Selfish Or Selfless?, The "Gold Digger" Test, Strawberry Letter - He's Not Satisfied, But I Am - 06.05.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all
don't know y'all at all at all. Soon given them
black all bu busy.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Yeah, listening to.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
Don't Joy, Yeah, Joy.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
You gotta do that.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
You gotta turn, got to turn the mouth turn, probably

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got to turn the mouth, mouth turn A wad of.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
The morning up looking me, come.

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Come out?

Speaker 5 (01:59):
You think that, uh huh? I said, uh huh, I
show will, Good morning everybody. You are listening to the
voice come on dig me now, one and only Steve
Harvey got a radio show. I feel it's necessary to
explain what I.

Speaker 6 (02:16):
Say in the morning because somebody asked me, what do
you mean by that when you say that in the morning.
When I say, uh huh, it's in response to David
Hollister opening the song by saying, go ahead, big Daddy,
go ahead, I said, uh huh, I show will. Then
I say good morning everybody, because I was raised a rage.

(02:37):
You're supposed to speak when you come in the room.
I'm coming in y'all's room, whether it's your bedroom, the
room in your house, your car, your office, you know,
wherever you're at. I come in the room, or God speaks,
I say good morning, everybody, you are listening to the voice.
And then I got to introduce myself because as a performer,

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I always felt my best when I was in no
why would you walk out on stage anybody introduce you.
You can't get a round of applause. It's just it's horrible.
So I say, you are listening to the voice one
and only Steve Harvey. Come on, dig me now. Now
that's old school. I got that, but that's I was
once again.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Dig me? Now?

Speaker 6 (03:19):
Is I want you to feel what I'm about to say.
That's all I'm saying. That's not a bragging thing. You
know you are listening to the voice one and only
Steve Harvey. Come on, dig me now. I'm just asking
you to feel what I'm saying in the morning because
it's part of a promise that I made to God.
See a long time ago, I told God, if he

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allowed me to make it, that when I got there,
I would tell everybody I know how I did it,
and I wasn't gonna shortcut it or shade him on it.
I said, if you allow me to make it, if
you give me the strength, the courage, the wisdom, you
gave me a gift, if you let me apply, don't
destroy myself in the process. Forgive me for my sins

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along the way, continue to hold and rock me when
I need it. When I make it, I promise you Lord,
when I get there, I will tell everybody how I
made it.

Speaker 1 (04:17):
Well.

Speaker 6 (04:18):
This started back in LA when I got on the
radio and I was making it okay. I was doing okay,
but I had to keep my promise to God. My
promise was, if you allow me to make it, I'll
tell everybody how I got there. I have to tell
you that every day because if it was not for

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that grace and mercy, I wouldn't even be here able
to fulfill my promise. Because I've done enough dirt in
my life. Man to not be worthy. He could have
easily walked away from me a long time ago because
I had show walked away from him. See, and I
didn't walk away away from him once. I walked away

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from him a bunch of times. But guess what he
forgave me a bunch of times. I'm a living example
of hundreds of chances. His forgiveness and his mercy is
available for everybody.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
The only reason I.

Speaker 6 (05:20):
Get on this show every day. It's the only reason
I have the blessings that's come in my way. It's
the only way that the things that keep happening in
my life, man, that I have no explanation for, is
because of His grace and mercy. See, anytime something good
happens in my life and I can't explain it, that's
usually him, he exhibits to me. Remember, I'm a forgiving god.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Man. Remember, So when you fall, Steve, don't lay down there.
Don't you lay down there.

Speaker 6 (05:51):
Don't you let the devil fool you that because you'd
have made some mistakes that you ain't that you can't
do it because everybody gonna make them. It's none perfect, no,
not once. So get up, keep moving, keep pushing, step
on what you're laying there for. Your daddy didn't raise
you that way. Look, man, my father was just about manhood.

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I'm gonna just tell you. My daddy never had a
conversation with me about church. He beat me for not going,
but you know a couple of times, but he wasn't
about that wasn't his message. That was my mama's job.
My mama taught me about being saved, about loving the Lord,
about giving your life, about the teachings of Jesus Christ.
My mama was a Sunday school teacher, so I got

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all of that from her. My old man ain't had
none of that for me. My old man talked to
me about one thing all day long, hard working manhood,
and well you're gonna get that if you don't get
nothing else from me. He gave that to me, so
I got it. See, so, my father, you say, excuse
my language, but you ain't gonna sit there like no
little punk up in here. You ain't what you're finna do.

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You finna get up and go do what you're supposed
to do. Now, stop all that whine like some little
punkin gone get the movie. That's how my father talked
to me. Now, I'm just telling you real. It worked
for me, though, And before you start emailing me, that
had nothing to do with homosexuality at all.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
It's just that was his term for a man not
acting like a man.

Speaker 6 (07:15):
That's all it was. It was not a gay reference
at all. I want you to understand that before you
started emailing me. So my daddy wasn't calling. That was
not a sexual reference for him. My father talked to
us that's what he meant. I knew exactly what he meant.
He couldn't amit nothing if he ain't even know nothing
about that. My man clueless when it come to that
right there. So when I was getting down and feeling

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bad about myself, my old man, he taught me this toughness.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
Man, He gave me this grit, this doggedness, this go
to work and work hard.

Speaker 6 (07:44):
That's why today, when God does bless me with something,
he ain't got to worry about me not working hard
because that's in me. And when I get tired, I
asked that same God for strift to keep on doing
so I can do all the blessings he got for me.
So when you ask me how you gonna do all this,
Steve Harvey, I don't know. I ain't got to figure

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that out. All I got to do is show up
with the same amount of faith of being showing up
with God handled the rest of it. See y'all, Hey man,
let me tell you something. I don't see how you
do it. I don't either, Can I get you, hey man, newsflash?

Speaker 1 (08:22):
Let me hear. I don't see how you doing all that? Steve?
You doing this?

Speaker 7 (08:25):
You doing that?

Speaker 6 (08:26):
Can I tell you something I don't either I just
wake up with the faith man and trusting that if
He gonna bless me with it, he must be gonna
show me a way how to get it done. See,
I ain't tripping on that part. See, once you take
yourself out the how to business, you can go on
and get with it. But see, if you're gonna trip
yourself out with the how to, you can't think like

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God can think. You can't figure like God can figure.
So now you sitting up in here, God Lord, I
want this to happen for me. Then I don't know
how I'm gonna do all that. Well, guess what you
in the way?

Speaker 3 (08:58):
Now?

Speaker 1 (08:59):
See you? Now you and the way?

Speaker 6 (09:00):
Because see God ain't asked you to figure out how to.
He said ask and believe. Then he said faith without
works is dead. That's my solution. That's the concoction that
I'm functioning on. All I got to do is accept
the blessing, keep the faith, be willing to work and
believe God can do anything but fail. Why would God

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bring me this far to leave me? Why would he
bring you this far to leave you?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
So why I get up every morning? I have no choice?

Speaker 6 (09:39):
I got to get up in here to rest. When
I'm running late, Man, I try to plow through here.

Speaker 1 (09:43):
Sometime I don't make it. Man, I got to do
a rerun.

Speaker 6 (09:45):
But I plow through here because man, Steve, you're gonna
run out something to say. Nah, I'm gonna just keep thinking.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Now.

Speaker 6 (09:51):
You can't run out of that, can you, because you
owe him that. Matter of fact, when I get through talking,
I really ain't thanked him enough.

Speaker 8 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harveymore Show.

Speaker 6 (10:04):
Ladies and gentlemen, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Letting me clear my thoat. Welcome to the riot, everybody.
Come starting our day off with gratitude. That will affect
your attitude, which is in direct correlation with your altitude.

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It does not change. Please be grateful today. Please show
some gratitude. It's okay. You may not be where you
want to be, but think of all you have accomplished.
Think of the job, the home you have that you
used to didn't have, the car you got that you
used to didn't own. Remember that, Remember when you just

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was out there looking for a job and you got one.
That's what we're trying to get you to understand today
that there are plenty of reasons to be grateful and
the big one he woke you up today.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
This is Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (11:02):
Shirley Strawberry, Wisconsint is currently experiencing technical difficulties.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
We will have her shortly, hopefully calling for.

Speaker 6 (11:11):
Real Mississippi Monica Junior and the legend that is Nephew
Tommas jun.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Y'all, yes, sir, let's talk about it. Okay, what's going on?
I had to clear my throats. Your throats sound the
same all.

Speaker 8 (11:26):
The time, don't worry about that.

Speaker 9 (11:30):
Let me ask you this up man, do you have
to be selfish with achieving your goals? Or can you
get there being selfless?

Speaker 2 (11:39):
You know you have to have.

Speaker 6 (11:44):
The selfishness part comes in with you have to All
successful people monitor their time. Like if you've committed X
amount of time to the grind, then you have to
be selfish with giving out that time. If you know
that you've committed yourself to the day for the grind,

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for the hustle, for the goal, for the dream, then yeah,
you have to be selfish with that time. You can't
allow people to come in with meaningless stuff to do.
Hey man, you don't go over here and smoke a
little bit. Hey man, I got something to do. Oh man,
you don't ever want to you be on one? Yeah,
I'm on one.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
Yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 6 (12:25):
So there is a bit of selfishness that you have
to have, but I think that's in terms of time management.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
You cannot allow yourself.

