I Look Too Good To Be With Anyone (Full Show)

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake yo, Hi everybody, Good morning and happy Tuesday.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
What was going on?

Speaker 3 (00:08):
I guess nothing. I wish I was still in Mexico.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
You know, we were trying to debate who was going to
a boogie resort. You were Billy Costa. You were both
in Mexico at the same time. But she never ran
into him.

Speaker 3 (00:18):
I didn't. I also don't know where he stayed. But
like Billy has way, Billy, I'm.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Not trying to throw shade at you, but Billy stayed
somewhere nicer.

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Way like, Actually I don't think no, but Billy's having
an easier time paying for it.

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Remember, it's not just trying to throw into our face
like this, He's staying at such a nice place in Mexico.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
One little googly search and I found out I got robbed, Like.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I like read the whole thing. So there was a
family staying there. Somebody kept trying to come in the room,
and then what the kicker the whole thing was somebody
came into the room law the mother in law was changing,
so that through them for a loop and was trying
to rob them and do some other stuffy somebody's came
in the room at the wrong time. To restock the
mini bar, you know, and he saw the naked.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
Santi scared me though, because every time when I go
to these resorts, I always put stuff in the safe.
But Santi made a good point. He's like, Ash, what
if you forget the code? You don't think they have
like a master kid.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
They do have one.

Speaker 4 (01:14):
Yeah, yeah, the whole Yeah, so what are we even putting?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
But that's the thing.

Speaker 5 (01:19):
If you go in and you come back and you
see something's gone clearly somewhere from the hotel.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
The bottom line is I like, I think we can
go ahead and say I've on our show stayed at
the nicest hotel, Like I remember, Jade Mountain is ranked,
like I remember got robbed, Yes, I got robbed at
Jade Mountain. So if you can get robbed there, it's
ten thousand a night.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
I mean you can only trust the people who worked there,
like so much. You don't know their background and like
all this stuff.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
Yeah, so just don't leave nothing, don't leave anything in
the on the tables, on the counters, put everything in
the safe. Maybe tip Well, then they'll be like, we
won't rob them today. They got a tip tip too good.
Then you're like, oh, they have extra bread, so it's like.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
I'd also like to throw And I'm sure that the
you know, Rice Peelof was amazing at that restaurant.

Speaker 6 (02:05):
It definitely was.

Speaker 7 (02:11):
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Speaker 8 (02:17):
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Speaker 4 (02:21):
Hi babes, good morning. We're going to be on the
swipe right here.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
We're talking dating, love, relationships and just the craziness that
it is out there. Six one seven nine three one
one nine four five six one seven nine three one
one nine four five.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
We're gonna start it with a first.

Speaker 9 (02:40):
Tender Tuesday or whatever you call it nowadays. I'm just
trying to give guests some advice. I don't know if
it's just me or I'm just completely giving up on
a love thing.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (02:52):
Maybe I just felt like a fat ass, or I
just felt completely ugly, or I don't know. I'm trying
to build myself at but it's kind of hard when
you're a lonely man thirty eight years old.

Speaker 6 (03:04):
It sucks.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
I want to hold him. That just made me so sad.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
He probably doesn't feel awesome about himself.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
He feels so down.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
I think he thinks that he's alone in it, and
I think the main thing to remind him is that
so many other people feel the same way dating right now.
I mean, look, AJ comes on here. It's not like
AJ has these great stories to tell every time. Like
she's struggling a little bit too, and you know, some
of my other single friends, like, it's just not easy
out there.

Speaker 4 (03:33):
But I hate that he called himself a you know,
I hate the effort.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
There's somebody for everybody, and I'm sure he'll find that person,
but I like, he just sounded so defeated.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, I feel like he needs to start doing something
for himself. It seems like he's out there like searching
and it's just bad. But like, look at yourself first.
I'm not saying he needs to go and do the
fitness thing, but just go do something to help yourself
out first, to change the mindset a bit.

Speaker 4 (03:55):
Joels, you're a single man.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
You're out there in the streets other than you know,
like hooking up with a married man's wife. What is
your suggestion for somebody that's like you?

Speaker 4 (04:05):
When you hear that like that, what does that make
you feel to me?

Speaker 10 (04:09):
I wouldn't even focus on a relationship. To me, I
feel like he needs to focus on himself and learn
to love himself because like, like like you guys were saying,
it breaks my heart to hear that, but he needs
to really focus on loving himself and finding finding that love,
and then he'll be able to find love in another person.

Speaker 1 (04:29):
I'm assuming that because he's like referencing those things, he's
feeling like he can't even find a date because of that,
I guess, because like why else would that be mentioned.

Speaker 3 (04:39):
If that's an issue, then start something that's small and achievable.
Maybe it's a thirty minute walk a day, so you're
not sending these crazy goals of losing one hundred pounds
in two months. Just set something small so it's like
a slower burn.

Speaker 4 (04:52):
It's just not easy.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
It's not ey, it's not it's definitely it's.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
It's a struggle for a lot of people, and I
think people get to the point where they just defeated
like that, Like he's like, I'm thirty eight years old
and I you know, and.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
Also way too many people put it like on weight,
there's don't worry about the way, Oh right, you know what,
I mean like that'll work itself out in honestly, who
really cares?

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Right? And also, thirty eight is still young, right.

Speaker 4 (05:15):
Yeah, I'm thirty eight. I feel good.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
I'm forty four and I feel good.

Speaker 10 (05:20):
I'm talking about the love. Oh yeah, like to lose weight,
but no, yay is young?

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Yeah, yes, you can one hundred percent still find love
at thirty eight. I know somebody who's a solid twenty
ish years older than that that's newly single and also petrified,
you know, because that you're in a whole different place
in your life.

Speaker 4 (05:40):
But again, I really do think that there's somebody for everybody. Absolutely,
I think that you can find somebody.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
I don't know if that that just triggered you to
want to call in and make my guy feel a
little bit better, because he's obviously listening. But in the meantime,
we're talking dating, love relationships.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
What's going on with you in that world?

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Six one seven nine one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five dating
love relationships and everything in between. It's beyond the wipe
the morning soon, Hi, everybody, good morning. It's actually in
the jam at morning show. We're talking dating love relationships,
beyond the swipe.

Speaker 4 (06:14):
We just had a talk back from a guy who's
I mean, he's hurting. He's just like, listen, I don't
know what to do anymore. I'm thirty eight. I feel
like I can't find anybody.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
And I said, maybe that that call alone.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
Makes you feel like you want to call and chat
about it.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
But in the meantime six one seven nine three one
one nine four five, we're talking dating, love relationships. You
could ask us for ask us for advice anything. We're
gonna go to Sasha. Sasha is having trouble. But Son,
it's just a little different that I think than what
the guy in the talk back was saying. Sasha, you're
having trouble because you feel like you're so attractive that

(06:50):
nobody is seeing you for who you actually are.

Speaker 4 (06:52):
They're just only trying to date you because you're pretty.

Speaker 11 (06:55):
Okay, Yes, I really like I don't even want to
try anymore because no one wants to talk about my
interest or what I like or what I do. They
just like straight in for the physical part of it,
and it's.

Speaker 3 (07:09):
Annoying, like you're so pretty that like they don't even
like how pretty? Like are we talking on scale of
one to ten.

Speaker 11 (07:15):
I guess I would give myself an eight. But I
have a nice body, so like that's what I contributed
to mostly, Like I have a pretty face, but I
have a small waist, and it's just like that's not
I didn't ask for this body.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
It must suck.

Speaker 11 (07:31):
I mean, I sounds like a crazy thing to say,
but like, I genuinely don't have interest in what they're
interested in. I want to like traditional love, love relationship,
and that's not happening for me.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
I am sure that one of these guys like like, listen,
we are you.

Speaker 4 (07:47):
On the apps?

Speaker 12 (07:49):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (07:49):
All right, gosh, well let's let's start there.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
The apps are what they are, right, They're looking at
your body, they're looking at your face, They're looking at
these things to say, hey, I would want to have
sexuals with that.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
That just is what it is. I'm gonna can't play
pretend here when we're talking about the apps.

