WDIA: Stormy T Experience 4 O'clock Hour Tuesday, December 2nd, 2025

He wants a divorce because she is overweight and more...

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Participating. Hey, hey, hey, welcome in, Come on in here,

(00:04):
Come on in everybody. Are you participating in Giving Tuesday?
Because that's what's happening today. A lot of nonprofits look
forward to Giving Tuesday. Yeah, they do, because this is
one of those days when people just come out of
their pocket and they just give whatever they have left
over from Black Friday and from Cyber Monday. Yeah, because

(00:28):
a lot of people were shopping. And I got a
question because I saw Jennifer Lewis and she was talking about,
you know, not shopping for Black Friday. Black people, are
y'all joining the boycott? Did anybody join the boycott? Did
anybody decide? Okay, Jennifer Lewis told us, And you heard
word about it because we've talked about it several times

(00:48):
on this station. Did you join the boycott? Because yeah,
she says she was not going to shop. And I
think sometimes that is easy for some people to say
than others. And the reason why I say, listen to
me good. The reason I say that is because you know,
when it comes to Black Friday and Cyber Monday, for

(01:08):
some people, that's when the prices are the best. That's
when they do their holiday shopping, you know what I'm saying.
That's when they get the deals that they want for
the toys for the kids and all that kind of stuff.
That's when it's cheaper. So was it the right time
to do the no spending for Black Friday? I don't know.

(01:31):
I don't know, and I guess we've talked about it
a little bit, but I'm just wondering if anybody participated.
Did you participate in no shopping or yeah, no shopping
for Black Friday? And I'm not sure if it's over yet.
I think it may be still going on, but just
curious if y'all are, if you got in on that,
or what you think about it. Giving Tuesday, the last

(01:54):
thing you want is to be scammed out of your money.
You won't, don't. Don't bet it won't do. So here's
what I'm want you to do. I want you to
know the charity's exact name. If you're donating to a charity,
if you're helping a charity out, know that charity's exact name.
Resist pressure to give immediately. High pressure requests can be

(02:17):
a red flag if they just coming at you, keep
sending you text messages and email. Maybe a scam. Watch
out for emotional appeals without substance. Make sure a moving
story doesn't distract you from understanding what the charity does
and how you know your money is going to help.
Check for transparency. Trustworthy charity will publish its mission programs

(02:42):
and finance finances on its website, verified tax exempt status
and registration because a lot of people give around this
time of year so they can use it for tax
purposes in January. So verify that this is an actual
nonprofit okay, And be cautious with social media links and messages.

(03:02):
Clicking a donation link within a message or ad could
lead to scams. When in doubt, go directly to the
charity's website. Use trusted platforms and payment methods. Credit cards
and established online donation sites typically offer more protection than cash,
gift cards and cryptocurrency. And y'all, when you're going to

(03:24):
a website, if you want to make sure that it's
it's secure, there's like a lock button on that website.
If you're online you want to make sure, like I said,
it's secure, look for that lock button on that website.
You know, check it out, make sure that everything is okay.

(03:46):
So I think sometimes when you're on a website, you'll
see a lock on your phone and sometimes on but
just check. Just don't get scammed, don't do it. Don't
get scammed. Okay, I am gonna be hooking somebody up,
sending somebody else to the Wheel of for it, and
shout out to miss Norma from craig Head County. She
won the first chance today to go to the Wheel
of Fortune. So I got somebody else. So make sure

(04:07):
that you're listening today because I'm going to hook somebody
up with a chance to go to the Wheel of Fortune. Well,
congratulations to matter. Okay. The experiment that they've got going
on with free fares on buses in Memphis, they said
it's been extremely successful so far. The leader of the

(04:28):
Memphis Area Transit Authority told the City Council on today,
as a matter of fact that Matta, you know, they
introduced the ninety day zero fair pilot program on November sixteenth,
and they said that, you know, they hoped that they
can expand this program at any rate. Interim CEO Roger
Holmes said in the first two weeks, overall ridership was

(04:50):
up eighteen percent across all routes, representing about three thousand
to four thousand additional riders per day. That's pretty good.
Total ridership was about fifty six thousand people from November
sixteenth through the twenty second. So maybe people that would

(05:11):
never ride Mata are really riding it and kind of
exploring the city of Memphis, and what a great way
to do it and not burn your own gas. Ride
that matter bus you never had a chance to do it,
go get on it. I remember I rode downtown with
my family one time and they came to town. We
all got on. We actually rode to trolley. That was fun.

(05:34):
That was fun of me. Okay, I got a dilimma here.
I want to tell y'all what's happening with this lady,
and then we're gonna move on to some other things.
But sadness went on social media. I thought i'd chaired
it with you guys, see what you think about it. Yeah,
I was talking to some friends about this too young lady.
She said, I married my husband because at the time

(05:56):
he loved me more than I loved him. Now they've
gotten older, the roles have reversed. He hasn't told me
he loves me in months. Twenty three years of marriage.
It'll be twenty four on tomorrow. He said he wanted

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a divorce by the end of the year. It's been
seven months since he touched me. We sleep in separate rooms.
We don't even go to church together. My weight gain
pushed him away long before. Now. He begged me to
lose weight three hundred ten pounds in counting. I want

(06:42):
to get back to my size or the size I
was when we got married, five seven, one hundred and
seventy pounds. When COVID came, we worked from home and
it picked up over one hundred pounds. This man said
he's not attracted to me. What happened to his vows?

(07:03):
M Real men love their woman no matter. I just
need to be touched. That's it. So basically, I guess
she's asking for advice, and a lot of people have
chimed in to share their advice. And Hey, if you've

(07:23):
got some advice for what, what do you think about it?
How important is it for a lot of people that
are married that your significant other, your spouse rather doesn't
pick up weight? And is that a conversation that you
should have before you get married, because when you take

(07:45):
your vows, it is you both say, you know, depending
on the preacher who married you, you know, it's for
better off or worse, you know, and you vow to
be in that marriage forever, forever ever. But that's one

(08:05):
thing maybe y'all didn't get to talk about. Maybe you
didn't talk about what happens and should you or should
it be that the vowels just are what they are.
You love me where I am, and I'm curious too.

(08:27):
She didn't give she didn't give enough information here for
me because with her gaining the weight, and I know
that's a big thing for a lot of people, not
just women, it's you know, it's a thing for men too,
but mostly because I think with men, men are more
visual than women are. So women have no problem you

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know with men who are, you know, whatever their weight is.
I think most times women are okay with that, but
I think sometimes men are like, uh, if you were
this way win a marriage, you need to stay this way.

(09:08):
But I don't know if that is actually the case
for you. What do you think about that? What should
she do? What should they have done? If you've got
some advice for them, call me nine o one five
three five nine three four two eight hundred five zero,

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three nine three four two eight three three five three
five nine three four to two for better or worse.
I'm sure they said it, because that's what most people
say when they get married, especially twenty three years ago,
because they well, it's almost twenty four tomorrow, be twenty four,
for better or worse. But what do you do if
your spouse picks up a little weight? You try to

(09:53):
help them out? Do you try to I guess you know,
go to the gym with them? Do you do? You
figure out ways to you know, help each other, then
hinder each other, because you know, it's one thing to
think about that when you're at least for me, when
I was single, I thought about things it's a different way.

(10:15):
But now I'm married, it's a whole different it's a
whole new world. It really is a whole new world.
You think about things differently. You do WDIA hold on
for me, wdi a hold on. It's a different world
because when you're in the situation, if you're in it

(10:37):
for all the right reasons, and a lot of people
have gotten married and your spouse's you know, gain weight,
they've lost weight, they've gain weight, they lost me. You
don't care you love them, you don't care you, just
like I'm here and I don't either. I don't either,
but I think sometimes I do. From experience, I know
now that if you are married, do your best in

(11:00):
your relationship to actually love the person you love in
the relationship with and talk to them the right way.
Some of us are so used to saying whatever we want,
but when you when you, when you're married, you don't.
You don't get to say whatever you want the way
you want it all the time anymore. Different strokes, baby,

(11:23):
different strokes, different strokes. So maybe maybe hey, I don't know,
but maybe maybe the love language should have changed, you know,
maybe they should have. And sometimes counseling is necessary, you
know what I'm saying. When you know the trouble, that
trouble is at the door. W D I A hold on.

(11:46):
You don't wait to fix it. You don't wait years
to fix it. Because the pandemic was how long ago?
You get right on it. Jump on it, you jump
on it. Let me tell you something too. You gotta
for the you know, ladies and fellas out there, because
we've we've had a lot of situations. Have I started,
Steve Oh, the district attorney Steve Molroy talking about, you know, crimes,

(12:12):
homicides in our city. They're lower than they've been in
a long time, but he said, they we still got
work to do. They could be lower, you know. And
and when you look at some of the homicides that
have happened, a lot of a lot of his, did
you know, I've been a lot of them have been
domestic violence. And I saw this story on w R
e G. Where a man is accused of shooting at

(12:33):
an suv driven by his ex girlfriend's new boyfriend during
an ongoing feud between the men. What they feud? And
I don't know, Jamille Berry, I don't know what happened.
I don't know, but it ain't worth it. Let me
tell you that right there, Ladies, If you dating a

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man and he putting it on you, and one day
he decided he's gonna leave you, let him go. Ain't
no use in fighting nobody, ain't no use in acting.
Let him go, don't be don't don't do it. Remember

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a couple of weeks ago, I read the young man
that talked about five minutes of his life changed his
life five minutes. And I'm not paraphrase because This isn't
exactly what happened, but he said one second it took
for him to get upset because somebody brushed up on him.

