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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Especially in the Jamie Morning Show when you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
No, we got you three things you need to know
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Speaker 3 (00:11):
Five.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
You'll learn each other, learning the offense together, and I
think more and more comes for every week. And I
think that's the big thing with with coach. He's calling
great games and I think we got even more or
less than the tank and I think that's what we'll
look back on in that fourth quarter there to try
to really steal the game.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's not about Drake, it's not about QB one, It's
about everybody else and that's why they win. You love
to see it. Monday, October twentieth, Pats, number one in
the AFC East, demolished the Titans thirty one to thirteen,
putting them at five and two for the season, which,
by the way, in the NFL is a really good record.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
A lot of people are coming into these games like
one and six.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I'm like, wait a second, that's what's going on out
here that you expect to be really good?
Speaker 1 (00:49):
You do?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I mean, the Chiefs lost a couple right out of
the gate, and I was like, wait a second.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
I don't want to use the word super Bowl yet,
but I will say playoffs for sure, because the Pageots
looks better than they have looked in the last five years.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
They're fun to one. They're sitting at five and two.
You better believe they're about to be six and two
real quick. They're playing the Browns next weekend. And that's
I'm not trying to throw shade to Cleveland. My dad's
a Browns fan. I know what to expect. The man
is crying to me every single weekend about yet another loss.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
They got one yesterday. But even a blind squirrel finds
a nut.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
But there's no way he's gonna bet the Browns on Sunday, right,
There's no way.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
There's no way he wouldn't. Okay, there's no way he wouldn't.
I will put this out there, and I have said
this a million times. The Browns ever make it to
the Super Bowl, my dad could be on his deathbed.
I'm wheeling that mofo in. I am wheeling him in
with an oxygen tank. Okay, I would make that happen
for him. That is how much of a Browns fan
he is. But either way, Pats are doing the damn thing.
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And it's really nice to see. And you know what,
I think it silences a little bit of the PATS
haters like yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, but I admit that I was wrong, Well not
that I was wrong, but I've changed my tone because
Mac Jones sucked. Yeah, jer Rod was awful. But now
we're in a good vibe here.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And shout out to Mike Rabel obviously beating the Titans
was a big one for him. All right, Brandy just
walking off stage. Her and Monica are on tour. We
know the hit, but they never even got to it.
It's called the Boy's Mine Tour. They never even got
to sing the song, so there's some discrepancies here. It
was a huge story over the weekend. Brandy does this
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and walks off the stage.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Give me one second talk, I gotta get my.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
What oh my god, No, give me one second, y'all.
I gotta give my And then she sounds like she
doesn't have a breath or know what to say next.
But there's other clips going ribral of her commenting that
she was having some audio issues. Fans inside the arena
in Chicago tweeting, wait what, we're all in shock? How
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come Brandy left the stage halfway through The Boy's Mind Tour.
Nobody knows what happened, but Monica had to come close
the concert alone and they.
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Didn't even sing the Boy is Mine.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
On the Boy Is Mine tour, Brandy was also having
audio problems.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Now it got weird because Brandy.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Then posts on IG and says, to my dear fans
in Chicago, thank you for the over overwhelming love and support,
most certainly for your prayers. I sincerely apologize for the
abrupt end of last night's performance in Chicago, but after
weeks of NonStop rehearsals, last night I experienced the dehydration
and feelings of wanting to faint. Everybody involved agreed that
prioritizing my well being was of the utmost important.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
There is a video of behind the scenes.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You can kind of see Brandy walk off the stage
and it looks like she goes straight to the audio guys,
but it's also kind of hard to see. So was
it an audio issue and she was pissed or did
she really feel faint.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
If it was an audio thing, you can come back.
You can fix that like instantly right or in just
in the moment, But.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
Do you get so mad, You're like, I'm dying.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
I think you get mad, But you don't blame the
audience for that, right, you don't put it on them,
And just in the sense you don't leave.
Speaker 5 (03:56):
Them there, you're believing dehydration.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I'm believing dehydration and take a step further. The only
thing that you do that for is if you really
have stomach issues and you can't come back and you
have to take care of what you have to.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Like in that moment, who was it that was performing
on stage and was like, hold on, I have to
go Jason, right, yeah, and he's like, I have to
poop again. That that's crazy to think about, but I
wouldn't know, but I so go ahead.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I mean, if you think about it, there have been
times through where I've had to run off the air,
go to the bathroom, and come back. But that's because, like,
I don't have the stomach bug. But if I had
the stomach bug and you're in there for a while
and you're.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Struggle, you have to bring me the stomach bug.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about the
time that you were sick for two days and you
know it was just like lava I'm not saying that.
I'm just saying for her, what if it's a situation
like that, what you can't I didn't say I haven't hurt.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
I literally lied about that for the show. We were
dying for content.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
But I guess you can understand how one would be dehydrated,
right for sure?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Yeah on so yeah, So anyways, the Boy's Mind Tour.
I want to see it. The vocals sounded good until
she ran off.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
It'll be fine.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Anyways, Rob Gardashian and Black China. Do we remember the
Black China and Rob show? I remember yet some reason,
I'm picturing a scene of them going hiking and she's
like mad that Rob can't hike hill and she's all
mad at him for a season, right, Yeah, they had
baby dream you know, gorgeous by the way, But anyways,
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so they were done.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
We don't see Rob a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
There's rumors and we saw a quick clip that Rob
will be a little bit more of this next season
of Keeping up with the Kardashians.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Would love to see him. I wont to know what's
going on with Rob.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
But Black China posted the other day on Instagram and
she essentially insinuated that her photo shoot that she did
was for Rob Kardashian. So everybody's like, well, wait a second,
are Rob and China getting back together?
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Everybody's in me. I was about a lot of other people.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Were like, well, wait a second, why would she say
that this photo shoot is for Rob. He, by the way,
liked the post certainly kind of insinuating that they're back
in communications. Well, she was at the l A women's expo.
