Cheating On The Kiss Cam pt. 1

The viral moment form the cold play concert has taken over the world

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake up, wake yo, wake.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
Oh Friday day baby, we made it, thank god.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
I don't even had like a crazy week. It's just
I don't know why I was very excited.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
I think it's because, like we were off last week. Yeah,
that first week back is always a lot tougher.

Speaker 2 (00:24):
It's the toughest that first alarm coming off of VAKA.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Is and then you start thinking like when's my next vacation? Yeah.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Yeah, And it's weird because I think a week is
a good amount of time. Two weeks. But then I
at least start getting to the point where I'm like, Okay,
I need to get back into some sort of routines.
It gets a little crazy. I'm waking up every morning
being like should I try a new donut shop? You
know what I mean? Like I'm being nuts.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Like I love not having like the morning routine like that.
My routine turned into getting up at seven o'clock in
the morning, watching something for like an hour, then going
on about my day, and that just something amazing.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
It's really just the three thirty alarm clock. It is
in the end of it. If you It's really just that.
But yeah, that's probably why I've been very excited for Friday.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
I don't think people like understand that it's not just
the three thirty, it's also the back end of the
two in the evening. What that affects you, Like like
last time my girls had basketball at nine, I didn't
go because it's late. I would have got home at
ten thirty. Like, come on, like.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Nine o'clock for a twelve year old to play basketball
is a little bit absurd.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
I know, that's just way so late because I think
the games start between like six to nine, so it's
like a cycle. There's like twenty teams cycling in and out.
So I think that's far. It's indoors the ones first,
I get it. I understand. Listen teens playing nine, they
go with staying up late. I understand. I'm you know,
it's just the way that it is.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
I used to have outdoor summer league games, uh, and
sometimes they would start like seven. Yeah, but nine is
that's just.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
The other league that they're in is more convenient because
the game started at five. The day was perfect, perfect.
I was home by six thirty. It was great.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Do we think nine is late because of our but
like late kid, nine is late.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
Little nine is late for a game yeah, I just
feel like nine is late, super late, because what time
was the game done? I think like ten yea or
nine ninety five.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
Let's just say let's erase children and say someone calls
your phone at nine pm. Yeah that's late.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
No, yes it is?

Speaker 4 (02:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Which yeah you dead like crazy? Is it's your one clock?

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Nine o'clock for a call is not super killing someone?
But I hear what you're.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Saying, though, I'm killing someone off at nine, thead calling
me right on the bord of like in the eight
you're safe. It hits nine, we're asleep.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
In the eighth you're picking up the phone after nine, Like,
shoot me a text that I can read in the morning.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
Yeah, I have so many texts on my phone when
I wake up that they may have hit me at
like nine twenty oh yeah, nine twenty nine twenty I
got one last night nine to twenty five asleep.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
But they're expecting you not to respond all of them.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
Ok.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah, they know I'll hit them back in the morning
or not at all if I forget.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Theyven times I've called you, like after eight, and I'm
like this fifty to fifty chance she's going to pick up.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Yeah, Well, because I'm usually now at this point, I'm
putting one of the kids. Daisy goes down around seven
forty five. So yeah, if anybody were to call me
at that, I put the phone on silent. But you
ain't getting an answer.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Like what if it's an emergency, Like it's all.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
He's got a leave it on the my boemail. Yeah,
leave the emergency on my voicemail because you're not waking
this baby out.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
I'm kidnapped with a guy in a car and he
has me taped, so.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
I can only call you, not my wife.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Anyways, big plans this weekend. I know what Forren's doing.
We'll get to it. Forest been talking about Saturday since Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Saturday is going to be lit, I mean two parties
in one day, so let's see how that go. But yeah,
Cash Cobain, who's kind of like one of the biggest
artists out here. Man, He's going to be at what
started the Palladium from like seven to eleven PM. But
I'm all excited about the dedicated to US thirty plus
two thousand and nineties vibes going down at Tiki Rock
from two to seven and so if you like that
kind of vibe or you over thirty pull up.

Speaker 2 (04:03):
I feel like every time you have one of those,
it's always big people listeners always hit me up that
they're there and they have a great time. So at like,
if it's a regular club, we're gonna do checks of
you know, like hygiene and stuff. Now for the for
our age crowd, what kind of thing?

Speaker 1 (04:20):
Oh, anybody gets to smoke. Every nobody's exempt. The only
people exempt if you're under eighteen. They're not gotta be cool.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
If you're doing a problem.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Thank god, parents ain't gonna book me again. The school
ain't all book me again. But yeah, if you're over
eighteen or not, you you an adult.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
If we could talk, you have never been to the
club with DJ Forren because I wanna explain, because I'm
sure someone's like, ash, what are you talking about? Foreign
does like health checks throughout his set, meaning he will
say like raise your hand if you're blink but blank,
don't stink. And it's just like one of those weird
things where you look around. Me and AJ were in

(04:56):
there once, we like look at each other and just
slowly raise our head.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
You can't noto right, fire that thing up. You have to.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
You have to, So I just didn't know if it
was if it was for you know, our age. If
we're still doing health.

Speaker 1 (05:11):
Check CDC, don't sleep and I'm I'm employed.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
So Tony, you got anything this week?

Speaker 3 (05:19):
I get the usual baseball tournaments. I have two games
with my youngest son tomorrow and dry and then I
have a game actually on Sunday myself. So yeah, it's
baseball and kids sports. It's just consistent every day. It's
literally not missing that time. I like y'all do it excessively,
but not probably because you got mad kids. So children,
because I have four kids and they're all involved in

(05:39):
some sort of sport. And yeah, and it's just every
day that my daughter's joined more basketball team. So it's
it's constant. Like I love it, but I just want
to break though.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
It seems like it's busier now than it was during this.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
I thought the spring was the busiest part I've ever
been in my life, but the summer it just is
a lot worse. Yeah, crazy, yeah, but I love it.
I love watching them playing. I think that part of
my life it was amazing. I just want to break
from time to time.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Yeah, but you know, I'm going outside in it, and
I said last time that I wasn't going to drink again,
and I really did feel like that, But now it's
an occasion, so I'm headed out.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
When did you say you weren'ting to drink anymore?

Speaker 2 (06:15):
I said that on my Instagram. Oh you did last weekend?
You know what it was? It was. I went out
and then the fireman had worked the next day, so
I was solo mothering, hungover, which is there's nothing, absolutely
nothing on the planet worse than that. So now I
am going out, but he's not working, so we can

(06:35):
tag team. Okay, I mean, so that's safer. But one
of my new Marshall friends is she just turned forty
like earlier in the week. So we're going a little
double date with her and her husband and she's struggling
with the big four. Oh she's not told me not
to mention it, and I want to talk about it.
I'm my girl. She looks great, she's the best, And

(06:58):
so Court we're getting for your birthday.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
That number when you're younger seems so far away, so far,
so ancient, but and then finally when you get there.
I think that's the humbling part about it. White people
like don't like it because like, damn, I'm at forty.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
Now, I'm embracing and I'm going away, Like I want
to go away away.

Speaker 1 (07:15):
What you mean, like to take a trick? Yeah, like something.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
Big, something big. I don't know where, I don't know.
I felt like.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
CTI lived on the side of a hill. Like what
else to do?