Speaker 1 (08:02):
But beyond that, there's got to be one of these
guys that you go out with that wants more than
just that. You're going to find one, you know you will.
I just think you've kissed a few frogs, like give
it some time.

Speaker 11 (08:16):
Well, I don't go on many dates. That's the problem
I refuse, Like once it gets to that, once it
becomes sexual, I don't entertain it anymore.

Speaker 1 (08:25):
So so give me an example, as in, you guys
are like conversing on the app or whatever, and then
they're right away or like I want to you're so
pretty old to touch that skinny waist or what do
they say?

Speaker 11 (08:34):
Yeah, Like basically they're just like, wow, I've never seen
someone like you, which is I'm sure that's bs. And
then they're just like, you know, how do you feel
about meeting up and then doing this and that? And
I'm like, do you even know my middle name? Do
you even care about what I like to do or
what I do for work? It's not there's no interest
in getting to know me. But it's not just on

(08:55):
the app. It's everywhere. It's in person, it's on Instagram,
it's on TikTok, everywhere.

Speaker 4 (09:01):
I mean, I gotta get eyes on you, girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (09:04):
This is like like I want to see I myself
have a ass that's as flat as a door. So
I don't know the feeling like no one's ever stopping
me on the street like that, and my waist is
not small.

Speaker 4 (09:17):
Uh, But it must be nice. I gotta do you
have an Instagram?

Speaker 13 (09:22):
I do?

Speaker 11 (09:22):
Do I have to say it on No?

Speaker 1 (09:24):
No, you don't have to say it on the air,
but I do need to see you because I'm just
you know, it's just I'm just dying now.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
But listen.

Speaker 4 (09:32):
As a just I'm just listening to this conversation.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
I feel like you're going into every single conversation with
every guy thinking I'm so pretty, I'm so skinny, I
have this body, They're not gonna want me for me.
And if you're already going into it with that mentality,
that's what's gonna happen. So I think maybe just deep breath,
take a step back, and let let let somebody court

(09:58):
you and love you for the inside, not the outside.

Speaker 11 (10:03):
Do you have any suggestions other than dating apps because
I keep re downloading and then you know, deleting because
it's not really working.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
I don't think.

Speaker 3 (10:12):
There's any one one specific thing that you should do.
You should do just do everything, but have an open
mind to meet somebody.

Speaker 10 (10:18):
Yeah, but also, like nobody's ever said, you know, that
person looks like they have a really great personality, right right,
People look at another person and say that person is
really attractive, I would like to get to know them.
So it always starts on the attraction.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
Yeah, yeah, I agree, and like that's what the apps are,
and I'm sorry, there's nothing wrong with that. You're shopping
for somebody and then hoping that when you get to
know them you like their personality. But that that's like,
I think you have to be okay with somebody swiping
and being like, she's pretty, I want to get to
know her. You got to start giving people the benefit
of the doubt a little bit, well, I meaning yourself. Listen,

(10:58):
Beyonce found love, Rihanna found Kendall Jenner found love, Kylie
found love, Kim found a few loves So we'll be fine. Gizelle, Giselle,
Jelle's don't just had the baby, Sasha hang on the
line there, don't go anywhere. I got my my lesbian
bestie being like I.

Speaker 3 (11:18):
Need a pick to over rather to have somebody say
I'm really attractive then ugly. So yeah, it's like, yeah,
you know what it is.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
You don't hear it a lot.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
Yeah, you don't hear somebody calling in and being like
I'm so pretty that because like you just.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
When you say it like that. It comes off as
like off put, like it's not a nice feeling.

Speaker 1 (11:36):
Even if Beyonce called in and said I'm so pretty,
like it would make me feel it's just you don't
hear it.

Speaker 3 (11:43):
I wouldn't like that as a guy. I wouldn't want
to date somebody who said that, Who do you want
to talk to? Line one?

Speaker 6 (11:47):
Hi, Mike, Hey, how you doing good?

Speaker 1 (11:51):
So, after you know, hearing that conversation, we've had, we've
had total opposite ends of the spectrum. We've had I
can't find anybody, like, I don't love myself, I don't
like the way I look. And then we just had
I can't find anybody because I love the way I look.

Speaker 4 (12:04):
I'm it's so pretty. It's hard. You kind of just
feel like people.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
Got to just get out there and and try date.

Speaker 6 (12:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (12:15):
Yeah, I went through a horrible relationship and I felt,
you know, rock bottom, and I was like, you know,
no one wants to talk to me, no one wants
to be with me. But it was really getting out there,
just being uncomfortable, figuring out what you like and just
trying to try to reignite who you are as a
person to just you know, feel that sparked again. And

(12:38):
I say that to everyone, you know, try to do
something that makes yourself uncomfortable, because yeah, you might, you
might find out you like you like it.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
You know, listen, I I completely understand what you're saying.
Bust out of your comfort zone. You never know what
you could find over there.

Speaker 14 (12:55):
Yeah, and I'm signal now, you know. And like listen,
I'm I'm my own salesman. But yeah, like I'm where
I am in life. I'm you know, I got a
good job.

Speaker 12 (13:05):
I got people around me that love and respect me,
and you know, I'm happy where I am in life.
And I think that's where everyone needs to be.

Speaker 6 (13:14):
The mind that person.

Speaker 4 (13:16):
It's not like a good guy. What a holding man.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
I'm thirty, ask me the wrong question.

Speaker 4 (13:22):
Yeah, you're right? Are you black?

Speaker 12 (13:26):
I'm not?

Speaker 4 (13:26):
Oh well, yeah, it's been so nice chatting with you.
Sorry a J.

Speaker 1 (13:29):
I thought we had something I don't right there, everybody,
Good morning, Sashly the gym in morning show. We're doing
to be on this wipe right now. We're just talking dating, love, relationships.
It's hard out there, man, and uh, you know, we've
had We've had two calls at the opposite end of
the spectrum today, Right, We've had I'm so pretty that

(13:50):
I can't find anybody who wants me for more than
just my body.

Speaker 4 (13:53):
We have had I don't like myself.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
I'm thirty eight, I'm this, I'm that, and I can't
find anybody because I don't like the way I look.
That's just the way the conversation has gone today. And
you know that first call, I'm sorry, the second call
from the girl who's like, I'm so pretty, it's hard.
I have this hourglass figure and da da dah. I
didn't think that was relatable.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
Yeah, I don't think it is.

Speaker 1 (14:19):
But maybe it's more relatable than we think because we
just got this talk.

Speaker 15 (14:23):
Back, Ashley, I need to back this girl up.

Speaker 8 (14:27):
That just calm because trust me, I have an hourglass
figure and it is impossible to find anybody that will
look past that.

Speaker 4 (14:35):
And god forbid, you have pretty eyes. Forget about it.

Speaker 16 (14:39):
They want you in bed, and they don't give a
hell what you have to say, what you whatever's.

Speaker 8 (14:43):
Coming out of your mouth, It don't matter. It's the
shape of that body and how quick they can get
it in their bedroom. We're we're not finding anything these days. Sorry.

Speaker 3 (14:51):
Wow, she used the word of like it's impossible, impossible.
I disagree with that, and also like God forbid, he
gave you nice looks and it's like a bad thing.

Speaker 4 (15:00):
Go ahead, Jules.

Speaker 10 (15:01):
Yeah, you know, I talked to AJ a lot about
the dating, and AJ's never said, oh, you know, I'm
so beautiful, I can't find But she tells me the
same thing, right, like guys are just trying to get
her in bed, and it might not just it might
just be like what you're putting out on the internet
or you know, what you're putting out on these social apps.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, not saying as doing that.

Speaker 4 (15:21):
She definitely is.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
No.

Speaker 1 (15:24):
I listen, I don't have a body. I don't have
an hourglass figure. I have size be cut like boobs
and there's milk out, so that's like sick.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
But I don't have a butt I don't like, so
I can't relate.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
I don't know how it would feel to have this
hour glass figure with a nice, big old butt and
all the things.

