September 3, 2025 • 32 mins
Toby blindsided by his daughter's unexpected guest. The best times of the day to do common tasks. EMAIL...listener wants to know if he's justified in being upset that his ex wife kept his last name. We react and solicit for calls.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Masha, about is you feeling good this morning?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
There, Chili, Amar, There's always a reason to feel good
in the morning because it's a brand new day, and
we love to start each brand new day in a
very positive way. So if you've got something positive to
share with the class, eight sixty six, nine two, seven
forty three sixty one is the number. And Chili, what
do you have that has you feeling all good before
(00:30):
five this morning?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Well, like many of us yesterday going into school more work.
My son had the Sunday scaries right on Monday. He
was like not wanting to go back after a nice
forty weekend for him, and I was pretty concerned that
he was going to have a rough transition back to school,
(00:52):
but alas he did not. Well, that's good, persevered, He
you know, was a to manage his fluctuating emotions and
regulate himself. So I'm very proud and I'm happy that
I didn't get a note, a note or a.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Phone call phone call, which is worse the note of
the phone call.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
The phone call is worse because that means that there
is something more emergent going on, like, Okay, your kid.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Is really one take away from an emergency. Come and
get your kid. Your kid is freaking out. Well that's good,
little Donato. Congratulations, you have a brand new day ahead
of you and you can do it.
Speaker 5 (01:38):
You can do it.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
You got we can't all good?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
There you go?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
What about you?
Speaker 5 (01:43):
Why are you really great? Today?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Because I got home and Kyla is in her room
with her friend, I almost said his name whatever, Bobby
is his name, and they're cleaning oh, and I'm like, oh,
well I should say. Bobby was doing a lot of
the cleaning. And I noticed that, and I said to Kyla,
(02:06):
I go, you need to say thank you to Bobby
for cleaning your stuff up.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Love it.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Well, it wasn't all of it, though. It's not like
Kyla didn't do anything.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
But you know, having a guest do any cleaning is
pretty impressive.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
And I was like, yes, because it's something that Kyla
would not have done had that guest not been there.
So Bobby already earning his keep, already earning his keep,
paying the rents as it were. So I'm feeling good
about that this morning. You might be feeling good about
something today. We would love to hear about it. Tap
(02:41):
the talk back microphone. Tell us why you're feeling good
this morning, so we can so we can celebrate speak much,
so we can celebrate the joy that you are feeling
this morning. Now, we've got the news coming up. Top
Stories at the top of the hour. What's going down.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Fairfax County testing a new AI system to handle non
emergency calls. We've got the details on the way.
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Top Stories. Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Top Story is presented by Celsius Energy Drinks. Victims of
the late Jeffrey Epstein and Glaine Maxwell are going to
be speaking out on Capitol Hill today as the investigation
into the so called Epstein Files continues. President Trump says
he plans to send federal law enforcement and possibly the
National Guard to both Chicago and Baltimore, although he has
(03:30):
not specified a timeline. The mayors of both cities are
calling the move politically motivated and unwelcome. In Old Town, Alexandria,
woman faces charges for allegedly running a brothel out of
an Airbnb. Le say she was linked to the case
after investigating a man's July fifth death and finding text
messages arranging a meeting with a sex worker The University
(03:52):
of Maryland is the latest college that received a false
active shooter report near the library yesterday. Campus police found
nothing suspicious. Fairfax County right now testing a new AI
system to handle non emergency nine to one one calls
like permit questions or noise complaints, and it's all to
(04:15):
get callers connected with the right help faster. Real Housewives
of Potomac star Karen Hooger was released from the Montgomery
County Detention Center yesterday after she served about six months
for a duy crash in Potomac last year. In LA,
a jury cleared Cardi b of assault in a civil
case that was brought on by a former security guard
(04:37):
who claimed that she was scratched during a twenty eighteen altercation,
and that verdict came in just about an hour of deliberation.
And a new survey finds it over forty percent of
adults avoid hosting their guests at home because they're worried
about the mess. Common trouble spots include holidays and parties
with kids, often causing chaos, but many see the mishaps
(04:58):
as funny moments or even opportunities to turn the cleanup
into a bonding experience forecast for today, lots of sun again,
beautifuls eighty to the high right now fifty three in
false Church and that is.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Seen News with Toby and Chilly in the morning. You
get top stories at the top of the hour and
coming up in just minutes, we want to talk about
you and your morning mindset. Are you doing okay today, Well,
we'll talk about you in just a few Stay with
us on this Wednesday morning, Toby at Chili in the
(05:34):
morning on this Wednesday it's ninety seven point one wash FM,
and it's time for us to talk about you and
where you are mentally today as we work our way
through another week together.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
And if you need a little help with your morning mindset,
then we're going to share a quote Elon Musk.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Love him or hate him, he knows a little bit
about success. He says, when if something is important enough,
you do it even if the odds are not in
your favor. Elon Musk, he says, when something is important enough,
you do it even if the odds aren't in your favor.
There will be times in life when things are not
(06:18):
in your favor. There will be times that the deck
is Let's be honest, stacked against you, but if it's
important enough, do it anyway. Elon Musk, thank you, Thank
you for listening to your morning mindset. Hopefully you can
take it and share it with somebody who might have
needed to hear it. Maybe that's someone with you. And
if you want to find it so you can hear
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it again, you will. It's on the Tobya Chilly page.
Just search for today's podcast and coming up a little
bit later on this morning.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Yesterday, on the show, we talked about the study that
exposes the ugly side of borrowing money from friends and family.
