September 4, 2025 • 30 mins
70% of Americans make major life decisions based on "gut feelings." CFD REPLAY...Jerri from Rockville. Her first kiss ended in a "hairy" situation. Our producer Crash was under a lot of pressure recently. He explains why. Megan gives our listener advice about his ex keeping his last name.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Toby and Chili Mornings on Demand on ninety seven point
one was Chef out.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Feeling good today before five? We love to hear from
you all about it. It's ninety seven point one was
Chef m Toby and Chili in the morning eight sixty
six nine two seven forty three sixty one. If you
want to share with us why you're feeling good this morning, Chili?
Why are you feeling good before five o'clock today?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Well, because we had a lovely dinner on the deck
last night. I said to my husband, we're sort of
taking these beautiful nights for granted. You know, let's go
out there, grill and sit on the deck. And that's
exactly what we did. But yeah, I mean, you know,
these days are numbered. It's not comfortable in the summer
(00:46):
to sit outside because the humidity.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Even in the shade, the humidity is oppressive.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
But these nights that we've been having, they're absolutely perfect
for dining off front.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
How has the bug situation been?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
I know that sometimes when I cook out, I'm like
eating alive.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
No, I don't know, that's a fair that's a fair question.
We did not have bug is shoes last night on
the deck.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
No, Skeeters.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
No, and it was like six. I mean, it's not
like you.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Know, it was later anything.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Yeah, it was later in the evening. So no, we're good.
Why are you feeling it?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I'm feeling good because there were napkins and I cleaned
up the coffee that I spilled in one of the
elevators this morning. Yep, feeling good because I found napkins
in the kitchen. And then I went and I waited
on the right elevator. I sent all of the other
ones down except for the one that needed me to
(01:40):
clean it up because I spilled it. See that's the thing.
When you make a mess, you got to clean it up.
You got to clean up your spills.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yes you do.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
You do sometimes around here they don't.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
That's true.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
And so I just felt like I needed to good
for you.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I needed to live by ving an example this morning,
Toby and Chilly in the morning, Why are you feeling
good this morning?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Hit us up, let us know.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
In the meantime, stay right there, because we got the
news top stories at the top of the hour on
the way in minutes.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Maybe we'll keep feeling good here.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
DC police officers are going to see a thirteen percent
pay raise next month.
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We've got more details on the way.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Top stories, Top of the Hour.
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Top stories presented by Celsius to Energy Drinks. Victims of
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their own client list. Speaking on Capitol Hill yesterday, survivor
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(02:50):
to get rid of all vaccine mandates. This includes diseases
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doctor Joseph Ladappo, said that parents, not the government, should
decide what goes into their children's bodies. DC Mayor Muriel
Bowser pushed back on claims that she's trying to extend
(03:11):
the federal law enforcement surge, saying that her new order
simply outlines cooperation steps with federal partners, and she's stressed
she does not extend the President's Crime Emergency, which is
set to expire next week. DC police officers meanwhile, going
to see a thirteen percent pay raise next month under
(03:31):
a new collective bargaining agreement, with the council expected to
approve it on September seventeenth. The mayor also announced plans
to grow the police force from its current thirty two
hundred officers to four thousand. The Charles County School Board
is preparing to repeal an anti racism policy that was
adopted after George Floyd's death, arguing that it duplicates existing regulation.
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The move faces pushback from parents and activists who plan
to voice opposition before a final vote later this month.
And according to a recent study, women value acts of
service like helping with dinner over sweet talk early in relationships.
Researchers say that women see action oriented partners as more
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trustworthy and as showing that they're willing to invest in
the relationship. Forecast today partly Cloudy's guys, we do have
a chance of a thunderstorm this afternoon. High's in the
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Speaker 2 (04:32):
With Toby and Chilly in the morning, you get top
stories at the top of the hour, and we also
pause to think about you and to share some thoughts
that might get you into a better morning mindset. That
is next with Toby and Chilly in the Morning. Let's
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the Morning.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
It is now time for us to share a quote
toge get you into a good morning mindset as we
get closer to the weekend.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I love this woman Marissa Meyer. She used to be
the CEO of Yahoo. She was also at Google back
in the beginning, and she says, I always did something
I was a little not ready to do. That's how
you grow. Marisa Meyer from a CEO. If she was
the former CEO of Yahoo, she says, I always did
(05:27):
something I was a little not ready to do. That
is how you grow. Look, you're not gonna be ready
for everything. There's gonna be stuff you're gonna go through.
Some of it's not going to be pleasant. But you
know what, You've got to do this stuff you feel
like you're not ready to do if you want to grow.
And that is your morning mindset for today. If you
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in the morning.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Yesterday on the show, we shared an email we got
from a listener who was really bothered by the fact
that his ex wife was keeping his last name and
wanted some advice.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Well, looks like someone left us a talk back.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Toby, and by the way, you can leave us some
talk back messages if you've got thoughts too.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
It's easy.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
You just have to sign into your iHeart app, tap
speaks send and your voice message will come right here
in the studio. Well, listen to it and we'll get
your thoughts on it. Next. Marcus seemed to have a
problem yesterday and we talked about it ninety seven point
one Watchef and we asked you for your thoughts on it.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
So Marcus sent us an email saying that he's divorced now,
but his ex wife wanted to keep his last name
and he was wondering if he should be bothered or
if he's just overthinking it.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Had a very lively discussion about it yesterday, and May
and jumped in via talkback wanted to add her thoughts.
