20 Year Gap pt. 1

A woman is dating a man 20 years younger than her. Will it last?

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake up?

Speaker 2 (00:00):
Wake yo?

Speaker 3 (00:02):
Wa Hi, everybody happy Thursday? Look at us? One step

(00:23):
closer to the weekend.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
I feel, you know, and we always say for some
Thursday is the weekend.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yes, I can't wait for the weekend. Why do we
get No, I'm just tired. It's just a schedule. It
gets old by Thursday, and I'm like, I can't wait
to sleep and then because the thing is because the
weekend is right there. So now you're like just crawling
towards the finish.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Lie, what time do you sleep in two on the weekends?

Speaker 1 (00:44):
Usually like wake up? I wake up around six thirty
and I watch TV till like eight.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Oh, so you still get up pretty early?

Speaker 1 (00:51):
Yeah, because I can't turn I can't.

Speaker 4 (00:52):
I feel like I could sleep later if the kids
weren't up at six, Like my body, I'm I'm they're
waking me up. I'm like, I wonder what time I
would actually, what time do you sleep till?

Speaker 5 (01:04):
But you're out with Yeah, I go out.

Speaker 6 (01:06):
I'm probably back home between anywhere two, three, four, and
I'm usually up about seven ish eightish.

Speaker 5 (01:14):
Yeah, I'm usually up bout eight.

Speaker 1 (01:16):
I think our bodies just are on a certain clock
now they are.

Speaker 4 (01:18):
Yeah, but even again, even sleeping in until six, I
feel better for sure, there's no question.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
And the best is we have coffee in bed and
watch a TV show that's like my favorite. It's like
the best.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
I don't know if I would allow that. What coffee
in bed?

Speaker 1 (01:35):
I'm sorry you and your husband? Okay, so what difference?

Speaker 3 (01:39):
Yeah, I didn't like it. I didn't like it. That's
scary though.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
Coffee in bed, Yeah, I mean they've fall from time
to time, but you clean the sheets.

Speaker 4 (01:47):
Yeah, that is nice though, nice relaxing Saturday morning, having
a cup of Joe.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Yeah, after having Joe.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
Yeah, no, I guess on Sundays.

Speaker 1 (01:59):
Yeah, true, I can apply for you.

Speaker 3 (02:02):
What'd you guys do yesterday? Oh you're single?

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Dadding? Yeah, so I made dinner.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
He went to Whole Foods, bought spaghetti that was already
made and formed it up.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
That was the night before last night. Oh okay, it
was door dashing. Here's the best part about it.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
Baby made dinner.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
They wanted to get Mexican, so we ordered food and
then the food gets there and they don't like it.
So I ended up throwing away two orders of casadias
because they had Yeah. I was so mad.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
Oh that would I would see we were for.

Speaker 5 (02:31):
Fury eating so mad.

Speaker 7 (02:32):
No.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
I tried to force her and she was like I
don't like it. I'm like okay, fine, so what do
you want? So she made like cheap case ideas from
like it does get to.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
The point with those little idiots.

Speaker 4 (02:42):
That you're like, okay, at this point, I need to
eat something as opposed to nothing in your stomach. But
like it just makes me so mad, Like she'll ask
for a banana, peel banana, How do you want banana? Cut?
Do you want little pieces of banana? Do you want
me to just give you the whole banana? And then
I put it out the way it's been asked for
and she's like, I don't want banana.

Speaker 5 (03:02):
Yeah, it's enraging.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Oh it drives me nu.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
So we wasted about sixty dollars worth of Mexican food.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah right, you couldn't know if it wasn't plain white
race with a Barcolm.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
Like no, So that was dinner. So but tonight, well
today I have to go home and like clean the
house because the house.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Is a mess.

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Oh, and she's coming back to that.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
Because we can't have the house dirty and have her
come in.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
We ask you something. With her being gone, do you
like you don't make the better do anything? That is
There's nothing worse to me than not making your bed
in the morning.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
That is sickening.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
I used to say that I didn't care. But when
I get home and the bed is made, it feels special.
It feels really nice.

Speaker 4 (03:46):
Just get out of their bed and leave the home
for the day. Like what you just did, losers.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
I understand. But at the same time, though, it's still
is comfortable when you get into like a messy bed,
but it's better when the beds made.

Speaker 5 (03:58):
It's way better when the bed.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Yeah, what what is? It feels better?

Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah, like your house is ready, like if somebody were
to pop in, which they shouldn't do, but if they did,
but you would beat you.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
Stay ready.

Speaker 5 (04:11):
We don't got the extra time.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
Man, you left yours on me too. Man, you guys
just take the blanket.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
I mean the dog was in the bed.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
So yeah, oh Penny sleeps with you and she's gone.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
He's like off and on.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
Yeah, where were you at last night?

Speaker 8 (04:28):
I went?

Speaker 6 (04:29):
I went to the Saint Clair to see this artist
called John Keith Fields. Actually in the station early I
couldn't meet him at too, so I want to check
him out. Christian rapper pretty dope. He was opening up
for a different act. I don't know who the act was,
but yeah St Clain, Cambridge Christian rapper.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
So does that mean we only rap about g O D.

Speaker 7 (04:44):
Now?

Speaker 6 (04:45):
He has a song called Party, which is about being outside.
It's called in the club Party in the club, which
is basically being outside. So it's they breaking the stereotypes
of being like yo only you know, you only got
to go to church to be able to do X,
Y and Z. You know, he doesn't partake in drugs,
he doesn't drain, but he's like, yeah, you know, you're
still human beings, because.

Speaker 4 (05:03):
That would be tough if you could only like I'm
here for the g O D.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
Down on my knee praying.

Speaker 6 (05:11):
And his music is Christian music, but it's it's hip,
it's got a vibe, it's cool, you know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (05:18):
Like you, I.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Know you would say you would have just been like
I went.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
Out, No, no no.

Speaker 6 (05:23):
If you're not listening to the words, you're at least
flown with the cadence and you'll be bopping. You'll be like, oh,
this is dope. It's a dope. He's got a dope
song right now that we're playing called eyes on Us.
God Got eyes on Us. It's kind of it's fire.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
I remember back in the day too, people thought it
was weird that Will Smith was like, I'm not going
to curse myself, but.

Speaker 3 (05:38):
Will's those were bangers. But people didn't like that.

Speaker 5 (05:41):
They're like, oh, it's gonna be And that's.

Speaker 6 (05:43):
Smart because that song can get played anywhere, a baby, shaower,
a corporate event, you name it. Like, sometimes you got
to think about things like that if you want your
music to extend.

Speaker 3 (05:51):
That is true. That is true.

Speaker 4 (05:53):
I've actually had people say that that that that's the
complaint of our show that they yeah, yeah, well I
can't play that in my store, so I have to
play kiss one because.

Speaker 1 (06:02):
Especially when you have songs like wop, like where do
you play that?

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (06:05):
Right, yeah, that was when that was like the song. Yeah,
we were playing that.

Speaker 6 (06:13):
We didn't even know how to like clean it up.
I think they I don't even know how we played.
I don't even think because I think it said what
the hell out of it? And we just called it
wop because you know, they had it w a p
and then the parents what it really meant?

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Because what what what did they say?

Speaker 5 (06:35):
Do we say we said something?

