November 21, 2025 • 10 mins
Is it a smart idea to do this if you have a significant other or is it a poor decision?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Does anyone do this? Would you be okay with this?
I want your honest opinion. We're alive on ninety three
three FLZ, It's the Joe Show an eight hundred and
four ninety three ninety three anything we ever do? I
want your opinion on. So call in and be a
part of the family. Inaugural cruise over the weekend, Marguerite
Villasi nuts so much fun. Genuinely the best, most favorite
(00:23):
time I've ever had doing radio.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I don't know about you, guys, but that's the way
I feel.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
While we were on the ship, I met a really, really,
really nice couple and they did something that I couldn't do.
I feel like I would get jealous at some point.
So on the ship, you have drink packages, right, yep.
Now it's for one I'm not gonna explain the whole
(00:49):
entire thing, but what I will say is it's for
one person. They bragged me about how, oh, we go
on a lot of cruises and we get one drink
package for the man. We don't do it for the
woman because she just gets drinks bought for her, purchased
for by other people on the ship. She said that
(01:11):
they're like one of those families that they cruise like
that's their vacation. So whenever they're on a vacation, they're
on a cruise ship. They're cruisers. They have this down.
It's it's a science to them. Now this is this
is the thing.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
That but is it? Yeah, you're saving a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
So okay, fine, you would be okay with your girlfriend
just getting drinks purchased by other men the whole entire trip.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
You wouldn't with Melissa. Nope, really no.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Saving money and then your girl's getting lit.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Off, somebody else's dying. Why do you guys buy drinks
for women.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Because they think they can get with them and know it,
and then you should in your Hey, you're like, yeah,
you're not getting with that girl.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I have the confidence. Isn't going to be going home
with Rdina? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I just think you're full of it, though I don't
think so. I think you turn into a different person
when you drink, and I think that the moment a
guy would start talking to her, I think it would
bother you.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Then we'll have to put this to the test the
next time we go on a cruise.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
I don't want to be no, not on anything representing
the brand, because I don't want you to. You get
pretty aggressive when you drink, fair depends on how much. Yes,
all right, does he get pretty aggressive when he drinks?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I think that he would the more liquid courage he
has or liquid anger. I think you would have any
like one guy looks at or wrong, I would worry
for their sake. Yeah, but maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I don't know. Have you been in a situation like
that before, like with a significant other, even just like
previous people.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
That i've I mean, if you've been dating her long enough,
we're gonna start going out more. I would like to
see you in that situation. But as of now, I
don't think you would go off on anybody.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
He was going off on people for like literally looking
what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
If he's like inebriated to the point where like he
is aggressive, yes, But if he's just like social drinking,
I don't think he would go off.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Well listen, that's fine. You guys can be liars. I'm honest.
I'm insecure and uh my buddy, my pals save money.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Man.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Hey, yo, my man, you and I are the same person.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Well, you know the thing is, I'm not even a
jealous guy. I'm not a jealous man at all, But
what I feel like with that situation is it's like
if a man has the balls to go up and
buy my woman to drink in front of me, No, no,
I'm dead because obviously the intention of by the woman
(03:37):
to drink is to say you're hot and I'm feeling you.