Speaker 2 (07:26):
I'm thinking Croatia, the Motherlands. I'm Croatian and I've never
been to Croatia.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Actually that would be super far.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah, and when Nanea was alive, none of you should
tell me all the time you have to go to
the Motherland. You must go to Croatia.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
But you're talking about a trip with just your husband
and family.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Anybody, let's got a party trying to roll. I mean
away for a week. That's a tough one. But no, anybody, anybody.
I just I could understand getting upset about it. I know,
you know, especially with kids, I think that kind of
changes things. But I told him we're going out, We're embracing,
and then she can come to Croatia. Four oh, baby

(08:05):
thirty one next year Croatia and a new last name.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
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Speaker 2 (08:23):
Right, babes, Friday, July eighteen. Listen, we touched upon this
a little bit. But it's a tough day if you're
an astronomer CEO it is. And here's the very very
strange part about all of this. The internet was working yesterday, working,

(08:45):
oh t because the show was starting to end. I'd
say it was round nine something. I see this cold
Play video where Chris Martin says this.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
All right, you don't think what either or that's very shun.

Speaker 6 (09:07):
Man.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
So if you have to be honest, I don't even
think I have to say if you haven't seen it,
because you've seen it. You couldn't you couldn't escape it yesterday.
But it's a video from a suite at Gellette Stadium
during the Coldplay concert of the last couple of days.
And it is a man with his arms wrapped around

(09:28):
a a woman. They're doing like the kiss cam whatever
it is, and they flash to them and he immediately
drops to the ground like see you later, bygone, disappears
down to the ground. She turns her face away very quickly.
And then there's the third woman, Yeah, that's there. Then
then there's the friend who's either in on the secret

(09:48):
or is like, oh my god, somebody doesn't know about this,
and now the world will.

Speaker 3 (09:55):
And I think that's what sparked this whole thing. It
was the girl's reaction. Then also initial faces and seeing
themselves up on the screen. That was why people like,
wait a second, that just seemed too off. If they
were innocent and they would have laughed or turned around.
They weren't being shy. They were being like shockingly seek like.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
They should have just stayed you right, yes, less hot.
If they stay themselves.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Hot, they stay, it's not even going viral, yes now,
mind you. When when the clip first came out, I
was like, it's fake. I have been to so many
games where you know that the things are said up,
hey kiss, cam is gonna happen when when you know
there's actor they so I thought it was fake. I'm like,
there's no way. Now. The weird part about it is
they're in a swite. Because if you're not in a suite,

(10:39):
you see you usually can see the camera. Right they
give you like the cat like I've had the camera
in front of me, I know, but in the suite
you might not see where the cameras are, you know, So, okay,
is it fake? Is a fake? Is a fake? Then
the days continuing to go on, I'm starting to hear
that each one of them has a family. He is
a CEO, she is a Chief People Officer AKA, she

(11:04):
is HR. You know, I've danced with this one so
much and we kind of talked about it earlier this morning.
You can easily go and find their names. I mean,
you could literally write Coldplay. The man's name is gonna
pop up. It's just it's not settling well with me
because there's kids, and we don't know the situation. Could
it really be that they're both separated, they're dating, but

(11:28):
the kids don't know.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (11:30):
I feel like the kids would know if the parents
were separated, and like, maybe it doesn't happen all the time.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
I know it does.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
Maybe now they're dating each other it doesn't.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
But fine, I can understand that. But it was their
reactions in all of theirs, it just seemed like like
the secret God.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
Another example that I thought to myself, they're separated, but
the company doesn't know, and that's not a good look, Beau.
So that one I could see. It's like we're all
out here.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
Even they're separated, but nobody knows, not the kids, nobody,
neighbor's not the family. They generally between them, they're like,
all right, pol just don't go out here and embarrass me.
Now that you're called, it's kind of like, damn, like
we're not. It's not supposed to be exposed like this.
And now I got to backtrack, you know, I gotta
maybe making I don't know what's going on after this.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
But the other part about this, I feel like we've
all seen situations where people are having an affairs and
they're just very comfortable about about it and not expecting that
they're going to go to a concert and get put
up on the screen.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yeah. The company that they work for is called Astronomer.
And what I do know is that the CEO lives
in New York. He lives in New York, and the
woman lives locally here in Portsmouth. So it kind of
feels like some of those things where he was like
in town and they got a suite and they went.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
I mean, maybe that's why he was so comfortable because
he's like nobody.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
I know people who used to go to Vegas and
other cities in't freely cheap because it was no concern.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Yeah, listen, obviously that's what all of our minds went to.
Now again, internet was working ot yesterday. We've had fake statements.
The company has come out already and been like these
statements around. I knew the statement wasn't real because they
they tried to put a Cold Play quote in one
of the statements and four inces and the other one
they mentioned I'm a huge fan. I knew the statements

(13:22):
are faked. So we haven't heard from anybody yet. We
don't have any answers as to what their actual statuses
are of their family. There's also a rumor circulating that
the wife of the CEO took her last name out
of her Facebook so that people couldn't find it as easily.
I do know that the CEO and his wife, whether

(13:44):
they're together or not, have two teen children.

Speaker 3 (13:48):
Kids me too, regardless of what's happening, like the Internet
is talking about their parents and their dad and all
these things.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
That's that's tough, and this is hitting everybody's algorithm. You're
talking about listen, if the kid's a teen, rolling Loud
is using them as a meme, so you can't escape it.
So even if they didn't see the news, if they
happen to be on rolling like damn that looks like that.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
Yeah, yeah, if they happen to like scroll blass complex CBS,
every reason for.

Speaker 1 (14:17):
It for everywhere, Like the way that's totally went viral
is kind of insane to me.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
People are keep saying that the man got cold played.
I mean, it's it's you can't miss it. So listen,
as we get more details on it, I'll keep you posing.
But again, it's just one of those weird things because
if in fact they there is a there's a very
very slim chance that they didn't do anything wrong.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
Yes, I mean yes, their job knows. Do you think
now they're going to be pressured into firing one of them? Well,
because she's ahead of hr, might have to fire herself
even if they knew, like okay, yeah, these two are
kind of doing They think, all right, cool, it is
what it is. We know y'all going through problems, But
not because of all this social media and attention, are

(15:01):
they going to be forced to be like one of
y'all gotta go.

Speaker 3 (15:03):
I think because he's a CEO, I think probably not.
And I think the smartest thing for them to do
is not say anything and by Monday we'll forget about this.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Yeah, I don't know. I think I think it was
hot yesterday. Yeah, I think people are looking for ending.

Speaker 3 (15:17):
But I think at the end of the day, Ash,
you have all the like, the most undefeated thing in
the history of this of this universe is what the internet.

Speaker 2 (15:26):
No Ja.

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Yeah, it's undefeated and makes men do crazy things, never
crazy thing.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
Never loses.

Speaker 1 (15:32):
And I sided with that.

Speaker 2 (15:33):
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(16:03):
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Speaker 3 (16:34):
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Speaker 2 (17:01):
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like made me feel sad, just like here, the hearing
the tone of her voice. So picture this, guys. She's
on tour, she's in Spain. She reads a sign in

(17:22):
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Speaker 2 (18:20):
It's just impossible to not play the game of scenarios
with this Coldplay drama. Yeah, I mean, is it a
good look or a bad look for Coldplay?

