Mom Life pt. 1

Momming can be a hard job

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hi, everybody, Happy Thursday.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
I don't want to make this uncomfortable because.

Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's six o nine am, but I think it's fair
to say that for those of us that are grown ups, right,
that watch grown up shows, grown up films, TV shows,
all the things, we all have like one sexual scene
where our mind can go to, right, Like you have
a scene from a show or a movie where you
were like.

Speaker 4 (00:40):
Damn, what's yours?

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Uh?

Speaker 5 (00:44):
Probably because of my age, Sharon Stone and Michael Douglas
and basic instinct.

Speaker 4 (00:49):
You got a scene yeah, you just know, yeah, like
it's time.

Speaker 3 (00:53):
For You got a scene that you can think of,
like a sexual scene from a show or a movie
where you were just like that was time.

Speaker 1 (00:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Actually, Who's Who's damn it was about?

Speaker 4 (01:02):
You know? I'm forgetting his name?

Speaker 2 (01:05):
Radio host?

Speaker 6 (01:06):
Radio hosts from uh from n Y? Who's the king
of radio and n Y? Howard Stern? Yes, you remember
the movie that he did private parts, Private parts when
he had the chick on the speaker.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
I was like, oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:19):
Usually my mind goes to do you know what I'm
gonna saying. There's a scene from Gone Girl with Ben
Affleck and Ben's having an affair at the time, and
like his wife is missing and people are like, you know,
you should be crying for your wife. And in you know,
in sneaks in the chick that he's having an affair
with and she gets on his lap and it's like,

(01:41):
I get I can act out the whole scene.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
I know.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
M Summer I Turned Pretty had its finale. There was
a scene in that. Let me tell you something.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
I watched it and then I hit the little circle
thing on the TV and I four times.

Speaker 4 (02:03):
Really, I went.

Speaker 2 (02:03):
Back through it four times.

Speaker 5 (02:05):
It was.

Speaker 4 (02:07):
Good.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
It was there were like he there were hands. Okay,
I'm I'm sweating. Really, can I tell you? Well, dude,
I thought about your.

Speaker 4 (02:16):
Kids what to say? Watched that show.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Somebody goes I posted on my Instagram story today because
someone was like, in this moment it was in it
was in a stairwell and someone goes in in this moment.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
I thought to myself, Damn, I wish this.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
Was an HBO show, because HBO, You're lucky that it wasn't,
because your twelve year olds are watching this thing.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
I had to rewind it four times. I'm still there,
I'm still in the stairwell.

Speaker 5 (02:43):
Was it the whole situation that was hot. It was
it the acts that they were doing, or just a
combination was it was there.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Was a huge build up, a massive build up, and
then it was like the acts, Like I don't know
if your twelve year olds knew what the hands were
doing at the time, but I did.

Speaker 5 (03:01):
I can tell you they probably do, because I think
there was a scene like earlier on this season where
there was some hand stuff the hand and I had
to bring it up to them like, hey, you guess
watch you guys watched the whole thing. One of them
claimed that they fast hold it through the entire thing.
I said, that's bs. But yeah, so they're all enough
to no one understands.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
You fast forwarding Big MoMA over here is a rewind day.

Speaker 5 (03:20):
They say they're faster wing. I don't believe them, but yes,
but so they're aware of it.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, I was. I was taken aback because I was like,
can anything ever top the ben scene?

Speaker 3 (03:29):
For me?

Speaker 2 (03:29):
And it's it's it was close.

Speaker 3 (03:31):
And then you guys, the finale comes out and they
announced there's gonna be a movie with the same characters.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
The same characters. We are getting a film now to
like they tied it up. But this is going to
like pretty Bow or getting a.

Speaker 5 (03:48):
Movie and the movie is different than what's in the
book or is it a continuation.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Yeah, we're done with the book now, like so, so
this is gonna be Jenny Hans like brain Child because
we're done.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
We know the ending.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Somebody wrote me and was like, I can't watch till Friday.
Please don't say it. I won't, but you have till Friday.
I'm like, I'm not playing these games. Do however, a film? Yeah,
a movie A now, same characters everything, everyone's coming back
and joining them for the so exciting.

Speaker 5 (04:13):
My wife was watching it when I got home and
asked her she was satisfied with the ending.

Speaker 2 (04:17):
She said yes, she was satisfied with something. I could
have turned it off. I could have turned it off
after that scene. I was like, yeah, she was relaxed.
Her pants were off.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
I'm like, watch your pants off, Like, I don't know
they fell off.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
I find it important to also add in per our
conversations that they're older now in the show, they're adults.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
Adults. I know where this could head.

Speaker 5 (04:43):
Like, I know how you get Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's
really tough because the actors in their thirties playing like teenagers.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
So I got the conundrum.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Yeah, it's tough because like I always do look up
their age because it just feels weird. But yeah, man,
that was like when they when they have moments.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
Like that and show those are movies where it's just
like it was nice.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
It was a nice.

Speaker 4 (05:06):
Scene, definitely nice. It was funny.

Speaker 5 (05:08):
I found that when I was younger that the average
time frame for like a good sex scene was an
hour in to a film. That was like the average.
And this is just by me watching films my entire life,
and that was when like the good one was Yeah,
and it was usually around like the climax of the
film too.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yeah you know, yeah right yeah.

Speaker 4 (05:25):
But these scenes though, there captivating.

Speaker 3 (05:26):
Yeah, I just though would like to go back for
a second because the Broke Back Mountain was wildly obs
That was it went by fast, but it was great
in mind for the boy.

Speaker 7 (05:40):
Especially in the morning show with DJ Foreign and Santy When.

Speaker 8 (05:44):
You need to know, No, we got you Three things
you need to Know on Boston's number one for hip
hop and the best throwbacks. You haven't any more vibe.

Speaker 9 (05:54):
The latest rumor about you is that you are having
a baby, and I want to know what, if anything,
you want to share about that with the class.

Speaker 10 (06:04):
Well, well, yes i am. I'm having a baby with
my boyfriend Stefan Diggs.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
Congratulations, thank you. Congratulations.

Speaker 9 (06:12):
How are you feeling about that and that this will
be baby number four for you? Cardi?

Speaker 10 (06:16):
Congratulations, thank you. I'm actually very I'm excited, I'm happy.
I feel like I'm in a good space. I feel
very strong. I feel very powerful that I'm doing all
this work. But I'm doing all this work while I'm
creating a baby. Me and my man were very supportive
of each other, very.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
I have it. It's official. Thursday, September eighteenth. The amount
of DMS I got, like, wow, y'all called it. You
guys have been talking about this for literally two months.
It was tough because you don't want to be out
here speculating on female bodies, the bumps, but that there

(06:54):
was a whole basketball on her belly. It wasn't like
we were being like, oh, like, we would never say
something looks like you No, that's not no. We were
never ever saying that. What we were saying is there's
a baby in there, and.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
The difference is she was trying to hide it, and
that was the other thing drawing attention to the area.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Yeah, make it work, and getting mad at people that
asked the question about it, and then and then wearing
like legit cardboard contraptions to dancing while she's in core,
while she's getting in and out of her cars. It
was very apparent that Carti was with child, and we
got the confirmation we needed from Gail King. You know,
it ain't gonna be Oprah, It's gonna be Gail Carti

(07:33):
confirming in that way. Stefan Diggs being asked in the
Patriot locker room confirming this way.

