December 23, 2025 • 11 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tampa Bay's number one and only hit music channel ninety
three three FLZ.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We Are the Joe Show.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Unfortunately caught another cheater with war the Roses Now started
with an electric toothbrush. Things got weird and you can
listen to everything up on our free iHeartRadio app. This
was a man who didn't have to have a job.
His wife completely took care of him. We'll see what happens,
you know, in the coming weeks, months, and year. The
(00:28):
guy didn't have a kid's nothing going on. He just
got to stay home, didn't have to do anything, all right,
And in no way do I want this to come
across like we are bashing anyone who doesn't have to
have a job, because once again, and I genuinely mean this,
I'm not trying to panderr I come from a household
(00:48):
where my mom was blessed enough to not have to
have a job. Her job was completely taking care of
three boys who were getting suspended and doing a lot
of bad things and having to like, she never missed
any of our games. She was always there for us,
always there. Yeah, this guy's kind of the opposite. The
(01:09):
guy ain't got to do nothing, but he's cheating and
that to me, it just doesn't I can't comprehend that, Brittany.
For five years, you were with a man who you
supported financially. Yes, for five years you were with a
(01:32):
man who had you do everything you could to take
care of two people, and for five years he was
cheating any.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yes, how did you catch him?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Well, we shared a phone because I wish I could
have supported us enough to have everything like that, and
so I would get his Facebook messages sent to my phone.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
And I went on.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
A vacation.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
A family member passed away, so I went out of state,
and he just started, you know, using our computer, and
I happened to get one of the messages and seeing
it that he had been talking to this girl for
you know, years, years and planning leading me after he
(02:28):
saved up so much of the money that I worked
to earn, and I came back from my vacation, i'll
call it, and confronted him about it.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
It was, by the way, if someone just turned on
the radio about twenty seconds ago, you said that it was,
you know, putting it as a vacation and the case
you were at a funeral for a family member. He's disabled.
That's what he kept telling you that's why he couldn't work.
So you're struggling to take care of yourself. Now you
(03:01):
got to take care of him. You're paying for everything.
You can't even afford two phones, heating, he.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Cheated, and I even moved his mother fell into hard times.
I moved his mother and his two siblings in with
me across the country.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Girl and yes, his parents, his.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Mom and two siblings were living with me at the
time that we found this out.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Everybody gotta go, well, check this out. So brittany one
last thing.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Now you say, you take this guy in, you're dating him,
he doesn't have a job. He tells you he's disabled.
You have to take care of him. You have to
pay for everything you barely afford to pay for yourself.
He then moves his family in. You're taking care of
all of them. He cheats on you. The relationship's done,
You leave him. You find out later that he has
(03:52):
two jobs.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Well, he got two jobs right after we split up,
so the whole time he could have worked and he
did not.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
How good is life now though, that you don't have
to be with someone like that.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Oh it's great. My husband is the breadwinner and I've
got we got six kids.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Now, damn, I like, I love it, Brittany, who's your
least favorite because I know you have.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
One, my lazy one.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
All right, Brittany, thank you for sharing your story. Yes,
genuine believer that every time someone does this, it does
help out anyone who's going through what you are going through.
So Brittany, we we love you, we appreciate you, and
I am very sorry that you had to go through
what you went through.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Nicole.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Yes, you were paining your baby daddy's rent. Yeah, you
had to stop pain. You couldn't even afford diapers at
one point.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:16):
I had to tell him that, like, we couldn't because
every time him and I would hang out and we
would get together, we would spend more money. So I
told him, I'm like, we cannot hang out like until
you pay me back that money so that I can
get my daughter from diapers. And he called me a
gold digger and I was like, no, I.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Broke up with him.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah, wow, Nicole, so sorry that So wait, did he cheat?
Speaker 6 (05:47):
No, that was the thing. He didn't cheat, or at
least not in that situation.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
But okay, all right, yeah, wow, I'm sorry that he
said that. Listen Nicole, ippreciate you calling in well, last one.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I should have gotten to her first. Rachel.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, because so, Rachel, you are here to say that
you were the cheater. Yes, and you were. You are
a state home mom. You were a stay at home mom,
and I was.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
Back then, Okay, And it was his idea for me
to be a stay at home mom. But every chance
he got, it like got he was thrown in my face.