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The next minute he was shooting somebody or in five minutes,
jail prison. You don't want it, We don't want it.
You don't want that. Hmm No, and I hate to

(14:00):
hear that. You know, this woman is going through this
with her husband, and I hope they can work it out.
I really can. And maybe maybe y'all have some advice
for them. I don't know, maybe you can help them out.
Y'all can tap in on that iHeartRadio app. You can
email me Stormy T at my dowd i a dot com.
Tell me what you think, and again shout out to

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Matter because they got it going on. Matter. Matter is
helping people around here. People getting places and they're getting
on that bus. They're going places than they see in
this city. They are, they really are. And MSCs they
did their Operation Warm Hearts today taking those coat donations.
I think they're still taking them until five thirty today.
And don't forget the Warming Center is open as well.

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We'll tell you more about those things coming up. But
let's go to the phones and see what you guys
are talking about on today w D I A helloing, Hey,
I'm good, miss Kochshi. How are you?

Speaker 2 (14:56):
I'm well good good.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
As far as the lady.

Speaker 4 (15:03):
I better not lose weight just because he said so.
That's not if you lose it, lose because you want to.
And I'm pretty sure he's not perfect. I feel like
that's something he may want to do anyway. So I

(15:24):
would let him go, Let him go, because there's someone
out there for her, whether she's heavy or not. If
somebody got there for her, he just wanted to get
out there and play around then probably try to come
back qulling to her, That's what I would do.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
Let him go, let him go.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
You think it's you know, hey.

Speaker 1 (15:50):
Bye, goodbye. So how should she handle her weight gain too?
Because she said she wanted.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
To get it off, Yeah, because she wants to get
it out, not because he said so.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (16:07):
You know, like I said, I believe he out there
uh dipping and dabbing anyway somewhere.

Speaker 3 (16:14):
M he's just need an excuse, that's what he needs.

Speaker 1 (16:19):
Wow. Sometimes Yeah, it seems like that's that's that's that's
all some people need, is an excuse.

Speaker 3 (16:26):
Exactly, But honey, do you.

Speaker 5 (16:29):
Let him go on?

Speaker 4 (16:31):
There is somebody out there for you. And if you
want to lose weight, lose.

Speaker 3 (16:35):
It because you want to. And that's it. That's all.

Speaker 1 (16:40):
Okay, I got your m h all right, I thank
you for china is. Miss Anita said he must have
wanted a small woman when he met her. Uh, they
should have had a conversation. If she gained weight, will
he still love her appearance? Do means a lot for

(17:02):
some people?

Speaker 3 (17:04):
Or she?

Speaker 1 (17:04):
I guess you're saying it does mean a lot for
some people. Yeah, that's a conversation. Yeah, that yay that
you need to have and sometimes you maybe you didn't
think to have it. So do your vowels mean your vowels?
You know what I'm saying? W D I A hello?

(17:29):
There he goes PC. What's up? PC?

Speaker 6 (17:35):
Hey?

Speaker 1 (17:36):
What's going on? Prince Charles number one? Yeah? Oh you
like this call weather? What is cuffing season? You know
it's cuffing season? Right?

Speaker 3 (17:50):
Was what season?

Speaker 1 (17:51):
Cuffing season? What's they called coughing season? When I guess
the singles decide they pick one person to snuggle up
with all all cover.

Speaker 7 (18:11):
NAT want anothering gotcha, but not the wrong with that.
You know, woman, they shouldn't have to wait till the
winter time to do something. I know, I know, right,
that's all year around, y'all right there if you ask me,
that's just me. Hey, some a good afternoon for you
and your callers and listeners.

Speaker 3 (18:30):
Greet.

Speaker 7 (18:31):
I'm gonna disagree with the previous caller because it may
not be that he wants to cheve. He just want
his woman or his wife or girlfriend to do better.
When I wait, now, you made a statement, does a
moment ago Sam that I'm a have to disagree with
you on.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
What you said?

Speaker 7 (18:47):
You Well, I'm not to tell you Donald, I mean
stormy listens, women have have eyes to and they like
what they see. You made a statement that made a visual.
That's not always the case. Women are just visual as men,
and I can I can prove my point with you. Well,
you saw your fore friend now your husband, or your
fiance now your husband? You like that's that's that's right there?

(19:10):
Someone else right that, I guarantee you and most women do.

Speaker 8 (19:13):
I know the woman that I'm what.

Speaker 7 (19:15):
She said the exact same thing, and I asked her,
why did you deal with me? She said I love
them tall. Okay, well that's so women have that eye
too when they look at a guy.

Speaker 8 (19:25):
So no, no, no, they men are.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
Of visual well men men are men are more visual,
Prince Charles, hold on call her. Men are men?

Speaker 9 (19:34):
Are?

Speaker 1 (19:35):
Men are more visual? You know overall? But women are visual.

Speaker 5 (19:39):
Ga.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
A lot of women are visual too.

Speaker 7 (19:41):
But overall, if you took an honest survey, women would
come out neck connect with men when they say they're
visual and looking for something. Because one thing, I got
five sisters and trusting you when I tell you this,
they looking at their appearance and how they carry themself,
how they dress, they got good manner. Or the second thing,

(20:01):
I want all women to know this, and it's coming
strictly from Prince Hlle. Never ever, ever, ever, ever, welcome
to your man, your husband, and ask this here one
question because you might get a root away from this,
and that question is am I too side in this dress?

Speaker 9 (20:20):
Am I?

Speaker 7 (20:20):
Two facts?

Speaker 5 (20:21):
Don't anybody asks your man that question.

Speaker 7 (20:24):
Because store me, nine times out of ten a woman
knows already that answer to that question. I'm gonna show
you how good it is they ready for you at
that particular time to lie to them. No, baby, you
look good, nor will that you're too big to be
wearing that dress is too small and you too big to.

Speaker 3 (20:43):
Be wearing that dress?

Speaker 1 (20:45):
All right?

Speaker 7 (20:45):
Then after the harbat and she actually I told her
Heim if you ask me that question, I'm telling because
she did that one time and I had to bust
out and all that that dress is to white side.
It's just you, not the right side anyway. I want
you to have a beautiful boss and wants to eat.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Thank you, Prince Charles. Bye, Oh my goodness, y'all, beta
be careful. You can tell the truth, you know what
I'm saying, But you don't have to say it a
certain way. You know what I'm saying. You can say
it in a way where you're not m is it

(21:26):
just me? Come on now, come on now, you can
you can tell the truth, but you can say it
in a certain way where the person can you know
that you well, maybe it's just me because you don't
want to be so offensive to somebody that you lose
the entire relationship. You know what I'm saying. You can
tell the truth. Oh my goodness. All right, well listen,

(21:50):
we're gonna come back and talk. I see you guys
on hold, and I got a few lines open if
you want to get in not on one five three, five, nine,
three four two eight hundred five zero three nine three
four two eight three three five three nine three four
two will be back. Yes, it's cold out there. I'm
trying to tell you. I didn't expect for it to
get as cold as it is this early in the year.

(22:11):
Usually Thanksgiving week it's a little bit warmer, you know,
around this time of year. But it's cold. Nonetheless, it's
out there. So we've got warming centers that are open
just fyi in the mid South. The city of Memphis,
they've hooked up got a warming center at the Hospitality Hub.
They're located at First Baptist Church on the northeast corner

(22:31):
of Poplar and East Parkway two hundred East Parkway North,
and they're asking guests to use the entrances on Poplar.
Single women, men, families, and couples will all be able
to come to the location. They've got sacked meals and blankets.
They'll be provided to guests while supplies last, and guests

(22:53):
you need to check in upon arrival, but IDs are
not required, and if you are in need of transportation.
The number to call is nine oh one four eight
six zero nine three nine, and I'll go get to
that hospitality hub. Okay. I was looking at this story.
Me and my husband were looking at this story on
social media. We're not on social media. We were watching

(23:16):
it on TV because it happened in California, and the
California mother was talking to the news about it. So
so a California mother. She was speaking out after a
birthday party that she threw for her two year old
daughter turned into a massacre, leaving four people dead. Y'all
saw their story, including three children. Patrese william spoke to

(23:39):
ABC seven about the moments the shots started to ring
out at that birthday party.

Speaker 10 (23:45):
I to say is that I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
I saw all the mother and two children out there.

Speaker 6 (23:49):
If I didn't do anything to prevent this, I would.
I threw a birthday party from my little daughter, she
actually turned two, and I just wanted all my family
to come together, and the incident happened. Everybody was getting
red into at the round and just start cutting the
cake and all we heard was gunshots and everybody just.

Speaker 10 (24:04):
Goes to the ground.

Speaker 6 (24:05):
It was just unexpected, But I don't even know what
was going on. Everybody was inside. It was just a misunderstanding.
I actually thought it was my balloons popping.

Speaker 1 (24:13):
So the birthday party happened at a house and so
we were me and my husband having the conversation our
house parties over nowadays? Do you still so? I don't
know if I would kids party. Yeah, I would go.
You would because you would never think that something like
that has happened would happen. But have we come to
the age or time in life now where we can't

(24:38):
go to house parties no more? Do you still go
to house parties? Is it? Are they a thing of
the past? Because you remember back in the day when
you go to a house party, man and a house
parties were lit. You always had a good time. Well,
nobody trying to fight with, nobody trying to you know,
we no no drive by, none of the that you

(25:02):
always had somebody in the neighborhood that might have been
a little you know, but you never never never, never,
you never never. I don't know if I would go
to a house party now because things have changed. I
don't think house parties. I think you could go to one,

(25:24):
depending on who it is. I think that I think
it depends on you know, how safe you feel about going.
But but, but but would you go to a house
party right now? Are house parties a thing of the past?
What do y'all think? My husband seems to think they are.
I say, I don't. I don't necessarily agree. But that

(25:46):
story right there breaks your heart. It really does breaks
your heart. So let's get to the phones and well,
let me go to the app because you are tapping
in on the app, and then I'll go to other
phones and get to your emails as well, and see
what you're saying on T Day, Anthony.

