I Pumped His Gas & Still Stayed Pt.1

Ashlee & Santi talk about Red Flags that happened in relationships that people completely ignored!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, well, well everybody, Hi, hell he Happy Thursday.

Speaker 2 (00:06):
First weekend of November is pretty much here tier Thanksgiving.

Speaker 1 (00:12):
Thanksgiving is the twenty seventh, so like two weeks I
actually called to order our turkey from this spot in
Marshall that we get it from Charlotta Gerards.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Because you know you got a pre order, it's time.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
People do they deliver it. You have to go and
pick it up, pick it up, and it's crazy. I'm
assuming this place is one of those places where there's
a line out the door. There will be oh god.
I went to one of those places a couple of
years back. It was just ridiculous. It's a line parking.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
You can get a spot for parking because I got
a big lot, but you'll probably wait in line.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
And I was a first timer last year.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
So let me just give people some some turkey tips,
if you will, if you live in and around the city.
Lambert's in Dorchester has the best turkey. Shout out to
my guys at Lambert's, the butchers that hold apartment.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
They got the best meats. I used to always go there.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Now I'm all the way in Marshfields, so now I
get my turkey from girards and somebody in Marshall was like, yo,
you got to get the turkey there, and you have
to get.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
Their gravy.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Line.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
The gravy up.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
You're snorting it now.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
It's so good, it's delicious. I get the turkey raw
and then we cook it.

Speaker 1 (01:26):
But you can also there do what you do from
Whole Foods, like get your whole meal, like they'll cook it,
they'll have everything ready to go.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
All you do is heat up.

Speaker 3 (01:33):
Why would anybody go cook their own dinner and all
that stuff where you can buy it from Whole Foods
and it tastes amazing.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
Nothing tastes the same. Heat it up. Yeah, you do
understand what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
When it first comes out of the oven, fresh money, nothing.

Speaker 3 (01:47):
Is going to taste the same if you know what
you're doing. And then if you know what you're doing,
it's the whole other thing. Because when you have to
prepare everything and it's just a day of it.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
My mom is our chef. I'm the sioux chef.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
I have to do like clean the bird out and
like the dirty work. But my mom is she preps
so by the time Thanksgiving comes, she's like everything is
already cut ready, to go and it makes it easier.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
But my mom can, she can cook.

Speaker 3 (02:11):
That's the thing. We go to whole Food. We get
everything and it's great. The last time my wife did Thanksgiving,
we got a turkey from one of these spots. It
was chaotic to get it and all this stuff. Then
we get it, cook it, and the mother in law
not only is it super dry, but then it served cold,
which is a whole thing.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
A cold piece of dry turkey like that choke. You
could have died. I'm so happy you're still here with us.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
My in laws they do not understand serving everything warm
at the same time, so they can't time everything out.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
It's hard. It's hard.

Speaker 3 (02:42):
It is hard, but if you do it the right way,
it shouldn't be that difficult. So for years and years
and years, cold turkey to the point where I have
to put it back in the microwave in front of
them because it's cold.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, you gotta time it out.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
And then some of them you have to put back
in the oven real quick to warm to warm up
before this is gonna sound.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
But I got two ovens now.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
Oh look, it's whatever.

Speaker 2 (03:05):
It's not.

Speaker 1 (03:05):
It's not something I like to, you know, brag about
or anything. But it was funny because when we were
looking at home and Mom's like, you got to get
a kitchen with two ovens.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
I'm like, for what, I don't cook, what does it
matter to me?

Speaker 1 (03:16):
But she's like, think about Thanksgiving because the top can
be cooking and the other one can be keeping more.

Speaker 3 (03:21):
Yeah, so that's nice. Ours aren't stacked like that, but
our stove is I think it's a Viking stove, but
it has them side by side. Nice and it is
very It.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Is convenient if you need either way.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
I like to get everything and cook it because it
just tastes better that way.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
But you do rave about holds.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
Oh my god, it's so amazing. You just pull up,
pick it up and it's in your car and it's.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Wondering what that runs, Joanne, I'm going I'm going five.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
It's it's just just below that. Yeah yeah, yeah, but
then you're guaranteed that it's really good and it's you know.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
It's also feeding how many people?

Speaker 3 (03:57):
Last time we did it was just for immedia, so
there were six so you can buy different ones at
different levels. Yeah yeah, yeah, but you have to like
order a head of course and all that stuff.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
But again, when I called to order the turkey, you know,
they ask you how many people are eating? We got
a ten to fourteen pound bird, and they give you
the price range on that. What do you think a
ten to fourteen pound turkey's cost in these days?

Speaker 2 (04:19):
It's tough.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Between fifty and seventy. That's not bad, it's not, but
it's still pretty pricey.

Speaker 3 (04:25):
Yeah, man, those four turkeys, like every year, they look
so happy. I think you see them the back I
see them in.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
I see them in my neighborhood, and I'm like, honey,
you better get the hell up out of here.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
The clock is ticking for you, big boy.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
We're just about two weeks out from Thanksgiving, which, by
the way, no one's talking about as I'm looking at
Christmas on the Starbucks Cup.

Speaker 4 (04:45):
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Speaker 1 (04:56):
Five, All right, Friday, it's not Friday, it's Thursday. With
the law going on in here, Thursday and November six
and the FAA has announced that they're going to reduce
air traffic by ten percent on across forty quote.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
High volume markets starting tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Now, these cuts are obviously due to staffing shortages caused
by air control traffic workers being unpaid because of the
government shutdown. So say there's some chance that the government
opens back up.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, within twenty four hours. This won't happen.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
But this is important to you because Logan is reportedly
on that list.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
So if you are expected to fly out.

Speaker 1 (05:45):
Of Logan tomorrow, Saturday, Sunday and the upcoming days, you
might be in some trouble.

Speaker 3 (05:50):
Well, good thing, this isn't the busiest time of the
year for travel. Yeah, that's right. This is a major problem.
And here's what's going to happen to. The trickle down
effect is also going to send hotels and other parts
because ocupancy will be down. But then there might be
an influx of demand too, So this is kind of crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
Here's Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy.

