He Cheats But I Love Him pt. 1

Some serious trash problems about to hit Boston.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake yo, Hi everybody. Tuesday, and the fourth of July
is literally just days away.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
The four crazy the fireworks are already starting.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
I could literally care less about fireworks. I've said this
a million times. I genuinely believe, even at a young age,
once you see them, you're good once.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah, because they really they haven't really evolved. Like they've
done little things to make them, like do special signs
or pictures and all that stuff. But they're the same thing,
and they've been the same thing for forty years.

Speaker 1 (00:44):
They start at the bottom, they go up usually they
look like confetti.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
Yeah, and then there's a big finale. It's the same thing.

Speaker 1 (00:51):
I have said this about myself before. I'm not really
sure what it is, but I have this. I give
something off where I will know somebody not well and
they'll tell me some sort of secret that they have
or like something that has happened to them. And I
don't always I'm not always asking for it, you know.

(01:14):
Sometimes it just falls into my lap. Yesterday i walk
into the gym, I'm chatting with a woman and I'm like,
you're getting ready for the fireworks, like doing my bs,
Like just just say hello and go as it's coming
out of my mouth.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
I'm like, why are you even saying that? You don't
even like fireworks?

Speaker 1 (01:29):
So I say, are you gearing up for the fireworks,
to which she responds, I don't do well. I don't
do well with fireworks. I have really bad PTSD. And
then she starts going on this whole thing about how
she has PTSD from fireworks and she can't handle the
sounds and she has to sleep with you know, noise

(01:50):
canceling headphones because of the fire And internally I'm slapping
myself because I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Like, why did you just brought it? You brought it back?

Speaker 4 (01:58):
Why did you just say hi, I can't go and
like everybody else, but no, I had to say, you're
gearing up for the fireworks. I'm not gearing up for
the fireworks. So I don't know why, as I feel
so bad because she can't. So then I try to,
you know, say oh, I get it.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
You know a lot of kids like I'm not taking
my kids out for fireworks because they're loud and I
don't think the baby could hit.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Just yeah, I know a lot of vets have dealt
with that too. I had a friend who spent a
lot of time in a rack, and he spent a
lot of time in firefights to the point where that
not that he gets like a flat, but it reminds
him and it puts them in that same anxiety state
as a firefight.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
People shoot guns during fireworks because it masks the sound.
It's it's similar.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yeah yeah, and then you're just going on the.

Speaker 5 (02:43):
Dogs.

Speaker 6 (02:44):
Dogs get scared of hate it. My dog hates it.
I've heard that that dogs don't like fireworks.

Speaker 5 (02:48):
I used to.

Speaker 2 (02:49):
Buy fireworks and like light them off in like the yard,
but I don't because the dog and then she's panting
and she just is restless. So I so I've stopped those.
Time of the year is not fun.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
But I would think for you guys New Hampshire, it's
crazy because that is now everyone drives to get the fireworks.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
Right yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it is crazy and the
cops like actually look for cars go like leaving from
the fireworks spot back back into mass the legal here.

Speaker 5 (03:13):
I didn't know that.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah, so you really aren't supposed to transport them.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
There's there's so.

Speaker 3 (03:20):
And for that, like at least do drugs.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
I mean they're doing them for that too, But I
guess the fireworks are a big thing though.

Speaker 1 (03:28):
I heard that there's a guy in like the Marshfield
Ducksbury area that spends upwards of thirty thousand dollars on fireworks.
Thirty thousand dollars like that, you just have actually most
literally money to blow because that's the dumbest thing I've
ever heard of my life.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Well, the other problem too, that people run into is
that they store the fireworks and places aren't supposed to
like all in a batch, and then it gets too
hot or something like lights them up now and then
it blows up like that. I've seen decks blow up
and like people not do well, you know, just bad news.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
I'm cool, yeah, I'm all said on anything, but I'll
hold a sparkler. Yeah, you know, I I.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Own when I was younger, and the in the in
the Dominican they have fireworks like on like on the
side of the road. Now the fireworks here as regulated
as you can get down there. They literally sticks a dynamite.
I'm not kidding, fat it's bad, Like it's so much fun,
but it's also bad. Right, I must have been ten

(04:30):
and I heard like boom, it's not like a war.
It was awful. We drove down the street and something
caught cut like they all blew up and there, dude,
I remember this somebody I've saw multiple limbs. It was bad,
it was awful. So I always think about when people
store fireworks together. I instantly go back to that moment,

(04:52):
trying to take the convos like no. But in the
Dominican though there's no regulations, they had literally sticks a dynamite. No,
like the fireworks that go up in the air that
would talking about. Yeah, they tell those to you on
the side of the road.

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Get them.

Speaker 2 (05:03):
I'm not kidding. I'm not kidding. Little kids are carrying
those things around.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
Do you guys have any plans for the fourth? Like,
are you going to any fireworks or anything.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
We're going to a friend's house that has a house
on a lake, like up in New Hampshire.

Speaker 6 (05:14):
So okay, the kids, when the kids were younger, we
always used to do it, like go downtown or something
like that, but not no more.

Speaker 5 (05:20):
That's why I live. I'm kind of near a way
to do the fireworks.

Speaker 6 (05:23):
I could only just go up to the to the
to the attic of some or access to the roof
and you just watch it from there.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
I guess the big day.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
I think I was telling you guys this in Marshfield
is not the fourth, it's the third, so we're I
don't know, and there's really nothing that goes on in
the fourth. In town, it's the third. The third is
like the big night. I guess that's the night where
people are allowed to set off fireworks, allowed to Yeah,
as opposed to the fourth. So I don't listen.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
I'm learning to just spread them up because so many
places have them too. I know other places do them
on Saturday, so they some will do them on the fifth.

Speaker 1 (05:55):
Too, maybe, So that's Terry's coming over and NaN's going
to be watching them the third, and we're going out
the third to our neighbor's house. They have like a
big house party. So I'm gonna be missed li fourth.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
On the third, what are you gonna wear?

Speaker 1 (06:10):
American flag?

Speaker 3 (06:11):
Had to tell I am America on the third?

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay, a Yello shots, anything in sight. I might not
even remember the fourth. I'll be so drunk from the third.

Speaker 7 (06:20):
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More five Tuesday.

Speaker 1 (06:36):
July first, and I am including this as the lead
story of the news because moving out to the Urbs,
I never realized how important trash is, how serious people
take waste management. Because let me tell you, it's really
serious in the South Shore. And I got some bad

(06:56):
news for you guys on the North Shore because hundreds
of face collection workers are.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
Walking the old picket lines this morning.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
YEP started this morning and it will at this time
affect trash pickup for seventeen Massachusetts communities and counting. This
is not the week you don't want trash pickup, okay,
with the parties and the animals, and it's hot and
it's getting in your.

