June 12, 2024 • 25 mins
We share things brining us joy at 5am. Producer Taylor Shay missed her son's pre-school graduation because she got dates mixed up and she feels horrible. Caller Cindy shares how her family won’t let her live down the time she almost burned down the house. Survey finds men are afraid of speaking up about their health. Toby shares if this applies to him. Survey finds girls start worrying about their appearance at 3yrs old. Plus, we get the answer to our Nearly Impossible Question!
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Toby and Chili Mornings on demand onninety seven point one chef Ouse. So,
why are you feeling good today?Before five o'clock in the morning where
Toby and Chilli in the morning.It's ninety seven point one wash chef m
Why are you feeling good today?There, chiliamar. It's the last day
of school in Fairfax County. Oh, look at you go, and my
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son is finishing the fourth grade.There you go on to the fifth,
on to the fifth That is awesome. Yeah, that's very good stuff.
I'm feeling good today because it's awesometo watch my little puppy, who's not
so much of a puppy anymore.It's just over a year old. Her
name's Nova Luna navigate life. Nowthat she has her girl parts out with
a cone on her head, likeshe is refusing to give up on this
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cone or or trying to access certainparts. Well, you put her in
a onesie. There's like a surgicalonesie you bought for her horn. Yeah,
I've got that, but I haven'tput it on her yet though,
because she's been in the cone andshe's been comfortable. But like I took
her out for a walk yesterday andshe's trying to act like nothing's wrong.
I'm like, yo, you're sittingthere, laying in the grass, just
rolling around. Yeah, it isa beautiful day. So I guess there's
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something to be said about that kindof joy. So watching her navigate life
with this cone of shame on herhead has just been just it's just given
my heart. It's made my heartsing this week. I don't know why.
I didn't know that it would bewhat it is, but it really
is. It's the little things,from school ending to being on the cusp
of fifth grade to puppies that makeyou pause in real life, life,
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realize life is. You know,every moment in life is just important,
you know, it's it's the littlethings. So what's a little thing for
you that's got you feeling good thismorning? Eight sixty six, ninety seven
forty three sixty one. The phonesopen now for you at ninety seven point
one. Watch FM. We're comingup next. Speaking of phones, we're
going to take a phone call fromsomeone who wanted to talk to us yesterday.
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Yeah, we were talking about theone story you can't shake that your
family always shares about you, andthere's always one of the those stories.
So we'll hear another one of those, this one from Cindy. Just listen.
It's minutes so eight sixty six washFM. The number one tell Me
You're Chilly in the morning at ninetyseven point one wasch FM. Cindy is
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here with a story she can't shakewhenever she gets around a family. Cindy,
go ahead. When I was aboutfour years old, I don't know
what possessed me to do what Idid, but I behind our TV in
our living room, there was likea built in bookshelf, and I had
paper dolls on the bookshelf and Igot them out and I was playing with
them, and my parents had agas stove. I took some of my
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paper dolls and I turned on thestove and I set them on fire,
and then realized that it was probablya bad idea. So, I mean,
and I don't know, I wasfour, maybe I didn't realize that,
but I stuck them back in thebox and put the lid on it
and stuck it back on the shelf. And next thing you know, that
whole wall is engulfed in plane.And yeah, I said, part of
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our house on fire. Did youguys, did you burn the whole house
down or was everything okay? Nowonder they keep sharing that story. We
ended up having to move out forabout thirty days. There was a side
porch that was like right behind thewall of the living room and that got
destroyed, but it ended up becomingan eaten dining room when it was all
sudden done. So, I meanI kind of did them a favor because
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it was an enclosed part of thehouse and then it got opened up and
it was used very well throughout theyears. But yeah, we were out
of the house for a minimum thirtydays. We had to go stay with
my grandparents. Remember that time Cindywent par row and we got a new
room on the house. That's right, she's all read of it. That
was just that was just one ofthe incident. They finally put me in
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a playpen with the with it upsidedown, put the padding on the floor
and sturned the playpen upside down.They incarcerated her after she done tried to
burn the house. It's true,that's all I was. I was a
handful Dan, No, you werea alien, but we're not going to
judge. Well that too. WhenI became a teenager, got a little
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bit worse, but now I'm agood adult now at sixty, I think
I finally got it. Yeah,you just had to go through burning down
the house to get there, Cindy, thank you for jumping in this morning,
and you can always jump into thetalkback microphone always open. If you're
sending to your iHeart app listening tous, just tap speak and send us
a voice note. It's ninety sevenpoint one wash FM. We're next.
We'll try to help your mindset bysharing a quote to get you into a
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good headspace. Toby It Tilly inthe morning at ninety seven point one WASHFM.
Let's pause now and talk about youand your mindset this morning. What's
the quote you want to share toget us kind of into a good headspace
as we take on home day.From this author and motivational speaker by the
name of Seth Godin, he says, the cost of being wrong is less
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than the cost of doing nothing.Are you just not doing anything at all?
Do you realize the car that thatinaction is bringing about? It's like,
not okay, So go ahead,try something. Even if it's wrong,
it still costs less than just sittingthere doing nothing. Just being safe.
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Sometimes You've got a risk today.Take that risk. I don't know
if you needed to hear that.Maybe you know somebody who does. If
you do, share it with him, you'll find it the Toby and chilipage
at washfm dot com. Sept Godinsays, the cost of being wrong is
less than the cost of doing nothing. And that's your morning mindset for this
twelfth day of June. It's ninetyseven point one wash FM. Entertainment news
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coming up. We call it showbizBuzz. What she got, We'll tell
you which. Jonas brother revealed hisskin cancer diagnosis. Entertainment news. We
call it showbiz Buzz. You're onninety seven point one WASHFM with Toby and
Chili in the morning. What's goingon today? So, Kevin Jonas revealed
his skin cancer diagnosis after he foundhim malignant mole on his forehead. He
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shared an Instagram video yesterday talking aboutthe removal of the basil cell carcinoma.
