November 10, 2025 • 11 mins
Charlie is trying to find out why he is being ghosted... we get the answers for him after he hasn't heard back from his date...
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, Charlie. Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
How's it going.
Speaker 3 (00:03):
Good morning, Charlie. It's uh, it's good. So we did
call Rachel. I just want to fill you in on
that already. Rachel and I did talk a couple of
days ago, and we can save like the awkward hellos
and everything, but.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Well, hello Rachel.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hi.
Speaker 5 (00:21):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Kind of like what I told you a few days ago,
I think you just be honest with Charlie. Maybe this
is a misunderstanding of some sorts. He also might have
an issue that you looked on his phone, But like
I said, just be honest. Why have you not called
Charlie back?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
So we were hanging out at his place, just like
watching a movie, and I saw his like Instagram explore page.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
And it was just.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
It was just full of like women that were like
working out and like bikinis and like body holding and
workout videos, and it was just I guess I just
felt like it was super toxic and gross and I
don't know, it felt very womanizing.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
So it's it's like the popular page is what you
had an issue with, which for him like specific, the
assumption is then you know what is he looking at
that Instagram will go Hey, I'm gonna show you a
bunch of women.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
It's gonna Taylor, you're what you like.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
And it was just like workout women working out when
you're women in bikinis. It was just like only that.
And it just was like, that's not me. I don't
look like that. I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I just Charlie, what do you what?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I mean, what do you? What do you think about this?
Speaker 6 (01:48):
I mean she looks on my phone and my phone
says I like women women, Like it's how long look
at someone's fy p to like, I just look at
was looking through a few things here and there, and
then he was looking over and like, yeah, I like women.
There's there's women.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
Who work out, they look good and all that, and.
Speaker 6 (02:11):
Yeah, I mean I don't what what do you expect
to see on a dude's phone.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
It was like beyond just like a few women. It
was like over the top, like bikini's only like buff
women and like all of it. I just that's just
not something I think your whole feed should be. And
obviously I don't look like that. I'm like, does he
think I'm gonna become this woman? Like it's just it
felt gross, just was gross.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Eight hundred and four Nain, ninety three, ninety three. I
mean when you when you hear this, what's going through
your head? Would this bother you? I mean, even if
you're in a relationship, like listen, you know, I feel like,
I don't know, I guess it's social media has never
been one that really bothered me.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Like it's yeah, I don't know, it's.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I almost said, it's like kind of like shopping, but
like window shopping, but now you're not gonna buy anything,
so I wouldn't even compare it to that.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
But it's just like, I don't know.
Speaker 8 (03:11):
I can see how people I mean you, yeah, you
say it's window shopping, yeah for you, but some people
they window shop, but they go in they touch.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Well, and that's where that's a bad analogy. I don't
know what it's. It's just pictures, it's pictures. Would that
bother you? You know? Eight four ninety three, ninety three. Here
let's talk to Chandra. Chandra, what do you think.
Speaker 9 (03:38):
Hey, I get to talk to Joe Cool. I think
it's ridiculous. I mean it's a guy for crying out
loud and he's single.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah yeah, I mean yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
I mean you go on one day and that offends you,
then Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Chandra, how would I say? I'm still trying to think
of what the analogy is. I'm going to try to
think it was not like.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Our We had three dates, first of all, and it
was more than just like swimming. It was like over
the top like and it wasn't like, oh, here's one.
It was just only that, which means that's all he
looks at. It'd be different if it was like multiple
things in there and it was just only that cater
completely to him.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
But that his boys will.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Be boys mentality is what's wrong with the exception, Like,
I'm not going to be like with a guy who
thinks that I can do.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
This I have So what's online is video games.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Darman Mine's, Nintendo, Disney Fortnite.
Speaker 8 (04:51):
South Park had inspirational quotes and women with boobs recipes.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
And I'm not saying, but hey, can't avoid women with boobs,
right Jed.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
No, you can't know it comes up in the It's
also the algorithm. You can't control what comes up in
the algorithm. And if you look for a little too
long and then guess what it's going to show up
on your popular page that's ragel. I would give this
guy the benefit of the doubt here because you said
you went on three dates with him. Clearly he did
something right in the first two. You just saw something
that kind of give you a little bit of the ick,
which I think you can kind of brush over and
kind of give him another change.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Along with all of that, I do have a lot
of pictures of Timothy shallow Man, for I got a
lot of Timothy shallow May that's okay, Hey Sarah.
Speaker 9 (05:40):
Hey are you hi?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You say that this is a massive red flag, not
that I have pictures of Timothy shallow Man mine, but
why go ahead?