Speaker 3 (07:21):
Nasty hot trash.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
Republic Service workers, represented by Teamsters Local twenty five, launch
of striking Peavity this morning. Union members are demanding a
contract with improved wages, better benefits, and stronger labor protections.
Now the union is a little pissed off because they're like, listen,
it's disappointing that you're striking and not still working through
this while we work out the negotiation.

Speaker 3 (07:46):
In good faith. That's what they were hoping for.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
You guys continue working while we continue negotiating, not happen.
And so here's who's going to be impacted by this
peabody Manchester by the Sea, Gloucester, Wakefield, Marblehead, Malden, Topsfield, Saugust, Beverly, Danvers,
North Reading, Reading, Lynnfield, Swampscott, Harlington, Watertown.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
And wait for it, cannot win, Canton can cannot catch
a break.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
In a lot of those towns. I don't know if
there's an actual dump where you go to because all
those towns with the with a with all the services
they come and get the trash right, so a lot
of these people are gonna be just stuck. There were
piles of garbage.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
Massive, key and even just in a week's time. Yeah,
four people, two which are little two kids. I'm like,
where's this coming from? How do we collect so much trash?
So if we skipped the week of trash, it would
look like the Grinch's house out there. I can't I
cannot imagine.

Speaker 2 (08:44):
I mean, I feel like there's a lot of people
who gonna be driving to work with trash bags in
their car and just hopefully use a dumpster at their
office if they have one.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
Something smart, ye know how people like it smells like
hot garbage. By the way, the union stated that the
picket lines could extend nationwide. So if I just named
one of your towns and you're in your or I
didn't name one of your towns and you're in your car,
hype because I didn't say you.

Speaker 3 (09:05):
That doesn't mean I won't be saying you tomorrow or
the next day.

Speaker 1 (09:08):
We don't know.

Speaker 5 (09:09):
This is crazy.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
This is for multiple things, better pay, better benefits, and
stronger labor protections.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
I mean, I feel like they're going to get it right,
like they're taking a stand on the fourth.

Speaker 5 (09:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
Well, I will also say Republic Services is saying, listen,
we planned for this and the possibility of this, and
we've taken several steps to continue providing service.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
So we shall see. Like what, Yeah, I don't I
don't know.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
I don't know, but yeah, I just I'm feeling for
Canton here because this is this is a tough break.
This is a tough break, all right. We have much
to discuss from New York, from Diddy trial and the jurors.
So we know yesterday the jurors were given their instructions
by the judge, and they began their deliberations. Shortly thereafter,

(09:57):
notes were sent back to the jury.

Speaker 3 (09:58):
Now we were from the jury.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
Now we were remember this from the Karen Reach out, right,
the jury can write notes to the judge asking questions, Hey,
we don't understand ABC and D. So we got our
first note from the jury just hours after deliberations had begun,
and basically the jury said, hey, we have one juror
who is they're calling him quote like him or her

(10:22):
a problem jur having trouble following the judge's instructions. Now,
I've noticed, depending on the article you read, each article
kind of discusses some of the instructions that were given
by the judge. And I've noticed a lot of the
articles are tending to talk about the fact that this
jury didn't get sequestered, just like the Karen Read jury.

(10:43):
And they truly believe that these guys and women are
going home and looking at the internet and using the
internet to then come in and add to the deliberations,
and you cannot do that.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
That is again, you can't do that. But these are
also people, and people just do things.

Speaker 5 (10:58):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
Yeah, remember they've already had issues with this juror too.
I mean, if they had the one juror who said
he lived one place and didn't, but they left him,
they let him stay on. Obviously, the last thing they
want is a hung jury or a mistrial. They are
saying this is a win for the defense, though, because
any any little tricks that happened with the jurors that
could then play to a mistrial hung jury. They sent

(11:20):
a note back to the jury that said, the judge said,
I received your note. I remind every jur of their
duty to deliberate and their obligation to follow my instruction
on the law. With that instruction in mind, please continue deliberating.
And the note also explained that when they write notes
to the jury to the judge to not include specific
details about deliberations in their notes. Hey, we think he

(11:40):
did ABC and D, but we're not. Just remember you
can't you gotta be we think this, this, this, and this.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
Let's just say you're going home and you checking the internet, right,
you don't come in the next name. But guys, I
googled it and based right, it's just.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
Me speculating based off of what.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
But because the big, the big notion that I'm reading
is that they're mad that these jurors aren't being sequestered,
and it's like, you know, they sequested the jury for
Casey Anthony, they sequested the jury for O. J. Simpson
because in our day and age, it just is what
it is. We cannot act like these people aren't going
home and turning on the news or reading Instagram.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
Or picking up their phone and going didd he what
did he do?

Speaker 1 (12:19):
Right before the end of court yesterday, the jury also
asked another question to the judge, which was, if a
recipient asks for a controlled substance and another person hands
it over to them, are they distributing. The judge then
told the court, hey, listen, we will give you an
answer on that tomorrow. But my respond to be yes, right.

(12:44):
I say, hey, DJ Furn, can you get me some cocaine?
And he hands me said Cocaine's that's distributing, right.

Speaker 2 (12:53):
I mean technically yes, but I feel like technically if
you were buying it, it would be it feels different.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
Yeah, but what is the law on I feel like
the person that's handing it over, who has the drugs
in their hand, is then the distributor.

Speaker 6 (13:05):
I mean, yeah, you're the one who has the drugs
is what I'm Yeah, I'm just you know, if you
break it down like that, yeah, you are distributed, you
are giving away drugs, yea, And.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
Then it's a different you know, it's it different if
you give it to just one person versus five, because
I feel like when you distribute, I think it gives
me more of a feeling you're giving it to multiples,
but who knows.

Speaker 6 (13:22):
Yeah, we give it to one, two, three, four, five.
You're still like, like Astulely is trying to make the point,
like you're distributing it, like I got it, you want it?

Speaker 8 (13:30):
Here?

Speaker 5 (13:30):
You go?

Speaker 6 (13:30):
Yeah, you know, But he kind of goes to what
I've been saying all along. Maybe maybe his defense team
made it seem like yo, a lot of these people
were willing to do these things, That's why they were
asking for the drugs.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
The question was again, if a recipient asks for a
controlled substance and another person hands it to them, are
they distributing? So they're working on that.

