December 15, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, but put your phone in the middle before you
before we even sit down and eat, put your phone
in the middle of the table, would you eight and
four ninety three ninety three? What would you do if
that happened to you on a very first date? This
is left on right on ninety three three fl Z
where you and by the way, if you have submitted,
(00:21):
especially recently, I promise you we're going to get back
to you as soon as possible. We are getting to
the point now where we're getting a lot of submissions
for everything that we do, and you can submit at
ninety three three flz dot com or shoot us a
dm at at Live with Joe Show. I promise you
we will get back to you as soon as possible. Now,
(00:45):
we received a submission from a man by the name
of Nathan who was wondering about Tessa, who we've got
Tessa on right now.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Hi, Tessa, Hi, Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
So I called Tessa a couple of days ago and
and you know, asked her would you want to come on?
And we had a guy by the name of Nathan
get in contact. You know, do you know, Nathan? Do
you remember all this? Why exactly did your ghost And
also please don't get in contact with him before we
go on the air. And from the sounds of it,
(01:17):
you did all that, and thank you, Tessa. Tessa, I'm
gonna pick up Nathan and kind of like what I
said to you, just be.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Honest with him.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Okay, yeah, okay, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Kind of what I've been alluding to.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Something happened at the dinner table and hey, Nathan, Hi,
all right, so Tessa is already on Tessa, just let's
not I know it's kind of an awkward thing to do,
but let's not waste any time. Get right into it.
Why did it bother you about the whole phone situation?
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Yeah, I mean I've never experienced anything like that before.
I'm wondering who, who, who does that? I mean, like,
we did not speak before this, and so this is
my first impression. This is the first time I'm getting
to know you. And immediately it's we've got rules. Put
(02:11):
your phone down on the table, like I can't have
it in my bag, It can't go in my pocket,
it can't.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
It was like, immediately, you've got rules for me and
how I'm supposed to behave, and it was just it
was the biggest dick.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
It's gross.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
I mean, okay, it just confuses me. How you say
that you got the ink. I mean you say it yourself.
We're getting to know each other, and me putting my
phone in the middle of the table shows that I'm
giving you my undivided attention, Like I wanted to get
to know you.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Yeah, and you can. You could do that, but like,
you don't get to dictate what I'm gonna do. Like
maybe I would have followed suit if you're like, hey,
this is something I do or show respect or whatever,
but you were just like, this is what I expect
of you, and it's like you don't get to have
expectations of need out tis So.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I would say, why can't you keep that phone in
your pocket, Nathan and just.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Like not touch your phone. But I'm gonna be honest
with you.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I give my phone to my fiance every time we
I put it right in your purse because I have
a complete inability to not have it ring and me
not immediately look down at it or me think about
That'd be a funny topic to say on the show.
I got to write this down. I have a massive
phone issue now. To ask someone though, to like partaking
(03:37):
that on a first date, it might take a little
bit of balls.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
What do you think, eyk, I think it's odd because
I would I'm one, I don't really know you, so
I'm not gonna just put my phone in the middle
of the table just to make you comfortable.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
You just have to trust and know that I'm not
gonna be on my phone texting or you know, scrolling
social media while I'm trying to get to know you.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
That's ridiculous, Daddy. You're on with Tessa and Nathan. Nathan
and then the very first date, before they even sat down,
said hey, phone in the middle.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Put that phone in the middle.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
What do you think for me?
Speaker 7 (04:10):
I guess I got in the car a little late.
I it would depend on how he said it.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
If you're going to be.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Pushy and bossy about it, no, But if you were
saying it nicely and you said you just want to
get to know each other.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I think I.
Speaker 7 (04:23):
Also kind of am very addicted to my phone. And
if he was like, hey, let's get to know each other,
let's put our phones in the middle, I would be
okay with it. But if he was like, this is
what we're doing, and this is what you're going to
do No, you can't do it like that exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I see, I don't.
Speaker 8 (04:39):
I don't see an issue with it really because he's
I mean, he's being himself. If he's like, hey, put
your phone in the middle, then clearly it's like, you know,
right there and then there they're like, you know, you
don't want to be with.
Speaker 7 (04:52):
Them, right right, it's right if he says it like that,
and that's then he's showing himself. If he's saying put
it in the middle, and this is what my rule is.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
No, mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Thank you, Debby Celeste. Yes, Hi, you're on with Tessa
and Nathan. What do you think?
