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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today show is pre recorded.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
All at all, So.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
Don't given all the million bus things and.

Speaker 4 (00:18):
Boozy yas listening to to.

Speaker 5 (00:38):
I don't joy joy?

Speaker 1 (00:59):
You know you.

Speaker 6 (01:06):
Love?

Speaker 3 (01:06):
You gotta turn I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
I got to turn the mouse.

Speaker 5 (01:42):
Turn You probably got to turn mouth to turn out,
to turn.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
A wd of the money up wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Come come out your think? Uh, I sure will. Good morning, everybody.
You are listening to the voice, come on dig me now,
one and all is Steve Harvey got a radio show
particling me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show

(02:17):
filled with nothing but joy and hope about it too.
You know, it's a great thing to be able to
wake up in the morning with peace in your heart
and joy. Peace and joy is immeasurable. It has a
value attached to it, and I have no idea what
it is. It's invaluable. It is worth so much more

(02:37):
than any amount of money you can make.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
Peace and joy. I have not always had that.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
I've not always been a peaceful person or a person
who lived his life and enjoy spirit. It took an
arrival at this moment. Some people arrived sooner than others.
I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but
I think it was necessary for me to learn a

(03:06):
few things too. That's the amazing thing I've learned about
life is that instead of reflecting on your past incidences
and calling them failures, instead of focusing on the negative
and calling them bad times, I look at them now

(03:27):
as experiences. I had to have those experiences that were negative,
that were good, positive, wrong, evil. I had to have
all those experiences to become to shape who we are today.
We all have to have them. If you look back
at all the negative experiences you've had, all the things

(03:50):
that you called failures, all the businesses I started that
went under, all of the jobs I had that I
was fired from, all the shows that were canceled, all
of the times I thought I was going to get
something happened in my way and turned out I didn't
get it at all. When you look at all of it,
all of it, hopefully along the way, what you have

(04:13):
done as a person is you've taken those negatives and
those failures and you've used them for what they actually are.
They are experiences, and they've now created in you an
experienced person and you know that is worth something. That's
then it becomes a positive. But what too many people

(04:37):
do is they let the negative things that have happened
in their life. They allow the failures that have happened
in them lives never to manifest themselves as experiences. And
you sit up there and you dwell on it, and
you dwell on it until you have this woe is
me attitude. Stop looking at it like that, y'all. You
go through things in order to become the person that

(05:00):
you are today. I'll tell you who you sometimes have
to sit down and talk to. Sometimes you ought to
sit down to an inmate that really gets it. An
inmate that says, man, I've actually heard inmates say it
to me and write to me, and they've said things like, man,
come into prison, save my life. Now, those of you
have never got how can he say a thing like that?

(05:22):
But some men know, man, I was so far out
there that if I'd have stayed out there, I wouldn't
even be here today. This actually allowed me to stop,
spend some time with myself and learn some things about me.
Now does that happen for everybody like that? And no,
But here's a person who was taking an experience that
could be considered a failure or negative and turn it

(05:43):
into a positive and using it to enrich their lives.
You can do it no matter what your set of
circumstances is. I recommend to everybody that you try changing
your outlook in order to change your outcome. Everything that
happens to you that's negative or you consider failure their experiences.
You've got to go through these things in order to
have the knowledge that you have today. So I wish

(06:07):
that I had come to this arrival that I'm in now,
this place of peace and joy, But then guess what,
I will not know what I know. I couldnot share
some of the things that I'm able to share if
I had not gone through some of them. And sometimes
that's the purpose of them, is to teach you a
lesson because you know, God has a plan for you,
He really really does, and eventually he can use you

(06:30):
no matter how old you are, and he can use
you no matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay,
I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine
ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God, what
do you want me to do? That's why I say
every day, Steve already got radio show, y'all, Cause, man,
I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming.

(06:51):
I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I
ain't seen half of the amazing things that are happened
to me. I didn't plan them. I was sitting there,
manking God for some direction. And then I got smart
enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker now because faithful,
our works is dead, and it came. And I'll remind
you of this. God has given all of you a gift.

(07:13):
Every last one of you listening has a gift. God
has never created a soul that he did not provide
a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a
gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts
are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who
really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift,

(07:35):
you know, and in that you can become great. You know,
a lot of people think that successful and greatness is
the same thing. Cornell West said it at my daughter's graduation.
He was a spokesperson and he said something so pointed.
He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness. The two

(07:57):
have nothing to do with each other. See people determined
success about money and fame and all this hell. But greatness.
Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money. It
ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's how
you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant you
become in your community, at your church, on your job,

(08:17):
to the cub Scout unit that you run, to the
little girl's lives, that you change that that little center
in the hood where you just one place of hope
to so many people and they come back. And I
used the example of Lou Dazzler who passed away in
LA who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club out
in La. And he wasn't a rich man at all,
and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know

(08:39):
who he was. But if you look at all the
people who have gone on to become politicians, who have
gone on to become CEOs, who have gone on to
become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building
in the hood in La, he was great. Trust me, man.
Prayer changes things. I said at all the time. But
when you see people become successful or great, that somebody

(09:02):
praying somewhere may not even beat them. Maybe it's they. Mama.
You know, I think of Tiger Woods and all the
greatness he's accomplished. You know, they always talk about his
father and all this. Here somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods.
I got cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama
is a praying woman or something. My mother was. She
prayed me into this place because she used to call

(09:24):
me all the time praying for you, boy, And prayer
changes things. It really does. Try it today. It can
change you. It has changed millions of people. Open up
yourself to the greatness that's in you, because God is
giving you a gift matter fact that you ain't using it.
Who fought you think that is? I'm just telling you
you got one, and if you start praying about it,

(09:47):
it'll manifest itself and you can become one or two things,
successful or great or both. You can make the decision. Today.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning, Shall.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention right now,
at this present time, you are experiencing a blessing, authenticated, originated,
produced by Heavenly Father. It is called right now. In

(10:22):
other words, it's a new date. He is the only
one who can do it, and he does a time
and time and time again. I feel like pop locking
like Kirk Franklin, I feel Fosswaw video. Kirk onstage was said,
come on boy, all right now, come on little James,

(10:45):
Ladies and gentlemen, this is Steve harper Morn the show.
Shelly Strawberry is out. I can't believe it. Junior's taking
her place. But the one and only calling for real
Mississippi Monica him the voice Junior and the legend that
is NEPHW Tommy Jr. What's on your mind today? I
got something on mind.

Speaker 7 (11:05):
What's on your mind? Let's just get it. What you're
thinking about me today?

Speaker 2 (11:09):
Well, I'm just hoping today go better than yesterday.

Speaker 7 (11:13):
Yes, they were great.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
I didn't a lot of ins and outs. Was real choppy.
We missed Shirley badly. Now we're gonna miss her anyway
cause of her voice. Your voice and her voice. It's
just such a different Junior. But we're gonna tolerated because
it's interesting radio. Now, what's on your mind?

Speaker 7 (11:32):
What's some mind that is that?

Speaker 8 (11:34):
I feel like you love me? But you don't feel
the same way about me that you do. Sure, I
feel like I am somebody just just stepping in.

Speaker 7 (11:39):
You don't feel the same way about me.

Speaker 2 (11:41):
Absolutely, you nailed it.

Speaker 7 (11:47):
Is this fair?

Speaker 1 (11:49):
I'm sorry? What is it?

Speaker 4 (11:51):
Fair?

Speaker 2 (11:51):
Caller?

Speaker 1 (11:54):
This is this show?

Speaker 2 (11:55):
So you're not You're not? Surely? How is I supposed
to feel the same way?

Speaker 4 (11:59):
Back?

Speaker 3 (12:00):
Close?

Speaker 7 (12:00):
Ain't I close?

Speaker 2 (12:01):
Close?

Speaker 7 (12:02):
How?

Speaker 2 (12:03):
First of all, you see on this zoom right now?

Speaker 8 (12:05):
Boys, you see there the voice, I'm close somewhere in
the neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
That's you so off. You ain't in the neighborhood. You
out of town.

Speaker 3 (12:19):
It's not close?

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 2 (12:21):
He at all? Ever?

Speaker 3 (12:24):
Wait?

Speaker 7 (12:25):
Man, if you wait, man, hold on. You don't see
the resimblance between me and Shirley in voice in.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
Voice, don't say see the resemblance between you and Chirvey.

Speaker 7 (12:34):
You got your in the boy?

Speaker 2 (12:35):
Did you see what your hands is right now? She
can't do that. M I see what you're saying. I
got you right, and it's a whole lot of stuff.
She got nice hair, pretty eyes and stuff.

Speaker 7 (12:49):
Voice here right now, this.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
Hand here, Well, you know, I mean you said you
just like Shelley. But you not you know, and it's
it's all right, junior. Just be yourself.

Speaker 7 (13:00):
Have faith in me today.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Just have faith in me. No that that that ain't
what I got to do. You got to have the faith.
I'm listening. My job ain't got nothing to do with
belief in you. Believe charves meself. I ain't got that.
I ain't finna believe in you. Then what sit up
here and watch you let me down? That's not what
I'm finna do.

