Goodbye To The Single Life

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake up, wake yo wa good morning.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Happy Friday.

Speaker 3 (00:06):
Oh yeah, day two, Day two.

Speaker 4 (00:09):
The bubble guts is running it up for two days straight.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
You know, I had a feeling that today she was
gonna be off like again because she like seemed like
she was holding in bad shape. And then she was
texting me throughout the afternoon like hey, I'll keep you posted, like,
I don't know, I feel bad. I'm like, I'm like,
I had a feeling that she was in a call
and I'm like, it's fine, it happens.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (00:30):
I mean, if it's Monday, tuos, I get it. But
it's Friday too. The weekend off enjoyed with the kids, relaxed,
she probably could get in some sleep that she desperately
needs and get the body back to to what she
needs to be.

Speaker 3 (00:39):
I did see on her Instagram that she had somebody
to come over to the house and give her like
an ivy drip. Really wasn't that bad. I don't know
what it was. I mean, it's bad, Yes, I think
that just helps out so much. The runs we'll click,
is that your body? I'm saying that's what she's going through.
But you know, I've heard from what I'm understanding she's struggling.

Speaker 4 (00:59):
But anyway, prayers up for Ashley. Please make sure you
show her some love at actually too Easy and the
am otherwise Man Santia, I hear, of course tickets a
little Wayne seven twenty eight twenty and we'll talk about
everything going on.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
We even got new music. New Drake is out. Have
you heard a song? I had not heard that yet.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
No, okay, it's not bad. It's a nice little club up,
you know what I mean. He's prepping for his new album.
I think he's gonna call it Iceland. But yeah, lots
to talk about, a lot to get through today, so
stick around and uh yeah, we're gonna hold it down
for y'all. Good morning. Yan's Ashley and the germ In
Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
Ashley and the jam In Morning Show with d J.
Fourn It's Sati Big Morning.

Speaker 5 (01:34):
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Speaker 1 (01:40):
TI bitch all right. Sometimes during the check in we
get calls from people and we're like, M, we might
have to put a little bit of more time into that.
I don't want to feel like I'm rushing you off
the phone stuff. I had seen your call in the
call screener and I said, oh, no, no, no, I
have never spoken to a person who dated a billionaire

(02:01):
with a bee b billionaire, So I needed I needed
some more time. Are you currently in the relationship or
are you guys?

Speaker 6 (02:10):
Have you separated? Ways?

Speaker 7 (02:13):
Well, it depends who you're asking. So we we we
are together. We're on the outs though, because I'm not
very compliant. I'm from Massachusetts, so I do have a
couple of things to say in my opinion, does matter
to me?

Speaker 6 (02:26):
Okay, he where does he live?

Speaker 7 (02:30):
He lives in Texas.

Speaker 1 (02:32):
He lives in Texas, and he's a billionaire with a bee.
I know you probably don't want to say exactly what
he does, but can you give us a hint?

Speaker 7 (02:40):
Oil?

Speaker 6 (02:43):
I watched land Man True.

Speaker 7 (02:46):
Everything that's in that is true? Wow.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
Okay, so before we get into your relationship, what is
it like dating a billionaire? And what are some things
that only one can get from dating a billionaire?

Speaker 7 (03:00):
A six stomach all the time? Oh, money doesn't buy happiness.
We'll just say that.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (03:07):
He's very frugal though, so you would never know he
had money. He drives a Chevy Silverado. He doesn't look
like he has money. He has a lot of has
a lot of houses, like a million dollar homes, things
like that, But you wouldn't know he was a millionaire
or a billionaire. I met him twelve years ago. He

(03:29):
was my customer. I cold called him. He owned a
telecom company. I didn't know, like his family was into
cattle ranching and oil. So we became friends. He was
always super super cheap. So there's a reason that they
have money. They don't spend any money like we do.
We're so oh yeah, like ash, he would divorce you

(03:54):
so quickly.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
So I was literally about to say him and I
I know, I didn't even imagine it.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
Bye.

Speaker 7 (04:01):
Yeah, he busted my ball is about two hundred dollars, Like,
come on, I'll go get my own job and pay
my bills.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Come on, but oh my god, so are you So
you guys are in this like long distance relationship?

Speaker 6 (04:13):
Clearly?

Speaker 7 (04:14):
Yeah, but I spent them last year going back and
forth between Boston and Texas and Boston and a house
in Florida that he bought so we could go there
and be together.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
Does he does he pay for your living situation here?

Speaker 8 (04:32):
Everything?

Speaker 6 (04:33):
Okay? And you obviously live in the city, and is
that because you work here.

Speaker 7 (04:38):
Yes, my kids go to private school here, so I
need to stay here at least one more year.

Speaker 6 (04:42):
Does he put the bill on the private school?

Speaker 7 (04:45):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (04:45):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
When I asked you what it's like dating a billionaire,
you said you always have a six stomach.

Speaker 7 (04:51):
Why because prior to us being in a relationship, he
appeared to be like one of my best male friends.
The school for psychology Mental health is important to me.
We discussed this, so I already knew like the red
flags and his self he grew up with no love
in his relationship in his home, so I get it.

(05:13):
I thought, great, he found me weak at a time,
so I gave him a chance. I started dating, and
all against my friends were like, no, this is a
bad idea. You already know how it's going to turn out.
We got into the relationship and he's emotionally inept, like
cannot talk about anything to do with like feelings. If

(05:37):
you say anything, he thinks are attacking him. Like he's
such an avoidant. It's just like I knew better because
I saw the red flags, but because I've known him
for twelve years, I made excuses and I didn't go
with my gut. So it's my own fault.

Speaker 6 (05:51):
Honestly, do the kids have a relationship with them?

Speaker 7 (05:54):
No, My eighteen year old actually doesn't like him. He
thinks he as a god complet and he's like, with
thirteen billion dollars, you could solve like world hunger and
buy countries. Mom, like Monsano's paying your bills and you
hate them, like you're going against all of your morals.

Speaker 1 (06:14):
He hasn't been described to me in any way, shape
or form as fun.

Speaker 6 (06:18):
What does he well does he give you other than money?

Speaker 7 (06:24):
Well before I did think it was emotional support. So
I now that you say it like that, yeah, money, No,
he did. I thought brought me happiness. In the beginning,
probably the first six months, he was very emotionally supportive.
I think he was probably baiting me along the way.

(06:46):
I quit my job. I did all the things that
he was like, if you do this, I'll give you this.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
Did you are Do you still have a job or no?

Speaker 7 (06:56):
I do now. But back in November we got in
to a fight because we got into a fight because
he tried to tell me I didn't know what it
was like to be poor. I'm like a single mom
whose kids go to private school. I do know what
it's like to be poor because I was working two
jobs my whole life to pay for that.

Speaker 6 (07:15):
It's also just like a weird thing to say. Are
is he much older than you?

Speaker 7 (07:18):
He's eight years older than me, But he was raised different,
right like his family. They grew up like on a
cattle ranch, like working in the oil field. So even
though they are billionaires, they literally get up and work
every day, which is cool.

Speaker 6 (07:34):
I like that, John Dutneam, John Dunton.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
But I feel like you called us to tell us
about this because you maybe need to hear something or
you wanted to get it off your chest so we
could tell you that it genuinely seems like the only
reason you're sticking around is because of his money. Because girl,
I mean again, nothing that you've said has made me

(08:00):
be like, oh wow, I mean this, Like I asked
you what it's like dating a billionaire and you said,
you're sick to your stomach every day.

Speaker 6 (08:07):
That's like.

Speaker 7 (08:09):
Punching bag. Yeah, Like I didn't realize that until like
the past week or two. To be honest, that I'm
just trying to hold on because I'm like, I love him,
and some of my friends are like why he's so mean.
Even this morning, he's like sending me verbally like abusive,
like like it's just such a tension seeking behavior and I.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
Just like this, does he shallow you with gifts?

Speaker 1 (08:37):
No?