So we asked you who have you borrowed money from
and how did it affect your relationship? And it looks
like a couple of you wanted to jump in on
that conversation this morning.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
More thoughts minutes away with Toby and Chili in the morning,
hang out, talk back, wide open for you. All you
need to do is be signed into your iHeart app,
then you can jump into any conversation you hear with
Toby and Chile in the morning. It's ninety seven point
one watchef M. I'm thinking specifically about the conversation that
(07:28):
we had yesterday, Chilly.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
We were talking about how damaging it can be to
any relationship, friend or family if you borrow or lend money,
and oftentimes it ruins a relationship, especially when it doesn't
get paid back.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
And you've got thoughts on this, So let's get out
of the way and listen right now.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Jordan, who lives in southeast d C. Go ahead. What happened.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
I borrowed money from my brother and it was a
big mistake. I couldn't pay him back in the timeframe
we set up, and he just stopped inviting me the things.
I guess that was like punishment or something. We got
into this big fight and we didn't talk to each.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Other for all of the year.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Are you on speaking terms now?
Speaker 6 (08:09):
We finally did make up, but I'll never borrow money
from a family member again.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Lesson learned?
Speaker 3 (08:15):
What about you, Monica? And good morning in Alexandria.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
I borrowed money from a close friend.
Speaker 6 (08:20):
I paid it back, but they started treating me like
I still owe them favors forever.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
We don't hang out as much anymore. I don't blame you, Monica.
I wouldn't want to be friends with somebody who kept
score like that either.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
No, no, no, what would you do Hit us up
at eight sixty six, nine two, seven forty three sixty one.
Let us know your thoughts in the meantime Top Stories
at the top of the hour. On the way in
minutes here at ninety seven point one Watch FM with
Tibe and Chilly in the morning. That Adam Levine is
a beautiful man. Beautiful man. God spent a little more
(08:56):
time on that human being. His band Maroon five coming
to town.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
You can go. We've got tickets. Here's how to get them.
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Make sure you're listening right around six point twenty to
our nearly impossible question, and if you get it right,
you'll get to go see Adam and the boys. Thanks
to our friends at Live Nation.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
He is a beautiful man.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Make sure you are here so that you can play
and possibly win.
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Ninety seven point one WASHFM, Washington, an iHeartRadio station, coming
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Teachers in Prince George's County have approved a new three
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It in a few It's ninety seven point one WASHFM
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Morning Top Stories Top of the Hour.
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A US military strike in the Caribbean reportedly killed eleven
suspected drug smugglers on e Venezuelan, but vote President Trump
later identified the victims on truth Social as members of
the Trend des Aragua gang. Meanwhile, the President says the
military will be deployed to Chicago, but he didn't say when,
(10:12):
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how the district will coordinate with federal agencies ongoing anti
crime crackdown. The city's Safe and Beautiful Emergency Operations Center
will reportedly manage the response and communicate directly with the
(10:33):
President's Task Force, which signals that the federal surge may
extend beyond its thirty day period. Has Matt Cruz rushed
to the Intercontinental Hotel at the Wharf yesterday right before
dawn after a propane smell triggered concern. The leak was
traced to a pool heater above the penthouse level, where
(10:54):
elevated carbon monoxide was also detected, but no one was harmed.
Teachers in Prince George's county, they moved a new three
year contract. The agreement includes higher starting salaries, a nine
percent cost of living rays, improved classroom supply reimbursements, and
enhanced safety measures, with school boards set to vote on
(11:15):
it all Friday. And according to a recent survey, the
average person spends three hours a day just lounging on
the couch. Over a third say they can't imagine going
a day without their happy place sofa, which forty three
percent say they spend the most time on at home.
Forecasts four today, sunny skies with highs in the low eighties.
(11:39):
Right now fifty four and only blind sighted.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
I was blind sided. I love my daughter. I'm glad
she's home. She had gone down to Florida to visit
mom for like a month, and she came back. But
she came back with something I did not expect, someone
I did not expect. Tell you who and get your
(12:04):
thoughts on it. Coming up in just a few minutes.
With Toby and Chilly in the morning, It's ninety seven
point one Wash FM. Good morning, Chilly. I need you
to help me figure this one out. Toby and Chilly
in the morning, It's ninety seven point one wash FM.
I am happy, happy, happy happy. My daughter is home.
She went to see her mom for a month. I'm
(12:25):
glad she's back. She seems to have a nice friend.
Did I know that this nice friend was going to
be staying over?
Speaker 5 (12:33):
Yeah? About that?
Speaker 4 (12:35):
So just a quick recap. She's a college graduate, so
she is an adult at twenty one years old, and
she still lives with you.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Right.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Is this friend that she brought back with her a
guy or a girl? It's a guy, Okay? Does that matter?
Or are you just not okay with not knowing that
a guest was going to be coming.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I would have rather known that this guest was coming,
and I asked my daughter about it. I actually said
it would have been nice to know, to which she said, well,
I told you, and I went and I looked back
through every text that we've had over the last month.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
No, of course not no. Okay, So what would you
have done differently, Toby? If she said, heads up, I'm
bringing a friend.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
That I'd have been cool with it, okay, But I
could have prepared better for it.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
What does that mean? Prepared better?
Speaker 3 (13:26):
That means, you know, get their favorite things, get their
favorite you know beverages. I would have better prepared the
apartment for another person, Yeah, a third person.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
You would have.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Wanted to be a good host or get the place
ready so you could be hospitable.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Yeah, and I wanted to be on my game.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
And you know how it is when you have guests,
you can't you feel like you can't be on your game.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
I don't mean to be a hypocrite. I'm like you.
I like to heads up if somebody's coming to stay
in our home and so I can get it ready. However,
she is an adult, and if she doesn't care that
the fridge isn't going to be stocked for her friend,
or that the bathroom's not going to be clean for
her friend, then that's on her.
Speaker 5 (14:06):
True.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
It's like, if she's not embarrassed by the condition of
the place.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
Oh well, well that doesn't make me feel any less blindsided.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
You're gonna have to lay down the wall with her.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Then at some point, Yes, I fear that that conversation
is coming. And that's a conversation as you know that
I'm not looking forward to having.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Shelby and Chilly's nearly impossible question.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I had an ex girlfriend who said someone was once
so yummy she could eat him with the spoon. Do
you think that applies to Adam Levina Maroon five? I
suppose it could.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Well.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
If you get today's nearly impossible question right, you'll go
see for yourself just how tasty he might be. The
question is, this.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
Is the only muscle in the human body attached only
at one end?