Speaker 4 (15:45):
But again, I think it's an attitude thing.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
If that's the attitude you're putting out there, if you're
already thinking some guy that says hi to you is
just saying hi because he just wants to have sex
d then that's what it's going to be. Like, I
just I know it's hard, but I think we have
to really start trying to give some of these guys
that benefit of the doubt that.

Speaker 4 (16:05):
May yes, obviously if they saw you on tender to.

Speaker 1 (16:08):
Like, damn, she looks good. What else do you want
them to do? You're shopping for a person with your
little finger.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
Oh and let's just say, like we start dating, and
your body's amazing, and I mentioned that, like make me
work harder to get into your mind in the sense
of like if like I can from the outside just beautiful.
But the second step is I'm gonna get to know
you more in depth.

Speaker 1 (16:26):
And isn't there's a way to say somebody's beautiful like
Yogo's hips girl, Bye Celia.

Speaker 4 (16:31):
We're not talking to that guy.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
But if in the midst of the conversation a guy
says to you, you're beautiful, I'd love to get to
know you more. Okay, I mean I guess I could
handle that more than like I'm trying to hit that.

Speaker 3 (16:40):
Tell you your eyes are pretty. Don't put me in
that category that I want to have sex with you. Yeah,
Like right, away. Do I think your eyes are pretty absolutely?

Speaker 1 (16:49):
Absolutely, I listen. I just I don't know. I don't
have the body to say I don't. Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
Man, it's just something really hard to complain about. I
will leave it at that.

Speaker 1 (17:01):
Yeah, it feels unrelatable, but then that's two people saying
the same thing.

Speaker 8 (17:05):
I'm not.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
I I do too, And I'm not taking away from
the fact that it's hard out there. I'm not And listen,
I'm not in it. And I can just tell by
the way my friends. I can hear it in AJ's voice,
like it's not easy out there dating.

Speaker 3 (17:20):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (17:22):
But I don't think we should be making it harder
for ourselves.

Speaker 4 (17:28):
Man, that's be tought.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
I want that.

Speaker 1 (17:31):
I the way I'm salvating for that hour glass fare
give it to me.

Speaker 4 (17:36):
I want it.

Speaker 6 (17:40):
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Speaker 1 (17:53):
We got this talk back that I've been meaning to
get to, which I find to be so interesting because
we all know I'm the Clarina Queen But here's the talkback.

Speaker 17 (18:04):
Speaking of after pay and Klarna and all of those
available payment plans, what do you guys actually think about them?

Speaker 4 (18:10):
I'm like, literally still paying off my product bag.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
I don't think.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
And every time it comes it's like, here's your fifty
dollars payment for your product bag.

Speaker 4 (18:18):
I'm like, take my money. It's fine.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
I guess I don't use it enough, but it makes
sense that I should because it's better credit card.

Speaker 5 (18:24):
It's it's it's it's interest, your interest serious. As long
as you make your payments, you're good. You're basically boy.
They've given you the stuff and you just pay for
it and you're not paying extra for you know, some gimmicks.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
I like that is this two party reminds me of
like when we were younger and our parents have like
lay away, remember that at Zerous.

Speaker 4 (18:40):
But here's my I've had.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
To force myself if it's over a hundred, I allow
myself after pad because.

Speaker 4 (18:47):
Sometimes it'll be like eighty bucks and they'll be like, ash,
do you want to just do you know three dollars? Yeah,
three dollars the next twelve months zero.

Speaker 2 (18:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
You have to acknowledge the purchase of does automatically come
out and get paid for.

Speaker 4 (19:01):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (19:02):
So it's just like, honestly, I have the apps for it,
so it'll you just it's just shows you you're in
the app.

Speaker 4 (19:07):
Okay, you're gonna have your for here's what's coming now.

Speaker 5 (19:10):
With after pay, you click that, you check out, it
charges you the three dollars that you need to and
after that three dollars just comes out of every month.

Speaker 1 (19:16):
I have had it though, where I've bought something on
after pay and then I've had to return it, and
I've been at the front of the line and there's
people behind me and they'll.

Speaker 17 (19:26):
Be like, okay, well this just give us a second
because this was bought on after pay.

Speaker 2 (19:39):
You couldn't even pay for it in full, and you're
taking it back.

Speaker 1 (19:43):
My last two purchases, we're both Prada. I got like
Prada sandals off after pay. They're paid off all my
after pay. I think I'm up to date on all
my after pays, but like, yeah, you get a text
message from Clarner after pay to say, hey, your fifty
five dollars purchase is coming up to free people whatever.

Speaker 4 (19:58):
I love as long as you're.

Speaker 1 (20:00):
Hitting the option with the zero percent interest it's fine,
you know what, You're better than us.

Speaker 4 (20:07):
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Speaker 1 (20:09):
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Speaker 3 (20:54):
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But then why not just show up?

Speaker 4 (21:13):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (21:13):
Why just land the ship?

Speaker 3 (21:15):
And that's a question that they can only answer. I
have no idea, but for what purpose? And now if
they do that the idea and the belief is that
they're going to come here and demolish everything.

Speaker 5 (21:24):
So we don't want that, right, But that's that might
not be why they want to be here, possibly be friends,
but we don't know.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
And what what does the government know that they don't
want to tell us because clearly they're afraid that it
would cause massysaria or else we would know.

Speaker 5 (21:39):
To me, the government knows everything, absolutely everything. There's things
that the government knows and down plays that we will
never know or ever like by the time we know,
it'll be too late. Right, But if there is aliens,
they definitely know about them. I don't know if there
really is aliens. But then again, you know we see
aliens and TV and they got big ey, skinny bodies,
you know, sometimes survive off these pieces.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
It's like, yeah, don't bring eighteen and this is not
an ete thing. You always do this and then it
turns not fun.

Speaker 18 (22:06):
Bro.

Speaker 5 (22:06):
I'm just saying, why alien's gonna get like the mockery?

Speaker 1 (22:09):
Why why can't aliens? Yeah, why do they have to
have Why are they greed? Why do they have to
have that head?

Speaker 3 (22:16):
We don't I can answer that because consistently that's what
has been reported and people seeing.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
Who but who are the people? Did?

Speaker 3 (22:23):
Have you guys ever seen the film Firing this guy?
It's about this guy, Travis Hunter. I think his name
is I could be getting like the last name wrong.
But he was abducted in like the seventies and he
was captured for a few days. No, Like, I've heard
this guy in like interviews.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
He's confident. Doesn't mean they really say about them? What
did they do up there?

Speaker 3 (22:41):
Get experiments? And I know I'm hearing my I'm hearing
myself talk, but it sounds crazy.

Speaker 4 (22:46):
You get experiments on his body?

Speaker 6 (22:47):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (22:48):
My only thing is if this has been going on
for years again, now is the time to just come
up like okay, cool, you have you have just enough?

Speaker 1 (22:55):
Just be here, Just come be Like Thorren's getting mad,
not at the government, but at the He's like, y'all
are just your pressed to come here?

Speaker 2 (23:02):
Just welcome yourself? What is in those folks?

Speaker 3 (23:04):
Did aliens look at us as being like cavemen at
at this point because we're all we're all idiots and
their technology is so advanced that they're they're concerned with
our bsa like we're fighting about politics, like they're fighting
about interstellar craziness, right, so why be concerned with us?
And honestly, people here, people here cannot handle it. And
I'm not saying me. I think like when you start.

Speaker 4 (23:26):
You can't. You've already look at you, look what you're talking.

Speaker 3 (23:28):
When you start going down the path of like what's
been written in like the science books, what's in the Bible.
There are people who live and die by this. The
minute you change that, their whole value in life changes.

Speaker 5 (23:38):
But listen to me, the same thing, like the Bible,
a human being wrote down absolutely, how do I how
do I go verbatim and know that you and you
and we know how humans are wicked?

Speaker 19 (23:47):
Right?

Speaker 2 (23:47):
And how do I know verbatim?

