December 16, 2025 • 41 mins
Ashlee and Santi discuss how upset you should be if an ex passes away.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, people, wake it up. It's Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It is the sixteenth. I can't even Christmas is next week.
I know, Like what's going on? What is happening?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I like what?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Like they just like.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
The days are.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Going out and I know, and I can't believe it.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It just feels like it's coming on fast.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
It feels like it's going super speed.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah, the biggest thing is that it's coming fast than
after that that post holiday like depression kicks in once
it's gone.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, you're building up, right, You're building up to this
big magical moment on the twenty fifth, and then then
the twenty sixth hits, and then it's like not even
real numbers of days until New Year. It's like there's
that age old meme where it's like the in between
time between Christmas, the day after Christmas and.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
New Year's no one knows what day it is.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
You're not sure if you've brushed your teeth, you don't
know what to wear, you don't really know where you are.
And then it's all of a sudden, it's like, okay,
we'll pick back up. We got another holiday to do
real quick. And it's January and it's bleak as hell.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Funny story. My youngest son is eight and we have
one of the Alexas that have this screen. It's I
don't know what it's called, but it's a decent sized
screen there right. It looks like an iPad and we
get the notifications on them where stuff gets sliped into
the house and usually there's.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
A picture there, so, oh did it happen?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
It happened, And my youngest was like, mom, why is
there a picture of an e bike there? And he
kept asking about it's I'm like, well, sometimes Santa will
send stuff, or sometimes the advertisement for the commercial comes up,
but he can read, so he's asking. Then I hear
him on his in this video games talking to his
(01:41):
buddy about it the e bike and like this and that.
But no, he was asking because he because he understands
that the Alexa gives you the notification of live. He
kept asking ask like just a couple.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Of times, actually a feature of Alexa that annoys.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Alexa will do this thing where she'll tell me I
have a notification and I'm like what and she's like,
there's a sale on your pea protein powder.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Do you want me to just buy it and add
it to.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Your like no, Alex, I don't want your shopping from it.
I don't I don't want that. How about the other day,
I get this notification to my phone to tell me
Layla understands to ask Alexa to play songs.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Now, yeah, she gets that.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
So I get this notification to my phone and it
says I was going to actually ask you about this
privately because I didn't know how to undo it.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
I need help with it.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
But it says, Alexa, thanks you for your purchase of
Santa Christmas farts.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
So you know Alexa farts, yes, different parts.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, So the fireman showed Layla that Alexa farts.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
She thinks this is hilarious.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
It's funny.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yes, So there's a version of Alexa during the holiday
time where you can buy Santa farting. So Santa will
be like, hoho ho ho, this is a toy box fart.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
And he farts ho ho ho. This is a snowflake fart.
Ho ho ho. This is a Missus clause fart, and
it's like she bought it.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
It's a package. So so Alexa must have prompted.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh do you do you want to hear Santa fart? Yeah,
and she was like yeah, and then Alexa was like
for thirteen ninety nine yea, she goes yep, by I.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Can't find it on my Amazon app to cancel it.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
It's like, I don't know where it lives.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Couldn't you just ask Alexa to cancel it?
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Tried, no, No, she wouldn't, that bitch. She refused.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
So now every time she comes in, she's like, Santa,
I want to hear a North Pole fart, and he's
like bir.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Ho ho ho, like this is my life.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Okay, well maybe it's a one time purchase. I was
just gonna alask you it is. Okay, it's a one
time but got my next week.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I don't want it though, Like that shares me. That
scares me that I cannot be in the room. And
she because like whatever, was like, do you want to
rebuy your whatever?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
And she's like, yes, well I think you can program
Alexa to your own voice, because when I ask her
first stuff, she caused me by my first name. So
maybe you can prompt it to do that. Okay, Yeah,
I told you about the time where my son, my oldest,
was buying video games. This is what hear forty one
bucks called or something roebucks or was the game he
just kept he kept prompting it like on the screen
(04:25):
and just it just hot dates and updates, updates.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Yeah what I'm scared of.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah, but then we had to change like the setting
that I had to prove everything. So yeah, just wait, dude,
she's just racking it up like she's buying proud of stuff. Next,
do you want.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
To hear a Rudolph art ho ho oh? Like this
is what I'm this?
Speaker 4 (04:44):
This?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
What's the rude offfart?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Sound like that one was? I think it was long
and squeaky.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
Actually, morning show, and you need to know we.
Speaker 6 (04:55):
Got you three things you need to know on Boston's
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Speaker 4 (05:02):
Five Brian Walsh no folk superior for criminal type in
number twenty twenty three, Sarah was zero nine to one
as to count one, we're under defend of Brian Walsh's
charged with murder in the first degree. What's say the
jury is it dependent guilty.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Or not guilty? Guilty guilty of what, sir?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Or in the first degree murder in the first.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Degree, So say you, mister, poor person, I do guilty of.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Murder in the first degree.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
So say all delibra jurys, I do my bye. Tuesday,
December sixteen, and that was the jury and dead I'm
convicting Brian Walsh of first degree murder. Guys, it happened yesterday.
It only took them but six hours to deliberate. I
knew it wasn't going to be long. They did the
three hours on Friday, they went home for the weekend,
another three on Monday morning, and they.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Said bye bye life.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yeah life, Hey, no reaction from that guy, because you know,
even I think back to when Karen Reid was hearing
her verdict, it's like you dare at the person right
because you're just dying yes, to see what their reaction
is going to be.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
He had none.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
He can't be shocked. He knew his case was and
they tried to lie that way the entire thing.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
You can't go out buying hack sauce buckets, you know, gloves,
band aids, ammonia bleach and all of these things, have
bloody rugs and throwing out random trash bags, lying to
the police, googling how to cut up a body, and
think people aren't going to be convinced that you did this.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
He's such an eighty and I still go back to
the video of him, I think I forget what store
was in where he's smiling at himself in the camera line.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
It was like CBS, he's absolute creep.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I did have one ping in my chest walking him
watching him walk out of the courtroom.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Obviously not for him, but for.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Those kids, because you gotta think about it, Guys, mom
is gone and now so is dad, and no matter
what dad did, that still their dad, and so they're
probably I mean they're little, yeah, and it's just they
got no one.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Not just that they're going to be carrying the damage
of this for the rest of their like, yeah, whole lives.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
If they were older, I would be like, they probably
are thinking good riddance for what he did. But they're
still that, like it's still dad but there, and they're
too young to probably even I mean even the video
of him in CBS.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
He's with the kid and they're happy and they're smiling.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
They don't know what's going on, and so I had
that little moment there that I thought, oh my god,
those those poor poor kids. I don't I don't know
if there's any talks of who will take them in.
I think at one point it was a family friend
and then maybe there was a grandparent situation.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
If anybody knows that obviously could fill me in.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
But I thought about those little those little kids yesterday
because that's just it's awful life.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Charley Max or.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Bye bye, all right.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
The full on manhunt to find the shooter from Brown
University is still underway.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
We know so far.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
The eating took place on Saturday around four pm. Two
were killed, nine were wounded.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
We got a new video, yes have you seen it?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
So authorities released this new video of the person of interest.
He's got a mask on. He's skittish for sure, and
I don't know about you.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
He looks like an older guy. He does. He's not
giving college student to.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Me, yes, and he's not giving I work out too,
So like he's a very distinct look. That's why I'm like,
we can't find this guy.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Yeah. The comment section, somebody was like, his build alone
will get him called.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I was like, I can't.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
It's like we can all kind of determine based on
pictures and like Silhouett's who somebody is just by the
way that they kind of shap We all have somebody
in like our lives like that.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
When I saw the video, I was kind of taken
aback because I think I really just thought it was
going to be like a young, thin, college age looking
man and it's absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
That's like a pair of shape.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
And it's just so sad because you know, you have
all these these students at Brown, you have their parents.
My mother actually, for her job, she does travel for
Princeton University and her company also does travel for Brown.
And my mom said, it's been just crazy over there
at her company, just trying to make sure everybody is
off campus at Brown, get everybody home, get them on flights,
(09:20):
get them. They canceled the rest of the year for classes,
for finals. They're just trying to get everybody home because
it doesn't feel safe to them. And Lisa down the hall,
you know her her son goes to Brown. He knew
one of these victims. It's really scary. So no matter what,
it's like, this guy is out there. And even if
you don't go to Brown and you live in the area,
(09:40):
you're just on edge.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I mean Providence, what it's an hour from here, so
technically we're not too far away not to fear into anybody,
but like, this guy's still out there.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
No, it's true.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
So I'm hoping that somebody recognizes the bills in those videos.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Yeah, yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
And lastly, it was a night for stuff on Diggs.
He was hosting his digs Deep Foundation the Wellness Wonderland event.
I'm sure you're all thinking, what is that. It's invitation only.
It's a holiday experience aimed to cool, honor and uplift
women who give back to their communities, giving them a
chance to relax, recharge and feel celebrated for everything they do.
(10:17):
There was a woman there and they had interviewed her
and she said it's a very special treat, especially around
the holiday times when we're all doing a lot of
things for other people and kind of forgetting to do
things for ourself. And Stefan himself said, it's a day
of appreciation. I had a mom who did it all
by herself, so I want to show them some love.