Speaker 6 (12:35):
To be picked and taken apart by other people that
ain't on the same mission you on. And when you
try to be selfless and you try to be all
that for everybody, you're gonna lose because you cannot be
everything to everybody. And I think all of you know,
I don't care what you do. You can't make some

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people happy.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
You just can't do it.

Speaker 6 (12:59):
I don't care what you do for them. You can
loan it, gifted to them, hand it to them, and
it just it ain't. It ain't no end to some people.
So and then they use that man, you know, I know,
you got it. Man, You ain't gonna help a brother out.
They use guilt and they require you to be selfless
to them. But you have to be selfish when it

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comes to people like that, and you have to be
selfish with your time. That's the only way to make it.
You got to be dogmatic, man, You gotta be you
got to be head over, you got to be bit.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
I'm about it. You are you are that all right?

Speaker 10 (13:38):
Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, run
that prank back with the nephew.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
Right after this.

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Speaker 1 (14:20):
Time now for the nephew. Time to run that prank back.

Speaker 7 (14:24):
What you got we got media ministry, Media ministry. We're
gonna go down to the church.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
You know, the church. Every there's so.

Speaker 7 (14:33):
Many different ministries, So today we pranking media ministry. Everybody
need to be pranked down at the church, y'all. Get on, y'all,
high hosts. A little too much time you have to
bring y'all back down. So, yeah, it's time for the
media ministry to get it.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
In the fights. Let's go carry really Hello, HELLOSTI, I'm
trying to reach Dre. Andre.

Speaker 3 (14:54):
Yeah, this is Andre.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
Hey, Dre.

Speaker 7 (14:56):
You the person that runs the media at the church.
You over the sound system and everything and all the
screens and all that stuff.

Speaker 2 (15:04):
Yeah, yeah, I work with the church.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
Okay, how long you been at the church.

Speaker 3 (15:07):
Man, I've probably been at the church for like five
years now.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
About five years.

Speaker 7 (15:11):
Okay, okay, listen, my name Doug Man, Doug Newsom, and
I haven't I haven't joined the church yet, but I've
been coming because my cousin, you know, my uh my
cousin them go there, and they've been going there for
quite a bit. My cousin I got, I got one
cousin that's in the choir LaTrece. You know who litrece is, right.

Speaker 3 (15:30):
Yeah, yeah, I know who the trece.

Speaker 2 (15:32):
Doug. You ain't a member of.

Speaker 7 (15:33):
The church yet, No, No, I'm not a member of
the church yet, but you know, I've been in there.
You know, I'm liking the service and everything. So you know,
it's just a matter of time, you know, Uh, when
I feel like I'm ready to actually join, but I
ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 9 (15:47):
Man.

Speaker 7 (15:47):
I'm calling you because I got a bit of an
issue about, uh, about something I've been noticing for the
last three weeks that's been going on in the church,
and I wanted to uh, you know, I had to
ask around who was over the media.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Yeah, that's yeah, that's that's you.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
Man.

Speaker 7 (16:02):
Okay, So uh, man, I don't know what's happening. Uh
And and I ain't gonna lie. I gotta be real
with you. It pissed me off. But for the last
three weeks. You know, when my cousin get ready to sing,
you know, I don't know why when she get up
the same that the mic just go out, you know
what I mean, the mic just go completely out when

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she getting ready to sing.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
And I'm like, what this don't make no sense, you know.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
So man, it's not like I'm tiring it.

Speaker 12 (16:29):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (16:30):
I mean, we don't have the best equipment at the church,
you know, we we just got to work for what
we got. I mean, it's not like I'm sitting there
trying to sing about your cousin. Sometimes the MIC's get
a glitch, man, But.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
See but see that. But see that's my problem.

Speaker 10 (16:42):
Though.

Speaker 7 (16:42):
The problem I'm having is the glitch happening every single
time my cousin get the mic.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
You know.

Speaker 7 (16:48):
That's that's the problem I'm having. Like, Okay, so every
time the trees get up there the same then you know,
the mic go out. I didn't came three weeks straight.
I ain't hear my cousins saying nothing yet. So I'm
calling you brouh on you know, on some real man
the man stuff, just letting you know, bro, I'm coming
to church again this Sunday. I'm coming Now. If LaTrece
might go out again, Hey dog, somebody gonna.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
Get this wood.

Speaker 3 (17:13):
You're gonna bring that energy to church, say, wasn't I
You're gonna.

Speaker 2 (17:17):
Bring that energy to church?

Speaker 3 (17:18):
I told you, man, this is the glitch. Ain't nothing
I could do about it.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
Okay. What I'm saying though, Bro, what I'm saying is
just right here though, And I'm being as real as
I can.

Speaker 7 (17:26):
Which if if Latrice might go out on Sunday, immediately
after that service is over with somebody getting.

Speaker 3 (17:36):
I don't know why you calling threatening a member of
the church. Man, Like I said, I ain't got nothing
to do with it. I try to keep everything running cool,
you know, I try to keep the running smooth. I
can't tell you when a glitch is gonna happen. It's electronics, man,
it's only quitmen. I'd love for you to be a
member of the church with us, but I can't. I mean,
why are you calling up here threatening me?

Speaker 7 (17:55):
Hey, bro, because because I done came up there three times,
three times that it came to see my cousin saying.
You know, my cousin been saying since we was kids.
We all love to hear her saying. We love her voice.
You know, we we you know, we grew up listening
to Latree saying. So what I'm saying, I'm gonna say
this here, No, and I said it, I don't say
it twice already. I'm coming up there Sunday if if

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LaTrece might go out.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
Bro, let me just cut you off real quick. Ain't
no way that you're gonna come up here and whoop
nobody's man. That just ain't gonna happen. Like I told you,
it's a glitch, but you ain't coming up.

Speaker 7 (18:29):
Let me say this, from Doug to Andre, from me
to you, I'm letting you know right now, come Sunday,
if LaTrece might go out, not know somebody.

Speaker 1 (18:43):
I'm whooping, yos, Drake, I'm whooping yo if might go.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Okay, first off, I ain't nobody whooping my especially no
punk dude named Doug. He ain't gonna come to the church.
What my that's gonna happen?

Speaker 1 (18:59):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (19:00):
What?

Speaker 1 (19:00):
What what makes you think you can't get your whipped?

Speaker 3 (19:02):
And what makes me you over here threatening somebody over
here with the media. You want to come test these
hands and come test the hands?

Speaker 1 (19:08):
Man? You know what? Matter of fact? When you'all next rehearsal,
I just come on over that end.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
You come on over there, man, Why don't you come
over right now? I'm over at the church right now.

Speaker 1 (19:18):
Oh so you're at the church right now.

Speaker 3 (19:20):
I'm at the church right now, Okay, right now. If
you want to catch it talking, you're gonna need the
church after you don't get this, okay.

Speaker 7 (19:28):
Hey boy, tell DJ and then we're finna go to
the church down.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
No, no, tell him. We're going to roll up there
to this church. Okay.

Speaker 8 (19:37):
Come on, call all up, call all up.

Speaker 7 (19:39):
Now you're finna get yours whipped out. So you don't
push it up on the wrong one. Now you do
to push it up on the wrong one. So all
this little tough cool, You're finna have eight dudes right now.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
So Dougie, you could bring Johnny, you could bring Billy,
you can bring who you want.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
But it ain't gonna happen.

Speaker 3 (19:57):
Okay, Okay, cool and real talk, doug You done call
me talking to all this. But how you about to
come up here and whoop my? And now you need
like seven eight other guys. Back in the day, we
should just handle.

Speaker 2 (20:09):
This one on one.

Speaker 3 (20:10):
And now you want to come up here talking all
that shit, you're gonna bring it because and you've gotten
your house. If you want to do this, man, come
up here, let's do it one on one.

Speaker 1 (20:18):
Oh oh oh, oh oh oh you scared or something.

Speaker 3 (20:21):
Ain't nobody scared, but you're talking that you whooping mine?
Now you want to bring up every disciple you know? Man,
you know what brings whoever you want. Just don't bring
nobody you want back because I put you all down.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Okay, Well, I'm gona tell you this here.

Speaker 7 (20:33):
I'm gonna bring Tommy with me, and Tommy gonna be
the one is gonna have to fool with you.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
I'm telling you that right now.

Speaker 3 (20:39):
Who Tommy?

Speaker 1 (20:40):
So you don't know Tommy?

Speaker 3 (20:41):
Nah, I don't know Tommy.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
Okay, do you know nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (20:49):
Are you kidding? Call this number?

Speaker 1 (20:51):
Hey man, Latrice got me the prank phone call.

Speaker 7 (20:54):
You might.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
In fact, the whole choir is in on this and
they know that I am pranking you. You drake.

Speaker 3 (21:01):
Man, Now, you got me turn it up on the radio. Now,
I gotta go ask for forgiven that smack I don't
talk now comes Sunday. I'm turning to everybody's mic off.

Speaker 1 (21:15):
Okay, man, I got to ask you this, drake. What
is the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio show
in delay.

Speaker 3 (21:21):
You know it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. YO, tell
me if I could turn your mic off, I turn
that off.

Speaker 7 (21:28):
That's it.

Speaker 10 (21:29):
I'll be backing out all right, coming up next ask
the CLO.

Speaker 1 (21:34):
Right after this.