Speaker 5 (23:48):
You you're doing everything by law, by what God said
is to change up a couple of things to make
and suit what you want to. Come on, man, you
can't trust nothing. But I do wonder how the Pyramids
were built though.

Speaker 3 (24:00):
People have to build that impossible. I have broken it
down business mountain in the inside that a million people
could not have moved now, but they.

Speaker 2 (24:11):
Figured it out like ropes.

Speaker 5 (24:13):
No aliens clearly built that certain things on Earth that
are tangible that we can't see.

Speaker 6 (24:19):
Yeah, they have no move.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
Tell me the Egyptians dragged rocks across the desert. That
that big craziness alien it's possible.

Speaker 1 (24:28):
I mean, listen you you that can't be the one
way you're like aliens. But I see these stories where
people see UFOs and stuff and I'm like, okay, why
why you? And why not? The rest was the big
ass Ufhonus guy only one person, Jerry, the crackheads from
Alabama side.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
And the summer, remember everybody was seeing lights with the drone. Yeah,
the drones they just went away. Yeah, people, they were drones.
They were just rgular drone.

Speaker 1 (24:56):
But it isn't fair that we didn't get an explanation
on those like why were those drones out there?

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Well, because it doesn't benefit the American people to find
out what those things are about. Yeah, because we found
out like what they actually were. They would cause fear, absolutely.

Speaker 4 (25:07):
That's the thing.

Speaker 1 (25:08):
And then again that's obviously the greatest thing. Look what
COVID did, like.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
Ye that message.

Speaker 5 (25:12):
But they thrive on fear because when we when we're scared,
we consume more, we do irrational things, and we spend
a lot of money.

Speaker 2 (25:19):
So why not scare us.

Speaker 3 (25:21):
Well, if they start to scare us and all of
a sudden, say we find out the aliens are like
that's friendly, like a thing? No, say they're a thing. Okay,
what's the average person like, why am I here? What
if they decide to do something to themselves? Why are
they going to listen to the police? Why are they
going to go spend money, which at some point they're
gonna start getting scared and think the world's gonna end. Yeah,
that's what they're trying to kind of like really, at.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
The end of the day, it's and I've discussed this
when it comes to the zombies, we just need to
know what we're dealing with, Like is it the aliens
from signs because we're done, like we're done for exact
or is it et Like are they nice?

Speaker 4 (25:52):
Can they phone home?

Speaker 1 (25:53):
We need to know what we're dealing with, and they
shouldn't keep that from us because again, the apocalypse comes.

Speaker 4 (25:57):
What kind of zombies are we dealing with the world wars?

Speaker 2 (26:00):
Do you want?

Speaker 4 (26:00):
They're taking out half the Earth quick?

Speaker 3 (26:02):
Mathematically, if you do the math, there's very a list
tons of them out there, because if you look at
our galaxy there's something like billions of stars are in
different things here, there are billions of galaxies?

Speaker 5 (26:14):
Like how to just out that though? Because science do
we know that? These are the same people who told
us that we landed on the moon. How do we gall?

Speaker 3 (26:22):
But we know that there are other stars and planets, right,
don't we?

Speaker 2 (26:26):
You look up?

Speaker 4 (26:28):
I hate to be the one to tell you guys this.
You know you know what's out there? Nothing. This is
a silo.

Speaker 1 (26:34):
We're in a silo, you guys, don't You don need
to think bigger here, bigger picture.

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Speaker 1 (26:50):
Hi, everybody, good morning, exactly the jam In Morning Show.
I know we're like moving on from Disney, but again
I've talked about this. I'll post things that I think
are and get a ton of feedback and they never
do and then I post a random photo and then
that's when I get the most messages. I don't know
if you two peeped it, but before we left for
the trip, I sat the fireman down and I said, hey,

(27:12):
we're going on vacation, so if you don't mind I'm
gonna need you to wear socks that covered the ankle bone,
and he'll do it only on vacation.

Speaker 4 (27:20):
So he was wearing like tall athletic socks.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
I noticed.

Speaker 4 (27:23):
It's noticing.

Speaker 3 (27:26):
It does, yeah, because the ankle socks just aren't the
you know.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
The ankle socks age, you bro, Like.

Speaker 1 (27:38):
His bone of his ankle is like half exposed because
they're like semi it's it's so bad. And he hates
it too because and somebody even wrong goes. You can
tell he's trying to push them down.

Speaker 12 (27:49):
He does.

Speaker 3 (27:49):
Yeah, but I remember when you posted those original ones
like people came for him in your dms too.

Speaker 5 (27:54):
It's hard to see the pictures of the original Like
what kind of ankle socks was was he?

Speaker 6 (27:59):
You know?

Speaker 5 (27:59):
These different styles are they're the ones that are right
by the shoe, and then they're the ones that are
a bit of ways from the show. They're not no show,
but they're not no shows. But then the no shows
are no shows completely no shows. So unless he was
winning like the.

Speaker 1 (28:11):
Way, I don't like depending on the look that you're
going for. I don't necessarily hate no shows. I think
they're fine, but like what he wears.

Speaker 4 (28:19):
Is just like you look sixty five like I don't, and.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
No offense any sixty five year olds that are listening.
I'm gonna try to find you a photo. But it
just it was just funny to me because it stood
out and hilarious that you even noticed it.

Speaker 3 (28:31):
Santi well, yeah, because it was such a big topic
the first time around, and it looked so much better.

Speaker 4 (28:36):
Well, I think it's also a topic for like the
younger generation.

Speaker 1 (28:40):
I think they didn't that like go viral that they
were calling out like that old people wear angle socks
by the way.

Speaker 4 (28:46):
They think we're old, so I'm referring to like us.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
But there's something about me and the pushback with him
and the angle socks that I think now he just
thinks it's something he has to stand on, like, no,
this is just I don't need to wear.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
I don't care about.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
Fashion like you do.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
He also thought that he he hated every second that
I made him wear like Disney outfits and all that,
but he did.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
It and they felt right, right, they felt good, I assume.

Speaker 4 (29:09):
Probably not, no, probably not, but but this progress there. Listen,
one day at a time, one you know what at
a time.

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Speaker 4 (29:28):
Hi, everybody, good morning. We are checking in on you.

Speaker 3 (29:32):
You.

Speaker 4 (29:33):
What's up? What's going on? Tell us everything?

Speaker 1 (29:35):
Six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
That is six one seven nine three one one nine
four five. We're talking about you, your life, your world.
Our Lenny is going to be first up because today
is your birthday.

Speaker 13 (29:51):
Hi everybody, how are you happy birthday?

Speaker 20 (29:56):
Thank you?

Speaker 3 (29:57):
Thank you?

Speaker 4 (29:58):
What season are we in right now? What's your sign?

Speaker 19 (30:03):
I'm a Pisces.

Speaker 4 (30:07):
I don't know much about the Pisces.

Speaker 13 (30:08):
I don't feel like, well, I'm it's the like horoscope
of stuff. They say we're really sensitive, you know, we're
just loving and just real. I'm just very I'm a
loving person, very friendly, and I'm just a social person.
All that's probably that's.

Speaker 4 (30:25):
Probably why we don't hear about the pieces, because you
all are nice people. It's the Geminis. It's the Scorpios
that we hear a lot about.

Speaker 13 (30:33):
Oh yeah, my mom is a Gemini. My sister's a capricorne.
So I know how I know exactly how Geminis are.

Speaker 4 (30:39):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
My one of my best friends, Lindsay Gemini, and my
mother Gemini two of the craziest bitches on the planet,
So it all makes sense.

Speaker 4 (30:48):
Do you have big plans tonight for your birthday?

Speaker 13 (30:51):
Well, I'm currently at stopping shop.

Speaker 11 (30:54):
I'm going to get myself on balloons.

Speaker 13 (30:56):
I ordered a cake, they printed my picture on the cake,
and I'm going out to dinner with my kids later.

Speaker 4 (31:01):
I love that. Listen, sometimes you have to just do
what you want for yourself. Go get yourself some balloons.
I've done that as well.