Speaker 1 (13:22):
No let me down.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
Yeah, I'm not to set up here setting myself up
for failure. Ain't gonna telling what you're gonna do today.
But we will see.

Speaker 7 (13:30):
Okay, I got uncle, and I'm proud of you. Believe
in myself.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
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Speaker 7 (14:15):
Turn that prank back with the nephew, what you got?

Speaker 2 (14:18):
If you can.

Speaker 4 (14:18):
You hear me? Now, that's what we're gonna do. Cat dog,
if you fuld, let's run it. Hello, I'm trying to
speak to sister Lauren, please, my sister Lawen. This is
Brother David from the church. I don't know if you
know me. You might know me when you see me,
but I don't know if you just know me because
we don't really interact that much at the church. But
I wanted to give you a call. We got a

(14:39):
bit of a problem going on. Ok, Okay, you got
you get Do you have a minute to talk? All right?

Speaker 2 (14:46):
Now?

Speaker 4 (14:46):
How long have you been doing the h the sign
you in the you know, you in the ministry where
you do the sign language for the church, and you
know I notice you up there at least two sundays.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
Out of a the mind. You've been doing it quite
a while, am I right?

Speaker 11 (15:02):
So yes, I've been doing it for over ten years.
But I'm a little confused as to why they're calling
about this time. I'm just a little to confuse. I
don't know who you are. You say that if I
see your face, I may know you. But what does
this have to do with anything? Is how long I
have been doing sigh language? I know, okay, I've been
doing it for years? So how may I help you

(15:24):
with this? Do you want?

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (15:26):
So no, no, I'm not trying to learn any sign language.
Do you do you know miss everybody call him Miss Murder?
Do you know Miss Murdle?

Speaker 6 (15:34):
Oh?

Speaker 11 (15:34):
Yeah, I sure do, mm hmm okay.

Speaker 2 (15:37):
So Miss Murder.

Speaker 4 (15:38):
That's that's that's that's that's one of my aunties right there.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
Ms Murder lives.

Speaker 11 (15:43):
Okay, And she gave you my number to call me.
I'm what what do you need for me?

Speaker 12 (15:49):
Did she get me?

Speaker 6 (15:49):
No?

Speaker 4 (15:50):
No, That's what I'm getting at. So, so you know,
you know my you know, my honest is death. You
know she's hearing it pain?

Speaker 2 (15:55):
You know that? Right? Okay?

Speaker 11 (15:57):
Yes, uh, okay.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
So here's a problem.

Speaker 4 (16:00):
I ain't murderers telling us that you're not doing the
sign language right, doing the service and like you're missing
some things in the scripture or.

Speaker 11 (16:09):
Something that's incorrect. I've been doing this for a very
long time and I know what I'm doing. So how
you so she told you for me to tell me
that I'm not doing this Allline correctly, that's let me.

Speaker 4 (16:25):
Say, let me say this to you. I don't want
us to get off on the wrong for Let me
just say this to you. Once my once my aint
murder told us what was going on.

Speaker 2 (16:32):
You know.

Speaker 4 (16:33):
We then went to one of the deacons and asked him,
you know, is that way we can uh have a meeting,
you know, with with with Sister Lawrence so we can
try to get this taken care of and talk about it.
He said, well, won't you just won't you just call
and y'all can just work it out. And and that's
how I'm calling you now. I hope you I don't
know if you're at work or whatever. I apologize, but
I'm just trying to get to the bottom up Now,

(16:54):
let me go and say this. If my ain't murders
say that you ain't signing right, then Mi anie ain't lying.
That means your excuse me, that means you ain't signing right.

Speaker 11 (17:06):
Really, so the pastor couldn't come to me, but he
but you figured you would just call me and tell
me that your auntie says that I'm doing incorrectly. That
doesn't make sense to me. How does she tell you that?
Did she sign it to you?

Speaker 4 (17:20):
She signed languages to her daughter. Listen, you ain't got
to worry about who she's signing too. What you need
to worry about is getting your getting your stuff together
all right, and learning how to do this the correct
way so that my aintie can't get You know, Miami
needs to be getting the word like everybody else getting
the word, but she not getting it because you the
words getting lost in your hands.

Speaker 11 (17:41):
All I'm hearing is your voice is getting very loud
and you need to match my tone. Young man. Okay,
let's start with that. What you means that match my tone?
Because you're getting very loud and I can't hear through
all of that. All right, Okay, Okay, I say this
the situation you called my phone, correct. You have a

(18:04):
problem that you're discusting with me, but you're getting more
angry than anything else. How am I going to resolve
this problem? I am trying to be as course, the way.

Speaker 4 (18:12):
You resolved this problem is carry back to science school.
So you can learn what you need to so my
any can get the word. My ainty can't get the
gospel because you messing it up.

Speaker 11 (18:22):
God anointed me to do style language at that church,
and I've been doing this for a long time and
I will continue to do so. Don't call my phone
telling me that I'm not doing something right? You know?

Speaker 6 (18:33):
But do God know.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
That you're not doing it right? Do God know that?
Does God know that my ain't myrtle not getting the
work because of you?

Speaker 2 (18:43):
Name?

Speaker 11 (18:43):
Young man? Jesus, Please give me the strength to continue
on with this conversation. But you know what, Lord, I'm
gonna be right back. Let me tell you something. Don't
you ever call my mother freaking phone telling about I
ain't doing something?

Speaker 6 (18:58):
Man?

Speaker 11 (18:59):
If I see you in there, this can't I have
this gonna.

Speaker 13 (19:01):
Go upside your God?

Speaker 11 (19:02):
Damn that did I miss myself?

Speaker 13 (19:04):
Clear?

Speaker 2 (19:05):
I cannot believe you talking to me like this.

Speaker 11 (19:08):
Oh now you want to be calm? Now you're calm?
Now you match my tone.

Speaker 6 (19:12):
I don't gained.

Speaker 2 (19:13):
I can't believe you just got you talking to me
like that?

Speaker 11 (19:16):
Are we done here?

Speaker 4 (19:17):
So you think it's cool for you to tell the Lord?
I be right back Thank you, Lord. I needed a
moment you.

Speaker 11 (19:24):
We've been on the stone in this world.

Speaker 13 (19:26):
You've been swing at me.

Speaker 11 (19:27):
I told you to match my tone. Match my tone.

Speaker 2 (19:31):
I am matching your tone. No can I say?

Speaker 7 (19:35):
Can I?

Speaker 2 (19:36):
Can I give you something else in this tone?

Speaker 1 (19:38):
Do you mind?

Speaker 2 (19:39):
If I say something in this tone?

Speaker 11 (19:41):
You're gonna hear a click and the dog real quick.

Speaker 12 (19:43):
Go ahead.

Speaker 4 (19:44):
I just want to tell you in this tone that
your friend von de Taylor got me to prank phone
call you. I am nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey
Morning Show.

Speaker 14 (19:54):
In your tone, have mercy, Bonda, Bonda Taylor, Bonda Taylor,
tell met I put this on the radio, on the radio.

Speaker 11 (20:09):
Bond in Jesus name, Amen radio. I'm not playing in
the game time. I think it's funny, but this is
my job here.

Speaker 2 (20:19):
Listen, everything is fine.

Speaker 11 (20:22):
You haven't doing there. I have to tell Jesus give
me a minute, because you was about to be my
pressure of Lord, has mercy. I don't even want to
hear this, but I will be calling Bonda because I
have some merch. Oh Lord, Lord, Lord Father, please forgive me.

Speaker 2 (20:38):
Okay, you gotta you gotta do this for me.

Speaker 4 (20:40):
In my tone, in my tone, and tell me in
your tone, what is the baddest radio show in the land?

Speaker 2 (20:46):
In your tone.

Speaker 11 (20:51):
In my tone.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
Right there, that's what I do. I'll be back in
another hour to do it again.

Speaker 4 (21:03):
Okay, Yeah, because my job is to be stupid, and
I'm gonna stand up on that.

Speaker 2 (21:09):
Stand up on stupid. You stand up on standing on
that's damn.

Speaker 4 (21:13):
When I stand on stupid, I'm standing on business. You
see what I'm saying. That's that's that's my business. I'm
in the stupid business. That's what I do.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Nobody stupid stand as all.

Speaker 7 (21:26):
Sinking of you.

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Speaker 1 (22:01):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 10 (22:02):
And entertainment news Jay Z denies allegations that he's sexually
assaulted a thirteen year old girl with Diddy.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
Yeah yeah.

Speaker 10 (22:12):
President elect Trump has a new cologne called Fight Fight Fight,
And if we get to it, to go slow, right
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Speaker 2 (22:22):
Why would I want to smell like I've been fighting?

Speaker 10 (22:25):
Right, We'll talk about these stories at the top of
the hour, but right now it's time to ask the clo. Okay, clo.
Lenisia in Detroit. She says, I'm fifty nine and recently divorced.
My daughter is always at my house because she thinks
I'm sad and lonely. I don't want her to know
that I have a new man already, so I need

(22:48):
her to stop popping up over here. Should I tell
her that I've moved on?