Speaker 5 (14:52):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Eight six six, nine two seven forty three sixty one
is the number? Maroon five? Come into town? You want
to go to the show? We can make that happen.
Thank you, Live Nation, And if you want those tickets,
here's the question one more time.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
This is the only muscle in the human body attached
only at one end? What is it?
Speaker 5 (15:12):
All right? Think about it?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Ticket guess right now call us at eight sixty six
nine two seven forty three sixty one. Get it right,
and the tickets to see Maroon five.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yours, Toby and Chili's nearly impossible question?
Speaker 3 (15:26):
All right, Frank, Chili's going to give you the question
one more time, just in case people might have missed it.
Speaker 4 (15:32):
This is the only muscle in the human body that
is attached only on one end? What is it? All right?
My answer is tongue. The tongue, Frank, is that a
wild guest? Or did you happen to know that?
Speaker 6 (15:44):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (15:45):
Lucky? Get really? I thought maybe you took meds school
or something.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
No wait, no he's not an e NT.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
No he's not.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
But you are very lucky. Indeed you win. Congratulations, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Who knew that about the tongue? Well obviously you did,
and you didn't even need Google. Congratulations.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Thank you. Maroon five at CFG Bank Arena November twenty six,
Thanks to our friends at Live Nation and you'll be
there awesome.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Enjoy the show from ninety seven point one WASHFM. We're
telling and Chilli in the morning. More tickets to see
Maroon five. Yours tomorrow morning with another edition of Your
Nearly a Possible Question. And by the way, the news
is on the way.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Top Stories at the top of the hour.
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Hang out ninety seven point one WASHFM, Washington, an iHeartRadio station.
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Coming up on Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
The President says he plans to send federal law enforcement
to Chicago and Baltimore.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
This could get interesting. We'll tell you what you need
to know in minutes. Top Stories at top the hour.
That's the news. It's ninety seven point one WASHFM, Toby
get chilly in the morning, and that news is just
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Speaker 2 (17:04):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
Victims of the late Jeffrey Epstein and Glene Maxweller speaking
out on Capitol Hill today as the investigation into the
so called Epstein Files continues. The President says he plans
to send federal law enforcement and even possibly the National
Guard to both Chicago and Baltimore, although he has not
specified a timeline. Mayors of both cities are calling the
(17:28):
move politically motivated and unwelcome. In Old Town Alexandria, a
woman faces charges for allegedly running a brothel out of
an airbnb. Police say she was linked to the case
after investigating a man's July fifth death and finding text
messages arranging a meeting with a sex worker. The University
of Maryland received a false active shooter report near the
(17:50):
library yesterday, and campus officers found nothing suspicious. A Fairfax
County woman been charged on multiple theft charges for alleged
stealing over a dozen Ninja slushy machines from Target stores,
totally more than ten thousand dollars. Thirty one year old
Christine Woodson was pulled over last month for a traffic
violation and is now being held without bond. Fairfax County
(18:14):
is testing a new AI system to handle their non
non emergency nine to one one calls, such as permit
questions or even noise complaints, and it's all aimed to
get callers connected with the right help faster and With
ninety percent of Americans say it's important to be ready
for a natural disaster, fewer than half actually have a plan.
(18:38):
Younger generations apparently more prepared, and most people prioritize backup power,
evacuation plans, and extra food and water forecasts. For today,
it's going to be lovely. Lots of sun hies around
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In a few.
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It's toby and chilly in the morning. The best times
of day for you to do common things, you know,
the menial tasks, the tasks you may not like doing well.
Speaker 5 (19:08):
There's a list.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
We'll share that list with you, and of course we
want to see what you have to say about it.
So eight sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty
one is the number hear that list of the best
times to do the very common tasks coming up in
just minutes.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
With Tobe and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
We are Toby and Chilly in the morning here at
ninety seven point one wash FM. Chances are good you
might have a thought or two about this article from
Real Simple magazine that breaks down the best time of
day to do things like cleaning the house.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Yeah, they say four pm is the best time to
clean your home because that's when your hand eye coordination
is at its peak and your mood levels are high.
What is this sorcery? You speak of the best time
to clean home at four pm? If they're talking about
a weekday, aren't most people going to be exhausted if
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they happen to be home from work by then. I
don't know how I feel about later.
Speaker 6 (20:09):
In the day.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
I can tell you that I feel this way. The
best time of day to clean the house is never,
Oh god, no time. There's no time that is a
good time to clean the house. Not four pm, not
four am, not twelve noon, not six pm. Okay, although
they do say we should clean them late in the afternoon.
Speaker 4 (20:29):
Come on now, all right, let's see if you'll agree
with this. They say the best time they is to
return merchandise at ten in the morning. And here's why,
because that is when you're going to have your best
ratio of staff to customers. That makes sense, before they
get too busy. There's actually going to be somebody there
to take your return, right, Okay, I can see that.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Yeah, because at ten o'clock most people are working. Yeah,
assuming that they all follow the same schedulisma to other
people who work that nine to five thing.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
That is one advantage you and I have for working
mornings like this is if we really needed to, we
could run our errands between like ten and eleven.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
If we needed to, the show would be done and
we wouldn't have to come back chilly, come on now.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Oh okay, speaking of not coming back or it work related, right,
Apparently the best time of day to ask for a
raise is it five PM? Because that's when your boss
is not feeling rushed and has time to truly listen.
And that's most likely to be at the end of
the day.
Speaker 5 (21:37):
And that's a bunch of hooey.
Speaker 3 (21:39):
Why because if I asked the boss for a raise
at anytime of the day, the boss would be like, no,
laugh me out the building and I'd be sent on
my merry way.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
But also bosses are just like us. They want to
get home to their families too. Do they really want
to linger for another? God knows how long to talk
about your.