As we were wrapping up the show yesterday, and so, Megan,
what do you think I.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
Think he should just leave it be because that last
name doesn't hold a significant reminder to both of them. Yes,
she still has it that I don't think having the
same last name means something to her anymore. We're as
(07:31):
a youthed city when you guys are both married.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Julie, you're married. So what do you think?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Well, I shared on the show yesterday that I thought
he was overthinking it, and a majority of people who
called also said that. And it looks like, Marcus, if
you're listening right now, it's okay. She can keep your
last name. She may get remarried someday and change it.
Just let it go for now, Yes, let it go, hey,
But we're happy to help anybody else has got an issue.
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Thro right at eighty six six nine two three sixty
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National Guard troops are expected to stay in DC through December,
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but officials have not yet set a final end date
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(09:59):
ti eighteen percent raise next month, with the council set
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guest forty one percent of their daily decisions, with one
(10:20):
in eight rethinking nearly everything, and that overthinking even extends
to grocery shopping, where people spend about four minutes deciding
on every single item. Forecasts for today partly cloudy skies,
We have a chance of thunderstorms this afternoon. High's around
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Speaker 2 (10:41):
I want you to think about how you make major
life decisions. Now that you've got the news tough stories
at the top of the hour.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
Give us a call.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
It age sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty one.
When it comes to major life decisions, do you make
those decisions based on gut?
Speaker 5 (11:00):
You know, the gut feeling.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I just have this gut feeling that I need to
do X, Y or Z. Well, seventy percent of Americans do.
We'll discuss more coming up in minutes. Is Toby at
Chilly in the Morning continues ninety seven point one Watch
FM Toby at Chili in the Morning. It seems that
seventy percent of Americans make major life decisions based on
(11:25):
gut you know, those feelings that you can't really explain
away but just come from some place deep down inside.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
I'm kind of shocked that that number is that high,
that they're going on sort of a vibe check for
major life decisions. I would love to say that I
have great intuition, and I probably do, Toby, but I'm
way too analytical to listen to said gut.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Sometimes I will tell you that my gut feelings have
pretty much always been right. Even when I think they've
been wrong, I turn around and they end up being right.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
Now.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
That's sometimes they're wrong sort of a situation, but for
the most part they're right.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Well, and I think that there is something to be
said about your inner voice. It's there for a reason.
And I think the perfect combination would be taking into
account what your gut is saying, and then also looking
at the facts of something before you dive into a
major decision like a new job or leaving a job,
a new relationship or ending that relationship. And throughout life,
(12:33):
I'm the person who overanalyzes, and sometimes that leads to
decision paralysis.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
That's not to say I don't do my homework. I
do do my homework. When it comes to, like, you know,
life decisions that involve money or income or job, those
are gut feelings that get passed through the prism of
what is this going to mean if I say yes? However,
(12:58):
for the most part, gut feeling doesn't steer me wrong.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
You know, Now, how's your gut feeling when it comes
to answering questions?
Speaker 2 (13:06):
My gut, I would tell you is probably right on point.
Is your gut on point? Well, let's find out.
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fast or how did you know that?
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as well, and a lot of stuff has come from
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Wow, that is that's amazing.
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I thought maybe you watched some sort of YouTube video
on the history of soft drinks.
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Well, you know, I have two boys who love YouTube,
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Lindsay did?
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stay right there, Lindsay and Perceval and congratulations, enjoyed the show?
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Okay, thank you so much.
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We'll tell you all about it just minutes.
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It's Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues with Top
stories at the top of the hour.
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Top Stories, Top of the President Trump is appealing to
the Supreme Court after a federal appeals court ruled that
he exceeded his authority in imposing tariffs, so he's asking
the justices to hear arguments in early November. Victims of
late sex offender Jeffrey Epstein are compiling their own client list.
Survivor Lisa Phillips spoke on Capitol Hill along with others,
(17:23):
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it's unclear how the survivors might make their list public.
DC Mayor Muriel Bowser pushed back on claims that she's
trying to extend the federal law enforcement surge. She said
her new order only outlined steps for cooperating with federal
partners and does not exceed the President's Crime Emergency, which
(17:45):
for now is set to expire next week. Meanwhile, d
C police officers will see a thirteen percent pay raise
next month under a new collective bargaining agreement, with the
city council expected to approve it on September seventeenth. The
announced plans to grow the police force from thirty two
hundred officers to four thousand. Arlington and Fairfax County school
(18:07):
systems are asking a federal judge to block a decision
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transgender students to use bathrooms that match their gender identity.
Lawyers argue the designation is unlawful and retaliatory, with a
ruling expected.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
Later this week.
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And finally, a new survey finds the most stressful time
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a chance of a thunderstorm this afternoon with highs in
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And that is the news Top stories at the top
of the Hoe with Toby and Chili in the morning
at ninety seven point one Wash FM eight six six
ninety two seven forty three sixty one. You can also
tap the talkback microphone. Want to know have you ever
experienced pressure as a result of being really really good
at something? Our producer Crash has been under a lot
(19:19):
of pressure lately. He's going to explain why and if
you can relate, We've got to hear from you. So
stay right there your chance to jump into the conversation.
Next until the nap one with CHILIAMR and our producer
Crash is here. It's a ninety seven point one Wash
FM Crash. I understand you've been having an interesting run.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
Of it lately.
Speaker 11 (19:46):
That's an understatement. Yeah, what's going on? Well, you know,
starting this new job. I'm in the middle of a move,
you know, so that you put all those things together
just the same time, which was coincidence.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
It's a lot to juggle.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
So I know Toby and I haven't known you for
very long, but he and I have often talked in
the last two weeks about how extremely well you perform
under pressure, at least as far as this show goes.