Speaker 7 (08:38):
Not really, Like but here's the thing. Though I'm a
single mom, I've never had like a real solid man
in my life. Like I'm super independent because of my
past drama, I dealt with it. What he did do
was if oh, my garage door is broken, he would
be like, oh, I'll help you. He's very hands on, right,

(08:58):
so he's like a handyman. So he always had the answer,
even from Afar. All right, So even though we didn't
live together, he fixed everything right. If I said I
needed something, it showed up on via Amazon, I'm like, wow,
that's awesome.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
He might also argue for and like he pays for
her to live and he also pays for her kids
to go to school.

Speaker 6 (09:19):
So maybe to him, that's the way somebody's showing you, Yeah, he's.

Speaker 3 (09:24):
Worth is definitely the reason why he is the way
that he is.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Well, why can't you call him right now and say
you're verbally abusive to me?

Speaker 7 (09:32):
He will say I'm wrong, okay, But he will say
it is all me. If I changed, yeah, he would,
we would be perfect. And I'm like, I literally couldn't
stfu more if I tried. I couldn't.

Speaker 6 (09:44):
What if you called him right now and said I
don't want to abuse you anymore? Would you fight it?

Speaker 1 (09:50):
No?

Speaker 7 (09:50):
Because he literally is paying my bills for at least
another six months. So he's like, Okay, that's fine. I'll
just like that's the problem, and that's why you're that's
the game is on our leaf, talk.

Speaker 3 (10:01):
About it, and that's why you're sting. Right, It seems very.

Speaker 7 (10:07):
Well, I don't. He has to pay my rent though.
Either way, he's going to pay my rent. Why right?
His name is on my leaf.

Speaker 6 (10:13):
Yeah, but he could invict you, right, because he's the.

Speaker 7 (10:17):
He wouldn't. He's not manipulating. He's not like he's not
petty or vactious like that.

Speaker 6 (10:22):
Like, yeah, which is good. I'm just saying, you live
here till July.

Speaker 3 (10:26):
Okay. If he's stopped paying all of your bills and
for the kids schooling and all that stuff, would you
still be with us? Man?

Speaker 7 (10:31):
Yes, that's the problem. It's something's wrong with my brain.

Speaker 3 (10:35):
I think you know that if you're into psychology as well.

Speaker 7 (10:37):
So yes, I know, I don't know how this happened.
Like it's a real stark awakening. I hope to so
many women who think you can't be manipulated or tricked
by whatever just happened, you can, Like if I just
listen to my gut instinct many months ago, a year ago,

(11:01):
I would.

Speaker 9 (11:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
But and that's all well and good that you see that.
We can't live in the past now, right. We have
to figure out what's the next step. And you're not happy,
So are you just going to stay in this for
the rest of your life?

Speaker 6 (11:13):
Like what are you getting at?

Speaker 7 (11:16):
I'm literally nothing, that's the problem, I will tell you.
Ever since I decided like I don't want this anymore,
my entire nervous system feels better. So I know it's
the better choice. I just don't know how to like
make him stop, Like do I just do I block him?
Like do I? Well, first off, to make them stob

(11:37):
texting me, you.

Speaker 6 (11:38):
Have to first you have to break up with them.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
I mean, that's the first thing you have to tell him,
Like I'm not happy, I don't want to do this anymore.

Speaker 7 (11:43):
And and they're going And that's the thing. We go
back and forth every day. Right, He's like, I know,
I don't want to deal with your kids. I'm like, right,
you know, I had kids for twelve years. But nice
job deflecting all you're emotionally. An aps sir like, that's
the problem, and I'm calling you out on it and
it's making you angrier at me.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
Anonymous then want to get on air, but she says,
you should know better because he's displaying seven out of
the nine narcissistic.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
I know I do know better, And she's like.

Speaker 4 (12:12):
This woman knows who she's dealing with. You're just choosing
to stay for the money.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
Well listen, and now you're getting emotional. But again, I
think that that that we can. Let's try to take
this as a positive in a sense of you're starting
to learn some things about yourself and about this relationship.
And you, you know, you if you're if one of
your kids came home and explain this entire situation and
they were going through it, you'd be like, what are
you doing?

Speaker 6 (12:37):
You have to leave?

Speaker 7 (12:39):
Yeah, yeah, you're right, and.

Speaker 6 (12:41):
You can do it. You can definitely do it.

Speaker 1 (12:43):
And you know what if if he says, hey, maybe
he'll shock you maybe he'll say, listen, I have felt
this too. Yeah, we don't know, but I'm just saying
the bottom line is you can't you.

Speaker 7 (12:53):
If it's the worst three times three girlfriends like no,
it's always that, it's.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
Never him, So you got get out of this stuff,
like listen, like I this man has he's he's he's
changing you and it's not for the better.

Speaker 6 (13:06):
And he didn't even get you a burken like it's
you gotta go, we have to.

Speaker 7 (13:10):
But he did get men person.

Speaker 6 (13:12):
Oh it's nice, well good, they're yours now, they're yours.
Now you can keep those as a memento.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
But if it made you feel better and just in
your mind to think I'm done with this relationship, imagine
how good it's going to feel when you're really done
with the relationship.

Speaker 7 (13:25):
Yeah, you're right. Wow, I was like actually blinded bad money.
That was weird.

Speaker 1 (13:31):
Do you think don't think you're the first one. I'm
sure a lot of people would be blinded by money
and dating a billionaire, and we'll stay because of that.
But if you can, if you can afford to pay
your own bills and get out of it for you,
for your own mental health, then I mean you're.

Speaker 6 (13:46):
Clearly not in love with this man anymore, that's for sure.

Speaker 7 (13:51):
Yeah, you're right. I think I'm just telling myself that
I am in love with him.

Speaker 6 (13:56):
I'm sure, I'm sure.

Speaker 3 (13:57):
Okay, you know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
All right, Well listen, keep us posted, stay strong, you
got this, all right.

Speaker 6 (14:05):
The first step is telling him I don't think we
can do this anymore. You know, you got to start there.

Speaker 7 (14:12):
Oh, he did just dift me my Mercedes, though, so
that's the plus.

Speaker 4 (14:16):
Like, you're part of the problem too, though, we'll talk.
Let's keep it a bucket. Yeah, you're kind of part
of the problem because it's like you know who you're
dealing with, but you're hanging on because of bread. Like,
don't let him pay for your schooling no more, your
kid's schooling. Don't let him pay your bills no more.
Don't let him buy your mercedes.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
And see if you kid bright away from what it seems,
your kids will be so happy.

Speaker 7 (14:38):
Yeah, he did stop paying my bills in November, though,
in my defense, he just took my predit card away
and shut off everything.

Speaker 3 (14:46):
How do you stop paying them back? How do you
stop paying them back?

Speaker 7 (14:49):
He hasn't. I just got a job and paid him myself.

Speaker 2 (14:51):
Okay, so he pays my rent.

Speaker 7 (14:53):
Though, Like he pays my rent and I sent him
his gas card back, like, I don't want anything from you,
including your attitude.

Speaker 3 (15:01):
Yeah, you can't pick and choose, but you don't have
to take the car. You don't have to care. This
is how he hooks you in every single time. And
I'm sure you'll call him today and break up with them.
Then tomorrow there'll be something else there and you'll come back.

Speaker 7 (15:16):
No I won't.

Speaker 3 (15:17):
I hope not.

Speaker 7 (15:18):
No, No, I'm not going to.

Speaker 6 (15:20):
I hope you don't either.

Speaker 7 (15:21):
I don't believe you. But I deserve to be alone. Okay,
well he deserves to be alone with.

Speaker 1 (15:28):
There's gonna be a lot of people who want an
update on this story stuff, so so stay in.

Speaker 6 (15:31):
Contact with us. You give me one month, keep it
all right, Well, we'll talk to you in thirty days.

Speaker 7 (15:37):
Thank you your luck.

Speaker 4 (15:37):
Bib.

Speaker 3 (15:39):
No, bro, I'm not signing's issue.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
She actually stressed me out. He's not going.

Speaker 3 (15:45):
He's flying here with the PG. I love you. Get
on the PJ and go to Texas.

