Dominican Baseball Players

Santi reveals the truth about Dominican men??

Episode Transcript

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got that, and of course we got to throw it
back to us talking about car washers and a whole
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Speaker 5 (01:10):
Hi everybody, good morning.

Speaker 6 (01:12):
I'm on the phone with my best friend the other day, Jody,
and we're chatting and she's like, oh, let me call
you back. I'm at the car wash and I was like, what,
check him with the car wash?

Speaker 5 (01:29):
I said, you you go to the car wash? And
she like kind of hung up. She was annoyed.

Speaker 6 (01:34):
Yes, I go to the cars And I really got
to think him, Like I drive past car washes and
I think to myself, who are these people?

Speaker 1 (01:43):
Why?

Speaker 6 (01:43):
Why I just just wait till it rains like I
know I don't. And and also moving just past that,
who are you cleaning the car for? Like so that
the other people on the road see that your car
is shiny? Like is it or is it for you
internally to drive in a car that's been.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
The maintments of your vet? What? But what you do
you change your oil?

Speaker 7 (02:04):
No? She actually doesn't. When you found that out when
her car was.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Smoking, while you got electric so you don't got to
put gas.

Speaker 8 (02:09):
No.

Speaker 6 (02:09):
No, remember the one day on it and I came in,
I was like, guys, my car is smoking black. You're
like yeah, yeah, yeah, you sent me righty to get
my oil change.

Speaker 5 (02:16):
That's fine. Well I don't do that anymore, although.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
I shouldst vehicle.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
You wash your car not only true, what not only
for not only for it to look clean, but you're
getting all salt and all kinds of debris and dirt
that's going to corrode your car, rust your car, and
all those kinds of things off your vehicle.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
But it's like taking a shot.

Speaker 6 (02:35):
It's like like on the underbelly are you talking about everything?
Because like what on that bird poop? Like what on
the front of pop corrolled peels paint? Yes, it peels painted.
It feels coat in the winds time.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
It's a jeep.

Speaker 7 (02:47):
Though it's different, it doesn't matter. But even so, don't
you want a car that looks clean?

Speaker 5 (02:52):
Could care less?

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Especially when white? Like you don't want it.

Speaker 5 (02:55):
To Have you ever looked at my car and been.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Like especially this is why I'm surprised you don't wash it,
because it does look clean.

Speaker 7 (03:00):
Yeah, now look at it. They'll run your finger up
against it.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
It'll be like I feel like, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (03:08):
It's actually not white. It's green.

Speaker 7 (03:10):
Yes, it has a gray hue. The most insane thing
is that you like don't understand.

Speaker 5 (03:15):
Like I can't compute it myself.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Your body Actually see a.

Speaker 6 (03:19):
Sign at the one that I drive past, and it's
like you can get a membership.

Speaker 5 (03:23):
I'm like, no, yeah, people are doing that. They do
that mean they're consistently.

Speaker 7 (03:28):
And it saves money. I'm going today, it's twenty bucks.

Speaker 6 (03:31):
Drive right through the amount of things I would do
with that twenty Yeah, not that.

Speaker 5 (03:36):
Clean, but for for.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
You so your car doesn't.

Speaker 6 (03:40):
Rust up that part I can get behind, Like if
that's I'll do that once a year.

Speaker 5 (03:45):
If I have to like clean off the salts after
the winter.

Speaker 7 (03:47):
But then same theory, why cut your lawn then why
like do the outside of your house so it looks
good right right?

Speaker 6 (03:52):
But that I think is for the whole neighborhood. Like
driving your car on the highway, no one can stop
and look because they're driving, you know what I mean,
they can't like.

Speaker 7 (04:00):
Okay, wow, you're part of what you're saying that actually
makes kind of sense. But it does feel good when
your car is super clean and shiny, like it just
as nice, especially when it gets warm up too.

Speaker 5 (04:11):
Maybe it's because you drive a million dollar car.

Speaker 7 (04:14):
I don't know, but not a million.

Speaker 6 (04:16):
Times the way the Wrangler. I feel like it's meant
to be dirty. Like I think when I see people
with the Wrangler and it has like dirt and sand
on it, I'm like off roading.

Speaker 7 (04:24):
But like when the tires are shiny and super bright,
it makes the difference, and people like, wow, that's a
nice Jeep.

Speaker 6 (04:30):
If it's a brand new car, I get it has
a brand new car, smell all those things.

Speaker 5 (04:35):
I just don't even feel like this is up for debate.

Speaker 6 (04:36):
Nobody can Nobody can look at a car on the
on ninety three. I can't check out a car because
you will die because you'd be driving and you're like, oh,
I have never once been on a highway and been like, damn,
Now that's a man that cleans their car.

Speaker 7 (04:52):
The hell yeah. But I think it's one of the few.
I think the majority of people out there think.

Speaker 6 (04:55):
That you think women, you think women are driving being like, wow,
cleans his car's car.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
Stop the women who appreciate vehicles absolutely, these women who
even do it themselves, there's something. There's some chicks that
drive calls out here, some sick whips.

Speaker 6 (05:09):
They'd much rather they'd much rather be like, damn, he
has a job, or there are this day they just
ain't Damn he actually has a car. I don't care
if it's clean or dirty. Kimberly, good morning, good morning,
good morning.

Speaker 9 (05:22):
How you doing.

Speaker 5 (05:23):
You got called out by your daughter for not washing
your car?

Speaker 10 (05:26):
Well it's thirty like, bro, bro, I have a white Nissan,
and yeah, she called me out.

Speaker 11 (05:32):
She goes, Mom, you don't go to the car wash.
Why do you have a car? I'm like what Like, yeah,
she's goes, why do you even have a car? You
don't go to the car wash.

Speaker 8 (05:43):
I'm like, damn, let me find out.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
You know you know more than me.

Speaker 8 (05:47):
But I'm on another point though, I do appreciate a
good car on ninety three, like I like.

Speaker 11 (05:52):
To diny cars. Oh I am gonna.

Speaker 8 (05:54):
Be looking at that. Yes, actually have backup all that tracks.
You can just starving around like damn, let's look at
that car?

Speaker 12 (06:00):
Is that car?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
You know?

Speaker 11 (06:01):
I appreciate it. I just don't go always often but
it looks good to see a car on the roll.

Speaker 9 (06:05):
You know, I don't.

Speaker 6 (06:06):
I'm not even looking at the other vehicles now, now, Kimberly,
I will tell you this. The inside of my car
wouldn't even know I have two kids. You wouldn't even
know I have a bit other than the massive car seats.
Like I keep the inside of my car clean. The
inside of my Santy's inside of his car is the
bottom of the number. That's old side bottom.

Speaker 5 (06:24):
Oh he's changed, My god, that's right, Kim.

Speaker 6 (06:29):
Well, all right, you proved me wrong there. I'm like YouTube,
I'm like, yeah, Sam is in Weymouth.

Speaker 5 (06:34):
Sam. Who who is cleaning their cars these days? I
don't know?

Speaker 13 (06:39):
Not me.

Speaker 6 (06:39):
I may that.

Speaker 14 (06:40):
I literally have never brought my car to a car wash,
and I just got a company car.

Speaker 10 (06:44):
And I can tell you right now I have a
car wash path and I think I've been once in
the last six months.

Speaker 6 (06:50):
Yeah, hey, give it a day, it'll rain. You get
a free wash. You can set it up.

Speaker 14 (06:54):
It rains, even the snow sometimes cleaned it off to
this sleet.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
It's all good now for it.

Speaker 5 (06:58):
I did say this.

Speaker 6 (06:59):
I don't know about you, Sam, but the inside of
my car clean, Like, I don't play that because that's
that's me, that's I'm spending the time, and it's the
so like you wouldn't there's not gonna be like French fry.
I use these French fries on the floor because I
was repulsed when I got into Santi's car on it
there were French fries from two thousand and two at

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the bottom of bath thing.

Speaker 5 (07:21):
I was My mind was blown. I was like, what
is this Like?

Speaker 6 (07:25):
Basically you could tell that his kids just ate their
snacks and we're like, oh, we're allowed to just throw
the track throw stuff on the ground. Uh six one
seven nine three one one nine four five. I like
genuinely don't know. I'm who's hailing the car wash?

