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May 22, 2024 20 mins
It's Chilli's 13th wedding anniversary and she remembered this year! A survey shows that the average person goes through 8 relationships before finding “the one”. Callers weigh in on how long it took them. Producer Taylor Shay explains why she had to visit at least 5 places to buy her new glasses. The average American spends nearly two and a half hours a day dreamscrolling — looking at things they’d like to own one day but can’t afford yet. What’s the most inappropriate place you’ve seen someone take a selfie? Plus we get the answer to our Nearly Impossible Question!
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Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand onninety seven point one was welcome to Wednesday,
May twenty second, It's Toby andChilly in the Morning on ninety seven
point one wash FM. I'm Chilliyamar. Toby Nap is out, but our
producer Taylor Shay is here today,and I want to start the show off
on a positive note and say happyanniversary to my husband. What's the number

(00:22):
this year? Thirteen? Ooh,lucky thirteen. I Ope, it's lucky
thirteen. But you don't know this, Taylor. But the joke has always
been on the show that I neverremember our anniversary. I was horrible and
even his birthday. Let's be honest, I don't I'm not great with the
dates. He is always amazing withthe dates. But I am super proud
of myself. That's how low thebar is that I wanted to make sure

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I put it out there first thingin the morning that I am acknowledging we
got married thirteen years ago today andlast night at dinner, I wanted to
make sure don knew that I remembered, and I said, tomorrow's our anniversary.
I'm so excited, happy anniversary,because I didn't want him to think
his card this morning was gonna bethe prom right Like, I was like,

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no, I remembered first. Sowhat did he say when? Was
he proud of you for remembering?He just kind of chuckled. He's like,
Okay, that's nice. But youknow, we don't do the gifts
thing. We're not like into bigdeal anniversary stuff. That stopped a while
ago for us. Now it's justlike happy anniversary. Maybe there's a card
involved, and it just works forus. And everybody sort of celebrates differently.
I know you're married, and Idon't know like if you guys make

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a big deal of it or not. No. I mean we've been married
ten years and we usually just dolike our favorite dinner and our favorite show.
We don't even do cards anymore.After five years, we're like,
eh, we'd like to go tobed early. Let's save the money.
So I don't really do much.Yeah, I don't blame you. And
by the way, thirteen the themeis lace, so I guess I could
have gotten lingerie and that would havebeen a nice gift for him to see

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me in it. Coming up injust a few minutes, Where was the
most inappropriate place you've seen someone takea selfie eight six six nine two seven
four three six one. We're askingthis because a photo has gone viral of
two women taking a selfie after somethingpretty serious. If Toby and Chilly in
the morning on ninety seven point oneWash FM, I'm Chili Amar, Toby

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Nap is out. Taylor Sha,our producer, is here today and we
want to know what's the most unusualplace you've seen people take a selfie.
We're asking because a photo has goneviral where it shows an overturned vehicle that
was an car accident and two girlswho look very injured getting together to take

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a selfie of themselves next to theirbattered car. Did you see this?
Yes, they're like bloodied. Iknow that is unusual for sure, but
I got me wondering, like,what's the most inappropriate place you've seen someone
take a selfie? I didn't seeit in person, but it was posted
a Facebook. Someone took a selfiewith their grandmother at an open casket funeral,

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with the grandmother in the background.Yes, oh lord, Now that's
one thing if you want to takeit for yourself, I guess to sort
of remember that moment, but toshow the world you need a little warning
for that. That seems inappropriate.What about you? The last time I
remember it being odd was a GrandCanyon trip. We're taking a little hike
around the rim and we see people, not just one, but a lot

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of people getting as close as theycan to the ledge to get one of
those dramatic shots. I'm like,if you lose your balance, you lose
your life. What about you,Stephanie, You're part of the show in
Alexandria. What did you see?I saw someone taking a selfie in the
middle of a cross loop one.Talk about dangerous. Gotta be careful those
stealthy spots. Yeah, you bettertime those traffic lights just right, otherwise

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it's bye bye to you. Ifyou want to jump into this conversation,
you can call us at eight sixsix ninet two seven four three six one,
or you can use the talkback microphoneon your iHeartRadio app. Coming up
in just a few minutes. Weare going to get you into a good
morning mindset on this hump egg witha quote. As Toby and Chilly in
the Morning continues on ninety seven pointone, washeff Welcome to Toby and Chilly

(04:09):
in the Morning. On ninety sevenpoint one wash FM. I Am Chilly
Amar Toby Napp is out today.But this is the part of the show
where we share a quote to getyou into a good morning mindset, and
this one is by Albert Einstein.He says, a ship is always safe
at the shore, but that's notwhat it's built for. While staying in
a safe and comfortable environment might befree from risks, you know, we

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know that it doesn't really fulfill one'strue potential or purpose. So we are
meant to take risks and face challengesand pursue our goals and our dreams because
true growth and achievement come from venturingbeyond one's comfort zone and embracing the uncertainties
of life. So again, AlbertEinstein says, a ship is always safe

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at the shore, but that's notwhat it's built for. And you can
share that quote or share your ownhashtag morning mindset on the Toby and Chili
page at waschefm dot com. Comingup in just a few minutes, we're
gonna get you up to speed allthe things going on in Hollywood as showbiz
buzz. A police of launch acriminal investigation into how Matthew Perry died.