Speaker 13 (31:10):
Yes, I'm big on spoiling myself and not waiting around
for anybody.

Speaker 7 (31:14):
To do for me.

Speaker 4 (31:15):
I love to hear it. I love to hear it.
Our Lenny. Happy birthday, Babe. Shout out to the Pisces
of the world.

Speaker 1 (31:20):
Thank you.

Speaker 19 (31:21):
Have a great day.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
YouTube babe, Happy Birthday. Talia is in Boston. Talia has
a PSA for everyone.

Speaker 4 (31:28):
Babe, good morning, good morning, today, We're good.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
I feel like you're gonna this is gonna be a PSA.
You're also gonna scare everybody, but you're right though, I
know you're right. You're on your way to Dana Farber
right now, so tell everybody your PSA.

Speaker 12 (31:45):
All right.

Speaker 19 (31:45):
So my PSA is, if you feel something weird on
your body, don't be scared, do something about it. And
actually you can be scared, but do something about it.

Speaker 21 (31:55):
Anyways, Handling.

Speaker 19 (31:56):
When I was on vacation back in October down and
Outer Banks, having a time gorgeous place, I was doing
my nightly skincare, which includes a little faithful massage in Guasha.
I always take my skincare down to my neck because
Mom always taught me that your neck skin is also
just as important as your face. And when I was

(32:18):
doing like my motion kind of into my jawline right
between the corner of my jaw and my ear lobe,
I felt an odd lump. And my dad had fought
lymphoma the last few years and he felt his lumps
first in his nep as well, so it was an
immediate red flag. I enjoyed my vacation as much as

(32:39):
I could, but when I got back, I went to
my PCP and fast forward. It was months and months
of waiting and wondering, multiple scans, biocies, inconclusive results, and
finally a surgery and the day after Christmas, I got
diagnosed with a extremely rare salivary gland cancer called cinic

(33:00):
cell carsonoma, which if that's one hundred to one hundred
and fifty people a year at.

Speaker 4 (33:05):
Most, God, that is found crazy. And yeah, your spirits
are just so high. You sound great, but that is
it is crazy.

Speaker 19 (33:18):
I had coincidentally the last year or so really gotten
my health and wellness together, both body, mind and soul.
I lost one hundred pounds. I got really into like
holific healing, like energy healing and sound baths and stuff
like that, and meditation. So I unknowingly prepared myself really
well to go into something that's like super super scary.

Speaker 4 (33:42):
Are you going for chemo right now?

Speaker 19 (33:46):
So I am doing seven weeks of week day, every
single day radiation and then once a week I get chemo,
and yes, today is my chemo day. So this is
my second treatment. I just started my treatment last week.

Speaker 4 (33:59):
Wow, oh man, that is crazy. But you're right.

Speaker 1 (34:03):
If you feel something or see something, and even if
you're like, I don't know, it could be nothing, make
the appointment. It was just you know, make the appointment, make.

Speaker 19 (34:10):
The appointment, and if I can just I did start
like a little blog just to kind of share my
story if anyone is on sub staff. It's called Cancer Contemplation.
And I did have a friend that started to go
fundme for me. It's on my Instagram Lincoln Bio. My
ig is where's Talia? All one word?

Speaker 4 (34:31):
Where's Talia? All right, babe, we'll check it out. Good
luck today stay.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Strong followed her back. It's all up there.

Speaker 1 (34:39):
This is so crazy because so yesterday we had we're
having some work done in the house and we're using
a guy by the name of Dave, super nice guy.
He's actually done a ton of work in the house
that we're living in now previously for the for the
other owners. And he's talking to me and he starts
to tell me the story about he's at like a
hockey tournament or something with his twelve year old kid

(35:01):
and his throat hurt and he had commonly got strep throat.
So he was like, oh, damn, I have strep throat.
So he goes he gets medicine for his strep throat.
A week later, doesn't go away, so he goes to
his doctors. He's like, oh, something's up, like I have
strep throat. Was not strep throat, real cancer Jesus, but
again stayed on top. But he the doctors basically told

(35:22):
him like he had never smoked day in his life.

Speaker 4 (35:24):
He's not like a big drinker.

Speaker 1 (35:26):
And the doctors told him, like, you take care of
your body, and the fact that you did that is
how you're surviving. By the time he got to the
doctor's guys, he was staged four and not only did
he survive it, but he's like working in my house.

Speaker 2 (35:38):
Did I tell you though?

Speaker 3 (35:39):
The whole thing of waiting for your physical like once
a year is not ideal. I feel like if you
can go in there more often. I get my blood
work like every three months, and I feel like I'm
on top of things. I see a guy who's a
biohap that's good.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
It is.

Speaker 3 (35:51):
But I just always stay on top of it. I
know I'm the extreme opposite, but if you feel something
that seems a little bit off, get it checked out.

Speaker 5 (35:58):
Sucks that we can't full it go to the hospital,
bro Otherwise I think more people would. I think people
would go there if they knew there wasn't going to
get a five thousand dollars bill at the you know
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (36:08):
I think also it turns into a situation where like,
you know, I need Okay, for for instance, I have
a mole on my inner thigh that i've that I've seen.

Speaker 4 (36:15):
It came when I had the baby. Whatever. I'm like, oh,
I should get that checked out because it's new. They
can see me in December, But.

Speaker 1 (36:22):
First I had to make seventeen calls to get the
referral for the Germanic I'm telling you, it's like they
make it.

Speaker 4 (36:30):
They make it so you don't go and it's it's weird.

Speaker 3 (36:32):
But if you can find these people are out there,
these people who have these wellness spots that like out
there who can help.

Speaker 4 (36:36):
So yeah, all right, well there you have it. Let's
let's go to the phones about that. But the most
I'm gonna go, I'm I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go
six one.

Speaker 1 (36:45):
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Speaker 4 (36:50):
One one nine four five. We are checking in on you.
What's up? Calls morning? Hi, everybody, Good morning, It's Ashley
in the Game of Morning Show. We're checking in on you.
What's going on?

Speaker 1 (36:59):
How are you. Fod's on the phone right now, so
I want to make sure he's part of this conversation.
But C four has been holding C four is in Lynn.

Speaker 4 (37:07):
What's going on?

Speaker 22 (37:10):
Good morning, good people.

Speaker 4 (37:12):
Good morning. We got some big news.

Speaker 22 (37:16):
Oh yeah, I got some big news.

Speaker 19 (37:19):
You know.

Speaker 22 (37:19):
Every time I get on the A I got I
got something for you. But this one, this song that
I got for you guys, is actually very special. It's
a remix to the song I showed you guys before,
called Like the Way, but the thing on this remix,
it's somebody very familiar to you. You guys, you and

(37:39):
Santy to be exact, that's on this remix.

Speaker 4 (37:45):
Uh huh is it Gregor?

Speaker 22 (37:49):
No, not them, not them, but someone someone real familiar,
I would say, And uh, I can't wait for you
guys to hear it.

Speaker 4 (37:58):
Well, we we have a clue up, so let let's
play it. Let's see who it is.

Speaker 18 (38:03):
Let me go.

Speaker 6 (38:09):
D K for see.

Speaker 23 (38:12):
I like the way you feel, the way you dancing
on me. I can go on that, baby, put it
on me.

Speaker 4 (38:17):
You can bring your best fight.

Speaker 6 (38:18):
I'm gonna bring my hommie.

Speaker 4 (38:19):
We don't want to problem.

Speaker 23 (38:21):
We just shun to pause. I like the way you
feel the way you're dancing on me. I can go
on that, baby, put it on me. You can bring
your best friend.

Speaker 2 (38:28):
I'm gonna bring my homemie.

Speaker 4 (38:29):
We don't want who problems.

Speaker 2 (38:31):
We just shoun a pause.

Speaker 3 (38:32):
We you gotta step it up, you gotta take it up.

Speaker 15 (38:35):
We know the stuff.

Speaker 2 (38:36):
Baby, let's taken problem.

