October 29, 2025 • 8 mins
This Left On Read left a lot of people going back and forth... is he wrong for bringing up this topic on the first date?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Why are you not getting a call back after a
date that you deemed to be successful? This is why
we do the Joe shows. Left on right on ninety
three to three fl Z me and Daniel. Mia, you
believe that Daniel basically called you a fat on the date? Daniel,
think about it. Was there any point where you said
(00:20):
something like that?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
No, The Great Great Dates is definitely very combatible. I
want more dates.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
I absolutely love your personality, Mia, like we could really
work out.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
I'm sorry, I just I think that workout is hilarious
choice of words Daniel, because literally almost the entire time
he was talking about his gym and that he wants.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
Me to join.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Great Jim, Yes, I would love for you to join
my gym.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Are you kidding? You are.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Daniel?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
That we were literally having Why would you take me
to an Italian restaurant and give me a giant pasta
course and then talk to me about how we should
really go to the.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Gym though, because after you carblowed you work out that's
just what you do like And this is the nicest
gym I'm telling you like.
Speaker 6 (01:16):
Well, here it is so Daniel.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Let's not do like free ads or anything. Here's Here's
what I want to talk about is how often do
you feel like you brought up? Because to me, she's
basically saying and what she told me last night was
and telling me if I'm wrong, but it was every
other sentence out of your mouth, it was, hey, let's
(01:40):
go work out.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I mean, I think it would be great to you know,
work out with your girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It's more to life.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
I was telling you about all of my hobbies and
all the things that I do, Like I'm booked and buby.
I'm a busy person, and like that's cool about me,
and I do like cool. I go on walks, I
do yoga, I do pilates. I just don't have like
a whole gym thing.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
And that's fine for you.
Speaker 7 (02:09):
That's fine for you, but that's not for me.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
So why can't we just why can't we just both
have our things?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Eight ninety three, ninety three. I am curious if anyone
you know does think that Daniel's calling me overweight Christian.
She's not too happy with the amount of times that
Daniel brought up going and working out.
Speaker 8 (02:34):
What do you think, Hey, guys, I think she might
be overreacting and being a little dramatic. I think she's
just passionate about the gym.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (02:46):
The only reason I say it is because maybe he's
just passionate about the gym. I don't think he's calling.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
He's telling me to do to do the gym with
him because of how I look. He obviously has some
kind of like saying your complex about it it, Oh,
let me help you, let me save you. You can
really you can really step up, like you can really
change and grow and become a better person.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Like do you have like one day Like it's like, yeah,
that's a bit much on the first day.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Okay, and then the second date we could mean it
to gym, no, because because then we could get.
Speaker 8 (03:20):
You to a really perfect healthy spot in.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Your life where we can get Yeah, exercise thing is
so important. That should be part of your your regular
everyday thing.
Speaker 8 (03:37):
Daniel though, like pressure and her to join a gym
with you that's.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Not even just a gym, just having this much focus
on one single thing. Who is this, Hey, Shay, you're
in with Daniel and Mia?
Speaker 7 (03:51):
Hi, Daniel and Mia. So basically I think that like
maybe not so much that she's overreacting, like myself, like
I also have kind of like I'm a little chubbier
than most. You know, these these girls walking around nowadays,
and the gym thing is kind of blown up. And like,
(04:14):
I'm not saying that she's she's insecure by any means,
but maybe that's his way, Like maybe that's just all
he has in life, you know, Like I'm not not
as a bad thing, but like maybe that's the thing.
Defending him, girl, girl, why I'm not defending. I'm not defending.
I'm not defending, but I'm just saying, maybe you should
(04:35):
know your worst.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Girl, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 7 (04:40):
Because I had a little like a little bit of
weight on me. I'm not saying anything bad about myself.
