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Speaker 1 (00:00):
If it was a long weekend. I don't know what
it is.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I'm spring cleaning, I guess, which is something I think
most people do in the spring. But no, I think
probably what I'm doing, a lot of people do around
this time of year.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
So it's time to take out.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
The summer clothes and get them out of the way
and get the winter clothes in because I'm tell you
right now, I'm not gonna be wearing my summer clothes
in the wintertime, and they just they're holding up progress.
So I got a lot, a lot of stuff that
I need to go drop off at locations. Y'all tell
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me some places if you know some places that need
you know where people need clothes and that kind of stuff,
because I and I need to give some stuff away,
and maybe somebody else needs to give some stuff away,
and you need to know something. Maybe somebody will call
us today and tell us some places that we.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Can be a blessing too. Mm hmmm. A lot of
the stuff that I have too has tags on it. Ladies.
I know a lot of us do this.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
We get them new clothes, we stuff them in that closet.
We don't know where they are because we got so
many we forgot we had it. It was, oh my goodness,
so many clothes I have that I forgot I had.
So it's it's it's time. It's time. It's some of
it has gone out of seas. It's time. It's it's time.
It's time to let it. Let it be a blessing
to somebody else, you know what I'm saying. So that's
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that's that's what I was doing a lot this weekend.
And yeah, busy day. On Friday, I met Big.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Casino, y'all. I sure did.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I met Big Casino, and I felt like I had
a great wd I a week last week, I met
Big Casino, I met Bird Legs, I met Miss Linda Man,
hung out with Carolyn, my bff. Carolyn hung out with
her Man. It was just, yeah, I had a wd
(02:04):
I a weekend, had a good time.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I really did.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Thank y'all for hanging out with me and coming to
see me. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
And there were other folks too.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I don't remember everybody's names, but those are the ones
that call the show. Miss Ella she called last week,
I met her, hung out with her down at Kroger
down in Atoka.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah, good time, all right, let's get to it. It
is National take a Hike Day.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
And it's not just take a hike day because you
know it's you know, somebody's trying to tell you take
a hike.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
No, it's actually because of the weather. The weather, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
So with autumn winding down, you're running out of time
to get out and enjoy the outdoors without freezing your
backside off. So this day is the perfect time to
get out and hike. Hiking is not only great for
your for you physically, but the peacefulness and serenity of
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nature can help set your mind to ease from stresses
of everyday life.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
M h take a hike day.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
So yeah, literally take a hike, get outside and enjoy
while you can. Also, it is Homemade Bread Day. Shout
out all the homemakers out there that can cook, all
the people that can cook. Who is the cooking your family?
Who's gonna be cooking Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
That's what I'm trying to find out. I might be
on my Thanksgiving plate tour.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I don't know. My husband might retire me from my tour.
But you know, it used to be I would take
a tour every year. I'd go over to my coworkers
and friends' houses and get a plate. I'd be on
tour because I wasn't cooking the last couple of years.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I did cook.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Yeah, but this year I'm gonna be cooking.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
But it's gonna be a little. It's gonna be a little.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
All right, let's get to some things going on around here, baby,
because it's some things going on.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Why did she do it?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Did y'all hear about the school employee? And maybe you
know something about this story that I donwn this is
I'm not sure if this is local. I saw it
on Action News five, the school employee that resigned after
repeating a racial slur used by a student while reporting it.
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So I guess she decided to say the racial slur
over and over.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Maybe I don't now that's a good one.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, y'all, y'all know about this story because I didn't
see where the actual story was that. I want to
read this, honey, And what word was it? A racial slur?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Probably the N word? Probably blue? Probably anyway, the school
employee resigned. She was repeating it.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because if you're gonna tell somebody that that the child,
a child said it or a student said it, do
you have to repeat the word. Hmm, do you have
to while you're reporting it? Do you have to repeat
the word? And why does she resign or he? Why?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
That's loaded right there at your news five. Come on,
tell us the rest of that one. I'm gonna dig
into it to see what I can find out and
shout out to Matti because Matta's got those free rides
going on. Are you planning on riding the bus? I
know some of y'all like doing that. Will you be
riding it now that the rids are free? And I
heard it's not just for the bus, it's for all
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of matter's services. Oh yeah, get on the bus, gus.
It's a good time to do it because those rides
are free. And what in the world is going on
at Wolf Chase Galleria in Cordova?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
So witnesses reported that there were three to five gun
shots inside of the mall before it was evacuated.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
What happened we don't know yet.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I was looking at the news channels to see and
so if you were out there and you know what
happened at Wolf Chase, higher at me and let me know,
because what is going on? And is everybody okay? They say,
it's a developing story. The story was I saw it
already a while ago, so I don't know what's going
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on out there now. It should be updated, so we
should know more about what happened out there. But he
asked my question, and maybe it's just me and I
saw somebody raise this question.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Two.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
So the National Guard is here, and there's supposed to
be more of them here, Tennessee Highway Patrol, all of
these agencies.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Are in town. Is it just me?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Or does it seem like the criminals all of a
sudden don't care because what in the world is happening
at Wolf Chase Galleria? But not just that, but even
some of the other stories that we've been hearing about.
It's like, what and y'all know them folks is here
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because see and a lot of people have said that
crime has been better in a lot of places. Okay,
so that's fabulous, But what is going what.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Is really going on? What's really going on?
Speaker 4 (07:55):
Is it just me?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Tell me you haven't wondered that, you know what I'm saying,
because and I know a lot of people have said, Okay,
so just because they're here doesn't mean they're going to
be inside of folks houses and all that kind of stuff.
But wolf Chase Galleria, there was another store where something happened.
And maybe they can't be everywhere because there's only so
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many of them.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Maybe I don't know. I don't know. I I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
I don't know, But I'm wondering, seriously, what is really
going on? I do have a question. I know that
some people can you control? You' all tell me this?
Can you control who you fall in love with? Do
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you think you can control who you fall in love with?
Because sometimes when you're falling in love, that's it's just.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
That you fall in love.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
And for some people, falling in love can be intentional,
and sometimes falling in love just can happen. Do you
think that falling in love is controllable? And the only
reason I asked this question because I saw the girl
on social media that's gone viral. She fell in love,
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She is in love now. I don't know how long
her and this man have been together. I don't know
the backstory, but the story is gonna come out because
it's gone viral on social media. She posted November fourteenth,
a few days ago at one thirty eight m marked
the most pivotal moments of my life. Other than meeting
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this man who has become my soulmate, he was my
constant source of comfort, love, and respect, and I feel
incredibly fortunate to have. Everyone deserves to experience the depth
of love and connection that we share, and I'm eager
to take his last name and start our new life together.
We would stop the world, or he would stop the
(10:12):
world about me for me, and I can definitely say
I found a really good man, and I am extremely blessed.
A promise to remain true to myself and to him,
to love him unconditionally, to stand by his side through
all of life's challenges, and to cherish respect, protect him
with every bone in my body and with every hair
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on my body. His heart, mind, body, and soul are
safe with me, and I vow to always show him compassion,
empathy and understanding. You deserve every piece of happiness in
this world, and I promise to give it to you.
And she went on to say some other things, but
and that by itself, you would be like, oh, that
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is so beautiful. But when you see their wedding pictures
and you can you stop? I mean you can't, can
you can can't in their wedding pictures. Evidently she had
to go before the court to do it, and the
whole court is behind bars. He's behind bars and she's not.
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And you know, they took pictures and on their wedding day,
and he looks happy and so does she. Beautiful woman
and he's handsome. And I suppose maybe they have children,
you know, and one of the little girl is standing there.
(11:43):
She's taking a picture of her, of them. I don't
know if they if the children are theirs. There's three
children there, and one of them is literally on the bars,
you know, just you know, yeah, but that's gotta be love.
That's gotta be love. Can you control who you love?
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And I guess I'm asking that question for young folks
because all of us have been young at some point
in our lives. And I'm not necessarily talking about them
because what she does look young, but she may not be,
you know what I'm saying. She's a sister. You know
how they say black don't crack, So she could be
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forty fief.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
You really can't tell from the picture how old she is,
but she looks like she could be in maybe her twenties. Thirties,
but she could be older because there's really not a
great picture of what her face looks like. And even him,
but you can tell they're good looking people. But for
the younger people that might be listening to us today,
this could be a teachable moment. You know, can you
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control who you fall in love with? What if he's
a drug dealer, but Mama, I'm in love. What if
he ain't got no job for mama, I'm in love.
What if she ain't no good.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Mama, I'm in love? Can you control it?
Speaker 2 (13:18):
What do y'all think? Interesting? And I saw a story
over the weekend. I'm gonna go to the phones here
in a minute. And because I see some of you
on hold hang on for me. I'm coming to you.
Y'all can tap in on that app and email me
to at iHeart stormy Tea at mywd i a dot com,
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or you can call in nine O one five three
five nine three four two eight hundred five zero three
nine three four two eight three three five three five
nine three four two. I saw a couple of stories
on social media that just broke my heart. Maybe y'all
saw him too, The girl that went to the doctor's office.
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She's pregnant. She goes to the doctor's office and this
is this is some of the video.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Right now.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
So the lady she's screaming, she's in a wheelchair, and
the woman is doing an intake.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
This girl is about to have a baby.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Whoever did the video, I don't know how they did
this video without yelling or something. This woman had that child.
She had that child in the waiting area. They said
more than thirty minutes. The delivery was awful. Dallas Regional
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Medical a hospital in Mesquite, Texas. Her son was born
twelve minutes after this video.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
What you been for.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Three? This is yeah, she was really going through.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
But then I saw another story very similar to that.
Then made me think, what is happening these hospitals. Man
took his wife to the hospital because she was evidently
in labor, and they the hospital made him leave with her,
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saying that her cervix wasn't something It wasn't I guess
at the place where they wanted it to be. She
had the baby in the car. He had to deliver.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
His child.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Not know for you know, for some people, that could
be a great you know memory if everything goes well
and if you plan it that way. My son and
his wife, you know, they have my last grandchild at home.
So some people plan it. But ain't nobody trying to
have no baby or no car? What is going on?
Speaker 1 (16:07):
What is going on?
Speaker 5 (16:10):
And I know.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Sometimes people, you know, they feel like, you know, you're
over exaggerating your pain or whatever. Neither one of those
women were over exaggerating their pain.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
I don't get it. Maybe it's just me. But the
lady who was doing the intake, she was she had,
somebody said on social media if I did not care
was a person? She was still asking this girl questions.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Y'all heard some of it.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Anyway, y'all tell me what you think about all of that.
Let me go to the phones and see what y'all
are talking about on this good looking Monday.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Hello, WD, I a.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Good loring.
Speaker 6 (17:00):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I heard you saying you're gonna get somebody else? Twenty?
That what you're doing?
Speaker 7 (17:06):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Who you said a twenty? You said something about a twenty.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Now twenty it's rims.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Oh, okay, okay, okay, what's up Jackson?
Speaker 1 (17:17):
How you doing? Hey?
Speaker 3 (17:19):
We're there?
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yes live?
Speaker 8 (17:22):
You remember that uh song? You remember that we're on
there song love the rap song. But anyway, how you doing.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
I'm doing?
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Said, I'm good.
Speaker 8 (17:33):
Did you say did you say something's going on at
the Wolf Chase?
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Yes, there was a shooting at Wolf Chase? Yes? Oh
really okay, Yes you.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Didn't know about that. I find that hard to believe.
I find that hard to believe. I'm not gonna call
you what I want to. I find it hard to believe.
Perhaps you get I like to watch it. I love
to watch the news.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Or you could just tell me what happened.
Speaker 8 (18:07):
I'll have to watch the news like everybody else.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Say fine, get it.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Right, Fine, play play that way with us, Jackson player,
play that way?
Speaker 1 (18:14):
Five gun shots?
Speaker 2 (18:15):
There are five gun shots and then evacuated the Wolf
Chase Galeria.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Check on your people.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
If you know somebody out there that works out there
or just you know, was headed that way, check on them.
Speaker 7 (18:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (18:28):
I want to talk about two things in the Lessens
grors Hey, I'm not sure. I'm not sure what your subjecture. So, Madame,
I heard you talk about Matter, what a great marketing
tool that Matter is doing.
Speaker 5 (18:41):
Because I'm always an advocate and always pushing for people
to ride the bus more.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
Because I ride the bus.
Speaker 8 (18:48):
Okay, I always say I got three hondas at home,
but I prefer to get on public transportation even when
I go out of town.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
I like riding the bus. You can see it ain't
relaxing everything.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
And this is a good marketing too, So up of
these negroes don't put the bus down saying it's just
for poor people.
Speaker 8 (19:11):
The bus should be for everybody. Okay, okay, that's a
good market tode. And and let me let me talk
about coaching.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Coach it.
Speaker 8 (19:21):
I hope that they come back next not next year,
but the yeah after that, because because because I love
when they're here and staying talks about.
Speaker 5 (19:33):
Some guy slandering them or.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
Talking about them.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yes they're seeing someone.
Speaker 8 (19:42):
Yeah, I hope they drained that guy. Because because the
only thing Kochic tries to do is to do great
things in this city. Bishop porters great job doing doing
things in this city. And all they want is structure. Sure,
and if you don't like structure, then you're barking up
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the wrong tree. OJI wants the structure. That's all I
see with them. They want structure. If you don't like structure,
go go to somewhere else. Okay, whoever that guy is.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Are you a member of coaching?
Speaker 3 (20:22):
No?
Speaker 8 (20:23):
No, no, no no, I'm a member of the Church
of Christ.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (20:28):
I like what I like what they do.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Okay, And like I said, I really love what.
Speaker 8 (20:34):
Bishop Porter does for this city. He's a great leader.
I'm down here shop and save uh.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
All right, bye bye? Jackson told I told you all
about that.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
He did that on purpose.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
We're gonna send him a bill because he know he's
not supposed to be doing that.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
He know better, He know better. You do you know better?
Speaker 3 (21:03):
All right?
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Let me I'm always messing with Jackson. But seriously, he
knows better. He knows about dropping names like that because
he knew exactly what he was doing. All right, somebody
tapped in on this app. Let's go there and hear
what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
He storm just tuned in and heard you talk about
men that are no good.
Speaker 9 (21:19):
I just want to ask you a questions, Thomy, What
about women that deal with men they know they ain't
no good? And this and that, and they want their
children to call that man daddy, to call that man daddy?
Speaker 3 (21:32):
What do you think about that?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Talk to you last time?
Speaker 5 (21:36):
All right?
Speaker 2 (21:37):
Thank you so much. For tapping in. That's a tough one.
That's a tough one.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
I'm gonna tell you something sometimes I hate to say it.
There was a there was a point in my life
and I hate almost speak for myself.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
I ain't gonna speak for everybody else, but I do
have friends and family members that have gone through the
same thing. There have been times in my life where
I have dated a bad guy.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
You know how we always say I want a good man,
and that's what I want to want myself, a.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Good man, And then you go date the opposite or
you're running to the opposite. Do you really want a
good man? I'ma be honest with you. When they like
what you just mentioned, sir, it's just a fun time.
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It ain't a long time for some people, and some
people make you know those those you know. Sometimes people
do change. I will say that people do change, So
it goes, it goes both ways. Hey, ladies, y'all know
I'm on our side. I'm on our side. We don't cheat,
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but some of us do. I hate to say it.
Oh that hurt, Oh my goodness, that hurt.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
I'm gonna have to take a break. We're going back.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
We're gonna talk and I'm gonna answer the phone.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
I see you guys on hold. You can get in here.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
Got a few lines open nine oh one, five three five,
nine three four two eight hundred five zero three ninety
three four two eight three three five three five nine
three four to two.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
Listen. We'll be back in a moment on the street.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Looking forward to it too, there, So come on, looking
forward to seeing you. Somebody tap the app. Let's go
to the app and see what you're saying on today
store me.
Speaker 10 (23:35):
I'm hearing on the news that that guy that was
shot at the Wolf Chase was in the footlocker and
he got shot in his chest and then.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
He recently has passed away.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
So that's the news they're reporting on Channel three right now.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Wow, Bye, bye bye. Thank you so much for letting
me know. Miss Patricia appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
She came on in there, didn't she sad to hear
too all that that passed away mm mm hmm and
the shooting itself.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
You know what I'm saying, What is really going on?
Speaker 8 (24:06):
Man?
Speaker 11 (24:07):
A baby bow man, it ain't working, it ain't gonna
never work, ain't gonna know a halm, nothing I just
can't understand why you're gonna have a baby bow man
that can't do nothing for you. Hey, you get with him,
you had a baby, you got two kids, because every
time y'all go somewhere, you got to go in your pocket.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
What is he bringing to the table, isn't.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
That m m m all right, let's go back to
the phones. W D I A hello, it's this stormy? Yes,
sorry number one? What's up number one?
Speaker 12 (24:41):
I don't want to give you your bill A long time,
no speech.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
I know what's going on. Prince Charles. Where are you? Ben?
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (24:51):
I've been doing a little bit, little bit, you know me.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
I'm like you.
Speaker 12 (24:54):
But congratulations, I heard you got married.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
I'm done and I did.
Speaker 12 (24:58):
Oh my goodness. Well, I want to say this to
the both of you. I hope you guys have a
long and happy and great marriage together.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
That's so nice. Wow, thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 12 (25:10):
You're quite welcome. You're quite welcome. Everybody deserves some happiness
in their life.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
They do. Thanks.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Thor. I was listening to you.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
Talk and let me ask you a question because there wasn't.
Speaker 12 (25:19):
A lot of details that you give about this young
lady who got married to this individual. Now, the question
I pose is that, first of all, good afternoon to you.
Your call with the listeners, it's this guy serving time
for like.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
A couple of months. Is it years or it's a lifetime?
Speaker 7 (25:36):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
That's a really good question because I saw this picture
and her message. They actually posted it a few hours ago,
and it's on one of the social media outlets, and
they said bars couldn't block their vowels. The wife shares
pics from her wedding with her man who is behind bars.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
There is no more details about.
Speaker 12 (26:04):
Wait see that.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
This is where I have to do the line.