Speaker 11 (26:02):
A lot of women when you first meet them, they
come to bed sexy and this and that, you know,
when the marriage first start off, then they come to
bed looking like they come out the field ed rag on.
I mean, whatever you start out with, you got to
keep it up.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
Okay, Okay, you come out the field. What in the world? Okay,
let's go back to the app real quick, Stormer, you
just tick on me. I'm this is mister C in
the DMV.

Speaker 12 (26:31):
I've never called you before, but you're trying to put
sugar on a statement of truth.

Speaker 1 (26:37):
Sometimes you can say something.

Speaker 12 (26:39):
Nicely, but it's not going to necessarily be taken nicely,
so that doesn't always work. But I just love your
conversation this evening. It's a beautiful thing that you're discussing.

Speaker 1 (26:52):
Okay, well, thanks, take care and thanks for your show. Oh,
thank you. Okay, here we go, Yeah, come on in here. Yeah.
I feel like if you feel like picking up the
phone and calling in, you're welcome to do that too. Yeah, listen,
I maybe it's just me. I just think that just
because you say it or feel it or whatever, doesn't

(27:15):
mean you got to say it, or just because you
can doesn't mean you should, because sometimes there are consequences
behind how you say a thing. You know what I'm saying.
That's what I'm talking about. You know, I've been watching
Blackish and Jennifer Lewis's character the mom on there. You know,
you watch that and you see how her and Rainbow

(27:36):
she calls a rainbow but that's not her name anyway.
You see how their characters kind of change because the
mama she learns that she can't just treat her son's
wife any kind of way and expect to live in
that house. You can't just say anything that anybody and
think it's Okay, it's what I'm saying. You know, sometimes

(27:59):
you got to put some jugg on on that, put
some put some sugar on it. Let's go back to
the phones.

Speaker 8 (28:05):
W D.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
I A hello, miss, what's up Clyde? What's going on? Clyde?

Speaker 13 (28:11):
Ain't nothing taking no storm?

Speaker 1 (28:13):
And you know you my girl.

Speaker 13 (28:15):
But I got to I got to agree with your husband.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
I don't do house party. You think house parties are
a thing of the past.

Speaker 13 (28:22):
This thing of the past. Storm they ain't say that
ain't like it used to be.

Speaker 10 (28:27):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 13 (28:29):
I've been invited to house party and I ain't.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
Show up because I know I wasn't coming.

Speaker 13 (28:34):
I'm glad I did it because some of them is,
you know, a little scuffler started, you know. So you
know I'm with your husband on that.

Speaker 9 (28:41):
I don't.

Speaker 3 (28:42):
I don't do no house party.

Speaker 2 (28:44):
The storm almost like all my.

Speaker 13 (28:45):
Life, I always missed with. And the girl that I
missed with had to be Slim and Trim, my partner,
my partner in them all said that they don't see
more more more bones on the chicken.

Speaker 8 (28:59):
Mm. But I just like manm and Trim.

Speaker 13 (29:02):
Now, as as you get older, you know, you you
know your your your your wife might have that Bill
Street body when you meet her, but as you get older,
she gonna change, you know. And if she gained some weight,
I'm gonna still love you just the same because you're
still the girl that I chose to men. So I

(29:24):
ain't nothing gonna change if you gain some weight, you know.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
But I'm like Beard White.

Speaker 13 (29:29):
Said, I don't go change and trying to please me
because I love you just the way you are.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
Oh, Clyde. Now see, Clyde, I wasn't expecting that. I
wasn't I wasn't expecting it. No, no, m m mm hmmm.

Speaker 13 (29:41):
And my wife goes to gaining weight, Hey, I wanna love.
I'm gonna still love just the way she got because
just the woman I chose to men.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
See, that's what I'm talking about. Hold on, callan't.

Speaker 8 (29:52):
Gonna change the wall I steel about. Mm hmmmmm.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
Come on, glad you took them vow seriously? All right?
All right, said, I'm gonna love you just the way
you are. That's what I'm talking about.

Speaker 5 (30:09):
Clad.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
I shocked me. I didn't expect it. Let me see,
I got an email here from PJ Comment to the
lady who wants her marriage. If she hasn't already prayed
for her marriage, that's the first thing that needs to
be done. Next, she and her husband needs to have
a conversation on what both can do to make the
marriage work. If he no longer wants to work at

(30:32):
being her husband, I don't think there is anything more
she can do. Therapy is the next step, alone or together.
When one has gained one hundred pounds, there's some other
things going on. The pandemic can't be the excuse. After
four years, when they both decided to have separate bedrooms,

(30:54):
that was the first mistake. When the intimacy is no
longer there, the relationships starts to disintegrate, and that's when
other people can come between the marriage married couple. Uh,
twenty three years is a long time and weight gain
can't be the only reason, because one can always lose weight. Wow,

(31:20):
its thought about that. Let's go back to the phones.
WD I A hello, call it you there?

Speaker 3 (31:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (31:28):
From here?

Speaker 1 (31:29):
Talk to me?

Speaker 8 (31:31):
What's going on? Stormy?

Speaker 1 (31:32):
I can't call it Neil? What's happening to Neil? Everything's
good over here?

Speaker 10 (31:37):
This is my birthday month, but it is every day
is a blessed day.

Speaker 1 (31:40):
I know that's right. Happy birthday month, Neil.

Speaker 10 (31:44):
Yes, ma'am. Okay, let me start out about it to
say you that the lady she's talking about her husband
and everything. Yeah yeah, But like I agree with you
and Prince Charles. Both men are visual, maybe me and
a vision women.

Speaker 8 (32:01):
Maybe me and I'm more vision than.

Speaker 10 (32:04):
You know what I mean, Like, I agree with you
when you said that me and I'm more more vision,
you know. But Wama should be visited you. She don't
bully take anything. Like dude just said later come out
of the field. I mean, yeah, you know you know
they was come to beg coming out the field.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
So here yeah you know, yeah, so you know you
started off all things and everything.

Speaker 8 (32:24):
But that's but that's how I always start sometimes. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (32:26):
You just got to keep that up and you got
to work on it. In any relationship, married or not.
Are got to keep it up. You know, I gotta work.

Speaker 7 (32:35):
Ha.

Speaker 10 (32:36):
It's gonna change. Nothing stage the same. We're not doing
the same thing we five ten years, twenty years ago.
So everything changes, Like class said, shout out to Clyde.

Speaker 8 (32:46):
Every time. You know, even when you get older, you
just I.

Speaker 10 (32:48):
Think, hey, don't you know. So there's a lot of
folks going out for them. Deal with the bb ws,
and I mean.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Not without them. You're talking about them b b l's.
Hold on, caller, you're talking about them b b l's
and and women get them. Shoot, let me know, win
the lottery. Let me win the lottery. See what.

Speaker 14 (33:11):
You know what you don't need You already stopped, you know,
shout out to your husband, like I said, you don't
need now something I see person yet if I've seen you,
he's one.

Speaker 10 (33:23):
So like I said, he he adn't think he got
to worry about.

Speaker 2 (33:26):
But what was the other thing you said about?

Speaker 10 (33:28):
Something about Okay, I think our house party is over
house party?

Speaker 8 (33:33):
I reclaud on that.

Speaker 10 (33:34):
No, in the day, we all had house power.

Speaker 1 (33:37):
Party were cool.

Speaker 2 (33:38):
Yeah, he's down there.

Speaker 10 (33:40):
You have somebody, uh like, who was that other that
movie anyway about the girlhead the party and the guy
started bringing up and getting the fighting and tearing up,
you know, tearing up stuff.

Speaker 8 (33:51):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (33:51):
But for the most parts, all the house parts were
cool back in the day. We even need a socially,
you can't do no more. But they have done with
it or they don't do it no more.

Speaker 8 (34:00):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 10 (34:01):
The close dancing, Yeah, close dancing, you know, dom the
social yeah, but you know, but you can't. But the
house parts are dangerous.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
Now.

Speaker 10 (34:09):
You can't even to a party for kids.

Speaker 8 (34:13):
There's some party with that fort doing some.

Speaker 3 (34:15):
Shooting or killing.

Speaker 1 (34:17):
It's real sad.

Speaker 10 (34:18):
Going with the world. Yeah, I mean, it's just crazy nomadic.
You just can't explain it. But I had to say,
I got.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
You, Neil, appreciate you chiming in, Okay, all right, every day,
all right, you two appreciate that. Yeah, house parties. When
was the last time I don't I don't know the
last time I've gone to a house party. But I
have gone to birthday parties for kids, you know, and
things like that. But that's been a minute too Well, No,

(34:46):
I went to a Yeah, I went to a party, uh,
house party, my son celebrating one of the kids and
the youth group and and yeah, nothing like that, jumped off.
I think you can go to house parties, you just
you just it depends on who throwing them, you know,

(35:08):
because you always ask the questions when somebody's throwing a
house party, who gonna who are all gonna be there,
you know. So, I mean, I don't know, y'all are
tapping in on the app. Let me see what you're saying.
Good afternoons, Stormy T.

Speaker 15 (35:24):
Dormy t the news in California City was at a
ballroom and said.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
It was over one hundred years okay, And they said
one of.