Taylor Swift show as if we allknow, have been a huge economic hit
for host cities, but Madrid,Spain just saw the downside. They have
an uptick in COVID cases now.Taylor played to about one hundred and thirty
thousand people May twenty ninth and thirtieth, and then that coincided with an increase
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in positive COVID tests. The classicgame show Hollywood Squares making a comeback on
CBS with Drew Barrymore as the centerSquare. Nate Burreson, who co hosts
CBS Mornings and NFL Analysts, willbe hosting the new iteration of the show,
which is going to be airing Wednesdays. Joey Chestnutt reportedly being banned from
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the annual July fourth and Nathan's FamousInternational Hot Dog Eating Contest. The sixteen
time winner of that contest is notallowed to participate this year because of a
deal that he signed with the veganfood brand Possible Foods. And finally,
Pixar's Inside Out sequel looking to makea huge debut at the box office.
Inside Out two is projected to bringin between eighty and ninety million dollars over
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Father's Day weekend, which could surpassthe eighty two million dollars that was earned
by Dune Part two for the biggestweekend opening this year so far. And
that's your show biz buzz, allright, Stay with us for the news
Top stories at the top of theHour, On the Way in Minutes,
Toby and Chilly in the Morning,Top Stories Top of the Hour. The
President's son, Hunter Biden has beenconvicted on all three counts in his federal
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firearms trial. He faced up totwenty five years in prison, but sentencing
guidelines typically call for lighter punishment forfirst time offender, and no sentencing date
has been set yet. A manis facing charges for stealing nearly four thousand
dollars in products from several Northwest DCCVSstores. Police say that fifty eight year
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old Daryld Kwonder focused mostly on stealingred bull but he also reportedly stole body
wash, shampoo, and pet food. Now, if you got caught up
in an unexpected backup yesterday morning onthe northbound three ninety five Express lanes,
you can blame a family of geese. The birds were trying to navigate their
way across a dozen lanes of trafficnear Duke Street when the Safety Service patrol
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used their vehicles to corral them.Fairfax County police cracking down on street takeovers
is part of a summer crime preventioninitiative. The first wave of the program,
which started earlier. This month isfocused on street takeovers and bars and
restaurants with late hours. The campaign'sgoing to run through August, with different
focuses each month, and just intime for Father's Day, a new survey
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of dads reveals eighty seven percent ofthem consider themselves the family's handyman. Now.
Their favorite fix all to get thingsdone is duc tape. Seventy one
percent remember their own dad using ducttape to fix almost anything. Forecast for
today, it's going to beautiful sunnyeighty one, the high right now fifty
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three in Newburg, Al writing.Now that you've got the news, stay
with Toby and Chilly in the morninghere on ninety seven point one WASHFM,
because coming up in just minutes wewill get in into this survey that says
the dudes are a little bit afraidof speaking up about something pretty vital.
What's your take, Guys listening toWash, gather around numbers eight sixty six,
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ninety two, seven, forty three, sixty one. You might need
it coming up as we continue ourWednesday expedition. Next. For some reason,
there's survey out excess guys. Overhalf of American men feel like they
got to tough it out when they'renot feeling well on the job thoughts eight
sixty six, ninetywo seven forty threesixty one, eight sixty six. WASHFM
the number one talk back microphone alsowide open for you if you're signed into
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your iHeart app just tap speaking sentus a voice note. They took a
poll talk to two thousand dudes,and they say privacy concerns okay is the
number one reason why they don't likediscussing their health sixty one percent, followed
by being embarrassed thirty nine percent,or a fear of feeling less manly seventeen
percent. Interesting as a guy,first, let me ask you, do
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you feel uncomfortable talking about your healthor do you feel the need to tough
it out when you're not feeling well. I used to. I used to
feel like I didn't want to talkabout my health, and I felt like
I had to tough it out andI had to just keep on going,
because you know what, everybody feelsbad. Everybody gets sick, everybody gets
run down, play through the pain. But then, you know, I
experienced some health challenges over the lastyear that I've been very open about,
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and that switched my whole paradigm onit. So now I'm like, you
know what, Hey, listen,you're fine until you're not, and you
need to be willing to talk aboutthat stuff with whomever. You need to
talk to it, you know,talk about it with from a doctor to
family members, to employers to whomever. Yeah, because there are a lot
of people that might count on you, and if you're not at one thousand
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percent, then you know that's aproblem. I don't know. You're married,
your husband, how does he falls? I never understood that even when
he has a cold, like clearlyhe's coming down with something, Toby,
he hates to admit it. He'llsneeze and cough and I'll be like,
oh, are you getting sick?No, I'm fine, It's just it's
just a little little sniffle. I'mlike, what's wrong with admitting that you
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need a little bit of advil ordayquill? Like, who cares? You
know what. I can't really explainhow it got like programmed into guy's psyche's
that you have to play with thepain or you just need to play through
it. Don't admit that you aresick. Oh God forbid. It's just
it's just not okay. But Ithink if there's anything that the whole lockdown
should have kind of shown us isthat you know what, you're okay till
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you're not okay. And then,by the way, that little sniffle could
be something else, because that CoVI D thing is still a thing that
we don't speak of, you know. And I'm not saying we're gonna be
all shut down again, but youknow, you've got to just like not
be afraid to talk about it.And if you're not feeling okay, you've
got to be able to take asecond. I don't know, maybe that's
just me post change, but Isee where your husband's coming from. She's
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a man that's right, not sick. We were brought up to be that
way. Put a little tuss inon it, call it a day.
Well, anyway, if you've gotthoughts you want to read more about this,
you can the Toby and Chili pageat WASHFM dot com. But if
you're six, stay home, talkto a doctor. There's a reason you
have insurance, God will it.And if not, well, talk to
a doctor anyway, Shelby and Chili'snearly impossible. Question. For everything else
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there is us at eight six sixwash FM, the number one. Answer
this question and you could win today. The average one of these lasts four
days? What is it? Fourdays? Four days? Okay? If
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these last four days? What isit? M If you think you know,
call now, get it right,win these tickets to Imagine Dragons.