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Will explain why as Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues on ninety seven point
one washch FM. Thank you forjoining us on this hump day May twenty
second. It's Toby and Chilly inthe Morning on ninety seven point one wash
FM. I Am Chili Amar withthe show Biz buzz. Well Sean Dinny
Combs is being accused of sexual lawsuit. In a new lawsuit filed by a
former model, Crystal McKinney says thatshe was drugged and sexually assaulted by Diddy

(05:41):
back in two thousand and three.In New York City. Police have launched
a criminal investigation into how Matthew Perrydied. The Friends star passed away last
October from the acute effects of anestheticketamine. Well now the LAPD and the
DEA are investigating how Perry, who'dbeen undergoing ketamine infusion therapy, came to
have so much of that drug inhis system and possession of it in general.

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Jennifer Garner, She's just like therest of us. Her daughter,
Violet Affleck just graduated high school,and like most parents, she couldn't keep
it together. The proud mama shareda bunch of photos on Instagram showing her
crying at her daughter's graduation ceremony andthen even later on an airplane. And
about fourteen percent of Pixar's workforce hasbeen laid off. This comes as the

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animation studio is no longer going tofocus on direct to streaming series but on
its feature films. And this isthe biggest reduction in Pixar's history. And
that is your showbiz buzz Coming upnext, We're going to get you caught
up on all the news headlines withToby and Julie's Top Stories on ninety seven
point one wash FF Top Stories Topof the Hour. Marylynd Governor Wes Morris

(06:51):
has salvage crews have made enormous progressat the key Bridge collapse site. Yesterday,
he said they expect another twenty vesselsand barges to come through the Port
of Baltimore's public terminals over the nextweek. A panel that oversees Metrorail safety
making recommendations after its latest railcar audit. Among the recommendations issued yesterday are better

(07:11):
tracking of the shelf life of railcarparts, providing employee training records to supervisors
when they take new positions, andalso updating staffing needs based on current operations.
DC Fire and EMS is asking forhelp from police and d DOT to
address a growing problem in the district. Double parked vehicles, especially near firehouses,

(07:31):
have been causing delayed responses to calls, so they're asking delivery and ride
share drivers to avoid blocking any roadwaynear firehouses. Southwest Airlines wasting no time
trying to land one of five newround trip flights that are approved for Reagan
National Airport by the FAA. Theairline has applied for daily non stop flights

(07:51):
to Las Vegas. One other airlineoffers a single daily flight between DC and
Vegas, and Southwest says it'll notonly fill a need, but I'll also
offer significantly lower fares and according toa new report, the average American household
is expected to spend over twenty eighthundred dollars on their summer vacation this year.
That's up three and a half percentfrom last year and one hundred and

(08:15):
eighteen percent more than in twenty nineteen. Forecast for today, it's going to
feel like summer, partly cloudy,with highs around eighty eight right now sixty
three in Burke in just a fewminutes. How many frogs did you have
to kiss before you found the one? We'll share the findings of a recent
survey next, as Toby and Chillyin the Morning continues on ninety seven point

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one WASHINGFM. How many relationships wereyou in before you found the one?
It's Toby and Chilli in the Morningon ninety seven point one Wash FM.
I'm Chillia mar and I'm here withTaylor Shae, our producer, and I'm
asking this because new research found thatyou'll have to date an average of three
point seven partners before you settle downwith somebody. How many people were you

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in a relationship with before you settledown with your current husband? I got
married at thirty and between eighteen andbefore Darren are three. Yeah, I'm
right in there, Row, that'sgreat. I got married much later than
that. I was thirty nine whenI got married, and my husband was
just the second most serious relationship Iwas in, So I'm a little bit

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less than that. Now they thinkthat a lot of people probably have eight
relationships. Ay, yeah, twentysix percent of people have eight relationships before
they find the one. You're talkingabout serious relationship, I'm talking about exclusive,
exclusive, Yeah, where they're notdating other people. But it's tough
to date around here in DC,So if you're still searching, don't give
up. We found people eventually.Shelby and Chilly's nearly impossible question. This

