I Lit It Up!

Ashlee and Santi talk about their worst break ups and a listener calls in needing advice about the love triangle she is in. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake it up, Wake it up. I don't know if
my sack that's where you're going. I was maybe gonna
remix it.

Speaker 2 (00:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
Hi, everybody, good morning.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
So I just want to before I tell this set
up what things look like in this building for you.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
I think people know.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
But our studio is down the one end of the hall,
and kiss one to wait is down the other hand,
the way better end. The lightning is better down there.
The couches are softer, they're skied down there. They feed them. Hey,
the paychecks are better. Everything's better down than it. So
when I go down there, our good friend Justin always
thinks that I want something, which I would say ninety

(00:41):
nine percent of the time I need something from him.
But I was just down there this morning because one thing,
people like, you know, Billy Costa, you have a key
to the city, really like the man should have a
key to the city.

Speaker 1 (00:58):
You need a reservation, you want to stay at a
certain hotel. Billy's your guy.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
He Billy knows everybody, and he's so loved. He's so nice.
Everybody loves Billy.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
Did I haven't talk about the time we were at
the New Kids Show and I was in the lobby right,
and all of a sudden, Billy came walking in and
it was like Jesus Christ. People's reaction was were insane.
And by this time I had known Billy for a
long time. I understood the power of Billy Costa, but
seeing it in person and past demographic was wild.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
I we do this show and when I am out
and about in Marshfield, I get asked more questions about
kiss one to Wait than I do about this, Like
people don't even care to admit that they you know.
So I just went down there and Mary los this
touch what happened. So there's a restaurant called the Venetian. Son,

(01:51):
It's in Weymouth, Okay, it's because when I say the Venetian,
I think people think I'm talking about Vegas. Okay, yeah, No,
I'm talking about this very nice restaurant in Weymouth. And
what happens is not that people aren't talking about it
through the year. They are, but for Christmas time, getting
a reservation at the Venetian would be like trying to

(02:13):
get a restaurant or a resie at Nobu on a
Saturday night. Like it's it's crazy. So the second it
drops where you can get reservations during Christmas time there.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
You have to get on. You have to get the
REZI a lot of times.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
At the time you get on, you can go like
Tuesday at three, you know.

Speaker 1 (02:30):
But what they do is they.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
Transform the restaurant and it's like a winter wonderland. It's
like the North Pole over there. So I ended up
getting a reservation. It's a Tuesday in December at like
four fifty, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
But I got a reservation. I made it for the fireman,
and I great.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
Well. Last week my brother tells me, oh, you know,
myself and Jed and his girlfriend, we're gonna be there
at that time.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
I'm like, oh my god.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
I can't just be like to my guess, okay, bye,
we're gonna go to this, you know.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
So I'll be honest with everybody. I started with a
DM because I have the res just looking to add.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
Too, yeah, and like honestly, because of what we do
sometimes that hold some weight.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Sometimes yes, not every time, which cool I mean. But
I was like a shoot or shoot, So I shot
my shot. They read it right away. It was like
I sent it and as I was going to leave
the chat, it was red, so I got excited. I'm like,
oh great, this will be easy. We're just going to
add to crickets, nothing, nothing. And that was last week.
So now I'm like, I gotta, I gotta go to
the big guns. Yeah, right, like I I gotta absolutely.

Speaker 1 (03:32):
I just went down the Billy and Billy's like, hmm.
It was the one time.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
The one time where I really need and Billy He's like,
I don't think I know anybody over there. He's like,
write down the reserve, Billy, Billy will Billy for me.
So he's like, write down the reservation time, let me
know what you're trying to do, send me a text.
I'll see what I can do. But he didn't write
away know someone over there, which never happens. I'm like,
of course the one dive.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
But you know what's funny with Billy. I feel like
he's done this before where he doesn't realize he has
a connection to an establishment like that dude. Then a
couple of days after it's like, yes, I you know
a person. I also think that he could text his
restaurant person whoever film's with, and they will know somebody.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
What I was also thinking is he could tell somebody
from his show. He could make a rest for himself
and then I could just take it. Yeah, really make
it for four people at this time on this day,
and then I'll go.

Speaker 2 (04:15):
Yeah. I have heard and I don't know if this
is the truth that Billy has not paid for a
dinner in Boston in like thirty years. Place like Billy
walked in the door like Billy. It's on the house.

Speaker 5 (04:24):
Well.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
Yeah, because on top of doing the Kiss Morning Show,
where he could you know, say anything about any restaurant,
he also.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Has this food TV show.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
Yeah, so he's like the food guy and he's had
multiple like over the like past thirty years. So he's
been like the food guy here in Boston for a
long time. Imagine being super rich like him and not
paying for a meal.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
I can't.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
What do they always say?

Speaker 2 (04:44):
The rich rich?

Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (04:46):
So anyways, if you guys know, like a cook over
at the Venetian in Weymouth, I need to plug please
especially show, and.

Speaker 6 (04:56):
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Speaker 7 (05:04):
Five sir, you're pleading guilty to these two indictments because
you wish to plead guilty because you are guilty.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Is that correct?

Speaker 8 (05:13):
That is correct, mister.

Speaker 7 (05:14):
Walsh, did you in fact willfully remove or convey the
body of Anna Walsh or her remains, not being lawfully.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
Authorized to do so?

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (05:24):
Here an, do you now plead guilty to these indictments
willingly and voluntarily?

Speaker 9 (05:29):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Here Hona Wednesday, November nineteenth.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
And there he was the Gohassei killer, Brian Walsh, offering
a partial plea on two of three charges. So he
basically pled guilty guys to evading police and lying to
them and then unlawful disposal of a body.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
So, in my opinion, if you really break that down, he's.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
Like, yes, I lie to the police, Yes I got
rid of the body. And the police are saying, we
know that he got rid of the body because the
interference with us came so he could get more time
to dispose of said body. But Brian Walsh was like,
you don't have a body, So you don't have a body,

(06:12):
which is why I'm not going topletely guilty as of
right now to the murder charge which.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
We all know that he killed his boy.

Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah, and you know what, guys, if for some reason
you you're like, we talked about this a lot when
when this first came out, But for some reason you're thinking,
Brian Walsh, which one.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Was, well, you know which one this was.

