December 23, 2025 • 10 mins
Finding out that your current significant other could be going back to another person they were previously in a relationship with always hurts... but in this Roses we need to get the answers
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Four of the roses on The Joe Show. I don't
know why this is my biggest fear, or maybe maybe
I do. I just don't want to happen. But if
Alyssa went back to her as I got cheated on, right,
and it was with her ax, for some reason, I
feel like that would hurt more. I don't know why.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
You knowing you, it would, it would.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Thanks knowing me. Is that a disk?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
No, it's not. I just know who you are.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Yeah, it would bother It wouldn't bother you.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
No, not so much.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I don't think so. I think I'm a little bit
more like over somebody. If you're gonna go back to
her ex, go back to your ex, but you, I
don't know how you are and your feelings a lot.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I would do. What I'm saying is like, I don't
necessarily know if I want if I were to get
cheated on, I wouldn't want to be cheated on.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
It was.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah, I don't want to know the person. I don't
know why I'm a sick person here. Let's uh, let's
pick up Kevin Keaven. Hey, Kevin, Kevin, I was just
saying that it's one thing to get cheated on by
a random but to have it be their ax would
if that would hurt more, And unfortunately that's the situation
(01:13):
that you found yourself in. You believe that if your
girlfriend is cheating on you, more than likely it's her AX.
Yeah you cool. If we start with LinkedIn, Yeah, you
were on it and you saw. I don't know how
(01:37):
because I don't I don't use LinkedIn, but you were
on it and yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Yeah. LinkedIn is like you know ConnectX, like you know
all the people you work with, and then their their
coworkers and colleagues and friends and whatnot. I noticed that, uh,
Lucy's ex boyfriend is uh now working at her company.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
How did you find that out? Why did you look
him up?
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Well, because it says like mutual connections and like this
person works here and that, and so I clicked on
it and noticed its like an learn and so they oh,
so so you know, join this company like or whatever.
So I put two and two together and then I
saw that he was working at Lucy's company all of
a sudden, and I was like, uh, that's kind of
when she started becoming you know, not available all the time.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
You guys don't live with each other, right.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
No, we don't know, so I can't. I can't keep
tabs all the time, you.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Know, and I I'm just going through what you and
Jed had talked about. You don't live with each other.
Over the last month or so, she's been acting very
different the timeline or months, a couple of months. Timeline
really matches up with when this guy this acts started
(02:55):
working with Lucy. You have not said a single word
to her. You know, she's not been hanging out with
you as much. Yeah, tell me if I'm wrong. She
doesn't hang out with you at all during the week anymore.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
No, not at all.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
And it's like weekends are rare nowhere.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Weekends are rare. I mean, you know, there's always some
kind of like you know, event or like you know,
either the work situation or whatever, so you know, but
it's just like it was like an ultimate switch. So
it was like, you know, hot and heavy NonStop, and
then all of a sudden, it was like, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Available anything else. I mean I I I listen. I
think that we have everything we need and I don't
want to string you along at all and make you
continue to wait. Who even cares if there's anything else
we've got enough, Kevin, I'm gonna I'm gonna put you
on hold, and I want you to know that we're
all here for you, and we've got our fingers crossed
(03:52):
that you know you're going to be hearing your name.
We're all going to be hearing your name, Ashley. Do
you have everything that you need?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Yeah, we're gonna do whiskey, right of course?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, yes, all right. Jed just gave us that thumbs up.
So we have called Lucy hoping we hear Kevin's name,
but her ex is His name is Max right here, Max.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Hello, Hi, am I speaking with Lucy? Yeah, Hi, Lucy.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
My name is Cayle. I'm actually calling from the Tampa
Bay Whiskey Company. We're a new whiskey store, just trying
to get our name out there. If you had a
moment for just your two question survey, listen, I don't
need any credit card information.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
You're probably thinking is a scam in the middle of Lucy.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
It's only going to take thirty seconds, maybe less. Can
I just ask you two questions? Hey, it's completely free
and you'll make someone's day, Like, who doesn't want a
free bottle of whiskey? You help us out trying to
get our name out there. Just the local store trying to,
you know, help everybody else, and you help us, We
help you, You help us out?