It's your nearly impossible question for WednesdayDay, June twelfth, and it's on
right now. Toby and Chilly's nearlyimpossible question in Alexandria. Good morning,
Rick, how are you today?Hey? I'm doing good. How you
doing? Ready to see if youcan take these Imagine Dragons tickets that we've
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got for you. If you wantto go to the show it's later on
this summer, we can hook youup things to Live Nation. Are you
ready for the question again, justin case you missed it? Okay,
the average one of these last fourdays? What do you think it is?
I believe it is a diet.So when's the last time you blew
a diet in four days there,Rick, four days ago. You know,
at least you're honest about it.That's okay, that's you know.
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Actually, I'm struggling every day betweenworking out, exercising and eating less.
But my guests would be the numberof figures I had had to be an
average of like four days. Igive up. That's a good guest there,
Rick and Alexandria. It also happensto be correct. Congratulations, Wow,
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thank you. You can eat whateveryou want. Did imagine dragons j
if you lou live August twenty second? Exciting? Yes, it will be.
You have to manifest it, allright, brother, Well, thank
you for playing this morning, andcongratulations. Hang on the line so we
can get some information from you.Hey, thanks so much. I appreciate
it. Guys. There goes Rick. Congratulations. More tickets tomorrow morning with
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another round of your nearly impossible questionin the news on the way in minutes
with top stories at the top ofthe hour, stay right there. Top
Stories Top of the Hour. HunterBiden was found guilty on all accounts of
his federal firearms trial yesterday. Thepresident's son faces up to twenty five years
in prison, but according to theDepartment of Justice. Sentences are typically shorter
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than the maximum, especially if you'rea first time offender. Virginia, Maryland,
and DC are all going to geta piece of eight seven hundred million
dollars multi state settlement with Johnson andJohnson. That agreement announced yesterday will settle
a lawsuit that was filed by morethan forty states over the use of a
sebestos in telcum powder that was meantfor babies. Crews have been painting the
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dedicated bus lanes between the Shady Grovemetro station and the hospital in anticipation of
a new bus system that's coming thisfall. So those red lanes are gonna
give healthcare workers and patients a fasterand more convenient option to battling traffic,
and it'll be rolled out in phasesstarting in September. Two d C chefs
are being nationally recognized for their skilland artistry. The James Beard Foundation made
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its annual award presentation this week.Michael Raffiti of DC's Albi Restaurant was named
this year's Outstanding Chef, and MasakoMorishida of Perry's Restaurant was named this year's
Emerging Chef and According to a recentsurvey, fifty eight percent of Americans wish
they were more adventurous. Forty onepercent have an adventure bucket list, and
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if all goes according to plan,Americans are hoping to cross off every item
on their adventure list by the timethey turn fifty six. Forecasts for today
sunny skies one the high right now, it's fifty four degrees in rest In
ladies, girl, Mom's girl,dads. If you have a young person
in your life, a daughter inyour life, a survey found that girls
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start worrying about their appearance at threeyears old. Three. That's young,
But when you think about it thesedays, is it really thoughts on this?
Eight six, six, nine two, seven forty three sixty one talk
back microphone wide open for you too. If you're signed into your iHeart app
listening to us, all you haveto do is tap speak and send us
your thoughts on that. When didyou start worrying about your appearance? We'll
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get into this next. Forget abouttalking about a glass ceiling, Let's talk
about the mirror. The glass mirrorninety seven point one WASHFM or Toby and
Chilly in the morning. If you'vegot thoughts on this Ladies, girl,
dads, anybody with a young womanin their lives feel free to call now
eight sixty six WASHEFM the number onetalk back microphone open two, just tap
speak and sen if you're suned intoyour iHeart app. There's a study out
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that says that girls as young asthree are now starting to worry about their
appearance and the need to feel prettyor look pretty, to find pretty or
look pretty. Well, the factthat they're even thinking about such a thing
at the age of three, itis shocking. I mean to me,
that's like, Wow, you're justlearning how to string sentences together to have
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the wherewithal to be like, oh, this doesn't make me look attractive.
That's a sad, sad thing.Did that happen to you at three?
No, I don't believe. Idon't think I was thinking about the three.
However, I will say I wasyoung. I was probably nine or
ten when I started to realize,oh, appearances matter, and I have
to look a certain way if I'ma girl because of you know, comments
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people would make about the weight orwhether you're chubby, and using words like
that. Sure, yeah, thatstuff can definitely imprint them. Do you
remember like how well your daughter mayhave been when I want to start to
worry about that middle school when shestarted asking about makeup, you know,
when she picked it up from otherfriends and other people, like she used
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to not really think about that.I mean, Kyla, it's three,
would not have been concerned at allabout how you look. Think which is
good? You know, three tofive three, So that's to me,
it's weird, like I'm trying tofigure out when the switch flips on.
Now. I get that the worldthat they're growing up and is completely different
than the when that we grew upin sure, you know, everything is
insta fabulous. I mean, I'mreading stories about votox and people getting in
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their twenties and then their teeth whitenedas kids. And part of it is
like not to anything against Disney,but the exposure to Disney princess culture and
now the princesses look and how theprincess is dressed, so it's there right,
Like it's hard to compete with acartoon. We all have to look
so pretty. I mean, really, I want to look like what's your
name? From inside out? No, it's not gonna happen. I don't
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know, thoughts on this eight sixtysix wash FM, the number one.
You can tap the talkback microphone ifit's easier for you, just to leave
us a voice message. You've gotto be sunned into your iHeart app.