Speaker 3 (06:30):
This was the one where the man was googling ten
ways to dispose of a dead body if you really
want to. His wife was on a wall. She traveled
a lot between here and DC, and they believe the
murder happened somewhere around New Year's Day.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Yeah, like again, like, so you're doing all these things,
but you're not going to admit to the fact that
you killed your wife. But in a weird way too,
like they don't have a body, so it makes it
a lot tougher to prosecute.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
And prior to this murder, he was also looking at
charges for art fraud, so we had that going on.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
He also felt like she was having an affair.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
So what prosecution believes is that there was some sort
of conversation between Anna and him where she she was,
you know, a friend says she had told him, like,
you need to figure out this this art fraud for
the kids.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
You have to figure out what's going on with that.
He got mad at her.

Speaker 3 (07:23):
There was some sort of you were having an affair
and then he potentially because some of his Google searches,
you guys.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
Went into.

Speaker 3 (07:34):
Porn about a woman having an affair on her husband.
Like this man was like he was a devian.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
This is crazy, the craziest that he's searching this up,
not thinking ahead, like, hey, if you're gonna take the
steps of dispose of the body, maybe you shouldn't be
searching this.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
Do you remember was where he was searching it on
his kids iPad, you guys, on his kid's iPad. So anyways,
with this partial plea, he's looking at much less time
if he gets found not guilty on the murder, so
like maybe thirteen to twenty years as opposed to life.

(08:12):
But now the trial, will you know, primarily focus on
the actual murder of on A Walsh, which again he
has pled not guilty to because.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
Nobody no crime. I think that's what he's holding on to.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
But there's no way he doesn't get convicted singular chances.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
And remember he was going to mommy's apartment and putting
things in her dumpster.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
He was visiting his mother because he had an ankle
monitor on.

Speaker 3 (08:36):
So he's only allowed to go to a couple locations,
his mother's being one of them to check on it.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
By the way, every time he comes into the courtroom,
big smile and wave at mommy. Yeah, big smile and
wave over at mama.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Like, I understand that's your child, But how do you
support that he is.

Speaker 3 (08:48):
It's a wild thing to think of. So nine of
sixteen jurors have been seated so far. The goalsun is
to have twelve jurors four alternate seated before Thanksgiving, they hope,
because obviously court will.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
Be closed for the holiday.

Speaker 3 (09:01):
They're really pushing that anybody selected is going to be
ordered to avoid consuming any news and social media platforms.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
They know it themselves. That is just a really hard
ass around the holidays too.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Yeah, but I do think that this case is easier
to avoid than like say, like a Karen Reid, because
like Karen Reid was in our faces for so many years.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
Well thanks for the transition Karen Reid back in the news.
Karen has filed a lawsuit. I feel like we knew
this was coming. She's suing several not only witnesses, but investigators,
saying they quote concocted a plan to frame her for
killing her boyfriend John O'Keefe. Here's a little bit of
the complaint I'll read to you. She said that John

(09:43):
was killed in an altercation during a late night house
party after a night of heavy drinking. Rather than helping
John by calling nine one one, Karen claims a house
party guest made a now infamous Google search, hasloan to
die in the cold and move John O'Keefe's body outside
to make it appear as though he were struck, buy
a car.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
No mention of the of the dog though, right still,
we still don't know what happened to done and clear
the dog was involved.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
There was a way we could sit Chloe down and
get answers. We would know everything. We would know everything,
We really would.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
You know. The bottom line is, you knew this is coming,
because it's the whole time this case has been so salacious,
because it's always been a they said, she said, you know,
they said.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
Where was I the other night? I forget where I was,
And I was convinced that what's the detective's name, the
balloon knock guy, Oh, Michael Procter. Michael Procter, I swear
he was in the restaurant my wife and I were like,
that's Michael Procter.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
I used to swear to God, like I am like,
was he with his wife or was he alone?

Speaker 2 (10:42):
I was with a lady. I don't know if it
was his wife or whomever. But I kept staring at
this guy. Guy kept looking at me back, and I'm like,
I don't know, Like there was a seventy percent chance
with him. Were you new Hampshire, Yes, yes, yep, yeah, wow,
we were in Nashville. Again. I don't know if it
was him, but I was like, Yo, that's him, balloon Nut.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
In her lawsuit, it says, now, after being acquitted of
all the charges relating to John's death, Miss Reid brings
this action to recover, fore and address the actions of
those actually involved in his death and the law enforcement
offers who officers who objectively failed to ensure that justice
was sought and served.

Speaker 1 (11:19):
Here's what's crazy. And adding an entire other layer to this, the.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
They, the Albert's, the mccabs, the Brian Higgins of the world.
They have another lawsuit coming against her for defamation.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
It's a lot, dude, It's just so much.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
It's a lot on both ends. My concern would be
spending so much money to still stay in this area
which has brought so much negativity on all ends.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
Of this time, so it's nuts and hey.

Speaker 3 (11:46):
With all that being said, Karen is still in the
midst of getting sued by the O'Keefe family, so add
that into lots of courtroom things happening all right. And lastly,
Nicki Minaj has officially delivered her speech at the UN
headquarters in New York about the ongoing religious violence in Nigeria.
Niki was actually invited to speak by US Ambassador to
the United Nations Mike Waltz.

Speaker 8 (12:08):
Here she is, I would like to thank President Trump
for prioritizing this issue and for his leadership on the
global stage and calling for urgent action to defend Christians
in Nigeria, to combat extremism and to bring a stop
to violence against those who simply want to exercise their
natural right to freedom of religion or belief.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
She started out by saying, I'm extremely nervous.

Speaker 3 (12:33):
I saw a quick interview with her after it was
her and Mike Waltz, and she was like, I never
in my actual life thought I would be here speaking
about this, Like I'm a rapper and I didn't think
that this would be my life, but here I I'm.

Speaker 2 (12:48):
Not gonna do my thing on this because I think
what she's doing is absolutely just amazing. But I have
some comments and I'm holding to myself. Okay, okay, especially okay.

Speaker 3 (12:57):
Here you have that is three things you need to
know for Wednesday, November nineteenth. Make sure you catch up
in the podcast when we do references throughout the week.

Speaker 1 (13:04):
You know exactly what we're talking about.

Speaker 3 (13:05):
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Speaker 1 (13:09):
Morning the.

Speaker 6 (13:12):
Morning Bastin's number one for hip hop jam in ninety
four or five.

Speaker 3 (13:19):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I feel like there's a couple
things in life where we can all be like, you
know what.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
We've all been through that.

Speaker 3 (13:29):
Yeah, we've all had ourselves about of whatever it is.

Speaker 1 (13:34):
We've all been through a breakup for the most part.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
Yes, I think that's even you, who.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
Has been married for forever met someone super young. You
had a breakup before Joanne, and there were tears.

Speaker 2 (13:46):
There were tears, you were twelve. But it turned out
to be the best thing ever.

Speaker 1 (13:50):
For me for sure.