Speaker 5 (06:09):
We want to do this in an organized way. We
want to make sure that planes get where they need
to go for maintenance and crew crews get to where
they need to be as we start to implement this
draw down and service. But it will be restricted to
these forty high volume traffic markets. We're going to ask
the airlines to work with us collaboratively to reduce their schedules.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
I mean, this is.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Like the major news story on the news that you
really can't escape it. But it does hit home because
it's going to happen at Logan.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
And here's the thing.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
You might be thinking, I'm annoyed, like I want to
get in my flight. I understand all of those things,
but you also you don't want things messing up.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
In the sky.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
Yeah, you definitely don't. That's scary, especially what's been going
on in the last week though.

Speaker 6 (06:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Yeah, so let's do what we need to do. Hopefully
they can figure out the government shutdown.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
I think that's the most important thing.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
This will force them to kind of come to an agreement.

Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah, it's about time, all right. I remember us chatting
about this.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
It could have been a year or two ago, I'm
not sure, But do you remember this paternity lawsuit against
jay Z. There was a woman that was dying. She
was like on her deathbed, and she was trying to
go to the courts to have jay Z take this
paternity test. Her name was Wanda. Because Wanda swore up
and down in the nineties, her and jay Z had

(07:26):
a little something going on, and then they had a
son by the name of Ramir.

Speaker 3 (07:32):
Yeah too, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
Ramiir basically was like, listen, I want to resolve this.
I want to get this done. I wanted a per
paternity test. I'm not asking for money, I'm not asking
for fame. My mom passed away during the case, and
I really feel like there's unfinished business. Well, after a decade,
the case was finally dismissed with prejudice in California, so

(07:56):
it's officially open.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
But no test, no test. So I don't know either.
I don't know if this is the same guy, but
this is there's been a guy who's been around, and
it's probably him. It's him if you compare the pictures. Yeah,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (08:09):
I don't know. Like I see some things, I'm like,
I mean, maybe there is a case there.

Speaker 7 (08:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
Because jay Z's features are they are defined?

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yes, they are. You know, it's distinct. Yeah, Like that's
jay Z.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
You look at Blue, You're like, okay, we know who
you're dad. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
Jay Z obviously has denied it being the father, and
his attorneys have said, quote the fabricated allegations and claims
have been addressed and rejected in multiple other courts.

Speaker 2 (08:40):
So everybody, I guess, is just going to have to
move on.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
Poor Ramir, Yeah, poor Ramir Jay is just sitting there
sweating the entire time.

Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, and he's he's like, all right, it's done, all right.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
And lastly, the Mega Million's jackpot has risen people. We
are up to an estimated eight hundred and forty three
million dollars UH. This payout will be the second largest
of the year if the winner doesn't take UH annually
and goes with lump sum.

Speaker 2 (09:08):
You want to guess the payout there on eight hundred
and forty three mil.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
Twenty six three.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Hundred and ninety one point seven mil.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
I'll take it, but and then the government takes probably
a third of that. But at the end of the
day that's still fine.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
You're still walking away with three hundred ninety one. It's
just like you see that big number. Yeah, wait a second,
but yes, so the drawing is tomorrow night. But like
Santio always says, what does that matter when we have
a thousand dollars?

Speaker 6 (09:33):
Right?

Speaker 2 (09:34):
Yea three hundred and ninety one mil. A thousand.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
Yeah, helloy, I'll take the thousand.

Speaker 2 (09:39):
One is more in your reach. Let's just be honest.

Speaker 3 (09:41):
That is very true.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
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Speaker 1 (10:10):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I'm not on the talk like that.
I don't really ever go on TikTok. Somebody sends me
a video, I have it just so that way I
can open up the video to the full screen. But
I know there's all different types of talks, Like there's
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(10:30):
what's the wife trad wife talk?

Speaker 2 (10:32):
You know, there's all other types of things.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
And then I also perused the gay talk to just kidding. Okay,
no you're.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
Not, No, you're not. But there was a trending thing
on on on.

Speaker 1 (10:42):
TikTok the other day where it was like red flags
that you stayed in the relationship through, like something just
so blatantly.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Obvious that you're with a killer and you just stayed.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
Now, I would kill that you were like a bad partner.
This one girl was talking about she stayed with her
man even through the fact that he wouldn't stop communicating
his ex and that he would go visit her when
he was out of town, and she stayed through all that, and.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
She still stayed.

Speaker 1 (11:07):
And we were like flabberg acid, We're like, who are
these people who how like how are you staying?

Speaker 3 (11:14):
But then you start thinking about your past and like
I stayed, not even I stayed. I was willing to
go back to my ex, even begged her to stay
with me after another guy dropped her off, Like yeah,
well I've done that.

Speaker 7 (11:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (11:29):
I couldn't think of a red flag that I quote
stayed through because I think I was like the lies
were so good that I never noticed.

Speaker 2 (11:36):
But when I got.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Cheated on, when I caught him had he said like
the next week, I'll take you back out full sprinted.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Yeah, And then my ego was so hurt.

Speaker 3 (11:45):
And there were a lot of stories like that, like
blatantly cheating getting busted, but then the guy would somehow
manipulate and turn her around on her that the girl
was left believing him and then taking him back.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
But they it wasn't all about that, because there's so
because so many people go through things like daily and
their relaysationship and then once they're out of it and
they have the blinders off there like oh my god.
Like AJ had an example, I I I couldn't fathom this.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
I couldn't fathom this.

Speaker 1 (12:10):
This gives me the vibe of like you and your
husband are home on trash day and your husband says
to you go take the trash out, like I'm leaving
you know.

Speaker 7 (12:20):
Um out.

Speaker 2 (12:21):
When AJ told us this, I was like, wait, who explained?

Speaker 8 (12:25):
So I was once in a relationship and he would
have me pump his.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Gas for him.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Guys, why what By the way, he was in the car.
So they're in the car and you would pull up
to the gas station.

Speaker 8 (12:39):
And he would always I would try to like sit
there and knock it out, and he'd be like, come on,
get out, So I'd have to get out and pump
his gas for him.

Speaker 2 (12:46):
But what was the rationale?

Speaker 8 (12:48):
Like I have no idea, Like I look back at that,
and I'm like, I don't know why.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
I mean just fleas how probably that I own you?

Speaker 3 (12:56):
But like when it started, what did he say to
you the first time?

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Get out? Yeah? I really can't remember. I don't know that.