Speaker 12 (26:07):
Because if this woman, if this woman married this guy,
he got life unless they got comfortable visits. I hope
I pronounced that way.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I think he did pretty good.
Speaker 7 (26:15):
What do you use it? What do use to get married?
Speaker 12 (26:18):
If this guy got life and you and that's it,
that doesn't make any sense to me. I don't care
what I'm in, like the eternal.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
What love got to do with this?
Speaker 6 (26:27):
I need my woman is.
Speaker 12 (26:28):
There every single solitary day, but I get home from work.
I need for her to be there when she get
off from work.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
I need to be there.
Speaker 12 (26:35):
We need to be looking at each other at every
opportunity that we can. He can't look at the chat
behind bars every day unless she's pointing on one to
visit him every day. And even if she does come on,
limited to where they can touch each other, you know,
hold each other in that kind of capacity, if you
understand where I'm coming from. So to me, I think
this was a bad decision. Unless he has a couple
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of months left on his sentence, then I could see.
But even then I would tell women, even guys, for
God's good, it's not the first time, just wait. Can't
get out and then't get married. It doesn't, It doesn't
add up a lot of questions. I have to ask
this individuals why first of all, and he's in prison,
not saying it's not good people in prison because you
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change their lives, right, Stormy.
Speaker 5 (27:20):
The woman should have, in my humble opinion, she should
have waited until this guy got out.
Speaker 12 (27:25):
If he's not serving a life sentence, and if he's
saving a life.
Speaker 5 (27:28):
Sentence, then what.
Speaker 12 (27:32):
You just such your something to put in my books.
So that's my take on it, you know, Stormy, And
I mean, sometimes you can't have who you fall in
love with when your heart.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
You can't help who you fall in love with.
Speaker 12 (27:48):
Sometimes a person we that their states in my life.
I can help it who I'm falling in love with.
But I never believe in the term falling in love.
I either love you or I don't, because thinking about
falling in love, you can fall out of love.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
You wasn't coming from nah kind of kind of because
I think when you fall in love, it just means
that the love is deeper than you probably ever expected
it to be.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
And so I can live with that.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
I can live with that.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Yeah, So I don't think. I think we say falling
in love. It's like, man, I felt, you know, you fell.
It's like you know, I feil for my husband, you know,
saying I fell.
Speaker 12 (28:25):
I fell long but you but you but you did
you know, but you loved your husband. But that I
think that's the term that that most people that hid
themselves or I fell in love like me, I feel
in love, but no, I loved this woman when I
first saw or I loved that, you know, one of
the two falling in love it at the stage of
my life. I'm not falling in love with nothing. Now
I will love her or I won't love her. I
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will like her or I won't like her.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
But that's that young people. I guarantee you.
Speaker 12 (28:51):
I haven't seen this picture, but I guarantee you this
is a young it's probably a young group.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
They look kind of young. That that good looking people.
He's yeah, he's handsome. Behind bars, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 12 (29:03):
Yeah, yeah, but you know we're going to say this
stormy and I leave you with that. Most of the
games behind bars. That's all they got is time to find,
to say and do the things to convince a woman
to h to.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
Be with them. Then look at the Menanda's brothers.
Speaker 12 (29:17):
They got winner's line up right now, and he's got
been in prison for decades.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Prince Charles, Yeah, okay, take care of.
Speaker 5 (29:24):
It's always saw me.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Thank you for allowing me to speak.
Speaker 12 (29:26):
I want you and everyone to have a beautiful, blessed
face and healthy day and congratulations once again to your
your husband.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Thank you, Prince Charles.
Speaker 13 (29:35):
W D I A hello, I mean yes, see first
time caller.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Wait a minute, wait a holder, waiter, hold up, wait here,
come on in him.
Speaker 12 (29:51):
Tell Prince tell Prince Charles.
Speaker 14 (29:54):
Marriage has a location or situation. It has to do
with love. People that was your local death. Did got married?
Speaker 3 (30:03):
You didn't have been.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Been only skuy died and got married.
Speaker 14 (30:07):
It doesn't not about.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Being able to in prison out of prison with him.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Mm hmm, yeah, because that you got people. People get married,
you know, whatever way they want to. But it it
led me to think about it. You know a lot
of young people out there.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Can you help her? Can you help who you fall
in love with?
Speaker 3 (30:28):
You?
Speaker 14 (30:28):
You can't because because people like Prince away from the
commitments part of it, will never know what it means
to fall in love. They always look for child fall
in love me that you're trusting somebody, if something within
and yeah, point your heart that pece with that person.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
So therefore loved already there wasn't.
Speaker 14 (30:46):
There at some point, right President? You can't help who
you love, like it or not. You can't have who
you love because you love him sometimes and the person
you think it's the one that seemed to be there,
you think at least as important that in love.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
And love love is really an action word.
Speaker 14 (31:05):
That word if once in your heart, it globifies God,
how he puts one with another one done?
Speaker 12 (31:12):
Right?
Speaker 14 (31:12):
Situation, I got you any So you tell first child
to get married or final love.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
But then you know what it's all about. Get married
when when when when.
Speaker 12 (31:25):
One had turma counsel.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
I've seen people.
Speaker 14 (31:27):
I have seen people when one was coming out of
a major surgery and and getting married. I've seen people
getting married because if they loved that person, knowing you
must paralyze time.
Speaker 5 (31:38):
The person come too short.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
But they love that person with.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
The person that okay, mm hmm, so chriss ch you know.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Always be just the friends.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Have a great day, all right, thank you? Uh, come on,
we're coming on in him, come on in him? Yeah,
I thank you, all right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
I hurt you pretty good your phone.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
Unfortunately you call me on that that line that sometimes
acts up every now and then we get a call
on them lines. And yeah, but but we hurt you
pretty good. But thank you for calling in and being
a first time called. Appreciate that for sure.
Speaker 3 (32:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
So people get get married for different reasons. I always wondered,
and I mean, it really isn't any of my business.
But y'all know that Chadwick Boseman is getting the star
on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, right, And I always wondered,
you know, and maybe his girlfriend will one day come
out and tell, you know, tell the world. I know
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they were planning to get married because she was his fiance.
I always wondered why didn't they get married? Was it
because he didn't realize, you know that his time was
as limited as it was on this earth? Because you
knew that, you know, they loved each other, you know
(33:01):
what I'm saying. And that's like I said, none of
my business, but I just I don't know. I guess
for her because you know, they didn't get married, so
then she doesn't have any rights to anything you know
that has to do with him. But you know, I
know she will probably be at the you know, the
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Hollywood Walk Fame and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
But he's right. TC was right.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
People get married for a lot of different reasons, and
they do. Yeah, y'all coming in tapping on this app.
We're gonna go back to that app in a moment.
But let's go back to the phones and see what
you're saying.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
W D I A Hello, Yes, can you hear me?
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Now?
Speaker 1 (33:43):
I can hear you?
Speaker 3 (33:46):
Well?
Speaker 15 (33:46):
Good good again, good evening.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
You know, good evening, Black Conservative.
Speaker 15 (33:54):
Yeah, I'm listening to everything's been happening at Memphis today,
and it's a sad day in the city of Memphis today.
Speaker 1 (34:04):
Why do you say that because of that shooting at
wolf Chase.
Speaker 15 (34:08):
Yes, you know, someone else have lost their lives. Unfortunately
they didn't get that time enough to prevent it from happening.
Because sometimes we think even the safest places are safe,
but they're not. But to make things even worse than that,
(34:34):
you had people today in the city protesting against the
National Guards being here, more National Guards being deployed. Y'all
haven't got it yet. Memphis, y'all haven't got the message yet. Yeah,
y'all just haven't got the memo. There is killing going
on in the black community. They found the National Guards
(34:59):
along with the If It's Safe Task Force founding individuals
who shot and killed a toddler.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
Do y'all get that?
Speaker 2 (35:10):
I did hear that story, Yeah, call it hold on
for me. I did hear that story of black conservatives?
Speaker 1 (35:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 15 (35:17):
Yeah, a child and and they call in every day. Hey, no,
President Trump, you know, oh come on, come on, wait
right now, falsely accusing him of hating black folks, then
a racist trying to uh uh destroy the country.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
None of that is true, so so so, so what
exactly are you trying to say, hang on for me?
Speaker 1 (35:43):
W d I a hold on? What are you trying
to say? Black conservatives?
Speaker 15 (35:47):
I'm trying to say that this this is long, this
is this have been long overdue, this problem with killing
and the crime problem in MESSI should have been, uh
calcul back in nineteen ninety three when the first official
black president.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
Spoke at Mason Temple.
Speaker 15 (36:09):
In nineteen ninety six, Bier President Bill Clinton, and he
came down to Memphis exactly for this very reason that
President Trump is tackling today. He also signed an executive
order to hire one hundred thousand new police officers. Back
in nineteen ninety three, he came to Memphis, President Bill Clinton.
(36:32):
I like President Bill Clinton. He cool, but he came
to Memphis. He came to your you all your city
in nineteen ninety three, spoke at Mason Temple along with
your civil rights activitists and leaders and so forth.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
Like the one y'all have I.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Got you Black conservatives, I got you.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
M h well, they was saying in the recreation.
Speaker 15 (36:53):
But like the one you had, your representatives you had
today for the same reason nineteen ninety three were high
many years ago.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
It was a long time ago. Thank you Black conservative.
M Let's go back to the phones. Uh w d
I A.
Speaker 5 (37:09):
Hello, Storming?
Speaker 13 (37:11):
Yes, how are you today, my.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Dear, I'm wonderful. How are you today?
Speaker 13 (37:18):
Wonderfully blessed? Listen if I was at Themorrow on all
of that, Are you a new caller?
Speaker 1 (37:25):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 5 (37:27):
I'm not.
Speaker 13 (37:27):
I'm not listen, Storming, No, you cannot. You cannot fall
in love. You cannot catch yourself when you're falling. You
fall into feelings. Love is given based on what.
Speaker 5 (37:42):
You know and what you have experienced.
Speaker 13 (37:46):
Based on that, you give it.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
So you can't fall in love.
Speaker 13 (37:50):
You fall into feelings, and feelings are transient.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
They come and they go.
Speaker 13 (37:58):
But you give your love based on what you've experienced
and what you know. You cannot love a thing or a.
Speaker 5 (38:08):
Person that you don't know.
Speaker 13 (38:11):
You can feel a lot of things, but you cannot love.
I'm talking about genuine, authentic love, not thrill, not lost,
not feelings, but genuine authentic love.
Speaker 1 (38:28):
Well, let me ask you this.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
Okay, there have been a lot of people, and I'm
sure you know somebody who loved somebody but decided you
know that that person isn't good for me, right, and
so they decided to move away from.
Speaker 5 (38:46):
That because they just that transient feeling.
Speaker 13 (38:52):
They didn't love.
Speaker 5 (38:52):
They fell in fillings with that person.
Speaker 1 (38:56):
But what if they really loved them?
Speaker 13 (38:59):
They're no, what.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
They did was but they knew that person wasn't good
for them. Because you just said, you can't help who
you fall in love with. So what if they really
loved the person?
Speaker 13 (39:10):
I said, you can help pool you fall in love.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Okay, you can help.
Speaker 7 (39:15):
Right.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
You don't fall in love, Stormy, Oh you don't.
Speaker 13 (39:18):
There's no such think, no, no, no, no such.
Speaker 5 (39:21):
Thing as falling in love.
Speaker 13 (39:23):
They're falling in feelings. Feelings are transient. They are interpreted
as love because it feels good. You cannot love anything
or anybody that you have not experienced or no, well.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
We're not talking about anybody or anybody that you haven't
experienced or no, we talking about people that you know
and that you have experienced.
Speaker 13 (39:51):
Okay, you don't fall in love. You give, you give
your love to them. You give your love again just
as you can g you can take it.
Speaker 2 (40:06):
I hear you, but I don't know that that I
don't know. I mean, I hear, I hear what you're saying,
I just don't. I don't agree with you, but I
hear what you say. I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 13 (40:20):
It's complicated, but love isn't complicated.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
In my opinion, love isn't complicated. It's not complicated.
Speaker 5 (40:29):
To me.
Speaker 1 (40:30):
It easy. It's either it's you either do it or
you don't. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (40:35):
You you you and and and and then you. You know,
when you get mature enough to realize, oh, okay, this
is this is what this is, you can realize, man,
I've been loving people all my life. You know, You've
got a lot of people say I don't you know,
they don't like people, don't like being around people, and
I and I get it. I hear, I hear y'all
because I know some of y'all listening. But you know,
(40:55):
when you get a certain age, you realize, man, I.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Did love those felps. I do. I do love people.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
And sometimes you get that, you have that aha moment
when you realize, dog, go on it, I love this.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
Person, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
And I believe that it is just there, but it's
it's comes from within.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
It is something that's in you.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
And I feel like a lot of us can't even
experience it if we haven't experienced the true love from God,
from the true love from God. If you ain't never experienced,
you don't know what that's like. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
But for those of.
Speaker 13 (41:34):
Us, and it's hard, and it's hard to do that
because what you're what you're describing.
Speaker 5 (41:39):
A stormy is unconditional love.
Speaker 13 (41:43):
And since we do there you go, right, since we
do not love unconditionally.
Speaker 2 (41:51):
No, well not all of us, because some people do
love unconditionally.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
See, it's not possible. Yes it is, yes, it is.
Speaker 4 (41:59):
No, no, no don't know.
Speaker 13 (42:00):
Yes it is perfect.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
No no, no, yes it is.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
No you don't no, no, you do not have to
be perfect to love somebody unconditionally.
Speaker 5 (42:09):
Okay mm hmm.
Speaker 13 (42:12):
Okay, Well, what attracts you to a person that you love.
Speaker 5 (42:17):
A lot?
Speaker 2 (42:18):
It depends on the It depends on the person. It
depends on the person.
Speaker 13 (42:23):
Okay, If it's how they treat you, that's a condition.
If if it's how they look, that's a condition.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
That that ain't what I'm talking about. I said, unconditional, That's.
Speaker 13 (42:34):
What I'm talking about. Those are conditions, darling.
Speaker 2 (42:37):
No, but I'm talking about unconditional love. You said there
is no such thing. I said, there is.
Speaker 13 (42:42):
That's exactly That's exactly what I'm saying. You're not listening
to me, darling. If you look at something attracted.
Speaker 5 (42:49):
You to your husband, that was a condition, that was
a condition.
Speaker 13 (42:55):
You love, But something attracted you to your husband that
was a condition.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
No, because I think a condition for me would be,
and I'm trying to understand where you're coming from, A
condition for me would be if if if what attracted
me to him was something I expected him to do
all the time, if if what attracted me to him or.
Speaker 13 (43:22):
A condition is anything beyond his existence. A condition is
anything in addition to him just existing period.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
Listen, I gotta go, I gotta get to I love.
Speaker 13 (43:40):
I love talking to you so much. You are so smart.
I love those profound questions that you asked.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
I love it. Thank you. I love talking to you too.
I mean we I don't know we we if we're disagreeing,
I feel like we're doing it agreeably, and I like
that we are.
Speaker 5 (43:58):
We are, We're doing it in love to love each other.
Speaker 2 (44:01):
Yes, hello, unconditional Okay, thank you for calling in. Okay,
all right, all right, bye bye listen, I'm gonna come
back and I'm gonna talk to y'all some more, and
hang on for mccaller. I'm going to uh y'all are
tapping in on.
Speaker 1 (44:20):
This i RT radio app. We're gonna go there.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
And and we're gonna take I'm gonna read these emails
and uh rah, because.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
We got to get to the bottom of this. I
see you, mister c c JS.
Speaker 2 (44:33):
Y'all hold on and if you want to get in here,
I got some lines open for you. Nine o one
five three five, nine three four two eight hundred five
zero three nine three four two eight three three five
three five nine three four two. We'll be back in
a moment, you know, because it's it's gonna get cold
pretty soon, and so it's probably probably one of the
last days where you can get outside and actually take
(44:53):
a hike. Yeah, yeah, unless you like hiking in the
cole not I. It's homemade bread day. Shout out to
all the homemakers out there.
Speaker 1 (45:06):
So I believe that love is an action word. It's
a verb. He loves me, he loves me.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
Not some of y'all have said that before y'all got
them Roses and y'all have decided you were going to
take a pedal and the last pedal would be the truth.
And it's not always the truth, but it's an action word.
(45:38):
And I often think, you know, having this conversation and
talking about it, I'm thinking about young people that are listening.
Speaker 1 (45:43):
To the show, because people will show you.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
If you pay attention to the signs, no matter how
you feel about them, because you could love them, and
it may be on request. Love who wants that?
Speaker 1 (46:08):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
You want to love somebody that's gonna love you back.
The best way to know if somebody loves you, I
believe one of the best ways is how they treat you.
It's because it's not just a word you just say.
You know. I said to my husband all the time,
(46:31):
but I also show him.
Speaker 1 (46:35):
It's not just.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
Sometimes it's in the little things that you do. It's
the taking accountability for what you did.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
Baby, You're right.
Speaker 2 (46:51):
I was talking to my sister the other day, and
I know my husband is listening. I was talking about
this the other day and I said, you know what
I've learned to do. I've learned to say yes, baby,
And I say yes because it's easy for me to do.
(47:14):
He makes it easy for me to do that because
he didn't just tell me he loved me.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
He showed me. He told me. When he asked me
what I you know to marry.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Him, I didn't have a ring yet, and I was
like yes, But he's like, have you told your family?
I'm like, no, I ain't telling nobody, because if you
like it, then you need to put a ring on it.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Well, he said he was putting a ring on it
and all that, and I was like, I ain't saying
nothing until it's on my hand. And so when it
was on my hand, that's when I told my family.
We call the kids and we.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
Told everybody, hey, hey, hey, it's going down. And you know,
but it's it's an action work. And you know that
scripture in the Bible. It took me a long time
to understand that scripture in the Bible that says love
covers a multitude of sin, because I ain't know what
that meant for a long time. And then I realized, now,
(48:26):
I look at sometimes how I love my mama, how
I love my family, and and yeah, you know, your
family members do things, they're gonna be wrong and all that,
but you love them. Ain't no conditions on that. You
know what I'm saying. So you guys have tapped the
app y'all are on the phone. You've emailed, and let
(48:47):
me try to read some of your emails real quick,
Tracy says, bad boys, good afternoons, Stormy. This is Tracy.