Speaker 12 (22:54):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (22:54):
Menia, I mean, you know you grown? Why nothing? You
gotta quit pop up over here for you mess around,
need therapy. You don't pop up over here and find out,
you know, find out. Yeah, that's right, you haven't mess around,
find out how you got here because I'm doing things,

(23:15):
you know, so I don't as a mother, do I
think you should just say, hey, look, I need my privacy.
I'm seeing someone because you know what, here's What people
don't understand about divorce people talking about, man, they seeing
somebody already divorce is when the courts give you the date,
the marriage been over, right, Okay, that's just the legalization

(23:36):
by the court. The marriage been over. So it's unfair
when people go, they just got divorced last weekend, not
next month. And she's seeing somebody already now, Man, that
marriage been over long time ago.

Speaker 1 (23:48):
Because people say they ain't ain't even dry on a divorce, But.

Speaker 2 (23:52):
Hell no, it ain't gonna be dry. I was doing
something when they were writing it. It wasn't even damn dry,
nothing to blow on yet he was already stop all right.

Speaker 10 (24:09):
To Meka in San Diego, she says, this really fine
and handsome guy flirted with me all night at the club.
He followed me to my car at the end of
the night and he tried to have sex with me
in my car.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
I said no.

Speaker 10 (24:24):
He said he doesn't normally do stuff like that, but
I did something to him. He asked me out on
a date. So should I see where this goes?

Speaker 2 (24:35):
Oh, I'm already tell you where it's going to. Damn
near went there in the parking lot of the car.
Where do you think is going, we know what you did.
Then he lied to you when he said I don't
normally do that. You look, look here, look here, look here.
If you're a grown man and you at a club,
you follow a girl to a car because she did
something to you in the club, and you try to
have sex with her in a car, and then you say,

(24:55):
I don't normally do this. Right here, we sure was comfortable.
H but I do this man, little girl, See where
it's gonna go. It's gonna go right where he tried
to get it to go in the parking lot. Why y'all,
Why y'all think if that was his objective in the
parcket lot, why would his objective change? That's the end

(25:21):
game for him. I don't normally do this. That's a lie.
He's done it a whole lot of times, so he's lying.
Huh it didn't work before?

Speaker 6 (25:33):
Ye?

Speaker 1 (25:34):
So should she see where this goes? Let it go?
Or you're saying he's.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
Showing her, tetting her where it's going. He showed you
who he is? Yeah? Yeah, what's to saying if a
person shows you who they are, believe in Yep?

Speaker 1 (25:50):
So there it is to Mika, all right, let's help.
Melanie in Dayton.

Speaker 10 (25:54):
My boyfriend had just had a baby by another woman
when we started dating. The girl's family calls me a homewreckerd,
but I had no idea what was going on. I'm
about to marry this man and they're still hating on me.
Why not be mad at him?

Speaker 2 (26:13):
No, listen, listen, listen. The girl's family is still hating
on you that he had the baby by, so they're
not finn change. You cannot control what another person thinks,
you can control how you react to it. Now, that's

(26:34):
a tough lesson to learn, and it took me a
long time to get that one. So I'm just giving
you some old head advice. You know, early on in
your life you can't control what people say or think
about you, but you can control your reaction to it.
Live your life. They didn't know, You didn't know, and

(26:57):
I really believe you didn't know. Record he wasn't in
the home, He wasn't finna do man. Yeah, yeah, that
wasn't about to happen, So I would I would just
go on about your business and and then and then
don't want them to shift the blame. See, you just
wanted off you. Why not hate him, see right there?

(27:19):
What you want him to hate? Your husband?

Speaker 1 (27:22):
Well, boyfriend, this is her boyfriend.

Speaker 10 (27:24):
They're not married yet, but she said when they started
dating he had a baby by another woman, and so
the family is just hating her, calling her home record
because he don't want to be with the baby mama.

Speaker 2 (27:35):
That's what that is. Hello, and that's him. But you know,
people always got to find the reason. If you wasn't
over there, he would be. That's not true. If a
person don't have to call some shots man man with you,
it's that person's decision, right right.

Speaker 1 (27:56):
You don't want to be with her, that's it?

Speaker 10 (27:58):
Yeah, yeah, all right, you're done with Melanie.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
Let's move on to Carson in Omaha. My son is.

Speaker 10 (28:07):
Twenty one and when his girlfriend turns twenty one, he
wants to propose. They've been dating since middle school, so
I think they need a break from each other before
they get married. My son is hurt because I don't
support his decision.

Speaker 1 (28:23):
Am I wrong?

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Well, listen to me. All you doing is trying to
advise him as to dad, getting married at twenty one
is tough. You've been dating since middle school. You ain't
experienced no life y'all been in this relationship or let
me just give you this piece of advice here. No person,

(28:50):
no human being, man, woman, boy, or girl gets through
this life without temptation. You're not gonna get out of
here without that. Temptation is probably the greatest tool of sin.
It's the temptation. You are constantly tempted to do this

(29:11):
or that, right or wrong, or left or right. You
are constantly faced with the temptation of knowing what's best,
but looking at what's wrong. Lord him, miss, If.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
Love and you is wrong, be you right right now?

Speaker 2 (29:31):
Nor you don't understand? They got solve everything back in
the day. Yeah, yeah, if loving you is wrong, I
don't want to be right. See right there? So yeah,
you got it. You got a problem. You have a problem.
So tell his son what's the Hey man, I'm just
telling you from life experience what I know. But then

(29:51):
you can't stop Carson. He gonna want to propose to her,
you know when it wasn't early, man, Okay, he ain't
seen nothing yet, God, nothing yet. So much.

Speaker 8 (30:10):
Lord, temptation make you clo covered up. Next entertainment news.

Speaker 1 (30:18):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 8 (30:22):
Everybody's time for Entertainment news Carlor, What is going on
with jay Z?

Speaker 10 (30:26):
What is this that's happening with jay jay Z's attorneys
have filed a motion to dismiss this sexual assault lawsuit,
which was.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
Bought by Houston attorney.

Speaker 10 (30:38):
Houston based attorney Tony Buzzby on behalf of a then
fourteen years yes yes, yes, Houston Yeah, Houston attorney Tony
Buzzby on behalf of a then thirteen year old girl
who says that back in two thousand, jay Z and
Diddy raped her at a BMA's after party. The motion

(30:58):
says that Buzzby has been hounding jay Z behind the
scenes for months and only now that after jay refused
to pay, did the woman file suit. Jay also thinks
that Jane Doe's name, this is the woman, obviously she's
a grown woman now should be made public. The plaintiff

(31:19):
has provided no evidence, no affidavit, declaration, or specific factual
support to establish the kind of severe harm necessary to
justify the sunimity.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
Of a name.

Speaker 10 (31:34):
So it's kind of like that someone uses an alias name.
So jay Z wants to know what is her name? So,
in a statement addressed to CNN, jay Z called the
allegations so heinous in nature that I employ you to
follow criminal complaint, not a civil one. Whomever would commit

(31:54):
such a crime against a minor should be locked away, would.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
You not agree? Quote That's what jay Z said in
the statement to CNN.

Speaker 10 (32:02):
Jay Z also said in a written statement, my only
heartbreak is for my family, My wife Beyonce, and I
will have to sit our children down, one of whom
is at the age where her friends will surely see
that the press, see it in the press and ask
questions about the nature of these claims and explain the

(32:23):
cruelty and greed of people. I'm more and yet another
loss of innocence. He went on to say that children
should not have to endure such a crime at such
a young age, and it's unfair the degrees of malicement
to destroy families and human spirit in quote in part.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
Meanwhile, jay Z and.

Speaker 10 (32:43):
Beyonce and their family, they made it a family affair.
Last night they supported their daughter Blue Ivy on the
red carpet of the Disney movie Mufasa, which both Blue
Ivy is doing voice she's a voice actress for that movie,
and Yonce.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
So there you go.

Speaker 2 (33:04):
Here's the part that's really really nasty. In this whole thing,
we're talking twenty four years, we're talking A person does
this anonymously, and you file a civil suit, which is
unlike a criminal suit in that because in the criminal
suit you have to have the burden of proof. In

(33:26):
a civil suit, the burden of proof is half less
than that. And what happens with a lot of these people, y'all,
this is what happens with a lot of people. A
lot of people get guys like this guy right here,
this is his specialty, get some charges together in hopes

(33:50):
of suddenly so it just goes away. But as jay
Z said, don't you think someone who would do something
so heinous should be locked away? Yeah, because if you
do something to my daughter like that, I want prison time.
I don't want your check. But now it's this Sybil
is asking for a check. What's unfair, what is blatantly unfair,

(34:16):
is that this accuser, who may be completely fictitious and
made up, gets to hide under Jane Doe. And then
once this goes away, the damage has been done to
jay Z and they get to skip to the lou
my dollar. Well, we didn't get the money. We just

(34:36):
go on about our business. They should come up with
the law when you falsely accuse somebody or something and
it turns out not to be true, that should be
a penalty you gotta face some time too. That's the
thing I hate about this one right here, man, because
it can be that way, you know, and just people

(34:58):
people need to look at that too. And so, now,
if a crime was committed, like jay Z said, that
person should a thirteen year old, you should be under
the jail.

Speaker 10 (35:10):
Blow under the jail. That's unthinkable. Sexual assault of a child,
a thirteen year old. So I mean, you know, justice
for the victims if this crime actually occurred.