Speaker 4 (07:39):
Oh, my personal life I told you about that. I
won't talk to him. Was about my person life. But
I heard about it.

Speaker 5 (07:44):
Any celebrations that we'll see in the see.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
I heard about it.

Speaker 4 (07:49):
Good thing.

Speaker 11 (07:50):
You know.

Speaker 4 (07:51):
I was questioning why didn't they do it together? That's
a big moment, right.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
I remember when the season first started, him doing a
sit down with the press and saying something along the
line of, hey, I feel like we got off on
the wrong foot. I don't want it to be like
that with us this whole season. I will not comment
on my personal life, but.

Speaker 2 (08:07):
When it comes to me.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
So I think that was his way of being like,
I already talk to you guys about this and not
commenting on my personal life.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
But and who knows. Maybe it got to the point
where she was like I physically like I would love
to hold out into this set over, but I can't.
She couldn't hide it anymore.

Speaker 6 (08:21):
Yeah, I just feel like, I mean, this is your
new boo, y'all, A new couple, y'all saying y'all love
each other, now y'all having a baby. I thought it
would have been more impacted if they sat together and
and told Gail King like, yo, we you know this
is us, this is our status, look us up in love.
I don't know. It was weird to me. The more
I think about it, I'm just like, wellhy didn't they
do it together?

Speaker 2 (08:38):
I did look up how long they've been together a
little longer than I thought. They They were linked.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
In October of last year, so we're coming up on
a year of them being together.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
But does he have any other children?

Speaker 4 (08:50):
Does?

Speaker 2 (08:50):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (08:51):
I was wondering about that too, because I thought a
little bit of that as well. This is maybe his
first baby. Maybe he wants to be part of announcing,
but if he's before, he's.

Speaker 5 (09:00):
Like And also the Patriots have a tone about them
to kind of leave the parcel stuff aside. I mean,
it's different since Bill has laughed, but at the same
time they probably still try to keep that up.

Speaker 12 (09:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (09:09):
He has one daughter of Nova born in twenty sixteen,
Baby Nova.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
And another one on the way. Carti obviously has three
other children with offset.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
She is gearing up for her She has multiple babies
on the way, she has a real one, and she
has this album am I the Drama dropping tomorrow, crazy.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
Amount of features. Jenna Jackson's gonna be on the album
Selena Gomez.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
It's coming out at midnight tonight, and Carti is the
Rollout's been crazy, She's been working.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
She even teamed up, like I told you guys with
door Dash.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
I made it.

Speaker 10 (09:52):
Jesus girls hang there. Hey, the herlows up the next
of the Afflayer.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
Because drama on the streets of New York's ten y
hear it.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
You can literally order from Cardi's bodega on door Dash tomorrow.
I don't think you're gonna get a delivery from her
like in this commercial, but you can do it.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
Sele cities, right, select cities.

Speaker 6 (10:12):
New York's definitely got to be one of them.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
Yeah, there's that. Don't think any question there. I feel
like sometimes we don't. We don't get a little of
love when it can do that. When you see select cities,
I don't never see both.

Speaker 6 (10:22):
It's came and like told somebody out for eating her seafood.
I'm just saying.

Speaker 2 (10:29):
And now Liz is so skinny, she don't need.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
I don't need.

Speaker 2 (10:32):
It's just no, it does. One of the side effects
is diarrhea. They say, alright, you know what broke back up? Listen,
the internet is interneting. You couldn't escape this one. Yesterday,
Jimmy Kimmel is out.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
ABC is suspending Jimmy Kimmel over what he said after
the Charlie kurr assassination. The network said they will be
pulling Jimmy Kimmel's late night TV show indefinitely. If you
missed any of his monologue from Monday night.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
Here is a clip.

Speaker 13 (11:11):
We hit some new lows over the weekend with the
Magga Gang desperately trying to characterize this kid who murdered
Charlie Kirk as anything other than one of them, and
everything they can to score political points from.

Speaker 3 (11:23):
In the statement, the company said they strongly object to
recent comments made by mister Kimbell concerning the killing of
Charlie Kirk and will replace the show with other programming
in its ABC affiliated markets.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
I don't think what he said was that bad are speech.
I've heard people say a lot worse, right, Yeah, and
then fine, it's his opinion, right, that's how he feels.
But then I'm like, for us, like the camera reading
thing was a big thing, right, Like some people thought
that she could have done it. Some people thought the
Canton police was corrupt. How is that different from what
he said?

Speaker 4 (11:54):
That's what I'm saying. And then what does that mean
for us in movie?

Speaker 2 (11:57):
I guess feel the difference it would be that it's political.

Speaker 4 (11:59):
Well that's what I mean.

Speaker 2 (12:00):
But yeah, I mean politics. Yeah, I guess goes across
everywhere it should. Here's the thing I like, could care less.
I don't care about that show because in that.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
Sense, like, but I do stand on you should be
able to say what you want to say. You know,
there could be whoever the head of his company is,
if he if he knew he felt a certain type
of way.

Speaker 4 (12:21):
It's a roll of the die.

Speaker 5 (12:22):
Yeah, but yeah, it's just like making it difficult for
us to do what we do. When this is like starting,
I hope it doesn't start a trend. I guess that's
what I'm trying to get.

Speaker 2 (12:32):
It's gonna be yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (12:34):
I mean people are losing their jobs over either celebrating
it or whatever comments they're making over it. But to me,
it's kind of like this dude got you know, we
all agreed that he shouldn't have died for having freedom
of speech. Yeah, so now how we get rid of
people because of freedom?

Speaker 3 (12:47):
I also think when it comes to politics, like there
should be a freedom to express yourself on each side
of the aisle. Like you could hear somebody that's a
Republican and be like, Yo, they're nuts.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
I don't agree with anything.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
They say, but that should be okay that they can
say it.

Speaker 5 (13:02):
In a democracy, that's the foundation of the whole thing.
That you get elected by the people and you work
for the people. So the people should also be allowed
to hold you accountable, and that's freedom of speech there.
When you start messing with that, it just changes the
dynamic of a democracy.

Speaker 6 (13:15):
And I can almost guarantee that Jimmy has said more
wilder things than that.

Speaker 3 (13:19):
Yeah, and I can almost guarantee there's a lawsuit coming.
But you know what, Donald Trump slept well last night.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
Yeah, was like.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
Yeah, DT was like, who's on that committee? Let me
send them a basket fruit?

Speaker 1 (13:34):
All right?

Speaker 2 (13:35):
Jerry Greenfield has a resign from Ben and Jerry's after
forty seven years. This is another one that's kind of
weird to me though.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
Because I'm wondering what Jerry is not getting in this
whole situation, Like you sold your company and now you
don't have to say you think that you I guess
feel like you should. But anyways, he said, it's with
a broken heart that I have decided I can no
longer in good conscience remain an employee of Ben and Jerry's. Basically,
guys Unilever, the company who bought Ben and Jerry's back

(14:05):
in two thousand for three hundred and twenty six Milu
didn't want him making public statements about the conflicts in
the Middle East in Gaza, and he didn't like that,
and they they tried to sue, but at the end
of the day they sold the company.

Speaker 2 (14:21):
So whoever runs the company who tried to sue the
parent company.