I didn't lose my virginity until I was thirty five. Girl, Okay,
I wanted a bad boy with dreads that couldn't be
tamed and didn't care about them white folks.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
They didn't get me. That didn't get me far.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
He smoked weed, drank and had five kids with four
baby mothers and I don't have one child. But that's
what I slick wanted in my heart. I paid the price.
I got used financially and sexually. You know, well, I
know better now. I think with some women and men,
you just have to learn by experience and not age.
(49:31):
It all depends on what you want, but you don't
have to learn by experience. That's why we having this
conversation because young folks is listening. You don't have to
learn by experience. But let me get to Tracy's email.
She said, I think with some women and some men
you just have to learn by experience and not age.
It all depends on what you want. If you are
in love with a man that doesn't protect and provide,
(49:53):
then how long will that last?
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Preach?
Speaker 2 (49:57):
She said, what will you be in love on the
street too? I think you can't control who you love,
but you can control who you marry and who you
deal with. I might love a man that has a heart,
but that doesn't mean I will marry him. He just
might not be responsible enough. This is just my opinion.
(50:19):
Thank you girl.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
That's deep.
Speaker 2 (50:20):
That's good, Tracy, that's good. PJ says, married behind bars.
Some people are just happy to say I have a
husband or I have a wife. No substance has to
be behind it. So sad for them. Love your show yep,
that's what they're doing. Yeah, and missus Jones, I see
your email. Yeah, somebody tapped the app and told us
(50:42):
that a person died over there. That win Chase situation.
Here's another Tracy. Hey girl, Tracy with a why falling
in love? Good evening, Miss Stormy. You can help who
you fall in love with. Most times it's not love
but lust. A lot of time with women, the act
of wanting love at any cost.
Speaker 1 (51:04):
For men, I think it's totally different.
Speaker 2 (51:06):
There's the show called Love After lock Up. These people
meet people in jail and think they're in love. Once
the people get out of jail, it is a mess.
Hold on Caller. Just like one can choose to hate,
one can choose who to love. Just because someone's saying
(51:27):
they love you does not mean love. If they are
cheating on you, beating you, or disrespecting your feelings, it's
not love.
Speaker 1 (51:37):
Enjoying the show.
Speaker 2 (51:39):
Talk to Talk Tracey, both them traces talking up in here?
Speaker 1 (51:43):
All right, Golden girl, what's up? Golden Girl? She says,
falling in love?
Speaker 2 (51:46):
Great question, but I think we're going to need doctor
Jeffries to elaborate more on that great show. Love you, Yeah,
I'm leaving Doctor Jeffries to BIV, but thank you. African
Consultants says, you have to love yourself first because you
can love anyone else. How can you love someone when
(52:08):
you don't even love yourself. I believe you can do it.
I do believe that some people don't love themselves, but
I think that doesn't mean because they don't love themselves,
they don't love other people. But I do believe that
once you realize you don't love yourself, when you learn
(52:29):
to love yourself, then you can learn how to love
other people better. Doctor who doctor Stormy, Come on girl anyway?
African Consultants goes on to say, the greatest love of
all this learning to love yourself. Black people must relearn
(52:52):
how to love ourselves as America doesn't promote black self love.
When you decide to love yourself as a black man
or woman in America, take a revolutionary standing. You are
marked as an enemy of the state. The proof what
happened to all the black leaders that decided to love
themselves and black people here in America. So yes, you
can decide to who you stand in love with. Yeah,
(53:16):
I hear your African Consultants. I don't believe. I don't
agree with you. And you love yourself and you don't
have to get involved with a movement. You can get
involved with the movement of loving you and raising your
children the right way. Reginald says, Love, thank you for
hosting a great show and expanding knowledge throughout the community
regarding love and its condition. To your point, true love
(53:39):
is unconditional and love is an action word. In my opinion,
love is what you make and who you make it with.
Speaker 1 (53:48):
Thank you, Stormy, Reginald.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
That's good right there. Some of y'all have tapped in.
Let me see what you are saying.
Speaker 16 (53:55):
Yeah, everybody cheats, and especially a woman. We don't cheat
crap as crap. I know this for a fact.
Speaker 1 (54:04):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 16 (54:06):
I've been on the recipient and of the cheating from
wives many times.
Speaker 1 (54:16):
Leyland, we don't cheat. Get off them.
Speaker 15 (54:21):
It's storming.
Speaker 1 (54:23):
I have a question.
Speaker 5 (54:24):
Can't a bad guy be a good guy?
Speaker 1 (54:29):
Ow, that's a question, can a bad bbe guy?
Speaker 2 (54:34):
I believe a bad guy can be a good guy.
Speaker 1 (54:41):
I do. I believe a bad guy. And how do
I know? Because I got people in my family. Member.
Speaker 2 (54:47):
People in my family are the bad guys, but they're
good guys.
Speaker 1 (54:52):
You know what I'm saying. They treat but they do
bad things. Mmmm.
Speaker 2 (54:59):
That's the that's deep, brother, that's deep. And here we
go back to the app.
Speaker 3 (55:05):
Good evening, Stormy.
Speaker 16 (55:06):
My name is Leland. I live up in Madison, Wisconsin.
I've listened to your show several times.
Speaker 15 (55:13):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (55:13):
I love the music, I love the poor Man.
Speaker 16 (55:16):
I listened to Stand three or four mornings a week
I've just been through a Memphis about five weeks ago,
and I was very disheartened at what I saw. Yeah,
Memphis is quite a sight and a lot of abandon men.
Speaker 1 (55:33):
Wow. Sometimes they on the outside looking in, ain't they?
Speaker 5 (55:38):
Mm?
Speaker 1 (55:39):
That's where they are, outside looking in at us.
Speaker 17 (55:43):
Look, Black Confederate Don Trump can stop block on block violence.
It's going to take black folks to solve block on
black violence because that is our psychological problem that black
people have. Okay, have to use psychology to solve that problem.
You can't you it's really do. You can't use sports.
(56:07):
You have to use psychology if you have a psychological Mmm.
Speaker 1 (56:14):
Interesting.
Speaker 16 (56:15):
I agree with that woman about the love thing. You
can fall in feelings. I've never thought about it that way.
Love develops later once you get to know somebody.
Speaker 2 (56:25):
All right, y'all on that app Let's get back to this.
Uh these phone see what y'all are talking about? Let's
see here, w D I A hello?
Speaker 1 (56:34):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (56:36):
Hello?
Speaker 7 (56:36):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (56:37):
I'm very good mister c J. And yourself and blessed
by it? Be with no stress.
Speaker 2 (56:47):
Man, you see you you're adding some new stuff to
that every time you call, So I can't say it
with you.
Speaker 7 (56:54):
Well, I'm a very inventious person.
Speaker 5 (56:56):
Okay, more even one.
Speaker 7 (56:59):
So it's always progress with me. Okay, progress, especially if
you're opposit six. Okay, progress women love progress, women love progress.
Speaker 1 (57:12):
Yeah, well I learned that.
Speaker 3 (57:13):
Mm hm.
Speaker 18 (57:16):
So you know you all talking about love today? Okay, Yeah,
there are many types of love, all right. Making love
don't mean you're in love.
Speaker 1 (57:31):
That's what people talk.
Speaker 3 (57:32):
You know.
Speaker 1 (57:33):
I don't believe making love.
Speaker 7 (57:37):
Is.
Speaker 1 (57:39):
This is just me. I believe it's if you're making.
Speaker 5 (57:42):
Love what you if they can say, I can tell
you that.
Speaker 6 (57:45):
Now, you're right.
Speaker 1 (57:47):
I'm always right. I keep telling my husband.
Speaker 2 (57:49):
That, No, and the whole term making love is supposed
to be with the person you are in love with.
You ain't supposed to be making love whatever. Every woman
in town or every man in town.
Speaker 1 (58:03):
You know what I'm saying. It's supposed to be for
one person.
Speaker 7 (58:08):
Well, now I'm gonna get.
Speaker 6 (58:12):
Okay, you know, oh well let's see now, Okay. I
am I'm very uh, very adventurous. I mean, I'm not
a traveling man, but I'm a I'm a very adventurous,
adventurous man. I love I love Brocolie, but I don't
like Brocoln every day.
Speaker 1 (58:32):
You know who you trying to impress? What's her name?
Speaker 5 (58:40):
Nobody?
Speaker 1 (58:41):
Yeah, you trying to you trying to impress a woman?
Speaker 2 (58:45):
You can always tell you what's their name? Because I
know you say you got a lot of them.
Speaker 5 (58:54):
Well, that's what I'm saying. I don't need to impress.
Speaker 7 (58:56):
Nobody because see I'm not I'm not twenty eight. I'm
in a twenty year old body, but I'm not twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (59:04):
I've been around, Okay.
Speaker 5 (59:07):
I don't here if there's no woman, as I tell you.
Speaker 7 (59:10):
All the time when I graceee that way, as I called,
and I say, the women I'm closely involved with has
moborns for them. Economic tis whether it's the academical that
I could economic to me to.
Speaker 5 (59:21):
Have more money than I have.
Speaker 7 (59:24):
I don't. I'm not associating nobody's broke. I'm not right,
not not in the in the arena.
Speaker 2 (59:30):
Do you know what if you were really missus c J,
if you were really a lover of women, you you
would bring a broke woman in now because you can
you can bring her up. See you you going up
and and and you you need to bring some.
Speaker 7 (59:46):
Lifestyle of change. The lifestyle you're talking about their lifestyle
and change. Okay, if I bring it a broke woman
to you too, anyway, you take me. I'm on, I'm
going to go there.
Speaker 1 (59:58):
Okay, you don't have to, mister c J.
Speaker 12 (01:00:02):
You don't have I don't have to go there.
Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
But I'm serious. I am saying I don't pay when
I grace see that way. But I called, and I'm serious.
Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
Is the heart I know I can tell.
Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
I can tell, mister c J.
Speaker 7 (01:00:16):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
I love talking to you, and I could talk to
you all day, but I can't. I gotta go because
their phones are people.
Speaker 5 (01:00:22):
A broke woman needs some teaching. Okay, I'm gonna leave it.
You go there.
Speaker 7 (01:00:26):
A broken woman needs some teacher. What you can find
some go that, okay? Just because the keys on the
wall from years ago, I know where the gold is
my goal?
Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
All Right, I got this, miss J. All right, all right,
I gotta go. Okay, all right, I love you to
bye bye.
Speaker 2 (01:00:49):
Casanova. You gotta be a modern day casanova. D I
a hello, I'm a man, I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker 5 (01:01:02):
All right, all right, you've got an interest interesting subject today? Yes,
I think, uh regarding falling in love or can you
control who you fall in love with? Rather, I think
that the only way a person can control who they
fall in love with is to disengage away from a person.
(01:01:24):
That way, there's no opportunity for following in love.
Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
Wait a minute, hold on, hold on real quick, seriously,
hold on, hold on calling.
Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
So so you're saying you got to get away from it. Wait,
so if you're if you feel like you're falling in
love with him and you don't want to be I.
Speaker 5 (01:01:47):
Was speaking, No, No, I was speaking before the feeling
that even come along. Okay, okay, because because once the
feeling is there, that's what I'm about.
Speaker 3 (01:01:55):
To speak on.
Speaker 5 (01:01:57):
You continue to engage you with a person, and of
you know, you're you're working on a relationship. You're fond
of this person, that person may be fond of you.
You all enjoy each other.
Speaker 3 (01:02:08):
You like the way this person treat you, You treat
that person well.
Speaker 5 (01:02:11):
Everything you're just doing and before you know it, you
don't even know it, until all of a sudden, you
have this this feeling, this feeling in your heart, and
you recognize, I fall in love this person. You know,
so it helpens without you really not being aware of it.
It's like the wind coming you. You can't see it,
but you feel it. Yeah, you know. Yeah, and so yeah.
(01:02:35):
Even the term, you know, the term of falling in love,
I think that that's just a terminology that we use
to say that I'm in love with you. You're identify
that I'm in love this person because the action has
already taken place. She just wasn't recognizing it until you
get it. So when you feel that that special feeling,
(01:02:57):
that emotion for that person, you recognize, I'm in love
with him. Yeah, and you you you almost I want
to ask youself where did it come from? Because it's
like it snuck up on you. But when you look
back and rewind the tape and you recognize all the happiness,
the fun, the good times we've been having together, you
find you you recognize I'm in love, you know. And
(01:03:20):
in my experiences, that's the way it happens.
Speaker 7 (01:03:22):
You know.
Speaker 5 (01:03:23):
Uh, you was talking to the lady and the guy
that agreed with her, that said you fall in feelings,
if that's what you want to call it. But at
the end of the day, that special.
Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
Emotion we call it love.
Speaker 5 (01:03:34):
Yeah, you know, and so uh, outside of just disengaging
from a person before any emotions are developed. I think
that's the only way you can control who you fall
in love with, because you're not going to fall in
love with somebody if something is not going good, not
going right, you're not happy and all that kind of stuff. Now,
(01:03:55):
I don't mean that person is in love with you, you know,
hopefully it's likewise, but yeah, you know, you to come
out of a lot of good and happy fun things
going on. They love his actual word.
Speaker 7 (01:04:08):
But guess what.
Speaker 5 (01:04:10):
All the action is taking place as you spending time
with that person, and that's how you know.
Speaker 3 (01:04:14):
Thought in love m from the different.
Speaker 5 (01:04:17):
Actions that has taken place.
Speaker 3 (01:04:20):
Yeah, that's my thought about it.
Speaker 2 (01:04:22):
I got your coming, man, sounds good to me. I
mean you got yeah.
Speaker 16 (01:04:26):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:04:26):
All those people that are.
Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
In love that are that are listening right now, and
they're just smiling, all.
Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
Of them, including me. Thank you coming man.
Speaker 5 (01:04:35):
I appreciate what though, you know what those last thing
I'm teach to strength, well not strength, but love can
be a monster because it can make you feel so good,
but it can also make you feel so bad when
bades get going wrong. You know, yeah, but I appreciate
you those storm that.
Speaker 1 (01:04:52):
I appreciate you too, coming man, Thank you so much. Yeah, heartbroken,
we don't want it. Nobody wants heartbreak.
Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
But we've all been there, you know what I'm saying,
haven't you? Haven't we all?
Speaker 3 (01:05:09):
You know?
Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
This one's for all the lovers. Get back to these phones.
Oh I gotta get to a break. Oh my goodness.
We don't come back and we're gonna talk.
Speaker 16 (01:05:21):
Y'all.
Speaker 2 (01:05:21):
Got the lines tied up. We're gonna come back and
talk to y'all in a minute, So hang on. Shout
out to everybody who's in love today. And I hope
your love is not unrequited. I hope the person that
you love loves you equally.
Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
You know what I'm saying. I hope they do. We're
gonna come back and talk some more.
Speaker 2 (01:05:40):
Y'all are emailing, tapping that app and you're on these phones,
and we'll be back to talk some more. Don't mar
giving you a chance to participate in the Will of Fortune.
Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
I'm gonna give you a chance. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
So today somebody's gonna win their way to the show.
Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
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Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
So they hit TV show Will of Fortune. They're hitting
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gonna be at Minglewood Hall, by the way, and you
could win your way by listening to me all this week.
You can win your way to becoming an audience member. Now,
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once you get in there, we'll give you a ticket.
It's good for you, and I believe maybe another person
you get in there, you could be called up to
play the game.
Speaker 5 (01:06:30):
Mm hm.
Speaker 2 (01:06:31):
So you may get the opportunity to be featured at
the event and hit the stage to spin the wheel
and play for prizes including trips to Las Vegas and Hawaii,
gift cards, cash prizes, and more.
Speaker 3 (01:06:45):
So.
Speaker 1 (01:06:47):
May I hope they let me play? I want to go.
I want to play. That could be you, and I
think I'm gonna do it in the six o'clock hour.
That's gonna be so much fun. Well, a fortune coming
to us. I love it all right.
Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
Let's go back to the phones and see what you
guys are talking about on today. W D I A Hello, Hello,
call of you there?
Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
Hello? Okay, w D I A Hello.
Speaker 10 (01:07:26):
Hey. How are you doing? Hey?
Speaker 1 (01:07:27):
I'm good? How are you I'm good?
Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
Good good. Hadn't been able to get you.
Speaker 10 (01:07:32):
I was about to hang up.
Speaker 7 (01:07:33):
I thought, maybe I don't have her hey showing.
Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
Me, Hey, is this bird last?
Speaker 7 (01:07:38):
Yes?
Speaker 10 (01:07:39):
Yeah, shout out, yes.
Speaker 3 (01:07:40):
It was a pleasure meeting you.
Speaker 1 (01:07:42):
And I have a York and will I tell you
so much?
Speaker 10 (01:07:45):
Ya?
Speaker 5 (01:07:47):
Let me shout out?
Speaker 10 (01:07:48):
Can I shout out to a few people first?
Speaker 1 (01:07:49):
Absolutely?
Speaker 10 (01:07:51):
And this was the Mae Marcus and brother Brown down
at General Sessions Court, my former employer, and I wanted
to tell you I loved I a and I love
being retired. Okay. I was listening to you all have
a conversation about love, and I thought, okay, I'm just listening,
but I'll leave that up to doctor DJ Darty.
Speaker 3 (01:08:14):
Yes, you know I love.
Speaker 5 (01:08:15):
To hear her on Fridays.
Speaker 10 (01:08:18):
But but but let me let me tell you a story,
a little story, right quick, right cause anybody can tell
you I love you, right. And I met this fellow
and we went out a few times, and oh, I
love about the second or third day. I love you Now,
I know the game.
Speaker 7 (01:08:32):
Now I'm old us, been around the.
Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
Corner a few times. I love you too, you know so.
Speaker 10 (01:08:37):
And then I had the pleasure of meeting his granddaughter
when he wasn't around, and I said, I love your granddaddy.
