Demon Kids pt. 1

Are single parents with kids appealing?

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wait, Joe asked. Wait. If I'm being honest, I don't
want to be up.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'd rather be asleep, especially when you're sick like that.

Speaker 1 (00:15):
I know that that's that has been the toughest part,
because even if I get in bed, I think last
night I was in bed by like eight twenty.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
That's the best I can do. Like, I can't.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
I really can't, because I put the baby down at
any time between seven thirty and eight, So it's.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
Not like I'm up.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
I mean, I did force myself to stay up to
watch the summary term pretty last night because I had
to know if her and Connie had a moment in
the airport where they just did not. And I would
also like to say, for those of you who listen
to this show that watched that show that was a
fluff episode. I'm sorry, Jenny Hun, but you wasted our time.
That was a whole lot of fuluff. We only have

(00:56):
two episodes left.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
We need more, but.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
At the end, and I feel like my family knows this,
they looked it up. But are we spoiling it or no?

Speaker 1 (01:04):
I don't think we should. Okay, yeah, but I mean
there is a concrete ending in the book.

Speaker 4 (01:10):
Let's just say that.

Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
But I have read a lot of interviews from Jenny
Hun who wrote the books, and she's like, I don't
know if I'm going to end it the same way.
You know people like open ending. No we don't. And
I don't know if you guys feel like this, but
I feel as if that's the new wave of shows.

(01:32):
These endings are like, you guys, decide what it means, bitch,
I don't want to, which is just tell us, just say.

Speaker 5 (01:39):
What it is.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
I don't want to play these games with you.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
And the best example is that is when the Sopranos
stopped and that came to an end, that was the worst.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Whatever Tony might have kicked it off, that might have
been the start of you guys decide.

Speaker 3 (01:51):
We don't want to decide.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
But that should have been evidence that that that's not
a good thing, because everybody hated that. That was the
worst ending of all time over this show that I love.

Speaker 6 (02:00):
It was smart on day Paul, because everybody to this,
they still talks about it. I know it's nobody knows
what really happened. I ananybody has the idea.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
The writers have now come out and said that Tony
died but I don't care. I will fight it. I
don't care. I know I do because I'm like, no,
he didn't. Me and the Fireman fight about it, but he's.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Like why though it's obvious when you watched and break
down the scene that one guy in there's clearly like
the hic guy.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
I know, but I just loved that character so much
and he was with his family. I don't I didn't
want to feel as if he got taken out in
that scene.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
I get it, but this happens to mob guys like
all the time. It's a bad time. That's the only way,
like you have change, got to whack him.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
You gotta whack.

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, Tony got whacked in that diner.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
And then and I think like they were possibly leaving
it open in case he wanted to do a film afterwards.
But when yes, but when he died, it was like
just end.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
I'm just saying, it's not all the shows that we loved,
like Thrones had. I mean, I don't know what did
Thrones like? Where's John Snow?

Speaker 2 (02:56):
I think Thrones had a good had an ending, but
we weren't happy with it.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yeah, just don't even get me going on him. Don't
even get me going on Brand the King.

Speaker 3 (03:07):
That's just I'm not brand stock anymore.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
On the three Stock.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
You're gonna send your brother Beyond the saved your ass
multiple times? What other show you know what? Foreign you'll
appreciate this. My brother and his girlfriend were visiting the
other day and they were like, Ash, we need a
new show. Hadn't what they had never heard or watched Snowfall,
and I put Snowfalls ending. We've we were just messaging
about this the other day, but Snowfalls Ending is the

(03:37):
character development and that show is so wild and the
range is so crazy that that ending messed me up
for weeks. Yeah, messed me up for weeks. Another but
that that show had a definitive, definitive ending.

Speaker 3 (03:53):
But I feel like sometimes.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
These scary shows that we watch on HBO, like the
Alaska one with Jody.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Fosster the whole.

Speaker 6 (04:00):
To Sancy's point, I think you're just you're leaving an
open ended like that just so so we can bring
it back again, and we could take it anyway that
we want to, because nobody really knows what's happening. So
we can come back and be like, Okay, this is
what we went and be like I guess I'll see
it and.

Speaker 4 (04:13):
I'll still watch it.

Speaker 7 (04:14):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
I just don't like to play these games. If there's
a novel, like if a book was written with an ending,
stop stop messing around with the show, just do what
has been written.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
I don't know why we play these games.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
I mean example of that they're watching now is Silo
Silo so far or sticking to the books, but that
one is one that they could leave it like open,
but no, you need a definitive answer at the end
of that.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
What do we know about you? Have you read any
of the Silo books?

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I started to read the first book?

Speaker 3 (04:42):
Okay, what how many are there?

Speaker 2 (04:44):
There's three, I believe.

Speaker 3 (04:45):
And there is a definitive ending.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
I'm not on the third, third one, but at least
there are. The series is consistent with what's in the book.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Interesting and what are we coming up on now for
Silo season three?

Speaker 2 (04:56):
Season three, which they're saying is going to be a prequel,
you're gonna understand like the world and how they've gone
into the city.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
I've actually read that Homegirl Who's yeah, I do too,
because I feel like it is time for us to learn,
like if the air out there really is bad or not?

Speaker 6 (05:11):
And what they kind of started telling us that in
the last season, right a little bit, letting us know
like some some kind of air pollution or some government
son was going on.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
I Silo is up there too, for one of our
favorite shows. We love Silo rounds here. Whenever I say
the word relic, that's a Silo nod right there.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
You know what the show was awful and just need
to stop? Is The Walking Dead? It started off really really,
like really good, but now I think I think it
just ended a couple of sears ago. But then they
have two spinoffs, and that's the thing, like end the story.
We don't want the story just continuing, continue and continue,
have an ending and plan this out from the beginning.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
What other show that you two recently watched that you
both really loved but I did not?

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Mobland?

Speaker 4 (05:51):
Oh Mobland, Mobland? Oh my god, Yes I watched.

Speaker 3 (05:54):
I watched like two episodes.

Speaker 4 (05:56):
You couldn't get into it. No, I liked it.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
I just I should go back to it.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
It got a lot better, and towards the end you
were left like hooked, like I can't wait for that.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Like that actor Tom Hardy, Tom Hardy, Yeah, I like him.
But I feel like recently we haven't had a show
where we're like, oh my god.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
Right, we haven't.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
I mean, there was The Hunting Wives Club on Netflix
that I watched. It was really good. The sex scenes
were really good, but it did.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
Yeah, my favorite type.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
I didn't know girls are out there like doing that
type of stuff.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
A lot of people were talking about that show, but
I don't think necessarily because it was good because they
just liked those scenes. But I really feel like we
haven't had a moment in the last month or two
where three of us starting right, where the three of
us are like another trailer drop for I know this
is up my alley, but the they're doing an IT

(06:49):
TV show on HBO.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
Have you seen the trailer for this.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
It's called Welcome to Darry You have to watch it.
I think you're gonna like it too. Everything HBO does
usually is done well, and they just dropped another trailer
last night. This show looks good, but it doesn't start
to October twenty six. I want to say, that.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Doesn't make sense. I feel like she's started now. They
should ramp up towards Halloween.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
I could be wrong on the date.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Maybe it's a little bit earlier, but I'm saying other
than that, I haven't really seen any hype for well,
Stranger Things.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
Is coming back?

Speaker 6 (07:16):
That is it? Yes, that is coming back. What did
I just see the other day that they bring him back? So,
oh my god, I forgot what it was. I might
have even posted it on my story.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
But I could be wrong, but I think Stranger Things
is like Thanksgiving? Yes, and they're separating.

Speaker 4 (07:29):
Yeah, you guys never watched Your Friends and Neighbors on Apple? No? No, don't.

Speaker 2 (07:33):
Oh wait with the guy was stealing the watches?

Speaker 4 (07:35):
Dope?

Speaker 2 (07:36):
My wife did?

Speaker 4 (07:36):
Yes? Fire Yeah?

Speaker 3 (07:38):
Is it a drama?

Speaker 4 (07:39):
Oh yeah yeah?

Speaker 2 (07:40):
With John Ham, Yes.

