Kamala Harris Speech at The NAACP Awards, My Daughter-In-Law & My Sons, Sista O'Dell, and more - 02.24.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded, y'all know what time y'all
don't know y'all.

Speaker 2 (00:09):
All at all, So.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
Don't given them a.

Speaker 4 (00:15):
Million buf bus and it's boozy.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yeah, listening to.

Speaker 5 (00:26):
Show.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
I want to joy?

Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yeah, joy, you.

Speaker 5 (01:06):
Love.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
You gotta turn.

Speaker 5 (01:27):
Well I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
I got to turn the mouth.

Speaker 6 (01:42):
Turn You probably got to turn mouth turn out A
wad of the money up, come.

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Come out? You think that, Uh huh, I sure will.
Good morning everybody.

Speaker 5 (02:04):
You are listening to the voice, come on, dig me
now want and only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

Speaker 4 (02:11):
Ain't God been good to me? But then again, ain't
he been good to you? Two? Though?

Speaker 7 (02:16):
I mean really, man, think of all the blessings God
has given you.

Speaker 5 (02:20):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (02:21):
That's a good news today, though, y'all.

Speaker 7 (02:23):
In the face of the world being the way it is,
the evilness that's out there, it just it just seems
like that's all that's on the news sometimes. You know,
we got we got news of parents not really standing
up being parents. We got news stories of children turning
on their parents. You got, you got everything, the economy,
you got places you thought used to be beautiful places

(02:46):
to go. Now they got travel alerts it's just it's
all over. It's it's all over. But the good news
is there's something that you can have in this relationship
with God that gives you a way to deal with
it all. And I'm not saying that it'll protect you

(03:07):
from every single thing out that is happening, because some
things are going to happen to you. You're going to
be in an accident from time to time. You're going
to make a mistake and fall down from time to time.
But man, wouldn't it be incredible to you for you
if you understood that you had some insurance in all
of this that no matter what happened to you, you

(03:30):
know you will covered. You know, look, insurance companies as
good as they are, you know, like our friends that
stay Farm or any other insurance company you know, they do,
they do some amazing things. Insurance is a really really
good thing to happen in the event that something happens
to you.

Speaker 4 (03:46):
You know, you may not want to pay the premium,
but guess what in the.

Speaker 7 (03:49):
Event that something happens to you, that insurance is absolutely critical.

Speaker 4 (03:54):
Well, but guess what they cover certain things.

Speaker 7 (03:57):
You could get life insurance, you can get auto insurance,
you can get accident insurance, you can get health insurance.
There is nothing that you can buy to safeguard you
against life's decisions. You know, if you make a mistake,
if you cheat, if you lie, if you if you

(04:21):
fall down and you can't seem to get it together,
and you make a crazy decision about how you're gonna
go about securing an income, that there are There are
no policies you can buy for that. You can't buy
a policy if you stop being the man you're supposed
to be, and and and and give up on your children.

(04:41):
You can't buy a policy if something happens as a
mother and all of a sudden you're not the mother
you're supposed to be. But there is some insurance coverage
out there for you. And that relationship that you form
with God, that friendship that you form with help, that
that alliance, that that partnership, that prayer that you put

(05:05):
in all the time, there is an insurance policy that
you have taken out when you form a relationship with
your heavenly Father, when you form a friendship, when you
form a bond that protects you, that protects you when
these things happen. In the event that they happen. Now

(05:25):
here's a great thing about prayer. Prayer can head off
some stuff from happening. It really really can. Prayer can
prevent some things from happening. You know, I'll give you
an example in my life. Okay, here we go, because see,
see it's the best way for me to do it.
Because see, what I don't like to do is talk
to people without letting them know. Hey, look I'm in

(05:46):
this hole with you. I feel where yet? Okay, here
we go. I was making some decisions a few years
ago because what I thought I was doing was counterbalancing
something that was happening here in my life. You know,
I thought that since I wasn't happy or well for

(06:07):
whatever the reason I thought I wasn't happy, if I,
as wrong as I am, wanted to blame somebody else
from my unhappiness. That's really if I make a bad
decision because I'm thinking I'm unhappy with somebody, Holy pardon too.
Wrongs don't make it right, and I make a decision
to do something wrong, and now the consequences come when

(06:29):
I do something wrong. See then that I already know,
as an intelligent thinking man, as most of you are,
that when you do something wrong that you know, there
is a consequence for that. I teach that to my sons.
When you do something wrong, there is a consequence. So
as an adult, I fully understood the consequence. And so

(06:49):
what I was doing was I was making some decisions
that was causing some consequences in my life, that was
delaying my happiness, delaying my progress, causing my business not
to go the way it could go, so forth and
so on. Well, what I started doing was I took
out this insurance policy called Prayer, and I started putting

(07:11):
it in my mix on a daily basis. And then
I started putting it in my mix, you know, two
three times a day. And then I found myself using
it all the time. And then I really started putting
it in when I didn't need any help, when I
wasn't in trouble, I started putting insurance in. I started
making deposits into the bank. I started paying my premiums down.

(07:32):
And Prayer is like a premium, you just pay into it.
Then when situations started coming up, now that Prayer that
I had put in, that in those premiums I had
paid it started preventing me from making the decisions I
was making in the past. Thus I didn't have to
suffer the consequences. Thus my businesses didn't have to be

(07:54):
delayed in this progress because I had put some payments
on some premiums taking out an insurance policy.

Speaker 4 (08:02):
With my life my real life.

Speaker 7 (08:05):
I'm talking about your life where you make your day
to day decisions in I'm not talking about see life.
Insurance is only good if you die. God has a
policy that's available that's available for you. Why are you living?

Speaker 5 (08:19):
See?

Speaker 4 (08:20):
In order for an insurance policy to pay, something bad
got to happen.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
Now.

Speaker 4 (08:25):
There may be some others out there I don't know
nothing about.

Speaker 7 (08:27):
But all the ones I got my car insurance, they
only come into play if I have an accident. I
have an accident insurance policy where if something happens to me,
I got accident, I got My voice is covered in
case something happened to that. I got that, but I
got to not be able to talk to cash that one.

(08:47):
You understand everything I got homeowner's insurance. Don't nothing show
up on my homeowner's insurance unless it's a flood, a fire,
of felt. Something bad got to happen for my insurance
to even make sense. When you take out the policy
with your heavenly Father. When you pay the premiums of prayer,

(09:10):
and that's all it costs.

Speaker 4 (09:11):
Man, It ain't you.

Speaker 7 (09:12):
Ain't got to have no money for this policy I
put into the policy. It pays me dividends and benefits
for living. Ain't nothing got to go wrong for me
to cash in on this policy. I use this policy
for good things. I give you example. I use this

(09:35):
policy to ask God to watch over my family when
I travel, make the decisions to pay your premiums in prayer,
Talk to your heavenly Father, get you some insurance in
your life.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
And when you have little things like that, keep on stepping. Man.
God loves you.

Speaker 5 (09:51):
Man, Man, I show hope you talk to God today,
because guess what He shure would like to hear from you.

Speaker 4 (09:56):
That's for sure.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
You're listening to the seed morning shall.

Speaker 4 (10:00):
Ladies and gentlemen.

Speaker 8 (10:01):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (10:02):
It's a new day, a new week, another chance, another opportunity.
God is good.

Speaker 7 (10:07):
I show I am appreciative of it. I really really am.
I'd of got myself together.

Speaker 5 (10:11):
I was in a little hole for about ten days
and let myself get a little caught up in something,
and I just decided to give it over to God,
let him drive.

Speaker 4 (10:21):
I done took the sails down on the ship and everything.

Speaker 7 (10:24):
I'm gonna let the winds blow me where they gonna
blow me because God trying to send me somewhere. I'm
just going with it. I'm ride and die with somebody
that ain't ever been late or failed me yet. That's
a fact.

Speaker 5 (10:35):
Know that.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
Y'all.

Speaker 7 (10:36):
Look at your track record. Now, just look at your
track record and get yourself together. Have a great one.

Speaker 5 (10:40):
Okay, this is a Steve Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry
calling for real Mississippi Monik and the Legend of Nephew
Tommy Junr Is off today.

Speaker 4 (10:48):
What ladies, what Junior today?

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Was a family stuff? Oh?

Speaker 5 (10:53):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (10:54):
But he he.

Speaker 5 (10:58):
Okay, good, okay, he got some blanky shore here.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
You be quiet, mister, come to work every other Monday.

Speaker 5 (11:06):
Well I'm here today, I'm here today, and yeah he is,
Yeah he is.

Speaker 4 (11:11):
We do it a Monday at a time.

Speaker 7 (11:12):
So yeah, that moment, in the moment, y'all think Junior
might be out looking for that dog.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
You know, he ain't got no fils.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
Stella Stella's good.

Speaker 5 (11:24):
Yeah, who names the dogs? Stella?

Speaker 4 (11:27):
And a dog.

Speaker 2 (11:28):
Yeah, that's her name is little Doggie.

Speaker 5 (11:31):
That's why.

Speaker 4 (11:32):
Why what's y'all dog name?

Speaker 1 (11:35):
Calin fancy fancy Beyonce alo wishes ferrow.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
You asked so.

Speaker 4 (11:45):
Fancy alowishes beyond because I have you blowing. That is
so damn hood.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Aloisious. I like aloisious girl.

Speaker 4 (11:58):
You know we gotta get black.

Speaker 7 (11:59):
Heyt Monica, what happened to that little nervous as.

Speaker 4 (12:03):
Dog you had? Jack? Jack is gone, Monica.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
Jack lives in Chicago with some very nice people. He
has a backyard, and he loves.