Speaker 1 (07:39):
What?

Speaker 5 (07:42):
HI remodding? Good morning?

Speaker 6 (07:43):
It's Ashton's gym in Morning show. Sometimes it's like these weird, regular.

Speaker 5 (07:48):
Day type of thoughts pop into my brain, one of.

Speaker 6 (07:51):
Which was when I see when I drive past a
car wash and I see people over there in the
car washing, I'm.

Speaker 5 (07:57):
Like, who are these aliens?

Speaker 12 (07:59):
Like?

Speaker 5 (07:59):
How do these people have time to do this?

Speaker 6 (08:03):
My friend Mandy hit me up and she goes, I.

Speaker 5 (08:06):
Am that person. I pay monthly.

Speaker 6 (08:08):
Pop also telling me he pays sixty bucks for unlimited
every month he goes. Pop goes every four.

Speaker 7 (08:15):
Days, which makes sense. So if you have a nice car,
then it makes sense. I have a nice and shiny.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
It makes the collar Pope like, how do you get
rid of the bugs on your windshield?

Speaker 1 (08:25):
If you're never going to I put the blue stuff, just.

Speaker 5 (08:29):
Get the button. I haven't seen at on my shield in.

Speaker 6 (08:35):
A long time. Tricia is in Lynn. Trica is my
type of girl. She washes her car once a year.
And actually, Tricia, I am going to get behind this
Feign's right after the wintertime. There's a lot of salts
up there. Maybe I'll do it once, but I'm not
that's done.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
I time, yeah, no, And I agree with that.

Speaker 13 (08:52):
I do it like once a year. And because first
of all, I have four grandchildren and even though they're older,
they're still messy. Man, I have a dog much is
always on my window. But I will say this, I
agree with the one of the calls. When I see
a car that shiny and attire, I'm just like, damn,
I need to go to the car wash, really, but
I don't. I do, but I do like a good

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looking car. I do like a good shiny car.

Speaker 15 (09:17):
Like if a man.

Speaker 16 (09:18):
Pulls up with a nice smile and a nice car.

Speaker 12 (09:20):
I'm in.

Speaker 5 (09:22):
Does it for Tricia?

Speaker 7 (09:24):
I love it?

Speaker 6 (09:24):
Well listen, judging by the calls we get for beyond
the swipe we needed, we need to stop with that
narrative and just be happy that they have a vehicle.
At this point, Allison is in bridge wooter. She says
her husband washes his car daily and has the pass.

Speaker 5 (09:41):
Wow, he's one of those huh.

Speaker 17 (09:44):
Yes, he pays for the past for both of our cars.

Speaker 6 (09:46):
Actually, well daily, like he's literally washing his car daily.

Speaker 17 (09:51):
He would go daily. Yes, if it's raining he wouldn't go.
But if it's nice out, yes he will go. And
then if you get the free vacuum after and stuff.
So he brings my daughter. You know, he knows how
to vacuum a car.

Speaker 6 (10:06):
WHOA, I mean, okay, thanks for the call, Alison. I
I enjoy cleaning the inside like that makes me feel
good to wipe wipe it down, and you know, but
I just I also again, I don't know the wranglers,
Like it's like wearing converses like if they look dirty
to me, they that's like, yeah, like the Wrangler. If
I see it with dirt, I'm like that they were
off roading.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
The Wrangler got some big tires. I've seen those things
cleaned up nice with some shiny tis all. They look
so good, even the way they just stock like no rims,
no extra or nothing. They just look fly in the
summer time. Here you are just riding around with layers
of dirt.

Speaker 7 (10:42):
Flying through the tunnel line.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (10:45):
Actually bugs.

Speaker 5 (10:49):
In the midst of this, I text the farm man.

Speaker 6 (10:50):
I was like, I think I need another oil change,
and he goes, please tell me you've gone in between
the last one we got together.

Speaker 18 (10:56):
I was like, oh, I was supposed to do that today.
I'm gonna do that today. Maybe I'll watch the Car.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
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Speaker 5 (11:16):
Not a good morning.

Speaker 6 (11:20):
I want to tread really lightly here on this because
I don't and I certainly don't want to say names,
but I don't know what's in the water, and I
don't know if it's just me or if anybody else
is kind of going through this with their friends group.
I'm thirty eight, years old. I've been married for four

(11:41):
years now. You know, I don't ever think that there's
a an eight you know, you hit that age where
you're like, oh, oh, my friends are getting married. I
never thought that I hit an age where I'd be like,
a ton of my friends are getting divorced, and you
have because.

Speaker 7 (12:00):
I think you get to a certain point with the relationship,
especially when it comes to marriage, where you it's like
a breaking point is going to make it or not?
And they say it's around the seven years for some people.
I don't know if that's an average, but I've heard
of that. Yes, vulsit is definitely on the up and up.

Speaker 5 (12:11):
Yeah. I I am friendly with this girl.

Speaker 6 (12:15):
I would She's certainly not like something crazy in my
life is happening. I'm not picking up the phone to
call her. But her and I we we have similar schedules.
We have kids that are damn near the exact same age.
So her and I have always kind of bonded on
that level with oh my god, the kids are doing
this at.

Speaker 5 (12:32):
This point, and we're up, We're working like it's you know.

Speaker 6 (12:36):
And she reached out to me over the weekend and
she tells me the story and I said to her,
she tells me the story, and then she says the
line of like, I just, you know, wanted you to know,
like that I'm living this nightmare, like this is what
I'm going through right now. And I said, are you
telling me this because you want me to talk about it?

(12:59):
Or you're compt with me talking about it? And she's
like absolutely, Like you can talk about it. She's like,
I just I think getting it off my chest makes
me feel a little bit better.

Speaker 5 (13:09):
But I just wanted you to know type of thing.

Speaker 6 (13:11):
So I hit her up again this morning, being like,
are you positive because this.

Speaker 5 (13:16):
Story is.

Speaker 6 (13:19):
Insane, like it sounds I'm going to tell you, guys
what's going on with this poor woman, and it kind
of will sound like I'm making it up.

Speaker 7 (13:26):
You told me the story, and there are elements of
the story that are so dirty that I've never heard before.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
There this is like.

Speaker 5 (13:31):
Diabolical type stuff. Okay, So she's married.

Speaker 6 (13:35):
And she has I don't want to go into too
many details, but let me just say she has stood
by this man through times where I don't know if
any everybody would. She has stood by that man through
through thick and thin. Okay, we'll say that I'm going
to cut some details out, but basically, she had a
weird feeling in her stomach like something was going on.
He was staying out late, weird hours, doesn't have a

(13:58):
job right now, and so things just kind of weren't
adding up. She got the feeling like it might be
time for me to check his phone, because when I
ask him what's going on, I'm getting fed answers that
I just don't know if I necessarily believe. And we
have two little babies in the house, like I said,
same exact ages, damn near spot on to Leyla and Daisy,

(14:19):
so little kids, you know, under three. He falls asleep,
She takes his phone, she puts it over his sleeping face,
gets the face.

Speaker 5 (14:28):
ID gets in.

Speaker 6 (14:34):
Finding out what she found out in the bathroom of
her home while her two little kids were sleeping. I
can't even put myself in it or imagine what it
would feel like because it's that sickening. But not only
was he having an affair with a twenty two year
old woman behind his wife's back, but do you know
where the affair was happening in their home while she

(14:59):
and the two kids we're sleeping. He would sneak her
in and he would bring her down to their base.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
What no, stop, what for him? You said, while they.

Speaker 6 (15:09):
Were home, Well, my friend was sleeping. What and her
two babies were sleeping. He would sneak the twenty two
year old into the home, take her downstairs to the basement,
and they would live out their little love affair in
his office.

Speaker 7 (15:27):
Imagine doing that like the world us to do that.