Speaker 8 (13:04):
I can't remember the first time, but I just remember
anytime I was in the car with him, unless he
was mad at me, he would make me get out
and pump his.

Speaker 2 (13:12):
Gas, which is crazy.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
So if he was mad at her, then he wouldn't
ask her to pump the gas and she would be like.

Speaker 8 (13:18):
I was so damaged that like whenever he didn't have
me get out of pump the gas, I was like,
what did I do wrong?

Speaker 2 (13:24):
Like why is he mad at me?

Speaker 9 (13:25):
Now?

Speaker 2 (13:25):
Like it was? It was bad.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
It is really bad.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
That's like crazy crazy.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
But the fact that, and I think, to your point,
it's some sort of like dominance on me.

Speaker 1 (13:35):
It has to be like I own her, she does
things for me, but you stay.

Speaker 8 (13:40):
I stayed, Yeah, eleven years, just.

Speaker 3 (13:42):
Dumping gas in the winter, out in everything, frigid, shivering.

Speaker 8 (13:47):
I tried to think, like was he ever with me?
Did he ever pump my gas? And I don't I
don't think he ever did.

Speaker 1 (13:54):
Also, This is not to say, like on some damsel
in distress, like I need someone to take the trash
out from I need someone to pump my gas. But
if my husband is around, like I could be driving
my own car and pull into a gas station because
I need gas in my own car, and he's getting
out to pump the gin, he's gonna pump the gas.
He's gonna he's at home with me. It's trasha, he's

(14:16):
taking out the trash.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
You know what's funny about that? When we pump gas
and everybody's there and my wife is there, I always
get out. I jokingly would be like, I'm not pumping it,
but I know I'm gonna pump it.

Speaker 2 (14:24):
Yeah, yeah, And again this is like that.

Speaker 3 (14:27):
I don't what even for, Like if somebody pulls up
and sees the guy inside the car with the girl
pumping the gas, I would pump it just to avoid
that embarrassment.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
I always think, even when we're driving, if I if
I'm like, honey, let's go somewhere, right, and we go,
we drive somewhere and he's in the passenger, I always
feel like he looks like a bit oh okay, though,
like that, I don't mind if I don't know, Yeah,
I know, I listen. I'd rather not drive, but sometimes
I'm driving. It's strange to me when he's in my

(14:57):
passenger seat.

Speaker 3 (14:58):
Like, so, do you never drive then when you guys
are together, I do often, but.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
I just feel like, yeah, I'm like, you're a bitch.

Speaker 3 (15:05):
You're on the motorcycle, right, like.

Speaker 2 (15:09):
Get up, be a man.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
I don't know why it's but anyways, that's a that's
a bad one.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
And she that happened early on in her relationship and
she was like, I'm just the gas pumper.

Speaker 3 (15:21):
In retrospect, though, we all have these things when you
look back on, like, I would never do that again.
And most of the time when this is happening, you're
usually young.

Speaker 1 (15:27):
Does anybody have a red flag that they remember in
a past relationship that they when it was happening, you
were like, oh, this makes complete sense, and then once
you got out of it, you're like, wait a second,
what the hell is happening? Six one seven nine three
one one nine four five six one seven nine three
one one nine four five We're talking ignored by red flags? Hi, everybody,

(15:50):
good morning, It's Ashley and the Gym of Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (15:53):
We were just talking about red flags.

Speaker 1 (15:56):
I think, listen, we can all think of old relationship
and now that we're out of them and the blinders are.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
Off of red flags.

Speaker 1 (16:06):
I dated a guy once that I could make cry
in ten seconds red flag, like why are you crying?

Speaker 6 (16:11):
You know?

Speaker 3 (16:11):
And he was really a big.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
He cried a lot.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
But that, listen, that's minor in comparison. By the way,
was just starting right there. She could probably name seven
other red flags. But she was saying how the guy
she was dating for eleven years would make her pump
the gas like they would pull into a gas station.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
He would go, get out, go pump the gas. But
you have other ones.

Speaker 1 (16:37):
What's another one that you've told people that you stayed
through and they were just like flabbergasted that you stayed
in a relationship after eleven years from that, God.

Speaker 8 (16:45):
There's so many. I'm like, I'm trying to think there
was an incident where this one was a really bad one.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
We went away.

Speaker 8 (16:53):
And he got mad at me. We were people watching
and drinking, and remember I got mad at me for
apparently looking at some guy. Mind you, we are people watching, right,
And he got up left and said that he was
going to leave me where.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
We were, and it was far away from her house.
It was like two hours away.

Speaker 3 (17:10):
Yeah, So if you're watching people walk by and say,
somebody has a weird haircut, that kind of questions you
in your mind. You're like, what is that guy thinking
by getting that? So you look too long into somebody
like that. And he took that as what that you
want to be with this person?

Speaker 8 (17:23):
Absolutely, like yeah, because the first thing that he said
to me was like you interested, And I had no
idea what he was talking about, and he was like,
you can stay here, and then went back to our
room and he said that he was gonna leave.

Speaker 4 (17:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (17:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
He also was gifted her something and then straight up
said to her like, hey, if this isn't something that like,
wear them for a couple of days and if this
isn't something that you want, you know, after a couple
of days we don't think that this is you, then
we'll take them back. And so she was honest after
two days and it was that was like close to
the end that turned out.

Speaker 8 (17:53):
Yeah, that was actually Yeah, it was probably a few
months before things officially ended. And I remember I told him, like,
you know, these just aren't for me. There earrings and
I wasn't gonna wear them like every day, and he
was like, don't worry, I'll take them back. You won't
have to tell.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Your boyfriend where you got them. And I was like,
are you you know?

Speaker 3 (18:09):
What is the worst one? I remember her telling us
was the autocrack one where you texted him something that.

Speaker 8 (18:16):
Was that was literally like what like really ended things.
I had to text him every morning at seven am.
He wasn't even up yet, but at seven am I
had to text him because he would not text me
when he woke up. So I went to text him
morning and I did it so fast that it some
I don't know how it turned into Friday question mark,
but again it was so fast I sent it and

(18:37):
then I was like, oh lol haha, morning, Like I
fixed it. A couple hours later, he woke up and
like this is such an fed up way to wake up,
like blah blah blah said he was gonna come like
get his stuff at my house, like with cops and stuff,
because he thought I was texting somebody else about making
plants on Friday.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
And I will, so I come in here that morning
and her and I are trying to like she's so
thrown off by it. She's nervous now. Her and I
were trying to I must have typed like sixteen things
to twenty things into my phone to We were trying
to figure out how it auto corrected from morning to Friday,

(19:13):
and we couldn't fire because we were gonna like record
it for him like crazy, Yeah you were.