Speaker 5 (12:10):
The snow took the dog.

Speaker 4 (12:14):
Jack ran away to some white people.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Uh huh, that's what.

Speaker 4 (12:20):
Jack say.

Speaker 7 (12:21):
I'm about this, all this living with this hermit, jammed
up in this apartment. These white people got backyard out
of see snow. She's staying in the house. She don't
never have no company.

Speaker 4 (12:30):
It's just me and her. Uh uh. These white people
got kids. We just out here. I've got stuff to do.

Speaker 2 (12:39):
I want to be a dog, live a dog's life.

Speaker 5 (12:44):
Tommy got a dog, Shopper, what's your Wesley mind?

Speaker 4 (12:50):
Chopper? Dog with the bear's middle name ain't no bear.

Speaker 2 (12:59):
Her B.

Speaker 5 (13:02):
Is his first name. E and A is his middle name,
and oh is his last name? You just put them
all together, called his ass big arrow?

Speaker 6 (13:14):
Love it?

Speaker 4 (13:15):
Do you love me?

Speaker 7 (13:17):
I take you one thing though, when Kyotis come across
the property, they got to.

Speaker 4 (13:21):
Keep moving though. Oh okay, there about it, because he's
a big dopeman. He's not playing. And how much property
is that?

Speaker 5 (13:31):
Again? I mean?

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Is it that?

Speaker 1 (13:33):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour because
you know he's not going to answer that. The pastors
are up next with a word right after this. You're
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It's time now for Reverend Motown and Deacon Death Jam
with ye a word.

Speaker 4 (14:24):
We full galvel own this uh all suspicious date.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
Come on here now.

Speaker 7 (14:33):
Realizing that regulation and tribulation producers constipation. Yes, yes that
we realize we not as abacus. Yeah, I couldable and
we want to be Yes, sir his mask girl.

Speaker 4 (14:59):
Now see me now you don't Lord preacho. Let's go,
deacon whatever you have today.

Speaker 5 (15:08):
Where the congregation has gotten together past and decided they
would like to get.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
Over stop right there, stop right there. We're not gonna
do readings.

Speaker 5 (15:17):
Take it. So this must be that's what we don't. Yeah, plans, no,
we have, we have, we can we bringing the word uh.
We're coming from the Book of Beyond, say today, pastor uh.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
And the word says uh. This ain't texas who.

Speaker 7 (15:34):
Stop right there? This hell ain't texts open your mind
up we somewhere.

Speaker 5 (15:41):
Ahree ain't no hold them? Hey, So lay your cards down,
down down, stop right there were gambling now yeah, or
push your money up.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
A mega fight? Ah bitch is it read?

Speaker 5 (16:04):
So park your lets us whoa and throw your keys?
I pay stick around round round round, stop right there,
park your licks. We got money now.

Speaker 7 (16:19):
We the word don't say park your prius, Yeah, park
your smart car.

Speaker 5 (16:26):
Come on, just say park your lix car we got
paper read, and I'll be damn if I can't slow
dance with you. Come post something stop right there, stop
right there. I didn't come in here to dance with
nobody else.

Speaker 4 (16:40):
I came in here today with you.

Speaker 5 (16:42):
Read.

Speaker 4 (16:44):
Come post some sugar on me, honey, stop right there,
Let me off. Make this sugar sweet. We getting to
the point of the serving.

Speaker 5 (16:53):
Now read it's a real life boogie and a real
life down.

Speaker 4 (17:01):
Stop right there.

Speaker 7 (17:02):
Yes, I guess that there's a real life hold down. Uh,
come on now, leave that one read.

Speaker 5 (17:13):
Yeah, let me let me, let me try to get
over this from past and said, don't be a bee.
Come take it to the float now. Who Yeah, I
had to skip over the bee.

Speaker 4 (17:24):
Word pass. I'm sorry about that. Well stop right there.

Speaker 7 (17:28):
When we're doing the word yes, word cuts y like
or not, you got to get to it, whether they
wanted or not.

Speaker 5 (17:39):
Read there's a tonight in my city. Hit the basement.
That stuff ain't pretty. I'm in parapin because they got
some bad words in here past.

Speaker 7 (17:52):
Stop right now. I'm gonna say it again, the word cuts.
You gotta read the word as it is because we
can't get the mess that's.

Speaker 5 (18:01):
Tornado came down through the basement and to toe up
some sugar hone and ice teeth. Now, how the hell
did that tornado get down there in that basement?

Speaker 4 (18:10):
Clearly somebody left the door open.

Speaker 5 (18:13):
Red come out, rugged, whiskey, because we surviving.

Speaker 7 (18:19):
Start right there, start right there. That's mad Dog twenty twenty,
Thunderbird or any greens Mickey's a.

Speaker 5 (18:30):
Red our, red cup kisses, sweet redemption, passing time, yeah,
or one stop right down, Yes, red coup kisses.

Speaker 4 (18:44):
That's what he's saying.

Speaker 5 (18:45):
That's what she's saying.

Speaker 7 (18:46):
That's when you got the wrong thing in that solo cut. You,
Dodne have been shaken and staying that solo cup. Now
you walk around the room kissing. Anybody something to help you?

Speaker 2 (18:58):
Read it said?

Speaker 5 (19:01):
One step to the right, were heading to the dive
bar we always thought was nice.

Speaker 4 (19:07):
Stop right there, step off to the right. We're heading
down to the bab Run to the left. Then start
right at me.

Speaker 5 (19:16):
Don't want to run ready, Then spin me in the middle, boy,
I can't read, Lord, stop right there, Spin me in
the middle. Everybody know where the middle at?

Speaker 4 (19:31):
Right there? Spin me right down in the middle, hard,
Lord read When we headed back to headed back to
the hook path. Seep right there. Headed headed is the
key wording there headed.

Speaker 5 (19:47):
We this this ain't Texas, ain't no hold of them,
So let your card down, down down down, stop right there.

Speaker 4 (19:58):
Yes, this break ain't text. They ain't no need of hold. Yeah,
lay your cards down, down down.

Speaker 6 (20:12):
This ain't text.

Speaker 5 (20:14):
Come on now you can't your hold of what lay
your cards? Lay him down, down down. Hey, this ain't sip.
Lay your cards down, I and down down down down down.

Speaker 4 (20:34):
Hey, this for donald talk.

Speaker 3 (20:36):
This ain't.

Speaker 4 (20:37):
This ain't America. There's something else now.

Speaker 5 (20:42):
Everybody put your old job, lay your job on down
so many ways.

Speaker 7 (20:48):
We can then text it I ain't close by saying
hold on till he is unchanging him. Come on, real life,
that he will get you through even what's going on.
That's right, that's right. And remember if you do get

(21:09):
a pink slip, Yeah, this ain't text.

Speaker 4 (21:12):
Should say that.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
The whole word, the whole word.

Speaker 4 (21:19):
Yes, that's right, yes, all.

Speaker 2 (21:22):
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Speaker 1 (22:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we will
recap the NAACP Image Awards show and former VP Kamala Harrison.
Kamala Harris's acceptance of the Chairman's Award. Her speech was
out of this world do sent emails to federal employees
that threaten their jobs? And Delta Airlines is offered thirty

(22:20):
thousand dollars each to passengers aboard the flight that flipped
on the runway.

Speaker 2 (22:25):
Remember that, Well, that's all coming up. Yeah, that's all
coming up, thirty thousand dollars. We'll talk about it.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
Yeah, that's all coming up at the top of the hour.
But right now it is time to ask the clo.
This is from Lachelle in Chicago. Lachelle writes, I'm forty
seven and my husband is fifty two. We've gone from
having sex four or five times a week to twice
a week. He said, it's normal to take breaks so
that we don't get bored. After almost twenty years of marriage.

(22:58):
Why does he need a break all of a sudden,
that's what we want a lot.

Speaker 5 (23:04):
You gotta understand something. I don't know why he needs
to break. Your man ain't what he used to be.

Speaker 2 (23:09):
Ooh, he's fifty two.

Speaker 7 (23:12):
Uh yeah, oh, fifty two. Ain't like when you was
twenty two. Yeah, no, no, it's a difference. You know,
women go through changes in life. You know, there's mental palls.
There's different things that women have that's uniquely there. Men
had him things too.

Speaker 5 (23:31):
Now hormonal issues. Yeah, as you age, I don't know.

Speaker 7 (23:35):
You call it whatever you want to call it. Just
you ain't what you was, homie. I promise you that.
Me and pauls too.

Speaker 4 (23:46):
Yeah, okay, he's just and then twenty some years. Let
me say this here. No they gonna say they go ahead.

Speaker 5 (23:56):
Shut You can't say that.

Speaker 4 (23:58):
No, no, no, no, no no right.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
Moving on to Bricelyn coming out of Tampa, Briceland, says,
my wife and I met in the strip club nine
years ago. I don't think our eight year old daughter
needs to know that my wife was a bartender, not
a stripper. So why does she feel it's funny or
cute to add strip club to the story.

Speaker 9 (24:22):
Is that necessary? By the way, Yeah, strip club, nor.

Speaker 1 (24:32):
Your daughter about a strip club eight years old'll be
find I ain't don't like it.

Speaker 4 (24:38):
They'd be fine. Everybody in there working on tips.

Speaker 2 (24:43):
Ain't nothing wrong with it too. Yeah, you got to
think this strip part out, strip club part out. That's
what her husband.

Speaker 4 (24:56):
It was a bartender that just woll chaps.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
Hey, you know that's how you know this.