Speaker 3 (22:00):
Raise, So five o'clock in the afternoon when the day
is ending, is not the best time to ask a
boss for some sort of a raise. And if this
has spoken to you, you can see the list on
the Toby and Chilipage washfm dot com. And if you
have thoughts eight six, six, nine two, seven forty three
sixty one. Now stay right there because coming up with us.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
We got an email from a listener who needs some
advice related to his ex wife.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Well, advice is something we're good at, so stay right
there and will help out as much as we can do.
Good advice said something we dispense well with Toby and
Chili in the morning here at ninety seven point one
wash FM. Here is an email we got from Marcus.
Marcus apparently is having some issues with his ex wife. Says, Hi,
(22:53):
Toby and Chili, I'm hoping you can give me some advice.
My ex wife and I divorced a bit ago. We
don't have kids together. What I'm struggling with is that
she's still using my last name.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Now.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Part of me feels like it shouldn't bother me. We're
divorced in life goes on, but another part of me
can't help feeling weird about it, like she's holding on
to something that isn't hers anymore. I don't know if
I should just let it go or if it's reasonable
for me to feel upset about it my overthinking this.
I would really love to hear your take. Thanks, Marcus.
(23:28):
That's a deep question there, Marcus, one that I will
hand off to the married person on the show as
I duck that answer, Jillie, you've been married for a
little while.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
What are your thoughts.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
Look for a woman to change her name, it is
an ordeal, like it's a lot to change every legal
document to any new last name. Part of the reason
she may still have your last name, Marcus, is she
doesn't want to go through that hassle. Also, she may
remarri eight. She'll change her name at that point if
(24:01):
she wants to. But imagine if she changes a tour
maaiden name now, then remarries again down the road and
changes it again. It's too much work. So quite bluntly,
I think you're overthinking.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
It, drama free.
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Just side on the side of peace and quiet. You
guys have both been through enough. That's let it go, man,
That's right, let it go, all right, life goes on.
That's what you've said in your email there, Marcus, all right,
you got some thoughts eight sixty six nine two seven
forty three sixty one. Toby and Chilly in the Morning,
(24:36):
We would love to hear your take on this, so
feel free to call right now or tap the talk
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Ninety seven point one WASHFM, Washington, an iHeartRadio station coming
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DC Mayor Muriel Bowser detailing how the city's going to
coordinate with federal agencies in the ongoing anti crime crackdown.
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Stay right there, We'll tell you what it is you
need to know this morning.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
It's ninety seven point one WASH, FM, Toby and Chilly
in the morning.
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Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
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President Trump says he is going straight to the Supreme
Court after a lower court rule that most of his
global tariffs are against the law. He said, We're going
to ask for an expit id hearing with a High
court today. DC Mayor Muriel Bowser detailing how the city's
going to coordinate with federal agencies ongoing anti crime crackdown.
(26:10):
The city's Safe and Beautiful Emergency Operations Center is going
to be managing the response and communicate directly with the
President's task Force, which signals that the federal surge may
extend beyond its initial thirty day period. The DC Council
has advanced a plan allowing the removal of thirty one
protected heritage trees to redevelop the RFK Stadium site. Environmental
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advocates warned that this could set a dangerous precedent for
future developments across the district as Matt Cruz. They rushed
to the Intercontinental Hotel at the Wharf right before dawn
yesterday after a propane smell triggered concern. The league was
traced to a pool heater above the penthouse level, where
(26:55):
elevated carbon monoxide was also detected, but no one was harmed.
Teach in Prince George's County they've approved a new three
year contract. The agreement includes higher salaries, a nine percent
cost of living rays, improved classroom supply reimbursement, and also
enhanced safety measures. The school board is set to vote
(27:17):
on it on Friday. And the three three three method
is going viral on social media as a productivity hack
that helps people stay focused without feeling overwhelmed. It involves
three hours of deep work on a major project, followed
by three urgent tasks and then three routine tasks to
(27:39):
keep daily life on track. Forecast for today sunny skies
with highs in the low eighties. Right now fifty eight
in Hyattsville.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
And that is the news top stories at the top
of the hour with Toby and Chile. In the morning,
It's ninety seven point one Wash FM coming up reactions
the x's last name. You might have heard the email
we got, well Crash, our producer here on the show,
has some input from personal experience to share. You're gonna
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want to hear this and if you've got something to add,
jump it eight six six, nine two, seven forty three
sixty one or tap the talk back microphone. Go ahead
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That is next with Toby and Chili in the Morning.
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I'd like to think we give really good advice around here.
Ninety seven point one WASHFM. We're Toby and Chile in
the Morning. Marcus needed a little advice from us.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
He sent an email saying that his ex wife, whom
he does not share any children with, is keeping his
last name and he feels really weird about it or
is he overthinking it?
Speaker 3 (28:55):
I'm gonna say overthinking it, but I'm not the married
person on the show, Chili, that would be you.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
I said he was overthinking it, and Crash.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
Our producer, who has been married before and does not
mind us sharing this information. What do you think about
this whole keeping the name thing? Would it bother you.
Speaker 4 (29:12):
No, I think it would be more hassle for her
to go through the whole name changing process. And like
you said, if you got married again, yeah, then she'll
change it.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
I'm gonna have to take your word for it. I've
never been married, so I salute you, and I thank
you in advance for some advice. I hope that if
I do get married, I never need well Marcus.
Speaker 4 (29:33):
All three of us have said you're overthinking this, but
maybe there are other opinions out there.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Eight six, six, nine two, seven forty three sixty one.
If there are, feel free to hit us up. We
would love to hear from you and Mike and rest
and go ahead thoughts, no move on a.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
Thanks for your vote, Mike. Now we've got Bella on
the phone. Now I'm interested from a female perspective, Would
you keep the last name after a divorce.
Speaker 5 (30:00):
No.