Speaker 8 (19:17):
You were trying so hard to help me. But yeah,
I still to this day have no idea like why
it did that. But like, if I wanted to lie,
I would have come up with a more believable lie.
I would have been like I'm texting Rachel about playing,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (19:29):
Like I could have And even if you were saying
Friday to somebody, what if you were texting some coworker
asking a boat like an interview or something like that.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
He was, now, yeah, he was.

Speaker 8 (19:39):
He had a lot of since the very beginning of
the relationship, he had a lot of issues with I
don't know, insecurity. He always thought that I wanted to
be with somebody else. I thought that it was doing
stuff behind his bash.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
She had a brush on you at one point, that's right.

Speaker 3 (19:54):
Weren't you not allowed to wear certain type of garment too.

Speaker 8 (19:58):
No, it's actually actually.

Speaker 3 (20:00):
This one is really bad.

Speaker 2 (20:04):
I used to.

Speaker 8 (20:04):
Wear thongs during the day and eventually I was just like,
songs are annoying and I don't want you anymore. So
I started wearing like cheeky boy shorts all the time.
And one time he got drunk and was like, ever
since you stopped working with Santy, you stopped wearing.

Speaker 2 (20:23):
She was wearing for you.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
Thank you for wearing for me. Now that we work
together again, are they back on? That's crazy?

Speaker 2 (20:33):
No, it's like you think that.

Speaker 1 (20:36):
And then I also, I just got a DM from
a girl that was like, I can one up that.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
She said she was with a guy for three years.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
Never met a single family member, never met a single friend,
and every like time would go by, she said, she
just kept pushing, pushing, pushing. Never happened. Obviously, come to
find out she was the other. She was the side.

Speaker 2 (20:58):
But listen, the things we think we're doing for love.

Speaker 3 (21:02):
Well, I think at least most people, I feel like
when they come across us, they get out of the relationship.
And again, if you're stuck in one, rethink the red
flags because those things are real on your aga.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
Yeah, if anything AJ just said triggers you or you're like, WHOA,
I'm actually dealing with the same thing, then yeah, you
should figure out unless.

Speaker 2 (21:20):
You're wearing thongs for your coworker.

Speaker 1 (21:21):
You need to figure out the things out, especially in
the morning.

Speaker 4 (21:25):
Show when you need to know. No, we got you
three things you need to know on Buston's number one
for hip hop and the best throwbags you haven't any more?

Speaker 1 (21:34):
Five? All right, it's all Thursday, November six, and this
is important. It's the lead story, especially if you're somebody
who plans on traveling within the next couple of days.
H The FAA is going to reduce air traffic by
ten percent across forty high volume markets. It's starting tomorrow,
it will go through the weekend. It will start to
get bigger as the weekend goes. The cuts are due

(21:57):
to staffing shortages caused by air traffic control is working
unpaid during the government shutdown. So really what's happening is
the government is shut down. These people are now expected
to come to work unpaid, and some of them are like, bye,
if there's.

Speaker 2 (22:10):
No money going to my account, what are they doing here?

Speaker 3 (22:13):
So they're coming back ten percent, which means that the
other ninety percent that's left, all the tickets that are
out there are going to The prices are going to skyrocket.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
For sure, because people got places to go. You see,
They're like, I'm going to pay it. Here's Transportation Secretary
Sean Duffy.

Speaker 5 (22:27):
We want to do this in an organized way. We
want to make sure that planes get where they need
to go for maintenance and crew crews get to where
they need to be as we start to implement this
drawdown and service, but it will be restricted to these
forty high volume traffic markets. We're going to ask the
airlines to work with us collaboratively to reduce their schedules.

Speaker 2 (22:46):
Here's what's unfortunate. Logan's on the list. Yeah, that's kind
of what I was building up to.

Speaker 1 (22:51):
So if you are listening now and you have a
flight this weekend, I would check on that would I
would honestly believe that by this point you've probably been
reached out to buy whatever airline it is, but I
would still check your flights and keep checking your flights.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
I mean, this is also gonna affect gas prices too,
because if the demand increases for gas, and that's gonna
start to go up. Same with hotels and everything like that.

Speaker 2 (23:13):
Yeah, wow, good.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
Book, everything you have to do today.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
Well, then if they say poof the government shutdown is
is over, then the people I would assume we'll start
going back to work because they're gonna get paid.

Speaker 3 (23:25):
Yeah, definitely.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
But then they might also say, well, hey, I worked
a few days where I wasn't getting paid.

Speaker 2 (23:29):
I want to get back paid.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
And it's okay, here's where I think will happen. Even
if this takes effect for at least a couple of days,
that's going to cause a ripple effect down the line.
And I think we're gonna feel until December.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
And even like lately, just in general, traveling has just
been terrible over the last like six seven, eight months.
It's just flight delay after flight delay. There's been plain crash.
There's just a lot going on out.

Speaker 3 (23:52):
Yeah, nobody likes to hear like that word. That's a
scary thought obviously.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
And especially yes, because what just happened with that up yes,
play the death tolls up to twelve.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
And then you go this past year, what happened in
DC and all right.

Speaker 1 (24:05):
Yeah, it's it's just not good. So check your flights,
make sure everything is Okay, good news at Beyonce's house.
A paternity lawsuit against jay Z is officially over after
a decade.

Speaker 2 (24:17):
A woman by the name of Wanda in the nineties
was trying.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
To get jay Z to come to court because she's like,
I have your son here, okay, and he looks just
like you.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
And she ended up passing away during her case.

Speaker 1 (24:31):
So her son was like, listen, this is unfinished business
from my mother, and I want to get to the
bottom of this. I'm not asking for fame. I don't
want money, I don't want anything like that. I just
want to put this whole thing to rest. He wanted
a paternity test so bad, but a case, this specific
case was dismissed with prejudice in California. So jay Z
has denied being this Ravere's father for some time, for

(24:55):
a very long time. And it's over now because the
paternity lawsuit is gown.