Speaker 6 (07:42):
I love him and he's he's a dude who like
worked like in big business industry like selling or whatever,
stocks or whatever.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
They want to mention this Your Friends and Neighbors.

Speaker 6 (07:50):
Yes, and then he fell off and didn't maintain his lifestyle.
He started robbing all his rich neighbors. It's a fire show, wow,
because in the midst there's like really like a case
that's being built throughout the whole show that they eventually
try to pin on him because he's he's DNA's being found.
It's a dope show. I don't want to give it
out so much, but your friends and neighbors trust me.

(08:12):
It's a five show.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
Yeah, I mean we're we other than that.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
Other than that, we just I just feel like there's
usually a show that we're all obsessed with.

Speaker 4 (08:21):
I've been on my TV scrolling through Hulu.

Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah, trying to find something. I know it's bad when
I'm googling like top shows right now, five September. Now,
I will say I haven't started it yet, but Hulu
just dropped the a TV show about Amandon Knox, and
I've heard it's only like two or three episodes in

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that it's really good.

Speaker 2 (08:46):
Oh good. That story is captivating because someoney found up dead.
But there was rumors that there was a threesome.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
Yes.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Amandon Knox is a famous woman who was traveling in Europe.
She had a roommate at the time. She was a student,
remember roommates dead depended on her. But she had a
boyfriend at the time. They were saying that the three
of them were involved romantically. And the chick that is
playing a man's Knox is also the star of the

(09:14):
show that I love. Tell me lies, she's a really
good actress and supposedly this show is really good, and but.

Speaker 6 (09:20):
I've seen the doc That's why I haven't watched it
yet because I'm like, y'ah did a whole doc about
this thing, and like, why do I want to watch
a show about that's almost like a documentary?

Speaker 1 (09:29):
Feel I've seen a million docks about her. I can't
iwhere Speaking of docs, there's some doc on Netflix that
mad people have hit me up about too. I think
it's called like the Unknown Documentary and it's about a
catfish situation to two high schoolers. I know the ending
of it, so I don't want to say I.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
Just saw there on TV yesterday about high schoolers.

Speaker 3 (09:50):
Right, yeah, so like that high school couple, do you
know the ending? Do you know who was catfish on them?

Speaker 4 (09:54):
I have no clue.

Speaker 1 (09:57):
Crazy, that is the craziest story of all. So there's
there's one The Unknown Documentary. If you haven't never forget.
A girl from my high school, Nikki Joseph, was on Catfish.
That's like my claim people while you're on the road,
And I was like, no, that's not a big deal.
I know a girl that was on the show Caffish.
She was the catfish that's my claim to favor, especially and.

Speaker 4 (10:19):
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Speaker 1 (10:30):
She haven't any more Vive.

Speaker 9 (10:32):
I put my cabinet, I see it right there in
front of my door, and locked myself in. Were just
kind of trying to stay calm, shelter in place.

Speaker 1 (10:43):
Thursday, September fourth, yesterday was one of those moments in
social media where I feel like I opened up my
phone and all I saw on my timeline was this
guy outside of a window at UMass LOLL, carrying what
looked to like a very large like rifle or AR.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
Fifteen type of weapon.

Speaker 1 (11:06):
Imagine you have a child in college who just went
back to school at UMass LOL, and they get a
text that says, quote, avoid area, stay inside until further notice, run, hide, fight.

Speaker 2 (11:21):
Yeah, the last thing I would be doing is I
would go to the school right away to try to
find my child.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
It was so weird because I felt like we were
kind of all watching this play out in live time.
There was an alert set from low PD that basically
said listen, we're looking for a five toot five Asian male.
The suspect is believed to be wearing a white sweatshirt,
black shorts and carrying a quote long weapon. And that
was the video that I saw. It was so fast,

(11:47):
and you hear these young girls be like, we have
to call the police. It's strange because there's kind of
conflicting reports this morning. I know some people didn't like
the fact that the verbiage was that there was an
active shooter because no shots had been fired at the time.
There's also a rumor circulating that the gun, the weapon

(12:07):
that he was carrying may or may not have even
been real.

Speaker 2 (12:11):
But here's the thing that if you see the video,
he's walking around pointing it like as if he's gonna
shoot somebody. I feel like you have to assume that
the worst is gonna happen, so active shooter needs to
happen that way, everybody reacts that it's an active thing too.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
Yeah, I can tell you as this morning, you know,
last nights, I think it was at like five thirty ish,
they said. Based on a search investigation, law enforcement partners
believe the suspect is no longer in the Vicinity. A
large police presence is being maintained on campus and officers
will be stationed at all residents halls overnight. So even
really like as of this morning, we're not hearing any updates.

(12:48):
I mean, the positive is nobody was hurt or armed,
but can you imagine or harmed?

Speaker 3 (12:54):
But can you imagine if it turns out that this
kid was like prank Yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Mean hell, and he needs to do some serious time.
The scary part is that they don't have some like
a definitive answer at the end of this too, and
that part of Lowell is sometimes it's a little sketchy too.

Speaker 3 (13:11):
Yeah, I don't know anything about.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
My biggest fear would be that he's coming back today
or next week.

Speaker 3 (13:16):
For sure, And that's why I think they're keeping that
heavy police presence there.

Speaker 6 (13:19):
They got him on surveillance on other things, just walking
around town, like in the neighborhood, you know what I mean,
Like I frequent that area a lot.

Speaker 3 (13:25):
The same same guy, same with the gun out.

Speaker 4 (13:28):
Without the gun, without the gun out.

Speaker 6 (13:29):
He was just walking by a store and they caught
him on surveillance with the backpack and everything, like he
looked like he had a heavy backpack on. Yeah, but
he didn't have he was on his phone if anything,
he was just walking by.

Speaker 5 (13:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (13:41):
Yeah, but that every right there, Like my people were
telling me nothing but on mark cars were flooding that
area like it was crazy. It was really really active.
People have to close their dolls and their businesses just
didn't show that they were safe. Yeah, it was scary, bro.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
I mean again, it's not often that when we start
these conversations, I'm finishing it with that nobody was harmed.
I feel like how we just talked about this. It's
so often that it's it's again, it doesn't end this way.
So that part is good. But yeah, I don't love
the fact that I don't have a name and a
mug shot for you. I wish we had a better update.
But five ft five Asian male, last scene in a

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white sweater and black shorts. Hopefully the police have you know,
some sort of intel.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
Yeah, unless you say it's a fake gun, who the
hell is walking on the fake gun?

Speaker 1 (14:26):
Like that? Weird?

Speaker 2 (14:28):
You want to die?

Speaker 4 (14:29):
Just so weird?

Speaker 3 (14:30):
So weird.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
All right, let's talk about Cardi. Cardi sat down with
Billboard magazine and she did it was on camera interview again,
like we said, a lot of feathers, kind of hard
to see things. But she was asked specifically about her
new relationship. So remember there was a lot of back

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and forth that they may or not be on. They're on.
She also just put this man in her Instagram story
confirming that they are together. But here she is talking
about her relationship with our guide Patriots, Stephan Dicks.

Speaker 10 (15:06):
Well, it's tough for you to date again and then
date publicly, knowing like the spotlight that.

Speaker 4 (15:13):
Comes with it.

Speaker 11 (15:14):
It's tough hiding. It's just tough dating. It's definitely tough
dating in your dirties too, So but.

Speaker 5 (15:23):
I'm happy.

Speaker 12 (15:24):
I like I love them.

Speaker 1 (15:25):
I was never I've never really been.

Speaker 11 (15:26):
A dating person, right, I always been in a long
relationship until.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
I was like twenty one.

Speaker 10 (15:32):
So with Stefan, how has he inspired you creatively or personally?
I've seen you out in the gym, you talk about it,
don't do the gym. I'll see you with the jim now.

Speaker 11 (15:42):
So I'm not gonna lie to you.

Speaker 1 (15:44):
I don't really have a sleep schedule. I don't really have.

Speaker 11 (15:48):
Like a I don't I don't even I don't even
like to like map out my days. Sometimes I don't
even like to look at my schedule of the month.
I just be like, what we're doing tomorrow, All right,
we're gonna do it, but we're doing this week. So
one thing that I have been learning is that to
be more organized not complain because he has to do
two different things. He has to learn his book, so
it's like, you have not do you have to study.