Speaker 3 (13:52):
I mean I had a famous breakup where he was
cheating in Disney. That's right, crazy to think back to them.
I mean, it's just such so long ago. But he
was cheating on me in Disney World, and I caught
him when we got back on the iPad.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
Yeah, and I remember seeing you on that trip because
at that time I wasn't working here like anymore. But
we met up there and we ran into each other,
and I remember something just seemed very off, especially with him,
because he was very distant standing back, and like, yeah,
it just seemed different I too.

Speaker 3 (14:21):
Like in the iPad, some of the text messages were
like I can't get away from her.

Speaker 1 (14:27):
We're in line at Dumbo.

Speaker 3 (14:29):
Like basically saying he can't escape me because we're in line.
And you know how the Disney lines they're thick, you know,
you just can't escape it.

Speaker 2 (14:36):
But then why go on the trip though, that's the
craziest partly to.

Speaker 3 (14:41):
Shut me up, you know, because he probably didn't want
to deal with saying I don't want to go on
this trip. I'm in love with someone else, and then
he has to go on the trip and just deal.
I don't I honestly, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (14:49):
I don't know. But then you started the wonder was
he going to break up with you at some point.

Speaker 3 (14:52):
For sure, I think he was gonna dump me right
when we got back. I guess he was looking at
other apartments. I found out too, So like.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
The biggest thing for me was I could tell something
was off with my axe, and she just seemed distant, right,
And then I know she was hanging out with this
other guy. And then I remember stalking her around the city,
finding her car at the guy's apartment. And then what
I was trying to do is drive around to time it.
So they came outside, and I'm talking about for hours,
I think crazy. I think I started the search at
nine am. They came out of the house. I got two.

(15:21):
So I was driving around for.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Hours, sadness, But like I listen.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Right right, so in in one of the loops I
missed them, so they were already gone. So then the
next thirty minutes I'm driving on like just the city
trying to find them. So then I decided to park
outside of her house, and I remember being parked there
and seeing her pull up in the guy's car, kissing,
getting out, going into her house. What I should have

(15:46):
done at that point right there, going home or called the.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
Police I'm being inution you would, but both a better
than what I actually did.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
I knocked on the door, woke them all up, and
I tried to beg her to be back with me
at three am.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
And by the way, that like the guy that was
cheating on me, I begged him to get back with.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
You too, Like there's something.

Speaker 3 (16:06):
It's just such an ego crush that my body was
like I need to know that he still wants me, like,
please be back with me.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
I look back on that. I'm just so embarrassed. But yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (16:16):
Wish mine was an ego crush. I really do. It
wasn't even that. I was like, no, I love you
and I wanted to be with her at that time.
But then like within a few days, I like my
head got back on and I'm like, wait, what am
I doing? This is a bad No.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
No knocked on the door. Was she like leave, you're
embarrassing yourself.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
Well, her mother opened the door in a nightgown, and
then I asked for her, and then she went in
and got her and I was like, basically, she's like
get on it, like basically embarrassing exact.

Speaker 3 (16:44):
No, Yeah, listen again, we've all been through a tough breakup,
and we've all certainly done things post the breakup that
we probably regret. For the most part, I think you
could all say something, we think those stories are bad, right,
like who gets cheated on in the happiest place on Earth?
I was so messed up about the Disney thing that

(17:04):
I was scared to go back. And the first guy
that I went back with was the Fireman, And I
remember telling him like, I hope Disney's not ruined for
forever for me because I love it so much. I
bet you he now looking back, wishes that it was
so we didn't have to go so much.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
But yeah, like who is that it's the happiest place
on earth? Like what we're hav an affairs out here now?

Speaker 2 (17:25):
And not just that, just the thought about like finding
out that he's been cheating while you're on a vacation,
which is a whole another thing.

Speaker 3 (17:31):
And I knew we weren't good, Like I knew I
felt something was off. I knew we weren't good, but
I didn't think we weren't we that it was that bad. Yeah,
I did not see that coming. I definitely did not,
And we were still.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
I'm like hugging up.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
Yeah, I like the emotional scarring of the entire thing.
I would feel the same exact way, because you associate
that place with that emotion, and that takes a long
time to burn.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Throat at the hotel, like when I was a he
was going down and chatting with her at the hotel.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
Why why?

Speaker 9 (18:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (18:04):
Well whatever, that all worked out obviously in the end
for everybody. But this story is crazy.

Speaker 3 (18:10):
Speaking of breakups, Alex Cooper was talking about call her
Daddy the worst breakup stories, and I did not know
that this happened to her. But this doesn't sound like real.
This sounds straight out of a movie.

Speaker 10 (18:22):
One day, I will never forget this. It was a
gorgeous fall Saturday in New York. My best friend was
in town, and I told my boyfriend that I was
going to take her around and we were just going
to go around the city and have like a fun
little girl's day. We kissed goodbye, I headed out.

Speaker 1 (18:39):
When I got back to our apartment.

Speaker 10 (18:41):
As I walked into our lobby, my doorman stopped me
and he looked at me and he said, Alex, I'm
so sorry, but you're not allowed to go upstairs. I
was like, wait, I'm sorry, like I live here, like
when you I live here? Like I was so confuse.
I'm like, what do you mean? I can't go upstairs?

(19:02):
Like all of my stuff is upstairs, my life is
up there. I'm just trying to go home to my apartment,
like what is going on? And before I could get
any answers, he just proceeded to lead me towards a
storage closet, and inside were garbage bags, just a bunch

(19:24):
of garbage bags filled with all of my clothes, all
of my belongings, everything I owned, laptops, cards, everything had
been thrown into garbage bags go and toss out of
my apartment. And when I tried to call my boyfriend
and figure out what was going on, I got no response.
He was completely ghosting me, and he essentially ended our

(19:48):
relationship without even having the breakup conversation.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
He was like, by, honey, you go and enjoy your
beautiful fall, crispy day in New York. And the second
she walked out, he packed up all of her things
in trash bag put him in the storage so that
way she.

Speaker 1 (20:01):
Never even had to come back up the stairs to
the apartment. Again.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
That's crazy, It's diabolical. Essentially he made her homeless, right, Like, yeah,
who does that?

Speaker 1 (20:09):
And I don't know, Like if you had to choose,
would you rather that or a cheat that?

Speaker 2 (20:15):
I would rather a cheat because at least with a
cheat you get the why he left it without a conversation,
and you don''t you won't ever understand what happened.

Speaker 3 (20:23):
Yeah, but honestly though that it could be a double wayman,
because your mind might think automatically there's someone else.