Speaker 4 (25:04):
Back in the day, a waitress. She was, She had
on chaps, she got all this. It was in Miami.

Speaker 5 (25:11):
It was in Miami.

Speaker 8 (25:13):
In I.

Speaker 10 (25:16):
All right, you want to move all two that night?
You like it when she coming, you love me when
she leaves?

Speaker 6 (25:31):
All right?

Speaker 2 (25:32):
This is from my moving on. This is from Curtis
in Louisville, Curtis Rights. I washed my girlfriend's car often.

Speaker 1 (25:38):
Saturday was muddy outside and her floor mats were filthy.
She said she let her son use it. I told
her to let her son wash it. Then she said
it looks better when I do it? Am I expected
to clean up after her son?

Speaker 2 (25:52):
Wow?

Speaker 5 (25:53):
Well, dog, dog, don't listen to me to quick categorize me.
You wash your girl girl's car for who had it?
Look these women they raise these kids different. Now, this
this generation right here of young men. Whoo man, it's
it's different.

Speaker 7 (26:14):
And I can tell even at my minoring camp from
ten years ago, the average kid that comes to the
camp is different. And we got a minium different.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
Man.

Speaker 5 (26:22):
We can't take the same approach anymore.

Speaker 7 (26:25):
So she may not even this boy may not have chores, duties, responsibilities, nothing.

Speaker 4 (26:31):
Now, what you know, what you need to.

Speaker 7 (26:33):
Do is have a cool relationship with the guy and say, hey,
my man, why don't you help your mom out? It
would be real noble of you to do that for
your mom. If you take a car to return it
the way you got it, it could be a teaching
moment for you without being too forceful.

Speaker 4 (26:46):
Like you because you.

Speaker 5 (26:47):
Ain't his dad, you know, and y'all ain't married, y'all
just her girlfriend. That's just your girlfriend.

Speaker 7 (26:52):
But if you've been washing her car, then you know
you don't want to wash the car because the boy
had it, Because you won't you want to know why
he's not and the responsibility. And I understand that one
hundred percent, but may not you know she yeah, you know,
she say you do it better. She liked the way
you do it. Now, if you don't want to do
a car, then that's you started doing that, you know.

(27:14):
But I think maybe y'all just say, my man, you
know what you ought to do when you take your
mom's car, You ought to give it back to it
the way she had it. That would be the cool
thing to do. And I ain't coming at you with
no disrespect, and just see if you can give him
that moment.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
He ain't gonna take that feeling.

Speaker 4 (27:27):
But you know you need.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
You do know his mom a dirty car?

Speaker 7 (27:33):
Yeah, well see that boy driving age. You don't know
if he's twenty two, twenty four, you don't know who
had a car. You're afore the young as boy gets stumped.

Speaker 4 (27:42):
Now you're real fast because you're gonna be ready for
it turn. Yeah, you know, I'm trying to keep it
from turning.

Speaker 5 (27:51):
He could be seventeen, he could be young.

Speaker 8 (27:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:53):
But I like the fact that you said it is
a teaching moment for the boyfriend.

Speaker 5 (27:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
Cool, like that yeah, hopefully that's what it will be.

Speaker 5 (28:02):
Some gas in there.

Speaker 7 (28:03):
Yeah, and you could get out there with him and go, hey, man,
we're gonna do this together and then oh, now, no, man,
put the soap on there like that, then risk it off.

Speaker 4 (28:11):
You know, you could do it like that.

Speaker 7 (28:13):
It could be a moment to build a relationship with
him because it looked like you're trying to stay with
this girl because you're doing stuff for.

Speaker 6 (28:20):
Nice.

Speaker 2 (28:21):
All right, good answers stilough. I like that one last night,
last one. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:26):
Anitra in Montclair writes, my boyfriend asked if he could
bring a friend on our date. His friend was in
down for the weekend. I got so mad that I
canceled our date. Why can't he leave his friend for
a few hours to take me to the movies? Am
I acting like a spoiled brat?

Speaker 7 (28:45):
I think you might have missed a moment here his
homie come in town. What we like to do is
we like to show off what we have. And you
could have missed a moment because I think he might
have been trying to show you off, and you might
have missed the moment because he has no other reason

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to want to take his friend than to show you off.
That might have that might be what you missed. You know,
you could have missed that moment. It wasn''s just one date.

Speaker 4 (29:19):
It ain't that bad, you know, it just ain't.

Speaker 5 (29:22):
That bad for sure.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
She didn't say if it was a male or female?
Does that make no.

Speaker 7 (29:28):
Way in hell that could the ain't no way to
she'd have put that in a female or female take
her on the date.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
He can't be that stupid. There's no way he could.

Speaker 2 (29:42):
He's that stupid because she didn't say she just said
a friend.

Speaker 7 (29:49):
No, she would have put female friend in that. And
you can't bro she in town. He gonna bring her
on a date. Man, that's so stupid. Now we're talking.
He's stupid.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
Now, Yeah, she just said, why can't he leave the
friend for a few hours?

Speaker 4 (30:07):
All right?

Speaker 1 (30:08):
All right, Colo, thank you great. It's for great responses today.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
I loved him. Coming up at the top of the hour,
we'll have some entertainment news for you. Right after this.
You're listening to the Dave Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
Well, the fifty six annual NAACP Image Awards were live
Saturday night from Pasadena. Dion Cole was the host In
mc light narrator. Yeah, very great job for the night.
As usual. Morris Chestnut let a tribute for the residents
of Los Angeles that lost their homes in the recent fires,
and Vice President Kamala Harris was given the Chairman's Award,

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and her acceptance speech credited the NAACP for the groundbreaking
work the organization has done for years, and then she
spoke to the current state of unrest in the United States.

Speaker 11 (30:59):
Take a listen, because you see, our power has never
come from having an easy path. Our strength flows from
our faith, faith in God, faith in each other, and
our refusal to surrender to cynicism and destruction. Not because

(31:25):
it is easy, but because it is necessary. Not because
victory is guaranteed, but because the fight is worth it.
And while we have no illusions about what we are
up against in this chapter in our American story, this

(31:48):
chapter will be written not simply by whoever occupies the
Oval office, nor by the wealthiest among us. The American
story will be written by you, written by us, by

(32:09):
we the people. I thank you, God bless you, and
God blessed.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
The United States of America dropped the mic empowering power
pretty much.

Speaker 4 (32:28):
Miss anybody right now I missed. Yes, hell man, this
is crazy.

Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yeah, so you said, exhausting d divide the hatred all
right for the next four years? Okay, Tyler Perry six,
Triple eight one Movie of the Year, and Key Key Palmer,
Key Key Palmer won Entertainer of the Year awards. She
won that and I was so thrilled. Yeah, it was

(33:01):
a surprise, I think, I thought, what did you think,
Cynthia Rivo? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But Kicky Palmer well deserving,
So congratulations to her and Dave Chappelle.

Speaker 2 (33:14):
And the Wayan's family, all of them. It was a
great night, great night.

Speaker 4 (33:20):
Moving on.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
Thousands of federal employees were threatened by DOGE this weekend.
That is the course of the Department of Government Efficiency
run by Elon Musk. Saturday evening, Elon Musk, the head
of DOGE, tweeted, all federal employees will shortly receive an
email requesting to understand what they got done last week.

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Failure to respond will be taken as a resignation.

Speaker 5 (33:46):
What Yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
Then the emails were sent to employees across federal agencies
with the subject lined what did you do last week?
The email asked that employees were applied with five bullet
points summarizing what they accomplished at work last week and
to copy their managers. The email also gave employees until
midnight tonight Monday to respond. According to Yahoo, it's unclear

(34:15):
if Jose can legally terminate the workers.

Speaker 7 (34:19):
What why do we keep talking about what's legal?

Speaker 4 (34:25):
Yeah, when this administration does what they want.

Speaker 6 (34:28):
To do, that's true.

Speaker 5 (34:29):
Yeah, a fact, there's a lot of illegal stuff. Yeah,
he did a lot of stuff for he got in office.
Now that's what you got.

Speaker 4 (34:40):
Listen to me.

Speaker 7 (34:41):
Rich people don't care what the law is and the
rule is. They try to find ways around that to
accomplish what they want to accomplish. If the rule of
the law is prohibiting or getting in the way of
what they want to do or accomplish, then they find
a way to get around it, go through it. They
look for a loophole, They hire expensive lawyers, and they

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find a way, and they go about their business.

Speaker 4 (35:05):
That's that's how they do business.

Speaker 2 (35:07):
And that's the world in which we live right now.
That's it.

Speaker 5 (35:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
Finally, the Delta Airlines flight that slipped over and caught
fire upon landing in Toronto, remember it happened about a
week ago.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
We talked about it.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
Well, there were eighty people on board, okay, counting crew members.
There were no fatalities, miraculously, praise the Lord. Delta Airlines
has since offered to pay the passengers thirty thousand dollars
for an approximate payout of two point three million in total.
The compensation amount sparked controversy. Yeah, total, in total, total, Yeah,

(35:47):
each each passenger will get thirty thirty thousand dollars. People
saying thirty thousand dollars is not enough money for what
the passengers went through. I mean, they were flipped over,
hanging like bats. So so what do you guys think?
Thirty thousand would you take it? Would you not take it?

Speaker 4 (36:06):
I'm not taking that.

Speaker 5 (36:08):
With the Supreme Court, with my case, I ain't taking
nothing and I'm injured.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
Yeah, yeah, because yes, there's.

Speaker 4 (36:16):
No way you flipping this plane over and I'm not injured.