(16:10):
You also have to get physical, and you have to
be in bed at a certain time. You're literally in
the military. Very inspirational to see how hard somebody works.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
It's just like, Wow, you should be proud of yourself.

Speaker 1 (16:21):
I like hearing that our guy's focused. He's focused, he's
learning the playbook, he's working out, he's getting the proper
amount of Z's. But yeah, I mean that all but
confirms if this woman is pregnant it is. Yeah, it's
definitely his.

Speaker 6 (16:38):
And she said it, she said, I don't date. I
like long term relationships. And how about the bag, it's
a rap you've got her for life.

Speaker 1 (16:44):
And how about the beginning part of that? I like him,
I love him. Yeah, it was it was I like him,
and then I followed, but I love him very quickly.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
If you're pregnant with a guy's baby, you feel that,
especially when things are good in the beginning.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
Yeah. Now, Interestingly enough, she also did I don't know
if you saw this city for an later post on
her Instagram and was like, hey, am I the drama.

Speaker 3 (17:04):
Special edition CDs.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
It has the photo of her, the multiple photos of
her in court because those went viral.

Speaker 3 (17:10):
They were hilarious. She on purpose shows a little peaky
of her stomach.

Speaker 2 (17:16):
Yeah, the belly button is it's an Audi and I
don't know if she had an AUDI before, but when
you're pregnant sometimes it happens.

Speaker 6 (17:23):
You can wear all the baggy T shirts to one
in the world. Nice T shirt by the way. But
it wasn't fooling us. We can see it.

Speaker 4 (17:29):
Yep, igo, bro, there's nothing else going on.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
She was out in the street trying to like sling
the CD.

Speaker 6 (17:36):
You know what was telling about that that interview that
I that we just talked about, is that she said
that her life, she feels like she didn't feel like
she was in a good place in life. She kind
of said that low key because she was like, you know,
I thought by now, at this age of thirty something
i'd be settled, and she's like, I don't feel settled.
I'm kind of restarting again in my life, my career.
I haven't put on an album in you know, seven

(17:57):
ten years. Now, I'm in a new relationship, I'm going
through a divorce, and I'm with a new guy.

Speaker 4 (18:02):
Like you know what I mean.

Speaker 6 (18:03):
She's probably thinking about the baby too, but she didn't
say that, but she was like, yeah, like I don't
feel settled, Like I feel like my life is resetting.
I feel like I'm doing everything that I should have
been doing in my twenties all over again. And she's like,
and I don't really like that. But other than that,
you know, life is cool.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
And I'm gonna say she did seem happy. She seems
excited about the album. So we also heard from Stefan. Obviously,
we are just days away from the Patriots kicking off
their season. Will we getting an appearance from Cardi and
the baby?

Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yes, yes, because it's the first game.

Speaker 3 (18:33):
I would hope so, but here he is on Game
one and getting ready for the season.

Speaker 7 (18:39):
I'm super excited.

Speaker 5 (18:40):
It's been going on like ten months, you know, and
obviously coming back from injury isn't easy.

Speaker 4 (18:46):
But going out there mixing it up.

Speaker 7 (18:47):
I'm in a good spot.

Speaker 5 (18:48):
I'm appreciating where I'm at right now, like you get
back to doing what you love.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
I'm around some good individuals. It's fun, it's new.

Speaker 5 (18:55):
It's obviously going to be an adjustment, but you know,
we're trying to get this show on the road. We're
trying to start. I know what I'm saying. So for me,
I'm just thankful to be where I'm at right now.
Back playing football.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
We sure are raiders one o'clock in Foxborough featuring Cardi.

Speaker 2 (19:10):
By exciting all right.

Speaker 1 (19:14):
It was the engagement that literally was talked about all
over the world. It was the only news on Santi's
trip that he actually got, which was that Travis Kelsey
and Taylor Swift are officially engaged. We knew it was
gonna happen. Another podcast episode has dropped, New Heights podcast.
It's Jason, it is Travis. They sit down, they cover

(19:36):
a million things. We knew the question was going to
be asked about the engagement. So here's a little bit
of inside info.

Speaker 7 (19:43):
You gotta know your gal or your significant other. You
gotta know them. You can it's got it. You can't
let how somebody else does it make you feel like
you need to do it that way.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
I mean, it's just tough because she's the biggest star
in the world that it needed. It should have been
a lot better than what it was.

Speaker 3 (20:01):
It was a little underwhelming for me.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
But maybe that is her.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
That's what he's saying.

Speaker 2 (20:06):
Oh, she's the most famous person in existence.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
And we're shooting it with an iPhone. Yeah, right, an
iPhone four s like, we couldn't do anybody. They're grainy,
you can't even zoom in on them. But I think
that was his way of kind of telling me and
you to shut that up, because it's like, you gotta
know your girl.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
This is what she wants. She didn't want some big
mass of thing. How did you propose? Joanne?

Speaker 2 (20:28):
But oh, it was really bad. It was insane Martin,
and we did this hike and it just was really bad.
I had a speech planned, I flubbed the entire thing.
I got down on a knee, I rushed through the
It was just not good. There were no pictures, they
weren't anything. And then it was what it was.

Speaker 1 (20:42):
It was.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
The marriage was a lot better than the engagement.

Speaker 4 (20:46):
I will say that, Yeah, fire man.

Speaker 1 (20:48):
I remember asked me in Bermuda, and he was on
his knee for like zero point zero five seconds. He
said things and I remember them, but it was so fast,
like you could tell he was just so nervous. I've
never seen him nervous like that in my life.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
Yeah, I mean it's a big thing. I was more
nervous to talk to her parents more than anything.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
I remember him saying the most nerve racking part was
carrying the ring, like having the ring on him on
an airplane, at a hotel, trying to hide him. Yes,
like he just wanted it to be in my possessions.
It was no longer his responsibility.

Speaker 4 (21:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (21:19):
I felt that too. And by the way, at the
end of the day, my wife and she ended up
paying for her own ring too, because I know catches
the time.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
But thanks for telling very.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
That.

Speaker 1 (21:28):
The three things need to know for Thursday September, the
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Speaker 8 (21:38):
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ninety four or five.

Speaker 1 (21:47):
Hi everybody, good morning. Someone just wrote me and goes, God,
you sound so congested. You need some nasal spray. Trust me,
I know everybody has the answer.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
Everybody's a doctor.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
I actually thought about calling my doctor and just being like,
it's been so long and whatever, but I really I
don't feel like there's anything for me at this point.
I think I just need to because I've taken all
of the things. Well, I've taken things, and nothing was
helping two weeks ago when this all started, So that's
why I was like, Oh, it must be COVID, but

(22:24):
it's not, or is it.

Speaker 4 (22:26):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
If you look up this this new strand of razor
blade COVID, some people have said that it has lasted
fourteen days in their system.

Speaker 2 (22:33):
Two weeks of this, some.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
People have said that, And if.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
That's what I have, but the razor blade parts are
over right, so now it's.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
Beyond over Like I had that for the first probably
three days, and then that went away and now it's
just like congestion.

Speaker 3 (22:48):
But it's my whole house.

Speaker 1 (22:49):
I mean, like Leyla had a double ear infection, Daisy's
just a faucet of snot everybody's got it. It's just
I have it the worst, which obviously you want. But yeah,
I meantime, I'm sick on here. People come out of
the world works, But you should sleep with spiders because
they'll suck out the sickness and you'll get better out
of the woodworks with these things. For and I feel

(23:12):
like you and I have agreed upon this that you
can't just like cold call somebody on a FaceTime Do.

Speaker 3 (23:20):
We have this conversation before?

Speaker 4 (23:23):
Violation?

Speaker 1 (23:24):
Absolutely diabolical, Like.

Speaker 4 (23:26):
That's the biggest violation. I hate.

Speaker 3 (23:29):
I hate it too, people like who do that?

Speaker 4 (23:30):
I'm like what not? Like why do you think you are?

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Why are you the way of the world?