Speaker 15 (35:32):
The people who got stopped at twenty one years old
at a two year old party. Yeah, some of them
people shouldn't have been there in the first.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Place, that's right, some of them, you right, some of
them shouldn't have been there. And that's what I was wondering,
because when I saw the picture of that of what
looked like a house, that's what I was wondering. If
it was it at a house or was it at
a you know, a place. And now when I read
the story, it didn't say exactly where it was. Let
me see the people in attendance and a two year

(36:02):
old birthday party, okay. The mom, Patrese Williams, she said
that they were about to cut the cake when the
gunshots randomly started. She initially thought it was balloons popping
until everyone started to hit the ground. Four people, unfortunately
lost their lives in that shooting three children ages eight, nine, fourteen,

(36:25):
and a twenty one year old. Eleven people were wounded
and at least one is in critical condition. According to
the police, the suspect let me see. They suspect it
was multiple shooters, but no one has been arrested. It still,

(36:45):
even though it was at a ballroom, still makes you
wonder though the whole thing about house parties. Would you
go empty to a house party if somebody invited you today,
would you go? Even though that one wasn't at a
house party. You know, we know people have had house
parties where things have gone down. Would you go? Let's

(37:10):
go back to the phones here, w d I a hello? Hey, hey,
what's going on?

Speaker 8 (37:20):
Speakerphone?

Speaker 12 (37:20):
It?

Speaker 8 (37:20):
This is shoom boy.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
What's going on?

Speaker 1 (37:23):
Joom Buck had talked to you in a minute?

Speaker 8 (37:26):
Oh, I'm around. I listened to you day.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
Well, I appreciate that I listened.

Speaker 8 (37:31):
If I ain't call, I'm gonna guarantee you to be listening.

Speaker 1 (37:34):
Well, thank you.

Speaker 8 (37:36):
I ain't had a chance to congratulations on your wedding.

Speaker 16 (37:38):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (37:39):
I appreciate that.

Speaker 9 (37:42):
I do.

Speaker 8 (37:43):
So we're going off. He took that dolle and set
it down, didn't it because y'all get on on dogs
on phones and you can't tell y'all nothing. I don't
care about nothing that was born on.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Yeah, thank you for that. Congratulations. I appreciate that, I
really do.

Speaker 8 (38:08):
Oh yeah, yeah, I'm sure you'd be very happy many
many years together. But I just wanted to come in
on this store.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
I don't want you talking.

Speaker 8 (38:17):
About the storm on the house parties or whatever, because
my birthday was a month ago to day, not to
day the second. My birthday was November the first.

Speaker 14 (38:25):
Uh, so I did a little you know, I wouldn't
call it a party, but I did a get together
and I did about an invite only you know, so
it his grand posts on.

Speaker 3 (38:34):
So it was.

Speaker 8 (38:35):
I mean, we played some games and everybody had these
wrong post drinks and everything, and and we had a ball,
you know. But you can't invite everybody to everything because
everybody ain't on your level, you know, right, because I'm
half of my family only I ain't ever been in
my house storm.

Speaker 1 (38:53):
But uh, you know your family is it? Because I mean, well,
I don't want to get any business, but you can
ask me. So it is it because you know there
are those are people in your family that you will,

(39:14):
they little rowdy? What is it? Why would why haven't
you know? And maybe the same for me because maybe
it hadn't. Half of mine hadn't been to mine either,
so and sometimes it's not a reason, it's just that
they haven't, right you.

Speaker 8 (39:28):
Think about it when people get old of everybody got
their own family.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
And doing their own thing and everything.

Speaker 8 (39:33):
You know, when you haven't get together and stuff. But
like fourth of July whatever, everybody want to come to
my house and hit the pool or whatever. But still
I don't see half of them, you know, but uh, yeah,
it's what you do. So, like I said, mine was
an invite only, uh if you call me. I mean
I even put it on Facebook, and you know, I'm
like hitting on the inboxing you interested. If I didn't
answer back to you, then you know what it is? Okay, Yeah,

(39:59):
it's all the way do everything nowadays. Because who would
have thought something like that would happen on at a
two year old party?

Speaker 1 (40:04):
Right, that's a lot of people though, one hundred folks.

Speaker 8 (40:08):
Oh, I ain't know what that meant, but yeah, anytime
you got that many of us together, So yeah, I
probably had maybe maybe forty folks. I guess hey, they
showed up and showed out. Everybody came brought me a

(40:28):
bottle of mold, bottle of Jack or crown, or my
bar's full of stock. But I just wanted to come
on that baby girl.

Speaker 9 (40:38):
I ain't going.

Speaker 8 (40:38):
A whole year. I'm gonna let somebody else get in
and I will catch you on a rebound when you
come up, out it up. Make sure you wrap up good,
because it's cold and a cold hot on a Monday morning.
I catch you on the rebound.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
Start by June Bug, have a good one. Thank you
so much for calling in. Appreciate that. Listen, y'all are
chiming in. Got a few lines open, Lady d out
the gate. I'm coming to you. We're gonna get back
to the conversation. House parties are they over, and y'all
are trying to help this lady out her husband after
twenty three years Tomorrow tomorrow will be twenty four. They're

(41:10):
celebrating their anniversary. He wants a divorce by the end
of the year. She's gained one hundred pounds happened during
COVID one hundred pounds. She wants to get it off,
but she hasn't got it off, yet now he wants out.
They haven't been intimate for seven months, a long time.
Y'all help her out. So we're gonna read your emails

(41:33):
and you're tapping in on the app. We're gonna get
to your calls, Lady D Like I said out the gate,
if you want to call in, get in on the conversation.
Due So nine oh one five three five nine three
four two eight hundred five zero three nine three four
two eight three three five three five ninety three four
to two. Happy Giving Tuesday to you and you and
yes you too, just in case you forgotten. You want
to give to your favorite charity, Today's a good day

(41:55):
to do that. A lot of people give on Giving Tuesday,
and a lot of people don't have to give because
they spend all their money Black Friday over the weekend.
Them Black Friday deals were still going on. Then Cyber
Monday hit and they spent some more. Yeah, but today
is Giving Tuesday, so a day to give to your
favorite charity or you know, just do something for somebody

(42:17):
as far as the charity is concerned. You want to
make sure you don't fall into no scams. Give to
something you know is you know what I'm saying is
right or the you know, the actual organization. Okay, and
shout out to everybody who's got those Christmas lights up.
I don't have any yet, They're coming, but y'all with
the holiday season being here, just f y, I you

(42:39):
want to be careful with those Christmas lights. Okay. They
say that if you're going to put up Christmas lights
around the house, that you want to turn them off
before you go to bed. Okay, modern led lights that
they say those are safer than old school incandescent lights
bulbs that is, but they can still overheat and overload out.

(43:00):
Let's if they run a little bit too long. A
few quick safety habits, check them cords, upgrade aging strands,
and keep connections away from water. Okay, go a long
way towards preventing any trouble. Now for easy upgrades. You know,
a smart plug can even shut everything off automatically so

(43:21):
that you don't even have to think twice about it.
All right, I know you're opening up them lights, so
have the holidays to you and you and yes, you too. Okay,
let me read a couple emails. Let's see. Let's see Kathy, Hey, Kathy,
even in greeting Stormy. Just like a woman should not
ask certain things to a man, a man definitely should

(43:42):
not ask some things to a woman. For example, do
I satisfy you, sweetheart? Am I big enough for you? Sweetheart?
Or have I ever made you shake those legs? Read
between the lines. A woman has always been told ought
to boast or boost a man's ego and suppress how

(44:04):
she really feels Stormy. If a woman was truthful and
honest to a man or husband, I'm mighty afraid many
of them would not be able to handle the truth
that husband was honest about his feelings. So the question
is should we be open and honest as well, or
should we continue to protect a man's feelings. Love your stormy,

(44:29):
love your back. That's good at this, she said. We've
been lying to y'all for a long time, and you
know what it's like, I said, Sometimes it's how you
say a thing. You have to line. Sometimes you say
a thing a certain way, and it depends on you know,
the kind of relationship you have too. Do you have
the kind of relationship with your significant other where you

(44:51):
can be honest or they can be honest with you.
Do you have the kind of relationship or is that
something your building toward? Do you want it? Do you
want it? Sometimes the truth is right in front of
you and you don't want to see it. And sometimes
it takes somebody else telling you hey or nudging you

(45:13):
saying hey, you know what I'm saying. But sometimes you
love me in a in a in a in a
good way. Don't come out and tell me you know
what I'm saying, love me, love me right. And that's
if you're a friend or a mama or whatever. I've
learned too with my kids, I talk I can't talk
to them any kind of way. Them kids grown, Yeah,

(45:36):
but you can't talk to them any kind of way
when they get grown like you used to when they
was kids. Hold on, call her. You gotta you gotta
learn how to to do better? Do better. Let me
see h Dallas Cowboys, Is this Clyde? Is that you?
Says Miss Stormy stan Bell will tell you in a minute.
He's not DJing a house party. Mm hmmm uh mss Tasha, Tasha.

(46:00):
She says, Hey Stormy, Hey, hey girl, Hey for the
married couple, I just want to know if the wife
was the size he liked and she got sick and
gained some weight for the sickness. Would he still think
it's right to leave her? He just sounds like he's
a selfish man. Instead of leaving, why can't he help her?