Speaker 2 (35:21):
And so because of the world we live in, it
makes you question everything twenty four years later because here's
what has the little tangent it. It's that lawyer that's it.
This is his specialty. Yeah, yeah, this is his specialty.
And now this man's family got to deal with this,

(35:43):
and ain't nobody got no proof. Ain't nobody came forward
with nothing. They just saying this is what happened, and
you you lump it together with somebody who's guilty of
some things. I don't like this one at all, man.
This is I don't I don't like it. You know. Now,
if you got proof, then let's see it.

Speaker 10 (36:02):
Yeah, jay Z says this is a blackmail attempt. The
attorney contacted him and basically tried to get him to
give money, and when he didn't give up the money,
you know, we're gonna release your name and all these things.
And he jay Z said, all celebrities aren't alike, you know.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
So right, And you know that's that's what's hurtful in
this whole thing, and and and and it's coming from
this guy who this is his im. I'm just y'all.
And then you know, you look at some of these
blogs and y'all just a ran win it already that
he go, They all, Man, Yeah, and here's a guy

(36:41):
man that ain't really had no JJ had nothing like
that attached to him nowhere.

Speaker 10 (36:51):
Yeah, you know, this is an ongoing breaking news story.
We'll keep an eye out.

Speaker 7 (36:57):
Praying for his family too.

Speaker 8 (36:58):
Man, come up at twenty minutes after that hour, what
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Speaker 7 (37:02):
Okay, we'll talk about it at twenty minutes after.

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Speaker 7 (38:25):
This switch gears?

Speaker 11 (38:26):
Uh?

Speaker 8 (38:26):
You know, kids everywhere are putting together their list for Santas.

Speaker 7 (38:31):
So here's the question.

Speaker 8 (38:33):
What gift or gifts are you really really hoping for
this year? Or what's one thing you would improve in
your life for the most?

Speaker 7 (38:41):
This is which one?

Speaker 2 (38:43):
What gifts? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (38:45):
What gift or gift you looking for this year? What
would make you happy? Right now?

Speaker 2 (38:48):
What's the gift? Come?

Speaker 4 (38:50):
If I can get my kids not to ask me
for something that that would be a gift within yourself.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
Just don't ask me for that. They got every damn
thing I done. Gave them too much?

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Oh that's what you feel, you really feel that way down?

Speaker 2 (39:03):
They got everything? What else?

Speaker 10 (39:05):
But I mean, I'm gonna give them some h like
a token gift or you're gonna really go out for
their Christmas list?

Speaker 4 (39:12):
No, and you can kill it list out of top
you kill it list. One gift put child and one
gift card put child, and you're gonna get whatever else
you want.

Speaker 1 (39:23):
What I want to see?

Speaker 2 (39:24):
How you pulling that off?

Speaker 6 (39:25):
One?

Speaker 2 (39:27):
I'm trying. I'm trying. Dog, Lena, ask you a question,
how old is Jordan going? Thirteen? Okay? Let's see how that. Yeah,
I know, I know, I'm just talking her.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
Yeah yeah, just running your mouth child.

Speaker 6 (39:43):
You know.

Speaker 4 (39:43):
Well, come on, Amazon, let's get it crack again. Give
you it's a good question for you to answer me. Yeah,
one gift.

Speaker 8 (39:55):
I won't That's what we.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
Ask what you wanted? Nobody said you ain't gonna get
from golf club. Though.

Speaker 7 (40:05):
I want a fence too.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
I want still trying to get the fence. What's the
hold up on the fence? What's what?

Speaker 10 (40:13):
Well?

Speaker 2 (40:13):
What your dog wants a fence too, So so we
can go outside.

Speaker 1 (40:18):
Everybody in the family.

Speaker 2 (40:20):
Damn, everybody want you need to put something in the backyard,
to have fence in patio, back the something? What about you?
What you want?

Speaker 7 (40:30):
What's to give you want?

Speaker 2 (40:31):
What is it? I ain't gonna get what I want?

Speaker 1 (40:33):
What do you want? See?

Speaker 2 (40:35):
What do you want? I want an airplane? Any more questions?

Speaker 10 (40:39):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Oh wow, okay, any any more damn question. Let's get
you a nice drone, A nice one all right? Here
sat across, slide that under the tree. We be.

Speaker 8 (40:54):
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Speaker 1 (41:00):
Eight, we'll be back.

Speaker 15 (41:02):
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Speaker 10 (41:06):
Trying to check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,
you can call, leave a message and you might just
hear your phone call on the air. Are you ready, suh?

Speaker 2 (41:18):
Stay ready?

Speaker 1 (41:19):
All right? This caller left a message about Junior.

Speaker 12 (41:23):
I have listening to your radio show on December the
night Monday, that is. And I'm just curious Junior, that
is I guess the ann for today because it so
I need him to live enough in a voice a
little bit, make it seem like he is excited to
be there and let's have a good time.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
Yeah. So now let's see how you handle critique and Junior,
because I felt the same way, I thought it very right.
Now go ahead.

Speaker 8 (41:59):
You Okay, First of all, I'm doing all I can.
First of all, Okay, what's getting me and what stopped
me is all this reading I'm doing. See, I don't
I don't know how to read, and I don't know.
I'll never do this. All this reading is in the way,
is what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (42:17):
Okay, but do it anyway.

Speaker 7 (42:21):
That's what Sureley do.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
It's the reading that's bothering you. Why don't you read it?
Because it ain't. It ain't like three paragraphs? Why don't
you read it? Memorize it? And then saying.

Speaker 7 (42:34):
Why would I do that?

Speaker 2 (42:36):
It's people get scripts all the time. See you ever
seen Denzel walking on the movie screen with the paper
in and hand? Okay, if he can remember a whole
damn movie, how you can remember? Hey coming up next?
Jowberry letters?

Speaker 7 (42:53):
Hell, let me ask you this, U, what movie have
you seen me in?

Speaker 8 (43:01):
I ain't got Therefore I must not be a good
actor because I ain't want remember I remember I don't
get the job for Santa Claus.

Speaker 7 (43:07):
Remember how the pressed I was They didn't give me
the job.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Last year Santa Claus. What you auditioned for a movie
to be.

Speaker 7 (43:12):
Saying to be Santa Claus?

Speaker 2 (43:14):
And they said not, I'm all to be Santa Claus.
That's why you ain't get the park.

Speaker 7 (43:18):
I can tell you the other part. I wasn't good
at reading.

Speaker 2 (43:22):
So you're going to know what this lady is saying.
Let's do the next call off? Picky energy up because
you are up.

Speaker 7 (43:29):
I'm excited to be here.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
Go ahead, you call it next car.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
Going, But Junior, you're here. What the lady is saying right.

Speaker 7 (43:38):
The lady ain't got to read this show either, but
you know.

Speaker 2 (43:41):
The do it though?

Speaker 1 (43:45):
All right, were losing, let's just stopping, yeah, because.

Speaker 7 (43:51):
Go ahead.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
This is d from Florida.

Speaker 10 (43:53):
She has a question Steve for you about President elect
Donald Trump.

Speaker 13 (43:57):
I see Carla Thomas, Shirley or good morning. Sending you
all blessings, love and light. This is the from Florida.
I wanted to ask you questions Steve, as you all
was talking about what we could expect from Trump and
how he's parting January sixth, perists. I will never understand

(44:18):
the hypocrisy of our democracy. For one, but isn't this
the same president that as a nation we impeached when
he was in office last time? So I just wanted
to know what your thoughts like, how can a former
president that once was impeached get that power again. I
just just want to get your thoughts as it sings

(44:39):
that people forgot that he was impeached and how can.

Speaker 11 (44:43):
We get that going again again.

Speaker 13 (44:45):
I love you all, sending you blessings, love and light
from Florida. I love you guys on the radios, listen
to you every day.

Speaker 2 (44:52):
God blessed well. From my standpoint, I tell you, ma'am,
I'm through hating on Trump. He is the president. He
got elected. I did everything in our power to get
Kamala Harris elected. The American public by over five million
votes decided that's not what they wanted. So now they

(45:13):
have to sit here and deal with the repercussions. As
far as did they forget he was impeached? Well, did
they was? Did they forget he was convicted of sexual assault?
Did they forget he said he grabbed women by the peak?
Did they forget he had thirty four felony convictions? Did

(45:34):
they forget that when he was president, before he doubled
the debt of the United States? Did they forget all
of that? Yeah, and they voted him in anyway, they
didn't forget. They just don't care.

Speaker 7 (45:47):
Well, in the words of the lady, let me just
do this right now. Coming up next, Nephew Thomas prank
phone call.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
Right after this good energy, yay, whoa much.

Speaker 8 (45:59):
Better Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming at
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today's Strawberry letter is pack a bag and a snack
because you ain't coming back.

Speaker 7 (46:12):
That's it, all right, thank what you got, man?

Speaker 2 (46:16):
What you do right now? Today? I got no halwed,
no hawed? All right? Gehead here.

Speaker 4 (46:26):
So fall your beautiful ladies. That were excellent hair. I
love the way you look, whether it's natural all weed.
This right here is called no haw weed. No how
we If you show up at work with it, you're done.
Let's go catch up.

