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(00:02):
I've ever been left waiting by thephone. It's the French Show. Hey
Lauren, good morning, welcome tothe show. How are you. I'm
good? How are you? We'redoing awesome. Why don't you tell us
about this date that you went outwith Jeff, how you met, about
you know, whether it's one dateor multiple dates, and then kind of
where things are now and how wecan help you. Yeah. Sure.
So Jeff and I met on Hingeand we were just messaging on there for
(00:26):
a while with you know, flirtingwith each other, and then we started
texting and he asked me out fordrinks and we had a really really great
time. We went to his placeand hooked up and I don't know,
like all the signs were there thathe liked me, but now he's just
(00:50):
like completely ghosting me and I haveno clue why. Wow. Okay,
So you look back on this dateand you really feel good about it.
Everything was the vibe was there.You were attracted to him, you thought
he was attracted to you. Imean you really left thinking I'm gonna hear
from this guy again, We're gonnago out again. This is great,
you know whatever. I hate blinddates, I hate dating apps. I
hate all of this BS, andI maybe maybe I found something, Yeah,
(01:14):
exactly, And I mean it's noteven like the vibe was there that
we were attracted to each other,like I know we were attracted to each
other, you know what I mean? Like, Oh, it was just
like completely like undeniable, Like itjust makes absolutely no sense that he would
be ghosting me right now, doyou know what I mean? Okay,
all right, well let's I'm gonnaplay one song and come back. We'll
(01:37):
call Jeff and see if we canget him on the phone, and then
you'll be on the phone as well. We'll ask some questions. You're welcome
to jump in at some point andhopefully whatever's going on we can straighten out
and set you up on another datethat we pay for. Sound good sounds,
Thank you. Let's see what happensnext, Part two of waiting by
the phone. Right after Sis thatwe're back in two minutes on the Fred
Show. SISIs on the French show. We're commercial free for the next forty
(01:59):
minutes. You don't have have togo anywhere. Good morning, hey,
Lauren. Yeah, all right,welcome back, Lauren. Let's call Jeff.
You guys met on hinge, youwent on a great date, you
went back to his plays. Yousaid, you know for a fact that
he is attracted to you because somestuff went down back at his house.
Yeah, okay, so all that'sgood. I mean that's great. All
(02:19):
we're all grown up, so you'reright, Um, these are all good
signs, except you haven't heard fromhim since the date sends the hook up
and you want to know why.Yeah, exactly. Okay, let's call
him now, good luck, Laurens. Hello, Hi is this Jeff?
Yes, Jeff, good morning.My name is Fredam called from the French
(02:43):
show and I have to tell youthat we are on the radio right now
and it would need your permission tocontinue with this call. Can we chat
for a couple of minutes on theshow please? Oh all right, what's
this regard? I know it's alittle bit startling, but I'll get right
to it. We're calling on behalfof a woman named Lauren who says she
met you on hands and you guysrecently went out. Do you remember meeting
(03:05):
her? Yes? I do?Okay, Well, she told us she
liked you a lot, had alot of nice things to say about.
She said she was attracted to youfelt like you were attracted to her,
said the date went well, talkedabout going back to your place. Except
she's a little bit puzzled as towhy you haven't responded to her or reached
out to her since the date.So what's the problem? Oh man,
(03:27):
I really I just can't be datinganybody right now. It's just not the
right time for me. Okay,well, I mean that's your right,
but I mean, why were youon a dating app then? And why
were you going on dates? Like, what's really going on? Because I
feel like what you're saying is somethingto the effect of you're not interested or
it kind of sounds like an excuse. No, no, no, she
is great and we did. Wehad a great time. It was a
(03:51):
great date. Everything went well.It's just for reasons, personal reasons,
things transitions in my life. It'sjust not the right time. I'm not
I'm I'm not the right guy.What does that mean though? Because she
says you guys had a great time. She says you guys, she said
you hooked up. I didn't getinto detail on that, but I mean
everything was was good here. Sowhat has changed since that night, which
(04:15):
wasn't that long ago. Okay,I guess we're gonna have this conversation.