Speaker 1 (20:28):
Then you have that thought, plus your stuff isn't.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
It's still not definite, and I would need to know
the definitive answer why this ended.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Yeah, you're right, because then you're.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
Left wondering the entire time.

Speaker 3 (20:41):
The whole The ghosting thing is crazy because again, back
in the day, I feel like I'm sure it existed,
but I don't think it existed as it wasn't as
prevalent as it is now, Like people just ghost all
the time.

Speaker 2 (20:52):
Well now I think it's more difficult to ghost, but
back then you could because cell phones in social media
and communication wasn't as big as it is.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
But people ghosts now it's it's hard as.

Speaker 2 (21:03):
A ghost, but yeah, it's happening.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
They just yeah, they block you or whatever, and they're
just poof gone.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
When I was dating after the breakup, I was ghosting
people just because it was the easiest way to like
not you didn't have to have the combat the conversation.
I hated having the whole conversation. I wasn't good at
that at at all.

Speaker 1 (21:20):
Yeah, well it's not a fun one to.

Speaker 2 (21:21):
Have, so fade away. And the ghosting was like the movie.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
You Love It.

Speaker 3 (21:25):
I don't know if anybody can top those, like that's
pretty like your stuff is in trash bags, you get dumped,
you can't even go into the apartment to get it back.
Getting cheated on disney World, or having your psycho X
knock on your.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
Door like oh for sure.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
Six one seven, nine three one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five.

Speaker 1 (21:46):
Crazy breakup stories.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
Good morning, it's Ashy the Game of Morning show. We
were talking about breakups Alex Cooper. She did a whole
podcast on it, and she was saying how she went
out one day New York. Her and her boyfriend delivered together.
At the time they came goodbye. She gets back to
her apartment with him, and the door guy's like, no, honey,
you have no access anymore. All of your stuff is
in trash bags. I will lead you to the trash

(22:09):
and you can grab them all crazy.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
Going through a breakup is.

Speaker 3 (22:13):
Such a bonding experience when you have a conversation with
someone because close to everybody has been through a breakup.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yeah, and I think it makes you tougher too. It
makes you like better suited to deal for like the
next relationship.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
Absolutely six one seven.

Speaker 3 (22:28):
Five six one seven nine one nine four five. We
can bond over our breakups. We got this talk back.

Speaker 5 (22:36):
So I have a breakup story that involves both trash
bags and cheating. I was dating my boyfriend at the
time for almost four years.

Speaker 4 (22:45):
We lived together.

Speaker 5 (22:47):
Towards the end, we definitely fought a lot more and
he ended up cheating on me on Easter and I.

Speaker 1 (22:53):
Didn't know until my birthday.

Speaker 11 (22:55):
Two months later.

Speaker 5 (22:56):
I found out on my birthday he cheated on me,
and so I packed up all this stuff.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
I not on Easter, Gosh, not when Christ rises like
that is that's that's that's tough right there. That's a
bad breakup. James is in Roxbury. James wants a chat
about the old ghosting conversation. Well, James I was just
saying that I feel like back in the day didn't happen.
It happened, for sure, obviously, but not as much now.

(23:21):
It's the waves. Like people, you meet somebody, maybe you
don't like them, You go to a couple dates.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
That's not good. They just ghosts, they disappear.

Speaker 9 (23:30):
Well, you know, my theory is this. I think what
happens is a lot of folks they when they're born
and the person that they want is not paying them
any attention. They go on dating gaps, or they go
out socially, and then they meet someone. You have some conversations,
and then they realize, oh, you know what, maybe I
can get that person. I think will help America because

(23:51):
I think this is where you see the most ghosting.
We all have credit scores, maybe we need dating scores
because unfortunately, the reason why there's so much ghosting is
the bottom eighty percent think they're gonna get the top twenty.
So whenever they speak to someone that's in their lane,
they're not content and they're saying, maybe I could do better.
You're not gonna do better. In fact, with the ironies,
most people that you'll see in their boys and fifties

(24:13):
they're with the people that these werved in their early winnings. Interesting,
so you just wasted a bunch of time to try
and chase people who never want you in the first place.
It's almost like a papoot job has three thousand better applicants.
It makes no sense, and I only see it here.
You go to any other country and someone is a dishwasher.
They're not thinking they're gonna get a super handsome lawyer

(24:36):
or attorney. And that goes for guys and girls. Listen,
delusional guys. Is some guys that look like fog plays
that think I have a nice job, I can get
Halle Barry.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
Okay, But you know what on the opposite end of that,
sometimes shooters shoot.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
You see Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco.

Speaker 9 (24:50):
I'm just saying, you know, chewing that shot is how
I think we allow people to go because I'll tell
you right now, nobody goes as people that they're the
number one option. If you're the first choice, you usually
don't get ghosts. It's usually when your choice.

Speaker 3 (25:04):
I'mber three and four, I know well that I can
get behind for sure. All right, James, Well, thank you
for the call. Phones are ringing I want to hear
your breakup stories and you get ghosted whatever, whatever the case.

Speaker 1 (25:14):
May be, We've all been there.

Speaker 3 (25:16):
We can all relate. Six one seven, nine, three one
one four five. We're talking bad breakups. Oh man, you
guys were just sleepy. You were sleeping a little bit.
Now the phones are going crazy. Literally, When I was like, oh,
tell me your breakup stories and the phones didn't ring,
I'm like, oh, oh, I'm sorry. Are we the only loser?
It's not the only ex stalker? Am I the only

(25:37):
loser that got cheated on in Disney? And now now
everybody is awake. Let me just start out by saying, Samara,
can I tell everybody how what our relationship is?

Speaker 1 (25:49):
Are we keeping a secret here? Okay? So my bestie
name is Lindsay.

Speaker 3 (25:56):
Lindsay's fiance is Samara, who were talking to right now?
And she just DMS me and she's like, Ash, I
have the craziest breakup story every.

Speaker 1 (26:04):
Which By the way, I did not know. I had
no idea about this. This is nuts.

Speaker 9 (26:11):
Yeah, we got married.

Speaker 12 (26:12):
We're twenty years old. Quick married, I think three months
three months relationship? Got married?

Speaker 3 (26:17):
Wow, and true lesbian form.

Speaker 11 (26:21):
You hauled it all the way.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
Okay, so this is prior to lindsay, obviously you have
this woman. You guys are dating for three months, you
get married, tell everybody about the breakup.

Speaker 12 (26:31):
I'm married now three years. And one morning she worked
at Timo woollie both did. One morning, she said I'm
going to work, kissed me goodbye, headed to work. I
go on social media. Her sister's like safe flight to
my sister, and I'm like, hmm, because I'm not an idiot.