But I didn't work, and I didn't help, and I cooked,
I cleaned, I took care of our daughter. It was
in order to save that money from daycare and so
she would be safe and raised by us and not
(06:42):
someone else. But he would any chance he got, he
get none, he'd throw it in my face. He made
me feel so unappreciated that I did. I cheated one
time because I just wanted to feel like I was appreciated,
and I just wanted to feel something because I was
just put down all the time.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Were you caught?
Speaker 5 (07:01):
No, you are now ever bold We're not even together anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Okay, So this is a good situation.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
No, no one knows. My best friend, doesn'tyone else?
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Well, no, Tampa Bays.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Wow, what does that feel like? How long ago did
this happen?
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Like ten years ago?
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Ten years ago you cheated on your husband, and ten
years later you just admitted it to the Joe Show
and all of Tampa Bay that that happened. You said
that out loud for the first time.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
You just yeah, I feel a little better because I
always felt guilty and I don't know why, because.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Well, you cheated. I think that's probably why. It's why.
Well it's not okay, but.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Yeah, but with everything that he was doing. I mean, obviously,
and we're not here to say it's okay to cheat,
it's definitely not.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
But the things that led you to do that, I.
Speaker 5 (07:55):
Mean I couldn't even go and do anything without having
the AF permission like he was going.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
I don't stand for teating, but if I got to
ask you permission to do this and do that, oh baby,
And you're not making me feel wanted or you just
don't appreciate me.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Yeah, I'm my step.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
Out And I worked full time the whole time I
was pregnant up until I had her, like worked full time.
Everything else it was his like him pushing me, no,
let's not pay for daycare, you stay home, Like I
didn't even want to stay home.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Like, I like the work.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
I enjoyed it because I got to spend quality time
with my daughter.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
But are you with the guy that you cheated on
him with? Now?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Okay, that was literally like some rands like it was.
It wasn't anything meaningful. Does that make sense.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
When I say, yeah, okay, I had no idea it
was his brother?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Who is It was.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Just like on one of those like it wasn't tender
back then.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Whatever.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
It was like plenty of fish or something. I hadn't
made it.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
I was done.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I just deleted the app. I was like, okay, I
got my I just I got what I needed.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Problem, where did you go?
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Oh god?
Speaker 5 (09:12):
I mean it wasn't nothing fancy. I met him at
a bar and we went back to his house, and
then I had to go home because I had a baby.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Oh man, unreal.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
And when you walk through your your front door and
you get into the home you pick up your baby,
what's going through your head?
Speaker 5 (09:32):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
No, you're good? Hey, I mean listen, that's how you,
uh you felt?
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Well?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Uh wow, Rachel. I appreciate you being so honest and
sharing your story.
Speaker 7 (09:48):
You know, I love talking to teeters, catching them get
in their head.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
Sure, it's my only time I've ever done that, because
that's not my that's not my style, that's not my
m O.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Appreciate it.
Speaker 7 (10:02):
You ain't got no reason to cheat.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
Yeah, And I didn't even throw it in his face,
like I caught him like a couple of years later
cheating on me, and I was just like, okay, we're done. Like,
but I never I could have thrown it in his face.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
I could have.
Speaker 5 (10:13):
That's just not me.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
That's not my.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Back. Rachel.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Thank you for calling him, Yes, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Falling more often? I want to hear more. I thought
some good stories. Yeah, no kidding, Like I want to
know where the bar was? Yeah, what you're doing? Type
of car he drove?
Speaker 7 (10:39):
What made you want to do it with him? And
that guy has no clue either.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
It was his brother. That was funny. It was really
fun you're saying, I'm funny. That was funny. Thank you
that one time.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Okay, coming up next, we do have the news. We've
got a special announcement, and then we'll get in to
find the floor tom in. There's a lot on the way.
We're still rolling non stop. What's up with the news?
Speaker 7 (11:01):
Ash, you know it's not funny all that rang yesterday,
and we're gonna talk about why the people of South
Tampa are kind of freaking out. Also will dig deep
into the ongoing legal battle between it Blake Lively and
the director of the movie. It ends with us justin
about Onni.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Just in case there is a little bit more of
that with the whole dump button. Give me three seconds
Tampa Bay's number one and only hit music channel ninety
three three FLZ.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We Are the Joe Show.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Unfortunately caught another cheater with war the Roses Now started
with an electric toothbrush. Things got weird and you can
listen to everything up on our free iHeartRadio app. This
was a man who didn't have to have a job.