Speaker 1 (06:37):
I don't remember.

Speaker 3 (06:38):
I don't either, But for the most part we werewping it.

Speaker 5 (06:41):
Yeah, you can't play that anywhere.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
Sorry, Actually we it's just unfortunate, like I can't have
people coming in here to buy florals.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
Hearing we high hat there's.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
I was like, I'll just go ahead and play Taylor Swift,
Chris fourn It's.

Speaker 9 (07:01):
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Speaker 2 (07:09):
She haven't any more Vive.

Speaker 4 (07:12):
Thursday, September twenty fifth, and oh my a. Yeah, I
just can't believe it because I was just telling you
guys that asap Rocky was telling everybody at Vogue, this
pregnancy is different.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
We want a girl so bad.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
I felt sad because I was like, this man wants
a girl so bad. I don't want him to be
disappointed if Rere gives birth to a baby boy. And
here we find out she had given birth on September thirteenth,
and he did get his baby girl.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
We now have Riza Riots and baby girl, Rocky.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
That's very cute. It's selling with an eye. I assume
Rocky with.

Speaker 3 (07:52):
An eye, Rocky Irish Myers. What a name?

Speaker 5 (07:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:57):
When did he make those comments?

Speaker 10 (07:59):
So?

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Did the baby baby already here?

Speaker 2 (08:02):
No?

Speaker 4 (08:02):
So you know how those articles like he might have
he might have done that article a month ago.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
He might have sat down for that.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Most of the things that we see with the celebrities
don't happen in the moment unless they're on alive Carty
Cardi blesses us with that sometimes. But yeah, so she
gave birth on the thirteenth. Everybody is healthy. She obviously
announced yesterday on the gram showing us the name.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
Big Pink Bows.

Speaker 4 (08:24):
And it was so cute because it was a quick
swipe and in the second picture it was like fighting
like Rocky gloves and.

Speaker 3 (08:30):
They were pink. How cute. Rasa riot and Rocky.

Speaker 4 (08:35):
We spent some time trying to guess if they had
a girl what her name would be.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
So are we done after three? Are we gonna keep going?
That's a big question.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
I feel like it was always this.

Speaker 4 (08:45):
Sheez probably thirty five, thirty six, she can here's the thing.
I kind of feel like they're probably done because I
think they were chasing the girl right like, and I
think that they now they have this baby girl, They
have their little crew. He and she wanted a girl
so so bad. So I'm happy for them now.

Speaker 1 (09:06):
The only thing is don't get carried away and have
too much wine on vacation because that happens, right.

Speaker 4 (09:12):
If they don't have kids anymore, if they're done, it's
gonna be so weird to see Rihanna just like not pregnant,
because she has really been pregnant for the last like six.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
Years of her life.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
So maybe now she'll do the album because she'll not
have time that show.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
Yeah right, yeah, like we're over that. But welcome to
the world baby A rocky Irish Myers. All Right, yesterday
while we were doing the show towards the end, huge
huge breaking news all over the TV, there was a
shooting in Beacon Hill, which you don't see often.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
Shooting in Beacon Hill.

Speaker 4 (09:49):
Now, I want to say injuries are non life threatening
and this man will survive, but this story is so weird.
So basically, there was a naked man just like wielding
a knife around Beacon Hill, specifically near one of my
favorite restaurants in the city in nineteen twenty eight.

Speaker 3 (10:07):
I don't know if you guys have ever been in
Beacon Hill. It's amazing.

Speaker 4 (10:09):
It's an amazing spot. So he's like wielding this knife
at the cops.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
He's naked. They try to taser him. Well, listen, we.

Speaker 4 (10:18):
Heard the man when the taser was going off, screaming
like really intensely, and then we heard a gunshot and
more screaming, and then it got quiet, and then the
more police came.

Speaker 3 (10:28):
It's giving hard drugs to me. Because the cops try
to tase you. The dude didn't even subdue him.

Speaker 4 (10:34):
He was just still fun. He was just going like
he was just still going. So they ended up having
to shoot him. But again, injuries are non life threatening.
Everybody should be okay. I think three people in total
went to the hospital, but we need more info.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
There's the cops were. Secondly, there was no motive.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
But what set him off though?

Speaker 3 (10:52):
Why was he naked?

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Why was he compelled to take off his clothes and
pull out a knife in.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Front of him in front of a rush.

Speaker 4 (10:57):
And it's funny because I follow them on social media
and they posted they were like, we're not going to
be open tonight, and I'm like, oh, man, I wonder
if the shooting it was like it was just in
the lap, just in their restaurants.

Speaker 1 (11:08):
So you can't wheel a knife when you don't have
clothes on, especially for a man.

Speaker 5 (11:12):
Like really.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
Right, Yeah yeah, I didn't even think about that.

Speaker 4 (11:20):
Well what if also too when they were trying to
taser or subdue, you know, that's tough.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
I love the people who think they can take the
taser and then they they can super stiff and fault
with this guy though, seems that figured out, Like what
the move.

Speaker 6 (11:34):
Is seen, some people take tasers, bro, and yes, they
will probably go through something like full five of them
to keep coming.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
It's crazy. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like the Hulk what
you're seeing.

Speaker 5 (11:46):
Nothing even touch them yet.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
Crazy.

Speaker 1 (11:48):
I've seen it twunny.

Speaker 6 (11:49):
Tools will see them like trying to run and then
they just like a tree trunk like where you're going.

Speaker 4 (11:59):
It's so anyways, everyone's gonna be okay. I'm sure we'll
get more info, but seems.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
Like a bad batch.

Speaker 4 (12:04):
To dude's help, Yeah all right, CARTI call her daddy.
I told you we were listening to it yesterday. I
had listened to the first ten minutes, and I was
CARTI was she never holds back, but when it comes
to the sexual stuff, she was just wide open. And
one specific part that I remember was I think she

(12:26):
was asked like what was her fantasy? And it involved
another girl with a guy and them fighting over doing
an act on the guy.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
Like it was really really really.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
Graphic, like what are they fighting for? Like she thought that.

Speaker 3 (12:43):
Would be like exciting that they're fighting over doing this.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
I see that's like that's weird though, right lets you
just ask why does she want to have a fight
like over it?

Speaker 4 (12:53):
Like I want Cardi like because I remember back when
Stefan Diggs was on that boat and there were all
these girls around him and already was on the boat,
and you know, everybody was.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
Kind of like wait what.

Speaker 4 (13:03):
But I think it's very evident that they got something
like Cardi likes what she likes. I don't think that
makes her feel any type of way about him being
around other women, and she enjoys that.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
I really do cuckish, Yes it is.

Speaker 4 (13:18):
Well. Anyways, she was asked about crazy rumors, and never
forget that there was a rumor that her and Stefan
Diggs called it quits because do you guys remember the
big one?

Speaker 5 (13:29):
Yeah, because a booty snak rights sit down.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
What is the craziest rumor you've ever heard about yourself?
Here's a rumor. They're like, my boyfriend dumb me because
my bbls think.

Speaker 9 (13:37):
The way this spaghetti ian it can be.

Speaker 11 (13:40):
You got your butt pierced earlier this year.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
It caused me like thirteen thousand dollars because it was
real diamonds. And guess what they went down the toilet.
She said the I can't repeat it.

