baltimore Ravens. They want him
out the city now? They want him out. Yeah, man,
they don't even want him to make his roster bonus.
He'll give foe me and if he can make it
to marsh Pow, he'll give foe me and just to
make the team, foe me if you make the team
by marchin Bok. They don't want him to make it.
They want him cutting that. They want him past the misery.

Speaker 1 (01:10:45):
He need to wash the wire.

Speaker 2 (01:10:46):
They don't play it. I see it. Oh U pase
wide open? Yeah wilde open man. He had it, had
it man, But they want him out.

Speaker 4 (01:10:55):
Uh.

Speaker 9 (01:10:55):
But also also look at this, does this does this
make Lamar Jackson like is it's just gonna be a
proble for him to would it be a stain on
his legacy.

Speaker 7 (01:11:02):
If he don't get he's unhappy right now. I saw
the clip where he say, I'm tired of this sugar
honey ice teeth. You're dropping passes.

Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
In the NFL. This is very simple.

Speaker 7 (01:11:13):
If you're a receiver, you're paid to receive the ball
when it's thrown to you. If you can't receive the
pass that has been passed to you, why is we
paying your ass?

Speaker 2 (01:11:30):
If you can't catch the ball, bro, play defense, but
we need you to bro if you cannot catch at all.

Speaker 7 (01:11:42):
The one position that doesn't require you to catch it
at all is an offensive lineman. Sometimes the defense we
need you to catch the ball. But the offensive lineman,
we don't need.

Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
Your ass touch this ball today. Lets you diving on
a fumble. That's it.

Speaker 4 (01:12:00):
Well.

Speaker 9 (01:12:00):
Also, man, Tommy Man, your boy man up for a
head coaching job. Man, you see a g come on
interview with the Jets the Saints coming up.

Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Glenn is the defensive coordinator for Detroit. He's been up.
He's been up for a couple of years now.

Speaker 5 (01:12:16):
My brother come in fact, Steve, he played golf with
in Bakers Bamber.

Speaker 2 (01:12:22):
That dude that hit that long ball yes, sir, Yes, sir.

Speaker 1 (01:12:31):
That's what you remember.

Speaker 2 (01:12:32):
That's all you remember. And Glenn yeah, because he was strong.

Speaker 9 (01:12:38):
And then also the Detroit Lions offensive coordinator is now
the new head coach of the Chicago Bears. He took
the job, being Johnson, he took the head coach job. Now,
speaking of Chicago, did y'all hear where your boy man?
Kayler Williams is kind of jealous about Jade and Daniel's
success with the Washing Commanders. He said, you know, if
I was drafted in his situation, I'd be in the
NFC Championship game too.

Speaker 1 (01:12:58):
If I had to say you now, you wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:13:01):
No, you wouldn't now you wouldn't you paint your finger
nail hat.

Speaker 4 (01:13:08):
No, no, man, no.

Speaker 7 (01:13:17):
Will nobody in DC won't you over there? You stay
your ass right there and take that game. Fanger nail
polish hall.

Speaker 3 (01:13:27):
A lady needs your advice, Steve on how to get
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All right, So Steve bred on Facebook needs your advice.
He says, I've been crushing on this girl from work
for like the last three years, and she would never

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really give me the time of day. She was nice
to me, but always brushed off my advances and refused
multiple invitations to go out. A few months ago, I
started dating another woman, and now all of a sudden,
my crush is taking an interest in me. She knows
that I'm dating someone else, so I don't know if
she's just playing with me or if she is genuinely interested.

(01:14:12):
My current girlfriend and I are still into getting to
know each other phase, so ending it wouldn't be that difficult.

Speaker 1 (01:14:19):
Am I being a fool?

Speaker 3 (01:14:20):
Is my crush playing with me?

Speaker 8 (01:14:23):
What?

Speaker 4 (01:14:23):
He don't?

Speaker 2 (01:14:25):
What you're talking about ending it? Folks?

Speaker 7 (01:14:29):
Yeah, y'all need to get to know each other phase.
Well let's get to know it. Yeah, but let's get
to know everybody. See, she's playing around till she sees
somebody else, won't you see that all hard to get,
hard to get? Okay, come on now, let them see
three years so breaking up with her wouldn't be hard

(01:14:51):
to do, don't What is you breaking up with her?

Speaker 4 (01:14:53):
Fault?

Speaker 7 (01:14:55):
You might have a gold mine with you, but you
need to go see about this other window. Yeah, but
you're doing that for you? Go date go out with
both of them. See where you at? Women do it
all the time. I ain't telling you nothing women don't do.

Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
And they know what.

Speaker 1 (01:15:13):
So how he approach her?

Speaker 2 (01:15:15):
What should he? What should he?

Speaker 7 (01:15:16):
Okay, Well, let's go on out. Let's get to know
each other. Just take it slow, take it slow.

Speaker 1 (01:15:23):
You're still dating me other.

Speaker 3 (01:15:24):
You still in a relationship, You're still dating, you're.

Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
Doing both hips.

Speaker 10 (01:15:30):
Nothing in it for you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:33):
See how I do my career. I don't cancel show.

Speaker 3 (01:15:38):
Wait a minute, let me You said something here.

Speaker 6 (01:15:42):
If she asked him if he's dating the other girl,
you said, tell her yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:15:47):
He said, she know I'm dating this other woman. Now
all of a sudden she interested, Well s you know that,
and you interested. Let's gonna go out because me and
this girl, he said, is into getting you know each
other's day.

Speaker 3 (01:16:03):
He must really like the girl at work, though, because
he's willing to.

Speaker 8 (01:16:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:16:09):
Yeah, that's why I got I go. See what this is?

Speaker 3 (01:16:13):
Okay? All right, Well, hopefully write us back and let
us know what happens. Are you gonna be dating too
or are you gonna dump her?

Speaker 2 (01:16:22):
For real? Of them?

Speaker 4 (01:16:26):
Play it?

Speaker 8 (01:16:27):
What?

Speaker 2 (01:16:29):
I believe you? Why you don't know what he's doing,
because he wrote in so he already don't know what
he's doing.

Speaker 10 (01:16:35):
Yeah, he wrote us.

Speaker 2 (01:16:36):
Yeah, and your first time playing too? You gonna lose?

Speaker 8 (01:16:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:16:42):
Yeah, have another one?

Speaker 3 (01:16:44):
Okay, there's another one.

Speaker 8 (01:16:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:16:47):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
This one's from Chandra Steve on a Steve Harvey f M.
Chandra says, I was talking to my parents about their
financial situation. They're getting older and have been working less,
and we decided that I would buy their house from
them and let them live there until they pass or
move into assistant living. I make enough to do this,
and buying their house would be a good investment. All

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of my siblings are on board, except for our oldest sister,
who thinks I'm trying to take over my parents' lives.
I think she's worried because over the years she's moved
back into our parents' house twice when she fell on
hard times. I told her I wouldn't object to that
if that happened, and that only made her even more mad.
I don't know how to handle this, and I don't

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want to alienate my sister, but I'm going through with
buying the house. Any advice on how to deal with her, no,
just go and.

Speaker 2 (01:17:36):
Buy the house.

Speaker 7 (01:17:39):
Your sister ain't got the money for the house because
she didn't fall in no hard times. They would have
told her that if she fall on hard times, you
ain't gonna have no problem with her living there. She mad, though,
she don't want you to have that power. It's a
good investment. Buy the house.

Speaker 2 (01:17:57):
Take the pressure off your mom and dad. Period.

Speaker 7 (01:18:00):
Yeah, but you sound like you're gonna put the ass
and assistant living anyway though. That's how you sund to me.

Speaker 1 (01:18:05):
Wow, Wow, all right, we'll have more.

Speaker 7 (01:18:10):
Until they pass or they go to assistant living, which
one you think she's gonna live one of them?

Speaker 2 (01:18:16):
Here, get here, I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:18:17):
Telling you we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morton
Show coming up at twenty minutes after right after this,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (01:18:27):
All right.

Speaker 3 (01:18:27):
So, guys, I don't know if you've heard, but seniors,
seniors are getting it in. They're having more sex. Okay.
This is according to new research that found a huge
spike in the number of sexually transmitted infections over the
past ten years. A new study, which will be presented
at a medical convention in Spain next month, shows that

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sti's among people over the age of fifty five have
doubled compared to a decade ago. The steady, blameful spike, Yeah, doubled.
Blames the spike rising divorce rates, less condom use, the
availability of drugs like viagra, UH, and more older adults

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living together in retirement communities, and also an increased use
in dating app So there you have it. STIs rising
among the older generation. Yeah, fifty and older.

Speaker 2 (01:19:20):
You can make all the noises you want today. It
ain't changing nothing.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
Talk about condom?

Speaker 2 (01:19:27):
So why not condom?

Speaker 4 (01:19:30):
A man?

Speaker 3 (01:19:32):
Yeah, I mean that's the easiest one.

Speaker 2 (01:19:35):
You already ain't got long left.