Speaker 2 (13:51):
Yeah, but if you're at a party and anybody's taking drugs,
how do you hitpoint? Who the person and that's giving
it away?

Speaker 5 (13:57):
Right?

Speaker 2 (13:58):
That's why, like, again, do I I think he's into
some bad stuff. Absolutely, But I feel like he's getting
off because if they're asking this question specifically, they're unsure about.

Speaker 5 (14:06):
All of these things.

Speaker 1 (14:07):
By the way, if you're wondering where his head space
is in all of this. Diddy was sitting at the
table with his attorneys most of the day, and on
his way out of the courtroom he turned around to
anybody that was like in the gallery there and held
up two books to show people he was reading The
Power of Positive Thinking and the Happiness Advantage.

Speaker 5 (14:31):
I think that happiness advantage.

Speaker 1 (14:32):
The happiness advantage, happiness like.

Speaker 3 (14:37):
Good for you, buddy, you're reading, I mean, for the love.

Speaker 1 (14:40):
It's just such. It's such a circus act in there.
So we'll say, Remember, he has pled not guilty to
five felony charges, one count of racketeering conspiracy, two counts
of sex trafficking by force, fraud a corrosion, and two
counts of transportation to engage in prostitution. If he has
found guilty on just one, he's looking at a minimum
fifteen and he could fai life.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Maybe a couple of years max. But I but I
don't know.

Speaker 3 (15:03):
It won't matter though, because the power of positives.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
Yeah, positive he'll take those.

Speaker 1 (15:07):
Few years and he'll flip post things all right. And lastly,
this is kind of crazy. We're just learning this this morning.
I know you guys know the name Brian Coberger. He
was accused of the twenty twenty two killings of four
University of Idaho students. I'll never forget waking up and
seeing this story about these young college students with literally

(15:28):
their entire lives ahead of them, sleeping in the middle
of the night, and somebody comes in and kills four
of the roommates. And then there's another two that were
inside that think they saw somebody walking. The story was
just so crazy they ended up catching him by the way.
Police connected him to the crime using DNA from a

(15:50):
knife sheath as well as pings from his cell phone.
By the time they caught him, he was already in Pennsylvania.
He was at his parents' home. But we did find
out yesterday that he has decided to take a plea
and he's pleading guilty to all counts. Now, with this plea,
he will avoid the death penalty and he'll be sentenced
to four consecutive life sentences. He's also going to waive

(16:13):
any right to an appeal and a court hearing for
a change of the plea will happen on Wednesday. Now
I'm reading reports that some of the parents of the
slain students aren't loving this plea deal because he can't
get the death penalty. Also, if he takes this plea,

(16:33):
those parents will never really get an answer as to why.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
He will not have.

Speaker 1 (16:37):
To give a reasoning. He will just take this plea.

Speaker 3 (16:41):
He will be in jail for the rest of his way.

Speaker 5 (16:43):
He would have given a reason anyway if he didn't
want to.

Speaker 1 (16:45):
But I'm not right. He could have lied, But I'm
the way it's being told is that that part of
it is being included multiple times everywhere and when they
report it in the news. So there's something happening with
that like that that part is important to them. And
I don't I don't know.

Speaker 6 (16:58):
I mean maybe because they go through the investigation and
they and they say how he cut how.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
They maybe because if he takes his plea, it will
never won't go to court.

Speaker 6 (17:07):
That's what I'm thinking. That's what I'm thinking. But and
they won't be able to reveal Okay, this is what
he did.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
Here's the evidence.

Speaker 5 (17:13):
We investigated this.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
He can show you that he was here from the
cell phone data. I maybe you know according to those
the court docks that we've seen so far, two of
the roommates inside said, listen, we saw him come in.

Speaker 3 (17:25):
He was in black clothes, he had a mask. He
was walking back.

Speaker 1 (17:28):
Because there was a I got into this in the
beginning because there was a really huge narrative that the
the two students that survived were at some point like
what you know, people were questioning, you know if you
heard that or you saw that, why didn't you. There
was a lot of they were almost taking a little
bit of blame for it, even though they hadn't done it,
and it was it was really sad because those were

(17:50):
their friends, you know what I mean, Those were their roommates,
Those were their friends, and this whole.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
There was this whole story is just insane.

Speaker 1 (17:57):
So you know that that would be something that would
eat me up inside as a parent, right because if
he takes this plea, then he doesn't get the death penalty,
So why my kids and not you?

Speaker 3 (18:07):
That is something you would fight.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
I don't know if I'd be concerned about the why,
but I would be disappointed if he didn't get put
to death. Yeah, as a parent, yeah, I understand that.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
I think it just depends. It depends on who you
are as a person, Like what what you would feel
is the right thing, like him spending the rest of
his life in jail, or do you think he deserves that?

Speaker 2 (18:26):
Like, but there's also a lot of people out there
who don't believe in putting prisoners to death. So I
don't know, but I just if they do something like this,
they deserve it.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
So, like I said, on Wednesday is when there's going
to be a court hearing for a change of that
plea on Wednesday. But I'm assuming that that that that's
most likely what's going to happen, especially because he's like, listen,
I'm guilty, Yeah, but I don't want to die.

Speaker 2 (18:50):
He's doing life. Yeah, hopefully somebody behind there can take it.

Speaker 1 (18:54):
He will not be well received. Let's just say that
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Speaker 3 (19:16):
Hey guys, good morning. I know this is a little
bit of like a heavier.

Speaker 1 (19:23):
Conversation, but obviously Brian Coberger, if you you know, you're
probably his name's it stands out, so you probably have
heard it before and you're like, wait, how do I
know that name? Brian Coberg was the kid who killed
four University of Idaho students while two other ones were

(19:47):
like half asleep asleep. It happened in twenty twenty two,
and he has decided to take a plea deal. So
you're gonna plea out. He's gonna plead guilty to all counts.
Mind you, this would avoid trial, you know. Because he's
accepting this plea, he will now avoid the death penalty
and he will be sentenced to four consecutive life sentences.

(20:09):
I think this is also important. He also is waiving
any right to an appeal. A court hearing for this
change of the plea will be on Wednesday. There's a
lot of talk back and forth about the parents of
these four students who lost their life. It's very clear
that Brian Cober is trying to avoid the death penalty

(20:30):
and in choosing this plea deal he does and we
don't ever learn why, we don't ever find out the
motive and let people kind of lay out their cases.
And I think that's another struggle for the parents of
these four kids as well, So you know, not only
is he not going to receive the death penalty, but
he's not going to have to sit through trial, so
we're not going to learn, you know, more details as

(20:51):
to what actually happened that night and why he did it.