Speaker 4 (15:50):
And then come back and then and then and then
dooky on him on the airways.

Speaker 6 (15:54):
Talking about that and everything. We said, well, he did
get me this, he did give it. Please Mercedes in
a channel bag.

Speaker 2 (15:59):
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Speaker 5 (16:07):
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Speaker 8 (16:09):
Or five.

Speaker 4 (16:12):
Ball of y'all Happy Friday, Santi, What the hell is
going on out here?

Speaker 3 (16:17):
Man?

Speaker 4 (16:17):
I can't like what the hell it is going on
out here? It's just one after another after another. This
whole week has been plagued by celebrity deaths. It's almost
like NonStop on my timeline. First it was a guy
from the Cosby Show yeh, he drowned. Rip to him.
And then obviously the rock and roll gold himself, Ozzy Osmonde.

Speaker 3 (16:38):
He passed away the next day.

Speaker 4 (16:41):
I feel like and now one of our amur generation,
probably one of the biggest sports names in our generation.

Speaker 3 (16:47):
Absolutely like for the first two I not that he
didn't care, what didn't affect me. Hulk Hogan was a
representation of childhood for so many years.

Speaker 4 (16:56):
If your eighties nineties, maybe you're hurting right now, Yeah,
like it's been a rough week for you.

Speaker 3 (17:00):
Because even at that point, like wrestling was still somewhat
in your mind fake, where now it's more accepted and like,
you know, what's entertaining.

Speaker 4 (17:08):
So I think back that we thought it was real.
Well no, but that's what I like. As we started
to get hold and they started to expose him. But
back then we thought that was real combat.

Speaker 3 (17:16):
But the but the wrestlers were still for the most
part playing along like that like it was real. This
day and age they talk about it. But back then,
so like for me, like Hullhogan was like a hero.
He was unstoppable because he was doing things that nobody
else could do. He beat the.

Speaker 4 (17:30):
Giant and listen to me, And it's not just as
a child, even adults believe that wrestling was real. Let's
get a buck. Back then, they, like you said, they
played into the role problem. I mean, you're seeing blood.
How do you fake blood? Fake being splited? How do
you fake Big dropped from a cad I don't know
how many feet up in the air on to the ring,
But I know you were talking about it offline and
you said, like, like this this death really affected you.

Speaker 3 (17:50):
It did because I remember being ten and watching all
these things and it was the center of my world
at the time, and like I like vividly remember when
he slammed on and I was like, oh my god,
nobody has ever done that much. You don't understand that it
doesn't happen. It made him a model and all that,
Like it's like, how do you do that? But Hulk was.
Now I shouldn't be shocked because listen, the wrestlers of

(18:13):
that timeframe put their bodies to hell, not only physically
obviously with the steroids, and they were on the road
doing all sorts of drugs, du sex. Like they literally
were living rock and roll lives. Yes, now add the
physical part where they're getting their their their asses kicked
every single day. So to know that, to be shocked
that he died, like, I shouldn't be. But it's just

(18:35):
like my hero died. Oh yeah.

Speaker 4 (18:37):
And and then you know we've seen videos of him,
you know recent you know, in recent times, whether he's
walking on a boardwalk somewhere, he's doing whatever. I mean,
he still looked physically able, like he wasn't here with
an agent.

Speaker 3 (18:49):
He did. But if you watch his walk the last
couple of months, like it was like rough, Like yeah,
because he had surgery like six times a year, because
his back and his hits were so messed up.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
There's a movie I watched, I think earlier this year.
I forgot the name of it. It was about these wrestlers,
and it really was. It was based on a true
story about one of these kind of wrestlers, and that's
what it was. It showed like his timeline and how
he went from wanting to be in the in the
wrestling field and then his time as a superstar to
the things you gotta do again a lot of drugs,

(19:19):
bro Like, they pumped a lot of alcohol and drugs
into their body and a lot of time it was
to cope. And when you get bashed in the head,
we know that's a thing now, you know, you you
become a little you kind of become a little crazy.
But for Hunk Hulk Mania, I mean, I'm seeing him
ripping that shirt off. Do you know what we're talking about?

Speaker 1 (19:37):
Brother?

Speaker 3 (19:38):
Like, like he was an icon.

Speaker 4 (19:41):
There's no I'm trying to think of a bigger artist,
I mean, a bigger athlete other than let's say Michael
Jordan or something. But for him, it's like, you know,
big bug. The hair, the bandana was his look and
then he started doing the kind of the bleached hando
balls with the black bid like Hunk was like the guy,
he was an icon and I and he's gone, man,

(20:01):
and they said, I think it was a CARDI at
the rest. Yeah, all repeat to him. Uh, but let's
stop here. God, we're good, all right. Let's it's Friday.
We don't need no more debts for the rest of
the week. We are all right. But to all your
hulcomania's out there, man, Yeah, all right, Pea to a legend.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
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Speaker 1 (20:28):
Hi babes, good morning. We're checking in on you. Six
one seven, three one one four five. Kathy is in
southe Kathy, how are we doing?

Speaker 2 (20:38):
Hi?

Speaker 8 (20:39):
Ashley with to Eve. I love you guys so much.

Speaker 6 (20:42):
Oh Kathy, we love you too. Thanks for listening. You
have a you have a story to tell us about
your ex husband.

Speaker 8 (20:49):
I have a crazy story to share with the world
in you guys, tell us So I was with my
ex husband four fifteen years. We have three children together.
We met when we started DEED and we were like
in our early twenties, like it was my space des Wow.
So we had, you know, a very like up and
down relationship. A lot of a lot of damage was done,

(21:13):
a lot of cheating. And it's funny that Farman had
said yesterday, you know, people will treat you the way
you allow them to. It's so true. It's so true.
I allowed so much. Anyways, that's neither hand nor the
m So about a year and a half ago he
had gotten back into the Boil and Maker's Union. And
with this job, it's like three months on, three months off,

(21:36):
so you're away for three months and they could send
you like anywhere, so he would go to like Ohio, Missouri, Pennsylvania,
stuff like that. So he I was like, wherever you've
been saying, while you're out there, And he told me
that him and a coworker was here in the cost
of an airbnb, and I'm like, oh, that's it's not
that's good. So come to find out that's not what

(21:59):
they were doing, and he had rented it. So what
So this is first I seen an app on his
phone and the app was like women that are incarcerated
during time that are looking for somebody to write them.

Speaker 6 (22:12):
Jesus Christ.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
Was going there, like I saw this little app tender.

Speaker 10 (22:19):
Not like.

Speaker 8 (22:23):
Lot girl, So I was like, what is this app?
Like what what is First I deleted it and didn't
say anything because I was like, you know, I'm trying
to pick my battles. I'm trying not to be like
I'm trying to like drop him and knock on him.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
Like that's not even a battle, that's a war. But okay,
good for you. You're like love is love fighting.

Speaker 8 (22:45):
Right, So the app is back on the phone and
I'm like, what is this app? What is this app?
And he's telling me it's nothing, it's nothing. Well, come
to find out he was writing this girl. They stopped
his relationship. He had rented a three bedroom apartment for
her and her children to share out da when she
got out, and then he sent me divorce papers.

Speaker 6 (23:06):
Who this was a year and a half ago.

Speaker 8 (23:12):
This was like a year and a half ago. But
at the time I was dealing with like I had
just lost my oldest daughter to substance abews. Okay, yeah,
Like I had a big surgery coming up that literally
almost took my life. Like I was in the hospital
for three months. What was supposed to be four to
six weeks of downtime turned into four to six months
and then like money ran out. So now here we

(23:34):
uh fast forward all the time. We haven't seen or
heard from this man in over a year or at
least a year. It's been almost a year now, not
over a year, but almost the year now. He doesn't
even my oldest child has her own phone, Like, he
doesn't even call her, a text her, doesn't respond to
her at Christmas time? Nothing?

Speaker 6 (23:56):
Is he within the jail?

Speaker 4 (23:57):
Lady?

Speaker 6 (23:57):
Are they? Is he living in Missouri?

