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(00:00):
Hey, it's another weirdo Wednesday onQ one or twos. Would you say
that you have your husband wrapped aroundyour finger? You say jump and he
says how high? Right? No? Well no, but I mean,
yeah, no, maybe you shouldtake a lesson from our girl Sarah.
We're about to talk to her next. Yeah, who is a self proclaimed
(00:21):
brat. Yeah, and she's actuallyextremely proud of it. We're gonna get
into it next. Hang on.Another weirdo Wednesday is upon us best.
Yeah, who are we talking totoday about clingbuster? My named Sarah?
And truly I don't feel like thisis weird, but I just want to
(00:44):
like let everyone know that this isa lifestyle choice that they can totally make.
I am a brat all right,Okay, Uh you're a brat?
What does that mean? Collaborate?I would love to. Okay, So
like, yeah, exactly know you'regetting it. So like basically I always
(01:08):
expect to get my way with men, and if I don't get my way,
then I throw like like a tumbricanttrum, like literally like I've been
known to stop my feet and howuntil they give in. And like last
week, this guy that I'm seeing, he forgot to text to me good
morning, which is crazy, andI freaked out, like I didn't speak
(01:30):
to him for hours until he showedup at my apartment with coffee and flowers
and apologies even for me this timemarried, I can't even get that maybe
you need to borrowing? And heshows up with all that, what do
you do? I like, howa little bit? And then I'm like,
(01:52):
oh, thank you so much,and then I start to smile.
And basically what they want to dois they want to get you the smile.
So you have to be like reallystingy with your smiles when they've like
really done well. Your smiles holda lot of value. Smile, when
does it come out? Okay,let me give you an example, Like
(02:16):
one time I sent my I sentmy boyfriend back to the store three times
to get the right shade of designerfoundation, and then when he finally got
it right, I gave him likea little smile, and then he took
me out for a nice dinner tojust say like I'm so sorry that I
couldn't find your right shape. Andthen I was like, oh, okay,
(02:38):
hot, thank you. This wouldnot just like the lie. Why
let me ask you, Sarah,why wouldn't you get that foundation yourself?
Why would you have a guy?Yeah, no, you're not getting the
point of thinks, Like I knewhe was not going to get the right
warrant and then he would have tolike do a bunch of work. Can
(03:00):
make it up to me? Soyou it's all about to suffer. Yeah,
it's all about control. Like menare say, like men are dogs,
and I am the like master,like the job master. It's my
job to make them so satch.Oh my god, this is your diabolical
(03:20):
Yeah, like it is. No. I love her thought show, but
like I can only watch it likeonce every two weeks. Okay, but
okay, so I guess for me, like right, like obviously you have
(03:42):
these things that you desire, likeyou almost get off on these men sort
of like doing these things for you. Is there ever a point where like
you just let go of all thatand you all like you allow yourself to
like actually feel for them and likelove them and you need them to caddle.
Are you interested in these guys ordo you like just like sugar daddies,
(04:05):
You know, I am interested inwhat they provide. And sometimes they
have like like something funny to sayevery once in a while. But I'll
just say that, like I amvery happy with my love life as of
right now. Like one day I'mgonna get married obviously, it's like a
very rich, very successful man.And until then, I'll have my fun
(04:26):
with the guys that are around,like maybe I'll fall in love with one
of them, but like it hasbeen happened yet. I mean, listen,
you're having a good time, youknow who to pass judgment. Yeah,
and it sounds like these guys areinto it. But that's the thing
is, like the guys are allowingit to happen. You know, they're
they seem somewhat okay with it tillthey're not okay with it, and that's
the point that it ends. Butyou know, I just I worry about
(04:49):
you genuinely not having like you know, sincere connections and relationships. I don't
think you need to worry about Sarahat all. She sounds like she's got
the driver's se Like I'm saying,like men they actually love this. Like
the braddier I am, the moreattention and more money I gets. So
it's really like a career at thispoint. And I'm happy with it good.
(05:12):
I mean listen as long as you'rehappy with it. It seems like
they are. Yeah, again,you must be so hot and if you're
not, I don't know what Ilisten. Sarah, thank you so much
for calling and uh and sort ofgiving us this one. You definitely belong
(05:33):
on Weirdo Wednesday. This is astrong, strong conversation because I've heard of
sort of scenarios like this where menlike, it's almost the reverse of a
girl chasing the bad guy, right, Like, it's kind of equivalent to
that. You want the guy who'sgonna be like not going to text you
back, and he's like, soit's almost the equivalent married Sarah. Yeah,
(05:59):
I bet there's some of that.And here you can see them,
you know, a little sigh,John, listen, Sarah, thank you
so much for calling in. Iwant to do this our number two one
five two six three one o twoone. You could text in at seven
one o two one or hit usin the d MS at Becks and Buster.