Speaker 3 (25:00):
Kid looks like him. If you look at the I
mean that it's you.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Know, yeah, yeah, I wanted. I'm trying to think of
a way to say this, like he has distinct features.
That's a good way to like. I look at blue
and I'm like, well, we're not trying to guess who
her dad is. You know what I mean, Like, it's distinct.

Speaker 3 (25:14):
So how do you throw a case like this out
with prejudice? It's because there's not enough evidence. So and
I guess my point is you can't go back to
the nineties and be like, listen, I was hanging out
with him on this specific night. You can't really prove
that in that time frame because cell phones weren't a thing.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
Yeah, this says before she died in twenty sixteen, she
had filed a civil suit in Jersey seeking child support,
so she wanted money.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
Yeah, the son went well, the non.

Speaker 3 (25:39):
Son, it's the son.

Speaker 2 (25:41):
Is the fatherless son.

Speaker 3 (25:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:43):
I was basically like, I don't want any of that.
I just want to wrap this up for my mother's sake.
Who's not with us anymore.

Speaker 3 (25:49):
And then Jay probably was with so many people.

Speaker 2 (25:51):
He can't be dude. He probably looked at him and
did a double take too. Yes, but I'm true. Beyonce
is happy all right.

Speaker 1 (25:59):
One thirty six one oh seven was the score last
night for the Celts, beaten up on the Wizards. There
at four and five for the season. Jb our Guy
Jaylen Brown making history for the Celts last night. Son
he scored thirty five points in twenty six minutes.

Speaker 2 (26:16):
Oh wow, that's like historic performance.

Speaker 1 (26:18):
He also became just the third NBA player in history
with at least thirty five points, five rebounds of five
assists in twenty six minutes or fewer.

Speaker 2 (26:25):
The only other two to do it Michael Jordan and
Luca Wow.

Speaker 3 (26:28):
That's amazing.

Speaker 2 (26:29):
Crazy guy was scoring. But yeah, he was also doing
something else good and he's trending this morning. Not for that.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
We're not talking about the history that he made, but
instead it's the hair product that he got on yet
another person.

Speaker 2 (26:48):
No, this is not an offensive cow.

Speaker 3 (26:53):
Jaylor Brown got another picture game right there.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
Jaylen Brown got another victim.

Speaker 1 (26:59):
His uh, his his hair line that he sprays on
rubbed off onto a guy from the Wizard's wearing a
white T shirt under his jersey.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
Again, this is number three. This is the third time.

Speaker 3 (27:09):
I think Jayleen needs to stop wearing that because now
it's becoming like a joking.

Speaker 1 (27:13):
Now it's an absolute thing. By the way, I spray
my grace too. I'm not throwing any shade to this man.

Speaker 2 (27:18):
I literally will.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
If I'm in between collarings, I will spray up my
root a little bit. But I'm not playing NBA basketball
sweating and white begin out, Bob, I'm not.

Speaker 3 (27:27):
I hope he either already made the appointment in Turkey
or he just buzzes his head because this is getting crazy.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
Bottom line, if he can't go now.

Speaker 1 (27:33):
So if he made the Turkey apportment, that's cool, but
you're right, he's got to figure out what it's gonna
look like.

Speaker 2 (27:38):
I suck it up, everybody in the comment if you
go on.

Speaker 1 (27:41):
So many people are posting about this because it's the
third guy that he's gotten dirty with the hair spray.
People are writing like let a gun. It's just it's bad,
all right. That's three things need to know for Thursday,
November six. Talkbacks are such an easy way to access
the show, especially if you cannot call down the free
hire radio app.

Speaker 2 (27:59):
Once Jamin is on, hit that little red microphone and
say what up. Come morning.

Speaker 8 (28:04):
It's as in Morning show.

Speaker 4 (28:06):
And it's time for another DM dilemma.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
All right, everybody, let's help our gal out.

Speaker 1 (28:12):
She wants to stay anonymous, which I told her. I said,
I don't know why you don't just come on the show.
This is a good problem to have because we have
people calling us talking about dating issues and things they're
going through and.

Speaker 2 (28:24):
It's bad, bad bad. This is a good problem.

Speaker 1 (28:28):
But essentially, she's been seeing this guy gone out a
few times. I did ask her to be specific about that,
because I think that's important. She said, they've gone on
three dates so far, so keep that in your head.

Speaker 2 (28:41):
Three dates.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
She wants to know what number date do you start
going over to each other's places? Because he has invited
me over. I didn't know if people have, so I
obviously want to take calls for this in six one seven,
that's six one seven nine three one one nine four five.
Do people put a number in their head like, AJ,

(29:05):
do you have a number? Or are you just kind
of like going off of a gut feeling.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (29:10):
I think for me, it all depends on the vibe.
Because there was a guy, would you on one not?

Speaker 2 (29:15):
On one?

Speaker 8 (29:16):
No, absolutely not. I probably wouldn't on two. So I
did go to someone's house on the third date. But
there's another guy where I wasn't comfortable enough to go
to his house on the third date. So I think
it really depends.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
Okay, I don't.

Speaker 8 (29:28):
I don't think I would do less than three.

Speaker 1 (29:30):
But yeah, right, that's what I mean. I feel like
that's more so the she's already made it to three dates.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
But if the vibe is really great, you can invite
them over on the first night. But obviously there's dating involved,
and obviously that's a guy's perspective, but I will say
sex the third date is universally like, Okay. I think
you can get a sense of if you like the guy,
if you think he's safe, and then you can kind
of go down that path.

Speaker 1 (29:49):
I think you might on the first day be like, wow,
I really like this guy. I could see something going,
but you might fist fight on the inside, like I can't.

Speaker 2 (29:56):
I can't go to his house on the first.

Speaker 3 (29:58):
Maybe the second a thousand the third day, you can
go to your thing.

Speaker 1 (30:01):
All right, So you think she's hit the cusp that
it's okay for her to go.

Speaker 3 (30:06):
Yeah, because by this point she probably knows that she
likes him or not. I feel like she probably established
on the first date if like this and I can't
date this guy again. But by this point I think
she already knows.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
Technically speaking, this would mean she'd be going to his house.

