And It's Only Tuesday!

Ashlee plays and awkward game of MFK and AJ has some reservations about a guy she is supposed to go on a date with. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Daddy in the morning show.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Good Morning, Bustin's number one for hip hop.

Speaker 3 (00:05):
He am in ninety four or five. Hi, everybody the morning.
We had gotten this talk back earlier in the show,
and Santi was like, Oh, you're not going to answer that.
We're not playing this right now. We're not You're not
going to answer this right now. We're going to do
this later on in the show. And now I want

(00:26):
to I always want to slap you, but now I
really want to slap you because at that time when
you said that pub wasn't here yet.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
Now he's here, and.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
Now he's here, and he's how crazy is it though?
That he's here and this was just going to happen anyway,
But he's here, and anyways, it's fine.

Speaker 4 (00:44):
Well let's play the talkback.

Speaker 5 (00:46):
Hi, Ashley, first time caller on Time listener. I wanted
to see if you play a little game F Mary Kill.

Speaker 6 (00:55):
DJ Born Santi DJ Pop.

Speaker 7 (00:58):
I'll hang up and listen.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
Thanks. Wow.

Speaker 8 (01:02):
Wow, that.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Two of the three people staring at me is it's
that's wildly absurd.

Speaker 4 (01:11):
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Good question.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Yeah, So anyways, if you're just tuning in, the question
is F Mary Kill I'm playing and by the way,
because I'm playing, I'm you're getting one, next, you're getting
the You're getting the three too. It's not going to
be just me.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Well, we're gonna play with you in the room, so whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Maybe what if I include myself? Okay, so I have
to answer f Mary Kill, DJ FOURGN, DJ Pop Dog.

Speaker 4 (01:39):
And Santi. Now this is I'm going to I'm going to.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
I think it's as easy Pop's gonna know this answer
just it's because we're just gonna it's heightens like it's
I like, straight up, I'm killing off Pop because I
love the man. He's staring at me. I'm not gonna
make eye contact, but he comes up to literally the
middle of my chest.

Speaker 1 (02:02):
I I don't like a little person. He's not that
that sure.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
No, he's definitely like up to my shoulders for sure.
What do you pup height wise? He's five eight five eight,
and he goes, okay, he's five eight, he's shorter than me.
It's not happening. Bye, I think I would have to.
This is going to get back to him one with
DJ four, I'm marrying you and we'll leave the we know.

(02:29):
I can't say it out loud. I'm married but that's
the way I would do it if I was doing it.
I don't think anyone's going to be a shock that
i'd married you. I'm basically married to you as.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Yeah, that's what I expected marriage. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:40):
So all right, Well I'm going to play a song
and I'm going to.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
Give you your three Okay, we're going to dance out here too.

Speaker 4 (02:46):
Are you ready?

Speaker 1 (02:47):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (02:48):
F Mary Kill play the song Winnie Me and a
j A.

Speaker 4 (02:56):
I can't wait to hear that one next. Hi, everybody,
good morning, It's Ashley in the jam In Morning show.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
Listen. Actually, you guys are that there was a crazy
question I got on a talkback, But I think the
talkbacks are the best place to go if you do
have a crazy question, because we whether we play it
or not, you know, but there's anonymity to it.

Speaker 9 (03:13):
Right.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
I don't know who that guy was that just asked
me to play this game. But I'm not shying away
like you're not going to get me.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
I'll answer yeah, But you're saying it like that, it's
going to invite the craziest questions.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
Well, go ahead, go down the free iHeartRadio app, put
jam and on, hit the little talkback button.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
The little red microphone and ask the questions there.

Speaker 1 (03:31):
And what is the role that we have to answer them?

Speaker 4 (03:33):
Well, listen, I didn't say that, we'll check them out,
all right.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
So you have Winnie who used mean Kiss Went Away,
you have a J who's sitting right next to you,
and you have myself. I want to sub myself out
to really dance. But you've probably been thinking about that.
But I was gonna say, Lisa, oh, should myself?

Speaker 1 (03:57):
What's more, if you put yourself in that scenario, obviously
I'm marrying you. So I think it's better than if
you stub yourself selling myself out. Let's start it over.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
F Mary kill Lisa from Kiss One Away, Winnie formally
from Kiss one Away, and a J from jam in
ninety four or five.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
With all due respect to everybody in the scene. And
I do not want to be married to anybody here, okay,
with all due respect, right, And I say that with love,
with peace.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
And love, peace and love, peace and love.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
But I am going to say that I am going
to marry Lisa just because I think at this point
in life she doesn't want like any more kids, and
like I'm done.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Money.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Yeah, yeah, it's some money. You know, and she seems
very nice and you know, yeah, so, and then I
would kill Winnie. That's the fastest thing I would do
is I would kill her so fast, mainly because she
might be the meanest person on earth and I just
can't deal with that.

Speaker 4 (04:44):
Right.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
And then at the end of the day, I what
makes we love to aj because it's been like two
years and you know, and she's dying. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
Yeah, you wouldn't even have to do much. Yeah that
makes sense.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
And also I've heard them thing that will probably make
the whole situation a lot of fun. Yeah, I think
she would do it.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
I think she would.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
I mean, at this point, she has nothing else.

Speaker 3 (05:08):
So okay, yeah, well listen, I'll open up the talkbacks.
If you have any other crazy questions you would like
to ask us, We'll dance today. You can down the
free iHeartRadio app. Jamin's got to be on. You gotta
be playing jammin. On the app, A little red microphone
will pop up. You can hit it. You can ask
us something. We are dancing. But now I can feel

(05:30):
the I can feel the tension in here between you two.
It's palpitating. It's hot.

Speaker 4 (05:34):
It's hot in here. Everybody, good morning, It's Ashley and
the jam In morning show.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
I said you could call, and you well, I said
talkbacks just because there's anonymity to it.

Speaker 4 (05:43):
You could ask us a quick question.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
How to leave a talkback if you haven't down the
free iHeartRadio app, put on Jammin once we're on, then
there's a little red microphone. It would be like leaving
us a voicemail. We play them all the time during
the show. I said, you could ask us anything, and
I appreciate the respect everyone's given us.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
This isn't even that crazy of a question.

Speaker 1 (06:02):
Hey, what happened to the live DJ mixes?

Speaker 3 (06:06):
At the hour? On the hour?