Do you remember when it is thatyou started thinking about your appearance? Do
you think that three to five Iwas kind of young? What's your take
on this? We'll get into itas Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues
here at ninety seven point one washFM. Next though, let's talk a
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little bit about parenting and forgetting certainthings as a parent, which some kids
might consider to be milestone. Ourproducer Taylor sha feels so guilty that she
missed her son's big milestone. She'llexplain herself and her feelings of guilt coming
up as a parent. Maybe youcan relate. Stay with us, Toby
and Chilly in the Morning. It'sninety seven point one WASHFM. Here comes
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Taylor Shae, the producer. Explainyour feelings of guilt as a parent to
us. What's going on? Soyesterday was my son's preschool graduation. I
don't know how I got the datesmixed up, but I missed it and
I didn't realize it until I rolledup to pick him up from school and
they're like, well, Miles isback on the playground. He's waiting for
you, which is out of theordinary. And I walk back there there's
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a step and repeat with balloons andthere's a platform holding a certificate. And
I was like, oh, no, I missed it. So why does
this bother you as much as itis? When I was a kid,
my parents never came to any ofmy school events. And I said,
I'm gonna be better than that.And so far I have shown up to
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every single one, the big onesand the little ones, and then I
mix up the dates and I've forgottenthis one. Oh good Lord. I
don't know how you feel about this, Toby, But are we getting a
little out of hand with all thesegraduations for things? No? I think
they're milestones. But I think sheneeds to forgive herself and give herself some
grades. She's a parent who,amongst us, has not screwed up a
date or put something in a calendar. Le harder for us by creating graduations
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that don't need graduations. I'm goingthere, Come on, milestone is important.
We were growing up, we didn'thave a preschool graduation. She had
certain things like kindergarten graduations and elementaryschool graduations. I remember, everybody gets
an award, everybody gets apprised.Eighties we didn't. Well I was in
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the eighties too, and we did. Okay, Maybe I was just in
a different educational environment where they wantedus to celebrate these successes. Well,
to be fair, this was notabout Miles. He won't remember it.
Yes, this was for the parents. I'm more disappointed for me than I
am for Miles. Well there's thattoo, Well that you have a second
son. Maybe, Yeah, youhave a chance to redeem yourself, especially
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now considering that you've scarred poor Milesfor life. No, I'm just piling
on. No, you got togive yourself some grace because you know what,
this won't be the first Nora.Will it be the last thing you
forget or screw up on a calendar? But Chilli, I got to disagree.
I think that these these moments areimportant. Okay, they make you
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feel some sort of way as ayoung individual. Ask your son, Yeah,
my son doesn't remember any of that, thank you, he will just
give him time. Coming up newstop stories at the of the hour as
Toby and Chilly in the Morning continueson this Wednesday. No, the only
thing my son remembers is having somecupcakes. Okay, I've got to push
this bat Top Stories, Top ofthe Hour. Hunter Biden has been found
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guilty on all accounts in his federalfirearms trial. He faces up to twenty
five years in prison, but sentencingguidelines typically call for lighter punishment for a
first time offender. A man isfacing charges for stealing nearly four thousand dollars
in products from several Northwest DC CVSstores. Police say that fifty eight year
old Darrow Kwander focused mostly on stealingred bull, but he also stole body
(22:37):
wash, shampoo, and pet food. Some Arlington parents are urging the school
district to adopt and a Way forthe Day policy for student cell phone use.
The group Arlington Parents for Education saythat adopting such a policy improves students'
academic performance and also reduces stress andanxiety. A long running Maryland fair is
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not going to be held this year. Organizers of the Prince George's County Fair
said in a post yesterday that theydon't have enough volunteers to have the September
event and Republicans are going to betaking on Democrats tonight in a renewal of
a tradition that started back in nineteenoh nine. The Congressional baseball game is
going to be played at Nationals Parktonight, with the first pitch schedule for
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seven five, and all the proceedsfrom that game will go to various charities.
Forecast for today lots of sun highsaround eighty one right now, sixty
one degrees in Rockville. When didyou start to worry about how you look?
When did you start to worry aboutyour appearance? Eight six' six
was FM? The number one studyout says girls as young as three are
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worried about looking pretty? Would yousay this is true? False? Why
jump into the conversation. We'll getinto it next talkback. Microphones also open
for you too. Tap the microphone, leave us a message if that's easier
for you, and we look forwardto hearing what you have to say.
Come on, So it wasn't twoor three for you, you say it
was nine or ten when you firststarted feeling like you needed to look pretty.
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Yeah. Unfortunately, these girls aregetting younger and younger with being self
conscious about their appearance. I knowthat this is about girls in this study,
But as a guy I started worryingabout my appearance in middle school when
I wanted to win some best dressaward. I was number two fourth the
Doo Dooo one, though he rightlyshould have won. He was a very
good looking dude and whatever he choseto wear. Toby at Chilly in the
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Morning at eight six six nine two, seven forty three sixty one, talk
back microphone open if you've got thoughts? So when did you start to worry
about your appearance? There, Robertand Fairfax, you have thoughts? High
school was that time for me?I started to dress better and I did
everything that I could to get ridof my acne. It was an awkward
time, but it just like bestto look good. That acne is a
thing. Robert and Fairfax, thanksfor jumping in. Thankfully I dodged that
acne bullet a lot of other issues, not so much you didn't get You
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didn't have to deal with the retneor whatever. That that cream was called
very bizarre. Mikayla listening this morningand Oxen Hill, when did you start
to worry about your appearance? Manpo When I turned twenty seven, I
realized so many changes like wrinkled hairand places it shouldn't be. My metabolism
completely slow down. I realized Ireally had to step it up and just
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take care of myself because it's justgonna go downhill from here if I don't.
Well. Thankfully you came to thatrealization. Now, please wear sunscreen.
Right. You got two good decadesplus out of that whole appearance thing,
and then life showed up eight six, six, nine two, seven
forty three sixty one. That's eightysixty six wash FM the number one.
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That's the number to caller. Youcan tap the talkback microphone if you've got
some thoughts and it's easy for youto send a voice message to us this
morning. Just make sure you're signedinto your iHeart app listening to ninety seven
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What more, Toby and Jilly headover to washfm dot com or the iHeartRadio app.