So why are you feeling any extra pressure?
Speaker 9 (20:13):
Then?
Speaker 4 (20:13):
I'm not understanding it.
Speaker 11 (20:14):
I think I just put the extra pressure on myself.
I want to give one hundred percent to everything, and
when I'm having to multitask and juggle so many things,
I feel like I'm not giving it. Oh, so it's
the pressure's all from within.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
So Your talent is that you perform well under pressure.
The pressure is you added more pressure to everything else.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
And so now you're stressing out because of all of
this pressure.
Speaker 5 (20:40):
I'm my own problem.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
When is this going to get better? Like you know
the pressure cooker situation for you?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
Well, the move is over, so now it's getting settled down.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Wow, so we've only gotten the what version of crash?
Can you imagine the full octane version? I can't imagine.
Don't take this the wrong way, but this is great.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I mean, if this is under pressure, I want to
see what crashh.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
Uh huh, free to create is all about?
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Because wow, you're good under pressure, man, you really can.
I'm not just blowing sunshine up your dogs. That's causing
more pressure. Well no, but the.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Reality of the situation is when you were really good
at something, you do feel the pressure of that as
a result.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Yes, that is true, and sometimes it can be hellacious.
Sometimes you do like crash and you put yourself through
the ringer? Is this ever happened to you? Eight six
six nineteen seven forty three sixty one tell us everything.
We'll circle back on this coming up in just minutes.
As Toby and Chili continues, but next oh.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Yeah, we've got another one of your crazy first date stories.
Jerry in Rockville. Her date went in for a kiss
and it ended up in a very Harry situation.
Speaker 5 (22:01):
You can't miss this in minutes.
Speaker 6 (22:05):
It's Toby and Tilly's crazy first date.
Speaker 5 (22:08):
Good morning Jerry and Rockville.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
I'm Toby an Apolong with Chilia mahar and we hear
you've been on a crazy first date or you have
a crazy story, so drop it on us.
Speaker 12 (22:17):
So I go on a date with this guy.
Speaker 9 (22:20):
We go to the movies.
Speaker 12 (22:21):
During the movie, you know, he starts, you know, trying
to kiss me, and I'm like, whoa, whoa.
Speaker 9 (22:25):
You know.
Speaker 10 (22:25):
So we kissed a little and I'm like, okay, we're
here to watch a movie.
Speaker 6 (22:28):
Blow your roll.
Speaker 12 (22:29):
And so the movie's done.
Speaker 10 (22:31):
We go out into the hallway and he kind of
like looked at me and he's like, I didn't think anything.
Speaker 12 (22:36):
I'm like, why why did he do that? But I didn't,
you know whatever. So we go outside, we go get
ice cream. You know, we're walking around and then I
have to use the restroom. So I go into the bathroom,
I look in the mirror and I get out of
the bathroom, you know when you wash your hands.
Speaker 10 (22:50):
I have a mustache on my upper lip that he
gave me when he kissed me. How with a grease
pen or something, I don't know. Oh, he dock in
his mustache.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
And when he saw you in the lobby, he realized
what he had done, but I guess he's too embarrassed
to point out the fact.
Speaker 4 (23:04):
And he gave you a mustache exactly.
Speaker 10 (23:07):
So when I went into the bathroom, I was horrified.
So I'm trying to scrub it off, and it, you know,
it wasn't coming off, and then my lips all red,
and so I go out there and I'm like, why
did you tell me this.
Speaker 12 (23:17):
Was on my lip?
Speaker 3 (23:17):
He's like, oh, oh, I didn't know.
Speaker 10 (23:19):
I'm like, you didn't know. So anyway, that's not someone
I want, you know, to share a life with. Who
can't tell me that I have a mustache that you
gave me. So he wasn't my person.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Would you have been okay with that had he come clean? No,
pun intended about the mustache he left on your face.
Speaker 10 (23:35):
Absolutely, if you had just told me right away, oh,
you know what you should go, you know, wipe off
your lip.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Did he even try to make it up to you.
I'm sure he realized when you didn't call him. Did
he even try to get you to go out with
him again?
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Oh?
Speaker 10 (23:49):
He called a few times, but no, I'm done that
I was a deal breaker. No, he's not for me.
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Coming up on Top Stories Top of the Hour.
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DC police are set to get a thirteen percent pay
raise next month.
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Get all the details in just minutes with Top Stories
at the Top of the Hour. Toby and Chilly in
the Morning, It's ninety seven point one WASHFM.
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Top Stories Top of the Hour.
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Victims of Jeffrey Epstein say that they're working to compile
their own client list. Speaking on Capitol Hill, survivor Lisa
Phillips says they know the names of those who were
regulars in Epstein's world, and she added that they are
not sure how or even if they would release that
list publicly. Prince George's County Police say that a body
found in ann Arundel County maybe that of nineteen year
(25:14):
old Takara Thompson, who went missing August twenty third. The
body has not been confirmed as hers, but they say
there are similarities. DC police are going to be getting
a thirteen percent pay raise starting next month, with the
councils set to approve that deal September seventeenth. Mayor Bowser
also aims to grow the police force from thirty two
(25:35):
hundred to four thousand officers.
Speaker 4 (25:38):
Rockville High School.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
Was placed on secure status yesterday after police responded to
a swatting call, which was later found to be false.
The incident follows a wave of similar hoaxes that are
targeting colleges and schools nationwide since late August. Prince George's
County Council member Sheila Adams Stafford donated six tenty thousand
(26:00):
dollars to help pay off school meal debt for families
who don't qualify for free or reduced price programs. She
says she hopes the gift will encourage others to support
the foundation and move toward a universal free lunch program.
