December 22, 2025 • 8 mins
We discuss our dating red flags on THEjoeSHOW...
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ashley and her girlfriend were talking and it was brought up.
The question was brought up to the both of them,
what's their red flag? And then they started sharing their
red flag. We're live on ninety three three fl Z.
What was your red flag?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
My red flag was? I'm controlling, but not in the
sense of regulating. It's just like I like to have
control over certain things.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Now Jed decided to jump in and actually give you
a difference, which I said that Ashley is now moving
a little quicker than Joe does.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
We did then I said he's terrible at communicating.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
They started.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
You can listen back to that on our free iHeartRadio app.
We then said, you know what, let's call my fiance.
Listen see, well, what would my red flag be? In
eight hundred and four nine ninety three, ninety three if
you came with a warning label, what would that warning
label say? What would your red flag be? Now, let's
see what do you guys think She's going to say?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Oh, it's what is Yeah, Jed, what's Joe's red flag?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
That's gonna I am his guy, but I will be
vitally honest with Joe as I am with you, Ashley.
I think it's gonna be like Disney Adult Star Wars
stuff like or over collecting stuff, collecting junk.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It's gonna be one of those. Let's take a little deeper.
What else, same thing as you You move a little
too fast. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Meanwhile, this guy is like my smoochy poo.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Pause no, pause, No, we don't want to hear anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Let's see if she picks it. You sharing your radio.
We're calling my fiance right now to see what my
red flag is. Hello, Hi, we're in the radio. Well,
she knows call her from the radio.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
If I'm calling her for any time between six to ten,
she knows what would my red flag be? H.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I think you are you are way too over giving.
You give too much.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I agree that's a good one.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
You give way too much. Well, to be honest, I
don't know, I.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Know, I think yeah, well I would agree.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
I'll double down on that. Yeah, you're way too you extend,
you over extend yourself people.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Yeah, yeah, any anyone too, Like anyone knew that comes
in like literally anything like, yeah, that's the red flag, babe, exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Do you notice that about yourself, Joe? Because I noticed
my controlling. I'm pretty sure Jetie owned up to his communication.
Do you know that your people, please, sir ah, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
First up as a minting I s alcohol in office.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
That I yes, I've not. I've noticed a lot over
the last especially month. Yes, but you kind of gotta
you know, stumbled to learn.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And then you grow during this year. It's all about growth.
I'm telling you, once you hit thirty, you're gonna wake
up a hold new person.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You're like, no, no, no, no, no, Jennifer Gardner a
thirteen year old.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yeah, I can't wait to Yes, but I am learning,
and I do care.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I probably do care a little bit too much with
other people telling you.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Thirty hit, You're like, don't give a red.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I'm starting to get to that. Yeah, I don't know.
I don't read another red flag. I don't know math.
What do you think your red flag is mine?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
You're still her?
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Oh, I can tell you immediately, my rbs, my tone, Yes,
I mean those are.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Would you agree, Joe?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Those are red flags?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I think as is like she's a fighter, not in
the sense of she punches, but like you know, yes,
you you had a tough upbringing, and you had people
who weren't loyal to you, and you have people who
were and I think that you, because of that, are
very protected and also you protect those that you're close with. Right,
(04:36):
So then, like, for example, if someone wrongs me, you
automatically hate them.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Yes, yes, which I think that's a good trade.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
That's a good trade.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
It's not, but I think I have that as like
I have an inability to blame the people that I
have that are very close to me. I'll just take
the blame on myself. I've learned recently that that absolutely
burns me as well. And those that I have their back,
they just throw me to the curb. But I'm learning,
(05:07):
and I'm gonna say no to things, and I'm gonna
create a wall, protective wall.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Right, that's the right, baby, that's right.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Also, I hate myself. That's another red flag, but we
can get into that later. Hailey.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Oh wait, hold on, I just totally you did what
I Hey, babe, I love you.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I can't believe I just did that.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
All right, Hailey, Yes.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Hi, what's your red flag?