You must think I'm softer than the babies, but you
must think I'm sweet in the pool tapie, and that's
not and it's not working. That's how I feel. I
feel like it's blatant disrespect.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Girls.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
We think it's completely different.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
We see it as, oh kay, this guy's just gonna
waste his money. He knows he's not getting any Like,
of course I'm gonna spend your money. It's kind of
like how girls go on dates just to get free food.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
And the other thing, too, is.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Like exactly, That's why it's simpen.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I work hard, I get paid money. I don't know
what you guys get paid, but I get paid money,
and uh, I'll I want to take care.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Of my fiance. I don't want someone else to take
care of.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Yeah, I want to take care of if I'm in
a relationship, I want to take care of her. But
I also okay with other people spending their money because
this economy is terrible and.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I don't want to know.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
I don't want to spend my twenty dollars on a
drink when I know some random guy will. And then
I go back with my girl.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
What do we got to do?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I've been in situations like this before, Yeah, and then
the tongue is numb.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Well, actually, I think I think in your situation, like
in your community, it would be more flattering if the
next woman came and bought your woman a drink is
kind of flattering. I think that in like a heck
like situation, I really feel like that's blinkant disrespect. Actually,
Like in twenty fourteen, I actually got into a fight
(04:55):
in a bar over that because the dude I am
drinking with my woman at that time, my ex, I'm
drinking with her at the bar and he literally came
up and just gave her a drink. And then I
was like, no, I'm good, And then he waited till
I slit in the bathroom and I came back. He
still gave her a drink. So I was like, Okay,
you're gonna think a sauce. Think I'm super soft because
(05:18):
you even though I told you not to give her
a drink, you still went and bought a drink and
she tried to give it back to him. Like, no,
I'm good, But I feel like it's blinking disrespect.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
If you're talking about it. You're telling a guy, hey,
don't my girl, don't buy my girl.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
I'll bet off with him asking another dance. But you
by buying a drink, Now that's a whole. I feel
like you think I'm soft and you might think I'm broken. Hey, no, a.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Man, it's uh two to one without you, now it's
two to two. I'm gonna keep you on the phone
as we talk to other people. Let's bring up Morgan. Now, Uh, Morgan.
I meet some people on our Joe Show inaugural cruise
over the weekend, which, by the way, Jules, I know
you're afraid of the water. I'm putting you in handcuffs
and we're bringing in the ship next time.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I'm gonna pick up Mols. I'm gonna pick up Monosus
next year.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Wait, we gotta do that, Okay, But anyways, we're on
the cruise, Morgan, I meet this couple awesome couples, super
super nice. They buy one drink package, the woman just
gets free drinks is what they do.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
They're cruising couple, Morgan, what do you think.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
You see?
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I hear everything you say, Joe, and I see where
you think it's disrespectful. But I also see where it
does save you money, because if they're not going home
with them, then why does it matter that much?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
You know?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
I have been in two instances where one guy bought
me a drink and my boyfriend was fine with it
because it's whatever. I'm not going home with him, obviously,
I'm not even talking to him period, Thanks for the
drink buy. In one other instance, my boyfriend was like, dang,
he can't get me a drink, So I said to
the guy, Hey, can he get a drink too? And
the guy bought both of us a drink.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Black guy's a puss some time.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Sometimes it's a win win for everybody.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Yeah, fair, I don't know something that's like. There's something
with the cruise as well, where it's like everyone's contained
on the ship for multiple days, so you're gonna run
into the same people all the time, and it's just
like what happens one drink turns into drinks. I'm not
saying that Alyssa would ever even cheat on me. I
have never, in this relationship ever been concerned about infidelity
or anything like that. Genuinely, I get worried that the
(07:27):
guy then gets aggressive at some point, as like, I
just spent one hundred dollars on drinks for you and
you won't do it. Wait, you have a boyfriend, you
have a fiance, you have a husband, I'm gonna kill
Let him sit and stir in that.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Care about what he says, because at the end of
the day.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Say I'm gonna strangle, I'm gonna I don't even know.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Most of the time they see the boyfriend or that
you wait for the boyfriend to go to the bathroom,
or they wait for the boyfriend to go to the
ball for him to be away.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
But most of the.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Time they see you have a significant other with you
that is around, And if they don't, then I guess
that's just on them. But I don't think it's quite
disrespectful unless you are telling them like no, I don't
need you to buy my girl a drink, and that
is disrespectful. And then like he was saying, you go
to the bathroom and they still go buy it.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
You're very disrespectful. Interesting, it's just as a man. It's
just as a man. Like, Okay, say I'm a single
man and I see a man with a woman. It
takes a lot of a lot of cohones to just
be like, I'm gonna buy that man's woman a drink
of bonds. It just it just takes. It takes big
cohones for that. I just you know, and I wouldn't
(08:38):
do it unless I'm ready to go all out like
I'm gonna buy his drink. He'saft like, that's that's how
I feel about that.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
You know.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
It's it's it's it's a it's like what they call
territorial pissing type situations. Nah, you can't. It's just it's
just a cost for don't buy my girl drink. Man
with something.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
This is something that's never happened before. But we have
two jewels on the phone. Any might go, well, hold on,
it's gonna be tough to differentiate. Well, one's a guy,
one's a girl. Lady Jules, no, no, no, hello, oh
we have all right, we probably have we done that,
lady jewels. All right, Well, then we have done this before.