His wife completely took care of him. We'll see what happens,
you know, in the coming weeks, months, and year. The
(00:28):
guy didn't have a kid's nothing going on. He just
got to stay home, didn't have to do anything, all right,
And in no way do I want this to come
across like we are bashing anyone who doesn't have to
have a job, because once again, and I genuinely mean this,
I'm not trying to panderr I come from a household
(00:48):
where my mom was blessed enough to not have to
have a job. Her job was completely taking care of
three boys who were getting suspended and doing a lot
of bad things and having to like, she never missed
any of our games. She was always there for us,
always there. Yeah, this guy's kind of the opposite. The
(01:09):
guy ain't got to do nothing, but he's cheating and
that to me, it just doesn't I can't comprehend that, Brittany.
For five years, you were with a man who you
supported financially. Yes, for five years you were with a
(01:32):
man who had you do everything you could to take
care of two people, and for five years he was
cheating any.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yes, how did you catch him?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Well, we shared a phone because I wish I could
have supported us enough to have everything like that, and
so I would get his Facebook messages sent to my phone.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
And I went on.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
A vacation.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
A family member passed away, so I went out of state,
and he just started, you know, using our computer, and
I happened to get one of the messages and seeing
it that he had been talking to this girl for
you know, years, years and planning leading me after he
(02:28):
saved up so much of the money that I worked
to earn, and I came back from my vacation, i'll
call it, and confronted him about it.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
It was, by the way, if someone just turned on
the radio about twenty seconds ago, you said that it was,
you know, putting it as a vacation and the case
you were at a funeral for a family member. He's disabled.
That's what he kept telling you that's why he couldn't work.
So you're struggling to take care of yourself. Now you
(03:01):
got to take care of him. You're paying for everything.
You can't even afford two phones, heating, he.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Cheated, and I even moved his mother fell into hard times.
I moved his mother and his two siblings in with
me across the country.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Girl and yes, his parents, his.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Mom and two siblings were living with me at the
time that we found this out.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
Everybody gotta go, well, check this out. So brittany one
last thing.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Now you say, you take this guy in, you're dating him,
he doesn't have a job. He tells you he's disabled.
You have to take care of him. You have to
pay for everything you barely afford to pay for yourself.
He then moves his family in. You're taking care of
all of them. He cheats on you. The relationship's done,
You leave him. You find out later that he has
(03:52):
two jobs.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
Well, he got two jobs right after we split up,
so the whole time he could have worked and he
did not.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
How good is life now though, that you don't have
to be with someone like that.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
Oh it's great. My husband is the breadwinner and I've
got we got six kids.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Now, damn, I like, I love it, Brittany, who's your
least favorite because I know you have.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
One, my lazy one.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
All right, Brittany, thank you for sharing your story. Yes,
genuine believer that every time someone does this, it does
help out anyone who's going through what you are going through.
So Brittany, we we love you, we appreciate you, and
I am very sorry that you had to go through
what you went through.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Nicole.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Yes, you were paining your baby daddy's rent. Yeah, you
had to stop pain. You couldn't even afford diapers at
one point.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:16):
I had to tell him that, like, we couldn't because
every time him and I would hang out and we
would get together, we would spend more money. So I
told him, I'm like, we cannot hang out like until
you pay me back that money so that I can
get my daughter from diapers. And he called me a
gold digger and I was like, no, I.
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Broke up with him.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Yeah, wow, Nicole, so sorry that So wait, did he cheat?
Speaker 6 (05:47):
No, that was the thing. He didn't cheat, or at
least not in that situation.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
But okay, all right, yeah, wow, I'm sorry that he
said that. Listen Nicole, ippreciate you calling in well, last one.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I should have gotten to her first. Rachel.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, because so, Rachel, you are here to say that
you were the cheater. Yes, and you were. You are
a state home mom. You were a stay at home mom,
and I was.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
Back then, Okay, And it was his idea for me
to be a stay at home mom. But every chance
he got, it like got he was thrown in my face.