We'll have this conversation. Um,let's have a conversation. Let's have it
right now. Why are we conversingabout. I've decided to re dedicate my
life to God and I am goingto be making a huge shift. I'm
going to seminary school and I willbecoming a be becoming a priest. And
(04:41):
because of that, it's the timefor me to what sort of take a
cleanse in my life of a lotof advices. That your your send off,
that was your last hurrah, likeone more time for Jesus, you
know, Like I mean what likewhen did you when did you you were
going to do I'm really serious,I'm really was serious about No. I'm
happy for I know, I thinkit's wonderful. But when when did you
(05:03):
make this decision? Was it afteryou hooked up with her that you needed
to find the Lord? Or wasit before and then you knew that this
was going to happen? Or likewhere are we at? The truth?
The truth? It's been a longtime coming, and there's been something inside
of me that's sort of just notfelt right for a while, and I've
been going in this direction, andyou know it was it was a little
bit after our date and I realizedthat, um, things needed to change
(05:28):
because I felt I felt like Iwasn't living a righteous life. Oh.
I mean that's Lauren by the way, Lauren, uh, I believe she
is living a righteous life or shethinks, so maybe are you living a
righteous life? No, I guessyou're not righteous. Would mean that you're
not doing the wrong stuff. She'slaying it low, and which is fine.
(05:50):
Okay, So this dude looked upwith you and most certainly, yeah,
I'm not kidding. No, No, I'm not. Look I'm not
making I want to be clear,I'm not making fun of the fact that
you have decided to change your lifein a way that makes you feel more
fulfilled. I'm not. But thetiming of this is unique, um at
best, you know, to say, I wasn't suggesting you were. She
(06:13):
asked if I She said, areyou kidding that? I just want to
make sure you know I'm not makingfun of you. I just it's is
this like when someone says they're goingto NASA basic training, but they're not
really like, are you actually doingthis or are you just trying to get
out of this relationship or whatever itis. I'm actually, I'm actually doing
this, and I have to tellyou if anybody, if any of y'all
(06:34):
are interested in being a part ofit, you're welcome to join. I
got this stuff I gotta do forhowever long that is. Um, I'm
not gonna be able to make itthat I love it. You know,
Laura and I we had a momentin time together we had we had a
cosmic moment, and I don't regretit, but you know it is going
(06:58):
to be a part of a micethat is in my rear view. I
have definitely felt like I needed theLord after a long night, but I
never fully committed myself to you know, just going to the seminary and becoming
a priest and giving giving everything up. I mean, so I guess you
have a lot more willpower than Ido. But Lauren, are we buying
this or does this sound like alittle nutty? It's absolutely ridiculous. You're
(07:21):
telling me that what you had sexwith me and then you decided that you
literally never want to have sex again, not even not even like with yourself.
This is well, it's not personal, it's not perfect. Would take
(07:43):
it very personally, I think whenyou excuse me, excuse me, Lauren
respects. There's no respect here.What are you talking about? This is
insane, that's literally crazy. Welldo you guys see maybe why it's been
(08:03):
hard to find my place? Imean, listen to this reaction. Well
I would. I would teak ita little personal, to be honest.
I think I would do it ifa woman said to me, you know
what I got with you and realizeI don't like any man anymore. I
only want to be with women,or I never want to do it again.
Ever. Not, there's no respecthere. What are you talking about?
(08:24):
This is in Shane, that's that'sliterally crazy. Well do you guys
see maybe why it's been hard tofind my place? I mean, listen
to this reaction, Well I would. I would take it a little personal,
to be honest. I think Iwould do it if a woman said
to me, you know what Igot with you and realize I don't like
any man anymore, I only wantto be with women, or I never
(08:45):
want to do it again ever,not even to myself. There's two ways
you do respect, Lauren. Theproximity of my decision to our rounding is
not necessarily an indication that I didcousin's work. Is it a little bit
narcissistic? Isn't it narcissistic for decision? I don't isn't it narcissistic? I
(09:09):
don't know. Yeah, maybe youdo need to commit your life to God.