Speaker 2 (30:18):
On the fourth date.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
Oh absolutely, I feel like she, for a lack of
the better word, thinks that she's being kind of.

Speaker 3 (30:26):
Oh, honestly, I don't think she is, though I know I.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
Think that's how she feels, like because she's like, I
need to know if that's too soon, Like am I
going to be judged type of thing.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
No, I mean there's people out here going on date one.

Speaker 3 (30:43):
Obviously the assumption is she goes over there, things are
going to happen, right, But that's not really what we're
talking about. Just going to the person's house doesn't mean
like you're no.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
I really I agree with you, And I think there's
this huge misconception like, listen.

Speaker 2 (30:56):
Would that be the place to do it? Sure?

Speaker 1 (30:58):
But I mean I think there is a thing where
the guy could be like, come on over, we'll make dinner.

Speaker 2 (31:02):
Mainly because maybe nobody wants to go to.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
A restaurant every single time you see somebody, right, that
gets old.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
So at what point do we deem it.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
Okay to go to somebody's house in the initial like
courting phase of dating. She's already been on three dates.
She wants to know for the next date. Do we
find it acceptable to go to the guy's house?

Speaker 7 (31:24):
Six?

Speaker 1 (31:24):
One seven nine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. In
the dating world, which date is it okay to go
back to.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
The person's house? Everybody, good morning? It's actually in the
jam of morning show.

Speaker 1 (31:38):
You know, this type of conversation in question is such
a sign of the times, Like the real answer should
be whenever you feel like you want to, that should
be the real answer. But I think dating is so
hard now and so many games are being played out
there that everyone's trying to play the game back and
do the right thing instead of just doing whatever the
hell they want. And that's no shade to anonymous. She

(32:00):
had DM me and she's like, Ash, things are going
well with this guy. We've gone on three dates.

Speaker 2 (32:05):
He keeps asking me to come back to his house,
Like can I do it now?

Speaker 8 (32:08):
Like?

Speaker 1 (32:09):
When when is it okay? In the dating the beginning
phases to start doing Hey, let's just hang out at
your house tonight. I think she thinks she'll be judged
by going over there on the fourth date.

Speaker 2 (32:21):
Hey, you don't want to do something yet, just don't
do it.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
Well technically, after the second date, I went back to
my wife's place, and you know, oh, we made I
can't say we made love, but we did. You know
it was touching me?

Speaker 2 (32:32):
Yeah? Man, good Tria.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
So six one seven nine three that is six one
seven nine three one one four five. At what point
do we deem it like acceptable to in the in
the I'd say the honeymoon part of dating, to go
to the person's house.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Danielle is in Boston. Hi, Danielle, good morning, Good morning.
So babe, you're fifty years old, you're out here, you're dating, yes.

Speaker 1 (32:57):
Almost almost almost, and you're like it's difficult and you're
just trying to like learn and and you know each
person is different.

Speaker 10 (33:10):
Yeah, it's it's it's definitely different at this stage. Once
you you know, because I've been in long term relationships
and you know, once you separate and you're in the
dating scene again. And I've been single for about two
years now, you know, dating you know here and there
and just you know, trying to get to know someone
and it just to me, it just requires so much

(33:31):
effort that I just I you know, once you get
comfortable being alone and loving yourself and pouring into yourself
and things like that, the dynamics of you know, you
have to fill some big shoes, you know what I mean.
And the discernment of taking a good partner is definitely there,

(33:52):
you know, being there, you know, being there and doing
that and just you know, I've been cheating on I've
you know, just the whole spectrum of just everything at
this age is just very awkward, you know. And people
are at my age they already like grandparents, you know.
So I don't have any children, and you know a
lot of the you know, women that I need to

(34:12):
have and you know, family, you know, grandchildren, things like that,
you know, and that's okay with me.

Speaker 2 (34:19):
But I was gonna say, are you okay with that?

Speaker 6 (34:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (34:21):
Yeah, I'm cool with it. I'm cool with it. I'm
I'm like, you know, I'm like the cool gay on
in the family, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (34:28):
What are you talk to me about?

Speaker 10 (34:30):
Little different?

Speaker 1 (34:31):
Talk to me about like a woman in her early
fifties lesbian, like, what are we coming across? When you're
out there where you're just like, I'm good like it? Did?

Speaker 2 (34:43):
What? What are a couple of things you're saying?

Speaker 10 (34:46):
What a couple of things? I don't know. A lot
of them are definitely saiding their ways and they're not
willing to, you know, use that wiggle room to change
or try new things. Or I'm very spontaneous and my
grab a bad let's go, you know, let's do something fun.
And you know, like I said, a lot of them
are just set on their ways and yeah, you know,
and I can.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
See it in life for them.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
So they're like, oh, no, I have already done ABC
and D and I don't yeah.

Speaker 10 (35:13):
Yeah, yeah, And to me, I still don't understand our age,
like why are we cheating? You know, yeah, yeah, you know,
I was. I was like, this was not supposed to happen.
I was already supposed to be married, and like settled them,
like why am I single at this age and dating
a whole bunch of weird you know, not weird. I'm
not being judgmental, but you know, just getting to know someone,

(35:35):
it's just requires so much effort that I'm so comfortable
being alone that I'm just like whatever I gave myself,
you know, I go out and you know, have fun
and you know, things like that. But you know, for
me to be pressed about being in a relationship or
dating or going to someone's house, it's just you know, yeah,
it's gonna take a little bit.

Speaker 9 (35:54):
For me.

Speaker 10 (35:54):
That's just me personally, I think too.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
I think for some people it just becomes like a task,
like a job, instead of like something fun and exciting.

Speaker 2 (36:02):
And you don't want it to turn into that to either, you.

Speaker 10 (36:05):
Know, yeah, definitely it's becoming it's becoming too much. It's like,
you know, you know, I'm talking to someone right now,
and the person is like, oh, I have to wait,
you know, until such and such staid, and I'm just like,
why that's so awkward to me. I'm like, you know,
let's go out to dinner, let's grab coffee, let's walk

(36:25):
on the beach when it was nice, you know, just
to say like that, just small things. And like I said,
at this age, I never expected to be alone.