Speaker 5 (14:24):
Ben, and Jerry's like, you don't own the company. You
it is what it is. Yeah, don't sign the papers
three hundred million.

Speaker 3 (14:33):
Listen, you you should be able to go ahead and
say what you want to say, maybe start another company.
I don't know, but that you sold your rights off
there for two hundred mill and you sorry for three
hundred and six mil.

Speaker 5 (14:44):
Jerry, Right, it's just Jerry and Ben's been missing for
like a while. So he's pretty much saying Ben's been
protesting on the loan. Really gonna leave too.

Speaker 6 (14:53):
Yeah, it seems like he hasn't out out it yet,
but he's been protesting on the loan.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
Who comes in here?

Speaker 5 (14:59):
Jerry was Jerry is a hugger.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
Jerry's a hugger Man.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
Yeah, and Jerry just loves ice cream. Yeah, he loves
ice cream. But he also wants to be able to
talk about the conflicts in the Middle East.

Speaker 3 (15:14):
But I don't know, but I don't This one is
different to me than Jimmy Kimmel.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
You sold the company, yes, but something is the company
telling you what to say?

Speaker 3 (15:24):
Well, they're I think they're basically saying, like, hey, we
want you as the face. But that's it assuming I
don't know. I don't know, but it's if I say, hey,
I have this huge company that I built up. Do
you want to buy it for three hundred and twenty
six milk? It's yours now you sell it?

Speaker 4 (15:40):
You don't.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
Jimmy Kimmel is a little bit of a different situation,
but this one seems I mean, three hundred and twenty
six mils a lot of money.

Speaker 5 (15:48):
Yeah, And listen, Jerry's very vocal about a lot of
political things, a lot of geopolitics and.

Speaker 4 (15:52):
All that yeah stuff.

Speaker 5 (15:53):
So and Ben, I think Ben has been retired for
a while, so he hasn't been doing the public arrants.
He hasn't been like the facement for a while. Jerry has.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
You know, I've never been to the bed and Jerry's
factory up there.

Speaker 5 (16:06):
I want to go, So I passed by it. I
hear the torn side is actually amazing. Yeah. Yeah, at
least I'm gonna still be around. The ice team is
not going away, So that's a positive. Americ America, Yes, amazing.
Named after Jimmy.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
It is Jimmy's fallen fallen.

Speaker 3 (16:23):
To be honest, I had to tell myself eighty times
today Kim Will Kimmel because I messed them up to
also peanut butter half baked, unbelievable, not the og half baked.

Speaker 4 (16:33):
It's the pea but one. It's yeah, okay, it all right.

Speaker 3 (16:37):
Three things you need to know for Thursday, September eighteenth, talkbacks.
Great way to utilize the show. Guys, just going that
freeheart radio app once jam And is on. Hit a
little red microphone and say what up morning, Say and.

Speaker 7 (16:49):
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Speaker 8 (16:52):
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or five.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
Hi, everybody, good morning. By the way, I'll include it
in the next three things you need to know. But
Jerry wrote a very heartfelt note that I now see
to the Ben and Jerry's community.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
Oh all right, so I'll read it in the next
three things you need to know?

Speaker 4 (17:17):
Is he promoting it like any flavors that are coming on? No, No,
that's what I want to.

Speaker 2 (17:21):
Hear because he's heartbroken.

Speaker 3 (17:23):
But he just can no longer in good conscience, you know,
after forty seven years remain as an employee of B
and J, Ben and Darry something to be specific.

Speaker 4 (17:32):
Good thing. He has one hundred and fifty million dollars
in the bank.

Speaker 2 (17:34):
I shouldn't say B and J, especially per the conversation
we're about to have.

Speaker 3 (17:38):
I would like to say, guys, if anybody sees people
talking about us on Facebook and there's like a ton
of comments, please send them my way because I get
such a joy in these.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
They're so funny.

Speaker 3 (17:50):
But I got a DM yesterday from a girl and
she goes, by the way, the post was deleted, so
the woman took it down, but she said she I'm
listening to ninety four point five and my son is
in the car with me listening, and it's so inappropriate.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
They really just let anything on the radio nowadays.

Speaker 4 (18:12):
She shouldn't say how old the sun was, right, she.

Speaker 2 (18:14):
Didn't say how the sun was, But I'm dying to
know what we were talking about.

Speaker 4 (18:18):
Yeah, I mean it could be any someone who called it.

Speaker 3 (18:20):
No, I think it was just somebody in the car,
probably driving their kid to school, had us on, got
pissed because we were talking about something sexually related and
posted that on Facebook. Again, has taken it down since
I guess the girl couldn't find it because I was like.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
Oh, I need to see this.

Speaker 5 (18:36):
I mean, this is a conversation happened twenty five years
here people calling in being upset, which I understand, right,
But the other end of this, it's like if Tom
Cruise has a sex scene and top gun, I'm not
getting mad at Tom Cruise. I'm just gonna change the
channel or fast forward through the sex scene. Yeah, because
I have control over that, and I know that that
movie is not geared towards kids, and.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
We really do our action will best to try to
not be like graphic. I will stop people in the
middle of their calls to be like whoa, whoa, whoa,
it's it's it's getting But our show is one hundred
percent in comparison edgy.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
Like if you were if that woman specifically let's call
her Maddie mad If Maddie is going from kiss went
away to jammin, Maddie's like whoa, you know, massive different.
They would.

Speaker 3 (19:27):
They will not have some of the conversations that we're
having a kiss. This is respectful to them, it's not.
I'm not trying to slight them by any means, but
they're not going to do it. So yes, Maddie would
be like, oh my god, they're talking about broke back mellet.

Speaker 4 (19:41):
Over here, you know, like what happened in the tent.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
But I don't think we ever said that we were
all the way kid friendly by any means.

Speaker 5 (19:52):
And this is also something that's not new. This is
I think our content has been pretty consistent since we started, right,
so this is something that's not just popped up in
the past couple of weeks.

Speaker 3 (19:59):
I'm not trying to alienate kids at all. I love
when mom is in the car, Dad's in the car
with the kids, and we really do try to be careful.

Speaker 4 (20:06):
But listen with caution.

Speaker 2 (20:08):
Things come up and sometimes it's not even from us.

Speaker 6 (20:11):
That's why I was asking when she says like they
just put on anything nowadays, is she talking about maybe
a caller said something crazy could be.

Speaker 2 (20:17):
You know, because like I can't help that. Yeah, I try.

Speaker 14 (20:21):
You know.

Speaker 5 (20:22):
There's nothing in the recent time that I can remember
that was like kind of pushing it where we were like,
oh my god, that's crazy. It's been, like, again, pretty
consistent and safe, depending on how old the kid is.
If you if you're worried about what what's saying on
on the radio, you should see what your kid is
watching on their phone. Yeah, in comparison, it's like YouTube shorts. Man,
it's crazy on tichtalk.

Speaker 4 (20:43):
The things they see on TikTok is insane.

Speaker 2 (20:45):
I mean, I was trying to think about it too
last night when I was going back and forth with
this girl, and I was thinking, maybe, like you talking
about that you only have sex on Saturdays or viagra, I.

Speaker 4 (20:56):
Don't know, pushing it though, right, that's pretty like that.
That's like for yeah, some people might feel that way
that I have sex on Saturday nights and I can't
wait to get a couple of days away.