Speaker 6 (15:30):
A child wakes up, the wife wakes up like, no,
you can't even And by the way, the messages were
like I'm at the corner, I'm hiding behind the car.
Go hey, go outside, put the dog out, so the
ring camera goes off and I can sneak in the
back like like it. It makes me want to vomit
even saying it's I just couldn't. I just couldn't. Couldn't

(15:56):
believe it when she was telling me it, especially because
again she has stood by this man for so long.
And of course I asked her, I said, when you
know he was caught. He ended up waking up because
the dog barked and he realized that his phone was gone.
Mind you, she's she's so smart, because she said she
she has read enough stories and seen enough things that

(16:16):
she knew not to go into his regular text messages,
but to go into his deleted messages. So she never
even hit the text message, and she went right to
deleted messages, and there were thousands of exchanges between them.

Speaker 5 (16:26):
Because I would have gone right to like the regular
text and be like, oh, there's other here.

Speaker 1 (16:30):
She found out how long it was going on for.

Speaker 7 (16:32):
Months, and what's the age difference, because you mentioned that
she's twenty something, right, she's twenty two.

Speaker 5 (16:38):
They're probably our age in their in their late thirties.

Speaker 7 (16:41):
She's not gonna work out?

Speaker 5 (16:42):
Yeah, yeah, hey, she faked oh wait wait wait wait
wait wait, she facetimed.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
Her girl answers, yeah, off his phone.

Speaker 5 (16:51):
Off his phone, hey baby, and then basically is like
I don't know. She calls her out. She's like, you
you ruined a family.

Speaker 6 (16:58):
You understand that, Like, you you've ruined our family. You're
coming in my house and having sex with my husband
while I'm asleep in our bedroom upstairs, Like this is
diabolical level type stuff. And the girls like, I don't
know what you're talking about. I don't know what you're
talking over and over and over again.

Speaker 7 (17:13):
Yeah at twenty two. You don't understand what you've just done.
You don't understand you say that this marriage has been over.
If this guy's brave enough to sneak somebody in the
crisp so.

Speaker 5 (17:24):
Why are you sneaking?

Speaker 6 (17:24):
Why they sit her down when it starts like and
just say, listen, I can't do this before you.

Speaker 5 (17:31):
Let's delete her.

Speaker 6 (17:32):
Let's delete that she's sleeping in the home, your your
your Alma's just cursed your kids, Like yeah, this is
disgusting on the next level, Like you say, your three
year old wakes up, gets out of her bed and
comes downstairs to look for you.

Speaker 5 (17:45):
What are you going to say.

Speaker 3 (17:48):
This?

Speaker 5 (17:48):
Like, fired me up?

Speaker 15 (17:49):
Man?

Speaker 1 (17:50):
This man ben checked out because he's crazy, That's what
I mean.

Speaker 6 (17:54):
I'm hiding behind the car. Let me in, Like I'm
down the street. Where should I park? Like, and by
the way, shan't on him because she's twenty two years
old and she's very easily going to be persuaded.

Speaker 5 (18:07):
She's a baby.

Speaker 7 (18:08):
And I'm not saying that there is a way to
cheat a respectful way, because it's disrespectful, right, but there
is a better way to cheat than do it at
home with your family.

Speaker 2 (18:15):
Upstairs, right, some Sum's not right, Bro, there's more to
this story. Sum's not right. This guy cannot be this red.
He's not met a man in life who would do
it this way wait for the kids to leave, which
is still savagery, but to do it while people asleep
in your house.

Speaker 6 (18:32):
I know what you're saying that it seems almost unbelievable. Yeah,
I'm this is what it is. This is what this
man like you don't care about the kids like you don't.

Speaker 7 (18:44):
And there's probably an element of this too that he
wanted to because that's entire world, the world up there.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
Yes, Yeah, it's like I'm gonna do this so much.
I almost feel like they were already split and she knew.
I don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (18:57):
This is crazy, bro, I did say to her.

Speaker 6 (18:59):
I said, like, you know, leading up to this now
I know I again, two little kids at that age.

Speaker 5 (19:08):
I'm going through it myself.

Speaker 6 (19:09):
Like it's hard to prioritize, like your relationship in your marriage,
you have to really work at it. I get that,
But this is the mother of your children, and no
matter what, that is the mother of your children. Who's
busting her? He doesn't have a job she's paying for
everything to the point where like she would say to him,
can you grab yogurt for the for the kids, And
he's like, no, I can't have money like that type.

Speaker 2 (19:30):
He must have been walking all over this woman for
years and he's just like, I'll do whatever I want.

Speaker 7 (19:35):
Were they still intimate like him and the wife did
not ask, because that's a whole nother thing that it
opens up for years.

Speaker 6 (19:44):
Even saying it again, it just doesn't feel really. I've
said it to her a million times and she goes
she like it choked me up. Talking to her yesterday,
She's like, because I'm living a nightmare because I think
about now trying to raise your two kids by yourself
because he's gone. He does you know, he's moved on now.
He wants to be with this other girl and he
wants to live that life. Yeah, he can't give her

(20:06):
any money because he has no money to give. And
she's like here, I am like trying to figure this
out all out by myself.

Speaker 7 (20:12):
And she's done with him, like completely completely.

Speaker 6 (20:14):
Done, done, done done, because like I said, they have
a history where she has stood by him through thick
and thin.

Speaker 7 (20:21):
I'll say that, and it was it cheating or was
it like no something else.

Speaker 2 (20:25):
No infidelity. This was the first time of infidelity she
knows of. Yeah, yo, this story is not adding. It
doesn't this guy, this guy jumped out the window first
time cheating and he went right to the crazy.

Speaker 7 (20:37):
Well, he probably cheated before, but the level that he
went with this one.

Speaker 1 (20:41):
Was the comfortability you have to have. And then no care.

Speaker 6 (20:45):
I just again feel like the brazen disrespect and beyond her,
like you don't care that she catched you fine, but
like your little baby is upstairs.

Speaker 1 (20:54):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
He's way too comfortable with the disrespect for it to
be the first time.

Speaker 5 (20:59):
She feel so alone. And I don't blame her.

Speaker 6 (21:04):
She just feels like she's she kept saying to me
over and over, I feel like I'm living a nightmare.
And then she has to go to her job and
act like everything's okay, and you know, go home, and
then mom immediately and she said to me, she's like,
you know how it is, Ash, It's like you put
one kid down and the other one's like, pick me up,
pick me up, pick me up, And they don't know
why Dad isn't there, And there's just so many like
levels to it, and it just it makes me feel

(21:25):
so awful because I try to tell her, I'm like,
not not that somebody's gonna be like, oh, same thing
happened to me. But I'm like, you're not alone, Like
this happens to other people at this store. Like again,
the level, the levels of this, like he's he's the
scum of the earth.

Speaker 1 (21:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (21:41):
I had a friend who got caught cheating, uh in
his own home multiple times by his wife. She took
him back, but I think the wife felt so hurt
that he was doing it in their family.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
No, that's not saying that cheating is good and like
the faway.

Speaker 1 (21:58):
Down the street do it on my but in the
crib while.

Speaker 6 (22:02):
Your babies are sleeping and your wife in your in
your marrital.

Speaker 5 (22:07):
Bed above you.

Speaker 7 (22:09):
It's almost like a weird, crazy fetish type thing.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
I'm telling you, yes, something about he's nuts bro, because
he want to he likes that.

Speaker 15 (22:18):
I do.

Speaker 5 (22:19):
Will I do think he's think.

Speaker 7 (22:20):
He's ans Yes, yes.

Speaker 6 (22:22):
I think he just thinks he's above all of it.
Like Amy is in Woolster h Hi Amy, good morning.

Speaker 19 (22:30):
Hi, good money.

Speaker 6 (22:32):
Obviously she my friend's going through right now. I keep
telling her over and over, You're not alone. This happens
to other people, maybe not this exact same story, obviously.

Speaker 5 (22:41):
What are your thoughts when you hear it?

Speaker 19 (22:43):
Men always chop woman with kids, and I sit around
talk about women chapped men with kids.

Speaker 12 (22:47):
But men come and go, they get.

Speaker 19 (22:49):
Women breagnant, and they leave, and then the woman's chopping
the kids, trying to raise them by myself, and they're
out taking the grass of green and someone else, building
a family with someone else, or thinking that life is
great because they get the real like you said, of
that little Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
I get this attention.