Speaker 1 (18:34):
Why would he be a bad one?

Speaker 2 (18:35):
I can't say. Everybody's talking about them now.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
I don't see why I talk about.

Speaker 2 (18:39):
By the way, Chris Martin. He's got some drama in
his life. He's not freezing. Chris Martin used to be
with Gwyneth Paltrow. And then Chris Martin dated Dakota Fanning, no,
Dakota Johnson, and they were together for a very long
time and they just recently split.

Speaker 1 (18:59):
Yeah, and they were in h for like a little bit.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
Something's up, something up with Chris. Chris got a lot
of nerves.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
This has nothing to do with him.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
I Am just okay, I'm still scenario number one, it's fake.

Speaker 4 (19:13):
Set up.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
I'm just saying it's just.

Speaker 1 (19:15):
It's not a setup because like he has a real job.

Speaker 4 (19:19):
But no, that.

Speaker 2 (19:19):
Reactions why I think it's it could be fake. I'm
just come on, come on to the conspiracy theory side
of somebody who thought that the Will Smith.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
Slap was Maybe those are actors, I know.

Speaker 2 (19:32):
But all of these viral moments a lot of times
from these games on the kiss cam where you see
they're fake.

Speaker 1 (19:40):
But the guy is worth a billion runs for company
and he's you're right.

Speaker 2 (19:46):
And when those viral moments happen from the games that
are fake and they they ask the people to do
the things stuff, it's usually just like a just an
average person. It's not like a CEO and the head
of h R. We obviously know the woman with the
realty is the girl the friend. Because the friend didn't
turn away from the camera because you can't, you know what.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
The awkward look on her face was classic too.

Speaker 2 (20:07):
Another scenario is the scenario in which they're separated from
their spouses and maybe their kids don't know yet. Okay,
so they're waiting to tell them. Another scenario, they're both
married but they're allowed to they have this agreement, they're

(20:29):
allowed to do things, but maybe not maybe not in
the public eye. Maybe they're not supposed to be, you know,
on a kids camp.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
I mean, he wouldn't have folded like that then maybe
turned ahead, maybe turn around. Their reaction was like, oh my.

Speaker 2 (20:41):
God, he deaded himself. He melted into the ground. Did
anybody do it a deep that you couldn't find him again?

Speaker 1 (20:48):
After that?

Speaker 2 (20:48):
Right and left? She turned away and went down.

Speaker 1 (20:51):
He was good. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (20:55):
I mean, I guess you want to sometimes play the
thing of like it's open, but I think that's like
they're few and far between that because most of the
time when you're having an affair, you're having an.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
Affair, yes, yes, meaning you know you're doing something.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
Yeah, So let's play the game of well, first off,
remiss of me not to say if in fact both
happily married and having an affair. That's why I don't
even have any part of my soul that wants to
say this woman's name, because I just feel so so
sick if that is the case, right for this wife
who's at home with the two teen boys and her

(21:31):
husband's faces everywhere for being hugged up on another woman,
can he talk his way out of that, yes, an affair?
Can you say that we were dancing? That's how people dance.
I know, I'm serious, right.

Speaker 3 (21:45):
I think he's here?

Speaker 4 (21:50):
Do it?

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Okay, how do you do it?

Speaker 3 (21:52):
Technically you didn't see him do anything wrong? Does he
have to admit to some uncomfortable things like, yes, our
relationship got inappropriate and never cross a sexual life. And
that night we had a couple of drinks, we were hugging,
we kissed a little bit, but that was where Why
do you have to say all that, Well, because you
have to be accountable to something.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
You can't just say we were hugging.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
No, you you could say we had a couple of
drinks and we started dancing. And yes, you hugged. It
looked horrible.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
You could, but the way that they were hugging each
other was very intimate.

Speaker 2 (22:22):
It was.

Speaker 1 (22:23):
So That's where.

Speaker 2 (22:25):
I'm not saying I believe. I'm just saying I would.
I would believe it, but I don't. Like we didn't
see a kiss.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
No, I wouldn't.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
Are you like, all right, here's is it divorce worthy.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
If my wife with her?

Speaker 2 (22:38):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (22:39):
The thing that makes us so tough is that it
was so public. If I if I saw a picture
and it wasn't public, I could I could be talked
out of it.

Speaker 2 (22:49):
Yes, that's what I mean.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
Like, because I didn't see a kiss and they were
just being affectionate, that's different than them having sex.

Speaker 2 (22:57):
I see that, and I'm like, I hate you, like
I hate you for what you've done. Now this is
my life. This has gone viral, all these things, and like,
I hate you. But are we are we blowing up
the family for that.

Speaker 3 (23:12):
We're going to some heavy therapy. We're going to talk
about a lot of things, but we're not blowing up
the family right away.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
I'm open to a conversation.

Speaker 2 (23:21):
Yeah, I just because he might be like, listen, it
was that night and that night only it was that thing.
It was us.

Speaker 1 (23:27):
Getting like done this before. You're way too comfy. Yes,
in fingers, like they've been doing this for a man. Yeah,
they're colleagues, they know each other.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
BEV is in Providence, Bed. We're just running scenarios here.
We're trying to figure things out. You're saying you you're not.
You could never buy the open marriage scenario.

Speaker 4 (23:51):
Absolutely.

Speaker 8 (23:52):
Now he's worth a billion dollars. His wife he is
now worth half a billion dollars.

Speaker 7 (23:58):
There's no way, no way.

Speaker 8 (24:00):
That woman is getting every penny if she wait till
you see her glow up.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Well, I'm gonna play Devil's advocate. BEB, thanks for the call.
Connor McGregor has an open marriage.

Speaker 1 (24:13):
He does.

Speaker 2 (24:13):
Connor McGregor was just on a beach with another he's
a fiance. He was just on a beach with another woman,
kissing up on her, hugging her. The photos went FIRA.
We had a girl call in who was on the
same beach told us all about it. The next day,
he was on his yacht with his fiance and she
was rubbing his belly while he ate his pasta why yeah,
and bet and I'm sorry and uh d Devilon Connor's

(24:36):
check has been around before he was even Connor, like
O g okay.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
From the bottom yep.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
So there's clearly in an agreement where she's he's like,
you're going to get You will never want or need
for another thing in your life, but I'm clearly going
to go do something.

Speaker 3 (24:53):
I can accept that he has one because of his
personality and what he does for work. He's more of
a public figure. He's a celebrity, and his personality he's
very out there. I think for this guy it's different
because he's the CEO. He runs a company. Again, I
think I think they know. I think this is a
thing within internally. Now, if old girl didn't want to
leave him, or somebody didn't want to leave, this is
what you capitalize, just like the caller just said, this

(25:14):
is where you capitalize. And you come out and you
cry victim and you say, nah, I couldn't believe he
did this to me and then take all his money
if he wanted to do that. But they were way
too comfortable. But I did not know that he was
from New York. So that kind of makes sense that
he would just be free because it's like nobody knows.

Speaker 2 (25:31):
Me here, right, Yeah, He's like, I'm in Fox I'm
I'm like a dot in this place, like no one's
gonna see this and it could be and I just
I'm really trying to like that's I'm gutted if I'm her,
you know, like you're you're yes, because not only is

(25:52):
it an affair or whatever it is, but everybody's watching
my move now. It's like when Chloe kept taking rest
him back. It's like we're watching this man, but then
what if he what if? What if it was just
this one thing?

