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One time I told the story about and people will
walk up to me and they say, hey, you'll have
a small hands Maine. One person walked up to me
and they said that I had small hands and that
that hurt. But massive hands, I guess could be hurtful
as well. Eight hundred four oh nine ninety three, ninety three.
What is a turnoff for you? And it doesn't have
(00:22):
to necessarily be physical. It could be, you know, audio wise,
like you hear something and you don't like it. It
could be the tone in which they talk would be
another one. Eight hundred four oh nain ninety three, ninety three.
You want to talk about a woman with big hands? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Man. I went out to a brunch on Saturday and
the server I didn't even notice it until it was
brought to my attention, and I looked like, she has
massive hands, and they were just they were rather large.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
I don't think I.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Was really like, she had a beautiful face, but as
soon as you looked at her hand, I was like, whoa,
they're huge, they're big, and it's just I didn't think
that I could be I could not be attracted to
someone because of her hands. I was like completely turned off.
It was that bad, Yeah, because they were just big.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
They had hair on the knuckles.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
She was a female like, she wasn't like there's nothing
wrong with someone transitioning from man to women women a man,
nothing nothing going on with the knuckles. Yes, I was
like she just they were and they were they were thick.
You ever seen people with thick hands like I don't know,
I don't know how to describe what they were, just
really thick, hot, short, Yes, yes, and yeah, I was
(01:34):
just like.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Ew as someone with small hands. I wish I had
big hands, Yes I do. I wish I had calloused,
you know, covered hands. I have very feminine looking hands.
It sounds like this woman and I swapped hands at first.
Clearly you couldn't get past that.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Every time she came to the table, I feel so
bad because I would just look at her hands, and
you know, they take your order on the little thing now,
so I'm just like looking at her put my order in.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Oh it was awful, Hey, kai kai? What does it
turn off?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
Long or just short? Dirty fingernails?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Then this is where a hand show. We're looking at it?
What about feet? Anyone look at feet? You don't like,
you know, big feet?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
I don't like people feet when the yeah, no.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
No, you gotta.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
By the way, my nails are kind of long right now,
So now I'm embarrassed. Hey, uh is it Marie?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Hi Joe, Oh my god, Hi, I got tears on
my eyes.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Oh my goodness, Why have tears in my eyes talking
to you? This is so exciting for me, such a.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Long time listener and trying to get through his heart.
Especially you guys come on on the same time that
I'm driving. So driving and watching YouTube is heart.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I know, and I'm sorry about that.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
The cool thing though, is if you if you ever
miss anything, then you can watch it back.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Yeah, so I get to do that.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
Tell me about your turn off.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
My goodness, Steve, I gotta look at a man's smile
because that smile is what's gonna be touching my body
and finger out. Yeah, nails, I'm gonna be roaming around
and doing their things. And boys, those nails and those
teeth are not good. Get me sick, or don't tell
you something exactly. It's hard.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Can't you get infections because of someone else's lack of brushing? Yeah,
but a hurt piece and stuff you don't know, you know,
Marie are you going to my birthday brunch?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Oh my god, please tell me that I am, because
I am going to cry if you say.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
No, you are going. Congratulations?
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Oh my god.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
You know, listen my son if he's in the army,
so on YouTube you'll see Army mom, Army Mom. It's
because the last three years he's been deployed, he has
not been able to celebrate his birthday. So we've been
trying to do something in his heart. So telling me
that I am. Oh my god, we're gonna have the
best birthday ever.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yeah, we are.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Marie, Thank you, Thank you for being a mother of
a hero.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
You are a hero as well. Marie. What is your
son's name?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
His name is Giovanni. He's an M eighty eight Mikey.
He's a transportation driver for the one sixty that's on
a guard Army reserve.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Wow. Wow. And he brushes his teeth regularly.
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Oh my goodness. Yes, that's like he's obsession. Like I'll
be like, dude, they're gonna fall off if he keeps.
Crevin's like, no, they're not ready.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That's right, that's right. And guess what terrorists do. They
don't brush their teeth. They don't brush their teeth. They don't.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
They don't.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Marie, No, I can't wait. I can't to give you
a big hug. On Friday, we're gonna be hanging out
eating good food, Birthday brunch. We're ready, Maria, I'm gonna
put you on hold. Hey, Alissa Alyssa, Yeah, you don't
like what.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
High pitch voices. They could be the most beautiful person,
but if they have a really awkward voice, now I'm good.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah. I couldn't agree more.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
That sounds like a serial killer.
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