December 8, 2025 • 10 mins
He isn't getting a call back - we are trying to figure out why... its another edition of THEjoeSHOW's 'Left On Read'.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We call this Left on Red and uh, you know,
we do our best to help you out. And let's
talk to Evan real quick.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hey Evan, Hey, how's it going, guys?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Good Evan. I I talked with Morgan last night, and
you know I always ask for this, and I know
you know this because you listen to the show. Honesty.
That's gonna be the best thing, because she's gonna bring
up something she saw while you were out that you know,
offended her. And like I said, just be honest here,
(00:39):
Hey Morgan, Hey, I'm Morgan Morgan, kind of like what
I told you last night, Just be honest with Evan.
What did you see after your guys' date?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Oh? I just saw him out with a guy.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I'm like, that's fine, but like I'm not going to
be fighting every human person for his attention.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
So I'm good.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Wow, Okay, I thought that.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Uh I thought that.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
First of all, you knew when I met you. I
told you that.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I was by and I did not know that.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
No, And again it's like not for me.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah, No, I mean, I'm I'm pretty open about you know,
but who I am and what I'm into, and you know,
I just uh, I mean, I'm not I'm not just
dating one person. I was also really clear about that.
I mean I never said specifically I was, you know,
dating another guy, but I didn't. I didn't know that.
(01:53):
I didn't know that we had to, you know, disclose
all that.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I completely. I mean, Morgan, you didn't even tell me
that last night. I didn't know. I don't know he
was on a date with a guy. Which we've had
this discussion before, and let me hear. Let me just
handle that first, and then we can get into what
I want to really talk about. Obviously, that is personal preference.
(02:20):
If you want to date someone who is straight, gay,
or by that's completely your personal preference. Let's all understand that.
Let's move on to what I kind of want to
talk about, which is if you are single and you're
(02:42):
just dating around. I suppose because you, I mean, Morgan
and Evan Sami even wrong, you guys aren't officially dating.
Is there is there a problem? Is there an issue
in talking to other people and going out on dates
(03:03):
with other people? Eight hundred and four and nine ninety
three ninety three take away the hole he's on a
date with another guy. Let's say he was on a
date with another girl Morgan, Would that have bothered you?
Or is it just because he was on a date
with a guy?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I mean, I like it was like the same date.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Like he like has like a vibe that he just.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Does over and over again, and you're just like, you know,
it's fine, but like I'm good. I'm good.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I wouldn't want to see amount with other people, like
it's you know, she's like guy or growth doesn't matter.
So but uh yeah, yeah, and I'm not I'm not
telling you you're wrong or anything like that. I you know,
I really don't know. Would you if you if you know,
you go out with Evan things are cool, you're not
(03:59):
obviously dating official and some other guy asked you out
on a date, you would wait until you figure out
everything with Evan?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I would, Yeah, I'm just not the same way. I've
always been pretty clear about that. I mean, you know,
we're not official, we're not exclusive. I've never meant to
upset you or anything, but I've always been really transparent
about you know, who I am.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Just otherwise we wouldn't be having this conversation.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
But it's fine.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Let's talk to Jesse real quick. Let's talk to Jesse.
Let's see all right, here we go, Hi Jesse. Oh here,
uh sorry, Jamie, turn up pot B phone line B.
We've got Jamie running the board where we're currently on
(04:58):
the road right now in Michigan. I mean, turn a
putt bee or a phone line be. What the hell
does it look like? Yeah? Oh it is up? Hey Jesse,
would you talk?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Joe?
Speaker 4 (05:09):
How are you doing?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Jesse? What do you what do you think you're on with?