Speaker 4 (26:48):
Yeah, So I called the job.

Speaker 12 (26:49):
I'm like, hey, by the way, can I speak to
such and such A like oh no, they're on vacation.
And I'm like, oh, excuse me. At that point, I go, look,
the luggage isn't in the house. I get a phone
call like five six hours latest.

Speaker 9 (27:02):
Crying, balling.

Speaker 4 (27:04):
I messed up.

Speaker 9 (27:05):
I messed up, And I'm like, what's going on?

Speaker 12 (27:07):
Yeah, I'm in Paris with someone else, a coworker at
that that thing at least was like five seven years younger.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (27:16):
And she said to her in Paris, I want a divorce.
I'm sorry, I'm with someone I wanted to I.

Speaker 12 (27:21):
Well, we were already heading that way.

Speaker 4 (27:23):
But it was even worse.

Speaker 12 (27:25):
To call me to say I messed up. I'm sorry,
I made a mistake, and even the girl there broke
her phone because the girl's like, wow, you're calling your wife.

Speaker 9 (27:33):
You're supposed to be with me.

Speaker 12 (27:35):
It became a whole thing. But I thank god that
happened because now, almost eight years later, we are planning
a wedding.

Speaker 3 (27:41):
Yeah, we are planning a wedding, and I'm still waiting
for the news about the party to be at that. Okay, well, yes,
you know what. Luckily Lynz came and swept you off
your feet girlfriend.

Speaker 9 (27:54):
Mmmmmm, thank god. Now hopefully someone can top this one
and make me feel better.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
We got we got one. We got one.

Speaker 3 (27:59):
We got one next to mere. Thanks, love you bye.
That's crazy, the old, the old call from Parry like
it's not Antwinette is in Rosie. You know what, Antwinette,
I called Santi the crazy X And now I might
have to also call you that. Not saying that this

(28:20):
person didn't deserve it, but tell us your story.

Speaker 12 (28:24):
Hi.

Speaker 13 (28:24):
So basically I phoned out my ex was chieving it
doesn't take an.

Speaker 14 (28:29):
Hour to go to dunkin doughnut.

Speaker 13 (28:31):
So I looked in his phone. I saw some pictures
that I probably he probably did not want me to
see because they were under the deleted file. So I
basically packed up all his stuff while he went to work.
I put it outside, and he was due to start
a new job with the MBTA in the next few days.
So I took all his new stuff from the MBTA,

(28:55):
his uniforms, all the new stuff. I put it outside,
it on the grill, and I burnt.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
Lit it up. It's giving waiting to exhale. Yeah, you did.

Speaker 3 (29:06):
You know what. I'm not saying you didn't deserve it.
I'm not, but it's giving Santi. But I listen, he
got what he had coming.

Speaker 4 (29:15):
He did, he did.

Speaker 13 (29:17):
I love watch the video.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
Oh that's so funny.

Speaker 3 (29:20):
Yeah, when when she's down and she's feel better, she
watched the video and thanks for the call. She filmed.

Speaker 2 (29:24):
She filmed it. She filmed it, and I'm the crazy X.
I'm like, come on now, yeah, but I've changed from that.
I would never do that again for anybody, maybe for
my wife. Okay, especially show then you need.

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Speaker 7 (29:46):
She haven't any more vibe, Sir, you're pleading guilty to
these two indictments because you wish to plead guilty because
you are guilty.

Speaker 1 (29:54):
Is that correct?

Speaker 7 (29:56):
That is correct, mister Wallas, did you in fact willfully
remove convey the body of Anna Walsh or her remains,
not being lawfully authorized to do so?

Speaker 3 (30:07):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (30:07):
Do you now plead guilty to these indictments willingly and voluntarily?

Speaker 8 (30:12):
Yes, honor.

Speaker 3 (30:13):
Wednesday, November nineteenth, and what a day in court yesterday
for the Cohase Killerbrian Walsh, who offered a partial plea
to the court on two of the three charges like
you just heard there. He pled guilty to essentially lying
to the police and unlawful disposal of a body. So
prosecutors have claimed from the beginning that his interference led

(30:34):
to the destruction of his wife's remains. So they know,
and he's admitting, yeah, the body around, but guess what,
you don't have a body.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:44):
And that's why right now he's not pleading.

Speaker 3 (30:46):
Guilty to that murder charge because whilst he was lying
to the police, they're worried that he maybe disposed I
think probably burns, yeah, but remains.

Speaker 1 (30:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:59):
I mean at this point, like how about we just
don't kill our wives?

Speaker 11 (31:02):
Right?

Speaker 2 (31:02):
Thank you?

Speaker 1 (31:03):
Crazy thought that that's up on the list.

Speaker 3 (31:05):
I mean, if you if you dig into this story,
and I'm sure a lot of you have, maybe some
of you are new to it.

Speaker 8 (31:11):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (31:12):
Brian Walsh had already had a criminal history. He was,
you know, lying to people about artwork. He had some
art fraud on his resume. He believed that his wife
was going to DC to cheat on him. Thought she
was having an affair, so police believe around New Year's
Day he ended her life. He then went on his
child's iPad and looked up ten ways to dispose.

Speaker 1 (31:35):
Of a dead body. If you really want to sounds
made up.

Speaker 2 (31:39):
Now, if you're crazy enough to take the steps of
to kill your spouse, how about we don't search stuff
up on the Google eye.

Speaker 1 (31:45):
Yeah, that wasn't it. Son.

Speaker 3 (31:46):
He was also searching porn involving a cheating wife like
he hit this man is And yet he walks into
court every day holding all of his books and smiling
and waving at his mommy. Now, because he was dealing
with that art fraud, he had an a monitor on,
so he really was only allowed to go to a
couple locations, one of which being his mom's.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
There was a dumpster there.

Speaker 3 (32:06):
They he knows what he did, Yeah, he knows what
he did. But I think they're going to hold on
to the old no body, no crime and if they
can't produce a body, then can they pin this guy?
I mean, it makes it easier when you look up
ten ways to dispose of a dead body if you
really need to.

Speaker 2 (32:23):
But that game plan is not a good one. But
I will say, like, there is a hole in it.
But at the end of the day, he's gonna get
found because here's the thing. All the evidence is there
that he did it.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
If for some crazy reason he gets found not guilty
of the murder because he pled guilty to those other charges,
he would really only be looking at like a max
of twenty years, maybe even last like thirteen.

Speaker 2 (32:44):
Which is insane because he would get out and still
be able to live a life.