Speaker 19 (23:03):
I'm this, I'm that, I'm cool. I think I'm the man.
I think I can put my my thing in any
woman that walks by.

Speaker 5 (23:08):
Yeah, are you obviously are you in this situation?

Speaker 19 (23:11):
I have been in this situation before. Yes, I was
looking there for twenty years and I had a baby
and he got up and left it off the way
and thought the grass was green at somewhere else, and
I got left a friend from my son by myself,
and I figured it out.

Speaker 12 (23:24):
It was very.

Speaker 19 (23:24):
Hard, but I'm here standing so fault with my son.

Speaker 1 (23:28):
He said, he wanted to you, and you had his
kid or you just so happy.

Speaker 19 (23:31):
Oh yeah, we went together for twenty years. It's probably
sixteen years old. Once we had a baby and all
things got a little bit rocky and he just got
up and left and thought grass was being a somewhere else.

Speaker 5 (23:40):
Gotcha crazy, Amy.

Speaker 6 (23:43):
I'm so sorry you went through that, But you're right.
I said the same thing to her. She will figure
it out just like you did.

Speaker 5 (23:48):
And thank you for this very hard.

Speaker 19 (23:50):
It is very hard, but you know you just got
to put one foot in front of the other and
focused on your kids.

Speaker 6 (23:54):
Yeah, thank you for the call the Morris code that
was going on the back wash.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
We were.

Speaker 6 (24:02):
No.

Speaker 5 (24:02):
This is again.

Speaker 6 (24:03):
It's one of those things where I think she needed
to get it off her chest. Is she feels better
talking about it, and I again, I can't. I can't
say it again and again and again. She will figure
it out.

Speaker 1 (24:13):
Yeah, everything happens for a reason.

Speaker 6 (24:14):
She's gonna be But I you know, I think about
the days where the fireman's working at twenty four and
I'm home by myself, and I'm like counting down the
seconds until he gets back, so that it's a like.

Speaker 5 (24:23):
We can tag team.

Speaker 6 (24:24):
The thought of two kids by yourself, that young full time.

Speaker 5 (24:29):
It's a lot.

Speaker 6 (24:30):
It's a lot because you do this as a as
a as a team effort, and then the team is gone.

Speaker 7 (24:36):
You're unpacking the baggage of how you got to that
point too, which is a whole nother thing she's gonna
deal with for years.

Speaker 6 (24:41):
I wish I could just I wish I could say names.
I wish I could go off because I have. There's
so many There's so many things.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
There's so so so many things.

Speaker 1 (24:50):
Ain't the first Will she be the last person?

Speaker 6 (24:53):
Amazing mother, she's in. She has an amazing career, She's
insanely talented.

Speaker 2 (24:58):
If she if she just reaches out, even on fight,
because you'll find a lot of women will support you.

Speaker 6 (25:02):
If anybody's listening and been through a similar situation, I
know she's listening, maybe you could pump her up a
little bit. Six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. That is six one seven nine three one
and Ganni, Hi, everybody, good morning, it's Ashley in the
gym in morning show. I again very careful because this
this situation is it just happened. And when I was

(25:26):
talking with my friend who's kind of going through it,
She was like, I want you to talk about it
because I feel so alone in it. I feel like
I'm living out a nightmare every single day of my life.
I had these two kids, under this preconceived notion that
we were going to be happily married, and you know,
raise these these two babies, and he was having a
whole affair with the twenty two year old woman in
our home while I was asleep, Like, I honestly think

(25:52):
I didn't get this detail, but I bet you there
was nowhere else for them to go because she's twenty
two and he has no money.

Speaker 5 (25:58):
Where are they going to go?

Speaker 1 (25:59):
A carrot?

Speaker 7 (26:01):
But then I guess he can't really leave and go
do it the.

Speaker 6 (26:04):
Way he was Guys, he was like faking out the
ring camera to sneak her in, Like it's it's sickening.
We don't have a ton of time, but I know
she's listening, and I just want her to feel a
little less alone in this.

Speaker 5 (26:16):
Sarah is in Lowell.

Speaker 6 (26:18):
Sarah, you had a two and a three year old
almost identical to what she has in her house, and
also pregnant at the time.

Speaker 19 (26:29):
Yes, I was.

Speaker 20 (26:32):
I was fourteen weeks pregnant. I was living in Florida.
I came to Massachusetts for the holidays. He had stayed
to work, and this woman flew from Texas to Florida
and slept with him in my house. God, I had
had my third child, not knowing I got pregnant again

(26:55):
with my fourth child. All my kids, all four of
my kids are within five years. When I was pregnant
with my fourth child, papers for child support came from
Texas and I found out that he had a child
that's fourteen weeks younger than my third child.

Speaker 6 (27:15):
Oh wow, Because I was about to say, how did
you end up finding out that she was at the house?
But that's how you found out she wanted money from them?

Speaker 20 (27:23):
Yes, So it ended up getting really bad and I
ended up leaving him in Florida and I moved back
to Massachusetts to be closer to family.

Speaker 16 (27:34):
With all four that all four, I just did what
I did.

Speaker 5 (27:40):
Truck, Oh my god, And where are you at today?
With everything?

Speaker 6 (27:44):
Did?

Speaker 5 (27:44):
How long ago is this?

Speaker 20 (27:46):
This was at the beginning of COVID, So we moved
from Florida to Tampa, from Florida to Lowell and then
two weeks later COVID hit. So it was right around
the beginning of twenty twenty.

Speaker 5 (28:00):
Yeah, so March of twenty twenty.

Speaker 20 (28:02):
Yes, and it took a long time to get over it. Yeah,
but now, I mean, we're friends, but he lives in Washington.
I live in Lowell, so we don't see each other.
He sees the kids once a year. But I'm mentally
in the best place I could be.

Speaker 6 (28:20):
Yeah, that's amazing, And I think she needs to hear
stuff like this because I think I'm sure you felt
the same way. Everything is dark right now and she's
like there's no light at the end of the tunnel
for me, Like, I don't know how I'm going to
do this.

Speaker 12 (28:33):
Yeh.

Speaker 20 (28:34):
She just has to do it for her and the kids.
Don't worry about what he's doing. He's going to continue
doing what he's doing. She might even find out about
more people, and that's going to be the worst. But
the best thing that she can do is think about
the kids and if it's going to be harder for
her to see him, then she needs to take time

(28:54):
away from him all together.

Speaker 17 (28:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (28:58):
Wow, Sarah, thank you so much for this. I appreciate it.

Speaker 6 (29:02):
I said it to my friend and I'll say, like
I I would have to be like institutionalized like I,
I don't know how I would handle it.

Speaker 5 (29:09):
I couldn't imagine like again, her hiding in a bathroom
finding this out, that this was happening with it.

Speaker 2 (29:15):
It's peration alone will drive people to do some crazy things.
Because you're in my house that we built together, You're
you're sneaking. You know that kids are right there, I'm
right here, like you don't even got no respect like that.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
The betrayal is next.

Speaker 5 (29:32):
From by the way, who you think is your best friend?

Speaker 1 (29:35):
Yeah, the betrayal is crazy.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
To do it in the crib, to do it in
front of me, basically even though I was asleep, to
do it in front of the kids, and to you know,
to be doing it for all these months and sneaking
about it and you ain't got no job and you
can't even pouch the vagina into this house.

Speaker 5 (29:53):
Crazy.

Speaker 6 (29:54):
I know it's it's diabolic, be tough, but you dodged
the big bullet for real. If you're somebody going through
this and you and again we ran out time because
I see the phones are going crazy. You can message
me at Ashley Feldman two e's on the Ashley. I
will pass the messages on to her. I'll say this,
everybody knows she's extremely, extremely success.

Speaker 5 (30:20):
Get off my.

Speaker 3 (30:22):
Dash and the jam In Morning Show with d J
four and it's Sat Morning.

Speaker 4 (30:27):
Boston's number one for hip hop jam In ninety four five.

