November 24, 2025 • 27 mins
Ashlee hears from a listener who needs some advice after she found out the guy she was seeing never actually got a divorce.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 3 (00:12):
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coach is preaching all the time. Bounce back from good plays,
bounce back from bad plays, and you'll probably defense for
stepp up. They stepped up big time. And like I said,
it's next min up. We had a lot of guys
and you'll come in and play and make plays and
help us out. So proud of them, and you'll just
go get a win and go to get the tenth win.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Monday, November twenty fourth. Sorry, dad, We're not talking about
shod Or Sanders around here. We're talking about God aka
Drake May. I mean, people are putting this man above
their own wives in the household right now, grown men
saying I'm not thinking about that.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I just think about Drake May, which I can understand
seeing that the Patriots are ten and two. They're on
this amazing run. But I think until he wins a
couple of Super Bowls, let's not put him in front
of our spouses yet.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
That's feeding the Bengals twenty six at twenty out side
you just said at ten and two, top team in
the NFL. Nine wins in a did in a way though.
Taking El yesterday with four major injuries, one really bad
knee injury and ankle injury having to be carted off
the field is never It's just like immediate silence, weird
feeling in the stomach.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
But to his point, next one up and hopefully we
can keep the wine tree going.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
That's a fact. Pats are back in action, and they're
gonna get an additional day off, which is nice. Giants
next Monday night, we got visuals. People. We already could
see Ditty in a still shot. Now we're getting motion.
We got video footage of Ditty. Listen, nobody shocked at
the man looks elderly. Remember when they raided his home.
(01:38):
Other than copious amounts of lube they found, Seriously, they
found how much hair dyed. It was a ton of it.
So he clearly was having I mean, listen, my grades
pop out every six weeks. I'm over at Freshy there
figuring it out with the gray stop looking at my hand,
but you.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Have eleven of them. He is his whole head is
like pepper.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
He's snow white.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Yeah, literally.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So he works inside the Fort Dick's Media library there
in the chapel, and his responsibility is to give movies
and religious materials to inmates. And let me tell you something. Yeah,
he looks elderly, but correct me if I'm wrong, Son,
don't he seems like healthy, he seems happy. He didn't
know he's being recorded, so he's not sulking around in
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the chapel media library.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I'll say that he's definitely not like emanating like depression.
Like he seems in a positive space.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
And I just like, I have so many questions. I
don't know who's filming, how they got that video footage?
You know they got paid for that, But really, is
Fort Dix as lax as it seems like we're just
out here with cell phones recording inmates.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
If you can smuggle phones into Shirley, then I'm sure
you can smuggle.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
In People have called us from cell phones and we're like, wait, who, what, where? When? Why? How?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
So?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, I guess that does make sense, all right. Everybody
was talking about Beyonce over the weekend. She was at
the Formula One Las Vegas, Grand Prix. I guess it's
one of the final F one races of the season,
and she went viral for her look, which, by the way,
was a custom Louis Vuitton jumpsuit, which is the official
partner of F one. It had the Ferrari thing happening.
(03:16):
It had it was chesting, yes it was and wow.
I mean she looked like she was gonna hop in
a car, put on the helmet and go.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I mean, listen, aesthetically, she looked good. All the body
parts looked really good. I didn't like the the whole
outfit just because it didn't fit into what, like, like
what celebrities wear on.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
The paddock and see, I don't know the paddock fashion
to say one way or the other. She'd looked like
she was really leaning in on theme. And I love
a good theme party. So if I went to an
F one party, I wouldn't look like that, but I
would try.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Here's what I'll probably say. They're dressed up for like
a nice event, but it's also casual, but it's not
so like scantily clad. If that makes shit, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, yeah, well listen, they her and jay Z got
in the car with Lewis Hamilton and here they are
wooing and eyeing it.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I think we hit like two hundred.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
It is such an honest steaking Thank.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
You for such an union.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
They did a Pirelli hot lap with Lewis Hamilton went
over two hundred miles per hour. I had to look
up what a Pirelli hot lap is, but it's something
that gives spectator celebrities and has an opportunity to take
a quote high speed hot lap in a supercar around
a Formula one track, driven obviously by a professional.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I'd give anything to do that. That would be like.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
You, you and a Pirelli hot lap, you could die happy.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Yeah. And Hamilton's one of the greatest drivers of all time,
so to get driven by him, that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Watching the video if if you watch it, he's going
two hundred miles per hour and it looks like he's
running to target to just like run a quick errand
like that. He's that lax behind the wheel. It's nothing
to him. It's one lap at two hundred miles per hour, nothingness.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
But one false move man and all. She wrote body
and Clyde ripple.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
YEA yeah three thing he needs an over Monday November
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a jam Morren Show A four. It's a jam In
(05:39):
Morning Show and it's time for another DM Dilemma. Hi, everybody,
I'd say this a lot. I probably not often enough,
but I think when you're going through something and everybody
in the family is too close to it, it's hard
to get just a honest opinion. And I mean that
(06:02):
in a sense of like my bestie calls me to
tell me something about her ex like I already had.
I already hate her, so now I can't like remove
that from my brain. I hate all of the things
that she's done, so I can't give you just like
a let me just put that to the side and
just pretend that I don't know all these things and
give you my honest opinion, because no, I hate that person.