Speaker 4 (13:51):
But so that was not true because he's he's around still,
he's her baby daddy, and he does certain things that
prove that.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
By she didn't say that the actual thing is not true.
She just said that he didn't break up there.

Speaker 4 (14:04):
Yeah, the sit down air did not come up, but
she made it clear like her bbl does not smell.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Yeah, I didn't know. That was the thing.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
I couldn't believe when taught us that. I almost fainted.
Where would down sit down there? It's just crazy?

Speaker 3 (14:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (14:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (14:24):
And why she why she putting that much money into
a piss and in her booty though, And it's like
you just have money to waste at that point.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
Right, And then you sit down on a toilet and
it's it's gone.

Speaker 1 (14:34):
But then it's nothing to her cleanliness wise, this is
the best place for a piercing.

Speaker 3 (14:40):
I picture it. It's in her crack, she said, So
I picture it like up.

Speaker 5 (14:43):
At the top.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
Yeah, at the top.

Speaker 5 (14:45):
That's too close though, but you can easily understand that.

Speaker 6 (14:48):
But I hear what you're saying because it's still you know,
you know when your articles are you but even during
the day, as you move around, that's a covered area,
so it gets moist things, you know what I mean,
eating rises.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
Let me get out of here.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
That is Thursday, Saturday. That's Thursday. That's Thursday. That is Thursday,
September twenty fifth. Speaking of that woman and her moist butt,
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Speaker 4 (15:25):
Well, I assumed when we had to have this conversation,
it would be because a herman didn't like that he
was discussed on the radio, or it would be because
b she went on the date with herman and hated
seventy five things about him and was cutting him off.

Speaker 3 (15:45):
Or actually, see, Herman just disappeared from our lives.

Speaker 4 (15:48):
If you don't know who Herman is, Herman is the
guy that AJ was set to go out on a date.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
With Friday, I believe tomorrow, Saturday, Saturday, Okay, this weekend.
We were going to go out.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
And remember he reached out to her and said, listen,
I don't want to be talked about on the radio.

Speaker 3 (16:03):
Yeah, I let's give this a fair shot.

Speaker 4 (16:05):
I don't want to be talked about on the radio.
And I said, let's talk about him on the radio
for a second.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
Let's talk about him on the radio for one second.
And then I said, we're cutting it. I'm going to
respect it.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
I cause.

Speaker 4 (16:20):
A lot of people had followed up about him. They
wanted to know what was going on. Was you know,
was she having this date? Was it going to happen?
And so I at least had to, you know, scratch
that itch for people. It was happening, It was happening
this weekend. But Herman, he didn't want to be talked about.
So I told Aj if the date went well, he
would not be brought up. If the date didn't go well,
and it was done, then.

Speaker 5 (16:41):
We could kind of talk about that going in.

Speaker 4 (16:43):
Well, here we are Thursday morning at six forty one,
and guess what for And we're allowed to talk about
him because he's.

Speaker 3 (16:50):
Dumped her before the date has even happened. And it's
no wonderful.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
I can't wait to haro, like, what's the reason?

Speaker 4 (17:00):
So, you guys, she read me this conversation this morning
and kind of gave me a little bit of insight
on what's going on.

Speaker 3 (17:07):
This is strange to me, but I'll let her take
it away.

Speaker 12 (17:11):
Well, my first mistake is we were supposed to go
out two and a half weeks ago, and he took
two and a half weeks to reach out to me.

Speaker 5 (17:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (17:17):
True, though I probably should have never responded to the.

Speaker 3 (17:20):
Yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 12 (17:22):
So Tuesday night, you know, we're chit chatting and he
asked me about my red flags. I gave him a
couple of red flags and I asked him the same question.

Speaker 3 (17:30):
A couple hundred or did you just go with two?

Speaker 12 (17:32):
I just went with So he told me he has
no red flags, which is the most ridiculous answer ever.

Speaker 11 (17:39):
So his first red flag is he's a liar.

Speaker 12 (17:44):
Then he asked me what my red flags are in guys,
and I said I have an issue with guys that
have trust issues.

Speaker 11 (17:50):
He laughed at that.

Speaker 12 (17:51):
Which I thought was really strange, and that he asked
me if I've ever cheated. I told him that I
never have, and then he said okay, and that was
the end of conversation. To me, something felt weird. I
wasn't sure I was gonna hear from him again.

Speaker 11 (18:03):
I went to bed. I did hear from him yesterday.

Speaker 12 (18:06):
We were chitchatting, everything was fine, and then he starts
asking me about my friends. If I have a lot
of friends, and then he asked me if I have
a lot of male friends.

Speaker 11 (18:15):
Gez So my response was mostly coworkers probably, and.

Speaker 12 (18:19):
My friend's husbands. He then sends me a bunch of
red flags. What and I was like, uh, why the
red flags? And he goes, well, it depends on how
friendly it is. I don't think my future wife would
want me to have girlfriends that I hang out with
and stuff.

Speaker 11 (18:33):
Lol. If she can trust me, she can't trust them,
which that makes no sense.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
So I go while I.

Speaker 12 (18:38):
Work in a male dominated field, so I really can't
avoid having male coworkers that I'm friendly with I also
think it would be weird if I wasn't friendly with
my friend's husbands. He goes, coworkers are like parents. Nobody
really gets to choose unless gonna keep switching jobs.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Ha ha ha ha ha.

Speaker 12 (18:51):
I don't think it's a matter of being friendly, it's
just about how friendly. If there's boundaries and stuff, that's cool.
Do you mind if your man has female friends? And
I said I do not, He goes, Okay, I kind
of do, so I go, yeah, I think I can
tell that.

Speaker 11 (19:03):
He goes, it's a deal breaker for me. Can't do
too many male friends.

Speaker 12 (19:06):
I think I feel like it would make sense to
connect with like minded right, And I go, yeah, that
makes sense, and he goes, I wish you well.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
AJ whoa whoa hermit is Like he's given me controlling back. Also,
like he must be a maniac in a relationship.

Speaker 4 (19:23):
That's like maybe so because she never said, like I
have male friends that are my coworkers that.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
I hang out with.

Speaker 4 (19:31):
She like, son, have you hung out with AJ alone
last week before?

Speaker 3 (19:35):
And have you hung out with AJ alone? Okay?

Speaker 4 (19:37):
Like all she said was where I work, I have
male coworkers and their their men. But you never if
you said to him, I actually hang out with my
male friends every single night, I'd be like, okay, that's
a different story, right.

Speaker 3 (19:50):
But all she's.

Speaker 4 (19:51):
Saying is, yeah, like I have coworkers that are guys,
and obviously if my best friend gets.

Speaker 3 (19:56):
Married, I'm gonna be cool with that guy. Yeah, not
to say you're hanging out.

Speaker 12 (20:00):
Was just based off the question that he was asking.
He obviously has major insecurities and I've dealt with that
before for a good eleven years of my life and
I'm not going to do it again.

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (20:08):
Yeah, like that's a red flo He has so many
red flags. He said he has none, but he's got a.

Speaker 6 (20:13):
Lie even before he got to the mail. God, that's
the question alone of how many friends do you got?
Or you got a lot of friends? Yeah, that type
of dude asks, that type of dude that's gonna come
and cut you off from all your friends and then
keep you secluded and then control you.