Speaker 1 (06:08):
It's a great way to keep track of vaguely what
time it is in the morning. For those of us
who listen for quite a bit, miss us love to
see him back. Thanks well.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
First off, thanks for listening for a while. They didn't
go anywhere. They're still at seven and nine. It's just
the eight o'clock one. We we I hate using the
word got rid of, but essentially because a major complaint
that we got a lot is you guys don't talk enough.
You don't talk enough, which, ma'am, the ultimate compliment in

(06:38):
the world. But we thought that was a good place
for us to get some extra honestly of you guys
in so we add more calls there or talkbacks or
have an additional conversation there, And that's why we moved
it now.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
To solve his issue with time, I guess you can
just move your eyes one inch of the right on
your dashboard until the time, and if you're not in
the car, just pick up the phone because.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
You're listening on the hope I would just go this
to your iPhone boom, yep and then boo.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
You could see eight thirty five right now, problem solved.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
If you're crazy, just look at the sun and kind
of guess to me.

Speaker 3 (07:07):
There you have think that's that's just a very easy
way to solve that. But I think there's always this
discrepancy of like, we want to hear more from you,
how do we do it?

Speaker 4 (07:15):
How do we make that happen?

Speaker 3 (07:16):
And so that's the way we didn't ye and it's
been great because if not, we wouldn't have heard from
Jewel today.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Listen. We're trying to find that that that perfect balance
between music and talk and all that stuff.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
Yeah, because yeah, let's be honest, No one wants to
hear a lot from you there.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
It's more of the other yad. Well, no, I know
I shouldn't do that, because you did. You did pick
to marry me? Which mind so sweet.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Morning show, Good Morning Bastin's number one for hip hop
jam in ninety four or five.

Speaker 3 (07:45):
Well, well, well, lucky you, lucky you, guys. I was
going to take a call for the first story for
Beyond the Swife, but AJ has returned from her vacation
to South Carolina and she has a little bit of
an announcement to make nothing great. Hey, don't get don't
get ahead of yourselves. Did she go meet the guy

(08:06):
that she's been texting good morning, goodnight to in South
Carolina while she was there. No, uh, they were just
four minutes from each other. But no, that that isn't it.
In the meantime six one seven nine three one one
nine four five six one seven nine three one one
nine four five, we'll go to the desert real quick
and then we'll get back to what you have going on.

Speaker 4 (08:25):
And you're like, welcome.

Speaker 10 (08:26):
Back, yah, thank you glad to be back.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
So just to address, are you still talking to the
guy from South Carolina?

Speaker 10 (08:34):
He did write me a couple times while I was
there wish me a happy birthday. So we have chit
chatted a little bit.

Speaker 4 (08:39):
Okay, are you gonna like cut that now or are
we still?

Speaker 10 (08:42):
I mean, if he reads me, I'm not I'm not
screen you know, like I will answer him. I'm not
trying to be rude to him.

Speaker 1 (08:48):
But well, you were rude.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
You were in his town and you didn't see him.

Speaker 10 (08:51):
But I was up front as to why I wouldn't
see him.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
So I feel like we don't have to go down
this path. But if she had told her family was
going on, I think her own family would have been like, go,
please go see him. Anyways, we have something else potentially
on the horizon.

Speaker 10 (09:05):
Yeah. So, actually a guy slid in my d MS
on Facebook last week while I was gone Wow Facebook, Yeah,
I know, kind of weird, unexpected, and he has asked
me to go out on a date on Saturday.

Speaker 3 (09:17):
So not this is not Facebook dating. This is just
like an age old like og message.

Speaker 10 (09:21):
Following me on Facebook. And he messaged me.

Speaker 4 (09:23):
All right, well let's talk about the message. What did
he say?

Speaker 10 (09:27):
Well, so, theoretically, so we want to go bowling, but
we've been talking for a week now, and I'm kind
of what was his initial message, like, hey, he responded
to like somebody else who like messaged me about like
I think it was like wanting to see my feet
or whatever. And he was like, oh, shooters, go to
shoot And then I saw the message. I checked out
his profile and I was like.

Speaker 4 (09:48):
Tell us about what do we what did we see?

Speaker 10 (09:51):
He's like very like very fit. Okay, like probably too
fit for me. But I was like, let's.

Speaker 3 (09:57):
There is there is there is no such thing. Okay,
So is he is? He got the three bees?

Speaker 10 (10:04):
Yeah, not a huge beard, but he's got a little
a little bit going on.

Speaker 3 (10:07):
Remind everyone's on the three bees bearded, black and bald. Yep,
that's okay.

Speaker 4 (10:12):
Yeah, And this guy's fit.

Speaker 10 (10:14):
Like super fit. It it's crazy, all right.

Speaker 4 (10:18):
So he says he jokes about a post that you
had had up. You guys go back and forth.

Speaker 3 (10:22):
They're discussing son maybe going bowling, which, by the way,
I feel like it, No, I feel like that's the.

Speaker 4 (10:27):
Kiss of death.

Speaker 10 (10:27):
I don't want I don't.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
Bowling is the kiss of death. Anytime somebody calls in
here and says they want to a bowling date. It
never ends.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
Well, I don't know what it is different though, you
know at least there's that.

Speaker 3 (10:36):
Anyways, So he wants to go to the bowling alley
and now what where are we at?

Speaker 10 (10:40):
Well, I'm having reservations. I said yes to going on
the date. But we've been chatting for like a week
now and he's asked me one question about myself.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
Do you have an open mind?

Speaker 10 (10:51):
He asked me what my favorite scent is? That is
the only thing your fa my favorite scent?

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Yes, so is the combo?

Speaker 4 (10:59):
You being like, so what are you?

Speaker 3 (11:00):
Like? Are you asking? Are you peppering him?

Speaker 10 (11:02):
And you're gonna know more about him than he knows
about me. He has not asked any of like those
basic questions, and like sometimes like the conversation is very
dismissive because I'll say something because even when he was like, oh,
like we should go bowling and he's suggestin King's and
I go the one in Lynnfield and he just like
reacted to it with a muscle emoji, and I was like, Okay.

Speaker 4 (11:22):
I am, I can totally see what you're saying.

Speaker 10 (11:25):
And then not only that, he's already talking about like
the connection that we have and he can't wait to
like hold me and hug me, and I'm like, oh,
we've never met before. This is strange.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
I you know what, Damn, I wish you never told
me that part, because what I was gonna say is
sometimes we've and we've had people call and say this
that first initial like we're messaging back and forth.

Speaker 4 (11:47):
People get nervous and you don't really to see the
real side of them.