Toby and Chili Mornings on demand onninety seven point one chef Ouse. So,
why are you feeling good today?Before five o'clock in the morning where
Toby and Chilli in the morning.It's ninety seven point one wash chef m
Why are you feeling good today?There, chiliamar. It's the last day
of school in Fairfax County. Oh, look at you go, and my
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son is finishing the fourth grade.There you go on to the fifth,
on to the fifth That is awesome. Yeah, that's very good stuff.
I'm feeling good today because it's awesometo watch my little puppy, who's not
so much of a puppy anymore.It's just over a year old. Her
name's Nova Luna navigate life. Nowthat she has her girl parts out with
a cone on her head, likeshe is refusing to give up on this
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cone or or trying to access certainparts. Well, you put her in
a onesie. There's like a surgicalonesie you bought for her horn. Yeah,
I've got that, but I haven'tput it on her yet though,
because she's been in the cone andshe's been comfortable. But like I took
her out for a walk yesterday andshe's trying to act like nothing's wrong.
I'm like, yo, you're sittingthere, laying in the grass, just
rolling around. Yeah, it isa beautiful day. So I guess there's
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something to be said about that kindof joy. So watching her navigate life
with this cone of shame on herhead has just been just it's just given
my heart. It's made my heartsing this week. I don't know why.
I didn't know that it would bewhat it is, but it really
is. It's the little things,from school ending to being on the cusp
of fifth grade to puppies that makeyou pause in real life, life,
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realize life is. You know,every moment in life is just important,
you know, it's it's the littlethings. So what's a little thing for
you that's got you feeling good thismorning? Eight sixty six, ninety seven
forty three sixty one. The phonesopen now for you at ninety seven point
one. Watch FM. We're comingup next. Speaking of phones, we're
going to take a phone call fromsomeone who wanted to talk to us yesterday.
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Yeah, we were talking about theone story you can't shake that your
family always shares about you, andthere's always one of the those stories.
So we'll hear another one of those, this one from Cindy. Just listen.
It's minutes so eight sixty six washFM. The number one tell Me
You're Chilly in the morning at ninetyseven point one wasch FM. Cindy is
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here with a story she can't shakewhenever she gets around a family. Cindy,
go ahead. When I was aboutfour years old, I don't know
what possessed me to do what Idid, but I behind our TV in
our living room, there was likea built in bookshelf, and I had
paper dolls on the bookshelf and Igot them out and I was playing with
them, and my parents had agas stove. I took some of my
(02:38):
paper dolls and I turned on thestove and I set them on fire,
and then realized that it was probablya bad idea. So, I mean,
and I don't know, I wasfour, maybe I didn't realize that,
but I stuck them back in thebox and put the lid on it
and stuck it back on the shelf. And next thing you know, that
whole wall is engulfed in plane.And yeah, I said, part of
(03:04):
our house on fire. Did youguys, did you burn the whole house
down or was everything okay? Nowonder they keep sharing that story. We
ended up having to move out forabout thirty days. There was a side
porch that was like right behind thewall of the living room and that got
destroyed, but it ended up becomingan eaten dining room when it was all
sudden done. So, I meanI kind of did them a favor because
(03:27):
it was an enclosed part of thehouse and then it got opened up and
it was used very well throughout theyears. But yeah, we were out
of the house for a minimum thirtydays. We had to go stay with
my grandparents. Remember that time Cindywent par row and we got a new
room on the house. That's right, she's all read of it. That
was just that was just one ofthe incident. They finally put me in
(03:50):
a playpen with the with it upsidedown, put the padding on the floor
and sturned the playpen upside down.They incarcerated her after she done tried to
burn the house. It's true,that's all I was. I was a
handful Dan, No, you werea alien, but we're not going to
judge. Well that too. WhenI became a teenager, got a little
(04:11):
bit worse, but now I'm agood adult now at sixty, I think
I finally got it. Yeah,you just had to go through burning down
the house to get there, Cindy, thank you for jumping in this morning,
and you can always jump into thetalkback microphone always open. If you're
sending to your iHeart app listening tous, just tap speak and send us
a voice note. It's ninety sevenpoint one wash FM. We're next.
We'll try to help your mindset bysharing a quote to get you into a
(04:34):
good headspace. Toby It Tilly inthe morning at ninety seven point one WASHFM.
Let's pause now and talk about youand your mindset this morning. What's
the quote you want to share toget us kind of into a good headspace
as we take on home day.From this author and motivational speaker by the
name of Seth Godin, he says, the cost of being wrong is less
(04:54):
than the cost of doing nothing.Are you just not doing anything at all?
Do you realize the car that thatinaction is bringing about? It's like,
not okay, So go ahead,try something. Even if it's wrong,
it still costs less than just sittingthere doing nothing. Just being safe.
(05:15):
Sometimes You've got a risk today.Take that risk. I don't know
if you needed to hear that.Maybe you know somebody who does. If
you do, share it with him, you'll find it the Toby and chilipage
at washfm dot com. Sept Godinsays, the cost of being wrong is
less than the cost of doing nothing. And that's your morning mindset for this
twelfth day of June. It's ninetyseven point one wash FM. Entertainment news
(05:36):
coming up. We call it showbizBuzz. What she got, We'll tell
you which. Jonas brother revealed hisskin cancer diagnosis. Entertainment news. We
call it showbiz Buzz. You're onninety seven point one WASHFM with Toby and
Chili in the morning. What's goingon today? So, Kevin Jonas revealed
his skin cancer diagnosis after he foundhim malignant mole on his forehead. He
(05:58):
shared an Instagram video yesterday talking aboutthe removal of the basil cell carcinoma.
