Steve Harvey's Voicemail, Strawberry Letter- He's So Good, Yet So Bad - 10.14.25 - The Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

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Show.

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I want joy, yah yah joy.

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You know you.

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Love you.

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Gotta turn you to turn the mouth turn you probably
got to turn the mouth, turn out, turn.

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The water the money up.

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Look me, come.

Speaker 5 (01:58):
Come on, you'll think that. Uh huh, I sure will.
Good morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on,
dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey man oh
man got a radio show? Yeah, I do. God so
big to me, man, I just have to tell you
about it. I can't help it. It's rather obvious to

(02:20):
me how big, how good God is. He's absolutely tremendous.
He's off the chain, you know, man, I want to
share something with you today. You know, if you're out there,
start your mission today. Why don't we all decide together

(02:40):
better yet? Let's just kill that cause you don't that
just individually? Look you listening, everybody's got something that's that's
on the table that they haven't yet attacked yet.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
What are you waiting for? Start your mission today?

Speaker 5 (02:54):
Stop the procrastination now and if you and if you
allow prassic excuse man, if you allow procrastination to set in,
then that that allows then which is a weakness, you know,
but that allows the devil then to just really do
his thing.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
Because an idle mind is the devil's playground.

Speaker 5 (03:15):
So if you ain't working on your goals, dreams, aspirations
or visions, you just you're just waking up seeing how
today gon go or the devil he got plenty for
it for you to do. See. But if you get
your mind right on your goal and your focus and
your purpose, then you can go on about your business.
Then when the distraction comes, you can catch yourself. Now,
don't mean you ain't gonna fall privy or fall prey

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to some of your distractions, because you will, but you
will have a goal in mind and aspiration that makes
you go. Hold on, man, I got to stay focused
here because what I really want while I'm really trying
to go the thing that I'm really after, this new
little thing that's being introduced, this don't fit into the equation. Man,
let me keep it moving. May step off the line

(04:01):
for a little while. You know, like I said yesterday,
thing about God is he's so forgiving that if you
get out of line, he'll hold your place. See that's
the real cool thing. A lot of people do that
for you too. Like I said, if you at the
movie theater or you at the amusement park and you're
in the line and you forget something, if you politely
ask the person behind you, hey, man, I gotta run
to my car, left something, would you hold my place?

(04:21):
Most people say fine, Ye'll go ahead, and when you
come back, they don't have a problem. See your problem
is is you want to get out the line, go
do something, then come back and just get up in
the line further up than you were, or cut somebody.
Now you got a problem because see everybody looking at
you now like hi, woa partner? Where you come from?
You know the line start back here? But see the

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thing with God is God don't do that. God don't
say the line start back here. God holds your place.
When you make a mistake and you fall off the line,
God holds your place. But if you ain't got no dreams, aspiration,
if you ain't got no place, what he holding for you? See,
I mean he got a place you, but you got
to come to it. See, some people, if well here's

(05:04):
what I'm saying. If you got a goal of aspiration
to dream and you fall off track momentarily, you can
get back to that because God knows where you left off.
Now you may have to accomplish a few more things
since you stopped for a long period of time, but
God know where you left off, you can get back
on track. I look, man, this dream of being on

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TV since I was a kid, and it got off track.
Now it got off track. I just kept it as
one of the dreams. And in some real dog moments
when it looked like it wasn't gonna happen, all I
was hanging on to is just to hope that one
day it could.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
But that's what faith is really about. Faith is the
belief in things that you cannot see. But faith gives
you the confidence to keep hoping. Man, Sometimes it just
keep hope alive. Sometimes you heard Jesse Jackson say it
just keep hope alive. Some times, man, it's just the hope.
I was hanging on a hope. And I'm talking about

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when it got.

Speaker 5 (06:07):
Real ugly and funky out there for me, when it
looked like I wasn't gonna ever make it, and all
of the facts was in and everything pointed in the
direction you not gonna make it. You done really messed
up this time. Then I sat there and I just
hung on to the hope. But man, that's what I'm saying.
If you got a dream on aspiration of vision or something,

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when you fall off track.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
And you wanna go get back in line, God holds
your place.

Speaker 5 (06:37):
He knew I was off tracking, out of line, but
he said, okay, here's where we stopped. You wanna be
on TV. Now, when you get it together and you
quit tripping and you come and your turn to me,
I'm gonna hold your place, put you back in line.
Then we're gonna finish the journey. That took me a
lot longer to get here than I wanted to, But
then it was necessary because I needed all of the
mishaps to happen to me along the way. So when

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I got on the radio one day, which I did
not see coming, Steve Harvey got a radio show, y'all.
That's why I say it every day. See, because of
this radio show that I didn't see coming. Now I
have stories to tell, and I can tell you about
me better than I can tell you about anybody. And
I don't been through enough whereas relatable, where enough people

(07:18):
can go mad that happened to me. Appreciate you saying
that that's what it was for. See, I get it now.
See at the time, though I didn't like what was
happening to me. At the time, I was really in
total disagreement with God on a lot of stuff He
was pulling off on me. But in essence I was
really pulling it off on myself. But through his grace
and mercy, he kept me through all of my mistakes,

(07:41):
all my bad decisions, all my miscalculations, all my misfires,
all the times I knowingly stepped out there and did wrong.
He forgave me, He said, because man, if you ever
come to me, I have a plan for you that
is going to be far and above. It will supersede

(08:02):
everything you've ever dreamed of. That's what I did. I
just got sick of me. Goodn't sick of me? And
I turned it over to God. And then God started
working And here I am today. Now He threw with me.
Yet Nope, Have I arrived yet? Nope? But guess what
the journey is cool? And then you know what I

(08:24):
found out that's kind of what it's like in life.
If you done walked off the cliff in life and
you ain't got no God in your life, it's like
not having a parachute. You step off the cliff and
you just free falling. We all now that fag gets
you closer to the grave, right see, we all heading
to the grave from the moment we're born. But the

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cool thing about a relationship with God is when you
step off the cliff and you got God.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
Here a parachute. You still going down, but it's a
nice ride.

Speaker 1 (08:56):
You guide and you're glide.

Speaker 5 (08:58):
And you're softly, You enjoy you look, you're smiling. You're
meeting other people along the way. You're floating over here
to ski a little while. You over there at the
beach for a little while, you mess around over here,
you get to go out the country a little bit
on your parachuting and all that, and God just helps
your descent appear more like a rise and the more

(09:19):
like a euphoric fall. Instead of not having no God
in your life and you just walking off that cliff
every day, free falling. Ain't got no cord, You steady pulling,
you hollering the whole way because you to mess around
with yourself and ain't let God come into your life
and provide a parachute for you. I would rather have

(09:39):
a parachute since I got to jump every day, than
to not have one. God has been like a parachute
for me. Ask me where that came from. I can't
tell you, But like I always say, most good things
that happen in my life that I can't explain is
usually him.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Ladies.

Speaker 5 (10:04):
And gentlemen, your undivided attention just for a moment.

Speaker 2 (10:08):
Okay, notice please notice he's.

Speaker 5 (10:12):
Done it again, created another day as only he can do,
allowed you to be a participant in it, which only
he can do. Stop thinking it's your alarm that wakes
you up in the morning. No, no, no, it's God
that shakes you to allows you to hear your alarm.
Always get this straight. And all of this is given

(10:34):
to us as a gift, and that's why it's called
the present. We are all living in the gift called
the present, and be grateful for that. Man, be ever
grateful for that. This is Steve Harvin Marti Show, Sheirley
Strawberry calling Forrell Misssispi Monica Jr. And the legend that
he is nephew Tommy Junior. What's on your mind?

Speaker 7 (10:55):
Man?

Speaker 8 (10:56):
Yeah, I want to ask you about this up man
one role does the accountability playing your success?

Speaker 9 (11:01):
About being count How do you feel about being accountable?

Speaker 5 (11:04):
Well, I mean think about it, man. Your success is
dependent on two things.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
God and you.

Speaker 5 (11:14):
Those are the two factors that's determining your success. If
you allow other factors to come into play, that's on you.
If you allow haters to affect you, that's on You'll
If you allow your association and participation with unlike minded

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people to come into your space.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
That's on you.

Speaker 5 (11:42):
If you choose negativity over positivity, that's on you. You've
got to be accountable for the for the fact that
you want to be happy and successful, and that's totally
dependent on you and God. As as long as you
don't allow some of the other factors to come into play,

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there's a great chance that you will be happy and
you will be successful, whatever level of success.

Speaker 7 (12:10):
That is.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
So accountability is everything.

Speaker 5 (12:13):
It's on you.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
It's not the other person. Stop what did you do?

Speaker 5 (12:19):
You know? Stop? Well, if they hadn't left me, Okay,
but they did though they did. Okay, so now what
now that they left you? They cheated on you, they
broke the valve, they they lied. What does that have
to do with the pack between you and God on

(12:42):
your way to success and happiness? That that happened is
called life. That is a factor of life, but it
should not be a determining factor of your success. Accountability.
Take accountability of yourself. Know that, and and and and

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and and and get on with it. Man, it's me
And Plus, here's the other thing about accountability. You can
change you. You can't change anybody else. So the more
accountable you are to yourself, the more you can change you.
That's the fact that that's important. And just keep the
factor between you and God. And there you go.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
I don't let nobody else in mind. You better, you
better have an answer.

Speaker 9 (13:33):
You better be coming up at thirty two minutes after
the hour, we will hear from the nephew as he
runs that prank back right after this.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
You're listening hardy morning show. Hey everyone, quick health question.

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(14:17):
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It's time now to run that prank back with the nephew, nephew,
what you got for us?