Speaker 6 (20:53):
Honestly, I care, Yeah, if I was a parent, I
don't know if I care, and I don't want to.

Speaker 5 (20:58):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (20:59):
That's not I'm want you to die, you know what
I'm saying. I'd rather you get the death penalty. I'd
like to be the one to inject you with or
whatever they give you, but I don't really care, like
why you did it, Like that's not gonna to get.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
To that though.

Speaker 3 (21:10):
To get to the death penalty, you have to say yeah.

Speaker 2 (21:16):
But for a parent, would be absolutely to hear all
these details, like a step by step process of what
he did that night.

Speaker 1 (21:27):
But I think they they geared up for it because
they want that so bad. And I kind of stand
with feurn on this, Like my immediate gut reaction as
a parent is like, you took my baby from me,
and now I want your life to be taken from you.
And especially because you know that he doesn't want that now,
right he's he's he's even saying take the appeals away.
As long as I'm living, I'm fine to stay in

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jail for the rest of my life, So that would
even motivate me more to be like, oh, no, that's
what you want now, I'm gonna fight that. All of
this to say, though, a lot of times we see
parents who have gone through this and they forgive, and
I'm always so blown away by that that that people
can get there I.

Speaker 2 (22:08):
Don't understand because obviously we haven't been in that situation.
But at the same time, I feel like they do
that so they themselves can get past whatever is stopping
them from moving on. And that part I can understand.
But imagine like the emotion you have to get to
to get to the point where you're forgiven the person
that killed your child, your baby, all these things. It's

(22:29):
like heartbreaking to think and the emotional up and down
that you must go through with all.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
This son he's snuck into their home in the middle
of the night and he stabbed them while they were sleeping.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
And even as parents like, listen, my son is fifteen,
he's going to be off in college in like four years,
and I'm already thinking about like he's leaving the nest,
he's going to be at another place. I'm trying to
teach them all the things of like take care of
yourself and all that stuff. And to know that these
kids were sleeping, this guy broke into their house and yeah,
killed them all. Like, that's the part that I'm like
fearful of.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
I think as human beings, I don't I might not
be articulating this correctly, but anytime I hear a story
that's like a horrifying story, example the firefighters getting shot,
my body is like I need to know why.

Speaker 3 (23:13):
I have to know why he did it. Yeah, and again,
I don't know. Nothing's going to make me be like, oh, oh.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
Okay, so he shot the firefighters because he failed the
fire academy and he was mad. I'm making that up,
but nothing is going to ever satisfy me. But you know,
you you do wonder and I get what you're saying too,
because do you want to sit in the courtroom and
then have to hear every single detail about how many
times everybody was in this No, but.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
Why, like why? Like, I'm why did you do this
to my daughter?

Speaker 1 (23:42):
Why did you do this to my baby?

Speaker 6 (23:43):
I mean, the investigators are going to come and tell you.
This seemed like a random kind of act. If I remember,
I think there's even if it's not Netflix, it's on
Hulu something, there's a there's a whole show about it.
And that they did. And if I remember correctly, it
was something about maybe it was a random act, or
maybe he had seen them before, something he had interacted
to him somehow, and then he drove around the block
and then he broke into the crick.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
Definitely something, and it certainly does not seem like he
had any relationship with anybody.

Speaker 5 (24:08):
It was strangers.

Speaker 6 (24:09):
And for me as a parent, them catching the guy
is good enough for me. Had this guy been gone
flew away toever he flew and my kid is dead,
that's where I need the answers.

Speaker 5 (24:22):
It's like, yo, who did this? Yeah?

Speaker 8 (24:24):
Why?

Speaker 5 (24:24):
You know that's one I would start asking you why.

Speaker 6 (24:27):
But since they caught him and they've sat me down
and be like, listen, this is the guy we think
that killed your daughter. Because they've given him some details.
We think this is what he did, and I'd be like,
all right, cool.

Speaker 5 (24:36):
Off with him.

Speaker 1 (24:36):
They arrested him at his parents home in Pennsylvania, but
they used the DNA like his actual DNA match from
a knife sheath, and they had pings from his cell phone.
I was also learning that some sort of law in
Idaho that if you're going to be acquitted on a
murder charge, you have to have an alibi, Like somebody
has to say I saw Santi Diulio at four h

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two at kmart, so I know that he couldn't have
been in this location at this time.

Speaker 3 (25:02):
He has no alibi.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
I guess at some point his defense tried to add in, oh, well,
we think it could have been this person that did it.

Speaker 3 (25:09):
Zero DNA matches like it's him.

Speaker 1 (25:12):
You don't agree to four consecutive life sentences without an
appeal if you didn't do it.

Speaker 5 (25:19):
He did it.

Speaker 1 (25:20):
It's just a matter of you know, is that going
to be enough? Is that enough for the prosecution.

Speaker 2 (25:26):
I think I would be bothered if he goes behind
the wall then all of a sudden he's flourishing because
you hear these stories about these killers going behind and
then all of a sudden they become celebrities. They just
love it back there like that. I would not want,
I think, at the end of the day, I want him,
if he's going to be spending the rest of his
life behind bars, to absolutely suffer for the next sixty years,
for it to be miserable.

Speaker 3 (25:45):
And it's hard to feel.

Speaker 1 (25:46):
Like like, I guess I keep looking at it. I'm
trying to see it from their perspective. Obviously I can't imagine.
But to me, it's like, why does he get a choice?

Speaker 5 (25:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (25:59):
Right, why does he get a check?

Speaker 1 (26:00):
My kid? They were sleeping, So now he gets to choose.
He's getting a choice. He's choosing this is the one
that he thinks is a better play for him.

Speaker 2 (26:07):
There's a big group of people out there who disagree
with the tea and they'll be protesting and all that stuff,
and like, listen, there's a point. I get it. To
some people, it's it's it's a big extreme. But at
the same time, put yourself in the situation on these parents.
If that were you, what would you want?

Speaker 6 (26:23):
Would you not like understand and even the prosecution this
is it's you know, at the end of the day,
they want to put a W on the board, right,
they want to get this guy behind bars. So you know,
the case might not be so strong. You never know
what might happen in trial. Everybody might think like it's
going to go one way, it ends up going another way.
If this guy's coming to you and saying, ah, cool,
I'll take whatever charges y'all got for me. As a prosecutor,
you're like, a cool, let's get the W on the wall,

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Let's get him life. Let's you know, this is what
we have to offer. If you take this deal, then
it's cool. And he agreed to it, so we.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Put him away, getting the bad guy off the streets exactly.