Speaker 4 (38:38):
Just know your cuff not get your tack up, and
soon enough we be going up, going on.

Speaker 3 (38:43):
I said, maybe you can, you man, I am sure
the tickets.

Speaker 23 (38:52):
I like the way you feel the way you dancing
on me.

Speaker 2 (38:54):
I can go on that.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
Baby, put it on me.

Speaker 3 (38:57):
You could bring your best friend.

Speaker 6 (38:58):
I'm gonna bring my hommie.

Speaker 12 (38:59):
We don't want the problem.

Speaker 23 (39:01):
We just I like the way you feel the way
you're getting on me.

Speaker 6 (39:04):
I can go on that. Baby, put in on me.

Speaker 23 (39:07):
You can bring your best I'm gonna bring my own me.

Speaker 13 (39:09):
We don't want the problem.

Speaker 4 (39:13):
I liked it the first time we played it. I
like it even better now. But wait a second, that's
not you singing no, no, no, that's I said.

Speaker 2 (39:20):
I put on my production my production hat. I was
gonna say that one.

Speaker 4 (39:24):
DJ Khalid, that.

Speaker 5 (39:25):
There you go, I, DJ Khalid, did you know what
I mean? I heard the original and I was like,
you know what I think I could spice this up
a little bit. So me and C four got into
the studio and I pretty much got my producer on
and there you have it.

Speaker 2 (39:35):
That's the remix.

Speaker 20 (39:36):
I like the better.

Speaker 4 (39:38):
I like the remix better. See for We're no offense
to the O G. That's nice.

Speaker 2 (39:43):
That's streaming everywhere, So go run that up. You know
what I mean? You got DJ phone trying to get
into a bad feel.

Speaker 4 (39:48):
Where do we where do we find it? Like Apple
Music all the things?

Speaker 22 (39:53):
That song is available on all streaming platforms. Whatever you
listen to music on, it'll.

Speaker 5 (39:58):
Be on there.

Speaker 14 (39:59):
It's called.

Speaker 22 (40:02):
Like the way DJ forn remix. They're all platform streaming
right now.

Speaker 4 (40:07):
I like that all right, see four, thanks for the call.
Look at you, he's like DJ Khaled.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
Now I'm trying to know. Is that your first one?

Speaker 4 (40:15):
Is that the first time you've done that?

Speaker 5 (40:16):
Yeah, that's the first time. I really like, sat down
and will to produced son. So yeah, we switched the
whole thing up all the way stopped.

Speaker 4 (40:22):
I look at because I didn't know it was just
like feature.

Speaker 2 (40:27):
I was not there yet. Yeah, will be the day
I will c.

Speaker 4 (40:33):
Hi everybody, Good morning and the jam.

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The Itch'm just serious, I mean my butt?

Speaker 4 (40:58):
Why why there is such thing as the itch?

Speaker 1 (41:03):
When you're a tattoo person and you think to yourself like, oh,
I want another tattoo. Once that thought comes into your brain,
it's called the itch, and it does not go away
until you get the next tattoo.

Speaker 4 (41:16):
So sat the artist getting other tattoos.

Speaker 2 (41:18):
We are getting it like we rarely have the itch.

Speaker 4 (41:20):
At the same time, I am obsessed with no.

Speaker 2 (41:33):
A lot of explaining to you.

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We're about getting ninety four point five in our bodies. Okay, Yeah,
one best and one says friends.

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The girl that's been doing my fine line tattoos. Her
name is Bree McKinley. She has this shop called Skin
and Bone Studio in Pembroke. She used to be in Plymouth.
Now she's in Pembroke, which's even closer to me, in Marshfield, Pembroke,
so right near mars Brook, pem Broke.

Speaker 5 (42:00):
Okay, I say Pembroke accent Pembroke Pembroke. Is that a
difference between Pembrooke and Pembroke.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
It's Pembroke.

Speaker 1 (42:11):
If you know where Pembroke is, that's Marshfield. It's like
Yew next to it. Yeah, Pembroke. But anyway, she moves studios.
It's beautiful and she's just so talented. She did my
she did my daisy tattoo, she did my little boat tattoo.

Speaker 4 (42:24):
So now we're going soon.

Speaker 1 (42:27):
And here's the crazy part of getting the itch. I'm
not even like one hundred percent set on what I'm getting,
but I'm getting something.

Speaker 3 (42:32):
Are you saying what you were thinking?

Speaker 1 (42:34):
My thought process was potentially like getting a four leaf clover,
but as as a part of a flower.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
Type of thing.

Speaker 3 (42:44):
I saw yours, like the fine line. I'm like, I
have to go to her. I'm getting like the kids' names,
like close to the part of my hand, but not
so much on the hand.

Speaker 2 (42:54):
Kind of like under your watch.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
Yeah, I kind of there, but they creeping onto my hand.
The hand doesn't. Here's the thing I'm not allowed to
get to two is on my hands, because if that
were the case, I would have my hands covered. I
am not allowed, but I'm creeping down so and so.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
But but you're saying I'm not allowed. But did you
actually tell her like this?

Speaker 3 (43:10):
She told her, and I think she's fine with it
because it's the kid's nicknames that I'm getting.

Speaker 12 (43:14):
So what is that?

Speaker 3 (43:16):
What are their nick Cully, Mummu, shoe, and cardivoy. So
it's just a list of names or like list of names. Yeah,
just a list of like running down your wrist, two
on each Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Moomoo and shoe.
That's what the twins used to call each other when
they when they were younger.

Speaker 4 (43:35):
So yeah, that's cute.

Speaker 2 (43:36):
Yeah, so I'm getting that now I'm taking a stand.

Speaker 4 (43:39):
And you know what's funny.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
When I thought about if I was going to get
this four leaf clover, I was like, Okay, it's kind
of like a little bit of a nod to the fireman.
But in case he leaves me, then I could just
be like I got it for good luck.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
Well are you telling him this time?

Speaker 1 (43:52):
Uh? No, because why would I. He want surprised, but
you'll never notice it. He never noticed these two. Why
would I tell him?

Speaker 2 (43:58):
True?

Speaker 5 (43:58):
There's something imagine so she's gonna get a full of
clo of a tattoo before the name change, right, Bro?

Speaker 4 (44:05):
That always comes back to this with you, bro. So
I hate this show.

Speaker 7 (44:10):
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and it's so tarning Goutin's number one for hip hop.

Speaker 8 (44:16):
I am in ninety four or five.

Speaker 1 (44:20):
I've a good morning and we are talking dating, love relationships.
It's beyond the swipe, Raquel and Somerville is gonna kick
it off for us.

Speaker 4 (44:28):
Raquel, it's not easy out there. It's it's it's tough.
I get it.

Speaker 20 (44:32):
Not easy A preach a man.

Speaker 21 (44:34):
I'm saying, so, how long have we been single?

Speaker 4 (44:37):
And why why do you say you think it's so hard.

Speaker 20 (44:41):
I've been seeing almost four years now, and honestly, I
love it and I love myself and I've been dating.

Speaker 24 (44:46):
Myself and everyone else and I've seen it.

Speaker 21 (44:49):
But it's so hard because.

Speaker 24 (44:51):
It's hard because you go on dates with men and
like they want to know if you're dating and I
say yes because I'm honest, and it's like aren't you
and no, I.

Speaker 12 (45:05):
Don't know.

Speaker 20 (45:06):
I think everyone's saying everybody and it's just like.

Speaker 21 (45:09):
Let's just be honest, I'm gonna date. I'm gonna date.
I'm gonna date. I'm gonna date, and then I'm gonna choose.

Speaker 20 (45:13):
Who is gonna feed me the most and help me
the most.

Speaker 4 (45:17):
So I don't feed you like money wise or your soul?
Which one. We have to be specific out here, we
have to be specific. So so that's interesting.

Speaker 1 (45:31):
So that's interesting to me that you feel like a
lot of times on these first dates, the guys are
asking you straight up, are you dating other people?

Speaker 19 (45:39):
Girl?

Speaker 21 (45:40):
Straight up? Body count?