Speaker 8 (24:00):
And they're like posting their happy little photos all over
Facebook and and I'm just looking. I'm like, and then
they both blocked me, so I can't see anymore. But
I still have my ways, honey, and.

Speaker 3 (24:12):
I know you do.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Cass Hey, listen, I need to know what was her crime?

Speaker 6 (24:17):
Like what we're always talking about?

Speaker 8 (24:20):
What was I don't know what her would you say
what her chod was or whatever?

Speaker 2 (24:24):
Like what?

Speaker 8 (24:25):
I don't know. She hasn't had many conversations with me, Like.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
I was gonna say, the Google machine, Let's let's get
to the bottom of that.

Speaker 6 (24:35):
We'll do it for you.

Speaker 10 (24:37):
Wow.

Speaker 6 (24:38):
Honestly, the kid part is pissing me off.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
I mean, you know, you're a your grown woman and
it sucks and you'll figure it out. But to not
reach out to his kids.

Speaker 8 (24:45):
Like yeah, and you know what, and at first like
I'm not gonna lie, really was really hurt. Yes, we
have so many years together and all these kids, and
I'm like, I can't believe this, Like, but now I'm over.
And honestly, if he's happy, I'm happy for him. But
I six year old son especially is like upsests with
his dog like upsets, and he just every single day, faithfully,

(25:09):
he's like, I miss my I miss daddy. I miss daddy,
And I just say, I know, buddy, and you know what,
wherever he is, I know he misses you too. I
would never bad mouth him to my kids. That would
be not okay. I would never do that. They love
him so much and I know that he loves them.
I think he might be struggling with I think he
might have fallen back into his old waves, but also
with this chick, like you know, like he's any free

(25:31):
time he does have that he can get on social
media or whatever. I notice he's like writing messages to her,
and that's when I'm like I sat, do not feel
really too bad anymore about his issues.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
Well, I know what hurts me about it, cas is
you mentioned that she has kids too, So now here
he is with kids of his own, but he's playing
house in Missouri with the with the jail lady and
her kids and neglecting his own.

Speaker 8 (25:56):
Well, he has the thing right, like, so he gets
this big apartment for like her and her kids. But
I have not once, not one photo. And she posts
pictures of her and him, and they supposedly got married
like this, supposedly they did, so she but not one
picture of her and her kids. I don't even think
she has her kids to be really honest, if we

(26:17):
want to get really.

Speaker 6 (26:18):
Yeah, well, I mean depending on the crime.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
Hey, do you allow does his family reach out to
you and say I want to see the grandkids?

Speaker 6 (26:26):
Like you know what I mean?

Speaker 8 (26:29):
No, And his mother and I used to be really
close and her and I had a fallen out and
that's fine, But she doesn't even attempt to see my children,
her grandkids, like at all, she has even attempted.

Speaker 6 (26:41):
That's so weird that it's a shame. It is a shame.
How old are the kids?

Speaker 1 (26:45):
Said?

Speaker 6 (26:45):
I know you mentioned six, but.

Speaker 8 (26:47):
Yeah, so Sun Matthew is twelve, Mackenzie's ten, and TJ's six.

Speaker 1 (26:53):
Oh well, governments, that's awful, but that wow, But Kath,
you're not lying.

Speaker 6 (26:58):
That is a legit lifetime movie right there.

Speaker 7 (27:01):
It really is like it's kanity.

Speaker 8 (27:03):
It's like crazy and this girls like literally thinks that,
like she got the greatest thing on earth and I'm like, listen,
like you know what I mean and don't. And then
she tried to come to me and my kids and
I'm like.

Speaker 1 (27:16):
Cas, there is no way she thinks she got the
greatest man on the planet when he doesn't even he's
a father and he doesn't fathers the ones.

Speaker 8 (27:25):
That can't buy a man that doesn't even take care
of his children. Yeah, volumes for the type of person
you want.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
I know, well, I know I don't need to ask
this because I feel like you would have said it.

Speaker 6 (27:37):
But he's clearly not helping financially.

Speaker 8 (27:39):
Correct, No, not even a little bit o.

Speaker 1 (27:43):
Man, Cath, I'm sorry, Uh, if you want us to
Santi'll pay for it, and if you want us to
get to the bottom of it, we'll find out her
crime that we could do that for you.

Speaker 6 (27:51):
So you just had on the line there. Yeah, don't
go anywhere.

Speaker 3 (27:54):
The best thing about is that the guy. The guy
has a type. He was seeking out a co being
left full convict in jail.

Speaker 2 (28:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (28:04):
Bro, that's like all these other things that I've said
before that would hurt me, and that would be that
would send me.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
Seriously, like you survive that, Like he wants a batty,
like a true one.

Speaker 3 (28:18):
Oh my god, if.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
You're on hold, don't go anywhere six one seven nine
three one one nine four five six one seven nine
three one one nine four five.

Speaker 6 (28:28):
How the hell are you? I know you're better than Kathy.
What's going on? I stop your armor today?

Speaker 1 (28:36):
Chilling and vibe in like this man thinks he has
something over here. You're not cool if you just copy
Forn like that's you just scare him.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
It's not cool. Thorn's hipmen. That's that. That That is
my lifeline to hit this.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
Santi's in the kitchen with Joanne, Like, have you seen
my latest Instagram?

Speaker 6 (28:51):
It's a movie?

Speaker 3 (28:53):
Yeah, sicko.

Speaker 6 (28:57):
By the way, we tried.

Speaker 1 (28:58):
We Kathy didn't have much agains because you already know
I was gonna report to you guys what this woman's
crime was, but she had nothing.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
She had his married her, she had like the chick's
married name.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
If that is me, I'm going to Missouri and I'm
I will find out the woman's CVS.

Speaker 6 (29:13):
That she goes to. I have to know the answer
it's been Anyways, we digress. We're moving on. Uh, let's
check in with Gwen in Fall River. Gwen, who's pregnant?

Speaker 10 (29:24):
Hi, my cousin.

Speaker 6 (29:27):
Oh this is exciting right?

Speaker 7 (29:29):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (29:30):
Yeah, but I.

Speaker 10 (29:31):
Found out that I was pregnant and me and my
fiance went out to eat one day. Our whole family
knows at this point. Mind you, my cousin's boyfriend is
my fiance's best friend. We all went to school together
minus my cousin. Okay, so we all have a relationship
like me, my fiance and his best friend. We're basically

(29:54):
all best friends built in one. You know, there's no
secret to be kept, anything like Hills tell us anything
like That's what you know.

Speaker 8 (30:02):
We love about him.

Speaker 10 (30:03):
He's very open, he's very honest, and he couldn't obviously
keep a secret from my fiance, and my fiance couldn't
keep that secret from me. So one day we were
at a restaurant, me and my fiance. We went out
to eat and my fiance was like, I need to
tell you something, and I was like what, Like, what's

(30:23):
the matter? Like, I was just like freaking out, like
what are you keeping from me?

Speaker 4 (30:27):
You know?

Speaker 10 (30:28):
And he was like, your cousin is pregnant. And I
literally looked at him in shock because I told them
when we were like literally just pregnant, like we were
so excited, and they were the first people that we told.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
Okay, I can hear that there's a little bit of
anger in your voice about the fact that she hasn't told.
There could be there could be a magnitude of reasons
why she she's not telling you. Maybe she miscarried and
she wants to keep it to herself until she feels safe.
I don't know, bouncing idea.

Speaker 10 (31:01):
She has a six year old son, and that's my
god son. So that's why I'm kind of upset, is
because me and her have always had a relationship growing up, Gwen,
and we've always told each other everything.

Speaker 3 (31:13):
When Gwen, you're making this about yourself, it's really not
about you. Clearly there's a reason why she's holding back
that information, and maybe at some point she's gonna tell you,
but don't internalize it is making about you. Yeah no, no.

Speaker 10 (31:24):
No, that's not no, that's not what I'm like referring to.
But the only thing why I'm upset is his whole
family knows. Okay, his whole family knows. And I'm like
towards the end of pregnancy. So she's only three months
three months like after me, So she's clearly half almost

(31:47):
halfway too, So like, what's the big secret?