You're on with Morgan and Evan.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
So it's it's all about really how the date was
set up. So for instance, me and my fiance we
met on tender and yeah, we had our first date
and actually our second date, and she was still seeing
other guys until we have made it official, and that's
what she.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Cut ties and that was okay with me.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
But I guess it all goes down once again, personal
preference on communications and communication exactly.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Morgan, is there any chance that maybe, like Evan, how
about this, Evan, would you be willing to kind of
put dating everyone else to a pause to maybe see
if things could work out with Morgan?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Well, I mean, now she's kind of put me on
blasts like this. I don't really know if it's that
I mean it, maybe not her specifically, but yeah, sure somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Thank you Jesse by the way, thank you. Sorry, I'm
moving so slow because I can't get this damn laptop
to work.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Here.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Let's see. Hold on, here's my ultimate test and we
love you. Jesse. Hey on, my man, Hey.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yo, my man. Hey, listen man, It's okay to keep
that roster open if you single, you know what I mean.
But you know, like you got caught being a player
on the same day, so you know that's why you
ain't get a call back. But yeah, man, if you're prerogative,
it's like, you know, if you're going to be a player,
(06:49):
be a player, you know, like keep the rosca open
to you officially off the market.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
At what point do you have to stop dating other people?
Like are we exclusive? Or are we still seeing other people?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
You know that's crazy because I was just talking about this,
h you know, like I don't I didn't never realize
that people actually sit down talking be like are we exclusive?
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I don't like to share.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
It just happens, you know what. Every relationship I was in,
it just always became like platonic, like you know what,
I like her? You know what, it's all. It just
happened to me, Like, I never like, do you want
to date me exclusively? You know, it just happens. I
think it also comes down to the person, though, because
it didn't bother you if that person was dating multiple people,
whereas it would bother me if someone I'm dating is
(07:37):
seeing multiple people.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I absolutely you're okay with it because you well, yeah
it was.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
I would go on different dates and like, but I
never locked it down or was exclusive with somebody I
knew after the second date. If I if I wanted
to see you again and I would be after that,
I would be like, hey, I don't think we should
see each other anymore, or I would just I gotta
be up front. I think the honesty is the key
thing here.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
What number of dates do you?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Like?
Speaker 1 (08:08):
How many dates until you before you make it exclusive? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (08:10):
It should to me if you're seeing someone consistently for like,
I don't know, four to six weeks, I think it's
a good time.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
About a month or two. Yeah, the first day, first
day tomorrow. I love you, Jed, don't be crazy. That's
the second day.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Oh my man, you're the best in Listen at the
end of the day. I mean, we can uh move
very quick on it because a lot of people are
kind of saying the same thing. It's all personal preference
and whatnot. But yeah, I mean Morgan, you have no interest, right, yeah,
fake you heavan? How did the date go with the guy?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
You know it's straight? I mean, uh, yes, how many days?
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Last question? How many dates have you gone on? It
was that a first date with that guy? Or have
you been talking to him longer than Morgan?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
No, was in the first date. I mean, we've known
each other for a little while, but just kind of
decided to start hanging out more and come of just
see where that goes, all right?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
The last question, Now, I keep thinking of things you
like men or women more? And I don't know why.
It just was, yeah, attracted to your voice.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
I'm very like very I guess what you'd call I
don't really like to use the word, but I mean,
you know, maybe like pan sexual. So I kind of
I like people for their minds, you know, their personalities,
and it never really I don't really think about gender
that much.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
What is the difference between pan and by pan?
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Is?
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Like you said it more? Go ahead?
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Yeah, I just I like I like people for who.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
They are on the inside, and you know, and what
by people like them physically? What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Trying to say is I don't I don't have a
preference really between men and women. I just like people.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yeah, and then I'm just trying to learn everything. That's
why I'm asking questions. But all right, thank you, thank
you both so much, and I'm sorry we couldn't get
things to work out. But I think that this is
an interesting conversation to have of you know, what point
do you kind of need to let everyone know or
let the other person know, Like, listen, I want to
be exclusive with you, would bother me if you were
(10:38):
with someone else, That makes sense? Yeah, all right, cool,
We call this Left on Red and uh, you know,
we do our best to help you out. And let's
talk to Evan real quick.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hey Evan, Hey, how's it going, guys?