Speaker 4 (30:00):
I want to be absolutely done with him if he's
out of my life, and I don't want a constant
reminder of him. Gross alrighty, then I'm guessing there's no
photo evidence of the relationship either.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
Have you rolled by any of the pawn shops lately?
Speaker 4 (30:13):
Yes, because that's exactly where the ring is at.
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It's Jenny Chase time and.
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Musk The new fragrance for men. When something is important enough,
you do it even if the odds are not in
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your favor. Embrace what is important today. Do what they
say you shouldn't do. Even if the odds aren't in
your favor.
Speaker 5 (32:15):
You can and will pull it off.
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It's ninety seven point one washef n Toby and Chilly
in the morning.
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Have a great day today.
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Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Masha, about is you feeling good this morning?
Speaker 3 (00:07):
There, Chili, Amar, There's always a reason to feel good
in the morning because it's a brand new day, and
we love to start each brand new day in a
very positive way. So if you've got something positive to
share with the class, eight sixty six, nine two, seven
forty three sixty one is the number. And Chili, what
do you have that has you feeling all good before
(00:30):
five this morning?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Well, like many of us yesterday going into school more work.
My son had the Sunday scaries right on Monday. He
was like not wanting to go back after a nice
forty weekend for him, and I was pretty concerned that
he was going to have a rough transition back to school,
(00:52):
but alas he did not. Well, that's good, persevered, He
you know, was a to manage his fluctuating emotions and
regulate himself. So I'm very proud and I'm happy that
I didn't get a note, a note or a.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Phone call phone call, which is worse the note of
the phone call.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
The phone call is worse because that means that there
is something more emergent going on, like, Okay, your kid.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Is really one take away from an emergency. Come and
get your kid. Your kid is freaking out. Well that's good,
little Donato. Congratulations, you have a brand new day ahead
of you and you can do it.
Speaker 5 (01:38):
You can do it.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
You got we can't all good?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
There you go?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
What about you?
Speaker 5 (01:43):
Why are you really great? Today?
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Because I got home and Kyla is in her room
with her friend, I almost said his name whatever, Bobby
is his name, and they're cleaning oh, and I'm like, oh,
well I should say. Bobby was doing a lot of
the cleaning. And I noticed that, and I said to Kyla,
(02:06):
I go, you need to say thank you to Bobby
for cleaning your stuff up.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Love it.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Well, it wasn't all of it, though. It's not like
Kyla didn't do anything.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
But you know, having a guest do any cleaning is
pretty impressive.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
And I was like, yes, because it's something that Kyla
would not have done had that guest not been there.
So Bobby already earning his keep, already earning his keep,
paying the rents as it were. So I'm feeling good
about that this morning. You might be feeling good about
something today. We would love to hear about it. Tap
(02:41):
the talk back microphone. Tell us why you're feeling good
this morning, so we can so we can celebrate speak much,
so we can celebrate the joy that you are feeling
this morning. Now, we've got the news coming up. Top
Stories at the top of the hour. What's going down.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Fairfax County testing a new AI system to handle non
emergency calls. We've got the details on the way.
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Top Stories. Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Top Story is presented by Celsius Energy Drinks. Victims of
the late Jeffrey Epstein and Glaine Maxwell are going to
be speaking out on Capitol Hill today as the investigation
into the so called Epstein Files continues. President Trump says
he plans to send federal law enforcement and possibly the
National Guard to both Chicago and Baltimore, although he has
(03:30):
not specified a timeline. The mayors of both cities are
calling the move politically motivated and unwelcome. In Old Town, Alexandria,
woman faces charges for allegedly running a brothel out of
an Airbnb. Le say she was linked to the case
after investigating a man's July fifth death and finding text
messages arranging a meeting with a sex worker The University
(03:52):
of Maryland is the latest college that received a false
active shooter report near the library yesterday. Campus police found
nothing suspicious. Fairfax County right now testing a new AI
system to handle non emergency nine to one one calls
like permit questions or noise complaints, and it's all to
(04:15):
get callers connected with the right help faster. Real Housewives
of Potomac star Karen Hooger was released from the Montgomery
County Detention Center yesterday after she served about six months
for a duy crash in Potomac last year. In LA,
a jury cleared Cardi b of assault in a civil
case that was brought on by a former security guard
(04:37):
who claimed that she was scratched during a twenty eighteen altercation,
and that verdict came in just about an hour of deliberation.
And a new survey finds it over forty percent of
adults avoid hosting their guests at home because they're worried
about the mess. Common trouble spots include holidays and parties
with kids, often causing chaos, but many see the mishaps
(04:58):
as funny moments or even opportunities to turn the cleanup
into a bonding experience forecast for today, lots of sun again,
beautifuls eighty to the high right now fifty three in
false Church and that is.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Seen News with Toby and Chilly in the morning. You
get top stories at the top of the hour and
coming up in just minutes, we want to talk about
you and your morning mindset. Are you doing okay today, Well,
we'll talk about you in just a few Stay with
us on this Wednesday morning, Toby at Chili in the
(05:34):
morning on this Wednesday it's ninety seven point one wash FM,
and it's time for us to talk about you and
where you are mentally today as we work our way
through another week together.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
And if you need a little help with your morning mindset,
then we're going to share a quote Elon Musk.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Love him or hate him, he knows a little bit
about success. He says, when if something is important enough,
you do it even if the odds are not in
your favor. Elon Musk, he says, when something is important enough,
you do it even if the odds aren't in your favor.
There will be times in life when things are not
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in your favor. There will be times that the deck
is Let's be honest, stacked against you, but if it's
important enough, do it anyway. Elon Musk, thank you, Thank
you for listening to your morning mindset. Hopefully you can
take it and share it with somebody who might have
needed to hear it. Maybe that's someone with you. And
if you want to find it so you can hear
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it again, you will. It's on the Tobya Chilly page.
Just search for today's podcast and coming up a little
bit later on this morning.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Yesterday, on the show, we talked about the study that
exposes the ugly side of borrowing money from friends and family.
