November 20, 2025 • 40 mins
A woman leaves a talkback commenting on yesterday's convo about how Santi doesn't do ANY household chores and says that's exactly why she won't date a Dominican man but is it really a cultural thing?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Why everybody happy Thursday, Good morning, look at us Thursday.
It's exciting for you though, because you're you're gone this weekend.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yes, I'm going to New York. My wife is, and
we'll be in New York for work. So I'm tagging
along on a work trip. Which it sounds crazy that
I'm dis excited for it, but my wife has never
invited me on a work trip ever.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
No, I love this.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yes, it was always like a situation where like, oh, no,
I'm not going to bring you to see my work people.
That's how I always felt. I know that wasn't like
the case, but no, now I'm excited. I'm like, this
is great to get a little week and away from
the kids. Not saying that they're bad, but just like, listen,
we went on vacation this summer was really good. But
when you're on vacation, you're still surrounded by your core
family and all that thought, which is great. We haven't
(00:43):
had a Loane time in a while. Yeah, so I'm.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Gonna be nice. Also, that's of course the number one thing.
But the number two thing is Christmas in New York. Yeah,
I mean, if you haven't seen New York in this timeframe,
like in December, you're close. The tree is up. Yeah,
but it's the energy is different.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
You know, you've seen those films where where it captures
the magic of the holidays in New York City, and
when you go there, it definitely hits you feel it,
you know, just just you know, there's holmeless people like
people there with rats and stuff, but just ignore that.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, go right past them and just go check out
the Rockefeller Center and the tree. And Macy's may still
do the lights.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I think they do so cool. We went into Macy's
a couple of years ago because at the time we
were all staying in one hotel room and we had
to buy like this like mattress pad that was like
three hundred bucks just to have like an extra bed.
Oh that was the last time I went into Macy's.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
What what residies have you made anywhere special?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I made two reservations at roof Top Bars for Tomorrow
night and Saturday night, and I haven't made a VISs
Front one yet. And we might see a Broadway show.
I'm just trying to decide, like which one pizza. I
don't know if we'll do pizza because I'm.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Crazy, right, Okay, So you're going to be crazy, is
what I was gonna ask.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I'm gonna I'm not. Yes, yeah, it's gonna be crazy.
Am I gonna know?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
One slice? Maybe you guys get ones each, have a bike,
I could have a slice. Well no, no, you guys
could get one slice and she could have a couple
bites and you could have a couple bites.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, but I like to fold it though, so I
don't know. So maybe it's one one slice each and
that place that you told me to go the last time,
of John.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
This just reminds me, especially of you saying maybe she's
worried about you being around our co workers. Do you
remember the first time I met some of the guys
at the firehouse what.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Happened about the baseball bat? Yes, yes I do.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
I actually think back to that, and I again, my
age old mind, I want to slap myself, like mortifying.
At the time, you guys we had just really we
were like dating, and then it got to the point
where he, you know, he wanted to introduce me to people.
And it was a Fourth of July themed birthday party
for somebody at the firehouse. So you know, we go
and it's like introduction, like we're a couple now, and
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you know, I get hammered obviously, and The Walking Dead
was really popular at that time, like super popular, and
I got drunk and I started telling some of the
fire wives that I wanted mean to do bad things
to me with him and his bat. What in the
actual hell? And so now I think back to the
(03:12):
en mind you. It got around to him and he's like, yeah,
like I don't that's just weird, Like why are you
with the bat?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
What do you what do you do with that thing?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
You know, it's just got really uncomfortable And I don't now,
I you know, I get why people might be like, hey,
don't drink in front of your.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Cowork certain circles like that shoe could work. It's really funny,
didn't felt.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I mean, they looked at me. I didn't know them,
and they looked at me like consider horrified. And that's
the all of the looks that I got.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
So what did you mean by do bad things?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I really don't know, and I don't want to think
about it. I don't want to think about it. But anyways,
if I were you, I wouldn't bring up anything sexual
with the bat. It's in front of Joanne's co works.
That's just my advice especial show and you need to know.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
We got you three things that you need to know
on Bustin's Number one for hip hop and the best throwbags.
She haven't any more five.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
Thursday, November twentieth, and we got it. Baby pictures from
Cardi b I'm exciting. Oh no, we can't really see
face of the baby, but you know what, it doesn't
matter because when they're that little aliens.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, you know what I mean, Like, what.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Are we looking for? They're not gonna look like that.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
My daughters looks like little chickens. D You know.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
It's funny though, parents love because I look back to
some of the like fresh out of the womb photos
and I'm like, oh, I thought they were so cute
at that time. But anyways, Carti gave us a little
look ski into the birth of a baby boy. We
still didn't get a name, but she titled it eleven four.
There was a bare heart and a football emoji. Okay, son,
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the baby was in a little Patriots swaddle. That's me
playing the song that she posted in a Patriots swattle. Blank.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I see that. That's really cute, and I do have
to say, she looks really good.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
She's really good, amazing, she looks happy. She is wearing
a ring on her ring finger, and some people spotted that, listen,
like engagement ring. That ring's not big enough. I'm just
gonna go ahead and say it, like, I don't think
that's an engagement ring. I think that's just a ring
that she's wearing, because that that ring is not enough. Also,
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it might not be Cardi's hand. It's tough to see
somebody's somebody what a hospital man on, so it could be.
But that like if Steph on Dig's proposing to her,
that ring's not gonna look like.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Maybe Stephan is a little bit light in the pocket
right now because he's playing child support and he has
new babies coming on the way too, Like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
By the way, he commented and put proud of you, boo,
but love you, and she wrote back, I love you,
thank you for giving me such a beautiful baby.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Boy.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Anybody check on offset because.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
This that man, that man has, that man has such
deep issues. I don't who knows. But we still don't
get a name though, which is fine. Listen, I'm happy
we got some photos, and did I not say to
you she's waiting for the professional photos. I beg I
knew it. She wanted to be glammed up.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
It's fine. I still don't understand the celebrities holding back
on the names, like why, Like I would get the
pictures that I understand, but the name what? Like why?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
I don't know. But I just find it so frickin
cute that he was wrapped up in a Patriots swaddle.
I mean, come on, we would have maybe guessed that
that could happen, but to actually see it is amazing.
I also want to show Carty some love. Am I.
The Drama has officially sold three million plus units, making
that album the highest certified album by any female rapper
(06:36):
in the US this decade.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
We also forgot she's going on tour in a couple
of months too, So go off Queen Big Year for her,
all right?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Daddy Trump has signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law.
I haven't really touched this because there's been so much
back and forth as to when these files are going
to come out. I'm so sick of it. I just
want them to come out because the people want to
read them so bad. They're better be something good in there.
There better be something just mind blowing because of the
(07:05):
crazy back and forth of it all.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
I mean, we all know some of the names are
gonna pop up. The most obvious one is Clinton. There
are pictures of Clinton getting a back massage in an
airport before boarding the Epstein private plane.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
It's so weird, like the back of because I remember
at first Trump was like no, like, we're not releasing these,
but now he's pushing for the Republicans to release them,
and in a new statement is saying that the Democrats
are going to be hurt the most when they see
the parties involved. Whatever, let's just get it going because
I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
But I can't wait to read it though, because there
are a lot of people out there right now shaking
in their boots.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Will you will you read those? Okay? And you can
report to absolutely because I guess I just I'm over it.
But I still think it needs a couple of signatures
to actually be done. Done. However, I think we're getting
closer to actually finding out what the hell Jeffy was
doing on this island.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Think we know, Yeah, I think we know too.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
All right, lastly, Drizzy at Rolling Loud. Will it ever happen?
I don't know, he's never done it. But the co
founder of Rolling Loud, Tarique Sheriff, basically said, son, I've
offered him every single year, and every single year he
has said no. He said, I send an offer every year.
(08:19):
We send him our max offer every year. We're talking
millions of dollars and the man.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Always says, Now, I mean it's pretty simple. Whatever the
max is, just double.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
It, right. Rolling Loud has events in Cali, in Florida,
in Thailand, Mumbai this past weekend, like they all over
the place. But here's the easy answer. Like you were saying,
they're not they're not throwing the right amount of cash
in front of the man or else he would do it.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
And here's the thing. I know it's a big festival,
but why not invest all of your cash into him
because he's the biggest, biggest thing out there, right.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Well, because then it would just be like going to
his show, I guess, and you gotta well, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
If you want a map bad, yeah, well cancel some
of the other spots.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
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Speaker 3 (09:11):
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ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I think one thing about me
that we know is I can't really hide my emotions.
And I'm I don't know if anybody else cries in
this way, but when I feel the lump coming, if
I fight it, it almost gets harder when I let
it out because I'll like, I'll feel the lump in
(09:39):
my throat like I want to cry, and then I
try to like swallow it. Yeah, it just always makes
it worse. And I have this, I have this really
weird thing about not crying at work, Like I really
don't want to cry at work. I don't think it's professional,
Like I agree, Yeah, I just I think there's a
(10:01):
time and place for it.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Now.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
When I say at work, I'm talking about like meetings
with bosses and such, I don't mean on this show,
because on this show, I might like talking about my miscarriages.