And Fairfax County is holding a contest to redesign its
library cards. It's open to all ages, with a five
(26:23):
hundred dollars prize for the winner. Entries are due September
thirtieth and must feature the library's new logo. Forecast for today,
We'll have partly cloudy skies with a chance of thunderstorms
this afternoon.
Speaker 4 (26:35):
High's around eighty five. Right now sixty five and Chevy Chase.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Top stories at the top of the hour with ninety
seven point one Wash FM, Telby and Chilly in the
Morning under pressure coming down on me?
Speaker 5 (26:48):
Are you feeling some pressure? Have you felt pressure?
Speaker 2 (26:52):
You know you're really good at something, and because you're
good at something, you feel the pressure come town out
on you to be super successful. Your calls on the
way in just minutes is Toby and Chilly in the
Morning continues. Feel free to jump into the conversation under pressure, Well.
Speaker 5 (27:13):
Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
It's ninety seven point one watch FM coming down on me.
Have you felt some pressure pressure from being really good
at something you're doing? From work to life to different
sporting events, We've all been under some degree of pressure
every now and then.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
I guess it's a double edged sword, right. You're really
talented in an area that's awesome, but because you're so
good at it, there's this expectation, perhaps from others and
maybe even more from yourself, to be at a certain
level of performance.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Like Rodney, who I take it you held yourself to
quite this standard. Thanks for calling from Rockville this morning.
Speaker 6 (27:55):
I got so good at my job.
Speaker 9 (27:57):
I was completing my task really early and expected to
help out everyone on my team what's their work too,
and not getting a race. So it was really stressful,
but maybe helps me get a promotion in the end.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
Geez, Rodney, I think you're teaching us all a lesson.
We should all just be mediocre, don't try at all,
don't be so great.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
Leslie, Good morning, and thanks for calling from Fairfax. You
felt some pressure from being really good at something? Tell
us what was it.
Speaker 12 (28:27):
I was always a fast runner in school, so every
field day I was expected to Land.
Speaker 10 (28:32):
One year I came in second and people acted like
it was a tragedy.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
How dare you not win every single race?
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Unbelievable you would just let one race slide?
Speaker 3 (28:45):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 4 (28:45):
You know history only remembers the winner.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
At least you're safe from the spotlight there.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Leslie, Leslie, and by the way too, it's not a
winner three, No one remembers. What are you going to
do about it?
Speaker 5 (28:59):
That's on you.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
Mm.
Speaker 6 (29:01):
Shame, shame, shame, Toby and.
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Chili in the morning.
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Speaker 3 (30:03):
Before we walk out of here, though, we want to
leave you with a quote to get you into a
good morning mindset.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
The former CEO of Yahoo, Marissa Meyer, who was actually
a part of the startup team for Google, says, I
always did something I was a little not ready to do.
Speaker 5 (30:22):
That's how you grow.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
I always did something I was a little not ready
to do. That is how you grow. Don't be afraid
to do something you feel like you're not ready for today.
If you do so, you'll grow. Have a great day today,
and thank you for listening to us. It's ninety seven
point one WASHFM.
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What more Toby and Jilly head over to washfm dot
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one was Chef out.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Feeling good today before five? We love to hear from
you all about it. It's ninety seven point one was
Chef m Toby and Chili in the morning eight sixty
six nine two seven forty three sixty one. If you
want to share with us why you're feeling good this morning, Chili?
Why are you feeling good before five o'clock today?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Well, because we had a lovely dinner on the deck
last night. I said to my husband, we're sort of
taking these beautiful nights for granted. You know, let's go
out there, grill and sit on the deck. And that's
exactly what we did. But yeah, I mean, you know,
these days are numbered. It's not comfortable in the summer
(00:46):
to sit outside because the humidity.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Even in the shade, the humidity is oppressive.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
But these nights that we've been having, they're absolutely perfect
for dining off front.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
How has the bug situation been?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
I know that sometimes when I cook out, I'm like
eating alive.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
No, I don't know, that's a fair that's a fair question.
We did not have bug is shoes last night on
the deck.
Speaker 5 (01:11):
No, Skeeters.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
No, and it was like six. I mean, it's not
like you.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Know, it was later anything.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Yeah, it was later in the evening. So no, we're good.
Why are you feeling it?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
I'm feeling good because there were napkins and I cleaned
up the coffee that I spilled in one of the
elevators this morning. Yep, feeling good because I found napkins
in the kitchen. And then I went and I waited
on the right elevator. I sent all of the other
ones down except for the one that needed me to
(01:40):
clean it up because I spilled it. See that's the thing.
When you make a mess, you got to clean it up.
You got to clean up your spills.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yes you do.
Speaker 5 (01:51):
You do sometimes around here they don't.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
That's true.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
And so I just felt like I needed to good
for you.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I needed to live by ving an example this morning,
Toby and Chilly in the morning, Why are you feeling
good this morning?
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Hit us up, let us know.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
In the meantime, stay right there, because we got the
news top stories at the top of the hour on
the way in minutes.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Maybe we'll keep feeling good here.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
DC police officers are going to see a thirteen percent
pay raise next month.