The real story. Yes, it's amazing what he was doing
(10:38):
for all these women. His woman showed up to support
Carti hanging out at the Wellness event last night in
Foxborough with her Man's very happy on her phone taking
videos of him he was walking around in a Santa had.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
That's a good looking man, all I get it.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Carnie is also very flexible. I don't you saw the
videos of her doing some.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
She's getting tour ready. Yeah, I was like, wow, she
was getting tour ready. But she's she has been in
a sense.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
And not to say she didn't support offset, because I
know she didn't know he said that she did. But
she's very supportive of everything Stephon digs on and off
the field. You know, he just had that furniture line.
She was there to support, taking pictures of herself on
the furniture, probably trying to get more eyeballs on it.
She's at this wellness event. I think she just really
cares about what he does.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Again, both on and off the field.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Where's the baby?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
And she's a massive Patriots. It's with the nanny. It's fine.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
She's rich, all right, Okay, she's hands on. We know
that has three things he's known for. Tuesday, December sixteenth.
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Speaker 2 (12:02):
The Kettle overfloweth I do have to say this, son,
and I know you'll understand what I mean. It's upsetting
me that Kiss got this news before we do, because
I rely on you guys to give me the inside info.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
And I mean.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
It hurts like it hurts that somebody decided that they
were gonna call Kiss and give him this inside intel
and not us, especially not me, because you know I
care about stuff like this.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
And then also we would have fun with this. They
really don't know how to have fun with it, Like,
oh my god, that's crazy. We'll talk about it.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
We'll talk about the necessarily.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
You were just schmoozing with Billy Coston here about seven
seconds ago. Now you're throwing shots because he's out out
the studio in here, just schmoozing it up. They just
laugh at everything anyways, justin hits me up up and
he's like, dude, we just got this crazy talk, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
No, a girl called him the show and she said
something crazy. Mind you.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
I have two parts to this because it doesn't chalk me,
but it also does. Cardi was hanging out last night
with Stefan Diggs in Foxborough Sheet that is her man.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
It's okay, and she's very proud of him. She loves it.
He's a Patriot. Then they get this info before us.
Speaker 8 (13:22):
Supposedly a very high profile singer songwriter is moving to
my neighborhood and she's getting a member of She's.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
The Patriots, So we can all Cardi b.
Speaker 9 (13:37):
Hold on, Yes, and in my neighborhood.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
Which is even crazier because when we bought it a
few years ago. We bought it because it was a
very quiet family neighborhood, not for long.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Yeah, So there you have it.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
There's a rumor going around that Carti b bought like
a two point five million dollar mansion in Easton, Son.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Do you have it up?
Speaker 3 (13:58):
I don't have it up because I can't find it
because off the market now, but.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
AJ had a few photos of it.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Two point five mil, four bed, four bath, forty eight
hundred square feet. Kind of crazy, just because I mean,
we hope Steph stays around. I just think to buy
a whole how would be that rich?
Speaker 3 (14:16):
You have the money to buy and still make money
on the other end once you sell it, so it's
not like she's gonna lose cash on that. And it's
a nice house.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
It's very nice indoor pool situation. No, it's beautiful. And
I'm listen. With the amount of back and forth she's
probably doing and with that little baby, I think it
makes sense to have something a little bit more permanent
so she, you know, she can stay here for a
little if she wants.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
But she could also be renting the house too. They
could take it off the market still to get some
income off that, So it could be that. But regardless
she's here, I don't think it's gonna be a party situation.
She has little kids and she's gonna be gone for
like how many months because she's touring.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
She's touring.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Yeah, yeah, Stefan's the issue. He's the one you have
to watch out for because once she's on tour, that's
when the parties are really gonna Oh.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
You're right, I mean we got a couple, I mean,
fingers crossed. A couple more weeks of football, you know,
and then what would he so he would stay here
and live in Easton in the off season.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Probably not.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
And that's why I think it's a rental okay, and
then for right now, yes, yes, you rent to buy
the month or like a six month thing or you
know something like that.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
How far is Easton from Foxborough?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
I don't think it's that far. Like Easton's down by
like Brockton in that area, so it's not that far.
So it's very doable.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, I just no shade to Easton. I'm just kind
of shocked, like I don't know. But also Foxborough is
not like li you know, we're moving to Foxboro. Farboro
was cool.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
I mean you could buy a house where Ah used
to own a home, you know, that's not too far away.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
That was South Attleborough.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Or North it was one of them.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
I'll never forget that drive. Okay, Easton to Foxborough is
a fifteen minute drive.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Yeah, that's doable.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Totally, that makes that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Yeah, but you're so you're so right, Like Foxport is not.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Like a neither one, Like you're not gonna like it's not.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Like a Weston. It's not like a new Inn or something.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Not like Hollis.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Yeah, you know not.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
But that Listen, this excites me though. That how fun.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I mean you're definitely gonna see her walking around the streets,
taking the baby for a walk and all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Yeah, we don't even know where stuff On is living
right now in this area to say, you know, maybe
he just doesn't. Maybe she stays with him obviously when
she's here, or they get a big hotel and she's like,
I'm tired of this, Like let's get a place that
when I.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Come with the baby or the kids, I we all
can stay.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
I mean, you could potentially see Offset right just pulling
out to do the transition of like the kids with
the weekend or something like that.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
That's driving up like you know, right, yeah, Offset stopping
by the farmer's daughter for brunch and then dropping the
kids off.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
In Easton, we have a new neighbor.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Everybody, Cardi B's moving to Easton supposedly especial show to know.
Speaker 6 (17:01):
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Speaker 4 (17:09):
Brian Walsh no folk superior for a criminal type at
number twenty twenty three. Sarah was there of nine to
one as to count one. We're under defended.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Brian Walsh's charged with.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Murder in the first degree what say the jury, is
it dependent.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Guilty or not guilty? Guilty guilty of what, sir?
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Or in the first.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Degree murder in the first degree. So say you, mister,
poor person, I do guilty of murder in the first degree.
So say all will of great.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
And Joranes, I do Tuesday, December sixteenth.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
And it really only took them but six hours, six men,
six women on that jury to say, hey, this guy's
going to jail for the rest of his life. That
jury and dead. I'm convicting Brian Walsh of first degree murder.
You just heard it right there, for the twenty twenty
three killing of his then wife on A Walsh whose
body was never found. But you know, we had an
(17:55):
idea because he was googling how he would hide it
if he were to kill her, And he was buying
buckets and hack saws and gloves.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
And ammonia and bleach and band aids and goddily knows
what else.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
He's an absolute creep killer, and he got exactly what
he deserves.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I so don't understand why it took an entire day
to figure this whole thing. I would have done that
thing in an hour.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Six three on Monday, sorry, three on Friday and then
another three yesterday because I bet you, I bet you
they were trying to decide between first and second degree
I think. But yeah, he's going away for the rest
of his life, see you later. By absolutely zero reaction
from this guy. Yeah, that's when the verdict came in.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
That's when you know that he's a sociopath.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
He knew it, listen, he knew it was a shot
in the dark that he was going to get off
on this. But they tried because they thought if there
was nobody, they had a chance. So bye bye, said
Brian Walsh. Horrifyingly so sad for those kids. Uh, the
full on man hunt is still underway. We're looking for
the shooter for the Brown University shooting now that took
(19:00):
place on Saturday around four pm. Two students have been killed,
nine others were wounded. At first they were like, we
got him, don't worry, he's in custody, everybody's safe. Then
they release that guy the next morning. Now everybody's frantic,
especially people that live in the Rhode Island. Are the
wait a second, you said you got him.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (19:19):
That guy's photos everywhere? Now authorities have released new video
of a person of interest. Guy looks very skittish. He
looks a lot older than you would have thought, like
not a college age kid. And say it a specific
body type, yes, Like somebody in the comment section said,
(19:41):
this man's body type is going to get him caught.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
It's specific, and he has a very specific gait to
the way he walks. He's kind of like Teeter Toddy ish.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Like, yeah, if he gets chased down, he's.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Getting caught, you know what I'm saying, Like, it's not.
But now where is he? I mean, he's she had days.
It is tuesday, you guys. That shooting happened Saturday evening.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
But I feel like he has the middle aged look,
so I guess they can blend in a lot better.
But somebody knows this person.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
I don't know about you.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
But when they were like, hey, we're releasing this new
video footage, when I watched it, I was taken aback.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
That's not what I was prepping for.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Yeah, that's exactly it. The guy must have like walked
away too, he didn't run. I can guarantee that absolutely
not all right.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
And lastly, Lizzo is speaking out about the legal war
that she had had with her former dancers. If you
don't remember Son, there were claims against Lizzo that she
fat shamed and fired some of her employees because of
their body weight. She posted an Instagram clip about it
yesterday where she just stands there in silence and moves
(20:47):
around while words are placed up on the screen.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
That's interesting, say the words said.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
The claim got cut since there was no evidence that
she fired anyone overwaking clarifying they were actually let go
for secretly recording her without her consent and then sending
that footage to ex employees. She added she always uplifted
and platformed bigger bodies. So the claims which surfaced in
twenty twenty three have haunted her from the beginning, but
she trusted her legal team to steer her to victory
(21:14):
and she's hoping the rest of this case follows suit.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Maybe those were lies, but the other suffers real like
the banana stuff and the way that shit.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
You know, were you in Amsterdam at the time.