Speaker 3 (36:20):
No.

Speaker 1 (36:20):
Well, here's thirty thousand dollars. Okay, here's thirty thousand dollars.
Look at that fig let's.

Speaker 5 (36:25):
Start at two point five three mini, let's.

Speaker 2 (36:28):
Start this the total of what they wanted.

Speaker 7 (36:30):
Well, listen to me, if you're in a car accident.
Somebody's gonna get a checked out of a car accident.
That's the country we live in. How can you possibly
think an airplane can flip over? Because whatever it was,
it was none of the passenger's faults.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
Right, okay, thirty thousand, Okay, that's what you get.

Speaker 4 (36:49):
I thought I had Jeff feud on me, but it
was just it was my feud.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
Anyway, coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, listener,
need some help on how to talk to a woman.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
If we'll get into it right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 4 (37:08):
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Speaker 1 (37:47):
All right, okay, Steve. So there's this young guy who's
twenty two years old. He needs your help. He's trying
to get a twenty four year old lady's attention. He's
twenty two, the lady is twenty four. He wrote, I
might be trying to date a lady that is out
of my league. I don't know what to say to her, Tommy,
he says, I usually break the ice with jokes, but

(38:10):
she doesn't think I'm funny. Please give me some pointers,
since you're funny guys like me.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
So he wants you guys's help.

Speaker 4 (38:18):
We like him.

Speaker 2 (38:19):
Uh huh, yeah, he says, you're funny guys like me.
She doesn't think he's funny, but apparently he thinks. No,
don't stop saying that he's only twenty two.

Speaker 7 (38:32):
Yeah, bruh, that ain't that? Ain't that ain't the same
inroad don't work with everybody. H were going in there
with jokes and she don't. She don't think you funny?
Could it be she's correct.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
What if she doesn't have a sense of humor and
he is fine turned off already?

Speaker 7 (38:50):
Uh huh yeah, but if she thinks you silly, you
can't going there with some more of these damn jokes, though,
what's the difference?

Speaker 6 (38:59):
Now?

Speaker 7 (38:59):
I don't know where y'all work or nothing like this,
but this is Excuse me. I don't mean to bother you,
and I really don't. Now you obviously noticed one, but
this is the first thing my brother taught me. Excuse me,
I don't want to bother you, but it would really
really make my day if I knew what your name

(39:22):
was and then they say my name, My name is Michelle, Michelle,
thank you so much. That's all I want. I just
wanted to know your name because every time I see you,
it just matters to me. And I would love to
know the name of the person that matters to me
every time I see them. So, Hey, thank you, Michelle,
I said to point. So then my brother told me,

(39:44):
the next time you see her, walk up to her
and call her her name and then say, hey, Michelle,
how are you today?

Speaker 5 (39:52):
How are you?

Speaker 4 (39:54):
Hey? Really, thank you for giving me your name. I
would love it.

Speaker 5 (39:57):
I would love it and I hope this is not
an inconven that if I wish you knew my name too,
so when I say hello, Michelle, I could get the
return of you saying well hello Steve. That would really
really make my day. She said, well, hello Steve, thank you.

Speaker 7 (40:14):
Cool, And that's how I started the conversation lo Joe,
and I let her know every time she spoke to
me that it mattered to.

Speaker 2 (40:22):
Me, Like if she said hello Steve, the next day,
you would do what wow wow.

Speaker 4 (40:27):
Thank you. That's all I was hoping for. I made
my day, thank you, and then walk off winning.

Speaker 2 (40:40):
Then the next day, Hey Steve, Hey Michelle.

Speaker 7 (40:43):
Hey, listen, do you do you eat pizza? Or because Michelle,
if I could buy you a slice of pizza?

Speaker 2 (40:51):
All right, player player, thank you Steve.

Speaker 1 (40:54):
Coming up next, the ultimate player of us All Sister
Odell right after to the.

Speaker 2 (41:01):
You're listening Steve Harvey morning show.

Speaker 1 (41:05):
Well, ladies and gentlemen, as promised, she's here, the one
and only, will.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
You keep myself.

Speaker 5 (41:17):
A wonder.

Speaker 8 (41:25):
Two?

Speaker 5 (41:26):
My good morning's everyone? Good morning is good morning's good morning?
What's going on? Because my time is sheerly usually short,
so let's.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
Just cramy well.

Speaker 1 (41:41):
What's this, Rodella? You've heard of pastor Jamal Bryant. He's
the senior pastor at new Birth in Atlanta. Uh anyway, he's.

Speaker 4 (41:50):
Got church used to be the all the lone ed alone.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
Yes, ma'am, that the very one Carlo. Let's say all right, well,
Jamal Bryan.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
Pastor Jamal Brian is calling for people to fast from
shopping at Target since Target has gotten rid of its
DEI program. A lot of people are wondering why this
pastor Jamal care? Why is he coming from for Target
when other stories have also gotten rid of their DEI policies.

Speaker 2 (42:18):
And they want to know is this proper etiquette for
a pastor? What do you think?

Speaker 7 (42:22):
Well, I don't know if it's proper etiquette. But Jerome
need to find something else to do, is what he needed?

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Jehu?

Speaker 2 (42:27):
Now, ma'am, it's Jamal pastor Jamal Brian.

Speaker 5 (42:31):
You call them jerome Y?

Speaker 4 (42:36):
Who is well? Who is it?

Speaker 2 (42:39):
He's a pastor of the new Birth and it just
outside of Atlanta.

Speaker 7 (42:43):
Well, let me ask you, saw me if I got
to ask you self a time? Who you need to
ask yourself?

Speaker 5 (42:50):
Who is he?

Speaker 4 (42:51):
You see how it works? Wait?

Speaker 2 (42:53):
Yes, ma'am but but Jesus was walking up.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
Anybody say who was that? Everybody knew that was Jesus.

Speaker 12 (42:59):
Wait, sometimes you gotta speak for us Olf, Yes, ma'am
Jackson whatever, what was her name? Jamal Jamal? Yeah, Jamal
uh j A M A L.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
Yes, yes, ma'am.

Speaker 5 (43:18):
Do you want us to not not go to Target?

Speaker 4 (43:20):
Yes, ma'am.

Speaker 1 (43:21):
Yeah, to stop shopping there because of their DEI program
if they cancel.

Speaker 7 (43:27):
Do you just know old pastors? You don't know these
you knew what these these new ones? You know you
ain't gonna put your suit on and get up in
the pool pitch. You can't tell me nothing.

Speaker 2 (43:38):
Well what passes did you know back in the day standing.

Speaker 5 (43:41):
Up in it?

Speaker 12 (43:41):
James Cleveland, it's been a good day, yes, doctor Bobbie
James okay.

Speaker 7 (43:50):
Uh oh Ebenezia or Ebenezia Castle Uh Ebenzia castle uh
uh all Auville Redenbaker and head of the poor. Yeah,
you don't even understand, Billy Graham.

Speaker 4 (44:13):
I am the old ones.

Speaker 3 (44:14):
You know.

Speaker 7 (44:16):
Uh, Jimmy so you know, now Jimmy was you know
down there. You know Jimmy had some issues Hotel with
them hookers. He fell off a little bit. So you know,
so you know, I know, uh, you know U T. D.

Speaker 8 (44:39):
Jake, you know.

Speaker 5 (44:42):
Old school pastors. You know it's gonna be hard.

Speaker 7 (44:45):
Organized a Target boycott because this girl on y'all show, Monica,
she stayed down there.

Speaker 4 (44:53):
Money she i'd have seen her.

Speaker 8 (44:55):
Down Now.

Speaker 4 (44:58):
You shot at Target since sir there who don't shop
and talk, we don't go to talking.

Speaker 7 (45:06):
And the Walmart, you know, Walmart gave money to Donnie
Trump too. Now about the gave money. You ain't gonna
be able to drive a car in a minute. All
rich people gave money to done it. You can stop,
get off of Google.

Speaker 5 (45:21):
Listen. What we need to do is get ourselves together
and find out how we gonna handle it next four years.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
What we need to do, Okay, okay.

Speaker 5 (45:29):
And Jamar needs just gonna do what he do. Just
keep telling the word.

Speaker 7 (45:33):
He's a nice preacher, wearing all them colorful outfits and everything.

Speaker 5 (45:38):
Wonderful young man.

Speaker 2 (45:39):
Yes, ma'am, he just got married recently. All right, all right, well.

Speaker 5 (45:44):
He made too many mistakes for me though.

Speaker 2 (45:46):
Person coming up next, judge much.

Speaker 6 (45:51):
Coming up.

Speaker 2 (45:52):
It is a nephew. Right after this.

Speaker 1 (45:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up
at about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry
letter for today and the subject is my daughter in
law and my sons. Okay, we'll get into that, find
out what it's all about. And it's not good, okay,
trouble in this family. All right, we'll find out in

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just a few because right now it is time for
the nephew and today's praying phone call.

Speaker 5 (46:23):
What you got for his neph How stupid you want
me to be this morning, sheriony call? How stupid y'all?
Won't y'all looking y'all?

Speaker 2 (46:29):
Do you baby get?

Speaker 4 (46:32):
I mean, I'm high in when I go, when I
go hard, I go high in.

Speaker 1 (46:36):
I mean you the luxury brand Yessaton, Yes, yes.

Speaker 3 (46:46):
Do it?

Speaker 4 (46:47):
All right? I got it for you. This right here
is this? You know, it's just some people.