By the way, she has really changed a lot. She
she had had worked done to her face. She she
got rid of all of her fillers. She has really
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concentrated on g O D.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
She's with the Lord now.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
She has changed, for sure as a person. But listen
to her answer the question about her and Rob.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
But sure, for sure have more children.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Okay, I will, I want, I want to more, Actually
me too?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
I do?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
You do?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
I do?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
I'm like man dreams not Now we're talking. Would you
did you deal with Rob or with Talia pick one?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Rob?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Really absolutely absolutely cuties. So this listen to my next questions. Okay,
are you guys back on?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Are you me and Robert?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
We we're healing.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
My God, I loved her and we're communicating and we're
just going with the floor and if God, then there
will be something.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
The only issue that they're going to run into is
a woman by the name of Tokyo, because Tokyo hates
the Kardashians, that is Black China's mother, and Tokyo is
very vocal on the Worldwide Web.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
So I would think that that might cause a little
bit of a rift.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
But if rob and the fan can look past that,
then maybe well.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I think the fact is that China change so much,
so I think that's gonna help it.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
And she listen, she knows her mother's crazy. Yeah, she
knows that because Tokyo will go off.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Is Tokyo her real name, I don't know. It can't
be told.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
I don't think so. I don't think so, but I
don't know for sure. Black chied my way. I just
looked up.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
She's thirty seven years old, said she wis have two
more kids with rob Iteally, all right, this three things
need to know For Monday, October the twentieth, let's do
round two of hip hops most Haunted tickets to go
see Ray and of course we're linking those up with
the two for one special. You're also gonna go to
Spooky World six one seven, nine, three, one, one, nine,
twenty five, Happy Halloween.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Dashy and the Morning Show Good Morning, Boston's number one
for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
H Babes Good Morning.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
We are gonna talk here about the live show, so
I have I literally get butterflies even thinking about it,
because Santi just said to me off air, He's like, Ash,
we don't do this. This is not something we have
ever done. Kiss has their big Turkey Toss once a year.
It's coming up, and they do a live show attached
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to that where they're down there. But this is like
a first ever for Jamin that I can ever remember.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
The Turkey Toss is different though, because they make the
entire broadcast about the turkey.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
There's an event.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yes, yeah, we're doing a show from Man, we still
have to do the entertainment, do everything that we do.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
God only knows what the celebrities are going to be
doing that Friday, because we'll be talking about you know
what I mean, We're not changing what we're doing, it's
it's you will literally be watching us do the show
live action.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Maybe the closest thing that we've done. When we broadcast
from Disney back in March that was the closest thing,
but there wasn't an audience there staring at us.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
That's the thing that's the difference. I already feel we
already even thinking about it. But how dope is it
going to be to be able to do the check
in literally with a human.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Body next to us and some of the characters that
come on Salem and some of the best I know.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
There's so many different elements to this and six one, seven, nine,
three one five if you have any questions, but I
think let's start at the beginning. We are going to
be doing our show live from six to ten at
Rockefeller's in Salem.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
We couldn't have got a better location.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Rockefellers reached out to us asked if we wanted to
do this, and I could have cried with excitement. It
is a center central location is right across from the
Bewitch statue.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
It's at the top of Essex Street.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
It is the spot to be at two people watch,
to drink, to have fun.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
The atmosphere is there.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I mean, just in general this time, we are what
at that point will be one week away from Halloween
Electric in Salem. You can feel it. It's like the
Sanderson sisters are getting ready.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
You know, very true.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
There's not a better place to be, and I keep
telling everybody you can make a day out of it.
Come hang out with us in the morning, get yourself
a breakfast sandwich, walk around Salem, enjoy the haunts, enjoy
the day. We're adding another element of a costume contest
to this as well. We have a thousand dollars first
prize giveaway, which is insane. If you come dressed up
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and you're the best one there, you get one thousand dollars.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
And I'm pretty sure at most of the bars when
you do these contests around like this time of year,
it's like one hundred dollars. One thousand dollars is amazing.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
You're also gonna get tickets to Rockefeller's huge Halloween party.
There's no better party in Salem. Everybody is there, everyone
is dressed to the it's just so fun. The second
place will get five hundred dollars, third to fifty. When
they came to us and said, you know, we're doing
a costume contest, we were like, unless the prize is good, like,
we don't really want to do it. I don't want
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to put that on everybody. I felt like that was
kind of a force. Once we found out what the
prize was, I was like taken aback, Like can I
be a.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
Part of it? One thousand dollars if you come dressed
up and you're our winner.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
One thousand bucks? But even for the second prize and
the third prize, that's still amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Absolutely, And if you are coming anyway, you might as
well dress up and give it a.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Go, because the chances are you're going to win something, right,
I would think.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
So when to come? What's going on? You can get
there at six that's when the show starts. Anytime after.
I think we are adding that if you are going
to come dressed up and you're going to enter into
the costume contest, try to get there by eight am.
Is going to be the cutof for that because we
certainly want to have you on air and be a
part of the show. The bar at Rockefellers will open
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at eight and we will provide a breakfast sandwich to
every person that comes. Another huge question I keep getting
asked if I don't have VIP, like, can I still come?
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Anybody can come?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
If you know people in Salem and you're coming, invite them,
come get a breakfast sandwich.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Have have a mimosa hit the sound.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
It's funny. On that note, I've had people I went
to high school with hitting me up at telling me
that they're gonna stop by.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
I can't wait to meet them all.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
It's gonna be fine, but they're gonna start telling stories. Specifically,
there's one storry for me in high school when I
flip my mom's car on school property. The iconic tale
tells yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I also will add in we're gonna have a special
guest on the show that day.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
AJ.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I fought for AJ to be able to come because
I said she has a dating update.
Speaker 5 (12:40):
I think we can all guess what the.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Update will be, but she does have something she says
she wants to tell. We were gonna do it last week.
I said, no, honey, you need to save that for
the live show. So AJ is gonna be there as well.
We just can't wait to see everybody in person and
give you a hug and have a drink. I just
you know, I read every single message, and I'm so
pumped to be able to meet some of you guys
in person.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
It's gonna start getting crazy when the bar starts to open.