Speaker 4 (23:34):
Now?

Speaker 2 (23:34):
Like people are involving this, especially like the younger kids. Man,
they just FaceTime like all the time.

Speaker 6 (23:38):
Yeah, the kids especially because because that's the generation that
they grow up in. Ye, we didn't grow up in
that generation. Yeah, we almost grow up in a generation
like can I call you text and then call you
like just and now you're just face it's like showing up.

Speaker 4 (23:50):
I've said this before. It's like showing up to my
door unannounced. You can't do that.

Speaker 3 (23:55):
What else that I was going to get to It's
so funny because I don't know. When I was little,
we did just go to people's houses.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
Like I I would just come home from school, drop
my backpack, and I was going to Emily Shaw's house.
I wasn't telling her I was coming.

Speaker 2 (24:10):
I just would go yeah when I was younger, and
then the doorbell would kind of ring and you'd be like,
oh my god, we have company, come on it.

Speaker 3 (24:18):
Yeah, you want to Ashley's here again? Can I get
you an oatmeal cream pie? Those were our favorite.

Speaker 4 (24:24):
Snap do you want a piece of cake? Sit down?

Speaker 1 (24:26):
That sounds so sexual, but I'm serious that there's everyone.
You guys know what oatmeal cream pie is right.

Speaker 2 (24:32):
At them?

Speaker 4 (24:33):
Yes, Jesus.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
Right last night, I'm sitting at the dinner table and
the doorbell rings, and that's.

Speaker 3 (24:46):
Just the thing of it, Like.

Speaker 1 (24:49):
No one told me they were coming, you know, So
right away I'm like, what the actual hells at my
front door? Because in this day and age, it's just
we're not used to it like you would have been
back in the day. You usually get a text from
someone being like, Hey, are you home. I'm gonna whatever.

(25:09):
And it's so funny because my neighbor just texted me,
and she goes again, I want to say, I'm sorry
for dropping.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
Like coming over un' ounce.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
So it was my neighbor who I love, and she
can come over to my house anytime she wants. It's
just I had no bra on, I had no pants on.
So now I'm like thinking, okay, she's just gonna is
she go to way to the front door while I
get this stuff on. I'm scrambling to try to put
a hoodie on so that way she doesn't get like

(25:36):
a real show. When I answer, you know what she
was delivering at the front door, two warm loaves.

Speaker 3 (25:46):
Of sour dough.

Speaker 4 (25:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
Again, something that doesn't happen this day and age back
in the day you deliver cookies.

Speaker 1 (25:53):
Right.

Speaker 4 (25:53):
I was hype though.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
I was so excited. I said, listen, I can't believe
you waited that long. I didn't have a bra, so
I had to go put a sweatshirt on, and she's like,
I'm sorry to drop over unannounced, but I mean and
she literally it's so weird because we're talking about this,
and she just texts me again and goes, I am
so sorry I came over unannounced, But how was the bread.

Speaker 2 (26:14):
But is she sorry though, because yesterday she came over
and she likes that.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
By the way, it's okay, that's my girl too, because
she came over with the two loaves of sour dough bread.
But she also loves Halloween, so she was like, where's
Penny Wise? She wanted to check them out. She wanted
to check them out. So we did a little tour
of my garage, which is mortifying because it was a basement.

Speaker 4 (26:33):
That's going to become annoying. She's going to keep doing this, okay, and.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
Be like.

Speaker 4 (26:44):
To check it out. He has some cookies.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
Well, I guess if she doesn't come empty handed, then
I'm cool.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
Is she the type that looks at a window like
all day now when she sees people drive by, she's
gonna come on.

Speaker 4 (26:54):
Like, hey, I saw some people seeing what's going on.

Speaker 1 (26:57):
I feel like I've kind of become that nab. Yeah,
Like if I look out my window and I might
see like my neighbor Bill or something, and I've been
wanting to say something to a Bill I saw you outside.

Speaker 3 (27:10):
I think I've become that. But I'm telling you, like,
this wasn't.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Happening in my neighborhood before, like Marshfield is different in
the most amazing way.

Speaker 4 (27:19):
I mean they're a community, you know.

Speaker 1 (27:22):
It really is. I told you guys, my other neighbor
who owns Morning with Barbecue. He'll text me and be
like cooked ribs? Can I drop some off?

Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah, keV.

Speaker 6 (27:33):
Like these are people who invested in their neighborhood, right,
Like there's a bunch of probably home here for years
and years, so you get to know each other. I mean,
if you live like what you used to live before,
it's like you know people in and out because you
got renters. Some people are not as caldual as that.
Some people don't want to know you. But when you
when you finally settle into a place, you want to
know your neighbors.

Speaker 4 (27:51):
You want to kind of know.

Speaker 3 (27:52):
Like because I'm dying, that's a crazy one.

Speaker 4 (27:55):
Who's the one I could go party with? Who's the one?

Speaker 3 (27:58):
Like you know what I mean, I will die of
that home.

Speaker 1 (28:00):
They're gonna put up the twelve foot skeleton and then
my body next to it, because yeah they know it.
They're like, yeah, she's not going anywhere, but I it is.
It really is a sense of commut I mean if
somebody would have said to me, hey, at this time,
at this age, in this neighborhood, someone's gonna be delivering
you unannounced sourdough bread.

Speaker 3 (28:17):
I'd be like, no, that's not gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
I think if I would have been like, that's so stupid.
I'm not gonna eat the bread. But now it's inviting.
It's nice though.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
The bread was so good, it was warm. I put
a little bit of butter on that thing. I mean,
I love sourdough anyway, sour dough. Sourdough is a top
to your bread. Ask Taylor Swift delicious.

Speaker 2 (28:35):
So if she's listening, now, what do you want today?
Because she's coming back, She's gonna she's showing up at
your clip.

Speaker 4 (28:40):
Every day year.

Speaker 1 (28:41):
I mean forun did mention cookies like I don't I
don't mind chocolate chip.

Speaker 2 (28:45):
Sure, she's probably baking.

Speaker 4 (28:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
I like a little salt on top of the chocolate
chip too. But this is funny though, because if you
think about it, my unannounced neighbors are being like, hey,
here's some sour dough.

Speaker 3 (28:58):
Forns fours as are like your cats trying.

Speaker 13 (29:01):
To kill it.

Speaker 4 (29:03):
Is trying to commit suicide. Who saved your cat if
you don't want it.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Was beyond the bumbo.

Speaker 4 (29:13):
I'm like, what are you doing? Leave my cat alone?
I mean, no cats are good.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
They were concerned because no one's on they wanted to
take my cat.

Speaker 4 (29:20):
That's really what was about to over.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
Hasn't fed me tun in weeks, I don't know what.
By the way, unrelated to our houses and our setups,
if you had an un announced neighbor, it would be
a killer because nobody's walking up that. That's a mile
long driveway to be un announced, like you're not.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
Doing that to that point, it never happens. The only
people who come up or people come to the house,
or like the delivery guys. But for the most part,
nobody just unannounced it.

Speaker 6 (29:50):
Hey, by the way, but if he lived right on
the street, they would because it is a little it's
kind of a little sketchy, like I would look at
but it's a little too private, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
About a month ago, we did have somebody to ride
up the driveway on a scooter and he was from
a exterminator company that was trying to like push out
the ones that were already like in place, and he
pitched us like the whole thing and said they're less
money and all that stuff.

Speaker 4 (30:12):
But that was the only one we've gotten in like
a year and a half that Actually, I haven't been drunkard.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
That, so it was like, I'm not kidding you. I
felt it was like eight fifteen a fifteen correct member.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
Wait wait wait, fifteen at night? Yeah, that's no night.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
No no, no, no, no, she came at like six,
but no, no, no, I'm not kidding you. This was
a big thing in our neighborhood. Eight fifteen at night,
like a couple of months ago, same thing. Doorbell rings.
I don't answer because I am by myself in the
house and the kids are asleep and it's eight, Like
that is DM near eight pitching me? Well. I didn't

(30:46):
end up going out, but I found out. Yeah, like exterminator,
eight fifteen at night? Who do you think you are?

Speaker 4 (30:55):
You know it thoughts getting dark? Leave Tactically.