(06:22):
So that's why we invented this segment, the DM dilemma,
because I think sometimes you just need to tell people
who have no idea about you, your life, anything you
have going on, don't know the players in the story,
don't know their past, and just like, Okay, this is
I'm hearing it for the first time, and this is
how I think about it. Uh six one seven nine
three one one nine four five. That a sixty one
(06:42):
seven nine three one one nine four five. I got
this DM. She's staying anonymous. I tried to get her
to call in, and her quote back to me son
was I can't because I've already been threatened that he
will press charges on me if he knows.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I'm telling yeah, you can't press charges for that, so
that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
The initial I'll run you through the convo. This was
the initial message. At some point on the show today Ash,
Can you guys talk about what you would do if
you know somebody is having Slash had an affair, and
whether or not to tell the woman. I am in
the middle of this and I have no idea what
to do, so of course, you know may bullying. Can
you call in? And she said I'd rather not. He's
already threatened me that he'd pressed charges on me if
(07:23):
I tell his wife. Happy to give more details, but
please keep me anonymous.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, you can't press charges on somebody for telling like
the wife on an affair. That's the craziest thing I've
ever heard. It's also stupid.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
I also haven't read this part because she just responded
because I asked for more details. So she said, I
knew the guy first, and I met his wife at
a mutual party. We both went through divorces this past year,
but finalizing got delayed for various reasons. I realize now
I'm an idiot for believing that we have been dating,
hooking up off and on since we both moved out
of our respective homes. I found out last week. They
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reconciled a while back, but he was just at my
place last Oh my god, it's her.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Oh my god. That just hit me. Hit memento. I
thought she was a friend as well, all right.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I found out because a mutual friend mentioned to me
that they were so happy they were able to work
things out, and I was legit dumbfounded. I immediately reached
out to him. He confirmed and immediately started backtracking, begging
me not to say anything, threatening to bring me down
with him, et cetera, et cetera. I want to tell
her so she's not trying to reconcile with this absolute
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curse word. But I also don't want any of the drama,
and having met her, I'm worried she will now blame
me for this mess.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Oh my god, So there's crabbing me for mom. They
aren't really friends. They've met each other their acquaintances, they're
not close friends.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
No, let's now that we know it's her, I'm just
going to quickly read the first part again because I
wasn't even okay. I knew the guy first, and I
met his wife at mutual parties. We both went through
divorces last year, but finalizing his got quote delayed for
various reasons. Now I realize I'm an idiot for believing that.
So here they are, they're thinking they're divorces, they're hooking up.
(09:12):
They're both probably like, oh, we can you know, both
relate to what each other's going through. You're going through divorce,
I'm going to he was lying and saying his was
getting delayed, but in fact he never got the divorce.
He was still married. Yeah, And she said, we've been dating,
hooking up off and on since we both moved out
of our quote respective homes and I found out last week.
He reconciled a while back, but he was just at
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my place this past weekend. I found out because a
mutual friend mentioned to me that they were so happy
that the couple was able to work things out. And
I'm just dumbfounded.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
She doesn't want the drama part of it. So if
that is the actual case, and don't tell the wife,
cause it's only going to bring chaos. And clearly this
guy is not a good dude, yea, So just cut
yourself loose in this guy and never speak to him again.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
It seems like the only way or reason you would
do it is for the get even, ya know what
I mean, which I understand hurting. You just went through
a divorce. You really thought you probably found someone that
you can can confide in and confess your soul to
and all the things. And now you're pissed because you're
hurt and you want to get even. But is the
get even worth it? Because if you know this woman
enough to know that she's just going to blame you,
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then you're gonna feel even worse. It's not like you
two are gonna have like his first wife's club.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I don't think anything positive is gonna come from this.
That's why I think, just cut yourself loose. Now, I
do understand the get even part, and like there's a
part of me that says, yeah, call her and tell
her like everything, because.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Then he's getting a pass, like he got the best
of both worlds. He was banging her last weekend.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
I know, I know, I just don't think that this
is the only girl. And I don't think he's gonna stop.
So why even put yourself in that whole scenario thing?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I see both sides too, because now I'm like, look
at him winning. Yeah, like how does he get to
win on this? And that that's the get even part, right, because.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Damn, he was probably lying the entire time about the divorce.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
The was a life. Let's just go ahead and call
it what it is. The divorce was a lie, which
we hear a lot of times on this show. We
got together on the you know, promise of he was
going to finalize the divorce and he never die.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Now, if you are going to say something, just drop
a quick line, drop the information. Then again, cut yourself
loose out of everything.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Let's see what everybody else thinks. Six one seven nine
three one one nine four, five, six, one seven, nine
three one one nine four five. Anonymous is going through divorce.
She meets a guy also going through a air quotes
divorce and things are going well. She's with him last weekend,
they're hooking up. She goes to work and she finds out, oh,
he was actually never getting divorced, that was a lie,
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and he is happy at home with his wife. Does
she tell or does she's not. She's listening. By the way, Hi, everybody,
good morning. It's actually in the jam in morning show.
That was crazy because we had a DM dilemma. Anonymous
was like, I just don't know whether I should tell
the wife or not. I know about like an affair
that happened. So here I am thinking she found out
(11:59):
a coworker having an affair. But oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
She was involved.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
She's going through divorce. She meets a guy also going
through a divorce. Hers was finalized, his got air quotes delayed.
Come to find out there was no divorce on the horizon.
Now she wants to know do I tell the wife?
And this is like the age old question right six
one seven, nine three one one nine four five. You're
with somebody you find out they have another somebody, do
you tell or do you not? Lauren is in Hyde Park? Hi, Lara,
(12:26):
good morning, Hello, Hi Alicia from Alicia from Worcester, It
says Lauren from Hyde Park. I don't That's why I
don't trust these two. They'll set me right out, they'll
set me right on up. All right, Alicia does she
tell good morning? And she's listening, by the way, so
let's you know, be nice.
Speaker 6 (12:46):
Okay, Yes, I think she absolutely should tell. Okay, personally,
I would want to know someone speaking around. Yeah, two
people already know him and her. I absolutely would tell.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
You know, I I so, I I understand that because
I would want to know too. But she said she's
the type of female that she already knows is going
to blame her. So it's like, does that play a
role in it too? Like are you just wasting your
time if you know that this woman is going to
be like, well, you're a home record, it's your fault.
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (13:14):
Well who else all that is she needs to know?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
All right?
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I appreciate that Alicia friends at all, they're not friends
at all.
Speaker 6 (13:24):
She doesn't have to take it.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Yeah, that's right, I guess anonymous. This is a roll
of the dice. Now I don't know who I'm talking to.
Is this anonymous?
Speaker 6 (13:33):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (13:35):
So yeah, Hi, Sati tells me that you're going through
something similar, so you you know you're in the thick
of it as well, And what's your advice?
Speaker 6 (13:46):
My advice is, I'm the wife in the situation. I
had found out that my husband was cheating on me.
He told this woman that he was going through a divorce,
and I tried reaching out to her because I did
find out who she was during my detective Yeah, because
my god feeling was telling me and best believe, I
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found out. So I tried reaching out to her and
she would neglect to talk to me, to tell me
her side of the story. And as a wife, that's
all I wanted to know. And as far as her
not I mean being acquaintances with this woman, I mean
as that like, if she's gonna blame her, let her
blame her. It's really the husband. And if she wants
to stay with the husband, that comes down to that.
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But at least she can get it off her chest.