People start drinking, they offer us drinks. How can we
say no to I don't say.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
I have respect for myself.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
I don't say drinks. I mean, well, after ten it's Friday.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
Am I missing anything? Because there's just so many I.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Think you've nailed it all. I think, just frost. We're
really excited to meet you guys and hang out with
you guys because we don't do this often. We don't,
we don't ever do this. So this experience, in this
whole event is gonna be awesome.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
If two of you show up, I will be more
than more than.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Uh. Let's do a vip A giveaway, which, by the way,
means you get a closer shot at Santi.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
Maybe he'll show you his feet. Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Maybe six one seven nine three one one nine four
five six one seven nine three one five collars twenty five.
You are getting the IP tickets to our live show,
which is literally this Friday. Hi, everybody, good morning. It's
Ashley and the Gym in Morning show live from Medford.
But on Friday, I'll be saying live from Rockefellers in Salem.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Being in Salem a week before Halloween. Legit Chillies delayne
is in Cambridge.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Do you want to come to the shop? Do you
want to come to the show?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
All right, well you're in honey, and your front row center.
That's the difference there with the VIP tickets versus not.
I mean, nothing crazy, but you will be able to
have a closer view of the show. Now, who will
you bring and will you dress up all the things?
Speaker 5 (14:18):
I will bring my husband and yes we will dress up.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Thousand dollars you could be walking away with or five
hundred or two fifty either way, come on.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Thank you, thank you, we'll take it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
You're very welcome. Now, will you guys hang and do
like a day in Salem? Or will you just come
to the show. I'm not sure yet.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I got to run it by him and see, all right,
see what was playing?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Well, listen, I can't wait to meet you. Thank you
up for coming and we'll see you on Friday.
Speaker 5 (14:46):
Thank you guys, Friday.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Right, hang on the line there, we'll get on your
infel great part about this too is that you're getting
in before the traffic starts too, so the Halloween traffic
start after twelve, so you get in the early riser
exactly nobody's getting up to be there early in the morning,
so I actually think you'll be able to because I
know right next to the grocery store or like the
post office down there, there's a huge lot. You're gonna
you will if you don't get a street spot, you'll
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get into one of the bigger lots. That's just easy
access to everything.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Yeah, there's a lot right around the corner from there
that's usually empty if it's early enough too.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
No, I think that's the thing about parking. Usually it's
a mess. But I think you'll be okay. The town
itself is going to be nuts because it's the Friday
before Halloween.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Back in the day, I used to have people park
at my house like all the time, and they walk
down because it was a half a mile walk down
down into down downtown, so it was easy.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't think people really, if you haven't been there, understand, like,
you're gonna walk up and down Essex and you're gonna
see all your favorites. You're gonna see Freddy, you're gonna
see Penny Wise, You're gonna see Jack Skelly, you're gonna
see Witches, you're gonna see the Sanders, and sisters. You're
gonna see Billy it it is Halloween on steroids.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
How much you think those people make like daily, Like
they must make at least a thousand bucks.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
A day just taken because yeah, that's what you do.
You put money in their cauldrons or whatever. They have
a little sit all right.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
If you need any more info, I posted up little
Flyer but at Ashley and the am Twoe's on the
Ashley or my personal at Ashley Feldman tweeze on the
Ashley if you have any questions. Oh my god, we're
literally days away from our first ever live.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
Show for Stashy.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Good Morning, Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
I would think Sona, this is a very common conversation
that whether you're a new parent or just a parent
in general.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
You got a kid, have but also just like life changes.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Olivia Colpo, who's a model and she's married to Christian McCaffrey.
Speaker 5 (16:40):
Handsome, handsome man.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
They just had a baby Collette, and she went viral
a couple of days ago for saying like that, there's
been a shift in her identity after having a baby daughter.
She said, it's been scary transitioning into parenthood and that
you know, she said, whether or not you want it
to be there, you have somebody that's physically dependent on you.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
So I'm not going to sugar, it's scary. It's a
shift in who I am.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Yeah, And I also think she's probably was used to
a life being a certain way. Then you had a
child and it just changes everything.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
It changes everything, and honestly obviously for the better. But
you know, the fireman, I have this conversation often and
we think back to like when we first started dating,
like what our weekends looked like, right, because now like
our weekends aren't our own. The kids own the weekends.
And I know that's just like I look at your
life and it's like that's just going to continue. But
we used to debate on like what dog park we
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were gonna go to, and we would watch six seven episodes.
We'd binge whole TV shows. My mother will say to
me every week, Oh, are you watching this show? And
I'm like, Mom, how many times we've been talking about this.
I don't have time for shows, Like right now we're
watching the Ed Gain Show and we might watch ten
minutes of one episode because we don't put the TV
on our shows when the kids are around. I really
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don't need the baby seeing ed Gean hanging himself and
doing things and cutting off like nip dead bodies.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
I don't need that in my life.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
So by the time the day is over and it's
time for me and him, we're lucky to get through
ten eleven minutes of a show of one episode ten
minutes of one episode.
Speaker 5 (18:10):
It might take us eight months.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
To finish one season of a show, because that's just
not like the era of our life.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
That way, right, And that transitions tough and it lasts
for a while. It also can affect your relationship too.
If you guys are on the same page and you
guys aren't changing, then it's challenging. I remember when we
first when we had our son, I didn't transition fast enough,
where like I was still going out, I was still partying.
I still had the same mindset as if I didn't
have any kids and my wife was bearing the brunt
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of everything, kid and all this stuff. And it took
me a lot of years to understand that. Now looking back,
I'm like, you were such an idiot, because like you
weren't there for those important moments where like you should
have been going through this with her as much as
it possibly could.
Speaker 3 (18:50):
And I hear that a ton from people. I mean,
I'm so lucky. Like the fireman is like super hands on. Yeah,
like super obviously if he's working, he's working pumpkin patch, which.
Speaker 5 (18:59):
I never allow again, but he is just so hands on.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
And I hear these horror stories from moms that are
like or on the opposite and dads, like people are
just doing it by themselves.
Speaker 5 (19:10):
I don't know how people are doing it so low.
I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I remember we had just brought my son home. This
was within a few days, and my wife was clearly
dealing with some postpartum stuff too, like at the time,
and she was overwhelmed with everything. I still was like, well,
I'm not going to the gym, Like yeah, like I'm like,
I'm gonna go. And I was there for super long
until I came back, and I couldn't understand, like at
the time, why she was upset, why she was feeling that.