I'm saying maybe that's all he has.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
Trying to make sure that she lives a great life
down There's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 7 (04:53):
But I tell you, once she said he was not interested,
he should have shut up.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
I think, okay, think here's here's the deal. I okay,
I don't think it's that big of a deal. And
have I done it maybe subliminally, but I'm not going
to like over pest like this guy is you or
I'll be I'll be like, hey, why don't you come
to why don't you come to burn class on Saturday morning,
or Hey, why don't you want to you know, let's
(05:21):
go run the track over by the Skyrie.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Park you're on with Daniel and Mia.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
I just wanted to say that I think that this
is just another thing where a man cannot take no
for an answer. He told you she doesn't want to
go to your gym. Just listen to her.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Yeah, but she loves away and then she adds in
her personality she's perfect.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Okay, that she thinks that she's perfect as she is,
and there's going to be somebody there that will think
the exact same thing about her herself.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Absolutely, someone's gonna I am Daniel.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I do love who you are out of ten.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
So what is she now?
Speaker 4 (06:09):
It's who I am.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
If she's inside, we got to match the inside to
the outside because you're perfect.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
So you're just calling me fat. You're calling a fat,
disgusting person.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Who's utul on the inside, disgusting. I love your personality.
You do have a little weight on you. Yeah, you're
a little sick, but we can Basically.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
You'll never be like attracted to me. You'll never be
physically attracted to me until I look some weird certain
standard that you've decided in your own head of how
I should be waiting for you to be physically attracted
to me.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
Somewhat attractive, or if he wouldn't have gone on a
date with you.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
That is also true.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
But Jed, you would never ever say to a woman, hey,
like if you lost some pounds, not.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Unless they like brought it up and said, hey, I'm
getting a little big and I'm like, maybe whoa that
they brought it up first and they said, yeah, I
packed on a little bit of weight. But something about
it you can't You guys are both through okay morning?
(07:20):
That all right?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Well, then maybe we do need to have a conversation
about that later. I think that we gotta be honest.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
When you asked the question, do you want them to
be honest?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
We want them to be honest. But I mean, listen,
at the end of the day, I think we know
the answer from me, which Mia you'd say that, no,
you don't want to know that answer.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Absolutely not leave it to the girls. Guys, are we
talking to Jed like his.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Is Jed?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Here, I'm gonna put you both that hold we I
I gotta get one song in I really do or
or nothing. I just gotta get this song and okay,
don't let.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Me or Daniel go.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yeah, I think that we might need to spend a
little bit more time with them ninety three three FLZ.
We'll discuss this during the song
Why are you not getting a call back after a
date that you deemed to be successful? This is why
we do the Joe shows. Left on right on ninety
three to three fl Z me and Daniel. Mia, you
believe that Daniel basically called you a fat on the date? Daniel,
think about it. Was there any point where you said
(00:20):
something like that?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
No, The Great Great Dates is definitely very combatible. I
want more dates.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
I absolutely love your personality, Mia, like we could really
work out.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
I'm sorry, I just I think that workout is hilarious
choice of words Daniel, because literally almost the entire time
he was talking about his gym and that he wants.
Speaker 5 (00:46):
Me to join.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Great Jim, Yes, I would love for you to join
my gym.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Are you kidding? You are.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Daniel?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
That we were literally having Why would you take me
to an Italian restaurant and give me a giant pasta
course and then talk to me about how we should
really go to the.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Gym though, because after you carblowed you work out that's
just what you do like And this is the nicest
gym I'm telling you like.
Speaker 6 (01:16):
Well, here it is so Daniel.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Let's not do like free ads or anything. Here's Here's
what I want to talk about is how often do
you feel like you brought up? Because to me, she's
basically saying and what she told me last night was
and telling me if I'm wrong, but it was every
other sentence out of your mouth, it was, hey, let's
(01:40):
go work out.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
I mean, I think it would be great to you know,
work out with your girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
It's more to life.
Speaker 4 (01:51):
I was telling you about all of my hobbies and
all the things that I do, Like I'm booked and buby.
I'm a busy person, and like that's cool about me,
and I do like cool. I go on walks, I
do yoga, I do pilates. I just don't have like
a whole gym thing.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
And that's fine for you.
Speaker 7 (02:09):
That's fine for you, but that's not for me.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
So why can't we just why can't we just both
have our things?
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Eight ninety three, ninety three. I am curious if anyone
you know does think that Daniel's calling me overweight Christian.
She's not too happy with the amount of times that
Daniel brought up going and working out.