As a wife. It's like the most betrayal thing.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
No, I can't even like makes me literally want to
vomit even thinking about even hearing you say that, being
on the other end of it, being the wife, and
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Where are you
guys at if you don't mind me asking in your
marriage now?
Speaker 6 (14:48):
So the last time he slept with me, he files
his divorce the week after.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Oh and this was after you had caught him. Yep,
So you were willing to kind of like take him
back and work through it, and yet he's still like
I wanted to.
Speaker 6 (15:03):
We've been married a long time to get the ten
years I have a child, Like, I was willing to
be anything to make your work and she told me
it was over. It was not, and then he blindsided
me with that.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
So tell the wife.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yeah, I mean, I'm sick to my stomach again for you,
and there's really nowhere else to go after this call.
I mean, you're the wife, You've been through it. Tell
the wife an, i'mous, thank you for being so open
about that that. I mean, you know, even who else
are we going to at?
Speaker 1 (15:32):
As the spouse, I would always want to know if
this was happening, Yeah, Like wouldn't you.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Yes, But I would feel worse about like she already
feels terrible about herself, right because she's thinks she's hooken
up with this guy. Now she knows that he's married
wholy married to somebody else. And you're already feeling bad.
And then you tell the wife, thinking you're doing the
right thing by letting her know that she's getting played,
and she turns it on you and calls you a
home wrecker or something. It's not gonna make you feel
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better in fact.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
So if you're gonna go into it like that, then
maybe don't have expectations that, just like you said that
you and the other female are gonna be like come padres.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Actually, maybe there is one more to go to. Is
Charlie a guy?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Charlie's a guy.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Let's talk to Charlie like a guy's perspective on this.
Charlie is in Somerset. After you hear from a wife
who's been through it, it's kind of hard to go
anywhere else. But guys perspective on this, Charlie, what are
your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (16:26):
So as a guy's perspective on it, I got divorced
about three years ago, and you know, it's all well
and good. That being said, I.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
Think both parties are at faulved. You know she got divorced,
or she was getting divorced she didn't know for sure,
or he lied to about him getting divorced, they were
hooking up.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Listen, no one's gonna win in this situation. Cut your losses,
move on with your life. You know the truth, No,
no one's gonna win. If if you feel like you're
going to be blamed for something that you initiated yourself
and without knowing for sure what was going on, then
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why are you even gonna go down that riage?
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Charlie. I think this guy wins if she doesn't tell,
I mean, if she like I think he wins because
he's been hooking up with two chicks for the for
god only knows how long they're both thinking the totally
get it.
Speaker 4 (17:24):
And I completely understand your point if you want that,
And yeah, I mean I agree, he definitely won. He
got the best of both worlds. But if you don't
want the drama to come along with that, and you
don't want to look at the one being blamed and
everything like that, and you're kind of anthing ice about that,
then why are you even going to initiate saying anything?
Speaker 2 (17:42):
If you're asking a question. She's clearly teetering both ways
on it.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
Right, I mean, it's it's a totally bs situation for
both parties. And you know, he's a threft back for
doing what he did and now you know, not being
truthful and just you know, forthcoming. But you know, well
that's the world we live in. A lot of people
it just you know, they go down that road and
they don't they want to have fun, and she would
they can get away with and obviously that's what he did.
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But at the end of the day, you know, just
walk away down your back, you know.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Yeah. I just thank you for the call, and I
just yourself, all right, I just uh, I just DMed her.
She's listening, and I just said, I hope you're hearing
all this. I don't know if it's helping one way
or the other. And she said, I am listening, thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
No decision on what she's going to do, though, because
I feel like in the moment her emotions are probably
like all over the place.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
All right, Well, she just saw it. I put any thoughts.
Let's see if she bubbles. But yeah, I think I
think I could see both whichever way she chooses. I
get it like it's you know, there's two.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Sides of this. As a husband, I would want to know.
But on the other end of things, I don't want
to get involved in somebody's life like that, even though
I was involved with like, even though I was involved
in something like that, I just don't want. I would
cut myself out of the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
He's bubbling and we have to go to traffic. I
know it's killing me. Do you want to do traffic?
And then if she writes in that time, okay, let's
do traffic dam in.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Ninety four to five traffic forty five minute to late
on Route one southbound from the Lovely Cawloon all the
way down to the Tobyin Bridge. Traffic on ninety three
southbound starting at the Fellsway myth and all the way
down to the Zecon Bridge. In the expressway northbound, we
have about a fifty seven minute ride from the Braintree
Split up to East Welton.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
She's writing a small novella. Here we go. This guy
has been where my head is at. But I totally
hear the woman as well. She's torn. She's torn, yeahs,
which I get. I feel like she will keep us
posted on this either way, which everyone again, it's like
choose peace, walk away or whatever, and then if not,
you tell, and who knows, maybe you do catch a
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woman who's like thank you, because here I am like
giving up my life for this man who's treating me
like trash. But yeah, she's like, I'm sorry, I just
don't know what I'm gonna do yet. Well, hey, you
know we'll be doing waiting.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Wait.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
I feel like I'm a part of this.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Now, Sashy, good morning.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
Bustin's number one for hip hop? You am in ninety
four or five. Well, let's just not talk for a second. Listen, Slimy.
Imagine listening to this in the seventies.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
Oh my, a cocaine right in front of you, where
you can have sex and not worry about anything. There's
no rules, there was no checking.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Everything's just groovy, baby. I am so excited. Tonight's tonight
my birthday gift gets paid off. We're going to Stevie
Nicks at the Garden. And it's just I mean, I
know a lot of people would think we're in a
hip hop station. I must only love hip hop. But
if you listen to like my Apple or I heard, like,
(21:01):
my playlists are crazy because you you could literally go
from a Couple Drake song to a Stevie nick song
to Van Halen to then back to Fleetwood. But like,
you just don't. It's it's a roll of the dice
with me. I like all different types of music, but
I grew up on Fleetwood Mac. Like Eric Clapton Fleetwood Mac.
You know, obviously my parents were divorced, and I hate
(21:23):
to use the word babysit, but my mom would like,
let him babysit us, and uh, he would cook and
we would have one That's how I named Leila Laila.