That doesn't sound very gaudly of you. Okay, well look, how
can you possibly think that it wasbecause of you? That is an awesome
guy. Yeah, there you go, Lauren, And I'm sorry for the
bad news, but good luck aswell. And if you see this kind
of dating app again, then thendidn't work out in seminary thing
I've ever been left waiting by thephone. It's the French Show. Hey
Lauren, good morning, welcome tothe show. How are you. I'm
good? How are you? We'redoing awesome. Why don't you tell us
about this date that you went outwith Jeff, how you met, about
you know, whether it's one dateor multiple dates, and then kind of
where things are now and how wecan help you. Yeah. Sure.
So Jeff and I met on Hingeand we were just messaging on there for
(00:26):
a while with you know, flirtingwith each other, and then we started
texting and he asked me out fordrinks and we had a really really great
time. We went to his placeand hooked up and I don't know,
like all the signs were there thathe liked me, but now he's just
(00:50):
like completely ghosting me and I haveno clue why. Wow. Okay,
So you look back on this dateand you really feel good about it.
Everything was the vibe was there.You were attracted to him, you thought
he was attracted to you. Imean you really left thinking I'm gonna hear
from this guy again, We're gonnago out again. This is great,
you know whatever. I hate blinddates, I hate dating apps. I
hate all of this BS, andI maybe maybe I found something, Yeah,
(01:14):
exactly, And I mean it's noteven like the vibe was there that
we were attracted to each other,like I know we were attracted to each
other, you know what I mean? Like, Oh, it was just
like completely like undeniable, Like itjust makes absolutely no sense that he would
be ghosting me right now, doyou know what I mean? Okay,
all right, well let's I'm gonnaplay one song and come back. We'll
(01:37):
call Jeff and see if we canget him on the phone, and then
you'll be on the phone as well. We'll ask some questions. You're welcome
to jump in at some point andhopefully whatever's going on we can straighten out
and set you up on another datethat we pay for. Sound good sounds,
Thank you. Let's see what happensnext, Part two of waiting by
the phone. Right after Sis thatwe're back in two minutes on the Fred
Show. SISIs on the French show. We're commercial free for the next forty
(01:59):
minutes. You don't have have togo anywhere. Good morning, hey,
Lauren. Yeah, all right,welcome back, Lauren. Let's call Jeff.
You guys met on hinge, youwent on a great date, you
went back to his plays. Yousaid, you know for a fact that
he is attracted to you because somestuff went down back at his house.
Yeah, okay, so all that'sgood. I mean that's great. All
(02:19):
we're all grown up, so you'reright, Um, these are all good
signs, except you haven't heard fromhim since the date sends the hook up
and you want to know why.Yeah, exactly. Okay, let's call
him now, good luck, Laurens. Hello, Hi is this Jeff?
Yes, Jeff, good morning.My name is Fredam called from the French
(02:43):
show and I have to tell youthat we are on the radio right now
and it would need your permission tocontinue with this call. Can we chat
for a couple of minutes on theshow please? Oh all right, what's
this regard? I know it's alittle bit startling, but I'll get right
to it. We're calling on behalfof a woman named Lauren who says she
met you on hands and you guysrecently went out. Do you remember meeting
(03:05):
her? Yes? I do?Okay, Well, she told us she
liked you a lot, had alot of nice things to say about.
She said she was attracted to youfelt like you were attracted to her,
said the date went well, talkedabout going back to your place. Except
she's a little bit puzzled as towhy you haven't responded to her or reached
out to her since the date.So what's the problem? Oh man,
(03:27):
I really I just can't be datinganybody right now. It's just not the
right time for me. Okay,well, I mean that's your right,
but I mean, why were youon a dating app then? And why
were you going on dates? Like, what's really going on? Because I
feel like what you're saying is somethingto the effect of you're not interested or
it kind of sounds like an excuse. No, no, no, she
is great and we did. Wehad a great time. It was a
(03:51):
great date. Everything went well.It's just for reasons, personal reasons,
things transitions in my life. It'sjust not the right time. I'm not
I'm I'm not the right guy.What does that mean though? Because she
says you guys had a great time. She says you guys, she said
you hooked up. I didn't getinto detail on that, but I mean
everything was was good here. Sowhat has changed since that night, which
(04:15):
wasn't that long ago. Okay,I guess we're gonna have this conversation.