Or you guys call me and you tell me, like
what I cry.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
I've cried, Yeah, but that's like we're having an emotional
conversation I do with our personal lives, so that might
come out here and that's completely fun.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Yeah. I feel like when I I guess the best
example is when I'm talking to Santi and I'm talking
to you guys. It's like, to me, I'm just having
a conversation with my friends. So i can cry and
I can be vulnerable, and that's fine. But you know,
when you're having like a work meeting, you shouldn't cry,
is what I would, by the way, I say to myself.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Absolutely, And again I've never done it. I've been angry,
but I've never done it. But I've seen it happen before. Again,
maybe there's situations where you get, like go from a
job and stuff like that, and I think like in
that moment, it's hard to kind of push back those emotions.
But it's something I think we all try to avoid.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Yeah, without going into like a crazy detail, because there's
just a million things is happening. But I cried at
work yesterday. I cried, and I just when I think
about it, I want to crawl out of my skin.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I am so.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Mad that I cried. I think I was like I
kind of felt like I was selling myself or something
like that. I had to like sell myself and I
it was like a it was just a weird convo.
And anyways, I cried, and I'm so mad at myself.
I am so mad at myself because I would tell
any of my friends. I would tell myself a million
(11:31):
times like you you can't because I don't know. Once
you cry, I feel like you've lost the battle.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I don't agree with Like I understand, I understand, but
I don't think you crying at work will get taken
in a wrong way. And I don't think it changes
any dynamics, if that makes sense. I think people will
still respect you and still see you as a certain
person because you don't do it a lot. I think
this time, maybe one other time I've heard we had
a conversation about it. Yeah, I've seen you cry or
(11:57):
get upset.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Like, yeah, I know it just I like can picture myself.
And by the way, just so you guys know, when
you have a conversation in this stupid building with anybody,
it's a fishbowl. Every office is glass. Every office is glass.
So the way I was seated, was on a couch
facing everybody, so it was very apparent there's no tissues
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in there either. So there was not and like I'm
going like trying to like suck my snot back in,
but I felt like everybody's just watching me.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Well they definitely mean yeah, and that's another thing here
because I look think about it.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yeah, when you and I, Santi and I will go
to the back, we're nosey as hell. We'll see people
in the offices having meetings. We always walk by.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
And then once you can and you can get a
feel of what the tone is in the conversation too,
and then we start, hey, what's that about? Who's who's
in there? And then we start surmising what the conversations are.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
I don't know, but I would say probably crying is
better than flipping out at work, which I've kind of
done a few times.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
You have, so yeah, yeah, yeah, well but again I
feel like that's like the guy girl dynamic, like guys
get mad and want to fight, females get like emotional sense.
It's funny because I posted the girls were just like
wanted to like speaking of Cardi Bee's womb crawl back
into mind. Yesterday, everybody wanted to be held, so I
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like needed five minutes. So I went and I sat
on the floor of my closet and I posted. I
was like, I'm just a girl. I cried at work
today and I'm escaping my children from the amount of
females that wrote me back being like, oh, I hit
in the bathroom today and cry too. It's like we're
all hiding because we know we shouldn't be crying at work,
but sometimes used to be crying at work.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Yeah, and you're totally right the guiding am, because that
is get a little angry.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Angry and want to fight.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Yeah, yeah, then sometimes you need to take a walk
and say, you.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Know, I'm trying to think, maybe AJ can I can
at least remember Santi wanted to fight two co workers?
Am I right with the two?
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Okay too, all right, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
One of them just happened on the air. Yeah, And
it's funny about that. I will from time to time
people will ask me what did you inform, Like, it's
really hard to explain. I think in our position here,
some you have personal conversations on the air, and sometimes
like they get heated. But right after that, I think
we were like, I apologize to I'm like, listen, I
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flipped out on air and it was live, and I
broke some headphones and I apologize to everybody, and Bourn
and I. Right after that we had a conversation about it,
and I think it was a misunderstanding that played out
on the radio. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yeah, the other one was behind the other one scenes
years ago we were in the other building. Let me
say this, being someone that was visually present for both
the other one I really thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Yeah, that one. I can tell you what year it was.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
It was, Yeah, this specific here.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
It was twenty and thirteen. It was the week of
the marathon bombings. It was that week. I think tensions
were a lot more high for everybody, especially if you
work here, uh the industry. There was news coming out
like all the time, so like we were working, Actually
we were tired. Yeah, and some thing's happened behind the
scenes that I do. I was ready to go.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
I was.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
I was so fired up. It tau we an hour
to calm down.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
The best way to describe that week, guys, is like,
if we get in here early, already we were getting
in an hour before, we were staying hours later, and
it wasn't like any break. We were having fun, like
it was like we didn't know where the we didn't
know where Joe car was at the time. And we
went into a commercial and Santi said to me, oh,
I wanted to show you this, and he showed me
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something on his computer. And this person walked in at
that time and basically made the comment like how dare
you guys?
Speaker 2 (15:31):
And they threatened my job and that was what set
me off.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
And I'm like, and that person hadn't done anything at
that time, like to add into the broadcast. So we
were like just roll in talking, you know what. And
Santi was like, not today, brother.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
Dude, there's a terrorists out there. No way I would
rather have emotion than anger.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
So I think I'm struggling now because I feel like
when you getting emotional that the conversation is then out
the window. Like I look back on the convo and
I feel like I could have said so many things,
and once I start to get like that, it just
kind of is all out the window. We're just our
job is so weird to you guys. And I know,
(16:15):
I know I'm gonna get DMS. You're being vague. It's
on purpose, but you know, ratings and how many people
are listening and what I'm talking about on the show
and comments on I mean, like all of those are
under a microscope when you do this.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Job, right, judge by everybody judge you.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
And then they judge they're essentially judging like you as
a person, like if you're likable enough, if audiences will
like you, and all of these things. So then you
have to kind of go in there and sell yourself
as to why you're doing what you're doing. You're telling
the stories that you're telling because you know, and it's
just it sucks because yeah, you know, and it's not
a fun convo.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Everybody here and I'm sure other jobs are like this too,
but this one is different because they're hearing conversations now
when you walk into this building, everybody is an expert
on what we should be talking about, how you should
be saying things. And I'm talking about like even down
to the person who's like doing the finance and stuff,
like you're a finance person, Shut up, you don't know
what you're talking about. You don't know what this is,
like you don't know what it's like.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But you also don't understand that there are so many
other good shows in this building. I mean, in this building,
in this in this city. I walk in I walk
up in here into work every day with Daniellemer who's
on ZLX and she's just like insanely talented and she's
so get at her job. And we we do opposite,
we do shows at the same time. You know, you
got kissed down the hall. It's like we're up We're
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up against a lot of things. So it's like your
each show is individual because of the people that are
on it. So then that turns into well then maybe
they just don't like.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
You, yeah, and they say these things and it's just
hard to stomach as yeah time. So but the vagueness
must be killing people.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Right, I know. But you guys know once it once,
it's go time, it's go time. Uh six one seven
nine pre one one nine four five Did anybody else
hide in cry at work?
Speaker 4 (17:58):
As?
Speaker 1 (17:59):
I actually didn't hide. Everybody was watching me, like, who
the hell's going on with her show?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
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Speaker 4 (18:12):
She haven't any more.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Fires Thursday, November twentieth, and I'm honest to God, feel
like it. I feel like the baby's mind. I feel
like I had the baby. I am so invested in
this little baby boy. Cardi B and stuff on Diggs
blessed us with. But we finally got the picks people.
We were waiting. She she posted pictures from both the
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hospital bed and what looked to be a nursery and
the baby wrapped in a Patriot swaddle blanket.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Okay, that's amazing. Part.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
We could have made the joke like, oh, I wonder
if they'll put the baby in a Patriots jersey, never
actually thinking it was going to come to fruition. And
and here we go the picture of a lifetime. And
by the way, he was there.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
Was he there?
Speaker 1 (18:56):
He was there. In the first photo that she posted,
he had his arm around her and you can see
that he's there.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So that's you're right. That was from the from the
day of the birth, right.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Exactly eleven four. Eleven four was when he she had him,
which was what we thought. And remember it worked out
that it was like whatever it was that week of
Monday or Tuesday, so he would have been able to
be there there tagged in the photo in the hospital room.
She blurred out the baby's face in that picture, and
then we have a couple others where she kind of
gives a little lookski but I mean, I can't There's
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a picture of her sitting on a rocking chair holding
the baby just in a Patriots Digs blanket. I can't blur.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Do they blur the face out because fear of what
I think? And I never really really like understood that kidnapping.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I'm wondering the exact same thing. Because then in the
other one she shows the baby's face like the side
profile Cardi's she don't have her kids. So that's that's
one thing to know about CARTI. So I don't know
she she did that specific for, but you know what,
she's with a new guy. Yeah, and maybe it's him
being like, I don't really want the baby's face. I
don't know. Maybe we could we could play this game
all day. She also has a ring on on her
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ring finger, and some people are claiming maybe it's not
giving it's I don't like it. I don't think so.
I think he's going bigger and I can barely see
a diamond in it.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
So but it is a diamond ring though, right?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Are you just assuming that it's not in gaging ring
because you expect a bigger one.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
I'm sorry, I just got thrown off because I got
a DM as I'm looking at Cardi's photos. I get
a DM. Ready. Yeah, that lady that called in and
told you that the pictures were there, and you tried
to swear up and down it was Ai. You need
to publicly acknowledge that she was right. No, Aquila, I don't. No, Aquila,
I do not, because the pictures that that woman sent
(20:43):
me were Ai. Cardi was on a football field with
a whole different face. Yep, a whole different fing. You
know what, You're gonna get me that picture and I'm
gonna screenshot there and I'm gonna post it because you
know what, guys, it's today. Is not that that credit?