Speaker 5 (14:27):
Listen? The title is I love your wife more than
you do. I love your wife mo than you do.

Speaker 9 (14:37):
Wow, Okay, you ain't no way.

Speaker 5 (14:40):
You love her like that. I know your wife way
molding you. Let's go cat.

Speaker 10 (14:49):
Hello, Hey, I'm trying to reach track this track? Who
is this? Hey? T How you doing?

Speaker 5 (14:54):
Man?

Speaker 10 (14:54):
This is Milton. How look at your wife to reach Milton? Yeah? Yeah,
you probably heard of me before. I've been I've been
at the job probably about five years now, Chad, she
ever mentioned me? No?

Speaker 3 (15:05):
Now, I don't have no milking? What's going on? Everything cool?

Speaker 5 (15:09):
Everything is there?

Speaker 10 (15:10):
Everything is good. Hey, listen, I wanted to have a
conversation with you.

Speaker 7 (15:14):
Man.

Speaker 10 (15:16):
I don't really know how to spring this on you
or whatever. But like I said, I've been working at
this spot for five years and been on to Recha
probably like around three. And I guess what I really
want to say is that I didn't I didn't gain
some feelings for Tasha.

Speaker 5 (15:34):
And oh whoa whoa, whoa whoa wah wh whoa whoa. Holo.

Speaker 11 (15:37):
Hold on, man, holo, holo.

Speaker 3 (15:39):
You calling me and you're telling me right now you
have feelings for my wife who you work with, and
you write Teresa because that is my wife. You have
feelings for my wife?

Speaker 5 (15:50):
Is that correct?

Speaker 9 (15:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (15:51):
You know it took me a while to come forward
and say this, but you know I'm mad enough now
and I feel like me and you need to talk
about it, have you? No? No, I haven't you got
your no?

Speaker 5 (16:03):
Listen.

Speaker 10 (16:04):
I'm just letting you know. Today is the day that
I decided I'm not carrying this weight on my shoulders
no more. I'm getting it off of me, all right.
And at the end of the day, I love your
wife more.

Speaker 12 (16:13):
Than you do.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
What I.

Speaker 10 (16:17):
I love your wife more than you do.

Speaker 3 (16:21):
Bright So you how long you've been loving my wife?
You tell me how long you've been loving my How long?
How long you feel that you have been in love
with my wife.

Speaker 10 (16:30):
I mean, I'm looking at I know, I know, I
know at least too.

Speaker 3 (16:35):
Does my wife even know this?

Speaker 10 (16:37):
I mean, I'm sure she's aware to a certain extent,
to a certain extent.

Speaker 9 (16:41):
What what?

Speaker 3 (16:42):
How how certain of the extent are we talking?

Speaker 10 (16:44):
I mean, you know, when we go to lunch together,
she you know. I mean, I'm sure she know.

Speaker 3 (16:48):
Y'all y'all were going to lunch together. How long y'all
been going to lunch together?

Speaker 10 (16:51):
Bro, we were going to lunch together at least at
least two and a half years. I mean, we go
to lunch together almost every day. I mean we might
miss the day if she go with the girls, I
go with the fellows, so being, but for the most part,
me and her, Me and her pretty much at lunch,
she kept God, I need a.

Speaker 3 (17:06):
Brouha sty hell away from my wife.

Speaker 10 (17:09):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (17:10):
I needed to back up. Ain't no monro because you
here to talk enough that if you didn't talk enough,
ain't no more in love, ain't no more state. You
need to stay the back, period, stay the back, man.
I don't want to hear none of that, nothing, nothing,
nothing at all, because.

Speaker 10 (17:27):
Come on, we don't listen, listen, I know all about you,
trade everything about it, all right. I already know how
you treat her.

Speaker 7 (17:36):
All right.

Speaker 11 (17:37):
I'm hot.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
I'm feeling like a strong sense station right now because
I really want to reach through the phone and just
break your neck right now.

Speaker 10 (17:44):
That's what I really want to do.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
That's what I really want to do. And why my
wife talking about business outside of our house hole.

Speaker 10 (17:50):
That's what I'm trying to figure out. Hey. All I'm
saying is when we go to lunch, she let me
know how she's feeling. She let me know what she's
going through.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Let me stop stop with that lunch, bro, want to
hear anohing thing about lunch? Bro, ain't no more lunch
is from here on out, Bro calling me talking about
you and along with my wife people taking work. Here's
a milsing. I'm you at bro?

Speaker 5 (18:12):
Where do you?

Speaker 10 (18:15):
Hey?

Speaker 9 (18:15):
Man?

Speaker 10 (18:15):
Man, listen, calm down with all that energy you got
going on like you're gonna do something.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
I'm talking You're not time? What you not nothing to work?

Speaker 10 (18:24):
You're not You're not finna do nothing.

Speaker 3 (18:26):
Come on you right right now, bro.

Speaker 11 (18:27):
I'm my teams right now.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
Something where you're at right right now?

Speaker 10 (18:29):
Bro? Right now, so how about how about when you
got laid off, when you was off for six months
and she was carrying all the all the waiting pan,
all the fields. You ain't jump.

Speaker 5 (18:41):
All right that?

Speaker 3 (18:42):
Since you know you know everything, I bet you know
I got it too. So all you need to know
is all you need to know is brother, get done.

Speaker 10 (18:49):
Bro, You're done.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Bro, don't keep down it, bro.

Speaker 2 (18:53):
You know what?

Speaker 10 (18:54):
What what the milk is?

Speaker 3 (18:56):
Folks talk about that? He would my wife saying that
he'll love talking about lunch.

Speaker 12 (19:02):
So the hell up.

Speaker 10 (19:03):
While we are, you can thank me for the twitter,
for the suit that you got for Christmas. You can
thank me for that. I picked it out and I
paid for it. Okay, a word?

Speaker 3 (19:13):
Okay, cool? Cool, cool, all right, cool and let me
go into the project right now, right now?

Speaker 5 (19:19):
All right?

Speaker 3 (19:20):
You talking about the great suitster, three peas, that's what
you thought about the great boot? Right here? With this boot? Anyway?

Speaker 5 (19:28):
I like this.

Speaker 10 (19:29):
Now you don't like the suit. You don't want to suit?
Three times now you don't like to me at lunch
when you don't want to suit. Dude, for the guys, bro,
I swear to god, I need to talk to my wife. Man,
I need to talk to my wife.

Speaker 3 (19:44):
I need to talk to my wife because.

Speaker 10 (19:45):
I man, listen, you know what, I just couldn't hold
this back. No more me living behind in the shadows
and put I'm over here kicking money out to Teresa
when she needed while you was laid off. I'm helping out.
I'm going you know I'm doing. I'm doing too much
on money, Bretty.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
So you was giving the money. You're kicking the money
when I was laid off.

Speaker 10 (20:07):
You're kicking the money, dude. Somebody had to step up
man to me, and Teresa is tight, so you know,
I just try to step in and help out.

Speaker 3 (20:16):
So you're giving my wife money.

Speaker 10 (20:17):
What you're saying, do you want me to make you
feel better about the whole time? You want me to
make you feel better?

Speaker 3 (20:22):
You ain't need to make me feel better about. Man
is talking about wife. That's all I got to do
is talk to my wife.

Speaker 10 (20:31):
That's that's fine. But can I say something that will
make you feel better? What I'm gonna say this to you, Trey,
this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Your wife, Teresaly gotten me to breakfatone colle You.

Speaker 3 (20:47):
Wait, what.

Speaker 10 (20:50):
Hey, this is Tommy Man. This nephew to Steve Hart
Morney showy ste Ha.

Speaker 9 (20:58):
R r.

Speaker 3 (21:01):
You bruh, don't do that, bro. You gotta stop that.

Speaker 10 (21:09):
Tommy.

Speaker 3 (21:09):
Come on now, come on, you gotta stop. My heart
is breaking. I'm sweating.

Speaker 10 (21:15):
Oh come on now, Hey, I gotta ask you this.
You gotta tell me what is the bad?

Speaker 5 (21:19):
Is that?

Speaker 10 (21:19):
I mean the bad is radio show in the lane.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
It's a Steve Harvey Morton show. Gotta be.

Speaker 9 (21:27):
There coming up next to as the CELO, our Chief
Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this,
you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone,
quick health question. Even though you're still thriving, still loving,
still connecting, did you know your immune system weakens with age.

(21:48):
That's where vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen
your immune response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu,
new macacle, pneumonia, RSV, and COVID nineteen. This fall, I'll
ask your doctor which vaccines you need and visit vacxsist
dot com that's vaexsist dot com to schedule one or
more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. Coming up at the

(22:11):
top of the hour. In entertainment news, Real Housewives of
Potomac star Wendyosepho and her husband Eddie. They were arrested
and charged with fraud. Some sad news out of Hollywood.
Yeah yeah. Legendary actress Diane Keaton has passed away. In
trending headline news, President Trump's Department of Education layoffs threatened

(22:33):
special education and after school programs. We'll talk about all
of these stories at the top of the hour, but
right now it is time to ask the CLO our
chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 5 (22:47):
All rightn't you.

Speaker 9 (22:48):
Ready, Steve, Colo, here we go. Jasmine and Charleston says,
I broke off my engagement after I caught my fiancee
texting another woman and sending nude pictures to her.

Speaker 5 (23:00):
Her.

Speaker 9 (23:00):
It is no evidence of of him cheating, actually cheating
with her, but he swears he never and he swears
he never touched her. Is he is sex thing enough
to call off the wedding? Is that sext thing enough
you know that will get your.