Taylor Swift show as if we allknow, have been a huge economic hit
for host cities, but Madrid,Spain just saw the downside. They have
an uptick in COVID cases now.Taylor played to about one hundred and thirty
thousand people May twenty ninth and thirtieth, and then that coincided with an increase
(06:23):
in positive COVID tests. The classicgame show Hollywood Squares making a comeback on
CBS with Drew Barrymore as the centerSquare. Nate Burreson, who co hosts
CBS Mornings and NFL Analysts, willbe hosting the new iteration of the show,
which is going to be airing Wednesdays. Joey Chestnutt reportedly being banned from
(06:46):
the annual July fourth and Nathan's FamousInternational Hot Dog Eating Contest. The sixteen
time winner of that contest is notallowed to participate this year because of a
deal that he signed with the veganfood brand Possible Foods. And finally,
Pixar's Inside Out sequel looking to makea huge debut at the box office.
Inside Out two is projected to bringin between eighty and ninety million dollars over
(07:11):
Father's Day weekend, which could surpassthe eighty two million dollars that was earned
by Dune Part two for the biggestweekend opening this year so far. And
that's your show biz buzz, allright, Stay with us for the news
Top stories at the top of theHour, On the Way in Minutes,
Toby and Chilly in the Morning,Top Stories Top of the Hour. The
President's son, Hunter Biden has beenconvicted on all three counts in his federal
(07:36):
firearms trial. He faced up totwenty five years in prison, but sentencing
guidelines typically call for lighter punishment forfirst time offender, and no sentencing date
has been set yet. A manis facing charges for stealing nearly four thousand
dollars in products from several Northwest DCCVSstores. Police say that fifty eight year
(07:56):
old Daryld Kwonder focused mostly on stealingred bull but he also reportedly stole body
wash, shampoo, and pet food. Now, if you got caught up
in an unexpected backup yesterday morning onthe northbound three ninety five Express lanes,
you can blame a family of geese. The birds were trying to navigate their
way across a dozen lanes of trafficnear Duke Street when the Safety Service patrol
(08:20):
used their vehicles to corral them.Fairfax County police cracking down on street takeovers
is part of a summer crime preventioninitiative. The first wave of the program,
which started earlier. This month isfocused on street takeovers and bars and
restaurants with late hours. The campaign'sgoing to run through August, with different
focuses each month, and just intime for Father's Day, a new survey
(08:41):
of dads reveals eighty seven percent ofthem consider themselves the family's handyman. Now.
Their favorite fix all to get thingsdone is duc tape. Seventy one
percent remember their own dad using ducttape to fix almost anything. Forecast for
today, it's going to beautiful sunnyeighty one, the high right now fifty
(09:01):
three in Newburg, Al writing.Now that you've got the news, stay
with Toby and Chilly in the morninghere on ninety seven point one WASHFM,
because coming up in just minutes wewill get in into this survey that says
the dudes are a little bit afraidof speaking up about something pretty vital.
What's your take, Guys listening toWash, gather around numbers eight sixty six,
(09:22):
ninety two, seven, forty three, sixty one. You might need
it coming up as we continue ourWednesday expedition. Next. For some reason,
there's survey out excess guys. Overhalf of American men feel like they
got to tough it out when they'renot feeling well on the job thoughts eight
sixty six, ninetywo seven forty threesixty one, eight sixty six. WASHFM
the number one talk back microphone alsowide open for you if you're signed into
(09:45):
your iHeart app just tap speaking sentus a voice note. They took a
poll talk to two thousand dudes,and they say privacy concerns okay is the
number one reason why they don't likediscussing their health sixty one percent, followed
by being embarrassed thirty nine percent,or a fear of feeling less manly seventeen
percent. Interesting as a guy,first, let me ask you, do
(10:09):
you feel uncomfortable talking about your healthor do you feel the need to tough
it out when you're not feeling well. I used to. I used to
feel like I didn't want to talkabout my health, and I felt like
I had to tough it out andI had to just keep on going,
because you know what, everybody feelsbad. Everybody gets sick, everybody gets
run down, play through the pain. But then, you know, I
experienced some health challenges over the lastyear that I've been very open about,
(10:33):
and that switched my whole paradigm onit. So now I'm like, you
know what, Hey, listen,you're fine until you're not, and you
need to be willing to talk aboutthat stuff with whomever. You need to
talk to it, you know,talk about it with from a doctor to
family members, to employers to whomever. Yeah, because there are a lot
of people that might count on you, and if you're not at one thousand
(10:54):
percent, then you know that's aproblem. I don't know. You're married,
your husband, how does he falls? I never understood that even when
he has a cold, like clearlyhe's coming down with something, Toby,
he hates to admit it. He'llsneeze and cough and I'll be like,
oh, are you getting sick?No, I'm fine, It's just it's
just a little little sniffle. I'mlike, what's wrong with admitting that you
(11:16):
need a little bit of advil ordayquill? Like, who cares? You
know what. I can't really explainhow it got like programmed into guy's psyche's
that you have to play with thepain or you just need to play through
it. Don't admit that you aresick. Oh God forbid. It's just
it's just not okay. But Ithink if there's anything that the whole lockdown
should have kind of shown us isthat you know what, you're okay till
(11:39):
you're not okay. And then,by the way, that little sniffle could
be something else, because that CoVI D thing is still a thing that
we don't speak of, you know. And I'm not saying we're gonna be
all shut down again, but youknow, you've got to just like not
be afraid to talk about it.And if you're not feeling okay, you've
got to be able to take asecond. I don't know, maybe that's
just me post change, but Isee where your husband's coming from. She's
(12:05):
a man that's right, not sick. We were brought up to be that
way. Put a little tuss inon it, call it a day.
Well, anyway, if you've gotthoughts you want to read more about this,
you can the Toby and Chili pageat WASHFM dot com. But if
you're six, stay home, talkto a doctor. There's a reason you
have insurance, God will it.And if not, well, talk to
a doctor anyway, Shelby and Chili'snearly impossible. Question. For everything else
(12:26):
there is us at eight six sixwash FM, the number one. Answer
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these last four days? What isit? M If you think you know,
call now, get it right,win these tickets to Imagine Dragons.