Do you know a life like sharelike Sarah's? Do you know do
(06:21):
you have is there a friend ofyours that have men twisted around their finger
like on their toes? Yeah,literally doing what they traditionally would do to
women. Oh okay, that's okay, relax. Yeah, that was a
stretch. I'm just trying to helpout here, hy Sarah, Happy Weirdo
(06:41):
Wednesday. Thanks for the call.Yes, you're welcome. Nice. If
you guys could actually play me someTaylor Swift, that would be awesome,
like the live versions from the Aerostore. I swear I'll smile. Okay,
Oh that's a big deal. Nicecurrency, all right, Sarah. Thanks,
Sarah. Bye. You just metSarah on Weirdo Wednesday. She says
(07:06):
she is a bratt. She isa selfie proclaimed bratt. She likes to
have men wrapped around her face.Says that men are dogs and her job
is to make them fetch and theydo because she's got it like that.
You got it like that. We'regetting some text messages in here at seven
one o two one. Yeah.Somebody said this sounds this should be renamed
(07:30):
to whack job Wednesday. And somebodyelse Weirdo covers. Somebody said tired of
this girl swipe left. I betyou she's hot though, Hello, I
change your mind. Hey, Iwas just calling a response to that,
Kara, Yeah, what did youthink of Sarah? She's amazing, Jara,
(07:51):
she is a bit of a narcissist. Yeah, yeah, but don't
you think like, while yes,she's she's horrible. Well but isn't there
a part of you that's, like, I don't know, like good for
you, Sarah, she's it's goingto come back to work. Yeah,
but yeah, I think that they'reall like she just has surface level relationships.
(08:13):
Nothing is of meaning and of depthand of whatever. Sounds like she
drives at Tesla. Yeah, butI mean what if the guys are falling
head over heels in love with her? Yeah, it's not cool. Yeah,
but like she said, some ofthose guys are married, and if
you're a dirt bag enough to cheaton your wife, then you deserve to
be taken care of. Disagreat Butagain, that's just as bad as she
(08:35):
is. But she what she's doingthem is not Hey, what's your name?
Don What are you doing? Wayto work? Where do you work?
I'm health care provider. What doyou take care of? I take
care of all kinds of different patients. Well see, now, if you
had a life like Sarah's, you'dbe on your way to kop mal Uh.
(08:58):
I'm the total opposite of Sarah.Yes. All Sarah does is receive.
She's you know, she's selfless.What are you driving on? Leave
her alone? I'm just saying,Sarah, Hey, thank you so much
for calling it. We appreciate it. Thanks you do. No bro,
Hey, it's another weirdo Wednesday onQ one or twos. Would you say
that you have your husband wrapped aroundyour finger? You say jump and he
says how high? Right? No? Well no, but I mean,
yeah, no, maybe you shouldtake a lesson from our girl Sarah.
We're about to talk to her next. Yeah, who is a self proclaimed
(00:21):
brat. Yeah, and she's actuallyextremely proud of it. We're gonna get
into it next. Hang on.Another weirdo Wednesday is upon us best.
Yeah, who are we talking totoday about clingbuster? My named Sarah?
And truly I don't feel like thisis weird, but I just want to
(00:44):
like let everyone know that this isa lifestyle choice that they can totally make.
I am a brat all right,Okay, Uh you're a brat?
What does that mean? Collaborate?I would love to. Okay, So
like, yeah, exactly know you'regetting it. So like basically I always
(01:08):
expect to get my way with men, and if I don't get my way,
then I throw like like a tumbricanttrum, like literally like I've been
known to stop my feet and howuntil they give in. And like last
week, this guy that I'm seeing, he forgot to text to me good
morning, which is crazy, andI freaked out, like I didn't speak
(01:30):
to him for hours until he showedup at my apartment with coffee and flowers
and apologies even for me this timemarried, I can't even get that maybe
you need to borrowing? And heshows up with all that, what do
you do? I like, howa little bit? And then I'm like,
(01:52):
oh, thank you so much,and then I start to smile.
And basically what they want to dois they want to get you the smile.
So you have to be like reallystingy with your smiles when they've like
really done well. Your smiles holda lot of value. Smile, when
does it come out? Okay,let me give you an example, Like
(02:16):
one time I sent my I sentmy boyfriend back to the store three times
to get the right shade of designerfoundation, and then when he finally got
it right, I gave him likea little smile, and then he took
me out for a nice dinner tojust say like I'm so sorry that I
couldn't find your right shape. Andthen I was like, oh, okay,
(02:38):
hot, thank you. This wouldnot just like the lie. Why
let me ask you, Sarah,why wouldn't you get that foundation yourself?