Speaker 10 (46:44):
Hello.

Speaker 6 (46:45):
Hello, I'm trying to reach Reesa. Please Reesa, Hia. My
name is Byron, Byron from the job. How are you?
I'm okay, I'm good. Listen. I hate to call you
after hours at your home, but there has been some
new issues that will be going into effect. That was
just tomorrow morning, and we're calling everyone letting them know

(47:05):
the new changes that have been issued that will take
effect first thing tomorrow morning. So we're giving everyone a call.
So don't be alarmed. It's just give me a call
letting you know what the what the higher ups have changed.

Speaker 16 (47:17):
Okay, Okay, there's no problemsten, Okay.

Speaker 6 (47:20):
As of tomorrow, what's gonna happen is when you guys
come in, you'll be issued a new key card, and
that particular card will actually registers when you come in
and go out. Okay, okay, all right. Second one is
there will no longer be any personal internet at the
job any longer. You won't be able They're actually putting
a block on all computers. All the computers will no

(47:41):
longer be able to go to a lot of these
sites that you guys go to that you've been that's
been available here in the past. Okay, okay, all right.
The last one is reesa do you do you wear
a hair weave? What do you wear a hair weave
or a wig?

Speaker 10 (47:59):
Yes?

Speaker 6 (48:00):
Okay, Well here's one thing and hopefully you can get
this change about tomorrow. There's no weaves or hair are
wigs going to be allowed at the job site from
this point on? So as of tomorrow morning, everyone must
be wearing their natural hair.

Speaker 3 (48:16):
You're joking.

Speaker 6 (48:17):
No, these are the issues that are going to be
that are instated, and these are going to take effect
as of tomorrow morning, seven o'clock.

Speaker 16 (48:24):
What does hair weaves to have to do with any
of these changes? The first two I can understand punching
in and being on the internet, Yes, that's something that
that corporate, But hair weaves and weeks you're getting.

Speaker 6 (48:36):
Into change in the high up start, they're looking down
upon it. Wigs and hair weaves they have to go.
So I'm assuming that if you, like you said, you
do have one, I suggest it doesn't come out. You
start taking it down now and prepare your hair to
be natural as you come into work tomorrow.

Speaker 16 (48:56):
I'm not taking my hair down. I've been here seven
years and I've dealt with all the change just that
y'all have made. But there's no way that I'm taking
my hair weave down. I'm sorry. What's your name, Byron?

Speaker 6 (49:06):
Yes, my name is Byron, and.

Speaker 16 (49:09):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
Let's get back to your weave. This has You're gonna
have to do something. Is there someone that you can
call tonight to help you get your hair down and
so you can look presentable with your natural hair tomorrow.

Speaker 16 (49:20):
No, my weave colls over two three hundred dollars and
I'm not about to take that down. I mean, it
takes a long time to take that down.

Speaker 6 (49:28):
Okay, I mean, is this something Maybe you can take
it down and just wear it on the weekends because
as of now, you're not going to be allowed to
actually wear it on the property.

Speaker 16 (49:38):
And how will you know if someone has weave or not?
Are you gonna do hair checks or something.

Speaker 6 (49:43):
Okay, ma'am. I'm not quite sure what they're going to
do to check it. But by you telling me that
you have a weave, then I have to write it
down that you have confirmed that you do, and we
got to make sure that tomorrow morning you're not wearing one.

Speaker 16 (49:58):
But you don't know what my natural hair looks. It's
like from my wave. Are you heard how much I
pay for it?

Speaker 2 (50:03):
So it's a good wave, ma'am.

Speaker 6 (50:05):
It's not about how good you know with the quality
of your weave or anything. They don't want it. They
want natural hair. I don't know what that means. But
they're going natural. They're going green, they're going natural. I
don't know what it is. They're going natural, and so
will you. Tomorrow morning you need to come in with
your hair completely down. Okay, I won't do it.

Speaker 16 (50:24):
I'm not taking my weave now.

Speaker 6 (50:26):
Okay, Then what is that y'all gonna write me up
or something? Okay, ma'am. Do you not want your job?

Speaker 2 (50:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 16 (50:31):
I want my job, but this don't make no sense.
You're talking about personal appearance. I can understand y'all have
a dress coach and enforcing a dress code that's one thing,
but telling somebody to change. Aw you lost your mind. Man,
You're crazy, ma'am.

Speaker 6 (50:46):
I'm not good. I have other people that I have
to call. Bottom line is get your hat out and
get your butt into work tomorrow, and let's not go
back and forth anymore.

Speaker 16 (50:54):
Okay, Well, listen, by Ranch, you're a lost mine. If
you're thinking I'm taking my weave out, I'm not taking
out at all. Resa is coming up in there with
her hair and I'm gonna sit down at my desk
and do my jobs. Y'all gonna have to drag me
up at some weeds. You know, lost your mind. You
and your powers that be or whoever.

Speaker 13 (51:15):
They may be.

Speaker 6 (51:16):
You tell them that I said that way an wait
a minute, listen, are you telling me that you're coming
in regardless with your hair on you?

Speaker 16 (51:24):
That's what I just said.

Speaker 6 (51:28):
Then then we need to Why don't you go ahead
and bring some boxes in because your man, I'm not
you bring this man. I don't want to have to pack.
You get your stuff and box it up, and you're
losing your job because you can't take what.

Speaker 16 (51:41):
You can do that because I'm gonna call the news
station and tell them you're dragging me out of behind
some weeds. You're wrong, you wrong, You're wrong, you stupid
behind weed an.

Speaker 6 (51:52):
You need to watch your language, young lady.

Speaker 16 (51:53):
Why I need to watch my language?

Speaker 1 (51:55):
I'm at home.

Speaker 16 (51:55):
You call me on my own home phone on my time.

Speaker 6 (51:59):
I'm at my house.

Speaker 12 (52:00):
I'm not on your block.

Speaker 16 (52:01):
I say what I want to say on my phone.

Speaker 6 (52:03):
Okay? Can I say what I want on my phone
and then I'll let you go and you can come
into the work anywhere you want to tomorrow. What is it, Bima?

Speaker 16 (52:10):
What else you got to say?

Speaker 6 (52:11):
I want to tell you. I want to tell you
that your girlfriend, Jennifer at your job got me the
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More than your Jennifer, your coworker, got me the prank
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You know that place, that place that my uncle said
he done sold like sem eight times straight.

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The people, all the folk can't get in. Excuse whate
some twenty two times?

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You staying excuse me?

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What seven eight eight?

Speaker 2 (53:56):
I've been there eight times, but I sold out twenty two.

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Sold out the dark Constitution Hall twenty two times.

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Shows worked at it, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah,
y'all have multiple shows in the night. Yeah yeah wow.
So let me say this.

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The one Tony Robbers, Lance wood Read, Red Grand lou
Neil Bruce, Bruce and yours tutor were trying to sell
out this one time.

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That's what we're trying to do. We're just trying to do.

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Just trying to do this one December twenty eight, hosted
by yours Tooting your normal, be stupid, you normal, throw
a party, you normal, act the food. Come on, come on,
get your tickets and come have a good time. Right
after Crystal, this ain't twenty two times. This ain't no,
It's just why do you trying to start somewhere?

Speaker 2 (54:43):
Do you gotta do one and then you do two?
You know you gotta start something.

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How did you get the tweet?

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I'm just being that's real talk, because sold out the dog.
You know, yeah, you know, unk been doing this long
ass time.

Speaker 8 (54:58):
How hard is Junior twenty two times? Because ain't nobody
broke that recor again?

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How hard is it?

Speaker 4 (55:02):
Well?

Speaker 3 (55:02):
How hard is it?

Speaker 4 (55:03):
Do one?

Speaker 6 (55:04):
Hell?

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Look pretty well? Inch by inch anythings that since you
got to sell out one for first, you got to
get out them clubs. That's for starters. First, you got
to sell all them clubs out. Then move on up.
I'm a whole another story, right all right?

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If you thank you man?

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Coming up next, Jowberry Letters, the subject pack a bag
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gonna read this one right here, right now, and you
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Speaker 7 (56:19):
It could be yours. Ladies and gentlemen.

Speaker 8 (56:21):
It is time for the Strawberry Letter with my good
friend Shirley Strawberry.

Speaker 15 (56:25):
Thank you, my good friend.

Speaker 9 (56:26):
Junior subject, pack a bag and a snack because you
ain't coming back. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm eating a going
ben because you ain't going back.

Speaker 1 (56:37):
Right, let me do that again.

Speaker 15 (56:38):
Subjects, pack a bag and a snipe. That ain't you know?

Speaker 9 (56:41):
Kind of threw me. Pack a bag and a snack
because you ain't going back. Okay, how do you like that, Junior?

Speaker 2 (56:47):
I love it a little bit more better for you.
Pack a bag uh huh and a snack uh huh.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
Cause your.

Speaker 2 (57:01):
Sad?

Speaker 15 (57:05):
All right, thank you, Steve.