Speaker 5 (23:16):
Yeah? I ain't gonna maybe help you here, dog, I'm
not gonna be able to help you. Listen, it's the
naked pictures. Yes, Yeah, you never touched her, but once
you're seeing that naked photo, that's an advertisement to touch. Yes,

(23:40):
it is this what it looked like?

Speaker 1 (23:44):
Wow?

Speaker 5 (23:45):
This this this what it? This what it could be?
Where you at?

Speaker 2 (23:53):
I need a decision soon because I'm getting.

Speaker 9 (23:56):
Married Saday well not anymore.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah, that's why I'm not going.

Speaker 5 (24:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
Uh look, ma'am. You could forgive him and move on.

Speaker 5 (24:12):
Yeah, but no, they're gonna be forever checking that phone down. Yeah,
you know how many times she's gonna bring it up?

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Get out the shower, bring it up, Steve, Yeah, what
was you in there?

Speaker 5 (24:28):
Taking a shower.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
Every time?

Speaker 5 (24:33):
Doing another photo? Shoot where your phone that.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
But you change and draws so she ain't like the
other pair.

Speaker 1 (24:43):
I would never let it die.

Speaker 9 (24:46):
Yeah, now, Nick Sureley, all right, Aaron and Orlando. Right,
I'm forty two years old and I'm dating a woman
that's fifty eight. She has a forty year old daughter
that has me caught up after she did a hand
maneuver on me and the club not too long ago.
I've avoided her since.

Speaker 7 (25:05):
Then.

Speaker 9 (25:05):
Should I tell her what she did was wrong and
it will never happen again, or do I have to
keep playing along that's what Aaron in Orlando wants to know.

Speaker 2 (25:15):
What do you have to keep playing alone?

Speaker 13 (25:17):
Boy?

Speaker 2 (25:17):
You know good and well, you don't have to. Now,
what is the what did you write me really for?

Speaker 9 (25:24):
Sounds like he's scared though he didn't want that.

Speaker 2 (25:29):
She got a daughter? Forty Yeah, two years? Why y'all
in the club?

Speaker 1 (25:38):
That's your question?

Speaker 2 (25:43):
Hey, no, forty.

Speaker 9 (25:46):
Two old?

Speaker 2 (25:47):
Forty forty in club age?

Speaker 1 (25:49):
What's the deadline for club? What's the dead age?

Speaker 5 (25:58):
What is the surprise for?

Speaker 1 (26:00):
How we gonna do our line?

Speaker 4 (26:01):
Dances?

Speaker 2 (26:05):
CA's at the backyard barbecues? After you forty back?

Speaker 1 (26:09):
What reception should you stop clubbing at?

Speaker 4 (26:13):
What?

Speaker 1 (26:14):
When?

Speaker 5 (26:16):
I think? Thirty two? Thirty eight? Yes, out of your
club and you got to be out? Yeah, that's what
I think? Yeah, what do you do? I mean?

Speaker 9 (26:30):
What replaces the clubs?

Speaker 2 (26:32):
Oh, you gotta get yourself.

Speaker 5 (26:33):
Decker calls, you gotta start learning your way down to
the bingo party. You got stuff like that? You get
you got thirty eight at the club. It ain't a
good fit. I'm just telling you. And no, man, you
don't have to keep playing this game. You know what's
up Now you're gonna have to avoid the girl. Just

(26:58):
tell the girl, Hey, look, I'm really in love with
your mama. This is it, and I don't I don't
want no smoke that gone about your business somewhere because
I don't want to have to tell your mama, which
you know you can't do.

Speaker 9 (27:14):
Yeah, I who that was wrong on her part.

Speaker 5 (27:17):
All right, now I'm gonna tell you the problem though.
The daughter find that's the problem.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
Okay, so that's what it's caught up. Yeah, we thus
the letter, all right.

Speaker 9 (27:30):
Moving Onanda Kwanda in Manhattan. Kuanda writes, I went to
spring break this year and had a weekend long fling
with a Spanish dude. He found me on TikTok and
wants to come see me. I have a boyfriend and
a son. I would love to see the Spanish guy again, though,

(27:51):
what should I tell him?

Speaker 2 (27:53):
Collie?

Speaker 14 (27:55):
It's the hot Collie in pay Yeah, rego, solemn man.
He called, I'm gone to live on all Yes, Chili's
ain't Charlado or Stockhold's you name.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
I was there for you, Poppy.

Speaker 9 (28:16):
Yeah yeah, yeah, she's gonna see him again, right for sure?

Speaker 5 (28:20):
Yeah yeah yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, he coming to
But I just I've been watching the news you can't
go to Mexico.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
Just mud you say everything.

Speaker 2 (28:33):
I just saw it on the news.

Speaker 5 (28:35):
I thought he was gonna go worse than that said.
Now contail said, don't don't come down here. I heard him,
My goodness.

Speaker 9 (28:47):
Yeah, well she has a boyfriend and a son. She's
not like legally bound to anyone as far as a
husband or anything, so you never know.

Speaker 15 (28:57):
Yeah, she's freezing.

Speaker 5 (28:58):
Her no time.

Speaker 9 (29:01):
That's you're gonna say, Friday, that's your go to day. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
she had a week long fling with him.

Speaker 1 (29:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (29:18):
Yeah, So that means a college student or a teacher, yeah,
or educated educated?

Speaker 1 (29:27):
Okay, yeah, this was taking a turn for you. Yeah, college,
what's going on? And get it in?

Speaker 9 (29:41):
Yes, last one, Steve Veronica and Faydeville writes, my teenager
got into a fight over a girl, and the girl
ended up dating the boy that beat up my son.
Now his ego as is as bruised as his face.
I want to go beat up the boy and the
girl for hurting him. What do I tell my son
to help him move on? She wants her side.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
Yes, just go ahead to get a what you can't do?

Speaker 5 (30:05):
Go down there? Jump on nobody, No now, your son ego, Bruce.
She worked with a strong, most fit boy on to
fight the master. The way it works in nature. That's
how I work in the animal kingdom and everything.

Speaker 1 (30:20):
Yeah, so all right, all right, Colo, thank you.

Speaker 9 (30:23):
Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have
some entertainment news for you right after this How to Fight.
You're listening Hardy morning show. Well another day, another reality
star arrested. Real Housewife of Potomac star Wndiosepho and her

(30:44):
husband Eddie were arrested on multiple fraud charges after allegedly
lying to police in April about having property stolen from
their home during a vacation. The couple filed insurance claims
for more than four hundred and fifty thousand dollars in losses,
including more than twenty thousand dollars worth of items that
the couple had previously returned to the stores for refunds,

(31:06):
and when sheriff's deputies searched their home on Thursday, they
say they found at least fifteen items, like a Gucci
wallet a deer shirt the couple said had been stolen.
Wendy and Eddie, who were arrested Thursday in Carroll County,
posted bond and were released. A Real Housewives franchise executive
producer Andy Cohen.

Speaker 1 (31:27):
Spoke about the situation.

Speaker 9 (31:29):
He said, quote, I'm a Wendy fan, and she has
been a great housewife and a great role model. She's
always led with education and her solid yeah and her
solid family values. And so I'm really thinking about her
and her family, and I'm certainly hoping this is all
some big nothing. So that's what Andy Cohen said.

Speaker 5 (31:47):
Well, his problem with these reality stars they get a
dose of star dump. Yes, fame is different. It happened
with the on the Housewives member when the white couple
New Jersey. Yeah, they had to go high Todd Christly
and his wife.

Speaker 12 (32:08):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
Now, uh, the black people have got to know they
can do some time.

Speaker 9 (32:19):
Idea you were going there usually I know where you're going.

Speaker 5 (32:23):
Really really need to start getting the affairs in order.
And know this because you know all Fadrian's husband he
had he had to go back and he had to
go back.

Speaker 2 (32:36):
You can't, you can't. You can't get this new fame
and do like you want to. And what is your
lying for?

Speaker 5 (32:43):
Ain't they ain't ain't ain't they got good jobs?

Speaker 9 (32:46):
Yeah, she has like four degrees of pH d. He's
an attorney.

Speaker 1 (32:51):
Yeah, so's to teach at John professor.

Speaker 5 (32:57):
Oh oh, also they got college degrees, they got books since, yes,
but they ain't got no common sense.

Speaker 1 (33:06):
But see, what is it about the reality stars that
end up in trouble?

Speaker 5 (33:12):
I mean because they're always trying to live up to
the height that they've created on TV. Okay, example, Housewives
of Atlanta, they was written houses to shoot some of
these scenes in that wasn't their real house. Yeah, I
didn't know that.

Speaker 4 (33:32):
Wow, this Candy Birr's got money.

Speaker 9 (33:37):
Yes, shout out to Meani the greatest housewife who ever lived,
shout out.

Speaker 5 (33:46):
But you know, I mean some of them got to
try to live up to the height that's created on
TV to present the lifestyle that they portrayed on TV,
because oftentimes that's not a fair portrayal.

Speaker 9 (34:01):
Okay, it is something that happens because friendships break up.
I mean, your best friends, like sisters before you start
getting on these reality shows. Reality show, you break up,
marriages break up.

Speaker 1 (34:14):
I guess it is.

Speaker 9 (34:14):
Fame is a drug.

Speaker 2 (34:15):
I guess it is.

Speaker 5 (34:17):
And I'm happy for the people once they get out,
you know, Yeah, of course I talked to Todd Christly
Christly because we was cool. He used to do my show.
He's a really really cool dude. And I think they
got of got, you know, off into something crazy. Anyway,
I'm glad they got out. You know, is Apollo out yet?

Speaker 9 (34:34):
Yes, he's been out, He's remarried and everything.

Speaker 5 (34:40):
Yeah. Yeah, so you know it's gonna happen. You know,
everybody gonna get out evention.