Speaker 2 (30:59):
I get that it's the summer and all that stuff,
but I think anything past like five is offensive.

Speaker 1 (31:03):
Yeah, even six. I gave it till six. After six,
that'll leave my door alon. Yeah, I mean I couldn't
believe it. Eight fifteen, Like, sir, you're ringing the doorball.
I just got these little babies down. I dare you
to wake one of them up.

Speaker 2 (31:14):
And you're in a tank top. We did boobs coming here, yeah.

Speaker 1 (31:16):
Obviously and my underwear from two thousand and four. Like
you don't want to see that, you really do.

Speaker 3 (31:22):
I Hi forybody.

Speaker 1 (31:23):
Good morning, just about twenty minutes away from our first
giveaway chance the wrapper MGM at Music Hall. Hopefully with
you will do it around seven twenty. Good morning's actually
in ja morning show.

Speaker 2 (31:32):
Damn in ninety four to five traffic right now, there's
a parking lot on one twenty eighth southbound before the
ninety three accent. You're looking at least eight hour delay there,
so avoid that air area if you can root one southbound.
Your traffic is starting at the Chelsea Curve. This continues
all the way down to the Tobin bridging, especially northbound
crawling after the brain tree splits.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
That was a tough stutter right there. But you've been
doing really well, I feel like with stuttering.

Speaker 2 (31:54):
Yeah, so there are a few things that affect my stuttering, yeap.
Obviously nerves is a big thing, but then also too,
how tired I am and lately I've been going to
bed like early.

Speaker 1 (32:05):
So the more tired you are, the more you're gonna stutter.
And then when you you know, this week, obviously with
AJ being out, you have been nervous.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
Yes, and I will say today is the first day
where I feel relaxed.

Speaker 3 (32:18):
Well relax, I said.

Speaker 2 (32:20):
Relax the right way that was yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 3 (32:26):
And I like when you start every once in a while,
you know, do.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
You know I spent so many years trying to hide
it in all this stuff, but then I realized it's
a part of who I am. And I've gotten to
this position twice. I'm like, it's a part of me.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
So did they call you stuttering Stanley because I feel
like that's.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
The go to No, because that movie came out after
that was a sixth sense. But they would always say
this is any yeah, one, yeah, this is a santy, especially.

Speaker 8 (32:53):
And with DJ fourn and Sonty when you need to know,
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Speaker 13 (33:05):
Five.

Speaker 9 (33:06):
I put my cabinet, I see it right there in
front of my door and locked myself in for just
kind of trying to stay calm, shelter in place.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
Thursday, September fourth, Imagine being a student at UMass Lull yesterday,
God forbid, a parent of a student, and they are
getting text messages that say avoid area, stay inside until
further notice, run, hide, fight. It was very strange because
I opened up my Instagram and I just kept seeing
the same video over and over of a now we

(33:39):
know described to be five 't five Asian male wearing
a white sweatshirt and black shorts and carrying this super
long gun outside of an.

Speaker 3 (33:50):
Apartment building, maybe a dorm.

Speaker 5 (33:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:52):
I saw that video fifteen times, and I just felt
like we just kept getting you know, we weren't getting
an update what was going on. They were calling at
an active shooter. Turns out a shot was never fired.
Turns out even further, the rumor has it that the
gun may have not even been real. I'm now starting
to see some of the videos that Forn's referring to

(34:13):
this same guy kind of walking around, loll in the area,
even at one point holding the gun, and it does seem.

Speaker 3 (34:20):
To be a toy gun.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
Do we think that maybe he doesn't understand the severity
of this, Maybe he's a little.

Speaker 6 (34:27):
I don't think I don't think he was card excuse me,
conscious the way he was at Maybe maybe to him,
he's just walking around thinking he's in a video game.
Not saying that he's trying, you know what I mean.
But to him, in his head, he's just walking around
having fun. You understand, he's playing. Yes, he's in his
own world. He's not really conscious of what he's at
or what his actions might look like. And other people

(34:48):
saw that and be like, damn, this guy's on campus.
We're also calling him a guy too, Like what if
he was like just a larger kid.

Speaker 4 (34:55):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (34:56):
Yeah, if he has a toy gun just walking around
like pointing, he might have just been like, Yo, you know,
I'm shooting that rabbit right there.

Speaker 14 (35:03):
I'm doing this.

Speaker 4 (35:04):
Yeah, mad innocent, but he's not.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Understanding, they said at five point thirty PM. Based on
search and investigation, law and enforcement partners believe the suspect
is no longer in the vicinity. A large police presence
is being maintained on campus and officers will be stationed
at the resident halls overnight, but as of this morning,
other than those videos that I'm seeing we don't really
have an update.

Speaker 2 (35:23):
How can they like, you can't say he's not in
the vicinity right What if he just went in like
inside to where he lives. Like, I hope they come
back today and they're still searching for him, because I
feel like, oh, I think important that they get answers
on what this thing was.

Speaker 4 (35:35):
They gotta find him and make sure, like what exactly
was it? Was it a kid? Was it a kid
just calling around?

Speaker 6 (35:40):
It was it?

Speaker 4 (35:41):
Was it somebody who you know kind of was thinking, Yeah,
they need to find out.

Speaker 1 (35:44):
They have to because not only for the students, but
for the parents, for everybody. I wouldn't sleep comfortably.

Speaker 6 (35:50):
I just got a DM from a check and she
doesn't want me to mention her name, but she was like,
this was her kid's first day of school at the
camp at the camping, and they already had an anxiety
he's separating from each other because they're so close knit,
and now for the first day to happen. She said
she was on the phone with her daughter the whole time.
She's hearing tables being pushed onto the doors. This, she's
hearing the lights getting turned off. She's hearing and teachers

(36:11):
saying okay, now, everybody be quiet. She's whispering on the
phone telling everything else going on. That's nerve wracking.

Speaker 1 (36:17):
Even the thought of it, like whether it was a
toy gut or not. I feel like U Mass Lol
did the right thing by sending out that text, because
you have to be prepared.

Speaker 3 (36:27):
It's just the world in which we live in.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
But no matter what, you're a student, it's your first
day and you have a text from the university saying run, hide, fight.

Speaker 6 (36:36):
It's your first day being away from home, it's your
first time being like independent, and then this is what happens.
And in UMass, obviously they use shuttles to take all
the kids back to their dorms and everything, and I
guess they were telling them just wait for your shuttle
and then get on your shadow and go.

Speaker 4 (36:49):
And it's like, why don't want to get on my
shuttle bus?

Speaker 6 (36:51):
If they could be potentially like a sniper around here,
you feel me like now I don't want to leave.

Speaker 4 (36:57):
I don't even want to come back to school anymore.

Speaker 2 (36:58):
Maybe cancel classes today and just do an extra search
for them.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
I know they canceled some sporting events, so maybe, yeah,
maybe they did until they get an answer, but we'll
keep you guys posted. Let's talk the engagement heard around
the world quite literally. I can say that, and in
a literal sense because Santi was in Patti at the
time and it was really the only news from over
here that.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
Got to you. They didn't understand what the French were saying,
but they were definitely saying Taylor Swift.

Speaker 1 (37:24):
They were excited. Travis Kelsey Taylor Swift are engaged. Why
do we think the wedding will be?

Speaker 2 (37:29):
By the way after the football season, So maybe a
summer wedding.

Speaker 3 (37:33):
Oh, you can summer six Yeah, unless she.

Speaker 2 (37:36):
Goes on tour. If not, they'll push it back to
the fall.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
Well, we're very excited. I'm loving any details that we
get about it, including the ones from the New Heights
podcast brand new episode, Travis and his brother Jason sat
down and they were talking about a proposal.

Speaker 7 (37:52):
You gotta know your gal or your significant other. You
got to know them, and it's got it.

Speaker 12 (37:57):
You can't let how somebody else does it make you
feel like you need to do it that way, I
might be able to get some ideas from how other
people did it. I would just say, no, you're know
your partner, no, know who you're doing it for, and
do it for the right reasons.

Speaker 7 (38:10):
Maybe everything else would be be beautiful.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
So he definitely heard word that. People were like what
what what?