Speaker 6 (26:52):
So I understand what you're saying. It's kind of like, yeah,
why does he have the choice. No, he should go
through the whole process and he should be found dead.
But at the end of the day, you know, the
prosecute these are tax payer dollars. So the prosecutor is like, listen,
if we can open and shut this case, this guy's
pleading guilty, let's get him out of here. The most
will give him his full consecutive life sentences, which each
life sentence you can appeal for parole after twenty five years,

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and if he's waiving that, he's serving at least fifty
on each.

Speaker 3 (27:17):
So it's done. No, he's going away for forever.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
It's just I think it's as as a parent of
those four is that do you feel like that's enough? No?

Speaker 6 (27:30):
Any parent would want to run him over with their
own car, put a gun to his head And I'm
not even you know what I mean sorry about that?
That's what you'd want to do. No, that's like the truth.
But the fact that you know we caught him and
he's going to be gone and he's off the streets. Yes,
I'd like him to get the death penalty. But I'm
not over here wondering like why did you do it?
I know why you did it because your comeback, your monster.

Speaker 1 (27:50):
And he can't do it to anybody else, and that's horrid.

Speaker 5 (27:53):
God in jail.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
I think as a parent, it gets me choked up
to even think about it, because I think that they
must go through these ways like why me.

Speaker 3 (28:01):
Why my kid? Why?

Speaker 9 (28:03):
Why?

Speaker 5 (28:03):
Why?

Speaker 1 (28:03):
Why?

Speaker 7 (28:03):
So many?

Speaker 9 (28:04):
Right?

Speaker 2 (28:05):
Why I could have done this? Or if I would
have maybe hey, came home that weekend or something.

Speaker 6 (28:10):
Start thinking like decisions that you've made all you know,
I felt weird about this part of it, you know
what I mean. And it's like, damn, you're not there
to protect your child, and your child just got killed
in cold bloodedly.

Speaker 5 (28:19):
Yeah, sleep in peace.

Speaker 1 (28:21):
You ever seen these videos where like something will happen
to somebody and then in the courtroom like the family's
attacked person. I'm never shocked when that happened.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
Oh my god, mean what you know what he did
to you know what?

Speaker 2 (28:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (28:34):
I mean, there's like a there's a historical one where
I think a killer was walking in and a guy
just walked up and.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
Just that's right, there's a video he was pretending to
be on the phone and the.

Speaker 5 (28:43):
Guy turned right around.

Speaker 1 (28:44):
I think he killed his son.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
He killed The video is out there just right by.
We're already having where here.

Speaker 1 (28:54):
That's that's what the internet is a problem. I'm just saying.
This is it's what everybody's talking about this morning, because
this is again right ahead of trial. So so many
people have followed this case just religiously, and they wanted
it to go to trial because they wanted they thought
that they would get more answers. But I think it's
like almost a disappointment for some because not only are

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they not going to get any answer, they're going to
see any evidents, but they're also there's no death penalty.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
The sad part about this he killed four people and
then he doesn't want to die.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
He's avoiding that, like I know, you know, I know, well,
you know obviously we've never been through it. If you
want a weigh in, you can six one seven, nine, three,
one four five. But the big story of the day
Brian Koberg pleading out playing guilty, meaning that he will
not get the death penalty and he will be sentenced
to four consecutive life sentences and waiving all rights to

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an appeal.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
Dam In ninety four to five traffic, we have a
forty five minute ride on ninety three southbounds starting at
the Spot Pond exit and Stone, and that continues all
the way down to the Zacom and Root one southbound.
We have heavy delays at the Squire in Revere all
the way down to the tobein.

Speaker 3 (30:01):
You're just about twenty minutes away.

Speaker 1 (30:03):
On a far lighter note, Okay, we're still hooking you
up with tickets. July eighth is the date. So next Tuesday,
Whiz and Sean Paul are going to be hanging out
at the Expinity Center doing a little bit of.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
A lot of that, a lot of that.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Even if you don't do.

Speaker 2 (30:23):
We were back still get it. I'm sure our secondhand, oh,
which is just as good. We were backstage with Shan
Paul one day at a was It and Austin. We
did like an event with him and he was smoking
back there.

Speaker 5 (30:32):
Spoke so good.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Yeah, I don't know how to smoke, so anytime I
pretend to smoke, it sounds like I'm in pain, like
it's my last breath on it. On air side, we're fine.
So anyways, the show is called roll Up.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
You know we're calling at that, so it makes sense.

Speaker 1 (30:46):
Sean Paul, Whiz Khalifa at the Exfinity Center with you
will hook you up in about twenty minutes. Morning es
actually and.

Speaker 5 (30:51):
The Jamie Boy Show with DJ Foreign and Sauntilyn.

Speaker 3 (30:55):
You need to know.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
We got you three things you need to know, Number
one for hip hop and the best throw bags you
haven't any more. Five Tuesday, July first, somebody says to me, Ash,
what's something that you learned when you move to the burbs.
I would say number one most important thing. Trash is serious.
The trash day is serious. The dump rules are serious.

(31:19):
The color bags in which you buy for ten dollars
for five of them that are their paper, they're a
little worse than paper. Then you can put seven things
in them are very serious.

Speaker 3 (31:29):
Trash rules and walls you must a.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
Buide by them. Five of them, guys, that's ridiculous. They
want to put extra bags of trash on the street,
they have to be in the green marshfield trash bags
and if they're not, they won't take them. And they're
nothing ness.

Speaker 3 (31:45):
You know how if you buy the nice glad.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
Bag, they're thick.

Speaker 5 (31:49):
No, not these.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
I put seven things in them and they're busting out
the sign.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
Can we audit the town because somebody's making some kick?

Speaker 1 (31:55):
Thank you guys.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
But but that being said, no one tell the trash
people please.

Speaker 1 (32:01):
Hundreds of trash workers as this morning have gone on strike.
It's going to affect about seventeen Massachusetts communities. Republic service
workers represented by Teamsters Local twenty five launches strike and
peavity as of this morning. Now I can tell you
that union members are demanding a contract with improved wages,
better benefits, and stronger labor protections now. The union has

(32:23):
also stated that the picket lines are where they're at
right now, but could extend nationwide. Republic services has common
and it is very disappointing. The union called a work
stoppage rather than continue to negotiate in good faith and
essentially work negotiation.

Speaker 5 (32:39):
You saywide.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
They feel like there's a chance that this could extend nationwide.

Speaker 6 (32:44):
In Hampship, please zombies enough, they'll scatter it out for
months time more food.

Speaker 1 (32:55):
This is crazy.

