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(00:02):
Ever been less waiting by the phone. It's the Friend Show. Hey Mary,
good morning, Welcome to the show. Hi, good morning. So
tell us about this guy Eddie.Tell us how you met, about any
dates that you've been on. Wherethings are now, because we're trying to
figure out if you've been ghosted andhopefully, you know, we can at
the end of this set you upon another date with Eddie if we get
(00:25):
a hold of him and pay forthat. So where are we now?
Though? Okay, So we wenton a date and it was so so
good and I wasn't expecting it,but he it was like one of those
like I'm not usually like a girlwho like takes somebody home like on the
first date, but like what's goingreally well? And so like he came
back and I didn't have time tosuper clean up the place, but I
(00:50):
mean I was like, Okay,I'm gonna make a pile, you know
how like everybody like kind of throwseverything in the closet that kind of vibe,
so like trying to throw whatever inthe closet and like all that,
and yeah, and we had agreat night and I can't really pin it,
but I don't know why I haven'theard from him yet, Okay,
So like I really thought it wassweet, Like I'm not the kind of
(01:10):
girl who brings people home. Soyou're looking back on all this and you're
like, there was so much chemistrythat you sort of acted normally. You
wouldn't normally do that. By theway, when somebody tells me I don't
normally do this, that means theydo it all the time. But nonetheless
you're you're saying that you don't andyou felt a certain kind of way.
And so now since the date,you haven't heard from him, and you're
feeling bad about it because it's like, wait a minute, we did all
(01:32):
this and then where you at?Yeah, exactly, and like I mean
like it was like my first timegiving a guy a number on bumble,
so like it felt like a bigIt felt like a big step for me,
you know. Yeah, No,the whole thing was I get that.
So let's sub I'm gonna play onesong. We'll come back in like
two minutes. We're gonna see wecan get Eddie on the phone, ask
him questions, see where he's been, and hopefully we can work things out
(01:55):
and set you guys up on anotherdate that we pay for sound good.
Great, let's see what happens.It's part two of waiting by the phone
two minutes away on the commercial freeFred Shows. It's the Fred Show.
Good morning, glad you're here.Mary. Yeah, let's call this guy,
Eddie who you went out with.You met him on the dating apps,
you gave him your number, Youguys went out back to your place.
You thought everything was great except forsome reason. You can't get a
(02:17):
hold of him now, and youwant to know why. If you're being
ghosted, Yeah, I would Iwould love some glarity. Let's call him
now, good luck. Hello,Hi is this Eddie? Yeahs Eddie?
(02:38):
Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,
the radio show, and I haveto tell you that we are on the
radio right now and it would needyour permission to continue with the call.
Can which have for just a second? Oh yeah, well, thank you
so much. I appreciate that thiswon't take too long. But we're calling
on behalf of a woman who saysshe met you on the dating apps.
Her name is Mary, and youguys recently went out to you. Remember
(02:58):
meeting Mary? Yeah? I do, I do remember Mary? Okay,
Okay, Well, this there's alwaysa story. There's always a story,
and it sounds like you've got onetoo, because she reached out to us
and she said that she enjoyed meetingyou and uh and really had a good
time. I was hoping to hearfrom you again for another day and hasn't.
Why is that so? I meanshe was right the day itself.
(03:19):
I mean it was great. Youknow, we went back to her place.
A couple of things happened. Yougot a little hot there for a
minute, and it was great.But her apartment, man, it was
a little messy. Okay, Ibeleeve and look and I let it fly
because it says she had a prettybusy week and wasn't really planning to have
anyone over. And I get that, we've all been there. It's totally
(03:39):
cool. Um. After our hookup though, which by the way,
was excellent, I heard a noiseand then I saw two mice stopping run
on by stopping for real. I'mplaying man, I'm serious. I hate
rodents. I hate mice in theloading down at this building. It's just
(04:00):
a three legged one that Caitlyn metthe other day. There were a mice
in her house and I was freakinga little bit. I'm telling her,
looking, I just saw Mike sturryon by on your floor. I mean
she said it was a little messyand she had to put some stuff away,
but she did not say I meanmice. That means that it's gross.
Yeah, yeah, that's unsanitary.Yeah, and it doesn't make me
(04:25):
feel very good obviously. And bythe way, she stayed very calm during
this, barely moving as she's notsurprising, like these are her friends,
right they yeah, and and andshe looked at me and was like,
yo, chill, why are youfreaking out and not bothering you? After
she says to me, oh mygod, let me bring I forgot to
(04:46):
mention I always forget this part.Mary is here? Are these your pets?
I mean are they? Are theyintentionally your pets? Why are there
mice in your house? And what'sgoing on? Well, mice are so
hard to get rid of. I'mlike, you're sing over a couple of
small knife that's crazy. I mean, like I lived in New York once
and it was like a family ofsix living there and get rid of them.