Speaker 11 (21:35):
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Speaker 1 (22:10):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 10 (22:12):
In Entertainment News will have a Diddy Trial update more
or Ditty Trial Yes yes, And rumor has it that
Todd and Julie Chrisly's daughter Savannah, she is looking into
the Tory Lane's case. She's trying to be a detective
and lawyer now right, right right, she's doing the most

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just got home?

Speaker 1 (22:34):
What is she?

Speaker 6 (22:35):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (22:35):
I got ya every time and nothing.

Speaker 10 (22:38):
And the twenty twenty five iHeartRadio Music Festival lineup is out.
I'll try to tell you about that in Music News
at the top of the hour, but right now it's
time to ask the clo aiming at Savannah, Steve, I
play the Oregon at two different churches on Sundays and
I get two hundred dollars every week. I saved the

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money to fix my boat. But my wife wants some
money to pay for weight loss shots. Is it my
four thousand, four hundred that I saved or am I
obligated to share it with my wife?

Speaker 6 (23:19):
Weight loss? Well, let's look at it like this. If
you get your boat and she don't lose the weight,
she gonna flip it over.

Speaker 1 (23:29):
You know what.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
That's him.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
See, you got to do better.

Speaker 6 (23:34):
I think I think you're gonna understand what we're dealing
with here. Now you don't let her get these weight
loss shots and you buy that boat, it's gonna sink.
She gonna flip it over. It's gonna sink. That was
now your boat gone. Let me see, man, that's a
tough one because man, this dude has been doing this

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so he could do this, and now she wants to
get some weight loss shots.

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Wow, weight loss shots.

Speaker 10 (24:05):
I guess well, you know they're expensive, both shots of
zempic and all that.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Yeah, it's kind of pricey. I don't know how you
need a shot she get on that boat, though, I'm
definitely look.

Speaker 10 (24:24):
The boat, Yes, boat shots.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
What you think, well, you is he's four thousand dollars
to fix the boat or buy a boat.

Speaker 6 (24:36):
What did he say, fix Oh, yeah, well did she'd
have flipped it already, so you gotta fix it?

Speaker 1 (24:44):
Yeah, she already flipped it one time. Brou you're going.

Speaker 10 (24:51):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (24:53):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (24:53):
For me, man, I would I would let my wife
get the weight loss shots because of the way it
would make her feel. She'd be happy, she would probably
feel better about herself. Be fired a sex life or
pick up happy wife, Happy life.

Speaker 7 (25:07):
Now we can get on the boat, though, when am
I gonna get on my money? You ain't gonna get
on that boat.

Speaker 3 (25:12):
Mom.

Speaker 1 (25:13):
You can buy the boat now, like I said, you
buy the boat without waiting on shot and were back
where we are? All right, Princess and delray beach. Let's
move on.

Speaker 10 (25:21):
I met a man online, and when we met, I
realized he's shorter than I am. I love to say
that his height isn't a problem, but it is. The
sex is good and he's always doing sweet things for me.
How important is his height? Is this a deal breaker?

Speaker 2 (25:42):
You know.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
It's not a deal breaker. Sex is great. That mean
little man in there climbing I got to climbing.

Speaker 6 (25:55):
No little man in that climbing man? Little man got
step still next the bed, everything little man got it.
Little man got rope tied on the head, boy waiting
to haul itself up.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
You know, a little man.

Speaker 6 (26:08):
Look little man in that boy. I don't think it's
a deal breaker. No, I don't think it's a deal
breaker at all. He's a good man. You gonna're gonna.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
Throw back a good man and get a tall sorry man.

Speaker 6 (26:28):
You're gonna turn back, throw back a guy that you
don't meet your hype requirement, throw him back and get
a big.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
Old tall sorry man. Who girl?

Speaker 7 (26:37):
He tall?

Speaker 1 (26:38):
He don't treat me worth.

Speaker 2 (26:39):
For he.

Speaker 3 (26:43):
H?

Speaker 1 (26:44):
All right, well you're telling her that's not a steal breaker, Okay,
all right?

Speaker 10 (26:50):
J R?

Speaker 1 (26:50):
And Aniston?

Speaker 10 (26:52):
My wife is too aggressive in the bedroom when she's
been drinking. I've been acting like I'm still scratched up,
So I don't have to have sex with her right now?
Have you ever wanted your wife to go have sex
with someone else?

Speaker 1 (27:08):
And my wife for that?

Speaker 12 (27:10):
Man, what.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
Dog wanted your wife to go have sex with someone else? Dog?
You don't love her no more? Now, you ain't wrong
for that. You ain't in love with her no more.
Y'all need to break up? Dog?

Speaker 6 (27:25):
How you wishing your wife go have sex with somebody else? Man, boy, bye,
that's an igny question. She does scratched the love about it?
This boy, it's all gone.

Speaker 1 (27:35):
What's going on she do? I'm just seeing that crazy
what she in the doing? Yeah, come on, that's her,
not him, that's her. I'm getting to kill you. Come on,

(27:55):
come on.

Speaker 3 (27:58):
Here.

Speaker 6 (27:58):
They're gonna be rougher than they were being up there.
Jack and I don't fin to do something to you.
Me and this Jack fan to go to work on you.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
Come on to him. He scared you need to start
seeing somebody else. Yeah, that's that's pretty bade. His marriage
is over pretty much. All right, let's move on to
Bethany and Chattanooga.

Speaker 10 (28:25):
My husband won't keep his opinions to himself about anything
I do.

Speaker 1 (28:31):
He wants to tell me how he would do this
or that. And I'm sick of getting Oh, I'm sick
of him correcting me. I should say I don't need
a father. Is this an ego thing with him? Or
does he think I'm stupid?

Speaker 6 (28:45):
Well, it's mostly an ego thing with him. You know,
he thinks he's being helpful. I tell me in this
all the time. When women share their opinions, about something.
They ain't look always looking for your fix. They just
sharing the information with you. She knows how to think,
she knows what she thinks. She don't need you telling
her how to think. She didn't figure it out her

(29:07):
way as the way she wants to do it.

Speaker 2 (29:09):
Now.

Speaker 6 (29:09):
You can't come in there and climb all over top
of that, and a lot of men do that, and
you setting yourself up for failure.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
So it suggests an ego thing, ma'am. He don't think
you're stupid.

Speaker 6 (29:21):
He just think he knows a better way, an alternative,
And I think God sometimes put the alternative opinion, and
I think they shape it wrong.

Speaker 1 (29:33):
You know, instead of saying okay, baby, I hear you.
That's okay. Have you ever considered this? Have you thought
about it this way? Did you want to go that way?

Speaker 2 (29:41):
No?

Speaker 6 (29:41):
I did this?

Speaker 1 (29:42):
Okay? Cool.

Speaker 6 (29:43):
Then that's how you got That's how you Yeah, that's
how you interject your opinion of it, but as not
a direct change.

Speaker 1 (29:53):
It's just you got to go in there and say, hey, look,
have you ever considered this part? Did you think of
it like this?

Speaker 2 (29:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (29:59):
But that ain't what I want to do, and and
get off of it. Let it go. Let her have
it because you keep pushing dog. Yeah your zoom. Yeah
it agreed with your answer. Yeah, yeah, let it go, Yes,
let it go. Qu're pushing. Yeah, it is delivery. Yeah,

(30:22):
that's what you're saying. Yeah, that's all it is. Yeah,
all right, thank you. Colo. Coming up at the top
of the hour, we'll have entertainment news right after this.

Speaker 8 (30:32):
You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (30:39):
According to CNN, Eddie Garcia, a former security office at
their Intercontinental hotel, testified about his involvement in the twenty
sixteen video of Sean Ditty Combe's physically assaulting his former
girlfriend Cassie Ventura.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
Now.

Speaker 10 (30:54):
Garcia testified that his boss sold the video footage to
Diddy for fifty thousand dollars. He said his boss told
him to deliver the footage to Ditty, and after confirming
it was the only copy of the video, Garcia said,
Diddy handed him one hundred thousand dollars in a paper

(31:14):
bag and asked him to sign an NDA with a
one million dollar penalty. The security guard also said that
he was nervous that Cassie would follow a police report
regarding the incident, but Diddy allegedly facetimed Cassie and said
let him know that you want this video to go away.
Cassie told Garcia that she had a movie premiere coming

(31:37):
up soon and it would be a bad time for
the footage to leak. Garcia also said he bought a
used car with the thirty thousand dollars that he took
from Sean ditty Combe's payout, and he said that Diddy
suggested he not make any big purchases with the cash.
He also gave twenty thousand dollars to a fellow security

(31:58):
guard on duty. That sad quote that was part of
his testimony. Now, according to US News, Garcias signed an
immunity order, meaning he won't be prosecuted for what he said.
Understand if he told the truth.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
So there you go, guys, What do you think?

Speaker 7 (32:15):
So he got a hundred, he gave fifty to his
boss to thirty bout a car, and twenty to another.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
Security person at the hotel.

Speaker 7 (32:25):
Yes, everybody got paid that man, Yes, yeah, he paid
everybody off.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
So with that testimony, Steve, is that Rico is that
part of the payoff? Now, Now, when you start doing
stuff like that, that's when you have a problem. Payoff.