I'm like, well, I came back. I just went to
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the gym, like I have to go to the gym,
But again not saying it was okay, but I was
like thirty at the time. I really wasn't fully like
I understanding. Now forty five I get. I'd look at myself,
I'm like, you were such a needy you didn't deserve her.
Speaker 5 (19:44):
It's absolutely and times just change.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I mean, I am so low on the priority list,
like I do my best. I actually said to my
husband yesterday we were going to this trunk retreat thing
and I was like, thank God, I don't have to
get ready because by the time I got them ready,
the bad were packed, the snacks were packed.
Speaker 5 (20:01):
Those like I don't again low on the totem pole,
like it's not I just.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
And nothing could prepare you for it because you can
tell you people like people can tell you how much
your life is going to change and all stuff, but
you really can't fully understand until something like that happens,
or even like for me, losing a job was tough too.
I had to like change as a person and to
understand that there's all these like life events, yeah, that
are really tough to like accept that first and if
you fight them, it's a whole thing, but it's tough
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to handle.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I remember, like one is hard. I'm not taking that
away because I remember times with one, with just Laila
where I was like, dang, this is this is hard.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
Two is just the wild West.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
I don't know how you guys survived it with four
little ones. Like I hear people that have three and
four kids, and I'm likew because two is nothing. Trying
to get two young kids three and under out of
the house, like literally just to grab coffee is a
whole entire event, Like I'm drenched in sweat, like it
(21:00):
is it's an Olympic sport.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
I guess I don't remember until I see videos from
that timeframe and realize how chaotic it was. And it
was just we were just surviving like every day and
again at that time frame, we were struggling with so
many things. But I think like doing that part of
life together at that time when we went from one
to three kind of brought us closer because we didn't
have a choice.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
There are so many times where we just look at
each other and laugh and like smile. Like yesterday she
was mad because she didn't want to get up off
the couch to go get her snack. She needed a snack.
She wanted her snack. So I said, we're not getting snack.
We don't get up and you can get it yourself,
like you know where the snacks are. So she goes
to go to the candy drawer and I said, no, no, no,
that's not a snack, and she was like, I want
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this candy because I want this candy, because I want
this candy. Like that, she was so upset that that
was all she could get out, and him and I
are just looking at each other like it's you have
to you have to get closer in those moments because
it's the wild West is literally the best way, because
I will have friends who are like pregnant with their
second asking me how is it, And I'm like, buckle up, bitch.
Speaker 5 (22:02):
It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Yeah, But even you saying that they don't understand it
because I think you still try to hold on and Forcily,
put yourself in the same situation as you were in
in that moment where you have to embrace that change
is coming and big change is gonna like be really huge.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
And this is how messed up motherhood is is like
and father, yeah, I think to myself, like, man, it'll
be nice when like last night, she Daisy was taking
peanut butter and she was just like putting it in
her hair.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
She was eating.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
You would eat a bite and then she'd put a
piece in her hair, eat a bite, slick some back
in her hair, and I was like, damn, like, it's
gonna be so nice when she can eat like Layla.
Then all of a sudden, not kidding, I started to
get tears in my eyes. He's like what, and I'm like, well,
now I'm rushing it, and I don't want to rush
it because I don't want to rush through these times.
I read a statistic that by the time your kid
goes to kindergarten, forty percent of your parenting is gone
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out the window because at the time they spent at school.
That made me want to literally go rip a sig. Yeah,
like it's there again. That that's the crazy part is
like you you You're like, oh, I can't wait for
them to do this, But then you're like, wait, I
don't want to fast forward time because then that means
they're not a baby anymore.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
And it's just it is such a roller coaster.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
The emotional part that I've been caught on in the
last couple of months has been my oldest son is fifteen,
he's a sophomore. Two years I have with him until
he's gone. The college drop off thing I can't even
think about without getting like so emotional. I want to
cry for you, Like right now, I can feel myself
getting emotional.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
I think about her getting on the bus for kindergarten
and you know, less than two years and I'm just unwell,
like I'm not.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
But that's parenthood for you.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Like it's the very like I mean this and of
the utmost respect in the same breath. You can want
to kill him and love him more than all the time.
Like I'm not trying to jail or anything, but like
that's that's.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
What we're kneeling with here.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
All right, everybody that is going to do it for us.
I just want to remind you guys that Friday is
our first ever live show. And if in fact you
don't want any of the VIP giveaways that we're doing,
that's okay. That's just a closer seat to Santy's show,
the Show of Santi because I'm gonna be just dying
in my seat. But no anybody can come the event
(24:24):
is open to the public. We're going to be just
doing our show live. This will be at Rockefeller's in
Salem from six to ten am. We'll do the show,
we'll hang after. We'll have an adult BEV. I can't
wait to see everybody. I'm so excited. I'm also so nervous.
Even talking about this makes me want to throw up.
But either way, I hope to see you there. I
want all the hugs. I want to meet all of
you guys in person. So we will do that Friday
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at Rockefellers in Salem. If you have any questions, you
can DM me.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Nobody comes.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
You know what's gonna gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
You'll hear me do like the like good morning everybody,
and then all of a sudden, where'd she go gone?
Speaker 5 (24:55):
She's gone with the wind. She's in the Salem streets.
It's gone like the wind.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
Shout out yes, Instagram, Shout outs Tory, ifb Mikey, Buddha
and Ali Print shout.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Out to you if I missed anything today at Ashley
Feldman to ease on the Ashley.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
We will talk to you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
Later
Especially in the Jamie Morning Show when you need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
No, we got you three things you need to know
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Speaker 3 (00:11):
Five.
Speaker 4 (00:12):
You'll learn each other, learning the offense together, and I
think more and more comes for every week. And I
think that's the big thing with with coach. He's calling
great games and I think we got even more or
less than the tank and I think that's what we'll
look back on in that fourth quarter there to try
to really steal the game.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
It's not about Drake, it's not about QB one, It's
about everybody else and that's why they win. You love
to see it. Monday, October twentieth, Pats, number one in
the AFC East, demolished the Titans thirty one to thirteen,
putting them at five and two for the season, which,
by the way, in the NFL is a really good record.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
A lot of people are coming into these games like
one and six.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
I'm like, wait a second, that's what's going on out
here that you expect to be really good?