Speaker 10 (38:18):
What?

Speaker 1 (38:19):
I mean? Listen, it looked pretty, but the fact that
there was no real photographer and somebody was using an
iPhone too, that was crazy. Tokay, But maybe that's really
what she had told him she wanted, or.

Speaker 2 (38:32):
Maybe we're just thinking too much from his point of
view because he's a football player. He doesn't think about
photo shoots like that. I mean, like, obviously the last
couple years for him has changed, but he's still the
old guy that doesn't get it foreign.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
How did you propose me?

Speaker 4 (38:45):
I said it's time for divorce to do mine? So
and she was like, you know what, Yeah, it's.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
About Tom And you guys never have a real did
you never have like the real big moment.

Speaker 6 (38:55):
It wasn't no band on one time vibe. I don't
know about that now. Yeah, you guys are big so
but nah, show did not get on one knee foot show. Okay,
maybe I love that.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
Maybe she would have, she would have maybe the next time,
the next one, Yeah, why not?

Speaker 3 (39:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (39:11):
By the way. Per this conversation, they were chatting with
Roger Goodell. We're gearing up for the NFL to be
back this weekend, and Roge was commenting on the fact
that we might just get a Taylor Swift super Bowl show.

Speaker 4 (39:26):
We would always love to have Taylor play.

Speaker 3 (39:29):
She is a special, special talent and obviously.

Speaker 4 (39:34):
She would be welcoming anytime.

Speaker 13 (39:36):
Is it in the works.

Speaker 4 (39:37):
I can't tell you anything about it.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
Maybe it's not up to Rodge though, isn't it up
to Hove doesn't get the final on that?

Speaker 3 (39:45):
Probably a combination now, but I think that he would
say no to her.

Speaker 2 (39:49):
If jay Z's smart, this will be the biggest thing ever,
bigger than Michael.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
Could you imagine a super Bowl with the Chiefs and
she's doing I mean, I.

Speaker 6 (39:58):
Think it's time for a break anyway. We've done how
many super Bowls with hip hoop on them?

Speaker 4 (40:01):
Like three? Maybe four?

Speaker 1 (40:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (40:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (40:04):
Some fold break Yeah, And then I think it's a
cool way for all these people that would die to
go to a tailor show that can't afford it, to
get a little lookscape. All right, speaking of many, Honey,
Saturday Night's power Ball is now up to at least
way for it one point seven billion. No one got
all six numbers right last night they were three, sixteen,

(40:26):
twenty nine, sixty one, and sixty nine with a red
power ball of twenty two. But if somebody wins Saturday,
do you want to guess what they can walk away
with with the lumpy lump sum cash paths seven fifty
seven seventy point three.

Speaker 2 (40:43):
At what point would you guys cut people off? Like,
obviously you would take care, you would take care of
your family, You would take care of your parents, take
care of some siblings, maybe some friends. But what's the
line there? And that's that's something that needs to be
thought out.

Speaker 4 (40:56):
Family and my very close friends like the one to
ride a doctor, which is.

Speaker 1 (41:01):
Not money, yeah, but entertaining. My cousin Page's idea about
an app that she had from five Yeah.

Speaker 6 (41:09):
I mean, but you got the money to burnt, you
got seven seventy million. If all she wants is twenty
bands or ten bands to start an Apple.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
Problem with that is that that's the first time she hasked,
and she'll come back in a year and ask for more.
That's why you have to have cut off point.

Speaker 6 (41:26):
You gotta set the rules be like, yeah, I'm giving
you ten thousand, and that's ten thousand out of seven million.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
You literally become the bank of the family, which is
how people go broke. Would you still work?

Speaker 6 (41:38):
I would still come in here. Yeah, I would have
give a damn about a lot of things. Oh yeah,
but I'm coming. That's why I'm with you, because I
would say, let's type a meeting.

Speaker 4 (41:48):
Be like no, yeah, but.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
I'd also say, oh, by the way, you know, I
could have seen me on Thursday and Friday. You can
have me Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and the start time might
not be six Yeah, how bad do you want? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (42:01):
But yeah, let's have a meeting. No, we're not having
a meeting.

Speaker 1 (42:04):
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Speaker 2 (42:20):
Luckshi in the jam In Morning Show with DJ four
and it's Saunty Big Morning.

Speaker 1 (42:26):
Bustin's number one for hip hop. Jam In ninety four five.
Hi everybody, Good morning, Sashly in the jam In Morning Show. Um,
I got this DM from this from this girl, and
I wanted to talk about it because I it's certainly
not the first time anybody has ever sent me something

(42:48):
like this, and I know we've chatted quickly about this
on the show. She basically said that she feels like
she's just this eternally single girl and when she was
in her twenty and single, she felt like she could
be picky or so. For example, when she was in
her twenties four and she was like, I don't want

(43:09):
to date anybody that has a kid, and she goes,
I remember feeling bad about that, but I was just like,
that's you know, that's just what I want. And by
the way, I don't understand that narrative. Who are these
people out here shaming somebody for not want like if
that's something that you don't want, like, I understand that.
I don't think there's anything wrong with not wanting to

(43:31):
date somebody with a kid, because guess what, you're always
playing second fiddle.

Speaker 2 (43:35):
Trust Me, probably somebody who's been shamed or has not
had a boyfriend because of that probably now is yeah
to that.

Speaker 1 (43:42):
Well, essentially, what she was getting at was like in
my twenties, I told myself straight up, like, I want
to find somebody.

Speaker 3 (43:47):
I want us to start our own family.

Speaker 1 (43:50):
She's like, now here, I am middle to late thirties,
and most of the guys that I'm going out on
these date dates with like they have so I've kind
of had to or been forced to open up my
mind to the fact that I might eventually have to
be with somebody who has a kid, and it's like

(44:12):
killing her.

Speaker 2 (44:12):
Which is okay though. I think when you're younger again,
you have the luxury to kind of pick and choose.
But the older you get, I think what happens is
you realize that more more likely than not, you might
meet somebody who's divorced. But on the other end of that,
I think once you get with somebody and it's the
right person, whatever comes, whatever baggage comes along with them,
you start to accept it as being not a negative thing,
but a positive.

Speaker 1 (44:32):
I guess what I'm stuck on is why somebody wouldn't
shame somebody for saying, Hey, I'd rather date somebody who
doesn't have a kid.

Speaker 6 (44:43):
I don't because they have kids. Yeah, that's the only
person who's shaming that. This is a person who has
kids and doesn't like the fact that these people out
there who wouldn't accept me aka shame me a kid.

Speaker 1 (44:55):
Because as somebody who has kids, I realize if I
were to be single, now, you're coming into a situation
where you know, there's a dad, there's schedules, there's sporting events.
You're not going to have like my full attention ever
because I have these two babies, and that's just what
it is. So these people out here that are you know,

(45:18):
I don't know. It's just strange, but I do think
she's right by saying that. Now she's in her later thirties,
you're going she's going to come across more people that
have families than don't.

Speaker 6 (45:29):
Yeah, and she's also is trying to have a baby herself,
like she doesn't want to be too too old, she
doesn't want to be in her forties fifties having babies
trying to find that single guy who doesn't have kids.
Trust me, they're out there, but whether they're good people,
it's like like at some point you got to start
let's try, let's start settling for some things. Let's not
put these things as a priority. If you want kids,
you got to find somebody maybe they got kids.

Speaker 2 (45:50):
But it doesn't have to be settling though. I think
if you have the mindset that it could be an
amazing thing, then then the options just open up and
it could be really positive experience. Because I know people
who have had like situation. They marry a guy with
a couple of kids and it's like, wow, these these
like step kids that have are actually pretty amazing.

Speaker 4 (46:06):
That's that's a hard pivot.

Speaker 6 (46:08):
If you're already off the mindset that you don't want
somebody with kids, and you've gone through your twenties, you
know what I mean, Like thinking that way nine your thirties,
it's almost like you would have to settle because it's
like I met this guy. He's nice, but he's got
a kid, and I don't want to kick it with
him anymore.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
I also have to say that I think there's this
whole other layer to this, Like, Okay, I'm gonna use
you as an example. Boys are older now, so they're
like men, you know. But say your ex when the
kids were ten years old, finds someone else and she's
in love and he moves in and now like the

(46:45):
kids are doing activities with their stepdad, Like that would.