Speaker 9 (05:50):
Well maybe no, I'm look, I'm speaking woman to a
woman here. That is a massive red flag. It is
just hear me, thank you. Typically those men have an
addiction to something that I'm not going to say on
the radio. It's yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, you know exactly,
(06:12):
and it's not And I know a lot of people
normalize it, but I'm genuinely saying, like, it's not normal
to look at stuff like that. It rewires your brain,
just like an addiction to anything else would. It is
not healthy. It is not somebody you want to be
in a relationship with until they get that under wraps
that nothing about that is normal, and don't ever let
somebody tell you that that's normal.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Sir, Sarah, to be fair, it's Instagram. He's not going
on his safari in searching pornographic.
Speaker 9 (06:37):
Material page that page.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Why I see you.
Speaker 9 (06:42):
That he is if that is what his page that
is tailored for him looks like?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
All right, Sarah, thank you, Thank you so much, sir.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
A single guy like me who has a different FYP page,
I mean, I'm just got the same FYP page as
every other single dude I know. And if my FYP
page did have He's on it, we didn't have girls
that a guy finds attractive on them. If I didn't
have girls on that FYT page, if she saw it,
I'm sorry, but we be on this radio having a
completely different conversation.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Charlie not getting a callback because Rachel said she saw
too many girls on his page.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Melissa, Melissa, you see no issue with this, No, absolutely not.
Speaker 10 (07:24):
I mean, at least it was girls and not a
bunch of guys in short, short's working out right, that's right.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
At least it wasn't pictures of Timothy.
Speaker 10 (07:30):
Shalloman and my husband has that stuff on his too.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
She just sounds really insecure to me.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, I've got Spider Man, hot Chick, Mickey Mouse, Hot Chick.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Goofy Okay, Timothy Shalloon.
Speaker 10 (07:48):
You're in a happy relationship, right, and your fiance is
absolutely fine in your totally secure right.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Uh yeah, no, I don't.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
I think she just thinks I'm an idiot, especially when
she sees black Bart Simpson twice on my forte right.
Speaker 10 (08:06):
But no, just as a girl, I don't think that
there's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 8 (08:14):
That's it's a pig with a phase.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I got a bunch of pigs with tapered fades on mine,
so once again different Jason.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Go ahead.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Hey, I don't even get on my Instagram, but when
I do and I go to my search, just a
bunch of random stuff and half naked girls, and get
over it. I'm not searching, it's just what it wants
me to see.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
I've got Shrek tis I want you to see you
for some reason, I've got I've got Hitler Shrek on my.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Page. I'm just telling you what I'm saying. I don't
know why I have that, but I got it.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Huh, all right, thank you, Jason, Well, Jed, you've been
awfully quiet.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
What's your for you page? I already said what my
for you pages? It's golf videos, it's Fortnite, it's boobs,
it's pause versus no pause on the swing, bicep vein.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Pause on the wait, bicep vein, Yeah, bicep vein in.
This guy, he's like, it's like a pull up.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Huh yeah, Okay, all right, Rachel Charlie. Obviously things aren't
going to really work out for you both, but hopefully
things work out in the future, and hopefully you know
perspective men and women listening know what they should and
should not have on their page. Oh last one, LEXI,
go ahead because you are bisexual, and you've noticed something
about Instagram.
Speaker 10 (09:41):
Uh yeah, honestly on my for you page, on TikTok, Instagram, snapchat,
really anything, it's more boobs than muscular men. Yes, muscular
men are kind of attractive, but I'm sorry the Sabrina
Carpenter trends where it's the tears where she goes, oh
my god, and like the girls are like laying on
(10:03):
their back and then they pop back out like that's
all over.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
For you page.
Speaker 10 (10:08):
So honestly, if he's not, you know, doing stuff to that,
then I think it's fine because I have all over mine.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Yeah, yep, I got a lot of like here. I'll
just flip it around. This is what my U page
looks like. Do you want to explain what it is?
I mean, just so people don't think I'm lying, go
just read a couple.
Speaker 8 (10:29):
He's got Michael Jackson on there. He's got McDonald's what
is it Ronald McDonald jumping on a trampoline. He's got
a dog with a fade.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
He's got Mike Wazowski from Monsters, Inc. With got with
big balls. He's got Backyard Sports Star Wars. There's like
one boob for every like twelve memes. Though, that's pretty healthy,
I think, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
I will say, actually it's very healthy. Look at you.
There's not a lot of boobs at all. I don't know.
There's literally no boom. To fix it. We gotta get
we gotta get hold on. This is a horrible representation. Hilarious,
look at it. It's pretty funny though, at least mine
(11:13):
are funny.