(09:15):
But lady Jewles, what's your opinion on this?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
So I think it's really funny because my wife is
a more masculine presenting and when we go out with
a bunch of my friends who are.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
All really really pretty girls, and it's just her and
all of us, men will buy her the drink and
like this bumper and be like that's awesome, good job.
Oh look, I'm like, okay, that's mine now.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, but all right, but but okay, so with that though,
they're not like I'm more so talking about guys buying
the drinks with the intention of what more is gonna
happen after that? Like guys ninety nine percent of guys
who buy women drink who they don't know. That is
(10:01):
the uh that that's trying to get through the door,
the ice breaking.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Yeah, yeah, drinks when I'm out with my wife and
she takes them and she goes back to the bar
and dumpsilm because she's like, I don't know what the
hell they put them on.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
That's the other thing too, You you got to be
very careful with that. You better see that bartender pour
it and hand it and all of that. But uh,
that's a good point too. And you know what, that's
a great way to end it. Guess we're always gonna
it's a ps A right now. Someone marked that down
and send up to Tommy so they know we did
a p s A this morning. Ao, my man, Ao,
my girl. We talk to you guys later, Stay black.
(10:37):
Shout out to Joey Diaz
Does anyone do this? Would you be okay with this?
I want your honest opinion. We're alive on ninety three
three FLZ, It's the Joe Show an eight hundred and
four ninety three ninety three anything we ever do? I
want your opinion on. So call in and be a
part of the family. Inaugural cruise over the weekend, Marguerite
Villasi nuts so much fun. Genuinely the best, most favorite
(00:23):
time I've ever had doing radio.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I don't know about you, guys, but that's the way
I feel.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
While we were on the ship, I met a really, really,
really nice couple and they did something that I couldn't do.
I feel like I would get jealous at some point.
So on the ship, you have drink packages, right, yep.
Now it's for one I'm not gonna explain the whole
(00:49):
entire thing, but what I will say is it's for
one person. They bragged me about how, oh, we go
on a lot of cruises and we get one drink
package for the man. We don't do it for the
woman because she just gets drinks bought for her, purchased
for by other people on the ship. She said that
(01:11):
they're like one of those families that they cruise like
that's their vacation. So whenever they're on a vacation, they're
on a cruise ship. They're cruisers. They have this down.
It's it's a science to them. Now this is this
is the thing.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
That but is it? Yeah, you're saving a lot of money.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
So okay, fine, you would be okay with your girlfriend
just getting drinks purchased by other men the whole entire trip.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
You wouldn't with Melissa. Nope, really no.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Saving money and then your girl's getting lit.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Off, somebody else's dying. Why do you guys buy drinks
for women.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
Because they think they can get with them and know it,
and then you should in your Hey, you're like, yeah,
you're not getting with that girl.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I have the confidence. Isn't going to be going home
with Rdina? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
I just think you're full of it, though I don't
think so. I think you turn into a different person
when you drink, and I think that the moment a
guy would start talking to her, I think it would
bother you.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Then we'll have to put this to the test the
next time we go on a cruise.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
I don't want to be no, not on anything representing
the brand, because I don't want you to. You get
pretty aggressive when you drink, fair depends on how much. Yes,
all right, does he get pretty aggressive when he drinks?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I think that he would the more liquid courage he
has or liquid anger. I think you would have any
like one guy looks at or wrong, I would worry
for their sake. Yeah, but maybe I'm wrong.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
I don't know. Have you been in a situation like
that before, like with a significant other, even just like
previous people.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
That i've I mean, if you've been dating her long enough,
we're gonna start going out more. I would like to
see you in that situation. But as of now, I
don't think you would go off on anybody.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
He was going off on people for like literally looking
what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
If he's like inebriated to the point where like he
is aggressive, yes, But if he's just like social drinking,
I don't think he would go off.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Well listen, that's fine. You guys can be liars. I'm honest.