Speaker 2 (31:51):
You know?

Speaker 10 (31:53):
I want to so bad? So here's another quick there's
another quick story going on. We supposed to like a
birthday party and it was about her fiance, her boyfriend's brother.
It was his birthday party. We were all together, and
she gave me such a think guy when I walked

(32:14):
in and didn't talk for the whole party. So obviously
I didn't. I didn't say anything because obviously I'm upset
because she didn't tell her family.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
Maybe she doesn't like snitches.

Speaker 10 (32:26):
Yeah, I wasn't gonna. I mean, I just I wanted
her to tell me at least, because no I told
you something like that's so important, you know.

Speaker 1 (32:39):
I mean, listen, I'll be honest with you. I don't
know what her history is. I don't know why she's
not telling But I didn't tell some people in my
family that I was pregnant until I was six months six,
So like I think, to each their own, we don't know.
We don't know what's going on with her. But I
to Santi's point, like it really like that baby could
could come on out, and she may not. She still

(33:01):
may not have told you that her timeline is her timeline.
You can you can't let it bother you and get
in your head because guess what, You're about to have
a baby and you're they're already stressed.

Speaker 4 (33:09):
So Gwen is coming from you shared something important with her.
But you know, in life going, we got to stop
putting expectations of what other people should act the way
we do. You act the way you do, and let
her do her thing. If she doesn't want to say anything,
it's up to her. I don't think you should go
tell the family if she doesn't want to. She has
a reason why she hasn't said anything. You don't know it, Oh.

Speaker 10 (33:29):
No, like I know, like I'm I was just speechless
at the point where like you know, like how you said,
like I told her in the beginning, We've always had
a relationship and then just for her not to tell
you know, it's like I'm finding different things out from
different people.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Right, No, And I know that's hurtful for sure, especially because,
like Boren said, you confided in her. But I think
concentrate on your pregnancy getting everything ready.

Speaker 6 (33:55):
Is this your first baby? Yes, so this is so exciting.
Congrats girl. You're not gonna have time to.

Speaker 1 (34:00):
Think about anything else in a month or so, so
just just you know, gear up for the baby because
life is about to change.

Speaker 6 (34:08):
Don't worry about your cousin.

Speaker 7 (34:10):
Yeah, all right, all right, you're welcome.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
Good luck something happened between them, because pregnant in life
like that, though that expect you. Because I did this
for you, you should do the same thing. The life
works right now. You might confide in me and cool,
thank you, but I.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
Might not want to talk about it and and like
females were different, like it would hurt you know, like
it would hurt me if I found out like Jody
kept something from me.

Speaker 3 (34:35):
It would.

Speaker 6 (34:36):
But I also would say something to Jody for sure, correct,
Like you should.

Speaker 1 (34:41):
Go to yeah, what's up? What did I do? Why
are you upset? Like I want to support you through
this pregnancy. Why are you not telling whatever the case
may be, I wouldn't like I wouldn't you know, And like.

Speaker 3 (34:51):
What's up with that bump? Yeahnt you have a.

Speaker 6 (34:55):
Basketball shape thing going on?

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Then you can't say that's people anymore. You know what
you can't that's a roll of the dice. It's a
roll of the dice.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Say in the jam In Morning shot with d J
four and it's Saunty Warning.

Speaker 5 (35:08):
Bustin's number one for hip hop, dam In ninety four
or five.

Speaker 3 (35:15):
Whatever, y'all.

Speaker 4 (35:15):
Happy Friday. Sante's Friday.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
Man.

Speaker 3 (35:18):
I know it's gonna be a hot day out here,
but it's Friday. We made it. I am so I
say this like every week, but I'm always exhausted by
the end of the week.

Speaker 4 (35:25):
And then but for you, then you gotta just go
keep I mean, I know I work, but you gotta.
You got kids. You gotta get up at six in
the morning and drive them to East.

Speaker 3 (35:33):
I don't know where.

Speaker 4 (35:34):
Tomorrow we're going to Providence. Were two baseball games and
eleven Oh my god. And from you to Providence is
what a two hour drive? No, it's an hour and
a half. So you got to make me a promise,
because I know you haven't heard it until I just
played it. You gotta you gotta at least give Drake
two three streams for actually fine, fine, Drake just dropped
the new song. It's called which One. I actually like
this one too. I don't hate it. It's not it's

(35:56):
not listened to me. It's not Drizzy Drake that you
know he knows what he's doing. Let me just say
that way. It's a club record. He's already telling girls
to put their hands on the DJ booth and start
tworking and do whatever. So you know what kind of
record it is? Again?

Speaker 3 (36:10):
Is it?

Speaker 4 (36:10):
Is it something that's gonna be long lasting for Drake?
Is this gonna last like three four months now? I
think the end of the summer. We'll talk about something else.
But yeah, which One just world premiered by the way
I played it in the mix. In case you didn't
hear it, you could always run that back up on
the podcast. But yeah, man, so you you kind of
okay with it? I'm fine with it.

Speaker 3 (36:26):
Like again, I wasn't the biggest straight guy, but from
what you guys all talk about, he seems to have
his swagger back, right. But listen, chink in the arm
right a little bit, but he's trying to work and
I can feel that there.

Speaker 4 (36:37):
Yes, okay, that's what I wanted to talk about. He
is trying to get back into people's good graces. Yeah,
so you know he's showing off his plane again remodel
for however many million dollars. You know he wented did
the concert out in in euro of what he brought
everybody out in their mother on stage. Of course he
dropped the other single worded I missed, which is a
big record, But yeah, which one? I'm not mad at
it again? I know if I played it tonight in

(36:58):
the club, they chicks gonna do what they need to
do because it's got a nice bop. I'm gonna say that.
And by the way, it features Central C who's also
from the UK. So in case you missed it, like
I said, I'm sure we'll play back in the mix
or listen tonight. I'm gonna be back in the mix
to night for the Friday Night throw Down. I'm gonna
run it up in there as well. But yeah, Drake,
which one we want to hear what y'all think about it?
At Astley two E's in the am tap In. Santi says, it's.

Speaker 2 (37:22):
In the morning show with d J four and it's
sat Morning.

Speaker 5 (37:26):
Bussin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four
or five.

Speaker 6 (37:33):
Hi, everybody in the morning.

Speaker 1 (37:35):
I'm gonna set this up by asking you for in
a couple of questions.

Speaker 6 (37:41):
You live with who do you live with?

Speaker 3 (37:44):
My son and my cat?

Speaker 1 (37:45):
Okay, do you share anything with your son in the house?

Speaker 3 (37:51):
Share?

Speaker 6 (37:52):
Yeah, Like, list a couple of things that you guys share.

Speaker 3 (37:55):
I mean, whatever's in the fridge for the most.

Speaker 6 (37:57):
Okay, food, yeah, okay, any clothing.

Speaker 3 (38:01):
We used to not really anymore.

Speaker 1 (38:03):
And if you did share clothing, like you might exchange
a hoodie okay, shoes Okay.

Speaker 4 (38:08):
We're definitely different, different in size, but with the same
size and shoes, but weight was were different, So yeah, shoes,
he might wear my shoes.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
Never. That's that's gross. Why would I do that? That
is who does that? Please don't tell me this guy
does that? Man? Yeah, I think it's fine.

Speaker 6 (38:31):
The way this happened was I said I complimented his hoodie.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
I said, Oh, I really like that brown color on you.
That's like a nice neutral palette. It's like a skims
their mind two skims. He goes, it's it is skims.
I said, the quality is not there.

Speaker 6 (38:41):
I know it's not. Well no, he goes, actually, this
is this is my son's.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
I go, oh, you're stealing hoodies from your son and
he goes, well, yeah, I mean whatever.

Speaker 6 (38:50):
We's like we.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
He's liked. Yeah, I mean we share a lot, like well,
we share underwear too, like we'll just that's crazy.