Speaker 1 (36:32):
So you know, that stands out to me because usually
lesbians don't wait. Lesbians are like, let's move in.

Speaker 10 (36:39):
Oh hell yeah, you know what I mean. Sitting in
my younger years, I was on the U haul, like
you know.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
You were like, I'm Danielle, want to move in. I
want to get malaron?

Speaker 7 (36:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (36:51):
Well one day, oh baby, it's all now. I'm like whatever,
I'm like, you have to bult some big shoes and yeah,
you know to disturb, like not disturb, but like you know,
I'm at peace right now in my life and that's okay. Yeah, listen,
that's okay. Take yourself off the date and you know,
you meet someone nice, that's nice. But like I said,
right now, at my age, it's just requiring so much

(37:13):
effort that I really just don't care to put into
I mean, I'm secure my job, I'm secure in my career.
I'm secure in like you know what I mean. So
you the thing about you then I'm older.

Speaker 2 (37:25):
You know, we have a lot of people that care
on that show daily.

Speaker 1 (37:29):
I usually am a good tell of crazy also because
I am crazy, so crazy can tell crazy. You don't
sound crazy, you somedingly have a good head on your shoulders. Like,
I think it's all going to work out for you
in the end, not to take away from the difficulty
that it is right now, because dating is just it's
been difficult for a lot of people, at least judging
off of who calls our show. But I think I

(37:51):
think you'll be I think you'll be just fine and
you'll figure it out and it's going to be okay.

Speaker 10 (37:56):
Yourself much experience, so yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Yeah, well listen, best of luck to you. Keep us
posting on your on your life, you too, babe, And.

Speaker 10 (38:08):
By the way, it's stories. But I have to go
into work.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
No I know, and you I got I know some people,
so I'll ask around for you. See what I can find,
see what I can dig up.

Speaker 10 (38:20):
Oh god, no drama, you know you all right?

Speaker 2 (38:26):
All right, I'll do what I can. Thank you for
the call. Rach Is in Redding.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
This initial conversation started outrage with us trying to help
a girl out. Anonymous was like, I've gone on three dates,
Like can I go to his house on the fourth date?

Speaker 2 (38:41):
Which you know, I hate that. This is even like
go when you want to go, but you look at
you You're like first date, we're hanging out.

Speaker 6 (38:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (38:53):
So I actually met my boyfriend on bumble. We had
been talking for like probably two weeks face. I may
him stuff and he invited me over. We hadn't had
a first date yet.

Speaker 6 (39:04):
But I was like, you know what, like, let's just
do it.

Speaker 10 (39:08):
Yeah, I'm just gonna stand it.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
I know what you did.

Speaker 1 (39:12):
Obviously your gut was like not a murderer, like you know,
we we know we all look at people.

Speaker 11 (39:18):
If they crossed my mind, Like, am I going to
get murdered right right?

Speaker 6 (39:21):
Raybe?

Speaker 11 (39:23):
But we've been together four years now. The ring is
hopefully coming soon, and it was a great decision. We
talked all night. We didn't even like get physical, but
I mean we just talked.

Speaker 6 (39:37):
Yeah, and it was it was perfect.

Speaker 1 (39:41):
I was going to say, I'm assuming when you heard
me say that, you were probably yelling in the car, like.

Speaker 2 (39:45):
Just go to his house. It's been three dates.

Speaker 6 (39:48):
Yeah, I'm like, three dates. That's too long.

Speaker 1 (39:51):
I love it well, Rache, I hope you get the ring, honey,
that's that's weirdly.

Speaker 11 (39:56):
I love you guys on a first time caller, so
I was excited.

Speaker 2 (39:59):
Oh my god, we love you too. Thank you for calling.

Speaker 1 (40:01):
Good luck, keep us posted and then when you do
get the ring, call us so Sondy can judge you
on size, caliber and all this thing.

Speaker 3 (40:08):
All right?

Speaker 1 (40:08):
The phones are ringing six one seven, nine, three one
one nine four five six one seven nine three one
one nine four five.

Speaker 2 (40:17):
God only knows what these people are calling about.

Speaker 1 (40:19):
Maybe it's a lesbian for Danielle, or maybe we're talking
how many dates till you go over the house. Hi, everybody,
good morning, it's Ashley in the gym in Morning show,
We're we're doing a little DM dilemma at this moment.

Speaker 2 (40:30):
But basically we had a girl right me. She said
that she's gone on three dates for the guy. He
keeps saying, let's just go to my house.

Speaker 1 (40:38):
He's probably sick of going to restaurants and he wants
to just hang out at his own house, or maybe
he wants the other thing. I don't know, but she's
basically like, how many dates until it's okay to go
to the other person's house?

Speaker 6 (40:49):
You know?

Speaker 1 (40:49):
I would argue that for this one, it really is
a gut feeling, but I think it's this weird world
where everybody's playing a game, so she feels like she
kind of has to play the game too. She doesn't
want to be judged for going. She doesn't want to
be deemed garden tool, you know, and I feel bad,
like you go when you feel good. But everyone's difference

(41:12):
helped me out. With the name, Oh I thought it
said Jae Quirky. I was like, oh, Jacorey, good morning,
good morning.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
So talk to me about this.

Speaker 1 (41:23):
Do you do you feel like there should be a
number for when we should be going to somebody's house.

Speaker 9 (41:30):
So I feel like it kind of just depends on
like what Santi said and Aj said, how you feel,
how comfortable you are. I feel like and I don't.
I don't want to be like sound like a guy
too much in this, but I feel like, if you're
assuming that something is going to happen, you kind of

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want to see how it is early. Ah, if you're
if it isn't good or if it is good, you
can kind of gauze if you actually want to be
with that person or not. I truly don't want to
say like that should be the definition of the relationship,
but it should be definitely something that helped out the

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relationship business.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Yeah, listen, I don't think we're inviting anybody over on
any dates if there's not that sort of like sexual attraction.

Speaker 2 (42:22):
But yes, you're right when you take it to.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
That like fun land, maybe there's a lot or yes,
I get what you're saying. And if you're dating for
a year and then you find that out makes sense
to me. Yeah, he's going on one day and he's like,
come on over, let's see, let's see what things are,
see what's happening. All right, Well, thank you so much

(42:44):
for the call. I appreciate it, and yeah, I think
that's the bottom line.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
There you go. You gotta go with your gut. We
all do a test.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
We all look at people and we're like, would definitely
kill me, absolutely, you know.