Speaker 1 (26:09):
It's not what if I know the scenario, what would
you do? It's not on a regular Degla neither, because
she works out here and he's in New York, so
they probably meet up in meetings and stuff like that.
But they are way too But it's like like she
was damning inside him. You feel me. That's how cool
they were. And then all of a sudden they just
fell out because they saw the camera. They've done this

(26:29):
plenty times before.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
It's just because you know what I think about I
was literally thinking about this. I'm like I see a
video of the fireman, like this at a at a
Coldplay concert or something. They thing, but like it would
go like it would it would break me, it would
gut me. But what if he what if it really
was that it was? I got hammered and I was
it's not appropriate. I was wrong. I shouldn't have been
hanging on her like that. But it was a one

(26:52):
off nothing.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
I don't know, it's conversation, right, Yeah. I think the
tough thing for them is that they work together. So
I don't know how you keep your wife back to work.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
So this wasn't a stranger that you age.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
He's the head of the company, so I think for
his sake, there's gonna be some settlement if he wants
to keep his marriage and she unfortunately has to leave
the company because he like going back to work after
dealing with this, to see her again, to be in
like a meeting with HR like you know what I
mean the poor wife question.

Speaker 1 (27:23):
Are we disappointed we find out that they actually do
have an open relationship? Are we disappointing? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (27:28):
Yeah, I think it makes me feel a little bit
better in a sense of I keep thinking about this wife.
I don't know why I'm like hung up on this,
like thinking about her and the and the kids kid,
the teen kids, follow complex the teen.

Speaker 1 (27:40):
Kids, but we find out that they actually are not victims,
and this is just right. This is a regular day
life for these people.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
Well, I guess I'm disappointed because it takes the dramatic
and like I like the you know, messiness of the
whole exactly like we all do.

Speaker 2 (27:55):
That's yeah, it's a hundred percent. Yeah, there's no question.
I just you know, I don't think he'll ever listen
to a cold Play song again.

Speaker 1 (28:05):
I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (28:06):
Moving on, Yeah, he's a Chris Martin. I'm good, sham.

Speaker 3 (28:11):
I mean ninety four to five traffic, ninety three southbound,
We're still looking good. No issues at all, Manchester all
the way down to andover Root one southbound, some stopping
your traffic over the Turban Bridge and the Espress of northbound.
Looking at a forty five minute ride right now from
Braintree up to South Bay.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Just got a message. I was at the concert. They
are most definitely cheating. I will call him during the
check in. I better be impressed. You better have been
in this week.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Yeah, you better be the assistant or somebody.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
Something could That's pretty that's pretty factual there, Like I
need I need more info, But she says she'll call
her in the check.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
Because as of right now, we kind of all feel
that way, right at.

Speaker 2 (28:50):
Least thing you go to when you see that video
is they're having a fair. They're not they're cheating, They're
not doing with this.

Speaker 3 (28:55):
Chris Martin thought the same exact thing because he's because
he's so I know, we're all on the guy having
the Do we know that the woman has a husband
and a fan?

Speaker 2 (29:02):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (29:03):
Because at first that's what was That's what it was,
is that both of them were married, right.

Speaker 2 (29:06):
That is what that I also heard this, Like I
said to you guys, I have read that he lives
in New York and the woman that he was hugged
up on the head of HR lives in Portsmouth. But no,
I haven't because I've seen photos at this point, but
I don't think I've seen a photo of her with
her family or to know that she has kids or anything, well.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
Even married, right, all right, jesus, My wife has a
similar job to hers, and she works with the CEO is.

Speaker 2 (29:30):
A lot like does she have any does she have
any upcoming concerts that Jesus, she's not going.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
To them show with Foreign and Sonty when.

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Speaker 2 (29:48):
Friday, July eighteenth, and I had a feeling we would
kind of learn a little bit more about this. Do
you guys remember when I told you about the North
and Over police officer. Yes, okay, so for and remember
and of a police officer. She was on leave because
she was dealing with postpartum. Yes, and she got okay,

(30:08):
and she gets served a warm I'm sorry, she gets
served house to the house.

Speaker 4 (30:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:13):
So these are her coworkers, by the way, because I remember
she was a police officer, she had postpartum, she's a rookie.
They put her on leave. She's at home with her
five month old baby. Knock, knock, knock on the door.
It is her three coworkers, three police officers, serving her
a restraining order from her fiance. In said restraining order,
it said, we're taking you know, the baby, because he

(30:35):
feels like you are a threat to the baby. You
could hurt the baby, and that is why we have
to take the baby. Something happened. We're learning a little
bit more about it. And she ends up getting shot, okay,
and almost dies. She's she was hospitalized, you know, and
the police officer that shot her was I believe like

(30:57):
a vet had been at the North Handier Police Department sometime. Well,
Kelly Fitzsimmons, the police officer that was shot that had
postpartum that was, you know, receiving this restraining order from
her fiance. By the way, UH has spoken out and
released a statement. So essentially what she's saying is she

(31:18):
starts it by telling a story about how her fiance
had asked her to meet it a park. She goes
to the park, she's walking their baby around. She's there
for two three hours. He doesn't show. She goes home
to the house. She starts feeding the baby. She hears
the knock at the door. She opens up the door
and it's her colleagues. It's her friends, and she said,
you know, they told her right away, you have to

(31:40):
give us the baby, pack the baby a bag. We're
taking the baby. Your fiance feels like you are a
threat to the baby. Here's what's happening. We're taking your
gun and you're losing your job and you're losing your baby.
So she's suffering with postpartum, and she said when she
heard all that information, she was like, okay, so you're
taking my life away from me, Like my life is

(32:00):
gone now again, suffering with postpartum. She goes to her
bedroom to shoot herself. So she tries to shoot herself.
This is from her. This is her statement, and the
police officer then shoots her, and she's like, you know,
I've been in training so much that I know that
that's not the way it's supposed to happen, especially when

(32:24):
you know that the person is trying to take their
own life and not trying to attack or shoot you.
You know. She kind of described it by saying, essentially
God was on her side. She said, you know, when
I pulled the trigger, my gun didn't fire. However, I
immediately was shot in the chest by my friend and
my colleague. You know, she said she could she can't

(32:44):
believe that she's still here, but now she wants to
fight for her baby. She said, quote, she's kind of
going into detail. This kind of gets away from thing,
but she's essentially kind of coming at the court system
and She's saying, like, if if somebody can just go
into a court system and say I'm afraid that this
is gonna happen my baby, and no one checks up
or cross references, and your newborn baby can just be

(33:06):
taken away from you by one little seat in front
of a judge. You know that needs to change. And
she's adamant, adamant throughout this entire statement that she was
never a threat to her son.

Speaker 3 (33:17):
This whole story took a dramatic turn because initially I
was like, there's more to this story. Clearly some people
were having an affair, but with the postpartum part and
it being like heavy like this, I don't even know
what to say or what to feel, but I still
believe there's a lot more.

Speaker 1 (33:30):
To this story. What was the state? There was a
statement that was put out. I don't know if you
have it in front of you, but the police chief
of somebody put out a statement saying it came to
it if I remember how I went, It went basically
that she was already like they put it into custody.
They were basically like walking out to the to the vehicle.
They were walking out, and then a struggle ensued and
then another officer had to shoot her. That's the statement

(33:52):
that I remember.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
I don't even know if that was a statement or
us just kind of.