(46:24):
By helping her, they might grow closer together. Just my opinion.
And ma'am, you don't need a bb L. You are
a beautiful You don't need that mess. Lol. Always listening
to love your show. Thank you, Tasha. Uh yeah, I
joke about it. It's it's an age old joke that

(46:44):
I that I say. But don't be surprised if I'm
just messing with you. Michelle says the wife should definitely
work on losing weight, since that's something she wants to do,
but she also needs to prepare a heart for her
husband to leave because it sounds like his mind is
made up. And yes, women aren't as caught up and

(47:05):
looks as men are. Men are quicker to leave a
woman because she's gained weight, but a mature woman is
more likely to look past her man's weight gain and
still be in love with him, especially if he treats
her right. Sometimes we'll love that joker even if he
doesn't treat us right, just because he's our husband shout

(47:27):
out to Clyde. That's how it's supposed to be. As
we get older, it's easier to gain weight than it
is to lose it. Yeah, and sometimes they call it
what what the love weight? When you gain weight, call
it the love weight. That's what they put on them
from them love pounds. W d I a hello or
happy weight? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (47:50):
Look, Leah, miss around. It seeks it well, we can
hear girl.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
He'll be that work bad.

Speaker 5 (47:59):
You know what you used to come see? That'll throw
you out.

Speaker 4 (48:02):
I was in the kitchen, I said, let me get
up here before she said.

Speaker 1 (48:06):
I know, lady, the home looks door.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
Then that lady number one who.

Speaker 4 (48:14):
In the world marry somebody and say they wanted the
boys because they don't gain one hundred pounds you that's
the maid. She needed to go and find her some
big on spray because number one, that's disrespectful. So you
wanted the boys because I don't gain weight. I hope

(48:37):
she listening. You got you invested now, young lady. Let
him gone on by this business. Let him gone on
by this business. Turn it over to God. Get yourself together,
because she don't found some little old hoochy mama turning
up down the.

Speaker 3 (48:57):
Street around the corner. Be real.

Speaker 4 (49:00):
See that's what's wrong with men is now, be.

Speaker 3 (49:03):
Real, be stray up.

Speaker 4 (49:06):
See Number one, women need to understand it.

Speaker 3 (49:10):
Go vice verse to me. If you don't like.

Speaker 4 (49:14):
Me, I'm gonna turn it over to God and I'm
gonna keep it moving. I'm gonna pray about it because
you can't make nobody want you, number one, and people
that that's disrespectful, they're gonna be disrespectful, whip you.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
Over, adopt you.

Speaker 9 (49:31):
Number one.

Speaker 3 (49:32):
Men do stupid stuff. Women do stupid stuff.

Speaker 4 (49:36):
You got to get that on the front ending it's
say this is what it says, till death do us park.
Marriage is the hardest job. Storm you got the work
of a marriage, just lack of beer. Anytime anybody say
well they I'm gonna I'm gonna throw the.

Speaker 5 (49:56):
Towel, then it that means you will.

Speaker 4 (50:00):
It was not true to the game to deal to
deal unless it's three things, unless you beating me, unless
you out here just don't know how to how to
come in.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
I have staying and another thing a dead breaker. Who
in the world.

Speaker 4 (50:19):
Set up married to somebody and they knocking on your door?

Speaker 5 (50:24):
Now you pull.

Speaker 3 (50:26):
Up all children.

Speaker 4 (50:29):
All children you can forgive in the fur, but you coming.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
Up in the here. You knew you.

Speaker 4 (50:37):
Was married and you went out and made children on
the outside. That's a no. No, I ain't gonna divorce you.
But you going over there where the baby because see, ah,
well you know none, no, no, I don't have to
deal with your baby. You got to deal with your

(50:58):
baby and d and you know what.

Speaker 1 (51:01):
It happens all the time, and well I wouldn't say
it happens all the time, but it does happen a lot.
Thank you for calling in, lady. Do you appreciate that
I got an email here from mster b. He says, Stormy,
you can't even go to the park anymore like we
used to do. Clean up your ride, cruise through the park,
roll down Crinshaw Boulevard on a Sunday afternoon. Can't do

(51:23):
that anymore. Mm hmmm mmmmm, can't do it. Let's go
back to the app and see what you're saying on
this apod.

Speaker 3 (51:37):
Hey w D I a Memphis, Tennessee.

Speaker 4 (51:41):
Yeah, in regards to your topic of conversation today.

Speaker 3 (51:47):
Some things a better.

Speaker 1 (51:50):
Left America's Georgia in the house doing a great job
to me.

Speaker 3 (51:58):
Stormy T from G I ain't.

Speaker 1 (52:03):
I like you? Thank you. Hold on, caller, let's go
back to the phones. WD I A hello, Hey, what's
going on?

Speaker 2 (52:10):
Storming?

Speaker 5 (52:11):
Stop coming?

Speaker 1 (52:11):
Man, I cannot call her? Okay, do it?

Speaker 2 (52:14):
Okay, I'm just feeling waiting on dinner.

Speaker 14 (52:17):
That's our right, h Yeah. A couple comings right quick.
About the birthday party, I was okay with with the
twenty one year olds and however, you know, with the
grown people being there, because she said that she wanted
all of her family to be there to celebrate celebrate
the birth, the baby's birthday.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
Yeah, so that's what she wanted.

Speaker 14 (52:37):
She wanted her whole family to be there. But on
the news, I think yesterday I heard that it's uh,
the police thinks that it was ganger related. So it
may be more to it than we know, you know,
or we may be assuming about this. The lady, the wife,
the husband and wife.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
You know, you asked about the bows.

Speaker 14 (52:57):
You know, some people don't even remember their val was
less known honoring the bows, you know, And I think
a lot of people get caught up in the moment
when it comes to the bows, you know.

Speaker 2 (53:10):
The lady said she weighed one hundred and seventy pounds.

Speaker 14 (53:13):
I guess when they got married or.

Speaker 5 (53:14):
Whatever, when they got together.

Speaker 8 (53:15):
Whatever.

Speaker 14 (53:16):
Yeah, she wants to lose the weight herself. You know,
I fall in love with you his way. Now you're
like this.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
Now, if it was me, it wouldn't have taken one
hundred plus pounds.

Speaker 14 (53:28):
For me to say something. I would have said something
after about fifteen or twenty pounds. I would have talked
to him.

Speaker 1 (53:33):
Well, listen, you know, like listen at this coming man,
she said. I went back and read it again. She said.
It's been seven months since he touched her. We sleep
in separate rooms. We don't even go to church together.
My weight game pushed him away long before. Now he
begged me to lose weight.

Speaker 14 (53:54):
Well, see, she didn't try to work with him, you know.
And that's the thing about it.

Speaker 8 (53:59):
He was honest about He.

Speaker 2 (54:00):
Was letting her know that baby, you know, I'm not.

Speaker 14 (54:03):
Attracted to you gaging all this weight, you know.

Speaker 2 (54:06):
And how he said it, I don't.

Speaker 9 (54:08):
Know, but to me, that was the thing to do.

Speaker 14 (54:10):
Address her about the weight game. Now, is it something
related to a help you know, or whatever it may be.

Speaker 1 (54:15):
See all that she said it she said it was
when COVID happened. She was working from home, and that's
how she picked it up.

Speaker 14 (54:24):
Right, Okay, so the conversation was held and she didn't
try to do anything about it, you know. So you know,
I mean, I'm gonna be honest, if one hundred plus
pounds too much for me to try to deal with,
if I'm no longer attracted to you like that, that's
just the truth. I tried to have the conversation with
you about it. You didn't try to do anything about it,

(54:46):
you know. Now, I would say that if he was
willing to try to work well again and they do
something about that'll be great. Maybe some cancel. I don't
even think it take canceling.

Speaker 2 (54:57):
Maybe she just tried to lose.

Speaker 9 (54:59):
Weight, you know.

Speaker 14 (55:00):
Maybe they can work through it, work through it. But
at this point, I don't think he's attracted to it
like that.

Speaker 2 (55:04):
She probably she probably don't even feel good about herself.

Speaker 14 (55:07):
To be honest, she said she were like five six fast,
seven over three hundred pounds. Come on, now, yeah, she
probably don't feel good about it. As a matter of fact,
she did say she wanted to lose the weight, you know,
So maybe hopefully she could lose lose some weight, talk
to him and tell him she'll work at it, she'll
really work hard with it.

Speaker 2 (55:25):
He asked him to work with.

Speaker 14 (55:26):
You back, well, she not even listening on things. But
if she asked him to work with her, that'll be
good too. Yeah, and maybe they could grow back together.
Yeah you know so, yeah, that's my take, honest onm it.

Speaker 1 (55:38):
I got you coming, man, appreciate you calling in and
getting through that man. You went through you and up
all up through them, all right now, all right now sure, yeah,
let me see, She says, when COVID came, we worked
from home and I picked up one hundred pounds. This
man said he's not attracted to me. What happened to
his vows?

Speaker 3 (56:00):
That is?

Speaker 1 (56:02):
That's interesting because when common man was talking, that's when
I went back to looking. She said, he begged me.
He begged me. So the conversation was had. But but
then it's like, because I know sometimes when women gain weight,
hold on call it. When women gain weight, it's difficult

(56:23):
to lose weight, especially when you're going through menopause. It's
a mother. Minnopause is a mother. I don't know. I
ain't talking about the good one either. All right, let's
go to the phones. WD I A hello, Hey, hey

(56:44):
there he saw Hey, let me put my glasses off.

Speaker 5 (56:50):
I just wanted to say to the young lady, Uh,
it's tamped out here to lose weight.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
You know, you can't.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Listen to the negatives on people to.

Speaker 5 (56:58):
Now you know, you go want to get the weight
loss shot or whatever.

Speaker 3 (57:02):
Because I don't know did she hear that.

Speaker 5 (57:04):
Story from Serenity Serena Williams, Because she said she couldn't
get the weight off, and she did the shot and
she got it off, So it's okay if you can't do.

Speaker 8 (57:14):
It by yourself.