Speaker 1 (00:49):
You do?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I mean, the Chiefs lost a couple right out of
the gate, and I was like, wait a second.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
I don't want to use the word super Bowl yet,
but I will say playoffs for sure, because the Pageots
looks better than they have looked in the last five years.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
They're fun to one. They're sitting at five and two.
You better believe they're about to be six and two
real quick. They're playing the Browns next weekend. And that's
I'm not trying to throw shade to Cleveland. My dad's
a Browns fan. I know what to expect. The man
is crying to me every single weekend about yet another loss.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
They got one yesterday. But even a blind squirrel finds
a nut.
Speaker 1 (01:16):
But there's no way he's gonna bet the Browns on Sunday, right,
There's no way.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
There's no way he wouldn't. Okay, there's no way he wouldn't.
I will put this out there, and I have said
this a million times. The Browns ever make it to
the Super Bowl, my dad could be on his deathbed.
I'm wheeling that mofo in. I am wheeling him in
with an oxygen tank. Okay, I would make that happen
for him. That is how much of a Browns fan
he is. But either way, Pats are doing the damn thing.
(01:43):
And it's really nice to see. And you know what,
I think it silences a little bit of the PATS
haters like yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, but I admit that I was wrong, Well not
that I was wrong, but I've changed my tone because
Mac Jones sucked. Yeah, jer Rod was awful. But now
we're in a good vibe here.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
And shout out to Mike Rabel obviously beating the Titans
was a big one for him. All right, Brandy just
walking off stage. Her and Monica are on tour. We
know the hit, but they never even got to it.
It's called the Boy's Mine Tour. They never even got
to sing the song, so there's some discrepancies here. It
was a huge story over the weekend. Brandy does this
(02:17):
and walks off the stage.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
Give me one second talk, I gotta get my.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
What oh my god, No, give me one second, y'all.
I gotta give my And then she sounds like she
doesn't have a breath or know what to say next.
But there's other clips going ribral of her commenting that
she was having some audio issues. Fans inside the arena
in Chicago tweeting, wait what, we're all in shock? How
(02:56):
come Brandy left the stage halfway through The Boy's Mind Tour.
Nobody knows what happened, but Monica had to come close
the concert alone and they.
Speaker 5 (03:02):
Didn't even sing the Boy is Mine.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
On the Boy Is Mine tour, Brandy was also having
audio problems.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Now it got weird because Brandy.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Then posts on IG and says, to my dear fans
in Chicago, thank you for the over overwhelming love and support,
most certainly for your prayers. I sincerely apologize for the
abrupt end of last night's performance in Chicago, but after
weeks of NonStop rehearsals, last night I experienced the dehydration
and feelings of wanting to faint. Everybody involved agreed that
prioritizing my well being was of the utmost important.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
There is a video of behind the scenes.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You can kind of see Brandy walk off the stage
and it looks like she goes straight to the audio guys,
but it's also kind of hard to see. So was
it an audio issue and she was pissed or did
she really feel faint.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
If it was an audio thing, you can come back.
You can fix that like instantly right or in just
in the moment, But.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
Do you get so mad, You're like, I'm dying.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
I think you get mad, But you don't blame the
audience for that, right, you don't put it on them,
And just in the sense you don't leave.
Speaker 5 (03:56):
Them there, you're believing dehydration.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I'm believing dehydration and take a step further. The only
thing that you do that for is if you really
have stomach issues and you can't come back and you
have to take care of what you have to.
Speaker 3 (04:06):
Like in that moment, who was it that was performing
on stage and was like, hold on, I have to
go Jason, right, yeah, and he's like, I have to
poop again. That that's crazy to think about, but I
wouldn't know, but I so go ahead.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
I mean, if you think about it, there have been
times through where I've had to run off the air,
go to the bathroom, and come back. But that's because, like,
I don't have the stomach bug. But if I had
the stomach bug and you're in there for a while
and you're.
Speaker 5 (04:29):
Struggle, you have to bring me the stomach bug.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about the
time that you were sick for two days and you
know it was just like lava I'm not saying that.
I'm just saying for her, what if it's a situation
like that, what you can't I didn't say I haven't hurt.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
I literally lied about that for the show. We were
dying for content.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
But I guess you can understand how one would be dehydrated,
right for sure?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Yeah on so yeah, So anyways, the Boy's Mind Tour.
I want to see it. The vocals sounded good until
she ran off.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
It'll be fine.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Anyways, Rob Gardashian and Black China. Do we remember the
Black China and Rob show? I remember yet some reason,
I'm picturing a scene of them going hiking and she's
like mad that Rob can't hike hill and she's all
mad at him for a season, right, Yeah, they had
baby dream you know, gorgeous by the way, But anyways,
(05:23):
so they were done.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
We don't see Rob a lot.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
There's rumors and we saw a quick clip that Rob
will be a little bit more of this next season
of Keeping up with the Kardashians.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Would love to see him. I wont to know what's
going on with Rob.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
But Black China posted the other day on Instagram and
she essentially insinuated that her photo shoot that she did
was for Rob Kardashian. So everybody's like, well, wait a second,
are Rob and China getting back together?
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Everybody's in me. I was about a lot of other people.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Were like, well, wait a second, why would she say
that this photo shoot is for Rob. He, by the way,
liked the post certainly kind of insinuating that they're back
in communications. Well, she was at the l A women's expo.
By the way, she has really changed a lot. She
she had had worked done to her face. She she
got rid of all of her fillers. She has really
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concentrated on g O D.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
She's with the Lord now.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
She has changed, for sure as a person. But listen
to her answer the question about her and Rob.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
But sure, for sure have more children.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Okay, I will, I want, I want to more, Actually
me too?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
I do?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
You do?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
I do?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
I'm like man dreams not Now we're talking. Would you
did you deal with Rob or with Talia pick one?
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Rob?
Speaker 5 (06:46):
Really absolutely absolutely cuties. So this listen to my next questions. Okay,
are you guys back on?
Speaker 1 (06:58):
Are you me and Robert?