Speaker 9 (05:13):
Honestly, I agree with you, Joe. I don't know why.
I feel like you makes you kind of a big
deal out of it the middle of the table. I
feel like, if I understand, he wanted to kind of
show her, oh, I'm giving you my undivided attention. But
you can do that by just literally showing her that
you're not on your phone. You know, it could be
in her purse, it could be in his pocket. It's
(05:34):
just a matter of the gesture itself. I mean, I
understand what he's trying to say like, oh, I want
us to pay attention to each other. We're getting to
know each other, but it's kind of a little forceful
to say, oh, I need your phone in the middle
of the table exactly. I would have walked out, you
would have last I would have laughed. I would have
(05:55):
been like, I don't know who you think you are.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
But that's a lot you think about.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh yeah, like I told myself, like I should have. Honestly,
I should have. I told myself next time anything like
that happens. Hou there's never next time, but I would
I would walk out next time.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
And why is that?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Well no, yeah, go ahead, And Nathan, I just want
to say, it's not supposed to be like that serious.
We're on our phones all the time. Hey, we're on
a first state, Like let's just put our phones in
the middle of the table and hear each other out.
Like I don't see what's so crazy about that.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Yeah, but you're dolinating like expectations. You're like this is
what I expect, you know what I mean? Like you're
you're putting it out there like these are my rules.
It's like I don't have to obey your rules, Like
who am I who do you think I am? Like,
that's not I don't come in and immediately like subject
myself to your rules, like okay, I mean like.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
All right, I don't I don't get it. I don't
get it.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Well at the end of the day, maybe that's why
Tessa never even responded to her phone has been in
the middle of the table since, and that's what happened.
But I like that, all right, Tessa and Nathan, I'm
assuming no chance for another day. No, yeah, all right,
figured thank you Nathan, and thank you Tessa, and sorry
(07:24):
Nathan that things didn't work out. But maybe maybe you
learn from now on. Just phone in the pocket on
the first Yeah, right, ninety three three fl We got
to pick up the energy. By the way, I'm gonna
pick it up next
Hey, but put your phone in the middle before you
before we even sit down and eat, put your phone
in the middle of the table, would you eight and
four ninety three ninety three? What would you do if
that happened to you on a very first date? This
is left on right on ninety three three fl Z
where you and by the way, if you have submitted,
(00:21):
especially recently, I promise you we're going to get back
to you as soon as possible. We are getting to
the point now where we're getting a lot of submissions
for everything that we do, and you can submit at
ninety three three flz dot com or shoot us a
dm at at Live with Joe Show. I promise you
we will get back to you as soon as possible. Now,
(00:45):
we received a submission from a man by the name
of Nathan who was wondering about Tessa, who we've got
Tessa on right now.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Hi, Tessa, Hi, Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
So I called Tessa a couple of days ago and
and you know, asked her would you want to come on?
And we had a guy by the name of Nathan
get in contact. You know, do you know, Nathan? Do
you remember all this? Why exactly did your ghost And
also please don't get in contact with him before we
go on the air. And from the sounds of it,
(01:17):
you did all that, and thank you, Tessa. Tessa, I'm
gonna pick up Nathan and kind of like what I
said to you, just be.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Honest with him.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Okay, yeah, okay, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Kind of what I've been alluding to.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Something happened at the dinner table and hey, Nathan, Hi,
all right, so Tessa is already on Tessa, just let's
not I know it's kind of an awkward thing to do,
but let's not waste any time. Get right into it.
Why did it bother you about the whole phone situation?
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Yeah, I mean I've never experienced anything like that before.
I'm wondering who, who, who does that? I mean, like,
we did not speak before this, and so this is
my first impression. This is the first time I'm getting
to know you. And immediately it's we've got rules. Put
(02:11):
your phone down on the table, like I can't have
it in my bag, It can't go in my pocket,
it can't.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
You know.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
It was like, immediately, you've got rules for me and
how I'm supposed to behave, and it was just it
was the biggest dick.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
It's gross.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
I mean, okay, it just confuses me. How you say
that you got the ink. I mean you say it yourself.