Speaker 11 (20:26):
Like what's so funny is he was like, do you
have a lot of friends? And I was like, what
do you say? Is a lot? He's like, well, tell
me the number and I'll tell you.

Speaker 3 (20:34):
I was like oh, And I was like.

Speaker 12 (20:36):
Well, I've got like high school friends and then other
friends around there and goes, yeah, but how many that's crazy?

Speaker 5 (20:42):
This is this is not insane, this is spooky. He
would have locked you up in a basement and all
of that.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
The relationship you were in for like ten years was
a bad one. He would have been ten ten times.

Speaker 3 (20:55):
Yeah, he wants.

Speaker 6 (20:57):
To know how many people he can cut off for
you life literally, and then he's asking for you.

Speaker 1 (21:03):
But the craziest thing is he's doing this from the beginning.
He didn't even wait till you guys were in relationship
for like a year. From the beginning, he's thinking of
mania meat.

Speaker 4 (21:09):
Yeah, thank god, yeah seriously because yeah, so anyways, herman's
out good good, you know, guys.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
Like it's a good thing, but it's also sad at
the same time, right.

Speaker 6 (21:24):
Yeah, Yeah, it's showed his colors from early but it
does it not just keep getting sadder.

Speaker 4 (21:33):
They never even met up. But this one is a
positive because I will I'm.

Speaker 6 (21:37):
Gonna look at it the other way because the other
one string along until they see that the white you know,
he's a black dude with a white cist on the fridge.
She still goes with debate. At least Old Boy was
just kind of like how many friends you got?

Speaker 5 (21:49):
You got? God friends? I don't like you, you know.

Speaker 12 (21:51):
You know what's so funny is that this guy initially
complained about how bad the dating world is.

Speaker 1 (21:59):
Yeah, he's the reason.

Speaker 3 (22:01):
I honestly I'm afraid of him. He's a serial killer.

Speaker 5 (22:04):
Like I the friends you got, tell me the number?

Speaker 10 (22:08):
What? So?

Speaker 1 (22:10):
What's number that he would have been fine with one?

Speaker 3 (22:12):
I think that I don't know.

Speaker 11 (22:14):
I don't know, because then it went into the male friends.

Speaker 4 (22:17):
My favorite is he goes, I think we should hang
out with like minded, don't you And she's like sure, bye,
what wow.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
Well there you have it. And by the way, we
know he's listening. So herman creeping.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
To grow up buddy us.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
But wow, if you guys were hanging out with a
J on the low and I didn't know, that.

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Would be no. I think I was in here with
you Philip about like ten minutes alone.

Speaker 6 (22:42):
About yes, actually you would have known because it would
have been coming in here grumpy Inane's been like.

Speaker 5 (22:50):
Oh my god, it's not it's not you are.

Speaker 3 (22:55):
Just the way you are. Well, there you have it, everybody.

Speaker 4 (22:58):
She is back to what we call the starting gates.
So if you're a single man, that will allow AJ
to have a friend that has a penis, you know
they're gonna hang out with friends, of course.

Speaker 2 (23:10):
Jammy ninety four to five traffic.

Speaker 1 (23:12):
Heavy traffic on the Masspike eastbound after the BOUTONU, after
Prudential Tunnel Root one off bound. We have traffic over
the Tooburnvidge in the Espressaly northbound. Still looks good. You're
just on the brakes pretty much the entire way.

Speaker 4 (23:25):
Twenty minutes away from our first giveaway CARDI b kicking
it here in April at the Garden.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
We're gonna hook you up. Good morning, especially in.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
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when you need.

Speaker 9 (23:37):
To know, No, we got you three things you need
to know on Boston's number one for hip hop and
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Speaker 3 (23:47):
Oh my god, it's so exciting.

Speaker 4 (23:50):
It's like for a little sliver of time, I think
to myself, I have to go for the boy, but
I but then I go back to that I'm old
and I can't. Thursday September twenty fifth, and then Rihanna
and Asap Rocky have announced the birth of their third baby.
I told you yesterday that Asap was a really hopeing
and praying for a baby girl. He told Vogue magazine.

(24:11):
He's like, we just feel like she's carrying this pregnancy
different and we're really hoping.

Speaker 3 (24:16):
And we talked about it. You know, the baby's high.
They you know now you never know.

Speaker 4 (24:20):
Uh. And they got the surprise of a lifetime because
they announced on ig baby Rocky Irish Myers a baby
girl for Asap and re Rey.

Speaker 3 (24:31):
It's their third.

Speaker 4 (24:32):
So we have Rizza who was born in twenty twenty two,
we have Riot in twenty twenty three, and here we
are in twenty twenty five with a baby girl, Rocky and.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
She definitely got the better name of the three too.

Speaker 4 (24:42):
For show R O c Ki is how honestly, Rocky
Irish is like just a star.

Speaker 3 (24:48):
That's a star. I don't know what that baby is
going to do in life, but that's a star name
right there.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
And I definitely think they're done out, like after three,
Like I got to a little pack there.

Speaker 3 (24:56):
I agree. I think they got the girl.

Speaker 4 (24:59):
But if you think about that, like two twenty twenty
three and now twenty twenty five. We don't know a
day where Rihanna's not pregnant like her pregnancy fashion all
the thing, don't.

Speaker 3 (25:06):
We don't know it.

Speaker 6 (25:07):
So she might be doing all this knocking them out
quick so that way she can get back to business.

Speaker 5 (25:12):
I'm thinking, what business, right, business?

Speaker 3 (25:16):
Not the music Warren. That's so good, that's so cute.

Speaker 4 (25:22):
She'll make you some primer for your makeup. But that's
about it, all right.

Speaker 3 (25:27):
Another day, another civil lawsuit for Diddy. I don't even
think Diddy.

Speaker 4 (25:31):
Cares about civil lawsuits at this point, just because his
main his main concentration is getting the hell up out
of that jail. But another civil lawsuit for him to
worry about when he's ready. Deontae Nash, we've heard his
name before. He actually testified in the criminal trial against Ditty.
He's his former stylist. He thought a lawsuit against Ditty

(25:51):
claiming battery and physical assault during his employment. He said
he was forced to take quote loyalty tests, sexual harassment,
physical violence, and there were threats of harm and death.
He even details an incident where did he like strangled
him and threw him onto a car and chased him
on the freeway at high speed, like that's crazy detailed

(26:15):
if in fact it did not happen.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
What's a loyalty test, like do this or you're fired?

Speaker 5 (26:19):
Probably stuff like that.

Speaker 4 (26:21):
Yeah, remember we learned that the one girl said like
he locked her in a building for four days in
a room that.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
Was dark, like to test her loyalty or something.

Speaker 4 (26:32):
I didn't know that this is a thing, but I
am going to look into it and I will be
testing the two of you by the end of next week.

Speaker 3 (26:39):
See what I can come up.

Speaker 4 (26:40):
Chesecake no, because I feel like loyalty tests would be
like can you keep a secret?

Speaker 6 (26:45):
I mean, that's that's your perception somebody to get to
the edge and then see they still if.