Speaker 2 (05:00):
No credit card information that.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
You hung up? Yeah, Chad's already calling her back.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Hello, Hello, Sorry, Lucy.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I do want to know if you are okay with
us doing this two questions, Lucy. It's gonna take maybe
two seconds. I do need to let you know this
call is being recorded for quality and training purposes?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Are you okay with that? And then we can get
this started. No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
I don't like soliciting solicitor calls.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I don't have time for this.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
It's gonna be really quick. All I need you to
do is answer two questions. We're gonna ship this bottle
out to anyone you like, and I guarantee you it's
gonna make their day.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Wait, what do you mean ship this bottle?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
We're gonna ship a free bottle of whiskey to whoever
you would like. I do need to let you know
this call is being recorded for quality and training purposes, though.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Are you okay with that? And then we can move forward?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I mean, okay, fine, but I just make it okay.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Have you purchased whiskey in the last six months. No,
do you plan on purchasing whiskey in the next six months?
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Probably great. See that was super easy and simple.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Now I need a first and last name of who
you want to actually send this bottle to.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Oh, okay, Max, and that's.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Our Okay, And with this bottle of whiskey, we are
going to include a car so Max can know who
sent it to him.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
So what would you like that car to say to Max?
Speaker 5 (06:48):
If you could put here's to catching the one that
got away and then like a little heart.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah that's so cute.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah, okay, And you're gonna send him, Yes, I am,
and he's gonna know it's from you, so he's gonna
know that you are on top of his mind.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Now you don't.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I'm actually gonna transfer you over to shipping and handling though.
They're going to gather the rest of your information. And
thank you so much again for helping us out. And
sorry if I bother you, but hey, you made someone's day.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
You're helping us out. We appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Hi. This is Lucy. Yeah, Hi Lucy, gonna get some
information from you real quick. Wanted to say thank you
so much for taking the time to help us out.
Confirmation on the name. That's a Max. Yeah, beautiful? All right, Lucy?
Before I get the address and everything, I do have
(07:50):
one question for you, Lucy. Do you think Kevin would
would care to hear that you're sending I'm sorry something
to Yeah, Kevin? Do you think he'd have an issue?
What do you mean, Lucy? My name is Joe. I
host a radio show. You're actually on the radio right now.
(08:10):
What the Kevin got in contact with us? Kevin wanted
to see if you would send the whiskey to him,
and he actually was very concerned. Yes, I am. He
was very concerned that you were going to send it
to Max.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Okay, what the hell?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
I don't understand he called.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
You to He can't. He can explain it to you
if you want, because actually Kevin's on with us right now.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
What a feeling and you decided to call complete strangers
to find out instead of just confronting me and talking
to me about it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
So, Lucy, the reason why he did this is that
he doesn't feel like you've been very honest.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I can't talk about this like this like this is weird.
I don't know why the doing this like this, Why
you can't just talk to me?
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Well, I mean, you're cheating on me obviously, So we're
gonna talk about it on the radio. How about that?
Speaker 2 (09:21):
No, No, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Yes you are, Yes, you are.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
You're gonna talk about this right now, haven't she just
hung up?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Yeah, just like her of course. Uh well, I had
a feeling that was right. Sucks.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah, I know, heybody, I'm gonna I'm gonna put chan
holder real quick. It does suck. I mean it really does.
Anyone else can you relate to this? Like, I'll never forget.