It's your nearly impossible question for WednesdayDay, June twelfth, and it's on
right now. Toby and Chilly's nearlyimpossible question in Alexandria. Good morning,
Rick, how are you today?Hey? I'm doing good. How you
doing? Ready to see if youcan take these Imagine Dragons tickets that we've
(13:13):
got for you. If you wantto go to the show it's later on
this summer, we can hook youup things to Live Nation. Are you
ready for the question again, justin case you missed it? Okay,
the average one of these last fourdays? What do you think it is?
I believe it is a diet.So when's the last time you blew
a diet in four days there,Rick, four days ago. You know,
at least you're honest about it.That's okay, that's you know.
(13:35):
Actually, I'm struggling every day betweenworking out, exercising and eating less.
But my guests would be the numberof figures I had had to be an
average of like four days. Igive up. That's a good guest there,
Rick and Alexandria. It also happensto be correct. Congratulations, Wow,
(13:56):
thank you. You can eat whateveryou want. Did imagine dragons j
if you lou live August twenty second? Exciting? Yes, it will be.
You have to manifest it, allright, brother, Well, thank
you for playing this morning, andcongratulations. Hang on the line so we
can get some information from you.Hey, thanks so much. I appreciate
it. Guys. There goes Rick. Congratulations. More tickets tomorrow morning with
(14:18):
another round of your nearly impossible questionin the news on the way in minutes
with top stories at the top ofthe hour, stay right there. Top
Stories Top of the Hour. HunterBiden was found guilty on all accounts of
his federal firearms trial yesterday. Thepresident's son faces up to twenty five years
in prison, but according to theDepartment of Justice. Sentences are typically shorter
(14:39):
than the maximum, especially if you'rea first time offender. Virginia, Maryland,
and DC are all going to geta piece of eight seven hundred million
dollars multi state settlement with Johnson andJohnson. That agreement announced yesterday will settle
a lawsuit that was filed by morethan forty states over the use of a
sebestos in telcum powder that was meantfor babies. Crews have been painting the
(15:01):
dedicated bus lanes between the Shady Grovemetro station and the hospital in anticipation of
a new bus system that's coming thisfall. So those red lanes are gonna
give healthcare workers and patients a fasterand more convenient option to battling traffic,
and it'll be rolled out in phasesstarting in September. Two d C chefs
are being nationally recognized for their skilland artistry. The James Beard Foundation made
(15:24):
its annual award presentation this week.Michael Raffiti of DC's Albi Restaurant was named
this year's Outstanding Chef, and MasakoMorishida of Perry's Restaurant was named this year's
Emerging Chef and According to a recentsurvey, fifty eight percent of Americans wish
they were more adventurous. Forty onepercent have an adventure bucket list, and
(15:48):
if all goes according to plan,Americans are hoping to cross off every item
on their adventure list by the timethey turn fifty six. Forecasts for today
sunny skies one the high right now, it's fifty four degrees in rest In
ladies, girl, Mom's girl,dads. If you have a young person
in your life, a daughter inyour life, a survey found that girls
(16:11):
start worrying about their appearance at threeyears old. Three. That's young,
But when you think about it thesedays, is it really thoughts on this?
Eight six, six, nine two, seven forty three sixty one talk
back microphone wide open for you too. If you're signed into your iHeart app
listening to us, all you haveto do is tap speak and send us
your thoughts on that. When didyou start worrying about your appearance? We'll
(16:32):
get into this next. Forget abouttalking about a glass ceiling, Let's talk
about the mirror. The glass mirrorninety seven point one WASHFM or Toby and
Chilly in the morning. If you'vegot thoughts on this Ladies, girl,
dads, anybody with a young womanin their lives feel free to call now
eight sixty six WASHEFM the number onetalk back microphone open two, just tap
speak and sen if you're suned intoyour iHeart app. There's a study out
(16:52):
that says that girls as young asthree are now starting to worry about their
appearance and the need to feel prettyor look pretty, to find pretty or
look pretty. Well, the factthat they're even thinking about such a thing
at the age of three, itis shocking. I mean to me,
that's like, Wow, you're justlearning how to string sentences together to have
(17:15):
the wherewithal to be like, oh, this doesn't make me look attractive.
That's a sad, sad thing.Did that happen to you at three?
No, I don't believe. Idon't think I was thinking about the three.
However, I will say I wasyoung. I was probably nine or
ten when I started to realize,oh, appearances matter, and I have
to look a certain way if I'ma girl because of you know, comments
(17:37):
people would make about the weight orwhether you're chubby, and using words like
that. Sure, yeah, thatstuff can definitely imprint them. Do you
remember like how well your daughter mayhave been when I want to start to
worry about that middle school when shestarted asking about makeup, you know,
when she picked it up from otherfriends and other people, like she used
(17:59):
to not really think about that.I mean, Kyla, it's three,
would not have been concerned at allabout how you look. Think which is
good? You know, three tofive three, So that's to me,
it's weird, like I'm trying tofigure out when the switch flips on.
Now. I get that the worldthat they're growing up and is completely different
than the when that we grew upin sure, you know, everything is
insta fabulous. I mean, I'mreading stories about votox and people getting in
(18:22):
their twenties and then their teeth whitenedas kids. And part of it is
like not to anything against Disney,but the exposure to Disney princess culture and
now the princesses look and how theprincess is dressed, so it's there right,
Like it's hard to compete with acartoon. We all have to look
so pretty. I mean, really, I want to look like what's your
name? From inside out? No, it's not gonna happen. I don't
(18:45):
know, thoughts on this eight sixtysix wash FM, the number one.
You can tap the talkback microphone ifit's easier for you, just to leave
us a voice message. You've gotto be sunned into your iHeart app.