Speaker 3 (11:50):
So I would have said, maybe look past him not
asking you any questions, and then maybe when you go
in the first date, you will be pleasantly surprised and
he'll ask a ton about you. I don't love that
he's not doing that, but maybe that's it. But now
he's saying things to her like we have such a
good connection, I can't wait to hold you, Like, Sarah,
you don't even know. You don't even know what I do.

Speaker 4 (12:09):
For a living.

Speaker 3 (12:10):
He hasn't even asked what a job is.

Speaker 10 (12:12):
He has been like following me on Facebook, so it's
like maybe he has, like I post a lot, so
maybe he has a feel of like what I do,
but like no questions. Oh and then last night, so
he sent me one of my own posts where I said,
like I'm thirty seven in single and he goes lol
not for long.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
Why He's definitely kicking some game. But I wonder if
it's only just to like make love.

Speaker 10 (12:35):
But that's the thing. I so part of me feels
like maybe that's just what he's looking for. He's trying
to play the game just to get he wants.

Speaker 1 (12:43):
At the same time, you have been on dates with
guys who have done all the right things and they
turn out to be like married in the relationships. So
maybe give this one a chance, just because it's something different.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
I listen, I think you go on the first date
even though he hasn't asked any questions about her. I
understand by the way I I'm fighting this because I
don't think it's right. But I also feel like you
can't really tell who somebody he's he's in the initial phases.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
He doesn't know what to say to or he's trying
to impress her.

Speaker 3 (13:07):
Maybe in person it would be different, but him saying
things like we have such a connection, I can't wait
to hold you that is giving me the eck.

Speaker 10 (13:15):
He has also thrown it in a couple of times
how big he is.

Speaker 3 (13:19):
Oh A right, Okay, okay, how do you not start
with that you're not going on this date? You're no
nor no? Are you serious?

Speaker 10 (13:28):
He brought up all right, and he said that he
was short.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
You guys, are we how big? Is okay? Watched We're
not even We're not We're not going away from this,
but we're not taking other calls. But if a guy
in the first conversation of talking to you is talking
about his penis size, do you still go on the
first date? Let's just do that six one seven nine

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three one one nine four five six one seven nine
three one one nine four five. In the initial combo,
he says, but myani is big? Are you going on
the date?

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Everybody?

Speaker 4 (14:03):
Good morning. It's Ashley and the jam In Morning show.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
We're doing beyond the Swipe here and we're trying to
help AJ out and it's just it's so hopeless. It
just pains me. She well, first off, she says, I
might have a first date on Saturday. But when she
said might, that's how I knew something was off. So
guy hits her up on Facebook. They're messaging back and forth.
The first thing AJ notices is he asks out a

(14:27):
singular question about her, the only one question in Their
week long of chatter has been what's your favorite cent?
He then is talking about himself mostly she's asking questions
He's not get anything back. He then starts to tell her, Oh,
our connection is so strong, I can't wait to hold you, sir,
excuse me? What like hold? We don't know anything about me.

(14:48):
The third thing, which I would have put at the
number one spot is he He is mentioning to her
how big he is in his pants, like what like
how and making comments that she won't be single for long. Well, yes,
I might be single for forever based off of those
three things six one seven nine three one one nine

(15:08):
four five, But but she hasn't gone on a first
date in a while. So do we battle through all
of those things? Do we battle through every one of
those for a first date? Amanda is in bill Ricca, Amanda,
you know it's hey, how you doing? Girl? It's been
dry for aj I mean, like, it's not good out here,
and so do we put the blinders on? But to me,

(15:29):
it's the penis thing, Like, I like what.

Speaker 5 (15:33):
You nailed it with the hopeless Ashley.

Speaker 3 (15:35):
Honestly, I mean seriously, it's nailed it with the.

Speaker 5 (15:37):
Hopeless You did it's Yeah, he's got to walk away
from this one.

Speaker 9 (15:41):
Him him talking about his penis size and what sense
she likes.

Speaker 5 (15:45):
That's because he wants to nail.

Speaker 9 (15:46):
Down That's all about him.

Speaker 4 (15:47):
That's not about her, right, that's.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
All about she.

Speaker 9 (15:50):
He wants her.

Speaker 5 (15:51):
He wants to nail down a sense, so he gets
late the nights that they meet.

Speaker 4 (15:54):
That's a fact.

Speaker 3 (15:54):
And you know what, Amanda, I was hoping that it
was just the first one because I was gonna I
was gonna give them the benefit of dowt. He's nerve, he
can't really, you know, figure out how to talk to her.
He'll be better in person, But those other two things
I just I can't. I can't look away from. Thank
you for the call. I know you're on the fence
about this. Can you could you be persuaded one way

(16:17):
or the other? I I do you feel like you'd
be missing out on something if you didn't go see?

Speaker 10 (16:23):
There is part of me that's like, what if he
is actually a really great guy. But I'm just I'm
not what great.

Speaker 3 (16:28):
Guy is talking about. No great guy I'm thinking is
mentioning that.

Speaker 10 (16:36):
Yeah, so I don't think that that thing can be
mentioned afterward?

Speaker 3 (16:42):
Dating.

Speaker 4 (16:42):
That's when that thing can be mentioned.

Speaker 3 (16:45):
Is in Boston Ferrari, Listen, good morning man, I'm happy
to chat to a fellow on this one. You're talking
to a girl. These are the three things that you
know you've been mentioning. You've been only talking about yourself.
You don't ask her question, You talk about your penis size,
and you tell her, oh, you won't be single for long,

(17:05):
knowing nothing about her.

Speaker 4 (17:07):
What's he doing? What's going on?

Speaker 8 (17:09):
Well, I think she should just block and he's gonna
talk to him anymore, because that's a vetule life. You
don't talk about your privates people at.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
The price, especially at the beginning. You should never do that.

Speaker 3 (17:19):
Thank you, That's what I'm saying. Hey, let's go out
on a couple of dates and then you can mention
your privates to me. But like I don't know.

Speaker 8 (17:27):
Yeah, that's a vet uncle life. That's no, not right,
not right.

Speaker 3 (17:30):
Thank you for giving me the word privates, if anything,
because I you know, I didn't want to be saying
the other word. Mackenzie. Can you can we can you
look away from any of these three and say go
on the first date? Or is it?

Speaker 4 (17:43):
Is it a hard note for you.

Speaker 11 (17:45):
That's all for me.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
Listen. Like I said, if it was just the question thing,
I'd be like, maybe he's nervous. Though it's the other two.

Speaker 9 (17:55):
Like yeah, when.

Speaker 11 (17:59):
When she said.