Speaker 9 (32:56):
The communities right now that are being impacted by the
strike are obviously Pevidy, Manchester by the Sea, Gloucester, Wakefield, Marblehead, Mulden, Topsfield, Saugust, Beverly, Danvers,
North Redding, Redding, Lynnfield, Swampscott, Arlington, Watertown and can't win Canton.

Speaker 2 (33:12):
Here's what you have to do, right, So, when it's
dark out, take your trash around the corner and leave
it in front of somebody out the house. Right.

Speaker 1 (33:20):
Trash is so crazy, Like I don't I sometimes look
at our trash can and then I look around my
household and I'm thinking, how, yeah, how do four people,
two of which are little accumulate so much trash.

Speaker 3 (33:31):
Yeah, so imagine Topsfield was doing the fair.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
Right now, Oh my god, we're having trash pickup be
rat Central.

Speaker 2 (33:37):
Oh god, they got a figure.

Speaker 1 (33:39):
They've got to figure this out. All right, let's talk
the jury with the Diddy trial. So yesterday they get
jury instructions. By the way, guys, I thought maybe we
would get an answer before the fourth I don't know.
Now I'm worried. But anyways, the jury gets the instructions
from the judge, they head off to deliberate, and shortly thereafter,
the judge gets the first no vote from the jurors,

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basically saying that they have a problem. Dur and one
person in there is not following the instructions given by
the judge. Now we don't know specifically what that is,
but there was a lot of chatter online that these
jurors are not able to go home and live their
life and not look at their cell phones, not look
at TikTok, not look at Instagram, not look at the news.

(34:22):
And so I'm wondering if one of the jurors came
in and said, hey, I know this wasn't presented to us,
But someone on TikTok said this, I don't know I'm
making that up, but they're basically saying that one person
is struggling following the judge's instructions.

Speaker 3 (34:38):
So the judge wrote back, I received your note.

Speaker 1 (34:40):
I remind every jur of their duty to deliberate and
their obligation to follow my instruction on the law. With
that instruction in mind, please continue deliberating. The note also
explained not to include specific details about deliberations in any
future notes.

Speaker 6 (34:54):
They want to jura twenty two right, they said they
want twenty two out of it. Twenty twenty two is
not playing nice.

Speaker 1 (35:02):
Twenty two could be holding them up. Who knows July
is on ferenen It.

Speaker 6 (35:09):
Simply just came back and said, hey, one of us
is not playing by the rules.

Speaker 5 (35:12):
Can we can we address this please?

Speaker 6 (35:14):
On the side, they were like, Noate is not doing
they think because everybody now is going to want to
know who twenty two is and this thing is done
and be like what was you doing in there?

Speaker 5 (35:24):
On YouTube?

Speaker 1 (35:26):
Twenty two was like no, there's a sleuth on TikTok
that found out that Diddy. It's just like, uh so
then that happens. The judges like, listen, deliberate, figure it out.
They get another note right before the end of the
day yesterday from the jury that says, if a recipient
asks for a controlled substance and another person hands it

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over to them, are they distributing?

Speaker 2 (35:50):
I don't think so. I think they're just being a friend.
Oh wow, right, In most situations people.

Speaker 6 (35:55):
Would like that answer technical wait, I guess so, yeah again.
I think lends to what they thinking, which is how
much of this was was people saying that they wanted it,
and how much of it was really like, now I'm
drugging you for real.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
The court said they would answer the question today.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
I always use the Karen retrial as an example, but
I feel like what we've learned is if it's not
we see on a camera that a person does a
B and C in a courtroom, they can figure things out.
They can make one thing seem one thing, or they
can convince you of another. I mean, list look at
the Brian Higgins video. They had to ask seven times

(36:32):
is that Brian Higgins? I don't know. I can't see him, and.

Speaker 3 (36:34):
That's true, like you couldn't see his face, but we
know it's him.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
It's just in a courtroom. They have a way about them,
so anyways, they will answer that question for the jury
as of this morning. If you're wondering how did he
is feeling. At the end of the day, he stood
up from his table with his attorneys and turned to
the courtroom and held up two books to show everybody
that he is reading the Power of positive Thinking and
the Happiness Advantage.

Speaker 2 (36:58):
Like, what does he think he's gonna manifest his city?

Speaker 4 (37:00):
You know?

Speaker 3 (37:00):
I mean fifteen to life pal.

Speaker 6 (37:02):
Yeah, I say this now, but when he walks free
on the fall of July, he'll hold the books.

Speaker 5 (37:06):
Up be like I told you.

Speaker 6 (37:10):
The happiness advantage is like about to sell a free
Those books are selling off the shelf, bro, That's a fact, right.

Speaker 1 (37:19):
And lastly, this is quick, easy and for the single ladies.
Aj post Malone is single again. He's back on the market.
He is no longer in a relationship with Christy Lee.
That's what I'm saying. Post goes the chicks Like I
feel as if I was just mentioning that he's dating
Christie Lee. The photos he's walking down the street with

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her Papa Rozzi.

Speaker 3 (37:41):
He doesn't care. He's so happy. But I guess they
called it quits a little under a month ago.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
They had been romantically connected since the beginning of the year,
so he's pretty much on a six month in dumblem.

Speaker 6 (37:51):
Because because before this was his BMS, right, the woman
he had a child with, Yes, and I think that
was long his longest relationship.

Speaker 1 (37:58):
It was, or maybe there was one before that that was.

Speaker 6 (38:00):
I think there was one before that, me too. I
think it first first broke out.

Speaker 3 (38:03):
Before he was like a celast yes.

Speaker 7 (38:05):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (38:05):
Then that one was over and then he had there
was another girl in between there post post He gets
around Okay, I.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
Think it's around her. Is he just bad at relationships?

Speaker 3 (38:13):
Yeah, Christie and Posty has a type.

Speaker 6 (38:17):
I seen him dance bro. Yeah, I would be repulsed.
I don't want to be with this guy with his
little but like, I don't know what he'd be doing
on stage. Sometimes I'm like, are you okay? Well, he
falls a lot. That's a thing falling.

Speaker 3 (38:31):
It's not where to be for because that's how my
whole family dances.

Speaker 1 (38:33):
That's what I see every every family wedding.

Speaker 3 (38:37):
That's what I'm looking at.

Speaker 4 (38:38):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (38:38):
It is unclear if Posty and her are on good terms,
but Posty is out there a j you got a chance.
That is three things you need to know for the
first day of July. Whisky, Leifah, Sean Paul, hanging out
the Expinity Center, and I Got you with a par
of tickets in six one seven nine three one one
nine four five Color twenty five. You're going to the
Expinity Center.