(05:11):
Yeah, it was crazy, andso you kind of like used to
it weeks to get rid of themused to put out so many trials.
No, these are that's the kindof thing you get used to. No,
you're not supposed to have rodents inyour home. No want to.
My inspector and my landlord and they'retrying to take care of it. But
apparently it's an ongoing problem. AndI didn't realize that girl clean your apartment,
(05:38):
Like if it wouldn't be my stressabout and I wouldn't have freaked out.
If you just clean your place,I think that's a good start.
I'd be a first step. Yeah, oh my god. But the fact
is she still were like relaxed aboutit. I mean it's almost like you
just yeah, yeah, this happens. No it doesn't. And the fact
is she's like making peace with itand like not if she's like unfazed by
the whole thing. It's like,what the I don't get it. Did
(06:00):
you mean yeah, did you namethem? Mary? Do they have names?
Are they like Tom and Jerry?Or what what are we doing?
I would say it's more of likea you know, like I sing to
them and they follow me around.No, it's insane, Like that's crazy.
I'm just saying, like I livedin when I was living in New
York. It was just the USday would exist. It wasn't like a
(06:21):
I don't out look she's one withnature, guys, She's just she's just
living with Kiki, she's living themall. I am shook, girl.
You are nasty and if you haveyou sleeping with me and you should tell
them to get you a hole taleof somehow. And Briant, I hope
you shook your bags out when youwent back home because you might have took
one. How would you disgusting?Okay, yes, I'm so looking Eddie.
(06:44):
Let's say she cleans up the houseand maybe a couple of mousetraps you
a little cheese somewhere or something.I don't know. Whatever you gotta do,
hire a pest control guy, getsthem removed. Um, would you
consider because I mean it sounded likeyou liked her up until the point that
you saw rodents in her home.Don't do it totally? No, what
I can did I honestly know becauseif this is just like the start of
the tipp the iceberg here, likewho knows what else I would I would
(07:05):
stumble upon? So no, I'mnot down with it all right? Mary?
Look, hey, you don't seembothered by it. Other people are
probably gonna be bothered by it.But I hope you get it taken care
of. And I'm sorry this isn'tgonna work out with him. We do
wish you the best of luck,though. Thanks. It's time I'll sign
Zimmer his man. Enough oh,
Ever been less waiting by the phone. It's the Friend Show. Hey Mary,
good morning, Welcome to the show. Hi, good morning. So
tell us about this guy Eddie.Tell us how you met, about any
dates that you've been on. Wherethings are now, because we're trying to
figure out if you've been ghosted andhopefully, you know, we can at
the end of this set you upon another date with Eddie if we get
(00:25):
a hold of him and pay forthat. So where are we now?
Though? Okay, So we wenton a date and it was so so
good and I wasn't expecting it,but he it was like one of those
like I'm not usually like a girlwho like takes somebody home like on the
first date, but like what's goingreally well? And so like he came
back and I didn't have time tosuper clean up the place, but I
(00:50):
mean I was like, Okay,I'm gonna make a pile, you know
how like everybody like kind of throwseverything in the closet that kind of vibe,
so like trying to throw whatever inthe closet and like all that,
and yeah, and we had agreat night and I can't really pin it,
but I don't know why I haven'theard from him yet, Okay,
So like I really thought it wassweet, Like I'm not the kind of
(01:10):
girl who brings people home. Soyou're looking back on all this and you're
like, there was so much chemistrythat you sort of acted normally. You
wouldn't normally do that. By theway, when somebody tells me I don't
normally do this, that means theydo it all the time. But nonetheless
you're you're saying that you don't andyou felt a certain kind of way.
And so now since the date,you haven't heard from him, and you're
feeling bad about it because it's like, wait a minute, we did all
(01:32):
this and then where you at?Yeah, exactly, and like I mean
like it was like my first timegiving a guy a number on bumble,
so like it felt like a bigIt felt like a big step for me,
you know. Yeah, No,the whole thing was I get that.
So let's sub I'm gonna play onesong. We'll come back in like
two minutes. We're gonna see wecan get Eddie on the phone, ask
him questions, see where he's been, and hopefully we can work things out
(01:55):
and set you guys up on anotherdate that we pay for sound good.
Great, let's see what happens.It's part two of waiting by the phone
two minutes away on the commercial freeFred Shows. It's the Fred Show.
Good morning, glad you're here.Mary. Yeah, let's call this guy,
Eddie who you went out with.You met him on the dating apps,
you gave him your number, Youguys went out back to your place.