Speaker 8 (02:34):
What do you think, Hey, guys, I think she might
be overreacting and being a little dramatic. I think she's
just passionate about the gym.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (02:46):
The only reason I say it is because maybe he's
just passionate about the gym. I don't think he's calling.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
He's telling me to do to do the gym with
him because of how I look. He obviously has some
kind of like saying your complex about it it, Oh,
let me help you, let me save you. You can
really you can really step up, like you can really
change and grow and become a better person.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Like do you have like one day Like it's like, yeah,
that's a bit much on the first day.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Okay, and then the second date we could mean it
to gym, no, because because then we could get.
Speaker 8 (03:20):
You to a really perfect healthy spot in.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Your life where we can get Yeah, exercise thing is
so important. That should be part of your your regular
everyday thing.
Speaker 8 (03:37):
Daniel though, like pressure and her to join a gym
with you that's.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Not even just a gym, just having this much focus
on one single thing. Who is this, Hey, Shay, you're
in with Daniel and Mia?
Speaker 7 (03:51):
Hi, Daniel and Mia. So basically I think that like
maybe not so much that she's overreacting, like myself, like
I also have kind of like I'm a little chubbier
than most. You know, these these girls walking around nowadays,
and the gym thing is kind of blown up. And like,
(04:14):
I'm not saying that she's she's insecure by any means,
but maybe that's his way, Like maybe that's just all
he has in life, you know, Like I'm not not
as a bad thing, but like maybe that's the thing.
Defending him, girl, girl, why I'm not defending. I'm not defending.
I'm not defending, but I'm just saying, maybe you should
(04:35):
know your worst.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Girl, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 7 (04:40):
Because I had a little like a little bit of
weight on me. I'm not saying anything bad about myself.
I'm saying maybe that's all he has.
Speaker 6 (04:49):
Trying to make sure that she lives a great life
down There's nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 7 (04:53):
But I tell you, once she said he was not interested,
he should have shut up.
Speaker 6 (05:00):
I think, okay, think here's here's the deal. I okay,
I don't think it's that big of a deal. And
have I done it maybe subliminally, but I'm not going
to like over pest like this guy is you or
I'll be I'll be like, hey, why don't you come
to why don't you come to burn class on Saturday morning,
or Hey, why don't you want to you know, let's
(05:21):
go run the track over by the Skyrie.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Park you're on with Daniel and Mia.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
I just wanted to say that I think that this
is just another thing where a man cannot take no
for an answer. He told you she doesn't want to
go to your gym. Just listen to her.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Yeah, but she loves away and then she adds in
her personality she's perfect.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Okay, that she thinks that she's perfect as she is,
and there's going to be somebody there that will think
the exact same thing about her herself.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Absolutely, someone's gonna I am Daniel.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I do love who you are out of ten.
Speaker 6 (06:09):
So what is she now?
Speaker 4 (06:09):
It's who I am.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
If she's inside, we got to match the inside to
the outside because you're perfect.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
So you're just calling me fat. You're calling a fat,
disgusting person.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Who's utul on the inside, disgusting. I love your personality.
You do have a little weight on you. Yeah, you're
a little sick, but we can Basically.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
You'll never be like attracted to me. You'll never be
physically attracted to me until I look some weird certain
standard that you've decided in your own head of how
I should be waiting for you to be physically attracted
to me.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
Somewhat attractive, or if he wouldn't have gone on a
date with you.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
That is also true.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
But Jed, you would never ever say to a woman, hey,
like if you lost some pounds, not.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
Unless they like brought it up and said, hey, I'm
getting a little big and I'm like, maybe whoa that
they brought it up first and they said, yeah, I
packed on a little bit of weight. But something about
it you can't You guys are both through okay morning?
(07:20):
That all right?
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Well, then maybe we do need to have a conversation
about that later. I think that we gotta be honest.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
When you asked the question, do you want them to
be honest?
Speaker 1 (07:33):
We want them to be honest. But I mean, listen,
at the end of the day, I think we know
the answer from me, which Mia you'd say that, no,
you don't want to know that answer.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Absolutely not leave it to the girls. Guys, are we
talking to Jed like his.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Is Jed?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Here, I'm gonna put you both that hold we I
I gotta get one song in I really do or
or nothing. I just gotta get this song and okay,
don't let.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Me or Daniel go.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yeah, I think that we might need to spend a
little bit more time with them ninety three three FLZ.
We'll discuss this during the song
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