Speaker 1 (33:56):
That was a statement. Yeah, I remember you said it,
and it was like the way they worded it was
kind of like she was already kind of taken into
custody and then a struggle ensued and another office, the
vet had to step had to shoot it. It wasn't
a person who had in cuffs.

Speaker 2 (34:10):
When we first heard this, we were like, she must
have reached for his gun. Yes, now we're learning that
she it was her own gun and she was trying
to shoot herself, not anybody else. Again, this is what
she is saying. But she's like, the truth will prevail,
like this, this is what happened. I was never a
threat to my baby. She keeps also saying like she
cannot fathom the fact that her own fiance did this

(34:31):
to her. She's like, I don't know where this came from.
And she said that something off.

Speaker 1 (34:35):
Yourself, bro, like immediately, so clearly you got some going on.

Speaker 2 (34:38):
Yeah. Well, and and I think you know she is
now saying too that the fiance has said some like
horrible things about her and none of which are true.
She said in it quote, in that horrible moment, I
didn't want to live after my whole world was turned
upside down in the matter of a ten second conversation
due to someone alleging horrible, untrue things. And if she

(34:59):
maintains that she pointed the firearm only at herself.

Speaker 3 (35:02):
And this is what I mean, there's more to the
story between those two specifically too, because she went to
the park, she waited for three hours, and then he
and he like on the same day. Clearly there's like
there's some miscommunication there. There's something going on with their
relationship that's really really bad.

Speaker 2 (35:16):
Yeah, yeah, And you know, she kept saying too, like
that colleague was like a friend of hers. They had
worked very serious cases together, one of which involved them
walking in on a mother and an infant who had
it was like a murder suicide. So listen, there's there's
a lot of moving parts here, but she is holding

(35:36):
true to that she was never a threat towards her son.
This came out of nowhere. She never tried to attack
any of those police officers, She never tried to shoot them.
She tried to take her own life, and that the
truth will prevail, and she keep you know, her team
keeps saying like justice for Kelsey. They're also extremely disappointed
in the statement that the North Handover police put.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
Out she should hire Alan Jackson. But it is true,
you know, sometimes all you got to do it and
and and you know, it's kind of like a double
edged swool because you could say that a child is
in danger and they can't come in almost with zero proof,
but they have to act on it because then if
they don't, something happens. Now they looked at Oh, you
guys didn't act when I told you to act on it,

(36:17):
you know what I mean. So it's almost like they
come in and almost not blindly, but they almost come
in and and and and assume that what's being said
is true, and then they do the investigation and then
it comes back to be like, okay, what these were
all false statements? That happens a lot.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
If I had a moment in my life where I
was like not not doing well enough, where I thought
like I don't want to be here, I would hope
that the fireman would know better and make sure that
the girls weren't just under my care by myself, you
know what I mean? So I see that side of
it too, because you worry about things like that, you know,
but we don't know.

Speaker 1 (36:51):
There's a lot.

Speaker 2 (36:53):
There's a lot.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
Even from the beginning, there were so many parts of it,
and there were so.

Speaker 2 (36:57):
Many weird rumors happening in Northanda. Worry about this and
about that, and yeah, it's it's it's sad, it's very sad.
So as we learn more, I will keep you posted.
But as of right now, she is again remaining and
staying strong, and that she just adamant that she never
made any threats towards her son.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
Where's her child?

Speaker 2 (37:17):
I'm assuming with him?

Speaker 1 (37:19):
Oh right with that? Clearly it's not with her, right, Yeah, no.

Speaker 2 (37:22):
And that's she said that too. She hasn't been with
the baby. Yeah, it's crazy. All right, let's talk about
j Lo. Let's get a little breather after that, a
little haha.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
J loo is.

Speaker 2 (37:36):
I feel like j Loo's depressed. I don't know what's
going on with her, but she's on tour, she's in Spain.
Somebody holds up this sign that says, j Lo, will
you marry me? And this is how she responds, Yeah,

(37:56):
I tried to try. Yeah she will. I think she
won't be getting married for four or fifth time. So
four because.

Speaker 1 (38:06):
Chris Judd and then her first husband was Ohanni.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
Ohanni Chris Judd.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
Ben Affleck was the latest, and Marc Anthony and Marc Anthony.

Speaker 2 (38:15):
Yes, yes, so it would be number five.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
Imagine getting married four times because she never got.

Speaker 2 (38:20):
Married to.

Speaker 1 (38:22):
Ye six engagement six.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
It's like these guys meet her and they're right away
like I have to be with you for her, it
gets obsessed with in the beginning, like this is the one.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
But then in the.

Speaker 3 (38:35):
Back of your head you should think it's j lo
that she does this all like all the time. But
for her, she should know that she's bad at these By.

Speaker 2 (38:42):
The way, because we're here and we never got to
che chat about it because we were on vacation. Ben
and Jennifer Garner at the rear. Yeah technically because she
has a boyfriend. Yes, so we they might not be
together anymore. I'm like, we could dance.

Speaker 3 (38:58):
Here, but that'll be said, though I would give anything
for those two to get back. I think Ben messed
up bad with her parents.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
The friends. Yeah, when I tell you I'm good friends
with my ext I think we got something.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
I haven't seen you all the Red Sox game out the.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
Way figure it out by the way that we're sitting
next to each other, Like if we went to a
Red Sox game, we probably would sit, uh the kids
in between, right, you don't make it look obvious. It
will be cool. But they seem very comfortable.

Speaker 2 (39:26):
They did seem very comfortable and unhappy and laughing either way.
J Lo she might she might be with somebody again,
but she said she's all set on the marriages, all right.
Foreign Scissa and Nicki Minaj are back up to their
old antics. They're back at it. Says it just we've
said this. She she needs to just leave it alone,

(39:48):
but she couldn't. She couldn't. Two days later, says as responding,
I remember over the last week, Nicki Minaj has said
like says it is ugly. She has called her fat.
She has said she sounds like a dead dog, like
Nicki is bullying deep It's bad. But after a couple
of days, Sizza then responds on Twitter and she says, NICKI,

(40:10):
you absolutely know my music and what I contribute because
you've asked for features twice to no response. In addition
to wrapping my lyrics on feeling myself cooking up the
bass looking like a kilo. Lol, you're having a moment.
I'm not sure why, but be blessed and that that
that poked it Bear.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
There's actually a text message receipts shown that that she
had hit up Ni. Yes, it must have been punch,
but she asked somebody at TD, which I think was punching.
She was like, yo, this is nick and he's like
monology and she's like, yeah, oh, I think sisster would
sound really good on this song that I got. And
he's like, okay, yes, she's recording right now, but send
it and well we'll get it done. She sends the reference.
She's like, here's the open verse, just have a do

(40:52):
something on it. So at that time she was big
enough so for her to kind of come out and say,
you sound like trash or you sound like yodeling. Got me,
but she said you yodeling. That's kind of crazy to
Scissor's one, He's like, you know who I am, and
you know about my voice is good. Why would you
try to down blame me like that? But yeah, Nicky's
going through something. I don't know what she is.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
Because Nicki responded with a whole novel in which I'm
not going to read, but essentially, Nicky was like, yeah, well,
you know, so the Drake. This is a lot of
guys at Drake Sexy Read and Sissa shake that eggam
the lyrics there.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
Because I go to the lyrics, I'll be fired.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
It's seven twenty. Nicki is trying to say that originally
she was asked to be on the song, but she
told Drake no. So then Drake went to Sissa after
that like who cares? And so, right, that's what I mean,
and so what are you saying no to your boy?