Speaker 3 (21:24):
No, no, but people who are okay fine. The post
proof about that, So to that point, she's not nice.
Imagine shaming a person.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
People don't know the stories on.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
So the story basically was it took place in Boston.
It took too long for her lobster role to get there,
so she started going off on the person on X
and then that was like crazy.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
She posted her photo and her phone number like she
really was mad about that lobster role, Like she must
have got it warm.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Yeah, you couldn't have gone like it's busy, traffic is
ten thousand things. Then you're going off on this person
for a lobster roll.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Yeah, come on listen.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Her ex employees have had gripes with her, but it's nice,
like this is good for her.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
I mean, this is just makes me feel better.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
Because she can't be standing on the platform of body
positivity whilst firing people for that exact thing.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
But she wasn't and that was proved in court, so
we're good.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
It was a lobster roll.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
I like, when you break, you want it warm or cold.
She must have chosen warm. It was gonna come gold
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Hi everybody, good morning. We're doing beyond the swipe here.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
We're talking dating, love relationships six one seven nine three
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Speaker 1 (23:28):
If you are in.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
A relationship and you want to call invent about it,
if you're dating, anything you want to tell that involves
those things, We would love to hear it. Not often
that Santi says to me, let's start with me, because
I have something to tell you for beyond the swipe?
Speaker 1 (23:43):
What what? What?
Speaker 3 (23:44):
All right? I obviously can't say who these people are,
but a few of my friends from town. They are married.
I am good friends with the husband. The husband confided
in me recently, like as soon as this weekend that
he's upset because his wife's ex boyfriend, who I believe
he alluded to they maybe had an affair at one
(24:04):
point too, passed away and she was really upset, like
in tears, like really like emotional And now they have
not been together for like fifteen years something like that,
It's been a long time, but clearly like she still
is emotionally attached to this man to the point where
she was crying, sobbing, and he feels really like a
(24:26):
type way yeah, not even like like just type of boy.
He's almost waterline like heartbroken, because it feels like she
probably still had feelings.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
For him, like she thinks he's the one that got away,
but like got away.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Yeah, but to the point now where like you know,
like she can't she can't handle her emotions about this guy.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
This is a weird thing.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
So like if your ex, God forbid, dies, are you
not allowed to cry? If you cried as that signal
or because you might think not about necessarily you and
the relationship that you have with.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Them, but they have a new family. You had a
relationship with them at one point.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
I don't know if it was about like their life
situation and maybe there were some kids there and all
that stuff. That's a different story. But I think there
has to be a line. I think you can be
like shocked and upset, but you're not crying.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
You're okay, And we all know there's levels to crying.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
You could like talk through the cry, but if you're
boo like, you can't.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
That's why he was implying that it was that it
was like an earth shattering, like.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
The cry is stuck in her mouth, like that's yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
No, to be honest, I would be upset with tears.
I would be like why are you crying? Like you
should be like I understand the sadness, but the tears. No, no, no,
that's why.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Yeah, you could be like, hey did you hear John Yeah,
passed away, and then you do that.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I just feel so bad because you know, it's a family.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
It's just just off. I just feel bad for his family,
Like I'm still cool with his parents. I just feel bad,
that's one thing.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
But even that, I would be like, are you sad
because you still have feelings for him?
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Like that?
Speaker 3 (25:56):
I would have to ask just to make sure. But
I'm not your average person. But if tears stop rolling
down and you can't handle it, I'm questioning a lot
of things. I'm questioning our marriage. I'm questioning the way
you feel.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I'm I think that it's it's it's it's the level
of the cry because because again you're like whimpering to
the point where you are like I've I've cried like
that before, where I'm like sucking in the cry like that.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
What if the fireman's X died or something like that
and he starts shedding tears.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
It would be it would signal something to me because
he doesn't.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Get like yeah, and I think this is what he feels.
Now he's in this tough position where like he mentioned
the word divorce. I don't really know, yeah, because now
he's questioning so much.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I mean, the elephant in the room. It's not like
she can.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
Go go back to the acts. Yeah, the cemetery she can't.
But yeah, so that's the whole thing, and he's like
really like mess.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
He feels what Yeah, has he expressed this to her
or he's just expressing it to you at all?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Just constantly to me because she was so emotional that
he didn't want to bring it up them. But I did,
like say, you need to talk to or just make
sure that she that she doesn't want to didn't want
to be with this guy.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
I feel sad for him.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
I do feel sad because he's like a grown man. Yeah,
an amazing.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Job, and he thought everything was good and she's think.
Speaker 3 (27:24):
Got kids and everything like that too. Well.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
I guess this can be two things.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Number One, you guys could call about this if you
want to weigh in maybe you've been in the situation,
or you can call about your own life and the
dating things you have going on. But I mean, yeah,
as for him, I think he needs to communicate with
her if he feels something about that. Yeah, like we
can't be like ah, that's.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
And this isn't a jealousy thing. This is more so
like wow, do you still have feelings for somebody else?
And we just found this out now.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
And we're just out here living in like fake lamb
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happy to be Damn that came across the wrong because
I'm not happy that this happened to you. It's sad,
but I'm happy that you've been in this same situation.
So maybe Santi can now go to his friend with
this knowledge your high school ex had passed away. Now,
I was saying, there's a difference in the emotion that
we give here.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
If I'm like, you know, I.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Can't believe that this happened. You know, I'm really close
with the you know, cry talking. I think that's acceptable.
If you're boo hoo, sobbing, I think your partner's gonna
feel a type of way.
Speaker 10 (28:55):
Sobbing is crazy to me, right?
Speaker 5 (28:58):
I Actually, yeah, my X we were sixteen to nineteen.
We actually got engaged, which is crazy now that I'm older,
I broke it off because of his drug use. He
ended up passing away from an overdose when I think
we were in our yeah, we were in our thirties.
When I heard about it, I was obviously very upset.
I'm like, oh, that's so bad.
Speaker 8 (29:20):
But and I told my husband, I said, oh, my god,
remember my ex from high school? And he knew the name,
and I said he overdosed, And I just talked to
his family about very I was like, wow, that's crazy.
Speaker 10 (29:31):
I cried, yep.
Speaker 5 (29:32):
But when I cried, it was a couple of tears.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
It's like, yeah, and I think.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
I think you probably I'm assuming cry too, because when
addiction is involved in it, it's like it that adds
a different layer, you know what I mean, because you
knew him probably when he wasn't an addict, and it's like, yeah,
you know that. Yeah, so listen, that's not a part
of this situation, right son, No, it's not.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
Okay.
Speaker 9 (29:54):
It was a hard nobody either way.
Speaker 8 (29:55):
That's sobbing though, even if it was an unexpected death.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Still like, yeah, it's gonna make the person, Yeah, it's gonna.
Speaker 5 (30:03):
Make ring is different.
Speaker 8 (30:05):
By sobbing, I mean that's another level, right, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
All right, may thank you for the call. I appreciate it.
Nora is in Randolph.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Nora thinks that your man, your buddy was that his name,
needs to like have a sit down conversation with his wife.
Speaker 9 (30:22):
Hi, Nora, absolutely, good morning, Thank you guys. Yeah, he
absolutely needs to have a conversation with her, like he's
causing all these scenarios and throwing out a word such
as big as a bored. I know he hasn't even
had a conversation with her.
Speaker 10 (30:34):
I get like giving her.
Speaker 9 (30:36):
Some space, but your marriage is priority. So if you're
feeling some type of way, you need to have a
conversation with her and ask her like, is this just
you know, sadness? It also what type of emotions does
she having? Is she unable to get out of bed?
Is she not able to take care of the kids
and go to work? Like there's so many different levels
to this.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
So she's taking care of the kids and the family,
but she's definitely debrassed, like she's not taking it well.
Speaker 9 (30:59):
Yeah, needs to have a conversation with her like he does,
instead of having conversations with you and everybody else.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Yeah, and by the way now, now we've taken it
to the radio, it's like, no, but here's the thing
I I I I think his pride is probably a
little hurt too, so he you know, he probably absolute
breached this because he's like wow, and.
Speaker 9 (31:17):
Egos are very gentle at every age. It don't change.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Yeah, it's like, oh didn't like that.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
No, but you're almost putting it back on him. I know,
I understand, but it's almost like she's the one that
did the thing. And also, I don't believe she's gonna
be like truthful about the whole thing, because like, what
is she gonna say. I'm just really sad.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
No, But I think it's fair.
Speaker 9 (31:40):
You should be able to have an honest conversation about that.
And I'm not taking away from his feelings. He totally
has a right to be in his feelings about that.
Anybody would, but divorce is a big word.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Like, but I also think it's fair to say to
her like, hey, I was kind of shocked at your
reaction to this, Like I didn't think that you would
be so upset. It made me feel type of way
because you know what I mean, Like, I think there's
a way to start the conversation. But yeah, he can't
be like getting drunk and telling you. He's got to
tell her, you know, I get But by the way,
(32:10):
what a weird conbo that we're having, Like this is
a strange one.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
I did not, but it happens, though, I'm sure it
happens like all the time, Like people.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Die, Thanks Nor take that with you to Randolph today.
People die. That's what you've learned by listening to the show.
You've heard the call. Yeah, I am so.
Speaker 3 (32:29):
Glad that I'm sure people deal with this consistently. And
it's like, I think there has to be a line.