I'm insecure and uh my buddy, my pals save money.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Man.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Hey, yo, my man, you and I are the same person.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Well, you know the thing is, I'm not even a
jealous guy. I'm not a jealous man at all, But
what I feel like with that situation is it's like
if a man has the balls to go up and
buy my woman to drink in front of me, No, no,
I'm dead because obviously the intention of by the woman
(03:37):
to drink is to say you're hot and I'm feeling you.
You must think I'm softer than the babies, but you
must think I'm sweet in the pool tapie, and that's
not and it's not working. That's how I feel. I
feel like it's blatant disrespect.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Girls.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
We think it's completely different.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
We see it as, oh kay, this guy's just gonna
waste his money. He knows he's not getting any Like,
of course I'm gonna spend your money. It's kind of
like how girls go on dates just to get free food.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
And the other thing, too, is.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Like exactly, That's why it's simpen.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I work hard, I get paid money. I don't know
what you guys get paid, but I get paid money,
and uh, I'll I want to take care.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Of my fiance. I don't want someone else to take
care of.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Yeah, I want to take care of if I'm in
a relationship, I want to take care of her. But
I also okay with other people spending their money because
this economy is terrible and.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I don't want to know.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
I don't want to spend my twenty dollars on a
drink when I know some random guy will. And then
I go back with my girl.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
What do we got to do?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I've been in situations like this before, Yeah, and then
the tongue is numb.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Well, actually, I think I think in your situation, like
in your community, it would be more flattering if the
next woman came and bought your woman a drink is
kind of flattering. I think that in like a heck
like situation, I really feel like that's blinkant disrespect. Actually,
Like in twenty fourteen, I actually got into a fight
(04:55):
in a bar over that because the dude I am
drinking with my woman at that time, my ex, I'm
drinking with her at the bar and he literally came
up and just gave her a drink. And then I
was like, no, I'm good, And then he waited till
I slit in the bathroom and I came back. He
still gave her a drink. So I was like, Okay,
you're gonna think a sauce. Think I'm super soft because
(05:18):
you even though I told you not to give her
a drink, you still went and bought a drink and
she tried to give it back to him. Like, no,
I'm good, But I feel like it's blinking disrespect.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
If you're talking about it. You're telling a guy, hey,
don't my girl, don't buy my girl.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
I'll bet off with him asking another dance. But you
by buying a drink, Now that's a whole. I feel
like you think I'm soft and you might think I'm broken. Hey, no, a.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Man, it's uh two to one without you, now it's
two to two. I'm gonna keep you on the phone
as we talk to other people. Let's bring up Morgan. Now, Uh, Morgan.
I meet some people on our Joe Show inaugural cruise
over the weekend, which, by the way, Jules, I know
you're afraid of the water. I'm putting you in handcuffs
and we're bringing in the ship next time.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I'm gonna pick up Mols. I'm gonna pick up Monosus
next year.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Wait, we gotta do that, Okay, But anyways, we're on
the cruise, Morgan, I meet this couple awesome couples, super
super nice. They buy one drink package, the woman just
gets free drinks is what they do.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
They're cruising couple, Morgan, what do you think.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
You see?