Whork iss it? You don't hear me? Yes, you're sending
me to the bone. No, this was real photo. The
other ones were a I. This was Cardi in the hospital.
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But I'm excited for her. I also want to say
congrats to Cardi because she has officially sold three million
units of her album, am I the Drama? I had
that thing on the other day in the gym. That
really is a playthrough album. Honestly, her even adding wop
to it, like I know people, I get, I get right.
Yeah yeah, but it deserved its place on an album.
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Stefan Digg's commenting, by the way, proud of you.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
Boo butt boo, butt boo.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
But all right, it looks like we might possibly get
these Epstein files. Soady said he will read them for
all of us. It's gonna be a fun little game
we could do so where you could read and then
every day give us something new, like whatever Bill Clinton
was doing over there on the island.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Not just Bill Clint. When you start going down the
names of the powerful people that he had in his
pocket that were flying to the island, it's really crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Daddy Trump signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law,
basically telling the DOJ, release them, let them fly. Interesting
because DT was also the guy that was like, we
don't need to really least these files now. Not only
is he saying release them, but he's saying the Democrats
are going to be the ones hurting. Well, listen, we
we can only guess what Billy boy was doing over there.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Stephen Hawking, I heard had been on the plane and
went to the island. If you don't know him, he
had he had als, but he died recently. But he
was confined to like a wheelchair his entire life, and
he was flying down to the island. He was talking
through like a computer. Like again, the names that are
on this list are going to be like shocking.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
In the anyways, Pam Bondi, the Attorney General, has thirty
days to release, Like just release, dude, Like I'm so
saying the fact that like this is what everybody has
hung up. I'm like, let's go, let it fly.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Not be on the lehot.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
No, it will not, No, it will not. All right.
Smokey Robinson is facing new allegations of a sexual battery case.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
From a mail oh okay, yeah uh.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
The accuser is claiming that Robinson tried to quote force
his hands onto his genitalia. The man worked as a
car detailer for the Robinsons for years and years and
alleges that Smokey would touch himself in front of him
while only wearing underwear while he detailed the car. Like
this is.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Crazy, that's like a fetish.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
What the guy said that he rejected Smokey's advances for
a long time, would tell him put some clothes on,
and claims that things escalated in twenty twenty two when
Smokey tried to force himself on the man.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
I'm just gonna say this, right, if I had a
job of washing cars and I go to like a
job site and the guy starts doing that, I'm not
going back.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Ever, Let's rewind you roll up to a job site
and the guys sitting there with no shirt on in
his unknees like you're out. You're not. But by the way,
he's not the only one. Other housekeepers and anonymous people
that worked for the Robinsons have accused them of inappropriate behavior.
Something's going on in that household.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Smokey has been accused of being bisexual for years.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Well, I think we're getting the confirmation here, Hi, I'm
here to deliver your Uber eats guys in just his
own at the door like I'm good. That is three
things need to know for Thursday, November twentieth. I was
saying this earlier. We love a good talkback guy, So
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(24:16):
good morning.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
Boston's number one for hip hop jamm in ninety four
or five.
Speaker 1 (24:23):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I'm just gonna pull up a
comprehensive list of household responsibilities. I want to run through
it with Santy. But yesterday and the show revelation that
we found out if you catch if you caught up
via the pod, then you already know this. But Santi
was showing me Penny, his dog out in the backyard,
(24:45):
so I immediately said, damn, that's a that's a lot
of land to cover, you know, cleaning up all those spoops, Like, no,
it's not, it's easy, like she it's really actually easy
as because she just goes in one area. I'm like, oh,
that's sick. So what do you like, when do you
pick up? Do you give it a couple of days?
Speaker 2 (25:01):
He goes, I don't.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
I don't pick them up, So how the hell do
you know that it's easy? He also notoriously doesn't take
out the trash. Here's here's there's like a daily comprehensive
responsibility for the household lists so we got do you
make any of the beds?
Speaker 2 (25:17):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:18):
Do you wash any of the dishes?
Speaker 4 (25:20):
No?
Speaker 2 (25:21):
I put him in a dish washer. So no.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Have you ever wiped a counter after you've eaten?
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Actually? Last? No, the night before last? I did so.
But it's like very so once once a month?
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Okay? Have you ever cleaned the bathroom?
Speaker 2 (25:35):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Have you ever vacuumed? I? Have you've done laundry here
and there?
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Once a month?
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Yeah, he said he hasn't really done it. Let's go
beyond that, like pet care. Do you ever like brush
the dog?
Speaker 5 (25:46):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Hey, how dare I am? Like grocery shopping?
Speaker 2 (25:51):
We get food delivered?
Speaker 4 (25:52):
To know?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Okay, the last one on the list, which we all
know pay bills. He has not done that since he married.
You know what's so crazy? So it's interesting when we
have conversations like this. I never know sati and I
call it sticky, So we never know if like a
combo is gonna be sticky as in later on in
the day, I'm gonna get d ms about it or not.
(26:14):
And this one was sticky. Like I got a ton
of dms of people just being like disgusted. I got
a lot of poor Joanne's and then we got.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
This good morning everyone.
Speaker 6 (26:25):
So I just wanted to say a little fact about
yesterday's conversation about Santi and him having chores around the house.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 7 (26:35):
Happens when you marry a Dominican man.
Speaker 4 (26:38):
That's why I refuse to be with a Dominican man.
Give me anything you got but a Hispanic man. Oh,
because they just love being baby.
Speaker 8 (26:46):
They love having the thought of having a second mom
around the house.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Absolutely, okay, is this there's no way.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Okay. I have said that I never did anything as
a kid because culturally that just wasn't put on me right.
So I never did the dishes, I never took the trash,
never did any of that because my mother always did it.
So culturally, yes, she has a point because it's such
a male dominated society that everything is catered to to
all the men. Here's an example. When my parents come here. Yes,
(27:14):
I'm gonna tell you, my mother will serve my dad
dinner like she'll make a plate for him, put it
like right in front of him. Then he eats, then
she takes it like this is how it is. No,
he's going to get up. It comes to him to
the point where my family gets so uncomfortable because it's
such a foreign thing to them. So to her point, yes,
like this is the way that I was raised, subconsciously
(27:37):
like absorbing that. I don't want to be the way
that I am. But I'm fighting this internal battle because
of her point. So this this back to that, even
to the point furthermore that Dominican men, especially down there,
can have whole entire families and relationships on the side
and the wis just look the other way.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Fine, which I don't do. I don't but I don't
want to just do a broad stroke like she literally
was like, it's all Hispanic men. I don't think we
can do that. And by the way, I am gonna
let the Hispanic men call in and defend themselves because
I believe that we can get a couple to call
in and say you I take out the trash.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Yes, but I guarantee that they'll co sign my point
that that the culture is dominated by most by all males.
And again I'm not gonna speak beyond Dominicans, but Dominican culture,
the men just rule with an iron fist.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
This woman said she will take any man but a
Hispanic men because a Hispanic man doesn't do anything, does nothing,
and just wants another mommy in the house.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Dude, my mother still babies me. I'm forty five six.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
One seven nine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. We
gotta get some Hispanic men out here. We did defend yourselves.
I just want to say I'm not the one who
said it. Okay, she did.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Good morning everyone.
Speaker 6 (28:56):
So I just wanted to say a little fact about
yesterday's conversation about Sarty and him having toos around the house.
Speaker 7 (29:05):
Yeah, that's what happens when you marry a Dominican man.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
That's why I refuse to be with a Dominican man.
Speaker 8 (29:12):
Give me anything you've got, but a Hispanic man, because
they just love being baby.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
They love having the thought of.
Speaker 7 (29:19):
Having a second mom around the house.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
I usually, I don't want to believe it. I don't
want to hit everybody like the in the Hispanic community,
especially the men with that with that stroke of they're
all bad. They're not taking out the trash and they
just want a second mommy. But guys, you should see
the phone ade Lisa's and Lawrence is Sati telling the
truth about Dominican men.
Speaker 9 (29:45):
I think she is. I currently with my situation. I
can say that Hispanic men love being babies.
Speaker 10 (29:52):
It's like in their culture, it's just a thing for them.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
Are you with one?
Speaker 9 (29:58):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (29:59):
And do you take the trash out?
Speaker 4 (30:04):
Well?
Speaker 11 (30:05):
I don't want to NECESSI say I take it out,
but I definitely do help when they don't take it out.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
You take Okay, thanks sir.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
Okay, we just learned that you have to understand that
it's not something that we're doing purposely. Is that we
weren't raised like this, so we're constantly fighting this battle.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
Yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Stephen is in Laurence. Stephen also giving son the co
sign that this it's a cultural thing.
Speaker 12 (30:29):
Hi, guys, Yes it is. It's definitely a cultural thing.
I'm Dominican, myself a Dominican mail, and I'm surprisingly sancy.
I was not raised like that. I was not raised
like that, but I do co signs because I do
see a lot of Dominican mills babied by their mom.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
Yes, I mean Santi still is.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
Yeah. Yeah, there's a drastic difference between me and my system.
My mother will go at her for the smallest thing,
but for me, I'm like Jesus Stephen, thank you, Oh.
Speaker 12 (30:59):
Good, Yeah, no problem. No, I was gonna mention my buddy,
Yeah that lives with me. He's Dominican, he was baby
likes mom. I can clearly tell the difference between him
and how we were both raised.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Oh yeah, oh yeah. Living with somebody too, You for
sure can see if Sam is in Wooster, Sam's Puerto
Rican and screaming from the rooftops, takes the trash out, cleans,
does laundry.