Speaker 5 (30:31):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 6 (30:33):
It's Ashally the jam In Morning Show. We're doing the
check in right now, meaning we're checking in on you,
your life, your world. This is where you call us
and we talk about anything you want. Could say, Hi,
tell us a story, you could ask for advice anything.
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
That is six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. We're gonna start with Kimmy. Kimmy is in Boston.

(30:55):
Kimmy was supposed to be going out of town this weekend,
as in this past or this upcoming.

Speaker 10 (31:01):
This upcoming weekend. I'm supposed to be going out of town, okay,
and it was supposed to be and like I'm supposed
to be celebrating this person is like the whole itinerary
you planned out, but we've kind of got into it,
like a little argument, and like the person's kind of
telling everybody that he's not going. So I don't know
if I should continue by myself or.

Speaker 6 (31:26):
Well, okay, let's start the top.

Speaker 5 (31:29):
Where are we going?

Speaker 9 (31:31):
Going to Houston?

Speaker 6 (31:32):
Okay, So it's not like I'm glad to know this
because I thought you were going to be like, it's
in revere as I like, don't go.

Speaker 5 (31:39):
But if you're getting on an airplane, you're getting on
an airplane.

Speaker 10 (31:41):
I'm getting on an airplane.

Speaker 5 (31:43):
Who is this person to you? How would you describe
him to me?

Speaker 10 (31:48):
Important? I don't want to say. I don't want to
say who he is because I feel like once people
hear me on the radio, they're gonna know who I'm
talking about.

Speaker 6 (31:56):
All right, So he's an important person to you? Do
you do you text him good morning and good night?

Speaker 17 (32:05):
Yes?

Speaker 11 (32:06):
And no, because we see each other every day.

Speaker 5 (32:09):
Okay. Have your lips touched his in the last two days?

Speaker 8 (32:16):
No?

Speaker 10 (32:17):
And the reason is because he's been sick, and then
after he wasn't sick, he was upset with me.

Speaker 6 (32:23):
Okay, can we find out what the altercation was over?

Speaker 5 (32:28):
Why is he upset with you?

Speaker 6 (32:29):
Is it small enough that we could suck it up
and go to Houston or is it big enough where
we're like, okay, we might have to not pack the bags.

Speaker 10 (32:37):
So it's small, but it like triggered other things, so
it kind of got like beyond the initial situation, if
that makes sense.

Speaker 9 (32:47):
So it was small to be it doesn't make sense.

Speaker 5 (32:50):
We we wheeling now.

Speaker 6 (32:51):
We want to go to Houston with you. We want
to understand, but you're not giving me anything. I can't
go off this.

Speaker 5 (32:56):
I need more. I need to know why we fought so.

Speaker 10 (33:00):
So basically you're gonna think it's stupid, but like, let
me give you any example. So let's say you put
your food in refrigerator for line trait, okay, and one
of your co workers decide that someone else was starving,
so they would give your.

Speaker 11 (33:17):
Food to someone else.

Speaker 9 (33:18):
Okay, that's that's messed up.

Speaker 12 (33:21):
Break.

Speaker 5 (33:23):
I want to see both sides to this.

Speaker 6 (33:24):
Like it was the person starving and you wanted to
help them, then that's that.

Speaker 5 (33:28):
But if it was the person.

Speaker 10 (33:30):
Was good like hungry, that was what they saw and refrigerated,
so they just gave it away type of stuff, it's
it triggered other things.

Speaker 5 (33:45):
Right, let's start. Was it your food? It was was there?
Was it your leftovers in the fridge?

Speaker 8 (33:49):
And he gets so, okay, so it was my soda?
I happily in the freezer.

Speaker 10 (33:53):
I'm very adamant about Gingerrell, like I love Gingerell, So
I have put one in the freezer for myself.

Speaker 11 (34:02):
Mind you, Oh you.

Speaker 5 (34:03):
Were getting nice and cold too, right.

Speaker 10 (34:06):
Right, I was trying to get it straight to the
point instead of putting an ice and all that stuff,
I put one in the freezer.

Speaker 11 (34:12):
Mind you.

Speaker 10 (34:13):
I put one in the freezer around two other adults.

Speaker 14 (34:17):
So they saw me put the drink in the freezer.

Speaker 10 (34:19):
I come back, you know, extra parts and stuff looking
for the soda is gone, so I asked, I'm like, hey,
did you see the soda?

Speaker 9 (34:28):
Everybody's looking at me crazy.

Speaker 10 (34:29):
Come to find out that my important person gave it
to someone else because they was thirsty. Fine, but my
thing is, why couldn't you replace it.

Speaker 5 (34:40):
I'm going to be honest with you.

Speaker 6 (34:41):
I'm on your side because I'm a coke girl, and
if I put my my coke in the freezer, I'm
getting that thing ready. We don't want it to be
in there too long. You have to time these things
out because it and.

Speaker 10 (34:53):
I timed it perfectly. When I was going for it,
I knew it was going to be cold, So.

Speaker 5 (34:57):
Cancel that man has no respect for you.

Speaker 6 (35:00):
He has no respect for you and your boundaries.

Speaker 5 (35:04):
Like that's crazy. And by the way, who did he
give it to? Who is this person?

Speaker 10 (35:09):
Okay, it's so an importance to all of us. But
at the same time, I thought about it first, so
it was just like hey, like, hey, I gave your
soda away. I put another one in there.

Speaker 13 (35:20):
It wasn't that.

Speaker 10 (35:20):
I was just like, hey, his SODA's gone. And then
they was laughing in my face, kind of like I
don't like it.

Speaker 5 (35:26):
Like laughing over the Canada dry It's not funny to me.
I don't like that either. Your tummy could be hurt.

Speaker 6 (35:30):
Ginger ell Okay, so so that happens, but you said
it triggered more things, so you go off on him.
I'm assuming because you're mad you didn't get your ginger
ail having.

Speaker 11 (35:39):
I wouldn't say go off.

Speaker 10 (35:40):
We was having a heated debate as like his point of, oh,
I mean I took the soda and blah blah blah,
and then it was my point of like the principle,
just if you took it, just replace it. Don't laugh
in my face because it's kind of like it kind
of like it's belitterally me for soda. But it's not

(36:00):
the principle of you taking it. It's just replace it
because you know how, you wasn't thinking about it when
I put it in. You didn't actually put you in asoda.
But after the sorta thing, I was just like, you
know what, whatever, it's gone, I'll get another one. But
then after that it was like an argument about like
feelings that I wasn't aware of, and you.

Speaker 5 (36:24):
Know, like some things.

Speaker 11 (36:27):
Right right, well, you know, let them go off.

Speaker 10 (36:30):
Okay, I let them go off because okay, you can
go off. I understand your feelings. I have feelings too,
But it's the principle.

Speaker 5 (36:41):
Where are we at today? Where are we at right now?

Speaker 10 (36:45):
We're not arguing, but we're also not speaking, and it's
it's Monday and I'm supposed to be leaving on Saturday.

Speaker 15 (36:51):
So yeah, and know how to approach the situation.

Speaker 5 (36:54):
How long have you and the important person been seeing
each other?

Speaker 11 (36:59):
Some years?

Speaker 5 (36:59):
We have a okay, we got to.

Speaker 9 (37:04):
No, it's it's been.

Speaker 1 (37:06):
Figured it out. Come on, you guys, come on, come on.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
I mean, clearly you gotta get to communicate a little
bit more because obviously the theys kind of harbored feelings
that that people got for each other. So y'all got
to address that and be like, listen, we got a
trip we paid for, we gotta go to this trip,
and let's go to this trip a trip I.

Speaker 8 (37:22):
Paid for it.

Speaker 10 (37:23):
So he could just be like, but that's not what
I'm on.

Speaker 6 (37:28):
That's why you called yeah, And it's like, you know, listen,
there's plenty of times where you're get in an argument
over something small and it's hot, and it builds and
you're you're yelling at things at each other, But at
the root of this, you are in the right because
that warm soda that you were gonna then put on ice,
it was gonna be flat. It wasn't gonna taste as
crispy as the one coming out of the freezer.

Speaker 10 (37:45):
So he should have we should know that visit difference.

Speaker 5 (37:49):
Well, people without a brain, don't you know what I mean?
I do, I get it.