Guess what happened, and next.
Speaker 1 (01:08:47):
Few days he gonna tell me.
Speaker 10 (01:08:49):
I showed me some money, thought he was gonna play me.
Speaker 15 (01:08:54):
Maybe I am not the one.
Speaker 10 (01:08:56):
And he found it out because when I saw him
at another at another time, around other people, I spoke
to everybody, and he said, oh, you don't see me.
I said, do I know you have a good one?
Speaker 5 (01:09:06):
Saw me here.
Speaker 10 (01:09:06):
I'm not going to play with and look.
Speaker 12 (01:09:09):
Look forward to seeing you Friday night.
Speaker 10 (01:09:13):
Yes, yes, yes, Hey I want tickets. I sure did,
and I will be there.
Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
Well, I talk with the same. Looking forward to seeing
your bird legs.
Speaker 10 (01:09:22):
Yeah, and I will be in the house at the
Lord said a sight all.
Speaker 1 (01:09:25):
Right down you too? You too, Yes, bird legs, ladies
and gentlemen. Yeah, it ain't just talk. If it's just talk,
it probably ain't love. W D I a hello, Hello,
How you doing, Stormy? I'm good? Big Casino? Is that you?
Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
Yes, ma'am?
Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
One and only, the one and only, y'all I met me.
I met Big Casino on Friday night, the one and only.
Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
Yes, it was a pleasure of.
Speaker 3 (01:09:57):
What you will go a long way, Stormy. You with it.
Speaker 5 (01:10:00):
You have a nice personality, You know how to get.
Speaker 3 (01:10:02):
Along with people. And knowing that means a lot.
Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Oh wow, it you well, that means a lot. Thank
you just for saying that.
Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
Yeah, anyway, you know, like you say, you know, people
love people for different reasons, and some people love more heart.
Speaker 3 (01:10:19):
Than other people.
Speaker 4 (01:10:20):
Okay, I have a friend he mustn't feel in love
four times and been married four times. But my question
is how long do you think love lasts?
Speaker 16 (01:10:32):
Me?
Speaker 1 (01:10:32):
You're asking me.
Speaker 3 (01:10:35):
If it's really if I'm you know, anybody you know,
how long do you think it last?
Speaker 1 (01:10:39):
You know, you hate to say if it's real love,
it lasts forever, because I mean it is.
Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
I mean real love of course lasts forever. You know
what I'm saying. But I, in my opinion, God is love.
God is in my opinion, God is loved. God's gonna
be around forever, forever ever.
Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Right.
Speaker 4 (01:11:01):
You know, you can see somebody on the street or
family member, and the first thing that said I love you,
the first thing you gonna say.
Speaker 3 (01:11:06):
I love you back?
Speaker 5 (01:11:07):
You may not even love you, you know, saying no.
Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
I love people.
Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
So I think if I say a big casino, I'm
gonna be telling the truth. Hold on, big casino, w
d I a hold on for me. Okay, go ahead,
big casino. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (01:11:20):
Yeah, I told a whole lot of people I love.
I tell you know, I you know I.
Speaker 5 (01:11:25):
Will say, just don't have me for no more money then.
Speaker 3 (01:11:27):
So you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:11:30):
You mean by people? You mean women?
Speaker 4 (01:11:33):
Oh no, don't know women, you know what? No, I
mean them them ten people and cousins. That's you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
But my kids, Oh okay, okay, I see what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (01:11:42):
You know what I'm saying my kids is something different.
But you know now, I don't want to meet no.
Speaker 15 (01:11:48):
You know that.
Speaker 4 (01:11:49):
You know that's a definitely turnoff. If you meet a
woman and first thing you do it at you for
some money. You know what I'm saying. It's okay to
get somebody the money. If you come over there laid
up in the house and stuff said to help up
with the yards and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (01:12:01):
I don't see nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (01:12:02):
Well, let me ask you a question.
Speaker 2 (01:12:04):
Let me ask you a question, because who was at
Birdles just mentioned this just a second ago.
Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
Hold on caller.
Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Uh So for women, young women that are listening to
me right now, for young women, young men, as soon
as they meet a girl or a guy, and and
and the first thing they do is ask them. You know,
they tell them they like them and all that kind
of stuff. But the first thing they do is ask
them for money. What would you say if that was
(01:12:32):
your niece or your you know, daughter, or somebody, what
would you think is going on?
Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
Well, one thing about it, I would it's courting what
they didn't need the money for.
Speaker 1 (01:12:44):
Okay, wait a minute, wait, according to what they needed for.
You just met them.
Speaker 3 (01:12:52):
You said, my niece, my nephew.
Speaker 2 (01:12:53):
Yeah, if it's your niece or your nephew and they
met somebody, they just met somebody. The person tells them
they like them, but they want them to give them money.
Speaker 4 (01:13:06):
Hey, if they give them money, so allright by me,
because they ain't cost me nothing out of my pocket.
Speaker 3 (01:13:13):
You know, I ain't got this mother. When nobody trying
to make a hustle?
Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
Okay, there you go. You said it's a hustle. If
somebody do that and you just met him, it's probably
a hustle. Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (01:13:23):
That's what I'm saying, is probably a hustle, Because then again,
you know, you don't want to you know, I just
put it like that. I don't want to really just
get involved with somebody that's you know that you know
they ain't got nothing going. We know if you talk
to someone for a minute, you can now almost tell
what's going on because you know I, like I said,
you know, I'm a professional poker player. I can try
(01:13:45):
to read you like I'll get out.
Speaker 5 (01:13:46):
You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (01:13:48):
That's what you do. But you, I mean, you wouldn't
want to.
Speaker 4 (01:13:51):
You wouldn't got Mari to your hooting if you think
it didn't have no car, no house or something.
Speaker 1 (01:13:57):
You know, not at this age.
Speaker 2 (01:14:00):
Now if I was younger, maybe, but but I you know.
Speaker 3 (01:14:08):
You know now you know what though you just you
just mentioned the right thing. I you know, I try
to preach that to something.
Speaker 5 (01:14:15):
My kill people.
Speaker 3 (01:14:16):
Y'all keep waiting around, waiting around, don't y'all know y'all
getting older and older. Y'all need to.
Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
Find some kind of man. I don't care what kind
of man here. You quit waiting on God to send
your man because you don't know that the right man
for you or not. You want somebody with this and
that and all that type of stuff. You can meet
the guy that work up for the sanitation worker, and
he'll treat you just as good as somebody else. You
see what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (01:14:40):
They really killed me when they killed when they tell
me they I mean, how do you know when.
Speaker 3 (01:14:44):
God sell you somebody, how do you know?
Speaker 2 (01:14:47):
Well, if you don't give if you don't give the
guy a chance, you will never know.
Speaker 5 (01:14:52):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (01:14:53):
Now.
Speaker 4 (01:14:53):
They don't want to give him that because here a
sanitation worker.
Speaker 5 (01:14:58):
So you know some good.
Speaker 1 (01:15:01):
Men out there.
Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
It's some good men out there that are sanitation workers.
Don't don't hold him down because of what he do
for a living. Vig Casino. I got a run, but
thank you for calling. Okay, all right, thank you, all right,
by great to meet you too.
Speaker 1 (01:15:12):
By the way, Uh w D I A hold on
w D I A hello? Storm was Clyde. I can't
call it Clyde. What was going on?
Speaker 3 (01:15:24):
Ain't nothing shaken. Don't wanna tell you it's doing. I
talked with my son.
Speaker 5 (01:15:29):
When you meet a woman and she ain't got just
as much as you've got, you might well keep it
moving so she gonna ask you talking about money. I
ain't an be enough fake.
Speaker 3 (01:15:42):
I don't play that.
Speaker 5 (01:15:43):
And Storm I'm gonna tell you people, Uh, you can't
never say, uh that you.
Speaker 3 (01:15:49):
Can control falling in love with a woman. I can't
do that.
Speaker 5 (01:15:53):
See because when I was out there in the streets,
out there storming, our meeting women and the only reason
I wan't fall in love with him throwing because my
heart know they didn't they didn't have what I wanted.
But now when I was at together, and I've seen
my wife across the room, cause I went there looking
for some more action. And when I saw her staring,
(01:16:16):
I know that she's supposed to be my wife's Wow.
And I and I I stopped pursuing her.
Speaker 8 (01:16:25):
And she really wanted paying me no attention.
Speaker 3 (01:16:27):
And I know she had to be the one dead.
Speaker 1 (01:16:29):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (01:16:31):
And and I gotta said and now almost nine years
and uh, I wasn't traded up for the world. M
You know, you know when the dyn come, you know
when the dying come.
Speaker 1 (01:16:43):
Yeah, that's beautiful, Clyde, just this, And.
Speaker 5 (01:16:47):
I think that's how your your your husband found you.
Speaker 3 (01:16:51):
You A man be watching.
Speaker 5 (01:16:53):
And when they see what they want, they take their
time go get it.
Speaker 2 (01:16:58):
He took time, thank your clod. Yeah, he took his time.
It wasn't easy, you know what I mean. And I'm
not bragging when I say that. But he did take
his time. He did, and and I'm so grateful that
he did. He I have never been the kind of woman,
(01:17:21):
especially since I've been in this business. Uh and even
years ago, I've would call people or call men that
I've dated. But I never been the kind of woman
that liked a man who just you know, called me
all the time. And because of the business that I'm in.
If it were different, if I were doing something else
for a living, it would have been different. But my
husband took his time with me, took it. Oh, thank you, lord.
(01:17:46):
Mister Whitney says, thank you very much. But he also says, uh,
let's see. Uh yeah, well, he was the one that
said that women don't cheat or women. Yeah, he said
women do not cheat. Okay, he didn't say that. He
(01:18:08):
said married women do cheat. Okay, anyway, old record. Let's see,
all women cheat the right man at the right place,
at the right time, they will give it give it up.
Speaker 1 (01:18:22):
We won't do that, let's.
Speaker 2 (01:18:26):
See, Michelle says, and you know that's yeah. I don't
believe that's true at all. And a lot of women
know that's not true. I know a lot of women
who were faithful. My mama was one of them.
Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
She loved my daddy.
Speaker 2 (01:18:41):
She did even after he died. She saw He's all
she talked about for about ten years after he died,
and maybe more because that's yeah, she loved him. Michelle says,
sometimes it helps to just look up the actual definition
of words. It's very possible for flawed people like you
and I love someone unconditionally. Unconditional love refers to a
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type of affection that is given freely, without any conditions
or limitations. This means loving someone regardless of their actions, circumstances,
or flaws. Think of wedding vows. When a couple vows
to stay together in sickness and in health, that's unconditional.
Unconditional love causes us to accept and forgive on, ultimately
(01:19:25):
expressing the very thing that we are talking about, which
is love.
Speaker 1 (01:19:31):
So poetic.
Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
Michelle also, I'm in a relationship with a man that
slipped up on me and I fell in love with him.
Ah arrows romantic Wooh that Greek love. That's a romantic
love right there, has got a little six tied to it.
(01:19:54):
Love turned into pragma love. Hmmm, let me look go Pragma.
Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
I ain't. I ain't seen that one. Oh, they gotta
let that Pragmatt.
Speaker 2 (01:20:04):
I've seen dealing with problems in a sensible and realistic way,
focusing on practical, practical solutions rather than theoretical or idealistic ones.
Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
Mm.
Speaker 2 (01:20:16):
Pragmatic. You go, girl, and those big words teach you're
teaching class. All right, let's go. Oh man, let's go
back to the phones. W D I A Hello, Hello,
calling you there?
Speaker 3 (01:20:31):
I lost it, I lost it earlier. Your storman. This
is Mike from.
Speaker 5 (01:20:37):
Hello, Hello. Can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (01:20:41):
I can now? What did you say?
Speaker 12 (01:20:44):
This is Mike from the Manhattans.
Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
Hey, Mike, what's going on?
Speaker 11 (01:20:50):
Are we ready to come down and have a good
time with y'all?
Speaker 2 (01:20:54):
Well, we're ready for you to come and have a
good time with us.
Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
Man, come on here.
Speaker 3 (01:21:00):
Yeah, I mean enjoying. I'm enjoying your show tonight.
Speaker 12 (01:21:03):
But I just want to let everybody know if you're
the dog House, come.
Speaker 3 (01:21:08):
On out and have a good time with us. We're
gonna put you back in the house.
Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2 (01:21:16):
Yeah, we only have a few tickets left, and those
tickets are uh at A and R Barbecue. I believe
there may be some you know, tickets still over there,
but yeah, that's that's where those tickets are. The last
few that are left are at A and R Barbecue.
Speaker 1 (01:21:38):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3 (01:21:40):
Wow.
Speaker 12 (01:21:40):
Okay, that's good, but we don't have a good time.
Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
We're waiting to be there. Suit.
Speaker 1 (01:21:45):
Yeah, Friday night it is own Mike. Now, what part
do you play? Mike and the ground? What do you
what do you do?
Speaker 3 (01:21:56):
I'm the base?
Speaker 1 (01:21:57):
Oh you play bass? Okay, I'm here. Now you're gonna
play bass on this one right here. That's what you're
gonna be playing. Can you hear it, Mike?
Speaker 7 (01:22:15):
If you doing it?
Speaker 13 (01:22:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:22:16):
Man mm hm, you're gonna play based on that one.
Speaker 2 (01:22:21):
Yeah, okay, all right, y'all better get them tickets, thank you, Mike.
Y'all better get them last tickets, because yes, it's gonna
be nice.
Speaker 1 (01:22:37):
I wish we're looking forward to I'm looking forward to it.
Speaker 3 (01:22:41):
Mm hmmmm.
Speaker 1 (01:22:45):
Manhattan is a bad baby, bad to the bone.
Speaker 7 (01:22:49):
W D I A.
Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
Hello, Hey, it's going good. How are you look at
I'm good.
Speaker 5 (01:22:56):
I'm loving your topic tonight. I thank you. I want
to just go ahead and weigh in on this topic.
Speaker 2 (01:23:04):
Wait a minute, I don't know if I've ever talked
to you before you were a first time caller.
Speaker 5 (01:23:08):
No, well I just called and talked about OJA.
Speaker 1 (01:23:11):
All the time, waiting your first time calling for my show.
Come on in here, Come on, come.
Speaker 4 (01:23:16):
On in here.
Speaker 5 (01:23:18):
Oh coming down?
Speaker 1 (01:23:19):
Well, welcome. What's your name?
Speaker 5 (01:23:26):
Yeah, talk to you. I feel like love. Love is
when when when someone treats you the way you want
to be.
Speaker 3 (01:23:34):
Treated, and treat them the same way. You know what
I mean?
Speaker 7 (01:23:38):
You know what I mean when they go out the way.
Speaker 2 (01:23:42):
Wait, wait a minute, Oh wait, you got that radio
on in the background. Turn that radio down and talk
to me.
Speaker 7 (01:23:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:23:50):
Yeah, you can feel what I'm saying. No, I don't
say it again.
Speaker 5 (01:23:55):
Love is when someone treats you the way you want
to be treated. They treat you the way you want
to be treated. They going all that they way, and
you do the thing for that person too, you know
what I mean. You know a lot of people don't
understand a lot of people think you know, money and
and and just no sometimes a love things you know, Yeah,
(01:24:17):
a little thing you know, and also one more thing
probably this you go.
Speaker 16 (01:24:23):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (01:24:24):
I like to say shout out to my boy Clyde KFC,
mister KMC and uh you knows okay, okay, they called
him finger licking good.
Speaker 3 (01:24:35):
That's my buddy though, man, which one.
Speaker 1 (01:24:37):
Way may they called Clyde finger licking good?
Speaker 16 (01:24:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:24:40):
Yeah, call Mr KMC.
Speaker 4 (01:24:42):
You know when I see that, you.
Speaker 3 (01:24:45):
Know who I am. Oh my goodness, we go all
the way back.
Speaker 7 (01:24:50):
He don't call back, though I know he will.
Speaker 5 (01:24:53):
But you have a good day, okay, I mean have
a good night.
Speaker 2 (01:24:55):
Job all right, Thank you so much, Tony. I appreciate
you calling is all right and welcome, welcome you call
back now, well you know I Willah, thank you, Tony.
Oh man, We've got some new family members. They have
called in to day, and I'm sorry those of you
that are on hold, forgive me. I'm not gonna be
able to get you today because I got to get
this classic TV throwback. Are y'all ready for it? Are
(01:25:18):
y'all ready for this classic TV throwback for today? Some
might say that I'm just giving y'all.
Speaker 1 (01:25:25):
The classic TV throwback for today. Some might say that,
but I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (01:25:30):
All right, don't forget to like and subscribe to my
Hate on Tea podcast. So that you can go back
to the show and catch what you missed. I gotta
go back and listen to the lady that I was
talking to in the first hour. We were talking about
unconditional love and all that. I got to go back
and listen to that. Yes, so it's the Hey on
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(01:25:51):
a dot com, or you can go to the iHeartRadio Applekay.
Speaker 8 (01:25:54):
All right,
If it was a long weekend. I don't know what
it is.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I'm spring cleaning, I guess, which is something I think
most people do in the spring. But no, I think
probably what I'm doing, a lot of people do around
this time of year.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
So it's time to take out.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
The summer clothes and get them out of the way
and get the winter clothes in because I'm tell you
right now, I'm not gonna be wearing my summer clothes
in the wintertime, and they just they're holding up progress.
So I got a lot, a lot of stuff that
I need to go drop off at locations. Y'all tell
(00:39):
me some places if you know some places that need
you know where people need clothes and that kind of stuff,
because I and I need to give some stuff away,
and maybe somebody else needs to give some stuff away,
and you need to know something. Maybe somebody will call
us today and tell us some places that we.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Can be a blessing too. Mm hmmm. A lot of
the stuff that I have too has tags on it. Ladies.
I know a lot of us do this.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
We get them new clothes, we stuff them in that closet.
We don't know where they are because we got so
many we forgot we had it. It was, oh my goodness,
so many clothes I have that I forgot I had.
So it's it's it's time. It's time. It's some of
it has gone out of seas. It's time. It's it's time.
It's time to let it. Let it be a blessing
to somebody else, you know what I'm saying. So that's
(01:32):
that's that's what I was doing a lot this weekend.