We'd play a lot of Eric Clapton, and anytime we drove,
it was Fleetwood Mac on blast, and it was like
a tape, like a legit cassette tape, and we'd flip
it over and I remember Chain was always Chains was
always at the start of it. But I just I've
always loved Fleetwood Mac before Dreams was cool. I loved
(21:46):
Fleetod back, I loved Stevie Nicks. I just she's just
such an icon. She's a legend, and I'm so pumped
to get to see her. She's seventy seven, years old.
I've seen her a couple of times and I made
a points to the fireman. I really wanted to go
because we just don't know how much longer she's gonna this.
I mean, she's blessing us, and I appreciate her for it,
but you.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Got to imagine that she's going to retire soon, just
because again that is most people don't tour like that.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Yeah, you know, yeah, I think if you're somebody who's
like you're not you have no idea about a Fleetwood
Mac or a Stevie Nicks another gem of hers. It's
a duet, but one of my favorites leather and lace.
I told AJ this morning to grab this bed for me.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Come on, don Henley, right, Don.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Henley, dono. Actually, my outfit tonight is going to be
a nod to this song. I'm doing a combo of
leather lace.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Oh please, I'm wear it well. I'm wearing to do
it slow too, Guys.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I'm wearing leather hot shorts like they're so short, but
I'm gonna wear tights underneath, and I have this long
leather duster. You gotta go for witch vibes and you're
going to Stevie Nicks. You must dress like the queen
witch that she is with a leather jacket over Tied's
just like a whole vibe. But it's it is a
tribute to this song. But the real bigger story is
we're staying it on court tonight. And never forget that
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I've been kicked out there before.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
That's because you got into a fight in the cause
I get a fight. Sorry, you were involved in an altercation.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
Yes, my one of my lesbian best friends and her
girlfriend at the time got into a physical altercation. All
I was doing was trying to break it up. But
I'm big, you know, And it's like when you're tall,
sometimes you just get in trouble by association.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
And that's right. And at the time, you got banned
for life.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
So how did you I never got banned from life
from Encore. Let's get that out there right now.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
No, why you're yelling getting upset.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
It was the eye in the sky watching me. They
kicked me out, but I never got a lifetime band.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Oh okay, you were just banned like that night. Yeah, okay,
so but now you're back at Encore. Remember another time too,
you got really drunk and you were throwing cupcakes around
the hotel room too. Right, that was Encore, Right, I
don't remember if it were smearing the cupcakes on the window.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
It was a little game I was playing with myself,
and yes that was Encore as well. But I'm when
we're sleeping there tonight, little parents night out. I really
want to go to Mistique and get the TikTok chicken.
But like, these are the things that I care about,
going to the show, having drinks before, getting like nice
and buzzy before. It's like a happy buzz on a Monday.
The fireman this morning, four o'clock in the morning, texting
(24:07):
me pack my swimsuit. What are you twelve for? What? Hey,
I don't know. They might have a hotel pool for
the four hours we have to kill before the show
and before dinner. You gonna get you what do you
have the kids with us? You're a loser. You go
to the hotel pool, right, and you have your kids
(24:28):
with you and there's some random man just like soaking. Yeah,
it's strange, bro.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
Like if it was a lap pool, he's like, you
want to get some laps, that's a different story. But
he's gonna swim around.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Yeah, you know he then texted me like hours later
that he done a little research and it doesn't look
like Encore has a hotel pool, so he can't wait.
He's anxious to get into the room because he wants
to take a soak in the tub. Like this is
this is this dude, this is what he cares.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
Why doesn't he go to the spa something? So get
away from me? Most of these places in Vegas have
like a spa where there's like plunge poles, there's hot
tuzz but it looks like an oasis, right, and they
separate in between guys and girls. And on the guy
side most of the time, it's like you can choose
to wear your bathing suit or you cannot, so you'll
(25:16):
be walking around there, does it just walking around? Yeah,
it's like just Phoenis there's something free about I'm freeing
for sure.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
It's just funny, like we're just such opposites. I can't
wait to like have my first Espressie go see Stevie
the Queen. And he's like just wants to take a
soak in the top, Like he just wants to sit
in a room and soak.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
You don't want to go and join him.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
I mean, if we did, we'd put what like half
of a Poland Spring bottle in there. I think it
would be over showing massive.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Humans, showing Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
So I'll start out with an espresso Martini. I probably
have one more. There's probably two espresso Martins. And then
it's always the age old question like what do I
go to after the espresses? Because you know, and I'm
sure a lot of other people that drink you go
through this is like what's our drink? What is our
drink of choice going to be? What will I have
when I get to the Garden from Encore? Because I
might have the espresso more tem's at the the Encore.
And then it's just like I gotta think of these things.
(26:13):
These are important.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
The espressos, those those dooth make you like super wired? Right,
That's why I'm always afraid to drink them.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
We can't have enough of those in our c our
line of work. Are you kidding me? I mean I
don't get to take naps anymore. I probably will be
able to today, and I think I will take advantage
even like maybe forty five minutes just to get a
little something in because if not by nine p my
eyes are going to be closed. She doesn't go on
until eight twenty oh.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
But but that keeps you up like all night. That's
what my biggest air would be.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
I have this innate ability to sleep right on through.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Well it's called alcoholism.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Or when you compare it to cocaine, it's like nothing,
it's nothing.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
No, that's it's seriously, you want to talk about staying
up lates.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
You don't do coke.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
I don't. I haven't never ever ever either. It's Stevie Nicks.
But I can't wait to go. If you're there tonight,
con find me if you're gonna be in and around.
Encore will be there, and it's just I'm so mommy
and daddy does out and about on a Monday in
the city. Who are we?
Speaker 1 (27:10):
It's like crazy?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Who are we? All right? Sound shout out.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Instagram shout out Sarah Gallant ninety two and Honey Underscore
a bun the shout out to you on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
I have a shout out for Stevie Nix, the legend,
the icon, the queen. Thank you for blessing us tonight
with these performances like and not wait seeing dreams live
is It's just such a moment in time. I will
feel you in on everything tomorrow. But if I missed
anything at Ashley Felman to ease on the Ashley Bye
Especially ended by show and you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
No, we got you three things you need to know
on Bustin's number one for hip hop and the best
throwbags you haven't any more. Five.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
That's what this leaves about ballen versity, and that's what
coach is preaching all the time. Bounce back from good plays,
bounce back from bad plays, and you'll probably defense for
stepp up. They stepped up big time. And like I said,
it's next min up. We had a lot of guys
and you'll come in and play and make plays and
help us out. So proud of them, and you'll just
go get a win and go to get the tenth win.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Monday, November twenty fourth. Sorry, dad, We're not talking about
shod Or Sanders around here. We're talking about God aka
Drake May. I mean, people are putting this man above
their own wives in the household right now, grown men
saying I'm not thinking about that.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
I just think about Drake May, which I can understand
seeing that the Patriots are ten and two. They're on
this amazing run. But I think until he wins a
couple of Super Bowls, let's not put him in front
of our spouses yet.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
That's feeding the Bengals twenty six at twenty out side
you just said at ten and two, top team in
the NFL. Nine wins in a did in a way though.