Speaker 1 (45:41):
Like what?

Speaker 24 (45:44):
Yeah, depends on the mat straight up.

Speaker 2 (45:47):
I think.

Speaker 21 (45:47):
I'm like, when was the last time you had you know, THEX.

Speaker 1 (45:51):
I'm like, nobody ask you on the first date, when
is the last time you had sex?

Speaker 20 (45:56):
I'm like, yeah, girl, oh my god, I've had the
funniest days before.

Speaker 2 (46:00):
So what you're saying, shut up?

Speaker 4 (46:07):
All right? So let me ask you this. You've been
single for a while, what's the longest you dated somebody?

Speaker 2 (46:12):
Like?

Speaker 4 (46:12):
How many dates can you can you string together?

Speaker 20 (46:16):
I'm dating someone right now that I think it has
a lot of potential, but like, sometimes things just happen
and I'm like, really.

Speaker 1 (46:26):
Give me an example, give me example of a moment
that you've had with this new guy that you're kind
of into or you've been like really.

Speaker 20 (46:35):
Like I don't know if I want to put it
out there like that, but like just simple things, just
simple things that almost like it makes me feel like
a mom instead of a girl, Like I have to
tell him certain things like like I don't know, for example,
I don't have to tell him this to like get
up and brush your teeth, you know, like just.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
I don't know.

Speaker 21 (46:56):
I don't want to.

Speaker 20 (46:57):
I don't want to put him on blast, but just
things that annoy me. And I'm like, do I just
go like is the grass always greener?

Speaker 18 (47:05):
If you know?

Speaker 1 (47:05):
I know, I understand, listen, the guy you didn't say
his name, but if you don't give us an example
of something he's done where I could be like, okay,
maybe then I can't help you.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
But I listen.

Speaker 1 (47:16):
I hope that I hope that there are little things
that are small enough that you can get past them
because you know.

Speaker 19 (47:22):
Yeah, I know, it's nothing like cheating or like being
just successful or it's just like daily.

Speaker 4 (47:28):
Like Dailey say it, just give me one example, like
a driving.

Speaker 1 (47:33):
Me not.

Speaker 4 (47:35):
Doesn't show Yeah, like is he not clean.

Speaker 24 (47:39):
I like, he is clean.

Speaker 21 (47:41):
I wouldn't be dating if you wasn't. Just just stuff
like just stuff that you would have to tell a
teenage boy.

Speaker 4 (47:47):
Okay, yeah, with hygiene, like you know, with hygiene. Okay,
So he smells, he smells. That's not something.

Speaker 21 (47:56):
That's not something you guys like until they say it.

Speaker 1 (48:03):
We are journalists. The man doesn't wipe his butthole and
he smells. Okay, all right, Raquel, well listen. If you
can get past the smells, then God bless you. I'm
pulling for you, and this this love question of okra letting. No,
the man doesn't shower, he doesn't brush his teeth, and
he has skid marks.

Speaker 4 (48:26):
Like, here's the thing, guys. You're not gonna call me and.

Speaker 1 (48:28):
Be like, well, there's this one thing that really sticks out,
but I can't say it. So then why are we
doing this?

Speaker 4 (48:34):
Say the thing? Because I can't dance with you and
I want to.

Speaker 1 (48:37):
Uh, Jimmy is in Dorchester, Jimmy, talk to me, Hi, Jimmy, are.

Speaker 6 (48:43):
You doing.

Speaker 18 (48:44):
I think that I think that the lady that just
called nailed it on the like right on and nail
because the reason why it's hard to date from people
these days, because everybody got their own agendas. She sat
there and said, clearly, who's going to do the most
for me or feed me the most? That's the problem.

Speaker 13 (49:02):
I see.

Speaker 18 (49:02):
Anybody's different from twenty years ago than than what it
is today. I agree, no man gonna want to be
with nobody that's wanting wanting, wanting, or who's gonna do
the most of me?

Speaker 6 (49:10):
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (49:11):
I think the verbiage should have been like that we
could feed each other. And whenever you hear that that like,
oh that can feed me, I go right to Okay,
this woman is just trying to get literal free dinners.

Speaker 4 (49:22):
But she meant like you feed her soul.

Speaker 1 (49:24):
But she should have said that we can feed each other,
you know what I mean, that we make each other
better type of thing.

Speaker 4 (49:29):
But I jimmy when I think she'd be tough to
date too. After that conversation. I stand with you.

Speaker 2 (49:35):
I stand with you on that a lot.

Speaker 18 (49:38):
But a lot of women, but a lot. This doesn't
obtain to me because I'm married. But this is from
what I see on the outside. Everybody has their own agenda.
Everybody wants something out of their relationship. It's not true
it's transactional wanting something. Everybody wants something.

Speaker 2 (49:51):
Can we need yeah, hair done, nails done, doing all that.

Speaker 18 (49:55):
It just not a week ago, and we just met
the person a week ago. How do you expect to
get all that from a man after a week or
two of dating them?

Speaker 1 (50:02):
I mean, I want all those things and I pay
for them myself. So I do think that there are
people out there like.

Speaker 12 (50:08):
Genuinely, that's the type of woman.

Speaker 18 (50:09):
That's the type of woman a man wants. What I'm
trying to himself.

Speaker 1 (50:13):
It's Jimmy in the Morning Show, My best Jim.

Speaker 4 (50:17):
Listen, I want to say this.

Speaker 1 (50:18):
I have friends right that are out there and they
are in the dating world, and they are they are
nothing like that that last conversation. They're literally looking for
a real relationship and love. They live by themselves, they
take care of themselves. Are not like looking for those
things like those girls are out there. Maybe they're few
and far between, but they're out there.

Speaker 4 (50:37):
AJ's one, They're out there a lot.

Speaker 18 (50:40):
I think it's like fifty to fifty.

Speaker 4 (50:42):
Okay, are Jim for the.

Speaker 18 (50:43):
People like the people that you're saying and half of
the women that I'm saying that's all I see nowadays
is women wanting seat done, hair done, nails done, trips
out of you know, playing trips and stuff right, and
then they want to have a relationship after. That's not
going to work that way.

Speaker 4 (50:57):
And I can't fight you on that because I see it.

Speaker 1 (50:59):
I do see some of those girls out there too,
and it's a shame because there are other ones who
really do just want to find love. But Jimmy, thank
you for the call. We got a ton of other
lines lighting up. We're doing beyond the Swipe right now.
But this, this listen, it's turned into a vent Sashon.
That's why we just couldn't call it tender Tuesday. Guys,
let's vent. Let's let's get some things off of our chest.
Six one seven nine three five six one seven nine

(51:22):
three one four five.

Speaker 4 (51:24):
At this point, we're pretty much talking about dating right
now in America. It's not a good climate out there.
It's freezing.

Speaker 1 (51:31):
Well, Hi, everybody, good morning, It's Ashally the Gym of
morning show. We're doing beyond the Swipe. We're talking the
climate of dating out there. I feel like the conversation
has kind of turn it. Let me tell you, I
see as hell it's frizing out there.

Speaker 4 (51:44):
So we're learning. Gabby is in Boston.

Speaker 1 (51:47):
Gab, I can not even believe this, but you went
on two dates with an older man. I need an
age here. How old are you and how old was he?

Speaker 15 (51:58):
So I'm twenty five at that point, I was twenty four.
It was last year, and he's like thirty four. And
you would think that the older guys got it together,
but they're terrible, terrible.

Speaker 4 (52:10):
Tell everybody what he said to you on date number two.

Speaker 15 (52:14):
So it was fine, Like the first day was great.
We had a great conversation. You know, he has his
stuff going on. I had my stuff going on, and I,
you know, I had a little bit too much to drink,
but I was still good. And I just remember at
one point he was.

Speaker 25 (52:28):
Like, oh, okay, you know, we can go back to
the car and just talk and get to know each
other more. And I said cool, and out of nowhere,
like I started getting really tired, and he was basically
using my phone and trying to like open up my
phone using space ID. But I didn't realize it until
the next morning.