Speaker 5 (46:51):
Some people kill me. Now. You know this lady been
coming to my house and you know, back and forth
from my house to her husband had But now she
didn't bring any bed bugs to my house. And see
that's that's unacceptable. You understand I'm saying somewhere you got
to draw the line. So she's bringing bed bugs from
her house to my house and I just spent bout

(47:11):
twenty five hundred dollars. I got to get a new
mattress and everything. So I'm calling I'm thinking I'm calling her,
but the husband picked up. But we got to get
this twenty five hundred. I got to get this mattress.
I need all my money back, and she didn't bringing
bed bugs to my house.

Speaker 4 (47:24):
This right here is bed bugs. I can't stand it. Man,
You too far? Me too far? That's too far right here?

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Yeah, really just by the setup.

Speaker 4 (47:36):
Bed bugs. Let's go.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
Hello, Hello, trying to speak to Shenise.

Speaker 8 (47:41):
She's down here right now.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
If I pick a message, Uh, do you know when
she's coming back?

Speaker 4 (47:46):
Now?

Speaker 8 (47:46):
Is this a business calls them?

Speaker 5 (47:48):
No?

Speaker 3 (47:48):
No, this personal. I need to talk to her immediately.

Speaker 8 (47:51):
No, you need to talk to me. It's just a man.

Speaker 5 (47:54):
Who was it? This is?

Speaker 3 (47:55):
This is Brandon?

Speaker 4 (47:57):
Who are you?

Speaker 8 (47:58):
I'm ernest man?

Speaker 3 (47:58):
But why do you I got a bit of a
situation here, man, And it's basically a financial situation that
I'm owed some money from her. So I kind of
need to talk to her about about getting this money.
Is totally disrupted my whole apartment, and I need to
actually see about talking to her about getting this whole problem,

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taking care.

Speaker 8 (48:21):
Of what's the what's the situation, what's the what's going on?

Speaker 3 (48:25):
I mean, I'm basically right now, I'm twenty five hundred
dollars in the rears due to Shynese, and you know,
I need to see if she's gonna be able to
pay me for this situation or what. You know, my
girl owe you money. She owes me twenty five hundred dollars,
twenty five.

Speaker 8 (48:43):
Hundred dollars for what. I don't even know who you are,
first of all, So what's up with the twenty five
hundred dollars?

Speaker 3 (48:48):
Man? First of all, my name is Brandon, okay, and
I've been I know, I've been knowing she probably for
the last three or four months now, Okay, So here
you want to know it all in a nutshell? Is
just like this. Charne's been coming through, okay for the
last three or four months, been coming over here to
my spot, to my apartment, hanging out. I'm just now

(49:09):
finding out within the last two weeks. It's I had
to get rid of my couch. I had to get
rid of my mattresses because the mattress, because it's better mattress.

Speaker 8 (49:19):
Wait, a minut. Dude, Wait a minute, So you're trying
to tell me she was in your bed.

Speaker 3 (49:22):
Yeah, she's been in my bed.

Speaker 8 (49:24):
Dude, she been in your bed? Are you crazy?

Speaker 3 (49:28):
You know.

Speaker 8 (49:30):
Side five hundred dollars. Problem is twenty five hundred dollars
you talk about my girl was in your bed. Now
we're not even gonna get into that. You understand what
I'm saying, but that's twenty five hundred dollars. You can
forget about it. No, no, no, no, no, hold up,
bros and ball you calling here? You calling here? You
calling here and here, dude, answer the phone and you
still got to to ask for her. And then't gonna
tell me about some twenty five hundred dollars about some mattress.

Speaker 3 (49:52):
Dude, I'm out my mattresses, man, or a thousand bucks
full of bed bucks. I had to throw that away.

Speaker 8 (49:58):
Mayn't probly worry about no damn mats this, dude. You're
talking about my girl. We've been together for four years.
I'm about to pop the question on her, and you
want to sit there talking about she been hanging with
you or take it with you for the last four months.
It's about to be over in the many now what
you want to.

Speaker 3 (50:10):
Marrye Denise cool. I don't care nothing.

Speaker 8 (50:12):
About it, don't even worry about that now. But you
don't when I fall talking about some dad mattress. Man,
that's that's a problem, dude. I ain't worried about no
damn mattress.

Speaker 3 (50:19):
I don't worry. I ain't got no mattress.

Speaker 8 (50:21):
Right now to my house. You call them mine.

Speaker 3 (50:25):
I do not call a mattress right now, nor do
I have a couch. Do you understand I don't can't
know about some mattress in the couch, dude, I don't
care nothing about that. Your name, you say your name, Brandon,
I'm Brandon, yees yeah, brand Okay.

Speaker 8 (50:38):
Don't worry about it, Brandon, because you're gonna find me
real slow. Don't let me find you before you find me.
Or you understand what I'm saying, don't You don't don't
do You can have them big bugs and that mattress
or whatever. Answer me for all out here. But what
I'm saying is you talking about some big bugs and
the big bugs over here. Okay, so what you see them?
Brought them over here in my place? I don't can't
have about it. She ain't bring nothing over that, first

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of all, But I ain't need ain't even a problem
right now.

Speaker 3 (51:01):
If you want you've been over here, man, we hat
nobody else over here.

Speaker 8 (51:05):
Don't worry about who you had over there. But you're
gonna call here talking about no money. You ain't getting
nothing from here.

Speaker 3 (51:10):
Okay. First of all, due check this out. I don't
have a problem with you, okay, Me and you cool?
No when your cool problem?

Speaker 8 (51:16):
We already got a problem. You call with me something
about you've been sleeping with my brother.

Speaker 3 (51:19):
Hey, dog Dodge. But once I'm gonna say it again.
Me and you cool dog we cool?

Speaker 8 (51:23):
Were not cool?

Speaker 3 (51:24):
We not cool.

Speaker 8 (51:25):
But I'm gonna find out a little water. I'm gonna
handle soanise myself. I'm gonna h do you. I'm gonna
handle you later.

Speaker 3 (51:31):
What you think to what you're talking about? You, you're
gonna handle me.

Speaker 8 (51:33):
I'm gonna handle you later. You want a mattress, right, Hey,
they do?

Speaker 3 (51:37):
They want a massis right and marriage, Denise, I ain't
got nothing to do with that. My water, my money
back man for the for the property of mind that
she has ruined.

Speaker 8 (51:45):
Man, don't worry about that. I'm gonna get you a masters.
Don't worry about that. It's gonna be a casket wrapt
around that.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
Hey hey, dude, dude, why you sitting here creating the
trauma with me when me and you we ain't even
the problem. The problem is Sani.

Speaker 8 (51:58):
The problem is you picked up the phone and you
call here. That's the problem.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
You got to dudents.

Speaker 8 (52:03):
You ain't got no couch, you ain't got no mattress.
Now you gotta do that. You understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (52:08):
You know what I see. I can't talk to you.
When do Senise get home?

Speaker 8 (52:11):
Man, don't worry about when Shani get home. What you
need to worry if I was when I find you?

Speaker 3 (52:15):
Okay? So so when when you're gonna have my money
in it? When you find me because I need my
money day, I'm gonna have.

Speaker 8 (52:20):
Your money, have your mattress too. Please understand he's gonna
be wrestling real well.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Okay, okay, So so let me ask you this here, man, Sanise,
bring bed bugs over to my house. Leave them all
in my mattress, leave them all on my couch. Where
I gotta throw my stuff away? Where I'm wrong at man,
where I'm wrong.

Speaker 8 (52:36):
I'm gonna ask you straight up, did you know she
had a man?

Speaker 3 (52:39):
Say?

Speaker 8 (52:39):
What did you know she had a man?

Speaker 3 (52:41):
But I mean kind of kind of sort of but.

Speaker 8 (52:44):
Not really though, you know, kind of sort of man
even you know she got a man? Or she don't
got a man? You knew she had a man?

Speaker 3 (52:50):
Right? And you still win? Dd Right? Hey, dog, I
ain't got nothing to do with y'all. Man, I'm dealing
with these bed bugs, June.

Speaker 8 (52:57):
Stay what I'm saying, dude, do you understand you messing
up a year relationship? You know how much time I
put in with this woman, four years? Four years were
about to get we about to get married, and you
calling here with this.

Speaker 3 (53:07):
What are y'all supposed to get married?

Speaker 8 (53:09):
Don't worry about when we're supposed to get married. Man,
you messed that all up. What I'm trying to explain
to you is do you calling here on some big
bugs which I know she ain't got nothing to do with.
But the fact that you told me that she was
over your house, in your bed that's over. It's over now.
You understand what I'm saying. Now, when she get home,
I'm gonna deal with that. You understand what I'm saying,
that's gonna get dock with. I'm walking up out of here.

(53:30):
But when I leave here, please believe my next doctor
is to come find your wa prince of all. How
do you get the number to this apartment? That's what
I want to know they do.

Speaker 3 (53:38):
She gave me both numbers, the cell phone number and
the house number. Told me, you know, if it's an emergency,
called the house.

Speaker 8 (53:43):
Okay, and this is an emergency.

Speaker 3 (53:45):
Yeah, that's an emergency.

Speaker 8 (53:46):
I learn learn another emergency number, learning nine one one
because when I come kncing on your dorn, either you
come out on your head of it or you better
call the cops. You understand what I'm trying.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
To tell you. Hey, man, do you think Tommy will
pay for the bed bugs?

Speaker 8 (54:01):
Who is Tommy?

Speaker 3 (54:02):
I'm just saying, do you think Tommy will pay for
the bed?

Speaker 8 (54:04):
But who is Tommy?

Speaker 3 (54:06):
Tommy dog nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Ernest,
you just got branked by your girl shot niece.