Speaker 9 (34:44):
Aaron Huger from the Real Housewives of Potomac just got
d ui.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
Yeah shaw, he.

Speaker 5 (34:52):
Ain't Reality, but Puffy is still there. Just really real
get out eventually. Eventually they gonna let our Kelly out.
Eventually they gonna let our out.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Yeah, oh well, shoot shoo okay.

Speaker 9 (35:10):
And other news, sad news out of Hollywood. We're gonna
switch gears here. Seventy nine year old Diane Keaton. Legendary
actors who starred in iconic films like Annie Hall, The Godfather,
and Something's Got to Give has passed away. Diane Keaton
has she was romantically linked to big names in Hollywood
like Woody Allen, Warren Beatty, and al Pacino, but she

(35:32):
never married them. Al Pacino said that she was the
one that got away and basically he wishes he had
married her. Diane Keaton adopted two children. They survive her fans,
reactions and tributes from celebrities are still pouring in on
social media. So to that, we say rest in peace.
Diane Keaton. Yeah, loved her, and she had just a

(35:58):
distinctive style her dressed. Her personality was a little quirky.

Speaker 1 (36:02):
Yeah, she was cool lady.

Speaker 4 (36:05):
H Finally, rock and Turtle Nick Flash, uh huh and
hats and the whole thing.

Speaker 5 (36:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (36:12):
She I loved her the way her style yeh finally.
In trending headline news, uh, the Trump administration has issued
more layoffs than firings to the US Department of Education,
specifically to the office responsible for overseeing special education.

Speaker 1 (36:30):
This is according to NPR.

Speaker 9 (36:31):
One employee said, quote, this is disseminating the office responsible
for safeguarding the rights of infants, toddler's children, and youths
with disabilities end quote. Employees who received a notice Friday
were told they will remain unemployed until December ninth. Wow,
you did special education for a while when you were younger.

Speaker 5 (36:55):
I got accident class an accident for about six weeks
over my report. Car we're not got.

Speaker 2 (37:04):
Off the roll.

Speaker 5 (37:11):
Five.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
There's a sexual recession. We'll talk about that right after this.

Speaker 9 (37:16):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question.
Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did
you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where
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response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu new Macaco, pneumonia, RSV,

(37:41):
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According to Newsweek Guys, a number of Americans having sex
has dropped to record lows, signaling a potential sex recession,

(38:03):
according to a recent study. This study was from the
Institute for Family Studies. They surveyed one thousand students from
eighteen to sixty four and found that only thirty seven
percent reported having sex weekly. Some relationship experts say smartphones, tables,
computers could be the reason.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
Yeah, a tablets co of like the tables it he said, tables.

Speaker 9 (38:31):
Sorry, well, and that's okay, but anyway, it could be
reasons that couples are not being more intimate due to
the digital age. This leads to bedtime procrastination because everybody's
on their tablets and their phones and their computers. So
here's a question for you, guys. Do you have any suggestions?
Do you having any solutions to improve sexual relations?

Speaker 5 (38:56):
We've been over here trying to fix it. We've been
going through this hole. Rest I help my.

Speaker 9 (39:03):
You're a sexual sexual recession.

Speaker 8 (39:07):
Would you say I'm not helping no one till I
help myself? First kind of advice I got. I can't
get man, what I'm gonna help you? Get into bed?
And I'm still out?

Speaker 7 (39:25):
That married? What three years?

Speaker 5 (39:30):
It's almost three he married. I told him this was
gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
He didn't believe me.

Speaker 1 (39:36):
He did tell me this.

Speaker 9 (39:38):
He did a sexual recession. Steve, what do you have
to say? You have any solutions, any suggestions?

Speaker 5 (39:44):
Yet? The only solution I could do is just get
in here when I asked you to get in here,
That's all that's all I got. I just just do
like I asked you to do. If you could just
do that, then we could fix this. Get in here
when I asked you to come in here, So you
say it like that, no matter how said, she ain't
going So what the hell?

Speaker 4 (40:03):
What? What?

Speaker 10 (40:04):
What?

Speaker 9 (40:06):
Try to say it? You know, more romantic.

Speaker 5 (40:11):
It's hard to be hard to be It's hard when
you beg It's hard to be romantic when you begging.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
And you know the answer probably gonna be no anyway.
So how how you want to to say it?

Speaker 9 (40:24):
So you go in with a defeat attitude.

Speaker 5 (40:28):
You're gonna get defeated. This ain't boxing. I ain't got
a chance.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
If you make the eight ball on this shot, you
get it?

Speaker 1 (40:39):
Can you just.

Speaker 7 (40:41):
I just need a scheduled date. You can just give
me air WinCE. I just need to I just need
no so I can take my pill. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (40:48):
I just need We have to feel it right there.
We emotional creatures and we win. We supost know that
is theday.

Speaker 5 (41:00):
Get y'all emotional.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
That's what Tom.

Speaker 5 (41:04):
After the hour, ain't any emotional creature coming up?

Speaker 9 (41:07):
At thirty four minutes after the hour, We're going to
check your voicemail Steve at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve,
that comes up right after this.

Speaker 1 (41:15):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (41:22):
All right, Steve, it's time to check your voicemail at
eight seven seven twenty nine.

Speaker 1 (41:26):
Steve, you ready, yeah, all right. This one's from Tremaine.

Speaker 9 (41:30):
Tremaine left a voicemail about your forty year stand up
career anniversary.

Speaker 16 (41:34):
Take a listen, Hey, mister Harvey, this is Tremaine, a
living townple, Florida. Happy fortieth anniversary to all the work
you've done. And when I found out about it a
little bit earlier, I went on my YouTube and when
you was on Deaf Comedy Jam Apollo, your show with
SASA Entertainer, when you were the music Teacher.

Speaker 10 (41:57):
Man, we was watching all that, Me and some of
my friends.

Speaker 15 (42:00):
We smoked a couple of little, you know, blunts or whatever,
and I was like, man, Steve already been funny all
the time. And man, you're a legend, and we really
appreciate your comedy.

Speaker 16 (42:10):
Because this pulled us through a lot of hard times.

Speaker 15 (42:13):
We loved you out here and time for Florida. Man,
We love you and we want you to continue doing
what you're doing. Thank you so much, God bless you
and the whole morning crew. Goodbye.

Speaker 5 (42:24):
Man. Appreciate that. Man, that's good. I read it at today.
Thank you, man, Appreciate you. I appreciate appreciation sitting up
watching me smoking weed? Just go ahead.

Speaker 9 (42:39):
Or whatever.

Speaker 2 (42:39):
Appreciate it though smoking weed? You got us through? Was
it me or the weed?

Speaker 7 (42:49):
All right?

Speaker 9 (42:49):
This collar left a message about pimping and his NFL picks, Steve.

Speaker 10 (42:54):
This message for pimping.

Speaker 12 (42:56):
There is an APB out for you pimping for your
week six such the NFL.

Speaker 9 (43:01):
You lost three weekly games with your.

Speaker 6 (43:04):
Cleveland Brown and I pimping. I won three with my
tenn City chief pimping. That the a p b out
for you.

Speaker 12 (43:12):
Okay, you always contact me at your early convenience. Hey Strawberry,
Hey Carler, what our juniors with our new and Ms Monica? Hey,
pampam bang a p b out boy, be aware now
you're cute, all right, it's be aware.

Speaker 17 (43:31):
Listen, listen, listen. Never heard you understand something I don't
care about.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
No a p b CD.

Speaker 5 (43:41):
Element on me. Do you know how many times I
did look for.

Speaker 2 (43:48):
Somebody always looking for me?

Speaker 1 (43:49):
And did he say it was a new?

Speaker 12 (43:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (43:54):
Okay, Well you know king's up.

Speaker 5 (43:58):
Baby. You don't do what you gotta do.

Speaker 12 (43:59):
You know.

Speaker 17 (44:01):
I'm kidding about nobody looking for me. Man, I look skinned.
When you find me, you need to be looking for
what I got on. That's what you need to be doing.

Speaker 10 (44:12):
What do you have on.

Speaker 5 (44:15):
Today?

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Or when he find me.

Speaker 1 (44:18):
A boat?

Speaker 7 (44:22):
Well?

Speaker 1 (44:23):
Today, this is all.

Speaker 2 (44:26):
This is a This is a blue gill jacket.

Speaker 5 (44:30):
Blue deal.

Speaker 1 (44:33):
The fish.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Yeah, that's why shining.

Speaker 1 (44:35):
You know how they had shark skin.

Speaker 5 (44:37):
This is blue gill.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
Yeah, this is blue gill.

Speaker 17 (44:41):
I'm not used to but I had you know, I
had it hanging out her dried it first.

Speaker 2 (44:52):
You know, I dried it in the sun. Damn, my
sister washed it and duve.

Speaker 10 (44:59):
I'll do it.

Speaker 2 (45:01):
Yeah, So don't worry about the bills.

Speaker 5 (45:03):
The pigs.

Speaker 9 (45:05):
Go ahead, Charley, all right, this caller is from Charleston.
Left the message for Junior.

Speaker 6 (45:10):
What's up morning, crew, guys. This mission is for Junior
and JUNR. I'm telling you, but you can know Charleston
over the weekend. I'm telling you, but you did your thing.
I bought a ticket just because you. I'm a big
family show. I listen to the show every single morning.
If I miss it, I go to the Alheart Radio app. Junior, Man,
you did your thing on stage. I'm telling you soon
to come on stage. He was killing from the time

(45:33):
he got on stage to the comic got off. I'm
not lying to you. I'm not saying this.

Speaker 11 (45:36):
Because he's on your show.

Speaker 5 (45:37):
Speed.