Speaker 5 (31:20):
Thank you, Yeah, no problem. I just think you know,
I'm in no shade to all the Dominicans out there,
but you know I'm Puerto Rican. Like I said, No,
I do all that, you know, And I don't know
if it's just like just me or I was just
raised differently or what, but you know I was. I
was raised to you know, let the woman, you know,
take a day off on some things. You know that
(31:42):
woman didn't want to go get the Sam.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
Let's let's stop down, Sam. I appreciate we have to
stop down and explain to Sajt. Sam, can you define
a day off for the woman? To Santi, he's never
heard that phrase. He doesn't know sounds a day off
is when like Joanne doesn't do the task of the home.
Do you understand what Sam and I are saying.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I understand, but my wife doesn't like this.
Speaker 1 (32:04):
It's still she Thank god it Sam thing. Chris is
in North prov Chris, I'm so happy that you called.
This is so weird, I said to Santi when he
was grabbing the phones. I said, you should see my
dms because mad people are writing Portuguese men are the
same way, and and what's going on because you're about
(32:25):
to say the same thing.
Speaker 10 (32:27):
Oh yeah, that's just the culture. I've been married for
thirty plus years now. He's been trained a little bit,
so there is you know, he's been he helps. But
in the beginning it was like, Okay, I didn't have
any experience in cooking or I did clean. Is that
we have to learn?
Speaker 4 (32:44):
How?
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Oh I think we dropped their bags? Oh oh well,
every line was just ringing. We just dropped every single call.
So if you were on hold or you were trying
to call, we're gonna have to do it again. But yeah,
you should see my my dms. Like the poor Portuguese
men are getting too.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Comes from all of our cultures, come from Spain, so
it's trickled down the lines over the generations. Yeah, listen,
I don't want to be this way. And this is
why always going back to the thing of like if
she gives me a list, maybe I can learn to
be this person. But like I'll do anything. She just
needs to ask, and I know, like for you guys,
you guys don't want to have to ask us to
do things. But you have to understand I'm fighting this
cultural battle, like.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
I get it. But that's what I tried to tell
you yesterday, which is that if you know, if you
know that there are things to be done, and you're
already saying to yourself like, oh, I know, Joanne doesn't
want to have to ask, why don't you just go
ahead and do them?
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Because in my subconscious it's not a thought to do
it first. I just look straight ahead and walk by
the piles of laundry, do you guys?
Speaker 1 (33:41):
See see you guys? Six one seven nine five. My
apologies for the phones, call us back six one seven
nine one nine five. Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning.
It's Ashley and the gam In Morning Show. Just as
a reminder, I am not the one who said.
Speaker 6 (33:56):
This, good morning everyone, So I just wanted to say
a little fact about yesterday's conversation about Sunty and him
having choices around the house.
Speaker 4 (34:07):
Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 7 (34:08):
Happens when you marry a Dominican man.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
That's why I refuse to be with a.
Speaker 8 (34:12):
Dominican man, give me anything you've got, but a Hispanic man,
because they just love being baby.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
They love having the thought of having.
Speaker 7 (34:21):
A second mom around the house.
Speaker 4 (34:23):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (34:24):
And I wish on this show I had an example
of a Dominican man that steps up, but I'm still
waiting for that. I do not have that example for you.
Steph is in the Cape. Steph says, quote, Spanish men
are babied by their mothers. Oh yes, so what like, like,
(34:45):
give me an example in your home of your husband
being babied.
Speaker 9 (34:49):
Oh no, no, no, I didn't laugh.
Speaker 11 (34:51):
And this is why I have a child with him.
We waited for a long time but couldn't do it anymore.
Speaker 10 (34:58):
He literally would you nothing.
Speaker 11 (35:00):
And then it was like an argument every time that
I asked him, like, hey, I'm working like sixty hours
this week, can you do something in.
Speaker 1 (35:06):
The house anything I was still doing.
Speaker 9 (35:08):
I was still doing everything with a child. I'm like, hello,
oh yeah, but what his mom was around. It was like,
you know, he was God. He was doing stuff and
I don't know.
Speaker 11 (35:19):
Nope, nope, not for me.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
Yourself verty now.
Speaker 11 (35:24):
And he literally treats me like gold does everything. Doesn't
even let me open my door, Like, yeah, you gotta
switch it up.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Wow, I might think about switching it up. Steph. Thanks
for the call. Uh Anna is in Burlington, now, Anna,
this is such a good question. It's aggressive as hell,
but we all know I like aggressive. Go ahead and
ask it to Santi.
Speaker 11 (35:45):
Okay, God forvid, Like God forbid if something happens to Joanne,
like who is picking up the flag? You know what
I'm saying, Not your mom, Mommy.
Speaker 4 (35:55):
Mommy's not doing it.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
Yeah, that's this is a good question.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
To be honest. I clearly have traction to a certain
type of female, so I would be confident that I
would find kind of like the same thing. But at
the other end of things, I would have to find
a way to like pick up the slack and one
how to pay bills and all that stuff. But again,
right now we don't have to, so so I'm kind
of good.
Speaker 11 (36:15):
Yeah, I mean yeah, but like I'm saying, like men
in general, like you need to know how to take
care of yourself. You don't have to wait for a
woman to do it. And like my mom, my mom,
she kind of raised me, like women usually are the
ones that have to raise the men, like teach them
these skills so that they don't have to wait for
the woman to do it. They can just take care
of themselves and live good on their own and not
(36:35):
wait for a woman.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
Yeah. No, you make a solid point. I don't even
and honestly, Aerona, thank you for this. And I don't
even want to take this one step further, but I
know there's somebody in the car thinking the same thing
as me. I also like love when the fireman does
things without being asked. But and this this is messed up.
It's never the way I want it to be done.
So then I just want to do it myself. Like
I don't like that, like you that? Like I? So
(36:56):
I appreciate that you folded like laundry. Are you folded
like the blanket or the decort how? But that's not
I don't like it folded like that. That's no, it's
I'm just saying it's some psycho stuff. I'm just saying, Lily,
is in Boston. Hi, Lily, we've been Uh, we've been
dating a Dominican man for eleven years. Talk to me
(37:18):
Rave reviews or what.
Speaker 9 (37:22):
Yes, so, yeah, we've been dating for eleven years. We're
not legally married yet. We're kind of not rushing rushing
into that. But we have a daughter. She's she's seven.
I'm pregnant with another daughter, and everything's been great, honestly,
Like I said, Santi said, all you got to do
is ask, and I say that's so true, Like you
(37:42):
need to have your expectations as a woman, and men
needs to have their expectations as men. He has two jobs.
I have a full time job. I cook every day.
I feel like it's all on the woman, Like what
is it that you want to do? You know, if
you don't, if you don't want to be with a
man that doesn't want to be taken care or vice versa,
then that's you kind of I love to take care
(38:04):
of my man and I love him taking care of me.
But I feel like everybody got their own different perspective
of you know, of whatever they want or need, and
I honestly think that all you got to do is communicate, honestly, just.
Speaker 1 (38:20):
Because she's saying all these things doesn't mean you've won
this bad exactly. No, Lily. He's out here being like
you should see his face. He's shaking his head and
me like mm hmm what she said, Like, now, that
doesn't mean you've won the battle, don't you know what, Lily?
It looks like you you have found a diamond because
from some of the other calls, it's.
Speaker 9 (38:39):
I don't know, I've been hearing it and I'm like,
oh my god, it's it's crazy how you know, I'm
Dominican myself. It's crazy how the majority of the men
have like really bad like a reputation, you know, but
I mean they do the majority are them are cheaters.
I'm not saying mind having cheater because I mean, I
don't know, but but I don't know.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Right, ignorance is bliss.
Speaker 9 (39:02):
But yeah, And I won't put my hands on fire
for him either. But like I said, I have my
my expectations and they're very high, and so does he,
and I guess that we've been doing great. I guess
you have a business in the Dominican Republic, I said.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
Don't say you guess. You guys have eleven years to
babies like we're.
Speaker 9 (39:22):
Yeah, we have we have a business in Dominican Republic.
We love horses, we have a farm in Dominican Republic.
Everything's been great, Honestly. I don't have any complaints about him. Honestly,
but I mean not everyone runs with the same look.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
You know, No, that's take that's a fact. Look at
Joann Lily. Thank you, thank you for the call.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
Listen. I know that I need to step it up
with doing stuff around the house. I am acknowledging that that.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
I think we should. It's like baby steps. Okay, so
again today today, why don't you go out and clean
up the poops? Why don't you wipe down the countertop?
Why don't you do okay, bye, do something indoors?
Speaker 2 (40:04):
What the counters and vacuum?
Speaker 1 (40:05):
And we want to see it on Instagram. We want
to see you holding the Clorox
Why everybody happy Thursday, Good morning, look at us Thursday.
It's exciting for you though, because you're you're gone this weekend.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Yes, I'm going to New York. My wife is, and
we'll be in New York for work. So I'm tagging
along on a work trip. Which it sounds crazy that
I'm dis excited for it, but my wife has never
invited me on a work trip ever.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
No, I love this.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yes, it was always like a situation where like, oh, no,
I'm not going to bring you to see my work people.
That's how I always felt. I know that wasn't like
the case, but no, now I'm excited. I'm like, this
is great to get a little week and away from
the kids. Not saying that they're bad, but just like, listen,
we went on vacation this summer was really good. But
when you're on vacation, you're still surrounded by your core
family and all that thought, which is great. We haven't
(00:43):
had a Loane time in a while. Yeah, so I'm.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Gonna be nice. Also, that's of course the number one thing.