Speaker 6 (05:34):
I'm very very interestive.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I don't like to give my partner any privacy.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
I didn't know what's going on at all times.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Well, hold on one second, you are kind of like
that though you want to know what everything is happening.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Yeah, I'm also controlling, just so you are aware. I'm
totally fine because I'm really good at doing stuff. So
but the intrusive thing I've got nothing to do with,
like a distrust.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I just need to know. It's like a sickening need
to note.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Yeah, I mean I kind of like I said that,
there are positives though to like some of these red flags,
like I will say with mine, like I have an
immense loyalty to those that I am close with, Like yeah, you,
I think you three know it. Like the moment someone
kind of even remotely wrong, oh I, And then that's
(06:27):
probably another red flag of mine as well as the
moment I feel like that it's hard for me. Like
one of our bosses, Mark, who is one of my
favorite people, like he says, you know, choose happy and
let things. He texted me earlier as we say, you
letting things roll off your back this week, and I
read that and I went no, but I got to
that's a good reminder, so let things roll off of
(06:48):
your back. I think that's good for the whole show
to hear that, and maybe all at Tampa Bay. Brittany,
your husband says your red flag is what.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
He says.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
I have the issue of saying no to people.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I always say yes to everything. Sounds like Joe, I
don't want.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
To let people.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Yeah, I know, I feel.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
It, and then I will like lay in bed and
be like, oh my god. But you know what I've learned, Brittany,
Maybe you realize this too. Trying not to let people
down in the end will just let you down, and
then the moment it lets you down, it will probably
let other people down.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Oh yeah, it's the worst. Yeah, well, we'll work on it.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Maybe we all We give away so much Walt Disney
World tickets, universal studio tickets, cruises like on the Margarita
Villet's see cruise.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
What if we give away therapy? Why have we not
given away therapy? We need to like, hey, do need
to get to work with something free?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Hey, good morning, good morning?
Speaker 3 (07:42):
What's your red flag?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
My husband has to say my name to make sure
that I'm paying attention to him or else he will
tell me something and I will straight.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Up hume at him.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
We've been married a little over a year now. When
we first got together, it was a big problem because
you'd be in the grocery restore or something and he'd
be like, look.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Look at this, look at this. Wow, this is so
cool talking about it, and I'm just over here, not
having any clue that he's't even talking to me.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
I don't know who else I would think he would
be talking to, but I just thought it wasn't me. Yeah,
So now now he'll be like, babe, puney breathe, like
if I'm really not paying, and then he'll tell me
whatever or show me whatever he wants.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
But I don't.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
I tried self consciously to fix it. I don't know
how to fix it. I don't know how to make
myself pay attention all the time. But I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
So, but yeah, we've got on a on a good
page now
Ashley and her girlfriend were talking and it was brought up.
The question was brought up to the both of them,
what's their red flag? And then they started sharing their
red flag. We're live on ninety three three fl Z.
What was your red flag?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
My red flag was? I'm controlling, but not in the
sense of regulating. It's just like I like to have
control over certain things.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Now Jed decided to jump in and actually give you
a difference, which I said that Ashley is now moving
a little quicker than Joe does.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
We did then I said he's terrible at communicating.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
They started.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
You can listen back to that on our free iHeartRadio app.
We then said, you know what, let's call my fiance.
Listen see, well, what would my red flag be? In
eight hundred and four nine ninety three, ninety three if
you came with a warning label, what would that warning
label say? What would your red flag be? Now, let's
see what do you guys think She's going to say?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Oh, it's what is Yeah, Jed, what's Joe's red flag?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
That's gonna I am his guy, but I will be
vitally honest with Joe as I am with you, Ashley.
I think it's gonna be like Disney Adult Star Wars
stuff like or over collecting stuff, collecting junk.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It's gonna be one of those. Let's take a little deeper.
What else, same thing as you You move a little
too fast. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Meanwhile, this guy is like my smoochy poo.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Pause no, pause, No, we don't want to hear anymore.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Let's see if she picks it. You sharing your radio.
We're calling my fiance right now to see what my
red flag is. Hello, Hi, we're in the radio. Well,
she knows call her from the radio.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
If I'm calling her for any time between six to ten,
she knows what would my red flag be? H.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
I think you are you are way too over giving.
You give too much.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
I agree that's a good one.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
You give way too much. Well, to be honest, I
don't know, I.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Know, I think yeah, well I would agree.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
I'll double down on that. Yeah, you're way too you extend,
you over extend yourself people.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Yeah, yeah, any anyone too, Like anyone knew that comes
in like literally anything like, yeah, that's the red flag, babe, exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Do you notice that about yourself, Joe? Because I noticed
my controlling. I'm pretty sure Jetie owned up to his communication.
Do you know that your people, please, sir ah, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
First up as a minting I s alcohol in office.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
That I yes, I've not. I've noticed a lot over
the last especially month. Yes, but you kind of gotta
you know, stumbled to learn.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And then you grow during this year. It's all about growth.