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happens one point six percent of thetime when making a phone call what is
it? Eight six six ninet twoseven four three six one. You are
playing for a pair of tickets togo see John Legend performing with the wolf
Trap Orchestra at wolf Trap on Junefifth. This happens one point six percent
of the time when making a phonecall what is it? Eight sixty six

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nine two seven four three sixty one. We've got your guesses and the answer
to our nearly impossible question, asToby and Chilly in the Morning continues on
ninety seven point one. Wash fthat Toby and Chilli's nearly impossible question.
Today, you're playing for tickets togo see John Legend with the wolf Trap
orchestrae wolf Trap on June fifth.Christy, you are part of the show

(10:31):
in Alexandria. Are you ready toplay our nearly impossible question? Yes?
Yes, Apparently. This happens onepoint six percent of the time when making
a phone call. What do youthink it is that happens dial the wrong
number if you don't have it presaved in your phone and you're just going

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off of memory, Yeah, thatwould not be good. Have you ever
done that? Or has somebody dialedyou incorrectly? Dial number? Probably more
than that. Well, that isthe correct answer. Congratulations, you are
gonna go to wolf Trap to seeJohn Legend June fifth. Thank you so
much. That's wonderful. You're welcome. Thanks for so much for making us

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a part of your date. We'regonna have another pair of tickets to that
show tomorrow morning with another round ofour Nearly Impossible Question right around this time
with Toby and Chilly in the morning. On ninety seven point one wash FM
Top Stories, Top of the out, a passenger flying Singapore Airlines died.
Seventy one others were injured when aflight from London encountered severe turbulence. The

(11:37):
plane was diverted to Bangkok after hittingsudden extreme turbulence at thirty seven thousand feet.
Fairfax County Police investigating after a womanwas stabbed repeatedly near a convenience store
in Alexandria around six fifteen last night. She is expected to recover. Police
are working to identify suspects and alsodetermine a motive. DC's a journey General

(12:00):
wants to reduce the number of youngpeople who end up back in jail after
their first criminal offense. Attorney GeneralBrian Schwab introduced the Road Act, which
would also provide independent oversight and givejudges more power to step in when the
agency doesn't act quickly enough. Agroup of doctors that focus on children's health

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also issuing a call to action toreduce youth violence in the district. They're
urging the adoption of measures like greatermental health care and schools, and a
greater focus on school attendance. TheLoud County Sheriff's Office investigating after vandal's spray
painted graffiti at four Starbucks locations.The outside of the four stores were painted
with anti Israel and pro Palestinian slogans. Late Monday or early yesterday morning and

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how many extraordinary days do you have? Well? According to a new survey,
the average American wine drinker has tenof them a month, or one
hundred and twenty joyful days a year. The preferred wine, by the way,
for folks in Maryland and both Virginiais Rose forecasts for today, It's
going to be partly cloudy with highsbetween eighty five and ninety Right now,

(13:13):
it's sixty three degrees in Temple Hills. Coming up next. Shopping for a
new pair of glasses can be reallychallenging. Our producer Taylor Shae explains why
it took her so long to findthe right pair, as Toby and Chilly
in the Morning continues on ninety sevenpoint one wash FM. If you've ever
shopped for prescription glasses, you knowit can be a challenge. It's Toby

(13:35):
and Chilly in the Morning at ninetyseven point one Wash FM. I am
Chili Amar and Toby is out today, but our producer Taylor Shae is here
and I know you and I bothwear prescription lenses and glasses. Why was
it so hard for you to finda new pair, Chili? I had
to go to five stores because everystore that I went into I wanted an
opinion from the people working there.Everybody said all these little wait on you,

(14:01):
come on, no they don't.I want an honest opinion. So
finally, by the fifth store thatI went to, I put on a
pair and I asked the girl workingthere, what do you think? And
she goes, mm nah, ohmy god. There was this moment of
like, oh, finally, andshe kind of looked at me like waiting
for my reaction, and I waslike, okay, good, thank you.
So she went in the back andgot another girl, and then they

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both kept telling me which ones lookbad, and I was like, this
is what I wanted. Tell methe baby's ugly. You want the truth,
especially if it's something you're going tobe wearing on your face for a
long time. One would think thatwhen you're shopping for lenses that you're going
to be wearing on your own face, that you you know, we could
figure it out ourselves, but itis hard. You narrow down to two
or three and then you put themon, you take them off. You

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put them on, you take themoff. I have overheard people having a
conversation with their spouse and when thespouse is like, oh God, make
a decision already, they they bothlook fine. I will interject and be
like, ma'am, the red onesare great. She goes, thank you
for letting me know, because wecouldn't decide. So whoever, that was
it finally was truthful with you.Thank God. I need you to go