Speaker 4 (02:19):
We've got more details on the way.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Top stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Top stories presented by Celsius to Energy Drinks. Victims of
late sex offender Jeffrey Epstein say they are putting together
their own client list. Speaking on Capitol Hill yesterday, survivor
Lisa Phillips urged the Justice Department to release the names,
although she noted it's unclear if or how survivors might
make their list public. Florida officials say they are going
(02:50):
to get rid of all vaccine mandates. This includes diseases
like measles, polio, and whooping cough. The state surgeon General,
doctor Joseph Ladappo, said that parents, not the government, should
decide what goes into their children's bodies. DC Mayor Muriel
Bowser pushed back on claims that she's trying to extend
(03:11):
the federal law enforcement surge, saying that her new order
simply outlines cooperation steps with federal partners, and she's stressed
she does not extend the President's Crime Emergency, which is
set to expire next week. DC police officers meanwhile, going
to see a thirteen percent pay raise next month under
(03:31):
a new collective bargaining agreement, with the council expected to
approve it on September seventeenth. The mayor also announced plans
to grow the police force from its current thirty two
hundred officers to four thousand. The Charles County School Board
is preparing to repeal an anti racism policy that was
adopted after George Floyd's death, arguing that it duplicates existing regulation.
(03:57):
The move faces pushback from parents and activists who plan
to voice opposition before a final vote later this month.
And according to a recent study, women value acts of
service like helping with dinner over sweet talk early in relationships.
Researchers say that women see action oriented partners as more
(04:18):
trustworthy and as showing that they're willing to invest in
the relationship. Forecast today partly Cloudy's guys, we do have
a chance of a thunderstorm this afternoon. High's in the
mid eighties right now, sixty two and Stafford and that
is the news.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
With Toby and Chilly in the morning, you get top
stories at the top of the hour, and we also
pause to think about you and to share some thoughts
that might get you into a better morning mindset. That
is next with Toby and Chilly in the Morning. Let's
take a second and talk about you this morning. It's
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ninety seven point one wash FM Toby and Chilly in
the Morning.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
It is now time for us to share a quote
toge get you into a good morning mindset as we
get closer to the weekend.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I love this woman Marissa Meyer. She used to be
the CEO of Yahoo. She was also at Google back
in the beginning, and she says, I always did something
I was a little not ready to do. That's how
you grow. Marisa Meyer from a CEO. If she was
the former CEO of Yahoo, she says, I always did
(05:27):
something I was a little not ready to do. That
is how you grow. Look, you're not gonna be ready
for everything. There's gonna be stuff you're gonna go through.
Some of it's not going to be pleasant. But you
know what, You've got to do this stuff you feel
like you're not ready to do if you want to grow.
And that is your morning mindset for today. If you
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need it again, find it to tell me a chilipage
at waschfm dot com. You'll find it right there in
the podcast, or if you need it sent to you,
hit up chili your eye and we'd be happy to
do so. Now coming up next with Toby and Chilly
in the morning.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Yesterday on the show, we shared an email we got
from a listener who was really bothered by the fact
that his ex wife was keeping his last name and
wanted some advice.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Well, looks like someone left us a talk back.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Toby, and by the way, you can leave us some
talk back messages if you've got thoughts too.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
It's easy.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
You just have to sign into your iHeart app, tap
speaks send and your voice message will come right here
in the studio. Well, listen to it and we'll get
your thoughts on it. Next. Marcus seemed to have a
problem yesterday and we talked about it ninety seven point
one Watchef and we asked you for your thoughts on it.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
So Marcus sent us an email saying that he's divorced now,
but his ex wife wanted to keep his last name
and he was wondering if he should be bothered or
if he's just overthinking it.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Had a very lively discussion about it yesterday, and May
and jumped in via talkback wanted to add her thoughts.
As we were wrapping up the show yesterday, and so, Megan,
what do you think I.
Speaker 7 (07:10):
Think he should just leave it be because that last
name doesn't hold a significant reminder to both of them. Yes,
she still has it that I don't think having the
same last name means something to her anymore. We're as
(07:31):
a youthed city when you guys are both married.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Julie, you're married. So what do you think?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Well, I shared on the show yesterday that I thought
he was overthinking it, and a majority of people who
called also said that. And it looks like, Marcus, if
you're listening right now, it's okay. She can keep your
last name. She may get remarried someday and change it.
Just let it go for now, Yes, let it go, hey,
But we're happy to help anybody else has got an issue.
(07:56):
Thro right at eighty six six nine two three sixty
one is the number. Talk back is wide open for
you too. If you're signed in listening on your iHeart app,
go ahead, speak out. We love hearing from you and
we know you need the news. Top Stories at the
top of the hour that's coming up in minutes with
Tylby and Chilly in the morning hang Out.
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National Guard troops are expected to stay in DC through December.
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Get tell all the details in just minutes now, Fergie
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Top Stories, Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
National Guard troops are expected to stay in DC through December,
with the deployment extended just to make sure that service
members in their face families received benefits like housing and healthcare,
but officials have not yet set a final end date
for that deployment. Victims of Jeffrey Epstein say they're working
to compile their own client list. Speaking on Capitol Hills,
(09:15):
survivor Lisa Phillips says they know the names of those
who were regulars in Epstein's world. She added that they
aren't sure how or even if they would release that
list publicly. Prince George's County Police say that a body
found in Ann Arundel County may be that of nineteen
year old Dekara Thompson, who went missing back on August
(09:36):
twenty third.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
While the body has not been.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Confirmed as hers, investigators note there are similarities. DC Mayor
Muriel Bowser has issued an executive order requiring the city
to coordinate with federal law enforcement. She issued a statement
saying that the order will provide the pathway forward beyond
the presidential emergency. Meanwhile, DC police will get a third
(09:59):
ti eighteen percent raise next month, with the council set
to approve that deal on September seventeenth. The mayor also
aims to grow the forest from thirty two hundred to
four thousand officers, and a new survey finds Americans second
guest forty one percent of their daily decisions, with one
(10:20):
in eight rethinking nearly everything, and that overthinking even extends
to grocery shopping, where people spend about four minutes deciding
on every single item. Forecasts for today partly cloudy skies,
We have a chance of thunderstorms this afternoon. High's around
eighty five right now, though sixty two in Opton.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
I want you to think about how you make major
life decisions. Now that you've got the news tough stories
at the top of the hour.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
Give us a call.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
It age sixty six nine two seven forty three sixty one.