Speaker 1 (41:47):
That's that's the.

Speaker 2 (41:47):
Stories there are if people are like, oh, I passed
on this song and ended up being like platinum number one.
But yeah, so she was like trying to kind of
clone her for that, Like Drake wanted me first, and
I told him no because I wanted to wait until
Pink Friday two. And then Nikki goes And now that's
silly Goose still out here shaking dead ass for Drake
every day after swallowing his allegedly I give.

Speaker 3 (42:11):
Up, says it has the ultimate way to end this,
and she's just holding on to it for the water.
Your husband's a sex offender.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
They won't put guns on the screen.

Speaker 3 (42:22):
And then dude, dot dot dot boom, you must have
a project coming. Your husband can't go to a playground,
sex offender. You're a school bye. I've been Patty all right.

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Speaker 2 (43:02):
Hi, everybody, good morning. It's Ashley in the gym in
the morning show. We're doing the check in right now,
checking in on you, your life, your world, anything you want,
you know. You can obviously call in comment on things
we talked about thus far. Everybody is talking about Chris
Martin and this cold Play show. Uh, or you could
call and tell us a story, tell me about your life,
anything you want, call him say good morning. It's a

(43:24):
Friday six one seven, nine, three one one four five
That is six one seven nine three one one nine
four five form Before I get to John, did the
woman did the girl call in? Is it? I see? She? Okay,
I just saw it, says she thought the statement was real.
What is that from? It says on the screen show?

Speaker 1 (43:42):
Oh, no, that was something that was an earlier call.

Speaker 2 (43:44):
Oh I was thinking of the girl. I'm thinking the
girl that called me and said I was there, I'm
going to call for the check in called and.

Speaker 1 (43:50):
Said that that was the lady who had called in,
and she had thought that the statement that he had
put out was real. So I was kind of offer
that it was fake.

Speaker 2 (43:55):
Okay, got I gotta go. Okay, John is in Boston.
John completely unrelated to are you a col play fan?

Speaker 1 (44:03):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (44:03):
I am actually wow.

Speaker 2 (44:04):
All right, well you missed a real show, but you
have something bigger going on in your life.

Speaker 4 (44:10):
You are my personal life. Yes, I was married for
a long time. Okay, wonderful wife. I have a daughter.
My daughter is actually older than the two ladies that
I'm talking about.

Speaker 2 (44:23):
Oh yeah, daughter is older than the two ladi You're
gonna by the way, you said your wonderful wife. If
she's so wonderful, why are you not with her? Anymore.

Speaker 4 (44:31):
Well my late wife actually.

Speaker 2 (44:33):
Okay, okay, Well I'm sorry, I'm sorry for your loss.

Speaker 4 (44:38):
That's okay, Okay, she she had cancer. You know, she's
in a better place now, all right, Okay, So here's
here's my situation, So to Gordeous to Gordeous swimming. Before
I met them, I didn't know they were porn stars,
but they you know, did my research. They both turned
out to be porn stars. And well we've been talking
for a while. Now it's time to me and now

(45:01):
I'm having cool feet. So what are your thoughts?

Speaker 2 (45:03):
That? Okay, but both of them are porn stars? John,
how do you how do you not only fall into
the lap of one porn star but you're talking to two?

Speaker 4 (45:13):
Well, here's here's the other thing. Though, there was three
of them. The other one I didn't really like that much,
so I let it go. But like you said, how
do I hook up with three of those people from
that industry? I have no idea.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
Well, let me ask you this, buddy. Are you on
like what sites are you meeting these people on?

Speaker 4 (45:34):
On Facebook?

Speaker 2 (45:37):
Okay, so there's a possibility that they're not Actually it's fake,
like you're getting dupes?

Speaker 6 (45:41):
Right?

Speaker 4 (45:42):
I mean that's obviously, Oh, absolutely not, absolutely not. Oh
and why do you say that, Because I've done the
research and I know the question that I've asked. You know,
I've seen videos of them, you know, so it's they're
definitely real. Absolutely well, list't.

Speaker 2 (46:03):
I think we have to turn this question back around.
You say, you go out with one of them, let's
just pick one. You go out with porn Star A,
and you really start liking porn Star A to the
point where you're like, I could see myself being with
porn Star A. Could you be a man that's confident
enough that's like, I don't mind that she's out here
doing pornos like she can do it, that's just her job.

Speaker 4 (46:25):
I am absolutely confident enough. But I'm thinking about my daughter. Yeah,
that's she finds out. If she finds out, you know what,
what is our relationships?

Speaker 2 (46:37):
By the way, that's really dope that you have that confidence.
I wouldn't. I would be like, you know what, not
for me. I don't want to watch you doing that
with anyone else. But yeah, obviously there's a daughter. How
old is your daughter? It's thirty eight, she's thirty eight.

Speaker 1 (46:52):
And so these both of these ladies.

Speaker 4 (46:54):
Both of these ladies are I'm actually twice the age gone.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
John H John, Have you ever actually spoken to these people?

Speaker 1 (47:06):
Have you faced time with them? Good questions?

Speaker 4 (47:08):
That does worry many times? Many times? Absolutely absolutely so.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
Why why haven't you met up with them yet? Why
do Why does that keep getting pushed?

Speaker 4 (47:19):
It's it's it's because of me. I'm the one holding back.

Speaker 2 (47:27):
What are you?

Speaker 4 (47:28):
I mean, I'm not gonna mention the name, but you
know you They recently quit the porn industry about a
couple of years ago, both of them, and they're they're
actually one is actually really wealthy, the other one she's
got some money. And you know, they're they're really nice people.

(47:49):
I just don't know if i one of they're.

Speaker 2 (47:52):
Actually not in the industry anymore. So they're retired, not anymore,
not anymore.

Speaker 4 (47:56):
Absolutely, they're retired. They're gone.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Yeah, thank god for her vaginas.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
You're intimidated by them, relax.

Speaker 4 (48:03):
I'm not intimate, absolutely not. I'm not. I'm just I
just you know, I'm.

Speaker 2 (48:09):
Listen, I'm gonna be John, go ahead. I just want
to say this because I know, because I know your
daughter is a big part of this. I'm it could
be your daughter. I'm thirty eight, Okay, so think about
my dad tells me and he's like, I'm dating somebody,
and I'm like, oh, who is she? He gives me
the name. I do a little googly, and I see
this woman getting the things. I don't love it. I

(48:33):
don't love it. I'm gonna be honest with you. That's
not I don't really no industry that she's in. It's
just that I can see her vagina when I google
her name, you know everything.

Speaker 1 (48:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (48:47):
Cool, yeah, and you know you know that's that's that's
where I am right now. Like I said, they're they're beautiful.
They'll go I mean, these women are intelligent. Also, you're beautiful.
This crazy Yeah.