You're not gonna sit there and get all like crazy
because you're ex died. It's like, oh man, damn, okay,
but it's.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Still sad, Like I feel like I cry sometimes when
I see like strangers.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
Okay stories, your ex dies. Are you boohooing?
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Oh that's a terrible thing to ask me, because well, no, no,
I'm well I'm saying I know his family and I
would think about that stuff.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
But yeah, the one from high school.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Then yeah, no, I'm not boo hoo. I'm probably crying.
I'm like, oh my gosh, I just saw that. Yeah,
I'm like, that's super sad.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
What about the one from me?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
All right?
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Anyways? Six one seven it's you are messy it up?
Six one seven nine three one four five. We're talking
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Ashley and the Gym in morning show. One thing about
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because because listen to me, I didn't think we would
(33:28):
ever have a convo like this, but this does happen.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
I'm obviously you know.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
And so here we are having a chit chat about
if you came home and found your partner boohooing, sobbing.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
We're talking like.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
Like crying that their ex died. Would that make you
feel a type of way? And do you have the
right to feel a type of way about that reaction?
Speaker 3 (33:52):
And what we talked about this is like it gets
me upset if I came home, say my wife is
I'm oh, well why am I?
Speaker 1 (33:58):
To be honest, I might go to a place of like,
were you guys speaking like current?
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Yeah? You know you did?
Speaker 1 (34:04):
You have more relationship with this person than I was
aware of.
Speaker 3 (34:07):
And that's the thing. You just start questioning so many
things you.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
Do Beth is in prov high basket morning till.
Speaker 10 (34:16):
Morning, So you're one hundred percent that he should be worried.
But it's more like it's like a psych thing where
she's kind of mourning that who she was at the
time she was with him, and the days where her
husband really gets under her skin and hits that nerve,
she's like, yeah, I can always go back to this guy,
(34:39):
and now she can't. So now she's like mourning the
fact that she's.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Got nowhere to go.
Speaker 1 (34:44):
Damn.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
That's deep.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Yeah, that's it's like so like what her soul's just
floating around trying to find a new home, like it
just needs to go back to the husband.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (34:55):
You can't think.
Speaker 10 (34:56):
I think it's like she's got Plan B in her
mind that that I think, well.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Plan B is like, for a lack of better words,
dead and gone. So I did like we gotta let
that go.
Speaker 10 (35:08):
Yeah, But that's what I'm saying, Like I think she
had like the toe out the door, oh God in
her mind, like she's waiting for the kids.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
To grow up and then and she was like maybe
there was a time that's a crazy place to go to,
but you that could be that could be.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
It's not merying.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Thanks for the call, I did not. That's a crazy
place to head to want to go.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
To her point, I feel like I come across so
many couples who feel like they've selled, that have kind
of settled, and aren't really with the person that they
feel like they were meant to be with, which is
a scary thought. That's why I'm always asking, Hey, are
you happy? Is this what you want to be like
even when things are fine, because again, I hear these
horror stories so often. Yeah, And it's more so I
(35:57):
feel like women settle, and I don't know if that's
a general thing.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
I think less and less though. I think the world
is kind of changing in that sense. And I'm not
even saying changing for a better because you and I
have talked about this at length.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I feel like people right now like to kind of
talk bad about marriage.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Like there's a lot of people that at this stage
in their life and at this place in the world,
they're like, you know, marriage is stupid, don't get married
all those things, and I don't.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
I don't believe in that either. I don't.
Speaker 3 (36:25):
I don't either, But I feel like I've heard that
since the beginning of time. Though it's maybe because now
we're at this point in our lives where we're in
good places. Yeah, but I feel like that's been consistent,
and that's why I just go back to it, like
I wonder how many people out there really truly aren't.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Happening in one out It's like marriage can be great
if you're with the one that you want to be with. Yeah,
you know, it can be an awesome thing.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
And then also to her point too, I've heard a
lot of people saying like like, look, I'm just staying
till the kids are in school. I'm just waiting til
the kids are gone. And then when he get a divorced,
which is a whole other crazy thing too.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
Well, I hope, for Joanne's sake, none of our exes die.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
Better, or if they do, just don't cry.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
Yeah. Just she has to tell you at the straight
face and be like, did you hear the news Joe's dad?
Speaker 1 (37:06):
Yeah, yeah, he's gone and see you. Oh man, Hi, everybody,
Good morning, It's Ashley and the gym in morning, Joe.
We're gonna move on. But shocking amount of d ms
about that last topic.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Shocking of people just saying yeah, Like if I came
home to a husband or wife boohooing over their ex
that or not, I would feel the type of way.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
I also feel like, depending on the timing of the
whole thing, I don't think you attend the funeral of
like the wake, depending right you No, No, I don't
think so. I don't know. Maybe the last X you do,
depending on how much time it's like after that.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
So I don't think I'm pulling up you know when
you do if there's kids, right, I don't think after
that we don't have kids.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
Like, oh, if you have kids together, yes, that's a
different story. If there's no kids, why are we rolling
to that?
Speaker 2 (37:54):
No we're not.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
We'll hold them back on the flowers.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
So, oh my god, that reminds me.
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Of the funeral thing. Oh it's one of my most horrifying.
I mean, it's up there with me assaulting the blind man, like,
it's up there. But I don't do well at funerals,
to be honest, I think I'm scarred. I actually I'm
(38:22):
not positive if I've told this story. But Nana, may
she rest in peace. When Nana's second husband died, my
pop up, I was young, very young, and my mother,
I remember was would say to us like you don't
have to go, like we don't have to, like we
were that young, you know. And but but Nana was adamant.
She really wanted us to be there, and it was
(38:42):
open cask.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
You do you know the story?
Speaker 2 (38:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
I think this is why I am the way I
am so so Nana.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
Nana's pressuring my mom to bring us because she wants
us to see his body, to like say goodbye, God,
this is a morbid show.
Speaker 1 (39:03):
And so we get there.
Speaker 2 (39:05):
Guys, I don't know my age, but it's it's like
eight to ten range, like I'm young, okay, my brother's
obviously a couple of year saying that. So we get
to we walk into the viewing and Nana sprints to us.
She grabs us and she like rushes up to the front.
It takes us to his body and I'm like, Jess
because they never look the same.
Speaker 3 (39:26):
I don't know, you know, kiss them whoa whoa like.
Speaker 1 (39:34):
On the mouth.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
She wanted me thank you.
Speaker 2 (39:38):
She said kiss your pop up goodbye, and I said
bye bye. I'm not know because I don't even like
I don't understand viewings I don't like them. I don't
feel comfortable with them again, never look the same, weird.
She was trying to force my brother and I to
kiss him on the lips. By and my other cousins
were doing it. Bro our cousins were doing it. I'm sorry, no,
(40:02):
my mom a.
Speaker 1 (40:03):
Big tea stepped in. She said, absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (40:06):
Yeah, because for years kiss what No? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (40:11):
So anyways, I feel like that was my first go
around with the viewings. So a friend of mine's father
had died and we were trying. I was trying to
go to the to the viewing because I knew I
had to go, and I was very frantic about it.
I was asking a lot of questions, when is it?
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Where is it?
Speaker 2 (40:32):
So I get to the funeral home and I get
in line, and you know, I'm getting up towards the front,
and I start like getting to the family part where
you greet them. And as soon as I picked my
head up because again I'm nervous, I'm sweaty, And as
soon as I pick my head up and I take
a gander at the coffin, I realize I am not
(40:52):
at the right funeral.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
I am not where I am supposed to be.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
Okay, and it is now no, and it's now at
the point where I'm almost at like the first person
of the family to greet that's crying. So I make
my way through the family and I just keep it simple.
So sorry for your loss. I kneel in front of
the body.
Speaker 3 (41:16):
Do it quick, count to ten.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
He signed the book because the way it was going
was you had to hit the book after and got
out of there.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
I can't. I feel sick even telling that story. So yeah,
I went. I went to a funeral for someone that
I had never seen met nor like anything in my life.
Speaker 3 (41:37):
If there's an afterlife, right and you go and intend
your own wake, and you're like a ghost, the ghost
like who is this chicken right now? I've never met
her in my life, but also.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
Maybe being like, can't wait till she's up here. Would
like to shake your hand and say thanks for coming.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
She's cute.
Oh, people, wake it up. It's Tuesday.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
It is the sixteenth. I can't even Christmas is next week.
I know, Like what's going on? What is happening?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I like what?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
Like they just like.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
The days are.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Going out and I know, and I can't believe it.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It just feels like it's coming on fast.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
It feels like it's going super speed.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Yeah, the biggest thing is that it's coming fast than
after that that post holiday like depression kicks in once
it's gone.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, you're building up, right, You're building up to this
big magical moment on the twenty fifth, and then then
the twenty sixth hits, and then it's like not even
real numbers of days until New Year. It's like there's
that age old meme where it's like the in between
time between Christmas, the day after Christmas and.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
New Year's no one knows what day it is.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
You're not sure if you've brushed your teeth, you don't
know what to wear, you don't really know where you are.