Speaker 6 (37:52):
I just think the bottom line is all you have
to do is be like, hey, can I give this
soda to Joe?

Speaker 5 (37:56):
You've been like, no, that's that's mine. Let me let me.

Speaker 10 (37:58):
Grab and And my thing is, even if you said
that to me, and I probably didn't notice you said that.
Throw another one in there.

Speaker 2 (38:05):
Talk. Better it happened now than it happened on the
trip if you triggered him on the trip and then
he wanted to talk to you about what he's been
obviously holding in. Better it happened now, so y'all can
figure it out and then go on an adult trip.
That would suck if y'all well out there, and then
started arguing because he's.

Speaker 5 (38:27):
I don't want that. Here's what I think. It's Monday.

Speaker 6 (38:30):
You're gonna call me back on Friday, and you're gonna
say we worked it out and we're going, but you
have to promise me. I need to hear from you
by Friday. I'm taking your number and sounds he's gonna
call you because I need to know we were going
to Houston. We're going to Houston. I just I think
we just need to work out. We need to work
out some things. I want you guys to go. But
by the way, there's somebody else on hold saying don't

(38:52):
pack your bags.

Speaker 5 (38:53):
My grandma had the same energy. So I need to
hear that story. So I'm gonna put you on hold.

Speaker 6 (38:59):
We're gonna get your number because I want to hear
back from you, But let's go to Leah. Leah, what
does this mean? Don't pack your bags. My grandma had
the same energy.

Speaker 15 (39:10):
My grandmother honestly, so she went through her paces. You know,
Pepsi was a big thing for her, and then she
moved on to ginger alka. It came to the point
where she would like, buy a big pack from DJ's
and she'd hide the whole thing. But you know, me
and my cousins, we'd know about it. We'd try to
sneak it cough over. When we opened the can. We

(39:31):
mistakenly would take a can that was already in the freezer,
not realizing and it caused so much an uproar. She'd
wake everyone up in the house, tell everybody to go
outside at four o'clock in the morning, find a store
that's open to find gingerrell. And if we don't find
a ginger all, we cannot come back until we find
a gingerrell. Even if we did find a ginger all,
we can't have anything to drink for the rest of

(39:54):
the month.

Speaker 6 (39:55):
Wow, so your grandmother was on another level with her
ginger al. I didn't know p people had a connection
because I love coca cola, right, I can't even hear
the p wor at pepsi.

Speaker 5 (40:04):
If you drink pepsi, you need to grow up to
look at yourself.

Speaker 6 (40:07):
Long and hard in the mirror. Pepsi is not even
in the same realm as a coke. But I didn't
know people had a relationship with with Ginger Red like this.

Speaker 15 (40:15):
Yeah, it gets key, But honestly, I do agree with
like you and foreign, I do agree that there is
something else that's deep. And that was just his letout.

Speaker 11 (40:25):
That was just like, okay, that.

Speaker 15 (40:26):
Was his green light to let it out. So I
just honestly feel like, you know, if they could sit
down have a conversation, she just got to, you know,
approach him like, hey, I'm not even mad about the
soda anymore, but what was the other things that you
were trying to touch up on and then try to
see what he's you know, what his temperature is on
those things, because, like Loren said, it's better to figure
it out now than to figure it out on the trip.

Speaker 11 (40:47):
Granted she paid.

Speaker 15 (40:48):
For it, but it kind of sucks when you intend
to go with someone and then you're kind of going
by yourself, you know, I get or going with them,
and then it's just this weird, awkward It's like, Okay.

Speaker 6 (41:01):
Yeah, I'm just happy you made her feel a little
less alone because your grandma sounds like she was even
a little bit more soney.

Speaker 3 (41:07):
Okay, don't so bad.

Speaker 15 (41:08):
She will literally dishold the whole family, from the oldest
down to the baby.

Speaker 10 (41:13):
Everybody gotta get out, Leah, I love it.

Speaker 5 (41:17):
Thank you for that.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
Santa.

Speaker 5 (41:18):
You're shaking your head, but this is a serious thing.

Speaker 7 (41:21):
It's not a serious thing. This is absolutely stupid to
be fighting about ginger ale time the carbonation. Are you serious?
Cancel entire thing.

Speaker 6 (41:27):
It's hard for you to understand this, but a soda
that's been put in the freezer to get cold is
different from taking a can, opening it up and putting
it on ice.

Speaker 5 (41:37):
It's just gonna go flat. No, you're not. You're not
understanding the crispiness opening.

Speaker 7 (41:42):
I understand the whole thing, But to cancel a trip
over soda.

Speaker 6 (41:46):
That first sip where it like almost hurts your throat
and you have to close your eyes feels so good.

Speaker 5 (41:50):
You can't recreate that. You can't.

Speaker 6 (41:52):
Kimmy, We're gonna get your number. Don't go anywhere in
the meantime six one seven nine three one one nine
four five six one seven nine three one. We're solving
problems and checking in. Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning,
Sash and the jam of morning.

Speaker 5 (42:07):
So we're checking in.

Speaker 6 (42:08):
We're gonna go to Nadia and Rhode Island. Nadia, good morning,
how are we?

Speaker 16 (42:13):
Good morning?

Speaker 5 (42:15):
Okay, go ahead. Yeah.

Speaker 16 (42:18):
First of all, I'm gonna go off the fact that
she's a mom. As a mom, you don't even get
everything you want anyways, but they're too vidic catering to
your kids.

Speaker 14 (42:25):
And if you're in a relationship with you're a team
to the relationship.

Speaker 16 (42:28):
You have so many things. You're taking care of the
home everything like that having a soda like you know, like.

Speaker 12 (42:33):
It's for me.

Speaker 15 (42:33):
It's a bigger issue because first of all, you said her.

Speaker 16 (42:35):
Soda and you didn't replace it, and then you were
ruining you last there. So that's so freaking petty, Like
are you kidding me right now?

Speaker 5 (42:41):
Like it's giving me by myself? I literally would you
would go by yourselves?

Speaker 16 (42:47):
I will go by myself because you're being so you're
being so petty. First of all, we're in a relationship,
We're in a relationship. So like, if we're in a relationship,
we have kid together, we should be able to talk.

Speaker 5 (42:57):
Yeah and line and listen. I know everybody's going like
it's a soda thing.

Speaker 6 (43:01):
Some people in the car laughing us, But you know,
there's just there's something to that crisp straight out of
the freezer. You got it to the point where it's
not frozen, but it's so cold taste.

Speaker 5 (43:10):
Maybe maybe if that's.

Speaker 6 (43:12):
Not your thing, you replace it with food, Like you
had a meal in there, you couldn't wait to get home,
something that you something.

Speaker 5 (43:18):
That's your favorite thing.

Speaker 16 (43:21):
What about your favorite thing?

Speaker 14 (43:22):
What about your favorite thing? Somebody took your favorite.

Speaker 3 (43:24):
Thing right now?

Speaker 7 (43:26):
Yeah, but first of all, somebody something that I love.
Say it's some cake, right fine, I'm not going to
get into a fight with my spouse about cake. And
I'm not going to cancel a vacation. I think that's
stupid because that happensship broke it.

Speaker 14 (43:39):
Everybody in the house knows it's your favorite thing, and
they take it and they laugh at and they're telling
you about it.

Speaker 7 (43:46):
But I'm not going to cancel a vacation. That's crazy.

Speaker 16 (43:50):
So you're not going to talk to me for two days, right,
so yoursef's not going to talk to you for two days,
not going to catch you for two days, nothing like that.
And then your thoughts went around running their mouth like,
oh yeah, I'm not gonna go on vacation with you whatever.
But it's like and then they're on top of that,
you started an argument about absolutely nothing. This word relationship.
Should be able to talk about it, whatever, whatever, thing.

Speaker 7 (44:10):
About somebody, your pepsi or coke. Is that why you're
so upset?

Speaker 1 (44:15):
He's not getting.

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Hensand by the way, this guy went to the whole
hotel one tom because the wife did something.

Speaker 1 (44:26):
Petty packed a bag and get away and all that.
He did it.

Speaker 7 (44:33):
I came back home.