Speaker 2 (07:02):
We we're healing.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
My God, I loved her and we're communicating and we're
just going with the floor and if God, then there
will be something.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
The only issue that they're going to run into is
a woman by the name of Tokyo, because Tokyo hates
the Kardashians, that is Black China's mother, and Tokyo is
very vocal on the Worldwide Web.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
So I would think that that might cause a little
bit of a rift.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
But if rob and the fan can look past that,
then maybe well.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I think the fact is that China change so much,
so I think that's gonna help it.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
And she listen, she knows her mother's crazy. Yeah, she
knows that because Tokyo will go off.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Is Tokyo her real name, I don't know. It can't
be told.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
I don't think so. I don't think so, but I
don't know for sure. Black chied my way. I just
looked up.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
She's thirty seven years old, said she wis have two
more kids with rob Iteally, all right, this three things
need to know For Monday, October the twentieth, let's do
round two of hip hops most Haunted tickets to go
see Ray and of course we're linking those up with
the two for one special. You're also gonna go to
Spooky World six one seven, nine, three, one, one, nine,
twenty five, Happy Halloween.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Dashy and the Morning Show Good Morning, Boston's number one
for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
H Babes Good Morning.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
We are gonna talk here about the live show, so
I have I literally get butterflies even thinking about it,
because Santi just said to me off air, He's like, Ash,
we don't do this. This is not something we have
ever done. Kiss has their big Turkey Toss once a year.
It's coming up, and they do a live show attached
(08:48):
to that where they're down there. But this is like
a first ever for Jamin that I can ever remember.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
The Turkey Toss is different though, because they make the
entire broadcast about the turkey.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
There's an event.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Yes, yeah, we're doing a show from Man, we still
have to do the entertainment, do everything that we do.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
God only knows what the celebrities are going to be
doing that Friday, because we'll be talking about you know
what I mean, We're not changing what we're doing, it's
it's you will literally be watching us do the show
live action.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Maybe the closest thing that we've done. When we broadcast
from Disney back in March that was the closest thing,
but there wasn't an audience there staring at us.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
That's the thing that's the difference. I already feel we
already even thinking about it. But how dope is it
going to be to be able to do the check
in literally with a human.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Body next to us and some of the characters that
come on Salem and some of the best I know.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
There's so many different elements to this and six one, seven, nine,
three one five if you have any questions, but I
think let's start at the beginning. We are going to
be doing our show live from six to ten at
Rockefeller's in Salem.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
We couldn't have got a better location.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Rockefellers reached out to us asked if we wanted to
do this, and I could have cried with excitement. It
is a center central location is right across from the
Bewitch statue.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
It's at the top of Essex Street.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
It is the spot to be at two people watch,
to drink, to have fun.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
The atmosphere is there.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I mean, just in general this time, we are what
at that point will be one week away from Halloween
Electric in Salem. You can feel it. It's like the
Sanderson sisters are getting ready.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
You know, very true.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
There's not a better place to be, and I keep
telling everybody you can make a day out of it.
Come hang out with us in the morning, get yourself
a breakfast sandwich, walk around Salem, enjoy the haunts, enjoy
the day. We're adding another element of a costume contest
to this as well. We have a thousand dollars first
prize giveaway, which is insane. If you come dressed up
(10:42):
and you're the best one there, you get one thousand dollars.
Speaker 1 (10:45):
And I'm pretty sure at most of the bars when
you do these contests around like this time of year,
it's like one hundred dollars. One thousand dollars is amazing.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
You're also gonna get tickets to Rockefeller's huge Halloween party.
There's no better party in Salem. Everybody is there, everyone
is dressed to the it's just so fun. The second
place will get five hundred dollars, third to fifty. When
they came to us and said, you know, we're doing
a costume contest, we were like, unless the prize is good, like,
we don't really want to do it. I don't want
(11:12):
to put that on everybody. I felt like that was
kind of a force. Once we found out what the
prize was, I was like taken aback, Like can I
be a.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
Part of it? One thousand dollars if you come dressed
up and you're our winner.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
One thousand bucks? But even for the second prize and
the third prize, that's still amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Absolutely, And if you are coming anyway, you might as
well dress up and give it a.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Go, because the chances are you're going to win something, right,
I would think.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
So when to come? What's going on? You can get
there at six that's when the show starts. Anytime after.
I think we are adding that if you are going
to come dressed up and you're going to enter into
the costume contest, try to get there by eight am.
Is going to be the cutof for that because we
certainly want to have you on air and be a
part of the show. The bar at Rockefellers will open
(11:55):
at eight and we will provide a breakfast sandwich to
every person that comes. Another huge question I keep getting
asked if I don't have VIP, like, can I still come?
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Anybody can come?
Speaker 3 (12:06):
If you know people in Salem and you're coming, invite them,
come get a breakfast sandwich.
Speaker 5 (12:10):
Have have a mimosa hit the sound.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
It's funny. On that note, I've had people I went
to high school with hitting me up at telling me
that they're gonna stop by.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
I can't wait to meet them all.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
It's gonna be fine, but they're gonna start telling stories. Specifically,
there's one storry for me in high school when I
flip my mom's car on school property. The iconic tale
tells yeah yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I also will add in we're gonna have a special
guest on the show that day.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
AJ.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I fought for AJ to be able to come because
I said she has a dating update.
Speaker 5 (12:40):
I think we can all guess what the.
Speaker 3 (12:41):
Update will be, but she does have something she says
she wants to tell. We were gonna do it last week.
I said, no, honey, you need to save that for
the live show. So AJ is gonna be there as well.
We just can't wait to see everybody in person and
give you a hug and have a drink. I just
you know, I read every single message, and I'm so
pumped to be able to meet some of you guys
in person.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
It's gonna start getting crazy when the bar starts to open.
People start drinking, they offer us drinks. How can we
say no to I don't say.
Speaker 5 (13:07):
I have respect for myself.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
I don't say drinks. I mean, well, after ten it's Friday.
Speaker 5 (13:11):
Am I missing anything? Because there's just so many I.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Think you've nailed it all. I think, just frost. We're
really excited to meet you guys and hang out with
you guys because we don't do this often. We don't,
we don't ever do this. So this experience, in this
whole event is gonna be awesome.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
If two of you show up, I will be more
than more than.