Speaker 1 (01:19:36):
You're gonna sharp that with an STI.

Speaker 7 (01:19:40):
Oh man, I be damn. Now you done got old
and dumb. You spend all this time trying to get here.

Speaker 2 (01:19:45):
Now you're here. Now you're gonna cut his show? No
con Okay, you sixty nine at the clinic. What you
look like? You're the oldest person down there. That's true.

Speaker 12 (01:19:56):
Come on, Papa, Oh, I'm burning coming up with thirty
three minutes after the hour of startling news. We'll play
around it. Would you rather right after this?

Speaker 3 (01:20:08):
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It is time now for a round of would you rather?
Would you rather go a month without your phone? Or

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would you rather go a month without your car? Which one?

Speaker 4 (01:20:56):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:20:57):
Keep this phone, I got your cant. I don't think
I need to call man.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
I need to call way.

Speaker 2 (01:21:01):
Mom, look get a serviceber and uh huh.

Speaker 1 (01:21:06):
Okay, Well.

Speaker 3 (01:21:09):
See how you are about the phone.

Speaker 1 (01:21:13):
He can't. Yeah, you can't.

Speaker 2 (01:21:16):
He can't. I ain't never been. I don't even know
what that is.

Speaker 3 (01:21:25):
Yeah, I'm sure, Yeah, because you can take.

Speaker 2 (01:21:28):
Your phone, you don't drive.

Speaker 10 (01:21:30):
You don't even drive now?

Speaker 2 (01:21:32):
Yeah, with anybody? Hell, I ain't your car.

Speaker 3 (01:21:39):
Would you rather none of your friends like your spouse
or none of your spouse's friends like you?

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
Be that happening? We said, Would you rather is this
what you're going through?

Speaker 2 (01:21:49):
Yeah? They already don't like me.

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
They don't I'm living. I'm living be right now.

Speaker 3 (01:21:55):
One of the nicest guys ever, what do you mean
not him, not.

Speaker 2 (01:22:01):
To not to them?

Speaker 1 (01:22:05):
They don't really know you. Then I show love telling
the truth.

Speaker 2 (01:22:08):
I felt so much better getting that off my chest.

Speaker 1 (01:22:13):
Therapeutic.

Speaker 5 (01:22:15):
So you asked me that.

Speaker 1 (01:22:16):
All the way through ill you're going through.

Speaker 2 (01:22:23):
Yeah, I don't want nothing. I don't want no problem
with my wife nothing, Steve.

Speaker 7 (01:22:29):
I'd rather my friends not like my wife because keep
it to your damn self like you got to do anyway,
And I'm fine. I don't want her friends not liking me, though,
because then that's a real problem because they're gonna be
discussing it.

Speaker 2 (01:22:43):
You don't have your problems in your.

Speaker 1 (01:22:44):
House for that one, all right?

Speaker 3 (01:22:49):
Would you rather always feel like you have to sneeze?
Or would you rather always feel like you need to pease?

Speaker 2 (01:22:55):
I always feel like I got a pee now I'm
beating now glad going out? You get all this time again?
Just h I enjoyed pia so I okay, all right,
we're moving on your knees buckle. That's a.

Speaker 3 (01:23:20):
Which would you rather you and your spouse be very
passionate but argue all the time? Or would you rather
you and your spouse have not any passion, have no
passion but you get along perfectly? Which one passion but
you argue?

Speaker 2 (01:23:35):
I'm arguing with that passion? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, I should
not answer this question. Should if we ain't having no passion?
I don't know how to hear we're gonna get along?
No way?

Speaker 1 (01:23:45):
So right, good point that part?

Speaker 2 (01:23:50):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:23:51):
What ju I don't need to answer the question? Tommy
coming up?

Speaker 3 (01:23:56):
Thank you, guys. That's today's rounded. Would you rather coming
up and for forty nine minutes after the hour, our
last break of the day, and we'll close out the
show with the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

Speaker 1 (01:24:06):
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Speaker 3 (01:24:40):
All right, guys, here we are last break of the
day on this Wednesday hump day. It's been a good day.
Huh yeah, fun, Oh yeah, as hey.

Speaker 2 (01:24:51):
Oh, here's here's my closing remarks. You know, this morning
I was talking about.