But the number two thing is Christmas in New York. Yeah,
I mean, if you haven't seen New York in this timeframe,
like in December, you're close. The tree is up. Yeah,
but it's the energy is different.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
You know, you've seen those films where where it captures
the magic of the holidays in New York City, and
when you go there, it definitely hits you feel it,
you know, just just you know, there's holmeless people like
people there with rats and stuff, but just ignore that.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, go right past them and just go check out
the Rockefeller Center and the tree. And Macy's may still
do the lights.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I think they do so cool. We went into Macy's
a couple of years ago because at the time we
were all staying in one hotel room and we had
to buy like this like mattress pad that was like
three hundred bucks just to have like an extra bed.
Oh that was the last time I went into Macy's.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
What what residies have you made anywhere special?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
I made two reservations at roof Top Bars for Tomorrow
night and Saturday night, and I haven't made a VISs
Front one yet. And we might see a Broadway show.
I'm just trying to decide, like which one pizza. I
don't know if we'll do pizza because I'm.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Crazy, right, Okay, So you're going to be crazy, is
what I was gonna ask.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I'm gonna I'm not. Yes, yeah, it's gonna be crazy.
Am I gonna know?
Speaker 1 (01:57):
One slice? Maybe you guys get ones each, have a bike,
I could have a slice. Well no, no, you guys
could get one slice and she could have a couple
bites and you could have a couple bites.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, but I like to fold it though, so I
don't know. So maybe it's one one slice each and
that place that you told me to go the last time,
of John.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
This just reminds me, especially of you saying maybe she's
worried about you being around our co workers. Do you
remember the first time I met some of the guys
at the firehouse what.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Happened about the baseball bat? Yes, yes I do.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
I actually think back to that, and I again, my
age old mind, I want to slap myself, like mortifying.
At the time, you guys we had just really we
were like dating, and then it got to the point
where he, you know, he wanted to introduce me to people.
And it was a Fourth of July themed birthday party
for somebody at the firehouse. So you know, we go
and it's like introduction, like we're a couple now, and
(02:52):
you know, I get hammered obviously, and The Walking Dead
was really popular at that time, like super popular, and
I got drunk and I started telling some of the
fire wives that I wanted mean to do bad things
to me with him and his bat. What in the
actual hell? And so now I think back to the
(03:12):
en mind you. It got around to him and he's like, yeah,
like I don't that's just weird, Like why are you
with the bat?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
What do you what do you do with that thing?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
You know, it's just got really uncomfortable And I don't now,
I you know, I get why people might be like, hey,
don't drink in front of your.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Cowork certain circles like that shoe could work. It's really funny,
didn't felt.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
I mean, they looked at me. I didn't know them,
and they looked at me like consider horrified. And that's
the all of the looks that I got.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
So what did you mean by do bad things?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I really don't know, and I don't want to think
about it. I don't want to think about it. But anyways,
if I were you, I wouldn't bring up anything sexual
with the bat. It's in front of Joanne's co works.
That's just my advice especial show and you need to know.
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Speaker 1 (04:06):
Thursday, November twentieth, and we got it. Baby pictures from
Cardi b I'm exciting. Oh no, we can't really see
face of the baby, but you know what, it doesn't
matter because when they're that little aliens.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Yeah, you know what I mean, Like, what.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Are we looking for? They're not gonna look like that.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
My daughters looks like little chickens. D You know.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
It's funny though, parents love because I look back to
some of the like fresh out of the womb photos
and I'm like, oh, I thought they were so cute
at that time. But anyways, Carti gave us a little
look ski into the birth of a baby boy. We
still didn't get a name, but she titled it eleven four.
There was a bare heart and a football emoji. Okay, son,
(04:52):
the baby was in a little Patriots swaddle. That's me
playing the song that she posted in a Patriots swattle. Blank.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I see that. That's really cute, and I do have
to say, she looks really good.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
She's really good, amazing, she looks happy. She is wearing
a ring on her ring finger, and some people spotted that, listen,
like engagement ring. That ring's not big enough. I'm just
gonna go ahead and say it, like, I don't think
that's an engagement ring. I think that's just a ring
that she's wearing, because that that ring is not enough. Also,
(05:25):
it might not be Cardi's hand. It's tough to see
somebody's somebody what a hospital man on, so it could be.
But that like if Steph on Dig's proposing to her,
that ring's not gonna look like.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Maybe Stephan is a little bit light in the pocket
right now because he's playing child support and he has
new babies coming on the way too, Like I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
By the way, he commented and put proud of you, boo,
but love you, and she wrote back, I love you,
thank you for giving me such a beautiful baby.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Boy.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Anybody check on offset because.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
This that man, that man has, that man has such
deep issues. I don't who knows. But we still don't
get a name though, which is fine. Listen, I'm happy
we got some photos, and did I not say to
you she's waiting for the professional photos. I beg I
knew it. She wanted to be glammed up.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
It's fine. I still don't understand the celebrities holding back
on the names, like why, Like I would get the
pictures that I understand, but the name what? Like why?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
I don't know. But I just find it so frickin
cute that he was wrapped up in a Patriots swaddle.
I mean, come on, we would have maybe guessed that
that could happen, but to actually see it is amazing.
I also want to show Carty some love. Am I.
The Drama has officially sold three million plus units, making
that album the highest certified album by any female rapper
(06:36):
in the US this decade.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
We also forgot she's going on tour in a couple
of months too, So go off Queen Big Year for her,
all right?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Daddy Trump has signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law.
I haven't really touched this because there's been so much
back and forth as to when these files are going
to come out. I'm so sick of it. I just
want them to come out because the people want to
read them so bad. They're better be something good in there.
There better be something just mind blowing because of the
(07:05):
crazy back and forth of it all.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
I mean, we all know some of the names are
gonna pop up. The most obvious one is Clinton. There
are pictures of Clinton getting a back massage in an
airport before boarding the Epstein private plane.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
It's so weird, like the back of because I remember
at first Trump was like no, like, we're not releasing these,
but now he's pushing for the Republicans to release them,
and in a new statement is saying that the Democrats
are going to be hurt the most when they see
the parties involved. Whatever, let's just get it going because
I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
But I can't wait to read it though, because there
are a lot of people out there right now shaking
in their boots.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Will you will you read those? Okay? And you can
report to absolutely because I guess I just I'm over it.
But I still think it needs a couple of signatures
to actually be done. Done. However, I think we're getting
closer to actually finding out what the hell Jeffy was
doing on this island.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Think we know, Yeah, I think we know too.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
All right, lastly, Drizzy at Rolling Loud. Will it ever happen?
I don't know, he's never done it. But the co
founder of Rolling Loud, Tarique Sheriff, basically said, son, I've
offered him every single year, and every single year he
has said no. He said, I send an offer every year.
(08:19):
We send him our max offer every year. We're talking
millions of dollars and the man.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
Always says, Now, I mean it's pretty simple. Whatever the
max is, just double.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
It, right. Rolling Loud has events in Cali, in Florida,
in Thailand, Mumbai this past weekend, like they all over
the place. But here's the easy answer. Like you were saying,
they're not they're not throwing the right amount of cash
in front of the man or else he would do it.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
And here's the thing. I know it's a big festival,
but why not invest all of your cash into him
because he's the biggest, biggest thing out there, right.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Well, because then it would just be like going to
his show, I guess, and you gotta well, yeah, you're right.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
If you want a map bad, yeah, well cancel some
of the other spots.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
That is three things you need to know for Thursday,
November The twentieth. Make sure you can via the pod, guys,
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Speaker 3 (09:11):
Good morning, Saustin's number one for hip hop jam in
ninety four or five.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I think one thing about me
that we know is I can't really hide my emotions.
And I'm I don't know if anybody else cries in
this way, but when I feel the lump coming, if
I fight it, it almost gets harder when I let
it out because I'll like, I'll feel the lump in
(09:39):
my throat like I want to cry, and then I
try to like swallow it. Yeah, it just always makes
it worse. And I have this, I have this really
weird thing about not crying at work, Like I really
don't want to cry at work. I don't think it's professional,
Like I agree, Yeah, I just I think there's a
(10:01):
time and place for it.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
Now.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
When I say at work, I'm talking about like meetings
with bosses and such, I don't mean on this show,
because on this show, I might like talking about my miscarriages.
Or you guys call me and you tell me, like
what I cry.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
I've cried, Yeah, but that's like we're having an emotional
conversation I do with our personal lives, so that might
come out here and that's completely fun.
Speaker 1 (10:22):
Yeah. I feel like when I I guess the best
example is when I'm talking to Santi and I'm talking
to you guys. It's like, to me, I'm just having
a conversation with my friends. So i can cry and
I can be vulnerable, and that's fine. But you know,
when you're having like a work meeting, you shouldn't cry,
is what I would, by the way, I say to myself.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Absolutely, And again I've never done it. I've been angry,
but I've never done it. But I've seen it happen before. Again,
maybe there's situations where you get, like go from a
job and stuff like that, and I think like in
that moment, it's hard to kind of push back those emotions.
But it's something I think we all try to avoid.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Yeah, without going into like a crazy detail, because there's
just a million things is happening. But I cried at
work yesterday. I cried, and I just when I think
about it, I want to crawl out of my skin.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I am so.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Mad that I cried. I think I was like I
kind of felt like I was selling myself or something
like that. I had to like sell myself and I
it was like a it was just a weird convo.