Speaker 3 (13:27):
Uh. Let's do a vip A giveaway, which, by the way,
means you get a closer shot at Santi.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
Maybe he'll show you his feet. Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Maybe six one seven nine three one one nine four
five six one seven nine three one five collars twenty five.
You are getting the IP tickets to our live show,
which is literally this Friday. Hi, everybody, good morning. It's
Ashley and the Gym in Morning show live from Medford.
But on Friday, I'll be saying live from Rockefellers in Salem.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
Being in Salem a week before Halloween. Legit Chillies delayne
is in Cambridge.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Do you want to come to the shop? Do you
want to come to the show?
Speaker 3 (14:04):
All right, well you're in honey, and your front row center.
That's the difference there with the VIP tickets versus not.
I mean, nothing crazy, but you will be able to
have a closer view of the show. Now, who will
you bring and will you dress up all the things?
Speaker 5 (14:18):
I will bring my husband and yes we will dress up.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
Thousand dollars you could be walking away with or five
hundred or two fifty either way, come on.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
Thank you, thank you, we'll take it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
You're very welcome. Now, will you guys hang and do
like a day in Salem? Or will you just come
to the show. I'm not sure yet.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
I got to run it by him and see, all right,
see what was playing?
Speaker 3 (14:40):
Well, listen, I can't wait to meet you. Thank you
up for coming and we'll see you on Friday.
Speaker 5 (14:46):
Thank you guys, Friday.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Right, hang on the line there, we'll get on your
infel great part about this too is that you're getting
in before the traffic starts too, so the Halloween traffic
start after twelve, so you get in the early riser
exactly nobody's getting up to be there early in the morning,
so I actually think you'll be able to because I
know right next to the grocery store or like the
post office down there, there's a huge lot. You're gonna
you will if you don't get a street spot, you'll
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get into one of the bigger lots. That's just easy
access to everything.
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Yeah, there's a lot right around the corner from there
that's usually empty if it's early enough too.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
No, I think that's the thing about parking. Usually it's
a mess. But I think you'll be okay. The town
itself is going to be nuts because it's the Friday
before Halloween.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Back in the day, I used to have people park
at my house like all the time, and they walk
down because it was a half a mile walk down
down into down downtown, so it was easy.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
I don't think people really, if you haven't been there, understand, like,
you're gonna walk up and down Essex and you're gonna
see all your favorites. You're gonna see Freddy, you're gonna
see Penny Wise, You're gonna see Jack Skelly, you're gonna
see Witches, you're gonna see the Sanders, and sisters. You're
gonna see Billy it it is Halloween on steroids.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
How much you think those people make like daily, Like
they must make at least a thousand bucks.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
A day just taken because yeah, that's what you do.
You put money in their cauldrons or whatever. They have
a little sit all right.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
If you need any more info, I posted up little
Flyer but at Ashley and the am Twoe's on the
Ashley or my personal at Ashley Feldman tweeze on the
Ashley if you have any questions. Oh my god, we're
literally days away from our first ever live.
Speaker 5 (16:09):
Show for Stashy.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
Good Morning, Boston's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
Hi, everybody, good morning.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
I would think Sona, this is a very common conversation
that whether you're a new parent or just a parent
in general.
Speaker 5 (16:28):
You got a kid, have but also just like life changes.
Speaker 3 (16:32):
Olivia Colpo, who's a model and she's married to Christian McCaffrey.
Speaker 5 (16:40):
Handsome, handsome man.
Speaker 3 (16:41):
They just had a baby Collette, and she went viral
a couple of days ago for saying like that, there's
been a shift in her identity after having a baby daughter.
She said, it's been scary transitioning into parenthood and that
you know, she said, whether or not you want it
to be there, you have somebody that's physically dependent on you.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
So I'm not going to sugar, it's scary. It's a
shift in who I am.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
Yeah, And I also think she's probably was used to
a life being a certain way. Then you had a
child and it just changes everything.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
It changes everything, and honestly obviously for the better. But
you know, the fireman, I have this conversation often and
we think back to like when we first started dating,
like what our weekends looked like, right, because now like
our weekends aren't our own. The kids own the weekends.
And I know that's just like I look at your
life and it's like that's just going to continue. But
we used to debate on like what dog park we
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were gonna go to, and we would watch six seven episodes.
We'd binge whole TV shows. My mother will say to
me every week, Oh, are you watching this show? And
I'm like, Mom, how many times we've been talking about this.
I don't have time for shows, Like right now we're
watching the Ed Gain Show and we might watch ten
minutes of one episode because we don't put the TV
on our shows when the kids are around. I really
(17:54):
don't need the baby seeing ed Gean hanging himself and
doing things and cutting off like nip dead bodies.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
I don't need that in my life.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
So by the time the day is over and it's
time for me and him, we're lucky to get through
ten eleven minutes of a show of one episode ten
minutes of one episode.
Speaker 5 (18:10):
It might take us eight months.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
To finish one season of a show, because that's just
not like the era of our life.
Speaker 1 (18:16):
That way, right, And that transitions tough and it lasts
for a while. It also can affect your relationship too.
If you guys are on the same page and you
guys aren't changing, then it's challenging. I remember when we
first when we had our son, I didn't transition fast enough,
where like I was still going out, I was still partying.
I still had the same mindset as if I didn't
have any kids and my wife was bearing the brunt
(18:36):
of everything, kid and all this stuff. And it took
me a lot of years to understand that. Now looking back,
I'm like, you were such an idiot, because like you
weren't there for those important moments where like you should
have been going through this with her as much as
it possibly could.
Speaker 3 (18:50):
And I hear that a ton from people. I mean,
I'm so lucky. Like the fireman is like super hands on. Yeah,
like super obviously if he's working, he's working pumpkin patch, which.
Speaker 5 (18:59):
I never allow again, but he is just so hands on.
Speaker 3 (19:03):
And I hear these horror stories from moms that are
like or on the opposite and dads, like people are
just doing it by themselves.
Speaker 5 (19:10):
I don't know how people are doing it so low.