Speaker 6 (32:49):
That's that's that's tampering with evidence. That's that's you know,
I don't know all the charges, but you you know,
when they start going and they find out that you
paid aid somebody off to conceal something, that's covering up stuff.
I don't know the legal terms for it, but now
they into some Hey man, what you doing now you're

(33:12):
paying people off for silence and all like her. That's
one of the reasons he didn't get bail because they
knew he would be witness tampering if he was at
the house. He couldn't get house arrests or nothing, because
he had once he found out he was getting arrested.
He called this one girl fifty two times in a
day to get her to fix her story. And once

(33:35):
again when you get Cassie brought into the thing, saying
tell him that you want this copy to go away,
and she goes, I got a premiere coming out, and
it would be bad timing. That wouldn't have hurt her
at all in the movie premiere. But I think that
that leads to some more because you know, he can't

(33:56):
be charged for the beating that he gave that girl
because they passedstantial limitations. Right, he can't get charged for that.
But all of that is why we in court today.
Once that footage came out, they went, hold on, man,
let me look at her claim again. And everything in
her claim was true. And so then once they saw

(34:17):
that sex traffick and all that, man, that's gonna be
the problem. Cause you know, look, once you start flying
in sex workers and all this, and then people are
saying I was in there against my will. It was
held up as bribery, This was embezzlement. I was being

(34:39):
forced to do this coercion. You know, once you start
using a collusion, they come up with all types of
words when they want to get you.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
Just know this.

Speaker 6 (34:52):
They don't have him sitting there for no reason. They
ain't got this man locked up for no reason he did. Yeah,
the federal work man, not the FBI. Once some alphabets
come come for you, they got information.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (35:09):
All right, Well Diddy has pleaded not guilty to the
charges that include, just like you said, Steve racinteering, conspiracy,
and sex trafficking. If convicted on all counts, he could
face up to life in prison.

Speaker 1 (35:24):
All right, So let's move on.

Speaker 10 (35:26):
To entertainment news Rumor has it that reality stars Todd
and Julie Christley's daughter, Savannah Chrisly, is looking into the
Tory Lanes case after her parents were pardoned by President Trump. Now,
according to US News, Savannah Christly says she recently spoke
to Tory Lane's father.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
And plans to visit him in prison.

Speaker 10 (35:46):
She also revealed that she's reviewing the case files herself
and believes there are or there may have been, many
major problems with how the case was handled.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
Okay, so now she's a lawyer.

Speaker 10 (35:57):
Tory Lanes is currently serving a ten year sentence for
shooting Meg the Stallion in the foot, and he is
currently recovering. You know, we talked about this last week
or not too long ago. From being stabbed.

Speaker 6 (36:08):
I saw the Meg the Stallion documentary and the night
of the what they're saying is a leg shooting. He
tried to say dance and he shot her and the
bullet fractured and went up into her foot. He shot her. Now,
all these real rappers coming out against her, talking about
she snitching and stuff.

Speaker 1 (36:27):
He shot that girl.

Speaker 6 (36:29):
Yeah, and all these rappers came out when Drake came
out on his side and all this here. Hey, man,
y'all got to freeze that mess. You can't be shooting women.
And they drugged that girl. Man, that girl went through
a little Yeah, they drug that girl, and it's unfair
that you got.

Speaker 1 (36:47):
To be the victim twice.

Speaker 6 (36:49):
Right. Watch Meg the Stallion's documentary and watch what that
girl was going through.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
Man, it's really really interesting.

Speaker 10 (36:57):
Yeah, Well, quickly, The fifteenth Annual iHeartRadio Music Festival presented
by Capital One is back in Las Vegas Friday, September
nineteenth and September twentieth at the T Mobile Arena.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
Get ready, but coming up next at twenty minutes after.

Speaker 10 (37:13):
The hour, we're gonna talk to the nephew about what
defines a Yeah, what defines a good runner.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
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Speaker 10 (37:56):
Okay, so Tommy, yesterday was National Runners or National Run Day.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
So I didn't ride and celebrate it. I just throw
that in, but go ahead. But you're a runner.

Speaker 10 (38:07):
You've been running a long time since high school, track,
starr and all the things. What defines a good runner, sprinter,
marathon runner.

Speaker 7 (38:16):
Consistency is everything. You gotta be consistent. If you ain't consistent,
you can go out there and run three miles a
day for a week and then don't do it again
for a month, and you're back where you started, everything hurting,
everything playing.

Speaker 1 (38:29):
You got to be consistent. It's got to be consistent.

Speaker 7 (38:32):
I'd have been out there running and a lady with
a pushing a stroller with some twins pans matter.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Yeah, So how many miles do you run a day? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (38:49):
It's nine miles three three. I read five on my
birthday and and and just kill a whole birthday. That
was the bad to see it.

Speaker 1 (38:58):
You had to go sit down. You don't want to
do nothing for your birthday? I can't. I can't I
already did it. I ran, so he says consistency. He runs.
Tommy runs about six miles. What a week.

Speaker 6 (39:22):
I don't run ever. Let me let me tell you
what don't constitute a good or runner. People who don't
run at all know where. I don't try to see
nothing I ain't in, know, Harry, Like if I'm on
my ranch, and well I did. I saw a snake

(39:42):
and I ran, But it was just I just ran
the distance of the snake so he wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (39:48):
Reach me about six feet. You know, I ran about
six feet? Does that? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (39:58):
I strained calf most because I was running and I
was high. I was in the air because when you
want to avoid getting struck by the snake. And it
was and and and and it was in the in
the in the woods on my ranch. It was a
timber rattler that was in the middle of the road.
And and my and my hat flew off my head
when I was on my four wheeler, and I went

(40:18):
back to get it. And my hat was right next
to a rattle or a timber rattler right next to it.
And I didn't know what that hat because because they bleared, no,
they blend in so I bent over and picked a hat,
and then I heard the rattle, and then Lord her Mers,
you the quickness we got, no no, no, no no,
you got to get out the way. The quickness that

(40:40):
I displayed that day, it took me back to I
was coming from church one night after choir rehearsal. I
was walking down the middle of the street on Pasadena
and I walked and I heard the chain dragon behind me,
and I looked back there and cane was loose. I
went down Pasadena to speed. The next week I saw

(41:03):
old man. He said, hey, you that boy that were
running last week. You're the fastest year I have never
seen in my mother.

Speaker 1 (41:12):
Eyes.

Speaker 10 (41:13):
See Runner more of the Steve Harvey Body Show in
thirty four minutes after the hour you're listening Steve Harvey
Morning Show. What is the gold Digger Test? A woman
on a first date thought things were going great now.

Speaker 1 (41:33):
This was on Breddit. She posted the story.

Speaker 10 (41:35):
When the one hundred dollar bill came for dinner, her
date slid it over and asked.

Speaker 1 (41:40):
Her to pay.

Speaker 10 (41:41):
She agreed, thinking all right, no big deal. He smiled
and said, congrats, you passed the test. You're not a
gold digger now, She posted this, and then she deleted
the post. But she explained that her date told her
that he had been burned by an ex who made
him pay for everything, so now he tests women by

(42:02):
making them pay.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
She wasn't impressed.

Speaker 10 (42:05):
She said, I told him that I'm not his ex
and he has no right to treat me like I'm
guilty until proven innocent.

Speaker 1 (42:12):
She said.

Speaker 10 (42:12):
I also said he's not some prize that I need
to pass tests for, she said. After paying the bill,
she walked out, and then you know, days after he
kept trying to contact her. But the woman, she went
on to say, she had a later post where she said,
I have a good career, I own property, and I'm
very financial, financially independent.

Speaker 1 (42:33):
So here's my question to you, Steve, Tommy and Jr.
Is a chivalry Dad.

Speaker 6 (42:38):
I think we live in a different generation today. I
think these young men are confused of how this really works.
And I think that they don't have a true understanding
of who we are and what we are and what
our role is. And we have so much, so many
different you know, we're crossing so many lines with gender

(43:02):
roles and stuff that is carried over into manhood.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
Manhood will never change. It is clear.

Speaker 6 (43:11):
We that are men know what being a man is.
We don't lessen the requirements because you don't want to
do it. Now, this lady handled this exactly correct. She
handled it superstar status. I mean you couldn't have done
it more professionally than that. Uh this guy who has

(43:33):
been burned in the past, so what So what had
a girlfriend and he paid for everything. You slept with
it too, didn't you?

Speaker 1 (43:42):
Didn't you?

Speaker 6 (43:44):
You asked her to do You asked her to do
things that that was you asked her for wifey stuff
with girlfriend and status. So all this gold digger test,
look because a woman won't pay for a date. That's
not the test. You're stupid if you think that's the test.
Who's gold digging for one hundred dollars? But but that

(44:08):
that's copper digging, copper not gold. Yeah, that ain't gold digging.
Dog I said one hundred and you passed the test.
You're stupid. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, that's real stupid. I
don't even get that strategy of that. It's your hundred
dollars and you gave it to hutch so you're still
paying for it. You're not making no, no, no, Tommy,

(44:30):
he slid her to be for a hundred dollars. She
had to pay the hundred dollars. Yeah, I got you, Yeah, I.

Speaker 9 (44:43):
Believe you realized that he passed her test too, the
SAM test passed that one that did the Sam test?

Speaker 1 (44:50):
What's that?

Speaker 2 (44:51):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (44:51):
Sorry test?