Speaker 15 (52:46):
Because I woke up and I'm starting to remember all
these things, and I called him and I'm like, were
you trying to like go through my phone? And he
was like, yeah, I have to see who you're talking to?

Speaker 11 (52:56):
Like was it was crazy?

Speaker 15 (52:59):
I had to let him go.

Speaker 4 (53:00):
Do you feel like he put something in your drink?
Is that what you're insinuating?

Speaker 13 (53:04):
I don't think he put.

Speaker 15 (53:05):
I'm not sure, honestly, I really don't.

Speaker 11 (53:09):
I mean, you never know what people.

Speaker 15 (53:10):
But I just find it so weird because this was
a year ago and he's still like I blocked him,
and he still like leaves me like creepy voicemails. Like
two weeks ago, he sent me a voicemail telling me
to unblock him and all these crazy things.

Speaker 4 (53:25):
You might want to get a restraining order on that
when that sounds a little bit much for me.

Speaker 1 (53:30):
And the fact that he was trying to go through
your phone on the second to see if you're talking
to anybody else is so weird, Gabby things for the call,
the sentiment of are you dating anybody else? On date
one or day two is diabolical, Like what do you mean? Yes,
I'm dating, That's why I'm here.

Speaker 3 (53:44):
The crazy part is that they take offense with it
because you're all there doing the same exact thing, right,
you should be okay to date like other people.

Speaker 5 (53:50):
That's he just wants to be serial datas out here, right,
because they just want you to themselves and they want
to be outside in the streets.

Speaker 4 (53:57):
Michelle is in Levenster. Hi, Michelle.

Speaker 24 (54:00):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (54:01):
So Jimmy called and Jimmy was passionate and he was
just like, listen to all these females out here in
the dating world. They just want trips, They want their
nails done, their lashes, their hair. And I said, do
I think that that is true? Do I think there
are some women like that? Absolutely?

Speaker 4 (54:16):
But do I think I have ehre?

Speaker 14 (54:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (54:18):
But also I think, like I have friends, there's an
eight there's ajs of the world that really are on
the the apps trying to find true love.

Speaker 4 (54:28):
That's right, So what is your point?

Speaker 11 (54:33):
My point of view is this.

Speaker 21 (54:34):
I think there were women like that all over the place.
But I think there are guys all over the place
that are all about their Richard first thing and foremost,
and that's all they care about.

Speaker 2 (54:45):
Is there what not one thing? They're Richard? Okay, yes,
they're Richard, and it's the first thing.

Speaker 20 (54:54):
You know, you're on the dating app.

Speaker 11 (54:56):
You just got talking ten minutes ago, and they're sending
you pictures.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
You know what.

Speaker 20 (55:00):
I'm not about that, And if I was about it,
I wouldn't be on a dating app.

Speaker 22 (55:03):
Looking for you.

Speaker 2 (55:04):
Michelle.

Speaker 7 (55:04):
I do.

Speaker 5 (55:06):
Kind of agree with Michelle, because I mean, for men,
it's it's kind of been a stereotype that man only
want one thing, especially on these dating sites, right Yeah,
And I felt like there's been a revolution of women
in the last I don't even know how many years
what they were like. You know what, if that, we're
gonna start acting like dudes and we're gonna start demanding
the same thing. So yeah, if you want to date me,
you gotta buy me nails, you gotta take me out
to an expensive dinner, you gotta buy me a bag,

(55:27):
and not just become this whole other thing.

Speaker 4 (55:30):
It's it's just weird.

Speaker 1 (55:31):
Like you'll see a conversation where the girl or the
guy's like hey, and the girl's like, hey, what's up?

Speaker 4 (55:37):
And then the guy's like, I want to motorboat you.

Speaker 12 (55:39):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (55:39):
I just like, right right right to it. Maybe maybe
that's my favorite color.

Speaker 6 (55:44):
I don't know, Oh my god, no, I know, I
mean I didn't even know what no Motivo one closing.

Speaker 2 (55:50):
You're sick nor.

Speaker 4 (55:53):
No, Michelle, I would never I don't even understand. Never
call you stupid, Michelle.

Speaker 2 (55:57):
How old are you?

Speaker 1 (55:58):
Man?

Speaker 11 (56:00):
I'm sixty two.

Speaker 1 (56:01):
You're sixty two, and you're single, and you're trying to
find love O here and then all these richards just
want to show you there richards.

Speaker 4 (56:06):
I get it.

Speaker 19 (56:08):
Yeah, yeah, And.

Speaker 21 (56:09):
I'm not about it.

Speaker 11 (56:09):
I'm not about it at all, gentlemen. And yeah I will,
I absolutely will, and I thank.

Speaker 19 (56:15):
You very much.

Speaker 4 (56:16):
All right, No, I thank you, Michelle.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
I just got a flash I just got like a
flash forward of AJ's that's that's theirs as AG it's
sixty two.

Speaker 4 (56:23):
Like, I'm sick of these richards.

Speaker 2 (56:24):
You're showing me the.

Speaker 5 (56:25):
Reds question, especially for Ag, right, wouldn't you rather somebody
just be honest with you from the jump so you
don't waste your time trying.

Speaker 4 (56:31):
As in, hey, I just want to have sex with you.

Speaker 5 (56:33):
That's it, as opposed to me trying to saburnade you.
And I know what my end goal is is to
try to get you know, to clap that. And should
I just say it from Jump Street?

Speaker 16 (56:41):
I mean yes, if that but there's other ways to
say it than like messaging someone and being like, hey,
can I make.

Speaker 4 (56:46):
Your eyes roll back tonight?

Speaker 2 (56:48):
Like whoa?

Speaker 16 (56:49):
I like that line, that's all, but the first line
that you say to somebody that's aggressive.

Speaker 12 (56:54):
I fail you.

Speaker 2 (56:54):
So how would you know?

Speaker 1 (56:55):
You and I have talked about this, like Foreign, I
think we've made it very clear, like Foreign is a
freak in the bedroom. He likes certain things. You're not
gonna come out of the game with that. You gotta
warm up and then you get the feeling from the
female if you can say those at.

Speaker 2 (57:07):
The same time.

Speaker 5 (57:08):
If I'm just here for a good time and not
a long time, you're gonna see I'm gonna lead that conversation.
I'm gonna be very flirtatious. I might be very sexual
in my flood, like you're gonna know what time I'm on,
you know what I mean. I'm not gonna be like, hey,
you know you look nice, let me take you out
to dinner, let's know, because I don't want to. That's
not what I want. I don't want a long term relationship.
So I think a lot of these guys and maybe women,

(57:30):
they just eat that up and be like, hey, yo,
this is going to be a long term thing. And
then when they when they give it up and they
don't call you no more, you wonder why.

Speaker 16 (57:36):
But if that is what a guy is looking for,
list it on your profile, because I will not swipe
right on someone who says they are looking for short
term fun. But when they list that, they're looking for
a long term relationship and that's the first thing they
come out with in the conversation.

Speaker 4 (57:49):
That's frustrated.

Speaker 2 (57:52):
I've been said it. These are apps are all just
for just for hookups, I feel, I know.

Speaker 1 (57:56):
But then I could give the number and say me,
if you found love on the app, and every line
will light.

Speaker 5 (58:02):
That will be that will be one out of maybe
twenty people, one out of ten people. I felt the
majority is going to be this guy played me or
this chick played me and they just wanted one thing
and they left me high and dry, and then you'll
catch the one, you know, lightning.

Speaker 2 (58:16):
The bout be like, oh yeah, I found love. Okay, cool,
but that's very rare.

Speaker 1 (58:19):
I'm not saying it's easy. I'm not, but I'm with
ash like, oh put that, put that in your profile.
If you're just trying to get it in and then
that's fine, but don't you know poor Michelle sixty two
years years old and is getting unsolicited penis picks.

Speaker 4 (58:34):
What's wrong with this one?

Speaker 6 (58:39):
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All right, everybody that's going to do it for us,
We're getting up out of here. Son shout outs.

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