Speaker 8 (54:17):
Man, y'all, y'all for a it was over. It was over.
You understand what I'm telling you?

Speaker 4 (54:32):
What I say lay tubid on a Monday morning, all right?

Speaker 5 (54:37):
Lexicon, Kentucky y'all already know the nephew is coming to
Town Comedy Broadway March thirteen, fourteen, fifteenth, and the sixteenth.

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Speaker 5 (54:46):
Bricktown Him of the Club. Oklahoma City that's March twenty eight,
twenty ninth, and thirtieth. Charlotte, North Carolina that's April fourth, fifth,
and sixth. God I said like that, Golin, North Carolina.
Take a all.

Speaker 4 (55:00):
See you. We know we know.

Speaker 1 (55:03):
Coming up next today strawberry letter for you. The subject
is my daughter in law and my sons. We'll get
into it right after this.

Speaker 4 (55:12):
All right, let's go. Come on, Shirley, what you got.

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Now you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time
now for today's Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 1 (55:57):
And if you need advice on relationships, works, parenting, and more,
please submit your Strawberry letter to STEVEVARBYFM dot com and
click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter
live on the air, just like we're going to read
this one right here, right now, and you never know,
it could be yours.

Speaker 4 (56:15):
It could beyond. Buckle up and hold on tight. We
got it four you here.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
It is Girlberry letter nephew, Thank you. Subject my daughter
in law and my sons. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a
sixty four year old married man and I have two sons.
My wife and I are retired and we enjoy spending
time with our three grandchildren. Our oldest son got married
six years ago and I used to love his wife.

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She's been a part of our family for ten years.
My wife and I spent a week with my son
and his family for Christmas. I got up early one
morning to meditate and get my coffee while the house
was still quiet. As I walked into the kitchen, I
could hear my daughter in law in her office on
the phone. I heard her say, your parents took the

(57:03):
kids to the mall yesterday. It kind of threw me
off because she could only be talking to my other son.
I never mentioned it to my wife. When Christmas Eve,
my daughter in law left her phone in the kitchen
face down. It kept on vibrating, so my wife flipped
flipped the phone over to see whose phone it was.

(57:23):
She said she saw back to back text from our
younger son, who just turned thirty. She thought maybe he
was trying to pop up and surprise us for Christmas.
I thought to myself that might be why my daughter
in law was talking to him.

Speaker 2 (57:39):
That morning.

Speaker 1 (57:40):
Christmas Day came and we all face timed with our
younger son, who said he had no plans of joining us.
I was really puzzled by that point. It all came
out last week when my younger son came home and
said he had to talk to me. He told me
that he had a flame with my daughter in law.
She drove for four hours to see him, and over

(58:04):
the course of that weekend they had six three times.
He said it was terrible, and he told her it
will never happen again, but she won't leave him alone.
I am not equipped to handle this. Do I encourage
my son to tell his a big brother about what
he did to his wife? Or should I stay out
of this?

Speaker 2 (58:24):
Well? Of course I think you know the answer to this. Dad,
This is all terrible.

Speaker 1 (58:30):
First of all, it's bad on both parts, your younger
son for betraying his blood brother and of course wifey
for her slimy behavior. And you know that could possibly
break up this family and Dad, you shouldn't have to
be equipped to handle this.

Speaker 2 (58:45):
No one is equipped to deal with this kind of foolishness.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
No, you shouldn't tell your older son, and neither should
your younger son. If this ever gets out, it will
start a family feud like no other. Your younger son
needs to stop all communication with this woman his sister
in law, meaning, stop texting her, stop answering her calls,
all of that. They got to stop this. Please tell

(59:10):
him that, I mean, just tell him that so he
can move on. Leave her, try to put this behind
him and move on if he can, because if the
sun finds out, this is gonna be a mess right here.
It already is, and I just don't understand why he
would do that to his brother and why she would
do it and possibly break up a family between two brothers.

Speaker 2 (59:32):
Steve, I'm confused.

Speaker 7 (59:36):
I'm very confused. Okay, you all have heard the letter
that Shirley just read. You heard Shirley's response. Here's my confusion,
and it's not directed at Shirley. It's directed at things
I've heard women say. This is what I've heard women
say throughout the course of my life. If this is

(01:00:00):
my friend, I would tell my friend if she was
my friend. Let's say a woman saw a man cheating
on one of her girlfriends. I've heard the woman say,
if she was my friend, she would tell them. I've
heard women say I would want to know. I've heard

(01:00:21):
women say she's my friend, I have to tell her.
I'm just saying I've heard these things that may not
apply to every woman, but I've heard this a lot,
and I think you all will admit you've heard that too. Now,
based on that right there, now, let's go to Shirley's response.
Shirley says she knows that this father knows the answer

(01:00:41):
to this, and he has got to stay out of
this because no one is equipped for this. I'm looking
at both sides of this letter now because I really
don't know how to respond quite yet. So now, ladies,
let me get this right. If someone was cheating on you,
you always say you would want to know. And then
women always feel a lot of times, not all women,

(01:01:04):
but a lot of women feel like it is their
obligation to tell their friend what they saw. We have
letter after letter after letter about this conflict that you
all are facing. So in this letter right here, is
it because they are men that they should leave it alone,
let it go? Is it because he is the father
and these are his sons. I do understand Shirley's concerned

(01:01:27):
that this could break up the family because it's a
betrayal of the younger son who betrayed his big brother.
That is the foulest of this. Yeah, for sure, that's
the foulest of all of this. Yes, that is your brother.

Speaker 4 (01:01:50):
I don't care what does chick come to you with.
This is my brother. Yeah, this is my brother. So
to me, the young boy is the foulest.

Speaker 7 (01:02:02):
Now is the wife, the daughter in law, the sister
in law spank absolutely.

Speaker 4 (01:02:12):
Gobba like trash I mean straight trash man.

Speaker 7 (01:02:19):
And now all of this falls in the lap of
the father because a young boy is so tossed up.
They gotta have a great relationship because he take it
to his dad. When we come back, I still don't
know what I'm gonna say.

Speaker 1 (01:02:33):
Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two of your response
coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour Today's
Strawberry letter subject my daughter in law and my sons.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
We'll get back into it right after this.

Speaker 4 (01:02:47):
All right, let's go. Come on, Shirley, what you got.

Speaker 2 (01:02:49):
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my job. We have a great time at work every day.

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Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
On, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. This is a
wild one right here. My daughter in law and my sons.

Speaker 4 (01:03:34):
That's this man sixty four years old.

Speaker 7 (01:03:38):
And he's got two sons and the oldest son is
married to a woman for over ten years.

Speaker 4 (01:03:44):
They have three grandchildren.

Speaker 7 (01:03:46):
He absolutely adored this woman, and then he heard her
having a conversation one morning he got up to half coffee.
She was in her office and got up and heard
her talking to someone on the phone and said, your
parents took the grand kids to the mall today, which
meant she He thought, you could only be talking to
the oldest son, you know, or or one of his sons.

(01:04:11):
So because they only had the two kids. All right,
fast forward, they over there. They're expecting everybody home for Christmas.
Phone rings that's on vibrate. It's some messages and texts
from the youngest son to the daughter in law. Now
Dad is confused and then thought, well, maybe he was
trying to surprise everybody to get on the FaceTime on Christmas.

Speaker 4 (01:04:30):
Come to find out he wasn't coming at all.

Speaker 7 (01:04:33):
Finally, the young boy talks to his sixty four your
old dad and say, Dad, I need to talk to you.
I got a problem. This woman, the daughter in law,
my brother's wife, drove to see me for four hours.
We had sex three times. It was terrible. It was terrible,
and he told her it'll never happen again, but she

(01:04:54):
won't leave him alone. And the man is saying, I'm
not equipped to handle this. To do I encourage my
son to tell his big brother about what he did
to his wife. See listen to that sentence, doog do
I tell my son to tell his big brother about
what he did to his wife. Wow, that is the

(01:05:15):
most powerful statement in this whole letter for this man.
Because he's a man, He know what that older boy
gonna feel or think, and he knows this could blow up.
Because it's going to blow up because the young the
oldest son is going to be destroyed on both sides.

Speaker 4 (01:05:40):
My wife betrayed me, but my little brother did too.

Speaker 7 (01:05:45):
I had an incident that happened to me a long
long time ago, and somebody lied and said my brother
did it to me.

Speaker 4 (01:05:54):
When I call my brother, I was handling this situation.

Speaker 7 (01:05:58):
But when I call and I charged, which my brother
was doing it to me, and I was so upset
man talking to my brother because all I kept saying, brah,
not you man, bruh, not you DoD. I'd take this
for anybody, but dog you broh. My brother finally got

(01:06:19):
so I hung up.

Speaker 5 (01:06:20):
I went home.

Speaker 4 (01:06:21):
I was distraught.

Speaker 7 (01:06:22):
Finally somebody came and saying, Man, I talk to you brother.
Let me tell you what happened. He said, but you
was just holling and he couldn't get your listen. Turned
out my brother didn't do it at all. The part
that crushed me mostly was I thought it was a
betrayal of my brother. And I could take it from
anybody else, but not my brother. Not my brother man,
because we was raised to take care of each other. So,

(01:06:44):
Dad of sixty four years, I don't really know what
to tell you. I really really don't. I have three sons.
If this happened in my family, I would be really, honestly,
to be honest with you, I'd be feeling the way
you are and I wouldn't know what to do. But
I'm a father, so I gotta do something. You can't

(01:07:06):
just let it lay you can't. But bruh, I don't
know how to handle this because this right here can
go south so fast, so fast, and the injury that
could be cause to your oldest son, it's one that
may not be repallable. Your wife betrayed me, who's the

(01:07:30):
mother of my children? And my little brother betrayed me. God,
I don't know. I don't know what to say. I
talked to this little trifling girl.