And yeah, busy day. On Friday, I met Big.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Casino, y'all. I sure did.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I met Big Casino, and I felt like I had
a great wd I a week last week, I met
Big Casino, I met Bird Legs, I met Miss Linda Man,
hung out with Carolyn, my bff. Carolyn hung out with
her Man. It was just, yeah, I had a wd
(02:04):
I a weekend, had a good time.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I really did.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Thank y'all for hanging out with me and coming to
see me. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
And there were other folks too.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I don't remember everybody's names, but those are the ones
that call the show. Miss Ella she called last week,
I met her, hung out with her down at Kroger
down in Atoka.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Yeah, good time, all right, let's get to it. It
is National take a Hike Day.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
And it's not just take a hike day because you
know it's you know, somebody's trying to tell you take
a hike.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
No, it's actually because of the weather. The weather, you know.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
So with autumn winding down, you're running out of time
to get out and enjoy the outdoors without freezing your
backside off. So this day is the perfect time to
get out and hike. Hiking is not only great for
your for you physically, but the peacefulness and serenity of
(03:03):
nature can help set your mind to ease from stresses
of everyday life.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
M h take a hike day.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
So yeah, literally take a hike, get outside and enjoy
while you can. Also, it is Homemade Bread Day. Shout
out all the homemakers out there that can cook, all
the people that can cook. Who is the cooking your family?
Who's gonna be cooking Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1 (03:31):
That's what I'm trying to find out. I might be
on my Thanksgiving plate tour.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I don't know. My husband might retire me from my tour.
But you know, it used to be I would take
a tour every year. I'd go over to my coworkers
and friends' houses and get a plate. I'd be on
tour because I wasn't cooking the last couple of years.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I did cook.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Yeah, but this year I'm gonna be cooking.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
But it's gonna be a little. It's gonna be a little.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
All right, let's get to some things going on around here, baby,
because it's some things going on.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Why did she do it?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Did y'all hear about the school employee? And maybe you
know something about this story that I donwn this is
I'm not sure if this is local. I saw it
on Action News five, the school employee that resigned after
repeating a racial slur used by a student while reporting it.
(04:34):
So I guess she decided to say the racial slur
over and over.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Maybe I don't now that's a good one.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, y'all, y'all know about this story because I didn't
see where the actual story was that. I want to
read this, honey, And what word was it? A racial slur?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Probably the N word? Probably blue? Probably anyway, the school
employee resigned. She was repeating it.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because if you're gonna tell somebody that that the child,
a child said it or a student said it, do
you have to repeat the word. Hmm, do you have
to while you're reporting it? Do you have to repeat
the word? And why does she resign or he? Why?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
That's loaded right there at your news five. Come on,
tell us the rest of that one. I'm gonna dig
into it to see what I can find out and
shout out to Matti because Matta's got those free rides
going on. Are you planning on riding the bus? I
know some of y'all like doing that. Will you be
riding it now that the rids are free? And I
heard it's not just for the bus, it's for all
(05:58):
of matter's services. Oh yeah, get on the bus, gus.
It's a good time to do it because those rides
are free. And what in the world is going on
at Wolf Chase Galleria in Cordova?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
So witnesses reported that there were three to five gun
shots inside of the mall before it was evacuated.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
What happened we don't know yet.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
I was looking at the news channels to see and
so if you were out there and you know what
happened at Wolf Chase, higher at me and let me know,
because what is going on? And is everybody okay? They say,
it's a developing story. The story was I saw it
already a while ago, so I don't know what's going
(06:48):
on out there now. It should be updated, so we
should know more about what happened out there. But he
asked my question, and maybe it's just me and I
saw somebody raise this question.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Two.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
So the National Guard is here, and there's supposed to
be more of them here, Tennessee Highway Patrol, all of
these agencies.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Are in town. Is it just me?
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Or does it seem like the criminals all of a
sudden don't care because what in the world is happening
at Wolf Chase Galleria? But not just that, but even
some of the other stories that we've been hearing about.
It's like, what and y'all know them folks is here
(07:37):
because see and a lot of people have said that
crime has been better in a lot of places. Okay,
so that's fabulous, But what is going what.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Is really going on? What's really going on?
Speaker 4 (07:55):
Is it just me?
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Tell me you haven't wondered that, you know what I'm saying,
because and I know a lot of people have said, Okay,
so just because they're here doesn't mean they're going to
be inside of folks houses and all that kind of stuff.
But wolf Chase Galleria, there was another store where something happened.
And maybe they can't be everywhere because there's only so
(08:17):
many of them.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Maybe I don't know. I don't know. I I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
I don't know, But I'm wondering, seriously, what is really
going on? I do have a question. I know that
some people can you control? You' all tell me this?
Can you control who you fall in love with? Do
(08:51):
you think you can control who you fall in love with?
Because sometimes when you're falling in love, that's it's just.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
That you fall in love.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
And for some people, falling in love can be intentional,
and sometimes falling in love just can happen. Do you
think that falling in love is controllable? And the only
reason I asked this question because I saw the girl
on social media that's gone viral. She fell in love,
(09:29):
She is in love now. I don't know how long
her and this man have been together. I don't know
the backstory, but the story is gonna come out because
it's gone viral on social media. She posted November fourteenth,
a few days ago at one thirty eight m marked
the most pivotal moments of my life. Other than meeting
(09:51):
this man who has become my soulmate, he was my
constant source of comfort, love, and respect, and I feel
incredibly fortunate to have. Everyone deserves to experience the depth
of love and connection that we share, and I'm eager
to take his last name and start our new life together.
We would stop the world, or he would stop the
(10:12):
world about me for me, and I can definitely say
I found a really good man, and I am extremely blessed.
A promise to remain true to myself and to him,
to love him unconditionally, to stand by his side through
all of life's challenges, and to cherish respect, protect him
with every bone in my body and with every hair
(10:35):
on my body. His heart, mind, body, and soul are
safe with me, and I vow to always show him compassion,
empathy and understanding. You deserve every piece of happiness in
this world, and I promise to give it to you.
And she went on to say some other things, but
and that by itself, you would be like, oh, that
(10:58):
is so beautiful. But when you see their wedding pictures
and you can you stop? I mean you can't, can
you can can't in their wedding pictures. Evidently she had
to go before the court to do it, and the
whole court is behind bars. He's behind bars and she's not.
(11:22):
And you know, they took pictures and on their wedding day,
and he looks happy and so does she. Beautiful woman
and he's handsome. And I suppose maybe they have children,
you know, and one of the little girl is standing there.
(11:43):
She's taking a picture of her, of them. I don't
know if they if the children are theirs. There's three
children there, and one of them is literally on the bars,
you know, just you know, yeah, but that's gotta be love.
That's gotta be love. Can you control who you love?
(12:07):
And I guess I'm asking that question for young folks
because all of us have been young at some point
in our lives. And I'm not necessarily talking about them
because what she does look young, but she may not be,
you know what I'm saying. She's a sister. You know
how they say black don't crack, So she could be
(12:30):
forty fief.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
You really can't tell from the picture how old she is,
but she looks like she could be in maybe her twenties. Thirties,
but she could be older because there's really not a
great picture of what her face looks like. And even him,
but you can tell they're good looking people. But for
the younger people that might be listening to us today,
this could be a teachable moment. You know, can you
(12:54):
control who you fall in love with? What if he's
a drug dealer, but Mama, I'm in love. What if
he ain't got no job for mama, I'm in love.
What if she ain't no good.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Mama, I'm in love? Can you control it?
Speaker 2 (13:18):
What do y'all think? Interesting? And I saw a story
over the weekend. I'm gonna go to the phones here
in a minute. And because I see some of you
on hold hang on for me. I'm coming to you.
Y'all can tap in on that app and email me
to at iHeart stormy Tea at mywd i a dot com,
(13:39):
or you can call in nine O one five three
five nine three four two eight hundred five zero three
nine three four two eight three three five three five
nine three four two. I saw a couple of stories
on social media that just broke my heart. Maybe y'all
saw him too, The girl that went to the doctor's office.
(14:01):
She's pregnant. She goes to the doctor's office and this
is this is some of the video.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
Right now.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
So the lady she's screaming, she's in a wheelchair, and
the woman is doing an intake.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
This girl is about to have a baby.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Whoever did the video, I don't know how they did
this video without yelling or something. This woman had that child.
She had that child in the waiting area. They said
more than thirty minutes. The delivery was awful. Dallas Regional
(14:48):
Medical a hospital in Mesquite, Texas. Her son was born
twelve minutes after this video.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
What you been for.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Three? This is yeah, she was really going through.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
But then I saw another story very similar to that.
Then made me think, what is happening these hospitals. Man
took his wife to the hospital because she was evidently
in labor, and they the hospital made him leave with her,
(15:28):
saying that her cervix wasn't something It wasn't I guess
at the place where they wanted it to be. She
had the baby in the car. He had to deliver.
Speaker 1 (15:41):
His child.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Not know for you know, for some people, that could
be a great you know memory if everything goes well
and if you plan it that way. My son and
his wife, you know, they have my last grandchild at home.
So some people plan it. But ain't nobody trying to
have no baby or no car? What is going on?
Speaker 1 (16:07):
What is going on?
Speaker 5 (16:10):
And I know.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
Sometimes people, you know, they feel like, you know, you're
over exaggerating your pain or whatever. Neither one of those
women were over exaggerating their pain.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
I don't get it. Maybe it's just me. But the
lady who was doing the intake, she was she had,
somebody said on social media if I did not care
was a person? She was still asking this girl questions.
Speaker 1 (16:42):
Y'all heard some of it.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Anyway, y'all tell me what you think about all of that.
Let me go to the phones and see what y'all
are talking about on this good looking Monday.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
Hello, WD, I a.
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Good loring.
Speaker 6 (17:00):
How you doing?
Speaker 1 (17:01):
I heard you saying you're gonna get somebody else? Twenty?
That what you're doing?
Speaker 7 (17:06):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Who you said a twenty? You said something about a twenty.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Now twenty it's rims.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Oh, okay, okay, okay, what's up Jackson?
Speaker 1 (17:17):
How you doing? Hey?
Speaker 3 (17:19):
We're there?
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yes live?
Speaker 8 (17:22):
You remember that uh song? You remember that we're on
there song love the rap song. But anyway, how you doing.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
I'm doing?
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Said, I'm good.
Speaker 8 (17:33):
Did you say did you say something's going on at
the Wolf Chase?
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Yes, there was a shooting at Wolf Chase? Yes? Oh
really okay, Yes you.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Didn't know about that. I find that hard to believe.
I find that hard to believe. I'm not gonna call
you what I want to. I find it hard to believe.
Perhaps you get I like to watch it. I love
to watch the news.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
Or you could just tell me what happened.
Speaker 8 (18:07):
I'll have to watch the news like everybody else.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
Say fine, get it.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
Right, Fine, play play that way with us, Jackson player,
play that way?
Speaker 1 (18:14):
Five gun shots?
Speaker 2 (18:15):
There are five gun shots and then evacuated the Wolf
Chase Galeria.
Speaker 1 (18:19):
Check on your people.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
If you know somebody out there that works out there
or just you know, was headed that way, check on them.
Speaker 7 (18:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (18:28):
I want to talk about two things in the Lessens
grors Hey, I'm not sure. I'm not sure what your subjecture. So, Madame,
I heard you talk about Matter, what a great marketing
tool that Matter is doing.
Speaker 5 (18:41):
Because I'm always an advocate and always pushing for people
to ride the bus more.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
Because I ride the bus.
Speaker 8 (18:48):
Okay, I always say I got three hondas at home,
but I prefer to get on public transportation even when
I go out of town.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
I like riding the bus. You can see it ain't
relaxing everything.
Speaker 5 (19:01):
And this is a good marketing too, So up of
these negroes don't put the bus down saying it's just
for poor people.
Speaker 8 (19:11):
The bus should be for everybody. Okay, okay, that's a
good market tode. And and let me let me talk
about coaching.
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Coach it.
Speaker 8 (19:21):
I hope that they come back next not next year,
but the yeah after that, because because because I love
when they're here and staying talks about.
Speaker 5 (19:33):
Some guy slandering them or.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
Talking about them.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Yes they're seeing someone.
Speaker 8 (19:42):
Yeah, I hope they drained that guy. Because because the
only thing Kochic tries to do is to do great
things in this city. Bishop porters great job doing doing
things in this city. And all they want is structure. Sure,
and if you don't like structure, then you're barking up
(20:06):
the wrong tree. OJI wants the structure. That's all I
see with them. They want structure. If you don't like structure,
go go to somewhere else. Okay, whoever that guy is.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
Are you a member of coaching?
Speaker 3 (20:22):
No?
Speaker 8 (20:23):
No, no, no no, I'm a member of the Church
of Christ.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (20:28):
I like what I like what they do.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Okay, And like I said, I really love what.
Speaker 8 (20:34):
Bishop Porter does for this city. He's a great leader.
I'm down here shop and save uh.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
All right, bye bye? Jackson told I told you all
about that.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
He did that on purpose.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
We're gonna send him a bill because he know he's
not supposed to be doing that.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
He know better, He know better. You do you know better?
Speaker 3 (21:03):
All right?
Speaker 2 (21:03):
Let me I'm always messing with Jackson. But seriously, he
knows better. He knows about dropping names like that because
he knew exactly what he was doing. All right, somebody
tapped in on this app. Let's go there and hear
what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
He storm just tuned in and heard you talk about
men that are no good.
Speaker 9 (21:19):
I just want to ask you a questions, Thomy, What
about women that deal with men they know they ain't
no good? And this and that, and they want their
children to call that man daddy, to call that man daddy?
Speaker 3 (21:32):
What do you think about that?
Speaker 1 (21:35):
Talk to you last time?
Speaker 5 (21:36):
All right?
Speaker 2 (21:37):
Thank you so much. For tapping in. That's a tough one.
That's a tough one.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
I'm gonna tell you something sometimes I hate to say it.
There was a there was a point in my life
and I hate almost speak for myself.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
I ain't gonna speak for everybody else, but I do
have friends and family members that have gone through the
same thing. There have been times in my life where
I have dated a bad guy.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
You know how we always say I want a good man,
and that's what I want to want myself, a.
Speaker 2 (22:16):
Good man, And then you go date the opposite or
you're running to the opposite. Do you really want a
good man? I'ma be honest with you. When they like
what you just mentioned, sir, it's just a fun time.
(22:37):
It ain't a long time for some people, and some
people make you know those those you know. Sometimes people
do change. I will say that people do change, So
it goes, it goes both ways. Hey, ladies, y'all know
I'm on our side. I'm on our side. We don't cheat,
(22:57):
but some of us do. I hate to say it.
Oh that hurt, Oh my goodness, that hurt.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
I'm gonna have to take a break. We're going back.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
We're gonna talk and I'm gonna answer the phone.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
I see you guys on hold. You can get in here.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
Got a few lines open nine oh one, five three five,
nine three four two eight hundred five zero three ninety
three four two eight three three five three five nine
three four to two.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
Listen. We'll be back in a moment on the street.
Speaker 2 (23:24):
Looking forward to it too, there, So come on, looking
forward to seeing you. Somebody tap the app. Let's go
to the app and see what you're saying on today
store me.
Speaker 10 (23:35):
I'm hearing on the news that that guy that was
shot at the Wolf Chase was in the footlocker and
he got shot in his chest and then.
Speaker 3 (23:43):
He recently has passed away.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
So that's the news they're reporting on Channel three right now.
Speaker 2 (23:49):
Wow, Bye, bye bye. Thank you so much for letting
me know. Miss Patricia appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (23:54):
She came on in there, didn't she sad to hear
too all that that passed away mm mm hmm and
the shooting itself.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
You know what I'm saying, What is really going on?
Speaker 8 (24:06):
Man?
Speaker 11 (24:07):
A baby bow man, it ain't working, it ain't gonna
never work, ain't gonna know a halm, nothing I just
can't understand why you're gonna have a baby bow man
that can't do nothing for you. Hey, you get with him,
you had a baby, you got two kids, because every
time y'all go somewhere, you got to go in your pocket.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
What is he bringing to the table, isn't.
Speaker 1 (24:27):
That m m m all right, let's go back to
the phones. W D I A hello, it's this stormy? Yes,
sorry number one? What's up number one?
Speaker 12 (24:41):
I don't want to give you your bill A long time,
no speech.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
I know what's going on. Prince Charles. Where are you? Ben?
Speaker 3 (24:51):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (24:51):
I've been doing a little bit, little bit, you know me.
Speaker 3 (24:54):
I'm like you.
Speaker 12 (24:54):
But congratulations, I heard you got married.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
I'm done and I did.
Speaker 12 (24:58):
Oh my goodness. Well, I want to say this to
the both of you. I hope you guys have a
long and happy and great marriage together.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
That's so nice. Wow, thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 12 (25:10):
You're quite welcome. You're quite welcome. Everybody deserves some happiness
in their life.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
They do. Thanks.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Thor. I was listening to you.
Speaker 5 (25:17):
Talk and let me ask you a question because there wasn't.
Speaker 12 (25:19):
A lot of details that you give about this young
lady who got married to this individual. Now, the question
I pose is that, first of all, good afternoon to you.
Your call with the listeners, it's this guy serving time
for like.
Speaker 3 (25:31):
A couple of months. Is it years or it's a lifetime?
Speaker 7 (25:36):
You know what?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
That's a really good question because I saw this picture
and her message. They actually posted it a few hours ago,
and it's on one of the social media outlets, and
they said bars couldn't block their vowels. The wife shares
pics from her wedding with her man who is behind bars.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
There is no more details about.
Speaker 12 (26:04):
Wait see that.
Speaker 5 (26:06):
This is where I have to do the line.
Speaker 12 (26:07):
Because if this woman, if this woman married this guy,
he got life unless they got comfortable visits. I hope
I pronounced that way.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
I think he did pretty good.
Speaker 7 (26:15):
What do you use it? What do use to get married?
Speaker 12 (26:18):
If this guy got life and you and that's it,
that doesn't make any sense to me. I don't care
what I'm in, like the eternal.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
What love got to do with this?