Speaker 1 (49:01):
Let me just say this. Your daughter is thirty eight.
She's already moved on with her life. So if you're
still like trying to make decisions off of what your
daughter's thinking, just do your thing, bro, Like live life.
You sound like you kind of you know, like to
live a certain kind of lifestyle.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
Do you think John? I also have to ask this
because we've been here before. Have you have you given
them any money? Please don't fly to me, Please don't
lie to.

Speaker 1 (49:22):
Me be honest.

Speaker 4 (49:23):
No, no, I have not.

Speaker 2 (49:25):
You promise, I promise on your on your daughter.

Speaker 1 (49:30):
My daughter. Yeah, no money.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
Well let's just keep it real though. It's because they
see him as a dollar sign and he hasn't given
money yet.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
Is he rich?

Speaker 4 (49:40):
I'm not reach have they? You know I've got a
few dollars?

Speaker 1 (49:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (49:43):
Okay, John, I don't know. Then, you know what? What
do this? Go on?

Speaker 1 (49:47):
One day? Thank you?

Speaker 2 (49:48):
Go on one day, buddy. It's our Friday night. Is
there is there an option to go out this weekend?

Speaker 4 (49:56):
Well, she wanted to come up this weekend, but I
haven't give it. Give it her to go ahead?

Speaker 2 (50:01):
Come up from where?

Speaker 4 (50:07):
From Florida?

Speaker 2 (50:09):
From Florida. She doesn't even live in the same John,
just John just admitted the woman's in Florida. We can't play.
She was gonna maybe fly up for the weekend.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
I don't like it, John, John, do it? What's the
worst that's gonna happen? John?

Speaker 2 (50:24):
What's the worst that don't don't pay for that flight?

Speaker 1 (50:27):
Yeah, don't pay for the flight, don't pay for anything.

Speaker 4 (50:32):
That for a penny. Like I said, she she's got money,
so she's not anything.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
Do what you gotta lose.

Speaker 4 (50:39):
I mean.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
Does not know right, you see, don't listen to what
saying you won't get sick.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
John, Listen, here's my thing. If you're so on like,
if you're so trying to decide that you're like, let
me call them up and ask you're gonna do it,
so do it? Do it. Let her come up, have
a night, see how it goes, and then make your decision.
I mean, it's it's hard to say no to it

(51:11):
if you haven't met her yet, because you know what,
we're judging a book by its cover here, and I
don't like that about us in this moment, So maybe
she maybe no one a nice gal?

Speaker 4 (51:22):
Yeah, from what what what I'm getting from them, from
the vibes, from the convercisions we've been having, you know,
they're very nice people. Well, you know what, tell you what.
I'm gonna go ahead and update you guys. Put it
down the line.

Speaker 2 (51:35):
You be better because now we're we're linked up, we're
gonna actually, John, Well, here's what I'm gonna do. I'm
gonna put you on hold and either a j airform
is gonna get your actual phone number, so we're gonna
be reaching out to you to make sure we have
the correct updates here. Okay, listen, Hey, do they make
you happy?

Speaker 4 (51:54):
I actually you don't want? I really one of them.
I really really like it.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
Then let's then let's roll by the Life Is Short
where the Pradas invite the porn stars to Boston.

Speaker 4 (52:04):
That's what I say, absolutely, all right.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
John, keep us in the loop. Don't go anywhere.

Speaker 4 (52:09):
I'm gonna get your phone number.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
No, no, don't hang up, hang on the line.

Speaker 4 (52:13):
Alright.

Speaker 2 (52:15):
You can't tell people that they're going to get six.
You can't tell no.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
Is that so wrong? We were all thinking it.

Speaker 2 (52:22):
I wasn't thinking.

Speaker 3 (52:25):
Guys, there's multiple porn stars. We're not even talking about one.
We're talking about three in the mix. And my okayrye
one is God. I'm sorry, I'm so stupid. I am wrong.
It was crazy, though. That was body that you've actually.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
In that whole convo. If people want to listen back
that you did a couple of nuts things nuts things
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(53:04):
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(53:25):
if someone makes a comment on the internet have changed,
you know, with my life. It used to be like
when people talked about my dogs. I don't care. Now,
go ahead and say what you want about Teddy. But
the parenting stuff rubs me the wrong way. I got Actually, yeah,
I got a nasty message uh about my parenting the
other day from some woman, and I was like, I

(53:48):
didn't say anything back to her. Foreign was there in
spirit at the time, but I wanted to because that
sends me early. You handle it a little bit better
some but gear up, put your seat belt on. This
one is about your parenting.

Speaker 6 (54:03):
So apparently, Sandi, you let your girls have a watch
party for the summer. I turn pretty. My niece just
turned twelve, and my brother and sister in law would
never ever let them watch that show. I was at
the said dis us the PTSD movie and there are
eleven year olds don't think it's appropriate watching sexuals at

(54:25):
that age. That's not okay.

Speaker 3 (54:29):
Well, she sounds like she's a cold, but the summer
I turned pretty I don't think there's any blatant sex
in that.

Speaker 1 (54:35):
Obviously there's scenes that.

Speaker 2 (54:37):
I wish there was.

Speaker 1 (54:38):
Yeah, But at the same.

Speaker 3 (54:39):
Time, listen, they're exposed to so much worse on TikTok
and everything like that, and I can't really like police
that at least with this, Like I know what it is.
I'm completely fine with them watching it. Also, I'm assuming
because she said my niece, she doesn't have any kids,
so she can't even make that point.

Speaker 2 (54:53):
If you don't have kids, it is tough when somebody
without a kid tries to tell you absolutely does it
stays a little bit either of that.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
Let's just say she were to have kids. At the
same time, I could point out ten things in her
life that she probably doesn't do, right, I just let people.

Speaker 2 (55:08):
Live and do the Maybe her room's dirty, I'm sure
it is. Yeah, I know you would point that out.
I wouldn't, how do when that time comes, because like
you can't police they're in their rooms, they're on their phone.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
How like you know what it is. I don't.

Speaker 3 (55:23):
You don't realize when that time comes because they're exposed
to so many things. They can watch whatever on Netflix
and all that stuff and see anything, so you don't know.
It's kind of just happens. But I found out that
I realized that they were already exposed to a lot
of things because I would make a joke and they
knew what I was talking about.

Speaker 1 (55:37):
By the time you find out what they exposed to, yeah,
it's probably been years. Yes, I've never already been involved
in whatever it is that they're watching. Yeah, you think
it's right then and there because you just discovered it.
But then you come to find out what y've been
watching this like not that you know what I mean,
you've been entrenched for like a year or two.

Speaker 2 (55:54):
It's kind of crazy parenting is, so what are you
gonna do?

Speaker 1 (55:58):
Why you can't watch this every move?

Speaker 4 (56:00):
You know?

Speaker 1 (56:00):
There's some parents who like stay strictly on their phones.
You know, they like the other kid in school doesn't
have a phone, that's gonna hand it to them and say, hey,
watch this, like you can't do it?

Speaker 2 (56:10):
It cares me. So it wasn't like that I didn't
even know what sex was until like late, like late
I thought. I I genuinely was like I think. I
thought it was just like two people laying in a
bed together or something. I didn't know, but I wasn't
because it wasn't like that. For as, we were playing outside.
But John Scott actually tweeted out the other day and
was like, get away from the computer, guys, go outside,

(56:31):
play with your friends. They don't do it anymore.