Speaker 9 (44:52):
Okay, all right, passed it right old through flying colors,
way to go, of course.

Speaker 6 (45:00):
That is chivalry isn't dead, but it's not taught or
required anymore. And women have got to keep the requirements up.
If you go on a date with the man, go
stand by your door and don't open that door.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
Just stand there.

Speaker 6 (45:15):
When you go into the mall with a guy, stand
at the door, don't open that door. When you go
to a restroom with a guy, stand at your chair,
don't pull your chair out. You can train a man
how to teach you. Not a sad thing about it
is these young guys, a lot of them are not
about that, and we need to remember that. But chivalry

(45:37):
shouldn't be dead. It's called etiquette. But more importantly, brothers,
it's called manhood. And I'm sorry, and you can sit
up here downun that ain't got nothing to do with manhood, got.

Speaker 1 (45:47):
Everything to do with it.

Speaker 6 (45:49):
Why don't you just admit you don't know what it
is instead of telling me somebody been doing manhood for
a long time. You're not finn reshape the way I
treat my wife cause you don't want to treat me
nobody that way? Man, miss me with that, I can't
stand that standing man.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
And then when somebody try to tell you what it is,
you want to fight that for what.

Speaker 2 (46:12):
Right?

Speaker 1 (46:12):
I'm school him on the tradition. All right?

Speaker 10 (46:14):
Coming up next, nephew, Tommy's prank phone call.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
Right after this, you're.

Speaker 8 (46:19):
Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 10 (46:26):
Coming up at the top of the hour, right about
four minutes after. It's Today's Strawberry Letter with our girl
Shirley Strawberry. The subject is He's not satisfied, but I
am all right, okay it is.

Speaker 1 (46:41):
But right now, what you got, nephew Today's prank phone call?

Speaker 7 (46:45):
I got apartment three sixteen, Apartment three sixteen. I have
to stay in apartment three sixteen, So I got to
get this person out of there because that's the number
that I stay at.

Speaker 1 (46:57):
I stay in three sixteen.

Speaker 7 (46:59):
Do you understand I'm say when I'm in the field, Yes, yes,
And that seems to be a problem with this person.
So let's see what we can do. Let's see we
can get them out of three sixteen. I need three sixteen.
Let's go get doup.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach deal. Yeah, this is deal. Hey, Deal,
How you doing? Man? My name is Bond. Dude you
live in to make sure I got the right dude, Man,
you live in Court right for apartments? Yeah, I live
going on? Okay, you live in an apartment of three sixteen, right.

Speaker 12 (47:29):
Yeah, it is something I need to be worried.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
I was going on with my no, no, no, everything
cool with your apartment. Man. I got your number from
the lady at the at the least in office regarding say,
wasn't I what's it?

Speaker 12 (47:42):
What's it in regards to well, actually.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
What's going to happen is I'm gonna move to Court
and what I wanted to do? You know, uh, see
me in every apartment I've always had. I've always lived
in apartment three sixteen, and I know you in three sixteen,
so they you know the girl the office gaming, you know,
because I don't want to move nowhere else where. I
can't be in room three sixteen. I gotta be. You know,

(48:05):
it's just real superstitious. I know, but I kind of
got to have a party.

Speaker 12 (48:09):
Hold on, God, you say your name Vaughn?

Speaker 2 (48:11):
Yeah, yeah, I'm gone right Va.

Speaker 12 (48:13):
And who gave you my number again?

Speaker 2 (48:15):
One of the ladies at the lease in office when
I was over there. Who was it? I can't really
remember her name?

Speaker 12 (48:21):
Man, ut Hey, well listen, cut to I'm gonna tell
you like this, man. Don't call you for nothing like that. Man, Now,
I ain't moving out of my apartment. Man, I've been
staying there for four years. When I move out of
the apartment, I move in the house. I understand all
this got going with you? Which is whatever it is?

Speaker 3 (48:39):
You're three sixteen?

Speaker 12 (48:40):
You one three two?

Speaker 2 (48:42):
That's on you, man, it ain't I got to stay
in three sixteen? Man, See that, That's what I'm trying
to say. I don't sign the least, so I'm stuck
with it. I got to get that apartment. So I said,
I'm gonna try to tell you would you like to
which which other apartment would you like to move to?
And I go on to get them to move your stuff.

Speaker 12 (49:01):
Other than nothing, ain't nothing moving on, gonna move the numbers?
You can add them up, divide them, do whatever you
want to them. But I ain't moving, so you're gonna
have to get that to your head man. And really,
i'm because I don't know the gave you my number
was like this, I mean, working called me because I
don't even know no vun no, no, you don't know me, DoD.

Speaker 2 (49:22):
I asked them who was in three sixteen? They told me, ain't.

Speaker 12 (49:25):
None of your business going three sixteen.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
Man, Hey, listen, man, I'm trying to do this as
respectful as possible. You know, like I said, I really
can't function unless i'm living in ament.

Speaker 12 (49:35):
Just restuct me, then do it disrespect for them, because
I'm gonna show you do this.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
You called me with like this.

Speaker 12 (49:41):
I don't get favorite now. I don't care if there
was your favorite scripture.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
Okay, hey call me with like that. Man, Now, you're
gonna make this hard, okay, So let me let me
tell you this to you. And I already told the
lady I want to be in three sixteen. She told
me I needed to deal with Dell. Now I'm trying
to deal with you in a polite way, okay, because
like I say, I can't function unless i'm in an
apartment three sixteen. I can't. I can't even get them
go to work. I cannot function, Okay, I have to

(50:06):
have that apartment number do right.

Speaker 12 (50:08):
So it sounds like you've got a problem on your hands. Man,
whatever your pridem is, that's your problem. Ain't got to
do with me coming you know like that. Like I say,
I've been staying in three sixteen. I'm gonna stay in
three sixteen till I moved to a house. You need
to find something else to do. And really I'm stopping.

Speaker 3 (50:26):
They gave you my number.

Speaker 12 (50:28):
To call me with is I can't believe.

Speaker 2 (50:32):
Like the way you're talking to you, talking to me
like what, you come at me.

Speaker 3 (50:36):
With that, Come at me with a number that looks
like you man three sixteen.

Speaker 2 (50:41):
What excuse me though, but you're just you called me
with this.

Speaker 12 (50:46):
I tell you what, Man, come at me to come
at my problem. Then you're gonna see it. Man, you
understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (50:52):
Hey man, I'm trying to handle this respectably. Man, Okay,
all right, I'm trying to do. Listen to me. I'm
trying to tell you on the dog I can and
not function outside of them three numbers. I have to
live in an apartment three sixteen. That ain't my business. Man. No,
I don't wanna have to come move yo, yo, but
I do hold on what running back with say, I said,
I don't want to have to move, yo.

Speaker 12 (51:14):
See it down. Let me what You're gonna come move
my I want hey, matter of fact, come yes, come on,
come move three sixteen, three sixteen.

Speaker 2 (51:22):
I had for you.

Speaker 12 (51:23):
Come on, man, come on, come move my man. Come
on two ten sided, come on move yet all kind
of going on in the world with numbers they got
three undred sixty five days. I mean it works, you want.
I'm on my nine to five and you come in
and you about three sixteen. I'm gonna moove somebody. That's
all I got to say. Man, it's gonna be you
before I before I deal with you. Tho, I'm gonna

(51:45):
get the least. And I was even giving you my
number all day.

Speaker 2 (51:49):
Hey man, I'm just trying to tell you I have
to stay under them numbers. Man, I have to. I'm
superstitious like that. I know, I know everybody ain't like that,
but I just happen to be like that.

Speaker 12 (51:58):
You don't say nobody ain't like that, man, I ain't
got time to be dealing. Really, everybody ain't got time
to sit up listen like this. Dang, you looked up
him Christians other than I've been off this job looking
what what appartment number did they give you?

Speaker 2 (52:11):
They gave me like three twenty nine or something like that.
I don't. I can't stay there, man.

Speaker 12 (52:15):
That's why I'm gonna meet you at Man Meet Dead
three twenty nine, six o'clock tonight. I got them numbers, Okay.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
Okay, So how about these numbers right here? A seven
seven twenty nine Steve? What this means? A seven seven
twenty nine Steve.

Speaker 12 (52:30):
Eight seven seven twenty nine. C.

Speaker 2 (52:31):
You ain't never heard that number before?

Speaker 12 (52:33):
Yeah, what's it's fun for me?

Speaker 2 (52:36):
That's the number to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Because
this is nephew Tommy and you just got pranked by
your coworker, Limbo.

Speaker 12 (52:44):
I mean make that it's it's sounds crazy as hell.
I'll believe this for us, So admit Rowling got be
about to take off and go to the Liason off
and college height. Now, who you say they got enough?

Speaker 2 (53:00):
You got a coworker, ain't Limba.

Speaker 12 (53:03):
Linda ain't going about numbers coming from Linda right now.
I want nobody. She takes so long she puts you out. Man, God, yea,
I ain't going though.

Speaker 2 (53:15):
Man, Hey, dal I got one more thing. Ask you. Man.
You're at work for real, ain't you? Yeah? Hey, man,
what's the bad radio show in the lamb man?

Speaker 12 (53:27):
The Steve Brother Morning Show?

Speaker 2 (53:30):
All right, man, get back to work, man, your phone
off the hook over there? All right?