Speaker 9 (18:01):
I just want to hold you.

Speaker 6 (18:03):
I got the all over my tity to like my
skin was.

Speaker 3 (18:08):
I want to shave it off? I felt that my
soul to Mackenzie, thank you for the call. Uh A
isn't millis hi? Babe?

Speaker 11 (18:20):
Good morning?

Speaker 1 (18:21):
You good? All right?

Speaker 3 (18:22):
So you you heard, you heard the main three. You
heard what this man's slinging quite literally? Uh does she
still go on this first day?

Speaker 5 (18:30):
Do you know why?

Speaker 8 (18:30):
It's up to her?

Speaker 9 (18:31):
She hasn't been in a while.

Speaker 5 (18:33):
But I'll tell you why.

Speaker 9 (18:34):
I love his type. He's uptrons about what he's all about.
Red flag for the average woman. But if what you
want to do is have fun and just cuddle and
be silly, he's the right one. If you want something serious,
she should run.

Speaker 3 (18:49):
Wow. You know what I like twisting this narrative. Yeah,
if you're if we're trying to marry him, no, no,
But if you just want to, you know, play privates,
then you can do that. That's he's he's offering that
out does that interest you.

Speaker 4 (19:06):
I don't think so it's not I don't think that's
her style.

Speaker 10 (19:10):
Yeah, I mean I wouldn't say he's being very upfront then,
because then he would tell me that that's what he wants. Instead,
he has told me that he's looking for a very
serious relationship.

Speaker 3 (19:19):
So I want to see this guy. All right, Well,
let's let's do this. He thank you for the call.
I want to check out his profile. Maybe I can
give you guys. I'm going to dive in a little bit.
I'll give you guys a little bit more info in
the meantime. Six one seven nine three one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one one five
hasn't asked a singular question about her, is talking about
his privates, never met her, and tells her don't worry,

(19:42):
you're not going to be single for long. Soon I'm
gonna be holding you and cuddling you.

Speaker 1 (19:47):
Oh.

Speaker 4 (19:48):
By everybody, Good morning. It's Ashley and the jam In
Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
We're doing Beyond the Swipe and it's so funny because
we didn't we didn't really know where it was going
to take us after we talked about AJ.

Speaker 4 (19:57):
But AJ has been chit chatting with a guy.

Speaker 3 (20:00):
They are expected to go on a first date this
Saturday sun And just in their conversation in total, how
long have you guys been talking for?

Speaker 4 (20:08):
Would you say a week?

Speaker 10 (20:09):
Yeah, it's been about a week okay.

Speaker 3 (20:11):
In the week timeframe, he has asked her one question,
so seven days, one question, which was what's your favorite ccent?
Other than that it's her assing him questions about himself.
He never responds as anything. A good example, she said, uh,
you know, if we go on a first date, I
can't go until next week because I'm in South Carolina.
He never even said what are you doing there?

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Carolina?

Speaker 3 (20:32):
I mean, hello, what are you doing there?

Speaker 1 (20:35):
But also that shows that like he has an interest
in what you're doing. I'm starting to feel like this
guy might be a very selfish type of person.

Speaker 10 (20:41):
It honestly is. And again not that I wanted to
all be about me, but it just doesn't feel at
least there's really interest in me at least reached out
to me.

Speaker 3 (20:51):
Yeah, you know, it's weird. So he then has made
comments to her like I we have such a great connection.
I can't wait to hold you and cuddle you. He
has made reference to his privates thank you Ferrari for that,
and she just let me look at his Instagram, A
little bit good looking man like.

Speaker 4 (21:10):
She said, he's fed, he's a trainer, and she.

Speaker 3 (21:12):
Had a photo up of her like looking over her shoulder,
and he wrote that thing jumpin' oh in reference to
her other private.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
He definitely wants what he sees.

Speaker 3 (21:26):
Yeah, he wants what he wants. But here's the thing.
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
She hasn't been out in a while. Can a guy
like this just be doing this but yet still win
her over? I guess that's kind of where we're at
with it. Or does she just stay in the desert?
Is it?

Speaker 1 (21:44):
You know what? If I were her, I would just
go out with this guy and possibly just like get
some entertainment for the very least of a couple of nights,
because you know, let's put the cards on the table here.
It's been a long time since she's had any type
of loving.

Speaker 3 (21:56):
Cherry's in Hyde Park. Hi, Sherry, good morning.

Speaker 6 (22:01):
Good morning.

Speaker 3 (22:02):
So you've heard is this type of guy that you
would go out on a date with?

Speaker 12 (22:08):
So I'm married, I you know, if I was single,
possibly because men are looking for a sexual attraction.

Speaker 6 (22:16):
That's their first thing, and he clearly likes what he sees, right, so.

Speaker 12 (22:20):
He's letting it and be known what he has to offer.
And then emotional you know, connection comes later for men,
but women are looking for that emotional connection right away,
but it doesn't come right away for men. So he's
letting her know what he has to offer.

Speaker 6 (22:36):
I think she should go out.

Speaker 12 (22:38):
On the date and see the connection she has when
she does talk to him and see him, because it
could possibly he might be just dried via text, you
know well.

Speaker 3 (22:48):
And that's why I was I can stand with you
on that. So when she was just saying the question thing,
I was like, listen, he could be nervous, he could
be dry, like he said, whatever. It's the mentioning of
the private, like are we are we? Well?

Speaker 6 (23:01):
I don't, That's what I'm saying. I think he is
looking for I think he for men.

Speaker 12 (23:08):
In general, they initially have that sexual connection first, that's
what they're interested in, and then emotion comes after.

Speaker 3 (23:16):
And I say that, you're right.

Speaker 6 (23:17):
Emotion comes first.

Speaker 4 (23:18):
You're right, I need to feel something emotional connection. I
get it.

Speaker 3 (23:21):
I listen, I see what you're saying. So how does
it make you like when I tell you like, the
last thing he wrote to her was that thing jumping like?
Is that you know.

Speaker 6 (23:31):
That that just proves that he's definitely looking for that
sexual you.

Speaker 12 (23:39):
Know connections that he's probably a bit of a freak,
and you know he's letting it be known.

Speaker 3 (23:46):
So Sherry, you say, you say she goes.

Speaker 6 (23:51):
I say she goes, yes, and if she doesn't like
him and it doesn't work, then she doesn't have to
see him again.

Speaker 9 (23:58):
But I think she should try it.