Speaker 1 (00:14):
Good Evan. I I talked with Morgan last night, and
you know I always ask for this, and I know
you know this because you listen to the show. Honesty.
That's gonna be the best thing, because she's gonna bring
up something she saw while you were out that you know,
offended her. And like I said, just be honest here,
(00:39):
Hey Morgan, Hey, I'm Morgan Morgan, kind of like what
I told you last night, Just be honest with Evan.
What did you see after your guys' date?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Oh? I just saw him out with a guy.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I'm like, that's fine, but like I'm not going to
be fighting every human person for his attention.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
So I'm good.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Wow, Okay, I thought that.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Uh I thought that.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
First of all, you knew when I met you. I
told you that.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
I was by and I did not know that.
Speaker 4 (01:22):
No, And again it's like not for me.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Yeah, No, I mean, I'm I'm pretty open about you know,
but who I am and what I'm into, and you know,
I just uh, I mean, I'm not I'm not just
dating one person. I was also really clear about that.
I mean I never said specifically I was, you know,
dating another guy, but I didn't. I didn't know that.
(01:53):
I didn't know that we had to, you know, disclose
all that.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I completely. I mean, Morgan, you didn't even tell me
that last night. I didn't know. I don't know he
was on a date with a guy. Which we've had
this discussion before, and let me hear. Let me just
handle that first, and then we can get into what
I want to really talk about. Obviously, that is personal preference.
(02:20):
If you want to date someone who is straight, gay,
or by that's completely your personal preference. Let's all understand that.
Let's move on to what I kind of want to
talk about, which is if you are single and you're
(02:42):
just dating around. I suppose because you, I mean, Morgan
and Evan Sami even wrong, you guys aren't officially dating.
Is there is there a problem? Is there an issue
in talking to other people and going out on dates
(03:03):
with other people? Eight hundred and four and nine ninety
three ninety three take away the hole he's on a
date with another guy. Let's say he was on a
date with another girl Morgan, Would that have bothered you?
Or is it just because he was on a date
with a guy?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I mean, I like it was like the same date.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Like he like has like a vibe that he just.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Does over and over again, and you're just like, you know,
it's fine, but like I'm good. I'm good.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I wouldn't want to see amount with other people, like
it's you know, she's like guy or growth doesn't matter.
So but uh yeah, yeah, and I'm not I'm not
telling you you're wrong or anything like that. I you know,
I really don't know. Would you if you if you know,
you go out with Evan things are cool, you're not
(03:59):
obviously dating official and some other guy asked you out
on a date, you would wait until you figure out
everything with Evan?
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I would, Yeah, I'm just not the same way. I've
always been pretty clear about that. I mean, you know,
we're not official, we're not exclusive. I've never meant to
upset you or anything, but I've always been really transparent
about you know, who I am.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Just otherwise we wouldn't be having this conversation.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
But it's fine.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Let's talk to Jesse real quick. Let's talk to Jesse.
Let's see all right, here we go, Hi Jesse. Oh here,
uh sorry, Jamie, turn up pot B phone line B.
We've got Jamie running the board where we're currently on
(04:58):
the road right now in Michigan. I mean, turn a
putt bee or a phone line be. What the hell
does it look like? Yeah? Oh it is up? Hey Jesse,
would you talk?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Joe?
Speaker 4 (05:09):
How are you doing?
Speaker 3 (05:12):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Jesse? What do you what do you think you're on with?