Speaker 4 (26:51):
They'll snitch, because we all know this man was gone
on me so fast, on guys not on the team,
by anybody else, pick up the phone so fast. This
is the man that I don't know how to say
this without like there was a secret in this building,
like a big one. This was years ago, and I

(27:13):
said to Santiago, it's never gonna We didn't. We wanted
it to get out because this person deserved it. But
I said, a son, it's done. It's never going to
get out. He was like, I'll create an email. I'll
email the bossing a little bit.

Speaker 3 (27:24):
Right now, just say the word you want this out.
I won't create they won't find me like down.

Speaker 1 (27:32):
But that was my loyalty to you. So that's loyal Yeah, no,
it is. What was a secret? Can we tell it now?

Speaker 5 (27:38):
No?

Speaker 3 (27:39):
We cannot tell it now? All right.

Speaker 4 (27:41):
And lastly, everybody yesterday was talking and or watching Jimmy Kimmel.
You know, I had played some clips from you for
you from his monologue, he got a standing ovation, there
were tears, but he made his return after being suspended
for what was anything?

Speaker 3 (27:56):
It was six days or something like that.

Speaker 4 (27:59):
But the episode alone, you guys broke insane amount of records,
drew in six point two six million viewers on Tuesday
night big in the demo of Like An eighteen forty nine.
Also addition to the ratings, the monologue, which is again,
that's all I wanted to say, garnered more than twenty

(28:20):
six million views across YouTube and social platforms. It's made
it one of the most watched monologues.

Speaker 3 (28:28):
Of all time.

Speaker 1 (28:29):
Wow, be interesting to see what the ratings are in
two weeks exactly. Obviously they're gonna go down, but can
he hold some of the new audience that he got.

Speaker 4 (28:36):
I agree with you, because that was one of those
things where I don't watch the show, but I said,
I have to see that moment.

Speaker 1 (28:41):
Blogue. Great opportunity for them to revamp to the show
and kind of make it a lot more fun. Yeah
for people, because maybe they can hold that Yeah.

Speaker 4 (28:47):
Wow, all right, that is three things need to know
for Tuesday, September twenty fifth. She is at the top
of every single literal headline.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
She is all over your algorithm.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
You really can't miss Cardi B right now, and she's
to be here in April at the Garden six one
seven nine three one one nine four five.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
Call her twenty five. You're going to Cardi B. Good luck.

Speaker 9 (29:07):
Ashley and the jam In Morning Show with DJ Florid
and Sandy.

Speaker 3 (29:12):
Janets in Lowell.

Speaker 4 (29:13):
When I was growing up, my mother would drop us
off at my grandmother's and the neighbor was Janet and
we would call her Janet from another planet. She was
literally crazy, and I think about her sometimes Janet from
Another She was like an elderly lady.

Speaker 3 (29:31):
She was just nuts.

Speaker 1 (29:32):
But was she nice though, or just super crazy?

Speaker 3 (29:34):
Super nice to us would come out well like.

Speaker 4 (29:37):
But my mother used to always be like, don't don't
take lemonade from Janet from another planet.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
Like back in the day, you could do that. You
could drop your children off with some random person to
the next door. Now you can't. No, you just don't know.

Speaker 4 (29:49):
No, it's a different world. But shout out to Janet
and Lowell. I don't know if she's about the planet.
But we will do it again at A twenty hoo.
Can you have a tickets to go see Cardi B.
In the meantime, let's do the check Hi, good morning, Hello,
what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (30:02):
How are you doing?

Speaker 8 (30:03):
You?

Speaker 4 (30:03):
Guys not able to may have may or may not
be able to tell. I'm having a little bit of
a hectic morning. I like seventy five laptops in front
of me. I couldn't get the Wi Fi to work.
It's just it's been crazy over here.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
So how are you?

Speaker 4 (30:13):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
I always say this because I know we have a
lot of new people coming in and out of the show.
If you're new to the show, we love the check
in because It's all about you, your life, your world.

Speaker 3 (30:28):
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Speaker 4 (30:30):
Tell me a story? Call and ask us something. Comment
on things we've talked about. Anything you want six one
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the check in only on jam ninety four five Daddy
and the jam.

Speaker 2 (30:42):
In Morning Show with d J. Fourn It's saunt a
big morning.

Speaker 9 (30:45):
Bustin's number one for hip hop Jamming ninety four five.

Speaker 4 (30:51):
Hi, everybody, good morning, It's Ashley the jam In Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
We're checking in on you. How are you? What are
you doing?

Speaker 4 (30:59):
We started this all the way back in twenty twenty
when it really felt like it was just us on
the radio and zero people on the roads.

Speaker 1 (31:07):
What a weird time, cod Man, weird weird time time.

Speaker 6 (31:10):
Like roads were empty, nothingness, Like I don't think I
even sold one call from my I will travel from
Manchester to here, not a single web on either side.
I was every if you really think about.

Speaker 4 (31:22):
It, like whole restaurants were just shut down. We couldn't
do anything, we couldn't go anywhere.

Speaker 3 (31:27):
Well, it's just.

Speaker 5 (31:28):
I was I was DJing at a club. I remember this.

Speaker 6 (31:30):
I was DJing at a club the day you remember
the day that they did and that they said. I
think they said at midnight or one o'clock or something
like that in the morning was a curfee and after
that nobody could be outside. I remember, I think I
was in Roxbury somewhere and I was just driving through
and it was dead like that silent. It was kind
of scary, like spooky, almost like twenty eight days later
type vibe.

Speaker 5 (31:49):
Yeah, And I stopped the car and I remember I
took a video.

Speaker 6 (31:52):
I'm like, yo, it is you can hear crickets in
the city, like nobody's outside.

Speaker 4 (31:56):
That was leading up to Saint Patrick's side. I remember
because they canceled, right, they cancel Saint Patrick's days. So
it was around that time, and I would say it
was a good three four weeks before like the underground
parties started where people actually listened.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
For you, for me, for me. I think like though, like,
looking back, we got that one wrong. I think we
didn't need to shut down an entire world.

Speaker 3 (32:17):
I agree with you more.

Speaker 1 (32:18):
And you know, at the time, I think we were
all well, I was panicking and all this stuff. But
looking back, I think we got that wrong.

Speaker 5 (32:23):
Applauded bro.

Speaker 4 (32:24):
I yeah, I will I'll go with a conspiracy theorist
DJ Forrn on this one.

Speaker 3 (32:28):
But I but I I I do think I agree.

Speaker 4 (32:31):
I think anybody looking back at that was like, that
was the way it was handled and how it was
done was so innessary. But I think everybody was just
so scared. Yeah, and you I there was one time
I went to Target during that time and I came
home and I took my clothes off and I washed them.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
Because that was what they were talking about.

Speaker 4 (32:46):
And then and then I remember when I was watching them,
the fireman was like, you need to get a hold
of yourself, like you're.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
Not We're not doing this. We are not.

Speaker 4 (32:54):
And I kind of started to like snap back out
of it. But yeah, what crazy time.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
I don't think it could have happened again, unless it's
the right thing, like if this was like or something
like that, like.

Speaker 5 (33:03):
You gotta show people dying like usually live in front
of you.

Speaker 1 (33:07):
But even so, we're going to have those groups of
people that I'm gonna be like, listen, this was like
the last time. This is all a control thing, right,
So kay, bro?