Speaker 2 (21:06):
It's very close, buddy, You're so close.

Speaker 5 (21:09):
And there's commercial for viagray with happy men commercials.

Speaker 4 (21:14):
Yeah for him. Yeah, So I mean maybe maybe it's not.

Speaker 3 (21:19):
And it's a tough thing, you know, Like I even
I cannot watch my shows in the house when the
kids are around, Like that's just put it this way.
I'm listening on audio to the prequel to The Hunger
Games right now, so I've been rewatching the Hunger Games movies.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
I can't put that on when they're right. I only
have people get access through their foreheads, like you know.

Speaker 5 (21:40):
And for the sex stuff, I guess my wife does
the same thing. Sometimes she won't tune into us because
we might be pushing in a bit for the kids,
but she controls that. When the kid's a gun, then
she tunes back back then like we don't want to
tune out, but we also understand like the challenge that
parents have too.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
And I definitely think there's a way to listen to
our show. Obviously you could do the podcast, but I
still think you could have it all in the car.

Speaker 2 (22:00):
And when you know, the conversation is you know, I
start talking about SONTI going to Joe's hideaway. Maybe that's
when you are like, well this.

Speaker 4 (22:08):
Is gonna get sexual hot dogs and buns, right, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (22:12):
Or maybe it was the conversation of four and I
being like you are bisexual.

Speaker 4 (22:16):
I don't know, but is that again? Is that wrong?
Like you see that everywhere.

Speaker 2 (22:20):
No, it's not wrong. So no, we stand with you.
It's not wrong. It's not wrong at all.

Speaker 4 (22:26):
People questioning it for a very.

Speaker 2 (22:29):
Long time, and I've never faltered it. Hi, rebody, good morning, six, one, seven, nine.
People want to say, what up?

Speaker 1 (22:37):
Hi?

Speaker 3 (22:37):
Everybody, Good morning. It's Ashley and the jamb In Morning Show.
It's funny because I somebody, someone that listens to the.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
Show wrote a Facebook message basically saying, you can say
anything you want on the radio these days.

Speaker 3 (22:49):
I'm listening to jam in ninety four to five in
the car with my son and it's just so inappropriate.
I want to chat with her because I want to
know what the conversation was. I'm not even mad, like
I just want to know which one set her off.
Funny though, now my dms are blowing up of people
being like ash, maybe it was this conversation, Maybe it
was that with one of which maybe it's more importance

(23:10):
says he likes.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
To, you know, leash it up on the weekends. Listen maybe,
but you know what that means. She's doesn't like to
experiment with fun I don't know, you know, likes I
don't want to be at leash, but let this man,
let this man leash on the weekends. Tony is in Dorchester, Tony, Actually,

(23:33):
you've been listening to the show for a very long time.
You've called been calling us from the beginning.

Speaker 12 (23:40):
I'm just saying, we listen to the Mickey Mouse station.
Is this team bop?

Speaker 7 (23:44):
You know?

Speaker 2 (23:45):
I'm wondering, I'm wondering and listen.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
I feel bad because maybe who knows, maybe she just
popped over here for the first time in a while
and she was like, oh, this conversation is kind of cool.

Speaker 2 (23:55):
Oh my god, they're talking about penis.

Speaker 12 (23:57):
I don't know that's all about to say, it seems
like every conversation probably to her, as always sexual, so
forget it. I'm as would just be part of it too.
Something I was saying the farm when he had picked
up the phone early. I was like, you know what,
it'll be good for you. You'll be a good sponsor
for viagra if they make it edible one. So if
you was goal gives from that night, you'll be high
as you and both of y'all enjoy that moment when y'all.

Speaker 2 (24:18):
I mean, yeah, yeah, I'm getting like a CARDI B
like we're drugging people vibes.

Speaker 4 (24:25):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (24:28):
Sure I could for a night or two, and I
think she'd be fine. Yeah, yeah, but yeah, if they
may one like that, I would definitely taken into they
should be paying me because I promote their product enough.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
You do, Yeah, maybe it was maybe it was a
blue pill conversation.

Speaker 5 (24:45):
I don't know, Maybe it was I think you know,
listen having kids that are around the age of like teenagers,
I think he'd be shocked at how many parents, I
don't want to use the word shelter, but are shocked
of how much they don't know what their kids are
are exposed to.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
By the way, I don't be shocked also though, as
a mom, I back her if the conversation got a
little crazy and.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
She didn't like it, and she but I just think,
like you said, that's a really good point.

Speaker 3 (25:12):
If you put on a film that's rated R, you
can't get mad at the actors because you knew going
in the film was radar.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
Maybe she hadn't listened to the show before or in a.

Speaker 5 (25:19):
While, But especially if you have control of like fast
forwarding and doing all these things, it's kind of crazy that,
like you're upset at the content, but you have the
control over what they're listening to, especially if they're that young.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
Yeah, I don't know. You want to go to the
phone sign, I.

Speaker 4 (25:32):
Can't say yes, it's Mandy and fall River.

Speaker 2 (25:34):
Hi, Mandy, Hi, how are you? What's going on?

Speaker 14 (25:38):
Man?

Speaker 12 (25:39):
Oh?

Speaker 11 (25:39):
I just wanted to say, you know that you can't
control everything you hear. You know, whether it's the radio,
whether it's at the grocery store. If you're there and
you're with your kids and somebody's having a conversation that
you don't like or you feel it's inappropriate, you move
your away from it. You get away, You move your
children away. You know, you're not just gonna tell them, hey,
stop talking. People can talk, So if you don't like it,

(26:02):
you just change the radio station. There's any of other
stations that have things that kids can hear.

Speaker 3 (26:07):
Yeah, and I think we all agree, Like, I'm not
mad at mom for being like, oh, this is an
inappropriate conversation. Who knows how old her kid was, like,
butpropriate child, Okay.

Speaker 2 (26:22):
Trying to get us on Facebook and not thinking it's
going to get back to.

Speaker 11 (26:24):
Be I love you guys.

Speaker 14 (26:28):
You guys are the best.

Speaker 11 (26:29):
Don't worry about it.

Speaker 2 (26:30):
We love you too. Thanks for the call. Yeah, I
mean listen, I try to censor as much as possible.
We will put something in and be like, be careful
because the guy wanted to say ABC, but I was like,
say it this way instead.

Speaker 5 (26:44):
You know, the mom was really upset because she tuned out,
went over to kiss and was like, I don't want this.

Speaker 4 (26:49):
I want to go back.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
She fell asleep, she was I don't want to be
with that.

Speaker 4 (26:53):
That's very bad.

Speaker 2 (26:54):
I don't want to be with them.

Speaker 1 (26:55):
I love that.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
What are going to do?

Speaker 2 (26:59):
I think we beat him a fight. Yeah, I think
they don't think they can change this.

Speaker 7 (27:05):
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Speaker 7 (27:19):
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Speaker 9 (27:21):
The latest rumor about you is that you are having
a baby, and I want to know what, if anything
you want to share.

Speaker 2 (27:29):
About that with the class. Well, well, yes i am.

Speaker 10 (27:34):
I'm having a baby with my boyfriend Stefan Biggs. Congratulations,
thank you. Congratulations. How are you feeling about that and
that this will be baby number four for you?