You're on with Morgan and Evan.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
So it's it's all about really how the date was
set up. So for instance, me and my fiance we
met on tender and yeah, we had our first date
and actually our second date, and she was still seeing
other guys until we have made it official, and that's
what she.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Cut ties and that was okay with me.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
But I guess it all goes down once again, personal
preference on communications and communication exactly.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Morgan, is there any chance that maybe, like Evan, how
about this, Evan, would you be willing to kind of
put dating everyone else to a pause to maybe see
if things could work out with Morgan?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Well, I mean, now she's kind of put me on
blasts like this. I don't really know if it's that
I mean it, maybe not her specifically, but yeah, sure somebody.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Thank you Jesse by the way, thank you. Sorry, I'm
moving so slow because I can't get this damn laptop
to work.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Here.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Let's see. Hold on, here's my ultimate test and we
love you. Jesse. Hey on, my man, Hey.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Yo, my man. Hey, listen man, It's okay to keep
that roster open if you single, you know what I mean.
But you know, like you got caught being a player
on the same day, so you know that's why you
ain't get a call back. But yeah, man, if you're prerogative,
it's like, you know, if you're going to be a player,
(06:49):
be a player, you know, like keep the rosca open
to you officially off the market.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
At what point do you have to stop dating other people?
Like are we exclusive? Or are we still seeing other people?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
You know that's crazy because I was just talking about this,
h you know, like I don't I didn't never realize
that people actually sit down talking be like are we exclusive?
Speaker 1 (07:14):
I don't like to share.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
It just happens, you know what. Every relationship I was in,
it just always became like platonic, like you know what,
I like her? You know what, it's all. It just
happened to me, Like, I never like, do you want
to date me exclusively? You know, it just happens. I
think it also comes down to the person, though, because
it didn't bother you if that person was dating multiple people,
whereas it would bother me if someone I'm dating is
(07:37):
seeing multiple people.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I absolutely you're okay with it because you well, yeah
it was.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
I would go on different dates and like, but I
never locked it down or was exclusive with somebody I
knew after the second date. If I if I wanted
to see you again and I would be after that,
I would be like, hey, I don't think we should
see each other anymore, or I would just I gotta
be up front. I think the honesty is the key
thing here.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
What number of dates do you?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Like?
Speaker 1 (08:08):
How many dates until you before you make it exclusive? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (08:10):
It should to me if you're seeing someone consistently for like,
I don't know, four to six weeks, I think it's
a good time.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
About a month or two. Yeah, the first day, first
day tomorrow. I love you, Jed, don't be crazy. That's
the second day.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Oh my man, you're the best in Listen at the
end of the day. I mean, we can uh move
very quick on it because a lot of people are
kind of saying the same thing. It's all personal preference
and whatnot. But yeah, I mean Morgan, you have no interest, right, yeah,
fake you heavan? How did the date go with the guy?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
You know it's straight? I mean, uh, yes, how many days?
Speaker 1 (09:03):
Last question? How many dates have you gone on? It
was that a first date with that guy? Or have
you been talking to him longer than Morgan?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
No, was in the first date. I mean, we've known
each other for a little while, but just kind of
decided to start hanging out more and come of just
see where that goes, all right?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
The last question, Now, I keep thinking of things you
like men or women more? And I don't know why.
It just was, yeah, attracted to your voice.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
I'm very like very I guess what you'd call I
don't really like to use the word, but I mean,
you know, maybe like pan sexual. So I kind of
I like people for their minds, you know, their personalities,
and it never really I don't really think about gender
that much.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
What is the difference between pan and by pan?
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Is?
Speaker 1 (09:57):
Like you said it more? Go ahead?
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Yeah, I just I like I like people for who.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
They are on the inside, and you know, and what
by people like them physically? What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (10:10):
Trying to say is I don't I don't have a
preference really between men and women. I just like people.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
Yeah, and then I'm just trying to learn everything. That's
why I'm asking questions. But all right, thank you, thank
you both so much, and I'm sorry we couldn't get
things to work out. But I think that this is
an interesting conversation to have of you know, what point
do you kind of need to let everyone know or
let the other person know, Like, listen, I want to
be exclusive with you, would bother me if you were
(10:38):
with someone else, That makes sense? Yeah, all right, cool,
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