Speaker 3 (24:00):
She got to go out bowling. I would say she
got a free meal, but I know she'll pay for herself.
So there's that, Sherry, thank you for the call. Uh, Linda, Linda.
Linda is in New Bedford. This is a good question, Linda.
Linda wants to know AJ when he responded to your
video and said you're not going to be single for long?
What was your response?

Speaker 10 (24:20):
Absolutely nothing. I didn't answer at all.

Speaker 3 (24:24):
She saw that and didn't answer, Linda, Dude, he's putting
on the full court press. Linda, what do you think.

Speaker 13 (24:30):
I think if she's really looking for something, then she
should have been like, well, since you said I'm not
going to be single for long, you haven't even asked
me any question about myself. So how do you know
I'm not gonna be single forlong?

Speaker 11 (24:40):
You don't know?

Speaker 3 (24:41):
Yes, that's that's not a bad response. Why would you
want to be with me? You know nothing about me?
Quite literally, you have asked me nothing. Okay, Linda, thank
you for that.

Speaker 13 (24:50):
Yeah, because I feel like if she's just leaving it blank,
he's just gonna be like, oh, she's not even like
saying anything.

Speaker 5 (24:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
Well, I mean that goes both ways.

Speaker 3 (24:59):
Thank you. Sometimes no response is the best response, because sir, Wow.

Speaker 1 (25:05):
Can't tell you. The bigger issue I have with him
is not the fact that he said the thing about
his penis. It's more so what he does for a
living that I have an issue with, especially for a
long term relationship. He owns a gym, or he's a
trainer or something like that. From what I'm seeing, like
he's around females a lot, and this is a stereotype
that I've heard that a lot of these guys like
make the way around their training facilities. That'd be my
biggest concern.

Speaker 3 (25:26):
Not that twenty four hours after talking, he's saying that
he has a large private.

Speaker 1 (25:30):
No, no, no, that's not the red.

Speaker 4 (25:32):
Flag for a sauntist that he's a trainer.

Speaker 1 (25:34):
There you have it, like the private part like grow up,
but the other part it's like, that's the.

Speaker 10 (25:38):
Red FLI just sleeping around with all his class again
grown up.

Speaker 4 (25:42):
He's forty years old.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Forty years old out here talking to a female within
the first three sentences about how big your private is?

Speaker 1 (25:49):
Yeah, but then also, how does that even come up
in conversation? Do you just like, oh, what's your favorite
sent By.

Speaker 10 (25:54):
The way, he was short and says that he's like
dated women taller than him before, and I was like, oh,
that's interesting. A lot of women won't do that. And
he's like, yeah, well f them, because you know, I'm
probably bigger, you know, and stronger than any man they'll have.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
Okay, I don't like this guy.

Speaker 4 (26:13):
I don't like that.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
I don't like this guy. You do what you want
to do, like do it for the sex, but don't
marry this guy.

Speaker 3 (26:19):
I'm doing it all right. I don't think you're talking
to do it for this, are you?

Speaker 1 (26:23):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (26:24):
Come back come back to reality.

Speaker 1 (26:27):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (26:29):
What in the actual it's only a Tuesday.

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I know I can't believe I was thirty nine. I
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I don't grocery shop anymore there because I don't live
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You on, do they actually actually if you go back
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During the hours of six to ten am.

Speaker 7 (28:55):
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Speaker 3 (28:58):
All right, Jamill Bank, thank you for the call. Were afraid?
I was like a good book. Nancy is calling from Where.

Speaker 4 (29:06):
Are you Nance?

Speaker 11 (29:09):
I'm in Boston?

Speaker 3 (29:10):
Are hi Nance? Okay? So earlier in the show we
were talking about crazy breakup stories and we were like
we had to hear yours, so so tell us what happened?

Speaker 9 (29:20):
Okay, So I did this guy for like six months,
met his family, went on several different trips with him,
and then this actually just happened recently and he started
becoming like really cold and distant a couple of weeks
before we broke up. It's like kind of getting messages
on his phone, tilting his phone, doing things like hey, the.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
Old we're sitting at the table, I'm going to text
and then turn it upside down.

Speaker 4 (29:41):
I've seen that one.

Speaker 9 (29:43):
Yeah, yeah. And then and then he said he wanted
to take things flow because I always go to his
house on the weekends. And I was like, okay, so
but your mom, you know, invite me over. Thanksgiven. If
you want to take things flow, should we be doing that?
And then we went to visit his daughter to meet
her his daughter's boyfriend's parents. And I'm like, you say, guy,
should really be going with you even if we were dating.
But even if we were doating for three weeks, why

(30:04):
wouldn't you meet them? And I was like, so we
went and then this was our six month anniversary. So
I ended up giving him some you know, gifts and
a couple of gad gifts. When we get back from
the trip. This was a few weeks, like a month ago,
he was like, oh, well, those gifts were childish, and
you know, it was just being really nasty and saying
mean things. And then I said, okay, fine. You know,

(30:25):
so he broke up with me, and then I was like, well,
then I stopped buy a house on the weekend and
grabbed stuff. Wouldn't even let me go to his house
to grab my things. I met him like on the
side of the road.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
What the hell hell did we ever get an answer
as to what really ignited me? Do we think there
was someone else?

Speaker 9 (30:42):
I think I think he found someone else. And we
never even argued, that's the thing. And his parents loved me,
like I met his daughter, I met his brother. I mean,
I mean I met everybody, and we never even argued.
But I started noticing a pattern because we did go
to Disney and so we were trying to merge our
Disney app accounts and some other girl was on there
because he ended up taking another girl there. Then he

(31:02):
then I found out he took another girl to Paris
and another girl to Spain. So I started noticing a pattern,
and he just can't like, you know, I never had
a long term relations.

Speaker 3 (31:13):
Yeah, And it's like, if you don't mind, can I
get his info because AJ could use a trip. I
mean she could absolutely know such. Hey, by the way, nance,
how were things in Like when we shut the bedroom door,
was everything okay in there?

Speaker 5 (31:28):
Or did you no?

Speaker 8 (31:30):
No?

Speaker 9 (31:30):
I actually sent him a nice, little nasty letter giving
in my opinion. I was like, you know, in the beginning,
all of these things that you said you were going
to do, he never met any expectations.

Speaker 3 (31:41):
So wow. I mean, but going on trips like that
in just six months of knowing each other is also crazy.
I mean, even like you said, merging the families after
just six months, we're gonna do things. We're gonna have
turkey together. That's that's putting the full court press. That's
a rush.