Speaker 12 (27:43):
Cardon?

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Congratulations, thank you.

Speaker 10 (27:46):
I'm actually very I'm excited, I'm happy. I feel like
I'm in a good space. I feel very strong. I
feel very powerful that I'm doing all this work. But
I'm doing all this work while I'm creating a baby.
Me and my man were very supportive of each other.

Speaker 4 (28:01):
There you have it.

Speaker 2 (28:02):
Thursday, September eighteenth, Yeah, Carti's thirty two years old, baby
number four.

Speaker 4 (28:08):
It was quick, the quickness.

Speaker 2 (28:09):
Yeah, she does look good though. She's like the prettiest
little pregnant person her and Rihanna. Baby number four is
on the way. But guess what. Guess what, you didn't
have to tell this news to us. I don't. Yeah,
We've been saying this for two months people, and I
know you're calling up, but we do have the official receipt.

Speaker 4 (28:26):
Now there it is.

Speaker 2 (28:27):
That's Cardi confirming. Here's step On Diggs in the locker room.

Speaker 4 (28:30):
On my personal life. I told you about it that
I won't talk to someone was about my present life.
But I heard about any celebrations that we'll see in
the see I heard about it sounds thrilled.

Speaker 3 (28:40):
Yeah, I mean, listen, we got to believe the Gail
King interview was pretaped just the way it looked, so
he knew was coming.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
CARTI has three other children with offset whom I'm worried about.

Speaker 5 (28:54):
But if you got some morning, maybe he had time
to prepare and get his mind in the right place.
What I'm concerned about is the tour, Like, how are
you gonna have a baby then going on tour like
the next day.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
Well, if you're asking yourself about the delivery and all
the things, when's the baby coming?

Speaker 2 (29:06):
She did make it clear to Gail baby will be
here before the tour starts. The tourists slated for.

Speaker 3 (29:12):
February, so I'm thinking we're going to have like a
November December baby.

Speaker 5 (29:15):
Maybe it should have been a summer tour. I think
that would have been a lot better for her. But again,
who like who my baby's coming on the road. I
don't know that baby is.

Speaker 4 (29:23):
Coming to a baby at the crib just so she
can go get a bag.

Speaker 2 (29:28):
That's the real baby, but her other baby. Am I
the drama?

Speaker 3 (29:31):
Her sophomore album coming out tonight at midnight four and
will one hundred percent have all the new music for
us tomorrow. Definitely want to hear the song with the
Janet feature Selena Gomez was like out of left field
for me, so I certainly want to hear that one
as well. But there's so much hype around this album.
I wish the single was better so I could say
I'm a little bit more excited, But nonetheless I do

(29:53):
I do want to hear it.

Speaker 5 (29:54):
Have we heard about the album, like, are people saying
that it's good? If from those who have heard heard anything.
Gil said that he was it was a good song.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
It's glad it was good.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
Pop heard it.

Speaker 3 (30:08):
I said, Bodak Yellow good and he was like, there's
some there's some really big songs on there.

Speaker 4 (30:12):
Because the rollout is so massive that if it's not good,
it's gonna be like.

Speaker 2 (30:16):
But here's the thing. I still feel like, even if
the album is dude, which I don't think it will be,
but say it was, I think we would still be
saying how amazing this rollout is.

Speaker 4 (30:25):
They've they've knocked this one out.

Speaker 3 (30:30):
So tomorrow this time we will be blessed with brand
new CARDI all right, I'm gonna lump.

Speaker 2 (30:36):
These guys together sadly for both of them.

Speaker 3 (30:39):
But Jimmy and Jerry out. Jimmy Kimmel is out. ABC
is suspending Jimmy.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
Over what he said after the Charlie Kirk assassination about
the Mega Gang.

Speaker 13 (30:51):
We had some new lows over the weekend with the
Maga Gang desperately trying to characterize this kid who murdered
Charlie Kirk as anything other than one of them, and
everything they can to score political points from the show.

Speaker 2 (31:04):
Has been pulled. Indefinitely.

Speaker 3 (31:07):
In their statement, the company said, we strongly object to
recent comments made by mister Kimmel concerning the killing of
Charlie Kirk and will replace the show with other programming
in its ABC affiliated markets.

Speaker 5 (31:17):
We're going to replace someone like a TV show. I mean,
Late Night has definitely changed. But I don't think what
he said constitutes somebody like getting fired for because I've
heard a lot worse, like all over the board.

Speaker 3 (31:28):
To me, it's worth seeing people like laughing and dancing
that the man died.

Speaker 5 (31:34):
Absolutely, yes than that, absolutely, So where do we move? Like,
what's the next step for this?

Speaker 9 (31:40):
Is this?

Speaker 5 (31:40):
Is this going to start a trounb with people start
losing their jobs because they don't agree with somebody politically,
or you make a random statement.

Speaker 4 (31:45):
It started like it's scary.

Speaker 2 (31:48):
Scary and not fun. No, it's not. And I also,
I mean, to me, this smells like a lawsuit waiting
to happen.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
But will Jimmy Kimmel say, say he apologizes or I
don't even know what they're asking him to do, but
say he does all the things?

Speaker 2 (32:01):
Does he even want to come back? I don't think
because now you come back and you're walking on eggshells
the whole time. This is why we don't talk about politics.
People can't handle it.

Speaker 5 (32:09):
The only reason why I could imagine him coming back
is for his staff, because that's who I feel bad for.
A lot of people lost their jobs last night, not
just him, and that's who I'm like, you know, wow.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
I didn't even think what is it?

Speaker 6 (32:19):
The Writer's Guild does some put out a statement condemning
the suspension, being like what is this?

Speaker 4 (32:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (32:24):
Also I'm not I'm genuinely I don't. I don't like
the late night TV shows. I never haven't, never had
into it. But he doesn't even write that stuff?

Speaker 4 (32:32):
Does he know? He has a team of writers people.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
There's words.

Speaker 4 (32:35):
He just delivered them thousand percent.

Speaker 2 (32:37):
He's crazy.

Speaker 4 (32:39):
He's involved in the process.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
I'm not saying he doesn't agree with them, but he
didn't write them. No.

Speaker 4 (32:44):
Is there a chance he was involved in that part?

Speaker 7 (32:46):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (32:47):
Probably, But the same time, he is a team behind
him running everything.

Speaker 3 (32:50):
Jerry Greenfield of Ben and Jerry's also out. Like I said,
I'm going to kind of lump these two together. Ben
and Jerry's has they've been agive for forty seven years.
You can't think about one without the other, you truly
cannot Yes, I'm talking about the ice cream they said,
he said in a statement, is with the broken heart
that I've decided I can no longer in good conscious
remain and employee of Bed and Jerry's. It's profoundly disappointing

(33:12):
to come to the conclusion that independence, the very basis
of our sale to Unilever, is gone. So maybe that
changes my opinion a little bit. Maybe there was a
conversation with them where like, hey, you'd ever bought Bed
and Jerry's into the year two thousand for a three
hundred and twenty six million dollars it is not their
company anymore. However, that little statement right there does kind

(33:34):
of leave me to believe maybe they did have a conversation,
because this all is like stemming from the fact that
they're trying to censor his statements about the Middle East
conflict in Gaza.