Speaker 5 (57:15):
And one guy called in and said something about how
the women come.

Speaker 1 (57:20):
To bed, how y'all come to bed looking?

Speaker 5 (57:23):
I mean, why is it always about how to want
the woman come to be here?

Speaker 1 (57:26):
You know?

Speaker 5 (57:27):
So I feel like men are insecure also, they say, also,
because you know, I'm not insecure, but they insecure about
things that happened to their bodies and mine, and so
so if they can jump in and at the bed
with Susan Karen p Yt, they don't. They just that's
that's they feel like they still.

Speaker 1 (57:46):
Have it going on.

Speaker 5 (57:47):
So it's just an excuse, and don't let.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
Him break you down.

Speaker 5 (57:52):
Get that weight off and live your life and feel
like that you're beautiful no matter.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
What he say.

Speaker 5 (57:58):
And then house parties, they don't own a clown a
house part of Stormy. They clown that suner rooms repass right.
So you know it's so you just have to watch
where you're going these days. You just can't. You can't
go anywhere because super clown all the time. So you
just have to watch what company.

Speaker 3 (58:17):
That you keep.

Speaker 1 (58:19):
All right, all right, you appreciate your calling the okay,
bye bye, all right, bye bye. W D I A hello.

Speaker 5 (58:28):
I wasn't gonna call, but.

Speaker 3 (58:30):
That degree officiativity.

Speaker 1 (58:33):
How you doing? What it's out of the uh oh
bird legs? You call me on that chipmunk line. Call
me back, okay because I want to hear what you've
got to say, because it's all like you got to
say something.

Speaker 3 (58:46):
Oh I'm pissed.

Speaker 1 (58:47):
Okay, I'm all right, god bye bye, all right bye bye,
uh w D I A hello, Hey there, hey TC,
hang on for me. W D I A hold on
talk to him at TC.

Speaker 2 (59:04):
This is my second time calling you.

Speaker 5 (59:06):
I enjoyed the sisson when it comes to marriage.

Speaker 3 (59:09):
If I was staying.

Speaker 5 (59:11):
If he has wait, he should work with her. He
should find a way to stay together.

Speaker 1 (59:17):
Coming up. It's so easy to walk up away.

Speaker 5 (59:20):
Yo, God listening all our hay and still trying to
find a way to show us his love for We
gotta stop judging up her. She might have a mental
challenge and this.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
Is a problem.

Speaker 3 (59:32):
Yeah, you know, you don't forget.

Speaker 5 (59:35):
That when it get any waits that sometimes it takes.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
Get off of me.

Speaker 5 (59:38):
And then I also get called from the thing about
I can't be went and by some subject that you
put that on your mind.

Speaker 7 (59:45):
So he should have for a way to help her.

Speaker 1 (59:48):
That's he's married to her. That's right, that's right. Hold on, caller,
TC you you call me on that chipmunk line too.
I hate to tell you that, but but I can
hear you a little bit, So that's good. I think
I've understood everything that you've said.

Speaker 7 (01:00:04):
Can you hear me a little bit better?

Speaker 9 (01:00:06):
Well?

Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
I can, Yeah, I can hear you. It's just that
it was you know, a little bit, just a little.

Speaker 5 (01:00:12):
Bit, okay, Okay, thanks er, thank you for your time.

Speaker 1 (01:00:16):
All right, you too, you too, Thank you so much. Yeah,
I heard what you said though, just f y, I
I did hear you. It was just a little bit
where it was popping. So feel free to call back
if you want to. Okay, uh yeah, these lines, I
don't know what's gonna be lyning the Sometimes these learns
be doing some some some things, don't they w D
I A hello.

Speaker 5 (01:00:37):
I hope I'm not on?

Speaker 2 (01:00:39):
Oh you go?

Speaker 4 (01:00:39):
You good?

Speaker 1 (01:00:40):
You sounding loud and clear?

Speaker 5 (01:00:41):
Now I said he got this off that I have
to be this didn't let me let me say this here.
I agree with Lady D and the lady that sent
to email. Yes, we lie a lot. We still lied
to me. We don't want to hurt that feelings because
their sensitivity is much much stronger than ours.

Speaker 3 (01:00:58):
You know what Judge told her, says that.

Speaker 5 (01:01:01):
All the time, don't let anyone tell you they don't
want you more than once. And that's basically what to
me of what he's saying to her.

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
You know what, we have enough. I'm joked up.

Speaker 5 (01:01:12):
We have enough problem as women in the first place.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
You know, u'mderstanding what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:01:18):
Brother, that's from medicine stress. He probably stretched her out
so much as why you set around and chewed or
whatever on medicine or whatever the case may be. But
there's a man on Tiktop that has a wife that
had three strokes. I just can't call their name, but
he is on there all the time with his wife.
She was beautiful before then and she's very, very sick now.
But that man takes care of his wife. I have

(01:01:38):
someone near and dear to me right now. Stormy husband
treated her like a dog. He's lying about that Baptist's
hospital for two months now with a two down his throat,
pig in the stomach. I mean the whole nine years.

Speaker 3 (01:01:51):
And you know what, she's right there by his side.

Speaker 5 (01:01:54):
Wow, he's right there by his side. Do you hear
me what I want to say? Oh my seven months touching?
What I want to say to that young lady. Well,
before I say that, I want to say this. Nursing
homes are full of men. I've been to quite a
few over the set over the last few years because
my brother had us broke and he was in different place.

Speaker 2 (01:02:13):
You're with a fan.

Speaker 5 (01:02:15):
Nursing homes are full of men in their alone and
no one is visiting.

Speaker 9 (01:02:18):
And men, you better think.

Speaker 5 (01:02:20):
Twice before you do what you're doing with your family.
Your children and your wife and whomever. So you don't
end up in a nursing home. Because something can happen
to either one of us where you lose a limb,
go blind, whatever whatever do you agree to disagree, it
can happen in a second that your life changes like that.
What I want to say to that young lady, you
need to listen to Marry Dayblige when she said, look

(01:02:41):
in the mirror every morning and tell yourself, good morning, gorgeous.
I'm piersed Orming, I'm storming, I'm piercing. Lady, look in
the mirror and tell yourself, good morning gorgeous. Whether you
lose the weight or not, you're still gorgeous, and you
need to tell yourself that I'm piersed orm I'm pidd

(01:03:01):
I don't like to hear that. So, men, you're gonna
end up in a nursing home by you got dog step,
I'm gone, I'm gone right bird legs wool.

Speaker 1 (01:03:08):
She scared the crap out of me more than once,
but she was upset. I let us slide. Today, I
let hers slide. She's upset. Now you're not. Yes, when
you think about all the things that a woman goes through,
you know, because you know, it's easy to blame the woman.
It's easy because she's got the weight issue. It sounds
like it's all her problem, all her fault, you know

(01:03:30):
what I'm saying. But it's easy because we get blamed
for everything, you know what I'm saying. But but, but
but maybe there's more that she doesn't want to say.
Maybe she because she loves her husband, she's trying to
be kind even in sharing what she has shared. You
know what I'm saying. There's something to those vowels, and

(01:03:52):
there's something to having help help meet or help mate.
You help each other, you know what I'm saying, in
more ways than one. You help each Other's something to that.
All right, we're gonna come back and talk. I see
y'all on hold, just black. I'm coming to you right
out the gate. Since the Lenda I see you and

(01:04:14):
the other call has got a few lines open, got
some people that have tapped in on the app, got
some emails to read. We'll get to you when we
come back. Y'all. Don't move, We'll be back if you
want to slide up in here. Nine O one five
three five nine three four two eight hundred five zero
three nine three four two eight three three five three
five nine three four to two. Those are the numbers
to get to me, or you can tap in on
that iHeartRadio app or email me as well. Today. The

(01:04:36):
next day is giving Tuesday, I think Wednesday tomorrow. It's
something as well. I'm not sure what it is. Figure
that out and let y'all know. But let's get back
to the phone lines because you guys are tapping in
and let me see if I've got some emails read
and uh yeah, okay, let me go to the emails

(01:04:58):
and see U what you're talking about here. Miss Cassandra says, Hi, Stormy,
I'm enjoying the show. I really enjoyed the anniversary party.
Let's just turn the tables. Suppose he gained weight. Tell
common man I missed him at the party. Love y'all,
we love you back. Let's see Miss Stormy and that
lady needs to know another man's trash is another man's trash.

(01:05:21):
Talk to talk. Miss Tracy says, as far as the letter,
the man has every right to how he feels. From
the letter. He talked to his wife and was up
front and gave her a chance to do something different.
People like what they like. And if he doesn't like
big women, that's okay. But he's going to divorce her
and she's going to lose that weight and go on

(01:05:43):
about her life and then he will want her back.
Have a good evening, Stormy, you too, Tracy. All right,
let's go to the phones because y'all are tapping in.
We'll go back to the app in a moment. WD
A Hello, Hello, hey there, how are you doing? I'm
doing good?

Speaker 9 (01:06:02):
Okay. So the lady that her husband want to get
rid of her U psychologist and psychiatrists said that divorce
is just like to lose someone in death. So your
hurts take but she we could take courage because guess
what sometimes when people do their way. Looking it this way,

(01:06:25):
if you're gonna get rid of me, you might be
doing you might be doing me a favor because whatever
she was turning to kill or had a bad.

Speaker 10 (01:06:32):
Cieny lead and it would be recovery to me.

Speaker 9 (01:06:35):
Even more, get to military and then think about this,
miss lady. Well, a man throws out the change, and
another man comes along and said, wow, somebody threw a
diamony roughly in the street. Let me take this to
go out there and posit it up and take courage.
You're gonna be just okay. Thank you throwing me all right.