Taking El yesterday with four major injuries, one really bad
knee injury and ankle injury having to be carted off
the field is never It's just like immediate silence, weird
feeling in the stomach.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
But to his point, next one up and hopefully we
can keep the wine tree going.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
That's a fact. Pats are back in action, and they're
gonna get an additional day off, which is nice. Giants
next Monday night, we got visuals. People. We already could
see Ditty in a still shot. Now we're getting motion.
We got video footage of Ditty. Listen, nobody shocked at
the man looks elderly. Remember when they raided his home.
(01:38):
Other than copious amounts of lube they found, Seriously, they
found how much hair dyed. It was a ton of it.
So he clearly was having I mean, listen, my grades
pop out every six weeks. I'm over at Freshy there
figuring it out with the gray stop looking at my hand,
but you.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Have eleven of them. He is his whole head is
like pepper.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
He's snow white.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Yeah, literally.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
So he works inside the Fort Dick's Media library there
in the chapel, and his responsibility is to give movies
and religious materials to inmates. And let me tell you something. Yeah,
he looks elderly, but correct me if I'm wrong, Son,
don't he seems like healthy, he seems happy. He didn't
know he's being recorded, so he's not sulking around in
(02:22):
the chapel media library.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I'll say that he's definitely not like emanating like depression.
Like he seems in a positive space.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
And I just like, I have so many questions. I
don't know who's filming, how they got that video footage?
You know they got paid for that, But really, is
Fort Dix as lax as it seems like we're just
out here with cell phones recording inmates.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
If you can smuggle phones into Shirley, then I'm sure
you can smuggle.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
In People have called us from cell phones and we're like, wait, who, what, where? When? Why? How?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
So?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, I guess that does make sense, all right. Everybody
was talking about Beyonce over the weekend. She was at
the Formula One Las Vegas, Grand Prix. I guess it's
one of the final F one races of the season,
and she went viral for her look, which, by the way,
was a custom Louis Vuitton jumpsuit, which is the official
partner of F one. It had the Ferrari thing happening.
(03:16):
It had it was chesting, yes it was and wow.
I mean she looked like she was gonna hop in
a car, put on the helmet and go.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
I mean, listen, aesthetically, she looked good. All the body
parts looked really good. I didn't like the the whole
outfit just because it didn't fit into what, like, like
what celebrities wear on.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
The paddock and see, I don't know the paddock fashion
to say one way or the other. She'd looked like
she was really leaning in on theme. And I love
a good theme party. So if I went to an
F one party, I wouldn't look like that, but I
would try.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Here's what I'll probably say. They're dressed up for like
a nice event, but it's also casual, but it's not
so like scantily clad. If that makes shit, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Okay, yeah, well listen, they her and jay Z got
in the car with Lewis Hamilton and here they are
wooing and eyeing it.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I think we hit like two hundred.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
It is such an honest steaking Thank.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
You for such an union.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
They did a Pirelli hot lap with Lewis Hamilton went
over two hundred miles per hour. I had to look
up what a Pirelli hot lap is, but it's something
that gives spectator celebrities and has an opportunity to take
a quote high speed hot lap in a supercar around
a Formula one track, driven obviously by a professional.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
I'd give anything to do that. That would be like.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
You, you and a Pirelli hot lap, you could die happy.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Yeah. And Hamilton's one of the greatest drivers of all time,
so to get driven by him, that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Watching the video if if you watch it, he's going
two hundred miles per hour and it looks like he's
running to target to just like run a quick errand
like that. He's that lax behind the wheel. It's nothing
to him. It's one lap at two hundred miles per hour, nothingness.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
But one false move man and all. She wrote body
and Clyde ripple.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
YEA yeah three thing he needs an over Monday November
twenty fourth, Do not forget. I know so many of
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a jam Morren Show A four. It's a jam In
(05:39):
Morning Show and it's time for another DM Dilemma. Hi, everybody,
I'd say this a lot. I probably not often enough,
but I think when you're going through something and everybody
in the family is too close to it, it's hard
to get just a honest opinion. And I mean that
(06:02):
in a sense of like my bestie calls me to
tell me something about her ex like I already had.
I already hate her, so now I can't like remove
that from my brain. I hate all of the things
that she's done, so I can't give you just like
a let me just put that to the side and
just pretend that I don't know all these things and
give you my honest opinion, because no, I hate that person.
(06:22):
So that's why we invented this segment, the DM dilemma,
because I think sometimes you just need to tell people
who have no idea about you, your life, anything you
have going on, don't know the players in the story,
don't know their past, and just like, Okay, this is
I'm hearing it for the first time, and this is
how I think about it. Uh six one seven nine
three one one nine four five. That a sixty one
(06:42):
seven nine three one one nine four five. I got
this DM. She's staying anonymous. I tried to get her
to call in, and her quote back to me son
was I can't because I've already been threatened that he
will press charges on me if he knows.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
I'm telling yeah, you can't press charges for that, so
that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
The initial I'll run you through the convo. This was
the initial message. At some point on the show today Ash,
Can you guys talk about what you would do if
you know somebody is having Slash had an affair, and
whether or not to tell the woman. I am in
the middle of this and I have no idea what
to do, so of course, you know may bullying. Can
you call in? And she said I'd rather not. He's
already threatened me that he'd pressed charges on me if
(07:23):
I tell his wife. Happy to give more details, but
please keep me anonymous.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, you can't press charges on somebody for telling like
the wife on an affair. That's the craziest thing I've
ever heard. It's also stupid.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
I also haven't read this part because she just responded
because I asked for more details. So she said, I
knew the guy first, and I met his wife at
a mutual party. We both went through divorces this past year,
but finalizing got delayed for various reasons. I realize now
I'm an idiot for believing that we have been dating,
hooking up off and on since we both moved out
of our respective homes. I found out last week. They
(07:56):
reconciled a while back, but he was just at my
place last Oh my god, it's her.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Oh my god. That just hit me. Hit memento. I
thought she was a friend as well, all right.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I found out because a mutual friend mentioned to me
that they were so happy they were able to work
things out, and I was legit dumbfounded. I immediately reached
out to him. He confirmed and immediately started backtracking, begging
me not to say anything, threatening to bring me down
with him, et cetera, et cetera. I want to tell
her so she's not trying to reconcile with this absolute
(08:35):
curse word. But I also don't want any of the drama,
and having met her, I'm worried she will now blame
me for this mess.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Oh my god, So there's crabbing me for mom. They
aren't really friends. They've met each other their acquaintances, they're
not close friends.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
No, let's now that we know it's her, I'm just
going to quickly read the first part again because I
wasn't even okay. I knew the guy first, and I
met his wife at mutual parties. We both went through
divorces last year, but finalizing his got quote delayed for
various reasons. Now I realize I'm an idiot for believing that.