Speaker 9 (57:07):
Dude, Stephen Shirley, I'm dating a new guy that is
either really crazy about me or he's Craig Cray in
real life. He can't seem to get enough of me
and wants to be in my face. Twenty four to seven,
he was married eight years and said he can't live
without companionship. His house is forty five minutes from mine,
so when we go on dates, he either sleeps in

(57:30):
my guest room or I sleep in his, depending on
whose area we spend time in.

Speaker 15 (57:35):
I work from home, so I'm always able to work
from his home.

Speaker 9 (57:39):
Two weeks ago, he invited me to a white party
and he said to quote, pack a bag and a
snack because you ain't going back.

Speaker 15 (57:46):
He wasn't joking, and I've been at his house for
two weeks.

Speaker 9 (57:50):
He drove me home to pick up some clothes and
water my plants, and I had to get my mail
stopped in everything. He has fixed the guest room up
for me, and he brought all of my favorite I
think he might really like me because he doesn't pressure
me for sex and he lets me sleep peacefully in
my own room. He cooks breakfast most of the time,

(58:10):
and we have been cooking dinner together. The question I've
been asking him is where is this going. He can't
give me a straight answer. He just says this is
a trial period to see if we are compatible. I'm
thirty four and he's thirty nine, and both of us
are still in our prime. So that fact that he
is locked in on me so quickly it's interesting. I

(58:34):
don't doubt that he could be the one, but he's
treating me more like a roommate. I sometimes lie in
the guest room and wonder why he's not trying to
sneak in and make love to me. We have done
it a few times and it's really good, but it's
like he's rationing it out. Is this a good thing
or is this weird to you? I want to know
what he's doing in the other bedroom at night? How

(58:57):
do I get him to open up to me? Okay,
I think this is a little weird.

Speaker 3 (59:02):
I really do.

Speaker 15 (59:03):
You don't think so?

Speaker 9 (59:04):
I mean, who basically orders someone to pack snacks because
they're not going back.

Speaker 15 (59:08):
To their own home?

Speaker 1 (59:10):
Is that what you want?

Speaker 9 (59:12):
It just doesn't sound like that's what you want to me.
I think he has pretty much kidnapped you. That's what
it sounds like. For lack of a better term, I
think it's all because he's uncomfortable, very uncomfortable being by himself,
and that's why he's not bothering you at night or
any time, because he just needs a body in the
house with him.

Speaker 1 (59:32):
But you do know that you can go home at
any time, right?

Speaker 3 (59:36):
You do know this?

Speaker 9 (59:38):
He says it's a trial period to see if you
guys are compatible. When you ask, but what is this
trial period for? I mean, is it for marriage? Are
you trying to be in a serious relationship? It sounds
like he just wants you as a roommate. You said
that yourself, But again, what do you want?

Speaker 1 (59:58):
And you should have a say?

Speaker 9 (01:00:00):
And how long you want this trial to go on,
you don't just have to ask him and get his answer.
And if you want to continue to participate in this
so called trial period, you should have an opinion on that.
In other words, this should have been a joint decision.
Tell him you're going home, and that you want to
go home and see what he says and how he acts.

(01:00:22):
If he throws a fit or doesn't want to take you, yeah,
he's crazy and you need to leave asap.

Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
I just think you need to.

Speaker 9 (01:00:30):
Think about what you want, and only you can determine
that if you want to leave, leave, Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
I want to say something about Pete. People ask me
all the time, Steve. Y'all be writing strawberry letters, y'all self?
Who still can do this right here?

Speaker 3 (01:00:43):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (01:00:44):
Who you know can think of this right here? These
people with real life, real situation. I'll be just as
stunned as y'all are me.

Speaker 1 (01:00:51):
And going, what the hell you know? I'm stunned.

Speaker 2 (01:00:56):
Pack a bag and a snack because you ain't going back. Okay. Now,
come to find out later in the letter that this
woman is thirty four to dude thirty nine. Now you're
dating this new guy that's really crazy about you, or
he's cray cray in real life. He can't get enough.

Speaker 1 (01:01:13):
Time with me.

Speaker 2 (01:01:13):
He wants to be in your face. Twenty four seven,
he was married eight years. Said he can't live without companionship.
Now this is a fact. He cannot live with our companionship.
Now listen to me. Now, I think he's going to
prove to you that he is needy. This man is needy. Now,

(01:01:34):
when a man tell you he can't live with our companion,
he can't be alone. I can't stand to be by myself.
That's one red flag, red flag stuck in the ground.
Now what you're doing with these red flag is you're
collecting them. You're picking them up, putting them in the
back seat of your car. Steady riding with him. But
that was the first red flag. His house is forty

(01:01:55):
five minutes for mine, so when we go on dates,
he just sleeps in my guest room or I sleep
in here, depending on who's there. We spend time in
a work from house, so I'm always able to work
from home. Two weeks ago, y'all got invited to a
white party. He said, pack a bag and a snack
because you ain't going back. Really, what the hell you mean. Now,

(01:02:15):
you ain't asked no questions right there, right there, you
ain't say, wait minute, well, what you mean? I ain't
going down? I got a house, I got plants, I
got a life, I'm paying rent or whatever you're doing.
I need to know you didn't get nothing. Your dumb
ass packed a bag and got some snacking and went
on over there.

Speaker 15 (01:02:35):
She's a hostage.

Speaker 9 (01:02:37):
All right, hang on, we'll have part two of Steve's
response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.
Today's Strawberry letter subjects pack a bag and a snack
because you ain't going back. We'll get back into it
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Speaker 9 (01:03:24):
All right, Steve, come on, let's up recap today's strawberry letter.
The subject is pack a bag and a snack because
you ain't going back.

Speaker 2 (01:03:32):
Thirty four year old woman dating this guy that's thirty nine.
She thinks he's really either a great guy he's crazy.
Why because he wants to be in her face. Twenty
four seven. Man was married for eight years and told
her I couldnot live without companionship. Well, remember now he
told that to somebody else too, because he's married for

(01:03:53):
eight year. Now he might not be able to live
with companionship. But somebody showed this that he wasn't a
companion that she wanted to continue to ship with. So
now obviously this ship don't sail the right way. Now,
he told you he can't live without companionship. That's a

(01:04:16):
red flag. Ladies, instead of collecting red flags, drive over there.
You don't put this red flag in your back seat.
And you kept riding. He forty five minutes from your house,
You forty five minutes from his. So when y'all go
out on dates, you spend a night in his guest room,
and he's stay in your guest room. Depending on where

(01:04:36):
y'all spent the time at You work from home, so
you can work from his house. Two weeks ago, he
invited you to a white party, and then he told you,
he said, pack a bag and a snack because you
ain't going back.

Speaker 6 (01:04:50):
You are.

Speaker 2 (01:04:52):
And voluntary experimental roommate. You are a voluntary experimental roommate.
He was joking. He wasn't joking, And I've been in
this house for two weeks. He drove you home, picked

(01:05:12):
up some clothes and water. Your playing, had to get
my mail stopped, and everything you had to or you
wanted to see ain't. Nobody got a gun to your head.
So what you're not gonna do is blame this letter
on him being Craig Crag, because right now he'd have
told you what to do, and your dumb ass is
doing it all. You stopped your mail. He fixed up

(01:05:37):
his guest room for me. He bought all your favorite snacks.
I think he might really like me because he don't
pressure me for sex, and he lets me sleep peacefully
in my homeroom. He cooks breakfast most of the time,
and we've been cooking dinner together. The question I've been
asking him is where is this going and he can't
give me a straight answer right there. You should have

(01:05:59):
took your ass back. I asked him, where's he going?
And he can't give you a straight answer right there.
You should have took your asshole. Personally, you shouldn't have
went over there in the first place, because that pack
your bag and a snack because you ain't going back now,
you gonna stop your mail. You over that water and

(01:06:20):
your plans, trying to make sure they still living, and
you over there working from his house. Y'all playing husband
and wife but you ain't husband and wife. Y'all playing house,
but y'all don't really live together because you got another house.
Where is this going? Everybody listening to this woman know
he says, this is a trial period to see if

(01:06:43):
we are compatible. I'm thirty four and he's thirty nine,
and were still in our prime. So the fact that
he's locked in on me so quickly, it's interesting. See, lady,
this dude he the one in your mind, he is
the one because you're doing all the things is he
asking you to do so you can lock him in?

(01:07:03):
And he'd locked in on you and you like it.
You ain't never been treated this way, so you like it. Now,
I've been asking him where this is going, and he
can't give me a straight answer. So now you're involved
in an experiment that you don't know what the experiment
is hoping to accomplish it. You don't know what he's

(01:07:25):
trying to accomplish. So you got an experiment and you
don't know what he's trying. What are we what conclusion
are we trying to reach. That's what an experiment is for.
Somebody's trying to cure something. Somebody's trying to find an
answer to something. Somebody trying to find a shorter way,
like when I'm out of d ranch, I might cut

(01:07:46):
through another trail to see where it go. Okay, well
that's an experiment. But he's treated me more like a roommate.
I sometimes lie in the guest room and wonder why
he's not trying to sneak in and make love to me. Well,
I said, I'm curious about this, my damn, because I'm

(01:08:09):
taking right now, I'll be wearing you to death. I
would be wearing you have to death. I'll be army crawling.
I open your doughknob from the stomach position and army
crawl to the bed. You look up at the foot
of bed. All you see his eyes and the ball head.
I'll be down there and wait, I'll be wearing your

(01:08:32):
ass half to death. I sometimes lying to just we,
But wonder why he ain't trying to sneak in and
make love to me. We've done it a few times
and it's really good, but it's like he rationing it out.
Is it a good thing? Or is it weird to you?
How the hell is a good thing in you? Weird
ass man? All this nutty mess he doing? I want
to know what he's doing in the other room, at

(01:08:54):
the brother bedroom at night?

