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(00:00):
All right, time to get backto the community. It's Becks and Buster
here on Q on or two becks, let's do it. Yes, she
had to try a bust to helpsomebody out. Who are on the phone
with? Who is this Tyler?Was that? Tyler? Well, I
mean the issue really is I sentmy drunk girlfriend home in an uber and
she's super pissed in me. Oh, this is going to be fun.
(00:22):
Here here's the story. Like,we went out after work and my girl
met us at the bar, andshe's been stressed with work lately, and
so she just wanted to get completelyhammered. I mean, even though I'm
with my coworkers still it was alittle awkward, but okay. So she
was just getting loud and obnoxious,and we ended up leaving the bar and
we're walking back to my place andshe's like puking on the sidewalk. She's
(00:45):
like falling over and just just yelling. It was. It was intense.
So we get back to my placeand my roommate had like an early morning
start, so he was just alreadysleeping, and you know, we get
out of my God, we shouldtry to bet, but I tried to
keep her in the room and shewas like starving. So now she's like
kind of ripping through the kitchen destroyingeverything. Pants and pods are falling.
(01:10):
And then she sees this like dogacross the street, so she like slams
open the window and she's screaming outthe window. Her dog is so cute,
Come here, little dog. Yeah, and I'm like, oh my
god, like my roommate's gonna beso mad. And of course he woke
up and he was just pissed.So I just called her and I got
(01:32):
her an Uber and sent her home. And you know, she hasn't spoken
to me in two days since hashappened, and uh, you know,
she's mad. I didn't go backwith her in the uber and I like
used her Uber account because like heraddress is already in there. But you
know, she she didn't want tobe I don't. I mean, I
don't even have a car. Idon't want to go back with her,
(01:55):
you know, So am I wronghere? I'm just trying to understand this,
all right, she give me sireatit. How long have you been
dating her? For? About ninemonths? Does she act like this normally
when she gets drunk? Yeah,Like it's common behavior sometimes yeah, if
she gets really wasted, but notalways. But yeah, sometimes she's rolling
(02:17):
around on the ground. And Imean I could understand your you know,
obviously you live with somebody, soyou know you have to take that into
accounts. Yeah, when women getdrunk with their significant other, Yeah,
(02:38):
you guys have a tendency to leaninto the free spirit. Yeah, at
least she didn't lean into fighting withhim. That's a good thing. Yeah,
you're right, we because there's peoplethat lean into that. It could
have been a big fight. Atleast she's just she's hungry, you know,
(02:59):
like, yeah, don't you gethungry when you drink any Yes,
but when men get drunk around theirgirl, we don't become the girl's responsibility.
Typically, when women get drunk aroundtheir men, they they feel as
though it's almost like we become ababysitter, where it's like no, like
(03:21):
ixactly, yes, I feel likethat. Okay, you guys are piling
on now, Tyler, Yeah,exactly no. Because because it happens and
I think she'll put music on,I turned it down, she puts her
right back up. I mean,listen, she is again, like,
yes, she probably had a littlebit too much to drink. She's probably
(03:42):
acting, you know, it's notas like every girlfriend when they get drunk.
She was having a good time.She was having a great time.
She's drinking. Not that that excusesthe behavior, you know, it sucks
that she was puking. I'm sureshe didn't feel good the next day.
Yeah, what we're missing here isthe point of why he called in.
He sent his girl home in anuber alone on her account. That I
(04:10):
think that her account thing is thetrigger, Like you didn't really do anything
that that awful tyler, Like Ican understand, and neither di she like
nobody did anything horrible here. UhSo I don't think it's warranted that she's
given you the silent treatment at thispoint. But what I will say is,
(04:30):
at least, had you used yourUber account, you could have like
trapedored and sure that she got homesafely those sorts of things, or like
maybe you could have gone with herand then ubered back. I mean that's
you know, but I don't knowhow happy I would be if my my
man just put me in a backof an uber hammered and set me off,
that, you know, like,especially if I'm in that state of
(04:56):
like I'm drunk because you want toknow that the man you're with us also
going to take care of you andnurture you and like, you know,
make sure that you're safe, right, which you kind of dropped the ball
a little bit a little bit.Yeah, this is like, you know
what, it's aspects and buster,but it's also who's the jerk here a
little bit? Right? Yeah,Like like she's a little bit of a
(05:17):
jerk for being inconsiderate of your roommatewho has to get up early, and
and you know, kind of whatever, she became a little loose because she
trusts you and she could sort ofbe that free spirit she's drunk. So
yeah, and then you're a jerkyeah for off? Well yeah, yeah,
(05:39):
because like usually bro, to sendher off is like not for the
girlfriend, No, that's for likethe you just kind of hooked up with
her, all right? Yeah,got done? Yeah, Like guys,
do that? My god? WhatI guess? Okay, So here's where
(06:00):
we're at now. Now we knowwhere the problems are. What do we
do? His girlfriend won't talk ahead? Yeah, yeah, I mean that's
the question. What do you do? Does he need to do some grand
gesture now to like or does shekind of need to get over it a
little bit, probably a little column, a little colin b. What do
you think about this? Two onefive, two six three one o two
one. You can text us atseven one o two one or get us
(06:21):
in the DMS at Becks and Buster. Tyler's girl won't talk to him.