Speaker 7 (53:37):
And there you have it.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
Three sixteen. It is three sixteen. You find another apartment.
Nobody's doing all that. Hey, hey, hey, hey, you know
it's it's the number I got to be. All right, No,
that's that's the one. Still gonna have to be there.
Ain't nobody moved? Thinks nobody? You're still gonna have to be.

Speaker 10 (53:58):
There's a desire of yours.

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Well, how about June nineteen. That's a good number. June nineteen.

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(54:51):
what we're doing.

Speaker 2 (54:52):
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Speaker 7 (54:53):
This is the one I'm getting really excited about. Greeks
and Grapes. Now, you don't have to be Greek to
come with Greeks and Grapes a Napple affair.

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It is music.

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gonna be in the bell and showing out.

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So tickets are on sale right now I like it.
I'm coming okay, yeah, whine and joking.

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Speaker 1 (55:35):
It off.

Speaker 2 (55:37):
Right.

Speaker 1 (55:38):
Thank you, Nephew.

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Speaker 11 (56:52):
He's never satisfied. He's never satisfied. But I am, dear
Stephen Shirley. I'm married to my college sweetheart and he's
a great man. But we don't get along now. I
wore the pants in our family for years because I
made the most money. Back then, all he could do
is please me and cater to me. I got used
to it and it worked fine for me. He couldn't

(57:15):
wait to get a better paying job and then switch
back to wearing the pants and our marriage. Right after
he started his new job, he started mouthing off and
telling me he wasn't going to do this or that.
I let him do it because I know for years
he couldn't talk slick to me because he was broke.
Here's the funny part, though, Now he's got a new job.

(57:35):
It came with a new level of stress now that
he's got a new job. It came with a new
level of stress. That stress led to high blood pressure,
and that high blood pressure led to an increase in
his medication, so that led to him not.

Speaker 8 (57:47):
Being able to perform sexually.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
There we go.

Speaker 11 (57:51):
He has been a miserable wreck for a year, and
I have gone on with my life without him. I
have a man on the side, and he comes over
to the house on Mondays and we meet at a
hotel on Thursdays. It's not about the sex. It's just
nice to talk to a man that has his stuff together.
He's not stressed about me being married, and he's not

(58:14):
afraid to make love to me in my bedroom that
I share with my husband. It's not like my husband
and I are putting that mattress to youth anymore. I
try to tune out my husband's constant complaining about his job,
and I'm tired of him getting himself riled for sex
when he knows he can't last for thirty seconds. I'm
over him and this marriage, and maybe if he had

(58:36):
a better attitude I could deal with it. Having an
affair is the easiest way out for me. Life is
too short to be unsatisfied, So how can he live
like that? Do you know he's thinking? Do you think
he's thinking of divorce as much as I am? Should
I try to work it out if he seems to
not care.

Speaker 3 (58:56):
Not?

Speaker 11 (58:59):
This has to be one of the saddest, most pathetic letters.
I mean, first, the dumb rule about you making the
most money so you wear the pants. That was stupid
because you emasculated your husband with that. I mean, there's
no such rule in marriage about whoever makes the money
is the boss or wears the pants.

Speaker 8 (59:18):
You made that up.

Speaker 11 (59:20):
I'm really surprised that your husband went along with that foolishness.
Quite frankly, marriage marriage is a partnership, okay, between two
people who love each other, and the universal rule, the
universal rule now is the man is head of household.
What you've done is turn your marriage into a miserable
place to be. And I guarantee you that's not just

(59:42):
your husband's new job that is stressing him out. It's
you two.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
Your a terrible wife.

Speaker 11 (59:49):
You should never be married because there's no love, there's
no commitment, there's no respect from you. Everything you shouldn't
do you're doing, and you're cheating on top of that?
Is it any wonder he has high blood pressure? I mean,
what have you ever thought that he might catch you
in your man having sex in his house, in his bed.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
Have you ever thought of that?

Speaker 8 (01:00:12):
So if he does, he can go.

Speaker 11 (01:00:13):
Ahead and divorce you, that's for sure. I mean, once
he's rid of you, I bet his blood pressure will
go down. He can start to live a better, happier life.
I just think you're a mess in this letter. You're
a selfish mess. And to you, I say, get yourself together.

Speaker 6 (01:00:29):
This fare, this letter right here. I just don't like
the lady at all. I mean, lady, I just don't
like you. I don't like anything about you. I don't
like anything about what you wrote in this letter. I
agree to surely one hundred percent, but you just unitok
trifle to just a whole another level, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:00:53):
Just listen the way she talks.

Speaker 6 (01:00:54):
I'm married to my college sweetheart and he's a great man,
but we don't get along now. I wore the pants
in our family for years because I made the most money.
Back then. All he could do is please me and
cater to me. I got used to it and it
worked fine for me. He couldn't wait to get a
better paying job, and he had swiped back to wearing
the pants in our marriage, the girl has glim.

Speaker 1 (01:01:16):
Explained, I don't give it moha much money I made.

Speaker 6 (01:01:19):
You know, I'm not gonna take the pants off in
a month, and I'm not wearing the skirt at no
point in the relationship. And I'm pretty sure that he
didn't agree to taking his pants off. You took him
off because your determination for what he is as a
man was based purely on how much money he bought in.

(01:01:41):
So right after he started his new job, he started
mouthing off and telling me he wasn't gonna do this,
or that I let him do it because I know
for years he couldn't talk slick to me because he
was broke.

Speaker 1 (01:01:54):
Man, who are you, lady? I mean, just you can't
talk back to me. You broke this time, lay You
don't even understand, so listen. So here's the funny part though.

Speaker 6 (01:02:12):
Now that he's got a new job, it came with
a new level of stress, and that stress, the stress
has led to high blood pressure, and that hot blood
pressure led to an increase in his medication, so that
led to him not being able to perform sexually. He
has been a miserable wreck for a year, and I
have gone on with my life without him. Wow, lady,

(01:02:33):
everything about you. You don't stand by your man if
he broke. You don't stand by your man if he
gets sick. You don't stand by your man if he
can't perform.

Speaker 1 (01:02:44):
You do you just don't? Why did you?

Speaker 6 (01:02:45):
You don't stand by your man under no circumstances. You're
just a little trifling little wife. He got to be working,
performing everything.

Speaker 1 (01:02:58):
I got more for you.

Speaker 11 (01:03:00):
All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response. You
just heard him say he has more for the woman
in this letter coming up at twenty three minutes after
the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter subject He's never satisfied, but
I am. We'll get back into it right after this.
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come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject
He's never satisfied, but I am.

Speaker 6 (01:03:57):
Yeah, yeah, you are, because you just do what you
want to do. Your marriage college, sweetheart, things fell apart.
He lost his job or whatever, wasn't making money, so
you put the pants on in the family and because
of that, all he could do is please you and
cater to you.

Speaker 1 (01:04:13):
You got used to it, and it worked fine for me.

Speaker 6 (01:04:15):
But you said, you know, he couldn't wait till he
got a better paying job so he could get back
to wearing the pants and our mass. Well, he did,
but the job came with some stress. Some stress came
with high blood pressure. High blood pressure came with increasing medicine,
and increase in medicine caused him not to be able
to perform. Second, then you said, he's been a miserable
wreck for a year. I've gone on with my life

(01:04:36):
without him.

Speaker 1 (01:04:38):
Boy.

Speaker 6 (01:04:39):
So if you don't make money around you, you in trouble.
If he gets stressed out around you, he's in trouble.
If he can't perform, he gets in trouble. He got problem,
and then you just go on your life without it.
I have a man on the side, and he comes
over to the house on Mondays and we meet at

(01:05:00):
a hotel on Thursdays.

Speaker 1 (01:05:03):
Wait a minute, what.

Speaker 6 (01:05:05):
So you got a man on the side that comes
over to y'all's house on Monday and then y'all meet
at a hotel on Thursday. So hold on, hold on,
hold on. I gotta keep going back over this. So
if you don't have money, you ain't cool with that.
If you get back to work and he put his
pants back on, you ain't cool with that. If he

(01:05:28):
gets stressed out, you ain't cool with that. If he's
on hot blood medication, you ain't cool with that. If
he can't perform sexually, you ain't cool with that. Now
you go get a man on the side, and cause
of convenience, y'all now at this man's house in his

(01:05:49):
bed on Mondays and we meet at a hotel on Thursday.

Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
And then you say, it's not about the sex. What
is it about?

Speaker 2 (01:05:56):
Then?

Speaker 6 (01:05:57):
What are y'all over there doing? And when y'all get
the hotel and y'all come over to the house. It's
just nice to talk to a man that has his
stuff together. Oh you're talking about a man.

Speaker 1 (01:06:07):
Oh oh, oh, oh oh. Let me get this right.