Speaker 6 (45:38):
This man here is doing his thing out here, he's
doing his thing.

Speaker 12 (45:42):
I love y'all.

Speaker 6 (45:42):
Keeping your thing, guys, Blessings, peace, he knows.

Speaker 9 (45:46):
The family.

Speaker 5 (45:48):
Etulations.

Speaker 6 (45:49):
Man.

Speaker 12 (45:50):
Yeah, you are for real.

Speaker 5 (45:53):
We know it.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
What you gotta say, Junior, I said thank you.

Speaker 5 (45:58):
I told thank you, man, I appreciate. I love Charleston. Man.
It was man, it was our standing man.

Speaker 2 (46:01):
Great audience.

Speaker 5 (46:02):
Boy, I'm great the whole time.

Speaker 1 (46:04):
Look they were just being fool just like Uncle Toby.

Speaker 9 (46:09):
All right, Junior, congratulations. Coming up next to is a
nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're
listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at
the top of the hour, about four minutes after. It's
my Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is He's

(46:29):
so good yet so bad. We'll get into that find
out what that's all about. And just a few because
right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
Nephew, what you got.

Speaker 5 (46:40):
I'm trying I'm trying to decide how stupid I want
to be on this, y'all. I'm just trying to gauge it,
and I'm not.

Speaker 7 (46:45):
I'm looking at my archives and trying to figure out
what I'm gonna pull out.

Speaker 2 (46:49):
And just give you all that that high ignorance. So
this is what we're gonna do.

Speaker 7 (46:53):
We're gonna file, We're gonna find everybody on a conference call.

Speaker 5 (46:59):
How about that? Just gonna fight everybody.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
So tacky.

Speaker 5 (47:06):
It's sad, it's sad, but it is involveable, and I'm
taking it. Okay. So this right here is the conference call.
Let's go catch.

Speaker 6 (47:15):
Hello.

Speaker 10 (47:16):
This is Hannah Hither.

Speaker 11 (47:19):
This is Frank checking in. Hey, dove it here on
the line.

Speaker 9 (47:24):
Hey guys, how's it going Fine's I think?

Speaker 16 (47:29):
Uh?

Speaker 10 (47:30):
I think we're waiting for for one other person? This
was that one in a second?

Speaker 5 (47:38):
Hello Sherman.

Speaker 7 (47:40):
Sherman Davis, general manager's assistant. How you guys doing everybody here?

Speaker 11 (47:44):
Heyman?

Speaker 3 (47:45):
Yeah, I ain't doing fine?

Speaker 11 (47:46):
Hello Sherman.

Speaker 5 (47:47):
All right, all right, guys, we got let me make
sure we got everybody here.

Speaker 11 (47:50):
Is Hannah here, yep, Hannah's here.

Speaker 5 (47:52):
How's it going? All right?

Speaker 11 (47:53):
Frank yep, I'm on the line.

Speaker 5 (47:55):
Thank you, all right, good good good and David, I'm
here all right, my man.

Speaker 7 (48:00):
Good deal, good deal. All right, got some news for
you guys. I need you guys to just bear with
me for a second. I'm getting all the paperwork in.
My assistant Cynthia is here, so you guys just give
me a second. I'm gonna put you guys on hold
for a second and I'll be back probably less than
thirty seconds.

Speaker 11 (48:14):
Okay, all right, okay, we'll do Thank.

Speaker 5 (48:17):
You, Cynthia. Can you bring me all of the stuff
on these three guys.

Speaker 7 (48:22):
I mean, today is supposed to be they're on hole
right now, but today's day that we're giving them their
severance packages and letting them go, and they'll be out
of here probably by tomorrow morning. They're clearing their things out.
They don't know it yet, but we're gonna at least
give them their SEVENCE packages today.

Speaker 5 (48:37):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (48:38):
You know, they put it on my shoulders to break
the bad news, and somebody's got to do it. So
it's my job today, all right, So bring it to
me and get it here here as soon as possible
so I can hurt and get past this conference call.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
All right, Hello, all right, guys.

Speaker 11 (48:56):
Sherman.

Speaker 5 (48:56):
Hello, yeah, I'm here, guys.

Speaker 11 (48:59):
Yeah, uh, you never put us on hold?

Speaker 3 (49:02):
No, so are you about to fighters right now?

Speaker 11 (49:07):
What are you talking?

Speaker 5 (49:07):
Wait a minute? Okay, hang on, hang on, hang on, guys,
what what?

Speaker 10 (49:11):
What?

Speaker 5 (49:11):
What's going on? What are you guys talking about?

Speaker 11 (49:13):
We're asking you what's going on? We just heard you
didn't put us on hold. We just heard all that. Yes,
Shepherd's packages what I heard. I heard you're letting us go.

Speaker 3 (49:21):
Oh Sherman, Uh, maybe you were talking about some other people.

Speaker 7 (49:28):
But hey, guys, hang on, everybody just calm down. Just
give me, give me a second here, hang on, just
let me let me. I'll be right back.

Speaker 5 (49:38):
Hang on.

Speaker 3 (49:41):
What is going on?

Speaker 10 (49:44):
Did you we heard that?

Speaker 3 (49:45):
Okay, you all heard the same thing.

Speaker 7 (49:47):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (49:48):
I heard that I was talking about Cynthia. How do
I up?

Speaker 13 (49:52):
Is this?

Speaker 5 (49:52):
Is this the whole button?

Speaker 10 (49:53):
Here?

Speaker 5 (49:54):
This is it? There we go?

Speaker 7 (49:56):
They can hurt everything. No, they just they say, you
can asking me right now. I'm doing what he's telling
me to do this. These three are supposed to be
let go by the end of the day. I mean,
I gotta do it. But it looks like the severances.
Nobody can live off of this for even three freaking months.
I already know that this this is really dune. Oh

(50:22):
all right, so look, bring me everybody's stuff. Let me
at least after lunch. They all come in here and
pick up their things. That's all I can do.

Speaker 5 (50:31):
Okay, is this the right button here?

Speaker 9 (50:33):
Okay, hello, it's not the right button.

Speaker 12 (50:36):
We keep.

Speaker 11 (50:39):
What I'm hearing have to be kidding me.

Speaker 3 (50:41):
I've been with us.

Speaker 11 (50:42):
I've been with us for five years, all right, I'm
not I'm not let you down for a quarter, the
company down for a quarter. This is this is ridiculous.
I cannot believe this.

Speaker 3 (50:50):
And I'm on travel right now, So how am I
going to come and get my things by?

Speaker 11 (50:55):
This is ridiculous? This is how you're gonna let us know?

Speaker 6 (50:57):
This is unprofessional, This is try I cannot believe you.

Speaker 11 (51:01):
If you don't need a lawyer, I have someone, I
have contact, we can talk. But honestly, sureman, this is
this is.

Speaker 3 (51:08):
This is unaccessible.

Speaker 7 (51:10):
Let's not do the whole lawyer thing, guys. Okay, let's
not do that, all right now? People get let go
from companies, People get let go all the time, and
you guys know this.

Speaker 3 (51:20):
Let go on a conference call with other people. What
are you This is ridiculous.

Speaker 11 (51:24):
You're giving a personal business. Yes, yes, that's true. You're
giving a personal business to another.

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Uh exactly, it's not a whole yet.

Speaker 11 (51:31):
You cannot be doing this.

Speaker 10 (51:33):
Yeah, email me that lawyer's number for sure, Yes, I will.

Speaker 3 (51:37):
I guess you want to to David, thank you.

Speaker 5 (51:39):
I didn't.

Speaker 7 (51:39):
I didn't try to for you guys to learn it
this way? All right, I'm okay. Let's just say I'm
not good at the conference button.

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I don't know how to put any call you.

Speaker 11 (51:51):
This is not a good message. It's not this is
not a perfect professional messaging. In fact, this is I'm mortified.
I cannot believe this. I put in my life how
this company is eyes So it is?

Speaker 12 (52:05):
It is.

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What did you record a recording for?

Speaker 10 (52:16):
What?

Speaker 3 (52:16):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (52:19):
This call?

Speaker 11 (52:19):
Can you tell me that recording, David, I will do it.

Speaker 5 (52:22):
Listen. I don't consent on being recorded. I want that
known man.

Speaker 3 (52:27):
Exactly.

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their job.

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There?

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Thank god?

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some that work. Boy, you're gonna lose your job.

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That would be me. Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 9 (55:01):
You can't have a costume.

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Jokes in the costume. Anybody else can.

Speaker 9 (55:08):
Halloween?

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Well you know what you start talking? Why why you
run on the stage on Halloween? He got he start
talking so they know it's.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
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Speaker 9 (55:33):
Thank you, nephew, coming up next to my strawberry letters subject.
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It is Strawberry Letter.

Speaker 9 (56:45):
Nephew, thank you. Subject He's so good, yet so bad.
Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in my mid thirties and I've
been with my man for five years, married for two years.
I love my man greatly and he treats me like
a queen and has accepted my child as his own.
The only issue I have is that he does not

(57:08):
listen when we have disagreements. It's mostly because of the
way he says things to me. I have to bring
it to his attention and tell him how it makes
me feel. He usually says, well, you did this or
that to make me say things like.

Speaker 5 (57:21):
That to you.

Speaker 9 (57:22):
This that's not the way to communicate to anyone, and
he doesn't get it. To keep the peace, I have
to shift into I'm sorry mode and focus on his
feelings because I don't want to crush his ego. If
I ever do anything to offend him, I quickly apologize,
but he won't do the same for me. I tell
him all the time if I don't have a safe

(57:42):
space to express my feelings, then I shut down, and
he doesn't seem to understand that or want to understand it.
He told me that most men don't understand how women think,
and he's no exception. I don't care about most men.
I need for him to listen when I tell him
about my feelings and to a knowledge that he hurts
my feelings, then correct the behavior and stop doing it.