I don't get it.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I remember we had just brought my son home. This
was within a few days, and my wife was clearly
dealing with some postpartum stuff too, like at the time,
and she was overwhelmed with everything. I still was like, well,
I'm not going to the gym, Like yeah, like I'm like,
I'm gonna go. And I was there for super long
until I came back, and I couldn't understand, like at
the time, why she was upset, why she was feeling that.
I'm like, well, I came back. I just went to
(19:34):
the gym, like I have to go to the gym,
But again not saying it was okay, but I was
like thirty at the time. I really wasn't fully like
I understanding. Now forty five I get. I'd look at myself,
I'm like, you were such a needy you didn't deserve her.
Speaker 5 (19:44):
It's absolutely and times just change.
Speaker 3 (19:46):
I mean, I am so low on the priority list,
like I do my best. I actually said to my
husband yesterday we were going to this trunk retreat thing
and I was like, thank God, I don't have to
get ready because by the time I got them ready,
the bad were packed, the snacks were packed.
Speaker 5 (20:01):
Those like I don't again low on the totem pole,
like it's not I just.
Speaker 1 (20:06):
And nothing could prepare you for it because you can
tell you people like people can tell you how much
your life is going to change and all stuff, but
you really can't fully understand until something like that happens,
or even like for me, losing a job was tough too.
I had to like change as a person and to
understand that there's all these like life events, yeah, that
are really tough to like accept that first and if
you fight them, it's a whole thing, but it's tough
(20:27):
to handle.
Speaker 3 (20:28):
I remember, like one is hard. I'm not taking that
away because I remember times with one, with just Laila
where I was like, dang, this is this is hard.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
Two is just the wild West.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
I don't know how you guys survived it with four
little ones. Like I hear people that have three and
four kids, and I'm likew because two is nothing. Trying
to get two young kids three and under out of
the house, like literally just to grab coffee is a
whole entire event, Like I'm drenched in sweat, like it
(21:00):
is it's an Olympic sport.
Speaker 1 (21:01):
I guess I don't remember until I see videos from
that timeframe and realize how chaotic it was. And it
was just we were just surviving like every day and
again at that time frame, we were struggling with so
many things. But I think like doing that part of
life together at that time when we went from one
to three kind of brought us closer because we didn't
have a choice.
Speaker 3 (21:21):
There are so many times where we just look at
each other and laugh and like smile. Like yesterday she
was mad because she didn't want to get up off
the couch to go get her snack. She needed a snack.
She wanted her snack. So I said, we're not getting snack.
We don't get up and you can get it yourself,
like you know where the snacks are. So she goes
to go to the candy drawer and I said, no, no, no,
that's not a snack, and she was like, I want
(21:42):
this candy because I want this candy, because I want
this candy. Like that, she was so upset that that
was all she could get out, and him and I
are just looking at each other like it's you have
to you have to get closer in those moments because
it's the wild West is literally the best way, because
I will have friends who are like pregnant with their
second asking me how is it, And I'm like, buckle up, bitch.
Speaker 5 (22:02):
It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
Yeah, But even you saying that they don't understand it
because I think you still try to hold on and Forcily,
put yourself in the same situation as you were in
in that moment where you have to embrace that change
is coming and big change is gonna like be really huge.
Speaker 3 (22:16):
And this is how messed up motherhood is is like
and father, yeah, I think to myself, like, man, it'll
be nice when like last night, she Daisy was taking
peanut butter and she was just like putting it in
her hair.
Speaker 5 (22:30):
She was eating.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
You would eat a bite and then she'd put a
piece in her hair, eat a bite, slick some back
in her hair, and I was like, damn, like, it's
gonna be so nice when she can eat like Layla.
Then all of a sudden, not kidding, I started to
get tears in my eyes. He's like what, and I'm like, well,
now I'm rushing it, and I don't want to rush
it because I don't want to rush through these times.
I read a statistic that by the time your kid
goes to kindergarten, forty percent of your parenting is gone
(22:54):
out the window because at the time they spent at school.
That made me want to literally go rip a sig. Yeah,
like it's there again. That that's the crazy part is
like you you You're like, oh, I can't wait for
them to do this, But then you're like, wait, I
don't want to fast forward time because then that means
they're not a baby anymore.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
And it's just it is such a roller coaster.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
The emotional part that I've been caught on in the
last couple of months has been my oldest son is fifteen,
he's a sophomore. Two years I have with him until
he's gone. The college drop off thing I can't even
think about without getting like so emotional. I want to
cry for you, Like right now, I can feel myself
getting emotional.
Speaker 3 (23:32):
I think about her getting on the bus for kindergarten
and you know, less than two years and I'm just unwell,
like I'm not.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
But that's parenthood for you.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Like it's the very like I mean this and of
the utmost respect in the same breath. You can want
to kill him and love him more than all the time.
Like I'm not trying to jail or anything, but like
that's that's.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
What we're kneeling with here.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Bostin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 3 (24:01):
All right, everybody that is going to do it for us.
I just want to remind you guys that Friday is
our first ever live show. And if in fact you
don't want any of the VIP giveaways that we're doing,
that's okay. That's just a closer seat to Santy's show,
the Show of Santi because I'm gonna be just dying
in my seat. But no anybody can come the event
(24:24):
is open to the public. We're going to be just
doing our show live. This will be at Rockefeller's in
Salem from six to ten am. We'll do the show,
we'll hang after. We'll have an adult BEV. I can't
wait to see everybody. I'm so excited. I'm also so nervous.
Even talking about this makes me want to throw up.
But either way, I hope to see you there. I
want all the hugs. I want to meet all of
you guys in person. So we will do that Friday
(24:44):
at Rockefellers in Salem. If you have any questions, you
can DM me.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Nobody comes.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
You know what's gonna gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
You'll hear me do like the like good morning everybody,
and then all of a sudden, where'd she go gone?
Speaker 5 (24:55):
She's gone with the wind. She's in the Salem streets.
It's gone like the wind.
Speaker 1 (24:59):
Shout out yes, Instagram, Shout outs Tory, ifb Mikey, Buddha
and Ali Print shout.
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Out to you if I missed anything today at Ashley
Feldman to ease on the Ashley.
Speaker 5 (25:07):
We will talk to you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
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