And then it's all of a sudden, it's like, okay,
we'll pick back up. We got another holiday to do
real quick. And it's January and it's bleak as hell.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Funny story. My youngest son is eight and we have
one of the Alexas that have this screen. It's I
don't know what it's called, but it's a decent sized
screen there right. It looks like an iPad and we
get the notifications on them where stuff gets sliped into
the house and usually there's.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
A picture there, so, oh did it happen?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
It happened, And my youngest was like, mom, why is
there a picture of an e bike there? And he
kept asking about it's I'm like, well, sometimes Santa will
send stuff, or sometimes the advertisement for the commercial comes up,
but he can read, so he's asking. Then I hear
him on his in this video games talking to his
(01:41):
buddy about it the e bike and like this and that.
But no, he was asking because he because he understands
that the Alexa gives you the notification of live. He
kept asking ask like just a couple.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Of times, actually a feature of Alexa that annoys.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Alexa will do this thing where she'll tell me I
have a notification and I'm like what and she's like,
there's a sale on your pea protein powder.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Do you want me to just buy it and add
it to.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Your like no, Alex, I don't want your shopping from it.
I don't I don't want that. How about the other day,
I get this notification to my phone to tell me
Layla understands to ask Alexa to play songs.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Now, yeah, she gets that.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
So I get this notification to my phone and it
says I was going to actually ask you about this
privately because I didn't know how to undo it.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
I need help with it.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
But it says, Alexa, thanks you for your purchase of
Santa Christmas farts.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
So you know Alexa farts, yes, different parts.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, So the fireman showed Layla that Alexa farts.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
She thinks this is hilarious.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
It's funny.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yes, So there's a version of Alexa during the holiday
time where you can buy Santa farting. So Santa will
be like, hoho ho ho, this is a toy box fart.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
And he farts ho ho ho. This is a snowflake fart.
Ho ho ho. This is a Missus clause fart, and
it's like she bought it.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
It's a package. So so Alexa must have prompted.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh do you do you want to hear Santa fart? Yeah,
and she was like yeah, and then Alexa was like
for thirteen ninety nine yea, she goes yep, by I.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Can't find it on my Amazon app to cancel it.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
It's like, I don't know where it lives.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Couldn't you just ask Alexa to cancel it?
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Tried, no, No, she wouldn't, that bitch. She refused.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
So now every time she comes in, she's like, Santa,
I want to hear a North Pole fart, and he's
like bir.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Ho ho ho, like this is my life.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Okay, well maybe it's a one time purchase. I was
just gonna alask you it is. Okay, it's a one
time but got my next week.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I don't want it though, Like that shares me. That
scares me that I cannot be in the room. And
she because like whatever, was like, do you want to
rebuy your whatever?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
And she's like, yes, well I think you can program
Alexa to your own voice, because when I ask her
first stuff, she caused me by my first name. So
maybe you can prompt it to do that. Okay, Yeah,
I told you about the time where my son, my oldest,
was buying video games. This is what hear forty one
bucks called or something roebucks or was the game he
just kept he kept prompting it like on the screen
(04:25):
and just it just hot dates and updates, updates.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Yeah what I'm scared of.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah, but then we had to change like the setting
that I had to prove everything. So yeah, just wait, dude,
she's just racking it up like she's buying proud of stuff. Next,
do you want.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
To hear a Rudolph art ho ho oh? Like this
is what I'm this?
Speaker 4 (04:44):
This?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
What's the rude offfart?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Sound like that one was? I think it was long
and squeaky.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
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Five Brian Walsh no folk superior for criminal type in
number twenty twenty three, Sarah was zero nine to one
as to count one, we're under defend of Brian Walsh's
charged with murder in the first degree. What's say the
jury is it dependent guilty.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Or not guilty? Guilty guilty of what, sir?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Or in the first degree murder in the first.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Degree, So say you, mister, poor person, I do guilty of.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Murder in the first degree.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
So say all delibra jurys, I do my bye. Tuesday,
December sixteen, and that was the jury and dead I'm
convicting Brian Walsh of first degree murder. Guys, it happened yesterday.
It only took them but six hours to deliberate. I
knew it wasn't going to be long. They did the
three hours on Friday, they went home for the weekend,
another three on Monday morning, and they.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Said bye bye life.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Yeah life, Hey, no reaction from that guy, because you know,
even I think back to when Karen Reid was hearing
her verdict, it's like you dare at the person right
because you're just dying yes, to see what their reaction
is going to be.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
He had none.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
He can't be shocked. He knew his case was and
they tried to lie that way the entire thing.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
You can't go out buying hack sauce buckets, you know, gloves,
band aids, ammonia bleach and all of these things, have
bloody rugs and throwing out random trash bags, lying to
the police, googling how to cut up a body, and
think people aren't going to be convinced that you did this.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
He's such an eighty and I still go back to
the video of him, I think I forget what store
was in where he's smiling at himself in the camera line.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
It was like CBS, he's absolute creep.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
I did have one ping in my chest walking him
watching him walk out of the courtroom.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Obviously not for him, but for.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Those kids, because you gotta think about it, Guys, mom
is gone and now so is dad, and no matter
what dad did, that still their dad, and so they're
probably I mean they're little, yeah, and it's just they
got no one.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Not just that they're going to be carrying the damage
of this for the rest of their like, yeah, whole lives.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
If they were older, I would be like, they probably
are thinking good riddance for what he did. But they're
still that, like it's still dad but there, and they're
too young to probably even I mean even the video
of him in CBS.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
He's with the kid and they're happy and they're smiling.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
They don't know what's going on, and so I had
that little moment there that I thought, oh my god,
those those poor poor kids. I don't I don't know
if there's any talks of who will take them in.
I think at one point it was a family friend
and then maybe there was a grandparent situation.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
If anybody knows that obviously could fill me in.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
But I thought about those little those little kids yesterday
because that's just it's awful life.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Charley Max or.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Bye bye, all right.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
The full on manhunt to find the shooter from Brown
University is still underway.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
We know so far.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
The eating took place on Saturday around four pm. Two
were killed, nine were wounded.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
We got a new video, yes have you seen it?
Speaker 2 (08:09):
So authorities released this new video of the person of interest.
He's got a mask on. He's skittish for sure, and
I don't know about you.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
He looks like an older guy. He does. He's not
giving college student to.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Me, yes, and he's not giving I work out too,
So like he's a very distinct look. That's why I'm like,
we can't find this guy.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Yeah. The comment section, somebody was like, his build alone
will get him called.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
I was like, I can't.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
It's like we can all kind of determine based on
pictures and like Silhouett's who somebody is just by the
way that they kind of shap We all have somebody
in like our lives like that.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
When I saw the video, I was kind of taken
aback because I think I really just thought it was
going to be like a young, thin, college age looking
man and it's absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
That's like a pair of shape.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
And it's just so sad because you know, you have
all these these students at Brown, you have their parents.
My mother actually, for her job, she does travel for
Princeton University and her company also does travel for Brown.
And my mom said, it's been just crazy over there
at her company, just trying to make sure everybody is
off campus at Brown, get everybody home, get them on flights,
(09:20):
get them. They canceled the rest of the year for classes,
for finals. They're just trying to get everybody home because
it doesn't feel safe to them. And Lisa down the hall,
you know her her son goes to Brown. He knew
one of these victims. It's really scary. So no matter what,
it's like, this guy is out there. And even if
you don't go to Brown and you live in the area,
(09:40):
you're just on edge.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
I mean Providence, what it's an hour from here, so
technically we're not too far away not to fear into anybody,
but like, this guy's still out there.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
No, it's true.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
So I'm hoping that somebody recognizes the bills in those videos.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Yeah, yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
And lastly, it was a night for stuff on Diggs.
He was hosting his digs Deep Foundation the Wellness Wonderland event.
I'm sure you're all thinking, what is that. It's invitation only.
It's a holiday experience aimed to cool, honor and uplift
women who give back to their communities, giving them a
chance to relax, recharge and feel celebrated for everything they do.
(10:17):
There was a woman there and they had interviewed her
and she said it's a very special treat, especially around
the holiday times when we're all doing a lot of
things for other people and kind of forgetting to do
things for ourself. And Stefan himself said, it's a day
of appreciation. I had a mom who did it all
by herself, so I want to show them some love.
The real story. Yes, it's amazing what he was doing
(10:38):
for all these women. His woman showed up to support
Carti hanging out at the Wellness event last night in
Foxborough with her Man's very happy on her phone taking
videos of him he was walking around in a Santa had.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
That's a good looking man, all I get it.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Carnie is also very flexible. I don't you saw the
videos of her doing some.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
She's getting tour ready. Yeah, I was like, wow, she
was getting tour ready. But she's she has been in
a sense.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
And not to say she didn't support offset, because I
know she didn't know he said that she did. But
she's very supportive of everything Stephon digs on and off
the field. You know, he just had that furniture line.
She was there to support, taking pictures of herself on
the furniture, probably trying to get more eyeballs on it.
She's at this wellness event. I think she just really
cares about what he does.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Again, both on and off the field.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Where's the baby?
Speaker 1 (11:29):
And she's a massive Patriots. It's with the nanny. It's fine.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
She's rich, all right, Okay, she's hands on. We know
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Speaker 2 (12:02):
The Kettle overfloweth I do have to say this, son,
and I know you'll understand what I mean. It's upsetting
me that Kiss got this news before we do, because
I rely on you guys to give me the inside info.
Speaker 1 (12:17):
And I mean.