How does he get her to breakthe silent treatment? Or is he wrong
and she's right? He shouldn't havesent her home, hammered in an uber
on her account, UNA's she literallylogged into her phone her facial recognition to
(06:43):
get into it. He probably heldher drunk head up phone. My god,
Tyler, Tyler, Yeah, yeah, we'll get some people on the
phone and chime in here. Maybethere's some advice on how you could win
your girl back after this and maybehow that would be great, and also
(07:04):
how to deal with a drunk significantother guy or girl two one five,
two sixty three one or two oneTyler, keep listening to Q one or
two and we'll get you some helpon the air. Okay, well,
thanks so much. I think you'rewelcome. Hey, you just met Tyler
on Asspects and Buster. He senthis drunk ass girlfriend home too drunk belie
(07:27):
herself, and he used her account, so she had to pay for it.
Yeah, which probably makes it Thatmakes it ten times worse. We're
getting some text messages in here atseven one or two one, somebody else
or somebody said Tyler needs to breakup with his girlfriend asap because he he
doesn't sound like he loves her anymore. Yeah, he sounds so done with
her over the phone. Telet yourgirlfriend of nine months go home and uber
(07:49):
by herself. You clearly don't careabout her. That's a good point.
What do you think, hello,Tyler, tell you're saying he shouldn't have
ship? Does girl? Off?Hammered in an uber? What would you
have done? Not that? Yeah? Definitely not that. He with that?
(08:11):
So do you think it's warranty?He hung up. That's all he
had to say, short and sweet. I can deal with that. Hell
so the fuss about? Was hewrong for setting her back to the uber?
Yeah? Yeah? So why didhe even go back to his place?
If he knew his buddy had tobe up in the morning, Why
didn't they just uber immediately to herplace? Hey, that's a good point.
He knew. How if she wasthrown up on the way home?
(08:33):
Maybe what was gonna happen when hegot there. But he did say he
didn't want to go back to her. Yeah, he said, yeah.
He had mentioned something along those lineslike, I don't know if he why
not uber back to her place,drop her and then stay in the uber
And that's what I said. Hemight even got something out of it and
then went home. Well, no, she shouldn't do that. Well she's
intoxicated. Oh yeah, ye,that doesn't seem fun for anyone
All right, time to get backto the community. It's Becks and Buster
here on Q on or two becks, let's do it. Yes, she
had to try a bust to helpsomebody out. Who are on the phone
with? Who is this Tyler?Was that? Tyler? Well, I
mean the issue really is I sentmy drunk girlfriend home in an uber and
she's super pissed in me. Oh, this is going to be fun.
(00:22):
Here here's the story. Like,we went out after work and my girl
met us at the bar, andshe's been stressed with work lately, and
so she just wanted to get completelyhammered. I mean, even though I'm
with my coworkers still it was alittle awkward, but okay. So she
was just getting loud and obnoxious,and we ended up leaving the bar and
we're walking back to my place andshe's like puking on the sidewalk. She's
(00:45):
like falling over and just just yelling. It was. It was intense.
So we get back to my placeand my roommate had like an early morning
start, so he was just alreadysleeping, and you know, we get
out of my God, we shouldtry to bet, but I tried to
keep her in the room and shewas like starving. So now she's like
kind of ripping through the kitchen destroyingeverything. Pants and pods are falling.
(01:10):
And then she sees this like dogacross the street, so she like slams
open the window and she's screaming outthe window. Her dog is so cute,
Come here, little dog. Yeah, and I'm like, oh my
god, like my roommate's gonna beso mad. And of course he woke
up and he was just pissed.So I just called her and I got
(01:32):
her an Uber and sent her home. And you know, she hasn't spoken
to me in two days since hashappened, and uh, you know,
she's mad. I didn't go backwith her in the uber and I like
used her Uber account because like heraddress is already in there. But you
know, she she didn't want tobe I don't. I mean, I
don't even have a car. Idon't want to go back with her,
(01:55):
you know, So am I wronghere? I'm just trying to understand this,
all right, she give me sireatit. How long have you been
dating her? For? About ninemonths? Does she act like this normally
when she gets drunk? Yeah,Like it's common behavior sometimes yeah, if
she gets really wasted, but notalways. But yeah, sometimes she's rolling
(02:17):
around on the ground. And Imean I could understand your you know,
obviously you live with somebody, soyou know you have to take that into
accounts. Yeah, when women getdrunk with their significant other, Yeah,
(02:38):
you guys have a tendency to leaninto the free spirit. Yeah, at
least she didn't lean into fighting withhim. That's a good thing. Yeah,
you're right, we because there's peoplethat lean into that. It could
have been a big fight. Atleast she's just she's hungry, you know,
(02:59):
like, yeah, don't you gethungry when you drink any Yes,
but when men get drunk around theirgirl, we don't become the girl's responsibility.