We're getting to know each other, and me putting my
phone in the middle of the table shows that I'm
giving you my undivided attention, Like I wanted to get
to know you.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
Yeah, and you can. You could do that, but like,
you don't get to dictate what I'm gonna do. Like
maybe I would have followed suit if you're like, hey,
this is something I do or show respect or whatever,
but you were just like, this is what I expect
of you, and it's like you don't get to have
expectations of need out tis So.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I would say, why can't you keep that phone in
your pocket, Nathan and just.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Like not touch your phone. But I'm gonna be honest
with you.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
I give my phone to my fiance every time we
I put it right in your purse because I have
a complete inability to not have it ring and me
not immediately look down at it or me think about
That'd be a funny topic to say on the show.
I got to write this down. I have a massive
phone issue now. To ask someone though, to like partaking
(03:37):
that on a first date, it might take a little
bit of balls.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
What do you think, eyk, I think it's odd because
I would I'm one, I don't really know you, so
I'm not gonna just put my phone in the middle
of the table just to make you comfortable.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 6 (03:49):
You just have to trust and know that I'm not
gonna be on my phone texting or you know, scrolling
social media while I'm trying to get to know you.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
That's ridiculous, Daddy. You're on with Tessa and Nathan. Nathan
and then the very first date, before they even sat down,
said hey, phone in the middle.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Put that phone in the middle.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
What do you think for me?
Speaker 7 (04:10):
I guess I got in the car a little late.
I it would depend on how he said it.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
If you're going to be.
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Pushy and bossy about it, no, But if you were
saying it nicely and you said you just want to
get to know each other.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
I think I.
Speaker 7 (04:23):
Also kind of am very addicted to my phone. And
if he was like, hey, let's get to know each other,
let's put our phones in the middle, I would be
okay with it. But if he was like, this is
what we're doing, and this is what you're going to
do No, you can't do it like that exactly.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
I see, I don't.
Speaker 8 (04:39):
I don't see an issue with it really because he's
I mean, he's being himself. If he's like, hey, put
your phone in the middle, then clearly it's like, you know,
right there and then there they're like, you know, you
don't want to be with.
Speaker 7 (04:52):
Them, right right, it's right if he says it like that,
and that's then he's showing himself. If he's saying put
it in the middle, and this is what my rule is.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
No, mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Thank you, Debby Celeste. Yes, Hi, you're on with Tessa
and Nathan. What do you think?
Speaker 9 (05:13):
Honestly, I agree with you, Joe. I don't know why.
I feel like you makes you kind of a big
deal out of it the middle of the table. I
feel like, if I understand, he wanted to kind of
show her, oh, I'm giving you my undivided attention. But
you can do that by just literally showing her that
you're not on your phone. You know, it could be
in her purse, it could be in his pocket. It's
(05:34):
just a matter of the gesture itself. I mean, I
understand what he's trying to say like, oh, I want
us to pay attention to each other. We're getting to
know each other, but it's kind of a little forceful
to say, oh, I need your phone in the middle
of the table exactly. I would have walked out, you
would have last I would have laughed. I would have
(05:55):
been like, I don't know who you think you are.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
But that's a lot you think about.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Oh yeah, like I told myself, like I should have. Honestly,
I should have. I told myself next time anything like
that happens. Hou there's never next time, but I would
I would walk out next time.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
And why is that?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Well no, yeah, go ahead, And Nathan, I just want
to say, it's not supposed to be like that serious.
We're on our phones all the time. Hey, we're on
a first state, Like let's just put our phones in
the middle of the table and hear each other out.
Like I don't see what's so crazy about that.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Yeah, but you're dolinating like expectations. You're like this is
what I expect, you know what I mean? Like you're
you're putting it out there like these are my rules.
It's like I don't have to obey your rules, Like
who am I who do you think I am? Like,
that's not I don't come in and immediately like subject
myself to your rules, like okay, I mean like.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
All right, I don't I don't get it. I don't
get it.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Well at the end of the day, maybe that's why
Tessa never even responded to her phone has been in
the middle of the table since, and that's what happened.
But I like that, all right, Tessa and Nathan, I'm
assuming no chance for another day. No, yeah, all right,
figured thank you Nathan, and thank you Tessa, and sorry
(07:24):
Nathan that things didn't work out. But maybe maybe you
learn from now on. Just phone in the pocket on
the first Yeah, right, ninety three three fl We got
to pick up the energy. By the way, I'm gonna
pick it up next
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