Speaker 2 (12:21):
It hurts like it hurts that somebody decided that they
were gonna call Kiss and give him this inside intel
and not us, especially not me, because you know I
care about stuff like this.
Speaker 3 (12:31):
And then also we would have fun with this. They
really don't know how to have fun with it, Like,
oh my god, that's crazy. We'll talk about it.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
We'll talk about the necessarily.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
You were just schmoozing with Billy Coston here about seven
seconds ago. Now you're throwing shots because he's out out
the studio in here, just schmoozing it up. They just
laugh at everything anyways, justin hits me up up and
he's like, dude, we just got this crazy talk, all right.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
No, a girl called him the show and she said
something crazy. Mind you.
Speaker 2 (13:06):
I have two parts to this because it doesn't chalk me,
but it also does. Cardi was hanging out last night
with Stefan Diggs in Foxborough Sheet that is her man.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
It's okay, and she's very proud of him. She loves it.
He's a Patriot. Then they get this info before us.
Speaker 8 (13:22):
Supposedly a very high profile singer songwriter is moving to
my neighborhood and she's getting a member of She's.
Speaker 3 (13:30):
The Patriots, So we can all Cardi b.
Speaker 9 (13:37):
Hold on, Yes, and in my neighborhood.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
Which is even crazier because when we bought it a
few years ago. We bought it because it was a
very quiet family neighborhood, not for long.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Yeah, So there you have it.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
There's a rumor going around that Carti b bought like
a two point five million dollar mansion in Easton, Son.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
Do you have it up?
Speaker 3 (13:58):
I don't have it up because I can't find it
because off the market now, but.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
AJ had a few photos of it.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Two point five mil, four bed, four bath, forty eight
hundred square feet. Kind of crazy, just because I mean,
we hope Steph stays around. I just think to buy
a whole how would be that rich?
Speaker 3 (14:16):
You have the money to buy and still make money
on the other end once you sell it, so it's
not like she's gonna lose cash on that. And it's
a nice house.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
It's very nice indoor pool situation. No, it's beautiful. And
I'm listen. With the amount of back and forth she's
probably doing and with that little baby, I think it
makes sense to have something a little bit more permanent
so she, you know, she can stay here for a
little if she wants.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
But she could also be renting the house too. They
could take it off the market still to get some
income off that, So it could be that. But regardless
she's here, I don't think it's gonna be a party situation.
She has little kids and she's gonna be gone for
like how many months because she's touring.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
She's touring.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Yeah, yeah, Stefan's the issue. He's the one you have
to watch out for because once she's on tour, that's
when the parties are really gonna Oh.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
You're right, I mean we got a couple, I mean,
fingers crossed. A couple more weeks of football, you know,
and then what would he so he would stay here
and live in Easton in the off season.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Probably not.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
And that's why I think it's a rental okay, and
then for right now, yes, yes, you rent to buy
the month or like a six month thing or you
know something like that.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
How far is Easton from Foxborough?
Speaker 3 (15:25):
I don't think it's that far. Like Easton's down by
like Brockton in that area, so it's not that far.
So it's very doable.
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Yeah, I just no shade to Easton. I'm just kind
of shocked, like I don't know. But also Foxborough is
not like li you know, we're moving to Foxboro. Farboro
was cool.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
I mean you could buy a house where Ah used
to own a home, you know, that's not too far away.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
That was South Attleborough.
Speaker 3 (15:51):
Or North it was one of them.
Speaker 2 (15:52):
I'll never forget that drive. Okay, Easton to Foxborough is
a fifteen minute drive.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Yeah, that's doable.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Totally, that makes that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
Yeah, but you're so you're so right, Like Foxport is not.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
Like a neither one, Like you're not gonna like it's not.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
Like a Weston. It's not like a new Inn or something.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Not like Hollis.
Speaker 3 (16:10):
Yeah, you know not.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
But that Listen, this excites me though. That how fun.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
I mean you're definitely gonna see her walking around the streets,
taking the baby for a walk and all that stuff.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
Yeah, we don't even know where stuff On is living
right now in this area to say, you know, maybe
he just doesn't. Maybe she stays with him obviously when
she's here, or they get a big hotel and she's like,
I'm tired of this, Like let's get a place that
when I.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Come with the baby or the kids, I we all
can stay.
Speaker 3 (16:39):
I mean, you could potentially see Offset right just pulling
out to do the transition of like the kids with
the weekend or something like that.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
That's driving up like you know, right, yeah, Offset stopping
by the farmer's daughter for brunch and then dropping the
kids off.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
In Easton, we have a new neighbor.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Everybody, Cardi B's moving to Easton supposedly especial show to know.
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Speaker 4 (17:09):
Brian Walsh no folk superior for a criminal type at
number twenty twenty three. Sarah was there of nine to
one as to count one. We're under defended.
Speaker 1 (17:17):
Brian Walsh's charged with.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Murder in the first degree what say the jury, is
it dependent.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Guilty or not guilty? Guilty guilty of what, sir?
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Or in the first.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Degree murder in the first degree. So say you, mister,
poor person, I do guilty of murder in the first degree.
So say all will of great.
Speaker 1 (17:31):
And Joranes, I do Tuesday, December sixteenth.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
And it really only took them but six hours, six men,
six women on that jury to say, hey, this guy's
going to jail for the rest of his life. That
jury and dead. I'm convicting Brian Walsh of first degree murder.
You just heard it right there, for the twenty twenty
three killing of his then wife on A Walsh whose
body was never found. But you know, we had an
(17:55):
idea because he was googling how he would hide it
if he were to kill her, And he was buying
buckets and hack saws and gloves.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
And ammonia and bleach and band aids and goddily knows
what else.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
He's an absolute creep killer, and he got exactly what
he deserves.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I so don't understand why it took an entire day
to figure this whole thing. I would have done that
thing in an hour.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
Six three on Monday, sorry, three on Friday and then
another three yesterday because I bet you, I bet you
they were trying to decide between first and second degree
I think. But yeah, he's going away for the rest
of his life, see you later. By absolutely zero reaction
from this guy. Yeah, that's when the verdict came in.
Speaker 3 (18:38):
That's when you know that he's a sociopath.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
He knew it, listen, he knew it was a shot
in the dark that he was going to get off
on this. But they tried because they thought if there
was nobody, they had a chance. So bye bye, said
Brian Walsh. Horrifyingly so sad for those kids. Uh, the
full on man hunt is still underway. We're looking for
the shooter for the Brown University shooting now that took
(19:00):
place on Saturday around four pm. Two students have been killed,
nine others were wounded. At first they were like, we
got him, don't worry, he's in custody, everybody's safe. Then
they release that guy the next morning. Now everybody's frantic,
especially people that live in the Rhode Island. Are the
wait a second, you said you got him.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
What happened?
Speaker 2 (19:19):
That guy's photos everywhere? Now authorities have released new video
of a person of interest. Guy looks very skittish. He
looks a lot older than you would have thought, like
not a college age kid. And say it a specific
body type, yes, Like somebody in the comment section said,
(19:41):
this man's body type is going to get him caught.
Speaker 3 (19:43):
It's specific, and he has a very specific gait to
the way he walks. He's kind of like Teeter Toddy ish.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Like, yeah, if he gets chased down, he's.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
Getting caught, you know what I'm saying, Like, it's not.
But now where is he? I mean, he's she had days.
It is tuesday, you guys. That shooting happened Saturday evening.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
But I feel like he has the middle aged look,
so I guess they can blend in a lot better.
But somebody knows this person.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
I don't know about you.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
But when they were like, hey, we're releasing this new
video footage, when I watched it, I was taken aback.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
That's not what I was prepping for.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Yeah, that's exactly it. The guy must have like walked
away too, he didn't run. I can guarantee that absolutely
not all right.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
And lastly, Lizzo is speaking out about the legal war
that she had had with her former dancers. If you
don't remember Son, there were claims against Lizzo that she
fat shamed and fired some of her employees because of
their body weight. She posted an Instagram clip about it
yesterday where she just stands there in silence and moves
(20:47):
around while words are placed up on the screen.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
That's interesting, say the words said.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
The claim got cut since there was no evidence that
she fired anyone overwaking clarifying they were actually let go
for secretly recording her without her consent and then sending
that footage to ex employees. She added she always uplifted
and platformed bigger bodies. So the claims which surfaced in
twenty twenty three have haunted her from the beginning, but
she trusted her legal team to steer her to victory
(21:14):
and she's hoping the rest of this case follows suit.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
Maybe those were lies, but the other suffers real like
the banana stuff and the way that shit.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
You know, were you in Amsterdam at the time.
Speaker 3 (21:24):
No, no, but people who are okay fine. The post
proof about that, So to that point, she's not nice.
Imagine shaming a person.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
People don't know the stories on.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
So the story basically was it took place in Boston.
It took too long for her lobster role to get there,
so she started going off on the person on X
and then that was like crazy.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
She posted her photo and her phone number like she
really was mad about that lobster role, Like she must
have got it warm.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Yeah, you couldn't have gone like it's busy, traffic is
ten thousand things. Then you're going off on this person
for a lobster roll.
Speaker 1 (22:04):
Yeah, come on listen.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Her ex employees have had gripes with her, but it's nice,
like this is good for her.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
I mean, this is just makes me feel better.