Speaker 1 (01:06:54):
Thank you so much for calling in. Appreciate that perspective.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
W D I a hello, Yes, let me cut.

Speaker 5 (01:07:02):
The radio down.

Speaker 2 (01:07:07):
All right, I'm doing fine.

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
I don't call in a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
I'm lenda.

Speaker 5 (01:07:11):
I don't call in a whole lot. But I was
listening at miss missus bird Leg. You said she said something,
this bird Leg, you really said something. You are so right.
It's nursing homes.

Speaker 10 (01:07:24):
I go there.

Speaker 1 (01:07:24):
I have a friend.

Speaker 5 (01:07:25):
I have two friends at a nursing home. I go
there and I see so many men. I talk to them,
and you know, I try to make conversations with them,
but I feel so sorry for him because so many men, uh,
you know, put down the good woman. I know that's
a good woman. And another thing I wanted to say,
I'm trying to hurry up, but I wanted to say.

Speaker 3 (01:07:45):
We women, we go through so much.

Speaker 5 (01:07:48):
We put up with lots. We it's women that I
put up with men when they coat on their wives.
But when a woman caught on her husband, he ready
to throw her out, you know, the back. But anyway,
another thing I wanted to say, and I'm whining up.

Speaker 3 (01:08:05):
I talked to the young woman. As an older woman.

Speaker 5 (01:08:08):
I tell the young women, do ask God to show
you that man's heart. We women don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:16):
Men in heart. But God said, who can know the heart?

Speaker 1 (01:08:21):
Only God know the heart.

Speaker 5 (01:08:22):
Because the heart is wicked and it's desperately it's desperately wicked.

Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
We do not know the heart.

Speaker 3 (01:08:28):
That's a scripture.

Speaker 5 (01:08:29):
You know it's in fiber. We don't know the heart.
Ask God to show you that man's God. Before I
married my husband, we've been married six years.

Speaker 3 (01:08:37):
We've sing your citizens, you know, nootle web.

Speaker 5 (01:08:40):
And before I married him, I prayed about even taking
his phone number. Lifting me young with young women, if
let me pray, because I have been through some things.

Speaker 3 (01:08:52):
I'll be seventy in March. I'm six or nine now.

Speaker 1 (01:08:56):
When he asked me for.

Speaker 5 (01:08:57):
My phone number, I did not give him my phone number.
Right and wait, I prayed about him even giving even
taking his number. Ask God to show you that man's heart,
because that woman, like that other lady said she she'll
lose that weight and he's gonna miss.

Speaker 3 (01:09:14):
Out on a good thing.

Speaker 5 (01:09:16):
When a man finds a wife, he finds a good thing,
a good thing. It's pleasing in God's eyesight.

Speaker 8 (01:09:23):
But we women go.

Speaker 5 (01:09:24):
Through so much. I just can't stress that enough. And
I'm gonna end it right here. But y'all men, you
missing out. If she gain a through the pounds, what
if you gained you came a few pounds, you can't up.

Speaker 3 (01:09:37):
We go through for you, so you can't go for us.
God bless you. I'm finished.

Speaker 5 (01:09:42):
I'm not saying.

Speaker 3 (01:09:43):
I'm just gonna quit.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
Thank you, appreciate you calling miss Linda. Thank you so much.
All right, bye bye. Yeah, we go through a lot.
Sure do Uh w d I A hold on? Uh
call her hold on for me? Uh double u d
I A hello, Hello, hello caller? You there? All right?

(01:10:09):
They'll call me back against w d I A hello Coller?

Speaker 14 (01:10:15):
Are you there?

Speaker 8 (01:10:19):
How you doing that bad?

Speaker 9 (01:10:22):
I know?

Speaker 1 (01:10:26):
Is this mister Henry Lee?

Speaker 2 (01:10:28):
Oh yeah, yay, I've been I've been reading, man, and
this ain't ain't ain't had time to call You're like
I wanted to.

Speaker 1 (01:10:38):
Well, I'm so glad you did. It's cold out there.
Thank you for cold Tuesday.

Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
Yeah. Yeah, I didn't get up and Vinton around the
house all day. Yeah, i've been McDonald got didn't make
rib bon sail and I'm mad.

Speaker 1 (01:10:56):
Oh that's good. You gotta eat something, you gotta eat.

Speaker 2 (01:11:01):
Oh yeah, yeah, well I ain't gonna see a whole
lot that I've been wanting to call. Uh Lady p
I'm sorry about her and her husband, and I'm sorry
to hear about old John. So I didn't get hear
the call back when it was going on.

Speaker 1 (01:11:17):
Yeah, well, I'm so glad you. I'm so glad you called.
Now call hold on caller. I'm so glad you called now,
thank you.

Speaker 8 (01:11:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:11:25):
Yeah, well, I figured do your call and see how
you're doing, how the man like and going going for you.

Speaker 1 (01:11:32):
It's going really good. Thank you for asking.

Speaker 2 (01:11:36):
Yeah, I believe I'm gonna get to be friends with
your husband and maybe come out to your house and
hip out around there sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:11:47):
Oh well, I don't know about that, mister.

Speaker 2 (01:11:50):
But well, I tell you I'm gonna do the same
with Nurse Fabulis husband. I figured i'd just be real
nice to help them do things around the house and
maybe uh may regged eat some lunch to dinner with
him sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:12:10):
Uh, well, I don't, I don't, I don't know about
that I don't. I don't. I don't know about that.
I mean it sounds, it sounds very Let me see.

Speaker 2 (01:12:19):
Well you didn't got married, and I know things changed
a little bit, but yes, I still I still pay
a little bit for you. You in nurse family, so
uh you know, uh, Well.

Speaker 9 (01:12:31):
If I.

Speaker 2 (01:12:34):
Come over and help help your husband out and met
them things around the house and help nurse badly huband
out and they regged, can't see you a little bit.

Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
I don't think that's a good ideasily there there's so
many single women that that call the show and and
and talk.

Speaker 2 (01:12:54):
Well you know, I got that anywhere. I know where
I like something and I just sick with it, you know,
uh you know, uh you.

Speaker 8 (01:13:07):
Know woman and woman.

Speaker 2 (01:13:08):
I know from church year ago. I always tell about
making me a sweet potato pie, but I ain't had
none of it yet. So I like what I like,
and that's you and nurse family. But I know, we know, y'all,
y'all both it's tied.

Speaker 1 (01:13:28):
Tied down, tangled tied down.

Speaker 2 (01:13:30):
Yeah, yep, Well that's why I don't get to be
a good friend with y'all. Hugband, and that's where I
see y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:13:38):
Well, I well, I don't. I don't think my husband
would like that. Mister Hiverly. I mean, you're a nice man,
but I don't think.

Speaker 2 (01:13:46):
Oh well, I believe you're a nice dad. I saw
a picture of him.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
He yeah, what's you trying to save as that? Oh
my goodness, Well I appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:11):
He pretty good looking old guys not saying I mean,
you know, I understand, but you know, if somewhat happened
to he him, you know I'd be there for you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:21):
Well, mister he really, I'm gonna let you go. Okay,
it was good talking to you, mom.

Speaker 2 (01:14:27):
All right, Well I'm old to call you again.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
Please do, please do.

Speaker 2 (01:14:33):
All right, okay, well all right, you have a good
holiday and I'll talk to you again.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
So okay, all right you too, all right, okay, bye
bye bye bye bye. What the world? What the world?
What the world? Love me, said mister Hemmily. But mister Hemmerly, yeah,
I'm taking I got a big old ring on my finger,
and and so does Nurse Beverly. But you know what,

(01:15:00):
I'm gonna go to this phone and I bet you
there's a single woman on the line. I bet you
w d I a hello.

Speaker 2 (01:15:09):
Hey, you can get up.

Speaker 1 (01:15:10):
Hey go the girl. How you doing? I'm blessed, I'm
not chat.

Speaker 2 (01:15:16):
I heard the thud group.

Speaker 1 (01:15:18):
Yes, ma'am you got us.

Speaker 4 (01:15:20):
Women's heat it up.

Speaker 3 (01:15:21):
You heat it.

Speaker 5 (01:15:24):
But everybody said, And my heart goes out to her,
and I hope she's listening to all the feedback that's
coming over coming up there to her a stormy I
want to say to her and ask her, has she
ever heard of I'm coming from a medical and nutritional standpoint, Okay,

(01:15:46):
has she ever heard of?

Speaker 3 (01:15:48):
You? Yourself? Ever heard of?

Speaker 2 (01:15:49):
Quartosol?

Speaker 3 (01:15:51):
Cortisol is a stress hormone.

Speaker 5 (01:15:55):
They can't kill you.

Speaker 10 (01:15:57):
It would make your stomach swell when.

Speaker 5 (01:16:00):
You see people you're not having a cycle and your
stomach is swelling up.

Speaker 3 (01:16:05):
That's stress.

Speaker 5 (01:16:07):
And he's out those hormones all through your body. I
don't care what you do and try to die, Itt,
you're not gonna get rid of that weight.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (01:16:16):
So I'm sure once he told her that, she started stressing.

Speaker 1 (01:16:20):
Yeah, that's what I was thinking.

Speaker 5 (01:16:23):
To lose weight that, you know, and put the well
I wanted. It's just enough, you know, getting on the
scale for somebody who's not.

Speaker 3 (01:16:29):
Trying to lose weight.

Speaker 2 (01:16:30):
Is stressed because you have a.

Speaker 5 (01:16:31):
Gold in mam.

Speaker 1 (01:16:32):
Yes, so for her help.