Speaker 6 (26:27):
I need my woman is.
Speaker 12 (26:28):
There every single solitary day, but I get home from work.
I need for her to be there when she get
off from work.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
I need to be there.
Speaker 12 (26:35):
We need to be looking at each other at every
opportunity that we can. He can't look at the chat
behind bars every day unless she's pointing on one to
visit him every day. And even if she does come on,
limited to where they can touch each other, you know,
hold each other in that kind of capacity, if you
understand where I'm coming from. So to me, I think
this was a bad decision. Unless he has a couple
(26:55):
of months left on his sentence, then I could see.
But even then I would tell women, even guys, for
God's good, it's not the first time, just wait. Can't
get out and then't get married. It doesn't, It doesn't
add up a lot of questions. I have to ask
this individuals why first of all, and he's in prison,
not saying it's not good people in prison because you
(27:17):
change their lives, right, Stormy.
Speaker 5 (27:20):
The woman should have, in my humble opinion, she should
have waited until this guy got out.
Speaker 12 (27:25):
If he's not serving a life sentence, and if he's
saving a life.
Speaker 5 (27:28):
Sentence, then what.
Speaker 12 (27:32):
You just such your something to put in my books.
So that's my take on it, you know, Stormy, And
I mean, sometimes you can't have who you fall in
love with when your heart.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
You can't help who you fall in love with.
Speaker 12 (27:48):
Sometimes a person we that their states in my life.
I can help it who I'm falling in love with.
But I never believe in the term falling in love.
I either love you or I don't, because thinking about
falling in love, you can fall out of love.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
You wasn't coming from nah kind of kind of because
I think when you fall in love, it just means
that the love is deeper than you probably ever expected
it to be.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
And so I can live with that.
Speaker 5 (28:15):
I can live with that.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
Yeah, So I don't think. I think we say falling
in love. It's like, man, I felt, you know, you fell.
It's like you know, I feil for my husband, you know,
saying I fell.
Speaker 12 (28:25):
I fell long but you but you but you did
you know, but you loved your husband. But that I
think that's the term that that most people that hid
themselves or I fell in love like me, I feel
in love, but no, I loved this woman when I
first saw or I loved that, you know, one of
the two falling in love it at the stage of
my life. I'm not falling in love with nothing. Now
I will love her or I won't love her. I
(28:47):
will like her or I won't like her.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
But that's that young people. I guarantee you.
Speaker 12 (28:51):
I haven't seen this picture, but I guarantee you this
is a young it's probably a young group.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
They look kind of young. That that good looking people.
He's yeah, he's handsome. Behind bars, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 12 (29:03):
Yeah, yeah, but you know we're going to say this
stormy and I leave you with that. Most of the
games behind bars. That's all they got is time to find,
to say and do the things to convince a woman
to h to.
Speaker 3 (29:15):
Be with them. Then look at the Menanda's brothers.
Speaker 12 (29:17):
They got winner's line up right now, and he's got
been in prison for decades.
Speaker 1 (29:22):
Prince Charles, Yeah, okay, take care of.
Speaker 5 (29:24):
It's always saw me.
Speaker 3 (29:25):
Thank you for allowing me to speak.
Speaker 12 (29:26):
I want you and everyone to have a beautiful, blessed
face and healthy day and congratulations once again to your
your husband.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Thank you, Prince Charles.
Speaker 13 (29:35):
W D I A hello, I mean yes, see first
time caller.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Wait a minute, wait a holder, waiter, hold up, wait here,
come on in him.
Speaker 12 (29:51):
Tell Prince tell Prince Charles.
Speaker 14 (29:54):
Marriage has a location or situation. It has to do
with love. People that was your local death. Did got married?
Speaker 3 (30:03):
You didn't have been.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
Been only skuy died and got married.
Speaker 14 (30:07):
It doesn't not about.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Being able to in prison out of prison with him.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Mm hmm, yeah, because that you got people. People get married,
you know, whatever way they want to. But it it
led me to think about it. You know a lot
of young people out there.
Speaker 1 (30:23):
Can you help her? Can you help who you fall
in love with?
Speaker 3 (30:28):
You?
Speaker 14 (30:28):
You can't because because people like Prince away from the
commitments part of it, will never know what it means
to fall in love. They always look for child fall
in love me that you're trusting somebody, if something within
and yeah, point your heart that pece with that person.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
So therefore loved already there wasn't.
Speaker 14 (30:46):
There at some point, right President? You can't help who
you love, like it or not. You can't have who
you love because you love him sometimes and the person
you think it's the one that seemed to be there,
you think at least as important that in love.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
And love love is really an action word.
Speaker 14 (31:05):
That word if once in your heart, it globifies God,
how he puts one with another one done?
Speaker 12 (31:12):
Right?
Speaker 14 (31:12):
Situation, I got you any So you tell first child
to get married or final love.
Speaker 3 (31:20):
But then you know what it's all about. Get married
when when when when.
Speaker 12 (31:25):
One had turma counsel.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
I've seen people.
Speaker 14 (31:27):
I have seen people when one was coming out of
a major surgery and and getting married. I've seen people
getting married because if they loved that person, knowing you
must paralyze time.
Speaker 5 (31:38):
The person come too short.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
But they love that person with.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
The person that okay, mm hmm, so chriss ch you know.
Speaker 3 (31:48):
Always be just the friends.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Have a great day, all right, thank you? Uh, come on,
we're coming on in him, come on in him? Yeah,
I thank you, all right, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
I hurt you pretty good your phone.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
Unfortunately you call me on that that line that sometimes
acts up every now and then we get a call
on them lines. And yeah, but but we hurt you
pretty good. But thank you for calling in and being
a first time called. Appreciate that for sure.
Speaker 3 (32:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:17):
So people get get married for different reasons. I always wondered,
and I mean, it really isn't any of my business.
But y'all know that Chadwick Boseman is getting the star
on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, right, And I always wondered,
you know, and maybe his girlfriend will one day come
out and tell, you know, tell the world. I know
(32:39):
they were planning to get married because she was his fiance.
I always wondered why didn't they get married? Was it
because he didn't realize, you know that his time was
as limited as it was on this earth? Because you
knew that, you know, they loved each other, you know
(33:01):
what I'm saying. And that's like I said, none of
my business, but I just I don't know. I guess
for her because you know, they didn't get married, so
then she doesn't have any rights to anything you know
that has to do with him. But you know, I
know she will probably be at the you know, the
(33:23):
Hollywood Walk Fame and all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (33:24):
But he's right. TC was right.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
People get married for a lot of different reasons, and
they do. Yeah, y'all coming in tapping on this app.
We're gonna go back to that app in a moment.
But let's go back to the phones and see what
you're saying.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
W D I A Hello, Yes, can you hear me?
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Now?
Speaker 1 (33:43):
I can hear you?
Speaker 3 (33:46):
Well?
Speaker 15 (33:46):
Good good again, good evening.
Speaker 1 (33:50):
You know, good evening, Black Conservative.
Speaker 15 (33:54):
Yeah, I'm listening to everything's been happening at Memphis today,
and it's a sad day in the city of Memphis today.
Speaker 1 (34:04):
Why do you say that because of that shooting at
wolf Chase.
Speaker 15 (34:08):
Yes, you know, someone else have lost their lives. Unfortunately
they didn't get that time enough to prevent it from happening.
Because sometimes we think even the safest places are safe,
but they're not. But to make things even worse than that,
(34:34):
you had people today in the city protesting against the
National Guards being here, more National Guards being deployed. Y'all
haven't got it yet. Memphis, y'all haven't got the message yet. Yeah,
y'all just haven't got the memo. There is killing going
on in the black community. They found the National Guards
(34:59):
along with the If It's Safe Task Force founding individuals
who shot and killed a toddler.
Speaker 3 (35:09):
Do y'all get that?
Speaker 2 (35:10):
I did hear that story, Yeah, call it hold on
for me. I did hear that story of black conservatives?
Speaker 1 (35:15):
Yeah?
Speaker 15 (35:17):
Yeah, a child and and they call in every day. Hey, no,
President Trump, you know, oh come on, come on, wait
right now, falsely accusing him of hating black folks, then
a racist trying to uh uh destroy the country.
Speaker 2 (35:38):
None of that is true, so so so, so what
exactly are you trying to say, hang on for me?
Speaker 1 (35:43):
W d I a hold on? What are you trying
to say? Black conservatives?
Speaker 15 (35:47):
I'm trying to say that this this is long, this
is this have been long overdue, this problem with killing
and the crime problem in MESSI should have been, uh
calcul back in nineteen ninety three when the first official
black president.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
Spoke at Mason Temple.
Speaker 15 (36:09):
In nineteen ninety six, Bier President Bill Clinton, and he
came down to Memphis exactly for this very reason that
President Trump is tackling today. He also signed an executive
order to hire one hundred thousand new police officers. Back
in nineteen ninety three, he came to Memphis, President Bill Clinton.
(36:32):
I like President Bill Clinton. He cool, but he came
to Memphis. He came to your you all your city
in nineteen ninety three, spoke at Mason Temple along with
your civil rights activitists and leaders and so forth.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
Like the one y'all have I.
Speaker 1 (36:49):
Got you Black conservatives, I got you.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
M h well, they was saying in the recreation.
Speaker 15 (36:53):
But like the one you had, your representatives you had
today for the same reason nineteen ninety three were high
many years ago.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
It was a long time ago. Thank you Black conservative.
M Let's go back to the phones. Uh w d
I A.
Speaker 5 (37:09):
Hello, Storming?
Speaker 13 (37:11):
Yes, how are you today, my.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Dear, I'm wonderful. How are you today?
Speaker 13 (37:18):
Wonderfully blessed? Listen if I was at Themorrow on all
of that, Are you a new caller?
Speaker 1 (37:25):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 5 (37:27):
I'm not.
Speaker 13 (37:27):
I'm not listen, Storming, No, you cannot. You cannot fall
in love. You cannot catch yourself when you're falling. You
fall into feelings. Love is given based on what.
Speaker 5 (37:42):
You know and what you have experienced.
Speaker 13 (37:46):
Based on that, you give it.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
So you can't fall in love.
Speaker 13 (37:50):
You fall into feelings, and feelings are transient.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
They come and they go.
Speaker 13 (37:58):
But you give your love based on what you've experienced
and what you know. You cannot love a thing or a.
Speaker 5 (38:08):
Person that you don't know.
Speaker 13 (38:11):
You can feel a lot of things, but you cannot love.
I'm talking about genuine, authentic love, not thrill, not lost,
not feelings, but genuine authentic love.
Speaker 1 (38:28):
Well, let me ask you this.
Speaker 2 (38:29):
Okay, there have been a lot of people, and I'm
sure you know somebody who loved somebody but decided you
know that that person isn't good for me, right, and
so they decided to move away from.
Speaker 5 (38:46):
That because they just that transient feeling.
Speaker 13 (38:52):
They didn't love.
Speaker 5 (38:52):
They fell in fillings with that person.
Speaker 1 (38:56):
But what if they really loved them?
Speaker 13 (38:59):
They're no, what.
Speaker 2 (39:01):
They did was but they knew that person wasn't good
for them. Because you just said, you can't help who
you fall in love with. So what if they really
loved the person?
Speaker 13 (39:10):
I said, you can help pool you fall in love.
Speaker 1 (39:12):
Okay, you can help.
Speaker 7 (39:15):
Right.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
You don't fall in love, Stormy, Oh you don't.
Speaker 13 (39:18):
There's no such think, no, no, no, no such.
Speaker 5 (39:21):
Thing as falling in love.
Speaker 13 (39:23):
They're falling in feelings. Feelings are transient. They are interpreted
as love because it feels good. You cannot love anything
or anybody that you have not experienced or no, well.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
We're not talking about anybody or anybody that you haven't
experienced or no, we talking about people that you know
and that you have experienced.
Speaker 13 (39:51):
Okay, you don't fall in love. You give, you give
your love to them. You give your love again just
as you can g you can take it.
Speaker 2 (40:06):
I hear you, but I don't know that that I
don't know. I mean, I hear, I hear what you're saying,
I just don't. I don't agree with you, but I
hear what you say. I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 13 (40:20):
It's complicated, but love isn't complicated.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
In my opinion, love isn't complicated. It's not complicated.
Speaker 5 (40:29):
To me.
Speaker 1 (40:30):
It easy. It's either it's you either do it or
you don't. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (40:35):
You you you and and and and then you. You know,
when you get mature enough to realize, oh, okay, this
is this is what this is, you can realize, man,
I've been loving people all my life. You know, You've
got a lot of people say I don't you know,
they don't like people, don't like being around people, and
I and I get it. I hear, I hear y'all
because I know some of y'all listening. But you know,
(40:55):
when you get a certain age, you realize, man, I.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Did love those felps. I do. I do love people.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
And sometimes you get that, you have that aha moment
when you realize, dog, go on it, I love this.
Speaker 1 (41:09):
Person, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
And I believe that it is just there, but it's
it's comes from within.
Speaker 1 (41:18):
It is something that's in you.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
And I feel like a lot of us can't even
experience it if we haven't experienced the true love from God,
from the true love from God. If you ain't never experienced,
you don't know what that's like. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
But for those of.
Speaker 13 (41:34):
Us, and it's hard, and it's hard to do that
because what you're what you're describing.
Speaker 5 (41:39):
A stormy is unconditional love.
Speaker 13 (41:43):
And since we do there you go, right, since we
do not love unconditionally.
Speaker 2 (41:51):
No, well not all of us, because some people do
love unconditionally.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
See, it's not possible. Yes it is, yes, it is.
Speaker 4 (41:59):
No, no, no don't know.
Speaker 13 (42:00):
Yes it is perfect.
Speaker 1 (42:01):
No no, no, yes it is.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
No you don't no, no, you do not have to
be perfect to love somebody unconditionally.
Speaker 5 (42:09):
Okay mm hmm.
Speaker 13 (42:12):
Okay, Well, what attracts you to a person that you love.
Speaker 5 (42:17):
A lot?
Speaker 2 (42:18):
It depends on the It depends on the person. It
depends on the person.
Speaker 13 (42:23):
Okay, If it's how they treat you, that's a condition.
If if it's how they look, that's a condition.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
That that ain't what I'm talking about. I said, unconditional, That's.
Speaker 13 (42:34):
What I'm talking about. Those are conditions, darling.
Speaker 2 (42:37):
No, but I'm talking about unconditional love. You said there
is no such thing. I said, there is.
Speaker 13 (42:42):
That's exactly That's exactly what I'm saying. You're not listening
to me, darling. If you look at something attracted.
Speaker 5 (42:49):
You to your husband, that was a condition, that was
a condition.
Speaker 13 (42:55):
You love, But something attracted you to your husband that
was a condition.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
No, because I think a condition for me would be,
and I'm trying to understand where you're coming from, A
condition for me would be if if if what attracted
me to him was something I expected him to do
all the time, if if what attracted me to him or.
Speaker 13 (43:22):
A condition is anything beyond his existence. A condition is
anything in addition to him just existing period.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
Listen, I gotta go, I gotta get to I love.
Speaker 13 (43:40):
I love talking to you so much. You are so smart.
I love those profound questions that you asked.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
I love it. Thank you. I love talking to you too.
I mean we I don't know we we if we're disagreeing,
I feel like we're doing it agreeably, and I like
that we are.
Speaker 5 (43:58):
We are, We're doing it in love to love each other.
Speaker 2 (44:01):
Yes, hello, unconditional Okay, thank you for calling in. Okay,
all right, all right, bye bye listen, I'm gonna come
back and I'm gonna talk to y'all some more, and
hang on for mccaller. I'm going to uh y'all are
tapping in on.
Speaker 1 (44:20):
This i RT radio app. We're gonna go there.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
And and we're gonna take I'm gonna read these emails
and uh rah, because.
Speaker 1 (44:26):
We got to get to the bottom of this. I
see you, mister c c JS.
Speaker 2 (44:33):
Y'all hold on and if you want to get in here,
I got some lines open for you. Nine o one
five three five, nine three four two eight hundred five
zero three nine three four two eight three three five
three five nine three four two. We'll be back in
a moment, you know, because it's it's gonna get cold
pretty soon, and so it's probably probably one of the
last days where you can get outside and actually take
(44:53):
a hike. Yeah, yeah, unless you like hiking in the
cole not I. It's homemade bread day. Shout out to
all the homemakers out there.
Speaker 1 (45:06):
So I believe that love is an action word. It's
a verb. He loves me, he loves me.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
Not some of y'all have said that before y'all got
them Roses and y'all have decided you were going to
take a pedal and the last pedal would be the truth.
And it's not always the truth, but it's an action word.
(45:38):
And I often think, you know, having this conversation and
talking about it, I'm thinking about young people that are listening.
Speaker 1 (45:43):
To the show, because people will show you.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
If you pay attention to the signs, no matter how
you feel about them, because you could love them, and
it may be on request. Love who wants that?
Speaker 1 (46:08):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (46:11):
You want to love somebody that's gonna love you back.
The best way to know if somebody loves you, I
believe one of the best ways is how they treat you.
It's because it's not just a word you just say.
You know. I said to my husband all the time,
(46:31):
but I also show him.
Speaker 1 (46:35):
It's not just.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
Sometimes it's in the little things that you do. It's
the taking accountability for what you did.
Speaker 1 (46:48):
Baby, You're right.
Speaker 2 (46:51):
I was talking to my sister the other day, and
I know my husband is listening. I was talking about
this the other day and I said, you know what
I've learned to do. I've learned to say yes, baby,
And I say yes because it's easy for me to do.
(47:14):
He makes it easy for me to do that because
he didn't just tell me he loved me.
Speaker 1 (47:22):
He showed me. He told me. When he asked me
what I you know to marry.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
Him, I didn't have a ring yet, and I was
like yes, But he's like, have you told your family?
I'm like, no, I ain't telling nobody, because if you
like it, then you need to put a ring on it.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Well, he said he was putting a ring on it
and all that, and I was like, I ain't saying
nothing until it's on my hand. And so when it
was on my hand, that's when I told my family.