Speaker 6 (01:06:10):
So you think that it's nice to just meet the
man that don't have to deal with nothing that comes
in the package called marriage. You're talking about the one
that don't have to pay bills, that don't have to discuss,
that don't have to be undistressed, that ain't trying to
make a life, that ain't trying to put it together. Yeah, them,
conversation is easy because they ain't about nothing. That's why
that's so easy. And then he's not stressed about me

(01:06:34):
being married, and he's not afraid to make love to
me in my bedroom that I share with my husband.
You don't see the triflingness in that he's not afraid
to make love to me. I would hey, man, let
me tell you something, Let me tak I wish I
would walk in my house. I wish I would. I
wish I would walk in my house and walk up

(01:06:55):
on somebody in my house. You ain't even got to
be doing nothing just now. You ain't got to be
in the bed just being what you're in here for.
I've been not walking house, seat up, and here eating.
Now you can't have a plate, and I don't know
yet if I don't know you, and you at my
house and you're eating a plate of food before my

(01:07:16):
wife can introduce me, she already can tell by the
look on my face. I got to get some information
to this food right quick, right quick. But now you
didn't take it there. So now it's not like my
husband out putting that mattress to use anymore. I try
to tune out my husband's constant complaining about his job,

(01:07:37):
and I'm tired of him getting himself riled up for
six when he knows he can't last for thirty seconds.
I'm over him and this marriage. Maybe if he had
a better attitude, I could deal with it. Wait a minute,
if he had a better attitude, you could deal with it.
Having an affair is the easiest way out for me. Really, really,

(01:07:58):
I mean you, your whole demeanor as a human being,
weeks of triflingess. I mean, you're just a trifling chick
man all the way around the board. It ain't a
woman sitting here. I got you, girl, I know where
you're coming from. And I'm pretty sure it is somebody
like that, because people are You can get people, go
along with anything. But there's just trifling too. Life is

(01:08:21):
too short to be unsatisfied. So how can I live
like that? You're not You're not living like that. You're
doing what you want to do. Do you think he's
thinking of divorce as much as I am? Should I
try to work it out if it seems if he

(01:08:43):
seems not to care, Wait a minute, you're already working
it out. You don't see what you've done. You've already
worked it out your way. And what you're talking about
whether he can you don't care. So why are you
questioning your your husband in this letter at all?

Speaker 1 (01:08:58):
With everything in this left.

Speaker 6 (01:09:00):
First of all, your husband ain't did nothing wrong. He
at work, he stretched out, he tried to get the
finances back in order. That struck, he got high blood.
Now he taking medication. Now he can't performed. Now you've
got you a man, now y'all having sex in y'all's house,
in y'all's bed on Mondays and at a hotel on Thursday.

(01:09:23):
And now you want to know if your husband would
want to do it, I'm telling you right now, lady,
you messing around with someone, You're on a dangerous ground.
And this man who comes to your house every Monday,
what kind of fool is this? What man in his
right mind goes to another man's house gets naked in

(01:09:48):
his house, in his bed. I don't understand the mentality
of that. Both of y'all will mess around, get hurt.
I don't know nobody to do that, no man?

Speaker 1 (01:09:58):
All right?

Speaker 8 (01:09:58):
Post your comments, Thanks Steve.

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I don't know if y'all saw this, but the Knicks
have fired head coach Tom Thibodeau.

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
Did y'all see that?

Speaker 12 (01:11:44):
Man?

Speaker 6 (01:11:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:11:45):
After twenty five years, they have not been to the
Eastern Conference Finals and they fired a man fifty plus wins.

Speaker 1 (01:11:52):
This season and he out of there? A no, I
don't even understand why?

Speaker 3 (01:11:56):
What fo?

Speaker 1 (01:11:57):
What fun? All the ways they're blaming him for their collapse.
What is it his fault? It is Halliburton fault. That's
who hab it like they got out of Oh man,
I just didn't understand that man.

Speaker 9 (01:12:15):
After they lost, A seriously asked Jaylen Bronson, is Tom Thibeau?
The problem is he gonna He's gonna lose his job
aftery lost series? He said, is this a question right now?

Speaker 1 (01:12:21):
Is this serious?

Speaker 2 (01:12:22):
You know?

Speaker 9 (01:12:23):
You you you had two fifty plus wins season in
a row, you have not been the Eastern Conference final,
and you lose your job?

Speaker 1 (01:12:30):
Is the job changing for the head coach now? Is
not what you do?

Speaker 9 (01:12:33):
You can follow one series short of the finals and
you can still lose your job, which is I don't
know how.

Speaker 7 (01:12:39):
I think it's better to be the assistant coach jr.
They kind of get byed, you know, they they don't.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
Even know happy how you going to the assistant coach Like,
hey coach, yeah, but coach, Well, when the coach get fired.
He bringing new crew. You're going anyway? Ever? Good to
be second.

Speaker 9 (01:13:01):
Also, speaking of basketball, tonight, game one, here we go.

Speaker 1 (01:13:08):
Pass thunder? Who are we looking at? How we feeling?

Speaker 6 (01:13:13):
Lowest TV ratings in there of the NBA Old Clahoma
and Indianapolis.

Speaker 1 (01:13:21):
Boy, ain't nobody draw this one up? Ain't nobody picked this?
We got a cherish each game.

Speaker 7 (01:13:29):
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a drought, so we got to take we gotta step back,
get right on back to forty eight hours.

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Thank you guys.

Speaker 10 (01:13:52):
Coming up at the top of the hour, a man
on social media needs some advice. I don't know if
I can be the bigger person. We'll talk about it
right after this.

Speaker 8 (01:14:01):
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On Steve Harvey FM.

Speaker 3 (01:14:11):
Rights.

Speaker 10 (01:14:11):
I found out recently that my girl of three years
has been cheating on me for at least the last
few months. I haven't told her that I know yet,
but I don't think there's anything that she could say
that would fix this. I'm done, and I plan to
let her know right before we're scheduled to go to
the beach for a vacation. I paid for the trip.

(01:14:34):
I'm still going, only she's not going with me and
doesn't know yet. The only thing I haven't figured out
is whether or not I'm going to destroy the dude
she's been cheating with. He's her supervisor at work, and
I know he'll lose his job for sleeping with an employee.

Speaker 1 (01:14:55):
He's also married with kids.

Speaker 10 (01:14:57):
Should I just be the bigger person, send Uncle Steve
and move on and give them both or give them
both what they deserve?

Speaker 6 (01:15:06):
No, man, John, just move on. Don't waste your time
with that. Don't waste your time with it. Man, All
it's gonna do. Man, You gotta put time and effort
into that, and there's gonna be no resolve for you.
It's really not the best revenge is you to move on,
Get you somebody who really cares about you, and she

(01:15:27):
gonna see it because it ain't no future for her
with this married man with these kids, right see. So
let's let that play out because you're gonna pay for
that one. God to see to that, so you don't
got to worry about that. And you know, I don't
want to sound hokey and nothing but vengeance is mine,
said the Lord. Don't waste your time with revenge. You

(01:15:47):
can't possibly pay help back as good as the universe will.
Just just leave it alone. Go on the trip now,
because you're going on the trip. Is she not gonna
try to come down name anyway and work it out
because you know.

Speaker 1 (01:16:02):
Where y'all going. Something like that. Man, you gotta do
all that. Dog.

Speaker 6 (01:16:07):
You got to cancel her reservation. You gotta, you know,
get a restraining order at the resort. I'll put a
picture up on the telephone polls in the city you're
going to don't wow, you know man on the real

(01:16:32):
man follows you.

Speaker 1 (01:16:33):
I just let it go. But I would find the
perfect way to tell her though that I know and
you can have him. I don't know. I would, I would.
I would.

Speaker 10 (01:16:47):
I would have a dinner, okay, at a restaurant public, private,
at the house.

Speaker 6 (01:16:53):
Public public, public. So as soon as you sit down,
I slide her an envelope. I said, I don't want
you to open this right now, but here's an envelope.
And then I would say, hey, you know what I
know what you've been doing. I know you've been seeing
and say his name. I know he's married with children.

(01:17:17):
I know he's your supervisor, and I know that you've
been cheating with him, and you've been going around.

Speaker 1 (01:17:21):
Behind my back. I know this. I'm not here to
arger anything. I just want you to know that I
know it, and I felt like you would never do
this to me.

Speaker 6 (01:17:31):
But now that you have, have yourself a nice eat
and get up and say, oh, and the end of
that envelope, there's enough money for you to call uber
and get home and enjoy your meal. Whatever you order
and pay last meal. There's really I do it, gangster.
I let her order, get your food, eat it, enjoy yourself.
As a matter of fact, I'll tell you a gangster movie.

(01:17:54):
I would order the food, give her an envelope, ask
her not to open it. I'm going to the bathroom.
I'll go get in my car, call home the cell
phone and say, hey, listen, I invited you to dinner
because I wanted to tell you that I know that
I know you've been cheating on me behind my back.
I know you've been seeing this man. I know he's

(01:18:15):
your supervisor. I know he's married with kids, and you've
decided that heat is better.

Speaker 1 (01:18:20):
Than me, So go ahead.

Speaker 6 (01:18:22):
So enjoy your meal and you can open them below.
I put the money in there so you get home safely.
Call the nuber. Enjoy your life. Bam, God that way.

Speaker 1 (01:18:33):
Kell ain't got to care home and I ain't got
help down. But none of that, It.

Speaker 10 (01:18:44):
Ain't no more of the Steve Hardy Morning Show is
coming up twenty minutes after the hour you're listening to the.

Speaker 8 (01:18:52):
Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Before a day is working.