Speaker 6 (33:14):
I mean ever since then, look what's happened. Everything has
skyrocketed in price, everything I remember about that time. Also
we had I don't know if you remember this story.
There was the ship that quote unquote blocked the canal
that every other ship brings, and then toilet paper started
running out, and ever since then everything has been sky high.
Remember that toilet Yeah, there was like people are fighting

(33:36):
for toilet paper. You couldn't go anywhere and see toilet
paper on shelves. It was the craziest thing.

Speaker 4 (33:40):
I just think back to, like, I see myself doing
this stuff and I just want to slap myself because
I would walk in with the mask on. Then I
was allowed to sit down at the table and take
it off to eat and drink, but then I had
to put it back on if I wanted to watch
the bathroom or late And it's just.

Speaker 5 (33:58):
Wide the once you sit down and the plastic barricade
you on your bubble.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
Oh the barricae.

Speaker 5 (34:05):
Remember the passage.

Speaker 6 (34:07):
Yes, I used to males and every chair was separated
by this tall ass plastic thing. I'm like, so it
doesn't go through plastic.

Speaker 4 (34:16):
Anytime anybody brings up COVID, I always say the only
blessing of it was the traffic.

Speaker 6 (34:21):
There was none, zero for people who became entrepreneurs. A
lot of people became business people of their own, started
their own business. I mean, look at the cars and
nods and everybody like and.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
Good for them. That doesn't affect me. For us, it
was the dry. But yes, some people became blossomed.

Speaker 5 (34:37):
Yeah, some people blossomed into.

Speaker 4 (34:39):
In fact, Tory Lanes blossomed and then he didn't. Yeah, yeah,
blossomed too much. Well, it's truly. You can't forget club
quarant Okay, it was, I went, we mean for tonight fighting.
But anyway, it's enough about COVID. I don't bring this
place down. Six one seven nine three one one night

(35:00):
four six one seven nine. Were talking about anything you want,
whatever's going on in your world. We uh, we're gonna
start with talkback.

Speaker 8 (35:09):
I'm catching up on the podcast from this morning, and
it reminded me that I wanted to ask Ashley, what
was the boy name going to be if Daisy had
been a boy.

Speaker 1 (35:21):
Oh that's a good question, Santiago.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
It's not funny like AI thinks.

Speaker 4 (35:26):
For hooking on, you're not you're not helping ju So, dude,
we were back and forth big time. Put it this way.

Speaker 3 (35:38):
The one agreement we came.

Speaker 4 (35:39):
Up with that, it was if we did have a
boy and Daisy was a boy, it was gonna be
a very Irish name.

Speaker 3 (35:45):
So we were dead set on Killian. It was gonna
be Killian Joyce.

Speaker 4 (35:49):
But then I would say, like I don't know, two
months maybe a month before I was due, the fireman
liked Callum better, so we were gonna go with Callum.
So Callum was the fire final final name, and so
on the little board right before I gave birth, it
said either Daisy Ford Joyce or Callum Ford.

Speaker 1 (36:09):
What an Irish name?

Speaker 4 (36:10):
So crazy Irish well, because remember the middle name was
always Ford because Layla's middle name is Gene as a
nod to the fireman's mom, whose name is Geene, and
Ford is my mother's maiden name. So that was always
I thought that was a really strong middle name, so
or even first name, but so Ford was always there.
So Callum Ford or Daisy Ford.

Speaker 3 (36:29):
And obviously you.

Speaker 1 (36:30):
Know what we got and it's completely you're not gonna
have another kid, like are you sure it's shutdown? Okay,
but you say that, but no, I'm.

Speaker 4 (36:36):
Serious, and we actually we looked into a urologist that
was in Weymouth, which is very close to marsh.

Speaker 3 (36:41):
We're getting there, yeah, but you're.

Speaker 1 (36:42):
Looking into it. You're not actually there. So be careful, man,
don't drink too much.

Speaker 3 (36:47):
You say that to me.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
Oh, I know, Bob'm saying that. I know. Just be careful.
I know I am, because that's how it happens.

Speaker 3 (36:54):
I am being careful.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
I know you're not. I don't know. I have no idea.

Speaker 6 (37:00):
It's angel dust man all the she got the other
stuff on control.

Speaker 5 (37:04):
It's the angel dust that you can.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
They make guys.

Speaker 4 (37:07):
I don't do drugs anymore, Okay, I had my guy,
I don't six one seven nine three one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one one nine
four five.

Speaker 3 (37:18):
Call me and tell me about your life. It's the
checking neo man. That's a good one. That takes me back.

Speaker 1 (37:25):
Sexy love, sexy love.

Speaker 3 (37:28):
Uh yeah, where does it take you?

Speaker 5 (37:32):
Is great?

Speaker 3 (37:32):
No, it is a good song.

Speaker 4 (37:33):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
We're getting a ton of talkbacks today, but you guys
aren't calling.

Speaker 3 (37:42):
I don't why everybody's being.

Speaker 4 (37:43):
Shy, So feel free to call us. We would love
to hear from you. Somebody join the show We Gotta
I do love these old school shout outs, though, to
to people's babies and to their lovers.

Speaker 3 (37:55):
These are cute.

Speaker 13 (37:57):
A happy Friday, hey nine, Why what's going on? It's
your boy DJ. Just wanting to wish everybody a happy Friday.
Stay shafe yaut there, love y'all, And I want to
give a shout out to my baby baby.

Speaker 7 (38:09):
I love you, Hope you're having a good day.

Speaker 13 (38:12):
I can't wait to see you home when I come
home later on tonight.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
Wait is it Friday?

Speaker 1 (38:16):
No, it's Thursday, he said Friday. He said Friday. Actually,
also think you got the wrong station.

Speaker 7 (38:25):
Hey ninety four day, Why what's going on? DJA?

Speaker 3 (38:29):
Who's ninety four? EHG?

Speaker 1 (38:31):
I have no idea what the hell is?

Speaker 3 (38:34):
Something's in the air tonight.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
He seems also like, yeah, let's play again, Hey.

Speaker 7 (38:39):
Ninety four day, Why what's going on?

Speaker 13 (38:41):
It's your boy DJ, Just wanting to wish everybody a
happy Friday. Stay shafe yaut there, love y'all, And I
want to give a shout out to my baby baby.

Speaker 7 (38:50):
I love you, Hope you're having a good day.

Speaker 13 (38:53):
I can't wait to see you home when I come
home later on tonight.

Speaker 1 (38:57):
I can't wait to see you home.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
She's not going to hear it because he's listening to
ninety four h j Y and also she's on to Friday.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
I don't know. All right, well, there you have that one.

Speaker 4 (39:06):
That's but you know those like I want to send
a shout out to my baby, it's like Delilah.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
Yeah. When somebody does that, I also feel like they
maybe they got into some trouble that they're trying to apologize.

Speaker 3 (39:15):
Yes, did you hear me on the radio? Give you
a shout out? I low key. I don't know this
to be true.

Speaker 4 (39:22):
I kind of feel like this is Herman because remember
we were having the conversation earlier about Herman, the guy
that was going to take AJ out, but then he
got mad because they were talking about red flags, and
he got mad that AJ had too many friends and
some of them were guys. So it was like this
whole weird thing. But now I feel like this talkback
is from him because he didn't like what you said
during the convo.