Speaker 2 (22:12):
Because she can't be standing on the platform of body
positivity whilst firing people for that exact thing.
Speaker 1 (22:18):
But she wasn't and that was proved in court, so
we're good.
Speaker 3 (22:21):
It was a lobster roll.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
I like, when you break, you want it warm or cold.
She must have chosen warm. It was gonna come gold
did but relax.
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Speaker 1 (23:15):
Hi everybody, good morning. We're doing beyond the swipe here.
Speaker 2 (23:18):
We're talking dating, love relationships six one seven nine three
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Speaker 1 (23:28):
If you are in.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
A relationship and you want to call invent about it,
if you're dating, anything you want to tell that involves
those things, We would love to hear it. Not often
that Santi says to me, let's start with me, because
I have something to tell you for beyond the swipe?
Speaker 1 (23:43):
What what? What?
Speaker 3 (23:44):
All right? I obviously can't say who these people are,
but a few of my friends from town. They are married.
I am good friends with the husband. The husband confided
in me recently, like as soon as this weekend that
he's upset because his wife's ex boyfriend, who I believe
he alluded to they maybe had an affair at one
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point too, passed away and she was really upset, like
in tears, like really like emotional And now they have
not been together for like fifteen years something like that,
It's been a long time, but clearly like she still
is emotionally attached to this man to the point where
she was crying, sobbing, and he feels really like a
(24:26):
type way yeah, not even like like just type of boy.
He's almost waterline like heartbroken, because it feels like she
probably still had feelings.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
For him, like she thinks he's the one that got away,
but like got away.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Yeah, but to the point now where like you know,
like she can't she can't handle her emotions about this guy.
Speaker 1 (24:46):
This is a weird thing.
Speaker 2 (24:47):
So like if your ex, God forbid, dies, are you
not allowed to cry? If you cried as that signal
or because you might think not about necessarily you and
the relationship that you have with.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
Them, but they have a new family. You had a
relationship with them at one point.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
I don't know if it was about like their life
situation and maybe there were some kids there and all
that stuff. That's a different story. But I think there
has to be a line. I think you can be
like shocked and upset, but you're not crying.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
You're okay, And we all know there's levels to crying.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
You could like talk through the cry, but if you're
boo like, you can't.
Speaker 3 (25:20):
That's why he was implying that it was that it
was like an earth shattering, like.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
The cry is stuck in her mouth, like that's yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:28):
No, to be honest, I would be upset with tears.
I would be like why are you crying? Like you
should be like I understand the sadness, but the tears. No, no, no,
that's why.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Yeah, you could be like, hey did you hear John Yeah,
passed away, and then you do that.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I just feel so bad because you know, it's a family.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
It's just just off. I just feel bad for his family,
Like I'm still cool with his parents. I just feel bad,
that's one thing.
Speaker 3 (25:51):
But even that, I would be like, are you sad
because you still have feelings for him?
Speaker 2 (25:55):
Like that?
Speaker 3 (25:56):
I would have to ask just to make sure. But
I'm not your average person. But if tears stop rolling
down and you can't handle it, I'm questioning a lot
of things. I'm questioning our marriage. I'm questioning the way
you feel.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
I'm I think that it's it's it's it's the level
of the cry because because again you're like whimpering to
the point where you are like I've I've cried like
that before, where I'm like sucking in the cry like that.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
What if the fireman's X died or something like that
and he starts shedding tears.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
It would be it would signal something to me because
he doesn't.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
Get like yeah, and I think this is what he feels.
Now he's in this tough position where like he mentioned
the word divorce. I don't really know, yeah, because now
he's questioning so much.
Speaker 1 (26:44):
I mean, the elephant in the room. It's not like
she can.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
Go go back to the acts. Yeah, the cemetery she can't.
But yeah, so that's the whole thing, and he's like
really like mess.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
He feels what Yeah, has he expressed this to her
or he's just expressing it to you at all?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Just constantly to me because she was so emotional that
he didn't want to bring it up them. But I did,
like say, you need to talk to or just make
sure that she that she doesn't want to didn't want
to be with this guy.
Speaker 1 (27:16):
I feel sad for him.
Speaker 3 (27:17):
I do feel sad because he's like a grown man. Yeah,
an amazing.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Job, and he thought everything was good and she's think.
Speaker 3 (27:24):
Got kids and everything like that too. Well.
Speaker 1 (27:27):
I guess this can be two things.
Speaker 2 (27:29):
Number One, you guys could call about this if you
want to weigh in maybe you've been in the situation,
or you can call about your own life and the
dating things you have going on. But I mean, yeah,
as for him, I think he needs to communicate with
her if he feels something about that. Yeah, like we
can't be like ah, that's.
Speaker 3 (27:46):
And this isn't a jealousy thing. This is more so
like wow, do you still have feelings for somebody else?
And we just found this out now.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
And we're just out here living in like fake lamb
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is six one seven nine three one one four five.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
We're talking at dating love relationships. It's beyond this wipe.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
Let's get it onto the everybody, good morning, and we're
doing beyond this swipe, talking dating love relationships. Lack thereof
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
That a six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. If you want to talk to us about
your dating life. Uh, Mary is in Arlington. Mary, I'm
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happy to be Damn that came across the wrong because
I'm not happy that this happened to you. It's sad,
but I'm happy that you've been in this same situation.
So maybe Santi can now go to his friend with
this knowledge your high school ex had passed away. Now,
I was saying, there's a difference in the emotion that
we give here.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
If I'm like, you know, I.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
Can't believe that this happened. You know, I'm really close
with the you know, cry talking. I think that's acceptable.
If you're boo hoo, sobbing, I think your partner's gonna
feel a type of way.
Speaker 10 (28:55):
Sobbing is crazy to me, right?
Speaker 5 (28:58):
I Actually, yeah, my X we were sixteen to nineteen.
We actually got engaged, which is crazy now that I'm older,
I broke it off because of his drug use. He
ended up passing away from an overdose when I think
we were in our yeah, we were in our thirties.
When I heard about it, I was obviously very upset.
I'm like, oh, that's so bad.
Speaker 8 (29:20):
But and I told my husband, I said, oh, my god,
remember my ex from high school? And he knew the name,
and I said he overdosed, And I just talked to
his family about very I was like, wow, that's crazy.
Speaker 10 (29:31):
I cried, yep.
Speaker 5 (29:32):
But when I cried, it was a couple of tears.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
It's like, yeah, and I think.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
I think you probably I'm assuming cry too, because when
addiction is involved in it, it's like it that adds
a different layer, you know what I mean, because you
knew him probably when he wasn't an addict, and it's like, yeah,
you know that. Yeah, so listen, that's not a part
of this situation, right son, No, it's not.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
Okay.
Speaker 9 (29:54):
It was a hard nobody either way.
Speaker 8 (29:55):
That's sobbing though, even if it was an unexpected death.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
Still like, yeah, it's gonna make the person, Yeah, it's gonna.
Speaker 5 (30:03):
Make ring is different.
Speaker 8 (30:05):
By sobbing, I mean that's another level, right, Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:09):
All right, may thank you for the call. I appreciate it.
Nora is in Randolph.
Speaker 2 (30:14):
Nora thinks that your man, your buddy was that his name,
needs to like have a sit down conversation with his wife.
Speaker 9 (30:22):
Hi, Nora, absolutely, good morning, Thank you guys. Yeah, he
absolutely needs to have a conversation with her, like he's
causing all these scenarios and throwing out a word such
as big as a bored. I know he hasn't even
had a conversation with her.
Speaker 10 (30:34):
I get like giving her.
Speaker 9 (30:36):
Some space, but your marriage is priority. So if you're
feeling some type of way, you need to have a
conversation with her and ask her like, is this just
you know, sadness? It also what type of emotions does
she having? Is she unable to get out of bed?
Is she not able to take care of the kids
and go to work? Like there's so many different levels
to this.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
So she's taking care of the kids and the family,
but she's definitely debrassed, like she's not taking it well.
Speaker 9 (30:59):
Yeah, needs to have a conversation with her like he does,
instead of having conversations with you and everybody else.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
Yeah, and by the way now, now we've taken it
to the radio, it's like, no, but here's the thing
I I I I think his pride is probably a
little hurt too, so he you know, he probably absolute
breached this because he's like wow, and.
Speaker 9 (31:17):
Egos are very gentle at every age. It don't change.
Speaker 1 (31:21):
Yeah, it's like, oh didn't like that.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
No, but you're almost putting it back on him. I know,
I understand, but it's almost like she's the one that
did the thing. And also, I don't believe she's gonna
be like truthful about the whole thing, because like, what
is she gonna say. I'm just really sad.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
No, But I think it's fair.
Speaker 9 (31:40):
You should be able to have an honest conversation about that.
And I'm not taking away from his feelings. He totally
has a right to be in his feelings about that.
Anybody would, but divorce is a big word.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
Like, but I also think it's fair to say to
her like, hey, I was kind of shocked at your
reaction to this, Like I didn't think that you would
be so upset. It made me feel type of way
because you know what I mean, Like, I think there's
a way to start the conversation. But yeah, he can't
be like getting drunk and telling you. He's got to
tell her, you know, I get But by the way,
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what a weird conbo that we're having, Like this is
a strange one.
Speaker 3 (32:13):
I did not, but it happens, though, I'm sure it
happens like all the time, Like people.