And anyways, I cried, and I'm so mad at myself.
I am so mad at myself because I would tell
any of my friends. I would tell myself a million
(11:31):
times like you you can't because I don't know. Once
you cry, I feel like you've lost the battle.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I don't agree with Like I understand, I understand, but
I don't think you crying at work will get taken
in a wrong way. And I don't think it changes
any dynamics, if that makes sense. I think people will
still respect you and still see you as a certain
person because you don't do it a lot. I think
this time, maybe one other time I've heard we had
a conversation about it. Yeah, I've seen you cry or
(11:57):
get upset.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Like, yeah, I know it just I like can picture myself.
And by the way, just so you guys know, when
you have a conversation in this stupid building with anybody,
it's a fishbowl. Every office is glass. Every office is glass.
So the way I was seated, was on a couch
facing everybody, so it was very apparent there's no tissues
(12:23):
in there either. So there was not and like I'm
going like trying to like suck my snot back in,
but I felt like everybody's just watching me.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Well they definitely mean yeah, and that's another thing here
because I look think about it.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
Yeah, when you and I, Santi and I will go
to the back, we're nosey as hell. We'll see people
in the offices having meetings. We always walk by.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
And then once you can and you can get a
feel of what the tone is in the conversation too,
and then we start, hey, what's that about? Who's who's
in there? And then we start surmising what the conversations are.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
I don't know, but I would say probably crying is
better than flipping out at work, which I've kind of
done a few times.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
You have, so yeah, yeah, yeah, well but again I
feel like that's like the guy girl dynamic, like guys
get mad and want to fight, females get like emotional sense.
It's funny because I posted the girls were just like
wanted to like speaking of Cardi Bee's womb crawl back
into mind. Yesterday, everybody wanted to be held, so I
(13:19):
like needed five minutes. So I went and I sat
on the floor of my closet and I posted. I
was like, I'm just a girl. I cried at work
today and I'm escaping my children from the amount of
females that wrote me back being like, oh, I hit
in the bathroom today and cry too. It's like we're
all hiding because we know we shouldn't be crying at work,
but sometimes used to be crying at work.
Speaker 2 (13:38):
Yeah, and you're totally right the guiding am, because that
is get a little angry.
Speaker 1 (13:42):
Angry and want to fight.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Yeah, yeah, then sometimes you need to take a walk
and say, you.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Know, I'm trying to think, maybe AJ can I can
at least remember Santi wanted to fight two co workers?
Am I right with the two?
Speaker 4 (13:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (13:52):
Okay too, all right, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
One of them just happened on the air. Yeah, And
it's funny about that. I will from time to time
people will ask me what did you inform, Like, it's
really hard to explain. I think in our position here,
some you have personal conversations on the air, and sometimes
like they get heated. But right after that, I think
we were like, I apologize to I'm like, listen, I
(14:15):
flipped out on air and it was live, and I
broke some headphones and I apologize to everybody, and Bourn
and I. Right after that we had a conversation about it,
and I think it was a misunderstanding that played out
on the radio. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Yeah, the other one was behind the other one scenes
years ago we were in the other building. Let me
say this, being someone that was visually present for both
the other one I really thought was gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Yeah, that one. I can tell you what year it was.
Speaker 1 (14:42):
It was, Yeah, this specific here.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
It was twenty and thirteen. It was the week of
the marathon bombings. It was that week. I think tensions
were a lot more high for everybody, especially if you
work here, uh the industry. There was news coming out
like all the time, so like we were working, Actually
we were tired. Yeah, and some thing's happened behind the
scenes that I do. I was ready to go.
Speaker 4 (15:01):
I was.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
I was so fired up. It tau we an hour
to calm down.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
The best way to describe that week, guys, is like,
if we get in here early, already we were getting
in an hour before, we were staying hours later, and
it wasn't like any break. We were having fun, like
it was like we didn't know where the we didn't
know where Joe car was at the time. And we
went into a commercial and Santi said to me, oh,
I wanted to show you this, and he showed me
(15:25):
something on his computer. And this person walked in at
that time and basically made the comment like how dare
you guys?
Speaker 2 (15:31):
And they threatened my job and that was what set
me off.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
And I'm like, and that person hadn't done anything at
that time, like to add into the broadcast. So we
were like just roll in talking, you know what. And
Santi was like, not today, brother.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
Dude, there's a terrorists out there. No way I would
rather have emotion than anger.
Speaker 1 (15:54):
So I think I'm struggling now because I feel like
when you getting emotional that the conversation is then out
the window. Like I look back on the convo and
I feel like I could have said so many things,
and once I start to get like that, it just
kind of is all out the window. We're just our
job is so weird to you guys. And I know,
(16:15):
I know I'm gonna get DMS. You're being vague. It's
on purpose, but you know, ratings and how many people
are listening and what I'm talking about on the show
and comments on I mean, like all of those are
under a microscope when you do this.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
Job, right, judge by everybody judge you.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
And then they judge they're essentially judging like you as
a person, like if you're likable enough, if audiences will
like you, and all of these things. So then you
have to kind of go in there and sell yourself
as to why you're doing what you're doing. You're telling
the stories that you're telling because you know, and it's
just it sucks because yeah, you know, and it's not
a fun convo.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Everybody here and I'm sure other jobs are like this too,
but this one is different because they're hearing conversations now
when you walk into this building, everybody is an expert
on what we should be talking about, how you should
be saying things. And I'm talking about like even down
to the person who's like doing the finance and stuff,
like you're a finance person, Shut up, you don't know
what you're talking about. You don't know what this is,
like you don't know what it's like.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But you also don't understand that there are so many
other good shows in this building. I mean, in this building,
in this in this city. I walk in I walk
up in here into work every day with Daniellemer who's
on ZLX and she's just like insanely talented and she's
so get at her job. And we we do opposite,
we do shows at the same time. You know, you
got kissed down the hall. It's like we're up We're
(17:31):
up against a lot of things. So it's like your
each show is individual because of the people that are
on it. So then that turns into well then maybe
they just don't like.
Speaker 2 (17:40):
You, yeah, and they say these things and it's just
hard to stomach as yeah time. So but the vagueness
must be killing people.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Right, I know. But you guys know once it once,
it's go time, it's go time. Uh six one seven
nine pre one one nine four five Did anybody else
hide in cry at work?
Speaker 4 (17:58):
As?
Speaker 1 (17:59):
I actually didn't hide. Everybody was watching me, like, who
the hell's going on with her show?
Speaker 3 (18:04):
When you need to know? We got you three things
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Speaker 4 (18:12):
She haven't any more.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Fires Thursday, November twentieth, and I'm honest to God, feel
like it. I feel like the baby's mind. I feel
like I had the baby. I am so invested in
this little baby boy. Cardi B and stuff on Diggs
blessed us with. But we finally got the picks people.
We were waiting. She she posted pictures from both the
(18:33):
hospital bed and what looked to be a nursery and
the baby wrapped in a Patriot swaddle blanket.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
Okay, that's amazing. Part.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
We could have made the joke like, oh, I wonder
if they'll put the baby in a Patriots jersey, never
actually thinking it was going to come to fruition. And
and here we go the picture of a lifetime. And
by the way, he was there.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
Was he there?
Speaker 1 (18:56):
He was there. In the first photo that she posted,
he had his arm around her and you can see
that he's there.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So that's you're right. That was from the from the
day of the birth, right.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
Exactly eleven four. Eleven four was when he she had him,
which was what we thought. And remember it worked out
that it was like whatever it was that week of
Monday or Tuesday, so he would have been able to
be there there tagged in the photo in the hospital room.
She blurred out the baby's face in that picture, and
then we have a couple others where she kind of
gives a little lookski but I mean, I can't There's
(19:27):
a picture of her sitting on a rocking chair holding
the baby just in a Patriots Digs blanket. I can't blur.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
Do they blur the face out because fear of what
I think? And I never really really like understood that kidnapping.
Speaker 1 (19:42):
I'm wondering the exact same thing. Because then in the
other one she shows the baby's face like the side
profile Cardi's she don't have her kids. So that's that's
one thing to know about CARTI. So I don't know
she she did that specific for, but you know what,
she's with a new guy. Yeah, and maybe it's him
being like, I don't really want the baby's face. I
don't know. Maybe we could we could play this game
all day. She also has a ring on on her
(20:04):
ring finger, and some people are claiming maybe it's not
giving it's I don't like it. I don't think so.
I think he's going bigger and I can barely see
a diamond in it.
Speaker 2 (20:14):
So but it is a diamond ring though, right?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:17):
Are you just assuming that it's not in gaging ring
because you expect a bigger one.
Speaker 1 (20:22):
I'm sorry, I just got thrown off because I got
a DM as I'm looking at Cardi's photos. I get
a DM. Ready. Yeah, that lady that called in and
told you that the pictures were there, and you tried
to swear up and down it was Ai. You need
to publicly acknowledge that she was right. No, Aquila, I don't. No, Aquila,
I do not, because the pictures that that woman sent
(20:43):
me were Ai. Cardi was on a football field with
a whole different face. Yep, a whole different fing. You
know what, You're gonna get me that picture and I'm
gonna screenshot there and I'm gonna post it because you
know what, guys, it's today. Is not that that credit?
Whork iss it? You don't hear me? Yes, you're sending
me to the bone. No, this was real photo. The
other ones were a I. This was Cardi in the hospital.