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glasses shopping with me the next time. You want me to come along,
Yeah, I'll be your wing womanfor the frame sure coming up in just
a few minutes. Have you everheard of what dream scrolling is? That's
when you look on the internet forthings that you would like to one day
own. What is it for you? Eight six six nine two seven four
three six one. We'll get tothat conversation as Toby and Chilly in the

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Morning continues on ninety seven point onewas CHEFM. How much time do you
spend dream scrolling? It's Toby andChilly in the Morning on ninety seven point
one WASHFM. I'm Chilliam R.Toby Napp is out today, but Taylor
Sha, our producer, is in. And if you don't know what dream
scrolling is, it's looking on theinternet for things you would like to one
day own. And I guess theaverage person does this for nearly two and

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a half hours a day. Butare you dream scrolling for two and a
half hours a day? I wouldn'tsay I do it for two and a
half hours a day, but Ialways dream scroll for waterfront property. I
have a dream of owning a home, a second home to escape to on
the beach or on the lakefront orriverfront or something one day. What about
you? Do you dream scroll foranything? Mine is lame. It's furniture

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that's not lame. That's your thing. I mean, it's so expensive that
some of it is out of reach. I'll find a couch that I like,
four grand why, oh my gosh. Yeah, we do the Ikea
route. But I know what you'resaying, so they don't look as nice.
Sometimes. Is there a particular roomin the house that you dream scroll
to? Furnish? Living room forsure, sometimes bedroom, but mainly living
room. All right, so youheard hours, what do you dream scroll

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for? Eight six, six,nine, two seven four three six'
one cannot wait to hear your storiesas Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues
on ninety seven point one wash FM. But first we're gonna get you caught
up with all the news headlines withToby and Chili's top stories, top stories,
Top of the out. Maryland GovernorWes Morris says that salvage crews have

(16:57):
made enormous progress at the key Bridgecollapse site. Yesterday, he said they
expect another twenty vessels and barges tocome through the Port of Baltimore's public terminals
over the next week. A panelthat oversees metrorail safeties making recommendations after its
latest railcar audit. Among the recommendationsissued yesterday are better tracking of the shelf

(17:18):
life of railcar parts, providing employeetraining records to supervisors when they take new
positions, and also updating staffing needsbased on current operations. DC Fire and
EMS is asking for help from policeand d DOT to address a growing problem
in the district. Double parked vehicles, especially near firehouses, have been causing

(17:40):
delayed responses to calls, so officialsare asking delivery and ride share drivers to
avoid blocking any roads near firehouses.And according to a recent report, a
lot of employees in the US reallystruggle to ask for time off at work,
and they feel guilty about it whenthey do. Half of workers say
they get nervous asking for time off, and for millennials that goes up to

(18:03):
sixty one percent. Meanwhile, seventyeight percent admit they don't even use all
their days off. Forecasts for today, it's going to feel like sum are
out there. Partly cloudy with highsaround eighty eight today right now sixty three
in Manassas coming up in just afew minutes. Do you like to look
at things online that you can't afford? It's called dream scrolling? What is

(18:26):
it for you? Eight six sixnine two seven four three six one.
We're going to have that conversation asToby and Chilly in the Morning continues on
ninety seven point one was chef Incase you missed it, we were talking
about this earlier in the show.What is something you really want and you
keep looking at but you can't afford? Eight six six nine two seven four

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to three six one. It's Tobyand Chilly in the Morning on ninety seven
point one Wash FM. I'm Chiliamar. Toby Nap is out but Taylor Sha
our producers here. And when wetalked about this earlier, I had said,
I keep looking at waterfront properties becauseI really want a vacation home.
And what do you dream scroll about? Furniture? It's not exciting, but
I love it. Emily, you'repart of the show in Burke, Go

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ahead, tell us what are youlooking at? I really really want to
get a nose job, but it'sway too expense this. I also have
kids, which make it harder toafford much, so I don't know,
maybe when they move out or something. Gosh, you know what, I
bet plastic surgery is on the listfor a lot of people. Oh for
sure, mommy makeover. I wouldlove that. Can't afford it, but
would love it. Okay, Danand Gaithersburg, what is it for you.

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I'm a bit of a boat nutand one of these days, if
I can save enough money, I'llget a nice boat and that's all I'll
be doing. Dan, that soundsamazing, And I just had a vision.
Why don't you bring that boat ofyours to my future lake house and
we can make a day of it, and I'll be there with my mommy
makeover in my bikini. I loveit? What more? Toby and Jilly

(19:56):
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