So we asked you who have you borrowed money from
and how did it affect your relationship? And it looks
like a couple of you wanted to jump in on
that conversation this morning.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
More thoughts minutes away with Toby and Chili in the morning,
hang out, talk back, wide open for you. All you
need to do is be signed into your iHeart app,
then you can jump into any conversation you hear with
Toby and Chile in the morning. It's ninety seven point
one watchef M. I'm thinking specifically about the conversation that
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we had yesterday, Chilly.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
We were talking about how damaging it can be to
any relationship, friend or family if you borrow or lend money,
and oftentimes it ruins a relationship, especially when it doesn't
get paid back.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
And you've got thoughts on this, So let's get out
of the way and listen right now.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Jordan, who lives in southeast d C. Go ahead. What happened.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
I borrowed money from my brother and it was a
big mistake. I couldn't pay him back in the timeframe
we set up, and he just stopped inviting me the things.
I guess that was like punishment or something. We got
into this big fight and we didn't talk to each.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Other for all of the year.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Are you on speaking terms now?
Speaker 6 (08:09):
We finally did make up, but I'll never borrow money
from a family member again.
Speaker 4 (08:14):
Lesson learned?
Speaker 3 (08:15):
What about you, Monica? And good morning in Alexandria.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
I borrowed money from a close friend.
Speaker 6 (08:20):
I paid it back, but they started treating me like
I still owe them favors forever.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
We don't hang out as much anymore. I don't blame you, Monica.
I wouldn't want to be friends with somebody who kept
score like that either.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
No, no, no, what would you do Hit us up
at eight sixty six, nine two, seven forty three sixty one.
Let us know your thoughts in the meantime Top Stories
at the top of the hour. On the way in
minutes here at ninety seven point one Watch FM with
Tibe and Chilly in the morning. That Adam Levine is
a beautiful man. Beautiful man. God spent a little more
(08:56):
time on that human being. His band Maroon five coming
to town.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
You can go. We've got tickets. Here's how to get them.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
Make sure you're listening right around six point twenty to
our nearly impossible question, and if you get it right,
you'll get to go see Adam and the boys. Thanks
to our friends at Live Nation.
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He is a beautiful man.
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Make sure you are here so that you can play
and possibly win.
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Ninety seven point one WASHFM, Washington, an iHeartRadio station, coming
up on Top Stories, top of the hour.
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Teachers in Prince George's County have approved a new three
year contract.
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Tell you everything you need to know, coming up in
minutes with top stories at the top of the hour.
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That's what we call the news, and we'll get to.
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It in a few It's ninety seven point one WASHFM
with Telby and Chilly in the.
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Morning Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (09:52):
A US military strike in the Caribbean reportedly killed eleven
suspected drug smugglers on e Venezuelan, but vote President Trump
later identified the victims on truth Social as members of
the Trend des Aragua gang. Meanwhile, the President says the
military will be deployed to Chicago, but he didn't say when,
(10:12):
and then he went on to slam the Windy City
for its murder rate. DC Mayor Muriel Bowser is detailing
how the district will coordinate with federal agencies ongoing anti
crime crackdown. The city's Safe and Beautiful Emergency Operations Center
will reportedly manage the response and communicate directly with the
(10:33):
President's Task Force, which signals that the federal surge may
extend beyond its thirty day period. Has Matt Cruz rushed
to the Intercontinental Hotel at the Wharf yesterday right before
dawn after a propane smell triggered concern. The leak was
traced to a pool heater above the penthouse level, where
(10:54):
elevated carbon monoxide was also detected, but no one was harmed.
Teachers in Prince George's county, they moved a new three
year contract. The agreement includes higher starting salaries, a nine
percent cost of living rays, improved classroom supply reimbursements, and
enhanced safety measures, with school boards set to vote on
(11:15):
it all Friday. And according to a recent survey, the
average person spends three hours a day just lounging on
the couch. Over a third say they can't imagine going
a day without their happy place sofa, which forty three
percent say they spend the most time on at home.
Forecasts four today, sunny skies with highs in the low eighties.
(11:39):
Right now fifty four and only blind sighted.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
I was blind sided. I love my daughter. I'm glad
she's home. She had gone down to Florida to visit
mom for like a month, and she came back. But
she came back with something I did not expect, someone
I did not expect. Tell you who and get your
(12:04):
thoughts on it. Coming up in just a few minutes.
With Toby and Chilly in the morning, It's ninety seven
point one Wash FM. Good morning, Chilly. I need you
to help me figure this one out. Toby and Chilly
in the morning, It's ninety seven point one wash FM.
I am happy, happy, happy happy. My daughter is home.
She went to see her mom for a month. I'm
(12:25):
glad she's back. She seems to have a nice friend.
Did I know that this nice friend was going to
be staying over?
Speaker 5 (12:33):
Yeah? About that?
Speaker 4 (12:35):
So just a quick recap. She's a college graduate, so
she is an adult at twenty one years old, and
she still lives with you.
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Right.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Is this friend that she brought back with her a
guy or a girl? It's a guy, Okay? Does that matter?
Or are you just not okay with not knowing that
a guest was going to be coming.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I would have rather known that this guest was coming,
and I asked my daughter about it. I actually said
it would have been nice to know, to which she said, well,
I told you, and I went and I looked back
through every text that we've had over the last month.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
No, of course not no. Okay, So what would you
have done differently, Toby? If she said, heads up, I'm
bringing a friend.
Speaker 3 (13:20):
That I'd have been cool with it, okay, But I
could have prepared better for it.
Speaker 4 (13:24):
What does that mean? Prepared better?
Speaker 3 (13:26):
That means, you know, get their favorite things, get their
favorite you know beverages. I would have better prepared the
apartment for another person, Yeah, a third person.
Speaker 5 (13:38):
You would have.
Speaker 4 (13:38):
Wanted to be a good host or get the place
ready so you could be hospitable.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
Yeah, and I wanted to be on my game.