So here they are, they're thinking they're divorces, they're hooking up.
(09:12):
They're both probably like, oh, we can you know, both
relate to what each other's going through. You're going through divorce,
I'm going to he was lying and saying his was
getting delayed, but in fact he never got the divorce.
He was still married. Yeah, And she said, we've been dating,
hooking up off and on since we both moved out
of our quote respective homes and I found out last week.
He reconciled a while back, but he was just at
(09:34):
my place this past weekend. I found out because a
mutual friend mentioned to me that they were so happy
that the couple was able to work things out. And
I'm just dumbfounded.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
She doesn't want the drama part of it. So if
that is the actual case, and don't tell the wife,
cause it's only going to bring chaos. And clearly this
guy is not a good dude, yea, So just cut
yourself loose in this guy and never speak to him again.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
It seems like the only way or reason you would
do it is for the get even, ya know what
I mean, which I understand hurting. You just went through
a divorce. You really thought you probably found someone that
you can can confide in and confess your soul to
and all the things. And now you're pissed because you're
hurt and you want to get even. But is the
get even worth it? Because if you know this woman
enough to know that she's just going to blame you,
(10:18):
then you're gonna feel even worse. It's not like you
two are gonna have like his first wife's club.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I don't think anything positive is gonna come from this.
That's why I think, just cut yourself loose. Now, I
do understand the get even part, and like there's a
part of me that says, yeah, call her and tell
her like everything, because.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Then he's getting a pass, like he got the best
of both worlds. He was banging her last weekend.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
I know, I know, I just don't think that this
is the only girl. And I don't think he's gonna stop.
So why even put yourself in that whole scenario thing?
Speaker 2 (10:44):
I see both sides too, because now I'm like, look
at him winning. Yeah, like how does he get to
win on this? And that that's the get even part, right, because.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
Damn, he was probably lying the entire time about the divorce.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
The was a life. Let's just go ahead and call
it what it is. The divorce was a lie, which
we hear a lot of times on this show. We
got together on the you know, promise of he was
going to finalize the divorce and he never die.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
Now, if you are going to say something, just drop
a quick line, drop the information. Then again, cut yourself
loose out of everything.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Let's see what everybody else thinks. Six one seven nine
three one one nine four, five, six, one seven, nine
three one one nine four five. Anonymous is going through divorce.
She meets a guy also going through a air quotes
divorce and things are going well. She's with him last weekend,
they're hooking up. She goes to work and she finds out, oh,
he was actually never getting divorced, that was a lie,
(11:38):
and he is happy at home with his wife. Does
she tell or does she's not. She's listening. By the way, Hi, everybody,
good morning. It's actually in the jam in morning show.
That was crazy because we had a DM dilemma. Anonymous
was like, I just don't know whether I should tell
the wife or not. I know about like an affair
that happened. So here I am thinking she found out
(11:59):
a coworker having an affair. But oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
She was involved.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
She's going through divorce. She meets a guy also going
through a divorce. Hers was finalized, his got air quotes delayed.
Come to find out there was no divorce on the horizon.
Now she wants to know do I tell the wife?
And this is like the age old question right six
one seven, nine three one one nine four five. You're
with somebody you find out they have another somebody, do
you tell or do you not? Lauren is in Hyde Park? Hi, Lara,
(12:26):
good morning, Hello, Hi Alicia from Alicia from Worcester, It
says Lauren from Hyde Park. I don't That's why I
don't trust these two. They'll set me right out, they'll
set me right on up. All right, Alicia does she
tell good morning? And she's listening, by the way, so
let's you know, be nice.
Speaker 6 (12:46):
Okay, Yes, I think she absolutely should tell. Okay, personally,
I would want to know someone speaking around. Yeah, two
people already know him and her. I absolutely would tell.
Speaker 2 (12:58):
You know, I I so, I I understand that because
I would want to know too. But she said she's
the type of female that she already knows is going
to blame her. So it's like, does that play a
role in it too? Like are you just wasting your
time if you know that this woman is going to
be like, well, you're a home record, it's your fault.
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (13:14):
Well who else all that is she needs to know?
Speaker 1 (13:19):
All right?
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I appreciate that Alicia friends at all, they're not friends
at all.
Speaker 6 (13:24):
She doesn't have to take it.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Yeah, that's right, I guess anonymous. This is a roll
of the dice. Now I don't know who I'm talking to.
Is this anonymous?
Speaker 6 (13:33):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (13:35):
So yeah, Hi, Sati tells me that you're going through
something similar, so you you know you're in the thick
of it as well, And what's your advice?
Speaker 6 (13:46):
My advice is, I'm the wife in the situation. I
had found out that my husband was cheating on me.
He told this woman that he was going through a divorce,
and I tried reaching out to her because I did
find out who she was during my detective Yeah, because
my god feeling was telling me and best believe, I
(14:07):
found out. So I tried reaching out to her and
she would neglect to talk to me, to tell me
her side of the story. And as a wife, that's
all I wanted to know. And as far as her
not I mean being acquaintances with this woman, I mean
as that like, if she's gonna blame her, let her
blame her. It's really the husband. And if she wants
to stay with the husband, that comes down to that.
(14:28):
But at least she can get it off her chest.
As a wife. It's like the most betrayal thing.