Speaker 5 (31:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (31:56):
Well, he kind of tried to put everything on me.
Like he called me out of the blue one day
I work. I called him. I was like, you know,
we were just having our normal conversations. He's like, let
me call you back, and then all of a sudden
he called me back saying my gifts were childish and
you know this is and that. But I we never
even argued. It was just a slap in the face.
And I, you know, and I told him a lot
of things. My husband passed away a couple of years ago,
and for him just to do that, it was just

(32:18):
he's really nasty and he's nasty.

Speaker 3 (32:20):
Is that I'm sealthy? Yeah yeah, ah sure, guys, Well
nance you know what, I'm sorry. I still feel like
we got time. You're gonna find it.

Speaker 6 (32:34):
You will, I hope.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
So you will then keep your head up and block
his number.

Speaker 9 (32:41):
Oh I sure am.

Speaker 4 (32:42):
Thank you guys, thank you for the call.

Speaker 1 (32:44):
That's crazy and the whole lay that her husband died
and he's.

Speaker 3 (32:47):
And she's getting back in the game, and that I
mean you were running to grab the phones. But like
he would say to her, will come and meet my parents.
They've been dating for like a month, Like what's what?

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Yeah, that would make anybody feel like they have something.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
They were planning things giving. I mean in less than
six months they're going to Disney for a trip. I
mean that's crazy.

Speaker 1 (33:06):
But if you start to listen though, and then like
this guy has got m but he bring he brings
people on these amazing vacations too.

Speaker 8 (33:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
Well that's why some of us said, hey, ta can.

Speaker 3 (33:16):
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(33:37):
Ashley and the gm in morning show. We're doing the
check in right now. How are we what's going on?
What do we do in? Chica is in Dorchester and
she told a j she's got some she's got some problems.
She needs us to help her iron them out. Talk
to me, what's going on?

Speaker 10 (33:52):
Hey guys?

Speaker 5 (33:54):
So yeah, cheek up from deutschester. Heah again, I am
Black and Claire all the way here. And I have
this girl who I've wanted for so long, like literally
two years. I've seen her get engaged in her engagement
all that. Yeah, I still waited for her, like I

(34:17):
thought she was everything I would want, Like she just
seems so amazing, like through and through. So yeah, really
wanted her. And granted we started a friendship, you know,
and the friendship is great, But we started the friendship
with the intention of talking for real and dating. But

(34:38):
then somebody came left hand and just like they came
out of nowhere, and I feel like I'm falling really hard,
really fast. I think it's only been like a little
under a month that I've known this woman, but I
have never felt like this, like ever, And I don't
want to block my blessings and like the girl I've

(34:58):
been waiting on on the sideburn since I've been waiting
for a two years.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
But hey, thanks, Listen, everyone in the car and everyone
listening is saying, we're all screaming the same thing. Why
are we waiting for someone when we got somebody right
in front of us that we've quote never felt this
way before. Listen, we can't be waiting on people. We can't.
We have to live each day to its fullest. You're
waiting on a woman that was engaged to another woman.

(35:25):
We have to close this chapter. We have to allow
space for the new. I'm telling you because here's the thing.
If if in the end that woman you waited all
those years for, what if she doesn't choose you, and
you and you and you block this potential blessing like
you said, and you end up alone a horrible tragedy.

(35:49):
I would and by the way, can I also throw in,
how listen, consider yourself lucky because we have so many
people that call on this show that are so sadly single,
and here you are options.

Speaker 5 (36:01):
Okay, well, I'm a little battie if I can say so.
But I could be here those there and I'm pretty funny,
So no, I can.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
I can understand it. You wouldn't have two women after
you if you were. By the way, you keep using
the words like that, that this other woman that you're
waiting and you're waiting, why is she not coming after you?
Like why are you option B for her? And by
the way, you don't sound like an option B bitch, you.

Speaker 5 (36:29):
Know, because now she is, and now she's applying all
this pressure, and it's like god, damn sorry, It's like, dang,
I wanted this, Like oh I was a granted she
didn't really know I existed. Yeah, when I wanted her,
she didn't really even though I existed. Once I fully
introduced myself, she looked at me and I never looked back.

(36:50):
So it's not like I did not gave her attentions
the moment, I like assively tried, but still it's like
a little too late, Like yeah, girl, I don't. I've
seen you through it all and now you've just met me,
and the energy is it's cool, but it's a little
too late.

Speaker 3 (37:08):
And what about this other woman that you've been chatting
with for a month and you've never felt this way before?

Speaker 4 (37:13):
About what's like? What's her story?

Speaker 5 (37:16):
Oh my goodness, so, oh my gosh, she is amazing.
She just makes me slightly nervous because, oh I'm sensitive.
She's extremely sensitive. And I don't know if it's normal
for people to fall in love just fat.

Speaker 11 (37:35):
I know I'm.

Speaker 5 (37:36):
Crazy because I care how I care. I don't know
if she's supposed to feel how she feel about me
this fast as soon? Like are we both crazy? Should
we both be dating each other? Well? Are we both
unhimed therapy? Why are we?

Speaker 3 (37:51):
Santi fell in love? Is that fast on? You could
speak to that.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
It was very fast. We went on our first day
on February two. I was in love with her like
two weeks after that. So it happened and it worked.

Speaker 5 (38:01):
So see, Okay, that's how I feel, like I literally
want this woman, like I want to go to this
like I need to go to a bank. It's on
spring put it in like I want to make my
whole baby mama.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
Okay, well then I don't even know why we are
chit chatting about the other woman. I think you just
got your answer, very graphic. But I think you just
got your your answer. Chica, listen.

Speaker 5 (38:24):
I think I just needed someone else to tell me.
I would like to be crazy all and like this
because I feel like.

Speaker 1 (38:31):
She is the one.

Speaker 3 (38:32):
Let love it. I mean, hey, you are crazy, but
it seems like so is she and you guys are
crazy together in love. There you have it. Just just
don't move in, don't don't, don't you haul it.

Speaker 4 (38:44):
We don't need to move in right away, but you
know that.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
But go to the bank.

Speaker 3 (38:48):
Okay, you should Goodbye. She was starting to explain the process.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
I'm like, oh, we got I think we understand him.

Speaker 3 (38:56):
Yeah, we gotta go wow True love with option six
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eight I'll to say who you are? All right, mister
telephone man's checking in. Wants to talk about Haiti going
to the World Cup.