Speaker 2 (01:07:46):
The daughter in law.

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
Yeah, as the father, you're saying, you talk to the
daughter in law, you wouldn't let her know that you know.

Speaker 4 (01:07:55):
Yeah, I know what didn't happen.

Speaker 7 (01:07:58):
And what I want you to do is fix itving. Yeah,
just bounce, say you don't want this no more, don't
destroy my sons. Just gonna bounce and leave. But she's
not gonna do That's well, she's not gonna bounce and
leave without the destruction because if she's that type of person,

(01:08:22):
she gonna think, well, I ain't gonna be the only
one hurting mm hm.

Speaker 4 (01:08:26):
Also, you're gonna protect.

Speaker 7 (01:08:28):
Your sons, well, I'm gonna I find you want me
to blow my family up, I blow your family up too.
That's why I don't know what to say. I truly, well,
this is the first Strawberry Letter that has completely stomped
me because I really just don't know what to say.
I would have to I would really have to pray
about this because I don't have an answer. I just

(01:08:51):
don't have an answer. Man, this is horrible, beyond anything.
But I'm so disappointed in my younger son. Boy, you
didn't thank for one minute.

Speaker 13 (01:09:03):
This is my brother. This is my brother, man bride,
come on, oh man, that would yeah, break my heart.
It would either way.

Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
It's bad.

Speaker 4 (01:09:17):
That would break my heart because I got three sons.

Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
All right, Thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:09:22):
You comment on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram and Facebook
or at Steve Harvey FM. Also check out the Strawberry
Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. Now coming up next,
we're going to do a black History quiz here guys,
it is Black History Month.

Speaker 2 (01:09:38):
No your history. Right after this you're listening to the
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Well, instead of sports today, because Junior's not here, we
decided to do a Black History quiz in honor of
Black History Month.

Speaker 2 (01:10:22):
Yes, we are still celebrating. Here you go. Question number one, Okay,
let me ask you this before I start answered.

Speaker 5 (01:10:28):
You know, is this a serious quiz?

Speaker 4 (01:10:31):
Or do you want me and fool to do what
we do?

Speaker 2 (01:10:34):
Do what you do, but do what you can?

Speaker 3 (01:10:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:10:39):
Oh, okay, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (01:10:42):
We'll start off easily. We'll start off easy, all right.
In what state was Barack Obama a senator before president?

Speaker 4 (01:10:50):
I know that it's a called Illinois.

Speaker 2 (01:10:53):
Then I win, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
Number two, The Old Train was created and hosted by
uh Montel Williams or Sineo.

Speaker 7 (01:11:06):
Stop stop stop stop stop don Cornelia stop. We don't
multiple choice for that. If you don't know that, turn
in your nab A CP card. We're not finn play.

Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
With you playing these reindeer games. What was the greatest
What was the greatest nickname? I mean, real name?

Speaker 2 (01:11:28):
What was the greatest Mohammad?

Speaker 8 (01:11:32):
What? What?

Speaker 3 (01:11:32):
What?

Speaker 10 (01:11:32):
What was?

Speaker 2 (01:11:33):
Y'all gave it away. It was supposed to be what
was Muhammad Ali's nickname? What was the greatest real name?
But you're right, Steve.

Speaker 3 (01:11:43):
Uh huh?

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
Here here here were the multiple choices, just for fun.
What was Muhammad Ali's nickname? The greatest? The fridge or mooki?
They spike? All right, here we go play Uncle Bill
in the Fresh Press and some belle air temmy.

Speaker 5 (01:12:02):
Uncle Phield played Uncle Field hell exactly, Hell yeah, because
that's what asked you to call James Avery.

Speaker 2 (01:12:11):
He was everybody, all right, pe, you're right about that?

Speaker 4 (01:12:16):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:12:17):
Oh okay, Now this is serious, Steve. You asked if
there were any serious questions.

Speaker 2 (01:12:21):
This is serious?

Speaker 1 (01:12:22):
Which movie is one of Morgan Freeman's most iconic roles?

Speaker 2 (01:12:27):
Get this right? Or else?

Speaker 5 (01:12:29):
It's a couple though. Now, yeah, I don't know what
you're talking about. Most iconic role? What you don't you
don't say?

Speaker 2 (01:12:40):
No, no, yes, Tommy who played Prince a Kim and
Coming to America? Come on, guys, who could that be?

Speaker 3 (01:13:01):
Randy Rady?

Speaker 2 (01:13:07):
These were so easy, all right, thank you. Coming up,
who is one of the kings of comedy that's on
this show?

Speaker 1 (01:13:20):
Coming up at the top of the hour, A young
woman needs some advice. Who's a single woman and never
had a real job. We'll talk about it right after this.
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve,
This one is from Shaye and Nashville. Shay says, I'm
a twenty five year old single woman and I've never
had a real job. My dad said, I'm his responsibility

(01:13:42):
until another man takes me off his hands. My mom
is nagging my dad about making me find a job
and move out of our home. She told me that
I need to be more independent. But she married my
dad when she was twenty two and he was forty
two and has not worked a day in her life.
Why is mom even in this well?

Speaker 4 (01:14:03):
For starters?

Speaker 7 (01:14:04):
No for starters that your mama probably know you ain't
got no prospects on the board, ain't like y'all got
to please line up and you picking from it. Your
mama has watched you not have a choice, you don't like,
you don't have any suitable suitors, and plus, ladies, there's
nothing wrong with learning how to take care of yourself

(01:14:27):
in the event that you have to take.

Speaker 4 (01:14:29):
Care of yourself.

Speaker 5 (01:14:33):
If your whole goal is to be dependent on a man,
you even get used up a couple of times.

Speaker 7 (01:14:40):
So no, I think, why is she in it? Because
she's trying to prepare you because life don't go the
way you want it to do. No, I mean, life
don't go the where you want it to. Life just
goes life. And if you don't know, and if you
don't never learn how to go with the flow, then
you're gonna be in some serious trouble. So I think

(01:15:02):
your mom is absolutely right. Now you could sit there
and not work and not get in twenty five and
you ain't never worked.

Speaker 4 (01:15:10):
Okay, I ain't good.

Speaker 2 (01:15:12):
But times are different now than when her mom was
twenty two.

Speaker 7 (01:15:15):
Absolutely okay, let me ask you a question. Tell me
the time period where you don't need no money?

Speaker 4 (01:15:26):
Yeah? What that time?

Speaker 5 (01:15:28):
Man?

Speaker 4 (01:15:28):
Surely?

Speaker 2 (01:15:30):
Oh, there is no time when you don't need any money.

Speaker 4 (01:15:33):
Okay, So she's question.

Speaker 2 (01:15:39):
Well, her dad said he she's his responsibility, so he
should take some.

Speaker 7 (01:15:45):
No, she is his responsibility because he's made her his responsibility,
so therefore she is what she has done. Is she's
taken advantage of it and the mama tied of it?

Speaker 4 (01:16:00):
Yeah for sure.

Speaker 5 (01:16:01):
Yeah, you're sitting up in here like the princess car.
Well yeah see right, yeah, Well you need a child, daddy.

Speaker 4 (01:16:10):
I need a new car.

Speaker 2 (01:16:11):
Okay, baby, you're my responsibility.

Speaker 4 (01:16:15):
Daddy. I need a new bike.

Speaker 2 (01:16:17):
You damn show do a bike.

Speaker 5 (01:16:22):
All right.

Speaker 1 (01:16:24):
So you're saying that she needs to get out and
find her own job. You agree with the mom, not
the dad as a dad.

Speaker 7 (01:16:32):
I don't know what you're sitting there waiting though, faith
for our works is dead? Next question, all right, we do.

Speaker 1 (01:16:42):
Have time for another one, Steve. This is from Antoinette
and Meridian. Antoinette says, I've been married four years and
I still haven't met my in laws. We talked on
the phone maybe once a month, and that's it now.
When I finally asked my husband to take me, he
admitted that he was ashamed of where he grew up.
That's not good enough. That's not a good enough excuse

(01:17:02):
because he's already got me hooked and married. So what
could be so bad about his home and his family?
Is he hiding something from me?

Speaker 5 (01:17:12):
Huh? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:17:14):
Yeah, yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:17:15):
What is he hiding his failed that house nast.

Speaker 4 (01:17:19):
That oh he know how they are he okay, yo,
you might leave him after this?

Speaker 5 (01:17:27):
That bad?

Speaker 4 (01:17:28):
Is that bad? Yeah, there's some people back at that house.

Speaker 5 (01:17:32):
He didn't come to the wedding.

Speaker 4 (01:17:33):
They didn't come to the wedding.

Speaker 7 (01:17:36):
She said, they came to the wedding. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
oh no, oh no, they just got married.

Speaker 4 (01:17:42):
Yeah he didn't. He didn't invite them or nothing. He
knew then.

Speaker 2 (01:17:46):
Married for four years. She's never met them.

Speaker 5 (01:17:50):
That is crazy.

Speaker 7 (01:17:51):
I know she should have, unless like one of Tommy's pranks.
He don't want to meet them because if you find
out Tina's real name, your wife, tina real name is
to Reil, that might come out.

Speaker 4 (01:18:02):
Oh that's one of Tommy And.