You thought everything was great except forsome reason. You can't get a
(02:17):
hold of him now, and youwant to know why. If you're being
ghosted, Yeah, I would Iwould love some glarity. Let's call him
now, good luck. Hello,Hi is this Eddie? Yeahs Eddie?
(02:38):
Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,
the radio show, and I haveto tell you that we are on the
radio right now and it would needyour permission to continue with the call.
Can which have for just a second? Oh yeah, well, thank you
so much. I appreciate that thiswon't take too long. But we're calling
on behalf of a woman who saysshe met you on the dating apps.
Her name is Mary, and youguys recently went out to you. Remember
(02:58):
meeting Mary? Yeah? I do, I do remember Mary? Okay,
Okay, Well, this there's alwaysa story. There's always a story,
and it sounds like you've got onetoo, because she reached out to us
and she said that she enjoyed meetingyou and uh and really had a good
time. I was hoping to hearfrom you again for another day and hasn't.
Why is that so? I meanshe was right the day itself.
(03:19):
I mean it was great. Youknow, we went back to her place.
A couple of things happened. Yougot a little hot there for a
minute, and it was great.But her apartment, man, it was
a little messy. Okay, Ibeleeve and look and I let it fly
because it says she had a prettybusy week and wasn't really planning to have
anyone over. And I get that, we've all been there. It's totally
(03:39):
cool. Um. After our hookup though, which by the way,
was excellent, I heard a noiseand then I saw two mice stopping run
on by stopping for real. I'mplaying man, I'm serious. I hate
rodents. I hate mice in theloading down at this building. It's just
(04:00):
a three legged one that Caitlyn metthe other day. There were a mice
in her house and I was freakinga little bit. I'm telling her,
looking, I just saw Mike sturryon by on your floor. I mean
she said it was a little messyand she had to put some stuff away,
but she did not say I meanmice. That means that it's gross.
Yeah, yeah, that's unsanitary.Yeah, and it doesn't make me
(04:25):
feel very good obviously. And bythe way, she stayed very calm during
this, barely moving as she's notsurprising, like these are her friends,
right they yeah, and and andshe looked at me and was like,
yo, chill, why are youfreaking out and not bothering you? After
she says to me, oh mygod, let me bring I forgot to
(04:46):
mention I always forget this part.Mary is here? Are these your pets?
I mean are they? Are theyintentionally your pets? Why are there
mice in your house? And what'sgoing on? Well, mice are so
hard to get rid of. I'mlike, you're sing over a couple of
small knife that's crazy. I mean, like I lived in New York once
and it was like a family ofsix living there and get rid of them.
(05:11):
Yeah, it was crazy, andso you kind of like used to
it weeks to get rid of themused to put out so many trials.
No, these are that's the kindof thing you get used to. No,
you're not supposed to have rodents inyour home. No want to.
My inspector and my landlord and they'retrying to take care of it. But
apparently it's an ongoing problem. AndI didn't realize that girl clean your apartment,
(05:38):
Like if it wouldn't be my stressabout and I wouldn't have freaked out.
If you just clean your place,I think that's a good start.
I'd be a first step. Yeah, oh my god. But the fact
is she still were like relaxed aboutit. I mean it's almost like you
just yeah, yeah, this happens. No it doesn't. And the fact
is she's like making peace with itand like not if she's like unfazed by
the whole thing. It's like,what the I don't get it. Did
(06:00):
you mean yeah, did you namethem? Mary? Do they have names?
Are they like Tom and Jerry?Or what what are we doing?
I would say it's more of likea you know, like I sing to
them and they follow me around.No, it's insane, Like that's crazy.
I'm just saying, like I livedin when I was living in New
York. It was just the USday would exist. It wasn't like a
(06:21):
I don't out look she's one withnature, guys, She's just she's just
living with Kiki, she's living themall. I am shook, girl.
You are nasty and if you haveyou sleeping with me and you should tell
them to get you a hole taleof somehow. And Briant, I hope
you shook your bags out when youwent back home because you might have took
one. How would you disgusting?Okay, yes, I'm so looking Eddie.
(06:44):
Let's say she cleans up the houseand maybe a couple of mousetraps you
a little cheese somewhere or something.I don't know. Whatever you gotta do,
hire a pest control guy, getsthem removed. Um, would you
consider because I mean it sounded likeyou liked her up until the point that
you saw rodents in her home.Don't do it totally? No, what
I can did I honestly know becauseif this is just like the start of
the tipp the iceberg here, likewho knows what else I would I would
(07:05):
stumble upon? So no, I'mnot down with it all right? Mary?
Look, hey, you don't seembothered by it. Other people are
probably gonna be bothered by it.But I hope you get it taken care
of. And I'm sorry this isn'tgonna work out with him. We do
wish you the best of luck,though. Thanks. It's time I'll sign
Zimmer his man. Enough oh,
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