Speaker 5 (33:44):
Listen, he's outspoken about a lot of things. That is
one of the biggest ones. But at the end of
the day, he sold his company, and it's hard to
kind of like still have control over your your day
to day there when you don't own anything.

Speaker 3 (33:57):
Yeah, So yeah, I mean it's This is definitely a
little different than the Jimmy Kimmel, but nonetheless they're both
stepping away or one's getting forced one is saying, hey,
I'm stepping away, but also kind of feels little forced,
but not in the same way because again, in the.

Speaker 2 (34:13):
Year two thousand, three hundred and twenty six, mils a
lot of money. But it does feel like in his
statement he's kind of insinuate, like this line, it's profoundly
disappointing to come to the conclusion that the independence, the
very basis of our sale to Unilever is gone.

Speaker 4 (34:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (34:26):
I mean, if I was him, I would have hold
onto the company for another like ten years at least,
because that company's worth Billy, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (34:33):
Million was kind of low, so too early.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
Yeah, that was twenty five years ago.

Speaker 4 (34:37):
Twenty five years ago. Okay, bad, I thought you said
twenty twenty, No.

Speaker 3 (34:40):
Two thousand a lot at that time. I mean, listen,
it's not tough. I'bsolute nice cream. Yeah, I want to
say I will fight it off, guys, but I and
Jerry's been in here, nice man.

Speaker 2 (34:53):
The peanut butter half baked, it's going right to my belly.
Holes just so bad news for jay Z.

Speaker 3 (35:00):
They proposed Caesars Palace casino in Times Square is out.
I didn't know how much these theater owners oppose this,
but they really, really really didn't want it. The State
Commission Community Advisory Committee rejected the five point four billion
dollar plan to redevelop an office tower into Caesar's, a

(35:23):
branded hotel with both a gambling and entertainment clubplex.

Speaker 5 (35:27):
Times Square is a mad house. This is going to
add more hell to that whole thing. On top of it,
the theater crowd is very different than the casino crowd.
It's very different, thank God. My thing is like, why
do it in Times Square? Why not use somewhere on
the upper west side or east side where there's a
lot of space.

Speaker 6 (35:43):
I mean, you're right in the center of you know,
I know, not in Brooklyn. It's here, and he already
did the bark List and in Brooklyn.

Speaker 5 (35:51):
So no, but I'm talking about still keep it in Manhattan,
but just move it, like on to the Hudson something
like that, where again you have some space there.

Speaker 4 (35:58):
I guess they could have.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
By the way, it got like nasty in there.

Speaker 3 (36:02):
It was kind of reminding me of like a billions
type of conversation where everybody was like screaming at each
other in this small conference room, and one of the guys,
the CEO of sl Green, who would have been like
the primary developer for it, was yelling and he said
this was a despicable display of cowardice, a complete lack
of consideration for all the people who would benefit from this.

Speaker 2 (36:20):
Kept creeping, go run and hide.

Speaker 4 (36:23):
Oh my god. Yeah, like talking to people sounds like
a threat.

Speaker 2 (36:26):
Uh yeah, it's not good. It's it's not good. But
I listen. I've said a million times I've been to
Times Square. I'm all set, like I have no desire.

Speaker 12 (36:34):
To to go.

Speaker 2 (36:36):
It's a lot Mickey Mouse, all the places in New York.
I mean, like it's not high on my list.

Speaker 5 (36:41):
Mickey Mouse. That it doesn't look like Mickey Mouse shaking
you down for money, Like that's crazy, right, Mickey Mouse.

Speaker 4 (36:48):
Ye, yep. And they harass you. They tell you that
now even before you take the picture.

Speaker 2 (36:54):
You walk as you're walking up like you're not even
near them, and it's happening.

Speaker 4 (36:59):
You have a massive belly. You're not Peter like when you're.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Not doing someone up signed down. You can't do it.
There's reading these no for Thursday, September eighteenth, Playboy Cardi
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Speaker 7 (37:16):
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Speaker 8 (37:20):
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Speaker 3 (37:25):
Hi everybody, good morning, Happy Thursday. By the way, we're
one step closer to the weekend. Thank god. I got
an email. We get emails from people outside of the company.
It says external, so I usually will click aus A
lot of times it's uh uh, it's something from the
company where they're trying to test to see if you'll

(37:47):
click a link or something, so I usually go right
to the bottom. But it was signed sincerely a very
tired mom, so that intrigued me to read the email and.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
Listen. Parenting is hard.

Speaker 3 (38:05):
Yeah, it is a literal full time job. I think
you know, no matter where age wise your kids are,
it's hard. I think it's harder when they're super young
because you can't even look away for a second that
one will be dead.

Speaker 5 (38:22):
I'm not going to argue that it's harder, but I
will tell you that it changes, and I'm not going
to say it's easier.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
No, I don't know how to explain it. Like I
said something, you know, I.

Speaker 4 (38:31):
Would say this, it's probably more physically demanding when they're young.
As they age. That's what me and you deal with.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
Yes, because I mean, look at our world. Look at
our world. Horrifying to think of. Yeah, she said, I
love my kids, but I hate parenting. I am tired.
No one talks about it, but I think we should.
We have three kids, ages eight, twelve and an eighteen
year old. On the spectrum. They aren't terrible kids. They
have good grades, they play sports. They aren't she cursed.

Speaker 3 (39:00):
But bad people, well, sometimes they are because kids can be.
But let's keep it real. Overall, they are decent humans.
But raising them is so exhausting. These kids don't listen.
Why are we leaving spit on the sink after brushing
our teeth every single morning. I'm married, I have a
more than supportive partner, but I still find myself hating

(39:21):
the daily routine of it all. Getting them up in
the morning, getting them ready for school, getting them out
the door. It's a lot, a lot of talking, a
lot of reminders, and just goes in one ear and
out the other. It gets exhausting. I don't want to
talk this much this early in the morning. We've tried
the checklists, nothing, it seems to stick. Oh and then
every single night having to figure out dinner sends me

(39:42):
like what is this my life?

Speaker 2 (39:43):
This is too much? Are we okay? No? But like,
please send help sincerely a very tired mom.

Speaker 5 (39:50):
Well, I think that's very relatable. I think a lot
of people have that same emotion but never speak it
out into wards.

Speaker 6 (39:55):
Did she say that all her kids on the spectrum
are just the the illness, you know, I mean it's
a challenge, yes, every And she has the wide range
age group, right, she has kids who.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
Eate twelve eighteen.

Speaker 6 (40:09):
Yeah, Like the eighteen year old is probably given a
hell because you know, at that age they want to
be rebels and you can't tell me nothing. I know
what's going on in the world. The eighty old probably
is needed. Who knows what I found out, Especially the
last part that she said trying to figure out dinner.
There's no figuring out dinner. Bro, You eat, you eat
what I put on the table. If you don't want

(40:30):
to eat, don't eat. I think a lot of times
you cater too much to these kids, and that's why
they end up being the way that they are, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (40:37):
I especially if the fireman's working, Say it's a Saturday
and he's working at twenty four. I have moments in
my day where I literally feed them, clean up from
feeding them, wait until nap time. Nap time is over,
I feed them, I clean up from feeding them. We
go to the playground, we do something. Naptime, I feed them.