Speaker 5 (06:22):
I hear everything you say, Joe, and I see where
you think it's disrespectful. But I also see where it
does save you money, because if they're not going home
with them, then why does it matter that much?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
You know?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
I have been in two instances where one guy bought
me a drink and my boyfriend was fine with it
because it's whatever. I'm not going home with him, obviously,
I'm not even talking to him period, Thanks for the
drink buy. In one other instance, my boyfriend was like, dang,
he can't get me a drink, So I said to
the guy, Hey, can he get a drink too? And
the guy bought both of us a drink.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
Black guy's a puss some time.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Sometimes it's a win win for everybody.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Yeah, fair, I don't know something that's like. There's something
with the cruise as well, where it's like everyone's contained
on the ship for multiple days, so you're gonna run
into the same people all the time, and it's just
like what happens one drink turns into drinks. I'm not
saying that Alyssa would ever even cheat on me. I
have never, in this relationship ever been concerned about infidelity
or anything like that. Genuinely, I get worried that the
(07:27):
guy then gets aggressive at some point, as like, I
just spent one hundred dollars on drinks for you and
you won't do it. Wait, you have a boyfriend, you
have a fiance, you have a husband, I'm gonna kill
Let him sit and stir in that.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Care about what he says, because at the end of
the day.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Say I'm gonna strangle, I'm gonna I don't even know.
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Most of the time they see the boyfriend or that
you wait for the boyfriend to go to the bathroom,
or they wait for the boyfriend to go to the
ball for him to be away.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
But most of the.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Time they see you have a significant other with you
that is around, And if they don't, then I guess
that's just on them. But I don't think it's quite
disrespectful unless you are telling them like no, I don't
need you to buy my girl a drink, and that
is disrespectful. And then like he was saying, you go
to the bathroom and they still go buy it.
Speaker 4 (08:16):
You're very disrespectful. Interesting, it's just as a man. It's
just as a man. Like, Okay, say I'm a single
man and I see a man with a woman. It
takes a lot of a lot of cohones to just
be like, I'm gonna buy that man's woman a drink
of bonds. It just it just takes. It takes big
cohones for that. I just you know, and I wouldn't
(08:38):
do it unless I'm ready to go all out like
I'm gonna buy his drink. He'saft like, that's that's how
I feel about that.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
You know.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
It's it's it's it's a it's like what they call
territorial pissing type situations. Nah, you can't. It's just it's
just a cost for don't buy my girl drink. Man
with something.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
This is something that's never happened before. But we have
two jewels on the phone. Any might go, well, hold on,
it's gonna be tough to differentiate. Well, one's a guy,
one's a girl. Lady Jules, no, no, no, hello, oh
we have all right, we probably have we done that,
lady jewels. All right, Well, then we have done this before.
(09:15):
But lady Jewles, what's your opinion on this?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
So I think it's really funny because my wife is
a more masculine presenting and when we go out with
a bunch of my friends who are.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
All really really pretty girls, and it's just her and
all of us, men will buy her the drink and
like this bumper and be like that's awesome, good job.
Oh look, I'm like, okay, that's mine now.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, but all right, but but okay, so with that though,
they're not like I'm more so talking about guys buying
the drinks with the intention of what more is gonna
happen after that? Like guys ninety nine percent of guys
who buy women drink who they don't know. That is
(10:01):
the uh that that's trying to get through the door,
the ice breaking.
Speaker 4 (10:06):
Yeah, yeah, drinks when I'm out with my wife and
she takes them and she goes back to the bar
and dumpsilm because she's like, I don't know what the
hell they put them on.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
That's the other thing too, You you got to be
very careful with that. You better see that bartender pour
it and hand it and all of that. But uh,
that's a good point too. And you know what, that's
a great way to end it. Guess we're always gonna
it's a ps A right now. Someone marked that down
and send up to Tommy so they know we did
a p s A this morning. Ao, my man, Ao,
my girl. We talk to you guys later, Stay black.
(10:37):
Shout out to Joey Diaz
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