Speaker 3 (56:33):
But at the same time, those conversations were still being had.
I remember being on the bus at a young age
and hearing the craziest things and me going home to
my parents and asking them in their face.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
We also went with a bunch of your guy friends
and sat on the edge of a bed and watched
a porn together that people didn't do stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (56:49):
I can't high school.

Speaker 2 (56:54):
I was twelve. I was fifteen.

Speaker 1 (56:57):
Very weird, Yes, so weird.

Speaker 2 (57:00):
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How are we on a Friday? Anonymous wants to weigh in.

(57:20):
We were just chatting Anonymous about you know, it's you
just want to protect the kids so much at all costs, right,
And that's I think about this daily and when they
get to a certain age. Somebody just came at Santi
for letting his twelve year old girls watch a show
that is I watch it pretty pretty appropriate. It's it's
there's no you can't see anything on there. But anyway,

(57:42):
you're saying that your fourteen year old has zero social.

Speaker 8 (57:45):
Media, Well, she does have TikTok. It's not a public
you know, it's it's private. She doesn't have any social media.
She'll be fourteen at the end of the month. She
is going into high school, is going into a different school.

Speaker 2 (58:03):
Okay, So she has social media because TikTok. But you're
saying she can't post on it, but she can look
right right.

Speaker 8 (58:11):
But she doesn't snapchat, she doesn't have Instagram, she doesn't
have Facebook, not that she wants that, because she said
that's the old people.

Speaker 3 (58:23):
I gotta tell you, though, I would say that TikTok
is probably the worst one next to Snapchat between those two,
they're they're they're pretty bad like Snapchat because of the
communication part. But TikTok, there was so much stuff out
there or not police like even close to what Instagram
is the worst, the worst.

Speaker 8 (58:39):
Okay, So my my dilemmaer is my husband won't budge,
and I think she's mature enough to have something else,
you know what I mean. She's a pretty decent basketball player.
She is going into a high school where I'm quite
sure she'll meet the team. She's you know, moving to
a private high school. Now, while those kids use that

(59:02):
social media to communicate with each other, nobody, I mean, listen,
pick up the phone and cause somebody anonymous.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
Let me let me just throw in there. You you,
if you have made it this far, that's amazing and
for real, because I am going to do everything in
my power to hold out as long as I possibly can.
If I can hold out until they get to high school,
that would make me feel so much better than them
being younger and having it. Because you hear just so
many horror stories I don't even want to say any

(59:33):
of them about what social media can do to these kids.
It's it's horrible, but you know, if you're there to
help police it and you're you know, you sound like
you're a great mom, but I think you should also,
you know, pat yourself all back because that's great that
you've made it this far. It's not that easy, No,
it's not.

Speaker 8 (59:50):
And like I said, she harasses us day. You got
to talk to dad that you guys can tell all
the parents to kick rocks because don't come with an
instruction Manuel and we learn as we go.

Speaker 1 (01:00:03):
Yeah, dude, the best we can.

Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
You know your kid right, or at least you should.
And if I think you have to be like the
barometer there on if you feel like they're okay with
the social media or not.

Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
If there's one thing I learned is that it doesn't
matter what background your kid comes from. You could have
the kid that you think, God it all right, like
it's on the straight and narrow straight a students, and
they could fall off the cliff and become somebody else.
You could have somebody who grew up and you're thinking, nah,
that kid will never make it in life, and they
end up being something else. It's all about how you
as a parent. You know, don't be friends with your parents,

(01:00:36):
be parents. You feel what I'm saying, but you also
want to be comfortable enough for your kids can come
to you, but also don't be like their buddy, because
then they start thinking that they could talk to you
in kind of way and they could do certain things.
But as far as Antie said, y'all letting her have
talk Instagram is a walk in the park. I don't
even know why Pops is holding out because instant because
TikTok is the worst. You go into a rabbit hole

(01:00:56):
and they're saying things you never thought they would ever see.

Speaker 8 (01:00:58):
Yeah, yeah, I do sneak in the room at I
and take her phone and look at it. I don't
think it's an invasion of privacy because I hate the bills,
so I really look at it as my phone. That Yeah,
so I just wanted to put that out there, and
any any suggestions on what I should say to my husband.

Speaker 3 (01:01:17):
I think whatever works for you guys as a team
is the best way. I can't tell you what to do.
I think they have everything. Yeah, so they just got
Instagram and we monitor it. We check on anything, and
I think also too we go above and beyond to
educate them with the stuff on social media that did
your stuff and let them know blatantly you send the
picture of yourself wearing whatever it is.

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
You have to assume that the world is gonna see that.
You gotta be real. Conversations, You've got to be real,
you get sugar coated. You just got to be real.

Speaker 3 (01:01:43):
And I am very upfront with them about this. And
there are a lot of guys out there that are
older that try to do X Y Z I. You
have to have those conversations.

Speaker 1 (01:01:51):
Because unfortunately that's the way of the world, and it's
sad to know that it is. That is.

Speaker 2 (01:01:56):
Yeah, I agree and listen talk. I just also want
to throw in there's a lot of obvious, horrible things
about social media. But with that being said, you mentioned
that she's playing basketball, she's playing sports. There's also a
way in which you can use social media to your
advantage and help excel her basketball career. So I think

(01:02:16):
you guys have to have a sit down conversation about it.
And like the guys are saying, explain all to say,
I am petrified for my future. I want to have
to deal with this, but I know it's coming. Anonymous,
You're doing a great job. You're doing a great job.

Speaker 8 (01:02:29):
I think I think you'll be fine, Ashley. I follow you.
I follow you as a mom on social media, and
I think you're doing a good job.

Speaker 2 (01:02:37):
Thank you.

Speaker 8 (01:02:38):
Like your daughter how she paints her face as Frankenstein.

Speaker 2 (01:02:42):
Yeah, yeah, Santi can attest to this. I got to
call at seven am from my mother asking if I
could if she could paint her into a zombie. Okay,
at seven am. So that's what I'm dealing with. But
thank you so much for the call. It's crazy out there,
Like by the.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
Time your kids are older, the amount of technology that'll
be out, which leads and more accessibility will be crazy.
I know because right now they're running around. Have you
seen the metaglasses? Like y'all can run them around and
like stream and Instagram and take pictures with glasses on.
By the time your kids, your kids is in the teens,
will be flying in rockets.

Speaker 3 (01:03:15):
Yes, yesterday I had to have a certain talk with
one of my girls. Their schedules came out. When the
schedule comes out, it's a big thing around the town
where friends see who's in each other's class. She posted
it like on her Instagram and it has all the
information on there, like blogging and like info I had
to have a stern talk with her about you cannot
do that and here are the pitfalls if you do
stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (01:03:33):
Yeah, so it's a work in progress. Guys A cigarette now.

Speaker 2 (01:03:38):
No, it's it's literally it's it's something new every day.
And it's just unfortunate because you hear such horror stories
about the bullying and all these things and you and again,
I think that's like your nature, like you want to
be so protective. As soon as they one of them coughs,
I'm like, oh, I just wish it was me coughing,
Like I don't want you know your But at some
point they're going to grow up so fast too. Yeah,

(01:04:01):
because I've seen that the shorts your girls are where
it's even shorts