Speaker 3 (01:08:55):
Go in now?

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
Hey, Hey, what's all that out here? Open this doe?

Speaker 2 (01:09:08):
How do I get him to open up to you?
If you want a man to open up to you,
close yourself off to him. Me and a real lead?
How do I get him to open up to me?

Speaker 4 (01:09:18):
Hell?

Speaker 2 (01:09:19):
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we had everything going on with Saint Jus. We need
to get to pick. But let's just see what happened though, Unk.
Just here for the Saints. The Saints beat the Giants
fourteen to eleven.

Speaker 2 (01:10:38):
Picked, Yeah, you to picked that?

Speaker 8 (01:10:40):
Yeah, But then right after that up the Steelers beat
the Browns twenty seven to fourteen.

Speaker 2 (01:10:49):
Would you have picked that? Yeah? No, I wouldn't have
picked it. I'd have been mad, though. Steelers is our arch.

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Biples well, James in the shop up, but y'all already
beat the Ones this year, so they just you know
it's even still go unk.

Speaker 7 (01:11:09):
The Vikings beat the Falcons forty two to twenty one.
Would you pick that?

Speaker 2 (01:11:15):
You gotta pick that.

Speaker 7 (01:11:17):
The Bucks beat the Raiders twenty eight to thirteen.

Speaker 2 (01:11:22):
Uh, you gotta pick that?

Speaker 16 (01:11:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (01:11:24):
Okay, uh, I know you would have picked this. The
Eagles beat the Panthers twenty two to six.

Speaker 2 (01:11:28):
Hell yeah, hell yeah, Jalen yok.

Speaker 8 (01:11:33):
They don't nobody care about this game. The Jaguars beat
the Tighters ten to six.

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
Pick that though.

Speaker 7 (01:11:41):
The Dolphins beat the Jets thirty two to twenty six.

Speaker 2 (01:11:44):
I gotta pick that.

Speaker 12 (01:11:46):
Can you pick that?

Speaker 7 (01:11:47):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:11:48):
Here we go.

Speaker 8 (01:11:48):
The Seahawks beat the Cardinals. That's your team, man, thirty eight?

Speaker 2 (01:11:53):
Tick that? Hell no, Cardinals. I wouldn't have picked that.

Speaker 7 (01:11:57):
But unc higgo want unc Now you got to be
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Up rapping on man. You accuse me of line No, No,
I'm just saying, on this game, you gotta be honest.

Speaker 1 (01:12:08):
Huh, just be honest.

Speaker 7 (01:12:11):
Beat the Bills forty two to forty.

Speaker 2 (01:12:13):
I would not have hit that. I would not hell
no our bills all day long. I have picked the Bills,
all right.

Speaker 8 (01:12:22):
The forty nine Ers beat the Bears thirty eight to thirteen.

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Up. Yes, And I think it's due to the quarterback
wearing fingernail polished.

Speaker 7 (01:12:33):
That's not that's not fair. It's football, that's it. They
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He's not in the words of rappers. I'm standing on
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Speaker 7 (01:12:53):
It's just they just lost. I mean, they just lost.

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It's all.

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So you know, that was just week fourteen.

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Speaker 10 (01:13:38):
On Steve Harvey FM Rights. I went on a date
over the weekend with a girl I met on an app.
I was excited until I saw how she carried herself
in a bar that we went to. In an hour,
she almost got into a fight with another girl, who
she said, cut in front of her in the bathroom line.
She was overflirting with the bard for free drink and

(01:14:02):
made three racial comments that just disgusted me. In hindsight,
I should have told her that the night was over
from me and taken her home. Instead, I just excused
myself to the bathroom, walked out the back door of
the bar, and then locked her. I don't know how

(01:14:22):
she got home, and now I kind of feel bad
about that shut out.

Speaker 2 (01:14:28):
Yeah, man, you should always do the gentlemanly thing. Never
leave a woman out that, especially if you picked her
up and how she got home, that's that's being a
little bit rude. But you could have took her home
and just bounced and never seen her again. But the
cool thing would have been to get the lady to
her house that's responsible, because you would have felt horrible

(01:14:51):
if she had gotten an accident or somebody attacked her something,
so that the gentleman thing to do would be to
escort her home, be kind, and drop off at the door,
and then drive off and go. Bet I don't do
that again. Yeah, yeah, gentleman with a girl cut her
in the bathroom, flirting with the bartender for future free drinks,

(01:15:15):
and then made several racial comments. What she said, though,
What did she say? Probably somebody.

Speaker 1 (01:15:26):
You've been careful, sir.

Speaker 2 (01:15:28):
Yeah, I had a good one. I had a good one,
but I decided for the future of the radio business.
I had a good one though we all knew he said. Okay,
you bet that, all right, But but the thing is

(01:15:50):
I had it instantly.

Speaker 1 (01:15:53):
Yeah, I know.

Speaker 10 (01:15:53):
Exactly what she said, So he should be a gentleman
at all times.

Speaker 1 (01:16:00):
All right, let's move on here.

Speaker 10 (01:16:02):
We have time for one more chuck on Steve HARVFM Rights.
I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years and
she's an absolute sweetheart.

Speaker 1 (01:16:10):
I love her, but she's a mess, and I've known
for a while.

Speaker 10 (01:16:15):
I've been wanting to break up with her for a
few months, but I'm feeling guilty about it.

Speaker 1 (01:16:20):
She hasn't really done anything to have her heart broken.

Speaker 10 (01:16:24):
But I just can't stay with her and be her
therapist anymore and cheer her own and uplift her all
the time. I know this is going to be difficult
for both of us, but I worry about how she'll respond.

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
What can I do to make this easier on her?

Speaker 10 (01:16:41):
How can I end it without destroying an already fragile person.

Speaker 2 (01:16:47):
Bruh, there is no way to do what you asking?
What is you talking about? No, she fragile. Yeah, in
the end of two years, you've been taping her together,
You've been in therapy with her for two damn years. Yeah,
now you're finna tell hers over Hell he ain't therapy

(01:17:11):
now this? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:17:14):
So that?

Speaker 2 (01:17:16):
Yeah, that's a rough one.

Speaker 1 (01:17:19):
What can he do, then, Steve, he doesn't want to
be with her anymore?

Speaker 2 (01:17:21):
What can he do? Yeah, I'm gonna leave. That's what
I'm gonna do. You talking to the wrong person like that? Yeah, bounce.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
Without You're not gonna talk to her, You're just gonna leave.

Speaker 2 (01:17:38):
What you're gonna say ain't really nothing you could say.
I leave town. I just you know, just uproot.

Speaker 1 (01:17:46):
Then a text then a text.

Speaker 2 (01:17:51):
Go down to your job though, she's gonna come down
to your job that's for shore and be out there
and banging on the window crying. So it's gonna be
a lot. Yeah, okay, we.

Speaker 8 (01:18:04):
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Hey, what up?

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You already know what time it is, boy, DC young Flag.

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You listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening
to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (01:18:24):
All right, Colin, So what's going on? What is this
story about?

Speaker 10 (01:18:27):
The couple of newly weeds in Philadelphia may not be
the first people to ever get married, but they sure
are the oldest. Bernie Littman and Marjorie Fitterman tied the
knot at a senior living facility where they met. Bernie
is one hundred years old and Marjorie is one hundred

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and two years old. The Againness Book of World Records
recently certified them as the world's oldest couple to marry
based on their combined age. The couple first met at
a costume party at the facility. And quickly fell in love.
So they were previ Was they dressed as two young

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kids or was they dressed hundred and three? One hundred
and two? Marjorie is and Bernie her husband is one
hundred and one, and she that she insists on drinking
buttermilk every day has helped her stay to be one hundred.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
And two years old. So what do you guys think?
What do you would you recommend to lift to be
one hundred?

Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
I'm gonna I'm gonna get some damn buttermilk. That's damn sure.

Speaker 1 (01:19:39):
That's on the top of the list.

Speaker 2 (01:19:40):
Damn what I think she got proof of concept? Yeah,
she's proof. So I'm buying me some damn buttermilk to
a day?

Speaker 7 (01:19:48):
Okay, to day?

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
What a butter milk?

Speaker 2 (01:19:55):
I'm not getting married at a hundred? Right to I'm
not getting married at a hunt.

Speaker 1 (01:20:01):
I'm not.

Speaker 7 (01:20:02):
Oh man, Sorry, when we come back, we'll have a rounder.
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Okay, cast time for a rounder? Would you rather what?
Would you got?

Speaker 2 (01:20:40):
Called it? What we gonna do it?

Speaker 1 (01:20:41):
All right?

Speaker 10 (01:20:41):
Would you rather give up your cell phone for a
month or bathing for a month?