Speaker 3 (39:00):
Why is it crazyear gets honestly not right.

Speaker 1 (39:04):
It's uncomfortable and there's something I am. I am really
trying to be respectful here. I don't want you to think,
but there's something off about that house.

Speaker 6 (39:14):
Like that house.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
That house gives like the Hills have eyes for me
because that's not the only thing. They share underwear, but
they also remember form don't forget him and Joanne share
one toothbrush.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
There's multiple wit.

Speaker 4 (39:29):
Crazy, but they are people who kind of feel like
they're won because they share the same toothbrush what they loved.

Speaker 3 (39:35):
Multiple.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
I don't want to be one with anybody crazy because
because let's not act like you can't get a five
for six dollars pack of toothbrush.

Speaker 3 (39:44):
Wait, there's multiple, but sometimes we just picked the one
that's right there, and sometimes I pick it up and
it is wet. It's still because you just used that,
especially the weekend.

Speaker 6 (39:52):
Make me one.

Speaker 3 (39:53):
Yeah, so we share that in it.

Speaker 1 (39:55):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (39:56):
I just like, can you, I mean, can you? Guys not?
You can afford everybody can get their own underwear want to.
I'm just making know.

Speaker 3 (40:06):
We live in a house of six, so, like, the
laundry is a big deal in our house. So it's
just easier to fold them up and just divvy up
where the underwear goes. That's what I'm saying. It's a laziness.
I stand with who folds the laundry? Joanne? Does Joanne
step your game?

Speaker 6 (40:21):
Joanne? Do separate?

Speaker 3 (40:23):
Plyer Like that's besides the point. The fact is it's
not discussing.

Speaker 6 (40:28):
He's a high school kid. He's skids nothing.

Speaker 3 (40:32):
High school definitely he.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
Is, like I'm sorry, he's not above all of the
other high school boys. High school boys leave skinners, like
you know they definitely. I'm sorry, I don't it's no.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
Do that. Okay, fine, but let's just say they get washed,
like taking them and then they're like freshly worn. They
get washed. I don't think it's like that big of
a thing.

Speaker 6 (40:55):
It is like it's strange. I'ma be honest, it's strange.

Speaker 1 (40:59):
It's really like did you see forearn had no idea
we're going to talk about this. I asked him genuinely,
and he said his that's nasty.

Speaker 3 (41:06):
Yeah, because it is. It's just not like I would
prefer him not to have my underwear on, but it
just happens, and it's just I'm just used to all
of it.

Speaker 6 (41:15):
You learn this right now.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
No, I'm wearing mine, but I see well because because
because he's one of mine.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
But do you know the difference is has like little
cartoons on the exactly.

Speaker 3 (41:28):
Honestly, I don't even know anymore, Like I don't know what.

Speaker 4 (41:33):
Because you guys just throw them all together, these positive questions.

Speaker 3 (41:37):
That's your wife and the girls. No, no, no, no, no, j.

Speaker 1 (41:41):
I want to like I am sick, but I have
to imagine anybody.

Speaker 3 (41:46):
But this doesn't happen like in like female homes.

Speaker 6 (41:49):
No you do not, Okay, watch this.

Speaker 1 (41:52):
Aj you live with your sister, Do you share songs
and boys shorts and undies with your sister?

Speaker 6 (41:58):
Absolutely not. Would rather die.

Speaker 1 (42:00):
I'd rather say no one to wear before, I would
literally say no. Before I just no one to wear.
I would be sensory the worst place.

Speaker 3 (42:12):
But the.

Speaker 4 (42:17):
Really, I mean, if you're sharing with the toothbrush with
your kids, that's different with your loved on yahya kiss
each other.

Speaker 6 (42:24):
And I don't want to get.

Speaker 3 (42:26):
Do you share the toothbrush with your kids? There have
been times I've been in the downstairs bathroom and.

Speaker 1 (42:34):
Eyes hills have eyes everybody, good morning.

Speaker 6 (42:39):
It's actually the gym of morning. So listen.

Speaker 1 (42:41):
I don't even know how these things come up in here,
but we we learned something new every day on this show.

Speaker 4 (42:48):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
Santi was telling me how he exchanges hoodies with his son,
which I think that's fine, that's normal.

Speaker 6 (42:54):
I was, okay, I could only stop stop trying that.
You're getting defensive.

Speaker 1 (42:59):
I'm not one can only assume that when when my
girls grow up and they wear sweatshirts, that they'll probably
steal some of mine. That's I think that is completely different.
Because then he rolled into yeah, I mean we share
underwear too. Something's off in that house and it's it, well,
it is because you guys also share toothbrushes. It's no,
it's it's just weird and it's okay, Like you guys

(43:22):
are into some things that no one else is.

Speaker 3 (43:25):
You're making it seem like it's some weird like incest
thing or something like the tone that you're adding on
is making it very weird for like the people, But
it's not odd.

Speaker 1 (43:36):
Just so you don't think I didn't give the number
because honestly, I know people would come for you, and
I don't you know, I'm gonna but talkbacks were open
and they were free, and people did them.

Speaker 6 (43:48):
So let's run through a few of these.

Speaker 7 (43:50):
I fetched the tail end of that.

Speaker 10 (43:52):
I'm not sure what's going on, but I think that.

Speaker 3 (43:55):
They need some lessons in hygiene.

Speaker 2 (43:58):
It doesn't go to like full maybe and try on
their clothes underwear. I feel like I remember that.

Speaker 6 (44:04):
Yeah I can.

Speaker 2 (44:06):
Yeah, we need to teach him.

Speaker 1 (44:07):
Okay, well, you know, I don't know what do you
guys want him to wear no underwear or him to
wear his sons? Like what are your those are your options?
He's wearing someone else's underwear.

Speaker 3 (44:15):
Yeah, And by the way, I do that because that
way you can get the true fit of the denim
with with with without the underwear before the geenes are broken.

Speaker 1 (44:23):
I like how he's saying the denim as if he's
going to like, I don't know, Chanel.

Speaker 2 (44:29):
Keep going, Santie is really giving.

Speaker 9 (44:35):
I slipped with my cousin, thought, that's that's what comes
to mind. He said, this crazy stuff that goes on.

Speaker 6 (44:48):
That's why I said the hills have eyes.

Speaker 1 (44:50):
I didn't want like, I didn't want to come right
out and say giving Alabama.

Speaker 3 (44:53):
But it's not the same thing. No, no, no, no, no no.
Which which, by the way, my grandparents were first cousins.
And I told you and I told you guys, this makes.

Speaker 6 (45:03):
Sense, like if it were like the worst, it's what
your family does.

Speaker 1 (45:13):
Does any part of this make you want to be like, oh,
maybe it.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
Is none at all, none at all. I live in
my life. Fine, I am happy and we are good good.

Speaker 4 (45:22):
A dentist says you should not do it because of
just how much bacteria and viruses in individuals mouths.

Speaker 3 (45:30):
So for you guys, let alone their buttholes. I mean,
what the hell a dentist is somebody who failed that
medical school and just resorted to teeth.

Speaker 1 (45:38):
Yeah, now I picture that home in Hollis to have
like Mason jars filled with eyeballs. You know and maybe
or maybe like a dollar or two with their arms
ripped off, come play.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
Show with d J Feign's cousin's.

Speaker 5 (45:58):
Number one for him.

Speaker 4 (46:00):
In the Happy Friday she got foreign Chartie holding down
for our Queen Ashley. She's out sick today. Prayers up
for her. She's gonna be I and the back next week.
I wanted her to be here for this convo song. Yeah,
because I feel like, finally, finally we're talking about the
other side of this problem. I feel like, and if

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y'all don't know what we're talking about, we're talking about
this cold played incident for anybody who might not know.
I don't know how you don't know it, but you know,
a couple guys caught on the cold play cam here
in Boston and they got exposed for having an affair
because one of them was the CEO of a company,
which was the guy, and the woman was ahead of
his h R. And they both had married families and

(46:44):
all these things going on. He has since stepped down
as the CEO of the company. They replaced him quick
and then a snap of a finger, they had a
new guy. I mean they had to do it fast, quickly.
But now and I feel like, and this is why
I wanted Ashley to be here. Ca Son, tell me
you feel the same way. I feel like the guy
got flamed a lot flamed, like we were exposing him, like, yeah,

(47:05):
the ceo, he's got a wife and kids, how could
he do that today?

