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Thanks for hanging out with us. Joe show is on
ninety three to three fl Z. Can we talk about
the whole offer thing? Do you mind if we do that?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
No you?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Oh yeah, sure?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
When oh yeah, eight hundred four then ninety three ninety three,
that's eight hundred four on the ninety three ninety three.
Have you ever offered something but didn't have the intentions
of actually giving? Okay, I want to know. Have you
(00:32):
ever offered something with no intention of giving? Eight hundred
four then ninety three ninety three? Actually, can give us
the first example of it.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
It happened to her yesterday. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
No, this wasn't even yesterday. This is when I brought
in Dutch Bros. Coffee to everybody or on the show.
And there was someone who else works in the morning
with us who happened to be walking in at the
same time. And she goes, oh, Dutch Bros. I was like, oh,
already live it, Like all I live in Saint Pete.
I'm like, yeah, Dutch Bros Is down the street. I want,
you know, everybody on the show to try it, and
Tampa and Tampa to try it. And we walk upstairs
(01:08):
and we're on the on the elevator, and I'm like,
I'm the one who even just said it too, I
should just shut up. I go, you know what, you're
in Saint Pete. I'm in Tampa's right down the street.
If you ever want to try it, let me know,
text me, you know, and I'll probably go and grab some.
And she's like, oh, thank you, dude. Tell me why.
The next day this act. No, this did happen yesterday,
she DM me and the and she goes, hey, I'm
(01:30):
actually gonna get Starbucks this morning. I don't want to
say the rest because then it'll give away who it is,
but don't I'm actually gonna get Starbucks this morning. But
when you go to Dutch Bros. Let me know and
I'll vamo you dude. I never plan on doing this
for her, ever for him. But I was just like,
I was in a good mood. I'll bring Dutch Bros
for the tame man.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
No, I completely get it, but.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
You're supposed to turn me down. And she was like, oh, no,
thank you for offering, thank you for offering.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
I do this too much when I get it excited
about something it was. I mean, I've offered a lot,
not really realize that I'm even offering it and then
once it comes out and then they're like, yeah, I'll
take that, I'm like oh no, no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
So now I feel like I got to bring in
Dutch bros.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
I gotta put it.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
No, I gotta put it in a different cup or.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Like yeah, like oh my god, you wouldn't believe it,
Like that location had to close.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah, they're never opened up in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
You didn't hear coffees illegal now, like there's nothing we
can do. It's not their fault even it's just been outlawed.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
And when I opened that DM, I was just like
you remembered, why would you do that?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
It's like kind of like when you ask someone like hey,
how you're doing, and you're just hoping they say I'm good.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
That didn't they walk away their entire life.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
But it's like, oh my god, my dog died. You're
like what, Yeah, my dog died. You wouldn't believe. How
do you got like ten minutes I gotta hear them
sit down? No, well hold on, yeah, so I gotta
tell you about how my dog was hit by a terrorist. Yeah,
Like it's always got to be something like horrible when
you ask that question, then it's always got to be like,
oh yeah, I'll take that. I mean, it's gone down
(03:18):
to like the worst is and I don't know how
bad she gets it. But you know one of our
favorite people, Michelle, who's salesperson here, she's got the Disney tickets, okay.
And then Nicky who runs all of our prizes, she's
got the Universal tickets.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
And people think that we're like and I love that
they do like, and it's the truth. When it comes
to theme parks, we have the tickets. Like, there's no
other radio station that you can listen to that's going
to supply the amount. I mean, hundreds of thousands of
dollars worth of tickets have been given away on the
Joe Show. I don't like to ask Nikki or Michelle
(04:01):
for those tickets. So when people I'm talking to them
and go.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Oh my god, you go to Disney all the time.
You do all that all the.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Time, which, by the way, I pay for it. If
you see me at any of these things, I've paid
for it. I have not gotten it for free. But
people will say that and then my stupid mouth gets
uncomfortable for some reason, and I feel bad that I'm
experiencing these things and other people aren't, so I immediately.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Go, oh, well, you know, I can always.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
And then they're like, okay, go ask and I'm like, no,
I'm not gonna, Like in my head, I already know
like if you can ask.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Both of that.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
I tended for two days and I never asked.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I have never ever ever asked them for it. But
to other people, they think I have asked. Raven, you
do the same exact thing.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Huh yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
So like when somebody's having a hard time, you know,
you say, oh, let me know if you need anything.
Oh yeah, but I've been stabbed way too many times
the back. Like I let this woman move in with me.
She turned into my best friend, you know, and then
she stabbed me in the back, and I just I
(05:08):
can't go through that again. And that was actually the
second person that has done that to me. But like
every time somebody says you know, this, this, this, and
the third and you're like, oh, let me know if
you need anything, who really means that?
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah, you're right, Jed.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
You you say not Ashley, and then you laugh like,
uh do you mean it?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Yeah, because I'm not going to offer help to you
if I don't mean it. That's how many times, Joe
have we talked about me being like, you really said
you're gonna help that person clean up? Or hey, you
really said you're gonna help that person move and then
the look of sour on my face.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Remember it was not too long ago when Jed wanted
his neighbor wanted to help him with something at our house,
and he regretted offering his help.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
But I'll still follow that.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Hold On, Terry, come in here real quick, because I
want to see. Let's put Jed to the test and
see if he's actually serious about that he'll offer up
his services and then actually help Terry. Didn't you need
to remove stuff from your place with termites?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, said hold on, Jed said that he was going
to help you.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Yes, did he help you?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
No?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Okay? Apples and oranges?
Speaker 5 (06:20):
Apples, orange circumstances, my dad I had to take my
dad to go get his car.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Uh yeah, I talked to your dad. I don't think
that that's true. It is true?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Is that true? It is true? Yeah? Okay, all right,
all right, all right, that's definitely not true.
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