Speaker 4 (46:50):
Kill me.

Speaker 3 (46:51):
But that's that's just like, you know, one of my
best friends is she's going through it.

Speaker 1 (46:56):
She's she's getting a divorce and her little girl just
said the name of the new of the new girl.
Of am I saying that right of the new girl? Okay,
So she comes up she's like, Mommy, I was with
daddy and Eileen and that's crazy. It might sting a little,
but for me, it never, it never really bothered me,

(47:17):
Like you know what I mean, And that's the attitude
you should have.

Speaker 3 (47:19):
I'm just a petty bitch.

Speaker 6 (47:21):
Oh, I know what you're saying. But but you have
a you're gonna have a I mean, you're kind of
fresh into parenthood. But by the time then, like you know, nine, ten, eleven, twelve,
you realize, like, yo, the bond of me and my
children have no one replaced, Like, yeah, okay, we separated,
you want and had your own wife and you got
another girl.

Speaker 4 (47:37):
But I know the bomb mean, my children come to
me and talk to me.

Speaker 6 (47:40):
Now, if you don't have a bond with your kid,
then I can understand why you're like, oh, someone stepping into.

Speaker 4 (47:48):
A parent and you and.

Speaker 6 (47:50):
You've always had this bombing. Who can come and separate
that she had that she had my ax had a
dude moving and eything and I was I was bothering me.

Speaker 4 (47:59):
Didn't tell me about this there she bothered me. Zero.

Speaker 2 (48:01):
Well, I think it depends. Is the guy like a
good guy? And I think that's what that's what you want.
You want who's a good step dad or a.

Speaker 6 (48:07):
Step You know that, and you want to make sure.
You want to hope that your ex partner knows that I.
I'm not gonna just bring any Joe Schmoe into the crib.

Speaker 3 (48:15):
Right and and the whole like, when are we introducing?

Speaker 1 (48:18):
We've discussed this. Everybody has their different.

Speaker 4 (48:21):
But like my friends and my kids, and I asked them,
I was like, yo, is he good to you?

Speaker 2 (48:24):
Like?

Speaker 4 (48:24):
Does he treat you right?

Speaker 14 (48:25):
Like?

Speaker 4 (48:26):
If there's any problem, you let me know. I ain't
gonna go there and fight him.

Speaker 6 (48:29):
But if you ever feel like he's coming in there
and changing things around on you, remember that's your crib,
not his.

Speaker 4 (48:34):
You know what I'm saying. And we left it at that.

Speaker 1 (48:36):
But my so my friend, for example, I let's use
Eileen again. The little girl's coming home being like Eileen
was at the gas station, you know what I mean,
Like Eileen was quote accidentally popping up at the is
what was what he was saying. So you're gonna tell
me that Eileen was at the mobile on Route three

(48:57):
at two oh six.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
You guys just happened, like Happenstamps, get the.

Speaker 15 (49:02):
Hell out of here, Like yeah, but the rule was
we're waiting a year to introduce the kids now all
of a sudden, if.

Speaker 6 (49:15):
That's spoken of, But that rule is never established and
and you know, common sense sometimes again it's not common.

Speaker 4 (49:20):
Some people might go.

Speaker 6 (49:21):
I would always say, like, yo, don't introduce nobody to
the kids unless I know about it. I don't even
have to meet homie. Just let me know that there's somebody.
And I could be like, you know, at least I
know now there's another man in the crib, and and
if I need to, I can step in and kind
of rectify some things if it needs to go that way.
But some people are not like that. Some people are
not courteous like that. And it also depends on how

(49:42):
you break up. Are your friends or are your enemies,
Because if I'm enemies with my ex I ain't introduced.

Speaker 4 (49:46):
I'm not telling you nothing. Hi, say your new mom.
Go tell your old mama about your new mom.

Speaker 1 (49:52):
Okay. And I actually think this is a good question
because she just she just added something in. So let's
this is this is the best, because I he's gonna
I think Sancheople has something to say about six one
seven nine three one one nine four five six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. She said, fine,
I get what you guys are saying. I'll be open
to it all the things. What if the kids suck? Oh,

(50:17):
what if the kids are bad, disrespectful, not listening, and
you're okay, let's let's see.

Speaker 2 (50:22):
Let's see it.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
And you and you are step mom or stepdad or
girlfriend or boyfriend, you're coming into this situation with these nasty.

Speaker 2 (50:30):
If the kids are bad, it's a direct reflection on
the person. I don't think I could handle it because
our styles of parenting would start to conflect. Now I'm
not their dad. But at the same time, at some
point I'm gonna have to set a tone and they're
going to do something.

Speaker 3 (50:44):
And when do you get to the point where you're allowed.

Speaker 6 (50:46):
Yeah, you also got to think a little deep but
the kids might have turned bad because of the breakup
that they went through with their parents and it affected them.

Speaker 3 (50:52):
The wrong way and saying and I'm saying, plea, he'se
inn't taking if.

Speaker 6 (50:57):
A kid is like tormenting me, I'm sorry with Shorty,
like just when you see me, keep your kids out there.

Speaker 1 (51:03):
I would think that this would literally cause well, the
phones are ringing. Let's see six one seven nine three
one one nine four five. You finally did it. You
found somebody you love, You meet them, you spend time
with them. They're great through Like I really want you
to meet Little Johnny. Little Johnny sucks as well. Hi, everybody,
good morning, It's Ashley the jam In Morning Show. Look
at us just having adult conversations. That's what I love

(51:25):
about the show. It's like I think back to when
I first started in afternoons and we've kind of all
grown together, and now you know, we're not hiding it.
We're not we're not spring chickens anymore. We still feel
young and spry, but we are in our late thirties
and some of us on our forty forty four kind
of you guys said, I'm in my late thirties. You
guys are in your forties. Hey, I'm going to be
in my forties soon too, thirty nine this year. And

(51:49):
I only say that to say, you know, this girl
written me a message. She's like, in my twenties, I
was very particular. Now I'm in my late thirties, I'm
still single.

Speaker 2 (51:55):
You know.

Speaker 1 (51:56):
The thought process is like, Hey, I didn't want to
date somebody with kids, and now I almost feel like
I have to.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
Everybody that asks me out has them.

Speaker 1 (52:02):
And we were going back and forth kind of chatting
about that, and then she just wrote me again and
she goes, Okay, but what if the kids are bad,
because that's another thing too. You're you're not mom, you're
not dad. The discipline that you know, the discipline needs
to come from them. But then how long if you're
in this relationship, can you then discipline. It's weird though,
those are weird. Those are all things you have to

(52:24):
figure out.

Speaker 14 (52:24):
You know.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
The rule of thumb must be that once you move
in with the person, then you can start the discipline.
But until then you can because you're not the parent.
But at the same time, if they're being disrespectful to
the mother or to you, then I do think you
have the ability to stand.

Speaker 1 (52:36):
Up six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
Victoria is in Woburn shout out to tell the wu.
Hi Victoria, Hi, good morning guys.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
How are you good?

Speaker 3 (52:47):
So you've been through this, you've been you know a
step mom or you are a step mom?

Speaker 13 (52:52):
Yes, I am.

Speaker 1 (52:54):
That has to be so tough in the beginning, Like
where are you at with it now? But like just
talk about the you know, the first couple of meetings and.

Speaker 3 (53:02):
That type of stuff.

Speaker 13 (53:04):
Yeah, so I'm telling my twenties, late twenties. But when
I was in my.

Speaker 14 (53:08):
Early twenties, I had this boyfriend that jumped me.

Speaker 13 (53:12):
To get back with the ex who he has a kid.
And that was very traumatic. So I used to say,
I'm never gonna date someone with kids again, because this
can happen, you know, and you can do anything really
because it's a whole family. So okay, I just said
I'm not gonna do anyone with kids. But then a
couple of years later I met my husband. He had

(53:34):
I think she was six or seven year old.