But I didn't work, and I didn't help, and I cooked,
I cleaned, I took care of our daughter. It was
in order to save that money from daycare and so
she would be safe and raised by us and not
(06:42):
someone else. But he would any chance he got, he
get none, he'd throw it in my face. He made
me feel so unappreciated that I did. I cheated one
time because I just wanted to feel like I was appreciated,
and I just wanted to feel something because I was
just put down all the time.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Were you caught?
Speaker 5 (07:01):
No, you are now ever bold We're not even together anymore.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Okay, So this is a good situation.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
No, no one knows. My best friend, doesn'tyone else?
Speaker 7 (07:12):
Well, no, Tampa Bays.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Wow, what does that feel like? How long ago did
this happen?
Speaker 5 (07:19):
Like ten years ago?
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Ten years ago you cheated on your husband, and ten
years later you just admitted it to the Joe Show
and all of Tampa Bay that that happened. You said
that out loud for the first time.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
You just yeah, I feel a little better because I
always felt guilty and I don't know why, because.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Well, you cheated. I think that's probably why. It's why.
Well it's not okay, but.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Yeah, but with everything that he was doing. I mean, obviously,
and we're not here to say it's okay to cheat,
it's definitely not.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
But the things that led you to do that, I.
Speaker 5 (07:55):
Mean I couldn't even go and do anything without having
the AF permission like he was going.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
I don't stand for teating, but if I got to
ask you permission to do this and do that, oh baby,
And you're not making me feel wanted or you just
don't appreciate me.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Yeah, I'm my step.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
Out And I worked full time the whole time I
was pregnant up until I had her, like worked full time.
Everything else it was his like him pushing me, no,
let's not pay for daycare, you stay home, Like I
didn't even want to stay home.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Like, I like the work.
Speaker 5 (08:24):
I enjoyed it because I got to spend quality time
with my daughter.
Speaker 7 (08:28):
But are you with the guy that you cheated on
him with? Now?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Okay, that was literally like some rands like it was.
It wasn't anything meaningful. Does that make sense.
Speaker 7 (08:38):
When I say, yeah, okay, I had no idea it
was his brother?
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Who is It was.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Just like on one of those like it wasn't tender
back then.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Whatever.
Speaker 5 (08:55):
It was like plenty of fish or something. I hadn't
made it.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
I was done.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I just deleted the app. I was like, okay, I
got my I just I got what I needed.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Problem, where did you go?
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Oh god?
Speaker 5 (09:12):
I mean it wasn't nothing fancy. I met him at
a bar and we went back to his house, and
then I had to go home because I had a baby.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Oh man, unreal.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
And when you walk through your your front door and
you get into the home you pick up your baby,
what's going through your head?
Speaker 5 (09:32):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
No, you're good? Hey, I mean listen, that's how you,
uh you felt?
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Well?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Uh wow, Rachel. I appreciate you being so honest and
sharing your story.
Speaker 7 (09:48):
You know, I love talking to teeters, catching them get
in their head.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
Sure, it's my only time I've ever done that, because
that's not my that's not my style, that's not my
m O.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Appreciate it.
Speaker 7 (10:02):
You ain't got no reason to cheat.
Speaker 5 (10:05):
Yeah, And I didn't even throw it in his face,
like I caught him like a couple of years later
cheating on me, and I was just like, okay, we're done. Like,
but I never I could have thrown it in his face.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
I could have.
Speaker 5 (10:13):
That's just not me.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
That's not my.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
Back. Rachel.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
Thank you for calling him, Yes, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Falling more often? I want to hear more. I thought
some good stories. Yeah, no kidding, Like I want to
know where the bar was? Yeah, what you're doing? Type
of car he drove?
Speaker 7 (10:39):
What made you want to do it with him? And
that guy has no clue either.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
It was his brother. That was funny. It was really
fun you're saying, I'm funny. That was funny. Thank you
that one time.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
Okay, coming up next, we do have the news. We've
got a special announcement, and then we'll get in to
find the floor tom in. There's a lot on the way.
We're still rolling non stop. What's up with the news?
Speaker 7 (11:01):
Ash, you know it's not funny all that rang yesterday,
and we're gonna talk about why the people of South
Tampa are kind of freaking out. Also will dig deep
into the ongoing legal battle between it Blake Lively and
the director of the movie. It ends with us justin
about Onni.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Just in case there is a little bit more of
that with the whole dump button. Give me three seconds
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