Speaker 1 (32:18):
Die, Thanks Nor take that with you to Randolph today.
People die. That's what you've learned by listening to the show.
You've heard the call. Yeah, I am so.
Speaker 3 (32:29):
Glad that I'm sure people deal with this consistently. And
it's like, I think there has to be a line.
You're not gonna sit there and get all like crazy
because you're ex died. It's like, oh man, damn, okay,
but it's.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
Still sad, Like I feel like I cry sometimes when
I see like strangers.
Speaker 3 (32:44):
Okay stories, your ex dies. Are you boohooing?
Speaker 2 (32:47):
Oh that's a terrible thing to ask me, because well, no, no,
I'm well I'm saying I know his family and I
would think about that stuff.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
But yeah, the one from high school.
Speaker 2 (32:57):
Then yeah, no, I'm not boo hoo. I'm probably crying.
I'm like, oh my gosh, I just saw that. Yeah,
I'm like, that's super sad.
Speaker 3 (33:05):
What about the one from me?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
All right?
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Anyways? Six one seven it's you are messy it up?
Six one seven nine three one four five. We're talking
in dating, love, relationships, death. Hi everybody, good morning, It's
Ashley and the Gym in morning show. One thing about
this show is it will keep you on your toes
because because listen to me, I didn't think we would
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ever have a convo like this, but this does happen.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
I'm obviously you know.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
And so here we are having a chit chat about
if you came home and found your partner boohooing, sobbing.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
We're talking like.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
Like crying that their ex died. Would that make you
feel a type of way? And do you have the
right to feel a type of way about that reaction?
Speaker 3 (33:52):
And what we talked about this is like it gets
me upset if I came home, say my wife is
I'm oh, well why am I?
Speaker 1 (33:58):
To be honest, I might go to a place of like,
were you guys speaking like current?
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Yeah? You know you did?
Speaker 1 (34:04):
You have more relationship with this person than I was
aware of.
Speaker 3 (34:07):
And that's the thing. You just start questioning so many
things you.
Speaker 1 (34:10):
Do Beth is in prov high basket morning till.
Speaker 10 (34:16):
Morning, So you're one hundred percent that he should be worried.
But it's more like it's like a psych thing where
she's kind of mourning that who she was at the
time she was with him, and the days where her
husband really gets under her skin and hits that nerve,
she's like, yeah, I can always go back to this guy,
(34:39):
and now she can't. So now she's like mourning the
fact that she's.
Speaker 3 (34:42):
Got nowhere to go.
Speaker 1 (34:44):
Damn.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
That's deep.
Speaker 2 (34:46):
Yeah, that's it's like so like what her soul's just
floating around trying to find a new home, like it
just needs to go back to the husband.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (34:55):
You can't think.
Speaker 10 (34:56):
I think it's like she's got Plan B in her
mind that that I think, well.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Plan B is like, for a lack of better words,
dead and gone. So I did like we gotta let
that go.
Speaker 10 (35:08):
Yeah, But that's what I'm saying, Like I think she
had like the toe out the door, oh God in
her mind, like she's waiting for the kids.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
To grow up and then and she was like maybe
there was a time that's a crazy place to go to,
but you that could be that could be.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
It's not merying.
Speaker 1 (35:31):
Thanks for the call, I did not. That's a crazy
place to head to want to go.
Speaker 3 (35:35):
To her point, I feel like I come across so
many couples who feel like they've selled, that have kind
of settled, and aren't really with the person that they
feel like they were meant to be with, which is
a scary thought. That's why I'm always asking, Hey, are
you happy? Is this what you want to be like
even when things are fine, because again, I hear these
horror stories so often. Yeah, And it's more so I
(35:57):
feel like women settle, and I don't know if that's
a general thing.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
I think less and less though. I think the world
is kind of changing in that sense. And I'm not
even saying changing for a better because you and I
have talked about this at length.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
I feel like people right now like to kind of
talk bad about marriage.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
Like there's a lot of people that at this stage
in their life and at this place in the world,
they're like, you know, marriage is stupid, don't get married
all those things, and I don't.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
I don't believe in that either. I don't.
Speaker 3 (36:25):
I don't either, But I feel like I've heard that
since the beginning of time. Though it's maybe because now
we're at this point in our lives where we're in
good places. Yeah, but I feel like that's been consistent,
and that's why I just go back to it, like
I wonder how many people out there really truly aren't.
Speaker 2 (36:40):
Happening in one out It's like marriage can be great
if you're with the one that you want to be with. Yeah,
you know, it can be an awesome thing.
Speaker 3 (36:46):
And then also to her point too, I've heard a
lot of people saying like like, look, I'm just staying
till the kids are in school. I'm just waiting til
the kids are gone. And then when he get a divorced,
which is a whole other crazy thing too.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:56):
Well, I hope, for Joanne's sake, none of our exes die.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
Better, or if they do, just don't cry.
Speaker 2 (37:02):
Yeah. Just she has to tell you at the straight
face and be like, did you hear the news Joe's dad?
Speaker 1 (37:06):
Yeah, yeah, he's gone and see you. Oh man, Hi, everybody,
Good morning, It's Ashley and the gym in morning, Joe.
We're gonna move on. But shocking amount of d ms
about that last topic.
Speaker 2 (37:16):
Shocking of people just saying yeah, Like if I came
home to a husband or wife boohooing over their ex
that or not, I would feel the type of way.
Speaker 3 (37:27):
I also feel like, depending on the timing of the
whole thing, I don't think you attend the funeral of
like the wake, depending right you No, No, I don't
think so. I don't know. Maybe the last X you do,
depending on how much time it's like after that.
Speaker 2 (37:40):
So I don't think I'm pulling up you know when
you do if there's kids, right, I don't think after
that we don't have kids.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
Like, oh, if you have kids together, yes, that's a
different story. If there's no kids, why are we rolling
to that?
Speaker 2 (37:54):
No we're not.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
We'll hold them back on the flowers.
Speaker 1 (37:56):
So, oh my god, that reminds me.
Speaker 2 (38:01):
Of the funeral thing. Oh it's one of my most horrifying.
I mean, it's up there with me assaulting the blind man, like,
it's up there. But I don't do well at funerals,
to be honest, I think I'm scarred. I actually I'm
(38:22):
not positive if I've told this story. But Nana, may
she rest in peace. When Nana's second husband died, my
pop up, I was young, very young, and my mother,
I remember was would say to us like you don't
have to go, like we don't have to, like we
were that young, you know. And but but Nana was adamant.
She really wanted us to be there, and it was
(38:42):
open cask.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
You do you know the story?
Speaker 2 (38:49):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
I think this is why I am the way I
am so so Nana.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
Nana's pressuring my mom to bring us because she wants
us to see his body, to like say goodbye, God,
this is a morbid show.
Speaker 1 (39:03):
And so we get there.
Speaker 2 (39:05):
Guys, I don't know my age, but it's it's like
eight to ten range, like I'm young, okay, my brother's
obviously a couple of year saying that. So we get
to we walk into the viewing and Nana sprints to us.
She grabs us and she like rushes up to the front.
It takes us to his body and I'm like, Jess
because they never look the same.
Speaker 3 (39:26):
I don't know, you know, kiss them whoa whoa like.
Speaker 1 (39:34):
On the mouth.
Speaker 2 (39:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
She wanted me thank you.
Speaker 2 (39:38):
She said kiss your pop up goodbye, and I said
bye bye. I'm not know because I don't even like
I don't understand viewings I don't like them. I don't
feel comfortable with them again, never look the same, weird.
She was trying to force my brother and I to
kiss him on the lips. By and my other cousins
were doing it. Bro our cousins were doing it. I'm sorry, no,
(40:02):
my mom a.
Speaker 1 (40:03):
Big tea stepped in. She said, absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (40:06):
Yeah, because for years kiss what No? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (40:11):
So anyways, I feel like that was my first go
around with the viewings. So a friend of mine's father
had died and we were trying. I was trying to
go to the to the viewing because I knew I
had to go, and I was very frantic about it.
I was asking a lot of questions, when is it?
Speaker 1 (40:31):
Where is it?
Speaker 2 (40:32):
So I get to the funeral home and I get
in line, and you know, I'm getting up towards the front,
and I start like getting to the family part where
you greet them. And as soon as I picked my
head up because again I'm nervous, I'm sweaty, And as
soon as I pick my head up and I take
a gander at the coffin, I realize I am not
(40:52):
at the right funeral.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
I am not where I am supposed to be.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
Okay, and it is now no, and it's now at
the point where I'm almost at like the first person
of the family to greet that's crying. So I make
my way through the family and I just keep it simple.
So sorry for your loss. I kneel in front of
the body.
Speaker 3 (41:16):
Do it quick, count to ten.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
He signed the book because the way it was going
was you had to hit the book after and got
out of there.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
I can't. I feel sick even telling that story. So yeah,
I went. I went to a funeral for someone that
I had never seen met nor like anything in my life.
Speaker 3 (41:37):
If there's an afterlife, right and you go and intend
your own wake, and you're like a ghost, the ghost
like who is this chicken right now? I've never met
her in my life, but also.
Speaker 1 (41:46):
Maybe being like, can't wait till she's up here. Would
like to shake your hand and say thanks for coming.
Speaker 3 (41:51):
She's cute.
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