Speaker 3 (47:09):
But nobody really talked about the lady like that. Well
they didn't until it came out that she was married,
but she didn't get it, didn't get Yeah.

Speaker 4 (47:16):
Yes, but now news has come out and we we
we verified this, so it's not fake news because there's
a lot of fake news around this story. But she
now has has also stepped down, as I don't even
think stepped down. She's left the company, right.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
I mean she resigned so yeah, so technically yes, yeah,
so her and him are completely like done with them,
the ceo, the guy, but he's still gonna be super
rich because I'm assuming he owns a ton of stock
in that company. For her, I guarantee that she got
a nice little payout from who from the from the company?
Ye not what to not speak not sue to not

(47:51):
speak on anything. Why was she so? Why would she
because like, can you get technically fired for having an
affair good. I mean, can you LUs it's in the
bylaws right?

Speaker 2 (48:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (48:02):
A lot of a lot of companies don't like that.
A lot of companies don't want you to to kind
of do that kind of thing on the workplace. But
maybe to me, I don't see how she sues because
you knowingly were participating. It's something that you knew you
shouldn't have been doing if it's our bylaws of our company.

Speaker 3 (48:14):
Okay, she couldn't easily and not saying she was going
to do this, turn this whole thing around and said
the power dynamic. I felt pressure to have this affair.
She could, so she could have said that. So it's
just an easy way for the company and be like, listen,
take this money, walk away, and we're not going to
talk about this. I like where you're going with it.

Speaker 4 (48:30):
I think also, instead of firing her, which wu looked
bad for everybody, just quit, just retire, quit, you go
your way.

Speaker 3 (48:37):
We're going to chill.

Speaker 4 (48:38):
So it doesn't look like therese any you know, anything
nefarious that went on with you all, Noddy, you saw
it on the JumboTron. But yeah, so it looks like
both people now out of a job all over a
Coldplay concert being caught on cam. Now these pictures have
you seen them? These now pictures of Coldplay on stage
and in the background small off top you see them

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to just standing there by themselves.

Speaker 3 (49:01):
They had a nice sweep. They definitely which By the way,
I saw a picture of the girl yesterday. She was
watering her flowers. So the one who just resigned, what
the female she's watering her flowers? That caught her at
her house. Now, I didn't see any evidence of her
still being in the house with the husband, but like,
obviously she's devastated, but she was watering her flowers. I

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don't know.

Speaker 2 (49:25):
In the Morning Show with d J four and it's
saw t Morning Bustin's number.

Speaker 5 (49:30):
One for hip hop jam in ninety four or five.

Speaker 1 (49:35):
Had sent me this and I was, I was, this
is kind of crazy to me that this woman didn't
think that this was.

Speaker 6 (49:43):
A big deal.

Speaker 3 (49:44):
It's upsetting. This is a fob.

Speaker 6 (49:46):
Yeah, but in the comment section she was getting defended. Really,
who are these people?

Speaker 3 (49:51):
Are people still the same way as she does?

Speaker 1 (49:53):
Yeah, it said my husband is making us fly home
from our honeymoon after one day because he found out
I sent my ex a simple goodbye text on the
morning of our wedding. It was a goodbye text for
goodness sake, not an I will always love you text,
not a drop everything and meet me at the altar text.

(50:13):
I needed to say goodbye to have closure on the
unmarried part of my life. Please tell me, my sensitive
nostalgic girlies understand, No.

Speaker 3 (50:23):
That closure should have come the moment you met your
husband and broke up all the ax about That's when
that was there, not on your wedding day or before that.
That's an issue that gives me the feeling like she
still has feelings for him. And then now it's like that.

Speaker 4 (50:35):
All you saying you had a chance until we went
on a hundred yes once I said I do. Now
I'm closing the door on you completely.

Speaker 6 (50:41):
This is what I find a text like that.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
I'm like, that actually might make me physically ill, like
I might vomit, because absolutely that means that that man
was on her mind on her wedding day, like no matter, well,
I don't care what the text, that you were thinking
about him enough to reach out and say goodbye.

Speaker 3 (50:59):
I would go far as to say that's worse than
a cheat, Like if my wife cheated, had one night flame,
this would hurt me like a lot more.

Speaker 10 (51:06):
Well.

Speaker 1 (51:06):
It also it opens up such a can of worms
because you're like, Okay, if you had to say goodbye
to him, do y'all.

Speaker 6 (51:11):
Speak every day? What's your relationship?

Speaker 4 (51:14):
There's got to be a relationship, right because if you're like, yo, goodbye,
meaning like leave me alone from this point on, that's
how I take it. If you're telling to me like that,
like I had to give closure because now we're married
one on a honeymoon, that means you needed to let
him know I'm done, I'm off the market for real,
for real. It was nice knowing you have a good night.
No no, bro. When I'm playing that game.

Speaker 3 (51:33):
It seems like the closure is on her end of things.
That's what I'm saying. I had to say goodbye to
her single partner or what I'm like, yeah, like.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
Yeah, that's kind of how I read it too. I
had to say goodbye to that part of my life.

Speaker 3 (51:44):
This one is the IRA, by the way, I.

Speaker 1 (51:47):
So stand with him. And first off, you're gonna send
that text and then not to lead it?

Speaker 6 (51:54):
Are you that stupid? Are you? That's yes, you are
you are?

Speaker 1 (51:57):
But now they're on their honeymoon and he sees that
text and she's mad that he wants to fly home.
What you hey, you better hope it's just that he
wants to fly home and not that he wants to
leave you. Because I don't I can't possibly see anybody
calling in to defend this said.

Speaker 3 (52:12):
The comments were defending.

Speaker 1 (52:13):
Yes, there were girls being like to that, to that
point of like, well she you know, she just needed
to say goodbye, close that chapter of her life, the single, unmarried,
and I.

Speaker 3 (52:25):
Bet you those are a bunch of females, right.

Speaker 4 (52:27):
I would love for them to reverse the roles and
have their husbands or their boyfriends do the same thing.

Speaker 3 (52:32):
No, I'm telling you how y'all be like what? No,
this is crazy if you're sending that text and that
makes me feel like he's the one that got away,
He's the one that you're still thinking about.

Speaker 1 (52:41):
If you saw that text right before you were about
to walk down the aisle, would you cancel the wedding?

Speaker 4 (52:47):
I don't know if that was the explanation I got yes,
Like when I say, why did you?

Speaker 3 (52:51):
Hell?

Speaker 6 (52:52):
Yesus, I got to close that part of my life.

Speaker 3 (52:54):
So done done. The one thing I'm struggling with is
that there's a wedding and there's embarrassment the way to leave,
and then they ask so I don't know if I
just eat it and deal with it afterwards, That's what
I'm feeling, and then get it annulled. Yes, yeah, because
at least you don't have to tell everybody and then
go through that. Fine, but that's better than them there before.

(53:15):
And then then start asking like.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Why this reminds me of I've I've randomly thought of
myself in this hypothetical situation where a guy proposes to
me that I don't want to get married to.

Speaker 6 (53:27):
If people are watching, I'm saying, yes, you have to.
I'm saying yes on the spot. And then we're getting
in the car and I'm going I don't want.

Speaker 3 (53:33):
This, yeah, or we need to talk.

Speaker 6 (53:35):
Yeah, I'm not like the embarrassment of that.

Speaker 2 (53:39):
Yeah, yeah, you know.

Speaker 1 (53:40):
And then as soon as we getting car, it's it's
it's a hard no for me, sir, But I yeah,
there's situations like that that public of it.

Speaker 6 (53:47):
I'm saying, I might, I might walk on down and
then we'll figure it out.

Speaker 3 (53:50):
Yeah, the honeymoon's canceled, and then I don't know if
I divorced, but we're gonna have some serious talks. Ya.