Speaker 2 (01:20:47):
I got to give up. That's a tough one, I got,
is it?

Speaker 8 (01:20:51):
Is it?

Speaker 1 (01:20:51):
Tommy?

Speaker 7 (01:20:51):
That's tough Tommy.

Speaker 2 (01:20:53):
I let know. Let me just tell you what's gonna
happen if you don't bathe for two weeks. I know
the next time you sit on the toilet, you're gonna
just roll off of it into the floor once you
spread your legs. I'm telling you right now, you just
gonna roll out on your die. You gonna fink there's

(01:21:13):
no way you could sit on thathing. You ain't even
got to do nothing. Just pull your pants down and
sit on that toilet and sink. All right, You're gonna
hit your head on the edge of that suit. You're
gonna do more damage if you don't get your jaw wire.

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All kinds of stuff dong that that.

Speaker 1 (01:21:35):
Don't bathe in thirty days of the bar hard?

Speaker 2 (01:21:41):
Long time you do? And when you do bathe after
thirty days? What all that stuff in the bathroom, you're
gonna have burn? All that you that washcloth, towe soap,
that bar soap. That bar soap probably gonna milk. All right?

Speaker 10 (01:22:03):
Would you rather celebrate New Year's Eve in Times Square
or watch fireworks from your backyard?

Speaker 2 (01:22:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:22:12):
Be quiet New Year's e Oh yeah, b B all right.

Speaker 2 (01:22:16):
I've been. I've been to Times Square three.

Speaker 1 (01:22:18):
Yeah, yeah, you've done the countdown to the ball dropping all.

Speaker 2 (01:22:21):
That the worst? Really, I do not understand why. But
first of all, let me say something. If you're there
for the New Year's celebration, New York blocks off the streets,
so once you come you trapped there.

Speaker 1 (01:22:37):
You're there.

Speaker 2 (01:22:38):
Yeah, there's no leaving. Yeah I heard that too, And
there are no bathrooms, so everybody wears diapers. It's crazy, man,
It is absolutely crazy what they do to do that.
That's a true story.

Speaker 6 (01:22:53):
All right.

Speaker 10 (01:22:53):
Would you rather detect every lie you here? Or get
away with every lie you tell.

Speaker 2 (01:23:02):
Which is the whole goal in my life? That is
your goal. That's that's the purpose of telling. Why you
don't tell a lie to getting busted. You tell a
lie to get away. That's the whole goal in life matter.
If I can lie and get away with it every time?
Do you know the lies I would tell?

Speaker 1 (01:23:24):
Why do you have to lie? Why can't you just
tell the truth.

Speaker 2 (01:23:29):
That marriage you want to keep, hold your family together.

Speaker 1 (01:23:35):
You want you got to lie to do all that little.

Speaker 2 (01:23:37):
More respectable, little be able to come to work face
your coworkers. You have got to lie if you play
on maintaining any relationships in this world. I found out
to be.

Speaker 7 (01:23:53):
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All Right, it's our last break of the day. Unk,
you know, good day. I want to get myself prof
I'm proud of me.

Speaker 3 (01:24:43):
Are you then?

Speaker 7 (01:24:44):
What did a great job.

Speaker 4 (01:24:47):
Before?

Speaker 2 (01:24:48):
Yeah? Bruh. Where was the great job though? Show me
where that was?

Speaker 1 (01:24:53):
What you've been on?

Speaker 6 (01:24:54):
Dog?

Speaker 2 (01:24:54):
What you been I've been right here? First of all,
what I'm not gonna do.

Speaker 7 (01:24:58):
Some is criticized.

Speaker 2 (01:25:00):
Well, well, well, well that's what we're here for. Which
break did you think was great?

Speaker 7 (01:25:07):
All of them?

Speaker 2 (01:25:09):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:25:12):
Can I ask a question?

Speaker 2 (01:25:14):
Uh huh?

Speaker 1 (01:25:15):
And I'm gonna ask this to you, Junior.

Speaker 10 (01:25:17):
Do you think that your uncle, uncle, Steve and Tommy
are too hard on you?

Speaker 2 (01:25:23):
You feel they job?

Speaker 7 (01:25:25):
They're not gonna stop calling.

Speaker 1 (01:25:27):
I didn't ask that. I asked do you think they're
too hard on you?

Speaker 7 (01:25:30):
Absolutely see that.

Speaker 10 (01:25:33):
Now we're getting somewhere. Do you guys receive that? And
he's saying y'all are too hard on him.

Speaker 4 (01:25:39):
I don't receive a damn thing, Junior just said. Now,
why why are we receiving, receiving high for what?

Speaker 2 (01:25:47):
What did he want us to do?

Speaker 10 (01:25:49):
Well, if somebody's telling you that you you're going going
in too much and they only human, they telling you
to pull up a little bit, now.

Speaker 2 (01:25:57):
Going in harder? Now now that he just said, you
wait till tomorrow. Get it? My god, we turned the
fire up. Yeah, don't worry about it.

Speaker 7 (01:26:06):
Calling. Ain't you got some clothing and some people need
to talking.

Speaker 2 (01:26:10):
You don'd clappin.

Speaker 1 (01:26:12):
I'm a cute We pledge, So you're pledging him. He's pledging,
he's pleasure, he's online.

Speaker 2 (01:26:19):
Oh afterlute, Well we have in the set. He pledged
me when I first got on the radio for years,
it took years not finish. Just let you come up
in here. Thank you doing everything all right? I want
to give myself some credit. Well you need to check
with some people. Let's pass some credit out.

Speaker 1 (01:26:39):
Junior. How long have you been working here?

Speaker 7 (01:26:42):
I've been here thirteen years, thirteen years.

Speaker 2 (01:26:46):
You've been on the radio thirteen years?

Speaker 3 (01:26:47):
With how long is he?

Speaker 7 (01:26:51):
I don't know what I'm but I'm coming.

Speaker 1 (01:26:53):
I don't know what.

Speaker 3 (01:26:56):
I see And this is how you sun?

Speaker 7 (01:27:02):
Can you get to your.

Speaker 1 (01:27:03):
Clothes remark sir, I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (01:27:08):
Yeah, we're doing them right now. All right, y'all, let
me give you this as we can go.

Speaker 1 (01:27:16):
Away from here crazy right here.

Speaker 2 (01:27:18):
Man, listen, y'all, in this world we live in today,
you have got to manage your expectations. And what I
mean by that is stop expecting people to be happy
for you. Stop expecting people to cheer for you, because
I'm finding more and more that that's not what they do.

Speaker 6 (01:27:42):
Now.

Speaker 2 (01:27:42):
There are steal a lot of good people in this world.
There are a lot of people who are happy for
your success. There are a lot of people who are
cheering for you. There are steal people that's praying for you.
But I found those people to do it quietly. I've
said this one hundred times on this show. Hate is loud,

(01:28:09):
but love is strong. And that's what I see. A
lot of the people that love you, they're not as
loud with it. They just love you. But people that
hate you, oh, they make a lot of noise about it,
don't they. Oh Man, they come out of nowhere, don't they?
And you sitting up here going what did I ever

(01:28:31):
do to you? And I'm telling you right now, in
the world we live in today. You don't have to
do nothing. All you got to do is exist, and
somebody gonna have a problem with you existing. I've never
seen the world the way it is today, and I've
been on this planet sixty seven years. Is so much hate.

(01:28:52):
We don't cheer for each other anymore. I stopped expecting
people to cheer for me. You know what people do, man,
People find something to talk about in a negative way.
They don't even know the story. You know what's crazy, man?
You know what I learned recently. People get jealous of

(01:29:16):
your success, but ain't nobody jealous of your journey? Did
you hear what I said? People are jealous of your success,
but ain't nobody jealous of your journey? That's crazy? You know,

(01:29:36):
the average person don't even know what you're going through.
The average person don't even know what you have to
do to be who you are. The average person has
no idea what you've overcome, how many hurdles you've jumped,
how many rivers you've swam, how many values you've crawled through,
how many ditches you done grind out of? They just
don't know, And then they have the nerve the audacity

(01:30:01):
to pass judgment on you and all you doing is
the best you can for yourself, for your family. So man,
listen to me. Stop expecting people to get it nowadays.
Understand this. Get you a relationship with God. Get your
relationship with somebody that's cheering for you. Talk to God today,

(01:30:24):
somebody who is the architect of your future. Because I
got news for you, people at ain't the architect of
no future. I heard a guy say recently that the
reason he did the types of interviews he did was
because he was trying to destroy the people he was
talking about. Ain't that crazy, man? You trying to destroy

(01:30:45):
somebody else?

Speaker 1 (01:30:46):
Why?

Speaker 2 (01:30:47):
Because yours is destroyed? Is that why you're doing it? Man,
listen to me, y'all, get a relationship with God, somebody
that's happy for your success, somebody that's pulling for you.
Somebody has a great plan for you. And that's God Almighty,
and He never ever changed. People are subject to change
from God, and hold old to God's a change in hand.

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I used to see older people say.

Speaker 1 (01:31:11):
That all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:31:12):
I get y'all have a great day. Talk to God.

Speaker 1 (01:31:15):
She's a love for all.

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