Do you remember when it is thatyou started thinking about your appearance? Do
you think that three to five Iwas kind of young? What's your take
on this? We'll get into itas Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues
here at ninety seven point one washFM. Next though, let's talk a
(19:07):
little bit about parenting and forgetting certainthings as a parent, which some kids
might consider to be milestone. Ourproducer Taylor sha feels so guilty that she
missed her son's big milestone. She'llexplain herself and her feelings of guilt coming
up as a parent. Maybe youcan relate. Stay with us, Toby
and Chilly in the Morning. It'sninety seven point one WASHFM. Here comes
(19:30):
Taylor Shae, the producer. Explainyour feelings of guilt as a parent to
us. What's going on? Soyesterday was my son's preschool graduation. I
don't know how I got the datesmixed up, but I missed it and
I didn't realize it until I rolledup to pick him up from school and
they're like, well, Miles isback on the playground. He's waiting for
you, which is out of theordinary. And I walk back there there's
(19:55):
a step and repeat with balloons andthere's a platform holding a certificate. And
I was like, oh, no, I missed it. So why does
this bother you as much as itis? When I was a kid,
my parents never came to any ofmy school events. And I said,
I'm gonna be better than that.And so far I have shown up to
(20:18):
every single one, the big onesand the little ones, and then I
mix up the dates and I've forgottenthis one. Oh good Lord. I
don't know how you feel about this, Toby, But are we getting a
little out of hand with all thesegraduations for things? No? I think
they're milestones. But I think sheneeds to forgive herself and give herself some
grades. She's a parent who,amongst us, has not screwed up a
date or put something in a calendar. Le harder for us by creating graduations
(20:40):
that don't need graduations. I'm goingthere, Come on, milestone is important.
We were growing up, we didn'thave a preschool graduation. She had
certain things like kindergarten graduations and elementaryschool graduations. I remember, everybody gets
an award, everybody gets apprised.Eighties we didn't. Well I was in
(21:02):
the eighties too, and we did. Okay, Maybe I was just in
a different educational environment where they wantedus to celebrate these successes. Well,
to be fair, this was notabout Miles. He won't remember it.
Yes, this was for the parents. I'm more disappointed for me than I
am for Miles. Well there's thattoo, Well that you have a second
son. Maybe, Yeah, youhave a chance to redeem yourself, especially
(21:29):
now considering that you've scarred poor Milesfor life. No, I'm just piling
on. No, you got togive yourself some grace because you know what,
this won't be the first Nora.Will it be the last thing you
forget or screw up on a calendar? But Chilli, I got to disagree.
I think that these these moments areimportant. Okay, they make you
(21:49):
feel some sort of way as ayoung individual. Ask your son, Yeah,
my son doesn't remember any of that, thank you, he will just
give him time. Coming up newstop stories at the of the hour as
Toby and Chilly in the Morning continueson this Wednesday. No, the only
thing my son remembers is having somecupcakes. Okay, I've got to push
this bat Top Stories, Top ofthe Hour. Hunter Biden has been found
(22:14):
guilty on all accounts in his federalfirearms trial. He faces up to twenty
five years in prison, but sentencingguidelines typically call for lighter punishment for a
first time offender. A man isfacing charges for stealing nearly four thousand dollars
in products from several Northwest DC CVSstores. Police say that fifty eight year
old Darrow Kwander focused mostly on stealingred bull, but he also stole body
(22:37):
wash, shampoo, and pet food. Some Arlington parents are urging the school
district to adopt and a Way forthe Day policy for student cell phone use.
The group Arlington Parents for Education saythat adopting such a policy improves students'
academic performance and also reduces stress andanxiety. A long running Maryland fair is
(22:59):
not going to be held this year. Organizers of the Prince George's County Fair
said in a post yesterday that theydon't have enough volunteers to have the September
event and Republicans are going to betaking on Democrats tonight in a renewal of
a tradition that started back in nineteenoh nine. The Congressional baseball game is
going to be played at Nationals Parktonight, with the first pitch schedule for
(23:22):
seven five, and all the proceedsfrom that game will go to various charities.
Forecast for today lots of sun highsaround eighty one right now, sixty
one degrees in Rockville. When didyou start to worry about how you look?
When did you start to worry aboutyour appearance? Eight six' six
was FM? The number one studyout says girls as young as three are
(23:44):
worried about looking pretty? Would yousay this is true? False? Why
jump into the conversation. We'll getinto it next talkback. Microphones also open
for you too. Tap the microphone, leave us a message if that's easier
for you, and we look forwardto hearing what you have to say.
Come on, So it wasn't twoor three for you, you say it
was nine or ten when you firststarted feeling like you needed to look pretty.
(24:06):
Yeah. Unfortunately, these girls aregetting younger and younger with being self
conscious about their appearance. I knowthat this is about girls in this study,
But as a guy I started worryingabout my appearance in middle school when
I wanted to win some best dressaward. I was number two fourth the
Doo Dooo one, though he rightlyshould have won. He was a very
good looking dude and whatever he choseto wear. Toby at Chilly in the
(24:29):
Morning at eight six six nine two, seven forty three sixty one, talk
back microphone open if you've got thoughts? So when did you start to worry
about your appearance? There, Robertand Fairfax, you have thoughts? High
school was that time for me?I started to dress better and I did
everything that I could to get ridof my acne. It was an awkward
time, but it just like bestto look good. That acne is a
thing. Robert and Fairfax, thanksfor jumping in. Thankfully I dodged that
acne bullet a lot of other issues, not so much you didn't get You
(24:53):
didn't have to deal with the retneor whatever. That that cream was called
very bizarre. Mikayla listening this morningand Oxen Hill, when did you start
to worry about your appearance? Manpo When I turned twenty seven, I
realized so many changes like wrinkled hairand places it shouldn't be. My metabolism
completely slow down. I realized Ireally had to step it up and just
(25:14):
take care of myself because it's justgonna go downhill from here if I don't.
Well. Thankfully you came to thatrealization. Now, please wear sunscreen.
Right. You got two good decadesplus out of that whole appearance thing,
and then life showed up eight six, six, nine two, seven
forty three sixty one. That's eightysixty six wash FM the number one.
(25:34):
That's the number to caller. Youcan tap the talkback microphone if you've got
some thoughts and it's easy for youto send a voice message to us this
morning. Just make sure you're signedinto your iHeart app listening to ninety seven
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