(21:04):
But I'm excited for her. I also want to say
congrats to Cardi because she has officially sold three million
units of her album, am I the Drama? I had
that thing on the other day in the gym. That
really is a playthrough album. Honestly, her even adding wop
to it, like I know people, I get, I get right.
Yeah yeah, but it deserved its place on an album.
(21:24):
Stefan Digg's commenting, by the way, proud of you.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
Boo butt boo, butt boo.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
But all right, it looks like we might possibly get
these Epstein files. Soady said he will read them for
all of us. It's gonna be a fun little game
we could do so where you could read and then
every day give us something new, like whatever Bill Clinton
was doing over there on the island.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Not just Bill Clint. When you start going down the
names of the powerful people that he had in his
pocket that were flying to the island, it's really crazy.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
Daddy Trump signed the Epstein Files Transparency Act into law,
basically telling the DOJ, release them, let them fly. Interesting
because DT was also the guy that was like, we
don't need to really least these files now. Not only
is he saying release them, but he's saying the Democrats
are going to be the ones hurting. Well, listen, we
we can only guess what Billy boy was doing over there.
Speaker 2 (22:09):
Stephen Hawking, I heard had been on the plane and
went to the island. If you don't know him, he
had he had als, but he died recently. But he
was confined to like a wheelchair his entire life, and
he was flying down to the island. He was talking
through like a computer. Like again, the names that are
on this list are going to be like shocking.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
In the anyways, Pam Bondi, the Attorney General, has thirty
days to release, Like just release, dude, Like I'm so
saying the fact that like this is what everybody has
hung up. I'm like, let's go, let it fly.
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Not be on the lehot.
Speaker 1 (22:40):
No, it will not, No, it will not. All right.
Smokey Robinson is facing new allegations of a sexual battery case.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
From a mail oh okay, yeah uh.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
The accuser is claiming that Robinson tried to quote force
his hands onto his genitalia. The man worked as a
car detailer for the Robinsons for years and years and
alleges that Smokey would touch himself in front of him
while only wearing underwear while he detailed the car. Like
this is.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Crazy, that's like a fetish.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
What the guy said that he rejected Smokey's advances for
a long time, would tell him put some clothes on,
and claims that things escalated in twenty twenty two when
Smokey tried to force himself on the man.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
I'm just gonna say this, right, if I had a
job of washing cars and I go to like a
job site and the guy starts doing that, I'm not
going back.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Ever, Let's rewind you roll up to a job site
and the guys sitting there with no shirt on in
his unknees like you're out. You're not. But by the way,
he's not the only one. Other housekeepers and anonymous people
that worked for the Robinsons have accused them of inappropriate behavior.
Something's going on in that household.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Smokey has been accused of being bisexual for years.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Well, I think we're getting the confirmation here, Hi, I'm
here to deliver your Uber eats guys in just his
own at the door like I'm good. That is three
things need to know for Thursday, November twentieth. I was
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(24:16):
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Speaker 3 (24:17):
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Speaker 1 (24:23):
Hi, everybody, good morning. I'm just gonna pull up a
comprehensive list of household responsibilities. I want to run through
it with Santy. But yesterday and the show revelation that
we found out if you catch if you caught up
via the pod, then you already know this. But Santi
was showing me Penny, his dog out in the backyard,
(24:45):
so I immediately said, damn, that's a that's a lot
of land to cover, you know, cleaning up all those spoops, Like, no,
it's not, it's easy, like she it's really actually easy
as because she just goes in one area. I'm like, oh,
that's sick. So what do you like, when do you
pick up? Do you give it a couple of days?
Speaker 2 (25:01):
He goes, I don't.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
I don't pick them up, So how the hell do
you know that it's easy? He also notoriously doesn't take
out the trash. Here's here's there's like a daily comprehensive
responsibility for the household lists so we got do you
make any of the beds?
Speaker 2 (25:17):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:18):
Do you wash any of the dishes?
Speaker 4 (25:20):
No?
Speaker 2 (25:21):
I put him in a dish washer. So no.
Speaker 1 (25:22):
Have you ever wiped a counter after you've eaten?
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Actually? Last? No, the night before last? I did so.
But it's like very so once once a month?
Speaker 1 (25:30):
Okay? Have you ever cleaned the bathroom?
Speaker 2 (25:35):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Have you ever vacuumed? I? Have you've done laundry here
and there?
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Once a month?
Speaker 1 (25:41):
Yeah, he said he hasn't really done it. Let's go
beyond that, like pet care. Do you ever like brush
the dog?
Speaker 5 (25:46):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Hey, how dare I am? Like grocery shopping?
Speaker 2 (25:51):
We get food delivered?
Speaker 4 (25:52):
To know?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Okay, the last one on the list, which we all
know pay bills. He has not done that since he married.
You know what's so crazy? So it's interesting when we
have conversations like this. I never know sati and I
call it sticky, So we never know if like a
combo is gonna be sticky as in later on in
the day, I'm gonna get d ms about it or not.
(26:14):
And this one was sticky. Like I got a ton
of dms of people just being like disgusted. I got
a lot of poor Joanne's and then we got.
Speaker 4 (26:23):
This good morning everyone.
Speaker 6 (26:25):
So I just wanted to say a little fact about
yesterday's conversation about Santi and him having chores around the house.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 7 (26:35):
Happens when you marry a Dominican man.
Speaker 4 (26:38):
That's why I refuse to be with a Dominican man.
Give me anything you got but a Hispanic man. Oh,
because they just love being baby.
Speaker 8 (26:46):
They love having the thought of having a second mom
around the house.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Absolutely, okay, is this there's no way.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
Okay. I have said that I never did anything as
a kid because culturally that just wasn't put on me right.
So I never did the dishes, I never took the trash,
never did any of that because my mother always did it.
So culturally, yes, she has a point because it's such
a male dominated society that everything is catered to to
all the men. Here's an example. When my parents come here. Yes,
(27:14):
I'm gonna tell you, my mother will serve my dad
dinner like she'll make a plate for him, put it
like right in front of him. Then he eats, then
she takes it like this is how it is. No,
he's going to get up. It comes to him to
the point where my family gets so uncomfortable because it's
such a foreign thing to them. So to her point, yes,
like this is the way that I was raised, subconsciously
(27:37):
like absorbing that. I don't want to be the way
that I am. But I'm fighting this internal battle because
of her point. So this this back to that, even
to the point furthermore that Dominican men, especially down there,
can have whole entire families and relationships on the side
and the wis just look the other way.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Fine, which I don't do. I don't but I don't
want to just do a broad stroke like she literally
was like, it's all Hispanic men. I don't think we
can do that. And by the way, I am gonna
let the Hispanic men call in and defend themselves because
I believe that we can get a couple to call
in and say you I take out the trash.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Yes, but I guarantee that they'll co sign my point
that that the culture is dominated by most by all males.
And again I'm not gonna speak beyond Dominicans, but Dominican culture,
the men just rule with an iron fist.
Speaker 1 (28:26):
This woman said she will take any man but a
Hispanic men because a Hispanic man doesn't do anything, does nothing,
and just wants another mommy in the house.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Dude, my mother still babies me. I'm forty five six.
Speaker 1 (28:39):
One seven nine three one one nine four five six
one seven nine three one one nine four five. We
gotta get some Hispanic men out here. We did defend yourselves.
I just want to say I'm not the one who
said it. Okay, she did.
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Good morning everyone.
Speaker 6 (28:56):
So I just wanted to say a little fact about
yesterday's conversation about Sarty and him having toos around the house.
Speaker 7 (29:05):
Yeah, that's what happens when you marry a Dominican man.
Speaker 4 (29:09):
That's why I refuse to be with a Dominican man.
Speaker 8 (29:12):
Give me anything you've got, but a Hispanic man, because
they just love being baby.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
They love having the thought of.
Speaker 7 (29:19):
Having a second mom around the house.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
I usually, I don't want to believe it. I don't
want to hit everybody like the in the Hispanic community,
especially the men with that with that stroke of they're
all bad. They're not taking out the trash and they
just want a second mommy. But guys, you should see
the phone ade Lisa's and Lawrence is Sati telling the
truth about Dominican men.
Speaker 9 (29:45):
I think she is. I currently with my situation. I
can say that Hispanic men love being babies.
Speaker 10 (29:52):
It's like in their culture, it's just a thing for them.
Speaker 1 (29:56):
Are you with one?
Speaker 9 (29:58):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (29:59):
And do you take the trash out?
Speaker 4 (30:04):
Well?
Speaker 11 (30:05):
I don't want to NECESSI say I take it out,
but I definitely do help when they don't take it out.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
You take Okay, thanks sir.
Speaker 2 (30:11):
Okay, we just learned that you have to understand that
it's not something that we're doing purposely. Is that we
weren't raised like this, so we're constantly fighting this battle.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
Yes, yes, okay.
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Stephen is in Laurence. Stephen also giving son the co
sign that this it's a cultural thing.
Speaker 12 (30:29):
Hi, guys, Yes it is. It's definitely a cultural thing.
I'm Dominican, myself a Dominican mail, and I'm surprisingly sancy.
I was not raised like that. I was not raised
like that, but I do co signs because I do
see a lot of Dominican mills babied by their mom.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
Yes, I mean Santi still is.
Speaker 2 (30:49):
Yeah. Yeah, there's a drastic difference between me and my system.
My mother will go at her for the smallest thing,
but for me, I'm like Jesus Stephen, thank you, Oh.