Speaker 6 (44:36):
Right now.

Speaker 5 (44:36):
Again he's dying. He's dying.

Speaker 6 (44:41):
But the old Santi there's plenty of examples, like his pizza.

Speaker 5 (44:44):
There's things I could use. It's hard for him right now,
and he's acting like he's better than the rest of us.

Speaker 6 (44:49):
But let me tell you, if Joanne was laughing at
him in front of people over anything, like the way
he posts on some village home services, she starts laughing
at his village services like he's going off and he's
not recovering it would take weeks souch.

Speaker 5 (45:06):
So we're with you.

Speaker 14 (45:07):
I just stand the relationships where people are not respectful,
and I have a big age of thirty at thirty
six and having a kid whatever, and having to sacrifice
so much. It's not about the SLODA. It's about the principle.
It's about respect, it's about your.

Speaker 16 (45:18):
In a relationship, it's about all of that. Well, like
you need to respect people first, like if you're.

Speaker 14 (45:23):
Not laughing at her big coming like that, and then
call an argument days and then you're not getting here.
She called it behind her back, so people get not going.
How much are you really respect yourself? Like I don't
respect that. If you're it's nasty. It's not about about
the principal.

Speaker 5 (45:34):
Well, at least Kimmy knows she's got some people on
her side. Nadia, thank you for the call.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
You just on our level.

Speaker 7 (45:41):
I guess I'm so stupid.

Speaker 6 (45:43):
Well, moving on to me, Anonymous, good morning, good morning,
I'm a good How are you?

Speaker 5 (45:51):
What's up?

Speaker 11 (45:52):
I'm good?

Speaker 8 (45:53):
So yeah, this is uh, well, I don't know what
you want to call it whatever, So basically selling foreign
you know, I freaking I love you, you know, I
fall with you very avide. Our babies are like three
weeks apart, would be one. So you know, and I
know certain things. Certain people you know work hard for

(46:14):
their stuff. The lifestyle is great. I know you have
a great lifestyle. Fire Man, you know, got the bucks.
You know, you got the nails, you got the hair expaid,
you got everything nice, a lovely house, the front yard,
the sixteen foot skeleton.

Speaker 3 (46:28):
Whatever.

Speaker 8 (46:30):
Anyways, I would like to know, though, have we ever
seen Ashley cook a mute?

Speaker 7 (46:36):
That's a good question, good question.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
I've seen the kitchen.

Speaker 5 (46:40):
Yes, right now? Do you want to be humbled? Do
you want to do you want the next gray.

Speaker 3 (46:49):
To be about you?

Speaker 6 (46:49):
Because I'll humble your round? Well, pipe down.

Speaker 8 (46:54):
And the reason and the reason for the Hawaii came.
I was actually gonna call back in like last week,
but I was thinking, I'm like, geez, like, what was it?

Speaker 3 (47:03):
Where did you go?

Speaker 11 (47:03):
Morning wood?

Speaker 8 (47:04):
People dropping off food?

Speaker 11 (47:06):
You want to breakfast?

Speaker 8 (47:07):
You're here, You're I'm like, bro was good? Was good
with a meal?

Speaker 12 (47:12):
Actually?

Speaker 5 (47:13):
Yeah, that's okay.

Speaker 6 (47:14):
So you've listened a lot of things. I have a
lot of responsibilities. I have promised myself and my husband
that once the breastfeeding is over, I'm gonna get better.

Speaker 1 (47:25):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (47:25):
The question is can I cook? Yes, not a lot
of things. I'm not going to sit up. I have
like two things that I can make. I know the
joke's coming. One of what just stocks peppers, take the
bullet take the bullets on the gun, because these two
are going to go there. But I have told myself
and my husband that once I'm done with the breastfeeding,
I'm going to start to be better about the cooking.
Because no, I don't there it's it's it's non existent.

Speaker 5 (47:47):
It's a lack.

Speaker 8 (47:48):
So that wasn't one of the reasons for the ring.
Then what ring your wedding ring?

Speaker 7 (47:56):
Like the size of it?

Speaker 8 (47:58):
Oh he got it for that was not even your cooking.
Wasn't the reason that you're getting married?

Speaker 6 (48:03):
Hell no, it wasn't even No, it wasn't even on
the list. I think at that time it was even worse. No,
I know, and I am going to I've literally made
a vow to myself that once I once I'm done
nursing the child, I'm going to be better about this.

Speaker 8 (48:17):
Okay, Yeah, and I know your kids will probably enjoyed
it too. And like I said, that's why imagine, and
I get it.

Speaker 19 (48:23):
I'm not trying to say like, well.

Speaker 5 (48:24):
Yeah you are boogie, but yeah I am bougie. Yeah yeah,
but you are boogie.

Speaker 8 (48:29):
And some people work their asses off to peopleogie.

Speaker 11 (48:32):
So I respect the life. So I get it.

Speaker 8 (48:33):
You're married, good, you have your kids at a great time,
great age.

Speaker 6 (48:36):
I feel like you're insinuating that he pays for everything
or something for like my lifestyle, Like no, no, no.

Speaker 8 (48:43):
No, no, I actually know. I'm not going to say,
like you guys both like you guys both like you
guys both did the same thing.

Speaker 5 (48:48):
Yeah, I'm actually adamant about that.

Speaker 6 (48:51):
Yeah, and I and listen, I've said this before when
we got this house, like my big account depleted and yeah,
I know, I remember, and I struggled, but it was
like what else am I saving that money for? But
to give you know, the kids this house. I mean again,
I can make things, I've made them. I make pancakes,
I do the breakfast things. But as for dinner, no,

(49:12):
I'm definitely lacking that. But I also don't really feel
bad right now because I'm keeping a child alive with
just my breast milk.

Speaker 7 (49:17):
So I know that.

Speaker 6 (49:20):
Yeah, so once I'm done with that, I will You're
gonna see me in the kitchen.

Speaker 5 (49:23):
If you have any easy recipes, send them my way.

Speaker 11 (49:25):
No, I got you all day.

Speaker 8 (49:27):
I'm actually a caterer, so I got you with.

Speaker 6 (49:29):
You thank you and ask for my neighbors and stuff.
I was just thank you for the call. I was
just saying this to you, son, I have the best
neighbors in the world. Like the you know, she's being
like people drop food off. It's it's not because they're
dropping food off because I'm not cooking. My neighbor literally
owns a barbecue place called morning Wood Barbecue, and he
wanted me to try the barbecue, which, by the way,
was two out of ten. And he's actually going to

(49:49):
help me out for Daisy's party. But it's not because
people feel bad for me and they're dropping food off.
By any means. We eat and I can look at
my body. It's lacking there. But I just the dinner part. No,
I could be.

Speaker 7 (50:03):
No, we're gonna start cooking though, that's nice.

Speaker 5 (50:06):
Once I'm done breastfeeding. We don't know when that's going
to be.

Speaker 7 (50:08):
You can ask another question, but don't get mad at me.
When are you changing your last name when she starts cooking.

Speaker 5 (50:17):
Shut the hell up, both of you, please, Daddy.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
And Morning show with DJ Foreign It's STI Morning.

Speaker 4 (50:27):
Gautin's number one for hip hop. You am in ninety
four or five.

Speaker 5 (50:31):
I am Free Moodyne. I myself am not a Dominican woman.
Foreign is not a Dominican man.

Speaker 6 (50:41):
No, Santi is Dominican, but to most Dominicans, he is not.
When you sent me this and you were like, we
got to play this because this is so true, I
say I can't speak to it, but maybe other other
Dominicans will call in and be like, yep, listen.

Speaker 7 (50:58):
I'm not gonna speak for everybody else, but I can't say.
When I heard this, it struck a chord. It made
me feel so validated in my feelings and my actions.

Speaker 5 (51:06):
Who is this guy?

Speaker 7 (51:08):
Tom Sagora is a big time comedian. He's a podcaster.
He's on a few podcasts. Is the most famous one.
He does it with this guy Bird. It's called Two
Bears in One Cave. He's a funny dude. He's like
big in podcasting.