(41:02):
It is like it is exhausting. It is exhausting, and
I can understand what she's saying where it's like that's
the routine, right, you get, you get it's not stuck
like that is what it has to be. Like they
need schedules, and that's another thing that's good for them.
They need this continuity of okay, like it's lunch time,
we're gonna eat her lunch. Like they need to be

(41:23):
on schedules. But it does, like I just you know,
I love them so much that I just keep telling
myself like this is one chapter of what it's gonna
and these moments are fleeting, They're gonna go by so
fast I will blink and it's not gonna be like
they're gonna be in school.

Speaker 2 (41:38):
There's not gonna be ay lunch because they're gona having
lunch in school.

Speaker 3 (41:41):
So that's what I keep telling myself over and over
and over again, like it's not always going to be
like it is in this moment. But that doesn't make
it any less hard.

Speaker 2 (41:50):
It's a job.

Speaker 5 (41:52):
It's a job too that doesn't turn off because you're
constantly going to the job that lasts all day long,
and then at the end of the day, there's nothing
really left for you as an individual, Like you may
have like five minutes at the end of the night
or a couple of minutes, but it's not it doesn't
balance out. So it's really hard to find those moments
where you feel like you have something or you're doing
something for yourself. Yeah, and then when you do have
those moments, sometimes you feel guilty that you're having that.

(42:14):
So it's also mentally draining on that end of things.

Speaker 6 (42:17):
Sou And what God's talking about this, you know, I
feel like the women are the ones who really, like
you know, carry the weight of this thing when it
comes to children, right, because yeah, okay, father's a dare
we do our thing again. The fire men will go out,
make the money, bring it back home, but you're the
one who's day in, day out doing it all, you
know what I mean. I feel like women kind of

(42:37):
hold that weight a little bit more heavier, but I can't, Like,
you know, we have children, and yes, in the moment, it.

Speaker 4 (42:43):
Doesn't look like it's going to pass why quickly.

Speaker 6 (42:45):
But then when they're like sixteen and you look back,
you're like, damn, that was a short period of time
between two and five and then five and six, and
then you know what I mean, and it just goes
on and on and on.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
I feel like when you have kids, the saying of
like the days are long and the years are short
rings true because it does. Time goes by so fast,
I think, like to your points on the one thing
I do for myself is after the show, I go
to the gym, so that like hour.

Speaker 2 (43:10):
Of time is my time. But also to your point,
the whole time, I'm constantly thinking like, okay, well I'm.

Speaker 3 (43:19):
Not stille breastfeeding, Like okay, I need to get home
because she's gonna be needed to go out down for
a nap.

Speaker 2 (43:24):
I can feed her. Then you know he's been home
with them all morning? Is he okay? Did they have lunch?
I wonder if they're.

Speaker 3 (43:30):
Gonna be hungry when I get home. What are we
gonna do in the afternoon to get them out. We'll
probably have to do the playground. Oh wait, it's gonna rain,
so maybe we'll try to do something indoor.

Speaker 2 (43:39):
It's it. It never ends, like it's a constant, you know,
thought process of it being like that.

Speaker 14 (43:45):
And and I do.

Speaker 2 (43:46):
I put a I put a ton of it on
myself and and the fireman does an amazing job. But yeah,
I do think I think it's just in our nature
to do that, you know, like we're supposed to be
the ones at home doing it.

Speaker 3 (43:56):
And you think about that often, Yeah, and I do.
Sometimes you do feel bad for like doing things like
that for yourself, but you have to. And can I
also say, because I've had people be like, well, you
do things for yourself, you go to work, non't even
don't even don't even utter those sounds to me, because right,
that's because if I didn't do this, we can't live

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in the house that we live in.

Speaker 2 (44:18):
So let's not that that's not something for me.

Speaker 4 (44:22):
Even the fitnest part of it like I understand, but
for me, some.

Speaker 3 (44:26):
People really say that, and I get Am I not
at home doing face pain and doing hide and seek
and pretending I work at a stopping shop.

Speaker 7 (44:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (44:34):
But no, no, no, I'm not like that.

Speaker 5 (44:37):
That's not a good And the fitness part of it too,
like I know that, like you find that's for yourself.
I should look at it like that, but I don't
because I feel like I'm doing it to like not
die young. So then I get thinking, like, do I
do anything that's fun for myself as an individual? And
then I got talking about this a couple of weeks back,
and I don't, and I don't. I feel like most

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did this year.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
I feel like, for the first time you did baseball.

Speaker 4 (45:02):
Yes, based on no, No, that's that's that's funny that
you talked about that.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
And I didn't even tell the way you spoke about
it it was so different for you.

Speaker 4 (45:08):
That is very true.

Speaker 5 (45:09):
And then the conversation this year, the only thing I've
done now, like to foreign's point, my wife carries most
of the load around the house. And again God thinking,
what does she do for fun for herself as an individual?

Speaker 4 (45:21):
Nothing?

Speaker 5 (45:22):
And I think this this lady feels the same exact thing.
Everything just revolves around the kids and everything, and it's
and it is tough, No, it is, And like she,
I just she's so not wrong for how she thinks.

Speaker 3 (45:33):
There's certainly somebody listening to being like, well then you
shouldn't have had kids, And it's like, no, like having
kids is the best thing in the world. And I
certainly don't want this conversation people to digest it as
as like we don't like having kids, because that's that's
not it at all.

Speaker 6 (45:46):
But and she and the lady who emailed you, she
has an added layer, right, how oldest son, the oldest
child has a most special need that she needs a cater.

Speaker 4 (45:55):
To as well.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
Right, it needs even more attention.

Speaker 6 (45:57):
But that's what I'm saying. Yeah, so on top of
already having three children, which is a lot to me
nowadays especially, and top about that, you gotta do all
you got to make sure the house is maintained, and
now you gotta deal with that as well.

Speaker 4 (46:07):
It's a lot.

Speaker 2 (46:08):
Bro. Yeah, I can't understand how frustration.

Speaker 3 (46:10):
I actually sometimes say that there are moments in the
day where I'll be like it's noon and I have
I have really not sat down because I could just
go because listen, something could always be done, right, like
we could always be playing another round of Hide and Seek,
we could always be coloring. We could always be cleaning,
I could be vacuuming, I could be working, like there

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are always things.

Speaker 6 (46:33):
And I mean in your stage of life, you kind
of have the kids twenty four seven damn near right, yeah,
once they go to school, you.

Speaker 4 (46:38):
Know, you'll have a little I know.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
And that's what I'm saying, like this is this chapter
and also those things that come up there, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 6 (46:45):
Now you become with Santy's that way, it's like, oh,
I'm an I got exactly, I got this little spot
of time. But then right after that, my evenings jam
packed with games, jam packed with this, jam packed with dance,
swim whatever it is.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
You know, it's it's hard to is like you know,
a constance.

Speaker 3 (47:02):
I feel like gripe about me around here surrounding the
job is like that I don't do enough on social media.
Guys should be doing more, like I've heard like my
bosses will say that, right, like you should be out more,
like you should be doing more on social media. And
I'm not taking away like that they're wrong for saying that.
But I'm also just like my number one job now

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and my number one priority is those girls. I'm not
getting this time back, so I'm not gonna be out
as much, and like I have to stand on that
and if that costs me at some point my job,
Like that's just what it's gonna be, because I do
the best I can on social to upkeep. But I
can't be holding my phone twenty four to seven because
then they're gonna see that. Yeah, And that's another thing

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that like pains me too and keeps me up at night.
Like I I there are probably other.