Speaker 2 (14:34):
No, I can't even like makes me literally want to
vomit even thinking about even hearing you say that, being
on the other end of it, being the wife, and
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Where are you
guys at if you don't mind me asking in your
marriage now?
Speaker 6 (14:48):
So the last time he slept with me, he files
his divorce the week after.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Oh and this was after you had caught him. Yep,
So you were willing to kind of like take him
back and work through it, and yet he's still like
I wanted to.
Speaker 6 (15:03):
We've been married a long time to get the ten
years I have a child, Like, I was willing to
be anything to make your work and she told me
it was over. It was not, and then he blindsided
me with that.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
So tell the wife.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yeah, I mean, I'm sick to my stomach again for you,
and there's really nowhere else to go after this call.
I mean, you're the wife, You've been through it. Tell
the wife an, i'mous, thank you for being so open
about that that. I mean, you know, even who else
are we going to at?
Speaker 1 (15:32):
As the spouse, I would always want to know if
this was happening, Yeah, Like wouldn't you.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Yes, But I would feel worse about like she already
feels terrible about herself, right because she's thinks she's hooken
up with this guy. Now she knows that he's married
wholy married to somebody else. And you're already feeling bad.
And then you tell the wife, thinking you're doing the
right thing by letting her know that she's getting played,
and she turns it on you and calls you a
home wrecker or something. It's not gonna make you feel
(16:00):
better in fact.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
So if you're gonna go into it like that, then
maybe don't have expectations that, just like you said that
you and the other female are gonna be like come padres.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
Actually, maybe there is one more to go to. Is
Charlie a guy?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Charlie's a guy.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Let's talk to Charlie like a guy's perspective on this.
Charlie is in Somerset. After you hear from a wife
who's been through it, it's kind of hard to go
anywhere else. But guys perspective on this, Charlie, what are
your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (16:26):
So as a guy's perspective on it, I got divorced
about three years ago, and you know, it's all well
and good. That being said, I.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
Think both parties are at faulved. You know she got divorced,
or she was getting divorced she didn't know for sure,
or he lied to about him getting divorced, they were
hooking up.
Speaker 4 (16:50):
Listen, no one's gonna win in this situation. Cut your losses,
move on with your life. You know the truth, No,
no one's gonna win. If if you feel like you're
going to be blamed for something that you initiated yourself
and without knowing for sure what was going on, then
(17:10):
why are you even gonna go down that riage?
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Charlie. I think this guy wins if she doesn't tell,
I mean, if she like I think he wins because
he's been hooking up with two chicks for the for
god only knows how long they're both thinking the totally
get it.
Speaker 4 (17:24):
And I completely understand your point if you want that,
And yeah, I mean I agree, he definitely won. He
got the best of both worlds. But if you don't
want the drama to come along with that, and you
don't want to look at the one being blamed and
everything like that, and you're kind of anthing ice about that,
then why are you even going to initiate saying anything?
Speaker 2 (17:42):
If you're asking a question. She's clearly teetering both ways
on it.
Speaker 4 (17:48):
Right, I mean, it's it's a totally bs situation for
both parties. And you know, he's a threft back for
doing what he did and now you know, not being
truthful and just you know, forthcoming. But you know, well
that's the world we live in. A lot of people
it just you know, they go down that road and
they don't they want to have fun, and she would
they can get away with and obviously that's what he did.
(18:08):
But at the end of the day, you know, just
walk away down your back, you know.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Yeah. I just thank you for the call, and I
just yourself, all right, I just uh, I just DMed her.
She's listening, and I just said, I hope you're hearing
all this. I don't know if it's helping one way
or the other. And she said, I am listening, thank you.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
No decision on what she's going to do, though, because
I feel like in the moment her emotions are probably
like all over the place.
Speaker 2 (18:37):
All right, Well, she just saw it. I put any thoughts.
Let's see if she bubbles. But yeah, I think I
think I could see both whichever way she chooses. I
get it like it's you know, there's two.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
Sides of this. As a husband, I would want to know.
But on the other end of things, I don't want
to get involved in somebody's life like that, even though
I was involved with like, even though I was involved
in something like that, I just don't want. I would
cut myself out of the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
He's bubbling and we have to go to traffic. I
know it's killing me. Do you want to do traffic?
And then if she writes in that time, okay, let's
do traffic dam in.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Ninety four to five traffic forty five minute to late
on Route one southbound from the Lovely Cawloon all the
way down to the Tobyin Bridge. Traffic on ninety three
southbound starting at the Fellsway myth and all the way
down to the Zecon Bridge. In the expressway northbound, we
have about a fifty seven minute ride from the Braintree
Split up to East Welton.
Speaker 2 (19:25):
She's writing a small novella. Here we go. This guy
has been where my head is at. But I totally
hear the woman as well. She's torn. She's torn, yeahs,
which I get. I feel like she will keep us
posted on this either way, which everyone again, it's like
choose peace, walk away or whatever, and then if not,
you tell, and who knows, maybe you do catch a
(19:47):
woman who's like thank you, because here I am like
giving up my life for this man who's treating me
like trash. But yeah, she's like, I'm sorry, I just
don't know what I'm gonna do yet. Well, hey, you
know we'll be doing waiting.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Wait.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
I feel like I'm a part of this.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Now, Sashy, good morning.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
Bustin's number one for hip hop? You am in ninety
four or five. Well, let's just not talk for a second. Listen, Slimy.
Imagine listening to this in the seventies.
Speaker 1 (20:24):
Oh my, a cocaine right in front of you, where
you can have sex and not worry about anything. There's
no rules, there was no checking.
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Everything's just groovy, baby. I am so excited. Tonight's tonight
my birthday gift gets paid off. We're going to Stevie
Nicks at the Garden. And it's just I mean, I
know a lot of people would think we're in a
hip hop station. I must only love hip hop. But
if you listen to like my Apple or I heard, like,
(21:01):
my playlists are crazy because you you could literally go
from a Couple Drake song to a Stevie nick song
to Van Halen to then back to Fleetwood. But like,
you just don't. It's it's a roll of the dice
with me. I like all different types of music, but
I grew up on Fleetwood Mac. Like Eric Clapton Fleetwood Mac.
You know, obviously my parents were divorced, and I hate
(21:23):
to use the word babysit, but my mom would like,
let him babysit us, and uh, he would cook and
we would have one That's how I named Leila Laila.