Speaker 10 (01:19:01):
Back in twenty fifteen, Iceland started experimenting with a four
day work week, letting employees how you said it, Tommy,
letting employees work for just four days with no loss
of pay. The early results were positive, so they expanded
the four day work week in twenty nineteen. It seems
like the move has been a smashing success. Productivity has

(01:19:26):
remained stable and even increased in some industries. Government officials
suggest this has happened because of reduction and stress, along
with a better work life balance has improved mental health
and effectiveness of workers. So what do you guys think?
Tommy been screaming this for a long time, Uncle Steve.

(01:19:47):
Four day work week.

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
Could we do it?

Speaker 7 (01:19:49):
Could we do it?

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Y'all? I agree? I would love to. Okay, put it this,
y'all showers with Steve Harbor Morner Shall.

Speaker 6 (01:19:57):
Well, on that off day we off radio two SiO
was five every day six day. Yeah, it's what I
would do if we go go to foty and just
we go to four. Y'all, don't get them listening to
the radio on that day we.

Speaker 1 (01:20:11):
Radio sid.

Speaker 10 (01:20:15):
Can't do that here, Oh man, we gotta oh man,
all right, so we're back at work.

Speaker 1 (01:20:26):
Oh we all move to Iceland that part all right?
We got another round of would you rather? Coming up?
At thirty three minutes after the hour.

Speaker 8 (01:20:41):
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Speaker 5 (01:21:19):
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Speaker 10 (01:21:19):
Now, for would you rather would you rather spend a
full day of standing or sitting?

Speaker 1 (01:21:27):
That's all I do is stand on monkey, Well you're
sitting down right now?

Speaker 6 (01:21:33):
All radio show fairly few is all walking back and forth.
I don't even sit down on commercial breaks. What's amazing?
How long I stand?

Speaker 2 (01:21:45):
So?

Speaker 1 (01:21:45):
Would you prefer standing or sitting? Would you? I'd rather sit?

Speaker 6 (01:21:49):
But you know I think standing keeps me pretty fly,
So I'm gonna just go with your standing, all right,
so I don't end up.

Speaker 10 (01:21:59):
As a fluffy Oh okay, all right, guys, you were
staying all day, Junior, you as well staying?

Speaker 1 (01:22:11):
All right? Here we go, next one.

Speaker 10 (01:22:12):
Would you rather your celebrity crush be able to read
your mind or have access to your Internet search history?

Speaker 1 (01:22:21):
It's she got to know what I do? Think?

Speaker 10 (01:22:25):
Halle Berry for nephew, Junior has to read my mind.

Speaker 1 (01:22:32):
Me alone has to reach so thrilled? Would she so thrilled?
All right, Steve, come on, I'm got no celebrity club.
I dated all my celebrity crush. Oh did you know?

(01:22:56):
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 5 (01:22:58):
All right?

Speaker 1 (01:23:00):
All right?

Speaker 10 (01:23:00):
Would you rather receive two million dollars now right now,
or wait ten years for twenty million?

Speaker 1 (01:23:08):
Ten years? Yeah, for twenty million. Yep, you can give
me the two million. I'm not too right now today.

Speaker 8 (01:23:17):
Yeah take that to ten.

Speaker 1 (01:23:19):
They told me I was gonna make it past eleven.
I'm at risk now this food right here, sir, I
mean risk now? All right, Well let's ask the millionaire
somebody who got to what you do?

Speaker 7 (01:23:36):
Want?

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
Here? You take? I will take you too now. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:23:40):
I took two now, yeah, I take you two mill
a long time. Try to flip it into twenty You
no waiting two years on? Twenty two million? Moves the
needle now, don't don't don't, don't get it. I take
to two million, now put it in the right.

Speaker 3 (01:23:56):
Uh.

Speaker 6 (01:23:58):
I got a couple of partners in Cleveland. I can
give two million. I can have twenty million in about
two months.

Speaker 1 (01:24:04):
But that's illegal, right to somebody Gonna have to do
some time for it. I'm not I little. I'll tell
you that I know how to distance myself.

Speaker 10 (01:24:21):
Would you rather have sex in the woods or on
top of the roof during a severe thunderstorm?

Speaker 1 (01:24:27):
Ah, I'm in the woods. You better get it. In
woods though coming nicked enlightening, do not go together? All right?

Speaker 10 (01:24:34):
Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, last
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All right, it is the last break of the day
on this What it's Thursday, Thursday? Yeah, wink went five
pretty fast tonight. Mm hmm NBA finals. Y'all watching the game?
Junior talked about that earlier. Okay, all right, we got
an email. Lady wants some advice from social media. She

(01:25:41):
wrote us on Steve Harvey FM. Her name is Nicole.
Nicole says, my sister graduated from high school last year
and did a year of community college, but decided it
wasn't for her and quit after two semesters. She wanted
to get out of our hometown, so I let her
move in with me and my boyfriend. She has gotten

(01:26:02):
a job, but it's going nowhere, and she has no
ambition or desire to better herself. I know she's only nineteen,
but I feel like she's wasting her life away. I
want her to do something that she can feel passionate about.
How can I help her to start thinking about the
future and finding something fulfilling to do.

Speaker 1 (01:26:24):
What advice do you have?

Speaker 6 (01:26:27):
Well, in order to do something that you're passionate about,
in order to do something that you wake up excited
to doing, you're going to have to perform in some
capacity that pertains directly to your gift.

Speaker 1 (01:26:41):
That's it.

Speaker 6 (01:26:43):
If you are doing what you're gifted to do, you
will be passionate about that. I think what happens to
young people is you go to college and you decide
you want to do this and that. But you're asking
these young people to make a decision about their life
when they don't have the skill set yet. I don't
know a whole lot of people who go to college

(01:27:03):
to get a degree that end up working in the degree. Now,
degree is are helpful and useful, they really really are.
Education is paramount to a lot of people's success. That's important.
Every successful person is not tied to a degree. You know,

(01:27:23):
it's nothing I could have gotten a degree in that
would have turned me into who I am today. But
you have to sit young people down and talk about
their dreams and visions. That's the only thing that will
spur them to greatness is the pursuit of your dreams, goals,
aspirations and visions.

Speaker 1 (01:27:42):
That is what spurs you on to greatness.

Speaker 6 (01:27:45):
If you tell a person just do something, go get
you a job, Go get you a job, what you're
telling them to do is just go get you and
make yourself some money where you can survive on it.
But people don't want to survive. People want to thrive.
People don't want to exist. People want to live. Look, man,

(01:28:06):
I don't want to just wake up every day and
be miserable. I want to wake up excited about today, man.
And you know it changes the dynamics when the words
that come out your mouth change. I have to go
to work today, I have to go down here with
these people. I have to pay these bills. I have

(01:28:27):
to go down here and try to get this car fixed.
I have to when you are doing something you're passionate about.
I wake up and say, I get to do radio today,
I get to go and be on TV today. I'm
going to get a chance to go down here and
get me a car today. I get a chance to

(01:28:51):
come and work with some really cool people man that
I absolutely like, and it ain't hard to be around them.
I get to do that because I'm living in my
gift and my passion. If you own a job that
you don't like, it's hard to be passionate about it.
If you go to work and the work ain't what

(01:29:12):
you really want, hard to be passionate about it. Hard
to be passionate about something you ain't getting paid your
value for. Hard to be passionate about a check that's
only going to get you live. Let you live good
enough to make it to the next check. Take your system,
Sit her down and ask her what are her dreams

(01:29:33):
and aspirations.

Speaker 1 (01:29:34):
See, we don't do that with our young people enough.

Speaker 6 (01:29:38):
And even if you, as a parent haven't really fulfilled
your mission in life, or your dreams or your visions,
that don't mean your children have to follow in your footsteps.

Speaker 1 (01:29:50):
You can break the cycle in your family.

Speaker 6 (01:29:54):
You can assure that one of them finally does what
they really want to do with they life. And it's
okay that they don't make a million dollars, but you
want them to be excited about something. You want them
to feel good about themselves when they wake up in
the morning to go do work. That's what you want
to do. So I would sit her down and talk

(01:30:17):
to her about that. It's not that she's lazy and
she's unmotivated because she hasn't found the thing that will
motivate her. But the one thing that will motivate you,
no matter who you are and how old you are,
start start chasing your dreams. Start start chasing what you

(01:30:39):
gifted at. If you chase your dreams and your gift
and you become passionate about those two things, the future
is yours to hold. Now, listen to me. Don't get
this confused. Don't chase something you passionate about, and that's

(01:31:00):
that's not your gift. I had a lady in family feud,
raised her hand and said, I've always wanted to be
a singer, and I heard one of your motivational speeches,
and I'm gonna go be a singer. But I'm forty
nine years old and I don't know where to start.

Speaker 1 (01:31:16):
Listen to me.

Speaker 6 (01:31:17):
If ain't nobody asked you to sing nowhere and you
forty nine, you're not a singer if you ain't done it.
I actually I ask a last say have you done
anywhere and now? But I just want to be a singer.
I say, have you ever sang anywhere?

Speaker 2 (01:31:31):
No?

Speaker 6 (01:31:32):
Then you're not a singer. But I'm passionate about it.
You're not gifted at it. The Bible says your gift
will make room for you and put you in the
presence of great men. That's what your gift will do.
All right, follow them dreams, follow your gift. Become passionate
about those are my clothes looks to day. I hope

(01:31:54):
you'll have the great day today. Talk to God, he'd
absolutely love to hear from you.

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