Speaker 1 (32:47):
Nine of the sixteen jurors are seated so far.

Speaker 3 (32:50):
The goal is to have that done twelve jurors for
alternates by before Thanksgiving song is obviously they're not in
there next week, and then once that is done, they
are going to plead with the jurors to avoid consuming
any news or social media platforms.

Speaker 1 (33:08):
Good luck, honey. Jury selection will resume today.

Speaker 3 (33:11):
Let's stay in the courtroom, though, and talk about our girl,
Karen Reid.

Speaker 1 (33:15):
She filed a lawsuit this week.

Speaker 3 (33:16):
Care is suing several witnesses and investigators that she alleges
quote concocted a plan to frame her for killing her boyfriend,
Boston police officer John O'Keefe. The complaint says John was
killed in an altercation during a late night house party
after a night of heavy drinking. Rather than help John
by calling nine one one, Karen claims the house party
guest made a now infamous Google search hostloan to die

(33:38):
in the cold and move John O'Keeffe's body outside to
make it appear as though he were struck by a car.

Speaker 14 (33:44):
Man.

Speaker 2 (33:45):
And she's still has been mia. We haven't seen her
in months. Where is she?

Speaker 3 (33:49):
I saw that she filed these charges in I want
to say, I'm like Bristol County and don't you have
to file where you live?

Speaker 2 (33:56):
I think so, yeah, I mean, but it's the same
thing that I would do. Because again, this is now
going to be in the news again, people talking about it.

Speaker 3 (34:03):
There's so many layers to these guys to add another one,
the Albert's, the mccabs, Brian Hagen's, they're all planning to
sue not only Karen but Turtle Boy for defamation overclaims
that they were involved in John's death. And then yet
we still have Karen dealing with this ongoing civil suit
filed by the o'keefes family who believes that she killed.

Speaker 2 (34:25):
I honestly thought that last year this whole thing was
going to anybody. It seems like it's going to be
in the news now for like Lisa.

Speaker 3 (34:30):
Never going away, And you know what's so crazy, We
are never going, at least with Brian Walsh like we
know what that man did.

Speaker 1 (34:36):
Yes, we're never going to know what.

Speaker 3 (34:38):
We can believe one side or the other when it
comes to car, but we're never going to really.

Speaker 2 (34:43):
No, because if you're on either side, you're still kind
of questioning at least a couple of aspects of the case.

Speaker 3 (34:47):
Yes, well so not the pink people. No, Yeah, don't
you dare? Don't you dare?

Speaker 1 (34:53):
Let's stay in court, you know we might as well.
Meghan the Stallion has.

Speaker 3 (34:56):
Been seen in court the last couple of days. Remember Megh,
is in core because she is accusing Malagro, Cooper and
Tory Lanes of coordinating a let's just call it like
a smear campaign against her during the trial against Tory
in twenty twenty two.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
This thing is taken into well.

Speaker 3 (35:11):
First off, every time Meg goes into court, she is
looking happy, she is looking healthy, seemingly like she's good.
I think she's gonna hop it on to the Cardi
train where she's like, you want to go online and
say false things about me, That's fine, You're gonna pay
me in the end. You know. She feels like Tory
and Milagro got together and they were putting out some

(35:33):
false accusations during the trial. Now, for this exact court case,
Tory Lanes and his attorney were asked to answer some
questions for the deposition. Now, I don't know how this
legally works, but I guess essentially the judge can say,
this is what needs to happen.

Speaker 1 (35:50):
He needs to answer these questions.

Speaker 3 (35:52):
If, in fact, he walks out during the meeting, if
he's rude, if he doesn't answer questions, then he can
be fined.

Speaker 1 (35:59):
And he was.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
He was find twenty thousand dollars for making the case
harder because he got out walked.

Speaker 1 (36:03):
He like yelled at the attorney and left out.

Speaker 3 (36:06):
The judge also made his lawyer pay five thousand dollars
for not doing her job properly and making her client
sit down for the deposition.

Speaker 2 (36:12):
Like Torria this case, just answer the question and maybe
there's a chance you get out, like a year or
two before.

Speaker 3 (36:19):
This man's like, I'm down to just like be held
in contempt so I don't have to answer any of
these questions.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
It's crazy. I actually think Meg's gonna win this one.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
Yeah, right, I really do.

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All right, Jane, Well, thank you for the call. We afraid.

Speaker 3 (39:17):
I was like, good Nancy is calling from Where are
you Nance?

Speaker 11 (39:24):
I'm in Boston?

Speaker 9 (39:26):
Are hi?

Speaker 1 (39:26):
Nance?

Speaker 3 (39:26):
Okay, So earlier in the show we were talking about
crazy breakup stories and we were like we had to
hear yours, so so tell us what happened?

Speaker 15 (39:36):
Okay.

Speaker 11 (39:36):
So I did this guy for like six months, met
his family, went on several different trips with him, and
then this actually just happened recently, and he started becoming
like really cold and distant a couple of weeks before
we broke up, and it's like kind of getting messages
on his phone, tilting his phone, doing things like, hey.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
The old we're sitting at the table, I'm going to
text and then turn it upside down.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
I've seen that one.

Speaker 3 (40:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (40:00):
And then and then he said he wanted to take
things flow because I'd always go to his house on
the weekends. And I was like, okay, so but your mom,
you know, invite me over Thanksgiving if you want to
take things flow, should we be doing that? And then
we went to visit his daughter to meet her his
daughter's boyfriend's parents. I'm like, do you think I should
really be going with you even if we were dating?
But even if we were dating for three weeks, why

(40:20):
wouldn't you meet them? And I was like, So we went,
and then this was our six month anniversary. So I
ended up giving them some you know, gifts and couple
of gad gifts. When we get back from the trip.
This was a few weeks, like a month ago. He
was like, oh, well, those gifts were childish and you know,
it was just being really nasty and saying mean things.
And then I said, okay, fine. You know, so he

(40:42):
broke up with me, and then I was like, well,
then I stopped by your house on the weekend and
grab my stuff. He wouldn't even let me go to
his house to grab my things. I met him like
on the side of the road.

Speaker 3 (40:51):
What the hell did we ever get an answer as
to what really ignited me?

Speaker 1 (40:55):
Do we think there was someone else?

Speaker 11 (40:58):
I think I think he found someone else. And we
never even argued, that's the thing. And his parents loved me,
like I met his daughter, I met his brother. I mean,
I mean I met everybody, and we never even argued.
But I started noticing a pattern because we did go
to Disney, and so we were trying to merge our
Disney Apple counts and some other girl was on there
because he ended up taking another girl there. Then he

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then I found out he took another girl to Paris
and another girl to Spain. So I started noticing a pattern.
And he just can't like, you know, I never had
a long term relationship.