(58:05):
I feel like I'm slowly shutting down emotionally because I
always try to take care of his feelings and he
doesn't care how I feel. He tells me to get
over it because I'm always complaining about little stuff. It's
like I'm one of his homies and I'm not supposed
to get hurt by him snapping at me or yelling
at me for small things I do. I think if

(58:26):
he's irritated, we should talk it through. How can he
be so good and so bad at the same time.
Am I fighting a losing battle here? Well, I say this,
I'll say this. I'll put it like that. What you
are fighting is a battle of wanting this man to

(58:46):
change and trying to get him to change it. He's
not going to do it because he doesn't want to change.

Speaker 5 (58:51):
This is who he is.

Speaker 9 (58:53):
He's a stubborn man. He has old school values about women.
He has a mean streak. If he's talking to you
crazy anything, he's doing the right thing. You are doing
nothing wrong. It's perfectly natural to want to be heard
by your husband seen by your husband, but you always
give in you say you don't want to crush his ego,
but you've got to figure out how to get what

(59:14):
you want out of this man. I think he's always
been like this, and you thought you could change him,
like most women think they can change their men. It
was one of those red flags that you ignored because
he took in you and your child, and you say
he treats you like a queen. Although I don't see
how you can say that when you wrote this letter,

(59:34):
but you still got to stand up for yourself and
use your voice. You're not making him do anything like
he says. He talks to you that way because that's
who he is. He doesn't hear you because he's not
trying to hear you.

Speaker 1 (59:47):
You can't go on like this.

Speaker 9 (59:49):
You don't really tell us what your disagreements and arguments
are about. So it's really hard to offer any type
of solution other than marriage counseling to learn how to
better communicate with each other.

Speaker 5 (01:00:00):
Steve, I know exactly what's going on here. I'm not
even just no brainer for me. I know exactly what's
going on. He's so good yet so bad. She's in
a mid thirties, she been with her husband five years,
married for two, treats her like a queen. He's accepted
her child as his own. That means he's a good dad,

(01:00:22):
a good father, good husband, a good provider. That's what
that means. And that's how you make a woman feel
like a queen. The problem is he doesn't know how
to communicate. Listen to me, This man communicates this way
to you because he has been allowed to. He's done

(01:00:45):
it before. He's always done it this way, and before you,
somebody didn't tolerate it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:53):
That's why they broke up, because you ain't the first.

Speaker 5 (01:00:56):
And now you're trying to tolerate this person who doesn't
have communication skills.

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
And I'm just gonna tell it to you like this.

Speaker 5 (01:01:07):
He usually says, well, if you do this or that
to make me say things to you like that, Ah, okay,
that's always the case. And then he told you he
said most men don't understand how women think, and he's
no exception.

Speaker 2 (01:01:26):
That's the truest statement.

Speaker 5 (01:01:29):
In this letter.

Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
Most men do not know how women think.

Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
That's a fact.

Speaker 5 (01:01:36):
That's an impossible thing to figure out. The man who
could write a book this is how women think, would
be a billionaire. But you can't write this book because
you don't know how they think, and you can think.
You know, if you want to, they're change it. I

(01:01:59):
promise you they will change it. So this excuse that
he gave you is it. It's the ongoing thing for
all men. Here is your problem, and we'll get into
it when we come back. The reason this man talks
to you this way over and over and does has

(01:02:22):
no disregard for your feelings at all, is because he
has been allowed to and he suffers no consequences. You
always say I'm sorry. If you say, he gets irritated,
So he has suffered no consequences. So therefore the behavior continues.

(01:02:45):
That's it, in a nutshell. I have solved it. When
we come back, we'll go over some consequences.

Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
All right, Hang on, Steve.

Speaker 9 (01:02:54):
I will have part two of your response coming up
at twenty three minutes to after the hour. Today's Strawberry
Letters subject He's so good yet so bad. We'll get
back into it right after this.

Speaker 1 (01:03:05):
Hi, this is Feliciavashot and you're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Shows.

Speaker 9 (01:03:09):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hi, this is Shirley Strawberry.
And I'm partnering with the leave. Let me tell you
it couldn't have come at a better time. I'm owe
some furniture around last weekend in my new place. It
turns out that was a really bad idea because all
that bending and lifting and pretending I'm still twenty five

(01:03:32):
didn't agree with my knees. So I grabbed a leaf
because when my body pain shows up, I need something
that lasts. With just one pill, A leave last up
to twelve hours. Don't let those aches and pains hold
you back from doing what's important to you. Use as directed.
All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is He's so good yet so bad?

Speaker 5 (01:03:54):
All right, now, I could recap this letter and take
a bunch of time, but let me just get to
the main part of this. Ladies, if you're in a
relationship with a man who repeatedly does something to you
that irritates you, and he's not fixing it, and he
does it over and over and over, and in order

(01:04:14):
for you to keep the peace, you usually have to
apologize to him to keep it moving. And you don't
feel as though you have a safe space to go
to in your relationship to discuss your feelings, because when
you bring up your feelings, he then turns around and
tells you, well, you did this or that which made

(01:04:35):
me do this, that's your man. And then he turns
around and tells you that most men don't understand how
women think, and he's no exception. All right, that's the
letter in a nutshell. Now, ladies, let me give you
the cure for this. Your man performs and acts out

(01:04:57):
bad behavior over and over and over because there is
no consequence to his actions. Period. I have said this
on this show before. Men respond to a few things. Pain, reward,
and consequence. That's are the only things we respond to.

(01:05:18):
Because we are men, we are simple. We respond to pain,
we respond to reward, and we respond to consequences. If
there is no pain, no reward, no consequences, we're gonna
do like we want to. And that's every man walking,
living and breathing.

Speaker 2 (01:05:34):
This is facts. This ain't no aw Steve, you just
said no. I'm telling you the truth.

Speaker 5 (01:05:42):
So now in this letter, this man who will not
consider your feelings, who snaps at you when he wants to,
who says what he wants to say to you, blames
you for everything. The reason I said this to you
is because you said this or you did that, and
never apologize to you and constantly does this to you.

(01:06:06):
It's because he suffers no pain, he gets no reward,
or there are no consequences. So now he is the fix.
And I'm telling you, ladies, and you can. You can
sit there if you want to, until you issue consequences.
It will continue. Let me give you an example. Let's

(01:06:28):
say every time your man snaps at you in public,
you walk away and just walk off in public? Just
what leave him standing there in front of whoever he
snapped in front of? That's it. You maybe even go
get in the car maybe, or just go over there
and start talking to somebody else at through in the
room or something like that.

Speaker 2 (01:06:48):
That consequence. Hey, what happened to you? We were standing
there talking?

Speaker 5 (01:06:53):
No no, no, no no. I have asked you repeatedly
not to go off in front of me in front
of nobody else. That's one way all. And I don't
recommend this, but I've seen this work really efficiently. He snaps,
he goes off on you in front of somebody else.
You know what I heard the woman say, who you
think you're talking to. Yes, that one right there. That work.

Speaker 15 (01:07:21):
Now.

Speaker 5 (01:07:21):
A lot of women won't do that because they don't
want to embarrass their husband in front of nobody. But
if it continues, who do you think you talking to?
Is a question directly directed to him that creates a
moment of pause, and I promise you the next time

(01:07:42):
he will think about it. Here's another one. On the
way home.

Speaker 2 (01:07:46):
Ain't nobody talking?

Speaker 1 (01:07:48):
The quiet car ride.

Speaker 2 (01:07:51):
Is a painful experience.

Speaker 5 (01:07:53):
That work.

Speaker 2 (01:07:55):
All you hear is breathing.

Speaker 5 (01:08:03):
In the car kind.

Speaker 2 (01:08:06):
Breath in the car?

Speaker 5 (01:08:13):
Sudden say he reach over and touch it with his
finger on your hand, snatch your hand right quick? I
got don't okay? We know so long when you go home?
Slamming doors, ooh, slamming doors, dose, slamming cupboard, slamming toilet seat, slamming.

Speaker 2 (01:08:33):
All that.

Speaker 3 (01:08:35):
We hit.

Speaker 5 (01:08:38):
We just came in and cut sports and on. We're
trying to forget about all of a sudden doors is slamming,
We hid dishes, clanging extra loud, no good, and well
she don't make that much noise. These are called consequences,
which creates pain. What gets a result. So, ladies, if

(01:08:59):
you are not going to issue one of three things, pain, reward,
or consequence. Your man will continue to do. Now, reward
is very big. Now, when your man does something, it positive.
Reinforcement works. Baby, Thank you so much. I know how
hard you're working for this family. Thank you so much.

(01:09:21):
Most men will leave this world and die from lack
of appreciation. I have said that, but I don't think
people understand it. Being a man is hard. I'm not
saying being a woman ate. I'm not. That's not what
I'm saying. But reward is important too. But if so,
if you're gonna issue pain and consequences, you're gonna have
to balance it with some reward.

Speaker 1 (01:09:40):
All right, All right?

Speaker 5 (01:09:42):
Now, see how Monica made that face over there? See
that's why I should see that that I ain't giving
over reward.

Speaker 9 (01:09:50):
Post your comments then Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM,
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with sports talk. Right after this, you're listening to the

(01:10:10):
Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hi This is Shirley's Strawberry, and
I'm partnering with the lead. Let me tell you it
couldn't have come at a better time. I'm move some
furniture around last weekend in my new place. It turns
out that was a really bad idea because all that
bending and lifting and pretending I'm still twenty five didn't
agree with my knees. So I grabbed a leave because

(01:10:33):
when my body pain shows up, I need something that lasts.
With just one pill, a leave lasts up to twelve hours.
Don't let those aches and pain hold you back from
doing what's important to you. Use as directed. It is
time now for junior and sports talk. Which you got junior?