Speaker 16 (53:37):
Daughter, and it was tough on the beginning because I
had some beef with the mother, so it wasn't easy,
but kids are very simple. If you do what they like,
if you make them like you, they're gonna be nice.

Speaker 13 (53:53):
It doesn't matter, you know. Just take them to McDonald's.

Speaker 16 (53:55):
Just buy some stuff.

Speaker 2 (53:57):
Happy.

Speaker 1 (53:58):
I to be honest, it's the way to buy her to.

Speaker 13 (54:03):
Please them.

Speaker 16 (54:04):
You know, you just have to.

Speaker 13 (54:05):
We are the adults, so we know what to do.
And if the kid likes you, they're gonna treat you. Well,
that's a fact, you know, kid, They're very simple. So today,
I have an amazing relationship with my step daughter.

Speaker 14 (54:21):
She gives me gifts for.

Speaker 13 (54:25):
Mom's Day and all that stuff. She wrets me letters,
she calls me for everything, and me and my husband.

Speaker 14 (54:30):
Have our own baby.

Speaker 1 (54:32):
Now.

Speaker 13 (54:33):
She's the best big sister. Like it's the best thing
that could ever happen. He had this daughter.

Speaker 1 (54:40):
Okay, I love it well, Victoria, thank you so much
for the advice. I'm just writing her back chicken nug
and happy mil. I mean, it's like, I don't even
know why we're having the conversation. Eddie is in Lynn, Hi, Eddie.
So happy to have a guy's perspective on this. So
talk to me. What was your situation coming into your

(55:00):
new situation? Are you a stepdad.

Speaker 14 (55:04):
Yeah, technically still a step dad. You know, I'm not
currently in that relationship anymore. We split up about three
years ago, but her son still looks at me as
a father figure. I just still check in every so often.
I still show up for his birthday party, et cetera.
But I met him when he was two years old,
turning two, and from there are now me and him

(55:25):
build that bond.

Speaker 7 (55:27):
It was dope.

Speaker 14 (55:28):
You know, me and her mom had Me and his
mom had an understanding where we stood as parents. We
didn't want to meet our kids very early into the relationship,
and that worked out perfect. When they we introduced our kids,
our kids were like fiddling. So he looked at each
other at said that they were always looking forward to
each other, et cetera.

Speaker 7 (55:48):
It was dope.

Speaker 14 (55:50):
But yeah, that was just my experience. So I just
think it's all based on just communication with that other person.
You know, understanding a child is being honest to that child,
Hearing that child and being there for that child makes
a difference.

Speaker 1 (56:06):
Eddie. I just want to say, you don't hear it
often from whether it's the male side the female side. Yeah,
we broke off, broke it off, but I'm still in
the kid's life. Like technically speaking, legally, you don't have
to do the things you're doing, but you're right, two
year old, that's a little that's a little baby, and
you you create this bard in this relationship and the
fact that you're still showing up is.

Speaker 3 (56:27):
That's a beautiful thing.

Speaker 1 (56:28):
Eddie.

Speaker 3 (56:28):
You're gonna choke me up. I'm already sick down.

Speaker 14 (56:31):
I grew up, so I want to make sure I
make an impact on anybody that I touched. That relationship
is a beautiful relationship. All I got to do is
just pay forward.

Speaker 1 (56:42):
Shout out to Eddie. Eddie, I just want to say,
you know what, you just proved there are good people
in Lynz. So Santy clearly was wrong about that. I
mean he's been telling me.

Speaker 2 (56:52):
But you know what I'm talking about, Like, Eddie, you
know what I'm talking about. Come on, man, Yeah, this
is get you play things.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Sketchity Okay, buddy, thanks for the call. It's a sketchy place. However,
we have good people, is what he said. Amanda is
in New Bedford. Amanda says, I had my ex met
my new man before we intro the kids. So basically,
what you're saying, is you guys kind of held out

(57:21):
on the introduction.

Speaker 17 (57:24):
Yeah, I think that if somebody's going to be around
somebody else's child, I think that the parent should definitely
And I'm not saying that that same respect was given
to me on the other end. But everybody moves how
they move, so how you move, I'm not going to
move after that. I'm gonna do what I feel is right.
And if I'm gonna have somebody and I have two

(57:46):
older ones, and my older one is gonna be twenty six,
and him and his stepmother are so close, and it
just I have to agree with the whole thing. Like
if you know the bond you have with your child,
nobody can threaten that. And there's no such thing as
too much love. And I just feel like people get
so hung up, like how are you going to be
jealous of very child? And like like just move healthy,

(58:10):
because healthy relationships that's what impacts these kids as they
get older. I have a twenty six year old and
twenty four year old and a thirteen year old before
I just let anybody meet the thirteen year old. Yes,
the father met him first. That's his child, right, you
know what I'm saying like, I don't know, I just
I'm moved different. But in my twenty four year old

(58:32):
she's still close to her stepmother even though the stepmother
and her father aren't together any longer. But I just
feel like there's no such thing as too much love,
And I don't know, you shouldn't feel threatened.

Speaker 1 (58:46):
About like that attitude.

Speaker 3 (58:47):
Amanda, You're right, and thank you for the call.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
I mean, and at the end of the day, it
really is the kids getting more love from all these
different people and everybody being happy. I just, you know,
I props to everybody that's going through that and figuring
it out, because that that cannot be easy.

Speaker 2 (59:03):
What's probably tougher is dealing with a tough ex. If
your partner that you're with now had an ex husband
or ex wife, that's crazy. That would be more challenging
than the kids. Yeah, me, me, I mean right now,
my kids, like you said that a damn near grown men.
Right If they were younger and they didn't like the
person I was dating, I would probably have to cut
that person off.

Speaker 6 (59:21):
Yeah, like, that's my priority. You know what I'm saying,
It's likely you don't if you can't bond with this
person and you can't fill them. Now I could care less.
It's like, oh you don't like songsho, who cares? You're
twenty seven, go ahead with your life. Back then, they
were fifteen, sixteen, even ten nine, and they were like that,
we don't we don't really bond with Shorty, like she's
not really cool like that. I might have to sit
down and be like, yo, look my kids. I'm my priority,

(59:43):
and if we can't get along with my kids, then
we can't really have a bond, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (59:47):
The phones were going crazy. I mean, there's still a
ton of people on hold.

Speaker 1 (59:49):
We had a call.

Speaker 3 (59:50):
It dropped, but he was basically telling you that the
kids demons.

Speaker 4 (59:56):
Yeah yeah, I know.

Speaker 6 (59:59):
I was hoping we got him on the So he
didn't talk about So what happened was is that he
said that he's he got with Shorty and she's got
two kids that I think six and nine, and what
Sanci said, her parenting style is very soft. So those
kids just ran to muck. Gentle gentle parenting run a muck. Now,
the thing is is that they get into an argument

(01:00:19):
because he feels like she doesn't. She gets a little
upset that he doesn't discipline the kids. He doesn't have
any children, and he's like, if I had kids, I
wouldn't want another man disciplined in my children. So how
am I over here disciplining somebody else's kids when you're
the one who should be doing it. But the flip
side to that for me is like, you're gonna be

(01:00:39):
involved with this woman's life, you have to kind of
become the disciplinarian if she's too.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
Soft, right, they have to be on the same page
of gentle parenting does not.

Speaker 6 (01:00:46):
Or doesn't, And that's what he gets mad too. No,
but that's how he gets mad at it, because it's like, Yo,
your kids don't listen.

Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
That would that would upset me, russ me up the wall.

Speaker 6 (01:00:57):
At the flip side, she's getting mad at him for
not this planning them when he's like, I think it's
your lane to kind of set the tone and then
I step in behind you and support you as opposed
to be just doing it all because he can.

Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
End up looking like the baggy man.

Speaker 3 (01:01:11):
I'm maddie hung up. Did he really use the word demon?

Speaker 4 (01:01:14):
Not demon? He's had d men?

Speaker 1 (01:01:18):
Well, you know what, he.

Speaker 3 (01:01:19):
Should just get to a happy meal.

Speaker 1 (01:01:21):
Yeah, Little did he know a couple of a couple
of chicken nuggets could have solved every