I'm telling you, once you hit thirty, you're gonna wake
up a hold new person.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You're like, no, no, no, no, no, Jennifer Gardner a
thirteen year old.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Yeah, I can't wait to Yes, but I am learning,
and I do care.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I probably do care a little bit too much with
other people telling you.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Thirty hit, You're like, don't give a red.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
I'm starting to get to that. Yeah, I don't know.
I don't read another red flag. I don't know math.
What do you think your red flag is mine?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
You're still her?
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Oh, I can tell you immediately, my rbs, my tone, Yes,
I mean those are.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Would you agree, Joe?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Those are red flags?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I think as is like she's a fighter, not in
the sense of she punches, but like you know, yes,
you you had a tough upbringing, and you had people
who weren't loyal to you, and you have people who
were and I think that you, because of that, are
very protected and also you protect those that you're close with. Right,
(04:36):
So then, like, for example, if someone wrongs me, you
automatically hate them.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Yes, yes, which I think that's a good trade.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
That's a good trade.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
It's not, but I think I have that as like
I have an inability to blame the people that I
have that are very close to me. I'll just take
the blame on myself. I've learned recently that that absolutely
burns me as well. And those that I have their back,
they just throw me to the curb. But I'm learning,
(05:07):
and I'm gonna say no to things, and I'm gonna
create a wall, protective wall.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Right, that's the right, baby, that's right.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Also, I hate myself. That's another red flag, but we
can get into that later. Hailey.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Oh wait, hold on, I just totally you did what
I Hey, babe, I love you.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I can't believe I just did that.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
All right, Hailey, Yes.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Hi, what's your red flag?
Speaker 6 (05:34):
I'm very very interestive.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
I don't like to give my partner any privacy.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
I didn't know what's going on at all times.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Well, hold on one second, you are kind of like
that though you want to know what everything is happening.
Speaker 6 (05:48):
Yeah, I'm also controlling, just so you are aware. I'm
totally fine because I'm really good at doing stuff. So
but the intrusive thing I've got nothing to do with,
like a distrust.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
I just need to know. It's like a sickening need
to note.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Yeah, I mean I kind of like I said that,
there are positives though to like some of these red flags,
like I will say with mine, like I have an
immense loyalty to those that I am close with, Like yeah, you,
I think you three know it. Like the moment someone
kind of even remotely wrong, oh I, And then that's
(06:27):
probably another red flag of mine as well as the
moment I feel like that it's hard for me. Like
one of our bosses, Mark, who is one of my
favorite people, like he says, you know, choose happy and
let things. He texted me earlier as we say, you
letting things roll off your back this week, and I
read that and I went no, but I got to
that's a good reminder, so let things roll off of
(06:48):
your back. I think that's good for the whole show
to hear that, and maybe all at Tampa Bay. Brittany,
your husband says your red flag is what.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
He says.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
I have the issue of saying no to people.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I always say yes to everything. Sounds like Joe, I
don't want.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
To let people.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Yeah, I know, I feel.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
It, and then I will like lay in bed and
be like, oh my god. But you know what I've learned, Brittany,
Maybe you realize this too. Trying not to let people
down in the end will just let you down, and
then the moment it lets you down, it will probably
let other people down.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Oh yeah, it's the worst. Yeah, well, we'll work on it.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Maybe we all We give away so much Walt Disney
World tickets, universal studio tickets, cruises like on the Margarita
Villet's see cruise.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
What if we give away therapy? Why have we not
given away therapy? We need to like, hey, do need
to get to work with something free?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Hey, good morning, good morning?
Speaker 3 (07:42):
What's your red flag?
Speaker 5 (07:45):
My husband has to say my name to make sure
that I'm paying attention to him or else he will
tell me something and I will straight.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Up hume at him.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
We've been married a little over a year now. When
we first got together, it was a big problem because
you'd be in the grocery restore or something and he'd
be like, look.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Look at this, look at this. Wow, this is so
cool talking about it, and I'm just over here, not
having any clue that he's't even talking to me.
Speaker 5 (08:09):
I don't know who else I would think he would
be talking to, but I just thought it wasn't me. Yeah,
So now now he'll be like, babe, puney breathe, like
if I'm really not paying, and then he'll tell me
whatever or show me whatever he wants.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
But I don't.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
I tried self consciously to fix it. I don't know
how to fix it. I don't know how to make
myself pay attention all the time. But I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
So, but yeah, we've got on a on a good
page now
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com
The Bobby Bones Show
Listen to 'The Bobby Bones Show' by downloading the daily full replay.