Speaker 1 (53:57):
Can anybody defend? Can anybody defend? Or has anybody been
through or heard or anything? A text message to your
ex right before you walk down the aisle saying goodbye.
I mean six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. She really thought she had something with that too,
six one seven nine three one one nine four five.

(54:20):
Sending your ex a text to say goodbye on your
wedding day. Well, hi everybody, good morning. Imagine you're on
your honeymoon. You go through your significant other's phone.

Speaker 6 (54:31):
Which, by the way, red flag by the way.

Speaker 1 (54:34):
Ah, and you find a text from your new wife
to her ex boyfriend saying goodbye. Now she's trying to
defend it. She said, it wasn't and I'll always love you.
It wasn't a drop everything and meet me at the altar.
It was just goodbye because I had to say closure
on the unmarried part of my life.

Speaker 3 (54:56):
That's just heartbreaking.

Speaker 6 (54:57):
That's lake sad vomit.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
Yeah, like.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
You see that before you walk down the aisle. There
is like form was like I'm calling it off. There
are some people who would really call off their wedding.
Alas in Boston. Al, remember we can't curse, we're live
on the rag. Oh I'll hung up. So what happened?

Speaker 3 (55:15):
My god?

Speaker 4 (55:16):
Al said that he he received that text before from
one of his exes. They had broken up, They had
a toxic relationship, they hadn't talked for a while, and
from what he remembers, he was still trying to get
with it every once in a while, and then when
she finally moved on and you know, found somebody else,
she hit him with the you know goodbye, like we
got we gotta end this right here. But he says
that was grinding. It's absolutely grinding for anybody to do that.

Speaker 1 (55:38):
It's diabolical, Like it's again, it just makes me feel
like I'm not the only thing on your mind that day, which.

Speaker 3 (55:45):
Is so weird. Nobody can occupy you spend Yeah.

Speaker 1 (55:48):
Not on our wedding day. Devin is in Maldon. Dev
you obviously think the timing is horrible, but you somehow
feel like the text, like you can digest the text?

Speaker 11 (56:02):
Yes, can you hear me?

Speaker 6 (56:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (56:04):
Okay?

Speaker 8 (56:05):
Perfect?

Speaker 11 (56:05):
Yeah, See I have an ex relationship like that and
we're friends and I would never think of him on
my wedding day.

Speaker 7 (56:11):
I believe me.

Speaker 11 (56:12):
I did not, But I get her feelings on at
some point thinking about it and saying goodbye to her
single life, just not on your wedding day, girl. And again,
like you said, if you did delete the text, like,
what are you doing so I can feel I can
feel all of your I get all of your opinions.
But when I giggled when you said, I feel like

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girls are the only ones defending her, so I want to.

Speaker 8 (56:35):
Half defend her, if that makes sense.

Speaker 11 (56:38):
But I get the emotions and I get still thinking
about the X on occasion, but not on your wedding day.

Speaker 6 (56:45):
Interesting, All right, Dave, as.

Speaker 11 (56:46):
Soon as you put that ring on your finger, you're done.

Speaker 6 (56:49):
Yeah, You're done.

Speaker 11 (56:50):
This whole sense, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (56:51):
I get it, this whole sentiment of like saying goodbye
to your single self.

Speaker 3 (56:56):
I don't like, what does that mean?

Speaker 1 (56:57):
I Once I start getting in a relationship with somebody
and it's serious and I'm thinking future and stuff, I'm
not worried about this.

Speaker 6 (57:05):
I was trying to get actually away from being single.

Speaker 3 (57:08):
Just give me all This makes me feel like she
is settling for her husband and the one that she
wanted to be with is the one that she was texting.
And I feel like a lot of people are in
this situation. I've told you this before. I have a
friend that's married, and in her mind, she was still
going to be where their acts at some point, and that,
to me gives me the same feeling. Here. Wait, what
so a friend of mine is married, she's been married

(57:29):
for like a while, they have kids and everything. She
was still under the belief that at some point she
was going to get divorced and be with her acts,
because that's who she really wanted to be with her
entire life.

Speaker 6 (57:38):
And she confided this, Yeah, it's our.

Speaker 3 (57:42):
Old friend from our old town. So they were telling
us this and she was. She she actually told my
wife this. My wife told me this. But I'm friends
with all of them. But yeah, it's like, it's.

Speaker 6 (57:50):
Really sad, so sad for the husband. Sad.

Speaker 4 (57:55):
Let's get a bad rip out in these streets. We
women are diable. You can tell when she talks about
the ax. She talks with them with a certain tone
in her voice. Oh my god, it's so different. But
her husband hates them, hates the man, but not the
same tone, which means the ex like probably doesn't want
her and she wants him, and so she went and
settled for something else. In the meantime, I'm a whole

(58:16):
lot here and waste your time until my guy comes
back and tells me he wants me.

Speaker 3 (58:20):
They still communicate, they do. The ax knows what he's doing.
So yeah, yeah, So I think people out there settling
and just not being with the ones that meant to
be with.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
Worse, there could be a whole nother scenario in which
you keep the exes close to you, because if they're
close to you, then you can kind of keep like
a watchful eye on them. Like, for instance, going to
a dentist that your ex that is one of your.

Speaker 3 (58:47):
This was a specific it's it's it's my wife. What
my wife goes to a dentist that she used to date,
and like, that's a guy who's in her mouth like
the guys she used to day. Jesus, when you say
it like that, I don't want you might want to

(59:09):
cut that off.

Speaker 6 (59:10):
They got the dentist.

Speaker 4 (59:11):
Jesus, guy, hold your wife's ex is in her mouth
on the dentist.

Speaker 3 (59:17):
Don't say it like that. You can say the different way.

Speaker 6 (59:20):
Her teeth are cleaning you.

Speaker 3 (59:21):
Guys, holds of down.

Speaker 2 (59:27):
In the morning show with t J fourign it's Saunty Morning.

Speaker 5 (59:31):
Sustin's number one for hip hop. She ham in ninety four.

Speaker 4 (59:33):
Or five, just like that man on on Friday and
my god, shawnty holding it down for our girl Ashley.
By the way, please everybody go show some love to
actually had the actually too easy and the am got
hit with a stomach bug. She hasn't recovered yet, but
you know, I think it's it's well deserved rest. She's
been up early with the kids, running around doing all

(59:55):
kinds of things, especially in this heat.

Speaker 3 (59:56):
Don't nobody want to come to work, bro? Yeah, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (01:00:00):
Enjoyed the long weekend. We'll see her back on Monday.
We'll see y'all back on Monday. But other than that, yes,
thank you for ridding shocking with me and my bro Santy.
What are your shoutout?

Speaker 3 (01:00:08):
One shout out going on to Ashley's stomach, who is
punging in all directions right now and hopefully by the
weekend it settles down. She's gonna lose some weight anyway
for me.

Speaker 4 (01:00:20):
You already know it's the weekend, so tonight it's a
sold out event, all white event.

Speaker 3 (01:00:25):
Shout to my Haitians.

Speaker 4 (01:00:26):
Man, I don't even know why I'm plugging it because
it's sold out, so y'all can't get in anyway, So
we'll just move on to Saturday. Saturday, We're gonna be
at Urban Wild from about eight to eleven, and then
right after that, I'm heading down to Tesco Bar in
Low Mass for Low folk.

Speaker 3 (01:00:40):
Fest, which is a time. Have you ever been to
a folk fest?

Speaker 10 (01:00:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:00:44):
Years ago, time, bro.

Speaker 4 (01:00:45):
That place is packed and just it's it's booze flown everywhere.
It's a good vibe. So if you want to come
celebrate full Facts with us, folk Fest with us. Then
on Saturday, I'm going to be at Tesco Ball at
DJ form for more details. Otherwise that's actually too easy
in the am. Check out the podcast and make sure
you follow the I G page. Y'all to be good,
y'all be blessed, aunt to anything else.

Speaker 3 (01:01:05):
No, I'm good. We're gone.