When it comes to major life decisions, do you make
those decisions based on gut?
Speaker 5 (11:00):
You know, the gut feeling.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
I just have this gut feeling that I need to
do X, Y or Z. Well, seventy percent of Americans do.
We'll discuss more coming up in minutes. Is Toby at
Chilly in the Morning continues ninety seven point one Watch
FM Toby at Chili in the Morning. It seems that
seventy percent of Americans make major life decisions based on
(11:25):
gut you know, those feelings that you can't really explain
away but just come from some place deep down inside.
Speaker 3 (11:34):
I'm kind of shocked that that number is that high,
that they're going on sort of a vibe check for
major life decisions. I would love to say that I
have great intuition, and I probably do, Toby, but I'm
way too analytical to listen to said gut.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
Sometimes I will tell you that my gut feelings have
pretty much always been right. Even when I think they've
been wrong, I turn around and they end up being right.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
Now.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
That's sometimes they're wrong sort of a situation, but for
the most part they're right.
Speaker 3 (12:12):
Well, and I think that there is something to be
said about your inner voice. It's there for a reason.
And I think the perfect combination would be taking into
account what your gut is saying, and then also looking
at the facts of something before you dive into a
major decision like a new job or leaving a job,
a new relationship or ending that relationship. And throughout life,
(12:33):
I'm the person who overanalyzes, and sometimes that leads to
decision paralysis.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
That's not to say I don't do my homework. I
do do my homework. When it comes to, like, you know,
life decisions that involve money or income or job, those
are gut feelings that get passed through the prism of
what is this going to mean if I say yes? However,
(12:58):
for the most part, gut feeling doesn't steer me wrong.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
You know, Now, how's your gut feeling when it comes
to answering questions?
Speaker 2 (13:06):
My gut, I would tell you is probably right on point.
Is your gut on point? Well, let's find out.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
Now, Toby and Chilli's nearly impossible question.
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Give me with the question one more time. Please chill
you eam aar.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
This popular brand was originally called Brad's Drink.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
What is it?
Speaker 5 (14:05):
Brad's Drink?
Speaker 2 (14:06):
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Speaker 3 (14:11):
It is on PETSI Now, did you google that real
fast or how did you know that?
Speaker 8 (14:17):
I like Petsy sometimes and then I know that from
history that this is crazy.
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The guy is like.
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From Newborn, Newborn, North Carolina, and I'm from North Carolina
as well, and a lot of stuff has come from
North Carolina.
Speaker 5 (14:30):
Wow, that is that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
I thought maybe you watched some sort of YouTube video
on the history of soft drinks.
Speaker 8 (14:37):
Well, you know, I have two boys who love YouTube,
so I probably could have like loking them up and
asked them and they probably would have known right off
the bat.
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Carolinian who's now personville implant?
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Is that the right word?
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PEPSI? What was Brad's drink? Who knew?
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Lindsay did?
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Oh the things you learned from the North Carolinians. You
stay right there, Lindsay and Perceval and congratulations, enjoyed the show?
Speaker 6 (15:35):
Okay, thank you so much.
Speaker 8 (15:37):
I hope you'all have a great Thursday.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
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Ninety seven point one WASHFM, Washington, an iHeartRadio station. Coming
up on Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (16:45):
Victims of late sex offender Jeffrey Epstein are compiling their
own client list.
Speaker 5 (16:51):
We'll tell you all about it just minutes.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
It's Toby and Chilly in the Morning continues with Top
stories at the top of the hour.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Top Stories, Top of the President Trump is appealing to
the Supreme Court after a federal appeals court ruled that
he exceeded his authority in imposing tariffs, so he's asking
the justices to hear arguments in early November. Victims of
late sex offender Jeffrey Epstein are compiling their own client list.
Survivor Lisa Phillips spoke on Capitol Hill along with others,
(17:23):
urging the Justice Department to release the names, while noting
it's unclear how the survivors might make their list public.
DC Mayor Muriel Bowser pushed back on claims that she's
trying to extend the federal law enforcement surge. She said
her new order only outlined steps for cooperating with federal
partners and does not exceed the President's Crime Emergency, which
(17:45):
for now is set to expire next week. Meanwhile, d
C police officers will see a thirteen percent pay raise
next month under a new collective bargaining agreement, with the
city council expected to approve it on September seventeenth. The
announced plans to grow the police force from thirty two
hundred officers to four thousand. Arlington and Fairfax County school
(18:07):
systems are asking a federal judge to block a decision
that labels them high risk grant recipients over policies allowing
transgender students to use bathrooms that match their gender identity.
Lawyers argue the designation is unlawful and retaliatory, with a
ruling expected.
Speaker 4 (18:25):
Later this week.
