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January 10, 2025 7 mins
Potty training continues at Ashlee's house
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hi, everybody, I know we talked about this earlier in
the week, So just to kind of give everybody a
where are they now? Potty training has begun in my household.
I have to say I read a couple different books.
Oh crap book I read, I read it. I read

(00:31):
a few different things. As people are like, which book
are you reading? Which training are you doing? And I
would say that I've read multiple things and I've kind
of taken something from each one and made.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
It my own and kind of tailored it to my kid.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
If you are potty training or you're getting ready to
potty train, please you could DM me at Ashley Felman
twe's on the Ashley. But the most important things that
I have done so far Day one, completely naked, she
was wearying nothing.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Okay, I bought DAWs like.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
Sofa covers, took the cushions off the back of the
couch so she couldn't.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Hide, and it was a free for all in that house.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
She at Max did like a couple little squirts, but
then very quickly figured out I don't like that if
my only option now is to go on the potty.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Like, I will hold it and I will go to
the potty. The girl figured out pee quick.

Speaker 2 (01:24):
Yeah. Day two, I had her naked for three days straight.
We did not leave the house three days straight. By
day two I might have put a T shirt on her,
but always no underwear. You know. By day three she
was telling me I have to go to the bathroom.
I bought the potty watch, which has been amazing. It
goes off once an hour. It plays a little song.

(01:45):
She knows, oh, if I haven't gone, it's time to go.
One of my favorite things that she does. If she
goes and say ten to fifteen minutes later, the potty
watch goes off, She's.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
Like, excuse me, potty watch, I already went. She talks
to it.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
So the potty watch was one of our listeners actually
suggested it, and it was well worth the like fifteen
or twenty.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
Bucks that it was.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
We just leave it out there on the kitchen. Coundar
doesn't want to wear it. When it goes off, she knows.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
To pop up.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
By day four or five, I started transitioning to Undi's
but still when it came to p number.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
One, she was number one. Yeah, like number one's easy.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
A plus for number one. Number two has been something
that I couldn't even have prepared for physically and mentally. Like,
I don't know, I don't think any I mean, I
do think people that have gone through body training understand
now there there is a theory out there that little ones,
toddlers feel like when they poop, that they're losing a

(02:43):
body part, and that's a real fear for them.

Speaker 1 (02:45):
I mean enter that point because sometimes when I do,
I actually.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
Do lose a and wait.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
So terrified of poop is an understatement. She's little, so
she doesn't know how to describe things, so I know
the signifier for when she has to go is my
butthole is itchy.

Speaker 3 (03:04):
That's what she will tell me. She'll say, Mommy, help
me scratch it.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
My butthole is itchy, and that means I have to go,
but I am just sucking it in. She she'll start
telling me that her butthole is itchy at around eleven
thirty noon and that she won't go to damn near
five pm.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
Yeah, we've had that's skittis in the n okay because
we're just.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Trying to figure this out. Okay, by the way, I
buy the cheapest ones and we trash those.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
I'm not watching those. So you know, she's gone the
last three days in a row.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
So we're talking Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Tuesday and Wednesday. If
somebody was walking past our home and they heard the
action of her actually going, they would have thought I
was beating my child.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Like that is how horrified she is, how much she screams.

Speaker 2 (03:52):
They're snot everywhere, and please, like I I know you
guys are going to hit me up with tips and tricks,
and that's cool.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
I'll gladly accept them, but know that I am doing everything.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Like, know that you're not going to tell me something
most likely that I am not doing that I haven't
read what I have found works the most, which is
really tough for me to admit on air because I
don't poop myself, but I've had to pretend that I
am also pooping. And yesterday the fire man, he was upset.

(04:25):
He did not like it. But her and I will
alternate pushing, so we hold each other's hands and I'll
say mommy's turn, and then we go one, two, three,
and I go.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
But you can't push like that.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
I know what you have to.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
Really, I'm Julia robertsing this thing.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Guys, Increase.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
Nice and soft, That's what I'm saying about. No, no, no,
I looked into getting her fiber.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
I know.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
No, he can't tell you I looked in.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
I looked into getting her fiber, because that's another thing
I want to get if any parents are going through this.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
The turds that come out of her body, where how
were they fitting inside? They're massive?

Speaker 2 (05:11):
You guys, I'm worried. She's a lot of grilled chicken
and I am what Reid, But yeah, actually I'm thinking
about putting her on.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
Some like a little five Arcs Bombies or something something.

Speaker 2 (05:25):
But it's so sad because she is stuck in between
this phase of like congratulatory to herself, like she knows
she's doing the right thing, but she's also so afraid
and so scared.

Speaker 3 (05:34):
So she's crying. Yay, use she.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Knows I'm going on the potty and she the fireman
told me that last night. When I was showering, she
stopped down and said, Daddy, I went poop on a potty.
Mommy is so proud because I always tell her over
and over how proud I am of how far she's
come with the potty training, and she's she's doing so great,
and I'm so proud. Yesterday's poop was the best one

(06:02):
we've had so far, not without tears, not without itchy
butthole for five hours, but after it happened, it was
like the least traumatic.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
I mean, you have to imagine at some point it's
gonna be like okay, like this is an okay thing
and it won't be scary.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
Right, Yeah, And she's just like she knows that what
she's doing is the right thing.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Like, listen to this.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
You just did, was spraying tom what you just did?

Speaker 3 (06:27):
I just said big POOPD She's like, I just had
a big poop. But she knows it's the right thing
to do, and we're working on it. But potty training isn't.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
I think there's this misconception that it's like, oh, three
days no underwear and it's done.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Like, No, it takes time.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
I mean, we we've been out at the store and
she'll say to me, I have to pee, like she knows,
she knows to tell me now. But you know, there's
definitely fear around poop that's for sure. So now I
have to like lie and walk around the house and say,
mommy poops and everybody poops and stuff, which isn't true,
but it's something that I have to do for my kid.

Speaker 3 (07:04):
Iman.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
I can only picture if she's dropping the logs like that,
the mommy must become the same page. And she's getting tall,
she's getting an example from something. Yeah she knows. She's like,
all right, well.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
That's why mommy's proud. We match logs of love.
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