Speaker 12 (30:59):
Good, Yeah, no problem. No, I was gonna mention my buddy,
Yeah that lives with me. He's Dominican, he was baby
likes mom. I can clearly tell the difference between him
and how we were both raised.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
Oh yeah, oh yeah. Living with somebody too, You for
sure can see if Sam is in Wooster, Sam's Puerto
Rican and screaming from the rooftops, takes the trash out, cleans,
does laundry.
Speaker 5 (31:20):
Thank you, Yeah, no problem. I just think you know,
I'm in no shade to all the Dominicans out there,
but you know I'm Puerto Rican. Like I said, No,
I do all that, you know, And I don't know
if it's just like just me or I was just
raised differently or what, but you know I was. I
was raised to you know, let the woman, you know,
take a day off on some things. You know that
(31:42):
woman didn't want to go get the Sam.
Speaker 1 (31:45):
Let's let's stop down, Sam. I appreciate we have to
stop down and explain to Sajt. Sam, can you define
a day off for the woman? To Santi, he's never
heard that phrase. He doesn't know sounds a day off
is when like Joanne doesn't do the task of the home.
Do you understand what Sam and I are saying.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
I understand, but my wife doesn't like this.
Speaker 1 (32:04):
It's still she Thank god it Sam thing. Chris is
in North prov Chris, I'm so happy that you called.
This is so weird, I said to Santi when he
was grabbing the phones. I said, you should see my
dms because mad people are writing Portuguese men are the
same way, and and what's going on because you're about
(32:25):
to say the same thing.
Speaker 10 (32:27):
Oh yeah, that's just the culture. I've been married for
thirty plus years now. He's been trained a little bit,
so there is you know, he's been he helps. But
in the beginning it was like, Okay, I didn't have
any experience in cooking or I did clean. Is that
we have to learn?
Speaker 4 (32:44):
How?
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Oh I think we dropped their bags? Oh oh well,
every line was just ringing. We just dropped every single call.
So if you were on hold or you were trying
to call, we're gonna have to do it again. But yeah,
you should see my my dms. Like the poor Portuguese
men are getting too.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Comes from all of our cultures, come from Spain, so
it's trickled down the lines over the generations. Yeah, listen,
I don't want to be this way. And this is
why always going back to the thing of like if
she gives me a list, maybe I can learn to
be this person. But like I'll do anything. She just
needs to ask, and I know, like for you guys,
you guys don't want to have to ask us to
do things. But you have to understand I'm fighting this
cultural battle, like.
Speaker 1 (33:21):
I get it. But that's what I tried to tell
you yesterday, which is that if you know, if you
know that there are things to be done, and you're
already saying to yourself like, oh, I know, Joanne doesn't
want to have to ask, why don't you just go
ahead and do them?
Speaker 2 (33:34):
Because in my subconscious it's not a thought to do
it first. I just look straight ahead and walk by
the piles of laundry, do you guys?
Speaker 1 (33:41):
See see you guys? Six one seven nine five. My
apologies for the phones, call us back six one seven
nine one nine five. Good morning, Hi everybody, Good morning.
It's Ashley and the gam In Morning Show. Just as
a reminder, I am not the one who said.
Speaker 6 (33:56):
This, good morning everyone, So I just wanted to say
a little fact about yesterday's conversation about Sunty and him
having choices around the house.
Speaker 4 (34:07):
Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 7 (34:08):
Happens when you marry a Dominican man.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
That's why I refuse to be with a.
Speaker 8 (34:12):
Dominican man, give me anything you've got, but a Hispanic man,
because they just love being baby.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
They love having the thought of having.
Speaker 7 (34:21):
A second mom around the house.
Speaker 4 (34:23):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (34:24):
And I wish on this show I had an example
of a Dominican man that steps up, but I'm still
waiting for that. I do not have that example for you.
Steph is in the Cape. Steph says, quote, Spanish men
are babied by their mothers. Oh yes, so what like, like,
(34:45):
give me an example in your home of your husband
being babied.
Speaker 9 (34:49):
Oh no, no, no, I didn't laugh.
Speaker 11 (34:51):
And this is why I have a child with him.
We waited for a long time but couldn't do it anymore.
Speaker 10 (34:58):
He literally would you nothing.
Speaker 11 (35:00):
And then it was like an argument every time that
I asked him, like, hey, I'm working like sixty hours
this week, can you do something in.
Speaker 1 (35:06):
The house anything I was still doing.
Speaker 9 (35:08):
I was still doing everything with a child. I'm like, hello,
oh yeah, but what his mom was around. It was like,
you know, he was God. He was doing stuff and
I don't know.
Speaker 11 (35:19):
Nope, nope, not for me.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
Yourself verty now.
Speaker 11 (35:24):
And he literally treats me like gold does everything. Doesn't
even let me open my door, Like, yeah, you gotta
switch it up.
Speaker 1 (35:29):
Wow, I might think about switching it up. Steph. Thanks
for the call. Uh Anna is in Burlington, now, Anna,
this is such a good question. It's aggressive as hell,
but we all know I like aggressive. Go ahead and
ask it to Santi.
Speaker 11 (35:45):
Okay, God forvid, Like God forbid if something happens to Joanne,
like who is picking up the flag? You know what
I'm saying, Not your mom, Mommy.
Speaker 4 (35:55):
Mommy's not doing it.
Speaker 1 (35:56):
Yeah, that's this is a good question.
Speaker 2 (35:58):
To be honest. I clearly have traction to a certain
type of female, so I would be confident that I
would find kind of like the same thing. But at
the other end of things, I would have to find
a way to like pick up the slack and one
how to pay bills and all that stuff. But again,
right now we don't have to, so so I'm kind
of good.
Speaker 11 (36:15):
Yeah, I mean yeah, but like I'm saying, like men
in general, like you need to know how to take
care of yourself. You don't have to wait for a
woman to do it. And like my mom, my mom,
she kind of raised me, like women usually are the
ones that have to raise the men, like teach them
these skills so that they don't have to wait for
the woman to do it. They can just take care
of themselves and live good on their own and not
(36:35):
wait for a woman.
Speaker 1 (36:36):
Yeah. No, you make a solid point. I don't even
and honestly, Aerona, thank you for this. And I don't
even want to take this one step further, but I
know there's somebody in the car thinking the same thing
as me. I also like love when the fireman does
things without being asked. But and this this is messed up.
It's never the way I want it to be done.
So then I just want to do it myself. Like
I don't like that, like you that? Like I? So
(36:56):
I appreciate that you folded like laundry. Are you folded
like the blanket or the decort how? But that's not
I don't like it folded like that. That's no, it's
I'm just saying it's some psycho stuff. I'm just saying, Lily,
is in Boston. Hi, Lily, we've been Uh, we've been
dating a Dominican man for eleven years. Talk to me
(37:18):
Rave reviews or what.
Speaker 9 (37:22):
Yes, so, yeah, we've been dating for eleven years. We're
not legally married yet. We're kind of not rushing rushing
into that. But we have a daughter. She's she's seven.
I'm pregnant with another daughter, and everything's been great, honestly,
Like I said, Santi said, all you got to do
is ask, and I say that's so true, Like you
(37:42):
need to have your expectations as a woman, and men
needs to have their expectations as men. He has two jobs.
I have a full time job. I cook every day.
I feel like it's all on the woman, Like what
is it that you want to do? You know, if
you don't, if you don't want to be with a
man that doesn't want to be taken care or vice versa,
then that's you kind of I love to take care
(38:04):
of my man and I love him taking care of me.
But I feel like everybody got their own different perspective
of you know, of whatever they want or need, and
I honestly think that all you got to do is communicate, honestly, just.
Speaker 1 (38:20):
Because she's saying all these things doesn't mean you've won
this bad exactly. No, Lily. He's out here being like
you should see his face. He's shaking his head and
me like mm hmm what she said, Like, now, that
doesn't mean you've won the battle, don't you know what, Lily?
It looks like you you have found a diamond because
from some of the other calls, it's.
Speaker 9 (38:39):
I don't know, I've been hearing it and I'm like,
oh my god, it's it's crazy how you know, I'm
Dominican myself. It's crazy how the majority of the men
have like really bad like a reputation, you know, but
I mean they do the majority are them are cheaters.
I'm not saying mind having cheater because I mean, I
don't know, but but I don't know.
Speaker 1 (39:00):
Right, ignorance is bliss.
Speaker 9 (39:02):
But yeah, And I won't put my hands on fire
for him either. But like I said, I have my
my expectations and they're very high, and so does he,
and I guess that we've been doing great. I guess
you have a business in the Dominican Republic, I said.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
Don't say you guess. You guys have eleven years to
babies like we're.
Speaker 9 (39:22):
Yeah, we have we have a business in Dominican Republic.
We love horses, we have a farm in Dominican Republic.
Everything's been great, Honestly. I don't have any complaints about him. Honestly,
but I mean not everyone runs with the same look.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
You know, No, that's take that's a fact. Look at
Joann Lily. Thank you, thank you for the call.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
Listen. I know that I need to step it up
with doing stuff around the house. I am acknowledging that that.
Speaker 1 (39:49):
I think we should. It's like baby steps. Okay, so
again today today, why don't you go out and clean
up the poops? Why don't you wipe down the countertop?
Why don't you do okay, bye, do something indoors?
Speaker 2 (40:04):
What the counters and vacuum?
Speaker 1 (40:05):
And we want to see it on Instagram. We want
to see you holding the Clorox
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