Speaker 8 (01:10:49):
All right, Shirley, listen how I'll do it? On Week
six picks. The Week six picks, Here we go. The
Broncos pull out one over the Jets thirteen to eleven.

Speaker 5 (01:10:59):
Picked the Browns.

Speaker 1 (01:11:02):
What happened with the Browns?

Speaker 5 (01:11:04):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:11:04):
They got robbed by the Steeves twenty three to nine.

Speaker 5 (01:11:08):
I'm not okay, let me go, man.

Speaker 8 (01:11:11):
The Chargers edge out the Dolphins twenty nine to twenty seven.

Speaker 5 (01:11:15):
Picked it, Yes, you did.

Speaker 8 (01:11:17):
The Patriots over the Saints. Come on, tosh Man twenty
five to nineteen two. M p the Rams over the
Ravens seventeen to three.

Speaker 2 (01:11:26):
Did I pick that one?

Speaker 5 (01:11:27):
You picked that one? Yes?

Speaker 7 (01:11:29):
You did?

Speaker 5 (01:11:29):
Yeah, because of course I knew Lamar wasn't playing the Seahawks.

Speaker 7 (01:11:33):
Man.

Speaker 8 (01:11:33):
The Seahawks beat the Jaguars man twenty to twelve.

Speaker 5 (01:11:37):
And ain't get that.

Speaker 1 (01:11:37):
Wow, I ain't get that one.

Speaker 8 (01:11:41):
The Cowboys fall to the Panthers thirty to twenty seven.

Speaker 5 (01:11:45):
I don't know how they did that, but God thog,
it ain't looking good in Dallas again.

Speaker 2 (01:11:51):
Dallas ought to just come on over here with Cleveland.

Speaker 5 (01:11:55):
Come on, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:11:57):
The Raiders beat the Titans twenty to ten.

Speaker 5 (01:12:00):
God, who beat the Titans? Raiders? The Raiders, Oh, Raiders? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:12:07):
Or everybody beat the Titans. They defied that coach though, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:12:11):
All right, you go a good one.

Speaker 10 (01:12:12):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:12:12):
This boy here, Baker Mayfield ain't playing man.

Speaker 8 (01:12:15):
Thirty to nineteen over the forty nine ers, and they
chatting the MVP for Baker Mayfield.

Speaker 5 (01:12:19):
Man, they gonna make it. Hey, hey, we had him too.

Speaker 1 (01:12:24):
Put you there one, Hell, Baker, No.

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
Because I knew we should have picked Josh Allen.

Speaker 1 (01:12:33):
Oh from Buffalo.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
Yeah, Okay, Yeah, that's all.

Speaker 5 (01:12:36):
We should have picked sat Kawan Barkley at number one,
and we had the number three pick, both of them
would have been available. We could have got Josh Allen
had sat Kwan Barkley, we being Super Bowl by now, man,
if you did pick that, So that's all good.

Speaker 8 (01:12:51):
The Packers, Man, the Packers beat the Bankers twenty seven
to eighteen.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
Picked that, Yes you did, man.

Speaker 8 (01:13:01):
Then the Chiefs. The Chiefs beat the Lions. Man, You're
Detroit Lions thirty to seventeen.

Speaker 5 (01:13:06):
Yeah, that hurt me.

Speaker 7 (01:13:07):
Damn.

Speaker 5 (01:13:08):
Detroit ain't going number one. Ain't going number one. The Falcons.

Speaker 1 (01:13:13):
The Falcons beat the Bills twenty four to fourteen.

Speaker 5 (01:13:18):
On how to hell that hell? I don't remember what's
going on in Atlanta.

Speaker 8 (01:13:22):
Penny Joseph and man John Robinson had about one hundred
and sixty yard Russian.

Speaker 1 (01:13:27):
Yeah, that boy ran all over the Bill.

Speaker 2 (01:13:29):
I'm gonna have to go and be a Falcon fan
in a minute. You wasn't a Brown fan, what team
would you gonna be a family.

Speaker 5 (01:13:36):
Oh, I'm Detroit and Eagles all day, Jesi, I'm Detroit
and Eagles all day.

Speaker 9 (01:13:44):
Shirley, all right, Junior, Thank you. Coming up at the
top of the hour, A man on social media needs
some advice Steve. He says, it went down in the
laundry room. Apartment laundry room showdown. We'll talk about it
right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

(01:14:05):
Devin on Steve Harvey FM writes, I left a load
of laundry and our apartment building washer too long, and
today a huge guy cornered me in the laundry room,
talking about quote people like you, then said, if it
happens again, he'll toss my stuff in the trash. I
apologized and he didn't respond, but as he left, he

(01:14:26):
mumbled something about my appearance and slammed the door on
his way out. Now I'm anxious about doing the laundry.

Speaker 1 (01:14:33):
There at all.

Speaker 9 (01:14:33):
Do I report him, try to avoid him, or stand
on my ground and risk turning this into a full
blown neighbor hued.

Speaker 5 (01:14:42):
What do you think? Yeah, that's a woman that wrote
that because he says something about her appears that you
could say somebody do was appear at him?

Speaker 7 (01:14:54):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (01:14:54):
Really, your regular tennis shoe wearing I've got some more
Jordan's up there.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
Tommy wouldn't like it. Somebody called him ugly or something.
You wouldn't like that. That's a huge guy.

Speaker 5 (01:15:14):
Big huge behind that guy. See that's all because somebody
told him he was up truth anyway, But anyway, Yeah,
that's what that is. And uh, you know a big guy.
Next time he's gonna throw it in the trash and
all that. You know, you're gonna have to get you
an apartment that's got to wash and dry inside all this.

Speaker 2 (01:15:41):
Yeah, you need to move.

Speaker 5 (01:15:42):
They because I know they got apartments out there with
the washing dry in the hallway or your own apartment.
That's gotta be your next requirement because going down all
that community washing your pant is in the.

Speaker 2 (01:15:55):
Same same is his drawls. And you know he's big
and nasty.

Speaker 5 (01:16:01):
Now you got all this, No, you have got to
move and get you in a place that's got a
washing drive a little minute up, washing dry in your
Parmit stackable. That's why I never liked none of that
community stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
Man, I can't stand sometimes it can't be helped.

Speaker 5 (01:16:18):
That's where you live, you got, Yeah, well that's who
you ain't had to live at.

Speaker 9 (01:16:22):
Oh, it is a big guy. Cornering of Woman thirty.

Speaker 5 (01:16:27):
Five extra dollars. You had a Washington dry thirty five.
You're trying to save money now you downstairs?

Speaker 9 (01:16:35):
Yeah, well it's mean. Yeah that was awful. Yeah, all right,
we have time for another one, Steve. This is from
Sean on Steve Harvey FM. Sean says, about a month ago,
my neighbor had a garage sale. That garage sale has
never ended. In fact, now she's advertising on social media
that is becoming her own quote hometown store. Normally I

(01:16:57):
mind my own business, but we live on a dead
and street and my house is at the end of it.
That means people are sometimes using my driveway as a
turnaround spot. I've hung up signs and even parked my
car at the top of my driveway to put a
stop to that. I can't find anything illegal about it,
but it sure is annoying. Am I just being a

(01:17:18):
nosy neighbor? Or is this complaint valid?

Speaker 5 (01:17:21):
Yeah? Well you can complain, but there ain't nothing you
can do about it. Like you said, she ain't broke
no law. They can just have an ongoing of gra
sale for help. Yeah, ain't nobody buying this stuff? You
just can't keep replenishing your own garage. See you gotta

(01:17:43):
be out of supply one minute. So ain't nobody buying
this stuff? Yeah, but she just trying to get all
of it sold. Don't nobody want that? I'm betting there
since she starts, what a couple of items been there
since she started? Don't nobody wote that mattress? Then she
got up against that wall. Nobody look at them stains.

Speaker 7 (01:18:08):
Over there, and just buy the lady out. You just
buy everything that might shut it off. Yeah, here I
go with another suggestion. Move, you're gonna have to move.
You thought a good idea of being down at the end.

Speaker 5 (01:18:28):
Of that call.

Speaker 10 (01:18:29):
De sack.

Speaker 5 (01:18:30):
Now they using your driveway as a U turn. You
park your call up at the front. Get ready?

Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
All right, all right, thank you, Steve. We'll have more
of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (01:18:43):
Coming up twenty minutes after.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (01:18:53):
Okay, So, Carlo, yesterday, October thirteenth was your birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:18:58):
But yes, what else it was, Carla?

Speaker 9 (01:19:00):
A happy birthday again to you.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
Happy belated birthday. Yeah, thank you, I did, I did.
I had a great birthday. It was also National No
broad Day.

Speaker 5 (01:19:18):
Day.

Speaker 16 (01:19:19):
Shut up.

Speaker 9 (01:19:20):
Dang it, it's the baby, also known as the moment
we get home from work day. National No broad Day,
which falls right in the middle of Breast Cancer Awareness Month,

(01:19:43):
is a time for women and men to learn about
breast health. It helps remind people that breast cancer is
a potentially fatal disease, but also highly detectable and treatable.
National No broad Day is all about learning to spot
early warning signs and get an edge in fight against cancer.
So if you missed it yesterday, you can celebrate. You

(01:20:04):
guys were right. You can celebrate No broad Day today.

Speaker 10 (01:20:07):
There you go.

Speaker 1 (01:20:08):
I can't wait till we get out.