Speaker 5 (01:16:35):
Please don't stress out over there because carders only if
they deadly kill her. And guess what it may be
the way today, guess what it'll be something else tomorrow,
not literally tomorrow, but something else later. You might not
like to color her hair when she's go gray. So
need the divorce because this man is not going to

(01:16:57):
be happy with her. But look out for your hair,
young lady.

Speaker 2 (01:17:01):
And that's my take on it.

Speaker 1 (01:17:05):
All right, bye bye, Wow, she got deep, golden girl
got deep, and I believe she's single. Mister Henryly damn.
I'm just saying, uh w d I A hello, Hello,
how you doing Hey, I'm doing good, big casino. How
are you?

Speaker 8 (01:17:26):
I'm doing great, baby, I mean I'm doing good. I'm okay.
You know I'm gonna cut that. I'm gonna cut that out.
I didn't need to say that.

Speaker 1 (01:17:35):
I got it, I got it, I got y.

Speaker 8 (01:17:38):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, you know I
would listen. Well, I listened to the show for a minute,
but I had to had to brief cut out for
a minute. But you know, you right, you know, uh
you know if a lady. You know some of me.
It don't have nothing against lady. Is just large or
whatever you want to call it. It's just all according
I mean, if you can be bigger than how all

(01:18:00):
according to what you wear. You see what I'm saying.
Most people, most larger women can't wear a lot of
tight stuff. You see what I'm saying. Yeah, knowly, I
mean it's you know, you know, probably the stuff he
too tight.

Speaker 3 (01:18:15):
Green.

Speaker 8 (01:18:15):
The man probably says something and yeah, you know if
they got something that you know, everybody you know, even
me and can wear something is too tight, right, uh,
something like that, and you know, just don't look good
in it, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, But you know,
like I said, you know you never tell you you know,
you never tell your lady or nothing like she too

(01:18:36):
bad or something. You know. I always said something like,
you know, she'll say, baby doll. You know you're just
a little fluffy, you see what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
So you know, and that it's not it's not what
you say sometimes it's how you.

Speaker 8 (01:18:48):
Say it, right right right, I agree, I agree with you,
So you know, and now you know I didn't get
chance to talk, but miss Beverly Bury leg and Golden Girl.
I really had a nice time with y'all at the show. Uh,
it was really nice and I really enjoyed myself. I

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really did.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:19:13):
Hey, you know, like I said, you know, I mean
it's it's good that I didn't get a chance to
see uh big Cahuna. I mean, I wanted to have
a conversation with him, but I heard I heard he
was there, but I never got a chance to see him.
But but anyway, it was real nice. I wanted to
know everybody. Everything on there was really really good.

Speaker 2 (01:19:33):
Good.

Speaker 1 (01:19:34):
Thank you, Thank you for saying that.

Speaker 8 (01:19:36):
I really yeah, and I really enjoyed myself.

Speaker 1 (01:19:39):
Good.

Speaker 8 (01:19:39):
So with that said, you know, I get back with you, lady.

Speaker 1 (01:19:42):
Thank you, thank you. You're very welcome. Appreciate you making
that call. Yeah, uh, let me see, I'm trying to
get a couple more calls before I get out of here.
Uh w d I A hello you? Hey, I'm good.
How are you? I'm doing great?

Speaker 3 (01:19:58):
Oh?

Speaker 14 (01:19:58):
I love you?

Speaker 17 (01:19:59):
Sawing me?

Speaker 1 (01:20:00):
Oh, I love you? Who is this? Wait a minute?
Who is this?

Speaker 9 (01:20:03):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (01:20:03):
I'm time.

Speaker 3 (01:20:03):
This is Peggy.

Speaker 17 (01:20:04):
The last time I called you out, called you to
sing happy birthday to you, just before you went out
the air.

Speaker 1 (01:20:09):
Yeah, I.

Speaker 17 (01:20:15):
Just want to say, like my grandmother used to say,
every dog got his day, but cats got too. And
that man going to be sorry for what he did
to his wife. But I just want to tell her you.

Speaker 5 (01:20:27):
Keep your head up.

Speaker 17 (01:20:29):
My mama bought me a plaque when I was sixteen,
and you said, there's four things that.

Speaker 5 (01:20:34):
A woman should know. How to look like a girl,
act like a lady, thinks like a man, and work
like a dog.

Speaker 17 (01:20:40):
Now she might be one hundred pounds more than what
she was when she met him, but honey, you go
ride ahead off because you were just more of a
woman than you were when you met him. He might
not want you, but that's somebody else out there. So
you keep your head up. And if you feel that
you can't lose the weight at your pace, because see
he has forgotten about to death, do us part.

Speaker 1 (01:21:01):
He done forgot about that right there.

Speaker 17 (01:21:04):
So and when if it takes you ten years to
lose your weight, as long as you keep loving yourself,
it doesn't matter whether you're one hundred pounds, ten pounds
or ten ounces.

Speaker 8 (01:21:13):
You love yourself first.

Speaker 5 (01:21:15):
And you watch and see.

Speaker 17 (01:21:16):
How many other men look at him and say how
he'll fool So you keep on, honey, you don't let
that man disturb it you. You just keep on living,
keep on making yourself happy. And you watch what he
say and how he looks when you see him again
when you're at the top of your game, not because
he wanted you to be that way, because you feel
good about you, gotcha.

Speaker 5 (01:21:38):
Okay, that's all I had to say.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Take you, miss Peggy. Appreciate you calling it.

Speaker 2 (01:21:42):
Okay, okay, thank you, You're.

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
Welcome, Bye bye, WD I A hello, I'm good. How
were you fine?

Speaker 4 (01:21:52):
And the lady that's having no problem with the husband
about her weight is somebody that loves somebody for all sight.
And you truly love a person, you will love them
for who they are and what they become once you're
in a marriage, because things changed, and things change for
a man, just like it do with the lady. Yeah,
so that shouldn't make you stop loving each other and

(01:22:14):
care in for each other, am'am.

Speaker 1 (01:22:16):
Thank you all right, you too, appreciate you calling in. Yeah.
I got an email here from young August. Hey, Young August.
She says, I live in the country or in the country,
and we still have you mean the County, and we
still have house parties here, she says. I judge whether
or not. H hang on, caller. I judge whether or not.

(01:22:40):
I'm going by the character of the host. If the
person is young and wild, I ain't going. My first
cousin's husband and his brother have been hosting an annual
wildlife party at their home for over fifteen years, and
they never have security. People come out to eat, drink,
and dance and go back home. I'll go to that

(01:23:02):
because the crowd is older. Because before I go to
a trail ride that has armed security. MM trail rids,
I have arm security. I know about that. Let me see,
mister Whitney, says l L. Mister Henry, you're my hero.
Be cool, bro, have mercy real quick. I'm going to

(01:23:22):
the phone, but I can't keep your own long. Call
it you there. Yes, I'm here, Yes, talk to me
real quick. I got a run, but talk to me
real quick. Okay, wait a minute, Hold, don't come on
in here. Welcome, Wait a minute, where's my applause? We're here,
we go, there, we go. Welcome. What's your name?

Speaker 9 (01:23:43):
All?

Speaker 3 (01:23:43):
My name is Valerie.

Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
Valerie. Come on in here, Valerie, Come on in him.

Speaker 3 (01:23:47):
And I am.

Speaker 5 (01:23:48):
I'm calling from Grand Rappids, Michigan. We'll come on w
d I A every day, and I'm calling back to
the lady that her husband wants her to lose weight.
I dated two gentlemen before and I wanted to lose weight,
and they told me, well, if you lose the weight,
you lose me. So I turned that around. They lost me,

(01:24:12):
and I did what I wanted to do for me
because I loved me and I lost.

Speaker 3 (01:24:16):
Weight for me.

Speaker 5 (01:24:18):
So she needs to love herself first before she tries
to love and please anyone else. So please herself.

Speaker 1 (01:24:26):
Not a man. That's good valor.

Speaker 3 (01:24:28):
So he really loved her.

Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
As her husband, he.

Speaker 5 (01:24:32):
Would have been out there working out with her. So
his wife can lose that weight. And I'm quite sure
she was cooking every day for him and that try
and helped her gain that weight. Right, So for her,
make yourself happy. Please you yourself and lose the weight
for yourself. Like I said, thank you. If you lose

(01:24:53):
the weight, you lose me. But they lost me because
I was losing weight for me.

Speaker 1 (01:24:59):
Thy, thank you come back again, you come on back
up again, all right? By bye? Yeah, I appreciate y'all
calling in today and getting into the conversation made it real,
real interesting. Let's go back to the app because some
of y'all have tapped in on today.

Speaker 3 (01:25:16):
Hey, Stormy, this is Summer.

Speaker 18 (01:25:18):
I just believe that once they went in separate bedrooms,
the marriage was over. Then he was already sleeping with
someone else. That's my opinion. It was over then. I'm
so sorry for her. Yeah bye, that's all.

Speaker 1 (01:25:34):
Thank you, Summer. Appreciate you tapping that app.

Speaker 19 (01:25:37):
Hey Stormy, Hey it's frank. Yeah, it mazes like and
you just got tired of looking at a large car.
He wanted him a small cards had to push away
from that table. Maybe that'll help.

Speaker 1 (01:25:51):
That's all. Easier said than done.

Speaker 3 (01:25:55):
Stormy, And that's you.

Speaker 16 (01:25:57):
Chapter nineteen, verse nine, Jesus tells you a man who
divorces his wife commits adultery, and whoever marries the wife
also commits adultery. Mm so uh for sexual immorality, So

(01:26:17):
they can't get divorced unless it's for sexual immorality or
we know death.

Speaker 1 (01:26:22):
Mm okay,