Speaker 2 (38:56):
Good Luckly Morning Show, Teach.

Speaker 6 (39:01):
Morning.

Speaker 1 (39:02):
Bustin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety four five. Everybody,
Good morning. We're doing beyond the wipe here. We're talking dating,
love relationships, and so it always seems with you guys,
the lack thereof I love your story so much so
if you you know, if you just maybe you got

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engaged this past weekend, or you think it's, oh this
would be a good one.

Speaker 3 (39:26):
You think it's coming for the fourth fourth of July.
People do fourth of July.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
Oh yeah, on the beach. There's a fireworks come on America.
Laya uh six one seven nine three one one four five.
That is six one seven, nine three one one nine
four five. We're talking dating, love relationships, lack thereof anything
in the in between. We're gonna start it off with
a DM I just got. I'm gonna keep him anonymous.

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He didn't say I should, but you know, if he's
if he's d having me and not calling, he probably
wants it to bathe He said, could you ask your
listeners a question for me? If you were dating someone
and you guys went on a break but nothing bad happened,
just like we went on a break because I was
looking to move.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
It so happened that while we were on a break.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Her roommates consoled her during that time, and after a longer,
longer conversation, we decided to get back together. But in
order for us to get back together, she said, I
had to apologize to all her roommates as well. Am
I wrong? Because I literally said, no, this is drove
us to part ways, and I just think it's so
childish on her part. So I'm gonna say like this

(40:38):
just to give it a better setup for you. Guys,
your man breaks up with you, you now go to
all your besties and you're like, he d ump me
because he wanted to move and he didn't think during
that time we should be together.

Speaker 3 (40:52):
So now all your besties hate him.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
Okay, he comes back, He's like, I want to be
back with you, and you say I want to be
back with you too, but all my best friends hate you,
so now you have to apologize to them or they're
going to continue to hate.

Speaker 2 (41:04):
I'm not apologizing, and that has nothing to do with
like the friends. The friends to grow up.

Speaker 1 (41:09):
Right, I'm gonna side with him on this too. That's
we're adults here.

Speaker 2 (41:13):
Especially in saying that it doesn't seem like he did
anything really bad, like he was gonna move, which again
I think, all right, you can still be with the person,
you don't have to break up with them. But at
the same time, you were on a break and it's
something so minor you don't apologizing.

Speaker 1 (41:24):
I mean, I think.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
Ross said it best. From friends.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
I'm pretty sure Ross had sex with some other girl
and that was the issue there.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
This was just the move in this one, he was like, hey,
I might move. I don't think we should be together
this time. Listen, even if the best friends didn't understand
the reasoning for the break, it's they don't have to
because they're not dating you. So no, I don't think
you owe the friends and apology, but I do feel
bad because now they it's caused a rift between them, and.

Speaker 2 (41:54):
She should stand up for the relationship with the friends though,
and that's what's not happening there.

Speaker 1 (41:58):
She should just go back to her friends and be
like I know, and that is that's the golden rule
with girls. I mean, you guys don't have to worry
about this stuff because you don't gossip as much.

Speaker 2 (42:05):
As we do.

Speaker 1 (42:05):
But you know, if you plan on getting back with
said guy, you might not want to tell your besties
that he did a B, C and D, which is
unforgivable to them.

Speaker 3 (42:15):
I have had this happen to.

Speaker 1 (42:16):
Me so many times. We're out, we're taking shots as
Joe have Joe can die like we're just yeah, and
then all of a sudden, next week, wait, she's she's
back with Joe.

Speaker 3 (42:30):
I thought we hated it, Joe.

Speaker 1 (42:31):
I thought we were toasting to Joe's death, like I
don't know. So anyways, just be careful, That's what I'm saying.
Roses in Malden, Rose, I wish you could drive to
Medford right now so we could hug you, girl friend.
I mean, you can, we're here, we'll be here at eleven.
So anyways, after eight years, tell everybody what you just

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found out.

Speaker 8 (42:55):
Okay, so after eight years, we have had some doubt
about him cheating, but I never have any you know,
proof to prove that he's actually kidding. So I bought
a tag and I put him in his car and yeah,
so he went because he had a step brother, so

(43:19):
he usually dropped him like somewhere I don't know the
name of the place, and there's a motel there. So
I like to him, I said, hey, you've been stuck
there for a minute. Now what are you doing? And
then he said, oh, you know, I'm doing uber And
I went to drop my step brother. You know that already,
and he was getting mad about it. So recently, I

(43:44):
don't know. I don't know if it's got telling me
something I don't know. So I went to his phone.
He was sleeping. I went to his phone and then
I got the password. So he had faced ID to
all of his you know app and stuff like that.
So I went to setting and then I said, I

(44:04):
set up my own seating and then after that I
would be honest.

Speaker 1 (44:11):
Let me just time down and be able to make
this show. You should work for the camp police. I mean,
you're better at investigating there.

Speaker 3 (44:17):
So so now it's your face to get apps.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
You got in.

Speaker 8 (44:21):
Yeah, yeah, and then I went to hidden because you
know hidden. When you get to hidden, you need your
face ID to get in there.

Speaker 3 (44:28):
Starting to go there.

Speaker 8 (44:32):
Yeah, So I went up there, and then I see
a bunch of videos of him, you know, doing the deed.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
With one consistent girl or multiples.

Speaker 8 (44:45):
Multiple of the three different ones, different faces.

Speaker 1 (44:50):
Yeah. Rose, I'm so sorry. I means you got your answer,
but that's tough.

Speaker 8 (44:56):
But yeah, that's the thing. I love him, I really do.
I've been with this guy since I was sixteen. I've
been with him, I've been dating him for eight years,
and it's just I don't know what to do him though.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
You watched him have sex with multiple other women that
he was hiding from you in his phone. His penis
is dirty, honey, What do you mean you gotta go?

Speaker 3 (45:19):
We gotta leave.

Speaker 6 (45:20):
See, Yeah, don't listen to them. Just just have access
to everything that he owns and you'll be fine, and
then you can know about everything. That's what she really
wants wants. She's not going anywhere, Rose, so just take
access to Just tell him leave your phone on locked.
I'm cool with it. It's okay. Let's sit down and

(45:41):
figure this thing out.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
Okay, Rose, let me ask you this, Are you okay
with him hugging up with other women? Because if you
are okay with that, then you can stay if that's
are you okay with that?

Speaker 8 (45:50):
I'm not okay with it?

Speaker 1 (45:51):
And do you believe that since you've caught him, he's
going to stop?