Speaker 3 (41:29):
Yeah, And it's like, if you don't mind, can I
get his info because AJ could use a trip. I
mean she could absolutely such a how hey, by the.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
Way, nance how were.

Speaker 3 (41:40):
Things in Like when we shut the bedroom door, was
everything okay in there?

Speaker 9 (41:44):
Or did you no?

Speaker 4 (41:46):
No?

Speaker 11 (41:47):
I actually sent him a nice, little nasty letter giving
him my opinion. I was like, you know, in the beginning,
all of these things that you said you were going
to do, he never met any expectations.

Speaker 4 (41:57):
So wow.

Speaker 3 (41:57):
I mean, but going on trips like that in just
six months of knowing each other is also crazy. I mean,
even like you said, merging the families after just six months,
we're gonna do thing. We're gonna have turkey together. That's
that's putting the full court press.

Speaker 1 (42:10):
That's a rush.

Speaker 13 (42:12):
Yeah, he will.

Speaker 11 (42:12):
He kind of tried to put everything on me. Like
he called me out of the blue one day I
left work. I called him. I was like, you know,
we were just having our normal conversations. He's like, let
me call you back, and then all of a sudden
he called me back saying my gifts were childish and
you know this, mos and that. But we never even argued.
It was just a slap in the face. And I
you know, and I told him a lot of things.
My husband passed away a couple of years ago, and
for him just to do that, it was just he's really.

Speaker 1 (42:34):
Nasty, and he's nasty is from Southy.

Speaker 3 (42:40):
Yeah, yeah, ah, well, nance you know what, I'm sorry.
I still feel like we got time. You're gonna find it,
you will, I hope so you will da keep your
head up and block his number.

Speaker 11 (42:57):
Oh I sure am, thank you, thank.

Speaker 1 (42:59):
You for the call.

Speaker 2 (43:00):
That's crazy and that our husband died.

Speaker 3 (43:02):
And he's and she's getting back in the game, and
that I mean you were running to grab the phones.
But like he would say to her, will come and
meet my parents. They've been dating for like a month,
like we did? What what what?

Speaker 2 (43:13):
Yeah? That would make anybody feel like they have something special.

Speaker 3 (43:16):
They were planning Thanksgiving. I mean in less than six months,
they're going to Disney for a trip. I mean that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (43:22):
But if you start to listen though, and then like
this guy has m but he bring he brings people
on these amazing vacations too. Yeah, well that's.

Speaker 3 (43:30):
Why I said with us said they can go to
Patty all right six one seven nine three one one
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Speaker 1 (43:40):
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Speaker 3 (43:42):
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Speaker 1 (43:55):
How are we? What's going on? What do we do in?

Speaker 3 (43:58):
Chica is in Dorchester and she told a j she's
got some she's got some problems.

Speaker 1 (44:03):
She needs us to help her iron them out. Talk
to me, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (44:08):
Hey, guys?

Speaker 4 (44:10):
So yeah, teak up from Dorchester. Here again. I am
black and clear all the way here. And I have
this girl who I've wanted for so long, like literally
two years. I've seen her get engaged in her engagement.

Speaker 9 (44:25):
All that still.

Speaker 1 (44:31):
Engaged.

Speaker 4 (44:31):
Yeah, I still waited for her, like I thought she
was everything I would want, Like she just seems so amazing,
like through and through. So yeah, really wanted it. And
granted we started a friendship, you know, and the friendship
is great, But we started the friendship with the intention
of talking for real and dating. But then somebody came

(44:55):
left hand and just like they came out of nowhere,
and I feel like I'm falling really hard, really fast.
I think It's only been like a little under a
month that I've known this woman. Oh but I have
never felt like this, like ever, and I don't want
to block my blessings and like, yeah, on the sideburn

(45:17):
since I've been waiting for a two years.

Speaker 3 (45:18):
But hey, thanks Listen, everyone in the car and everyone
listening is saying, we're all screaming the same thing. Why
are we waiting for someone when we got somebody right
in front of us that we've quote never felt this
way before.

Speaker 1 (45:33):
Listen, we can't be waiting on people. We can't. We
have to live each day to its fullest. You're waiting
on a woman that was engaged to another woman. We
have to close this chapter. We have to allow space
for the new.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
This is valid, I'm telling you.

Speaker 1 (45:49):
Because here's the thing.

Speaker 3 (45:50):
If if in the end that woman you waited all
those years for, what if she doesn't choose you, and
you and you and you block this potential blessing like
you said, and you end up alone.

Speaker 4 (46:03):
That would be a horrible tragedy.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
I would.

Speaker 3 (46:07):
And by the way, can I also throw in, how listen,
consider yourself lucky because we have so many people that
call on this show that are so sadly single, and
here you are with options.

Speaker 4 (46:17):
Okay, Well, I'm a little baddie if I can say so.
But I could be here though there, and I'm pretty funny,
so I can.

Speaker 1 (46:29):
I can understand it. You wouldn't have two women after
you if you were.

Speaker 3 (46:32):
By the way, you keep using the words like that
that this other woman that you're waiting and you're waiting,
why why is she not coming after you? Like why
are you option B for her? And by the way,
you don't sound like an option B bitch, you know.

Speaker 4 (46:45):
Because now she is, and now she's applying all his
pressure and it's like, god, damn, sorry, it's like, dang,
I wanted this, like oh I was a granted, she
didn't really know.

Speaker 9 (46:57):
Why I existed, Yeah, and I wanted her don't really
even know I existed.

Speaker 4 (47:01):
Once I fully introduced myself, she looked at me and
I never looked back. So it's not like I did
not gave her attentions the moment, I like actively tried.
But still it's like a little.

Speaker 9 (47:13):
Too late, Like ye, girl, I don't I've seen you
through it.

Speaker 4 (47:17):
All and now you've just met me and the energy
is it's cool, but it's a little too late.

Speaker 3 (47:24):
And what about this other woman that you've been chatting
with for a month and you've never felt this way
before about what's like, what's her story?

Speaker 4 (47:32):
Oh my goodness? So oh my gosh, she is amazing.
She just makes me slightly nervous because, oh I'm sensitive.
She's extremely sensitive, and I don't know if it's normal
for people to fall in love this fast. I know

(47:52):
I'm crazy because I care how I care. I don't
know if she's supposed to feel how she feel about
me this fast as soon? Are we both crazy? Should
we both be dating each other? Well?

Speaker 9 (48:03):
We both unhinged?

Speaker 14 (48:04):
Therapy.