Speaker 15 (01:20:10):
All the time?

Speaker 5 (01:20:12):
Do what all the bad? Yeah, my unt Actnes stayed
with us for three weeks. She popped that brawl. She
came through that back. Don't feel that whole kitchen up,
that whole that show like like a life raft had
opened up.

Speaker 9 (01:20:31):
A nice little play around him, would you rather?

Speaker 2 (01:20:33):
Right after.

Speaker 9 (01:20:35):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Hey it's
Carla Farroll.

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Speaker 1 (01:21:12):
It's time now to play around it. Would you rather, guys?

Speaker 9 (01:21:15):
Would you rather only watch cartoons with your grandkids for
three weeks straight?

Speaker 1 (01:21:20):
Or would you rather never watch television again?

Speaker 5 (01:21:24):
Oh? No, I can't not TV.

Speaker 1 (01:21:28):
For three weeks straight?

Speaker 5 (01:21:30):
Yeah? Now hold up, Tommy, Tommy, they got some They
cartoon is different now Annimal Bugs, Bunny Yosemity Sam, Ain't.

Speaker 9 (01:21:38):
No Red flint Stone.

Speaker 5 (01:21:39):
No No, they looking pepper Pig. They look cartoons and
characters on that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:46):
You be going, well, so what's your decision?

Speaker 5 (01:21:51):
Now? I'm gonna watch it. I'm gonna watch it with.

Speaker 9 (01:21:53):
Them for three weeks straight, okay.

Speaker 5 (01:21:56):
Yeah, and then then we'll never watch TV again.

Speaker 9 (01:21:59):
Ever, Like, yeah, would you would you rather play flag
football with Jalen Hurts or would you rather play it
with Josh Allen?

Speaker 5 (01:22:10):
I cain't do nothing. I can't help them do nothing.
For what. I ain't gonna be able to get that flag?
What different I'm playing with? I can't catch no more?

Speaker 9 (01:22:22):
Oh yeah, did invite us?

Speaker 5 (01:22:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (01:22:24):
Yeah, I like it?

Speaker 5 (01:22:27):
That's what ye give me? A age limit?

Speaker 1 (01:22:34):
Age limited, not worth where is concerned? All right?

Speaker 5 (01:22:42):
Would you another and brawler's day at the same time.

Speaker 9 (01:22:48):
Work? That's not gonna work, all right? Would you rather
have another twenty years with your wife or just one
night with your celebrity crush?

Speaker 5 (01:23:02):
Twenty years with my wife man, m there you go see?

Speaker 1 (01:23:06):
Yeah, okay, good job Tom Cards.

Speaker 5 (01:23:12):
Yeah she's listening.

Speaker 9 (01:23:14):
Hey baby, I'm doing even if she wasn't listening.

Speaker 5 (01:23:19):
To school right now? Twenty years one night gotte with
crushed twenty years?

Speaker 8 (01:23:27):
Surely of course you can't. You think I'm so glad
I can't have no One name with k me alone
twenty years with my wife.

Speaker 1 (01:23:36):
kN alone junior, twenty years with.

Speaker 2 (01:23:39):
My wife calling.

Speaker 1 (01:23:40):
That's where I need to be.

Speaker 5 (01:23:42):
I have to be there. That's what I want to be.

Speaker 2 (01:23:44):
That's what I need to be.

Speaker 1 (01:23:45):
Saying, make yourself baby, talking to it. That's what I
love to be.

Speaker 9 (01:23:51):
I'm convinced. I'm convinced, all right. Would you rather eat it?

Speaker 12 (01:23:56):
Enter?

Speaker 1 (01:23:56):
A pie eating contest or a chili eating concent us.

Speaker 5 (01:24:01):
Hot is hot. I'm gonna tell.

Speaker 19 (01:24:03):
Y'all either way you believed you ain't gonna make it.

Speaker 9 (01:24:13):
It's so hot, stay hot.

Speaker 5 (01:24:17):
It's written on the box that is hot.

Speaker 1 (01:24:21):
Caution.

Speaker 9 (01:24:22):
I'm that's today's round. Would you rather coming up next?
It is our last break of the day, and we'll
close out the show with the one and only Steve
Harvey right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. Even though you're

(01:24:44):
still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you know your
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you need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexacist dot

(01:25:06):
All right, guys, here we are our last break of
the day on this Tuesday. It's been a great day.
Thank you all for listening, and Steve, before you get
to your closing we do have a phone call for
you from a pastor who actually left comments about your closing.

Speaker 10 (01:25:28):
God bless you, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 13 (01:25:30):
I'm kind of running late, but this reverend will again.
I just want to say one thing that closing remarks
on October.

Speaker 11 (01:25:39):
To six, how you say your pass and you talked
about that past.

Speaker 5 (01:25:45):
God love you, Steve Harvey.

Speaker 10 (01:25:47):
Let God be with you.

Speaker 13 (01:25:49):
That was so wonderful what you said.

Speaker 10 (01:25:51):
You said your past.

Speaker 5 (01:25:53):
Lead that alone.

Speaker 10 (01:25:55):
God bless it. I need that could trust and believe
I got a pass. But that word read there to
encourage me.

Speaker 13 (01:26:03):
Thank you Steve Harvey for that strong word.

Speaker 3 (01:26:06):
To talk about that past, to leave it alone.

Speaker 10 (01:26:09):
God bless you, Steve Harvey. That was so much of
the information that you gave me. I'm gonna keep looking
at your family few.

Speaker 5 (01:26:18):
Thank you brother, you know, thank you.

Speaker 10 (01:26:20):
Let God keep using you to tell.

Speaker 13 (01:26:22):
Folks and wake folks up on situations that they're going through.
Trust and believe I got a pass, but I'm gonna
leave it alone.

Speaker 10 (01:26:33):
Thank you Steve Harvey for that.

Speaker 2 (01:26:34):
Bye bye.

Speaker 5 (01:26:35):
Yeah, you know, thank you Uncle ru Yeah, that's good
on preaking. That's my uncle Rufus that have called in well,
thank him. For calling there. Hey, you know what, I
appreciate him saying that I've been trying to really do
better with my clothing remarks because I found out so
many people were listening in to him. I was getting

(01:26:58):
a lot of message from people. So I have another
one today. Two and the counter pertains what Junior asked
me this morning. It was about accountability. He said, how
important is accountability to you? Well, y'all listen what I
was explaining to Junior this morning when he asked me
how important is accountability? Accountability is everything, especially when you

(01:27:18):
understand one practice that it took me years to understand.
My journey to happiness and success is dependent on two factors,
God Almighty and myself. Those are the two determining factors
about my happiness and about my success. And as long

(01:27:42):
as you keep it between the two of you. Now,
if you married and you've become one, and that you
and your wife are in agreement, that's the only other source.
But outside of that, as long as you keep those
two factors in the forefront, God Almighty and yourself, that's it.

(01:28:03):
I don't allow any other factors into it, or I
used to, but I learned to stop doing that because See,
as long as you know that your success and happiness
is just between you and God, you can get along
with it and you can make all the necessary corrections. See,
if it's just between you and God, when something goes wrong,

(01:28:24):
you can fix it between you and God. If you
allow other factors into the mix, you now have to
incorporate them, and they may not be willing to go
along with it. I give you an example. Somebody leaves you,
your relationship break up. Okay, Now you won't closeure in that.
You want them to come back and tell you they sorry.

(01:28:48):
You will you waiting on them to call you and
give you the reason why you waiting on them to
call you and make you feel better about it?

Speaker 2 (01:28:56):
They might just be gone.

Speaker 5 (01:28:58):
So now guess what if you keep the accountability between
you and God. Okay, listen, maybe this person leaving me
was a good thing for me. Be kind, Bill glaass.
Like I always say, behind every moment of adversity, the
two things happen, there's a lesson and a blessing. So
sometimes this lead this person leaving you could be a

(01:29:18):
good thing. But if you go to God immediately and
ask God to give you the understanding and the knowledge
to cope with this loss. You may find out that
that loss was necessary. You may find out that that
loss was actually a good thing. Maybe God let that
door close because he got another one. He wants you
to walk up the hall and walk through. Stop standing

(01:29:39):
at these doors that close in your face. Stand there
beating on that door, Walk up the hall. There's always
more doors. But the accountability is on you. If you
allow someone else to be the determining factor between your
for your happy, this in your success, you're in trouble. Man,

(01:30:03):
You're in a lot of trouble because suppose they don't. Oh,
I know what they said, but suppose they don't. I
know what they said they was gonna do. But suppose
they don't. I know the promises they made, but supposed
they don't. Accountability. You and God Almighty. Those two things

(01:30:25):
you can control. Number One, God he has never failed
me yet ever ever. He has never ever let me down. Never,
God Almighty has never ever broken a promise. Never ever.

(01:30:46):
God Almighty has never not come through when I needed
him most. Never Ever. These are factors that you can
count on. So if you keep the accountability between you
and God Almighty, there's your chance for happiness or success.
Stop letting these other people affect you. Stop giving everybody

(01:31:09):
else some accountability in your life. They did me wrong,
they let me down. They didn't come when they said.
He said he was gonna give me this money. He
didn't give me this money. He didn't pay me my
money back. Man By that don't matter. It only matters
between you and God. If you keep it between you
and God, that's all the accountability you need, and you'll

(01:31:29):
be a much happier, much successful person. Stop relying on
people because they ain't always gonna They are people now,
they are all human. Those are my closing remarks. Y'all
have yourself a great day to day. Talk to God today.
He would absolutely love to hear from you. And it
don't matter if it's been a while. A right, y'all

(01:31:50):
have a good one, Stay in peace for all.

Speaker 9 (01:31:57):
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