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
You know, we'll lot more of the Steve Harvey Morning
Show coming up at twenty minutes after. You're listening to
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Getting on a plane has
been really stressful these past couple of weeks.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
We've been watching the news. How about this.

Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
You're waiting to board your flight and a massive fight
breaks out at the terminal. Come on, at the terminal,
a massive fight breaks out. It happened Friday evening around
five pm. Yeah, right at the gate at Atlanta's Hartsville
Jackson Airport.

Speaker 2 (01:18:42):
It's all caught on video. Guys.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
The footage shows a large number of people, male and female,
frenching and kitching each other, kicking each other, and this
was a massive brawl at the gate, standing on furniture, yelling, cursing.

Speaker 2 (01:18:57):
Now the yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Cops were called.

Speaker 1 (01:19:04):
They were called in, but by the time they got there,
the suspects and victims, all of them were gone. So
we don't even know why they were fighting. That's a
but you can guess. I bet you can guess what
airlines this was.

Speaker 5 (01:19:19):
Oh we damn so know what means?

Speaker 4 (01:19:21):
Which one? What gay area?

Speaker 3 (01:19:24):
What? What?

Speaker 4 (01:19:26):
You know exactly what this was?

Speaker 14 (01:19:28):
Yeah, come on, my years of flying, I've never seen that. Yeah,
I've never seen behavior. We just have a different generation now.

Speaker 7 (01:19:40):
It's so so disrespectful of each other and the you
know you're gonna act like you dress.

Speaker 3 (01:19:48):
So.

Speaker 1 (01:19:51):
Like you look, yeah, growing up? Yeah, all right, all right,
coming up, we'll play around it, would you rather? Right
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All right, guys, it's time for a round of would
you rather? Would you rather be missing a tooth on
the side, or would you rather be four inches shorter?

Speaker 6 (01:20:45):
On this.

Speaker 4 (01:20:47):
I'm not feeling your shorter. You can take that tooth.
You take your two tooth out the middle if you
want to.

Speaker 2 (01:20:56):
Jack.

Speaker 4 (01:20:58):
Everybody's not you. I mean Dommy did meet Daly?

Speaker 7 (01:21:10):
Yeah, no, I'm not feeling be four inches short. I'm
take the twofold the side and just have a good side.
That's all, all right?

Speaker 1 (01:21:22):
Would you rather attend a black history program at the
White House or would you rather kiss your ex?

Speaker 4 (01:21:30):
You're talking about what the current administration.

Speaker 2 (01:21:32):
Absolutely, I ain't fooling with him. Yeah, yeah, Chris, Yeah,
it's the ex go to Black History program.

Speaker 4 (01:21:44):
Let's just kiss say goodbye.

Speaker 2 (01:21:49):
On Manhattan on the phone.

Speaker 4 (01:21:52):
Yeah, eat my ass alive. I'll go anywhere near that
White House.

Speaker 2 (01:21:55):
I'm not to do that, even for Black History program.

Speaker 4 (01:22:00):
Out no, Lord Jesus.

Speaker 2 (01:22:05):
All right, moving on? Would you rather be Pigeon Toad
or sloop footed?

Speaker 5 (01:22:10):
Pigeon told baby Pigeon me, that's why I like it, baby,
That out ain't good? That out?

Speaker 4 (01:22:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:22:21):
When I was a little boy, when I got clean,
like if I got new Easter suit, I walked pigeon.

Speaker 2 (01:22:25):
Tod Oh because what was that considered cool?

Speaker 8 (01:22:29):
Or?

Speaker 4 (01:22:29):
Yeah? I thought that was.

Speaker 2 (01:22:32):
I thought the ladies liked it, didn't.

Speaker 4 (01:22:34):
I was too little boy, I didn't know. I just
thought this was pigeon Toad's cool.

Speaker 2 (01:22:40):
It's just no logic.

Speaker 4 (01:22:42):
Yeah, I'm not going to be snow for though. That's
not what I'm feeling.

Speaker 5 (01:22:47):
What's wrong?

Speaker 4 (01:22:49):
It just looks goofy? All right? All right?

Speaker 2 (01:22:54):
Moving on?

Speaker 1 (01:22:54):
Would you rather be a successful R and B singer
or would you rather be a Broadway actor?

Speaker 3 (01:23:01):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (01:23:02):
All broad Way Broadway man.

Speaker 5 (01:23:05):
Well, I'll be mad at myseling, isn't my not with
the suffer the slings and arrows of the most inturbulent
times of ibishes, worshing the hamlets and.

Speaker 4 (01:23:16):
Grounds and not everything. Man, don't lett meaning this crap
won't be that take all get to see. No, you
won't me sleep talking about be saying everything.

Speaker 13 (01:23:35):
So hom ge all right, see you guys.

Speaker 3 (01:23:43):
His mom.

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It's been a great day.

Speaker 7 (01:25:05):
Yeah, remarks. This is something that I had to come
to terms too. I think I've been sharing with you all.
I was just been going through something over the past
couple of weeks, and I found myself not taking my
own advice, and I forgot to look at my track
record because I'm human, you know. I forgot to think

(01:25:25):
of all God has brought me through. My wife reminded me,
she said, Steve, let me ask you something. Has God
ever been too late? And wow, he ain't. God ain't
ever showed up late. That's crazy, man. And but I'm
grateful I got somebody in my life that reminds me
of stuff. But I was going through some other things too,
and trying to learn remember the trust in his timing.

(01:25:50):
But as I was going through it, I learned something too.
And you know, I've been criticized publicly and you know,
because of my statue in life, and nobody likes it.
But you know what I've learned of late, and I
want to share it with you. I learned it for myself.

(01:26:13):
I heard somebody say a form of it, but I
kind of change it around. And so I'm gonna give
you something that I want everybody to focus on because
everybody has to know this information at one point.

Speaker 8 (01:26:24):
Me.

Speaker 7 (01:26:24):
If you're not, it's if it's not happening to you now.
It has happened to you in your past, and it
will happen to you again. But you know what I
really learned. Stop taking criticism from people you don't take
advice from. Stop taking criticism from people you don't take

(01:26:52):
advice from.

Speaker 4 (01:26:53):
Man, this hit me like a sludge hammer.

Speaker 5 (01:26:57):
Why am I allowing you to criticize me when you
ain't even nobody I would take advice from.

Speaker 4 (01:27:02):
Slow your role, y'all. Pull this thing in perspective. Listen
to me.

Speaker 5 (01:27:09):
I was being criticized publicly, do you know, and the
person that was criticizing me, you know what I had
to realize. And I want you all to take this
message because you have to. You can apply this to
whoever you are. It ain't got nothing to do with frame, money,
none of that. It got to do with life situation
and them critical haters that come at you. I had
to ask myself, I had to realize about this man.

Speaker 4 (01:27:32):
You are not who I want to be.

Speaker 3 (01:27:35):
You not.

Speaker 7 (01:27:37):
You have nothing I want. You don't You've done nothing.
I admire nothing. I have really got technical. You ain't
even accomplished nothing that I've accomplished. You've done nothing that
I've done, but your study criticizing me and honestly you

(01:28:00):
really not even in my league. And guess what, you
really don't know me. I just I'm done with it.
And I want you to think about that. Stop taking
criticism from people you don't take advice from, because if
you think about it, oftentimes the person that's criticizing you,

(01:28:22):
you know what, you know what really makes you look
upside their head like you're saying to yourself, you got
the nerve?

Speaker 4 (01:28:27):
Who are you?

Speaker 7 (01:28:30):
You ain't nothing I'm expiring to be. You've done nothing
I admire, You have nothing I want. You don't really
know me, man, it's just crazy, man, and y'all, I
just want y'all to accept what I'm saying to you
because it can be so helpful. Stop taking criticism from

(01:28:51):
people you don't take advice from. And you know, I
really know who I would take advice from, and it's
very few people. But who allow someone who don't even
know you, who ain't got your sale number, who you
don't even aspire to, You don't even admire Them's nothing
about them you admire. They don't even have anything you want.

(01:29:15):
But you're taking criticism from them, but you drinking it though,
and you wearing it, and you letting it affect you.
But this is the same person you would not take
advice from. That don't make no sense. I am so
done with that. I am so you know, and I've
been done with it, but I just didn't know how
to verbalize it. But when I found this way to
verbalize it, I said, Man, I just want to share

(01:29:35):
it with people. Stop taking criticism from people you don't
take advice from. If you don't give, if you don't
have nothing you can advise me on, you ain't even
in the position in your life.

Speaker 4 (01:29:47):
I want to be in most of You.

Speaker 5 (01:29:52):
Are really far better off and further ahead than most
people that are criticizing you, if you technically think about it.
Think about it for real.

Speaker 7 (01:30:05):
The people who are the loudest in your life that's
giving you the most drama, it's only because you allow
it to because guess what, they ain't even really close
to you.

Speaker 5 (01:30:15):
They ain't even in your same league.

Speaker 7 (01:30:17):
You know, I'm not really good at quoting rap because
I'm not a big hip hop head at all, and
I'll admit that, so I know I'm gonna misquote this.
But I kind of heard jay Z say something one
time that kind of made me laugh because it made
me smile. He said, I don't know why you talking
to me. We in two different leagues. We shooting at
two different baskets. As a matter of fact, me and

(01:30:39):
you pay two different taxes. So why I'm sitting up
in here having an argument with you. You ain't even
in my same league. Brou We're shooting at two different baskets. Listen, y'all,
stop taking criticism from people you wouldn't take advice from.

Speaker 4 (01:31:00):
Go live your life. That's that was really cold, y'all.
Have a great day. Don't talk to God. And absolutely love.

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