Hi, Charlie. Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
How's it going.
Speaker 3 (00:03):
Good morning, Charlie. It's uh, it's good. So we did
call Rachel. I just want to fill you in on
that already. Rachel and I did talk a couple of
days ago, and we can save like the awkward hellos
and everything, but.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Well, hello Rachel.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hi.
Speaker 5 (00:21):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Kind of like what I told you a few days ago,
I think you just be honest with Charlie. Maybe this
is a misunderstanding of some sorts. He also might have
an issue that you looked on his phone, But like
I said, just be honest. Why have you not called
Charlie back?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
So we were hanging out at his place, just like
watching a movie, and I saw his like Instagram explore page.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
And it was just.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
It was just full of like women that were like
working out and like bikinis and like body holding and
workout videos, and it was just I guess I just
felt like it was super toxic and gross and I
don't know, it felt very womanizing.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
So it's it's like the popular page is what you
had an issue with, which for him like specific, the
assumption is then you know what is he looking at
that Instagram will go Hey, I'm gonna show you a
bunch of women.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
It's gonna Taylor, you're what you like.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
And it was just like workout women working out when
you're women in bikinis. It was just like only that.
And it just was like, that's not me. I don't
look like that. I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
I just Charlie, what do you what?
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I mean, what do you? What do you think about this?
Speaker 6 (01:48):
I mean she looks on my phone and my phone
says I like women women, Like it's how long look
at someone's fy p to like, I just look at
was looking through a few things here and there, and
then he was looking over and like, yeah, I like women.
There's there's women.
Speaker 7 (02:07):
Who work out, they look good and all that, and.
Speaker 6 (02:11):
Yeah, I mean I don't what what do you expect
to see on a dude's phone.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
It was like beyond just like a few women. It
was like over the top, like bikini's only like buff
women and like all of it. I just that's just
not something I think your whole feed should be. And
obviously I don't look like that. I'm like, does he
think I'm gonna become this woman? Like it's just it
felt gross, just was gross.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Eight hundred and four Nain, ninety three, ninety three. I
mean when you when you hear this, what's going through
your head? Would this bother you? I mean, even if
you're in a relationship, like listen, you know, I feel like,
I don't know, I guess it's social media has never
been one that really bothered me.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Like it's yeah, I don't know, it's.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I almost said, it's like kind of like shopping, but
like window shopping, but now you're not gonna buy anything,
so I wouldn't even compare it to that.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
But it's just like, I don't know.
Speaker 8 (03:11):
I can see how people I mean you, yeah, you
say it's window shopping, yeah for you, but some people
they window shop, but they go in they touch.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Well, and that's where that's a bad analogy. I don't
know what it's. It's just pictures, it's pictures. Would that
bother you? You know? Eight four ninety three, ninety three. Here
let's talk to Chandra. Chandra, what do you think.
Speaker 9 (03:38):
Hey, I get to talk to Joe Cool. I think
it's ridiculous. I mean it's a guy for crying out
loud and he's single.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah yeah, I mean yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (03:52):
I mean you go on one day and that offends you,
then Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Chandra, how would I say? I'm still trying to think
of what the analogy is. I'm going to try to
think it was not like.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Our We had three dates, first of all, and it
was more than just like swimming. It was like over
the top like and it wasn't like, oh, here's one.
It was just only that, which means that's all he
looks at. It'd be different if it was like multiple
things in there and it was just only that cater
completely to him.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
But that his boys will.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Be boys mentality is what's wrong with the exception, Like,
I'm not going to be like with a guy who
thinks that I can do.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
This I have So what's online is video games.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Darman Mine's, Nintendo, Disney Fortnite.
Speaker 8 (04:51):
South Park had inspirational quotes and women with boobs recipes.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
And I'm not saying, but hey, can't avoid women with boobs,
right Jed.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
No, you can't know it comes up in the It's
also the algorithm. You can't control what comes up in
the algorithm. And if you look for a little too
long and then guess what it's going to show up
on your popular page that's ragel. I would give this
guy the benefit of the doubt here because you said
you went on three dates with him. Clearly he did
something right in the first two. You just saw something
that kind of give you a little bit of the ick,
which I think you can kind of brush over and
kind of give him another change.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Along with all of that, I do have a lot
of pictures of Timothy shallow Man, for I got a
lot of Timothy shallow May that's okay, Hey Sarah.
Speaker 9 (05:40):
Hey are you hi?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You say that this is a massive red flag, not
that I have pictures of Timothy shallow Man mine, but
why go ahead?