Speaker 7 (01:25:00):
Kind of been in a little bit of a bad
place mentally, and it was it took me a minute
to come out of it. But you know, I'm human, right,
so you know, things happen. You know, as motivational as
I try to be, I find myself requiring motivation too,
because sometimes I get as a human being, I get

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caught up in something negative that's going on or a
situation that's going on, and I harp too long on
the negativity, which only makes it bigger. And so I
was saying this morning, and what I'm saying in my
closed remarks is it happens to all of us where
we run into a situation that seems a big daunting
and we start focusing on the situation, and the big

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situation becomes bigger and bigger and bigger. And what I've
discovered is, and what I already know is, but I
had to remind myself again yesterday, is that when you
are faced with a lot of negative and it seems
to be overwhelming, and it's a bit overbearing for you
at the time, what you have to do is you

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have to replace those thoughts. You have to replace the
negative with a positive.

Speaker 2 (01:26:10):
Now is that easy to do?

Speaker 1 (01:26:11):
Of course not.

Speaker 7 (01:26:13):
But it's how it works, and it does not work
any other way. But you cannot fix a negative situation
with more negativity. You cannot come out of darkness unless
you provide light. You know, if you're in a bad mood,
a dark place in your mind, do you know? I

(01:26:34):
This is an example I used. If you're in a
cave called pitch black room. Let's say you in a
pitch black room. All the lights is out, there's no electricity,
lights have been cut off, You're in a dark place.
You got blinders on, and all of a sudden, you
find yourself in a black room, if you find any
form of light, that light becomes the focal point.

Speaker 2 (01:27:00):
Any I don't care if you got a birthday candle.

Speaker 7 (01:27:04):
If you hold up a birthday candle in a completely
dark room, that birthday candle becomes the light. If you
can find a flashlight, a pin flashlight, that becomes the
focal point in the room. If you can turn on
the gas stove and it produces a little bit of
light from the flicker of the flame, that becomes the

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focal point. What I'm saying to you is when you
find yourself in a dark place, get yourself some light,
and that becomes the focal point. You cannot get rid
of a negative situation with more negativity. You can't come
out of darkness without light. You can't replace a negative
situation unless you introduce a positive.

Speaker 2 (01:27:50):
Now is that hard to do as human beings?

Speaker 8 (01:27:52):
Yet?

Speaker 2 (01:27:52):
Yeah, Steve, But it just kept happening.

Speaker 7 (01:27:55):
I got it. But it kept happening because you did
not use the tools available to you. The Bible says
a man is as he thinketh y'all, your mental capacity
is really, really incredible.

Speaker 2 (01:28:18):
And why is that?

Speaker 7 (01:28:19):
Because we were made in the image of God, and
God showed us in the beginning how he really is.
You know, if you read your Bible, somewhere in the
Bible it says, and you know, I'm not an expert
at this right, but I'm just using these examples as
I see.

Speaker 2 (01:28:35):
It in the Bible.

Speaker 7 (01:28:38):
When God created heaven and earth in the beginning, he said,
let there be light. Now, that's very telling because he's
said let there be light. He didn't just wave his
hand and it lit up. He said, let there be light,

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and then that was light, but it became light after
he said it. And if we're created in the image
of God, he's showing us through demonstration, let there be light.
When the crippled man found him, he said, stand up
and walk. And the crippled man stood up and walked.

Speaker 1 (01:29:23):
He said.

Speaker 7 (01:29:25):
He told Moses to stick that staff over and part
the red sea.

Speaker 2 (01:29:31):
He told him what to do. He didn't hope he
figured it out. He said it.

Speaker 7 (01:29:40):
Look, y'all, if we're created in the image of God,
what we say is important. It really is important. Stop
beating yourself up with negativity. Change the way you think,
change what you say, watch the words that come out
your mouth.

Speaker 2 (01:29:56):
It's critical. Man, It's absolutely critical.

Speaker 7 (01:30:02):
If you look at a person, and all of us
know people who are not in a good space and
haven't been in a good space for a number of years.

Speaker 2 (01:30:10):
All of us know people like that. But if you
really look at them, and you look how they think
and how they talk, don't explain at all. You ever
met a person that ain't ever happy? They always something,
always wrong. You hate to see them coming when you
listen to them, don't it explain why they are what

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they are. You've ever seen a person ain't ain't ever
in a relationship? Have you ever listened the way they talk?
Don't it explain if you listen carefully why they are
the way they are. Be careful, y'all, watch what comes
out your mouth. Concentrate on what comes out your mouth.

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Focus on the words you speak, because what you speak
will be what you are. You are the greatest remote
control in the world. Whatever you press select, that's what
appears on your screen in front of you. Put that
in your thought process this year. Have a great twenty
twenty five. As Steve Harvey morning, Sure y'all have a

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good one. Talk to God today, y'all. Ned absolutely love
to hear from your peace