We'd play a lot of Eric Clapton, and anytime we drove,
it was Fleetwood Mac on blast, and it was like
a tape, like a legit cassette tape, and we'd flip
it over and I remember Chain was always Chains was
always at the start of it. But I just I've
always loved Fleetwood Mac before Dreams was cool. I loved
(21:46):
Fleetod back, I loved Stevie Nicks. I just she's just
such an icon. She's a legend, and I'm so pumped
to get to see her. She's seventy seven, years old.
I've seen her a couple of times and I made
a points to the fireman. I really wanted to go
because we just don't know how much longer she's gonna this.
I mean, she's blessing us, and I appreciate her for it,
but you.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Got to imagine that she's going to retire soon, just
because again that is most people don't tour like that.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Yeah, you know, yeah, I think if you're somebody who's
like you're not you have no idea about a Fleetwood
Mac or a Stevie Nicks another gem of hers. It's
a duet, but one of my favorites leather and lace.
I told AJ this morning to grab this bed for me.
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Come on, don Henley, right, Don.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
Henley, dono. Actually, my outfit tonight is going to be
a nod to this song. I'm doing a combo of
leather lace.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Oh please, I'm wear it well. I'm wearing to do
it slow too, Guys.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
I'm wearing leather hot shorts like they're so short, but
I'm gonna wear tights underneath, and I have this long
leather duster. You gotta go for witch vibes and you're
going to Stevie Nicks. You must dress like the queen
witch that she is with a leather jacket over Tied's
just like a whole vibe. But it's it is a
tribute to this song. But the real bigger story is
we're staying it on court tonight. And never forget that
(23:00):
I've been kicked out there before.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
That's because you got into a fight in the cause
I get a fight. Sorry, you were involved in an altercation.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
Yes, my one of my lesbian best friends and her
girlfriend at the time got into a physical altercation. All
I was doing was trying to break it up. But
I'm big, you know, And it's like when you're tall,
sometimes you just get in trouble by association.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
And that's right. And at the time, you got banned
for life.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
So how did you I never got banned from life
from Encore. Let's get that out there right now.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
No, why you're yelling getting upset.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
It was the eye in the sky watching me. They
kicked me out, but I never got a lifetime band.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Oh okay, you were just banned like that night. Yeah, okay,
so but now you're back at Encore. Remember another time too,
you got really drunk and you were throwing cupcakes around
the hotel room too. Right, that was Encore, Right, I
don't remember if it were smearing the cupcakes on the window.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
It was a little game I was playing with myself,
and yes that was Encore as well. But I'm when
we're sleeping there tonight, little parents night out. I really
want to go to Mistique and get the TikTok chicken.
But like, these are the things that I care about,
going to the show, having drinks before, getting like nice
and buzzy before. It's like a happy buzz on a Monday.
The fireman this morning, four o'clock in the morning, texting
(24:07):
me pack my swimsuit. What are you twelve for? What? Hey,
I don't know. They might have a hotel pool for
the four hours we have to kill before the show
and before dinner. You gonna get you what do you
have the kids with us? You're a loser. You go
to the hotel pool, right, and you have your kids
(24:28):
with you and there's some random man just like soaking. Yeah,
it's strange, bro.
Speaker 1 (24:34):
Like if it was a lap pool, he's like, you
want to get some laps, that's a different story. But
he's gonna swim around.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
Yeah, you know he then texted me like hours later
that he done a little research and it doesn't look
like Encore has a hotel pool, so he can't wait.
He's anxious to get into the room because he wants
to take a soak in the tub. Like this is
this is this dude, this is what he cares.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
Why doesn't he go to the spa something? So get
away from me? Most of these places in Vegas have
like a spa where there's like plunge poles, there's hot
tuzz but it looks like an oasis, right, and they
separate in between guys and girls. And on the guy
side most of the time, it's like you can choose
to wear your bathing suit or you cannot, so you'll
(25:16):
be walking around there, does it just walking around? Yeah,
it's like just Phoenis there's something free about I'm freeing
for sure.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
It's just funny, like we're just such opposites. I can't
wait to like have my first Espressie go see Stevie
the Queen. And he's like just wants to take a
soak in the top, Like he just wants to sit
in a room and soak.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
You don't want to go and join him.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
I mean, if we did, we'd put what like half
of a Poland Spring bottle in there. I think it
would be over showing massive.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Humans, showing Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
So I'll start out with an espresso Martini. I probably
have one more. There's probably two espresso Martins. And then
it's always the age old question like what do I
go to after the espresses? Because you know, and I'm
sure a lot of other people that drink you go
through this is like what's our drink? What is our
drink of choice going to be? What will I have
when I get to the Garden from Encore? Because I
might have the espresso more tem's at the the Encore.
And then it's just like I gotta think of these things.
(26:13):
These are important.
Speaker 1 (26:14):
The espressos, those those dooth make you like super wired? Right,
That's why I'm always afraid to drink them.
Speaker 2 (26:18):
We can't have enough of those in our c our
line of work. Are you kidding me? I mean I
don't get to take naps anymore. I probably will be
able to today, and I think I will take advantage
even like maybe forty five minutes just to get a
little something in because if not by nine p my
eyes are going to be closed. She doesn't go on
until eight twenty oh.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
But but that keeps you up like all night. That's
what my biggest air would be.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
I have this innate ability to sleep right on through.
Speaker 1 (26:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Well it's called alcoholism.
Speaker 1 (26:46):
Or when you compare it to cocaine, it's like nothing,
it's nothing.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
No, that's it's seriously, you want to talk about staying
up lates.
Speaker 1 (26:53):
You don't do coke.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
I don't. I haven't never ever ever either. It's Stevie Nicks.
But I can't wait to go. If you're there tonight,
con find me if you're gonna be in and around.
Encore will be there, and it's just I'm so mommy
and daddy does out and about on a Monday in
the city. Who are we?
Speaker 1 (27:10):
It's like crazy?
Speaker 2 (27:11):
Who are we? All right? Sound shout out.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Instagram shout out Sarah Gallant ninety two and Honey Underscore
a bun the shout out to you on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
I have a shout out for Stevie Nix, the legend,
the icon, the queen. Thank you for blessing us tonight
with these performances like and not wait seeing dreams live
is It's just such a moment in time. I will
feel you in on everything tomorrow. But if I missed
anything at Ashley Felman to ease on the Ashley Bye
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