Speaker 3 (18:26):
And finally, a new survey finds the most stressful time
of day for parents is right around now seven sixteen
in the morning, right in the middle of the morning
school rush, and about eleven percent of parents say they
would rather be stuck on hold with a power company
than have to deal with the scramble of getting their
(18:47):
kids to school. Partly cloudy skies today, we do have
a chance of a thunderstorm this afternoon with highs in
the mid eighties. Right now sixty three in Shantilly.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
And that is the news Top stories at the top
of the Hoe with Toby and Chili in the morning
at ninety seven point one Wash FM eight six six
ninety two seven forty three sixty one. You can also
tap the talkback microphone. Want to know have you ever
experienced pressure as a result of being really really good
at something? Our producer Crash has been under a lot
(19:19):
of pressure lately. He's going to explain why and if
you can relate, We've got to hear from you. So
stay right there your chance to jump into the conversation.
Next until the nap one with CHILIAMR and our producer
Crash is here. It's a ninety seven point one Wash
FM Crash. I understand you've been having an interesting run.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
Of it lately.
Speaker 11 (19:46):
That's an understatement. Yeah, what's going on? Well, you know,
starting this new job. I'm in the middle of a move,
you know, so that you put all those things together
just the same time, which was coincidence.
Speaker 5 (19:57):
It's a lot to juggle.
Speaker 4 (19:58):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (19:59):
So I know Toby and I haven't known you for
very long, but he and I have often talked in
the last two weeks about how extremely well you perform
under pressure, at least as far as this show goes.
So why are you feeling any extra pressure?
Speaker 9 (20:13):
Then?
Speaker 4 (20:13):
I'm not understanding it.
Speaker 11 (20:14):
I think I just put the extra pressure on myself.
I want to give one hundred percent to everything, and
when I'm having to multitask and juggle so many things,
I feel like I'm not giving it. Oh, so it's
the pressure's all from within.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
So Your talent is that you perform well under pressure.
The pressure is you added more pressure to everything else.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
And so now you're stressing out because of all of
this pressure.
Speaker 5 (20:40):
I'm my own problem.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
When is this going to get better? Like you know
the pressure cooker situation for you?
Speaker 6 (20:45):
Well, the move is over, so now it's getting settled down.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
Wow, so we've only gotten the what version of crash?
Can you imagine the full octane version? I can't imagine.
Don't take this the wrong way, but this is great.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I mean, if this is under pressure, I want to
see what crashh.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
Uh huh, free to create is all about?
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Because wow, you're good under pressure, man, you really can.
I'm not just blowing sunshine up your dogs. That's causing
more pressure. Well no, but the.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Reality of the situation is when you were really good
at something, you do feel the pressure of that as
a result.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Yes, that is true, and sometimes it can be hellacious.
Sometimes you do like crash and you put yourself through
the ringer? Is this ever happened to you? Eight six
six nineteen seven forty three sixty one tell us everything.
We'll circle back on this coming up in just minutes.
As Toby and Chili continues, but next oh.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Yeah, we've got another one of your crazy first date stories.
Jerry in Rockville. Her date went in for a kiss
and it ended up in a very Harry situation.
Speaker 5 (22:01):
You can't miss this in minutes.
Speaker 6 (22:05):
It's Toby and Tilly's crazy first date.
Speaker 5 (22:08):
Good morning Jerry and Rockville.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
I'm Toby an Apolong with Chilia mahar and we hear
you've been on a crazy first date or you have
a crazy story, so drop it on us.
Speaker 12 (22:17):
So I go on a date with this guy.
Speaker 9 (22:20):
We go to the movies.
Speaker 12 (22:21):
During the movie, you know, he starts, you know, trying
to kiss me, and I'm like, whoa, whoa.
Speaker 9 (22:25):
You know.
Speaker 10 (22:25):
So we kissed a little and I'm like, okay, we're
here to watch a movie.
Speaker 6 (22:28):
Blow your roll.
Speaker 12 (22:29):
And so the movie's done.
Speaker 10 (22:31):
We go out into the hallway and he kind of
like looked at me and he's like, I didn't think anything.
Speaker 12 (22:36):
I'm like, why why did he do that? But I didn't,
you know whatever. So we go outside, we go get
ice cream. You know, we're walking around and then I
have to use the restroom. So I go into the bathroom,
I look in the mirror and I get out of
the bathroom, you know when you wash your hands.
Speaker 10 (22:50):
I have a mustache on my upper lip that he
gave me when he kissed me. How with a grease
pen or something, I don't know. Oh, he dock in
his mustache.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
And when he saw you in the lobby, he realized
what he had done, but I guess he's too embarrassed
to point out the fact.
Speaker 4 (23:04):
And he gave you a mustache exactly.
Speaker 10 (23:07):
So when I went into the bathroom, I was horrified.
So I'm trying to scrub it off, and it, you know,
it wasn't coming off, and then my lips all red,
and so I go out there and I'm like, why
did you tell me this.
Speaker 12 (23:17):
Was on my lip?
Speaker 3 (23:17):
He's like, oh, oh, I didn't know.
Speaker 10 (23:19):
I'm like, you didn't know. So anyway, that's not someone
I want, you know, to share a life with. Who
can't tell me that I have a mustache that you
gave me. So he wasn't my person.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Would you have been okay with that had he come clean? No,
pun intended about the mustache he left on your face.
Speaker 10 (23:35):
Absolutely, if you had just told me right away, oh,
you know what you should go, you know, wipe off
your lip.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Did he even try to make it up to you.
I'm sure he realized when you didn't call him. Did
he even try to get you to go out with
him again?
Speaker 1 (23:49):
Oh?
Speaker 10 (23:49):
He called a few times, but no, I'm done that
I was a deal breaker. No, he's not for me.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
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Speaker 1 (24:25):
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Speaker 6 (24:30):
Coming up on Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
DC police are set to get a thirteen percent pay
raise next month.