Speaker 3 (13:46):
And you know how it is when you have guests,
you can't you feel like you can't be on your game.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
I don't mean to be a hypocrite. I'm like you.
I like to heads up if somebody's coming to stay
in our home and so I can get it ready. However,
she is an adult, and if she doesn't care that
the fridge isn't going to be stocked for her friend,
or that the bathroom's not going to be clean for
her friend, then that's on her.
Speaker 5 (14:06):
True.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
It's like, if she's not embarrassed by the condition of
the place.
Speaker 3 (14:09):
Oh well, well that doesn't make me feel any less blindsided.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
You're gonna have to lay down the wall with her.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
Then at some point, Yes, I fear that that conversation
is coming. And that's a conversation as you know that
I'm not looking forward to having.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Shelby and Chilly's nearly impossible question.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
I had an ex girlfriend who said someone was once
so yummy she could eat him with the spoon. Do
you think that applies to Adam Levina Maroon five? I
suppose it could.
Speaker 5 (14:38):
Well.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
If you get today's nearly impossible question right, you'll go
see for yourself just how tasty he might be. The
question is, this.
Speaker 4 (14:48):
Is the only muscle in the human body attached only
at one end?
Speaker 5 (14:52):
What is it?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Eight six six, nine two seven forty three sixty one
is the number? Maroon five? Come into town? You want
to go to the show? We can make that happen.
Thank you, Live Nation, And if you want those tickets,
here's the question one more time.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
This is the only muscle in the human body attached
only at one end? What is it?
Speaker 5 (15:12):
All right? Think about it?
Speaker 3 (15:13):
Ticket guess right now call us at eight sixty six
nine two seven forty three sixty one. Get it right,
and the tickets to see Maroon five.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Yours, Toby and Chili's nearly impossible question?
Speaker 3 (15:26):
All right, Frank, Chili's going to give you the question
one more time, just in case people might have missed it.
Speaker 4 (15:32):
This is the only muscle in the human body that
is attached only on one end? What is it? All right?
My answer is tongue. The tongue, Frank, is that a
wild guest? Or did you happen to know that?
Speaker 6 (15:44):
Wow?
Speaker 5 (15:45):
Lucky? Get really? I thought maybe you took meds school
or something.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
No wait, no he's not an e NT.
Speaker 5 (15:52):
No he's not.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
But you are very lucky. Indeed you win. Congratulations, Thank
you so much.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Who knew that about the tongue? Well obviously you did,
and you didn't even need Google. Congratulations.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
Thank you. Maroon five at CFG Bank Arena November twenty six,
Thanks to our friends at Live Nation and you'll be
there awesome.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
Enjoy the show from ninety seven point one WASHFM. We're
telling and Chilli in the morning. More tickets to see
Maroon five. Yours tomorrow morning with another edition of Your
Nearly a Possible Question. And by the way, the news
is on the way.
Speaker 5 (16:32):
Top Stories at the top of the hour.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
Hang out ninety seven point one WASHFM, Washington, an iHeartRadio station.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
Coming up on Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (16:43):
The President says he plans to send federal law enforcement
to Chicago and Baltimore.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
This could get interesting. We'll tell you what you need
to know in minutes. Top Stories at top the hour.
That's the news. It's ninety seven point one WASHFM, Toby
get chilly in the morning, and that news is just
minutes away.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
Victims of the late Jeffrey Epstein and Glene Maxweller speaking
out on Capitol Hill today as the investigation into the
so called Epstein Files continues. The President says he plans
to send federal law enforcement and even possibly the National
Guard to both Chicago and Baltimore, although he has not
specified a timeline. Mayors of both cities are calling the
(17:28):
move politically motivated and unwelcome. In Old Town Alexandria, a
woman faces charges for allegedly running a brothel out of
an airbnb. Police say she was linked to the case
after investigating a man's July fifth death and finding text
messages arranging a meeting with a sex worker. The University
of Maryland received a false active shooter report near the
(17:50):
library yesterday, and campus officers found nothing suspicious. A Fairfax
County woman been charged on multiple theft charges for alleged
stealing over a dozen Ninja slushy machines from Target stores,
totally more than ten thousand dollars. Thirty one year old
Christine Woodson was pulled over last month for a traffic
violation and is now being held without bond. Fairfax County
(18:14):
is testing a new AI system to handle their non
non emergency nine to one one calls, such as permit
questions or even noise complaints, and it's all aimed to
get callers connected with the right help faster and With
ninety percent of Americans say it's important to be ready
for a natural disaster, fewer than half actually have a plan.
(18:38):
Younger generations apparently more prepared, and most people prioritize backup power,
evacuation plans, and extra food and water forecasts. For today,
it's going to be lovely. Lots of sun hies around
eighty two right now, fifty five in Ashburn coming up.
Speaker 5 (18:54):
In a few.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
It's toby and chilly in the morning. The best times
of day for you to do common things, you know,
the menial tasks, the tasks you may not like doing well.
Speaker 5 (19:08):
There's a list.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
We'll share that list with you, and of course we
want to see what you have to say about it.
So eight sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty
one is the number hear that list of the best
times to do the very common tasks coming up in
just minutes.
Speaker 5 (19:24):
With Tobe and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
We are Toby and Chilly in the morning here at
ninety seven point one wash FM. Chances are good you
might have a thought or two about this article from
Real Simple magazine that breaks down the best time of
day to do things like cleaning the house.
Speaker 4 (19:44):
Yeah, they say four pm is the best time to
clean your home because that's when your hand eye coordination
is at its peak and your mood levels are high.
What is this sorcery? You speak of the best time
to clean home at four pm? If they're talking about
a weekday, aren't most people going to be exhausted if
(20:05):
they happen to be home from work by then. I
don't know how I feel about later.