Speaker 21 (51:18):
Okay, I've told this before, but I've met some Major
League Baseball players they were like, oh, you know that
throughout MLB, on all teams, Dominicans shower separately. And I
was like and I was like no, and they're like,
oh yeah, because they're wild and they'll do like they're
not gay, but they'll come up free culture. They're like,
they'll just slap their against like each other. And they
were like, A, nah, So it's like Dominicans they do

(51:40):
their own thing, and then the rest like this, it
feels like segregation. They're like, well, it kind of is.
They're doing their wild because they're so sexually free. That's
a I had no idea. Yeah, and I've had that's interesting.
The first guy multiple, yeah, multiple, and then I pitched.
I told the other guy and was like, oh yeah
on hundred percent. Wow, it's pretty interesting.

Speaker 12 (51:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 21 (51:59):
And then you go to the Dominican Republican You're like,
you know, I get it.

Speaker 12 (52:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (52:03):
Ut, yeah, like things are making if this is true,
things are making a lot more so.

Speaker 7 (52:06):
You guys questioned so many things about my existence. This
in a nutshell is me shout out to all my Dominicans.
I know enough Dominicans I've never heard showered with one.
If you want to go right now, guarantee you know
that somebody there it is a thing. Trust me. I'm like,

(52:29):
I ain't gay, but I like to fool around and do.

Speaker 1 (52:31):
Like weird things like that a gay but I like
the fool around.

Speaker 7 (52:39):
Like I think things like this is actually funny.

Speaker 6 (52:42):
So yeah, I could see when he said that, but
before you could see him doing it.

Speaker 5 (52:49):
Yeah, but maybe not, Like I don't think we.

Speaker 6 (52:51):
Can like brush every Dominican man is in a shower
hitting another Dominican man with his but at least the.

Speaker 7 (52:56):
Ones that play for the Red Sox to do apparently right,
every like major League Baseball team deals with this.

Speaker 5 (53:04):
According to him, there is locker room culture for sure.

Speaker 6 (53:08):
I mean I played basketball in college and we I
was naked around them more than anybody.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Yeah, so yeah, what does he mean if you go
to the Dominican you get it? Like, what does that?

Speaker 7 (53:20):
We're very sexual people. I think that's what it is
at the foundation where sexual. Like half the men in
my family treat like it's just the thing.

Speaker 6 (53:29):
Like you're really like, I feel bad for Dominican people
right now, because you're really.

Speaker 7 (53:34):
Promise you it is a thing. Again, I don't want
to speak for them, but I can tell you, like
for me, personally, this audio struck a chord, It was familiar.

Speaker 6 (53:41):
It was me, so yeah, six one seven.

Speaker 5 (53:47):
Four five.

Speaker 6 (53:48):
I can't even imagine the type of calls we're going
to get, but six one seven nine three one one
nine four five foreign?

Speaker 5 (53:57):
Who's on hole? Kimberly high, Kimberly, good morning, Hi.

Speaker 8 (54:02):
Good morning. I'm not good, but I'd like to fool around, bro.

Speaker 7 (54:07):
Yeah what the full around? Bower was taken out of context?

Speaker 8 (54:10):
Per're you're out of contact, bro, I'm already set up
on my day, was already going bad, and then I
have to turn on the radio and hear this, like
this is crazy, Dominicans is not. We don't get down
like that. No, none of the men I know get
down like that.

Speaker 9 (54:24):
You're a little.

Speaker 6 (54:25):
Susto, kim You know that that we can't confirm.

Speaker 5 (54:30):
I mean, never forget.

Speaker 6 (54:31):
This man continually gets invited to a camp for all
gay men where they go naked to the camp, and
he's thought about it like he's.

Speaker 8 (54:39):
Like and he's out. He's out with them parties too.
They only wear cowboy hats and booths. That he would
go and do that, I'm said, bro, come on, man, the.

Speaker 5 (54:49):
Worst part is is now he's trying to say all
Dominican men would go to the same party. Kimberly, thank
you for the call.

Speaker 6 (54:56):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five
one seven nine three five Son, you finished the sentence
for me.

Speaker 7 (55:04):
All Dominican men are very sexualized people and.

Speaker 6 (55:08):
When taking showers, if they play baseball, might like play around.

Speaker 7 (55:11):
Yeah, but it's all in good fun.

Speaker 6 (55:15):
Then every body, Good morning. It's Ashley and the jam
In Morning show. So Santi found this clip and he
was like, this is what it is to be a
Dominican man. I said, I'm not a Dominican man. I
don't know.

Speaker 5 (55:30):
Uh, here's a clip.

Speaker 21 (55:32):
I've told this before, but I've met some Major League
Baseball players. They were like, oh, you know that throughout MLB,
on all teams, Dominicans shower separately. And I was like
and I was like no, and they're like, oh yeah,
because they're wild and they'll do like they're not gay,
but they'll come up in gree culture. They're like, they'll
just slap their against each other. And they were like nah.
So it's like Dominicans, they do their own thing and

(55:53):
then the rest of it like this, I go. It
feels like segregation. They're like, well, it kind of is.
They're doing their wild because they're so sexually free. That's
I had no idea, and I've had that's interesting the
first multiply yeah, multiple, and then I pitched. I told
the other guy and they're like, oh yeah, I got
one hundred percent. Wow, it's pretty interesting. And then you
go to the Dominican Republican You're like, you know, I get.

Speaker 7 (56:14):
It, yeah, checks out yeah, yeah, wow, validation yeah.

Speaker 5 (56:18):
And Sam was like, as no, seriously, like this is it.

Speaker 6 (56:22):
I didn't think that we'd get a single call backing you,
every line backing.

Speaker 5 (56:27):
You Sam's and Wolster.

Speaker 6 (56:30):
Sam is a proud gay Puerto Rican man, and you
have seen Dominican married men doing this stuff?

Speaker 3 (56:39):
Yeah, I have.

Speaker 9 (56:41):
I've been in the locker room a couple of times,
and a couple of these guys are married, and it's like, dude,
are you guys shore you're not like gay?

Speaker 12 (56:49):
Are you guys buy sexual what?

Speaker 9 (56:50):
Because you've got to be buying if you guys are
touching each other, Like come on now, it's crazy. And
I'm want to tell you, bro, you gotta be at
least by bro.

Speaker 3 (57:07):
Sam.

Speaker 5 (57:07):
It's he is and it's okay and okay and.

Speaker 6 (57:10):
It's born to night on this journey from the beginning
of time.

Speaker 7 (57:16):
Support me, but I'm not wrong.

Speaker 6 (57:18):
Yep, thank you, Sam, thank you for the You know,
Joe is in Boston, Joe, Hi, Joe, Joe, you go
to a Dominican barber shop. Are you confirming what's Antia saying?

Speaker 11 (57:32):
So?

Speaker 12 (57:32):
I don't think it's necessarily get with this. Definitely a
sexual culture. Like I'm straight as the day is long.
I like ladies, but these dudes are glued to the
window of the barber shop. If they're not cutting, their
glued to the window and anything.

Speaker 22 (57:46):
That walks by, Like, yeah, I'm done, dude, Oh my god,
all right, Joe, thanks for the thank you.

Speaker 15 (57:56):
Guys.

Speaker 6 (57:58):
Yeah, no, we actually foreign correct if you're wrong. Don't
have anybody really fighting him.

Speaker 2 (58:03):
No, No, everybody's saying they either have witnessed it or
they have a family member. And the coach is very
you know, very open, and I got there's nothing wrong
with it, right your thing?

Speaker 1 (58:12):
But yeah, no, it's kind of cool.

Speaker 2 (58:14):
You're getting funny though it's not before I even knew
what the story was, Santi goes Yo.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
I feel validated.

Speaker 7 (58:19):
Yeah, that's what I feel. I'm telling you guys for
twenty years, you know you have to be by I'm not.
I'm just open. I'm sexual.

Speaker 6 (58:31):
That's hey, whatever you want to call it, we get
We support you. We are down for.

Speaker 3 (58:36):
You, buddy and the jam In Morning Shot with d
J foreign it's Sauty Morning Cousin's.

Speaker 4 (58:43):
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Speaker 2 (58:48):
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down for the team all morning long. By the way,
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