Speaker 8 (39:46):
Yeah, good morning everyone, ask good morning, morning morning. How's
everybody going. Yeah, I just wanted a salute Haiti on
a historical win fifty two years I think it was
nineteen seventy four when they went to the World Cup last.
I just wanted to shout out all the Haitians, all
the zos locally and abroad. It's a big historic it's
a lot of excitement. If you know any Haitians shot

(40:08):
them out. And I wanted to mention that that call
I heard prior to you going to the air, that
I don't I don't know her name, but I feel
bad for people because you didn't mention that people are
lonely and sad. I don't think that's all necessarily true.
You could be single and be living, vibrant and happy
and full of life, you know what I mean. The

(40:30):
thing is, The thing is she sounds like she was
a little desperate. And then when you're lonely and you're desperate,
you get any attention, you go crazy. Then you're you know, fools, rushing,
and then you're in love and then you head over
heels and you put people on a pedestal.

Speaker 3 (40:43):
Are you talking about Chica who has them? Yeah?

Speaker 8 (40:47):
But she good. Yeah, I don't know her name. Her
name is crazy.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
Yeah, desperate. She's not rushing, She's just a lesbian and
that's what they do. They move quickly. There's no you know,
lesbian or not.

Speaker 8 (40:58):
Love is love, you know. But at the end of
the day, I'm just saying, like, you don't don't fool
on even rush in, so you love yourself first and
then you could start to love someone else. And that's
what I think Chica needs to do. Whether you're lesbian
or not.

Speaker 3 (41:09):
You know, well, no, I mean what I'm telling you
as a lesbian connoisseur, that's them knowing each other for
a month and being in love like that's not weird
by any means for them.

Speaker 4 (41:19):
That's so, that's that's usual behavior.

Speaker 3 (41:21):
But by the way, who died and made you the
relationship connoisseur out of curiosity? Me?

Speaker 8 (41:27):
Me, My relationship died and I became the relationship connoisseur.

Speaker 3 (41:30):
You know.

Speaker 8 (41:31):
Yeah, I had a lot of self reflecting. I have
to focus on myself and what did I do? What
is my wrongs and in what I did in ruining
my relationship in my marriage. So yeah, it's very hard
to look at yourself in the mirror and self reflect
So what kind of made me talk like that?

Speaker 4 (41:47):
I got it? So you did the divorce go through
or you guys we're.

Speaker 8 (41:52):
Working through it. We're just trying to, you know, keep
the peace and keep the kids at the basis of everything,
you know, and keep that normal see them.

Speaker 5 (42:01):
So what's it?

Speaker 3 (42:02):
What's it been like? Are you?

Speaker 5 (42:03):
So?

Speaker 3 (42:03):
I know you said, you know, find peace with yourself.
Is that what you're doing? You're not dating or anything,
You're just living with peace?

Speaker 8 (42:10):
Yeah? Absolutely, I mean, yeah, I'm dating and everything, you know,
But hold on brow, mama. You know, I'm at the gym.
I'm about to play ball.

Speaker 1 (42:18):
Yeah, so jump shots?

Speaker 5 (42:19):
Man?

Speaker 3 (42:21):
Are you any good? Are you any good?

Speaker 7 (42:23):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (42:24):
I'm a baller. You know what I'm saying. You gotta
pull up if we should hold something? So we could,
you know, get all the ball as locally and just
get in, get it in. I know you played at Northeast.

Speaker 3 (42:32):
Are are you near anyone right now?

Speaker 8 (42:36):
I'm about to walk on the court. I'm ready about
to play. I'm in the gym.

Speaker 4 (42:39):
Just can you hand the phone to one person that
you're about to play with?

Speaker 8 (42:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (42:42):
Yeah, quick, real quick, really quick, real quick, real quick.

Speaker 8 (42:45):
Come on, hold on, hold on, Yeah, you want to
actually say it up?

Speaker 1 (42:50):
Hey, what's going on?

Speaker 3 (42:51):
Man?

Speaker 5 (42:51):
Hey?

Speaker 3 (42:51):
Real quick question for you, mister telephone man, he has
any game?

Speaker 4 (42:55):
Or is he building building houses out there with all
those bricks?

Speaker 8 (43:00):
That's the Haitians Jordan's Oh day jan Wow?

Speaker 1 (43:04):
You every.

Speaker 8 (43:08):
Heard that?

Speaker 3 (43:09):
Jordan? Wow? They have it ladies. If you're looking for
a single Haitien man, I got buckets. Mister telephone man.

Speaker 1 (43:14):
Who can't afford to play basketball at eight am in
the morning.

Speaker 3 (43:17):
Yes, I am so jealous. I actually never been more
jealous anything in my life. By the way, I do
want to play this really quickly we got this question.
Did ever buy apply from Jamie or is he going
to be sitting on the same How for any of
you guys have followed along when Jamie calls in, he ever,
I mean for the past three years, like it's not

(43:37):
even a joke, he has been asking Santi if Santi
will buy one of his pies. This just in sound
tell everybody the big news.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
Technically, I did not buy a pie, but you did
buy popcorn. Popcorn Morning show.

Speaker 2 (43:50):
Good Morning, Bustin's number one for hip hop. You am
in ninety four or five.

Speaker 3 (43:58):
Hi, guys, father time is father time, you know. And
we get older and the people around us get older,
and you know, I have asked my dad so many
times would he consider moving closer to here? You know,
my mother moved up here and there. There is a
real study out that grandparents who are around their grandkids

(44:23):
often live longer because they have something that they have,
something to know they have they have a new passion
in life and something to be passionate about, and it
helps with like the day to day and activities and
things are going on and there's happenings and it's not
just sitting in the house all day.

Speaker 4 (44:38):
A constant complaint I get from my dad.

Speaker 3 (44:40):
Who's retired, is that he's bored, you know, and he's like.

Speaker 4 (44:44):
It's not I can't golf because it's too cold today.

Speaker 3 (44:48):
He has his little golf community, he's he's he goes
to a country club, and he has his people, and
I get it, and I would never want to take
him away from that. I just do sometimes wish he
was closer so I can be a little bit more
hands on with the things that he does. You know,
when he was here last I'm cleaning ears, I'm cutting toenails,

(45:08):
like because the man just he's just.

Speaker 4 (45:10):
A bachelor for life. It's just not part of his priorities.