We'll have this conversation. Um,let's have a conversation. Let's have it
right now. Why are we conversingabout. I've decided to re dedicate my
life to God and I am goingto be making a huge shift. I'm
going to seminary school and I willbecoming a be becoming a priest. And
(04:41):
because of that, it's the timefor me to what sort of take a
cleanse in my life of a lotof advices. That your your send off,
that was your last hurrah, likeone more time for Jesus, you
know, Like I mean what likewhen did you when did you you were
going to do I'm really serious,I'm really was serious about No. I'm
happy for I know, I thinkit's wonderful. But when when did you
(05:03):
make this decision? Was it afteryou hooked up with her that you needed
to find the Lord? Or wasit before and then you knew that this
was going to happen? Or likewhere are we at? The truth?
The truth? It's been a longtime coming, and there's been something inside
of me that's sort of just notfelt right for a while, and I've
been going in this direction, andyou know it was it was a little
bit after our date and I realizedthat, um, things needed to change
(05:28):
because I felt I felt like Iwasn't living a righteous life. Oh.
I mean that's Lauren by the way, Lauren, uh, I believe she
is living a righteous life or shethinks, so maybe are you living a
righteous life? No, I guessyou're not righteous. Would mean that you're
not doing the wrong stuff. She'slaying it low, and which is fine.
(05:50):
Okay, So this dude looked upwith you and most certainly, yeah,
I'm not kidding. No, No, I'm not. Look I'm not
making I want to be clear,I'm not making fun of the fact that
you have decided to change your lifein a way that makes you feel more
fulfilled. I'm not. But thetiming of this is unique, um at
best, you know, to say, I wasn't suggesting you were. She
(06:13):
asked if I She said, areyou kidding that? I just want to
make sure you know I'm not makingfun of you. I just it's is
this like when someone says they're goingto NASA basic training, but they're not
really like, are you actually doingthis or are you just trying to get
out of this relationship or whatever itis. I'm actually, I'm actually doing
this, and I have to tellyou if anybody, if any of y'all
(06:34):
are interested in being a part ofit, you're welcome to join. I
got this stuff I gotta do forhowever long that is. Um, I'm
not gonna be able to make itthat I love it. You know,
Laura and I we had a momentin time together we had we had a
cosmic moment, and I don't regretit, but you know it is going
(06:58):
to be a part of a micethat is in my rear view. I
have definitely felt like I needed theLord after a long night, but I
never fully committed myself to you know, just going to the seminary and becoming
a priest and giving giving everything up. I mean, so I guess you
have a lot more willpower than Ido. But Lauren, are we buying
this or does this sound like alittle nutty? It's absolutely ridiculous. You're
(07:21):
telling me that what you had sexwith me and then you decided that you
literally never want to have sex again, not even not even like with yourself.
This is well, it's not personal, it's not perfect. Would take
(07:43):
it very personally, I think whenyou excuse me, excuse me, Lauren
respects. There's no respect here.What are you talking about? This is
insane, that's literally crazy. Welldo you guys see maybe why it's been
(08:03):
hard to find my place? Imean, listen to this reaction. Well
I would. I would teak ita little personal, to be honest.
I think I would do it ifa woman said to me, you know
what I got with you and realizeI don't like any man anymore. I
only want to be with women,or I never want to do it again.
Ever. Not, there's no respecthere. What are you talking about?
(08:24):
This is in Shane, that's that'sliterally crazy. Well do you guys
see maybe why it's been hard tofind my place? I mean, listen
to this reaction, Well I would. I would take it a little personal,
to be honest. I think Iwould do it if a woman said
to me, you know what Igot with you and realize I don't like
any man anymore, I only wantto be with women, or I never
(08:45):
want to do it again ever,not even to myself. There's two ways
you do respect, Lauren. Theproximity of my decision to our rounding is
not necessarily an indication that I didcousin's work. Is it a little bit
narcissistic? Isn't it narcissistic for decision? I don't isn't it narcissistic? I
(09:09):
don't know. Yeah, maybe youdo need to commit your life to God.
That doesn't sound very gaudly of you. Okay, well look, how
can you possibly think that it wasbecause of you? That is an awesome
guy. Yeah, there you go, Lauren, And I'm sorry for the
bad news, but good luck aswell. And if you see this kind
of dating app again, then thendidn't work out in seminary thing
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