We call the kids and we.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
Told everybody, hey, hey, hey, it's going down. And you know,
but it's it's an action work. And you know that
scripture in the Bible. It took me a long time
to understand that scripture in the Bible that says love
covers a multitude of sin, because I ain't know what
that meant for a long time. And then I realized, now,
(48:26):
I look at sometimes how I love my mama, how
I love my family, and and yeah, you know, your
family members do things, they're gonna be wrong and all that,
but you love them. Ain't no conditions on that. You
know what I'm saying. So you guys have tapped the
app y'all are on the phone. You've emailed, and let
(48:47):
me try to read some of your emails real quick,
Tracy says, bad boys, good afternoons, Stormy. This is Tracy.
I didn't lose my virginity until I was thirty five. Girl, Okay,
I wanted a bad boy with dreads that couldn't be
tamed and didn't care about them white folks.
Speaker 1 (49:05):
They didn't get me. That didn't get me far.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
He smoked weed, drank and had five kids with four
baby mothers and I don't have one child. But that's
what I slick wanted in my heart. I paid the price.
I got used financially and sexually. You know, well, I
know better now. I think with some women and men,
you just have to learn by experience and not age.
(49:31):
It all depends on what you want, but you don't
have to learn by experience. That's why we having this
conversation because young folks is listening. You don't have to
learn by experience. But let me get to Tracy's email.
She said, I think with some women and some men
you just have to learn by experience and not age.
It all depends on what you want. If you are
in love with a man that doesn't protect and provide,
(49:53):
then how long will that last?
Speaker 3 (49:56):
Preach?
Speaker 2 (49:57):
She said, what will you be in love on the
street too? I think you can't control who you love,
but you can control who you marry and who you
deal with. I might love a man that has a heart,
but that doesn't mean I will marry him. He just
might not be responsible enough. This is just my opinion.
(50:19):
Thank you girl.
Speaker 1 (50:20):
That's deep.
Speaker 2 (50:20):
That's good, Tracy, that's good. PJ says, married behind bars.
Some people are just happy to say I have a
husband or I have a wife. No substance has to
be behind it. So sad for them. Love your show yep,
that's what they're doing. Yeah, and missus Jones, I see
your email. Yeah, somebody tapped the app and told us
(50:42):
that a person died over there. That win Chase situation.
Here's another Tracy. Hey girl, Tracy with a why falling
in love? Good evening, Miss Stormy. You can help who
you fall in love with. Most times it's not love
but lust. A lot of time with women, the act
of wanting love at any cost.
Speaker 1 (51:04):
For men, I think it's totally different.
Speaker 2 (51:06):
There's the show called Love After lock Up. These people
meet people in jail and think they're in love. Once
the people get out of jail, it is a mess.
Hold on Caller. Just like one can choose to hate,
one can choose who to love. Just because someone's saying
(51:27):
they love you does not mean love. If they are
cheating on you, beating you, or disrespecting your feelings, it's
not love.
Speaker 1 (51:37):
Enjoying the show.
Speaker 2 (51:39):
Talk to Talk Tracey, both them traces talking up in here?
Speaker 1 (51:43):
All right, Golden girl, what's up? Golden Girl? She says,
falling in love?
Speaker 2 (51:46):
Great question, but I think we're going to need doctor
Jeffries to elaborate more on that great show. Love you, Yeah,
I'm leaving Doctor Jeffries to BIV, but thank you. African
Consultants says, you have to love yourself first because you
can love anyone else. How can you love someone when
(52:08):
you don't even love yourself. I believe you can do it.
I do believe that some people don't love themselves, but
I think that doesn't mean because they don't love themselves,
they don't love other people. But I do believe that
once you realize you don't love yourself, when you learn
(52:29):
to love yourself, then you can learn how to love
other people better. Doctor who doctor Stormy, Come on girl anyway?
African Consultants goes on to say, the greatest love of
all this learning to love yourself. Black people must relearn
(52:52):
how to love ourselves as America doesn't promote black self love.
When you decide to love yourself as a black man
or woman in America, take a revolutionary standing. You are
marked as an enemy of the state. The proof what
happened to all the black leaders that decided to love
themselves and black people here in America. So yes, you
can decide to who you stand in love with. Yeah,
(53:16):
I hear your African Consultants. I don't believe. I don't
agree with you. And you love yourself and you don't
have to get involved with a movement. You can get
involved with the movement of loving you and raising your
children the right way. Reginald says, Love, thank you for
hosting a great show and expanding knowledge throughout the community
regarding love and its condition. To your point, true love
(53:39):
is unconditional and love is an action word. In my opinion,
love is what you make and who you make it with.
Speaker 1 (53:48):
Thank you, Stormy, Reginald.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
That's good right there. Some of y'all have tapped in.
Let me see what you are saying.
Speaker 16 (53:55):
Yeah, everybody cheats, and especially a woman. We don't cheat
crap as crap. I know this for a fact.
Speaker 1 (54:04):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 16 (54:06):
I've been on the recipient and of the cheating from
wives many times.
Speaker 1 (54:16):
Leyland, we don't cheat. Get off them.
Speaker 15 (54:21):
It's storming.
Speaker 1 (54:23):
I have a question.
Speaker 5 (54:24):
Can't a bad guy be a good guy?
Speaker 1 (54:29):
Ow, that's a question, can a bad bbe guy?
Speaker 2 (54:34):
I believe a bad guy can be a good guy.
Speaker 1 (54:41):
I do. I believe a bad guy. And how do
I know? Because I got people in my family. Member.
Speaker 2 (54:47):
People in my family are the bad guys, but they're
good guys.
Speaker 1 (54:52):
You know what I'm saying. They treat but they do
bad things. Mmmm.
Speaker 2 (54:59):
That's the that's deep, brother, that's deep. And here we
go back to the app.
Speaker 3 (55:05):
Good evening, Stormy.
Speaker 16 (55:06):
My name is Leland. I live up in Madison, Wisconsin.
I've listened to your show several times.
Speaker 15 (55:13):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (55:13):
I love the music, I love the poor Man.
Speaker 16 (55:16):
I listened to Stand three or four mornings a week
I've just been through a Memphis about five weeks ago,
and I was very disheartened at what I saw. Yeah,
Memphis is quite a sight and a lot of abandon men.
Speaker 1 (55:33):
Wow. Sometimes they on the outside looking in, ain't they?
Speaker 5 (55:38):
Mm?
Speaker 1 (55:39):
That's where they are, outside looking in at us.
Speaker 17 (55:43):
Look, Black Confederate Don Trump can stop block on block violence.
It's going to take black folks to solve block on
black violence because that is our psychological problem that black
people have. Okay, have to use psychology to solve that problem.
You can't you it's really do. You can't use sports.
(56:07):
You have to use psychology if you have a psychological Mmm.
Speaker 1 (56:14):
Interesting.
Speaker 16 (56:15):
I agree with that woman about the love thing. You
can fall in feelings. I've never thought about it that way.
Love develops later once you get to know somebody.
Speaker 2 (56:25):
All right, y'all on that app Let's get back to this.
Uh these phone see what y'all are talking about? Let's
see here, w D I A hello?
Speaker 1 (56:34):
Hello?
Speaker 3 (56:36):
Hello?
Speaker 7 (56:36):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (56:37):
I'm very good mister c J. And yourself and blessed
by it? Be with no stress.
Speaker 2 (56:47):
Man, you see you you're adding some new stuff to
that every time you call, So I can't say it
with you.
Speaker 7 (56:54):
Well, I'm a very inventious person.
Speaker 5 (56:56):
Okay, more even one.
Speaker 7 (56:59):
So it's always progress with me. Okay, progress, especially if
you're opposit six. Okay, progress women love progress, women love progress.
Speaker 1 (57:12):
Yeah, well I learned that.
Speaker 3 (57:13):
Mm hm.
Speaker 18 (57:16):
So you know you all talking about love today? Okay, Yeah,
there are many types of love, all right. Making love
don't mean you're in love.
Speaker 1 (57:31):
That's what people talk.
Speaker 3 (57:32):
You know.
Speaker 1 (57:33):
I don't believe making love.
Speaker 7 (57:37):
Is.
Speaker 1 (57:39):
This is just me. I believe it's if you're making.
Speaker 5 (57:42):
Love what you if they can say, I can tell
you that.
Speaker 6 (57:45):
Now, you're right.
Speaker 1 (57:47):
I'm always right. I keep telling my husband.
Speaker 2 (57:49):
That, No, and the whole term making love is supposed
to be with the person you are in love with.
You ain't supposed to be making love whatever. Every woman
in town or every man in town.
Speaker 1 (58:03):
You know what I'm saying. It's supposed to be for
one person.
Speaker 7 (58:08):
Well, now I'm gonna get.
Speaker 6 (58:12):
Okay, you know, oh well let's see now, Okay. I
am I'm very uh, very adventurous. I mean, I'm not
a traveling man, but I'm a I'm a very adventurous,
adventurous man. I love I love Brocolie, but I don't
like Brocoln every day.
Speaker 1 (58:32):
You know who you trying to impress? What's her name?
Speaker 5 (58:40):
Nobody?
Speaker 1 (58:41):
Yeah, you trying to you trying to impress a woman?
Speaker 2 (58:45):
You can always tell you what's their name? Because I
know you say you got a lot of them.
Speaker 5 (58:54):
Well, that's what I'm saying. I don't need to impress.
Speaker 7 (58:56):
Nobody because see I'm not I'm not twenty eight. I'm
in a twenty year old body, but I'm not twenty eight.
Speaker 3 (59:04):
I've been around, Okay.
Speaker 5 (59:07):
I don't here if there's no woman, as I tell you.
Speaker 7 (59:10):
All the time when I graceee that way, as I called,
and I say, the women I'm closely involved with has
moborns for them. Economic tis whether it's the academical that
I could economic to me to.
Speaker 5 (59:21):
Have more money than I have.
Speaker 7 (59:24):
I don't. I'm not associating nobody's broke. I'm not right,
not not in the in the arena.
Speaker 2 (59:30):
Do you know what if you were really missus c J,
if you were really a lover of women, you you
would bring a broke woman in now because you can
you can bring her up. See you you going up
and and and you you need to bring some.
Speaker 7 (59:46):
Lifestyle of change. The lifestyle you're talking about their lifestyle
and change. Okay, if I bring it a broke woman
to you too, anyway, you take me. I'm on, I'm
going to go there.
Speaker 1 (59:58):
Okay, you don't have to, mister c J.
Speaker 12 (01:00:02):
You don't have I don't have to go there.
Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
But I'm serious. I am saying I don't pay when
I grace see that way. But I called, and I'm serious.
Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
Is the heart I know I can tell.
Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
I can tell, mister c J.
Speaker 7 (01:00:16):
You know what.
Speaker 2 (01:00:17):
I love talking to you, and I could talk to
you all day, but I can't. I gotta go because
their phones are people.
Speaker 5 (01:00:22):
A broke woman needs some teaching. Okay, I'm gonna leave it.
You go there.
Speaker 7 (01:00:26):
A broken woman needs some teacher. What you can find
some go that, okay? Just because the keys on the
wall from years ago, I know where the gold is
my goal?
Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
All Right, I got this, miss J. All right, all right,
I gotta go. Okay, all right, I love you to
bye bye.
Speaker 2 (01:00:49):
Casanova. You gotta be a modern day casanova. D I
a hello, I'm a man, I'm good, I'm good.
Speaker 5 (01:01:02):
All right, all right, you've got an interest interesting subject today? Yes,
I think, uh regarding falling in love or can you
control who you fall in love with? Rather, I think
that the only way a person can control who they
fall in love with is to disengage away from a person.
(01:01:24):
That way, there's no opportunity for following in love.
Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
Wait a minute, hold on, hold on real quick, seriously,
hold on, hold on calling.
Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
So so you're saying you got to get away from it. Wait,
so if you're if you feel like you're falling in
love with him and you don't want to be I.
Speaker 5 (01:01:47):
Was speaking, No, No, I was speaking before the feeling
that even come along. Okay, okay, because because once the
feeling is there, that's what I'm about.
Speaker 3 (01:01:55):
To speak on.
Speaker 5 (01:01:57):
You continue to engage you with a person, and of
you know, you're you're working on a relationship. You're fond
of this person, that person may be fond of you.
You all enjoy each other.
Speaker 3 (01:02:08):
You like the way this person treat you, You treat
that person well.
Speaker 5 (01:02:11):
Everything you're just doing and before you know it, you
don't even know it, until all of a sudden, you
have this this feeling, this feeling in your heart, and
you recognize, I fall in love this person. You know,
so it helpens without you really not being aware of it.
It's like the wind coming you. You can't see it,
but you feel it. Yeah, you know. Yeah, and so yeah.
(01:02:35):
Even the term, you know, the term of falling in love,
I think that that's just a terminology that we use
to say that I'm in love with you. You're identify
that I'm in love this person because the action has
already taken place. She just wasn't recognizing it until you
get it. So when you feel that that special feeling,
(01:02:57):
that emotion for that person, you recognize, I'm in love
with him. Yeah, and you you you almost I want
to ask youself where did it come from? Because it's
like it snuck up on you. But when you look
back and rewind the tape and you recognize all the happiness,
the fun, the good times we've been having together, you
find you you recognize I'm in love, you know. And
(01:03:20):
in my experiences, that's the way it happens.
Speaker 7 (01:03:22):
You know.
Speaker 5 (01:03:23):
Uh, you was talking to the lady and the guy
that agreed with her, that said you fall in feelings,
if that's what you want to call it. But at
the end of the day, that special.
Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
Emotion we call it love.
Speaker 5 (01:03:34):
Yeah, you know, and so uh, outside of just disengaging
from a person before any emotions are developed. I think
that's the only way you can control who you fall
in love with, because you're not going to fall in
love with somebody if something is not going good, not
going right, you're not happy and all that kind of stuff. Now,
(01:03:55):
I don't mean that person is in love with you, you know,
hopefully it's likewise, but yeah, you know, you to come
out of a lot of good and happy fun things
going on. They love his actual word.
Speaker 7 (01:04:08):
But guess what.
Speaker 5 (01:04:10):
All the action is taking place as you spending time
with that person, and that's how you know.
Speaker 3 (01:04:14):
Thought in love m from the different.
Speaker 5 (01:04:17):
Actions that has taken place.
Speaker 3 (01:04:20):
Yeah, that's my thought about it.
Speaker 2 (01:04:22):
I got your coming, man, sounds good to me. I
mean you got yeah.
Speaker 16 (01:04:26):
Man.
Speaker 1 (01:04:26):
All those people that are.
Speaker 2 (01:04:27):
In love that are that are listening right now, and
they're just smiling, all.
Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
Of them, including me. Thank you coming man.
Speaker 5 (01:04:35):
I appreciate what though, you know what those last thing
I'm teach to strength, well not strength, but love can
be a monster because it can make you feel so good,
but it can also make you feel so bad when
bades get going wrong. You know, yeah, but I appreciate
you those storm that.
Speaker 1 (01:04:52):
I appreciate you too, coming man, Thank you so much. Yeah, heartbroken,
we don't want it. Nobody wants heartbreak.
Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
But we've all been there, you know what I'm saying,
haven't you? Haven't we all?
Speaker 3 (01:05:09):
You know?
Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
This one's for all the lovers. Get back to these phones.
Oh I gotta get to a break. Oh my goodness.
We don't come back and we're gonna talk.
Speaker 16 (01:05:21):
Y'all.
Speaker 2 (01:05:21):
Got the lines tied up. We're gonna come back and
talk to y'all in a minute, So hang on. Shout
out to everybody who's in love today. And I hope
your love is not unrequited. I hope the person that
you love loves you equally.
Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
You know what I'm saying. I hope they do. We're
gonna come back and talk some more.
Speaker 2 (01:05:40):
Y'all are emailing, tapping that app and you're on these phones,
and we'll be back to talk some more. Don't mar
giving you a chance to participate in the Will of Fortune.
Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
I'm gonna give you a chance. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
So today somebody's gonna win their way to the show.
Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
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Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
So they hit TV show Will of Fortune. They're hitting
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gonna be at Minglewood Hall, by the way, and you
could win your way by listening to me all this week.
You can win your way to becoming an audience member. Now,
(01:06:18):
once you get in there, we'll give you a ticket.
It's good for you, and I believe maybe another person
you get in there, you could be called up to
play the game.
Speaker 5 (01:06:30):
Mm hm.
Speaker 2 (01:06:31):
So you may get the opportunity to be featured at
the event and hit the stage to spin the wheel
and play for prizes including trips to Las Vegas and Hawaii,
gift cards, cash prizes, and more.
Speaker 3 (01:06:45):
So.
Speaker 1 (01:06:47):
May I hope they let me play? I want to go.
I want to play. That could be you, and I
think I'm gonna do it in the six o'clock hour.
That's gonna be so much fun. Well, a fortune coming
to us. I love it all right.
Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
Let's go back to the phones and see what you
guys are talking about on today. W D I A Hello, Hello,
call of you there?
Speaker 1 (01:07:20):
Hello? Okay, w D I A Hello.
Speaker 10 (01:07:26):
Hey. How are you doing? Hey?
Speaker 1 (01:07:27):
I'm good? How are you I'm good?
Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
Good good. Hadn't been able to get you.
Speaker 10 (01:07:32):
I was about to hang up.
Speaker 7 (01:07:33):
I thought, maybe I don't have her hey showing.
Speaker 1 (01:07:35):
Me, Hey, is this bird last?
Speaker 7 (01:07:38):
Yes?
Speaker 10 (01:07:39):
Yeah, shout out, yes.
Speaker 3 (01:07:40):
It was a pleasure meeting you.
Speaker 1 (01:07:42):
And I have a York and will I tell you
so much?
Speaker 10 (01:07:45):
Ya?
Speaker 5 (01:07:47):
Let me shout out?
Speaker 10 (01:07:48):
Can I shout out to a few people first?
Speaker 1 (01:07:49):
Absolutely?