Speaker 3 (45:15):
But over the last couple of months, it's just gotten
to the point where I want to make sure that
all of the affairs are in order. And we met
with a lawyer and we did his will, and we've
been doing all of that stuff, and the finances came up,
and you know, he has said like, yeah, I mean, buddy,
I see Chargers on my card. I don't know who

(45:36):
it is, but you know, I donate. And so he
said a few things that triggered to me like, oh,
he might have done something where he thought he was
doing something else and got scammed. So I just said
to him, listen, I want to be able to if
something happens, God forbid, see into the account, have access
to the account. This is something super low level you guys,

(45:59):
but many of you might not know if you don't
have your accounts set up properly. For example, if you
were to pass or something and you don't have it
that someone can in your family can access your account.
If you don't add like a beneficiary or change your
account to like whatever. The state gets that money. It's
not your money. You know that money is gone, and

(46:22):
I just don't think average people know that. I think
the banks make it confusing on purpose so that we
don't understand.

Speaker 4 (46:29):
So well.

Speaker 3 (46:31):
PSA for you just check your accounts because God forbid
something were to happen, you would want your family to
get that money, not mass Yeah, okay, so we're doing
all the money stuff. We're checking everything. I'm getting accounts
and access to accounts. Now, I have all the access.
I'm not checking it often. There's would be no point
for me to check it. He calls me yesterday. He's frantic, dude.

(46:56):
He's like buddy, I guess I'm getting scammed again. And
I said, what, take a deep breath, what happened? And
he goes, well, they called me and they said there's
two separate charges on my credit card. And he goes,
I didn't make the I didn't make the payments. I
did it. One was for one seventy and one was
for like three oh three, and I didn't make those.

(47:18):
He's like, did you, because especially with Christmas, he'll just say,
buy things for them.

Speaker 4 (47:23):
Let me know what I bought.

Speaker 3 (47:26):
I said, no, I did not spend four hundred plus
dollars on your card and not tell you that I
was using your card. So he tells me that it's
under the name cart Panda.

Speaker 4 (47:38):
That's what they told him on the phone, cart Panda.

Speaker 3 (47:41):
So heay, how are recent sounds sus So I immediately
am like, all right, let me call you back, let
me get into your credit card. So I see right away,
I see the two I see cart Panda. I call
him back and I go, this isn't good, Like I
don't recognize this. I of course immediately did what everybody does.
I I copy cart Panda. I'm googling. I don't see

(48:02):
anything but then I also see somebody say cart panic
can be like a third party vendor and some people
might use that to collect their pay so there is
such a thing.

Speaker 4 (48:13):
But he he's like, I did not make the purchase.

Speaker 3 (48:18):
So I tell him, you got to call back the
credit card company and tell them you didn't make the purchase.
This is a scam. Don't worry.

Speaker 4 (48:23):
You're gonna get your four plus one hundred dollars back. Uh.

Speaker 3 (48:28):
He doesn't.

Speaker 4 (48:29):
He tells me he's gonna call them.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
He doesn't call me back for a good, like solid
thirty minutes, so I can't even look at you.

Speaker 4 (48:35):
I was like, I'm smiling.

Speaker 8 (48:36):
I Uh.

Speaker 4 (48:37):
I get back on the phone with them. He's like,
what are my girlies doing?

Speaker 3 (48:42):
I go, dad, yo, yeah. He immediately goes to one
of my girlies. I said, what do you mean what
are your girls doing? I said, what did the credit
card company said? Did you get the money back? He's like, oh.
I actually turns.

Speaker 4 (48:51):
Out I made those purchases. I go, oh you did.

Speaker 3 (48:55):
He's like yeah. He's like, I completely forgot, but I
did make those purchases.

Speaker 4 (48:59):
I go, oh, okay, what.

Speaker 3 (49:03):
Am I girlly doing? What?

Speaker 4 (49:06):
I doesn't want to talk about. So now I'm all right,
So I hang up with him.

Speaker 3 (49:10):
I go back onto the credit card website because I'm like,
this is just so strange. Like cart Panda. I didn't
realize that you can actually click on the cart Panda
payment and it will tell you.

Speaker 4 (49:26):
It has like a code type of thing.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
So I copy and paste the code thing and I
toss it into into googleing.

Speaker 4 (49:35):
And what I came across is is this.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
Mail enhancement drug, the world's number one natural formula that
supports men's energy and vitality. A supplement with selected ingredients
and nutrients that promote maximum mail health. Okay, you know

(50:00):
now it makes complete sense. Why he uh yeah, he
just moved on.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
He didn't want to talk about it, so he was
out there. And the thing you have to think about
is where did he come across his website?

Speaker 3 (50:12):
So this is me and my brother. You know what
I'm thinking, infomercial is my thought. He watches the ID
Channel a lot.

Speaker 1 (50:19):
Yeah, Okay, that would make sense.

Speaker 3 (50:21):
Yeah, because it's like ID Channel, Fox Football, and ESPN,
so those would be the four.

Speaker 1 (50:28):
And I've seen these commercials too, because there are a
few celebrities from back in the day who do them,
And there's usually like these men talking about getting their
bigger back in the bedroom in like feeling like that
like that juveniation that they that they once had, and
their wives are thankful.

Speaker 3 (50:42):
It's literally, my wife is so thankful. Each ingredient has
been strategically chosen for its ability to stimulate testosterone production,
enhance libido, improved circulation, and restore male sexual performance.

Speaker 1 (50:56):
So all that has to do with blood flow, and
you know, the main thing with blood flow is it
gets you know.

Speaker 3 (51:01):
Yeah, Well, I actually was talking to the fireman about this.
He's like, you should be happy with this. This is
actually a good thing for his blood flow and his
like circulation, and it's good for his heart.

Speaker 1 (51:10):
Too, So well that's good. And it's also like he's
doing it for a reason because like you know, he
has a lady.

Speaker 3 (51:15):
Now. Fine, So I call my brother and my brother's like, dude,
you need to get back into the credit card statement
because the last time was the the other ones, and
he's like, how many things has he taken? So I
think what happened was going back the supply of the
other one stopped because I noticed the data on that,

(51:36):
so he it was probably time for a reup.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
I've done some research in this world, and I will
tell you that the bluehoo is more consistent and better
way to go. This is more of a supplement that
works over a long period of time.

Speaker 3 (51:48):
Okay, this is not a conversation I'm willing to have
with him. So I thank you for that information.

Speaker 1 (51:55):
That you guys are open with everything, but you won't
talk about this.

Speaker 3 (51:58):
I can't.

Speaker 4 (51:58):
I can't.

Speaker 3 (51:59):
I can't call him and be like, hey, I know
you weren't scamming. I know you were trying to have
sexuals with your new girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
Like he wants the old feeling, he wants the old.

Speaker 3 (52:07):
Scott, trying to get that old thing back he made you.
Like it's like, how many pills is this man and
what he made me