Speaker 9 (05:50):
Well maybe no, I'm look, I'm speaking woman to a
woman here. That is a massive red flag. It is
just hear me, thank you. Typically those men have an
addiction to something that I'm not going to say on
the radio. It's yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, you know exactly,
(06:12):
and it's not And I know a lot of people
normalize it, but I'm genuinely saying, like, it's not normal
to look at stuff like that. It rewires your brain,
just like an addiction to anything else would. It is
not healthy. It is not somebody you want to be
in a relationship with until they get that under wraps
that nothing about that is normal, and don't ever let
somebody tell you that that's normal.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Sir, Sarah, to be fair, it's Instagram. He's not going
on his safari in searching pornographic.
Speaker 9 (06:37):
Material page that page.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Why I see you.
Speaker 9 (06:42):
That he is if that is what his page that
is tailored for him looks like?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
All right, Sarah, thank you, Thank you so much, sir.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
A single guy like me who has a different FYP page,
I mean, I'm just got the same FYP page as
every other single dude I know. And if my FYP
page did have He's on it, we didn't have girls
that a guy finds attractive on them. If I didn't
have girls on that FYT page, if she saw it,
I'm sorry, but we be on this radio having a
completely different conversation.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Charlie not getting a callback because Rachel said she saw
too many girls on his page.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Melissa, Melissa, you see no issue with this, No, absolutely not.
Speaker 10 (07:24):
I mean, at least it was girls and not a
bunch of guys in short, short's working out right, that's right.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
At least it wasn't pictures of Timothy.
Speaker 10 (07:30):
Shalloman and my husband has that stuff on his too.
Speaker 5 (07:36):
She just sounds really insecure to me.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Yeah, I've got Spider Man, hot Chick, Mickey Mouse, Hot Chick.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Goofy Okay, Timothy Shalloon.
Speaker 10 (07:48):
You're in a happy relationship, right, and your fiance is
absolutely fine in your totally secure right.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Uh yeah, no, I don't.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
I think she just thinks I'm an idiot, especially when
she sees black Bart Simpson twice on my forte right.
Speaker 10 (08:06):
But no, just as a girl, I don't think that
there's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 8 (08:14):
That's it's a pig with a phase.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I got a bunch of pigs with tapered fades on mine,
so once again different Jason.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Go ahead.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Hey, I don't even get on my Instagram, but when
I do and I go to my search, just a
bunch of random stuff and half naked girls, and get
over it. I'm not searching, it's just what it wants
me to see.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
I've got Shrek tis I want you to see you
for some reason, I've got I've got Hitler Shrek on my.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Page. I'm just telling you what I'm saying. I don't
know why I have that, but I got it.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Huh, all right, thank you, Jason, Well, Jed, you've been
awfully quiet.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
What's your for you page? I already said what my
for you pages? It's golf videos, it's Fortnite, it's boobs,
it's pause versus no pause on the swing, bicep vein.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Pause on the wait, bicep vein, Yeah, bicep vein in.
This guy, he's like, it's like a pull up.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Huh yeah, Okay, all right, Rachel Charlie. Obviously things aren't
going to really work out for you both, but hopefully
things work out in the future, and hopefully you know
perspective men and women listening know what they should and
should not have on their page. Oh last one, LEXI,
go ahead because you are bisexual, and you've noticed something
about Instagram.
Speaker 10 (09:41):
Uh yeah, honestly on my for you page, on TikTok, Instagram, snapchat,
really anything, it's more boobs than muscular men. Yes, muscular
men are kind of attractive, but I'm sorry the Sabrina
Carpenter trends where it's the tears where she goes, oh
my god, and like the girls are like laying on
(10:03):
their back and then they pop back out like that's
all over.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
For you page.
Speaker 10 (10:08):
So honestly, if he's not, you know, doing stuff to that,
then I think it's fine because I have all over mine.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Yeah, yep, I got a lot of like here. I'll
just flip it around. This is what my U page
looks like. Do you want to explain what it is?
I mean, just so people don't think I'm lying, go
just read a couple.
Speaker 8 (10:29):
He's got Michael Jackson on there. He's got McDonald's what
is it Ronald McDonald jumping on a trampoline. He's got
a dog with a fade.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
He's got Mike Wazowski from Monsters, Inc. With got with
big balls. He's got Backyard Sports Star Wars. There's like
one boob for every like twelve memes. Though, that's pretty healthy,
I think, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
I will say, actually it's very healthy. Look at you.
There's not a lot of boobs at all. I don't know.
There's literally no boom. To fix it. We gotta get
we gotta get hold on. This is a horrible representation. Hilarious,
look at it. It's pretty funny though, at least mine
(11:13):
are funny.
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