Speaker 10 (01:07:51):
And this was the Mae Marcus and brother Brown down
at General Sessions Court, my former employer, and I wanted
to tell you I loved I a and I love
being retired. Okay. I was listening to you all have
a conversation about love, and I thought, okay, I'm just listening,
but I'll leave that up to doctor DJ Darty.
Speaker 3 (01:08:14):
Yes, you know I love.
Speaker 5 (01:08:15):
To hear her on Fridays.
Speaker 10 (01:08:18):
But but but let me let me tell you a story,
a little story, right quick, right cause anybody can tell
you I love you, right. And I met this fellow
and we went out a few times, and oh, I
love about the second or third day. I love you Now,
I know the game.
Speaker 7 (01:08:32):
Now I'm old us, been around the.
Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
Corner a few times. I love you too, you know so.
Speaker 10 (01:08:37):
And then I had the pleasure of meeting his granddaughter
when he wasn't around, and I said, I love your granddaddy.
Guess what happened, and next.
Speaker 1 (01:08:47):
Few days he gonna tell me.
Speaker 10 (01:08:49):
I showed me some money, thought he was gonna play me.
Speaker 15 (01:08:54):
Maybe I am not the one.
Speaker 10 (01:08:56):
And he found it out because when I saw him
at another at another time, around other people, I spoke
to everybody, and he said, oh, you don't see me.
I said, do I know you have a good one?
Speaker 5 (01:09:06):
Saw me here.
Speaker 10 (01:09:06):
I'm not going to play with and look.
Speaker 12 (01:09:09):
Look forward to seeing you Friday night.
Speaker 10 (01:09:13):
Yes, yes, yes, Hey I want tickets. I sure did,
and I will be there.
Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
Well, I talk with the same. Looking forward to seeing
your bird legs.
Speaker 10 (01:09:22):
Yeah, and I will be in the house at the
Lord said a sight all.
Speaker 1 (01:09:25):
Right down you too? You too, Yes, bird legs, ladies
and gentlemen. Yeah, it ain't just talk. If it's just talk,
it probably ain't love. W D I a hello, Hello,
How you doing, Stormy? I'm good? Big Casino? Is that you?
Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
Yes, ma'am?
Speaker 2 (01:09:48):
One and only, the one and only, y'all I met me.
I met Big Casino on Friday night, the one and only.
Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
Yes, it was a pleasure of.
Speaker 3 (01:09:57):
What you will go a long way, Stormy. You with it.
Speaker 5 (01:10:00):
You have a nice personality, You know how to get.
Speaker 3 (01:10:02):
Along with people. And knowing that means a lot.
Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
Oh wow, it you well, that means a lot. Thank
you just for saying that.
Speaker 4 (01:10:10):
Yeah, anyway, you know, like you say, you know, people
love people for different reasons, and some people love more heart.
Speaker 3 (01:10:19):
Than other people.
Speaker 4 (01:10:20):
Okay, I have a friend he mustn't feel in love
four times and been married four times. But my question
is how long do you think love lasts?
Speaker 16 (01:10:32):
Me?
Speaker 1 (01:10:32):
You're asking me.
Speaker 3 (01:10:35):
If it's really if I'm you know, anybody you know,
how long do you think it last?
Speaker 1 (01:10:39):
You know, you hate to say if it's real love,
it lasts forever, because I mean it is.
Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
I mean real love of course lasts forever. You know
what I'm saying. But I, in my opinion, God is love.
God is in my opinion, God is loved. God's gonna
be around forever, forever ever.
Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Right.
Speaker 4 (01:11:01):
You know, you can see somebody on the street or
family member, and the first thing that said I love you,
the first thing you gonna say.
Speaker 3 (01:11:06):
I love you back?
Speaker 5 (01:11:07):
You may not even love you, you know, saying no.
Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
I love people.
Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
So I think if I say a big casino, I'm
gonna be telling the truth. Hold on, big casino, w
d I a hold on for me. Okay, go ahead,
big casino. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (01:11:20):
Yeah, I told a whole lot of people I love.
I tell you know, I you know I.
Speaker 5 (01:11:25):
Will say, just don't have me for no more money then.
Speaker 3 (01:11:27):
So you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:11:30):
You mean by people? You mean women?
Speaker 4 (01:11:33):
Oh no, don't know women, you know what? No, I
mean them them ten people and cousins. That's you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (01:11:39):
But my kids, Oh okay, okay, I see what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (01:11:42):
You know what I'm saying my kids is something different.
But you know now, I don't want to meet no.
Speaker 15 (01:11:48):
You know that.
Speaker 4 (01:11:49):
You know that's a definitely turnoff. If you meet a
woman and first thing you do it at you for
some money. You know what I'm saying. It's okay to
get somebody the money. If you come over there laid
up in the house and stuff said to help up
with the yards and stuff like that.
Speaker 3 (01:12:01):
I don't see nothing wrong with that.
Speaker 1 (01:12:02):
Well, let me ask you a question.
Speaker 2 (01:12:04):
Let me ask you a question, because who was at
Birdles just mentioned this just a second ago.
Speaker 1 (01:12:09):
Hold on caller.
Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Uh So for women, young women that are listening to
me right now, for young women, young men, as soon
as they meet a girl or a guy, and and
and the first thing they do is ask them. You know,
they tell them they like them and all that kind
of stuff. But the first thing they do is ask
them for money. What would you say if that was
(01:12:32):
your niece or your you know, daughter, or somebody, what
would you think is going on?
Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
Well, one thing about it, I would it's courting what
they didn't need the money for.
Speaker 1 (01:12:44):
Okay, wait a minute, wait, according to what they needed for.
You just met them.
Speaker 3 (01:12:52):
You said, my niece, my nephew.
Speaker 2 (01:12:53):
Yeah, if it's your niece or your nephew and they
met somebody, they just met somebody. The person tells them
they like them, but they want them to give them money.
Speaker 4 (01:13:06):
Hey, if they give them money, so allright by me,
because they ain't cost me nothing out of my pocket.
Speaker 3 (01:13:13):
You know, I ain't got this mother. When nobody trying
to make a hustle?
Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
Okay, there you go. You said it's a hustle. If
somebody do that and you just met him, it's probably
a hustle. Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (01:13:23):
That's what I'm saying, is probably a hustle, Because then again,
you know, you don't want to you know, I just
put it like that. I don't want to really just
get involved with somebody that's you know that you know
they ain't got nothing going. We know if you talk
to someone for a minute, you can now almost tell
what's going on because you know I, like I said,
you know, I'm a professional poker player. I can try
(01:13:45):
to read you like I'll get out.
Speaker 5 (01:13:46):
You see what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (01:13:48):
That's what you do. But you, I mean, you wouldn't
want to.
Speaker 4 (01:13:51):
You wouldn't got Mari to your hooting if you think
it didn't have no car, no house or something.
Speaker 1 (01:13:57):
You know, not at this age.
Speaker 2 (01:14:00):
Now if I was younger, maybe, but but I you know.
Speaker 3 (01:14:08):
You know now you know what though you just you
just mentioned the right thing. I you know, I try
to preach that to something.
Speaker 5 (01:14:15):
My kill people.
Speaker 3 (01:14:16):
Y'all keep waiting around, waiting around, don't y'all know y'all
getting older and older. Y'all need to.
Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
Find some kind of man. I don't care what kind
of man here. You quit waiting on God to send
your man because you don't know that the right man
for you or not. You want somebody with this and
that and all that type of stuff. You can meet
the guy that work up for the sanitation worker, and
he'll treat you just as good as somebody else. You
see what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (01:14:40):
They really killed me when they killed when they tell
me they I mean, how do you know when.
Speaker 3 (01:14:44):
God sell you somebody, how do you know?
Speaker 2 (01:14:47):
Well, if you don't give if you don't give the
guy a chance, you will never know.
Speaker 5 (01:14:52):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (01:14:53):
Now.
Speaker 4 (01:14:53):
They don't want to give him that because here a
sanitation worker.
Speaker 5 (01:14:58):
So you know some good.
Speaker 1 (01:15:01):
Men out there.
Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
It's some good men out there that are sanitation workers.
Don't don't hold him down because of what he do
for a living. Vig Casino. I got a run, but
thank you for calling. Okay, all right, thank you, all right,
by great to meet you too.
Speaker 1 (01:15:12):
By the way, Uh w D I A hold on
w D I A hello? Storm was Clyde. I can't
call it Clyde. What was going on?
Speaker 3 (01:15:24):
Ain't nothing shaken. Don't wanna tell you it's doing. I
talked with my son.
Speaker 5 (01:15:29):
When you meet a woman and she ain't got just
as much as you've got, you might well keep it
moving so she gonna ask you talking about money. I
ain't an be enough fake.
Speaker 3 (01:15:42):
I don't play that.
Speaker 5 (01:15:43):
And Storm I'm gonna tell you people, Uh, you can't
never say, uh that you.
Speaker 3 (01:15:49):
Can control falling in love with a woman. I can't
do that.
Speaker 5 (01:15:53):
See because when I was out there in the streets,
out there storming, our meeting women and the only reason
I wan't fall in love with him throwing because my
heart know they didn't they didn't have what I wanted.
But now when I was at together, and I've seen
my wife across the room, cause I went there looking
for some more action. And when I saw her staring,
(01:16:16):
I know that she's supposed to be my wife's Wow.
And I and I I stopped pursuing her.
Speaker 8 (01:16:25):
And she really wanted paying me no attention.
Speaker 3 (01:16:27):
And I know she had to be the one dead.
Speaker 1 (01:16:29):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (01:16:31):
And and I gotta said and now almost nine years
and uh, I wasn't traded up for the world. M
You know, you know when the dyn come, you know
when the dying come.
Speaker 1 (01:16:43):
Yeah, that's beautiful, Clyde, just this, And.
Speaker 5 (01:16:47):
I think that's how your your your husband found you.
Speaker 3 (01:16:51):
You A man be watching.
Speaker 5 (01:16:53):
And when they see what they want, they take their
time go get it.
Speaker 2 (01:16:58):
He took time, thank your clod. Yeah, he took his time.
It wasn't easy, you know what I mean. And I'm
not bragging when I say that. But he did take
his time. He did, and and I'm so grateful that
he did. He I have never been the kind of woman,
(01:17:21):
especially since I've been in this business. Uh and even
years ago, I've would call people or call men that
I've dated. But I never been the kind of woman
that liked a man who just you know, called me
all the time. And because of the business that I'm in.
If it were different, if I were doing something else
for a living, it would have been different. But my
husband took his time with me, took it. Oh, thank you, lord.
(01:17:46):
Mister Whitney says, thank you very much. But he also says, uh,
let's see. Uh yeah, well, he was the one that
said that women don't cheat or women. Yeah, he said
women do not cheat. Okay, he didn't say that. He
(01:18:08):
said married women do cheat. Okay, anyway, old record. Let's see,
all women cheat the right man at the right place,
at the right time, they will give it give it up.
Speaker 1 (01:18:22):
We won't do that, let's.
Speaker 2 (01:18:26):
See, Michelle says, and you know that's yeah. I don't
believe that's true at all. And a lot of women
know that's not true. I know a lot of women
who were faithful. My mama was one of them.
Speaker 1 (01:18:38):
She loved my daddy.
Speaker 2 (01:18:41):
She did even after he died. She saw He's all
she talked about for about ten years after he died,
and maybe more because that's yeah, she loved him. Michelle says,
sometimes it helps to just look up the actual definition
of words. It's very possible for flawed people like you
and I love someone unconditionally. Unconditional love refers to a
(01:19:04):
type of affection that is given freely, without any conditions
or limitations. This means loving someone regardless of their actions, circumstances,
or flaws. Think of wedding vows. When a couple vows
to stay together in sickness and in health, that's unconditional.
Unconditional love causes us to accept and forgive on, ultimately
(01:19:25):
expressing the very thing that we are talking about, which
is love.
Speaker 1 (01:19:31):
So poetic.
Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
Michelle also, I'm in a relationship with a man that
slipped up on me and I fell in love with him.
Ah arrows romantic Wooh that Greek love. That's a romantic
love right there, has got a little six tied to it.
(01:19:54):
Love turned into pragma love. Hmmm, let me look go Pragma.
Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
I ain't. I ain't seen that one. Oh, they gotta
let that Pragmatt.
Speaker 2 (01:20:04):
I've seen dealing with problems in a sensible and realistic way,
focusing on practical, practical solutions rather than theoretical or idealistic ones.
Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
Mm.
Speaker 2 (01:20:16):
Pragmatic. You go, girl, and those big words teach you're
teaching class. All right, let's go. Oh man, let's go
back to the phones. W D I A Hello, Hello,
calling you there?
Speaker 3 (01:20:31):
I lost it, I lost it earlier. Your storman. This
is Mike from.
Speaker 5 (01:20:37):
Hello, Hello. Can you hear me?
Speaker 1 (01:20:41):
I can now? What did you say?
Speaker 12 (01:20:44):
This is Mike from the Manhattans.
Speaker 1 (01:20:46):
Hey, Mike, what's going on?
Speaker 11 (01:20:50):
Are we ready to come down and have a good
time with y'all?
Speaker 2 (01:20:54):
Well, we're ready for you to come and have a
good time with us.
Speaker 1 (01:20:58):
Man, come on here.
Speaker 3 (01:21:00):
Yeah, I mean enjoying. I'm enjoying your show tonight.
Speaker 12 (01:21:03):
But I just want to let everybody know if you're
the dog House, come.
Speaker 3 (01:21:08):
On out and have a good time with us. We're
gonna put you back in the house.
Speaker 1 (01:21:14):
Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2 (01:21:16):
Yeah, we only have a few tickets left, and those
tickets are uh at A and R Barbecue. I believe
there may be some you know, tickets still over there,
but yeah, that's that's where those tickets are. The last
few that are left are at A and R Barbecue.
Speaker 1 (01:21:38):
Mm hmmm.
Speaker 3 (01:21:40):
Wow.
Speaker 12 (01:21:40):
Okay, that's good, but we don't have a good time.
Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
We're waiting to be there. Suit.
Speaker 1 (01:21:45):
Yeah, Friday night it is own Mike. Now, what part
do you play? Mike and the ground? What do you
what do you do?
Speaker 3 (01:21:56):
I'm the base?
Speaker 1 (01:21:57):
Oh you play bass? Okay, I'm here. Now you're gonna
play bass on this one right here. That's what you're
gonna be playing. Can you hear it, Mike?
Speaker 7 (01:22:15):
If you doing it?
Speaker 13 (01:22:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:22:16):
Man mm hm, you're gonna play based on that one.
Speaker 2 (01:22:21):
Yeah, okay, all right, y'all better get them tickets, thank you, Mike.
Y'all better get them last tickets, because yes, it's gonna
be nice.
Speaker 1 (01:22:37):
I wish we're looking forward to I'm looking forward to it.
Speaker 3 (01:22:41):
Mm hmmmm.
Speaker 1 (01:22:45):
Manhattan is a bad baby, bad to the bone.
Speaker 7 (01:22:49):
W D I A.
Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
Hello, Hey, it's going good. How are you look at
I'm good.
Speaker 5 (01:22:56):
I'm loving your topic tonight. I thank you. I want
to just go ahead and weigh in on this topic.
Speaker 2 (01:23:04):
Wait a minute, I don't know if I've ever talked
to you before you were a first time caller.
Speaker 5 (01:23:08):
No, well I just called and talked about OJA.
Speaker 1 (01:23:11):
All the time, waiting your first time calling for my show.
Come on in here, Come on, come.
Speaker 4 (01:23:16):
On in here.
Speaker 5 (01:23:18):
Oh coming down?
Speaker 1 (01:23:19):
Well, welcome. What's your name?
Speaker 5 (01:23:26):
Yeah, talk to you. I feel like love. Love is
when when when someone treats you the way you want
to be.
Speaker 3 (01:23:34):
Treated, and treat them the same way. You know what
I mean?
Speaker 7 (01:23:38):
You know what I mean when they go out the way.
Speaker 2 (01:23:42):
Wait, wait a minute, Oh wait, you got that radio
on in the background. Turn that radio down and talk
to me.
Speaker 7 (01:23:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:23:50):
Yeah, you can feel what I'm saying. No, I don't
say it again.
Speaker 5 (01:23:55):
Love is when someone treats you the way you want
to be treated. They treat you the way you want
to be treated. They going all that they way, and
you do the thing for that person too, you know
what I mean. You know a lot of people don't
understand a lot of people think you know, money and
and and just no sometimes a love things you know, Yeah,
(01:24:17):
a little thing you know, and also one more thing
probably this you go.
Speaker 16 (01:24:23):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (01:24:24):
I like to say shout out to my boy Clyde KFC,
mister KMC and uh you knows okay, okay, they called
him finger licking good.
Speaker 3 (01:24:35):
That's my buddy though, man, which one.
Speaker 1 (01:24:37):
Way may they called Clyde finger licking good?
Speaker 16 (01:24:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (01:24:40):
Yeah, call Mr KMC.
Speaker 4 (01:24:42):
You know when I see that, you.
Speaker 3 (01:24:45):
Know who I am. Oh my goodness, we go all
the way back.
Speaker 7 (01:24:50):
He don't call back, though I know he will.
Speaker 5 (01:24:53):
But you have a good day, okay, I mean have
a good night.
Speaker 2 (01:24:55):
Job all right, Thank you so much, Tony. I appreciate
you calling is all right and welcome, welcome you call
back now, well you know I Willah, thank you, Tony.
Oh man, We've got some new family members. They have
called in to day, and I'm sorry those of you
that are on hold, forgive me. I'm not gonna be
able to get you today because I got to get
this classic TV throwback. Are y'all ready for it? Are
(01:25:18):
y'all ready for this classic TV throwback for today? Some
might say that I'm just giving y'all.
Speaker 1 (01:25:25):
The classic TV throwback for today. Some might say that,
but I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (01:25:30):
All right, don't forget to like and subscribe to my
Hate on Tea podcast. So that you can go back
to the show and catch what you missed. I gotta
go back and listen to the lady that I was
talking to in the first hour. We were talking about
unconditional love and all that. I got to go back
and listen to that. Yes, so it's the Hey on
Tea podcast. Like and subscribe. Go to my wd i
(01:25:51):
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Speaker 8 (01:25:54):
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