Speaker 2 (47:46):
Females in radio that do so much better than me
on social and they're out and they're going to the
bars and doing all these things.

Speaker 3 (47:52):
I have a baby on my boob. I have a
three year old to teach manners to and that that
it's it's tough.

Speaker 5 (47:58):
And to your point, like listen, at some point all
this his job is going to go away, but you,
as a parent is not. So that's the most important thing.
Not being on Instagram at seven o'clock at night at
an event.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
Yeah, Leslie and Lawrence, Hi, les Lee, Hi, Leslie. She
taught les Lee.

Speaker 3 (48:24):
Anyways, Leslie is going through the same thing, and she
has five kids, and she says she understood, Leslie.

Speaker 2 (48:28):
Can you hear me talking to you now? I hear
her crasy. Let's go to Jianna. Gianna is in Boston. Hi, Gianna,
good morning. Hi, how a good babe.

Speaker 3 (48:40):
I hate that some people might digest this as like
a big complaint fest and we hate having kids because
it's actually the complete opposite. I absolutely love them, but
I still will admit when it's hard, and you bring
up a very good point. You have four kids, you're married,
and we we forgot to add in our husband has.

Speaker 7 (48:57):
Needs too correct.

Speaker 15 (48:59):
Yeah, and it becomes an issue because, yeah, you're trying
to juggle the house, the kids, the school ones on
the spectrum, you know, you're running around trying to handle
a ford. But then the husband starts to complain because
you're not meeting Dandy's. So as a woman, I feel
like we do, you know, hold a lot on our
shoulders because yeah, we're trying to hold everything together, but
we also got to meet Danny's.

Speaker 2 (49:17):
Yeah, and and and and and have the want to
do that, you know.

Speaker 3 (49:22):
I think that's the there takes effort there and so
when we say like marriages work, like, that's what I mean.

Speaker 15 (49:29):
When they say I'm tired by the end of the day,
I am tired. So then you have to you have
to remember you do have that last extra piece, because
having a husband is like having a kid too.

Speaker 2 (49:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (49:37):
Well, and again that's also like your best friend, right,
that's your partner trying to do it all too. So
it's a lot and I get it, Yianna, thank.

Speaker 4 (49:44):
You for the call.

Speaker 3 (49:45):
It is and it's again it's not a a I
just I guess I so worry about somebody that's in
the car recently married, debating on if they have one
a kid when I have kids. They're not hearing this conversation,
being like, oh hell no, because if if we could
have a conversation about how much we love it and
why it's a beautiful thing, we could go on and
on for hours too.

Speaker 5 (50:05):
Write Sometimes a perception beforehand that's gonna make everything better,
and it's gonna be perfect, it's gonna be awesome, they're
gonna sleep through the night, and that's not the reality. Yeah,
and back to your point, you have to want to
make things better, especially with your partner because the kids,
the careers and all stuff makes it more challenging to
have a good partnership.

Speaker 4 (50:21):
You have to want and work at that.

Speaker 3 (50:22):
Kaylen is in North Reading And Kayln, this is also
a big fear of mine. You have two kids and
you're like, you miss the younger days. And I hear
people say this all the time too.

Speaker 2 (50:33):
And that's why you know, again, when I am playing
Hide and Seek for the seventy fifth time in the
day and she cheats and she's not good and she
never counts to ten, but she never counts to ten,
I have to like live in those moments because they're
gonna come and go.

Speaker 5 (50:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (50:50):
No, I remember those days that you guys are in
right now, more so you that you're in right now
when they were younger. And it's just like, I just
need five minutes. I shouldn't look forward to food shop
thing like that shouldn't be my take time out.

Speaker 12 (51:02):
Yep, yeah, you know.

Speaker 14 (51:04):
But I will say my son's sixteen, my daughter's ten,
and they'll come home, go to their rooms, do their homework,
or go out with friends, and it's just I'm like, wait,
but like I'll get the memories on my phone of
us snuggling and them just wanting to be follow me
around the house twenty four to seven. So I will say,
like you said, it's chapters, and it's all about just
trying to be like okay, even though I'm at my
wits end and I'm having a tough day, like this

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is like this time, I'm never gonna.

Speaker 12 (51:28):
Get back, and it just makes it that much more special.

Speaker 2 (51:30):
I'm it's choking me up.

Speaker 1 (51:32):
Thank you for the call too.

Speaker 3 (51:33):
Yeah, because you know what's crazy, I find myself like
I will outwardly say this is a daily thing. I'll
say to the firement, are you cool if I take
a shower real quick? We ask each other that. And
I know other people that are going through with like
little like young littles know what I mean, but like
you have to because it's such chaos in the house.
And then and then sometimes I'm like, do you mind
if I take a shower quick? And I'm like, give

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me five so I can clean it. Just watch them
for a second so I can clean the countertops or
whatever it is. But like that's that's our life, Like
that's what we're in and it's it is hard. And
but like you were saying, as they grow older. Now
they're like little adults going out there in the world,
and you look at social media and that would stress
me out too.

Speaker 5 (52:12):
Yeah, I would say the biggest stresses for me right now,
because my kids are in like the teenage years, is
whatever they're dealing with at school mentally, like all these things.
You carry that on your shoulders, and that sometimes is
tough because all you want to do if they're having
a tough day is fix that, deal with that. But
then you're carrying the same emotion as them, so it's
a whole different set of issues that.

Speaker 2 (52:31):
Why do I feel like I'm going to feel emotional
about this?

Speaker 5 (52:34):
I mean, yeah, it's normal, and I think this is
something that most people don't talk about. Sometimes the world
makes moms feel bad for thinking and having conversation like this.
But this is a normal emotion that people have because
we're human. Yeah, we're emotional and it's okay.

Speaker 3 (52:47):
And I'm so lucky that I have people like you
and my friends that I could be like these kids
for me last night, And I don't get judged, I
certainly don't. I just think it's such a you know,
I just don't want her to be she's not wrong
for being tired, Like it's like this, it's like a
beautiful tired. It's it's an amazing thing. I remember one

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time when I didn't have kids and you did. You
were like, I don't even know. I remember you saying
this to me, like I don't know what my life
even was before my kids, Like I don't know what
I did.

Speaker 2 (53:16):
I think that daily. I don't even I can't even
picture my days without them. I don't want to.

Speaker 5 (53:24):
So listen these idiot moms on tiktoking and like, oh,
my life is perfect, my kids are perfect.

Speaker 4 (53:31):
They are lying.

Speaker 3 (53:32):
There and the phones are crazy and I never even
gave the number. And you guys are amazing because you
know exactly what she's saying. So to the tired mom
that wrote me an email this morning, I feel like
you're writing me the email because you don't have anybody
in your world to go and say these things too.
I'm always here for you. You are seen Boston is

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blowing up the phones. I'm sure my dms are crazy.

Speaker 2 (53:55):
It's okay to love your kids and say that they're
the best, most beautiful blessing in your life and also
be like it's tiring. Sometimes they don't want the banana
cut in half, but they just told me to cut
it in half. They pissed me off, but I love
them so much.