Speaker 2 (24:38):
Get all the details in just minutes with Top Stories
at the Top of the Hour. Toby and Chilly in
the Morning, It's ninety seven point one WASHFM.
Speaker 6 (24:49):
Top Stories Top of the Hour.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Victims of Jeffrey Epstein say that they're working to compile
their own client list. Speaking on Capitol Hill, survivor Lisa
Phillips says they know the names of those who were
regulars in Epstein's world, and she added that they are
not sure how or even if they would release that
list publicly. Prince George's County Police say that a body
found in ann Arundel County maybe that of nineteen year
(25:14):
old Takara Thompson, who went missing August twenty third. The
body has not been confirmed as hers, but they say
there are similarities. DC police are going to be getting
a thirteen percent pay raise starting next month, with the
councils set to approve that deal September seventeenth. Mayor Bowser
also aims to grow the police force from thirty two
(25:35):
hundred to four thousand officers.
Speaker 4 (25:38):
Rockville High School.
Speaker 3 (25:39):
Was placed on secure status yesterday after police responded to
a swatting call, which was later found to be false.
The incident follows a wave of similar hoaxes that are
targeting colleges and schools nationwide since late August. Prince George's
County Council member Sheila Adams Stafford donated six tenty thousand
(26:00):
dollars to help pay off school meal debt for families
who don't qualify for free or reduced price programs. She
says she hopes the gift will encourage others to support
the foundation and move toward a universal free lunch program.
And Fairfax County is holding a contest to redesign its
library cards. It's open to all ages, with a five
(26:23):
hundred dollars prize for the winner. Entries are due September
thirtieth and must feature the library's new logo. Forecast for today,
We'll have partly cloudy skies with a chance of thunderstorms
this afternoon.
Speaker 4 (26:35):
High's around eighty five. Right now sixty five and Chevy Chase.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Top stories at the top of the hour with ninety
seven point one Wash FM, Telby and Chilly in the
Morning under pressure coming down on me?
Speaker 5 (26:48):
Are you feeling some pressure? Have you felt pressure?
Speaker 2 (26:52):
You know you're really good at something, and because you're
good at something, you feel the pressure come town out
on you to be super successful. Your calls on the
way in just minutes is Toby and Chilly in the
Morning continues. Feel free to jump into the conversation under pressure, Well.
Speaker 5 (27:13):
Toby and Chilly in the morning.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
It's ninety seven point one watch FM coming down on me.
Have you felt some pressure pressure from being really good
at something you're doing? From work to life to different
sporting events, We've all been under some degree of pressure
every now and then.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
I guess it's a double edged sword, right. You're really
talented in an area that's awesome, but because you're so
good at it, there's this expectation, perhaps from others and
maybe even more from yourself, to be at a certain
level of performance.
Speaker 2 (27:48):
Like Rodney, who I take it you held yourself to
quite this standard. Thanks for calling from Rockville this morning.
Speaker 6 (27:55):
I got so good at my job.
Speaker 9 (27:57):
I was completing my task really early and expected to
help out everyone on my team what's their work too,
and not getting a race. So it was really stressful,
but maybe helps me get a promotion in the end.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
Geez, Rodney, I think you're teaching us all a lesson.
We should all just be mediocre, don't try at all,
don't be so great.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
Leslie, Good morning, and thanks for calling from Fairfax. You
felt some pressure from being really good at something? Tell
us what was it.
Speaker 12 (28:27):
I was always a fast runner in school, so every
field day I was expected to Land.
Speaker 10 (28:32):
One year I came in second and people acted like
it was a tragedy.
Speaker 4 (28:36):
How dare you not win every single race?
Speaker 2 (28:40):
Unbelievable you would just let one race slide?
Speaker 3 (28:45):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 4 (28:45):
You know history only remembers the winner.
Speaker 5 (28:47):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
At least you're safe from the spotlight there.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
Leslie, Leslie, and by the way too, it's not a
winner three, No one remembers. What are you going to
do about it?
Speaker 5 (28:59):
That's on you.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
Mm.
Speaker 6 (29:01):
Shame, shame, shame, Toby and.
Speaker 5 (29:06):
Chili in the morning.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
It's ninety seven point one wash CHFM. Want to thank
Duncan for bringing buy some cozy favorites and new seasonal treats.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
Yeah, I mean fall has definitely arrived. They've got this
new cereal and milk latte. They've also got the return
of their pumpkin spice signature latte and some pumpkin swirl drinks.
Speaker 2 (29:24):
Don't forget about the pumpkin munchkins and the ice pumpkin loaf.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
America runs on Duncan, and so do we. Prizing participation
may vary.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
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Right around nine to ten this morning with Jenny Chase.
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You're going to get a keyword to text and maybe
which don't forget.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
Jenny Chase is on the way next here at ninety
seven point one one. Thanks for waking up with Toby
and Chilly in the Morning today.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
Before we walk out of here, though, we want to
leave you with a quote to get you into a
good morning mindset.
Speaker 2 (30:10):
The former CEO of Yahoo, Marissa Meyer, who was actually
a part of the startup team for Google, says, I
always did something I was a little not ready to do.
Speaker 5 (30:22):
That's how you grow.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
I always did something I was a little not ready
to do. That is how you grow. Don't be afraid
to do something you feel like you're not ready for today.
If you do so, you'll grow. Have a great day today,
and thank you for listening to us. It's ninety seven
point one WASHFM.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
What more Toby and Jilly head over to washfm dot
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