(10:03):
I was at Universal with I was with my girlfriend
and my little brother Luke. I mean this was like
I think I was a freshman in college and her
and my brother went on a ride. Yeah, it's the
first time and only time I went through someone's phone
(10:25):
and she was messaging her acts. Now that's a freshman
in college. Relationship doesn't really even matter eight hundred and
four on nin ninety three, ninety three? Did they go
back to their acts? You know one thing that I
find to be very important while we do these is,
you know, if you can relate to these stories, it
(10:46):
helps out to help out. Kevin raightman,
Four of the roses on The Joe Show. I don't
know why this is my biggest fear, or maybe maybe
I do. I just don't want to happen. But if
Alyssa went back to her as I got cheated on, right,
and it was with her ax, for some reason, I
feel like that would hurt more. I don't know why.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
You knowing you, it would, it would.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Thanks knowing me. Is that a disk?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
No, it's not. I just know who you are.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Yeah, it would bother It wouldn't bother you.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
No, not so much.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I don't think so. I think I'm a little bit
more like over somebody. If you're gonna go back to
her ex, go back to your ex, but you, I
don't know how you are and your feelings a lot.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
I would do. What I'm saying is like, I don't
necessarily know if I want if I were to get
cheated on, I wouldn't want to be cheated on.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
It was.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah, I don't want to know the person. I don't
know why I'm a sick person here. Let's uh, let's
pick up Kevin Keaven. Hey, Kevin, Kevin, I was just
saying that it's one thing to get cheated on by
a random but to have it be their ax would
if that would hurt more, And unfortunately that's the situation
(01:13):
that you found yourself in. You believe that if your
girlfriend is cheating on you, more than likely it's her AX.
Yeah you cool. If we start with LinkedIn, Yeah, you
were on it and you saw. I don't know how
(01:37):
because I don't I don't use LinkedIn, but you were
on it and yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Yeah. LinkedIn is like you know ConnectX, like you know
all the people you work with, and then their their
coworkers and colleagues and friends and whatnot. I noticed that, uh,
Lucy's ex boyfriend is uh now working at her company.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
How did you find that out? Why did you look
him up?
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Well, because it says like mutual connections and like this
person works here and that, and so I clicked on
it and noticed its like an learn and so they oh,
so so you know, join this company like or whatever.
So I put two and two together and then I
saw that he was working at Lucy's company all of
a sudden, and I was like, uh, that's kind of
when she started becoming you know, not available all the time.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
You guys don't live with each other, right.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
No, we don't know, so I can't. I can't keep
tabs all the time, you.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Know, and I I'm just going through what you and
Jed had talked about. You don't live with each other.
Over the last month or so, she's been acting very
different the timeline or months, a couple of months. Timeline
really matches up with when this guy this acts started
(02:55):
working with Lucy. You have not said a single word
to her. You know, she's not been hanging out with
you as much. Yeah, tell me if I'm wrong. She
doesn't hang out with you at all during the week anymore.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
No, not at all.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
And it's like weekends are rare nowhere.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Weekends are rare. I mean, you know, there's always some
kind of like you know, event or like you know,
either the work situation or whatever, so you know, but
it's just like it was like an ultimate switch. So
it was like, you know, hot and heavy NonStop, and
then all of a sudden, it was like, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Available anything else. I mean I I I listen. I
think that we have everything we need and I don't
want to string you along at all and make you
continue to wait. Who even cares if there's anything else
we've got enough, Kevin, I'm gonna I'm gonna put you
on hold, and I want you to know that we're
all here for you, and we've got our fingers crossed
(03:52):
that you know you're going to be hearing your name.
We're all going to be hearing your name, Ashley. Do
you have everything that you need?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Yeah, we're gonna do whiskey, right of course?
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Okay, yes, all right. Jed just gave us that thumbs up.
So we have called Lucy hoping we hear Kevin's name,
but her ex is His name is Max right here, Max.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Hello, Hi, am I speaking with Lucy? Yeah, Hi, Lucy.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
My name is Cayle. I'm actually calling from the Tampa
Bay Whiskey Company. We're a new whiskey store, just trying
to get our name out there. If you had a
moment for just your two question survey, listen, I don't
need any credit card information.
Speaker 2 (04:37):
You're probably thinking is a scam in the middle of Lucy.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
It's only going to take thirty seconds, maybe less. Can
I just ask you two questions? Hey, it's completely free
and you'll make someone's day, Like, who doesn't want a
free bottle of whiskey? You help us out trying to
get our name out there. Just the local store trying to,
you know, help everybody else, and you help us, We
help you, You help us out?