Speaker 3 (39:42):
But I could be wrong, but here we go.

Speaker 7 (39:44):
Missy the Odeo, your name should be Sissy. Dude, you
sound like a little girl.

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Your name should be sissy, Bro, you secretly want a
popsicle a man's rod.

Speaker 7 (39:58):
I don't even know why you're married, because you're married
to dudever, just yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (40:03):
You just got a man, bro, You got a man?

Speaker 4 (40:06):
Did you say in the last two hours that upset
him so much?

Speaker 3 (40:11):
I mean, am I gonna use popsicle a rod at
some point in my time? Yeah? Why is he so mad?

Speaker 1 (40:16):
I have no idea, but to his point, yes, I'm
not the manliest man in the world, and that's okay,
and I'm fine with that.

Speaker 3 (40:21):
Something you said. Really, I really upset her.

Speaker 1 (40:24):
And I don't think today was any different than any
like other day.

Speaker 3 (40:26):
No, that's why I think it's termine.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
Yeah, I think I'm really mad.

Speaker 4 (40:29):
I think it's the guy that AJ was gonna go
out a day with Sarah is in Lawrence high sagod morning.

Speaker 14 (40:35):
Good morning, How are you?

Speaker 3 (40:37):
We're good. But it's just like there's weird energy happening
right now.

Speaker 4 (40:40):
If Sandy's getting yelled at, I don't it's but we're good.

Speaker 3 (40:43):
How are you?

Speaker 14 (40:45):
I'm great. I you know, last week when you guys
had the discussion about having children and being pulled as
a mom in so many directions and not having time
for yourself and feeling guilty about it. I know, there
was like a lot of collars, and I had calls
and I just wanted to tell you that you're doing

(41:06):
an amazing job and you're really killing it. And I
just hope that you feel like you're in a better
mental capacity this week, because as a mom, it can
go from hour to hour high feel well.

Speaker 4 (41:17):
I'm already certifiably insane, so that that's like, that's like
my baseline. But yeah, you know, I do. I think
with being a mom, h you do. You put so
much pressure on yourself to make sure you're doing everything right.
And I don't know if that really ever goes away
no matter how old they get.

Speaker 3 (41:37):
But yeah, no, I'm good. Listen.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
I got two happy little girls. They get fed and
they're they're nuts. But it's just one of those things.
I think. You know what I think I'm gonna do.
I'm gonna buy a sweater for myself today. I have
it in my cart, been looking at it. I'm gonna
treat myself with the sweater. Yeah, I'm gonna do good.

Speaker 14 (41:54):
Good. Well, I'll tell you I have five and they
range from twenty six, fifteen and thirteen and seven and four.

Speaker 5 (42:03):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (42:03):
Wow, I get it.

Speaker 14 (42:05):
And you really appreciate the ages and stages when you
see them so broken up like that. You know, the
teenagers like you're just sad that they're gonna leave, and
the little ones, you're sad they're going to become teenagers
one day. So it does go by so fast.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
No, that's one thing.

Speaker 4 (42:23):
I mean, you know, when you get pregnant and you
have kids, everybody has all their everybody has insight, right,
like everybody knows it all. But one thing that everybody
told me is how fast it goes. And I don't
think you can even understand, Like, yeah, how fast it?
I mean we I just booked Layla's birthday party and
I'm like, she's going to.

Speaker 3 (42:43):
Be four, Like how how did that happen? I don't know.

Speaker 4 (42:48):
But no, listen, I think we should both because there's
probably a lot of moms listening right now that are
crying on their way to work because they had like
the craziest morning trying to get the kids out of
house and all the things. Moms, we love you, dads,
we love you too. It's not but it's uh, it's
it's a full time job being a mom out here.

Speaker 15 (43:05):
That's right.

Speaker 14 (43:06):
And just remember, at the end of the day, you're
killing it. Whether it's a bad day or a good day,
you're are killing it.

Speaker 3 (43:12):
I love it, Sarah, Thank you for that.

Speaker 15 (43:14):
I have a great day, you too, man.

Speaker 4 (43:17):
Yeah, I'm I don't even know day by day, day
by day, second by second.

Speaker 3 (43:22):
Ti Asia is in fall River? Good morning? Or is
it hi babe? Is it Tasha?

Speaker 16 (43:30):
No, it's Taisha Kaisha, my bad bab.

Speaker 3 (43:33):
What's going on in Faulla?

Speaker 16 (43:35):
I'm nothing. I'm just doing a birthday shout out to
my oldest sister, Cashel. Happy birthday. I love you to
pieces and I hope you enjoy your day.

Speaker 3 (43:42):
We love you. What are we doing? Are we having
a little cake tonight?

Speaker 16 (43:44):
Something hobby tomorrow? I have class. I am a working mom.
I just started attend in college and I have to
classes today. No, we may do something over the weekend.

Speaker 4 (43:56):
Okay, Yeah, I'm just a little little cake, little cupcake something.

Speaker 10 (43:59):
Yet a little some some.

Speaker 16 (44:01):
I'm hoping that she comes by my house because I'm
gonna leave her present in my car, trying to tempt
her to come to me.

Speaker 3 (44:07):
There you go, smart. Just make it a little easier
for yourself.

Speaker 4 (44:11):
Yes, all right, babe, will send her our love, tell
her we said happy birthday.

Speaker 16 (44:15):
I will have a good day.

Speaker 5 (44:16):
You guys, you two.

Speaker 4 (44:17):
I did not know this fun fact. But like, across
the US, the most common month to have a birthday
is September. Why no idea do the math on that sign?
Because what month would that put you? Because I read
that like the September is like the most it's.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
All it's all the people stuck inside for the winter.

Speaker 3 (44:36):
Yeah, winter babies, January.

Speaker 1 (44:38):
Just you know, getting.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
He was just he was actually just getting it. He
did Now I get whites once a week. I just
want to say that he did a sex motion that
I wish I could never ever have to see again.
Uh six one seven nine three one one nine five?
There you guys are the phones are ringing? Now you're
you're you're awake, you're moving? What the hell are you doing?
How are you call us? Six one seven nine three

(45:01):
five is the check in?

Speaker 2 (45:04):
Hi?

Speaker 4 (45:04):
Everybody, good morning, It's Ashley and the jam in the
morning show. I just want to tell everybody that our
phones are being a little weird. So if you're trying
to call and it's disconnecting. Give us a call back.
It seems like we have a good amount of phone
or callers on hold now, so I think we're back
up and running. But let's go to Sarah and Randolph.
This is gonna be the most relatable call we probably

(45:25):
put on today. You're going through something that everybody goes
through at some point in their life, a bad breakup.

Speaker 3 (45:32):
How are we feeling? When did it happen? Phill listen?

Speaker 15 (45:37):
So my birthday was last week and I was kind
of creeping and I found some stuff. He wasn't home
and we've been like talking dating for like a year
and a half, and he kind of was with me
for my birthday. The next day, I'm like, oh, let's
do something, you know. Oh no, I'm gonna go spend
some time with this girl I've been talking to just

(45:59):
out the blue. So it's just so random. And i'd
been gaslighted. It's so crazy.

Speaker 4 (46:05):
That's so you were like, let's go to some of
my birthday and he just didn't even try to hide it.
He said, no, I'm going to go hang out with
this girl that I've been seeing.