Typically, when women get drunk aroundtheir men, they they feel as
though it's almost like we become ababysitter, where it's like no, like
(03:21):
ixactly, yes, I feel likethat. Okay, you guys are piling
on now, Tyler, Yeah,exactly no. Because because it happens and
I think she'll put music on,I turned it down, she puts her
right back up. I mean,listen, she is again, like,
yes, she probably had a littlebit too much to drink. She's probably
(03:42):
acting, you know, it's notas like every girlfriend when they get drunk.
She was having a good time.She was having a great time.
She's drinking. Not that that excusesthe behavior, you know, it sucks
that she was puking. I'm sureshe didn't feel good the next day.
Yeah, what we're missing here isthe point of why he called in.
He sent his girl home in anuber alone on her account. That I
(04:10):
think that her account thing is thetrigger, Like you didn't really do anything
that that awful tyler, Like Ican understand, and neither di she like
nobody did anything horrible here. UhSo I don't think it's warranted that she's
given you the silent treatment at thispoint. But what I will say is,
(04:30):
at least, had you used yourUber account, you could have like
trapedored and sure that she got homesafely those sorts of things, or like
maybe you could have gone with herand then ubered back. I mean that's
you know, but I don't knowhow happy I would be if my my
man just put me in a backof an uber hammered and set me off,
that, you know, like,especially if I'm in that state of
(04:56):
like I'm drunk because you want toknow that the man you're with us also
going to take care of you andnurture you and like, you know,
make sure that you're safe, right, which you kind of dropped the ball
a little bit a little bit.Yeah, this is like, you know
what, it's aspects and buster,but it's also who's the jerk here a
little bit? Right? Yeah,Like like she's a little bit of a
(05:17):
jerk for being inconsiderate of your roommatewho has to get up early, and
and you know, kind of whatever, she became a little loose because she
trusts you and she could sort ofbe that free spirit she's drunk. So
yeah, and then you're a jerkyeah for off? Well yeah, yeah,
(05:39):
because like usually bro, to sendher off is like not for the
girlfriend, No, that's for likethe you just kind of hooked up with
her, all right? Yeah,got done? Yeah, Like guys,
do that? My god? WhatI guess? Okay, So here's where
(06:00):
we're at now. Now we knowwhere the problems are. What do we
do? His girlfriend won't talk ahead? Yeah, yeah, I mean that's
the question. What do you do? Does he need to do some grand
gesture now to like or does shekind of need to get over it a
little bit, probably a little column, a little colin b. What do
you think about this? Two onefive, two six three one o two
one. You can text us atseven one o two one or get us
(06:21):
in the DMS at Becks and Buster. Tyler's girl won't talk to him.
How does he get her to breakthe silent treatment? Or is he wrong
and she's right? He shouldn't havesent her home, hammered in an uber
on her account, UNA's she literallylogged into her phone her facial recognition to
(06:43):
get into it. He probably heldher drunk head up phone. My god,
Tyler, Tyler, Yeah, yeah, we'll get some people on the
phone and chime in here. Maybethere's some advice on how you could win
your girl back after this and maybehow that would be great, and also
(07:04):
how to deal with a drunk significantother guy or girl two one five,
two sixty three one or two oneTyler, keep listening to Q one or
two and we'll get you some helpon the air. Okay, well,
thanks so much. I think you'rewelcome. Hey, you just met Tyler
on Asspects and Buster. He senthis drunk ass girlfriend home too drunk belie
(07:27):
herself, and he used her account, so she had to pay for it.
Yeah, which probably makes it Thatmakes it ten times worse. We're
getting some text messages in here atseven one or two one, somebody else
or somebody said Tyler needs to breakup with his girlfriend asap because he he
doesn't sound like he loves her anymore. Yeah, he sounds so done with
her over the phone. Telet yourgirlfriend of nine months go home and uber
(07:49):
by herself. You clearly don't careabout her. That's a good point.
What do you think, hello,Tyler, tell you're saying he shouldn't have
ship? Does girl? Off?Hammered in an uber? What would you
have done? Not that? Yeah? Definitely not that. He with that?
(08:11):
So do you think it's warranty?He hung up. That's all he
had to say, short and sweet. I can deal with that. Hell
so the fuss about? Was hewrong for setting her back to the uber?
Yeah? Yeah? So why didhe even go back to his place?
If he knew his buddy had tobe up in the morning, Why
didn't they just uber immediately to herplace? Hey, that's a good point.
He knew. How if she wasthrown up on the way home?
(08:33):
Maybe what was gonna happen when hegot there. But he did say he
didn't want to go back to her. Yeah, he said, yeah.
He had mentioned something along those lineslike, I don't know if he why
not uber back to her place,drop her and then stay in the uber
And that's what I said. Hemight even got something out of it and
then went home. Well, no, she shouldn't do that. Well she's
intoxicated. Oh yeah, ye,that doesn't seem fun for anyone
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