Speaker 2 (05:00):
No credit card information that.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
You hung up? Yeah, Chad's already calling her back.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Hello, Hello, Sorry, Lucy.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I do want to know if you are okay with
us doing this two questions, Lucy. It's gonna take maybe
two seconds. I do need to let you know this
call is being recorded for quality and training purposes?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Are you okay with that? And then we can get
this started. No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
I don't like soliciting solicitor calls.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I don't have time for this.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
It's gonna be really quick. All I need you to
do is answer two questions. We're gonna ship this bottle
out to anyone you like, and I guarantee you it's
gonna make their day.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Wait, what do you mean ship this bottle?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
We're gonna ship a free bottle of whiskey to whoever
you would like. I do need to let you know
this call is being recorded for quality and training purposes, though.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Are you okay with that? And then we can move forward?
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I mean, okay, fine, but I just make it okay.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Have you purchased whiskey in the last six months. No,
do you plan on purchasing whiskey in the next six months?
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Probably great. See that was super easy and simple.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Now I need a first and last name of who
you want to actually send this bottle to.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Oh, okay, Max, and that's.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Our Okay, And with this bottle of whiskey, we are
going to include a car so Max can know who
sent it to him.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
So what would you like that car to say to Max?
Speaker 5 (06:48):
If you could put here's to catching the one that
got away and then like a little heart.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Yeah that's so cute.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah, okay, And you're gonna send him, Yes, I am,
and he's gonna know it's from you, so he's gonna
know that you are on top of his mind.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Now you don't.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I'm actually gonna transfer you over to shipping and handling though.
They're going to gather the rest of your information. And
thank you so much again for helping us out. And
sorry if I bother you, but hey, you made someone's day.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
You're helping us out. We appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Hi. This is Lucy. Yeah, Hi Lucy, gonna get some
information from you real quick. Wanted to say thank you
so much for taking the time to help us out.
Confirmation on the name. That's a Max. Yeah, beautiful? All right, Lucy?
Before I get the address and everything, I do have
(07:50):
one question for you, Lucy. Do you think Kevin would
would care to hear that you're sending I'm sorry something
to Yeah, Kevin? Do you think he'd have an issue?
What do you mean, Lucy? My name is Joe. I
host a radio show. You're actually on the radio right now.
(08:10):
What the Kevin got in contact with us? Kevin wanted
to see if you would send the whiskey to him,
and he actually was very concerned. Yes, I am. He
was very concerned that you were going to send it
to Max.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Okay, what the hell?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
I don't understand he called.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
You to He can't. He can explain it to you
if you want, because actually Kevin's on with us right now.
Speaker 5 (08:42):
What a feeling and you decided to call complete strangers
to find out instead of just confronting me and talking
to me about it.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
So, Lucy, the reason why he did this is that
he doesn't feel like you've been very honest.
Speaker 5 (09:01):
I can't talk about this like this like this is weird.
I don't know why the doing this like this, Why
you can't just talk to me?
Speaker 4 (09:13):
Well, I mean, you're cheating on me obviously, So we're
gonna talk about it on the radio. How about that?
Speaker 2 (09:21):
No, No, I'm not.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
Yes you are, Yes, you are.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
You're gonna talk about this right now, haven't she just
hung up?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
Yeah, just like her of course. Uh well, I had
a feeling that was right. Sucks.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah, I know, heybody, I'm gonna I'm gonna put chan
holder real quick. It does suck. I mean it really does.
Anyone else can you relate to this? Like, I'll never forget.
(10:03):
I was at Universal with I was with my girlfriend
and my little brother Luke. I mean this was like
I think I was a freshman in college and her
and my brother went on a ride. Yeah, it's the
first time and only time I went through someone's phone
(10:25):
and she was messaging her acts. Now that's a freshman
in college. Relationship doesn't really even matter eight hundred and
four on nin ninety three, ninety three? Did they go
back to their acts? You know one thing that I
find to be very important while we do these is,
you know, if you can relate to these stories, it
(10:46):
helps out to help out. Kevin raightman,
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