Speaker 15 (46:11):
Yeah, he was like, it's a girl from the past.
It's not my ex, but you know, I've been talking
to her because he's been distant x y Z. It's
really just cowardly.

Speaker 2 (46:20):
I feel like.

Speaker 15 (46:22):
He was like, in a perfect world, I wish I
could have both of you guys.

Speaker 4 (46:25):
I'm like, what, Well, one thing we can say about him,
he doesn't lack honesty.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
He was really trying to tell the truth at that point.
This at that point, at that point.

Speaker 4 (46:37):
But had you called him out for what you found,
is that why this all came out?

Speaker 5 (46:41):
Well, I didn't find anything.

Speaker 17 (46:42):
I followed him and he didn't know, and I pulled
up and I never actually got out of my car.
It's just we kind of were just speaking over the phone,
and he was just just not the person I met.

Speaker 15 (46:56):
It's so crazy.

Speaker 3 (46:57):
Were you guys living together, sir?

Speaker 15 (47:00):
I have my own spot, but he was basically over
my house like for the whole year.

Speaker 4 (47:04):
Yeah, well, let's say, thank god he wasn't like your
roommate and you guys were living together and you have
to deal with all of that.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
That's so good. He can get his stuff.

Speaker 4 (47:12):
And go, But the bottom line is that's still a
year and plus of your time that you dedicated to
this man. Thinking it was going to be something more
and breakups are terrible. How have you been since that
was last week that your birthday was ruined because of him?

Speaker 5 (47:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 15 (47:25):
But we were also together, like over the weekend.

Speaker 18 (47:27):
Again.

Speaker 15 (47:27):
Of course, I'm just down. We spoke it out, we've
talked it out, and so he was with me, not
last night, the night before, for two days and then
last night again I called him and he was like, Oh,
I'm on my way to Fall River to go see Meghan.
So Meghan enjoy oh man?

Speaker 4 (47:46):
So had he said I'm not going to see Meghan,
I want to come see you, would you have let
him over last night?

Speaker 15 (47:52):
Yeah, honestly I would have. And that's because I'm thirty
five and he's twenty nine, and I feel like maybe
it's just like him, you know, maybe let me give
him a chance. But I've just been through so much crap.
I'm just over it. I just wanted to really just
call in and get some advice, but I really don't
even need advice. I feel like I just need to
do better. It's just all these guys that are so

(48:14):
staffy these days. It's crazy.

Speaker 4 (48:16):
Well listen, you've said it and you know it, but
that doesn't make it any less hard. This is all
you've known for the last year and some change. It's
not easy. But yeah, I mean, you gotta let this
one go. He's twenty nine years old. Even if he
says to you, I'm going to dedicate dad, I'm getting
rid of Meghan. He ain't getting rid of Meghan. He's
not he's not ready to settle down. And you gotta
you have to shut the door. But that's on you.

Speaker 3 (48:36):
I mean, you know that's what we were gonna say too.

Speaker 15 (48:38):
But of course, yeah, all right.

Speaker 3 (48:40):
Babe, Well stay stay strong.

Speaker 4 (48:42):
Before you call him to come over, you call us
so we can tell you to stop it, all right.

Speaker 5 (48:47):
I will, all right, good.

Speaker 15 (48:48):
Love, a good days.

Speaker 3 (48:50):
It's tough. Yeah, one hundred percent.

Speaker 4 (48:54):
Meghan in Fall River Ash is in hebril Ash herself
just got out of a ten year relationship. But I
feel like this vibe is different because I see finally
on my screen.

Speaker 3 (49:06):
So you're in a little bit better place.

Speaker 10 (49:08):
Absolutely, I definitely am.

Speaker 14 (49:11):
Yeah's been that long.

Speaker 10 (49:13):
Yeah, ten years. We weren't even officially together. It was
on and off ten years of the DV. It's been
about a month since I got out. I literally uprooted
my kid from her school to a new school. I
fled my apartment. Can't talk too much about the details
because it is an open case in court, But I
just want to let all the women know that you
can get out, and once you do get out, there
is light on the other side. The grass is definitely greener.

(49:35):
Don't worry about the black lash from anybody in the outcome,
because they don't know what you went through behind those
closed doors. Don't worry about the family. Don't worry about
anybody who's going to come and judge you or anything
like that, because that was my biggest concern, especially with
my child and all the changes.

Speaker 15 (49:50):
But you got this.

Speaker 10 (49:51):
Anybody else listening, it doesn't matter how old you are,
if you're as young as eighteen or twenty eight, it
doesn't matter. You can get out, and when you do,
it does work out for you.

Speaker 15 (50:00):
He does.

Speaker 5 (50:00):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (50:01):
Ask you probably help somebody today and you and you
know what I mean just even saying that, So thank
you so much for calling. And I'm glad you sound
like you sound a lot lighter, and I'm glad. I'm
glad you finally got out of that situation.

Speaker 10 (50:14):
I definitely do. I definitely do feel lighter, and I
am so thank you very much.

Speaker 15 (50:18):
I appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (50:19):
Yeah, thank you so much for the call. This is crazy.
You guys should see these calls on hold.

Speaker 4 (50:25):
I don't know what's going on today. This is the
craziest one we got. Greg is in Florida. Greg, tell
everybody the big news.

Speaker 18 (50:40):
After I haven't had the guts to replay the Wednesday,
September tenth podcast because of the of that four am
voice clip I left you about the Jamison. But I've
been repping my friend to my friend Michael here in
Tallahas about you and the Gem and the Gem in

(51:03):
morning show on iHeartRadio, and he looked up. He looked up.
After I kept doing that, he looked up the cast
of Real Ward Nola twenty ten and he was kind
of looking. He was he was liking it, and he
especially liked Mackenzie Coburn. Yeah, I don't really know.

Speaker 3 (51:25):
Yeah, that's my friend. She's hot. Greg.

Speaker 4 (51:27):
Really, what I want you to tell everybody is you
put the Jamison bottle down in your sober now one
week sober.

Speaker 18 (51:34):
The honest God truth is no Sunday. The last sip
of anything was a beer at Sunday seven, forty eight.

Speaker 3 (51:44):
Okay, Sunday seven was your last beer? Listen.

Speaker 4 (51:47):
It's not easy for me either. I will never be sober,
but you're trying and you're making an effort, so good
for you.

Speaker 3 (51:53):
Greg.

Speaker 10 (51:54):
I go to.

Speaker 18 (51:55):
Meetings and I get with my fellowship friends and everything.
So anyway, that was.

Speaker 4 (52:00):
That night was anyways, Hey, can you make sure you
break up with my girlfriend and please jump the girl?

Speaker 5 (52:06):
Don't send anymore non zero?

Speaker 3 (52:10):
All right, all right, bye, Greg? What what's up?

Speaker 18 (52:12):
Thanks? Okay, I'm glad. I'm glad you accepted my call.

Speaker 10 (52:17):
You're great.

Speaker 3 (52:18):
There's a lot of people on Holdgreg, and I went
to you and never forget that.

Speaker 18 (52:21):
Oh man, uh real world, no on on IMDb.

Speaker 1 (52:26):
Sure, goodbye, he's not sober.