Speaker 2 (42:56):
Jenny is in Rosie. Hi, Jenny, good morning.

Speaker 6 (43:00):
Hi, good morning.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
How we're good?

Speaker 6 (43:02):
How are you good? I'm great, I'm great.

Speaker 2 (43:05):
We're having these this like in depth convoy.

Speaker 1 (43:08):
It's kind of been a little not all over the place,
but we've had, you know, different kind of input on dating.

Speaker 2 (43:14):
And how it is out there and like.

Speaker 1 (43:16):
Games people are playing and where are you at with it?

Speaker 2 (43:19):
All of it?

Speaker 6 (43:22):
The dating game right now is horrible. I'm a big woman.
Big girls need love to you know what I mean.
I feel like the society is portrayed. Big girls are
just taxis and money or you know, a place to stay,
you know what I mean. Even though this could happen
to any woman in any size, you know, but I

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feel like, you know, it just sucks, like what's the
little love that you know?

Speaker 2 (43:47):
You feel like?

Speaker 1 (43:48):
You know, of course everybody does. Do you feel like
that you're being used in that way?

Speaker 2 (43:52):
Or have you been used in that way?

Speaker 6 (43:55):
I have been used in that way, but now it's
like now you're peeping game.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Early on you're like, I'm I'm good, you.

Speaker 6 (44:03):
Know, yes, Like why can't we just go on a
date without the guy saying, oh, we need to go
do some things after or I'll get a hotel room,
like come on, let's grow up. Yeah, that's let's get
to know where's the vibe? You know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (44:19):
Have you look what was your last what was your
last relationship?

Speaker 6 (44:22):
Like I felt like I was kind of love bombs,
you know, I don't know why, but you know, I
felt like he was good in the beginning, bring flowers
and take me out. But then next thing, you know,
is like all the things was like you know, where's
the affection, where's the love? Let's go out? You know
what's all that?

Speaker 2 (44:43):
I think it's corny, Like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (44:45):
I think we could talk to We could line up
ten singles and everybody would have a complaint about like
how it is out there. Of course there's these amazing stories,
and I do think obviously love exists and it will
be found and you'll find it.

Speaker 2 (44:58):
But you know, it's it's not easy out there right now.
The streets aren't.

Speaker 6 (45:06):
It's not. You know, at this point, everybody's liking to
have a sneaky link or you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (45:11):
It's like, come on, maybe it's maybe it's the type
of guy that you're dating. You try changing it up.

Speaker 6 (45:19):
I just try and change it up. But you know,
I'm kind of shy. I can't lie. But I am
a confident big girl.

Speaker 1 (45:24):
You know.

Speaker 6 (45:25):
I don't think I'm ugly in the face. You know,
I'm just bague. What's the difference? I can always lose
this weight. Are people going to ever lose that ugly face? Sometimes?
You know what I mean?

Speaker 10 (45:36):
That's heard.

Speaker 6 (45:41):
Saying you know what I mean. It's like, can we
just have a vibe. We're not young anymore. We don't
need to go in the car hang out or you know,
let's expand our minds, let's do things.

Speaker 1 (45:54):
Well, where are you? Where are you looking for these guys?
What kind of scene or you win? Are you on tender?
Young hinge? Like?

Speaker 2 (46:01):
What's up?

Speaker 6 (46:04):
I did tag a little bit, I did tender. I
did even the Facebook dating page, you know what I mean?
And I even telan to do a long distance and
that didn't even work. So it's like, what's going on?
I keep saying my future boot was not in Boston.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
Well, let's do this, because you know, we've had people
call the show and kind of describe themselves a little bit.
You know. The only thing that you've told me is
you have a pretty face and you're a quote bigger girl.
You got to have other attributes. What do you got
going on for yourself? Tell me a little bit about
yourself and why somebody would want to date you, and
who knows, maybe the love of your life is listening.

Speaker 6 (46:41):
Right now. I'm a single mom. I can't lie. I'm
a single mom of a so to be six year
old and right now I do like you know, I
help people, like in the community. I was helping the
Biden people. I was doing work in the shelter, you know.
I do case managed outreach, help people find houses everything
like that.

Speaker 2 (47:00):
Wow, that's a beautiful thing. That's what I'm talking about.
What does Jenny like to do for fun?

Speaker 6 (47:06):
I like to go well, I love to eat, you know,
I like to travel. I like to have a good
time with my friends. We laugh, you know, we go
to the bars, We go to different places, try different things,
sipping paint, you know, we go just anywhere, just to
try things different.

Speaker 7 (47:23):
So Santi is doing his things.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
Sandy wants to hook you up with a J and I,
this man I.

Speaker 2 (47:37):
And none of that. Did you say you are into women? Okay?
And he's plinny.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
It's just the thought that popped into my head. Okay,
Well he didn't say that. You didn't say that. So
I was just thinking outside the box. And I was like, hey,
there's two single people here.

Speaker 6 (47:52):
Don't get me wrong. Don't get me wrong. That's you know,
I have a lot of friends that are you know,
that's cute.

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Yeah, yes, that's not her cup o tea. All right,
well listen, we don't know, we don't. Do you have
an Instagram that you feel comfy giving out in case anybody?

Speaker 2 (48:11):
All right, go ahead?

Speaker 6 (48:13):
Is Jenny pool oh four? Jenny p o h oh four?

Speaker 2 (48:20):
Why poo oh for Jenny pooh oh four? Fellas, if
you're listening, that sounded like a nice time with.

Speaker 7 (48:27):
Hair, Yes, okay, son cutie?

Speaker 2 (48:39):
All right, Oh you don't.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
I'm the cutest little kid to all right, Jenny, Well,
good luck, best of love to you.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
If anybody slides, If anyone slides in, let me know,
because you know I'm nosy.

Speaker 3 (48:51):
I'll let you know, all right, good luck.

Speaker 2 (48:54):
Best of luck. You can't you can't stop putting everybody
on a j to stop stop.

Speaker 3 (49:02):
Her tagline is Jenny Big Trouble.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
Jenny's Big Trouble slot in Fellas