Speaker 8 (45:57):
Honestly, I want to believe it, I really do, but
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (46:01):
Rose, listen to the.

Speaker 8 (46:02):
Less because because you want to marry me and.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
Stuff, Rose, you had to put an Apple AirTag in
this man's vehicle. You had to go into his phone
and change the face ID to your own, and go
into the hidden folders. Because this is how far this
man was trying to go to keep you from finding
out the truth.

Speaker 3 (46:23):
He's a liar.

Speaker 5 (46:24):
Until find out what what you knew all along?

Speaker 3 (46:26):
You knew he was cheating on you, and now you
had to watch it.

Speaker 2 (46:30):
You also forgot that he was at the motel toog.

Speaker 5 (46:32):
About the motel.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
The motel, he's not even taking these girls at the
end of the day.

Speaker 6 (46:36):
At the end of the day, if all this doesn't
matter to you, just then why are we even doing
all this? Just accept the man for who he is.
And just stay with him. If love is that important
to you, Rose, how old are.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
You now, I'm twenty five, Honey, you're so young.

Speaker 1 (46:50):
Twenty five years old.

Speaker 3 (46:51):
Get rid of this looser and go find you a
nice man. Okay, that's not going to do this to
you because because he's out there, this is crazy.

Speaker 1 (47:00):
You want to live the rest of your life checking
hidden folders and buying Apple AirTags.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
No, I know it's hard. It's harder to leave, trust me.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
I get that it is.

Speaker 3 (47:13):
But do you like you guys live together?

Speaker 2 (47:17):
No?

Speaker 3 (47:17):
No, okay, that that helps. That helps. I get it. It
is harder to leave.

Speaker 1 (47:23):
You know him, he's probably you know. I'm sure you
still consider him your best friend. But there's bigger and
better for you, And this is you don't want to
be living. You don't you want to be the side
check the rest of your life.

Speaker 8 (47:32):
Oh, thank you, guys, I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (47:37):
Rose. I'm taking your number down, don't go anywhere, and
I'm calling you in a week to make sure you're
not still not with this man. Okay, hold on, okay,
hold on a hundred second, and the next week she's
still gonna be with him.

Speaker 2 (47:50):
She's not gonna leave crazy.

Speaker 1 (47:53):
I love him though, and he's telling me that.

Speaker 2 (47:55):
He wants to marry me. He probably tells her that,
but he tells the other one.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
So I bet you when he got called, he said
all the right.

Speaker 2 (48:01):
Things, absolutely, and it worked all the right.

Speaker 3 (48:03):
Things, all right.

Speaker 1 (48:03):
The phone lines are going crazy six one seven, nine
three one one nine four five six one seven nine
three one one nine four five. We're talking dating, love, relationships,
and poor Rose. It's beyond the swipele on jammin'. Hi everybody,
good morning.

Speaker 8 (48:20):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
First and foremost, we just had like the craziest technical
difficulties with the phone. So if you were on hold
and it hung up, or you called and it was
it reminded me of when you used to connect to
AOL back in the day.

Speaker 3 (48:32):
But that's what it was sounding for people when they
were calling lightning strike.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
Yeah it was. It was a lot. But it looks
like we're on the up and up. Anonymous is going
to respond to Rose. Anonymous, you're going through high babe,
You're going through a very similar situation. Rose isn't gonna leave.
I don't know if you did, But what is your
advice for her?

Speaker 10 (48:53):
Yeah, she needs to think about her future. I'm twenty
nine years old. I'm just kidding myself out of a
nine year relationship, and it finally gets got to the
point where I'm thinking, you know you, is it going
to be harder for me to leave right now? Which, yeah,
it's very hard, Or is it going to be harder
for me to deal with this for the next nine

(49:14):
years or the rest of my life dealing with this
person's I mean, in her case the cheating and my
case the anger and the insecurity, And honestly, in the
long run, it's going to be harder for.

Speaker 5 (49:24):
Me to stay.

Speaker 10 (49:24):
It's going to be harder for me to deal with this.
I don't deserve it. I deserve someone better.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
And so to set, I couldn't agree more. You're still like,
you're twenty nine years old, she's twenty five years old.
You stay, you blink. All of a sudden, you're thirty nine,
forty years old, and you've wasted all this time on
somebody who clearly is doing these horrible things. Now, in
your specific scenario, did you also was it a cheating situation.

Speaker 10 (49:48):
No, it's been a long time coming. We just you
have anger issues, yeah, insecurities, and it's it's just a
miserable time for.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
Both of us.

Speaker 8 (49:58):
So what's the point.

Speaker 1 (49:59):
Well, listen, I think you're doing the right thing. You
got to make yourself happy. And I'm gonna I told
Rose I won't call her next Tuesday, but the following tuesday,
I'm calling her back and we're going to see where
she's at. And I assume she's going to be right
where she is today with that man in Malden.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
But we will.

Speaker 1 (50:14):
We will check in and Anonymous, I hope she's listening.

Speaker 3 (50:17):
Thank you so much for the call, of course, thank you,
thanks bab.

Speaker 1 (50:21):
Yeah, listen, she said twenty five years old.

Speaker 5 (50:24):
Young.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
She's so young, but her she was that she's been
with us guy since sixteen, so it's what she's only known.
The only thing I get it.

Speaker 3 (50:31):
I think what we really need to commend is her
detective work.

Speaker 5 (50:34):
She's not young.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
I mean that I pray to go.

Speaker 5 (50:38):
So should create another face?

Speaker 2 (50:40):
Well, that's what I mean. I didn't. I didn't know
you you could do that or that.

Speaker 6 (50:43):
What I said, you can't, but she would he she
would need to have his face to kind of create
another face.

Speaker 5 (50:49):
It's weird.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
He was sleeping, so that's easy there.

Speaker 1 (50:52):
Yeah, and somehow, some way, Yury Bucanik didn't think, let
me knock on the door and go inside the like,
how can this one? And she's tossing air tags in cars?
One hundred percent should be employed in canon. Hi, everybody,
good morning. It's Ashley in the jam In Morning Show.
I always want to throw it out there because you know,

(51:13):
sometimes you go through things and situations and you're just
too close to it and you feel like you want
advice from everybody that has nothing to do with the
actual situation. I'm not doing a great job at describing this,
but my point is, at Ashley Feldman, to ease on
the Ashley. You can always DM me if you're going
through something like Roses, or if you want to tell
a story but you want to remain anonymous. That is

(51:35):
where to find me. At Ashley Feldman, to ease on
the Ashley, and don't listen to Santy.

Speaker 3 (51:39):
I do respond