Speaker 6 (20:09):
In the day.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
I can tell you that I feel this way. The
best time of day to clean the house is never,
Oh god, no time. There's no time that is a
good time to clean the house. Not four pm, not
four am, not twelve noon, not six pm. Okay, although
they do say we should clean them late in the afternoon.
Speaker 4 (20:29):
Come on now, all right, let's see if you'll agree
with this. They say the best time they is to
return merchandise at ten in the morning. And here's why,
because that is when you're going to have your best
ratio of staff to customers. That makes sense, before they
get too busy. There's actually going to be somebody there
to take your return, right, Okay, I can see that.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
Yeah, because at ten o'clock most people are working. Yeah,
assuming that they all follow the same schedulisma to other
people who work that nine to five thing.
Speaker 4 (21:02):
That is one advantage you and I have for working
mornings like this is if we really needed to, we
could run our errands between like ten and eleven.
Speaker 3 (21:12):
If we needed to, the show would be done and
we wouldn't have to come back chilly, come on now.
Speaker 4 (21:18):
Oh okay, speaking of not coming back or it work related, right,
Apparently the best time of day to ask for a
raise is it five PM? Because that's when your boss
is not feeling rushed and has time to truly listen.
And that's most likely to be at the end of
the day.
Speaker 5 (21:37):
And that's a bunch of hooey.
Speaker 3 (21:39):
Why because if I asked the boss for a raise
at anytime of the day, the boss would be like, no,
laugh me out the building and I'd be sent on
my merry way.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
But also bosses are just like us. They want to
get home to their families too. Do they really want
to linger for another? God knows how long to talk
about your.
Speaker 3 (22:00):
Raise, So five o'clock in the afternoon when the day
is ending, is not the best time to ask a
boss for some sort of a raise. And if this
has spoken to you, you can see the list on
the Toby and Chilipage washfm dot com. And if you
have thoughts eight six, six, nine two, seven forty three
sixty one. Now stay right there because coming up with us.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
We got an email from a listener who needs some
advice related to his ex wife.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Well, advice is something we're good at, so stay right
there and will help out as much as we can do.
Good advice said something we dispense well with Toby and
Chili in the morning here at ninety seven point one
wash FM. Here is an email we got from Marcus.
Marcus apparently is having some issues with his ex wife. Says, Hi,
(22:53):
Toby and Chili, I'm hoping you can give me some advice.
My ex wife and I divorced a bit ago. We
don't have kids together. What I'm struggling with is that
she's still using my last name.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
Now.
Speaker 3 (23:05):
Part of me feels like it shouldn't bother me. We're
divorced in life goes on, but another part of me
can't help feeling weird about it, like she's holding on
to something that isn't hers anymore. I don't know if
I should just let it go or if it's reasonable
for me to feel upset about it my overthinking this.
I would really love to hear your take. Thanks, Marcus.
(23:28):
That's a deep question there, Marcus, one that I will
hand off to the married person on the show as
I duck that answer, Jillie, you've been married for a
little while.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
What are your thoughts.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
Look for a woman to change her name, it is
an ordeal, like it's a lot to change every legal
document to any new last name. Part of the reason
she may still have your last name, Marcus, is she
doesn't want to go through that hassle. Also, she may
remarri eight. She'll change her name at that point if
(24:01):
she wants to. But imagine if she changes a tour
maaiden name now, then remarries again down the road and
changes it again. It's too much work. So quite bluntly,
I think you're overthinking.
Speaker 5 (24:13):
It, drama free.
Speaker 3 (24:15):
Just side on the side of peace and quiet. You
guys have both been through enough. That's let it go, man,
That's right, let it go, all right, life goes on.
That's what you've said in your email there, Marcus, all right,
you got some thoughts eight sixty six nine two seven
forty three sixty one. Toby and Chilly in the Morning,
(24:36):
We would love to hear your take on this, so
feel free to call right now or tap the talk
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Your thoughts are on the way in just minutes.
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the x's last name. You might have heard the email
we got, well Crash, our producer here on the show,
has some input from personal experience to share. You're gonna
(28:11):
want to hear this and if you've got something to add,
jump it eight six six, nine two, seven forty three
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if you senned into your iHeart app. We love hearing
what you have to say, so tap speak and send it.
That is next with Toby and Chili in the Morning.
(28:32):
I'd like to think we give really good advice around here.
Ninety seven point one WASHFM. We're Toby and Chile in
the Morning. Marcus needed a little advice from us.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
He sent an email saying that his ex wife, whom
he does not share any children with, is keeping his
last name and he feels really weird about it or
is he overthinking it?
Speaker 3 (28:55):
I'm gonna say overthinking it, but I'm not the married
person on the show, Chili, that would be you.
Speaker 4 (29:00):
I said he was overthinking it, and Crash.
Speaker 3 (29:03):
Our producer, who has been married before and does not
mind us sharing this information. What do you think about
this whole keeping the name thing? Would it bother you.
Speaker 4 (29:12):
No, I think it would be more hassle for her
to go through the whole name changing process. And like
you said, if you got married again, yeah, then she'll
change it.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
I'm gonna have to take your word for it. I've
never been married, so I salute you, and I thank
you in advance for some advice. I hope that if
I do get married, I never need well Marcus.
Speaker 4 (29:33):
All three of us have said you're overthinking this, but
maybe there are other opinions out there.
Speaker 3 (29:38):
Eight six, six, nine two, seven forty three sixty one.
If there are, feel free to hit us up. We
would love to hear from you and Mike and rest
and go ahead thoughts, no move on a.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
Thanks for your vote, Mike. Now we've got Bella on
the phone. Now I'm interested from a female perspective, Would
you keep the last name after a divorce.
Speaker 5 (30:00):
No.
Speaker 4 (30:00):
I want to be absolutely done with him if he's
out of my life, and I don't want a constant
reminder of him. Gross alrighty, then I'm guessing there's no
photo evidence of the relationship either.
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Have you rolled by any of the pawn shops lately?
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Yes, because that's exactly where the ring is at.
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