Speaker 1 (48:06):
Why Santi fell in love that fast? On you could
speak to that.

Speaker 2 (48:11):
It was very fast. We went on our first date
on February second. I was in love with her like
two weeks after that. So it happened and it worked out.

Speaker 4 (48:17):
So see, Okay, that's how I feel like I literally
want this woman, like I want to go to this
like I need to go to a bank this one.
Sprim put it in like I want to make my
whole baby mama.

Speaker 3 (48:29):
Okay, well, then I don't even know why we are
chit chatting about the other woman. I think you just
got your answer very graphic. But I think you just
got your your answer. Chica, listen.

Speaker 4 (48:40):
I think I just needed someone else to tell me
I would not be crazy. We don't go all and
like this because I feel like she is the one.

Speaker 1 (48:48):
Let love it.

Speaker 3 (48:48):
I mean, you, hey, you are crazy, but it seems
like so is she and you guys are crazy together
in love.

Speaker 1 (48:54):
There you have it.

Speaker 4 (48:57):
Just just don't move.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
In, don't don't, don't you call it. We don't need
to move in right away, but you know that.

Speaker 2 (49:03):
But go to the bank.

Speaker 3 (49:04):
Okay, bye, goodbye.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
She was starting to explain the process.

Speaker 2 (49:10):
I'm like, oh, we gotta I think we understand.

Speaker 1 (49:12):
Yeah, we gotta go.

Speaker 3 (49:14):
Wow True love with options six one seven, nine three
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Speaker 1 (49:23):
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Speaker 3 (49:55):
All right, mister telephone man's checking in. Wants to talk
about Haiti going too the World World Cup.

Speaker 14 (50:02):
Yeah, good morning everyone, ask good morning morning. How's everybody going. Yeah,
I just wanted to salute Haiti on a historical win
fifty two years I think it was nineteen seventy four
when they went to the World Cup last I just
wanted to shout out all the Haitians, all the zos
locally and abroad. It's this big historic it's a lot
of excitement. If you know any Haitians shot them out.

(50:25):
And I wanted to mention that that call I heard
prior to you going to the air that I don't
know her name, but I feel bad for people because
you didn't mention that people are lonely and sad. I
don't think that's all necessarily true. You could be single
and be living, vibrant and happy and full of life,
you know what I mean? Sure thing is the thing

(50:48):
is she sounds like she was a little desperate. And
then when you're lonely and you're desperate, you get any
attention you go crazy, then you're you know, fools rushing,
then you're in love, and then you head over heels
and you put people on a pedestal.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
Talking about Chica, who has the woman?

Speaker 14 (51:03):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know her name. Her name is crazy, but.

Speaker 1 (51:06):
Yeah, desperate.

Speaker 3 (51:07):
She's not rushing, She's just a lesbian and that's what
they do. They move quickly.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
There's no you.

Speaker 14 (51:13):
Know, lesbian or not. Love is love, you know. But
at the end of the day, I'm just saying, like,
you don't, don't fool, don't even rush in, so you
love yourself first and then you could start to love
someone else. And that's what I think Chica needs to do.
Whether you're lesbian or not.

Speaker 1 (51:26):
You know, well, no, I mean.

Speaker 3 (51:27):
What I'm telling you as a lesbian connoisseur, that's them
knowing each other for a month and being in love
like that's not weird by any means for them.

Speaker 1 (51:35):
That's so, that's that's usual behavior. But by the way,
who died and made you the relationship connoisseur out of curiosity?

Speaker 9 (51:43):
Me?

Speaker 14 (51:44):
Me? My relationship died and I became the relationship connoisseur.
I had a lot of self reflecting. I have to
focus on myself and what did I do? What is
my wrongs and in what I did and ruining my
relationship in my marriage. So yeah, it's very hard to
look at your off in the mirror and self reflect
So what kind of made me talk like that?

Speaker 1 (52:04):
I got it? So you did the divorce go through
or you guys we're.

Speaker 9 (52:08):
Working through it.

Speaker 14 (52:09):
We're just trying to, you know, keep the peace and
keep the kids at the basis of everything, you know,
and keep that normal see for them. So what's it?

Speaker 1 (52:18):
What's it been like?

Speaker 3 (52:19):
Are you so, I know you said, you know, find
peace with yourself. Is that what you're doing? You're not
dating or anything? You're just living with peace?

Speaker 14 (52:26):
Yeah? Absolutely, I mean yeah, I'm dating and everything, you know,
But hold on, Broma. You know, I'm at the gym.
I'm about to play ball.

Speaker 9 (52:34):
But yeah, so.

Speaker 1 (52:37):
Are you any good? Are you any good?

Speaker 14 (52:40):
Oh? I'm a baller. You know what I'm saying. You
gotta pull up if we should hold something, so we could,
you know, get all the ballers locally and just get
in get it in. I know you played at Northeast.

Speaker 1 (52:49):
Are you near anyone right now?

Speaker 14 (52:52):
I'm about to walk on the court. I'm ready about
to play. I'm in the gym.

Speaker 1 (52:55):
Can you hand the phone to one person that you're
about to play with?

Speaker 13 (52:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (52:59):
Yeah, quick, real quick, really quick, real quick, real quick.

Speaker 14 (53:02):
Come on, old on, hold on, yeah you want to
say up?

Speaker 9 (53:06):
Was going on?

Speaker 14 (53:07):
Man?

Speaker 9 (53:07):
Hey?

Speaker 3 (53:07):
Real quick question for you, mister telephone man, he has
any game? Or is he building building houses out there
with all those bricks?

Speaker 9 (53:16):
That's the Haitian Jordan's Jordan Wow.

Speaker 2 (53:21):
You know every Hi.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
Jordan Wow. They have ladies.

Speaker 3 (53:27):
If you're looking for a single Haittion man, I got buckets,
mister telephone man.

Speaker 2 (53:31):
Who can't afford to play basketball at eight a m.
In the morning.

Speaker 1 (53:33):
Yes, I am so jealous.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
I actually never been more jealous of anything in my life.
By the way, I do want to play this really quickly.
We got this question.

Speaker 11 (53:41):
Did Sanzi ever buy apply from Jamie or is he
going to be sitting on the house for.

Speaker 1 (53:48):
Any of you guys that followed along when Jamie calls in. He,
I mean, for the past three years, like it's not
even a joke.

Speaker 3 (53:54):
He has been asking Santi if Santi will buy one
of his pies.

Speaker 7 (53:58):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (53:58):
This just in son Teller in the Big News Technically
I did not buy a pie, but you did buy popcorn. Popcorn,