Why would you have a guy?Yeah, no, you're not getting the
point of thinks, Like I knewhe was not going to get the right
warrant and then he would have tolike do a bunch of work. Can
(03:00):
make it up to me? Soyou it's all about to suffer. Yeah,
it's all about control. Like menare say, like men are dogs,
and I am the like master,like the job master. It's my
job to make them so satch.Oh my god, this is your diabolical
(03:20):
Yeah, like it is. No. I love her thought show, but
like I can only watch it likeonce every two weeks. Okay, but
okay, so I guess for me, like right, like obviously you have
(03:42):
these things that you desire, likeyou almost get off on these men sort
of like doing these things for you. Is there ever a point where like
you just let go of all thatand you all like you allow yourself to
like actually feel for them and likelove them and you need them to caddle.
Are you interested in these guys ordo you like just like sugar daddies,
(04:05):
You know, I am interested inwhat they provide. And sometimes they
have like like something funny to sayevery once in a while. But I'll
just say that, like I amvery happy with my love life as of
right now. Like one day I'mgonna get married obviously, it's like a
very rich, very successful man.And until then, I'll have my fun
(04:26):
with the guys that are around,like maybe I'll fall in love with one
of them, but like it hasbeen happened yet. I mean, listen,
you're having a good time, youknow who to pass judgment. Yeah,
and it sounds like these guys areinto it. But that's the thing
is, like the guys are allowingit to happen. You know, they're
they seem somewhat okay with it tillthey're not okay with it, and that's
the point that it ends. Butyou know, I just I worry about
(04:49):
you genuinely not having like you know, sincere connections and relationships. I don't
think you need to worry about Sarahat all. She sounds like she's got
the driver's se Like I'm saying,like men they actually love this. Like
the braddier I am, the moreattention and more money I gets. So
it's really like a career at thispoint. And I'm happy with it good.
(05:12):
I mean listen as long as you'rehappy with it. It seems like
they are. Yeah, again,you must be so hot and if you're
not, I don't know what Ilisten. Sarah, thank you so much
for calling and uh and sort ofgiving us this one. You definitely belong
(05:33):
on Weirdo Wednesday. This is astrong, strong conversation because I've heard of
sort of scenarios like this where menlike, it's almost the reverse of a
girl chasing the bad guy, right, Like, it's kind of equivalent to
that. You want the guy who'sgonna be like not going to text you
back, and he's like, soit's almost the equivalent married Sarah. Yeah,
(05:59):
I bet there's some of that.And here you can see them,
you know, a little sigh,John, listen, Sarah, thank you
so much for calling in. Iwant to do this our number two one
five two six three one o twoone. You could text in at seven
one o two one or hit usin the d MS at Becks and Buster.
Do you know a life like sharelike Sarah's? Do you know do
(06:21):
you have is there a friend ofyours that have men twisted around their finger
like on their toes? Yeah,literally doing what they traditionally would do to
women. Oh okay, that's okay, relax. Yeah, that was a
stretch. I'm just trying to helpout here, hy Sarah, Happy Weirdo
(06:41):
Wednesday. Thanks for the call.Yes, you're welcome. Nice. If
you guys could actually play me someTaylor Swift, that would be awesome,
like the live versions from the Aerostore. I swear I'll smile. Okay,
Oh that's a big deal. Nicecurrency, all right, Sarah. Thanks,
Sarah. Bye. You just metSarah on Weirdo Wednesday. She says
(07:06):
she is a bratt. She isa selfie proclaimed bratt. She likes to
have men wrapped around her face.Says that men are dogs and her job
is to make them fetch and theydo because she's got it like that.
You got it like that. We'regetting some text messages in here at seven
one o two one. Yeah.Somebody said this sounds this should be renamed
(07:30):
to whack job Wednesday. And somebodyelse Weirdo covers. Somebody said tired of
this girl swipe left. I betyou she's hot though, Hello, I
change your mind. Hey, Iwas just calling a response to that,
Kara, Yeah, what did youthink of Sarah? She's amazing, Jara,
(07:51):
she is a bit of a narcissist. Yeah, yeah, but don't
you think like, while yes,she's she's horrible. Well but isn't there
a part of you that's, like, I don't know, like good for
you, Sarah, she's it's goingto come back to work. Yeah,
but yeah, I think that they'reall like she just has surface level relationships.
(08:13):
Nothing is of meaning and of depthand of whatever. Sounds like she
drives at Tesla. Yeah, butI mean what if the guys are falling
head over heels in love with her? Yeah, it's not cool. Yeah,
but like she said, some ofthose guys are married, and if
you're a dirt bag enough to cheaton your wife, then you deserve to
be taken care of. Disagreat Butagain, that's just as bad as she
(08:35):
is. But she what she's doingthem is not Hey, what's your name?
Don What are you doing? Wayto work? Where do you work?
I'm health care provider. What doyou take care of? I take
care of all kinds of different patients. Well see, now, if you
had a life like Sarah's, you'dbe on your way to kop mal Uh.
(08:58):
I'm the total opposite of Sarah.Yes. All Sarah does is receive.
She's you know, she's selfless.What are you driving on? Leave
her alone? I'm just saying,Sarah, Hey, thank you so much
for calling it. We appreciate it. Thanks you do. No bro,
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